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Don and Eva Wilson
Are you tired of no one responding to your Tweets, Facebook posts, WhatsApp, or group chat messages? Do you start your day by chatting with friends on social media or checking the group chat for a great discussion? Eva does. Every morning she wakes up her husband Don (much too early for his liking) with pop culture, internet drama, nostalgia, and what's new, next, and "nah." Each week on Chat & Bother, Black, Gen X husband and wife conversation starters, Don and Eva discuss a question or topic that people are asking each other online. It could be something that you and your friends are already talking about, or it could be something that you should be talking about. Ready to start all the best conversations? Start right here with us on Chat & Bother.
What happens when the people who raised you are… legends?
In this episode of Chat and Bother, Eva and Don discuss the pressure of growing up in the shadow of your parents' success — whether that success comes from family reputation, career expectations, or worldwide fame.
They talk about how early we're labeled, how often we're pushed toward paths we didn't choose, and how hard it can be to figure out who you really are when everyone already has a version of you in their head.
From everyday families to celebrity dynasties, the conversation explores:
- The weight of inherited expectations
- Why some kids feel trapped by their parents' success
- How fame multiplies pressure
- The difference between honoring a legacy and losing yourself to it
- Why carving your own identity is harder than it looks
Eva and Don compare their own upbringings with the public scrutiny faced by the children of famous icons, and unpack what it means to grow up with a name that comes with built-in assumptions.
As always, Chat and Bother isn't here to give you all the answers — it's here to start the conversation.
- Were you expected to become someone specific?
- Did your family's history shape your future?
- Did you break away and build your own path?
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In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva talk about the realization that a lot of the music they grew up loving does not age well when you actually listen to the lyrics as an adult. It is mind-blowing how popular music from the '80s, '90s, and early 2000s often normalized behavior that now feels creepy.
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How did themes like objectification, stalking, cheating, property destruction, and blurred lines around age and consent get treated as catchy, humorous, or romantic?
🎵 Songs and Artists Discussed
"You Remind Me of Something" – R. Kelly
"Private Eyes" – Daryl Hall & John Oates
"Do Me!" – Bell Biv DeVoe
"Bust Your Windows" – Jazmine Sullivan
"O.P.P." – Naughty by Nature
"It Wasn't Me" – Shaggy
Confessions – Usher
"Super Freak" - Rick James
Don and Eva also reflect on how parenthood, particularly having a daughter, has reshaped how they hear the music of their youth. They also discuss West Coast rap from artists like Too Short, Eazy-E, and The Dogg Pound, noting how difficult it is to find songs from that era that feel appropriate for children today.
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It's a SUPER EPISODE! Missed an episode or just discovering Chat and Bother? This Super Episode brings together Season 3, Episodes 1–4 in one binge-worthy hour, all centered on the biggest scandals and drama of the 1980s and 1990s. Press play, get caught up fast, and relive the headlines, chaos, and cultural moments that defined two unforgettable decades.
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00:00 - Welcome to episodes 1-4 02:27 - Tylenol murders (1982)
05:20 - Challenger explosion (1986)
13:36 - Jimmy Swaggart scandal (late 1980s)
18:28 - Milli Vanilli lip-sync scandal (late 1980s/early 1990s)
24:01 - Exxon Valdez oil spill (1989)
27:08 - Lorena Bobbitt (1993)
33:32 - Tanya Harding and Nancy Kerrigan (1994)
36:07 - Anita Hill and Clarence Thomas (1991)
39:08 - Monica Lewinsky and Bill Clinton (1998)
46:12 - Menendez brothers (early 1990s)
47:47 - O. J. Simpson low-speed chase and verdict (1994/1995)
54:57 - Princess Diana's death (1997)
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S1E1 - What Were the Most Memorable Scandals and News from the 80s?
S1E2 - How Much Do You Remember About Milli Vanilli?
S1E3 - WHY?! WHY?! Do You Remember These 90s News Stories That Changed Our Lives?
S1E4 - In the 80s and 90s we only talked about one scandal at a time.
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We wanted everything we saw in food commercials in the 1980s. In this episode of Chat and Bother, we're talking about the foods we begged for, tolerated, or absolutely hated—and the aggressive marketing that convinced us we needed them.
From fake butter spreads to questionable "health foods," we break down which products actually lived up to the hype and which ones were straight-up lies sold to our parents during Saturday morning cartoons.
This episode pulls no punches as we roast:
- Carob, the so-called "healthy chocolate" that tasted like brown candle wax
- Black licorice, a candy nobody asked for that somehow still exists
- Whoppers, which may or may not have been chocolate-covered packing foam
- Steak-umms, the after-school DIY cheesesteak staple (ketchup-only households, stand up)
- Sizzlean, the "lean bacon" that disappeared amid claims it was anything but lean
- Pepperidge Farm broccoli & cheese pastries, the breakfast reward worth waking up early for
- Slim Fast, the mysterious shake marketed harder than it ever delivered
- Jell-O Pudding Pops, the frozen treat siblings fought over in the freezer
If you grew up in the 80s, this episode will unlock memories you forgot you had—along with a few foods you're glad no longer exist.
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Remember when the news only came on at 6 and 11—and one scandal could completely dominate the country for months? In this episode, we take a deep (and sometimes hilarious) dive into the most unforgettable scandals of the 1980s and 1990s, back when tabloids ruled, celebrity justice looked very different, and America watched history unfold in real time. We talk about how news spread before 24-hour cable, social media, and citizen journalism—and why scandals from that era hit harder and stayed with us longer.
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Why the 80s and 90s were a TIME for nonstop scandals
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The Menendez Brothers case and the shocking motive behind it
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The O.J. Simpson trial, the white Bronco chase, and "If it doesn't fit…"
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LAPD corruption, Mark Fuhrman, and why the verdict felt bigger than the case
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How Robert Kardashian connects this trial to pop culture history - Celebrities, power, and how fame lets people "get away with it"… sometimes literally
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Why consequences for figures like R. Kelly and Diddy only came after video evidence and documentaries
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How modern media makes an "unbiased jury" almost impossible
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The global shock of Princess Diana's death and the rise of paparazzi culture
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When tabloids like the National Enquirer and Globe controlled celebrity narratives
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A completely unnecessary—but passionate—debate about Delaware, chicken, chemicals, corporations, and questionable scents
This episode is equal parts nostalgia, cultural commentary, and side-eye, with the kind of conversations only people who lived through it can have.
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If you were alive in the 90s, you felt these moments — even if you didn't fully understand them at the time. In this episode of Chat and Bother, we revisit three explosive news stories that stopped classrooms, dominated dinner-table conversations, and reshaped how a generation consumed the news.
We break down the Clinton impeachment hearings surrounding Monica Lewinsky, revisit the Clarence Thomas and Anita Hill confirmation hearings that forced uncomfortable conversations into American homes, and relive the shocking Tonya Harding–Nancy Kerrigan incident that turned figure skating into headline news.
Why did these stories hit so hard? Why were we watching them in real time as kids and teens? And why do they still spark debate decades later? From media frenzy to lasting cultural impact, we unpack how these moments helped define the 90s — and us.
Press play, relive the chaos, and ask yourself the same question we still do: WHYYYYYY?! WHYYYYYY?!
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This week on Chat and Bother, we're rewinding to a time when the news didn't just break—it spilled, fell apart, and in one case… got cut short.
We're unpacking three of the most can-you-believe-this-was-real stories from the 80s and 90s:
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the Exxon Valdez oil spill, when corporate responsibility ran aground and cleanup plans clearly weren't shipshape;
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Milli Vanilli, who taught us that sometimes the music hits… but the truth skips;
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and Lorena Bobbitt, a story so shocking it had America clutching pearls, cracking jokes, and learning way more anatomy than anyone asked for. T
hese headlines dominated classrooms, talk shows, and dinner tables, shaping how we learned to distrust big companies, pop stars, and the phrase "based on a true story." We break down what really happened, how the media ran with it, and why these moments still live rent-free in our Gen X brains.
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Do you remember the Tylenol Murders (now a Netflix movie!)? Where were you when the Space Shuttle Challenger exploded? What do you remember about the most famous 80s televangelists? Welcome to the season premiere of the Chat and Bother Podcast!
We are kicking off this season with some of the news that Gen Xers remember. Back when news came on at 6 and 11, and the TV went off at the end of the day, remember that? Weigh in and tell us how old you were when these were the top news stories, and how these stories changed how you think about the world today.
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Thirteen tapes for a penny from Columbia House? Win a million dollars if you order some magazines from Publisher's Clearing House? PART of a complete breakfast? Learning to break dance from Alfonso Ribero's BOOK? In the 80's they really went all in on getting our attention—and our allowance money.
Gen X grew up in an advertising wonderland, where every cartoon had a toy line, every cereal had a mascot, and everything we saw on TV was a commercial in disguise. In this episode, Don and Eva talk bout their favorite ads and how marketers targeted an entire generation with jingles, prizes, and pop culture tie-ins that were impossible to ignore. Were we the most advertised-to generation in history—or just the first to know we were being sold to? Let’s rewind the VHS and find out.
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For this special Q&A Sunday during Black History Month, we’re discussing the unforgettable Black movies that shaped our childhoods and helped define a generation.
From classics like Coming to America, Friday, and House Party, to deeper stories like Boyz n the Hood and School Daze, we’re celebrating the creativity, humor, love, and realness that Black filmmakers and actors brought to the screen.
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We’re answering your questions about:
- Our favorite Black movies from the 80s and 90s
- Which movies stayed with us (and why!)
- How these films reflected the culture and changed the industry
- Gems you have to revisit
We know you’ll love this one, because as you know, Chat and Bother isn’t just about nostalgia, it’s about celebrating the stories that made us who we are.
Listen, share with friends, and let us know YOUR favorite Black movies from the 80s and 90s!
What is Q&A Sunday?
Q&A Sunday is a weekly segment on the Chat and Bother Podcast where we answer fun, nostalgic, and thought-provoking questions, often inspired by Gen X culture. The questions appear live on our Facebook and Instagram Stories, allowing our audience to participate in real time. If you miss the live questions, you can still join the conversation by answering in the comments on our YouTube Shorts or watching the full episode on our YouTube channel. Listeners can also call in with comments or suggest new topics by visiting ChatAndBother.com and clicking the phone icon. Some responses may even be featured in future episodes!
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This Black History Month, let's take it back to the Gen X era! In this special Q&A Sunday episode, Don and Eva answer questions about the impact of Black culture from the ‘70s through the early 2000s. From the music that shaped a generation to the TV shows, movies, and historical moments that defined our time, they're bringing nostalgia and knowledge.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5ycNPgC0vho Which Black Gen X icons had the biggest influence? What cultural shifts changed the game? We’ve got the answers—and maybe a few debates along the way!
Want to catch individual questions from this episode? They’re all in our Q&A Sunday playlist on YouTube!
Listen, comment, and tell us your favorite Black history moments from the Gen X era! Don’t forget to follow, rate, and share to support the Chat and Bother podcast.
What is Q&A Sunday?
Q&A Sunday is a weekly segment on the Chat and Bother Podcast where we answer fun, nostalgic, and thought-provoking questions, often inspired by Gen X culture. The questions appear live on our Facebook and Instagram Stories, allowing our audience to participate in real time. If you miss the live questions, you can still join the conversation by answering in the comments on our YouTube Shorts or watching the full episode on our YouTube channel. Listeners can also call in with comments or suggest new topics by visiting ChatAndBother.com and clicking the phone icon. Some responses may even be featured in future episodes!
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This Q&A Sunday, we’re talking about what it takes to have a successful marriage! From communication and trust to navigating challenges together, we’re sharing our thoughts on making relationships last. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook to join the conversation every Sunday! You can also check out our Q&A Sunday playlist on YouTube to see all the questions we’ve answered so far. Drop your thoughts in the comments on Facebook, Spotify, or This Q&A Sunday, we’re talking about what it takes to have a successful marriage! From communication and trust to navigating challenges together, we’re sharing our thoughts on making relationships last. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook to join the conversation every Sunday! You can also check out our Q&A Sunday playlist on YouTube—we’d love to hear from you!
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Q&A Sunday is a weekly segment on the Chat and Bother Podcast where we answer fun, nostalgic, and thought-provoking questions, often inspired by Gen X culture. The questions appear live on our Facebook and Instagram Stories, allowing our audience to participate in real time. If you miss the live questions, you can still join the conversation by answering in the comments on our YouTube Shorts or watching the full episode on our YouTube channel. Listeners can also call in with comments or suggest new topics by visiting ChatAndBother.com and clicking the phone icon. Some responses may even be featured in future episodes!
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Did Baby Boomers create the perfect storm for Gen X anxiety? Or did they accidentally raise the most resilient (and hilariously unbothered) generation ever? In this episode, Eva and Don break down the chaos of growing up Gen X—where every game, playground, and news report felt like the apocalypse was just around the corner.
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In this episode:
- The nerve-wracking games like Operation and the Pop-Up Tic Tac Toe game that made kids sweat!
- Playground warfare: dodgeball, Red Rover, and other borderline-dangerous games that ruptured spleens and dislocated shoulders.
- The rise of 24/7 news and how it turned every headline into a kid’s worst nightmare.
- How the Baby Boomer “every man for himself” mentality shaped Gen X into the most anxious yet feral and unbothered generation.
We want to hear from YOU! What childhood games made YOU the most nervous? Do you think Baby Boomers are responsible for Gen X’s feral resilience? Call us and tell us what you think at 312-788-7827. Share your thoughts in the comments on Facebook and YouTube, and join the conversation!
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Did you ever dream of cruising the neighborhood on a Big Wheel, baking tiny cakes in an Easy-Bake Oven, or ruling over the ultimate Barbie Dream House? In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva take a nostalgic trip back to the 80s, reminiscing about the toys they desperately wanted as Gen X kids—some they got, some they didn’t, and some that still haunt them to this day.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJu2_SFBEFQ From Tonka Trucks to backgammon sets, they explore how childhood toy wishes shaped their emotions (and maybe their need for therapy now). If you're still recovering from another Christmas of unmet gift expectations, you’re not alone. Grab your snack and join the conversation!
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This week, Don and Eva tackle a heated AITA post that’s sparking plenty of opinions. A mother is thinking about taking her ex-husband to court to help pay for their child’s private school tuition after discovering he’s planning to pay tuition at the same school for his other child with his current wife. The twist? The ex might not be able to afford both, and tensions are running high as questions of fairness, finances, and parental responsibility come into play.
Don and Eva break down the situation, debating whether the mom is justified in her actions or if she’s stirring up unnecessary drama. They discuss the challenges of co-parenting, the complexities of blended families, and the emotional weight of trying to do what’s best for your child. Is she the a**hole? Call us and tell us what you think at 312-788-7827, or tell us what you think on our Facebook page.
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When we started this podcast, we just used the website that came with our podcast host. It was fine, but it didn't have a lot of the features that I wanted and that I knew were important. I have built many websites, and I know that having a podcast website isn’t just about having an online presence—it’s a powerful tool to engage your audience, convert casual listeners into dedicated fans, and grow your mailing list. You don't have to have a custom site when you start, if you don't have the resources to have one built or the know how to do it yourself. If you decide to build a website for your podcast, here are some ways to make sure your website does exactly what you need it to do.
First Impressions Matter Professional Design and Easy Navigation
After the podcast player apps, your website is the next place current and potential fans will go to learn more about you and your show. Make sure it looks professional and is easy to navigate. A clean design will create a sense of trust and make users more likely to stick around. If your website is confusing, visitors will leave and likely not return to give you a second look.
Mobile Friendly and Fast Loading
Nobody likes to wait for a website to load. The faster it loads, the longer your visitors will stay, and the more pages they will likely look at. It is very important to make sure your website works loads quickly. Slow load times can lead to higher bounce rates and missed opportunities to convert visitors. Most people discover and listen to podcasts on their phones, so your site needs to be mobile-friendly as well, especially if there are links to your website on your podcast page and in your show notes on listening apps.
Consistent Branding Is Key
We had photos that our son took of us while he was practicing his photography (he is a photographer now), so we just built our branding around those. Our podcast thumbnail is one of those photos and our podcast name, very simple. From that thumbnail, we made everything else match on the website so that our audience got familiar with our branding. Your podcast logo, colors, and fonts should be consistent across your website and on your podcast app pages, as much as that can be customized. This helps establish a recognizable brand identity. If you can, make sure your podcast’s name, tagline, and mission are prominently displayed on the homepage, or at least on your about page, so visitors immediately understand what your show is about.
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Show Off Your Best Work Add a Podcast Player on Your Homepage
The goal of your podcast is to have people listen to it. That is the number one objective. Make it easy for visitors to listen to your latest or most popular episodes directly on your homepage. Embedding a podcast player above the fold (before the user has to scroll down) allows visitors to engage with your content right away. Services like Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and many others offer embeddable players that make it easy to add your episodes. We have a player embedded from podcast players, and from our host so that visitors have multiple opportunities to listen to the show.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/6UraDM71FAdW8W3vOZ7aAY Choose Fan Favorites to Showcase
Do you know what your most popular episode is? We looked at our numbers and polled our listeners to find out. Then we put a player at the top that featured that episode. Keep in mind that not all listeners will want to scroll through an every episode you have to find one to listen to. Make it easy for them to find episodes that are likely to make them fans. You can feature a “Start Here” section or page with essential episodes for new listeners. You can organize episodes by category or theme which helps visitors get find episodes they can relate to and get hooked on your podcast quickly.
Make the Most of Show Notes and Transcripts
Did you know that Apple Podcasts has transcripts of your shows as soon as you upload them? Including detailed show notes and transcripts for each episode on your website helps with SEO and accessibility. I have not seen where our Chat & Bother transcripts are discoverable on Google because of Apple Podcast transcripts, but there are people who swear this helps SEO. I suggest that you take matters into your own hands and have your show transcript on your own website. Copy it from the Apple Podcast app if you can and paste it on your website! People who may not have time to listen can quickly skim through the content, while those who are hard of hearing can still engage with your material. Take matters into your own hands, and add your transcripts to your own website, so that you can be sure that the transcript is searchable on your website as well as Google and other search engines.
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Tell Visitors What You Want Them To Do Ask Visitors to Subscribe
We want our listeners to join our mailing list. It is a great way for them to keep up with what is going on with us besides our new episodes. One of the main goals of your podcast website should be to convert listeners into email subscribers too. Keep your visitors from asking themselves, "what do I do now?" once they arrive at your home page. Make it easy for them to join your email list by placing prominent, clear CTAs (calls to action) in a pop up on your homepage, episode pages, and in the footer. Use phrases like “Never Miss an Episode” or “Join Our Mailing List for Exclusive Content” to make visitors excited to get to know more about you and your podcast.
Give Your Audience Several Ways to Join
We have a pop up form as soon as a new visitor comes to the website, but we don’t rely on that one signup form. Visitors can opt-in on the sidebar, in pop-up forms, at the end of blog posts, or on a dedicated landing page from our list provider. Make sure these forms are quick and easy to fill out. If all you need right now is their email address, that's fine!
Offer Incentives
To encourage people to join your mailing list, consider offering exclusive content like behind the scenes videos. You can also offer bonus episodes, early access to shows, or a downloadable guide or ebook that is relevant to your podcast’s subject matter. Incentives give listeners a reason to subscribe beyond notifications of new episodes.
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Share Why Should They Should Subscribe Testimonials and Reviews
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “I love listening to Don and Eva. They are funny and it’s like a weekly podcast with my friends. Every time I listen I feel like we are all in the same room talking. I’m just waiting my turn before I give my opinion.”
We have a testimonial and star rating right on our sign up pop up, along with our award from the Essence Film Festival Podcast Competition. This tells visitors that its not just us that believes our show is great - others believe it too! Showcasing listener testimonials or reviews from platforms like Apple Podcasts can help build credibility for our show. How often do you choose a product or restaurant because of ratings and testimonials? I rely on them heavily. A section featuring your podcast’s ratings and reviews acts as social proof, encouraging new visitors to listen to your show.
Include Media Mentions and Celebrity Guests and Collaborators
Has your podcast has been featured in the media? Have you collaborated with well-known or celebrity guests? Highlight this on your website. Include badges or logos from publications that have mentioned your show—this boosts your podcast's authority and appeal.
Get That Engagement Going
While people don't spend a ton of time in the comments on websites anymore, you can encourage interaction on social media. Include your social media links where your fans can follow and engage with you. Create timely stories on Instagram and Facebook that lead fans to your podcast or your website. If you are active on Twitter and Instagram, integrate your Twitter or Instagram feed directly on the site to show that you’re active and accessible. If you do not update those platforms frequently, don't include it on your site.
Include a Blog Extend the Conversation
A blog is a great way to improve SEO and gives you an opportunity to add on to what you have talked about on the show. This gives listeners another reason to visit your website regularly. It also gives you another opportunity to link to your other shows that may be relevant to the topic you are blogging about.
Showcase Expertise
Don and I are business strategists. The blog on Chat and Bother helps us showcase that expertise by helping others start their own podcasts. So many people ask us how to get started, so we decided the best way to answer everyone is to provide resources on our website. Not all of our listeners will want to start a podcast, so choose what you are good at and showcase that. Blog posts can also be a place to share behind-the-scenes insights, upcoming episodes, or additional resources related to your podcast’s niche. We include links to the microphones we use, our podcast host, and other tools that we use to produce the podcast so that if listeners want to start their own podcasts they have the information that they need.
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Joining your mailing list has to provide value. Always include calls to action within your blog posts, encouraging readers to join your mailing list for even more stuff that they couldn't get if they just randomly visited your site or listened to your show on their favorite podcast platform. You can include opt-in forms with downloadable content upgrades—like episode summaries or checklists—to grow your subscriber base. Will some people unsubscribe after they get what they want? Maybe. But not all of them! Make sure that whatever you are offering makes them want to sign up for more.
Make Subscribing Easy Link Directly to Podcast Platforms
Your website should prominently feature buttons or links to all the platforms where your podcast is available, such as Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Audible. While it would be awesome for them to subscribe to your mailing list, it is very important that you make subscribing to your podcast effortless by including these links in multiple places including the website header, footer, and on episode and blog pages.
Dedicated Subscription Page
Create a dedicated page that walks listeners through how to subscribe to your podcast on various platforms. Not everyone is familiar with podcast apps, so a clear explanation can help remove barriers to subscribing.
Analyze and Optimize Use Analytics to Track Performance
This is VERY important. Set up Google Analytics or something like it, maybe MonsterInsights, to track visitor behavior on your site. By understanding which pages perform well and where visitors drop off, you can make data-driven decisions to improve your site’s engagement. Your website should have clear goals, and you won't know if you are reaching those goals if you aren't tracking your progress.
Test Different Strategies
A/B test different versions of your CTAs, signup forms, and homepage layout to see what resonates best with your audience. Even small changes can have a big impact on conversion rates. Depending on what platform you are using to build your website, there are plugins to help you do this.
Optimize for SEO
Regularly update your website with SEO in mind. Use relevant keywords in your blog posts, show notes, and episode descriptions to increase your chances of showing up in search engine results. Sometimes people will google you "just to see." They want to know how popular you are. Where you show up in the search is even more social proof fo your awesomeness.
Foster a Community Create a Members-Only Area
Consider offering a members-only section where fans can access exclusive content like behind-the-scenes videos, bonus episodes, or a private community forum. You can make this available to those who subscribe to your mailing list or as part of a paid membership. You can also consider a patreon or using Substack to create paid content for your members and subscribers. We don't have a members only area or a substack (yet), but we do have a Facebook group where we interact with our listeners and get feedback in a more private setting.
Promote Events and Merch
If you host live events or sell podcast merchandise, your website is the perfect place to promote these initiatives. This can deepen the connection with your audience and help sustain your podcast financially.
Your podcast website is more than just a landing page for your episodes—it's a vey powerful tool to engage with listeners, build loyalty, and grow your mailing list. By offering a seamless, enjoyable user experience, valuable content, and plenty of opportunities for listeners to connect with you, you can turn casual visitors into dedicated fans who keep coming back for more. Good luck!
In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss the lasting influence of high school coaches and the powerful impact they have on shaping our character and future. Whether you were an athlete, mathlete, academic decathlete, debater, mock trial member, or watched it all from the sidelines, coaches often play a pivotal role in our development—far beyond the field, court, or stage. Join us as we share personal stories, discuss life lessons learned through discipline, teamwork, and perseverance, and reflect on how these experiences continue to guide our decisions today. Did your high school coach help mold the person you’ve become? Share your memories in the comments and join our thought-provoking conversation on the connections between sports, leadership, and personal growth.
In this episode of Chat and Bother, Don and Eva discuss the evolution of college move-in day and how it has drastically changed from Generation X to Generation Y. From the days of landlines and Mapquest to the era of iPhones and Life360, we explore the key differences in how each generation tackled the big move and letting go. Were dorm setups, parental involvement, and the emotional rollercoaster the same for both generations? Join us as we compare stories and consider how cultural and technological shifts have transformed this rite of passage over the past thirty years. Whether you're a Gen Xer reminiscing or a millennial reflecting on your own experience, this episode is sure to bring up (hopefully fond) memories and laughter around move-in day.
What do you do when your spouse wakes you up and asks you to install the ESPN app on her iPad? You install it - no questions asked. Unless you don't want to watch a documentary at 5 am and discuss it. Then you ask as many questions as possible.
On the episode, Don and Eva discuss the 30 for 30 Shorts documentary "Strike Team." As strategists by trade, they break down some of the possible holes in the US Marshall's plan to scam fugitives in bulk, and marvel at the genius behind the sting operation that still stands out in the history books today.
Richard Simmons, Shannen Doherty, Dr. Ruth Westheimer... and more celebrities from our youth passed away in the last few days. What does that say about us? Are we not long for this world?
In this episode, Don and Eva discuss how they feel when a beloved or at least well-known celebrity from their formative years passes away. From the nostalgia of childhood memories to the sobering reality of their own mortality, they discuss how these moments can profoundly impact us - or not. Why does the loss of a public figure feel so deeply personal? Whether you're grappling with recent news or simply curious about this unique aspect of human connection, this is an episode that you will want to chat about with your friends and family.
So your daughter wants to be a white girl, but she is unmelanated. Your son wants to be a rapper, but you don't see that as a viable career path. What do you do? On this episode, Don and Eva discuss the right and wrong ways to support your child's endeavors when you don't agree with their... ahem... uh... Validity? Viability? Sensibility? Yeah. One of those. WWTHD (What would Tom Hanks Do?)
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Remember that episode of the C*sby Show when Vanessa ran off with her friends to have "big fun" at the Wretched concert in Baltimore and got into all sorts of trouble? What did you to have fun when you were a teenager? We promise we won't tell. On this episode, Eva and Don talk about their teen years in Delaware and South Carolina, and what they did to have a good time.
Polka dots, rayon shirts, and short-alls, OH MY! The 80s, 90s, and 2000s are back in style, so it is hard to really regret our decisions, but in this episode, Don and Eva share just a few items that they wish they hadn't insisted on rocking in their teens.
Eva made what seemed like a simple anniversary post on Facebook that turned out to not be so simple to her friends and family. The reactions sparked a conversation about agency, being an introvert, accepting quirks, and respecting boundaries. On this episode of Chat and Bother, Eva and Don discuss their personality differences and how those differences helped them navigate twenty years of marriage.
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What made Marjorie Taylor Green think she could come for Rep Jasmine Crockett and survive? Did we learn nothing from the Drake and Kendrick Lamar beef? sigh In this bonus episode, we talk about our experiences with people writing checks their 🍑 can't cash, and getting publicly eviscerated.
We mention a very funny human that you should check out online and in person. Here is his Instagram - Maronzio Vance Instagram
We know him as Don's former roommate who proved that you don't have to be a celebrity to be roasted for two-hours straight. You know him as an actor and comedian who has starred alongside George Lopez, and written for some of your favorite shows. If you get a chance to see him live, do that.
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Chat & Bother is back for season two! In this episode, Don and Eva deliver the results of the Q&A Sunday polls on Instagram, talk about Brian McKnight's decision to cut off his kids from his previous marriage, calling them "products of sin," and discuss how cutting off family members the right way can lead to a more peaceful life.
Do you think people are out there regularly cutting off family members? Are they ghosting or explaining their reasons for exiting the relationship? The poll results provide a fascinating glimpse into how the Chat & Bother audience grapples with the notion of cutting off family members. It ain't easy... or is it?
Get ready for a rollercoaster of emotions, laughter, and thought-provoking conversations as Eva and Don kick off Season Two with a topic that hits close to home for many and tackle one of the most challenging aspects of family life. Whether you're nodding along in agreement or squirming in discomfort, this premiere promises to kick off Season Two with a bang.
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You win some, and you learn some! Join hosts Eva and Don in a candid and humorous chat about winning and losing. In this episode of Chat and Bother, Eva and Don share personal anecdotes that illustrate how they've coped with both victory and defeat, the valuable lessons learned from their mistakes, the resilience gained from overcoming challenges, and how they navigate teaching their kids to handle failure with grace and perseverance. Amidst the laughter and introspection, this episode features a special announcement that promises to add an exciting twist to the Chat and Bother podcast journey. So tune in for a dose of inspiration, laughter, and a newfound perspective on embracing the ups and downs of life.
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Welcome to a special off-season bonus episode of Chat and Bother! In this chilly installment, join hosts Eva and Don as they take a morning drive through the Windy City. Why Do We Have Cold Weather Clothes in Warm Places? On this below-zero morning in Chicago, Eva and Don chat about why our closets seem to harbor parkas even in warmer climates. This "on-the-go" episode captures the essence of a Chicago winter morning, providing insights, laughs, and perhaps a few shivers along the way. Tune in as Eva and Don take you on a frosty ride through the streets of Chicago, and discuss why cold-weather clothes keep ending up in places where the sun usually shines!
We are back with regular episodes in May, but we will be doing off-season bonus episodes and lives between now and then. Use the links below to make sure you are subscribed so that you don't miss our off-season shenanigans!
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How does Gen X measure up in the formality department? Join Don and Eva as they discuss cultural nuances, family dynamics, and the mathematical formula you have to use when addressing family members. When are you on a first-name basis? When must you use titles like "auntie," "uncle," "mister," or "miss."
Are millennials too laid-back or simply redefining what it means to show respect? Is Gen Y missing the mark on formality, or are they pioneering a new era of cultural, familial, and societal norms? What is your formula when it comes to addressing your loved ones or strangers?
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Do you remember the first good deed you ever did? How often do you find yourself putting on your superhero cape to help a stranger in need? In this episode, Eva and Don share the lessons they learned about kindness, compassion, and goodwill - and how they learned those lessons. Was it the classic moral tales, Bible stories, watching their parents, or did they discover the art of being a Good Samaritan through unexpected opportunities to perform random acts of benevolence?
How were you taught to be a Good Samaritan? Prepare yourself for laughter, introspection, and a renewed appreciation for the small, kind gestures that make the world a better place.
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In this episode, Eva and Don discuss the unexpected parallels of their childhoods that transcended geography and culture. It turns out that the human experience knows no borders. One might expect Trinidadian/South Carolinian and Delawarean/Alabamian childhoods to be worlds apart, but this episode will make you wonder if they secretly shared a childhood handbook. It's the episode that proves that hilarious family stories (about goats) are universal.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbPE58vd5KE
How did you learn about the birds and the bees? The circle of life? While this episode won't require earmuffs for big kids, it's up to you to decide. Consider this fair warning that Don and Eva will discuss some topics that you may not be ready to bring to the family dinner table discussion. It turns out that explaining the mysteries of life and death isn't as straightforward as the birds, bees, and swallowing watermelon seeds.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=18soupXevAg
Are Gen Xers too busy taking care of the Boomers and rolling their eyes at millennials and Gen Y to embrace bubble baths and scented candles? In this episode, Don and Eva tackle the root causes of their self-care avoidance. It seems the world is trying HARD to convince Gen X that self-care should be "a thing." From meditation apps to 24-hour spas, the relaxation industry has set its sights on the workaholic generation. Why isn't Gen X buying it?
Will they ever learn to love the art of relaxation, or will they forever be caught in an infinite loop of work hard, play hard?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZgSi4XS2gM
How much of your behavior can you blame on pregnancy hormones? Here's part two of our AITA (Am I the A**hole?) Pregnancy, kids, tired parents, vacation, a stack of pancakes... what could go wrong? What's the line between being inconsiderate and being misunderstood? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about just how much control people really have over their own behavior and their kids' behavior too. Who can you share this drama with? We have a sister caught between the kitchen and her impending motherhood, questioning if she's truly in the wrong for wanting to catch a break.
Whether you're a seasoned parent, a supportive sibling, or just someone who enjoys a good dose of family drama, don't forget to share this episode and tell us who you think is right on Instagram and Facebook. Who is the a**hole?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YnN1C4eslYM
Is she a bridezilla or a blushing bride? This week on Chat and Bother, Don and Eva weigh in on some wedding drama from AITA (Am I the A**hole?) on Reddit. Picture it: a parent who's ready to sprinkle some magic (and big money) on their child's nuptials, only to be faced with a future daughter-in-law determined to take the reins without contributing a penny. But the parent has some demands too, if they want his coins...
Is it fair for the one paying to get to make decisions or it is up to the bride? Share this episode with your friends and tell us what you think on Instagram and Facebook. Who is the a**hole?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t2B4yWBwMpQ
Has anyone ever just walked in and stolen your name, idea, or other intellectual property? What happens when someone steals your million-dollar idea? Can you copyright a brilliant thought before it's even out there? Can you trademark a name that someone else is already using?
If Twitter (X) users are to be believed, it happens every day, often. In this episode, Eva (who is not a lawyer) and Don (also not a lawyer) talk about why protecting your IP and your "brand" is so important, and how they go about keeping their names out of other people's mouths (and IP portfolios).
Has anyone stolen an idea from you? Tell us about it on Facebook and Instagram!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gihHdN_O59U
How angry would you have to be to change the name you've had for 54 years to distance yourself from your adult children? Our guess is pretty mad. In this bonus episode, Don and Eva talk about Brian McKnight's decision to change his name to his newborn son's name so that he can have a new junior. He told you he was gonna "start back at one," and apparently he is repeating "steps one through three" and as he said "continuing his legacy." THAT RHYMES!
Enjoy this bonus episode of Chat and Bother! Tell us what your someone would have to do to make you change the name you've had your whole life on Instagram or Facebook.
About Bonus Episodes: Our bonus episodes are a little different from our usual ones. These bonus episodes could be recorded anytime and anywhere, so make sure you are subscribed to our YouTube Channel, just in case there’s a video. Our bonus episodes are unscripted, unpredictable, full of unexpected surprises, and undeniably entertaining. Whether it's a quick chat about a topic we don’t usually discuss, exclusive interviews, or a behind-the-scenes look at the making of the podcast, our bonus episodes are here to add an extra layer of excitement to the time you spend with us.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c7XQh5qOfDQ
Did you spend a lot of time in the mall when you were a kid? How did you feel when you finally got to go with your friends and not your parents? What was your favorite store? In this episode, Don and Eva go back in time and revisit the stores that defined our childhood shopping sprees. Remember the excitement of entering the mall, eyes wide with wonder as we raced to beloved stores like Spencer's?
Whether you were a mall rat or an occasional visitor, this episode will transport you back to the days when the mall was more than just a shopping destination—it was a way of life!
Tell us what you think on Facebook or Instagram, and answer the polls on Spotify!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SVgvrjNo240
Get ready for another nostalgic trip on the Chat and Bother Podcast! In part one of this two-part episode, we're talking about middle school in the 80s.
Join us for a discussion on whether the bulk of our middle school assignments were simply 'busy work' or if there were nuggets of gold amid the piles of worksheets. In this episode, we'll sift through the dusty halls of our middle school memories to reexamine those "educational" endeavors and whether they were building blocks for our future or useless hoops to jump through.
Was there more to the endless multiplication tables, the worksheets, or the art projects than meets the eye?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2xqSXRbwoco
If you were a billionaire, with a B, are you sharing the wealth? Today the Powerball is 1.55 billion dollars. If you won, are you giving money away freely or… This week, Don and Eva talk about earned money, newfound wealth, and how to divvy up the big bucks.
Will you be the benevolent billionaire, spreading the wealth like confetti? Or are you the type who needs a business plan from your cousin just to lend him a couple of dollars? Whether you'd throw stacks of cash out the window for whoever is there to catch it or require a 50-page PowerPoint presentation before opening your wallet, this episode will definitely have you thinking about what happens after your numbers prove themselves to be lucky. Will your family and friends be lucky too?
How would you spend your money if you were a billionaire? Are there good causes that you've had your eye on? Would you plan a vacation for you and your besties? Would you do some investing in your community? What about investing in your cousin's latest scheme dream? Share your thoughts on Facebook or Instagram!
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In this special extended episode of Chat and Bother, Don the LinkedIn guy, and Eva, who is on all the platforms, explore the things that irk them in a lively discussion that's twice as long as their usual episodes. Don and Eva explore common social media annoyances, but what's a podcast episode about social media without a few epic rants? Don and Eva each have some social media grievances they can't help but vent about, and you won't want to miss their passionate takes.
Whether you're team Don or team Eva (or somewhere in between), get ready for twice the fun and twice the insights—it's an episode that's worth every extra minute. Tell us your social media pet peeves on Facebook and Instagram!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S6BpDNlXAbQ
Don and Eva are back for another journey into the past. In this follow-up to their previous episode, they continue their exploration of the quirky and inexplicable fears that once haunted their childhoods.
In Part Two, they're stepping out of the quicksand and sharing more of their anecdotes to the hilarious origins of their childhood fears. If you've ever wondered why you were scared of things like UFOs, the Bermuda Triangle, or that monster under your bed, this episode is sure to resonate.
So, whether you're a fellow Gen Xer or simply curious about the fears that shaped a generation, this episode promises to deliver plenty of moments that'll make you question why you were ever afraid in the first place. Don't miss out on this nostalgic trip! Share it with your friends and family who grew up in the 80s.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s1YMIeUQNqg
Is that nerve-wracking first date really just an audition for a role in someone's life? If you are perfect on that first date, will you win the golden ticket like they do on America's Got Talent? Or maybe it's more like American Idol? But what if Randy thinks you’re a little bi… pitchy?
In this bonus episode, Eva has read a post online and become so incensed, that she took over Don’s lunch break to discuss it. Share your thoughts with us on Facebook and Instagram!
About Bonus Episodes: Our bonus episodes are a little different from our usual ones. These bonus episodes could be recorded anytime and anywhere, so make sure you are subscribed to our YouTube Channel, just in case there’s a video. Our bonus episodes are unscripted, unpredictable, full of unexpected surprises, and undeniably entertaining. Whether it's a quick chat about a topic we don’t usually discuss, exclusive interviews, or a behind-the-scenes look at the making of the podcast, our bonus episodes are here to add an extra layer of excitement to the time you spend with us.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwLlrhXUOnk
Are you still scared of quicksand? Do you still wonder what you would do if you ever found yourself sinking into oblivion? Join Don and Eva as they take a nostalgic trip down memory lane, revisiting the 80's television and cartoons that made them scared of the most ridiculous things. In this episode, the will expose the irrational and utterly unfounded fears these shows planted in their young minds that may or may not linger today.
Prepare to laugh, cringe, and check your own childhood fears as they share their personal anecdotes and marvel at the absurdity of it all. Don't miss this episode that's bound to leave you questioning why you were ever scared of quicksand in the first place. Make sure you share this episode with your Gen X friends and family members, and find out what they might still be afraid of.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw83f7bICrQ
Are you guilty of continuing your favorite series on a streaming service, even when you started watching it with a friend or loved one? If so, you're not alone! In this episode of Chat & Bother, Eva and Don dive deep into the unspoken dilemma of whether or not it's acceptable to keep watching a show on your own when it was meant to be a shared experience.
Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of streaming etiquette, the joys of synchronized binge-watching, and the occasional betrayals that happen when one of you can't wait to find out what happens next.
Have you ever been on the receiving end of a spoiler-filled confession? Or perhaps you're the one who couldn't resist hitting that "Next Episode" button. Share your stories, opinions, and strategies for navigating this shared streaming dilemma.
Join the conversation on Facebook and Instagram! Share your experiences, confess your guilty pleasures, and let us know how you handle the delicate art of continuing a series solo. Don't forget to tag a friend who's been in the same situation (Don't tag the friend you ditched... just sayin')!
Subscribe now and never miss an episode as we navigate the exciting and sometimes treacherous world of solo streaming!
Remember when our cartoon options were limited to just three channels, and we waited all week for that Saturday morning lineup? Get ready to step into the time machine for this episode of Chat & Bother. Join your Eva and Don on a nostalgic journey back to those cherished Saturday mornings of the 80s and 90s.
Eva and Don unpack the generational divide and discuss how technology and societal changes have shaped the way kids experience Saturday mornings. Subscribe now to be part of the conversation. Share your memories of Saturday mornings as a Gen X kid or your thoughts on how kids today spend their weekend mornings today. We want to hear your stories, opinions, and even some of those daring stunts you pulled off with your friends back in the day when cartoons were over (yes young listeners... there was a time in ancient history when cartoons were not available 24 hours a day). Talk to us on Facebook or Instagram!
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How many of you have said to your kids, or to yourself, "do you have McDonald's money?" when faced with the decision to either hit that drive-thru or go home? In this episode, Don and Eva discuss a TikTok that went viral in which a mom decides that she is breaking "unserious generational curses." one happy meal and book fair at a time. What unserious generational curses are you breaking? Do you get your McDonald's fix without regard for your immediate financial situation? Are you going crazy on Amazon when new books are released? Let us know on Facebook and Instagram!
Was there something that your parents or other family members said or did that told you that you were finally grown? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about events that confirmed that they were grown. What rite of passage let you know that you were considered an adult? Let us know what made you feel like a real adult on Facebook or Instagram.
Who gets to decide where you go, what you do, and what you wear? Is it your spouse? Your career? Your family? Your morals? Something or someone else? Is it you? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about the Keke Palmer/Usher drama, and how they handle differences of opinion in clothing choices in their relationship. Who has the final say in your personal style and behavior? Tell us on Facebook or Instagram!
Have you worked with your spouse before? How did it go? Is working with your spouse different from working with other family members? Your children? In this episode, Don and Eva answer these questions and more. Have you been thinking about going into business with your spouse? What are you most worried about? Tell us in the comments on YouTube or on Facebook!
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What did you want to be when you grew up? Did you actually become that? Did you do some version or aspect of what you wanted to do either as your main occupation or as a volunteer? In this episode, Don and Eva discuss what they wanted to be, and might still want to be! It's never too late, right? If you could be anything you wanted to be, what would that be? Tell us on Facebook!
When did you find out there were places you couldn't (or shouldn't) go because you were Black? Do you remember the first time you were called the n-word? In this VERY late Black History Month episode, Don and Eva share some of their moments growing up Black in the northern vs southern United States. How old were you when you noticed that people of different races were treated differently? Tell us on Facebook!
How would you feel if you were the publisher who turned down Harry Potter? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about regrets, how they avoid having them, and what they think the biggest regrets of all time are. Do you have regrets? How do you move on from them? Tell us on Facebook!
Are the stereotypes about you accurate? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about the zodiac and cultural stereotypes that may or may not be true about them. What do people assume about you based on stereotypes attached to where you are from, what you look like, or when you were born? Tell us on Facebook!
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How long can you hold a grudge? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about how long they hold grudges and what it takes to let things go... if they ever actually do. Did you bring any grudges into the new year? Tell us on Facebook!
Watch this episode on Youtube or Facebook.
When you feel like someone has disrespected you, do you address it right away, or do you wait a while? In this episode, Don and Eva discuss a how and when they deal with situations in which others have been disrespectful. What do you do when you have been disrespected or treated badly? Tell us on Facebook!
How hard is it to watch TV shows and movies from the 80's and 90s in 2022? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about what happened when they introduced their kids to their favorite TV shows and movies from the 80s and 90s. What were your favorite shows from your childhood? Tell us on Facebook!
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Are you a perfectionist? When you think of a perfectionist, do you think of someone who has the best product or service out there, or someone who never gets anything out there at all? It can be either or both, and in this episode, Eva and Don discuss how they handle perfectionism. How do you handle the need to be perfect? Share your story with us on our Facebook page!
Want to know more about Q-Tip's perfectionism and how he and his group, A Tribe Called Quest, handled it? Click here to watch Beats, Rhymes & Life: The Travels of A Tribe Called Quest.
Are you super competitive? Do you feel like you need to win? In this episode, Eva and Don discuss what winning means to them, and what drives them to do better. What does winning look like to you? Tell us on our Facebook Page!
When you get a promotion, you have a birthday, or a major holiday comes around, how do you celebrate? Are you the type to commemorate every moment with friends and family, or do you pick and choose when and how to celebrate the things that happen in your life? In this episode, Don and Eva talk about how they celebrated different occasions growing up, and how they celebrate now.
How do you celebrate birthdays? Weddings? Christmas? Thanksgiving? Anniversaries? Tell us on our Facebook Page!
Were there products or activities that you thought were for rich people? Did certain things make you feel 'rich' when you were a kid? In this episode, Eva and Don discuss the things - from crayons to Ziploc bags - that they thought were reserved for rich people.
What products did you think were for 'rich folks'? Tell us on our Facebook Page!
How long did your mom or dad or grandparents make your breakfast? Until you left for college? Were you on your own by middle school? In this episode, Eva has asked her friends when they stopped getting breakfast made for them, and the answers have prompted her to bother Don about it. Welcome to the first episode of Chat & Bother.
When did you start making your own breakfast? Tell us and share your experience on our Facebook page!
Welcome to Chat & Bother! In this short episode, you will meet your hosts, Eva and Don, find out what the show is about, and learn how we came up with the name for the podcast. Follow our Facebook page for updates!