The People PleaseHER Podcast: Recent Episodes
Kay Monét
Every woman has the best version of themselves on the inside fighting to get out. It’s time to make her proud. It’s time to please HER! All those in favor of putting yourself first, say I! Once you know your worth, you’ll begin acting accordingly. So, if you’re dedicated to leveling up, especially in romantic relationships, this podcast is for you. Make sure you subscribe as all episodes will be geared toward providing tools that will help you create healthy boundaries for yourself and potential suitors. Our people pleasing days are over. From now on, the mantra is, Please HER or please leave!
Join Kay on Part 4 of her Healing Journey where she hops from bed to bed trying to fill a void that only God can fill.
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Chapters
00:00 HEALING JOURNEY: PART 4
00:35 OPEN OPTIONS , CLOSED LEGS
02:19 ROUTINE VS. RELATIONSHIP
03:51 DON'T LET HIM KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE
04:59 THE FIRST DATE FIASCO
09:49 DRUG FILLED DESSERTS
15:46 5 NIGHT STAND
23:05 ADDING TO MY ROSTER
27:39 BREAK UPS NO LONGER BREAK ME
Join Kay on Part 3 of her Healing Journey. In this episode, she shares the hardships of healing out loud and navigating transitioning from her hoe phase.
Chapters
00:00 Healing is Hard
01:23 Part Two Revealed Residue
02:56 Forgiveness is the Ugly Twin Sister of Healing
04:55 The Victim Was Also The Culprit
14:44 Hoes In Different Area Codes
15:29 Exhibit A: Kourtney
17:45 Story Time: Get Rid of Him Quick
20:04 Avoid Attractions to Distractions
29:00 Uno Reverse Back to Kourtney
29:49 Exhibit B: Bryce
31:03 My Mom Cock Blocked Me
31:42 Exhibit B Exits, Exhibit C Enters
35:15 Let's Heal Together
Um....yeah.....just listen.
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Take a ride with Kay as she describes the ins and outs of her healing journey. In today's episode, she gives a detailed account of life as a friend-ancée and the benefits of doing away with her old perspectives on dating.
Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 1
In this first chapter, Kay Monet shares how her attention seeking stems from childhood. She then shares a story of how she manipulated a man into being her boyfriend after he friend-zoned her. Later, she realizes the relationship is a huge mistake and tries to wiggle her way out of it.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 11
Kay ends up right back where she started. Will she repeat her past failures or choose a different path this time?
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 10
Delulu Kay strikes again! She falls in love with a musical narcissist who convinces her to march to the beat of his drum.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 9
As if making horrible decisions with men her own age weren't enough, Kay decides to skip down the yellow brick F-Boy road with a minor. Stay tuned....
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 8
Jealousy and insanity kick in as Kay's side chick saga continues. Her desire to feel loved causes her to act out and try new experiences that she is not ready for sexually.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 7
Kay reminisces on her hatred for Valentine's Day and plans to get married to a complete stranger! Somebody pray for sis, she is not okay!
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 6
Kay and Kourtney share toxic behaviors that bring them closer together while also tearing them further apart.
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Takeaways
- Your self-esteem sets the standard for your relationships.
- It's essential to prioritize self-love over romantic love.
- Healing requires confronting painful truths.
- Therapy can be beneficial, but finding the right fit is key.
- Emotional scars can linger long after a relationship ends.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 5
Kay spends a significant amount of time trying to figure out why her man is acting single? It's because he is! They ain't together! Never has been and never will be. Sis finally realizes she needs to stop catching feelings for people who are willing to fumble her.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 4
In this chapter, Kay continues to lose her mind as her self-esteem continues to swirl down the toilet. She goes on one date then busts it wide open because dude is semi-nice to her. She starts catching feelings and gets afraid that he may not feel the same way so goes back to the streets in search for a back up plan.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 3
In this episode, Kay moves to Atlanta and proceeds to lose her entire mind. Instead of searching for a job, she searches for different men to feel the void left inside her after her most recent traumatic relationship.
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Same Dude, Different Day | Chapter 2
It's wild, just listen.
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Say it with me, "Red Flags Are NOT Red Carpets!" Nor should a dozen reg flags be treated like a dozen red roses. We have to start taking these warning signs seriously or else we'll continuous be stuck in the red flag rinse cycle. In this episode, Kay describes the time when she ignored her intuition even though all signs were screaming "Stop! Do NOT pass GO!" Do NOT collect baby mama drama!Hear more of these stories by purchasing her book, Situationship Guru or by following her on social media @_iamkaymonet.
In this episode, Kay recaps the relationship that inspired many of the events in her book, Situationship Guru!The featured audio in this episode is from Sisithasavage.If you're enjoying Season 2, stop by IAMKAYMONET.com and tap into the relatable relationship resources.
God play too much! If he ran out of husbands he needs to just say that. In this episode, Kay expresses how she's tired of dating the same type of men over and over again.Stop by IAMKAYMONET.com to purchase a copy of Kay's new book, Situationship Guru.
Have you ever dated below your worth? Kay Monét sure has! In this episode, she recaps stories from her past, while vividly describing how she wanted a caviar lifestyle but settle for day-old crumbs instead.Visit her website IAMKAYMONET.com and follow her on social media @_iamkaymonet.com.
Kay shares how she forced herself into a relationship that she later regretted. She touches on key lessons such as Never Chase A Man, Never Have Mixed Feelings About Mixed Signals and Relationships Should Be Private, Not Secret! Follow Kay Monet on social media @_iamkaymonet or visit her website, IAMKAYMONET.com for more details.
Join Kay Monet as she debunks commitment myths.Follow Kay Monét on Social Media @_iamkaymonet or visit her website IAMKAYMONET.com
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes your husband in my DMs?! Um...is it just me, or is that not how the nursery rhyme is supposed to end? How are you a whole husband but still Steph Curry with the shot in somebody’s inbox? Today we’re discussing what really goes down in the DMs (Disrespectful Marriages). Follow @_iamkaymonet on Instagram and Twitter. Background Music: Drift by Lazlow
Kay introduces herself as well as sheds a little light on her previous dating experiences. She also discusses why women stay in raggedy situations even when all signs are pointing toward the exit. Follow @_iamkaymonet on Instagram and Twitter.
It’s all fun and games until the journey to getting boo’d up gets stuck in the talking phase maze. Cuffing season is among us, so there will be many a “Do you like me, yes, no or maybe?” questions on the horizon. Men and women around the world are entertaining each other in hopes of making it official and wearing matching pajamas for Christmas. However, there’s no guarantee that these budding interests will bloom into full-blown relationships. Tap into today’s episode where Kay Monét drops a few tips on how to navigate this ghetto stage of dating.
If you need some additional resources to help you push through the talking phase, stop by my website iamkaymonet.com and download a FREE copy of my Anti-Settle Manual.
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Raise your hand if you're tired of receiving unexpected pics from men who will never have a chance with you! Tap in, let's talk about it.
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Former people pleaser, Kay Monét, picks up where she left off in the last episode and continues discussing her unpopular opinions. In part one, she discussed several topics such as how men should only date women who they can afford and how being called "high maintenance" is a top tier compliment. Today we'll discuss sensitive thugs, hoes and people who just can't seem to mind their own business. Tap in!
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Culture has widely spread the spirit of confusion by allowing women to think it's okay to partake in abnormalities such as proposing to men or chasing Casper's cousins after they ghosted us. Not only have these actions been validated by members of the Ride or Die fan club, but they've become quite popular. The former people pleaser in me would've tried to sweep my opposing thoughts under the rug. However, this new and improved Kay Monét who has adopted a "Please HER or please leave" mentality; has a lot to say about these topics, as well as a few others that don't sit right with her. Join your host as she shakes things up by discussing a handful of her unpopular opinions.
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Special Guest Tierra Banks stops by to help us navigate through the situationships that we have with our mothers. Follow Tierra Banks on Instagram @tierradbanks, visit her website MendedRelationships.com, and purchase her book, Our Perfect Chaos!
Many of our favorite foods are filled with toxic ingredients. Just like our comfort foods, some men look good on the outside but are toxic on the inside. If men came with nutrition labels that showed their bad traits, would you still date them? Join Kay as she discusses the similarities between our comfort foods and comfort zones. Follow Kay Monét on Instagram and Twitter @_iamkaymonet
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New Year, Who Dis? If your New Year’s Resolution was to leave these raggedy dudes in the previous year, then this episode is for you! Kick back with Kay as she reveals the top ten reasons why you should stop dating a man. Follow @_iamkaymonet on Instagram and Twitter.