Ultra Marriage: Recent Episodes
Mike Bellini
We are on a mission to restore the meaning and significance of marriage. Each week we will interview people who are striving for ultimate success in their marriage just as much as in their personal ambitions. We believe that the family unit is the heart and soul of our culture, and the health and vibrancy between a husband and wife is the core foundation of the family. If you want to take your marriage to the next level, tune in.
In a follow up to our first conversation about what it islike to be on a journey back to faith, long-time and dear friend of mine, Paul Gallagher, joins me again to dive deeper into the concept of God. For instance, is God a “who” or a “what?” We have another open and honest conversation,asking questions that many don’t dare to ask for fear that it might dampen their faith. On the contrary, I believe these questions can serve to strengthen our faith and solidify our beliefs.
At times throughout this episode, these questions lead tosome prickly back-and-forths about different beliefs and ultimate truths. However, with the overall objective of seeking to understand various viewpoints.
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This is an insightful, open, and honest conversation with a close and long-time friend of mine about his current path to faith and enlightenment. In a recent conversation, Paul mentioned his coming back to faith. His comment got mecurious. What was it that prompted his pursuit? What questions is he trying to answer? What is he hoping to find?
I believe many people are experiencing a similar awakeningin recent years. This conversation is about understanding Paul’s reflections, desires, and thought process, to know how to meet each other where we are and help get to where we are destined to go.
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At the beginning of Matthew chapter 10, Jesus gives hisdisciples specific authority and sends them out with instructions. There are three distinct instructions he gives them – to Go, Preach, and Do. Then he tells them to give all of this freely and why they should do so.
In this episode we discuss:
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“Go to the lost sheep.” (Matthew 10:6)
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“Preach this message: The kingdom of heaven isnear." (Matthew 10:7)
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“Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse thosewho have leprosy, drive out demons.” (Matthew 10:8a)
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“Freely you have received. Freely give.” (Matthew 10:8b)
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What would your life look like if you gave God anirrevocable “yes” to following Him, to everything He asks and commands of you, regardless of where that takes you?
In this episode we discuss:
- “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead.”
Matthew 8:22
- “Go and learn what this means; ‘I desire mercy,not sacrifice.’”
Matthew 9:13 (Hosea 6:6)
- “Ask the Lord of the harvest…to send out workersinto his harvest field.”
Matthew 9:38
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We cover two themes in this episode: (1)How to watch out and be prepared for false prophets, and (2)Doing what Jesus instructed us to do. Deception is rampant in cultural messaging today. Words of the prophet Isaiahare as real today as ever,
“So justice is driven back, and righteousness standsat a distance; truth has stumbled in the streets, honesty cannot enter. Truth is nowhere to be found, and whoever shuns evil becomes a prey.” (Isaiah 59:14-15
How do we recognize truth from deception in order to put the truth into practice?
Following are the verses we discuss:
- “Watch out for false prophets.”
Matthew 7:15
- “…(do) the will of my Father who is in heaven.”
Matthew 7:21
- “Hear these words of mine and put them intopractice.”
Matthew 7:24
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In the book of James closely follows Jesus’ sermon on themount, which we have been covering for a few weeks. James 4:2-3 says, “You do not have because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives. In this episode, we cover prayer and seeking God in a similar way that James described; we touch on the golden rule; and connect those instructions to the ultimate essence of this path we are on…to enter through the narrow gate.
Following are the verses we discuss:
- “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and youwill find; knock and the door will be opened to you.”
Matthew 7:7
- “So in everything, do to others what you wouldhave them do to you...”
Matthew 7:12
- “Enter through the narrow gate...”
Matthew 7:13
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It is a common misconception that we should make no judgment on anyone or anything. Based on the scriptures covered in this episode, we could easily make that assumption. However, we are called to make judgments ofour own actions and character, and to make evaluations of the actions of our fellow believers, those closest to us. As we read the full context of Jesus’ instructions, the “intent” behind our words is what matters most.
Following are the verses we discuss:
- “Do not judge, or you too will be judged.”
Matthew 7:1
- “First take the plank out of your own eye, andthen you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”
Matthew 7:3
- “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throwyour pearls to pigs.”
Matthew 7:6
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In this episode, I’m joined by my son, Jonathan, for a funconversation about a movie watching experience we started together one year ago. We wanted to watch the highest grossing films of every year, going back as far as we could. The oldest movie we were able to find was 1933’s King Kong, and we watched the highest grossing annual films through 2023.
This is the first conversation we had after finishing the list,and we talk about things that surprised us, shifts in moviemaking over the years, the worst and best movies we watched. We end the episode by ranking our Top-20. You may (or may not) be surprised!
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Continuing in our series to walk the Path of Discipleship,today’s topic is very simple yet difficult to follow. We are not to worry about gaining anything in this life, but instead seek the kingdom of heaven FIRST in everything we do.
Following are the verses we discuss:
- “Do not store up for yourselves treasures onearth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures inheaven, where moths and vermin do not destroy, and where thieves do not break in and steal.”
Matthew 6:19-20
- “You cannot serve both God and money.”
Matthew 6:24b
- “But seek first his kingdom and hisrighteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
Matthew 6:33
- “Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear.”
Matthew 6:25
- “Do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.”
Matthew 6:34
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Continuing in our series to walk the Path of Discipleship,today we discuss living and giving unselfishly. In Philippians 2:3-4, the Apostle Paul wrote, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your owninterests but each of you to the interests of the others.”
In his letters to the Corinthians, Paul also referred toJeremiah 9:23-24, which says, “Let not the wise boast of their wisdom or the strong boast of their strength or the rich boast of their riches, but let the one who boasts boast about this: that they have the understanding to know me, that I am the Lord, who exercises kindness, justice andrighteousness on earth, for in these I delight.”
Paul may very well have been referring to Jesus’ teachingfrom Matthew 6:1-18, covered in this episode in which we attempt to answer the question: If you have a desire to do something good, but would gain nothing personally from it, would you still do it?
Following are the instructions we discuss in this episode:
- “Be careful not to do your acts of righteousnessbefore men, to be seen by them…So when you give to the needy, do not announceit with trumpets…But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand knowwhat your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret.”
Matthew 6:1a, 2a, 3-4a
- “When you pray, go into your room, close thedoor and pray to your Father who is unseen.”
Matthew 6:6
- “And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words.”
Matthew 6:7
- “When you fast, do not look somber asthe hypocrites do, for they disfigure their faces to show others they are fasting. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you fast, put oil on your head and wash your face, so that it will not be obvious to others that you are fasting, but only to your Father…”
Matthew 6:16-18
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The Path of Discipleship: Becoming more obedient to theinstruction and teaching of Jesus.
The heart of this episode is about how we treat and love people. In it, we discuss the following verses:
- “Do not swear at all: either by heaven…or byearth…or by Jerusalem. And do not swear by your own head…simply let your ‘Yes’be ‘Yes’ and your ‘No,’ ‘No.’”
Matthew 5:34-37
- “Do not resist an evil person. If someonestrikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someonewants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. Ifsomeone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles.”
Matthew 5:39-41
- “Give to the one who asks you, and do not turnaway from the one who wants to borrow from you.”
Matthew 5:42
- “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecuteyou.”
Matthew 5:44
- “Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Fatheris perfect.”
Matthew 5:48
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The Path of Discipleship…becoming more obedient to theinstructions and teaching of Jesus.
In this episode, we discuss the weighty topics of marriage,sin, and divorce:
- Do not look at another woman lustfully. (from Matthew 5:28)
- “If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away…And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away.” (Matthew 5:29-30)
- Do not divorce your wife, except for maritalunfaithfulness. (from Matthew 5:32)
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Ep. 48 LET YOUR LIGHT SHINE
Continuing on the path of discipleship series, we review thefirst four instructions and commands that Jesus spoke in the book of Matthew and what we learned about them throughout the week. Then we discuss the following three commands:
- “Let your light shine before men, that they maysee your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.”
Matthew 5:16
- Before offering a gift at the alter…
“First go and be reconciled to yourbrother, then come and offer your gift.”
Matthew 5:24
- “Settle matters quickly with your adversary whois taking you to court.”
Matthew 5:25
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This episode kicks off a new series about The Path ofDiscipleship. During this series, we will identify all the commands and instructions spoken by Jesus in the Gospels that teach us how to live. Each week, we will highlight a few of those instructions, discuss them, pray aboutthem, and seek to live them out each day.
Why do this? Why now?
The greatest commandment is to love God with all our heart,soul, and mind. Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commands.” John later wrote, “And this is love: that we walk in obedience to his commands.” To fulfill the greatest commandment, we must know how Jesus instructed us to live and do it! By practicing what He taught that we become Disciples. And then, we are also equipped to fulfill the great commission.
Come along with us each week in walking the path ofdiscipleship!
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Ivonne Delaflor (@ivonne_delaflor ) is a writer, keynotespeaker, and the host of the Spirituality Now podcast. Known for creating the viral movement “21 Days of Faith in Action” in Latin America, Ivonne advocates for a worldwide movement of faith in action.
In this episode, Ivonne shares about the spiritual experience she encountered in a car accident as a teenager, her faith journey that led to getting baptized in 2018, and the conviction she feels to talk about Jesus and bring him to the world in this time.
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Geoff Speyrer (@geoffspeyrer ) is an endurance athlete andmilitary veteran with thirteen years of active duty. In 2023, he set out on a mission to run across the United States on a 6,500 trail through some of the harshest climates and elevations. In this episode, he shares the profoundspiritual reason for attempting that run, the intense struggles he faced afterward, and the road to recovery that starts with his relationship with Jesus.
This is at times an intense conversation, packed withreal-life stories of trauma, internal battles, embracing difficulty, and overcoming.
Geoff, thank you for your service and continuing the warriorspirit in all that you do.
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John Shibley (@last_in_line_leadership ) is an author,speaker, creator and host of the Last in Line Leadership podcast. Built upon Mark 9:35, the mission of Last in Line Leadership to encourage, equip and empower people for growth as servant leaders within their home, workplaceand community by applying faith-based principles.
In this episode, we discuss:
- The strength of servant leadership.
- What the heart of a servant leader looks like.
- Coaching up future leaders.
- How to set ego aside for the betterment of othersand the team.
- The rewards that a servant’s heart seeks.
- Lessons from the many leaders John hasinterviewed on his podcast.
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Matt Hay (@matthayoriginal ) is the Creative Director for TPUSA Faith, a division of Turning Point USA whose mission is to serve the American church by resourcing Christians across the nation to stand for liberty and The Kingdom. Since 2021, Matt has helped TPUSA Faith mobilize and equip pastors and church leaders across America to address the most pressing cultural challenges of today from a Biblical worldview. Matt’s passion is to see people of faithawaken to truth and boldly stand against the cultural status-quo.
In this episode, Matt shares:
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Leaving his previous job solely on faith andbelief in God’s guidance.
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The role of the church in American culture.
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How to speak truth with grace.
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The importance of discipleship by pastors ANDparents. - The Believer’s Summit in July 2024.
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Men, meet Greg Denning (@greg.denning ), one of the mostinspirational and uplifting men you’ll ever meet. He and his wife have seven children and have built a life that centers on family, adventure, and giving. Because of the priorities they uphold and standards they set for themselves, they have traveled to over sixty countries…all with their family! Greg is a trainer, speaker, leader of the “Be the Man” masterclass and tribe, host of the Be the Man Podcast, and co-host of the Extraordinary Family Life Podcast with his wife.
This episode is packed with invaluable insight from Greg’s experience. We discussed:- How he completely changed his life around to become the best version of himself.
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The non-negotiable commitment he made the momenthe got engaged.
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What a world-class marriage looks like.
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The importance of being “the man” for yourself,your wife, your family, and your place I the world today.
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How to get to the critical point of decision toraise the standards of who you are.- And so much more!
Check out Greg’s web site, podcasts, and social media formore about the amazing life he is building, as well as his coaching andmasterclass.
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Matt Scoletti (@mattscoletti) is a living testament totransformation and relentless determination. Once mired in a life lacking health, motivation, and purpose, Matt was confronted with a pivotal moment in 2011 that presented him with the opportunity to choose the direction of his life. He chose to positively embrace every day to the fullest and leave a lifestyle that had him on a destructive path.
In this episode, Matt bravely shares the past struggleswhich led him to that central decision, how resetting the building blocks of your life is a process that comes with bumps along the way, and the gratitude that comes from persevering on the path you know you were meant to walk.
Check out Matt’s web site, books, and social media for moreabout his inspirational life and story.
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This is a very special episode as my wife joins me for thefirst time on a podcast. Together, we discuss an Easter tradition that started in a bumpy, and somewhat contentious, way several years ago, but quickly turnedinto a beautiful experience that now adds so much significance to our celebration of Holy Week.
After hearing our story, we encourage everyone observingEaster to try something different this week, something uncomfortable, to step into the pain and uncertainty of Good Friday in a deeper way, in order to celebrate the joy of resurrection like never before.
Happy Easter.
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Ultra Marriage- https://www.amazon.com/Ultra-Marriage-Going-Distance-Moment/dp/1948693097/ref=sr_1_1?crid=WWYT776Z23V4&keywords=ultra+marriage&qid=1703423330&sprefix=ultra+marriag%2Caps%2C113&sr=8-1
What does it look like to live out a marriage that is 100-100 (vs. 50-50)? That is “Give and Receive” (vs. Give and Take)? That is, to give 100% of yourself without trying to take what you want, but instead,patiently waiting to receive what comes back to you.
In this episode, I read a chapter from my book, Ultra Marriage, which tells the story of a an extraordinary, yet trying, moment in my marriage that best encapsulates this perspective. For many readers, it is their favorite chapter in the book. Narrating this chapter, I didn’t realize how much emotion I still feel from these events over fifteen years later. It is a testament to the lasting power that one moment can have on a relationship.
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In order to build a life on solid ground to prepare for whatever challenges, trials, or difficulties are ahead of us, we have got to get our homes in order! That starts with our marriages. Unfortunately, we have been taught a false narrative about what marriage really is and how it’s supposed to work. That narrative has contributed to half of all marriages ending in divorce.
In this episode, I expose the lie we have bought into and share two fundamental principles that will open us up to the truth behind a successful marriage.
Listen to the end of the episode to learn how to get a free copy of one of my books, Ultra Marriage or Uncommon Prayers.
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If you are like me, you watch the news cycle and scratch your head at much of what you see, particularly from our elected leaders at all levels and in all parties. The question so many of are asking is, “What can I really do to make adifference?” We feel insignificant and powerless most of the time. BUT WE ARE NOT!
Ultimately, we hold all the power to impact our culture, country, and world right in our own homes. And that power starts with our marriages.
In this episode, I will share why your MARRIAGE just might be the vehicle that can create more positive influence and change in America than anything else we, or anyone, can do.
Listen to the end of the episode to learn how to get a freecopy of one of my books, Ultra Marriage or Uncommon Prayers.
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Ultra Marriage- https://www.amazon.com/Ultra-Marriage-Going-Distance-Moment/dp/1948693097/ref=sr_1_1?crid=WWYT776Z23V4&keywords=ultra+marriage&qid=1703423330&sprefix=ultra+marriag%2Caps%2C113&sr=8-1
Jon Cox is a big guy with a huge heart and gentle spirit. Heis a Community Manager @getsaltybritches, Co-founder of BMFJ Events, Race Director of @midstatemile and the Tennessee Mile, and an accomplished inventor. How did he journey from completing a master’s degree and working a successfulcorporate job to impacting lives through the many hats he is wearing now? For him, the answer is simple; he has listened to God and said “Yes” to his promptings.
In this first ever in-person episode, we discuss the valuewe should place on God’s calling, what God really wants for us, avoiding the traps of social media and chasing the crowd, the peace that comes from following Jesus, and much more!
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Amy Tucker is the creator and founder of Salty Britches. Originallycreated to withstand saltwater chafing, Salty Britches has become the best, longest-lasting barrier against skin irritation, and is trusted by families, athletes, and military personnel for year-round all-day protection.
When creating the product, Amy insisted on inscribing“Philippians 4:13” on every tube, despite overwhelming voices trying to convince her against it. In this episode, Amy shares the reason behind that decision and why that specific verse. We also discuss the full context behind the meaning of Philippians 4:13 and why it is most often misunderstood.
In this conversation, we delve into what it looks like to bebold, unwavering, steadfast, and perseverant in living a life and building a business upon a higher purpose.
Amy’s website: https://getsaltybritches.com/
Amy’s podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/salty-shenanigans
Amy on IG: https://www.instagram.com/getsaltybritches/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
Chris Vester is “a bold man who acts with integrity andfrom love, standing as a beacon pointing to God’s grace and mercy.” He is a devoted husband of 27 years, intentional father of two daughters, author, podcaster, and long-time business owner and coach with a wealth of experience to help others like him to reach their potential.
In this episode, Chris shares powerful insight on topics such as:
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Developing and living a personal mission that is based on your values.
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What is means to “love like Jesus.”
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His unique morning routine that he has been doing consistently for severalyears.
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The value of reading the Bible everyday.
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Living life on purpose.
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Why Jesus?
Chris’ books:
Answers From the Stairs - https://www.amazon.com/Answers-Stairs-Lessons-Lived-Purpose/dp/B0C47SSSZ9/ref=sr_1_2?crid=25SZ4BA5G5J05&keywords=chris+vester&qid=1705319581&sprefix=chris+vester%2Caps%2C108&sr=8-2
Faith, Family, Fulfillment - https://www.amazon.com/Faith-Family-Fulfillment-Clarity-Relationship/dp/B0BJH7PD4D/ref=sr_1_1?crid=25SZ4BA5G5J05&keywords=chris+vester&qid=1705319649&sprefix=chris+vester%2Caps%2C108&sr=8-1
Chris’ podcasts:
Answers From the Stairs - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/answers-from-the-stairs/id1600324718
Faith, Family, Fulfillment - https://faithfamilyfulfillmentpodcast.com/
Chris on IG: https://www.instagram.com/hvautocoo/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini_/
https://www.facebook.com/mikebellini0708
https://twitter.com/bellini_mike
https://www.mikebellini.com/
Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
Throughout Lent in 2024, I will share an answered prayer from the Bible as a YT Short. Going through scripture, I've identified 44 specific references to a prayer that were answered.
Throughout Lent, let's spend more time in prayer than we do watching the news. Your prayers can have a greater impact on your life, your family, our country, and the world, than anything else you could do. We will see how prayer has changed the destinies of people and nations each day as we go through the Bible.
Tune in and pray on.
When tragedy strikes your family, how do you not only findpeace but also muster the will to keep moving forward? JD Malone found a way by leaning on his faith and seeking the direction and will of God. JD’s first wife mother of his five children went to be with the Lord after a battle with breastcancer, and a few years later his second wife suddenly passed from a brain aneurysm. In this episode, JD shares how he sought, wrestled with, and ultimately leaned on God to sustain the drive to raise his five children alone and find both Peace and Strength through an unshakable Faith.
JD shared the full powerful backstory of going through loss inEpisode #5 of the Three of Seven Podcast. As our conversation focuses mostly on how he recovered and moved forward, I encourage you to listen to that episode as well.
Episode #5 of the Three of Seven Podcast with JD:
https://threeofseven.podbean.com/e/episode-5-jd-malone-courage-commitment-faith/
JD Malone on IG: https://www.instagram.com/j_d_malone/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
In Part 2 of 2 in our discussion, Anthony explains what itmeans to “Take the Long Way” in life, the benefit and power of doing so, what he is working on to spread that message and offer a platform to others who have inspiring stories and messages to share.
Anthony is a loyal husband, dedicated father, God-loving,and hard-working overcomer. He is also my brother-in-Christ.
Anthony on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cooksey_ad/
Take the Long Way: https://www.instagram.com/takethelongway.co/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
Anthony Cooksey is a loyal husband, dedicated father,God-loving, and hard-working overcomer. He is also my brother-in-Christ. In Part 1 of 2 in our discussion, he shares his powerful testimony of overcoming, how he overcame, the fruit of giving your life to Jesus and what it means tosurrender all to him.
Anthony on IG: https://www.instagram.com/cooksey_ad/
Take the Long Way: https://www.instagram.com/takethelongway.co/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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https://www.mikebellini.com/
Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
If you want uncommon responses from your conversations withGod, and uncommon power in your life from your relationship with Him, then pray uncommon prayers!
Uncommon Prayers, my latest book with @giving_gal that wasreleased in November 2023, became a best-selling new release on Amazon. In this episode, I share a few perspectives from the book about how to unleash the power of prayer in your life. You will hear about:
- Two components that Jesus said are necessary in prayer.
- Why we should believe God will answer.
- What it means to pray “In Jesus Name.”
- The authority of praying scripture.
- How our prayers impact God’s response.
- Tips on how to add clarity and power to ourprayers.
Listen to the end of the episode to learn how to get a freecopy of the book.
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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https://www.facebook.com/mikebellini0708
https://twitter.com/bellini_mike
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Books by Mike:
"UncommonPrayers" at Amazon
"UltraMarriage" at Amazon
In Part 2 of my interview with award-winning author, keynotespeaker, podcaster, and coach, Stephanie Jones, she shares some personal stories about the power of prayer in difficult times and how it helped her not only get through them, but also stay faithful and become stronger on the other side.
In November 2023, Stephanie and I published a book togethercalled, Uncommon Prayers, which became an Amazon best-seller. She is my publishing coach, confidante, and dear friend who walks the talk, lives to give, and shines a light with everyone she meets.
Stephanie’s web site: https://givingyourbestlife.com/
Stephanie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/giving_gal/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini_/
https://www.facebook.com/mikebellini0708
https://twitter.com/bellini_mike
https://www.mikebellini.com/
Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers - https://www.amazon.com/Uncommon-Prayers-Helping-Gratitude-Circumstances/dp/1948693232/ref=sr_1_1?crid=20GLEOCVVIEO0&keywords=uncommon+prayers+mike+bellini&qid=1703423284&sprefix=%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1
Ultra Marriage- https://www.amazon.com/Ultra-Marriage-Going-Distance-Moment/dp/1948693097/ref=sr_1_1?crid=WWYT776Z23V4&keywords=ultra+marriage&qid=1703423330&sprefix=ultra+marriag%2Caps%2C113&sr=8-1
Stephanie Jones is an award-winning author, keynote speaker,podcaster, and coach. In November 2023, we published a book together called, Uncommon Prayers, which became an Amazon best-seller. In this interview that is both fun and profound, Stephanie shares the motivation behind the book, how to know when God is speaking to you, and having the courage to say “Yes” to his invitations. This is a terrific conversation about prayer, belief, faith, and willingnessto take action.
Stephanie’s web site: https://givingyourbestlife.com/
Stephanie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/giving_gal/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini_/
https://www.facebook.com/mikebellini0708
https://twitter.com/bellini_mike
https://www.mikebellini.com/
Books by Mike:
Uncommon Prayers - https://www.amazon.com/Uncommon-Prayers-Helping-Gratitude-Circumstances/dp/1948693232/ref=sr_1_1?crid=20GLEOCVVIEO0&keywords=uncommon+prayers+mike+bellini&qid=1703423284&sprefix=%2Caps%2C144&sr=8-1
Ultra Marriage- https://www.amazon.com/Ultra-Marriage-Going-Distance-Moment/dp/1948693097/ref=sr_1_1?crid=WWYT776Z23V4&keywords=ultra+marriage&qid=1703423330&sprefix=ultra+marriag%2Caps%2C113&sr=8-1
In Part 2 of Laura’s return to the show, she expands on howthe journey of completing her father’s bucket list strengthened her faith by learning to trust in God more deeply. This is a powerful conclusion of her overall experience and a set up to a new chapter of her life that is just beginning.
Note: This episode was recorded in the spring of 2023, priorto the release of Laura’s book, My Father’s List, which came out in June 2023. For more background on Laura’s story, go back and listen to Episode 11.
Previous episode with Laura: https://youtu.be/dE_lgp-gsyE?si=nCAWoZ01-bskOzi6
Laura’s web site: https://www.bylauracarney.com/
Laura on IG: https://www.instagram.com/myfatherslist/
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
Ultra Marriage
Returning to the show, Laura Carney discusses how letting goof trying to control the outcomes of events was the catalyst for experiencing the adventure of a lifetime. Years after her father’s tragic passing, her family found the bucket list he had written in the 1970’s, and Laura decided to finish the final 55 items on the list.
This episode was recorded in the spring of 2023, prior tothe release of Laura’s book, My Father’s List, which came out in June 2023. For background on Laura’s story, go back and listen to Episode 11.
Previous episode with Laura: https://youtu.be/dE_lgp-gsyE?si=nCAWoZ01-bskOzi6
Laura’s web site: https://www.bylauracarney.com/
Laura on IG: https://www.instagram.com/myfatherslist/
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
Ultra Marriage
In the final episode of our 75-Hard recap, we explore waysto continue getting better after one of the most difficult challenges of our lives, raising the standard, and what we would add to 75-Hard to raise the bar even higher.
On October 1, 2023, Mike Johnson brought together a group of inspiring people who began a program called 75-Hard, a 75-day mental and physical disciplinary challenge created by @andyfrisella . I was fortunate to participate in this challenge with the group.
MJ is a devoted husband, loving father, free-thinking,cold-plunging, sauna-loving creative genius. Check out his podcast, Ruck Talk,and follow his exploits on social media.
MJ’s web site: https://rucktalk.com/
MJ on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brucewayne9/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
Ultra Marriage
In Part 2 of our recap of 75-Hard, we discuss the thoughtprocess that drives us to embrace discomfort and the rewards that await on the other side of doing hard things. On October 1, 2023, Mike Johnson brought together a group of inspiring people who began a program called 75-Hard, a 75-day mental and physical disciplinary challenge created by @andyfrisella . I was fortunate to participate in this challenge with the group.
MJ is a devoted husband, loving father, free-thinking,cold-plunging, sauna-loving creative genius. Check out his podcast, Ruck Talk, and follow his exploits on social media.
MJ’s web site: https://rucktalk.com/
MJ on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brucewayne9/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
Ultra Marriage
On October 1, 2023, Mike Johnson brought together a group of inspiring people who began a program called 75-Hard, a 75-day mental and physical disciplinary challenge created by @andyfrisella . I was fortunate to participate in this challenge with the group. In Part 1 of 3 episodes with Mike,we introduce what 75-hard is and discuss both the difficulties and benefits of doing something like it.
Mike Johnson is a devoted husband, loving father,free-thinking, cold-plunging, sauna-loving creative genius. Check out his podcast, Ruck Talk, and follow his exploits on social media.
MJ’s web site: https://rucktalk.com/
MJ on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brucewayne9/
Mike Bellini on Social Media:
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
Ultra Marriage
You all likely know the Christmas story…the birth of Jesus…or so you think. I thought I knew it, too, until I learned that I didn’t. There is so much more to the story than most of us were taught that highlights the greatness of God, and transforms the miracle with deeper meaning to the intricacies of Christmas.
In this episode, I share a little bit of that with you this Christmas season.
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Books by Mike:
Uncommon Prayers
Ultra Marriage
When I talk about my faith, I am referencing Jesus. In thisepisode, I describe the journey that led me to making the decision to believe in him. For me, it was at the same time both an easy decision and a tremendous struggle. It was initially an easy choice. However, even after years of being a practicing Christian, I came face to face with an important question: Do you really believe what you say you believe?
In this episode, I explain how a logical thinker like me came to the most important decision of my life.
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Books by Mike:
Uncommon Prayers
Ultra Marriage
WHY FF - The Cornerstones of Life
What are the primary foundations you have built your lifeupon?
What are those bedrocks that, when threatened, cause you to themost angst?
In this episode, Mike introduces the meaning behind FirmFoundations and the reasons why it is more important than ever to decide in whatwe are going to put our hope and trust.
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Books by Mike:
UncommonPrayers
UltraMarriage
As a father of four children with an entrepreneurial wife who worked almost every weekend, Justin Batt found himself alone, overwhelmed and outnumbered on Saturdays. With intentional thought and planning, he created an experience for his kids that they soon would label, “Daddy Saturday,” and a movement was born. Justin aims to disrupt fatherhood by creating intentional fathers who raise good kids who become great adults. Over Father’s Day weekend in June, he participated in the Fatherhood Festival, hosted at the Hall of Fame Village in Canton, OH and in partnership with the NFL Alumni Association.
As a husband, Justin is equally intentional in his marriage. As a serial entrepreneur, TEDx and international public speaker, multi-published author, coach, Spartan OCR racer, and farmer, he understands the challenges of a busy lifestyle. In our conversation, he shares powerful and effective perspectives and practices that can help build a strong, loving, well-rounded marriage and family.
Show highlights:
- The creation of Daddy Saturdays
- Intentionality with your kids translating to your marriage
- Separating work and the relationship in your marriage
- The importance of taking a sabbath as a successful business owner
- The difference between “hurt” and “hurting”
- Running at the same pace as your family in the race of life
Where to find Justin:
Web site: www.daddysaturday.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/stories/daddysaturday/2867242235771993596/
Amazon: Daddy Saturday: How to be an Intentional Dad
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/realmikebellini/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
The family unit is the bedrock of a healthy society. Nothing will make a more positive change in the world than strengthening families. Husbands and wives loving and caring for each other, intentionally raising children with healthy value, and building each other up. That principal is the very purpose of this podcast. Stronger families lead to more thriving communities. Thriving communities lead to a more stable society. A more stable society leads to a better world.
Kevin Walker grew up in a family that epitomizes the closeness, care, and devotion that we all could benefit from modeling. And he is now striving to build that same type of family with his wife and young son. Kevin is the Co-Founder and Co-Host of the Live SOTE Podcast with his brother. Together they developed the acronym “SOTE,” which stands for Salt of the Earth, meaning a person of great worth and reliability. In our conversation, Kevin discusses the tremendous worth of growing up in Walker home, a family that embodies the very definition of the Salt of the Earth.
Show highlights:
· The influence of devoted parents and an older brother while growing up
· Life and marriage with a newborn
· The come-up story with a spouse by your side
· The importance in mutual support of each other’s dreams
· Living S.O.T.E.
Where to find Kevin:
Web site: https://www.livesote.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/kevinpwalker/
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/realmikebellini/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
Two military veterans, one an ex-homicide detective and recovering alcoholic, one jack of all trades but master of none, and a couple of hippies kinda winging it on a disordered journey to health and happiness. That is how this week’s guests have described themselves to their social media following. There is one additional definition on Justin’s Instagram page that puts this all into perspective and paints a picture of how the people who know Justin and Stefanie best view their purpose and passion…it says, “Hope Dealer!”
This past weekend, Justin won the 2022 Mid State Mile last man standing ultra-marathon, and Stefanie was there the whole weekend to crew and support him. With Stefanie’s help, Justin was able to break the course record by running 128 miles in 40 hours, with over 39,000 feet of elevation gain and loss! I was fortunate to see much of Justin’s run in person. It may have been the most remarkable accomplishment I have ever witnessed.
Justin and Stefanie not only give each other hope, but also to everyone they seek to inspire. This episode is about their story together, and the future they have been building for themselves. It is enough to give anyone the hope they need.
Show highlights:
· Growing up a rebel
· Justin’s time in the Army, where he and Stefanie met
· Going through the Police Academy and getting sober
· Transitioning to an ultra-runner
· It’s all about progress
· The mindset of running 100 miles on a treadmill
· Holding your spouse to a standard
· The difference between real and fake pain
Justin and Stefanie on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/ultra_dad_/
https://www.instagram.com/hippie_trail_wife/
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/realmikebellini/
Ultra Marriage Resources...
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
It is difficult to think of a more challenging job, with the tremendous time demand and constant pressure to perform, than that of a head football coach. The number of families destroyed because husbands and fathers spend all their time coaching is heartbreaking. Yet, it seems the only way to succeed in that career is to dedicate your entire life to it.
Coach Kurt Hines is currently the head football coach at Coronado High School in California and has been a successful high school football coach for twenty-five years. He has won multiple championships and was the 2012 Head Football Coach of the Year. And he has done it on his terms.
In our conversation, Coach Hines shares why and how he has kept his faith and family as his top priorities throughout his career. He is a man who knows exactly who he is, stands for what he believes, and is relentlessly unwavering in pursuit of the life he is meant to live.
Show highlights:
- Mentality of coaching football
- How to transition from the intensity of the football field to home life
- The greater purpose of love
- Keeping faith at the forefront throughout the entire day
- The decision to choose family over football
- The importance of having a strong “why” in life
- Why he does not hold coaches’ meetings on Sunday
- The value of emphasizing the wedding ring over a championship ring
Where to find Coach Hines:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachkurthines/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/CoachKurtHines?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
Web Site: https://www.coachkurthines.com/
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Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
Have you ever looked at someone else and wondered, “How do they do it all?” You know people like this; they’re a spouse, parent, run a business (or multiple businesses), host a podcast, coach, speak, and always have a smile on their face while they do that and so much more. I often find myself wondering how they keep it all together and always show up, to whatever the task is at hand, ready to go and give it their best.
Megan Reilly is exactly that type of person. She is COO and Co-Owner of an international franchise. She is a Shark Tank Alum. She is the creator and host of the Who Is Your Momma Podcast, where she speaks to the mothers of some of the world’s most successful, CEOs, athletes, and entertainers. She works as an expert mentor for Jesse Itzler's elite coaching program. Above all, Megan is a dedicated wife and Mom. She and her husband, Chris, have been married for 14 years and have three daughters under 10. Together, they renovate homes and love to play outside with their kids and their 100-pound dog, Ralph.
In this episode, you will learn the mindsets and strategies that Megan uses to build, grow, and maximize her family life and every endeavor she sets out to accomplish.
Show highlights:
- Managing time for kids while running international business and podcast
- The importance of being around like-minded couples
- How prioritizing marriage will amplify all other areas in life
- The importance of intentionality with your spouse
- Why it is essential to have a long-term perspective in your marriage
- Managing an identity crisis with the introduction of kids
- The value of the little things
- Why uninterrupted quality time is better than quantity of time
- How kids can make you a better spouse
Where to find Megan:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/meganlreilly/
Podcast: https://whoisyourmomma.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/megan.reilly.5205
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
This week marks National Police Week in 2022. It is a time each year that offers honor, remembrance, and peer support, while allowing law enforcement, survivors, and citizens to gather and pay homage to those who gave their lives in the line of duty. The events throughout this week attract thousands of survivors and law enforcement officers to our Nation's Capital each year. Our guest this week is in honor of all police officers who stand watch on our behalf.
Stephanie Jones is an author, speaker, and coach. She has also been married to a police officer for nineteen years. She and I had a conversation about what we typically don’t see, and don’t think about, inside the marriages of our officers. She shares a sobering reality that she has lived with every single day for nearly two decades. Below is a short excerpt from a piece she once posted on Facebook:
“Every day when my officer leaves, I send him on his way with hugs, kisses, and I love you’s. Some days I stand in the window watching him pull out of the driveway, searing the memory in my mind, just in case he doesn’t return. That’s the reality and biggest fear of every police wife. It’s a fear we bury but keep with us until we hear the garage door open and the sound of Velcro ripping off.”
God bless our police officers, their spouses, and children.
Show highlights:
- How she got started in law enforcement
- The mindset of being a police wife
- What it was like to lose a brother from the Police Academy in the line of duty
- The difficult decisions of being in a police family
- The importance of understanding your spouse’s daily life
- The dangers and difficulties of living with negative stereotypes of police officers
- The compounded traumas of being a police officer
- Tools to endure through a pressure packed lifestyle
Where to find Stephanie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/giving_gal/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/StephanieStengerJones
Web site: https://givinggal.com/
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
What if you left home for what was supposed to be a short trip and soon discovered that you would be away from your spouse, with whom you’ve been married for about four months, indefinitely? What if, during that time apart, your spouse was going through rigorous treatments for cancer, while you found yourself in the hospital with a heart condition? On top of that, what if you couldn’t even talk to each other? How would you find the strength to endure?
That is precisely the situation this week’s guest, Gavin Hannan, found himself in just as the pandemic was starting. After he left for his trip, his wife’s doctors thought it was too dangerous for him to return until the threat of the pandemic had passed. What they thought would be two weeks of isolation turned into a year and a half apart, with each of them going through health issues. What Gavin and his wife faced, how they made it through, and who they are becoming on the other side is a story as inspirational as any you’ve heard. You will learn how they lean on the principles respect, trust, faith, love, and humor to embrace each day to the fullest, no matter what circumstances a day presents. You will see why, every day, they choose each other.
Show highlights:
- Gavin’s experience doing the 4x4x48
- The moment he met his wife
- The realities of being a couple living with cancer
- Being diagnosed with Pericarditis
- A short trip that turned into 1½ years away from his wife
- The journey of personal development
- Leaning on faith to endure
- Perseverance develops character
Where to find Gavin:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gavin_hannan121/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gavin.hannan
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
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Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
Based on statistics, nearly half of all marriages fail. Unfortunately, the statistics don’t tell the whole truth. While the divorce rate is approximately fifty percent, how successful are the other fifty percent? How many couples pour as much planning, time, and effort into their relationship as they do their career or business. How many strive to unleash the full potential of their marriage?
Jeff Forrester has had a successful multi-faceted career covering sales, management, and training. He has most recently transitioned to become an entrepreneur as a Coach, Speaker, and Culture Consultant with his own company, Conquer It Consulting. He is a co-founder of the Mighty Warrior Council, a brotherhood designed for imperfect men that are seeking to grow together through living a life of integrity, discipline, and valor.
He is also the author of Unleashed Potential: Simple Steps to Be the Best Version of Yourself. In his book, Jeff explains four key principles to help people get more out of their career and life. In our conversation, we unpack how those same four principles can also help you unleash the potential in your marriage.
Show highlights:
- The Importance of Communication – both internal and external
- Knowing Yourself
- Developing Yourself
- Setting the Proper Course
- Going through a difficult transition as a family
- Starting The Mighty Warrior Council and Conquer It Consulting
Where to find Jeff:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeff4ester/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeff4ester
Jeff’s Book: https://www.amazon.com/Unleashed-Potential-Simple-Version-Yourself/dp/0578703378
Follow Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources:
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Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
At twenty-five years old, Laura Carney met her husband-to-be in a summer romance that began like a movie script, then suddenly lost her father in a tragic car accident three months later. After a decade long relationship, the two of them got married and, six months later, found her father’s bucket list when he was a young man. There were sixty items on the list and only six had been checked off. Instantaneously, both Laura and her husband agreed – she had to finish the list.
For the past five years, Laura has been on a quest to complete all of the items on her father’s bucket list, but that is only part of her amazing story. While fulfilling the last few of her father’s wishes, she is writing a book about the adventure called, My Father’s List: How Living My Dad's Dreams Set Me Free, being published by Post Hill Press in May 2023. Along the way, she has garnered the courage to face a difficult past and set the foundation for helping encourage and inspire others.
Laura is a writer and magazine copy editor in New York. She's been published by the Washington Post, the Associated Press, The Hill, Runner's World, Good Housekeeping, The Fix, Upworthy, and other places.
In our conversation, Laura unwraps a triumphant story of a soul set free, intertwined with her marriage every step of the way.
Show highlights:
· Growing up with divorced parents
· Meeting her future husband just before losing her father in a tragic accident
· Waiting ten years to get married
· How they stayed together after a tragedy
· Finding her father’s bucket list
· Deciding to finish the bucket list and write a book about it
· Divine connections with her father
· The importance of learning to trust
· Being real and open instead of trying to look perfect
· Why we should break more eggs in life
Where to find Laura:
www.myfatherslist.comand www.bylauracarney.com
Twitter: https://twitter.com/myfatherslist?lang=en
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/myfatherslist/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carney.laura
Photo by: @jonibilderbackphotography
Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources:
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
What is it that defines you? What has made you into the person you are today?
Jim Rhubart is a third-generation owner/operator of a family-owned business, Jim Rhubart Roofing. His mission is to provide the utmost professional service with attention to detail before, during, and after his work. Jim is a driven, take-charge, servant leader. He employs those same values with his family as well, but becoming the man he is today has not been easy. The time and effort it takes to build both a successful business and family at the same time is a process that requires dedication, prioritization, difficult choices, and some blood, sweat, and tears along the way.
In our conversation, Jim shares his vision, the struggles he has encountered along the way, and the choices he has made that have put him on a path that very few travel in life.
Show highlights:
- The demands of inheriting a family business while building your own family
- Deciding to go all in and getting the most out of yourself
- How you work sixteen to eighteen-hour days and maintain family values
- What it means to give 100% of yourself to your spouse
- Is there such a thing as having balance?
- Debunking your own fears
- Creating distance between you and our competition
- Disconnecting from distractions
- Doing what it takes to be the man you want to be for your wife
Jim on IG: https://www.instagram.com/jimrhubartjr/
Jim on FB: https://www.facebook.com/jim.rhubart
Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources:
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
What is it like to be called for a greater purpose? It might be a dream of yours or it could just be something that you know you are supposed to do.
In 2014, Amy Tucker has a simple goal – help her young son, who loves the ocean, enjoy it as long as he liked without becoming badly irritated and chafed. She tried everything and nothing provided him relief, so she took matters into her own hands. Out of pure mama desperation, Salty Britches® was born!
After hitting the market in 2017, the demand for Salty Britches as winter skin relief soared! Now, Amy’s product is trusted by families, athletes, and military personnel for year-round, all-day protection. But that is only part of the story.
In this episode, Amy shares a behind-the-scenes look at what starting a business from scratch really looks like, and how her marriage and family have played the most important role. This conversation is complete with laughter, tears, and tremendous insights and perspectives on what it takes to build a family business.
Show highlights:
- The genesis of a creating a groundbreaking product called Salty Britches
- Turning your life upside down to follow a path you know you are called to follow
- The difference between a dream and a calling
- Going all-in
- The challenges and benefits of starting a business with your spouse
- Why couples should do hard things separately and together
- How they work their life around their faith
Amy on on IG: https://www.instagram.com/getsaltybritches/
Salty Britches Web Site: https://getsaltybritches.com/
Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
What if, in the midst of what could escalate into a heated exchange with another person, you simply looked them in the eyes and said, “Same team,” in a sincere voice? More importantly, what if we lived out our marriages as if we were on the same team? The reality is, we are on the same team or, at least, we should be. Unfortunately, much of the time, we act like competing opponents.
Tanner McFarland is engaged to be married to his longtime girlfriend of seven years in May 2022. Over that time, the two of them have not only used that phrase when disagreements have become difficult, but also believe it to be the truth.
Tanner is the author of College Made Easy: My Personal Textbook of How-To's and Don't-Do's of College. He loves to keep his body moving, whether at the gym, running, or practicing his most recent physical endeavor, Jiu-Jitsu. He and his fiancée are not only planning their wedding, but they are also preparing for marriage. There is a big difference.
This is a conversation for singles who want to hear how to build a solid foundation with another person AND for married couples who want to know how to keep the sparks flying no matter how long you are together!
Show highlights:
· The value of keeping a notebook or journal of your daily experiences
· Setting up a memorable surprise proposal
· The importance of premarital counseling
· Setting rules for fighting
· Deciding in advance how to react in difficult times
· Addressing issues between two people as a team
· Where are the marriages we can aspire to model?
· How to keep the spark alive over time
· Consistently doing fun stuff together
Tanner on on IG: https://www.instagram.com/tanner_mcfarland/
Tanner on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW42Pbq9tKr2rDfV9qap6cw
Check out Tanner’s Book on Amazon: College Made Easy
Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
Joy and Pain. The journey through life includes both. Whichever we focus on more often and intentionally feed is what we will experience more. Ultimately, it comes down to a choice. We can focus on the pain and feed negativity, or we can seek the joy and feeding positivity. We can choose to be intentional about working through the pain and challenges that we face in order to get to the joy that awaits. The greatest things in life are on the other side of pain and suffering.
John and Caitlin Hancock are one of my favorite couples on social media! They experience as much joy, fun, and laughter together as any couple I’ve met. But here’s the catch. It doesn’t always come easy. In our conversation, we dispel some common myths about people who seem to have a much easier, happier life than most. We dive into some of the tools they use and standards they live by to experience abundant joy in their lives.
John and Caitlin have been together for nearly a decade and have a year-and-a-half old daughter. They are both personal Transformation Coaches and are on a mission to positively impact 100,000 lives by 2025 through their health, wellness, and performance nutrition programs. If you want a personal wellness coach, contact them through Instagram (below).
Show highlights:
· Why and how they focused on their vows instead of the “wedding”
· Making life a changing decision together
· The benefits of praying together
· How to you stay joyful and happy consistently
· Working through the challenges and disagreements to get back to the joy
· The agreement to never talk bad about each other to other people
· Helping 100,000 improve their health and wellness in the next 4 years
John on IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultraraddad/
Caitlin on IG: https://www.instagram.com/caitlin_hancock/
Follow Mike on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
You have heard the phrase, “Laughter is the best medicine.” We all know that it feels good to laugh, but studies are showing that it’s benefits for health and happiness is no joke. Laughter induces physical changes in your body and can active or relieve your stress response, soothe tension, increase personal satisfaction, and improve your mood.
Mike Johnson is a fun-loving radio personality and founder of GroundRush, Inc., a media company based in Atlanta. GroundRush has received dozens of Telly Awards and Summit Creative Awards. Some clients include the Atlanta Hawks, Detroit Tigers, MGM Pictures, Universal Music, and HBO.
Mike’s philosophy in his marriage is simple, “I'm gonna keep her smiling as long as I'm on this earth!” Laughter is cornerstone of their relationship. In our conversation, we talk about different aspects of a relationship and how being fun, silly, and laughing a lot makes a huge difference!
Show highlights:
· How do you know when you’ve met “the one?”
· Uncontrollable laughter
· The meaning behind the phrase “Happy wife, happy life”
· Continuing the chase and always searching for what’s next
· Making the honeymoon phase last
· How to diffuse arguments
· Enjoying the uncertainty of what is ahead of you
· Transitioning from parenting to empty nesters
· How both similarities and differences positively impact your relationship
· The importance of having your own time
· Appreciating every day
· Embracing Spontaneity
Mike Johnson on IG: https://www.instagram.com/brucewayne9/
Mike Bellini on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/ultramarriage
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
All marriages are built upon a certain foundation and the strength of that foundation will set up how the relationship unfolds over time. It can support and drive successful, joyful, thriving and growing marriage; or, if easily cracked, it can lead a marriage down a very difficult and uncertain path.
Teddy and Lindsay Mitrosilis have been married for five years and have a daughter who is just over a year and a half old. Lindsay runs her own business, serving entrepreneurs, business leaders, and influencers through LinkedIn, and Teddy is an entrepreneur himself as head of enterprise consulting for an immersive learning technology company. They are active in their personal lives, consistently challenging themselves to push their limits.
Underneath all of that, they have built their marriage on a foundation of faith. Their faith in Christ defines who they are individually and is at the center of their marriage. In this conversation, they unpack how they prepared themselves on their faith journey before they even met, and how their faith leads their relationship.
Show highlights:
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The uniqueness of the moment they met
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Knowing your priorities before you meet the right person
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The intention of dating
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Having real conversations early on
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Praying for the right person to be revealed
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Working through differences in Christian ideologies
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The impact of seeing your parents value their marriage
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Foundational connections
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The challenge of finding a young Christian man
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Faith as the center of their marriage
Teddy on IG: @tmitrosilis
Lindsay on IG: @lindsay.mitrosilis
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: @mikebellini7 and @ultra_marriage
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
There is no greater responsibility in life than raising children, and the first, perhaps most important, action parents can take in training them up is to love each other. Modeling love in front of them, through good times and bad, has a tremendous positive influence.
Better known as Chili, Noah Cochran is a young southern man and exceptional ultramarathon runner who works with the @3of7Project, leading missions in the backcountry, co-hosting the 3 of 7 Podcast, and engaging with the community in many other ways. He is also a bachelor.
Why in the world would a single young man, who’s never been married, be fit to interview about marriage? Because his parents have emulated a selfless, loving relationship that, growing up, he knew was special. He saw his parents live out the type of marriage we all hope to have when we recite our wedding vows.
This conversation is from the viewpoint of someone who grew up thankful for the parents he has and might just be the most important perspective from which we look at marriage. If you have children, or want to have children someday, he offers an invaluable viewpoint. And if you’re single, Noah offers some wise and prudent perspectives on dating.
Show highlights:
- Why a single guy is on a marriage podcast
- Being selfless
- Choosing family first
- Fighting vs. Disagreeing
- Being patient as a single person
- How your marriage effects your children
- The impact family has on culture
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: @mikebellini7 and @ultra_marriage
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
We all get one shot at life. One chance to make it epic. One opportunity to live it out the best that we can. Our guest in this episode believes we should live it boldly and not just exist!
Bree Hagen is a self-proclaimed, ponytail wearing, life handler. She has been married for 18 years, has two kids, three dogs, and a fish! The past few years, she has jumped headfirst into ultra-endurance events, hiking, backpacking, running, and just about any challenge that pushes pre-conceived barriers.
This is a conversation you will want to rewind and listen to more than once. Bree overwhelms with confidence, sharing her insights on how she lives boldly, the importance of speaking the truth, how she handles difficult days, and so much more.
Show highlights:
· Bree’s epic 2021
· Making big decisions
· Honesty from the start
· Knowing who your personal decisions are impacting
· Becoming a new person
· Speaking truth and leaving nothing to chance
· The importance of the words we choose
· Using negotiation skills within relationships
· Knowing your why
· The inner voice within all of us
· Unwavering trust
Bree Hagen on IG: @livebodly_dontjustexist
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: @mikebellini7 and @ultra_marriage
FB: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100011729101170
Youtube: Ultra Marriage https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsoiUBRBK9BsZ8FDxj3kZ_w
Marriage is like a race, but it is not a sprint or a marathon. It is a lifelong ultra-marathon that takes intentionality, resolve, and fortitude. It requires us to face our fears, do the hard things, and push through pain to achieve victory.
Our first guest on the podcast knows all about that. Aaron Dana is an ultra-marathon runner, professional home remodeler, husband of eleven years, and father of three. Aaron’s #1 goal of the past year was to deepen his relationship with his wife.
In this conversation, we cover the benefits that training and doing hard things can bring to a marriage, communicating effectively, and continually growing together.
Show highlights:
· Training up
· What is took to crush the Mid-State Mile last man standing race
· How marriage is like ultra-running
· What training and running did to, and for, his marriage
· Facing your weaknesses
· Growing stronger through open communication
· The importance of knowing yourself better and wanting to know your spouse deeper
· Being led by grace
· Committing unwaveringly to the process
Aaron Dana on IG: @aar0ndana (www.instagram.com/aar0ndana)
Ultra Marriage Resources -
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: @mikebellini7 (https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/)
IG: @ultra_marriage (https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/)
FB: @ultramarriage (https://www.facebook.com/ultramarriage)
Youtube: Ultra Marriage (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJJll35qiyYad_tuJFbQdGw/featured)
Welcome to the Ultra Marriage Podcast! For over twenty-five-years, I have been guided by an enthusiastic desire to live out the ultimate marriage. I believe the most powerful force in American culture is the family unit, and that the core foundation of a family is marriage.
This inaugural episode shares the mission behind the message. We will seek and learn from people and couples in all walks of life who are striving to build extraordinary marriages. Come along for the journey!
Show highlights:
· A little about me
· My core conviction
· State of the world and our responsibility in this moment of time
· State of marriage
· Why I started this mission
· Resources we will provide for your marriage
· Call to action
Ultra Marriage Resources
Book: www.theultramarriage.com
IG: @mikebellini7 (https://www.instagram.com/mikebellini7/)
IG: @ultra_marriage (https://www.instagram.com/ultra_marriage/)
FB: @ultramarriage (https://www.facebook.com/ultramarriage)
Youtube: Ultra Marriage (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJJll35qiyYad_tuJFbQdGw/featured)