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Jamie Fitzjohn
Hi. I'm Jamie, the creator of Coffee Chat.This content has been created to help you where you need it the most. Coffee Chat focuses on tips, tricks, hacks, and more to help you improve your life and overcome challenges. Interested in coaching? ... https://coffee-chat.org
How To Practice Wu Wei In Everyday Life? Practicing Wu Wei is a common question so today I look at some of the biggest topics and see how I and others have used Wu Wei to deal with the big challenges.
Wu Wei is an interesting topic. When you look at how to begin Wu Wei it's best to start with the basics. Anyone can start practicing Wu Wei but it's a good idea to think about what areas in life need a little adjusting.
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There is also the paradox of Wu Wei. Sometimes we get some once we stop forcing.
Here is a very quick story.
I live in Bangkok and at the time of writing this, I’m sitting in a small coffee shop next to a busy train station. In the past hour, I’ve seen a local gentleman who would greatly have benefited from using Wu Wei in everyday life. He was a stylish Thai man in his mid-40s who wore a nice black suit but something was wrong. It was evident that he was in a big rush and was not in the best of moods. He attempted to scan his train card 4 times without success. He moved to the side and witnessed 5 other customers move through the gate without trying.
After some time, the train station employee came out and placed his card gently on the card reader and it worked. As he was in a rush, he moved his card before the reader had time to read his card. This simple story is a great example of how life can sometimes take over. But if we apply the principles of Wu Wei and not force, we can see the truth and be one with life.
Why Is Wu Wei Important
Having a Wu Wei mindset is important if you wish to become more at one with the universe. Nature has a natural flow of energy, and so do you as you are part of nature. Life can be complex and there are many challenges we face when we play the game of life. Our mindset changes as we get older. We can start to overthink, worry, and become our own worst enemies.
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00:00 - How To Practice Wu Wei In Everyday Life
02:36 - Wu Wei In Dating & Relationships
03:28 - Wu Wei In Work & Business
04:34 - Wu Wei Paradox
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A not so talked about topic is being alone but hating loneliness. So if you love your free time but hate being lonely then, good news is coming.
Today we will address these questions and look at the reasons why people enjoy being alone but feel lonely and what you can do to combat this feeling.
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How to stop being lonely? Today we can a fresh look at this question and reverse it by asking how to be lonely forever.
This is through the process of negative brainstorming which has helped me and many others with loneliness and other personal challenges.
Naturally, this is only a small piece of the puzzle when aiming to stop feeling lonely but it is a great tool to help.
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How to be a more likable person. Here are 5 laws/rules you can use to be a more likable person.
How to overcome loneliness. It's a good question with many possible answers. But to overcome loneliness, you must be prepared to fight the dragon, which is loneliness. Unfortunately, feeling lonely is not a simple emotion, and many different types of loneliness require different strategies.
However, for most, action is needed. Loneliness is a complicated feeling you may experience for many years if you do not get hold of it and tackle it!
In today's video, I explore the process of finding the root cause of your loneliness and why it is essential.
Once you have found your loneliness cause, you can start to change your routine and tackle loneliness directly.
Why is this important? Because everything in life is connected. To change our feelings, we must change our lifestyle, thoughts, and actions. However, without first knowing your root cause, you may find it hard to change your lifestyle the right way.
So the question is how to overcome loneliness. Let me know what you think is the best way to overcome loneliness.
What are the best tips to make friends as an adult? It's a common question, but it's a question that is not often discussed. Today's video explores how you can make friends as an adult by going through 3 tips to make new friends.
If you are looking to make new friends at work, make new friends at college, or in any other situation, you will find these tips simple but effective.
When looking at how to make friends as an adult, there are often many questions and opinions. So today, I will dive into this subject by looking at why you find it difficult to make friends.
Naturally, there are many reasons adults find it hard to make friends, and many videos are about these reasons. So instead, I wanted to offer a different viewpoint but one that is also equally important. This is time and strategy.
Many people find it hard to make friends as adults because of a lack of consistency or strategy. Don't feel bad! We have all been here. But changing these areas will make a big difference in making friends. This video talks about why you can't make friends as an adult.
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There are many reasons why adults find it challenging to make friends. But, of course, many of the reasons, such as being negative and rude, are apparent, so instead, today's video looks at the other side of the coin as we look into why adults don't have friends.
If you want to know why you struggle to make friends and how to make friends as an adult, follow the channel on YouTube or find out podcast @CoffeeChat
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In today's youtube short, we will be talking about how to be more likable. There are many tips to be more likable as a person, so what's the best method? A mixture of methods is best to be more likable, but 1 trick that works well is authenticity. Today we will look at this topic and discuss the Pratfall effect.
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Have you ever felt that you are not approachable? It may sound surprising to some but how to be approachable is a popular keyword on platforms such as youtube. Thus today, I have aimed to answer these questions by going over 3 tips to help you appear more approachable.
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It's no surprise that many adults in today's modern world have very few (and sometimes zero) friendships. Today's video looks into 3 simple tips to make friends as an adult. If you experience loneliness and have no friends, these making friends tips will help you get started.
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Today's video discusses how to deal with loneliness by going through 20+ exclusive tips and tricks 14 for loneliness in our modern world.
These loneliness hacks I've gathered from Internet research. In other words, these loneliness tips are from doctors, psychologists, and researchers from some of the biggest names and most legitimate mental health resources.
Unfortunately, loneliness can be a feeling we experience throughout our life, so we must take action to deal with loneliness by using these simple but effective loneliness tips.
However, one crucial thing if you are looking to beat loneliness is tackling the root cause.
Fortunately, I mentioned the root cause and why it's vital in today's video; however, it's still important to tackle the root cause when dealing with loneliness; otherwise, you may mask the loneliness, but the root cause of loneliness may still be present. Why is this important?
Because if the root cause of loneliness is still present, loneliness will likely return, so tackling the root causes is always the best option if you are looking to deal with loneliness.
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One popular question I used to ask was how to stop feeling lonely when I don't have friends.
Friendship is important in life, and if we do not have emotional connections, we can start to fill feelings of loneliness.
Interestingly, it's not about the number of friends a person has that determines whether they are lonely or not, but rather the quality of friendship.
Those who find themselves lonely with a group of people might be because of the low quality of emotional connections that they have with the group.
In reality, some people can have very few friends (or none); however, with their few friends, they often have high-quality connections and thus do not feel lonely. At the same time, some people can feel lonely when they have lots of friends.
But then that is a third category, which includes feeling lonely without friends, a growing challenge in this technological world. Many find themselves without friends and feeling lonely.
The good news is that we can do many things to stop feeling lonely when we do not have friends. This includes re-framing the loneliness we are experiencing, ensuring that dealing with loneliness is a priority, as well as external changes such as attempting to make new friends and new experiences.
One of the biggest problems that people face when they are trying to deal with their loneliness without friends is the root cause of their loneliness. However, loneliness is commonly a symptom of something more prominent, so targeting the loneliness at its source is often recommended.
If you are feeling lonely and you don't have any friends, you may find other areas leading to feeling lonely. For example, if you find that your social skills are not as good as they once were, then this may be the root cause of your loneliness, and thus aiming to improve this area will likely be beneficial.
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00:00 – Introduction
00:26 – Internal Changes For Loneliness
03:47 – External Changes For Loneliness
04:42 – The root cause of loneliness
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