Modern Divorce - The Do-Over For A Better You: Recent Episodes
Attorney Billie Tarascio
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In this episode, Billie speaks with Susan Magestro, a criminologist, interventionist, and expert witness who specializes in one of the most challenging and underreported issues facing families today: domestic violence perpetrated by children against their parents. Susan brings decades of experience working with families where parents live in fear of their own children, along with her expertise in crisis intervention and de-escalation strategies.
This conversation addresses the uncomfortable reality that many parents face but rarely discuss—when their child becomes violent, threatening, or abusive within the home. Susan explains the difference between explosive and implosive rage, shares red flags that parents should recognize, and discusses her innovative tools like the "anger wheel" for de-escalating volatile situations. The discussion also covers how divorce and family trauma can manifest in children's behavior, when reunification therapy is appropriate, and practical strategies for families caught in these devastating cycles.
What You'll Learn
✔ How to recognize the difference between explosive and implosive rage in children, and why many parents miss the warning signs of escalating dangerous behavior
✔ The "anger wheel" technique and other de-escalation strategies that help identify root causes of children's violent behavior and create pathways for healing
✔ Why parents often hide their fear of their own children due to professional concerns, community judgment, and family dynamics, preventing them from seeking help
✔ How divorce trauma and poor co-parenting communication can fuel children's anger and violent behavior, and the importance of "good divorce" practices
✔ When to pursue reunification therapy versus other interventions, and how to determine the best custody arrangements when children are struggling with anger and violence
Where to Find Susan Magestro
Learn more about Susan's work and access her resources, including her book "Raging From Within" and upcoming YouTube tutorials on the anger wheel technique. Susan provides expert witness services and crisis intervention throughout the United States.
www.susanmagestro.com
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In this episode, Billie sits down with Nathan Williams, a professional counselor at Arizona Counseling Collective who specializes in forensically informed therapy and high-conflict co-parenting situations. Nathan brings years of experience working with families navigating the complex intersection of therapy and family court, including therapeutic intervention (TI) appointments, court testimony, and helping parents transition from dysfunctional spousal dynamics to effective co-parenting relationships.
This conversation tackles the challenging questions that attorneys and their clients face daily: When should therapists maintain confidentiality versus reporting to parents? How can parents move from adversarial dynamics to neutral co-parenting? What's the real success rate of therapeutic intervention, and why do so many therapists avoid this work entirely? Nathan provides practical insights on everything from parental alienation concerns to the reality of 50-50 custody arrangements, offering both legal professionals and parents a clearer understanding of how mental health intervention actually works in family court cases.
What You'll Learn
✔ The key differences between court-appointed therapeutic intervention and private therapy, including confidentiality boundaries and reporting requirements
✔ Why the "neutral co-parent" approach is essential for moving beyond dysfunctional spousal dynamics into effective business-like co-parenting relationships
✔ How to properly communicate with your co-parent about children's concerns using the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) without creating additional conflict
✔ The realistic success rates of therapeutic intervention (approximately 50%) and what factors determine whether families will benefit from court-ordered counseling
✔ Practical strategies for helping children maintain relationships with both parents while teaching them healthy conflict resolution skills rather than withdrawal patterns
Where to Find Nathan Williams
williams-coach.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Ruby Becker, Family Law and Juvenile Law attorney at Modern Law, to pull back the curtain on Arizona’s juvenile court system. Ruby shares her firsthand experience representing both parents and children in dependency, guardianship, and termination cases, and exposes the critical differences between family court and juvenile court.
From the power of DCS to the constitutional rights of parents, to the heartbreaking realities of foster care, Ruby provides an unfiltered look at what really happens when the state steps in. If you’re an attorney, paralegal, or anyone working in child welfare, this episode offers must-know insights into protecting families and upholding rights inside the courtroom.
Here’s What You’ll Learn from Ruby:
✔ Why children in juvenile court have stronger legal voices than in family court
✔ How to challenge DCS placement decisions and push for family custody
✔ The difference between temporary and permanent guardianships, and when each applies
✔ The hidden dangers of foster care and why private dependency may be a safer option
✔ Practical steps parents should take when DCS shows up at their door
Where to Find Ruby Becker
mymodernlaw.com/out-team/ruby-becker
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Divorce can be one of the most emotionally and physically draining experiences of your life — but your recovery starts with one powerful decision: prioritizing your health.
In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, Arizona family law attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with Nathan Lowrie, owner of The Wellness Bar in Mesa, Arizona. A wellness advocate and water filtration expert, Nathan shares how a mix of biohacking, hydration, and simple daily rituals can radically improve your mental and physical well-being — especially during and after divorce.
💧 Hydration is everything.
Nathan breaks down how 80% of Americans are chronically dehydrated, why mineral-rich, bioavailable water matters more than just drinking “more water,” and how proper hydration improves everything from mood and digestion to supplement absorption and healing.
🌿 Then, we dive into the offerings at The Wellness Bar — a sanctuary for recovery, relaxation, and resilience. Whether you're navigating anxiety, emotional exhaustion, or physical pain, this East Valley wellness studio provides proven tools to help you reset:
- ❄️ Cryotherapy (cold exposure for pain, inflammation & mood)
- 🔴 Red Light Therapy (for skin, recovery, and collagen production)
- 🔥 Infrared Sauna (detox & metabolism)
- 🧠 BrainTap Light & Sound Therapy (for stress, sleep & focus)
- 💆♀️ Compression Therapy (for lymphatic flow & recovery)
- 🪑 Zero Gravity Theta Acoustical Chairs & Dry Float Beds
- 💊 Supplement tips & hydration hacks
✨ Whether you’re in the middle of a custody battle, rebuilding your life, or just trying to feel like yourself again — this conversation is a must-listen.
🧡 Take care of your body. Take care of your brain. And give yourself the best possible chance to thrive through this chapter.
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In this empowering episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with courtroom readiness and mindset coach Jeanine Tripodi—a hypnotherapist and energy practitioner with over 15 years of experience helping women navigate major life transitions, including divorce.
Jeanine shares how emotional regulation can make or break your courtroom experience. From nervous system tools to subconscious reprogramming, she breaks down exactly how she helps clients stay calm, clear-headed, and in control during high-stress legal moments like court hearings or mediation.
She explains the science behind hypnotherapy, attachment theory, and how your subconscious beliefs—often formed in early childhood—can sabotage your communication and credibility if left unchecked. Whether you’re dealing with an ex who triggers you or just trying to find your footing again, Jeanine’s tools go beyond traditional coaching to give you lasting transformation.
Plus, she shares what the biggest mistakes are that people make when they don’t emotionally prepare for court—and how to avoid them. If you're facing divorce, custody battles, or preparing for trial, this is the mindset masterclass you didn’t know you needed.
Learn more about Jeanine and her work at www.JeanineTripodi.com
Need help with your divorce or custody case? Find Billie and her team at www.mymodernlaw.com
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In this powerful and emotional episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with local mom Nikkol Krug to share a story every parent needs to hear.
Nikkol opens up about the grooming of her teenage daughter by a high school volleyball coach—how it began, how it escalated, and how the system failed to protect her child. She bravely recounts the signs she missed, the manipulation tactics used by the coach, and the heartbreak of watching her daughter suffer not only from the abuse but also from the backlash of speaking up.
This episode explores the gray area of the law, where inappropriate behavior toward minors isn't always illegal but is certainly dangerous. Nikkol and Billie discuss Title IX failures, how schools prioritize liability over student safety, and what real change might look like.
💔 Hear how one mother’s fight led to policy changes, how her daughter found her voice, and why we all need to learn the signs of grooming before it’s too late.
🔍 If you're a parent, educator, attorney, or advocate—this episode is for you.
👉 Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of grooming, harassment, and inappropriate conduct involving a minor.
💬 Topics Covered:
How grooming begins and builds trust over time
Legal blind spots that protect predators
Title IX violations in high schools
How school districts handle (or mishandle) misconduct
The emotional and social cost for victims who come forward
Why open communication at home can be lifesaving
What systemic change should look like
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Welcome to a special episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, where we pull back the curtain on what it really looks like to build a career in family law.
In this candid roundtable, Billie Tarascio is joined by her three law partners at Modern Law—Stacey Rogan, Heather Pelaez, and Kylie Bigelow—for an insightful conversation tailor-made for future attorneys, law students, and practicing lawyers looking to understand the reality of being a woman in law, building a sustainable legal career, and the evolving legal landscape.
Whether you're fresh out of law school, considering a shift in your legal career, or wondering what it takes to become a managing partner—this conversation is packed with honest reflections, powerful advice, and real-world insight from four powerhouse women in family law.
🔥 What You’ll Learn:
The unconventional journeys that led each partner to where they are now
The highs and lows of family law, including burnout, courtroom wins, and emotional resilience
How access to justice, legal paraprofessionals (LPs), and AI tools are impacting the legal field
Real talk on sexism in the legal profession—from microaggressions to evolving dynamics
Why women are underrepresented in law firm leadership—and how Modern Law is flipping the script
Advice for young lawyers: from courtroom confidence to managing emotional burnout
Leadership styles, mentorship, and why creating your own system matters
This episode is more than a conversation—it's a roadmap for lawyers committed to doing meaningful work and living a balanced life.
Want to learn more about the attorneys or book a consultation? Go to www.mymodernlaw.com today!
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Ron Platt, co-founder of the National Association for Single and Divorced Families (NASDF), to unpack a revolutionary concept: Support Insurance—a financial safety net for divorced and single-parent households that covers child support and alimony in cases of death, disability, or job loss.
Ron shares the deeply personal story behind NASDF’s creation, how a conversation with his late father sparked a 25-year journey, and how NASDF is more than just insurance—it’s a nationwide support system offering resources for legal help, real estate, mental health, and even school supplies. Plus, learn how NASDF is planning to push foster care reform and develop accessible legal credit tools for families navigating financial uncertainty.
💡 Whether you're divorced, a single parent, a co-parent, or someone rebuilding after a tough relationship, NASDF might just be the support system you didn’t know existed.
• What is support insurance and how does it work?
• Why NASDF is like an AARP for single/divorced families
• Legal and financial support options through NASDF
• The real-life story of navigating foster care as a single parent
• How advocacy, lived experience, and niche insurance intersect
• Healthy relationships after divorce—why self-work matters
🔗 Want to get in touch with Ron Platt or learn more about NASDF?
🌐 NASDF.org
📧 info@nasdf.org
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Welcome to another episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast with your host, attorney Billie Tarascio! In this episode, Billie is joined by financial planner, strategist, and RIA owner Michael Tarascio (yes — her brother!) to break down what recently divorced or soon-to-be-divorced individuals really need to know when large assets are on the line.
If you're walking away from your divorce with $500K–$2M+ in retirement, real estate, or other community property, this conversation is for you.
This episode is especially geared toward those who have been married for 25–30 years, are now facing divorce, and are suddenly navigating a drastically different financial reality. You may have lived a life of middle-class comfort, supported your kids through private school and club sports, and now you're being told to take out a parent loan for college—right when you're trying to figure out how to afford your own future. You're not alone, and it's time to rethink the entire game.
We talk about:
💼 How to manage a post-divorce financial windfall
🏠 Real estate vs. stock market — what’s safer?
📉 What volatility really means (and why panic-selling is dangerous)
📊 The one-time tax opportunity when splitting retirement accounts using a QDRO
🔐 How to turn your divorce settlement into long-term income
📚 The truth about parent PLUS loans, college costs, and setting new boundaries
💸 Why your lifestyle, identity, and financial strategy all need to align during your “reset” phase
Michael shares practical tips for making smarter financial choices, avoiding devastating mistakes (like overinvesting in risky real estate), and rethinking everything from paying for your kids’ college to managing your new cost of living.
Whether you’re trying to figure out if you should downsize, cash out, roll over, or reinvest — this episode offers grounded advice for those navigating a financial crossroads after divorce.
You can find Michael at www.tarasciofp.com or reach out directly at michael@tarasciofp.com
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In this important episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with family law attorney and licensed therapist Maleah Woodward to discuss a crucial topic: navigating divorce and family court when autism is part of the equation.
Maleah brings a deeply personal and professional perspective to the conversation—as a former CASA, adoptive mother to two autistic children, and an attorney dedicated to helping neurodivergent clients feel empowered and understood during one of the most difficult times in their lives.
Together, Billie and Maleah explore:
The unique challenges autistic parents and children face in family court
How to prepare autistic clients for the witness stand
Building trust between attorney and client to enhance communication and advocacy
The importance of educating judges and the legal system about autism
Strategies to avoid litigation when possible—and how to show up confidently when court is unavoidable
This episode is a must-watch for anyone involved in divorce or custody matters where autism is a factor. Whether you’re a parent, co-parent, caregiver, or legal professional, you’ll walk away with valuable insights and actionable guidance.
👉 Ready to get support from someone who understands autism in the family law context?
📅 Schedule a consultation with Maleah Woodward at www.mymodernlaw.com or call us at 480-649-2905
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In this powerful episode of The Modern Divorce Navigator, family law attorney Billie Tarascio explores the often misunderstood world of supervised parenting time with Christie Carter, founder of Angels Monitoring AZ. Together, they dive into what happens during supervised visits, how safe exchanges work, and when therapeutic monitoring is appropriate.
Whether you're navigating a high-conflict custody situation or simply want to better understand court-ordered supervision, this episode offers clear, practical guidance for families, attorneys, and anyone involved in family law matters
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- The difference between supervised and therapeutic monitoring
- What actually happens during a visit—from safe exchanges to detailed documentation
- How professional monitors maintain neutrality and de-escalate conflict
- Real examples of boundary violations and how they’re handled
- What language you should consider including in a court order
- How monitored parenting time supports reunification, parent education, and child safety
Founded by Christie Carter, Angels Monitoring AZ is built on a mission to provide ethical, compassionate, and professional supervised monitoring services to families in transition.
Her team prioritizes safety, neutrality, and high standards—helping to rebuild parent-child relationships in a supportive, structured environment
Personal Inquiries: angelsmonitoringaz@gmail.com
Case Management & Family Services: angelsmonitoringazinfo@gmail.com
Facebook: Angels Monitoring AZ Instagram: @angelsmonitoring_az
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Are you coming out of a divorce and feeling overwhelmed by debt, budgeting, or building a new financial foundation? You’re not alone—and this episode is your lifeline.
Join family law attorney Billie Tarascio and Certified Financial Planner Michael Tarascio as they break down everything you need to know to reset your financial life after divorce.
💡 In This Episode:
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The truth about good debt vs. bad debt
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Why net worth isn’t always the best indicator of financial health
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Budgeting basics (even for high earners!)
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When to refinance, consolidate, or say no to more debt
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How to prioritize building an emergency fund
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The debt avalanche vs. debt snowball methods—what works and why
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Creative lifestyle resets to stay afloat while rebuilding
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What every divorced person should know about credit scores, student loans, and refinancing the marital home
Whether you're facing financial uncertainty, trying to avoid mistakes, or simply want to set yourself up for long-term success—this episode is packed with real talk, practical advice, and honest encouragement.
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In this gripping episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, family law attorney Billie Tarascio is joined by nationally recognized immigration attorney Hillary Walsh from New Frontier Immigration Law to break down the complex—and often misunderstood—intersection of immigration and family law.
➡️ Whether you’re undocumented, in the middle of a divorce, or fighting for custody of your children, this episode is packed with life-saving legal insights you won’t hear anywhere else.
🧠 What You’ll Learn:
- What happens to your immigration status if you get divorced
- How to protect yourself if your spouse threatens deportation
- The legal power of VAWA, U Visas, and T Visas
- How undocumented parents can still get custody
- Why “extreme cruelty” in immigration law is broader than you think
- The real-world impact of protective orders on immigration
- How to plan if you're facing possible removal or detention
📍 This episode dives deep into the legal definitions of coercive control, emotional abuse, and power dynamics that—while overlooked in family court—can be critical to immigration relief. Hillary’s firsthand experiences and powerful advocacy illuminate options for people in impossible situations.
Connect with Hillary!
Visit: https://newfrontier.us
Facebook & Instagram: @newfrontierlaw
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Dr. David Adams is one of the most respected voices in domestic violence prevention and abuser intervention. In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, Dr. Adams shares insights from his 45 years of experience working with abusers, victims, courts, and professionals across the U.S. and beyond.
We dive into what really works when it comes to changing abusive behavior, why coercive control often gets missed in court, and how to accurately assess risk during divorce and custody disputes. Dr. Adams also shares what makes expert witness testimony so crucial in cases where abuse may not be “visible” but still deeply impacts families.
Key Topics Covered:
1. Why many abusers appear high-functioning at work but abusive at home
2. The psychology behind abuse and how it can be unlearned
3. The truth about parental alienation and coercive control
4. What courts and evaluators often miss in family law cases
5. How to assess risk before a high-conflict divorce or custody battle
3. Parenting programs that work, beyond couples therapy
This episode is a must-listen for attorneys, judges, counselors, and parents navigating high-conflict relationships. Whether you're working within the legal system or supporting someone who is, this conversation gives you tools to recognize patterns, avoid costly mistakes, and ultimately protect families better.
Where to Find Dr. David Adams
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/david-adams-0488949/
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When emotions run high in custody disputes, the term “parental alienation” is often used—but not always understood. In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Jean Mercer, developmental psychologist, author, and expert witness, to break down the facts behind the controversy.
Dr. Mercer shares what the research really says about parental alienation, why it’s often misused in court, and how focusing on evidence-based practices can lead to better outcomes for children. Whether you’re a family law professional, parent, or advocate, this episode offers essential insights that can change the way you approach high-conflict custody issues.
You’ll learn:
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Why parental alienation claims are often based on weak or misapplied science
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How the courts can better protect children using valid psychological principles
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What families and professionals need to watch out for in custody evaluations
This is a must-listen for anyone involved in family law who wants to protect children from unintended harm and move beyond the hype.
Where to Find Jean Mercer
Website: childmyths.blogspot.com
Email: jean.mercer@stockton.edu
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with Steven Bradley, a retired federal law enforcement investigator and safety and technology expert, to uncover how digital tools are being used to harass, stalk, and manipulate in family law cases.
Drawing from decades of frontline experience, Steven explains how spyware, fake evidence, GPS tracking, voice cloning, and even children's devices are being weaponized in custody battles and abusive relationships and what families, attorneys, and judges need to do about it.
Whether you're navigating a high-conflict divorce, co-parenting with someone abusive, or simply want to protect yourself and your children, this episode delivers practical, real-world strategies to stay informed and stay safe.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- How abusers use everyday tech like Apple AirTags, Ring cameras, and spyware to control their partners
- The signs your phone may be cloned or tracked—and what to do next
- The truth about AI-manipulated evidence and how to fight false claims in court
- How tools like OFW help protect families by locking down communication
- Tips for parents: how to talk to kids about digital safety when you don’t trust the other parent
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who cares about digital safety in family law—and a wake-up call for legal professionals who haven’t kept up with how abuse has evolved.
Where to Find Steven Bradley
Website: www.ourfamilywizard.com
LinkedIn: Steven Bradley
Email: Sbradley@ourfamilywizard.com
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, Billie Tarascio welcomes Cassidy Daugherty, an expert Family Law Attorney at My Modern Law. Cassidy shares her compelling journey from collegiate athlete to successful attorney, highlighting how the discipline and focus from her sports career shaped her approach to law school and legal practice.
The conversation dives deep into understanding how to find and build a strong relationship with the right attorney, emphasizing the critical role of communication, honesty, and trust throughout legal proceedings. Cassidy also discusses the significant advantages of her background in estate planning and how it uniquely equips her to assist clients navigating divorce. This episode offers valuable guidance on setting realistic expectations and making empowered decisions during family law cases.
Key Takeaways:
- How Cassidy’s collegiate athletic experience translates to her disciplined legal approach
- Crucial advice for recognizing if you've chosen the right attorney
- The importance of clear, tailored communication between attorney and client
- Unique insights from Cassidy’s combined expertise in family law and estate planning
- Differences between family law procedures in Washington and Arizona
Where to Find Cassidy Daugherty:
Website: https://mymodernlaw.com/our-team/cassidy-daugherty/
Email: cassidy.daugherty@mymodernlaw.com
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Coercive control is one of the most dangerous but least understood forms of abuse. Many victims don’t even realize they’re being controlled—until it’s too late.
In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, Dr. Lisa Fontes, a leading expert in coercive control and domestic violence, breaks down the hidden tactics of abuse and how survivors can recognize and escape these manipulative relationships.
Dr. Fontes shares:
✅ The key warning signs of coercive control (beyond physical violence)
✅ How family courts and the legal system often fail victims
✅ Why abusers use legal, financial, and parental control to maintain dominance
✅ Practical steps for victims to protect themselves and their children
If you or someone you know feels trapped in a relationship where power and fear dictate daily life, this conversation is a must-listen.
Tune in now to learn how to spot, understand, and fight back against coercive control.
Where to Find Dr. Lisa Fontes:
Website:
https://lisafontes.com/
Email:
lisaafontes@gmail.com
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Israel Ortega, the newest attorney at Modern Law, to discuss his vast courtroom experience and unique approach to family law. With 100+ jury trials under his belt, Israel’s background as a former prosecutor and probate attorney gives him a powerful edge in high-stakes family law cases.
Israel shares insights into navigating domestic violence cases, advocating for fathers in custody battles, and helping clients through life-changing legal challenges. His passion for justice, combined with his ability to connect with clients, makes him an invaluable addition to Modern Law.
Tune in to hear how his bilingual skills, trial expertise, and client-centered approach set him apart—and why having a lawyer unafraid of the courtroom can make all the difference in your case.
📌 Where to Find Israel Ortega
🔗 Website: https://mymodernlaw.com/our-team/israel-ortega/
📧 Email: israel.ortega@mymodernlaw.com
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Step-parenting is hard. Blending families? Even harder. 😅 But Lori & David from Nacho Kids are here to share their game-changing approach to making it work—without constant conflict!
💡 In this episode, we cover:
✔️ Why traditional step-parenting advice might NOT work for you 🚫
✔️ How to stop taking things personally in a blended family 💙
✔️ The Nacho Kids method—what it is & why it works 🔥
✔️ Real-life parenting struggles (like step-siblings & holiday drama!) 🎁
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Wondering how to build financial stability and growth this year? Whether you're recovering from holiday spending, navigating post-divorce finances, or looking for smarter money moves, this episode is packed with expert strategies you can apply today.
Join Arizona Divorce Attorney Billie Tarascio and financial planner, Michael Tarascio CFP, Owner & Lead Advisor at Tarascio Financial Planning, as they discuss:
✅ The #1 mistake keeping people in financial stress post-holidays
✅ Why a big tax refund isn’t a win—and how to avoid giving the IRS a free loan
✅ How to maximize your paycheck without switching jobs or starting a side hustle
✅ Smart money moves post-divorce to get back on track faster
✅ Beginner-friendly investing strategies that build wealth with minimal risk
Michael shares expert insights on quick financial wins, optimizing 401k contributions, and making your money work for you—whether you're a business owner, high earner, or just getting started.
💰 Need financial planning? Visit tarasciofp.com to connect with Michael for personalized financial advice.
💔 Going through a divorce? Get the support you need at mymodernlaw.com.
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🚨 New Episode: The Modern Arizona Podcast 🎙️
Breakups are tough—but what happens when you’re not just splitting from a partner, but also navigating shared responsibilities like kids, stepkids, or even pets?
Arizona Family Law Attorney & Relationship Breakup Specialist Tracy Wood joins Billie Tarascio to dive deep into the emotional and legal complexities of ending relationships. Tracy shares insights on:
✅ Why people get stuck in unhealthy relationships
✅ How to set firm but compassionate boundaries
✅ The challenges of stepparenting after a breakup
✅ When (or if) to block your ex
✅ Why learning to be happy alone is the key to a fulfilling future
If you’re navigating a breakup, feeling lost in a blended family, or ready to set better boundaries, this episode is for you!
Like & follow The Modern Arizona Podcast for more expert insights. Need legal help? Contact Modern Law (www.mymodernlaw.com) or reach out to Tracy Wood today! 📞 (480)-571-0346
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Co-parenting after divorce can be really tough, especially when emotions are high and communication is stressful. In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, Arizona Divorce Attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with Tessa Noel, a Certified Divorce Coach and Co-Parenting Specialist, to share practical tips for making co-parenting smoother and less stressful.
Tessa opens up about her own high-conflict divorce and how she changed her mindset to create a peaceful co-parenting relationship—without waiting for her ex to cooperate. She also shares her Kind Mama Boundaries Decision Tree, a simple 3-step framework to help parents decide when to hold a boundary and when to be flexible.
We also talk about Tessa’s KIND Method, a smart way to respond to difficult co-parenting messages without getting caught in arguments. Plus, she explains how AI tools like ChatGPT can help you write clear, calm, and professional messages while keeping your peace.
If you’re tired of co-parenting drama and want real solutions to create a better environment for your kids, this episode is for you!
Where to Find Tessa Noel
LinkedIn: @coachkindmama
Website: www.kindmamadivorcecoaching.com
Learn more about the Modern Divorce Navigator at https://navigator.mymodernlaw.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, Billie Tarascio, owner of Modern Law, sits down with Attorney Rachel Collier to discuss the realities of family law. Rachel shares her journey from Minnesota to Arizona, how she got into law, and why she finds family law both challenging and rewarding.
They talk about the ups and downs of representing clients in family court, including the impact of litigation on families and how prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can make divorce less painful. Rachel offers insights on dealing with opposing counsel, the importance of honest communication with clients, and why every case is unique.
This episode provides a real look at the world of family law, highlighting the human side of legal disputes and the importance of finding solutions that work for everyone involved.
Learn more about Rachel Collier:
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Join us on the Modern Arizona Podcast as we talk with Dr. Naaila Hudani, an expert in child development. In this episode, we discuss how to handle the challenges of co-parenting with a toxic or narcissistic ex. Dr. Hudani explains why it's crucial for the 'healthy parent' to stay emotionally strong so they can better support their children.
Dr. Hudani offers practical advice on how parents can help their kids understand and deal with manipulative behaviors like lying, controlling, and gaslighting. This episode is packed with tips for helping children build resilience and maintain a sense of reality despite a toxic parent's influence.
If you're dealing with a difficult co-parenting situation and need guidance on protecting your children's emotional health, visit Dr. Hudani's website at www.parenting-mindfully.com for more information and resources.
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, Billie Tarascio talks with Rebecca Mecham, a forensic and mental health therapist, about how parents can help kids heal from the trauma of divorce. Rebecca explains why curiosity is one of the best tools for supporting children and how parents can model the behaviors they want their kids to learn.
Rebecca also shares simple grounding exercises to help kids (and parents!) feel calm and in control during tough moments. She talks about when it’s time to see a therapist, how to deal with kids who resist therapy, and how to build emotional resilience. Rebecca’s years of experience working with trauma make this episode full of practical advice for families going through big changes.
Where to Find Rebecca Mecham
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/m-rebecca-mecham-lpc-604199183
Website: oasispsych.com
Contact: Email at Rebecca@oasispsych.com
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Tune in to the Modern Arizona Podcast where we chat with Brittney Phillips, founder of Blending Bravely. Brittney shares her personal journey through the challenges of blending families, discussing the difficulties step-parents and kids often face, and offering tips on improving family dynamics. She covers everything from handling kids' loyalty conflicts to setting up a home where everyone feels safe and respected.
Want more insights or need some guidance?
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona podcast, host Billie Tarascio is joined by Dr. Naaila Hudani, a child developmental specialist with a PhD, who shares her deep personal and professional insights into co-parenting dynamics, especially in challenging situations with toxic or narcissistic individuals.
Dr. Hudani, drawing from her expertise and stepmother experience, discusses the crucial strategies for protecting children's mental and emotional well-being, creating a nurturing home environment, and building emotional resilience in the face of adversity. Whether you're a parent, stepparent, or a professional navigating similar dynamics, this episode offers valuable tools and strategies for fostering healthier relationships and ensuring the well-being of children caught in difficult co-parenting situations.
For more in-depth guidance and personalized strategies, connect with Dr. Naaila Hudani via her website to set up a connection call or reach out via email at naaila@parenting-mindfully.com
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This episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast highlights the inspiring journey and incredible legal acumen of Kathryn O'Connell. With her unique background in philosophy, peace studies, and gender women's studies, Kathryn brings a compassionate and thorough approach to family law that sets her apart. She shares her transition from liberal arts to law school, her impactful work in a domestic violence law clinic, and the rewarding experience of guiding clients through challenging times. Kathryn's attention to detail and comprehensive storytelling make her an exceptional advocate in and out of the courtroom.
From compelling wins in court to her dedication to empowering clients, Kathryn is a force for good in the legal world. Tune in to hear about her recent successes, her passion for helping others, and how she balances a no-bark, all-bite style that wins over judges and clients alike.
Hire Kathryn today by visiting www.mymodernlaw.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, Billie Tarrascio talks with Kate Anthony, a well-known divorce coach and author. They discuss important signs that show when a marriage might not be fixable and how to handle the decision to end a relationship.
Kate shares useful advice on how to look at dating after a divorce as a way to learn more about yourself, not just as a way to find someone new. She stresses the need to share similar values with new partners and the importance of healing after a divorce to make sure future relationships are healthy. This talk is filled with practical tips for anyone trying to date after a divorce or thinking about breaking up.
For more support and insights on starting over after a divorce, connect with Kate Anthony:
Check out her website: https://kateanthony.com/
Follow her on Instagram for daily tips: https://www.instagram.com/thedivorcesurvivalguide/?hl=en
Connect on LinkedIn for professional advice: https://www.linkedin.com/in/divorcesurvivalguide/es?trk=people-guest_people_search-card
Join her Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/YourDivorceSurvivalGuide/
This episode is perfect for anyone ready to move forward and begin a new chapter after the struggles of divorce.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, Billie Tarascio engages in a compelling conversation with criminal defense attorney Ryan McPhie about the recent changes in Arizona’s criminal law due to two new ballot measures, 313 and 314.
They dive deep into the implications of these measures, with 313 introducing mandatory life sentences for child s*x trafficking and 314 creating new criminal offenses. Ryan provides expert insights on the potential overreach and the profound impact these laws could have on the justice system in Arizona.
If you're looking for detailed legal perspectives or need legal assistance, don’t hesitate to reach out to Ryan at Grand Canyon Law.
https://www.grandcanyon.law/teams/ryan-mcphie/
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, we sit down with Hillary Walsh, a respected immigration attorney and founder of New Frontier Immigration Law. Hillary sheds light on the often misunderstood aspects of immigration law, particularly for those who find themselves undocumented and vulnerable, such as victims of human trafficking and domestic violence.
Hillary provides clear explanations about the legal options available for undocumented individuals and the specific challenges they face. She also discusses the pivotal role her firm plays in supporting these individuals through complex legal landscapes and policy changes.
If you're looking for expert advice or need assistance with immigration issues, connect with Hillary and her team by visiting New Frontier Immigration Law.
https://newfrontier.us/
This conversation is crucial for anyone looking to understand the real impacts of immigration law and how it affects real people every day. Tune in to hear Hillary’s expert insights and compassionate approach to legal defense in immigration.
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Billie Tarascio and nationally renowned immigration attorney Jim Hacking delve into the current and future state of immigration policy in the U.S. This episode covers urgent concerns about mass deportations, expedited removals, and the potential impacts of recent political developments.
Also discussed are the risks for immigrants seeking discretionary waivers, particularly under stricter administrations. They reflect on the potential misuse of DACA registrant information for enforcement purposes, expressing concerns about anti-immigrant policies and strategies that may arise, such as using government records to target undocumented individuals. Despite these challenges, Billie maintains a firm commitment to advising clients to follow the law while being mindful of their vulnerabilities under evolving policies.
Jim shares invaluable insights from his experience running an immigration law firm, highlighting:
How proposed policies could impact families and communities in Arizona.
The legal process for deportation, including expedited removal and detention.
What immigrants can expect as enforcement intensifies under new leadership.
The future of programs like DACA and Temporary Protected Status (TPS).
This candid discussion explores the human side of immigration enforcement and provides clarity amidst a sea of fear and uncertainty. Whether you're directly affected or looking to better understand immigration law, this episode offers essential knowledge.
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📞 Need legal advice? Reach out to Jim Hacking’s firm for expert guidance.
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Have you ever wondered how someone recovers from the deep hurt of betrayal?
In this podcast episode, host Billie Tarascio talks with Lora Cheadle about her personal journey after discovering her husband's infidelity. Lora shares the intense emotions of shock and devastation she experienced and the methods she used for healing, including hypnotherapy.
They discuss the importance of understanding trauma in betrayal, rebuilding trust, and regaining emotional intimacy. Lora emphasizes that healing begins with self-awareness and self-trust, setting the foundation for healthier relationships in the future.
If you want to learn more about how Lora Cheadle navigated through betrayal and her tips for recovery, follow her social media and explore her resources. This is a valuable opportunity for anyone seeking guidance and support through similar challenges.
Free Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona podcast, host Billie Tarascio interviews Wendy Bylsma, a litigant who has faced significant trials within the family court system.Wendy shares her grueling experiences, from dealing with domestic violence to confronting false accusations and the resulting legal battles that impacted her custody rights. She discusses the complex and often frustrating interactions with the legal system, illustrating how her case was mishandled and the emotional toll it took on her family.
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Domestic Violence and Legal Struggles:
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False Accusations and Courtroom Battles:
She details the false accusations made against her, which resulted in a wrongful incarceration and a prolonged fight to clear her name and protect her children. -
Systemic Issues in Family Court:
Wendy discusses the broader implications of her experiences, shedding light on the deficiencies within the legal system that affect the handling of domestic violence and custody disputes.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with therapist Derek Wittman for an insightful discussion on ethical non-monogamy. They explore the distinctions between polyamory and polygamy, emphasizing how open communication and mutual consent are foundational to healthy non-monogamous relationships. Derek shares his journey from engineering and project management into a career in therapy, first working in substance abuse programs and later founding his own practice, Sage, which he has built into a solo operation as of March 2024. With nearly 27 years of marriage, two adult children, and his own rich therapy journey, Derek brings a compassionate and grounded perspective to his work with couples and families.
They also delve into the challenges of parenting teens, especially for divorced or separated parents. Derek's experience working with teens and their parents—whether single, co-parenting, or in blended family dynamics—provides valuable insights into how different approaches to co-parenting can impact young people. He speaks to the importance of maintaining healthy, supportive communication to shield teens from the emotional fallout of parental conflict. Derek’s work in grief therapy, including the healing of betrayal trauma from infidelity underscores his dedication to helping families and individuals navigate complex emotional landscapes.
An ally to the Queer community and someone with a deep respect for diverse relationship structures, Derek's perspective is both open-minded and empathetic. His curiosity and readiness to learn help him foster meaningful connections with his clients, making this episode a compelling listen for anyone interested in the intersections of ethical non-monogamy, family dynamics, and modern parenting.
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New Special Edition Episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast!
Billie Tarascio talks with Cesar Aleman, a state representative candidate, and Worship Minister at Laveen Baptist Church.
In his first run for office, Cesar shares his journey from serving in the non-profit sector to full-time ministry, emphasizing his dedication to community service and addressing local issues. The discussion delves into pressing topics such as the need for enhanced police support and better recruitment strategies, tackling the challenges in Arizona's public education system, and measures to ensure community safety.
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Education Reform:
Insights into the state of public schools in Arizona and Cesar's vision for educational improvement, including support for school choice. -
Support for Law Enforcement:
The importance of backing law enforcement with proper training and resources to ensure community trust and effectiveness.
Connect with Cesar Aleman:
Listeners interested in discussing issues like crime, border security, affordable living, and school choice can reach out directly to Cesar Aleman.
Email: cesaralemanforaz11@gmail.com
X Account: @CesarAlemanAZ11
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556286657071&mibextid=LQQJ4d
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Where is Arizona heading? In this fascinating episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Junelle Cavero, a fresh face in Arizona’s legislature who was thrust into the center of a high-stakes vote just hours after her appointment. Junelle recounts her whirlwind first day: appointed to office in the morning, she was on the legislative floor by afternoon to cast the decisive vote on Arizona’s controversial 1864 territorial abortion ban.
Junelle, who balances her new legislative duties with running a business, offers a compelling perspective on her legislative journey and the tension between personal values and public policy. She and Billie talk politics in Arizona, the growing number of ballot measures this election cycle, and the challenge of navigating partisan divides in search of solutions that truly serve Arizona’s communities. From public safety to immigration, Junelle speaks passionately about balancing her role as a public servant while struggling to craft real solutions that face everyday Arizonans.
Timeline Summary:
[1:10] - Junelle’s first day in office: the high-stakes vote on Arizona’s abortion ban.
[4:00] - The power of ballot measures and why this year’s list is longer than ever.
[8:15] - Breaking down Proposition 314 and its controversial implications for immigration enforcement.
[15:30] - Arizona’s education crisis: funding issues and the impacts of the charter school boom.
[20:45] - Building a stronger Arizona: prioritizing job training, child care support, and ethical governance.
Links & Resources:
- Learn more about Junelle Cavero and her legislative journey here.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio welcomes Tawni Browning, who shares her experiences as a mother of five, an undercover investigator, and a producer of A&E's Secrets of Polygamy. The conversation dives into some heavy yet important topics, including her undercover work with white supremacist groups, the dangers of hate-fueled organizations, and her work supporting women who have escaped polygamy. Tawni’s unique insights into cult dynamics, hate groups, and the human condition make this a compelling and eye-opening discussion.
Listeners will hear how Tawni’s personal experience as the victim of a hate crime propelled her into working undercover to understand how individuals are drawn into extremist groups. She talks about the parallels between cult-like organizations and other abusive systems and shares her firsthand knowledge of the challenges women face when escaping polygamy. This conversation touches on the power of human connection, the dangers of isolation, and how communities can come together to combat hate and support those seeking a way out.
This episode is filled with Tawni’s raw, personal stories, her passion for change, and the incredible impact she’s making on behalf of women and vulnerable communities. Whether it’s discussing polygamy, white supremacy, or the psychology behind hate, this episode is one you don’t want to miss.
Episode Highlights:
- [2:00] Tawni’s undercover investigation into white supremacist groups and the shocking discovery of their presence in Arizona.
- [5:10] The importance of understanding the psychology of hate and the parallels with cult dynamics.
- [9:30] Tawni’s work with A&E’s Secrets of Polygamy and how she became involved in the fight to help women escape polygamous sects.
- [14:00] Why polygamy is so closely tied to abuse and how cults use mind control and isolation to maintain power.
- [18:45] Tawni’s insights into the power of women in dismantling harmful systems like polygamy and why empowering women can create generational change.
- [24:00] The dangerous rise of extremist ideologies and cult-like behavior in modern politics and communities.
Links & Resources:
- Learn more about Secrets of Polygamy on A&E.
- Check out Tawni Browning’s book The Hate Next Door, available now.
- Visit Modern Law: mymodernlaw.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio interviews Laura Metcalfe, a candidate for Maricopa County School Superintendent. Laura shares her extensive experience in Arizona's education system, including her past role as a small schools administrator and her work with the Accommodation District. Together, they discuss the responsibilities of the county school superintendent, the challenges facing Arizona’s public education system, and Laura’s plan to address the financial crisis plaguing the county’s Accommodation School District.
Throughout the conversation, Laura explains how the superintendent’s office supports school districts, oversees elections, and manages grants. She also highlights the mismanagement that has led to a $10 million debt for the Accommodation District and outlines her strategy to restore fiscal accountability if elected. Laura emphasizes the importance of transparency, ensuring that Maricopa County taxpayers understand how their money is spent and what actions are being taken to fix the current financial issues.
Timeline Summary:
[1:00] - Laura Metcalfe introduces herself and explains the role of the Maricopa County School Superintendent.
[3:30] - The superintendent’s office: supporting school districts, managing elections, and overseeing grants.
[6:45] - Laura’s experience working with rural schools and her role in the Accommodation District.
[9:00] - How financial mismanagement has led to a $10 million debt for the Accommodation District.
[15:00] - Laura’s plan to address fiscal accountability and ensure transparency in the superintendent’s office.
[20:00] - The challenges facing Arizona’s education system and how Laura aims to improve it.
Links & Resources:
- Learn more about Laura Metcalf’s campaign here.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Scott Smith, former mayor of Mesa and current mayoral candidate. Scott reflects on his previous term from 2008 to 2014, a period marked by the Great Recession, and how he helped guide Mesa through a crushing economic downturn. He shares his leadership strategies for managing challenges and preparing the city for future growth. Now running for mayor again, Scott outlines his vision for addressing today’s key issues like housing affordability, economic development, and revitalizing underused areas.
Scott explains how his background in business shaped his approach to city leadership, emphasizing the need for government to support, not hinder, economic progress. He also dives into the complex relationship between government and business, offering practical solutions for balancing regulation and growth. The conversation covers pressing local concerns, including managing short-term rentals and ensuring Mesa continues to thrive in today’s competitive economic landscape.
Listeners will gain insight into Scott’s leadership style, his innovative ideas for tackling Mesa’s current challenges, and his commitment to maintaining the city’s upward trajectory. This episode offers a compelling look at how Scott’s past experience equips him to lead Mesa into the future.
Episode Highlights:
- [1:10] Scott reflects on leading Mesa through the Great Recession and lessons learned.
- [4:45] How his business background influenced his approach to government.
- [9:30] The key differences between running a city and a business.
- [12:15] Scott’s ideas for solving the housing crisis by repurposing commercial properties.
- [20:00] How short-term rentals impact Mesa neighborhoods and what Scott plans to do about it.
- [25:30] His vision for continuing Mesa’s economic growth.
- [32:40] Scott’s thoughts on public safety and the future of Mesa’s police force.
Links & Resources:
- Learn more about Scott Smith’s campaign for mayor: SmithForMesa.com
- Visit Modern Law: mymodernlaw.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Mark Freeman, a seasoned public servant and candidate for mayor of Mesa. With over 31 years of experience as the captain of paramedics for Mesa Fire and Medical, as well as serving as a city council member and local farmer, Mark brings deep insights into the community. During the discussion, he shares his vision for Mesa’s future, focusing on balancing rapid growth with preserving the city's unique neighborhoods, while emphasizing his dedication to public safety.
Mark talks about the decline of agriculture in Mesa, the pressing concerns surrounding water sustainability, and his innovative ideas to address the city’s housing crisis. The conversation also highlights his commitment to school safety and crime prevention, with details about the initiatives he has helped implement, such as the real-time crime center and measures to reduce teen violence. Lastly, Mark outlines his plan to ensure Mesa's fiscal health, promoting responsible growth and neighborhood revitalization. This episode provides a valuable perspective on urban development and public policy for Mesa residents and beyond.
Timeline Summary:
[1:00] - Mark Freeman’s 31-year career with Mesa Fire and Medical and his decision to run for mayor.
[4:10] - Mesa’s rapid growth, the decline of agriculture, and the importance of water conservation.
[7:30] - Addressing Mesa’s housing crisis and encouraging diverse development.
[10:15] - School safety initiatives, the real-time crime center, and reducing teen violence.
[15:45] - Public safety challenges and measures taken to reduce crime rates in Mesa.
[18:30] - Mesa’s water sustainability and infrastructure development plan.
Links & Resources:
- Learn more about Mark Freeman’s campaign for mayor here.
- Explore Mesa’s climate action and water conservation plan at MesaAZ.gov.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with Kayleigh Kozak, the driving force behind Kayleigh's Law, to discuss the pressing issue of sentencing for sex trafficking of minors in Arizona. Kayleigh shares her personal journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her fight to enact stronger protections for victims. Our conversation focuses on her namesake legislation, Kayleigh's Law, which grants lifetime protection for victims of specific sex crimes. But that's not all—Kayleigh is also advocating for a groundbreaking ballot measure, Proposition 313, which could impose a life sentence on adults convicted of sexually trafficking minors.
This ballot measure aims to bring significant change to Arizona’s legal framework, ensuring that those who buy or sell minors for sex will face life in prison. We unpack why this measure is crucial, how sex trafficking is a multi-billion dollar industry that’s shockingly prevalent in Arizona, and why some organizations have opposed the initiative. Kayleigh breaks down the misconceptions surrounding sex trafficking and explains why this law will make Arizona a safer place for children.
Timeline Summary:
[2:00] - Kayleigh's experience with childhood sexual abuse and her journey to creating Kayleigh's Law.
[5:30] - The importance of natural life injunctions and lifetime protection for victims.
[8:15] - Introducing Proposition 313: life sentences for adults convicted of child sex trafficking.
[9:50] - Addressing the opposition to Prop 313 and clarifying misconceptions about minors being prosecuted under the measure.
[12:30] - The scope of sex trafficking in Arizona and why life sentences are necessary to protect children.
[16:15] - Discussing the leniency in the justice system and why harsher penalties are essential.
Links & Resources:
- Kayleigh’s Law Overview.
- Information on Proposition 313.
- Learn more about sex trafficking prevention at EndSexTrafficking.org.
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Ever wonder why some serious crimes, especially those involving teens, seem to result in light sentences like probation or misdemeanors? In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Tamika Wooten, a longtime prosecutor, defense attorney, and judge who’s now running for Maricopa County Attorney. Tamika pulls back the curtain on how criminal cases are really handled, diving into everything from teen violence cases to the frustrating gaps in the justice system. If you’ve been confused or outraged by what you’ve seen in local headlines, this conversation will help you understand why things play out the way they do.
Tamika shares her perspective on the issues voters are concerned about, and high-profile cases, including the Gilbert Goons, where teens were involved in group assaults and still walked away with minimal consequences. She explains the challenges of prosecutorial discretion and how it impacts everything from sentencing to public safety. This episode doesn’t just stop at the problems—it’s also about solutions. Tamika talks about how the system can be improved, especially when it comes to dealing with mental health, addiction, and making sure justice is actually served.
Whether you’re a voter trying to make sense of the justice system or a concerned community member who wants to know why violent offenders sometimes get off easy, this episode is packed with valuable insights. Tamika’s experience from all sides of the courtroom gives her a unique perspective on what’s broken and how it can be fixed.
If you want to learn more about Tamika Wooten and her campaign for Maricopa County Attorney, visit her website at tamika-wooten.com.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with attorney Lauren McAlpin to discuss her journey in family law and the unique challenges she faces as both a military spouse and lawyer. Lauren shares her experiences navigating the legal world, from her early days working in Georgia’s family law courts to her current practice in Arizona, where she focuses on custody cases, dependency issues, and the intersection of military law with family matters.
The conversation delves into the complexities of family dynamics, particularly in cases involving child custody disputes and allegations of abuse or neglect. Lauren provides valuable insights into how military families can navigate divorce and custody battles, touching on federal protections and strategic decisions that can significantly impact a case’s outcome. She also reflects on the personal challenges of being a military spouse, moving frequently, and managing her legal career across multiple states.
This episode is packed with practical advice for both military and non-military families facing legal issues. Lauren’s passion for problem-solving and her compassionate approach to helping clients through difficult times are truly inspiring. Whether listeners are navigating divorce, handling child custody issues, or simply curious about the life of a family law attorney, this episode offers valuable insights.
The discussion also covers creative solutions for co-parenting, the importance of keeping cases out of juvenile court when possible, and the surprising intersection of entertainment law and family law in Lauren’s earlier career.
Episode Highlights:
- [2:00] Lauren’s path to becoming a family law attorney and her background in dependency cases.
- [5:12] How being a military spouse has shaped her career and the legal protections available for military families.
- [9:30] Navigating child custody disputes and when it’s beneficial to involve CPS.
- [12:45] Creative solutions for co-parenting and why it's crucial to retain control over your case.
- [15:22] The legal and cultural differences Lauren has observed in family law across various states.
- [21:10] The intersection of military law and family law, and why location matters when filing for divorce.
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When you’re at a crossroads in life—whether due to a major transition like divorce, widowhood, or simply planning for retirement— knowing how to secure your financial future can give you the confidence you need to get through a rough patch. In this insightful episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with financial expert Jennifer Lee, who has made it her mission to guide people through these crucial life moments. Jennifer’s approach to financial planning is practical yet empowering, helping individuals not only protect their wealth but also grow it in ways that align with their personal goals and values.
As inflation and rising costs challenge everyday Americans, Jennifer breaks down why financial education is so important. She explains the key “laws of money” and how understanding these principles—such as paying yourself first and making your money work for you—can help anyone get ahead financially, even when faced with economic uncertainty. Jennifer shares her real-world wisdom on how simple yet strategic decisions can create lasting financial security, whether you're starting out or in the final stretch toward retirement.
The conversation also touches on emotional money decisions, particularly in the context of divorce. Jennifer emphasizes the importance of balancing emotional desires, like keeping a family home, with financial realities. She helps clients make informed choices that protect their long-term financial health, using thoughtful questions and number-crunching to empower them to move forward with confidence. Jennifer also shares how she supports business owners in navigating their final working years, helping them shelter their income from taxes and build a solid exit strategy.
Whether you're navigating a personal financial transition or planning for the future, this episode provides invaluable advice on how to master your finances. Jennifer's compassionate yet no-nonsense approach will inspire you to take control of your financial destiny, no matter where you are on your journey.
To learn more and find Jennifer online, go to Modern-Wealth.com.
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Imagine finding yourself in the middle of a complex murder investigation, where every detail matters, and the stakes couldn't be higher. That’s the world private investigator Justin Yentes steps into every day. In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Justin to explore the complications and realities of Arizona's criminal justice system. From high-profile murder cases to the deeply personal stories of those caught in the system, Justin reveals what it’s like to work on the front lines of justice, where every decision can mean the difference between freedom and a life behind bars.
Justin shares his experiences working on the tragic and still unresolved Rachel Hansen case—a case that has left a family and a community searching for answers. Despite the lack of information and the challenges of investigating what has become a cold case, Justin remains committed to finding the truth. He also provides a behind-the-scenes look at the murder case of another teen, 16-year-old Preston Lord , where the stakes are just as high, and the legal battles are far from over.
The episode takes a deeper turn as Justin reflects on the broader issues within the criminal justice system. He opens up about the heartbreaking stories of his clients, many of whom are facing the death penalty. These are individuals whose lives have been shaped by systemic failures, childhood trauma, and a lack of opportunities—factors that often lead to tragic outcomes. Through these stories, Justin challenges listeners to consider the ethical implications of capital punishment and whether our justice system truly serves its purpose.
This episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast is more than just a conversation—it’s an eye-opening journey into the heart of the criminal justice system. Justin Yentes’ candid insights and experiences offer a powerful reminder of the human lives behind the headlines and the critical importance of compassion in the pursuit of justice.
You can find Justin online at AZPrivateInvestigator.com.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Deborah Donenfeld, a coach specializing in midlife transitions. Deborah shares her unique approach to helping individuals in their 40s, 50s, and beyond harness their inner light and navigate significant life changes, whether it’s dealing with unexpected events like divorce or actively seeking new directions. Drawing from her own personal experiences of upheaval, Deborah explains how she empowers her clients to embrace change as an opportunity for growth rather than a setback.
Deborah and Billie dive into the concept of the "midlife dip," discussing how this period of life often brings a sense of uncertainty and the desire for reinvention. Deborah emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and intuition in making meaningful decisions during these transitions. She shares practical tools, such as somatic practices, journaling, and meditation, to help listeners tap into their inner strength and move forward with confidence. Her coaching is about more than just making changes—it's about finding a new sense of purpose and clarity.
Listeners will also hear about Deborah's journey from photography to coaching, sparked by her own life challenges, and how she now guides others through similar paths. With her compassionate approach, Deborah offers valuable insights into how to tackle the challenges of midlife and beyond. Whether you’re facing a significant life change or simply feeling stuck, this episode provides inspiration and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of midlife with grace and resilience.
You can find Deborah online at PhotosynthesisCoaching.com where you can schedule a free consult.
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What is the real cost of bullying, and what can parents do about it? In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio explores the real fallout of bullying with guest Jordan Harstad, a father who tragically lost his son Andrew to suicide following relentless bullying. Jordan shares the devastating journey of his son’s downward spiral, beginning with his freshman year at Hamilton High School, where bullying escalated despite numerous attempts to seek help from the school and law enforcement.
Jordan provides an unflinching account of the failures he encountered while trying to protect his son, from the school’s inadequate responses to the legal system’s inability to enforce protection. He also discusses his ongoing efforts to change school policies and bring attention to the mental health struggles that often go hand-in-hand with bullying. This episode delves into the often unseen, long-term impacts of bullying and what happens when a system fails a vulnerable child.
Billie and Jordan’s conversation is not just a story of loss; it’s a powerful call to action for parents, educators, and community members. They discuss practical steps parents can and should take to protect their children, the importance of documentation and advocacy, and the need for systemic change in how bullying is addressed in schools. This episode urges listeners to consider the real cost of bullying and to take proactive steps to ensure that no other family has to suffer the same tragic outcome.
By sharing Andrew’s story, Jordan hopes to prevent future tragedies and spark meaningful change. This episode is essential listening for anyone committed to safeguarding the well-being of children and understanding the true impact of bullying.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Motivational speaker and Life Coach Marcus Timmons, also known as Big Herc, a community activist from Gilbert, AZ, about the troubling rise in youth violence in the area tied to the so-called Gilbert Goons or their copy cats. The discussion offers his insight into the underlying issues contributing to youth violence in Gilbert and offers practical advice for parents and community members to help steer these young individuals towards a more positive and productive path.
For instance, Marcus has spent time in the juvenile and adult correctional systems for when he got into trouble as a youth. He believes many of the Gilbert youths, despite being from highly privileged, are seeking identity and validation through dangerous activities. Marcus highlights the irony of these kids engaging in "goon" behavior in a community as peaceful and resource-rich as Gilbert.
He blames parents for the problems. Marcus shares his concerns about the potential escalation of this violence and the allure of street credibility, which is often fueled by social media. He says these behaviors can attract real gangsters from nearby cities, posing severe risks to the community.
Marcus underscores the importance of early intervention by parents and community leaders to redirect the youth towards positive activities and away from criminal behavior. He also stresses the need for parents to be vigilant and proactive in curbing these negative influences before they escalate.
He also talks about the critical role of rehabilitation and mentorship in preventing youth violence. His own initiative, "Fresh Out," aims to educate young people about the harsh realities of prison life through interviews with former inmates.
For more about Big Herc and his Fresh Out Initiative, check out his website at FreshOutSeries.com
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Nikki Tucker, a personal financial coach and certified divorce financial analyst, to discuss the crucial aspects of financial planning for women, especially those facing divorce. Nicki shares her journey from a childhood fascination with finance to a career in financial services, and ultimately to personal financial coaching. Her motivation to help women navigate financial challenges, particularly during and after divorce, is evident as she emphasizes the importance of women being unapologetic about their financial security and taking control of their finances.
Nikki and Billie delve into the importance of financial compatibility in marriage, highlighting the need for open and transparent financial conversations. They discuss practical strategies for managing joint and individual finances, such as maintaining both joint and separate bank accounts and having regular "money date nights." Nikki also stresses the role of a financial coach or neutral third party in facilitating these discussions. They explore financial preparedness in the event of a divorce, underscoring the importance of understanding and mitigating financial risks and encouraging women to be proactive in their financial management. Additionally, evolving perceptions of prenups, particularly among younger generations and older high-income women, as a means to foster clear expectations and informed decisions within marriage.
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Website: https://thefiirmapproach.com/
Email: nikki@thefiirmapproach.com
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In this enlightening episode, we delve into the intricacies of family law and the unique challenges faced by fathers navigating the legal system. David Cassara, a seasoned attorney based in Los Angeles, shares his extensive experience and the motivation behind founding Dad's Law School, an innovative online platform designed to empower fathers with the knowledge and tools to represent themselves in family court.
David addresses the rise of domestic violence issues and their impact on custody battles, particularly highlighting the strategic use of allegations in California. He emphasizes the complexities of co-parenting, including issues with restraining orders and the implications for both moms and dads. David also provides practical advice on handling family court cases, stressing the importance of focusing on key issues rather than the entire relationship history.
Join host Billie Tarascio, as she explores the systemic issues within family law, the importance of emotional connection in legal advocacy, and how David's work is making a profound impact on the lives of fathers and their children.
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Key takeaways from the episode include the shift towards equal parenting time, especially in Arizona, which is encouraging more dads to be actively involved in their children's lives. Understanding the profound impact of domestic violence allegations and how they are used in custody battles is crucial. David underscores the importance of presenting concise and relevant information to judges and highlights the value of community support for dads navigating the family court system.
Resources
- Dad's Law School Website: Dad's Law School
- Free playbook for dads on what to expect in family court.
- Badass Boot Camp: A live one-day event to equip dads with essential information.
- Monthly subscription model with meetups, email support, and community engagement.
- Podcast: Launching soon, the Dad's Law School Podcast will feature case studies and answer interesting questions from the community.
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Let’s face it – legal help is expensive. But a new legal clinic has started providing low cost family law help to Arizonans. In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, family law attorney and host Billie Tarascio sits down with Laura Chapman, the director of the Modern Law Clinic. Laura, who has nearly a decade of family law experience, shares the new developments and success stories from the clinic, dedicated to offering affordable legal help to those who need it most. An added bonus is that the clinic gives enthusiastic law students experience and training while under the guidance of seasoned attorneys. The clinic assists clients with tasks like drafting petitions, preparing pre-trial statements, and coaching them for court appearances.
Laura dives into the impact of the learning experiences the clinic provides for law students, who get the rare chance to represent real clients and handle actual cases. This hands-on approach not only benefits the students but also serves the community by making legal services more accessible. Laura recounts some impressive student victories, including winning attorney fee awards and negotiating settlements at the last minute, showcasing the incredible impact and growth the students achieve through their work at the clinic.
The conversation highlights Modern Law's mission to bridge the gap in legal services for those who can't afford traditional representation. By running a clinic staffed by eager law students, Modern Law ensures that more people can get the legal support they need without breaking the bank. Laura shares how this innovative approach not only helps clients navigate their legal issues but also prepares the next generation of attorneys with the confidence and skills they need to succeed.
To schedule a consult or learn more about the clinic, visit
www.mymodernlaw.com/clinic
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In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio welcomes Tracy Wood, the newest addition to the Modern Law team. Tracy brings a rich and diverse background to her role as a family law attorney in Tucson. Her journey includes serving as a police officer in Seattle, a public defender, and a personal injury attorney, as well as being a stay-at-home mom to her stepchildren and a certified life coach.
Tracy is also a passionate LGBTQ+ advocate with extensive experience representing clients in same-sex divorces. Her commitment to inclusive representation and support for the LGBTQ+ community is a vital part of her practice.
Tracy shares her passion for the dynamic nature of family law and emphasizes the importance of building a strong support network during a divorce. Billie and Tracy discuss how having friends, family, attorneys, and other resources can make a significant difference in navigating the emotional and practical challenges of divorce. They highlight the crucial message: Ask for help!
The conversation also touches on the mental health impacts of divorce and the potential for poor decision-making under stress. Tracy and Billie advocate for seeing divorce not as a failure but as an opportunity for growth and new beginnings. Tracy's enthusiasm for joining Modern Law shines through as she expresses her excitement about being part of a supportive and dynamic legal team dedicated to providing top-notch services to Tucson residents.
If you're in Tucson and need a family law attorney ready to fight for you, schedule a consultation with Tracy Wood today.
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Ever had neighbor kids turn into total jerks?
Imagine that, but way worse! In this episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host Attorney Billie Tarascio chats with three Gilbert moms who've been through the wringer. Jennifer, LeeAnn, and Stephanie open up about how their daughters became targets of some troublemaking teenage boys, known around Morrison Ranch.
It started small but got crazy fast - ending with Jenny's barn going up in flames due to arson! These moms spill all the details about the bullying, harassment, stalking, and threats, and what the police didn't do to help.
But get this - these moms didn't just sit around feeling helpless. They fought back! They talk about dealing with schools that didn't get it and cops who didn't do much. It's a real-life story about standing up for your kids when things get scary.
Want to know how everyday moms turned into community heroes? Tune in and find out! You'll hear how they're using their wild experience with these teenagers and social media to make some big changes in Arizona. Don't miss this one - it's an eye-opener!
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In this insightful episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio welcomes Joel Coen, a candidate for State Representative for Legislative District 14. Joel brings extensive experience in strategic leadership, having worked with C-level executives and boards, and currently serves as a key advisor at TruNorth Advisors. His discussion covers a wide range of topics crucial to Arizona voters, including future planning, border security, and education reform.
Joel also shares his dedication to improving the state of Arizona, highlighting his service as President of a major non-profit and his role on the board of trustees at the Phoenix Art Museum. This episode provides listeners with a comprehensive understanding of Joel Coen's platform, vision for Arizona, and commitment to community and efficiency.
Learn more about Joel at www.coenforaz.com
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Maricopa County Attorney Rachel Mitchell sits down with attorney Billie Tarascio to discuss the Gilbert Goons, sentencing guidelines, why the Goons are NOT charged as gang members, and why they are getting probation. Rachel addresses why charges were declined with regards to some youth alleged to have been involved in assaults, why kidnapping is the theory for the Preston Lord Murder but not other assaults, and more.
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Is youth entitlement driving the outbreak of criminal youth behavior? In this special edition of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio interviews Maricopa County Attorney Rachel Mitchell, who has been front and center when it comes to criminal charges related to youth violence across Arizona’s largest population base. The two attorneys delve into pressing issues such as gang violence, the changing dynamics of gang activities, and the significant impact of video and social media on these trends.
Rachel shares her three decades of experience as a prosecutor, shedding light on how gangs have evolved from geographically and racially homogenous groups to more diverse, social media-connected entities. She also highlights the disturbing rise in violence among youth who seemingly have all they need materially but lack empathy and possess a strong sense of entitlement.
The conversation takes a deep dive into the relationship between law enforcement and the prosecutor's office. Rachel explains the collaborative efforts between police and prosecutors from the outset of investigations, particularly in serious cases like homicides. She provides insights into the investigative grand jury process used to gather testimony and evidence, which played a crucial role in the case of Preston Lord's homicide. Despite the challenges, including the lack of video evidence, this method helped indict seven individuals, demonstrating the critical importance of thorough investigations and legal processes.
Rachel also addresses the frustration many feel regarding the prosecution of youth involved in violent acts, particularly the discrepancies in charges and sentencing. She explains the complexities behind prosecuting cases involving social media videos and the legal limitations that sometimes result in lesser charges. Rachel candidly discusses the challenges of securing harsher penalties within the current legal framework and her plans to propose legislative changes to better address group assaults and increase penalties for such violent acts.
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When an order of protection threatened to keep a parent from seeing his children for two years, how did his attorney resolve the situation?
In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio is joined by Kylie Bigelow, Managing Attorney at Modern Law, to discuss a highly controversial case that garnered significant online attention involving a custody situation and the order of protection that had been put in place by the mother. Kylie shares her experience navigating this challenging case where her client, the father, faced the prospect of not seeing his children for two years due to an order of protection upheld by a city court.
The podcast provides an in-depth look into the legal intricacies involved in transferring the case to Superior Court, allowing for a more nuanced consideration of custody and visitation rights. Kylie explains how they filed for temporary orders, which enabled the Superior Court judge to address the overlapping issues of the protection order and the father's right to see his children. This strategic move highlighted the importance of understanding jurisdictional authority in family law cases and leveraging it effectively to protect clients' rights.
The discussion also touches on the broader implications of such legal battles, particularly the polarized views surrounding domestic violence allegations and parental rights. Billie and Kylie explore the delicate balance courts must maintain between protecting abuse victims and ensuring that children maintain healthy relationships with both parents. Kylie emphasizes that judges are equipped to make these complex decisions, often recognizing that someone can be a flawed spouse yet still a good parent.
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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio welcomes back Matson Browning, a certified gang expert and former police detective, to discuss the alarming case of the Gilbert Goons and its progress. Browning and Tarascio dive into the police report on the Connor Jarnagan attack, revealing significant implications for the ongoing investigations into gang activities and the response from the Gilbert Police Department. Browning praises the detailed police report but criticizes the lack of proactive investigation by the police, stressing the need for officers to engage in community policing and thorough investigations rather than relying on victims and their families to solve crimes.
The conversation highlights the disturbing trend of parents like the Jarnagans having to conduct their own investigations due to inadequate police response. Browning emphasizes the importance of trained law enforcement officers taking the lead in such cases, sharing his experiences and the necessity for police to be proactive and vigilant. He also points out the failures in handling the juvenile attacker, Tyler Freeman, who had a history of similar violent incidents, suggesting a systemic issue in how repeat offenders are managed.
Browning discusses the struggle of maintaining motivation and integrity within the police force amid bureaucratic and political obstacles. He also addresses the importance of community trust and the need for better communication between the police and the public.
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It’s an election year, and so important to get involved in the local scene affecting your family life. In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Aaron Accurso, a candidate for Gilbert City Council, to discuss his vision for the town. Accurso emphasizes his commitment to serving the community, highlighting his family's long-term residence in Gilbert and his desire to represent family-oriented values. Gilbert’s identity has long had to live up to its reputation for being one of the safest towns in the United States, but a spate of teen violence has rocked that.
Accurso delves into his perspective on the role of a council member, advocating for a government that protects citizens' freedoms and stays within its defined limits. He discusses the importance of community input and transparency, stressing that regulations should be flexible enough to support residents' needs without being overly restrictive. His stance on maintaining a balance between individual rights and public safety is a key theme throughout the conversation.
The discussion also touches on the controversial issues of mask mandates and vaccine requirements, where Accurso shares his belief in personal choice and the need for government to respect individual decisions. He reflects on the current dysfunction within the town council, attributing it to personal animosities and a lack of professionalism. Accurso also promises to bring respect and decency back to the council, ensuring that all voices are heard and valued.
Finally, Accurso addresses the recent challenges faced by Gilbert, including issues with teen violence and gang activity. He criticizes the local police department's handling of these situations and calls for a plan to rebuild trust with the community. By advocating for increased community policing and better communication between the government and residents, Accurso aims to restore a sense of safety and unity in Gilbert. Tune in to hear his thoughtful insights and plans for a brighter future for the town.
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How does a victim win in court in a domestic violence situation? By having an attorney-tested strategy and using the law to prove your case. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Riverside County California litigation attorney Rachel King as they take on the intricacies of crafting a winning litigation strategy for domestic violence victims.
Rachel shares expert tips on how to approach these complex cases, noting the importance of setting clear goals and thoroughly – yes, thoroughly - documenting all instances of abuse to build a strong case.
Recent changes in California law now recognize coercive control and financial abuse as forms of domestic violence. Rachel breaks down the challenges of proving these types of abuse and offers instrumental advice on presenting your case effectively in court. Whether you're representing yourself or working with an attorney, Rachel's insights on organizing your strategy and evidence can make all the difference.
This episode also explores the critical differences between California's and Arizona's handling of domestic violence cases, especially in terms of restraining orders and their impact on custody and support. Learn how securing a permanent restraining order in California can significantly alter custody arrangements, ensuring the safety and well-being of the victim and their children.
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It’s hard to talk with an ex under emotionally charged circumstances, yet moms and dads still need to coordinate schedules for the kids while keeping down the drama. Wouldn’t it be nice if there were some kind of tool to keep everyone on track and still civil?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio is joined by Tracy Krall, a former family law attorney and current representative of Our Family Wizard, an innovative app designed to make co-parenting easier by streamlining communication and reduce conflict.
Tracy details the app's multifaceted features, including the journal, Infobank, and calendar tools. The app allows parents to share memories, store essential information like insurance details, and manage schedules. For parents still dealing with legal issues, tracking everyday activities and behaviors of both parties can be an important element.
For instance, the app includes a reimbursement system and the innovative Tone Meter feature, which helps co-parents communicate more effectively and respectfully. The discussion also covers the app’s customizable notifications and GPS check-ins, which provide additional layers of accountability and transparency.
Billie and Tracy also discuss the app's cost and its fee waiver programs, ensuring that financial constraints don’t stop families from benefiting from using its features. For more information, check out OurFamilyWizard.com/modernlaw
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In the latest episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host and attorney Billie Tarascio welcomes Lalani Hunsaker, a first-time political candidate running for the Arizona State House in Legislative District 14. As a party outlier running on the Republican side, Lalani kicks off the conversation explaining why local residents are seeing controversial campaign signs featuring an unflattering personal photo, used without her consent, and clarifying her role in public policy rather than lobbying for the American Leadership Academy (ALA).
Lalani reflects on her early political experience as an intern and later a staffer for Senator Harry Reid. Despite her lifelong Republican stance, she recounts her valuable learning experience working for a Nevada Democrat and addresses how her opponents have misrepresented this part of her history. Lalani expresses her commitment to addressing local issues such as safety, border security, and water resource management, emphasizing her goal to bring common sense solutions and fresh conservative leadership to the Arizona State House.
Lalani elaborates on her candidacy, mentioning her 19 years of residence in Gilbert and her decision to run as a Republican for an open seat in the district. With early voting starting at the end of June and the primary election on July 30th, she emphasizes the importance of voter participation, particularly since all candidates in her race are Republicans, making the primary election a decisive event.
The conversation delves into Lalani's background with ALA, addressing accusations and smear campaigns related to her professional affiliations and her time working in public policy. She refutes claims of being a lobbyist and discusses her role in implementing a kindness campaign across ALA campuses to combat violence and promote safety among students. This initiative involved collaboration with local law enforcement, school administrations, and student bodies to create a supportive and safe educational environment.
For more information about Lalani and her campaign go to VoteLalani.com.
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Is parental alienation real? Definitely, says Madison Wellborne, who discusses how her mother manipulated her into rejecting her father through false accusations and lies, leading to long-lasting emotional and psychological effects. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio and Madison explore the effects of parental alienation on children, including anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and self-destructive behaviors.
Madison describes the emotional turmoil and the impact on her relationship with her father, whom she once considered her best friend. She explains how she mourned her father's absence as if he had died and the significant challenges she faced as the only child among her siblings who was alienated. Madison also delves into the psychological effects of parental alienation, including anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem, and shares her journey toward healing and reclaiming her life after discovering the truth.
Rebuilding Relationships: Madison emphasizes the importance of rebuilding relationships with alienated parents and speaks about the formation of the Anti Alienation Project. She highlights the need for adult children of parental alienation to speak out and support each other. The episode also provides practical advice for parents to avoid alienating behaviors and foster healthy relationships with both parents.
Call to Action: Listeners are encouraged to reach out to Madison by email at theantialienationproject@gmail.com, and the Anti Alienation Project for support and resources.
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What makes for an abusive marriage? In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio welcomes Belle Blake Phillips, a divorced mom, domestic violence survivor, and recent internet sensation who shares her shocking stories and the red flags of an abusive relationship. While she was taken by surprise by sudden online fame, she found her stories connecting with legions of domestic violence survivors.
Her internet fame began with a simple video about her engagement ring, highlighting the emotional manipulation she faced from her ex-husband. Belle emphasizes that abuse isn't always physical; it often starts with emotional, psychological, and financial control. She recounts the progression from verbal abuse to physical violence, culminating in a shocking incident where her ex-husband tasered her while she was pregnant. Her resilience shines through as she describes how she eventually escaped the abusive environment, secured an order of protection, and rebuilt her life.
A significant part of the discussion focuses on Belle's advocacy for the Address Confidentiality Program, also known as Safe at Home, which helps protect domestic abuse survivors by providing them with a decoy address to keep their real location confidential. The program has been instrumental in her own safety and she strongly encourages other survivors to consider it.
For more information, find Belle Blake on TikTok and on Instagram.
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In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Gina Godbehere, candidate for Maricopa County Prosecutor, to discuss local crime and the justice system. The conversation begins with a focus on the Gilbert Goons, a group recently classified as a gang, and the complications of prosecuting their crimes without sufficient evidence to prove gang-related motivations.
Gina elaborates on the difficulties in tying crimes to gang activities, noting that traditional gang identifiers, such as markings and territorial threats, are missing in this case. Despite the group’s gang-like intimidation tactics, there was insufficient evidence to charge them under gang-related statutes. This nuanced explanation sheds light on the frustrations felt by the community regarding the prosecution of these crimes.
The discussion then shifts to recent plea deals offered to members of the Gilbert Goons, including notable cases involving Christopher Fantastik, DeLeon Haynes, Jacob Pennington, and Garrett Bagshaw. Gina explains the implications of these deals, particularly how some offenders might only end up with misdemeanors, raising concerns about the potential for future criminal activity without a lasting felony record.
A significant portion of the podcast is devoted to Gina’s critique of Rachel Mitchell, the current county attorney', and her more lenient approach to diversion programs and plea deals. Gina emphasizes the need for a balanced justice system that ensures accountability and protects victims' rights. Gina also touches on supervised probation and the challenges in effectively monitoring offenders to prevent recidivism.
The episode wraps up with Gina’s reflections on her campaign and her commitment to restoring balance in the justice system, advocating for both victim support and fair prosecution. For more information about Gina, go to Gina for Justice, to learn more.
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In this powerful episode, Modern Divorce Host and Attorney Billie Tarascio interviews Jennie Gage, who found herself divorced and broke after adhering to traditional wife
roles dictated by her Mormon faith. Jennie recounts her journey from being a stay-at-home mom to a domestic violence advocate and social media influencer.
She emphasizes the importance of self-sufficiency and shares how she rebuilt
her life through side hustles, including furniture flipping and social media, and her recent work with a law firm helping victims of child sex abuse in the Mormon Church.
Jennie’s story serves as a cautionary tale for women who rely solely on traditional roles without safeguarding their futures. She discusses the pressures she faced to conform to her religious community's expectations and the devastating financial and emotional impacts following her divorce. Billie provides practical legal advice on the importance of post-nuptial agreements and maintaining relevant skills, even for stay-at-home moms, to ensure financial independence.
This episode highlights the need for ongoing self-reliance and preparation for unexpected life changes. Jennie’s advocacy work and her partnership with attorney Andrew Van Arsdale aim to support victims and bring about institutional change. Billie and Jennie conclude with insights into how women can better protect themselves and their children.
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In this special episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host and attorney Billie Tarascio interviews Colonel Frank Milstead, a 25-year veteran of the Phoenix Police Department and candidate for Maricopa County Sheriff. They delve into Frank's extensive law enforcement background, his leadership roles, and his vision for improving the Maricopa County Sheriff's Office and managing the crime that keeps us up at night. The discussion also touches on pressing issues like public trust in policing, crime reduction strategies, and school safety.
If you’ve been following the Gilbert Goons saga and the murder of teen Preston Lord, Frank shares his own experience losing a teen brother and how that impacted his family growing up.
Key Topics:
- Frank Milstead’s Background: Frank shares his journey from growing up in Phoenix to his extensive career in law enforcement, including his time as the Chief of Police in Mesa and the Director of the Arizona Department of Public Safety.
- DOJ Oversight: Frank explains the ongoing Department of Justice oversight of the Maricopa County Sheriff's Office, its origins, and his strategy to resolve these issues and restore trust.
- Challenges in Policing: They discuss the current challenges in policing, including media portrayal, public trust, and recruitment difficulties. Frank offers his perspective on how to rebuild trust and support for law enforcement.
- Crime Reduction Strategies: Frank outlines his plans for crime reduction in Maricopa County, emphasizing collaboration between various law enforcement agencies and transparency in communication.
- School Safety Initiatives: The conversation highlights Frank’s involvement in developing early warning systems for schools to enhance safety and his views on the importance of proactive measures.
This episode provides a deep dive into the critical issues facing law enforcement in Maricopa County from the perspective of a seasoned professional. Whether you're a concerned parent, a law enforcement professional, or a voter, this episode offers a comprehensive look at the key topics affecting your community.
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In today’s episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Modern Law attorney Hannah Bustos who opens up about her victim advocacy work in Mississippi and how it still influences her work in family law. The conversation also covers her personal experience with divorce and why she takes a special interest in building strong relationships with her clients.
- Hannah Bustos’ Background: Hanna shares her story of growing up in Arizona, attending the University of Mississippi, and immersing herself in the local culture and advocacy scene. She talks about the influences that led her to pursue a career in law.
- Experience with the Innocence Project: Hannah describes her work with the Innocence Project in Mississippi, helping to review cases of wrongful conviction and advocate for post-conviction relief. She highlights the impact of this experience on her legal perspective.
- Transition to Family Law: Hannah explains why her parents' divorce guided her towards a career in family law. She emphasizes the importance of providing compassionate and supportive legal assistance to families in transition.
- Building Client Relationships: Divorce is deeply personal and gut wrenching. Billie and Hannah discuss why trust and rapport with clients, particularly as they experience high-stress and emotional situations like divorce and custody battles is key.
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Should teens be allowed to choose which parent they want to live with? And how do step parents manage their spouse’s kids effectively? These are just some of the burning questions that get answered in latest episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, where host Billie Tarascio sits down with experienced attorney and divorced mom Ruby Becker to explore the intricacies of family law and juvenile justice.
Ruby shares her lifelong ambition to become a lawyer while a mother of a three year old. The two attorneys go over the solutions to challenges faced by individuals who cannot afford legal representation, contrasting the support provided in juvenile court – albeit with the gaps in family law.
Ruby talks about the necessity of legal counsel in family court to protect fundamental
parental rights and improve outcomes for children while handling cases
involving the Arizona Department of Child Safety.
She also shares her personal experiences as a divorced mother and stepmother, offering success tips for co-parenting and blended family dynamics. She underscores the importance of maintaining amicable relationships with ex-spouses for the benefit of the children involved. The key, she says, is staying out of disciplinary roles and focusing on building supportive relationships with stepchildren.
It’s primary season in Arizona, and this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast features Mike Crawford, retired law enforcement officer and candidate for sheriff in Maricopa County. Host Billie Tarascio and Crawford explore the challenge of running for sheriff, including Mike's motivations, his law enforcement career, his campaign journey and the unchecked teen violence that has rocked so many suburban communities.
Crawford shares why a police officer with 28 years of service decided to run for sheriff. They discuss the personal and family considerations involved in running for political office, highlighting the community impact.
Additionally, they delve into the infamous Gilbert Goons case, offering perspectives on police and prosecutorial challenges. This episode provides a candid look at the challenges facing law enforcement in Maricopa County and offers practical insights into addressing the issue of teen violence.
The discussion sheds light on the financial mismanagement within the Sheriff's Office, Crawford's plans for transparency and efficiency, and the ongoing DOJ lawsuit affecting the Sheriff's Office. He explains his strategy to bring the department into compliance and end costly fines. He also outlines his plans to implement mentoring programs targeting youth to prevent them from turning to violence.
Whether you are a parent concerned about your community, an
engaged citizen interested in local politics, or someone curious about the
inner workings of a sheriff’s campaign, this episode is packed with valuable
information.
Listen to the full episode to hear more about Mike Crawford’s vision for a safer, more transparent Maricopa County.
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In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio delves into the controversial Ruby Franke case with guests Beth Griffith, a true crime podcaster, and Jennie Gage, a social media influencer. Both guests bring unique perspectives as former members of the Mormon church. They explore the intersection of religion, parenting, and the extreme measures that led to Ruby Franke's arrest. The conversation highlights the influence of Mormon doctrines and cultural practices on the case, offering listeners a deep dive into the complexities of faith and family dynamics.
Beth Griffith and Jennie Gage discuss their backgrounds and how
their upbringing in the Mormon church has shaped their understanding of the
Ruby Franke case. Jennie, who left the church amidst domestic violence
struggles, and Beth, who turned to true crime content after her volatile
upbringing, provide insights into the cultural and doctrinal aspects that may
have influenced Franke's parenting methods. They emphasize that while Ruby's
actions were extreme, they reflect certain teachings and cultural norms within
the church.
The discussion also covers the specific disciplinary actions
taken by Ruby Franke, such as removing her child's bed and withholding food,
and how these practices might be influenced by Mormon teachings on obedience
and discipline. Beth and Jennie delve into the concept of "milk before
meat" in Mormonism, where members are gradually introduced to deeper,
sometimes more radical, doctrines. They argue that Ruby's actions were not
isolated incidents but were deeply rooted in her religious beliefs and the
pressure to achieve "perfect obedience."
Lastly, the podcast touches on the role of mental health and
support within the Mormon community. Both guests express concern about the lack
of adequate mental health resources and the emphasis on religious solutions to
personal struggles. They suggest that Ruby Franke's extreme actions might have
been exacerbated by a lack of proper mental health support and the intense
pressure to conform to religious standards. Overall, this episode of Modern
Divorce offers a compelling examination of the Ruby Franke case through the
lens of former Mormon members, shedding light on the intricate ties between
religion, parenting, and personal well-being.
In the latest episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, attorney Billie Tarascio invites city council candidate Noah Mundt to unpack the intricacies of Gilbert, Arizona's political scene. Facing the stakes of an election where four candidates vie for two crucial seats, Mundt underlines the urgent need for non-affiliated voters to participate and curb the risks of voter disengagement.
Delving deeper, Mundt shares insights from his extensive background in municipal infrastructure, highlighting his pivotal roles in the Planning Commission and the Municipal Property Corporation for Water. Currently spearheading electric vehicle program developments at SRP, he showcases his expertise vital for supporting Gilbert's booming infrastructure needs.
The discussion also turns to pressing local issues like water management. Mundt champions a tiered billing system designed to foster conservation without overwhelming the average consumer, reflecting his commitment to sustainable practices in Gilbert’s utility management.
Rounding out their conversation, Mundt critiques the existing gaps in transparency and communication between Gilbert’s officials and its community. He advocates for a digital leap forward to enhance public engagement and decision-making, ensuring residents are more connected and informed.
Tune in to hear how Mundt plans to shape a more inclusive and responsive Gilbert, tackling both the ecological and administrative challenges of a growing city.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast we take a trip into the emotional and legal intricacies of divorce, with Modern Law attorney Chris Duren who joins host Billie Tarascio to talk about what happens in a divorce case behind the scenes. With over two decades of expertise in divorce litigation, Chris unveils the often-overlooked human elements that shape these legal battles. This episode explores how divorce isn't just legal proceedings; it's a life-changing event filled with emotional and financial complexities.
Episode Highlights:
- Inside Divorce Litigation: Explore how divorce cases are more than just legal disputes—they're rapid, intense battles that require swift, precise decision-making.
- Expertise in Action: Learn how Chris’s background in diverse legal fields enhances his family law strategies, offering clients holistic legal protection.
- Navigating Emotional and Legal Challenges: Gain invaluable insights into balancing aggressive legal tactics with sensitive client interactions during a divorce.
Chris shares insights from his extensive experience in real estate, business law, and estate planning, showing how these areas influence family law outcomes. This gives him a strategic advantage in handling cases, offering a comprehensive view that goes beyond traditional legal advice.
Why Listen?
Discover the strategies behind navigating the stormy waters of divorce with compassion and legal savvy. Understand the psychological impact of divorce and how it intersects with legal strategies. Whether you're a legal professional, someone undergoing divorce, or just curious about the field, this episode promises profound insights into managing one of life's toughest challenges.
Are you in court constantly battling a vindictive ex? How do you fight back and win?
In this very important episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Lisa Johnson, a high conflict parenting strategist and legal abuse expert. This discussion is essential listening for anyone caught in a divorce with an ex whose goal is to ruin you emotionally and financially.
Lisa shares her personal journey through a grueling nine-year legal struggle, providing a glimpse into the exact tactics that saved her time, money, and emotional distress. She also discusses the critical importance of emotional management and persuasive communication in court—skills that she mastered while representing herself against a relentless ex-spouse.
The episode also covers strategies for dealing with high-conflict individuals (aka Nuclear!), offering practical advice on adjusting your approach to ensure constructive negotiations. Lisa's expertise shines as she explains how to stay focused and effective in the face of legal and personal challenges.
Don't miss out on these expert insights—listen today to learn how to navigate your divorce proceedings with confidence and composure.
Find Lisa online at BeenThereGotOut.com to find out more. You can also email her direction at Lisa@beentheregotout.com.
Should teens be allowed – by law – to decide which parent they should live with after a divorce? Legislators are looking at a bill in Arizona that may upset some divorcing parents who find themselves with no parenting time even though they are considered “fit parents.”
This episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, with host Billie Tarascio, features Laura Chapman, a seasoned family law attorney to talk about the realities of divorce, including a candid discussion into the proposed state legislation that would allow teens to choose which parent they live with - and why that may bring some unintended consequences with longterm effects.
Laura's decade-long tenure in Maricopa County's courts informs her compassionate approach to guiding clients through the complexities of family law. As they explore the post-COVID landscape of family law practice, topics range from the virtues and challenges of virtual court appearances to the pivotal role of digital tools in client support.
The episode not only unveils Laura's professional ethos but also offers a glimpse into her personal life as a young single mother, from soccer matches with her daughters to engaging in fitness challenges. Tune in for a comprehensive exploration of modern family law, and reach out with inquiries or topic suggestions at info@mymodernlaw.com.
In this eye-opening special edition episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Matson Browning, an expert in gang enforcement, to dissect the complexities of the Gilbert Goons case. Browning’s background brings much-needed clarity to the criteria for classifying what constitutes a gang, shedding light on the case's intricacies, including the controversy surrounding the police report and gang identification standards.
The discussion takes a critical look at local law enforcement's response to the Gilbert Goons, calling out systemic failures and advocating for more robust, proactive community protection measures. Browning emphasizes the importance of early intervention, particularly in schools, and the need for city officials to prioritize safety over image.
This episode underscores the gravity of gang violence in communities and the collective responsibility to confront these issues openly. As Matson and Billie highlight the necessary steps for community action and accountability, the episode serves as a wake-up call to listeners to stay informed and involved – not just in Gilbert, Arizona, but any locale where bullying and gangs are allowed to fester.
Stay tuned and engaged with the Modern Divorce Podcast for more insightful discussions where we look at local issues that connect with the law. Your feedback is crucial—like, download, and review, and let us know your thoughts on this significant community issue.
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Mixing up two families is no small task. Why are some people good at it, and others not so much?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast with host Billie Tarascio, we’re cutting through the sugar-coated advice and serving up some honest wisdom with Lori and Dave Sims of Nacho Kids They’ve mastered the art of blending—not in the kitchen, but in life.
🎧 Listening highlights:
- Strategies to turn tension into togetherness that are realistic, not fairytale.
- The 'nacho' method that could be the key ingredient you’re missing.
- Stories from the Sims' own kitchen table proving that happiness in a stepfamily is not just an ideal, it's achievable.
Forget about the Brady Bunch: The Sims family talks in reality, and the struggles they had developing a method that worked.
You can find out more at NachoKids.com and at NachoKidsAcademy.com.
Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio welcomes parenting coach and divorce expert, Christina McGhee, who shares her practical advice and top parenting strategies to help children through the monumental changes divorce brings.
This week’s episode starts with a powerful example, with McGhee emphasizing early and effective support for parents, and how it can dramatically improve outcomes for children. With plenty of personal reflections from the host, McGhee provides a key piece of advice: children must feel secure in sharing their emotions about the divorce.
With real-life anecdotes from McGhee’s coaching, listeners will hear how children have learned to speak openly about the experience as just another chapter in their lives.The episode also tackles the more challenging aspects of divorce, particularly high-conflict scenarios. The experts dissect how to manage continuous conflict and provide stability, which can be crucial for children's long-term adjustment.
For more divorce tools, you can find Christina McGhee online at DivorceAndChildren.com
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio digs into the world of family law for professional athletes, who have to closely guard their privacy and money matters during the legal process. She is joined by an expert in the field, family law attorney Rich Harris and founder of the Harris Law Firm in Colorado, who has built a unique system to protect his high-flying clients, emphasizing confidentiality and discretion as paramount concerns.
So how can an average person keep his or her money and marriage details private in a legal world that makes things public information?
The episode explores the ways it’s possible to manage public profiles and high-income levels during divorce or paternity cases. Harris details his processes, including a separate entry process and use of pseudonyms, to maintain utmost privacy even within his office. He also discusses the potential complexities in child support and asset division for athletes and high income earners, noting the importance of tailored strategies that consider fluctuating incomes and career longevity.
Pre and postnuptial agreements are underscored as crucial tools, with Harris advising proactive legal steps to establish paternity and parental rights. The impact of social media on family law disputes is also a focal point, where Harris advocates for cautious online behavior given the potential for posts to be used as evidence.
The takeaways for those of us who don’t have multi-million sports contracts are how to apply privacy controls over what can become public fodder in social media and through public information sources.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio, sits down with Natalie DiBernardo, a candidate for Mayor in Gilbert, the well-heeled Phoenix suburb at the crossroads of a public safety crisis after gangs of affluent teens terrorized their peers, resulting in the death of a 16-year-old.
DiBernardo shares her reasons for jumping into the race, emphasizing her strong roots in Gilbert a desire to better reflect the community's voice in local government. In recent months, community members have loudly demonstrated their outrage in the city's response to gang violence, with the current mayor offering to step down at the end of her term.
The two discuss DiBernardo's key policy initiatives, including enhancing public safety in light of recent violence by the so-called "Gilbert Goons," promoting responsible urban growth, and improving infrastructure to match the town's rapid expansion. She highlights the necessity of bridging the communication gap between the government and its citizens, advocating for increased transparency and collaborative problem-solving sessions.
Bringing a personal touch to her political vision, DiBernardo shares her family's tragic experience with violence, underlining her commitment to addressing systemic issues within policing and public safety. Her approach centers on empathy, accountability, and community unity, aiming to steer Gilbert towards a future where leadership is responsive and inclusive of all residents' voices.
The episode not only outlines DiBernardo's strategies for tackling Gilbert's challenges but also serves as a call to action for residents to engage actively in their community's governance. It underscores the importance of leadership that is in tune with the community’s needs, advocating for a collaborative path forward in addressing the town’s growth and safety concerns.
What if your teen got into a group fight that caused someone’s death resulting in a murder charge? In Arizona, says criminal defense attorney Mark Mendoza, a conviction on murder charges is a minimum sentence of life in prison. One of the teens charged with murder by a Grand Jury in Maricopa County was included because he recorded the incident on his phone.
That should strike fear into any parent whose kiddo hangs out with the wrong crowd or gets involved in the type of fight clubs that spawned the so-called Gilbert Goons. Charges also have been filed against parents of one of those charged, similar to the now-jailed parents of a teen who was found guilty in a school shooting.
Today’s episode is from the March 7 2023 live stream with host Billie Tarascio and Mark Mendoza, a former Maricopa County prosecutor, who answer parents' questions and talk about the arrests and murder charges against 7 teenagers in Gilbert Arizona who are being charged with the tragic murder of 16 year old Preston Lord who died after a beating at a Halloween Party in 2023. The Gilbert Goons story, and the murder charges are a cautionary tale that parents need to hear, and they need to share with their teens.
In the wake of harrowing incidents of teen violence that have shaken an Arizona suburb, the Modern Divorce Podcast presents a powerful narrative of redemption and advocacy. Host Billie Tarascio sits down with Eric Hebert, a man whose turbulent past led him down a path of incarceration and unexpected fatherhood at just 14. Now, armed with hard-earned wisdom and a fervent desire to make a difference, Eric shares his journey from youthful missteps to community activism.
As the details of the tragic event unfold – seven arrests, potential life sentences, and the loss of a 16-year-old – Eric's story offers an honest and unique perspective on the consequences of impulsive decision-making. With candor and courage, he reflects on the circumstances that led to his own imprisonment and the profound impact it had on his life and those around him.
But Eric's narrative is not one of despair; it's a testament to the power of second chances. Through his transformation from inmate to advocate, he is speaking out to keep teens from going down the same path. Ultimately, he says, the key to safeguard kids is in the hands of parents. Eric offers practical advice to parents grappling with the fear of their children being caught up in the same cycle of violence.
Join Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio on the latest episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast as she delves deep into the heart of Maricopa County's criminal justice system alongside guest Gina Godbehere, candidate for Maricopa County District Attorney. With a surge in teen violence and recent headlines dominated by the tragic murder of 16-year-old Preston Lord, families are questioning public safety officials about how they’re doing their jobs. Gina doesn't shy away from tough questions about the state of Arizona's criminal justice system. From concerns about downgraded cases to the need for firmer accountability measures, she lays out a compelling case for change.
Gina brings a wealth of experience to the table, drawing from her 25-year tenure with the Maricopa County Attorney's office. Her insights shed light on pressing issues such as the rise of the Gilbert Goons and the challenges posed by an increasingly porous border. Through her nonprofit, 'Speak up! Stand up! Save a Life', Gina champions proactive community engagement as a vital tool in crime prevention, urging listeners to confront the root causes of violence head-on.
Gina can be found at http://www.ginaforjustice.com. You can also reach her by email at Vote@ginaforjustice.com.
Interest rates are high, affordable rents are hard to find. What happens when your divorce means having to sell your home?
In today's Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio is joined by Arizona real estate agent Zach Nuetzman who specializes in dealing with divorcing couples who find themselves needing to sell their home. In some cases, one party will keep the home, and buy out the other by getting a new loan when it's feasible.
The situation can be fraught with disagreement, but knowing what you can and can't do may help smoothe the path for a reasonably quick homesale. Zach talks about situations he's dealt with and the current market influences that can mean a lot to your bottom line.
To connect with Zach and decide what's right for you, go to ZachSellsAZ.com.
In the gripping new episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio sits down with Amanda Diacos, whose divorce turned into a nightmare when her ex waged a war to alienate her from their daughter, falsely claiming Amanda had no desire to communicate or be with her child. Trapped in this heart-wrenching situation for three years, Amanda finally gathered the resources to fight back legally. Her story culminates in a landmark court decision that has set tongues wagging nationwide.
Dive deep into Amanda's harrowing journey as she recounts the battle against her ex's attempts at parental alienation—a battle that led to an Arizona judge's groundbreaking ruling, denouncing such alienation as a form of domestic violence. Amanda lays bare the strategies she employed to turn the tide in her favor and offers invaluable insights for others facing similar ordeals, emphasizing how critical it is to convincingly present your case to the court.
In today's episode, Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio, mom to teens in Gilbert, brings in Richard Lyons, a trial attorney who is the first to file civil charges against the Gilbert Goons, their parents, and the schools for not taking appropriate actions to stop the violent bullying that hurt so many, and caused Preston Lord's death.
The so-called Gilbert Goons have been entertaining themselves by randomly beating up local teens in Phoenix's East Valley . While some criminal charges have been filed, law enforcement and prosecutors have not done nearly enough to satisfy parents and residents in the local communities.
It's the first long interview by Lyons, who explains the drivers behind the civil lawsuits against parents of the Goons, and the Chandler School District. The $6 million lawsuit goes after a host of players who are being asked to damages for not keeping kids safe or removing known violent bullies from the classroom.
For anyone who is sick of rampant bullying that goes unchecked in schools, and those who have been following the Goons case, this is a must listen with plenty of legal sauce and behind the scenes insight.
Can we actually stop violence in schools that authorities have not been able to shut down? Host Billie Tarascio, in another special edition podcast, is back to talk more about the Gilbert Goons situation in Gilbert, Arizona. Mayoral candidate for the City of Gilbert, Shane Krauser joins the program to talk about how to rebuild the community's trust in the wake of the Goons mess, and the death of teen Preston Lord.
The city, and other cities in the Phoenix area, are dealing with angry citizens who demand to know why authorities have not more responsive in shutting down teen violence that led to Preston's death. Several other teens have been victims of the Goons who have entertained themselves with seemingly random beatings, intimidation and threats. Shane, who has experience prosecuting gang violence as an attorney, talks about how he'd approach the problem and how to clean up the city.
Wouldn't you like your child to have the "cheat code" to success for the rest of their life?
Heck, yeah! Today's kids are growing up connected more to their devices than to each other, creating an unprecedented change in children leaving them vulnerable to isolation, with an extra helping of helplessness. For listeners of the Modern Divorce Podcast, it may be a child suffering the emotional issues of a newly split family. But that can change, with real relationships that develop emotional intelligence and self confidence.
But how do we get there? In today's episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Host Billie Tarascio talks with Jilli P and Mary Fran, the founders of Girls Mentorship, a program to help girls from 9 and up to find new connections with real depth and meaning with not only their peers, but others from different age groups.
Jilli P and Mary Fran talk about what it takes to get both girls (and, coming soon, boys) to a position of strength and confidence. You can find out more about the program at GirlsMentorship.com
In the wake of a criminal case that found a mother guilty for manslaughter in the school shooting committed by her teenage son, the stakes for a child acting out are high. While most situations are far less explosive, there are nevertheless situations where kids acting out inappropriately can put a parent in legal jeopardy, and threaten to tear a family apart.
What to do? In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Modern Law Attorney Maleah Woodward, who brings her perspective on mental health and parental responsibility in the courtroom.
Maleah, who started as a licensed family and marriage therapist, found herself working with families with juveniles who had committed a sex offense. It was in the courtroom that she discovered her help might be more strongly delivered as an attorney. She also adds her insights as a single mom taking on foster children who she later adopted.
This is a must-listen for anyone struggling with the behavior of their kids, particularly in a household split by divorce.
When you're investing in a top-tier attorney to handle your divorce, you want confidence that they're meeting your needs. But how can you be sure?
Discover some little known methods to unveil the truth and track your legal progress. The good news is, there are proven ways to maximize your attorney's value and keep a close eye on their performance. Join the Modern Divorce Podcast as host Billie Tarascio, a family law expert, sits down with Brian King, a seasoned South Carolina family attorney. They share their insights on assessing your attorney and deciding if it's time for a change, drawing from their experience managing legal teams.
When Gilbert, Arizona resident Rick Keuhner was forced to send his teenage son out of the country to live with his mom, it was the last straw. His son had been beaten three times by local thugs, dubbed the Gilbert Goons, who continuously threatened the boy via social media and in school. A video of the latest beating and texts identifying the perpetrators were handed to police and the school, yet nothing was done to keep the teen from being terrorized.
Still worse, when local boy Preston Lord was murdered by a similar beating at a Halloween party in 2023, with videos showing the event, no arrests were made, in part because police had not thought to link any of the local beatings by many of the same kids.
Modern Divorce host and attorney Billie Tarascio talks with Rick about what happened, when, and why Gilbert police Chief said there was "no probably cause" to arrest the one responsible, much less his cohorts. This episode looks at the legal issues at hand, and what to do when your child is bullied. When adults don't help, what happens when a child is pushed beyond their limits?
How do you get back into dating after a divorce while avoiding poseurs, thieves and players? Can an intelligent professional woman find someone decent online?
Modern Law Attorney and 2016 Marathon Olympian Lanni Marchant joins Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio to talk about online support groups for women: specifically the "Are We Dating The Same Guy" group.
As an attorney, Lanni has a special interest in watching the areas that overlap into family law, and her involvement in the group brings some interesting insights for newly divorce women looking to jump back into the dating game after being dissatisfied with dating apps filled with questionable hookups and men pretending to be something they're not.
Gilbert Arizona is a highly sought-after suburb of Phoenix where parents can find nice homes in safe surroundings. But that visage of safety was shattered when a teenager, Preston Lord, at a 2023 Halloween party was murdered by a mob of Gilbert and neighboring Queen Creek teens who call themselves the Gilbert Goons. As social media pages started lighting up with videos of the event, along with other disturbing pictures of random Fight Club-style beatings, drugs and weapons appeared. Parents began demanding police take action.
One of many issues in the community is the time that has passed since many of the crimes by the Goons have taken place. Has law enforcement and schools done enough to weed out the criminals?
In today's episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio steps into the world of a criminal defense attorney, Ryan McPhie of the Grand Canyon Law Group, who shares a deep dive into what teens and parents who are protecting them could be facing when it comes to the charges that are still to come. Will they be facing jail time, fines or more?
As of this recording, the first assault charges were announced as of January 10, 2024 against a few of the Goons, but the community is still clamoring for more, and still asking when will someone be arrested for the murder of Preston Lord?
Is your Soon To Be Ex hiding money or keeping you from having access to it?
Look, we know domestic violence is abuse. But what about when one spouse keeps the other from having access to money, including some or all accounts, along with hiding statements, credit cards and bills.
It's called financial abuse, and it plays a part in many a divorce. In today's episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Arizona family law attorney and host Billie Tarascio, and New York attorney Lisa Zeiderman, talk about how to spot financial abuse, and what can be done about it.
Pro tip: for those who have not yet filed their divorce, the differences between how New York and Arizona (and many other states) treat financial calculations for child support and alimony, aka spousal support, is very different, and it can make a difference in the outcome of one spouse's financial status over the other at the end of a divorce. If you have your foot in two states, and not sure where to file for divorce, listen in to find out more.
To connect with Lisa, whose lawfirm specializes in the equitable distribution of marital assets, drop by her website at LisaZeiderman.com
So what happens when one parent doesn't return your child home? Or your kiddo shows off scratches or bruises they picked up at your ex's house? Or worse, talks about drug paraphernalia or weapons at their 'other' house.
Is it time to call police? Maybe. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, family law attorney and host Billie Tarascio talks with longtime friend, police lieutenant Doug Mozan to discuss these scenarios and more. You'll find out when to call police, and when they will pass on something you think is important.
This episode is packed with definitive information that all single parents
should hear. When dealing with an ex who doesn't follow the rules of a parenting agreement to driving under the influence, it's important to know when to pick up the phone and ask for help from law enforcement or your family law attorney.
Something very weird is going on in our host's backyard, the town of Gilbert, Arizona. Billed as one of the safest cities of its size in the country, the facade has been pierced by the October murder of a teenage boy in a nearby town with ties to a 'fight club' group based in Gilbert calling itself the Gilbert Goons.
Parents have been alarmed at uncovering a collection of ill-conceived social media posts among high schoolers in the area showing drugs, weapons and "thrill beatings" that have been taking place with some regularity over the past year - all without any apparent action by law enforcement.
In this special episode, Billie Tarascio, as a concerned mother of teenagers, talks with criminal defense attorney Lance Standage, based in Kansas, who pulls back the curtain on what happens when gang-like activity occurs and how police and the FBI put together a case.
As an ardent social media poster herself, Billie has been getting private messages from many local parents who have asked her to explain the legal aspects of the case, and shed some light on why no arrests have been made so far.
Discover the startling truth about the long-lasting psychological effects of divorce conflicts on children in this eye-opening episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast. Did you know that as many as 1 in 4 children of divorce endure these profound consequences? This is a staggering statistic, especially when compared to just 1 in 10 children from non-divorce families facing similar challenges.
Join our host, Billie Tarascio, as she dives into this crucial topic with special guest, Dr. Karey O'Hara, Assistant Professor of Psychology at Arizona State University. Dr. O'Hara shares her groundbreaking research findings on the mental health of children following parental separation and divorce. The insights she provides are not only enlightening but have far-reaching implications for divorced parents everywhere.
In this fascinating conversation, you'll discover:
- Practical steps and strategies parents can take to support their children through these challenges.
- How divorce can influence parents' life choices and relationships.
- Why Dr. O'Hara believes this issue has become a national health concern.
If you're a divorced parent or know someone who is, this episode is a must-listen. Dr. Karey O'Hara's ongoing research project, Project Brain Team is still open to participants ages 9-12. You can connect with her on LinkedIn if you'd like to have your child take part.
Step into the world of high-conflict divorce on the Modern Divorce Podcast, where we tackle a pressing issue head-on: Parental Alienation. Today's important espisode features Reunification Family Therapist, Cathy Himlin, of Himlin Consulting, teaming up with family law attorney and host, Billie Tarascio, to unpack the elements of this complex phenomenon and equip you with the essential parenting skills you needto rebuild a connection with your child.
In this important episode, Cathy shares some amazing insights driving Parental Alienation, including:
- The surprising truth behind why even 'nice guy' parents can find themselves on the outside looking in
- The contentious issues surrounding reunification camps
- The hidden layers of grief that silently shape family dynamics.
- How children absorb their parents' emotions like sponges
- The detrimental effects of permissive parenting
- The stages of child developmental that can potentially influence on parental rejection
Even if you're the parent who is spending the majority of time with your child, this episode unveils a host of issues that every single parent should be aware of. To find Cathy, you can connect with her on Facebook and Linkedin.
How can a well-known personality test help make your life smoother, influence and negotiate your divorce, and give you turbo power with dealing with kiddos, family and worklife? Meet Tracy O'Malley, who shares the nine powerful personality types of the Enneagram system with Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio in today's episode.
Tracy taught all the attorneys at Modern Law how to use these tools, and the reports back were that the Enneagram - done right - was "life changing." Billie brings Tracy to the mic so you can learn how to hack your interactions with people to find new success in your life.
As many as 75% of divorces are filed by women: are they getting what they need and want? In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Host Billie Tarascio joins Erin Levine, founder of Hello Divorce, to talk about the latest trends in divorce including elements that can turn a bad divorce agreement into something that works for both sides now and in the future.
For instance, this episode covers new methods to get highly functional parenting plans, including pets in the agreement, avoiding traditional divorce destruction, and creative ways to deal with the family home in today's high interest, high-cost real estate market.
Erin and Billie have similar goals in working to make divorce easier, cheaper, and more effective. In Erin's case, as a family law attorney with Levine Family Law in San Francisco, her Hello Divorce platform includes automating legal and financial logistics, offering on-demand access to experts, and providing support in resolving conflicts and reaching agreements. Billie, meanwhile, offers low cost services through Modern Law and IDoOver.life with affordable help from a legal paraprofessional, in addition to do-it-yourself attorney guidance on WinWithoutLawSchool.com
Erin and Billie also discussed how their platforms are different from traditional legal services, with Hello Divorce offering a collaborative approach that opts out of the adversarial system. Erin mentioned that over 125,000 people actively use the platform each month, with many using it to prepare for or navigate the divorce process. They also discussed data they've collected showing that 70-75% of divorces are filed by women and that people are spending more time thinking creatively about their agreements.
In this compelling episode of "Modern Divorce," host Billie Tarascio delves into the captivating world of a long-running TLC reality show centered around Kody Brown and his four wives. While bigamy is unquestionably illegal, this polygamist family has somehow navigated the complexities of plural marriage from their home base in Arizona.
Join Billie and Sarah Encarnacion, Modern Law's Marketing Manager, as they embark on a thought-provoking journey through the intricate web of personal and legal challenges facing this unique family. Sarah admits she's been a longtime fan of this show, and she brings a host of questions from the Sister Wives Facebook group who want to know: "How is that even legal?"
Discover the surprising twists and "ah-ha" moments related to child support, marital finances, and property issues, both within and beyond the bounds of matrimony. As the relationships among family members begin to unravel, you'll find out the answers to perplexing questions of who pays for what and who truly owns what in this enthralling exploration of modern relationships and their legal implications.
What is custodial interference and how is this used to keep one parent away from another?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio, along with Modern Law contributor (and mom) Nancy Conrad, discuss in depth a unique custodial interference case from Arizona, where a teenage son, Blaze Thibaudeau, was abruptly taken out of state and into the wilderness by his mother. The case was unusual because it involved a potential harm to the child due to the mother's belief in an impending apocalypse.
The father's lawyer successfully argued that the teen was in immediate and irreparable harm, leading to an arrest warrant and charges being filed. That allowed the FBI to step in and arrest the mother as she tried to enter Alaska through Canada.
This particular case is compared to two other outrageous custodial interference cases that Billie has worked on. For anyone concerned about their child's safety around the other parent, and worrying about whether their child will be "kidnapped" by family, this is a must-listen for what to do, when to do it, and how to make it happen.
After a long-time marriage, how do you juggle the emotional needs of the kids after a divorce while rebuilding your life?
Joining Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio is Zach Dees, a business owner who found himself divorcing two years ago after running out of options to fix his marriage. In today's episode, Zach talks about how he navigates the muddy world of single dad dating, and the sometimes bewildering transition into single life when there's no playbook for doing it right.
When a Maryland judge, who recognized the signs of domestic violence in a divorce proceding, ruled against a father, he had little idea that he would be shot to death in his driveway just hours later. Elsewhere, in Arizona, a judge asked for an armed guard to be present at all times in the divorce courtroom, yet the children of the marriage were still allowed to stay with dad without any oversight or conditions.
What's happening with domestic violence cases in the courtroom, and why are the grim statistics getting worse? In today's special episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Bille Tarascio presents a sobering picture of domestic violence cases that's put everyone on edge.
If you're not sure if you're situation would be considered domestic violence, check out the Power Wheel for signs that you may need to take action to keep yourself safe.
Divorce Coach Karen McMahon is back, bringing receipts with real-world high conflict divorce strategies.
In this episode, Karen and Modern Divorce Podcast host Billie Tarascio, who are both seasoned pros when it comes to handling divorce drama, dive deep into a topic that hits home for many parents: how to talk to your kids about divorce when things are blowing up.
Billie and Karen break down the whole "high-conflict vs. amicable divorce" thing. They stress that when the fireworks are exploding, you've got to handle the kid conversation differently. Karen drops some wisdom about keeping things calm, not pointing fingers, and assuring your kids that both Mom and Dad will always be there for them. She even shares a personal story about how things can go south fast when parents don't lay that solid foundation of support during a divorce.
This special podcast covers a number of ways to put out the flareups of divorce so, whether you're dealing with a high-conflict split or just curious, this podcast will leave you with some lasting insights and a sense of how to handle it all with a little more grace.
For more ideas on how to survive your high conflict divorce, sign up for the free Divorce Summit Nov. 13-17, 2023, at jbddivorcesupport.com/summit2023
Have you left a relationship with a coercive controller?
- Is your child going between your home and the home of the coercive controller? What can you do about it, and how can you manage it both personally and in the court?
- Is your child exhibiting fear? Look for the hidden signs manifested in sadness, anger, high-achieving, or dissociating.
These are some of the areas we talk about today in the Modern Divorce Podcast featuring Billie Tarascio and Dr. Christine Cocchiola, LCSW, DWS, a coercive control educator and social justice advocate. Dr. Cocchiola offers powerful advice and information about what to look for when it comes to domestic abuse and the harms inflicted onto both adult and child victims.
Herself a survivor, she’s had a successful career as a professor teaching social work for the last 20 years, she has been a social justice advocate since the age of 19, volunteering for a local domestic violence/sexual assault agency. Her expertise is in the areas of coercive control and the traumatic experiences of both adult and child victims, researching and developing training on these topics both nationally and internationally and supporting clients with her clinical expertise.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with an Arizona father of four, Ken Crockett, who talks about his long court battle to get regular - and fair - parenting time with his kids. Ken is a moderator who helps others navigating similar situations on the Modern Divorce Facebook Group.
Ken's ex moved out of town, making a 50-50 split impossible. Ken talks about what arrangements he made and how his uphill battle eventually led to the climactic win he was hoping for.
If you'd like to talk with Ken, jump into the Modern Divorce Facebook Group, where you'll be able to chat online with him and others who have gone through the arduous court system. You can also find him on LinkedIn here.
Cinderella's wicked stepmom may have set the mold for the concept of bad step parents, but the reality is, once a mom and dad are divorced and repartnered with a new step parent, it's possible to work out the daily issues once everyone understands how to stay in their own lane. But do they?
In today's Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio joins her mom Nancy Conrad to discuss the daily push and pull of step parents after divorce, and to identify when to get help from an attorney when things get bad. It's all about YOUR questions that have come in on the Modern Divorce Facebook group, and on TikTok from frustrated moms and dads wondering how the heck to manage that step parent that they didn't choose, and maybe didn't want.
To jump in on the discussion, join the Modern Divorce Facebook group where you'll be able to share, cry, moan and ask any questions that have to do with your divorce, and we'll do our best to answer them!
It's blended family month at the Modern Divorce Podcast, and host Billie Tarascio joins with two experienced parents who've got a system you can use to make your blended family life more successful - and sane.
It's hard enough raising a family under any circumstances, but blending a family can be an especially difficult process as you build relationships between step siblings and step parents. Dr James and Ginger Dellaripa of Scottsdale, Arizona, blended their family of 5 children as younger parents, and developed a set of tools through trial and error that turned into their Family Resource Planning System. They share many of the specifics on today's show to keep you from feeling out of control, and keep your kiddos grounded and secure.
You can find The Family Core and check out its resources and videos here.
Today's podcast gives you a peek behind the scenes at Modern Law with Client Advocate Kendra Stephanski, who is typically the first contact people speak with when they call Modern Law for help.
In this episode, we hear about Kendra's work on the DEI Committee (Diversity, Equity & Inclusion) where she explains why she believes in it and how she's driving the efforts to serve all varieties of cultural, racial, ethnic and gender influences. Because Modern Law continues to grow and bring in new talent to help others with their family law issues, Kendra explains why she's intent on opening up avenues of outreach through DEI.
This podcast is a must listen for anyone considering where to work in the world of family law.
Finding a way to escape the unending stress of divorce can be a very real issue. The stress begins to take a toll on your body, creating mental and physical impacts. A couple glasses of wine might be an easy fix, but that's temporary, and doesn't solve the problem. Then along comes Morgan Rysdon, our guest today on the Modern Divorce Podcast who tells host Billie Tarascio about who she became a practitioner of The Alexander Method and why this century-old technique can teach you how to unplug effectively from the strain divorce.
Morgan, a nationally certified Alexander instructor, demonstrates 4 free techniques in her video here. She's suggests using the Alexander Technique to manage and reduce anxiety, and stay present with your body with ease and comfort during even the most difficult of times. Having accessible skills to better manage one's stress levels in the midst of (the chaos that is) divorce can be life-saving.
After divorce, it's not so uncommon for a child to pick the parent they want to be with, and avoid - or even stop speaking to - the other. In this episode, we dive deep into the complex and emotionally charged topic of parental alienation. Join us as we explore the nuances of this issue and discuss its impact on families, legal proceedings, and the lives of children caught in the crossfire. Your host, Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio, answers questions we've collected and shares the realities of how parental alienation manifests, its controversies, and potential solutions.
Episode Highlights:
- Introduction to Parental Alienation: We begin by defining parental alienation and its historical context, touching on its emergence over the years and its increasing relevance in family court proceedings.
- Courtroom Dynamics: Billie sheds light on how parental alienation is perceived within the courtroom. We discuss whether it helps or hinders the resolution of family disputes and the role of judges in identifying and addressing cases of alienation.
- Debunking Misconceptions: Billie Tarascio shares her perspective on the term "parental alienation" as a potentially misleading buzzword. She emphasizes the importance of approaching the concept with nuance and unpacks the controversies surrounding its validity.
- Classic Parental Alienation Cases: In a classic parental alienation case example, Billie discusses the red flags judges look for, such as drastic changes in a child's relationship with one parent and complete rejection of the targeted parent by the child.
- Real-life Example: A recent case involving a 14-year-old caught in a parental alienation scenario is explored, highlighting the court's decision to enforce a reunification camp as a means of intervention.
- Challenges and Impact: The emotional toll on children and families affected by parental alienation is discussed. We explore the lasting impact of severed relationships and the complex web of loyalty binds that ensue.
- Prevention and Resolution: Practical strategies for preventing parental alienation and rebuilding relationships without relying solely on legal channels are explored. The importance of maintaining boundaries and enforcing parenting time is emphasized.
- Parallel Parenting: We delve into the concept of parallel parenting for situations where cooperative co-parenting is not feasible. The benefits and challenges of parallel parenting are discussed as an alternative approach.
This episode is packed with even more pearls on what to do about the problem and and when you should avoid going to the court for help. Whether you're a parent navigating a divorce or simply interested in understanding the intricacies of parental alienation, this episode offers valuable insights, expert opinions, and potential avenues for healing fractured family dynamics. Join us for this enlightening conversation that sheds light on an issue affecting countless families worldwide.
What does a legal paraprofessional do, and why is this new professional designation saving people money? In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks about the behind the scenes work that goes into managing the divorce process with Legal Paraprofessional Rebekah Chapman. As part of the support team at Modern Law, she works directly with attorneys and can even act as an attorney does in the courtroom. Having this kind of support team is a game changer when it comes to divorce.
Tough guys need a break sometimes. Since men are often encouraged from an early age to suppress their emotions, it can significantly and detrimentally affect their emotional intelligence. Studies show this can affect their earning power as well. So how do you fix that?
Dr. Audra Horney, a Mesa, Arizona-based psychologist, says her clientele is mostly men who need to find a safe space to cry, unload, process and delete some of the emotional turmoil of a divorce. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio hears from a therapist in the trenches with men, who are finding it's okay for them to seek mental health assistance through a particularly trying time.
Dr. Audra can be found online at Modern Therapy AZ.
Dr. Carolyn Kurle joins Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio to talk about the mental and emotional challenges that come with a divorce, like knowing when to leave, understanding your urge to stay, and when it's okay to let yourself off the hook for decisions made when you first decided to marry.
It's a complicated process, but one Dr. Kurle says is pressured by false stories we tell ourselves. If we can learn how to quiet our minds and listen to our gut level instincts that come from wisdom rather than outside influences, then we can understand whether leaving a marriage and dealing with the future from this new perspective is something we're ready for.
Dr. Kurle’s book, The Guidance Groove, teaches how to recognize our internal false stories so we can learn to discover where they come from and how they breed inauthenticity.
For anyone who is second guessing their choice to leave a marriage, this podcast promises to shed some clarity on those decisions.
"Leave him," they say (Or her, as the case may be) when there's violence and abuse involved. It's not a switch you can turn off easily, says Dr. Lisa Fontes, who specializes in trainings to resolve domestic violence cases and abuse. In today's podcast, with host Billie Tarascio of Modern Law, Dr. Fontes talks about the very complicated issues involving domestic violence and coercive control before, during and after divorce.
Especially when it comes to the legal process of divorce, coercive control can continue through frivolous and expensive court filings, parental visitation and support manipulations. Dr. Fontes calls them out, talks about their signs, and what can be done about it.
Dr. Fontes, author of Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control in Your Intimate Relationship, also works as an expert witness in legal cases related to child abuse and intimate partner violence (or coercive control), particularly where cultural issues are relevant. As a fluent speaker of Spanish and Portuguese, she researches and trains in these languages as well as English, across the U.S. and other countries.
Today's podcast episode features Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio talking with our featured guest, Shane Ross, the latest addition to the talented team of attorneys at Modern Law. Shane arrives with an impressive track record in commercial real estate, which is proving to be an invaluable background for those who are divorcing.
Understanding real estate is crucial in the realm of family law as it often involves determining who retains ownership of various assets and how these assets are divided. Shane's expertise makes him an invaluable resource for anyone finding themselves in such complicated situations, especially when it pertains to residential properties.
In addition to his professional credentials, Shane also enjoys acquiring land in his personal life, furthering his understanding of real estate dynamics. In this podcast, he shares his personal journey into this and other areas today.
In this eye-opening podcast dealing with couples who, Modern Divorce Host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio, talks with Arizona's leading military divorce legal expert, Tucson-based attorney Matt Randle, as they delve into the complex legal world of military divorces.
Matt answers the questions, and more, about such things as:
1. What happens when one party is deployed during a divorce process?
2. Does a deployed parent lose rights when they can't attend court dates?
3. How does parenting time get split when one parent is serving in the military?
4. When domestic violence prompts a 'no guns allowed' rule, how does the military handle that?
5. What happens to on-base housing rights when one party is forced to leave the home?
As a veteran himself, Matt has been called upon to train family law attorneys in this special area of concern due to the overlapping requirements of the law, and of the military. He can be found at the law firm of Randall, Palmer and Bernas or by calling (520) 327-1409.
Lacking the funds to hire an attorney is a big problem in the U.S., but a new alternative to using an attorney for your divorce was recently made legal in Arizona. Combining the detail work and "heavy lifting" of document preparation from a paralegal, and mixing in the courtroom work of an attorney, is the newly designated licensed Legal Paraprofessional.
In today's Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Christy Farmer, one of the first LP's licensed in Arizona and already taking on divorce cases that would otherwise need an attorney. Christy describes what it takes to step into this new role and how she has adapted from being a paralegal to standing up in court and arguing cases for clients. Hint: She loves that part!
So far, Arizona, Oregon, Utah, Colorado, New Hampshire, and Minnesota have active licensing programs, while California, New Mexico, South Carolina and North Carolina are considering creating of similar programs to help legal consumers.
Divorce can be the most dangerous time for those who have experienced domestic violence. It can also be tricky inside the law office working on your case, if your ex is crazy, angry and ready to lash out.
In this special episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Host Billie Tarascio talks with Caitlin Lindahl, a law office manager who has had to create safety plans and manage the crazies who might think they'll come by the office (or yours!) to do something foolish. Caitlin talks about the training and steps to take to protect yourself both at your workplace and your home.
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It's not uncommon for grandparents to stand in as parents ("in loco parentis") when mom or dad are away, at work, deployed, or even in jail. But when the parents divorce and parenting time is split up, what rights do grandparents have to see their grandkids and continue their relationship?
It's a heartbreaking situation for grandparents with close and ongoing relationships with the kids. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with divorce attorney Heather Pelaez about her work to establish grandparents rights in court, influenced largely by her background and family experience. It's not an easy process, but it's possible with the right steps, which she explains.
Jump to [00:13:47] for the beginning of the discussion about grandparents, but listen to the whole thing to hear what drives Heather and why she loves to argue on behalf of people who need an advocate.
What influences relationship choices on a subconscious level and how can they lead to divorce? In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Host Billie Tarascio talks with relationship sleuth and divorce coach Johanna Lynn of the Family Imprint Institute who specializes in finding and resolving emotional and relationship patterns that can lead to breakups.
Johanna was influenced by Brazilian colleagues who use a systemic approach to resolving conflict, even if it means moving forward without reconciliation. It's a novel way of finding - and fixing - the underlying reasons leading to a divorce by looking at the couples' family relationships and patterns that have helped build their approach to family and marriage.
Has your ex lied about something in your divorce case? Lying in court poses a multitude of potential costs to you, your children and your future. In today's episode, host Billie Tarascio and "Win Without Law School" attorney Julie LaBenz talk about the most powerful ways to expose your ex in court.
While you don't want to focus your efforts on proving that your ex is a bad person, it is important to show a judge when the other party lacks credibility, so choosing which lies to focus on can be key. Being strategic about exposing lies is your strongest tool when it comes in winning in court.
WinWithoutLawSchool.com is the online resource for people who need to deal with a divorce without paying for an expensive attorney. While Tarascio and LaBenz are Arizona attorneys, most of the strategic elements they share here can be used for people in any state.
When there's abuse or other criminal actions that are part of a divorce case, how do you know what kind of attorney to get? And where do you even start?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Keith Evans, former military attorney and prosecutor who now, at Modern Law, specializes in dealing with cases that may deal with Arizona Department of Child Safety, abuse situations and juveniles. Keith is a recent addition to Modern Law who talks about those issues, along with his past in the military and how he loves to do battle with bully attorneys who try to "paper" the other party with endless motions and expensive moves in order to beat one side into submission.
The world doesn't stop just because you're in the middle of divorce, right? But it feels like it, and you may just want to be left alone to recover your sanity.
In this Modern Divorce episode, host Billie Tarascio talks with Divorce Coach Karen Mahon about how to keep going, keep working, and stay at the top of your game during the divorce process. Karen advises high level executives how to maintain their career and their edge during what may be the roughest personal episode of a lifetime.
But there's hope, says Karen, and she shares her steps to reach the mindset that can make all the difference. To find Karen Mahon online, check out her website, and listen in on her podcasts specializing in high conflict divorces.
Life changes after divorce, right? If your parenting plan just isn't working anymore and it's been more than a year since it was approved, it might be time to put together a new plan and make it official.
Not so fast. There are some serious pitfalls that may be lurking. A poorly made agreement could lock you into giving up things you don't intend to.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio and her Win Without Law School colleague Julie LaBenz, talk about all the valid reasons why you may want to make a change and how to do it yourself properly if you're not working with an attorney.
Listen in if you want to learn how to get it done the right way, and how to stay out of trouble.
If you split up with your ex because you couldn't get along, parenting time can still be filled with verbal war games, dirty tricks, and bursts of anger. How do some divorced parents still manage?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Certified Divorce Coach Tessa Noel of Kind Mama Divorce Coaching for some tools you can use to diffuse the anger with your ex, especially when it comes to co-parenting. Tessa features a weekly free support group, by phone on Wednesdays. The best part of these tools is that you are completely in charge once you put them to work for you.
Tessa found the path to her purpose as a divorce professional after her own divorce and custody battle in 2017. Driven to protect her two young children from divorce related trauma, she dedicated herself to learning how to create a stable, healthy environment for her family during the period of transition.
And don't forget, if you or your ex is dealing with an alcohol problem that's putting those parenting time visits on the line, check out Soberlink.com/modern for a discount on using a court-accepted device to prove sobriety.
Massive victories in divorce cases are rare, and there's almost never a landslide victory by one party. So who wins? Nothing can repair the loss of a betrayal from your Soon To Be Ex (STBX), and sometimes we look to the court to fix the wounds. But it can't. So what do you do?
When there are real dangers and real emergencies, there are legal avenues, but most issues don't meet that level of the court's ability to solve your problem
Listen in as family Law Attorneys Billie Tarascio and Julie LaBenz reveal what they see from the inside, and how to stop being triggered by your ex in a way that gets you the best results. (Hint: don't let your STBX drag you into their world.)
Almost everyone who gets divorced struggles with the trauma and depression that comes with it. Plus, there's often a cycle of toxicity in the relationship that some people have a lot of trouble breaking free from. Today, with so many states legalizing cannabis, low dose psychedelics (we see you, Oregon), and ketamine therapy, people are finding real relief from the emotional triggers of their former relationship using these formerly taboo drugs.
Do you want to release your demons and patterns that drive you crazy? Listen up.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Seattle-based April Pride, who is blazing territory for divorcing men and women who are trying out cannabis, ketamine and psychedelics to deal with the emotional pain comes with an ugly break up and the loss of the familiar. She talks about her own experiences with these newly legalized resources and invites others to ride along with her, in her Seattle-based "teas" to get unstuck from the pain of a divorce.
You can find April online as the host of The High Guide, a podcast about women changing their lives thanks to altered states. Concurrent with her work at The High Guide, she is the CEO/Founder at Of Like Minds, a portfolio of women-founded companies.
With so many helpful tools and apps out there, it was only a matter of time before something would come along which would help divorced parents figure out a fair way to split up their parenting time. Not only is it important to figure it out right the first time, which avoids vacation, school and weekend snafus, most people need a workable schedule that can diminish any unnecessary interactions with the ex.
In this episode, Shea Drefs of Custody Xchange, talks with Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio about how to use the app that helps parents determine how to split their parenting time. The Custody X Change app helps single parents describe a schedule using the correct legal terminology, while also creating a professional-quality calendar you can present in court or negotiations to bolster your case.
Sarah Armstrong never thought she'd be the kind of person to get a divorce. She was devastated to find out she was wrong. But she never wanted to be 'that' kind of woman who was always fighting with an ex and making life miserable for herself and her daughter Grace.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host and attorney Billie Tarascio talks with Sarah about what she did to turn her marriage into a "Good Divorce," writing about it in The Mom's Guide To A Good Divorce in 2015, and sharing her story on her website of the same name. Sarah's advice for divorcing parents concentrates on how to navigate the boiling waters of a marital split, with solid advice that's easy to follow to keep your sanity, and your children, from suffering.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio takes the other chair as the guest of attorney Launi Sheldon's "All Things Divorce" podcast to talk about the growing amount of online advice available for people divorcing. How do you know when it's valid for you and what can you do to make sure you're hearing from the right sources?
Billie and Launi talk about the many voices on divorce from experts and non experts, what to expect to pay for a consultation, and how a Facebook group like the Modern Divorce Support Group has allowed divorcing people to blow off steam about the process and their ex's in a supportive environment. Launi also talks about the growth of her communications platform ProperComms.com that helps people in high-tension, high-conflict divorces to communicate through a go-between that takes out all the nasty bits, name calling, and finger pointing. What a relief!
Both men and women can be victims of domestic violence - and the evidence can be overwhelming sometimes. But when is it best to push your DV case forward in front of a judge? And when does it not serve your best interests in the long run?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, your host Billie Tarascio talks with Family Law Attorney Julie LaBenz about when and how to press your case, particularly if you're doing it without an attorney. They'll explain what to expect and how to maneuver the courtroom when a judge may not necessarily think it's in a child's best interest to name one of the parents as abusive. So frustrating, right?
If you're dealing with a DV case, no matter what side you're on, this is a must-listen!
Today's episode is brought to you by our sponsor, Soberlink.com/modern, offering $50 off their device to help litigants prove - or disprove - sobriety, when it really counts. You can also find out more about how to represent yourself in court from Billie and Julie, at WinWithoutLawSchool.com.
Are you representing yourself in divorce court? Lots of people do. Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio and Julie LaBenz are back to give their insider tips on how to present your divorce case to the judge effectively. The Win-Without-Law-School team answered questions and covered tons of important things you can do now to build your case and make sure the judge hears you - and sides with you.
For instance, you'll learn about:
- How to defend yourself when you're being treated for mental health issues
- How to get the judge to remember you with your unique story
- The one piece of paper that makes your judge's job easier
- How to be The Good Guy in the situation
- What NOT to say
- How to defend your loss of a job when you want to look stable
- How to use "discovery" to get the proof you need
- How to defend yourself against baseless accusations
There's a lot more in this extra episode, so make sure to take notes and pass it along to anyone you know who is going through a divorce without an attorney.
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When Angela went through a high stakes divorce and finally got full sole decision making rights to her children, it wasn't an easy process. She lost her first case - badly, she says - when she didn't present herself right, and didn't put her case information forward in a way that would help her protect her children.
In today's Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Angela Van, founder of Family Court Corner, about the situations Angela fought through, and the method she used that got her the win she needed. Today, she shares that method through her website and talks about how it works with Billie.
She also helps others get the Divorce Mindset that helped her survive an emotional rollercoaster and what is for many the worst process of their lives. To find out more about what Angela does, find her at her website here.
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Only 6% of the legal profession identifies as black in the United States, while the country's population is 13% black. This episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast takes a hard look at what it means to honestly improve work life for underrepresented cultural classes - particularly in the legal field.
In honor of Black History month, Host Billie Tarascio talks with Paralegal Joshua Robinson of Modern Law about why we need to talk about what it means to be black in the legal field, and what that means to clients and employers. For Joshua, it's about feeling like he belongs as-is, but legal clients are looking for that same feeling as well.
What happens to parenting time when one parent is struggling as an alcoholic? How does the other parent know with certitude that their child is safe when living with or visiting the alcoholic parent? Is the alcoholic parent at risk for losing precious parenting time?
These are all good questions. It's not uncommon for the non alcoholic parent to use the other parent's issues in court in order to protect a child. But a parent in recovery may need a way to prove their sobriety in a way that is legitimate and acceptable by the court.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Chris Beck of Soberlink, a company that makes a real-time instant test device with verifiable evidence to let everyone know if someone is drinking or not.
Family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Julie LaBenz are back, sharing a packed hour-long session trading insider tips for surviving the emotional (and legal) strategies that can get you through a divorce. And let's face it - divorce is all about the emotions and managing them so you don't make critical mistakes that cost you more than you expected.
Drop in on Billie and Julie's recording of a live meeting with their divorce group as they answer questions geared to help people who are divorcing without an attorney. If you are trying to manage the divorce process yourself, this is a must-listen podcast that is loaded with ideas you can put to work to help you survive divorce.
What should parents do when COVID and other common childhood illnesses are causing mayhem in the workplace? Isn't it sensible for an employer to step in and provide a solution? Some people don't think so. When attorney Billie Tarascio posted a job description for her law firm Modern Law in Mesa Arizona, TikTok, Reddit and Twitter were abuzz with negative comments over the job description for a legal assistant that included child care duties. The arguments ran across the board on a situation that affects every level of working parent.
In this video Billie talks with Attorney Kylie Bigelow about how the job posting turned into a hot topic of "Am I The Asshole?" on social media.
Have you heard anyone rave about their divorce attorney? It doesn't happen often, but when it does, it's time to listen up.
By the time Stephanie Deskins joined Modern Law she was a newbie attorney but had spent time working a variety of other jobs before deciding to go back to school to get her law degree.
She brought a "special sauce" that has turned her into a rock star attorney. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio checks in with one of the firm's newest additions to the talented attorneys specializing in divorce. Stephanie consistently gets rave reviews from her clients and she talks with Billie about the one thing she does that makes people happy.
Why is divorce so darn expensive? When it comes down to it, it's all about legal costs of court, expert testimony, paperwork and lawyers. Plus, add in all those delays and the time it takes to get a court case together and the cost begins to take on an impossible amount.
Enter IDoOver's Jenni Pierson who talks with attorney and host Billie Tarascio about the benefits of a certified legal document preparer who knows the system, knows the way paperwork needs to be filed and knows the process and how long it takes. Jenni and others with the CLDP certification can take care of divorces without an attorney when the situation is uncontested between parties.
So many people try to do the divorce paperwork themselves only to have to start over when something is filed incorrectly. Jenni's affordable fees start at $49 for a strategy session with divorce package deals at IDoOver.life, and the option to dial in an attorney should the need arise.
What do you want your first impression to be? What is your brand? If you're a newly divorced man or woman, you know that it's time to throw away the trappings of the old you because they're just not working any more. That's what The Fabulous Deanna Dupree is going to help you with right now.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast host Billie Tarascio talks with Deanna about how she became the personal coach to so many women and men who are looking to rebrand themselves in a new and more positive fashion - even if they know nothing about fashion. It's the kind of makeover that can life spirits, bring success, and help you grow as a person.
To find Deanna online, stop by her Facebook group or her website at DeannaDupree.com
As attorneys, we know a lot of people don't have the budget to afford representation, but a lot of people go into the courtroom thinking they'll simply report truthfully on their situation - and win - because the judge thinks they're right. Or believable.
And it's just not true. That's a very difficult gamble.
But there are ways to win without an attorney just by doing some things a certain way. In this first episode of our new 2023 season of Modern Divorce Podcasts, your host, attorney Billie Tarascio and colleague Julie LaBenz unwrap the insider tips that can keep "pro per" or self represented people safer in the courtroom. This episode is longer than our usual episode because it is packed with information you can't get anywhere else.
Take notes, and download the transcript because you don't want to miss a thing!
If you're interested in learning more, sign up for more info on this subject at WinWithoutLawSchool.com to get email updates that will help you win your case.
When host Billie Tarascio answered questions on TikTok about managing parenting time with a newborn, and the variety of explosive issues that come with it, responses came in like wildfire. One of those responses came from Yasmin and Tyler Hensen, now divorced parents of a 2-year-old, who successfully navigated the infant stages of their son, sharing parenting time even while the child was nursing.
How did they do it? You've heard people insist that it's about putting the kids first, but Tyler and Yasmin added some extra elements to make it happen. Listen in for their method of making it all work.
So you've split the assets and now you've got some cash to manage. Maybe it came from a house that got sold in the divorce and you got half, or you have the rights to half of your ex's retirement account: Now what? Who do you trust? Where should you put it?
When it comes to money, you don't want to make any big mistakes when you're trying to grow your cash stash after a big split.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio brings in her brother Michael Tarascio, a certified financial planner, who shares his insider opinion on what to be careful of, how to suss out trustworthy sources, and how to educate yourself on investments and life insurance from LEGIT sources. Be sure to listen to the whole episode because you'll be listening in on little brother telling big sister how it all works, and it's hilarious.
Let's face it, divorce is traumatizing for adults, and every bit as traumatizing for children. Problem is, there's not much they can do about it, so it's in the hands of the parent to manage the sadness, disappointment and acting out that can sometimes happen during and throughout the process of divorce.
Enter Alexis Santa Cruz, a former elementary school teacher who took her abilities to connect with kids to another level by becoming a licensed marriage and family counselor associate. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio has an illuminating conversation with Alexis about how to manage the transition of family life. She gives real world examples of things you can do to smooth the road for kids - and for you.
This episode is a breath of fresh air for single parents struggling with kids who are rebelling, depressed, or causing trouble. She uses a number of tools in her practice, which you can find at FreedomPsychCenter.com.
Kimberly Miner suffered through two divorces with domestic violence. How do you rebuild your confidence after being dragged through the physical and emotional muck? In today's Modern Divorce podcast, Kim shares her difficult journey that prompted her founding of a non profit , EnvisionYouVictory.org, to help domestic violence victims learn how to come back stronger and more confident. She also talks about what she's doing to change a system she says is stacked against DV victims who are typically unprepared to defend themselves in the family law system, as well as the criminal system.
This is a must-listen for anyone dealing with domestic violence issues, no matter what kind.
It's hard enough getting divorced, but splitting up assets in a way that makes everyone happy can be fraught with emotional distress. Luckily, there are ways to get it done and have each side walk away with a plan for their better future.
In this episode, Modern Divorce Podcast host Billie Tarascio talks with Brenda Bridges, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst whose soothing tones and suggestions are sure to take the fire out of a contentious divorce. Especially for those who have been married a long time. With retirement accounts, property and even a business to split up, working with a CDFA can be a blessing, because it can also lower the cost of a divorce settlement by having an agreed-upon plan so that each side can walk away with a divorce decree they can be satisfied with.
You can find Brenda at BridgingDivorceSolutions.com.
How do you keep children out of harms way from sexual predators? It starts with with plain talk. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio chats with sex abuse survivor and pediatric nurse, Katie Hastings, who has some very plain talk about what really works to keep kids from falling for the manipulations of a predator.
Not only does Katie explain the safe steps for very young children, she also talks about the methods to keep teens from inadvertently opening themselves up to sextortion schemes through fake online profiles and immature love relationships gone bad. For parents with children of any age, and especially single parents who may not always be able to control who their children are with, this episode is packed with honest facts about what you can do and how to do it.
To learn more, Katie has recently written a book on the subject, called Your Safe Body, available on Amazon and all your favorite book dealers.
Money. We all need it. But in divorce, if you're splitting up assets, and maybe even a business, you'll likely end up with half - or less. How do you make sure you get your fair share?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Host Billie Tarascio gets the inside scoop on that from Dave Stolz, a CPA who helps women get their financial lives back on track after divorce. He reveals some of the surprising results of his survey of divorced women, and talks about how to correctly determine the worth of a business when one - or both - of the spouses is self-employed.
Dave reveals even more in his book, Women, Divorce, and Money: Taking Control of Your Finances and Your Future, now available at your favorite bookstore.
Does your ex:
- Drop the ball on your child's team sports and field trips?
- Disagree about school choice or medical treatments?
- Regularly mess up your holiday or vacation plans?
If so, you have an impossible ex. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio talks with divorce coach Julie Beckerman about these kinds of issues and the secret to co-parenting with an impossible Ex.
Her unique approach is designed to make you a stronger parent and put some peace back in your life. Julie gives away some key techniques to put you in the power seat. Find Julie on social media with @JulieBeckermanCoach.
This single mama tried working things out for co-parenting with her baby daddy but trouble ensued. - continuously. What to do? Real Estate pro Sasha Lopez sits with Modern Divorce Podcast host Billie Tarascio to talk details on how to survive the single parent life, and manage parenting time when disagreements and court time have become a regular occurence.
Don't miss this podcast if you're a single parent and having trouble working out custody issues or parenting time. You'll find ways to deal with the real-life dramas and get the solutions that work.
If you'd like to connect with Sasha, you can find her at Sasha@sizzlinghomes.com
New Jersey Divorce attorney John Nachlinger saw a lot of his male clients getting run over in divorce because they didn't see it coming and didn't know how to talk about what they were going through. Why? Because they grew up thinking it was best to keep their feelings to themselves. John saw it as a big problem that he could help solve.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, attorney Billie Tarascio talks with John about why men suffer in divorce and how coaching has helped his male clients understand why divorce needs a game plan - just like a sports team - and a personal sidelines coach ready to help with the next "play." John's Divorce Shield coaching company trains men how to plan for divorce so they can manage both emotional and financial fallout.
If you've ever thought that you couldn't afford a divorce attorney, this podcast is a must-listen. Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio talks with mom, Amanda Mallon who got her divorce game plan from a pro bono day (free) visit with a Modern Law attorney, which Mallon then managed with free and reduced cost elements. Today, she has sole custody of her child.
The two also talk about an online app which keeps heated conversations between exes in line, with one stop shopping for scheduling, and a system for flagging nasty and unhelpful tone.
When do you actually pull the plug on the marriage? Are the reasons you're staying the right reasons? What about the kids?
So many questions. And they're all worth asking before you actually find yourself in a divorce.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast with family law attorney Billie Tarascio, Divorce Coach Abby King talks about how it's possible to strategize these questions beforehand, and how you'll save money with your attorney by knowing how to deal with the important personal questions so your attorney can take care of the messy legal aspects.
You can find Abby, based in Philadelphia, at @divorcecoachphilly on Instagram and on the internet.
What makes an African American/Latino woman want to become an attorney? Nancy Uko says the attorneys she saw in TV shows convinced her that's what she'd want to be when she grew up. But a marriage that went sour pushed her into the direction of family law, where she learned the necessity of finding someone who could advocate for parents and children.
In this bonus episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio chats with Nancy about her background, how she fought to dispel imposter syndrome , and why she is one of Modern Law's best attorneys for child custody issues and building new relationships that are stronger than before.
We know that Kim Kardashian is studying to become a lawyer. It looks like she's been taking solid notes along the way of her own divorce with Kanye West, who apparently made some interesting, although unsuccessful moves along the way in their split.
In this fascinating peek at Kim and Kanye's divorce, Beverly Hills family law attorney Limor Mojdehiazad (pronounced mozsh-duh-HIYA-zod) dishes with Modern Divorce podcast host Billie Tarascio on the strategic moves each spouse made during their very public breakup. How could they have done things differently, and would Kanye have gotten what he wanted if he had done things differently?
Listen in on this free-wheeling discussion between two family law attorneys to find out what you can apply to your own divorce process.
For divorce help in California you can find Limor online by searching for "@lawyerlimor".
What would you do if you discovered your partner had a secret drug addiction? Katie McHone-Jones of the Boy Problems Podcast shares her story on the Modern Divorce Podcast on her husband's addiction to heroin and how she supported him on his journey of recovery.
Boy is a street name for heroin, which sounds benign but is anything but. In fact, all street drugs are likely to come laced with potentially fatal amounts of fentanyl. That could affect any age addict, and it may put teenagers, who are experimenting with street drugs, at high risk for an overdose, or worse.
Are you ready to talk to your kids about what this could mean for them if they experiment with drugs? Where do you start? And can you hold a family together even when someone is melting down?
For more information about Katie, check her recovery website and podcast here.
Most parents believe they are vigilant in making sure their kids are kept safe from pedophiles, but sex crimes prosecutor Stacey Honowitz is here to say otherwise. The Broward County Florida prosecutor has been fighting for victims of sex crimes for more than 30 years, and she understands the complete playbook molesters use when scouting out young victims.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, she shares with host Billie Tarascio the ways abusers insinuate themselves into the lives of young people to take advantage of them, sometimes right under the nose of a child's parents. How to stop it? She details the key ways to help children and parents recognize the bad guys, and take action against them when necessary.
Stacey has written fun and simple books parents can read to their children to help them understand how to set boundaries, including: My Privates are Private, and Genius with a Penis, Don’t Touch. These books make it easy for parents to comfortably and frankly discuss inappropriate touching with their children and teach the importance of speaking up and reporting abuse.
What are the simple things you can do to NOT lose your mind during divorce? In this fun and fast-moving podcast, Billie Tarascio of Modern Law talks with divorce planning expert Alex Beattie about the very things you must do to survive a horrible divorce, while coming out of it bigger, better and stronger.
Pro Tip: Listen in to hear Billie's secret tale of woe on how she made a critical mistake that taught her why having your stuff together makes a huge difference, and how it ruined something she thought she was ready for.
You can find Alex on her website, DivideAndThrive.net, where you'll find the highly recommended planner tool that will keep your life in order while you're busy doing things like raising kids, finding a place to live, holding down a job, and designing your brand new life.
Modern Law's current family law attorneys happen to all be female - and so many rockstars are in that group. One of those rockstars is Katie Stapleton, who loves taking those messy, impossible divorces where everybody disagrees and turning it into an agreement where everybody agrees. But when staying out of the courtroom can't be avoided, Katie loves the challenge of standing up for clients in court and making them look good.
If you're shopping for the right attorney - even if Katie is not your champion - it pays to listen to today's podcast just to compare so you can find the right kind of person to stand up for you in your divorce.
You think getting is divorced is hard? We agree, but in England, if you're in the Royal Family, it's a Royal Pain. In this extra fun episode, host Billie Tarascio and Modern Law's Sarah Encarnacion sit with UK Solicitor and former Barrister Tracy Maloney, (yeah, we'll explain the difference) who spills on the Royal Family Divorces and how the British Monarchy finally got around to saying it's okay to divorce.
It only took a few hundred years to allow divorce, which is a way better than what became of Henry VIII's wives, but divorce nevertheless remains a trauma not only for the spouses, but sometimes whole countries as well. Just think Princess Diana, and Megan Markle, and you'll get the picture. You might just feel better about your own divorce after listening in!
You can find Tracey on her UK website at https://moloneyfamilylaw.co.uk/
When the teacher at the school called Camilla Calberg to report her daughter's increasing emotional issues at school, she knew what the problem was. Her verbally abusive partner's angry outbursts had left her daughter in an emotional mess. And Camilla could feel it too.
In today's episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio talks with Copenhagen-based Camilla, who has since become a divorce coach helping people through the same messes she endured. She talks about how to plan your exit, how to manage the fallout and why putting a team of supporters together is the best way to survive and thrive.
To find out more about Camilla, and tap into her online help, look for Camilla Calberg Coaching. She is also active on LinkedIn and Facebook.
In Tik Tok land, Virginia-based family law attorney Brandon Matthews has been setting the world on fire with his irreverent, fun and crazy videos. Modern Divorce podcast host Billie Tarascio, from her Arizona office, HAD to invite Brandon on to talk about his internet fame, and to break down the subject of whose fault is it when a divorce happens?
In Arizona, the law doesn't really make an issue of fault, but in Virginia, it's a different story, with a potentially substantial financial spanking for one party who is deemed "at fault." What does that mean, and how much are we talking about?
Listen in for a fun chat with the so-called "thelawyeroftiktok"on the Modern Divorce Podcast.
Are you getting everything you're entitled to in your divorce settlement? When it comes to sorting out the property values, child support calculations and spousal support, it often takes another set of trained eyeballs to find all the stuff that you deserve to keep. That includes NOT paying what you shouldn't be paying.
That's why you'll want to listen to Megan Kern, Modern Law's Certified Divorce Financial Analyst who talks in today's podcast about how she found her niche by excavating your ex's finances, and how that relates to her hometown in New Orleans.
As an extra bonus, Modern Divorce Podcast host Billie Tarascio talks with Megan about her long history working and playing in the biggest event New Orleans is famous for: Mardi Gras and all the festivities that make it such a blow-out event.
Crypto currency is the latest darling for making (or losing) some quick money, as well hiding it in a blockchain world hidden from the IRS. While the government looks at ways of tracking crypto fortunes, Modern Law's Billie Tarascio talks with Arizona Family Law Attorney and crypto asset specialist Julie LeBenz who breaks down how to figure out how to split crypto dollars in a community property divorce.
For anyone who has invested in Bitcoin, Ethereum, Doge Coin, Cardano and more, this episode goes into the ins and outs of finding and splitting up electronic assets, and their tax consequences. Hint: it's best to get it figured out before it gets put before a judge who may not understand the crypto world as well as you will after listening to this episode.
What do you do when your spouse cheats? In today's episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, longtime friends Jessica Klingbaum and T.H. Irwin - the Ex Experts, share their respective divorce journeys with host Billie Tarascio.
The road was messy and long for them both, and after rebuilding new lives, T.H. and Jessica decided to share their collective expertise on their website at ExExperts.com, along with a plethora of free resources for helping a newly divorced person through the horrible experience of getting divorced.
Pro tip from the Ex Experts: being able to make decisions about your financial future is critical to rebuilding your life as an independent adult. For many people who were not in charge of the finances and other decisions during their marriage, this can be a challenge, but the payoff is independence and life satisfaction.
When Kanye West fired yet another attorney in his recent divorce from Kim Kardashian, news sources outed celebrity attorney Christoper Melcher as the most recent legal representative to be relieved of the case. In today's episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Christopher sits down with host Billie Tarascio to talk about being a celebrity attorney and what he does to manage situations with high stakes, high emotions, and complicated finances.
While Chris can't talk specifics about clients, like when he represented Katie Holmes in her divorce with Tom Cruise, he does share his philosophy and approach to managing the stars, and how one of his cases ended up as case law for California. His firm, Walzer Melcher LLP, specializes in handling high-net-worth individuals who often have handlers and public relations representatives that can find themselves embroiled in the case itself. It's a fascinating peek into dealing with celebrities.
When attorney Billie Tarascio posted in social media about women ending up worse off financially in divorce, she got all kinds of comments from men who strongly disagreed. So who is it that ends up worse off?
Stacy Francis, a Certified Divorce Financial Advisor based in New York, brings her opinion on the subject to the Modern Divorce Podcast, unwrapping the most typical scenarios she sees in her practice in an attempt to answer the question.
In today's episode, you'll learn who is at biggest risk for being penniless after divorce, and how to arrange your finances so that you won't outlive your money at age 95. The ability to chart that course to financial success is not difficult once you know the secrets - no matter what gender or income level you are.
To learn more about empowering yourself financially after divorce with some free resources, stop by Stacy's website at savvyladies.org.
Getting divorced? We know you're feeling beat up, and it's time for a new you. In today's Modern Divorce episode, Billie Tarascio talks with Tracy Pleschourt, the Self-MadeU.com life coach who helps people lose weight by finding the WHY that holds them back.
Tracy unwraps some of the keys to weight loss that aren't about calorie counting. You'll find out how determining your insulin resistance is the first step! Tracy has walked the path herself, and now teaches the mindset techniques you'll need to manage your mind and overcome any obstacle, including overeating, over drinking, time management, and more.
Her website offers a free two week plan to kickstart your new you.
Are you interested in avoiding court for your divorce? Do you want to keep your family's personal details private? Are you looking to manage your ex's time with the kids?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you'll want to listen in on today's podcast with Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio and Lindsey Corbin, a Modern Law client. Lindsey talks about all the steps she took to get exactly what she wanted, which was privacy, staying primary parent with the kids, and keeping her families details out of the public domain. Lindsey talks about her strategies and how planning it out made all the difference.
We've all heard about exploding rental costs in 2022, so buying a home, even in a rising market, may be the best way to lock in dependable payments that don't rise with inflation and build equity for the long term.
But how do you finagle a mortgage when you're divorcing and splitting up assets?
Enter Alex Shelton of Academy Mortgage, who explains some of the key insider knowledge to help you survive the financial spanking that might otherwise lock you out of buying a new house as a single person. In today's episode, Alex talks with Modern Divorce Host and Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio about how to navigate a mortgage after a divorce. You'll learn what FICO score you'll need for a conventional mortgage, and even some unconventional options that may get you that new place to live.
How do you know if a relationship is toxic? Finding out if you're in one, figuring out if you can set boundaries and fix them, and then navigating a co-parenting relationship after the relationship is over is all part of what Dr. Heidi Brocke helps her clients with.
In today's special episode of Modern Divorce, with Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio, you'll hear Dr. Heidi's explanation of the toxic elements of a relationship, including her own. She shares the free test you can take on her website at CoachingwithDr.Heidi.com for an analyisis of your situation, and how to navigate the common issues that plague both men and women in toxic relationships.
This very special episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast takes a deep dive into the potential outcomes of sexual abuse and sexual deviancy. These issues can threaten the break up of a family with potential long-lasting legal implications.
Psychologist Jessica LeClerc, Psy.D., joins Modern Law Attorney Billie Tarascio to break down the common questions that arise in family law cases when someone acts out sexually or has a potentially deviant behavior that crosses the line both legally and morally.
Dr. LeClerc performs the evaluations that help identify psycho-sexual issues for both children and adults at her clinic, Oasis Psychological Services in Mesa, Arizona.
What happens, for instance, when a mother accuses a father of sexual abuse? Or when a family member is addicted to porn? Or when a sibling acts out sexually with a younger step sibling? Dr. LeClerc explains how things can be remediated without calling in authorities, and the times when it helps someone get the help they really need.
When Jennifer Burwell hired an executive coach to help her find what was holding her back, she discovered all kinds of hidden issues that turned out to stem from unresolved trauma. That coach changed her life when she found ways to delete those traumas and create a whole new strength and ability to succeed.
In today's Podcast, Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio talks with Jennifer about how the common dramas we experience get hidden away as unresolved trauma that affects our lives.
There are ways of unraveling those traumas - whether big or small. She explains the processes here, and also offers help from her website, MothersAndFoundersCo.com.
It's very common for divorcing spouses to explore bankruptcy options when splitting up property and debts at the end of a marriage. In this episode, Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio welcomes Modern Law Attorney and Bankruptcy Expert Stacey Rogan to talk about all the ins and outs of bankruptcy, including the different types and their impacts on you.
Spoiler Alert: If you're considering bankruptcy - whether in or part of a divorce, or simply because debts have gotten out of control, Stacey's information will make you rest easy. She explains all the ways bankruptcy issues can be resolved so that you can restart your life with a clean slate.
The fastest growing segment of divorces by age are senior citizens. And splitting up the finances at a date when it could affect the ability to retire is a big concern. Since reverse mortgages are open to 62 year old and older homeowners with equity, it's possible to factor a reverse mortgage as part of the plan for a divorcing senior who wants to stay in the home while allowing the equity to be paid out to the other party.
In this episode, specially requested by Modern Divorce listeners, Billie Tarascio talks with Sun Mortgage's Rex Duffin, whose 30 years in the business help shed some light on what can be done to tap that much-needed equity.
Step parents don't have it easy in many cases. What happens when the new spouse's children come to the marriage with issues? And what happens when those issues are a danger to the new spouse's kids?
In this important episode for any mixed family, Billie Tarascio speaks with mother who ultimately had to split her household in two in order to protect some children against the others. It's a harrowing story but the outcome may surprise you and demonstrate how one family was able to carry on and survive.
If you've suffered a breakup of a marriage or longterm relationship, it's easy to think that the other party is at fault. But were they the problem or you the problem? How will you know?
Enter Roy Biancalana, the Relationship Coach, who talks with Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio. In this fun episode about relationship issues, Roy talks about what he experienced after a series of failed relationships and how he eventually fixed it. Try Roy's 30-question diagnostic quiz to find out your relationship level at CoachingWithRoy.com.
If you are someone you know is starting a divorce, it's best to know what's ahead and how to navigate it. In this episode, divorce attorney Billie Tarascio deals with some of the most asked-questions about the divorce process in Arizona and the laws that will affect your children, your property and your retirement.
This special episode is a quick listen that's a must for anyone considering, or starting out in the divorce process in Arizona.
For anyone who is struggling with the impact of divorce on their children, this episode is packed with eye-opening revelations for parents who may have inadvertently put their child in the middle of their battles. Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio is joined by Greek attorney and mediator Despina Mavridou, who talks about the concepts in her new book, "Mom, Dad, Can You Hear Me?"
Common practice among divorcing parents is to make the other parent look bad either overtly, or by fixing the other parent's failings by coming to the rescue for the child in the middle. While rescuing the child every time Mom or Dad fails may be well-meaning, it's the child that suffers as a result. It's less obvious than trash-talking the other parent, but the child feels it nonetheless. That's just one of the examples Despina reveals in this podcast, which is a must-listen for divorcing parents.
Kids can take the biggest hit in divorce because their lives are in someone else's control, leading to alienation, depression and broken relationships. In this episode, clinical psychologist Dr. Don Gordon, the designer of the Children In Between online program for children of divorce, talks about the ways to mitigate the impacts of divorce on children.
According to Dr. Don, there's a lot of fear and anxiety about the unknown for children seeing their parents split. Parents need to be able to identify the triggers that create issues, particularly when children are asked to report on what the other parent is doing, or worse, when kids are given a steady diet of demonizing one parent over the other.
The online course is inexpensive, fulfills the court parenting class requirement, and comes with a program just for kids as well.
Will I get alimony or not? That's the big question when people divorce. In Arizona, namely Maricopa County, there are general rules the guide judges, but nothing is set in stone.
In this special nuts-and-bolts episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Attorney Billie Tarascio explains the basics for Spousal Maintenance (otherwise known as alimony) and how to figure out if and how much you'll receive - or pay, depending on which part of the equation you stand.
She uses Maricopa County's guidelines, and with the elements that figure into the math to figure out how much a judge will agree to. You'll also find a spousal maintenance calculator on the Modern Law website to give you a working number for alimony so that you can put your post-divorce budget together.
In 2021, the stress of a pandemic, rising prices, politics and angry scenes posted on social media has put everyone under pressure. Throw a divorce with children into the mix, and kids are especially vulnerable to all the inputs.
How can kids and their parents survive all this?
In this special episode, Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio talks with Rachel Guernsey, a licensed marriage and family therapist with Positive Change Counseling, to dig through a host of practical tips and methods for managing the pressures of today's world.
Side note: Rachel's home base is Great Falls, Montana, but she met Billie and the Modern Law team in Arizona as the aunt of the kidnapped baby featured in the Missing Baby William case (check out our 5-part podcast series on this!), so these two have worked side by side previously. She is happy to help Montana residents anywhere in the state with virtual appointments.
When emotions are charged and bonds are broken, it's common for a high conflict divorce to develop. It can include everything from abuse, to bad behavior, and destructive physical and emotional actions. But how do you survive?
In this extended episode, Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio talks with Karen McMahon, who tells her gut-wrenching story of a 3-year divorce drama that had long term impacts on her children. It ultimately lead her to become a certified relationship and divorce coach through Journey Beyond Divorce, using a 12-step method to survive. Karen gives some amazing insights and strategies into how to handle the emotional process of divorce, with the guidelines she used herself to come away from divorce as a stronger person.
Divorces are well known for the financial havoc they create. Fortunately, your new life can be managed with some strong money management and a little expert help from someone whose been there.
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Julie Kern shares the mic with Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio to talk about the top money moves you should make to prepare and thrive before and after divorce. Julie, who is also a CPA with Bridge Financial Strategies in Scottsdale, AZ, works with people to determine the best financial strategies to split marital proceeds equitably, and do it without a big tax bite.
Starting with understanding your current assets and debts, the best plan is to make sure both parties know what could happen in various settlements so that both parties know the benefits and costs of what they take with them in divorce. Her initial consults are free, so it's worthwhile to check in and find out how much you can save.
Whether it's legal alcohol or legal marijuana, it's never legal to use while driving. Nevertheless, sometimes people get busted for it, and it may be used as a negotiating wedge when a couple divorces and one of them has a DUI (Driving Under the Influence) charge or conviction on their record.
In this episode, Modern Law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Ryan Claridge talk about some of the things people can do in a divorce to deal with a DUI, and what that might mean for negotiating parenting plans and more.
What do two experienced divorce attorneys think about the very public Kelly Clarkson divorce?
While most celebrity divorces are kept out of the public eye, this one was completely transparent through court records. Why, and what can you learn from a celebrity divorce?
As it turns out, plenty. Chicago-area family law attorney Raiford Palmer and Phoenix-area family law attorney Billie Tarascio unpack the details of the recent split of singer and talk show host Kelly Clarkson with her husband and manager, Brandon Blackstock. This fascinating discussion will shine a spotlight on the key issues you may need to be aware of in your own divorce.
When Candice was 18 her boyfriend pushed her to have a baby to cement their relationship. When she did become pregnant, he denied being the father. What to do?
In this episode, Candice Tully tells Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio how she survived and managed to take care of her precious son through legal battles and the everyday stresses of being a young, single mom. These days, Candice can be found working as a paralegal at Modern Law, where her personal experiences have informed how she supports other single parents survive the trials and tribulations of life.
So what really happens when we suffer trauma - especially the kind associated with the gut-wrenching emotions connected with divorce? In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio talks with Licensed Professional Counselor Myra Hurtado, who sheds some light on the process and gives us some things to do starting TODAY to heal from those traumas.
Does sending the kids off to your ex's house send you into a depression? Do your ex's texts trigger an instant bad mood and feeling of upset? This discussion actually gets down to the nitty gritty of what works to fix the feelings of trauma and how to find relief.
Texas Divorce Attorney Bryan Walters is back on the Modern Divorce Podcast for another great talk with Billie Tarascio about the legal details behind Bill and Melinda Gates' recent divorce. As many as 75% of marriages end because the wife calls it quits, and when there's a lot of money on the table, the wives can often end up with much less than their spouses if they don't take the right legal steps and position themselves to negotiate better outcomes.
The discussion also touches on the differences between their two states, Arizona and Texas, and how that affects the divorces of people dealing with children, child support and splitting up businesses.
You can find Bryan Walters at Walters Gilbreath PLCC in Austin, Texas.
What happens to someone when they divorce and their church friends and support groups start disappearing, or even begin to reject you outright? For some church is a refuge that's uplifting. But finding oneself at odds with church standards and has pushed many a divorced person to rethink their religious beliefs.
Enter Wendi Jensen, who talks with Modern Divorce Podcast Host Billie Tarascio about how she remade herself into a new person after divorce by looking at her beloved church in a whole new light. Now a professional coach who teaches deprogramming skills for people coming away from a high-demand religion, she and Billie talk about the dark details of her transition to self discovery and relief.
Find Wendi at WendiJensen.com.
In this episode, Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio talks with the Spunky Spriritualist, Dr. Tiffany Nguyen, who helps people create their best life after divorce and breakups. As a full time pharmacist who understands the world of medications, in her role as a life coach she uses critical thinking and the right questions to guide people to get past their personal traumas to a newer, happier self.
She traces thought patterns through their origins to get down to the bottom of why we do what we do. Particularly for people who have experienced divorce, this discussion has some great words of advice for moving forward with a positive new outlook.
In this fascinating look at the effects of Divorce, Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio talks with Mark Anderson, Modern Law's social media manager, about how his parents' divorce still reverberates in many ways today. For instance, as a step parent himself, he finds himself understanding and agreeing with the things his stepfather did and said. But there's more...
Navigating the broken relationships over the years of family members can have a definite impact on our lives and the lives of our children. This discussion opens up a subject that gets little attention, but nevertheless affects so many of us.
In this final episode of the Baby William series, we learn the truth of what happened to missing Baby William and his mother Madeline Jones after a police detective tips off the legal team. Attorney Billie Tarascio describes that moment, while Andrea Gouchenour talks about how the crime affected her family. The baby's father, Jake Gouchenour, now three years later and happily remarried, reflects on what's next in his life for both him and his son.
When Baby William's Grandmother, Andrea Gouchenour and her sister Rachel Guernsey drive around town to put up posters for the missing baby and her mother, Madeline Jones, they're shocked to see Madeline's mother Cassie, making her youngest daughter tear the posters down while she waits in a car. That's when their thinking changes.
Setting up with the evidence they've collected, the two women start poring over phone call and bank records from the Jones family's phones looking for a pattern. That's when they discover something that provides the first real break in the case, using Modern Law's Billie Tarascio to push some buttons, along with a group of Facebook sleuths.
In this 3rd episode of the special series on Missing Baby William, we hear from some of the main family members involved in the case, and what family law attorney Billie Tarascio can do to ferret out more information to find baby William Gouchenour.
By this time, during a typical hot Arizona summer, weeks and weeks have passed with no real news on the missing baby. Meanwhile police are combing through barns in Montana trying to determine if the baby's father Jake or another of his family members has hidden or kidnapped the young mother and her child. The family - and the websleuths - are anxious for any new information to develop.
But when Jake's mom and aunt discover something weird being done by Maddie's mother, their suspicions that someone is lying become all too clear.
On this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, a growing group of social media sleuths begin forming, drawn in by the mysterious disappearance of a young mother and her baby in Mesa , AZ, after a contentious divorce.
Destinee Mack, who describes herself on Twitter as a wife, mom and random altruist, was the unexpected center of the unexpected band of 12,000 online strangers who came forward offering help to find Baby William. Her Facebook group to "Find Maddie and Baby William" offered information and a place to share theories, stories, and sometimes gossip. She played housemother over the group and intervened occasionally to keep comments from devolving into the ugly.
But her role as an unintended advocate for Baby William was not without a cost to her. She was eventually slapped with a gag order to cease her online activities. A judge thought she was a problem, but she thought it was clear the group was getting closer to the truth.
In this first part of a 5-part series, the Modern Divorce Podcast does a deep dive into the tangled events of a divorce gone bad between two young parents.
The infant son of a young father, Jacob Gouchenour, along with the baby's mother, Madeline Jones, disappear on a June day in Mesa, Arizona not long after a family law judge orders that the two parents share parenting time. Was she kidnapped, murdered, or the victim of an accident? Accusations fly between the families as law enforcement quietly begin a multi-state manhunt.
Modern Law's Billie Tarascio finds herself working to find a legal angle track them down, and does her best to keep the pressure on a campaign to find Baby William.
Think you're going to split everything down the middle in your divorce because you're in a community property state? Not so fast. There might be trouble ahead.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Modern Law "Godfather" Don Colburn who shares the inside scoop for what you need to know when splitting up your stuff in a community property divorce settlement. How you keep your 'stuff' will be the key. You'll want to pay particular attention to the property and assets you brought into the marriage and whether that stuff got mixed together in joint bank accounts, down payments on property and more.
And inheritances? Even if you're not divorced and not planning on it, these cautionary tales will make you think about how you should or shouldn't cash that check.
When it comes to breaking up, divorce attorneys have pretty much seen it all. They have heard all kinds of 'blush-worthy' personal details and relationship issues that have prompted breakups, divorces and legal mayhem; so wouldn't it make sense to tap that info for some great advice?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, your host Billie Tarascio talks with fellow family law attorney Tami Hugo Haley of haleylawaz.com in Scottsdale, AZ about the break up scenarios that call for packing your bags, and those that don't warrant leaving - yet.
This is a perfect listen for anyone in a relationship considering marriage and whether they've found the right "one" to make it permanent. (Hint: GET A PRENUP) It also offers some great advice for those considering divorce or a break up.
When Sarahanne was growing up, her future as a wife and mother was already decided for her. It was part of her family life as a child, and it's something she embraced as an adult. But when her marriage fell apart after more than 20 years, she found herself without a home, and without the support of her beloved church.
In this heartbreaking episode of Modern Divorce, host Billie Tarascio has a frank talk with divorce survivor Sarahanne Lawson who found herself wholly unprepared to be virtually homeless, penniless and starting over at age 50. But in getting help for her predicament, she found a team at Modern Law who welcomed her talents and abilities, giving her a new professional career and a new start.
This is a must-listen for anyone who found their core beliefs and church relationships thrown into turmoil after a divorce, no matter what religion you are.
TedX Speaker Shawn Bradford (Thank You Divorce) talks with Modern Divorce podcast host Billie Tarascio in this insightful episode about minding your most important relationships and how to avoid forcing intimacy in a new relationship, or out of habit.
Surprise, it could be you who's pushing things, says Bradford, who gives a roadmap for figuring out the issues - something she's done for herself. A yoga teacher who found release through meditation and yogic practices, Bradford shares her methods for solving a common problem whether divorced, married or single and searching.
You can find Shawn's fascinating TedX talk here and see more about her on her website at breatheandwork.com
Going through a divorce is one of the most gut-wrenching, horrible things one can experience. It often leaves people bitter, unhappy, and awash in toxic emotions. Wouldn't it be great if there was something we could do to fix that?
There is. In this episode, you'll find welcome relief when Modern Law's host Billie Tarascio talks with Dr. Happiness, Elia Gourgouris, who has a no-fail seven step plan for finding and keeping long-lasting happiness. You'll learn the exact process he teaches to cut out toxic relationships - whether from your ex or others - and what to do to position yourself to live the life you've always wanted.
You can find Dr. Happiness on his website at dreliagourgouris.com to learn more about his amazing and simple process.
What is a behaviorist and how can it help you survive as a single parent?
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio introduces us to Kimball Lewis, whose website empoweringparents.com is filled with tips and tools for helping parents deal with the challenges of raising a child. You need a plan to help survive the trials you'll experience as a single parent.
When a child has two different households, it's even more difficult to make rules and stick with them. But in this special episode - longer than our usual podcasts - you'll get a ton of good ideas and methods you can use to be an effective parent raising a successful child. Here's a hint: Don't blame your spouse or your ex for your child's behavior. Once you have that down, then you're free to set up your own rules, your own way.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Billie Tarascio takes the mic on her own to lay out the important hard truth of why women get less in divorce, why so many women accept this as normal, and why the law won't help you if you don't take steps beforehand stop it.
It's a subject that she sees come up too many times in her own law practice, and it leaves her angry for her clients as she works to advocate for them..
Truth is, marriage is an"at will" contract which can end at any time, and often does. When that happens, many women find themselves without financial and emotional support. It doesn't have to be that way.
Would it be possible to lower the cost of divorce and keep the divorcing parties from attacking each other?
Turns out, yes, it's possible, with collaborative law. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, family law attorney Billie Tarascio talks with her Modern Law colleague, Christopher Torrenzano, who explains how the collaborative process works in divorce, when you can use it, and when you can't.
This is the perfect listen for anyone anticipating divorce and the expenses and anguish that can so often be a part of the process.
Do you have the right to an attorney? Do you really need one, and can you speak for yourself in court? These and other questions about when and how to deploy an attorney - and when you absolutely MUST have an attorney are the topics of this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast. Modern Law family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Ryan Claridge go into depth with suggestions about when you can and should "do it yourself," when to work with a mediator, and what to do if you're dealing with criminal accusations in a family court situation.
For anyone who has wondered how to survive a family court issue without breaking the bank, this episode has key details for saving money, saving your reputation, and keeping yourself out of trouble when it really counts.
If one spouse owns a business and the other works with it, then what happens when they split up? Or if both own it and one has to leave - suddenly without a job and an income?
So many questions are answered in this important podcast featuring Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio and Arizona attorney Darin Colburn who pick apart the strategies and possibilities when valuing and splitting up a business. They cover how to value the business, and whether it's good to pay an expert to do that (watch out for the gotchas!). Also, they talk about how a judge looks at tax returns and whether the deductions you take affect the valuation - and the judge's opinion of you!
This is a fascinating walk through the considerations of splitting a business and what that means for spousal support and more.
Getting divorced at any time is personal challenge, but after many years with a spouse, it's about finding out who you really are, and how you approach the world as a solo person. This episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast is a good-for-the-soul exploration of the things that happen when two people divorce following a longterm marriage and how to rebuild one's personal life.
Modern Divorce host Billie Tarascio, family law attorney, talks with divorce coach Raven of YourNextChapter.com who herself suffered a divorce as a 60-something woman. Raven shares her personal stories and tips, with a frank discussion about how to put yourself back together again after a big breakup.
Maybe it was your teenager getting out of line, and an unfortunate shoving match ensued. Maybe it was you leaving the kids home alone when your ex thought it was too dangerous. Or maybe it was a parent possibly using drugs and another relative calls to make a report. All of these scenarios may prompt the state Department of Child Services to get involved, which may throw you or someone you know into a whole lotta trouble.
In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, family law attorney Billie Tarascio talks with former Arizona DCS case worker and Modern Law staffer Vanessa Adams. As someone who visited homes and tried to put families back together again, she gives her important perspective of the process, and what you should know about what happens when someone reports a presumptive child abuse.
If you are not familiar with the process of investigating child abuse through a state agency, this episode is a must listen for anyone who has kids, or who has ever considered reporting child abuse.
Moving in together seems simple, right? Until someone moves out, that someone claims the rights that belong to "cohabitating partners" in that state.
In this episode, Modern Divorce's Billie Tarascio and Washington Family Law Attorney Michelle Dellino compare the high impact differences between splitting up in one state versus another.
Prepare to hear some critical traps and "gotchas" in this episode that make this a must-listen to anyone who is living with their partner without a marriage license. In fact, the idea that "we don't need a piece of paper" to make a relationship is exactly right - because the state you live in will make the rules for you, and it may not be pretty. And it's probably going to cost one of you waaaaay more than the other, unless you both decide for yourselves what the rules should be beforehand.
If you're in Washington, check out Michelle Dellino at Dellino Law in the Seattle metro area, and you can find Billie Tarascio at MyModernLaw.com.
For anyone who has a child who is in danger - either emotionally or physically - when they are with a co-parent, this podcast episode of Modern Divorce, will give you the roadmap for when to file with the court for help. Modern Law Family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Ryan Claridge talk about the different ways such requests with the court can play out, and whether to file in family court or not.
If you share custody with a parent who you suspect is putting your child at risk - for whatever reason - this is a must-listen episode packed with strategies and information about how you might approach this very sensitive situation and how to avoid the pitfalls that can make your legal position worse.
What happens when a couple splits up and there's important - and valuable - personal property to divide? Can he keep the beat up, albeit classic car in the garage? Can she keep those paintings her great grandma collected? Well, that all depends on the value of those things.
Getting a good valuation and a catalog of all the personal belongings of a couple can put an end to quibbling and outright war between exes. In this podcast, family law attorney Billie Tarascio of Modern Law talks with Frederick A. Schertenlieb, of Estate Management Services on how the process works and why divorcing spouses may want to use it to value - and fairly divide - belongings that the spouses have accumulated during a marriage.
Let's say you split up from your spouse and move to another state. When it comes time to divorce, do you know where to file? It can make a huge difference in the outcome, says Arizona family law attorney Billie Tarascio of Modern Law, and Texas family law attorney Brian Walters of Walters Gilbreath PLLC.
In this episode, you'll learn the sort of differences that can change the way the court will split up assets and whether you'll be eligible to receive spousal support (alimony). For instance, Texas says NO to spousal support, but may split up property differently than a community property state like Arizona, or California. It's also possible to take child custody issues to court in one state, while dealing with divorce and property issues in another.
How do you know which is best for you? Listen in for an illuminating conversation, and something that may change how and where you choose to divorce.
In this Modern Divorce podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Shanna Tingom, a Certified Divorce Financial Planner, who specializes in helping plan the financial aspects of a divorce by developing a plan. While an attorney can navigate the legal aspects of divorce, the CDFA can create the financial plan to get through the divorce so that you are best positioned to survive and thrive after the judge signs the divorce orders.
Taking a second home while letting your ex keep the first? Not so fast. A CDFA can show you how you might get slammed with capital gains taxes and come out with far less in the end, without taking the right steps. Trading IRA funds to buy out an ex's stake in the family home? A CDFA can help you decide if that's the best move for your bottom line and how to make that move.
This discussion is perfect for anyone who is concerned about their finances and making a budget work in divorce. To connect with Shanna, go to heritagefinancialAZ.com
In this Modern Divorce podcast, Arizona family law attorney Billie Tarascio and Virginia family law attorney Devon Slovensky break down the elements that you need to take into account when deciding whether to sell the family house and start new elsewhere - or if you can keep the house during and after the divorce process.
Each state has its different rules, but the same emotional elements will be at play in any state you divorce in. Some people trade a stake in the house for part of a 401(k) when splitting assets, but there will be differences in the way each asset grows over the years, and the tax implications.
This episode is specifically for anyone contemplating divorce and whether to stay or go: it's the all-important question and one that can have years of after effects on your life and finances.
Connect with Devon at legal@slovenskylaw.com and Billie at info@mymodernlaw.com
Pop artist Britney Spears, at 39, is still not in charge of her own life. The #FreeBritney movement, spurred further by a New York Times documentary airing on Hulu, looks at why she is still enduring a court-sanctioned conservatorship managed by her father, and whether her adult rights are being unfairly or criminally curtailed.
In this fascinating episode of the Modern Divorce podcast, family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Darin Colburn of Modern Law break down the areas that make them suspicious of - even angry at - these arrangements, and how they'd approach the situation as attorneys. In fact, the conservatorship, and her father's behavior, has been used against her, to limit her time with her own children.
For anyone who is following the #FreeBritney movement, or is interested in the effects of conservatorships in family law, this is a must-listen.
In this fascinating episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio talks with Dana Lam, founder of the Surprise Date Challenge on how to save a marriage from divorce with some simple steps that anyone can do. The conversation also covers when you'll know if it's "over," and Dana's own rocky path to understanding these steps after suffering a divorce to her children's father.
Keeping a marriage and a relationship together is said to take "work," but in this episode, Dana explains how her Surprise Date Challenge came to be. She's also written a book on the subject by the same name.
When a professional person who runs a business, like a dentist, doctor, lawyer, or accountant, is in a divorce, the "goodwill" value of that business and professional value can be a key sticking point.
Professional business valuations can be thousands of dollars different depending on how, and who, does the valuations.
In this episode, Modern Law Attorney Billie Tarascio talks with Chris David, of Health Value Group (healthvaluegroup.com) about the process for setting a valuation and what factors are taken into account.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone divorcing who operates a business based on their professional training and education. It's a technical area of law that affects average people divorcing in community property states where assets are customarily split in half. How do you place a value on an accountant's book of business? What happens when one spouse has student loan debt accumulated during the marriage?
You may have to listen to this one twice, and take notes.
Spousal maintenance - what used to be called alimony - can be a key negotiating point in a divorce. In this episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio talks with Ryan Claridge, a Modern Law attorney, who talks about the strategies involved when it comes time to asking for spousal maintenance.
It's not a divorce penalty, Ryan says, but it is a bridge for one spouse who makes less money than the other, to receive income from the other spouse for a period of time. Sometimes courts look at spousal maintenance as "compensatory," such as when one spouse supports another while getting a college degree, for instance.
For anyone who is in the midst of splitting up and potentially receiving - or paying - spousal maintenance, this discussion is all about your money and how you can make the most of it.
In this Modern Divorce Podcast, we do a deep dive into the common issues that come up for divorced parents who are jointly raising children. And there are problems aplenty - which can sometimes be solved beforehand in a well drafted parenting plan.
What if mom doesn't want the kiddos to have cell phones because they aren't doing their school work? But dad disagrees because he pays the cell phone bills. That could be part of a parenting plan. But how should issues like children's doctors and discipline be addressed? How should a parent react when the other uses corporeal punishment like spanking when the other is strictly against it?
Colombian-born family attorney Henry Alzate talks with Modern Law's Billie Tarascio about how to navigate these very difficult waters, and how to handle communication issues that surround disagreements. Building a parenting plan may need to include details for dealing with a teenager when that child is currently five.
Henry Alzate has a private practice in the Phoenix area, and can be reached at 602-290-5487. You can also reach Billie Tarascio at info@mymodernlaw.com or at MyModernLaw.com
When it comes to splitting up property and money with your ex, are you leaving too much money on the table? Can you get a better deal with your spouse if you negotiate harder, or in a better way?
In this Modern Divorce podcast episode, your host, Billie Tarascio talks with her Modern Law colleague Darin Colburn about the asset and money split between Amazon owner Jeff Bezos, one of the richest men in the world, and his ex wife MacKenzie Scott. The discussion has some critical negotiating points for anyone splitting up assets in a divorce, including things you are absolutely entitled to, and assessing your real value and contributions during a marriage.
Some people may be interested in striking a quick deal and getting OUT of the marriage, but in other cases, people may be more interested in doing a deep dive into hidden assets or mis-valued assets. This is a fascinating breakdown of things you need to know during a divorce.
For more information, contact the Modern Law team at info@mymodernlaw.com, or stop by our website at MyModernLaw.com
After representing children in court, family law attorney Tami Haley, found out that the children in your life are listening to everything you say. Let's just say it's like having a camera recording everything you are doing.
"You have to see the custody issues from the eyes of the child," Tami says. "They know everything." In this episode, Tami talks about how to step mom the right way and how to insulate children from all the drama of divorce and post-divorce.
One of the only ways to lose custody is by failing to recognize your children's needs. Tami talks with host Billie Tarascio about step parenting and how to manage the dicey issues surrounding children who have to live through the dramas and stress of a divorce.
To find Tami, check her out at HaleyLawAZ.com. And find more about Billie Tarascio and Modern Law at info@mymodernlaw.com
Family law attorney Kylie Bigelow is known for her ability to pull out amazing outcomes from high drama, difficult and messy child custody divorces where a parent's ability to spend time with their child - and their longterm relationship - is on the line. In this episode, our host Billie Tarascio talks with Kylie about dealing with angry children, implanted memories, parental alienation and whether and when a therapist should be called into the mix.
If you're dealing with child custody issues, and possibly fighting with a child about maintaining your parenting (read: relationship) time with that child, then this is the must-listen podcast for developing a strategy to deal with your difficult situation.
To find out more about Kylie Bigelow, check her out at MyModernLaw.com.
Where you divorce can make a big difference. In this podcast, family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Russell Knight break down the concerns for divorcing in different jurisdictions and why that's important.
For instance, certain states may split property differently or have more beneficial child custody laws for your particular situation. There are also rules for when and where you can take your child out of state - or out of the country - in the process of a divorce.
This is a must-listen episode for anyone starting a divorce who has connections in more than one state or area!
You can find Russell on his website at rdklegal.com and Billie at mymodernlaw.com.
Dr. Dre, the founder and CEO of Aftermath Entertainment and Beats Electronics, has gotten notice from his wife Nicole Young that she's heading to Splitsville. She's asking for $2 million a month in spousal support in their divorce. Will she get it? How can she make her case? How should he make his case?
Family law attorneys Billie Tarascio and Darin Colburn dish on the big dollar divorce plays between a music icon and his attorney wife, who have already made mistakes by leaving their divorce details in the public record. In this podcast, Billie and Darin talk about what the couple could do to get through the split, and what their potential courtroom plays could be.
For those who are also divorcing (presumably with less money), you'll hear about some pro moves in this episode that could be used in any ugly divorce where money, privacy, and allegations of abuse are in play. This is especially important when dealing with the statute of limitations in your state and what that could mean for how money and property is split between parties.
So now it's legal in Arizona to smoke Marijuana as of 2021. But just hold on a minute - what does that mean for you? Can you grow it? Sell it? Smoke in the car? Smoke on your walk in the park?
Now that Proposition 207 decriminalized the use of marijuana, DUI and Criminal Law Attorney Shawn B. Hamp breaks down the details. In this episode, you'll hear about the grey areas of the law, and the details about when, where, and how smoking marijuana can still get you into trouble.
Podcast Host and Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio also asks the key questions for parents that partake in marijuana, and what that might mean for a family law case in the process.
When a child needs extra help at school, there are laws in place to get the right help and a plan. But it doesn't always come easily, or at all. Former special education teacher, attorney Hope Kirsch, talks with host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio about what should happen and how to get it done. Hope takes the mystery out of the system to help kids, especially ones who have divorced parents with sometimes conflicting ideas about how to resolve the needs of a child who is struggling with education issues at school. This episode is packed with great ideas and advice for co-parenting kiddos with special needs.
Nesting. It's not just about getting comfy at home. When divorcing with kids, it's a question of whether you can share a home with your ex so that parenting time keeps the kids in one place while the parents depart when it's not 'their time.'
Carly Loving, who runs two Nekter Juice Bar franchises in Chandler, AZ, tells her story of how she and her ex split up their time while letting the kids stay under one roof. In this episode, she shares with host, and Family Law Attorney Billie Tarascio, all the details of the good and bad of nesting, and what happened to her family during the process.
Can't stand to be around your Ex? But you have to, right? All the kids events and obligations throw you two together.
In this episode, family law attorney Elise Buie of Elise Buie Family Law Group (elisebuiefamilylaw.com) in Seattle, WA, takes off her attorney hat and puts on her divorced mom hat, talking through all the dramas that got her to a point where she could breathe the same air as her ex.
The big question is: do you hate your ex more than you love your kids? Host Billie Tarascio breaks it down with Elise on how to get beyond the conflict; for your own sake and for the kids.
So now that your marriage is over, what happens to your kids if something happened and you died? Who would take care of them? Do you want your ex and family to keep your parents and family members from seeing the kids. Probably not.
In this episode, family law attorney Billie Tarascio talks with divorced dad, and estate planning attorney Rilus Dana, where they walk through the process of how to do a quick and legit will naming guardianship and then how to make sure your assets go to your children and not to your ex (unless that's what you want!).
To find Rilus Dana online, go to DanaLegalHelp.com. And to connect with Billie Tarascio, you can send an email to info@mymodernlaw.com or go to her website MyModernLaw.com.
In this episode, Kris Godinez, licensed professional counselor, unwraps the mysteries of the most common personality disorders that can affect your divorce and what you should do about it. Host Billie Tarascio, attorney with Modern Law in Mesa, AZ, talks with Kris about all of the different types of problem ex's: drama queens (and kings), covert, overt, and communal narcissists, and the emotional dysregulation of borderline personality disorder.
Divorcing someone with any of these issues can mean big problems for the other party, but in this conversation you'll learn about how to deal with the big exit from a marriage and how to protect yourself.
You can find Kris at AhaCounselingAZ.com, and Billie at MyModernLaw.com.
There are so many decisions that go into a divorce and there are so many decisions that go into a financial plan and whether or not you have a financial plan and whether or not you're working with an advisor, you are making decisions every single day right now that are to affect your long-term future.
Do you want to make those decisions proactively and informed them with a plan, or do you want to make those decisions one cup of coffee at a time?
After divorce, you have the freedom to paint your future picture anyway you want. It's worthwhile to sit with a certified financial planner, like Jana LaVanway (featured in today's episode), who explains some of the considerations you'll need to be thinking about.
To find Jana, you can reach her at jlavanway@juncturewealth.com or by stopping at juncturewealth.com.
To find Billie Tarascio, stop by the MyModernLaw.com website or call (480) 937-2562.
How you divvy up your property and valuables in a divorce depends a great deal on the state you're in. And how you kept property, bought it, and sold it, makes a big difference. In this fascinating look at how this works, Arizona attorney and podcast host Billie Tarascio talks with Chicago area attorney Brian Reidy about how different states deal with the issues.
This is one of those "pulling back the curtains" podcasts that everyone going into or through a divorce should listen to because what you hear could make a big difference in what you get to keep when you walk away.
To find Brian Reidy online, go to ReidyLawOffice.com. Likewise, if you're looking for Modern Law or Billie Tarascio for an Arizona Divorce, find out more at MyModernLaw.com.
So often, when a couple is divorced, there's real estate - a home - to split up between them and it must be sold. It's a high tension situation that requires help, and Jeffery M. Hall specializes in just that. As a Special Real Estate Commissioner in Arizona and retired attorney, Jeffery can report to the court if necessary, and help both spouses find a balance with who gets what.
In this episode, Attorney and Modern Divorce Host Billie Tarascio talks with Jeffrey about the process and what someone can expect. It's often a question of saving money on legal entanglements and helping angry parties resolve a sale fairly.
Find Jeffrey at https://JefferyMHall.com.
We've all heard the stories because it happens: one parent accuses the other of abuse of some kind in a divorce. When it's not true, defending yourself against the charges is a minefield of legal issues. In this episode, Attorney Tim Hintze, criminal attorney, talks with host Billie Tarascio about how to navigate the minefield and how to defend yourself successfully.
This is a critical MUST LISTEN podcast for anyone dealing with a false accusation that threatens to keep you away from your children or create a criminal record. Tim has loads of great knowledge on this subject that will leave you with an all-new consideration of why criminal law and family law often intersect.
To connect with Tim, find him online here: https://www.scottsdale-duilawyer.com/attorney/timothy-hintze/
Immigration is one of this country's hot button issues, but when it comes to family and legal issues with immigration, the topic becomes a deeply meaningful, and sometimes gut-wrenching challenge.
In today's podcast, your host, family law attorney Billie Tarascio talks with Tempe, Arizona immigration attorney Dario Romero about some of the rules that govern who becomes a U.S. citizen and how their family ties affect their path to citizenship.
Dario unpacks some of the most important questions for anyone curious about immigration status and how to become a legal citizen, including how children of immigrants might help their parents get citizenship, and how marriage can help - or hurt - a person's chances.
It's happening so much in today's world: grandparents or another party are raising children when their parents aren't in the picture - much, if at all. Sometimes a deep and abiding relationship develops over many years between a step-parent and a child. And then - BOOM - a divorce happens, life happens, or a death happens. All this can get in the way of seeing a much-loved child. What can you do?
In this podcast, family law attorney Billie Tarascio talks about what happens in Arizona and how the court considers these cases: and what you need to do to get the rights you seek to spend time with a child.
Divorce. You can't concentrate. Your whole life has been turned upside down, right?
In this episode, Divorce Attorney Billie Tarascio, of Modern Law, talks with Scottsdale, AZ Counselor and therapist, Dr. Leslie Sherlin, PhD, about the necessity for managing the deeply emotional and exhausting elements of divorce. Divorce is so much more than a legal transaction.
Dr. Sherlin gives his input on how to mentally survive the impacts of divorce. There's no one-size-fits-all recipe, and he details about how people commonly worry about whether their response to the impact of divorce is normal. "What your experiencing is a normal reaction to an un-normal situation," he says.
Listen in for some great tips on how to set your mind at ease and survive the mental exhaustion of the divorce process.
And -- Find him at https://drsherlin.com where you can download your free mindfulness exercise to start being more present and calm right away!
One of the fastest ways you can lose your shirt is to get divorced. But how do you protect yourself and your assets when going through a horrible process? Our host, and divorce attorney Billie Tarascio, welcomes Asset Protection Attorney Paul Deloughery of Magellan Law in Scottsdale, AZ do a deep dive into the issues and solutions for protecting your money and property during divorce.
Paul also lays out some of his key pillars for success in protecting assets, and why asset protection is an over-used term used by non-legal entities that may not have your best interests at heart.
For anyone who has accumulated property, a business, an inheritance, or anything of value worth protecting, this conversation between two attorneys is a must-listen!
How do you deal with an ex in the middle of a divorce (or even after a divorce) when emotions are running high and a new conflict may erupt at something unexpectedly? Therapist Erik Gagnon explains some of the rules to avoid and resolve conflict using these key elements:
- use I-statements as opposed to You-statements
- avoid blaming or shaming
- Keep things in the present
"We don't want to go back to something that happened six months ago or six years ago," Erik explains in the podcast. "Because then we bring up more of those kind of specific resentments that won't get us to resolving the conflict. It really needs to be about how we're feeling at this time and how those feelings interject in our arguments or our discourse."
This discussion, with divorce attorney Billie Tarascio, takes a critical look at the things that need to happen to put out the emotional fires in those unavoidable conversations with your former partner.
Divorce is hard enough without having to deal with the fallout with children. At our law practice, much of the focus of divorcing parents is on helping the kiddos and teens survive the split. Teens are angry when mom and dad divorce and they may act out, or hide out. In this podcast, Modern Law Attorney and founder of IDoOver.life talks with therapist Eric Gagnon about how to deal with this very tricky subject. Eric has recently joined IDoOver to work directly with divorcing parents as they work through the emotional battlefields of divorce.
In this episode, Attorney Billie Tarascio talks about the ways you can cut back on the costs of divorce and how to avoid the pitfalls that she's seen others fall into. This may be one of the most important subjects for people considering divorce or already starting one, since a standard attorney-led divorce can average $20,000 per person. At Modern Law, and its sister company IDoOver.life, a divorce document preparation service for budget divorces, they've gotten those averages waaaaay down by adding some options that you can put to work for yourself. Listen in for more tips that you can use today.
With the advent of COVID-19, and people doing more from their home, testifying in court is no different. We've seen some UGLY attempts at this, which we talk about here, so you can absolutely stay away from doing things that will make a judge decide against you. Your goal is to make the process easy for the judge to decide in your favor. Listen in for some things you can put to work for yourself before you're called to testify from home.
Going back to school has brought a host of problems for single parents who disagree about whether kids should be online only or back in a classroom. Who decides? Attorney Billie Tarascio talks about what the law says you can and can't do when it comes to making these decisions. Pro tip: Take a look at what your current parenting agreement says about who makes schooling decisions, and that's likely to be the direction you'll need to follow. But listen in for the finer details of this sticky situation.