Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha : Recent Episodes

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor

For over 20 years now, we’ve fought the good fight of faith, and along the way we have learned so much about living a God-first life. Before Jesus, Tabatha was diagnosed depressed for over 12 years, we had $100,000 in debt, and we were headed straight for divorce. But when we started living for God, our lives radically changed. Tabatha was healed, we prospered financially, and we became best friends. With God's help, we learned how to do life well. And that’s exactly why we’ve created this Podcast – to help you do life with us and do it well. We will help you unlock principles for doing life God’s way, which will lead you to more joy, more peace, and true freedom.

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Your words are doing more than describing your life. They’re shaping it. Ken and Tabatha Claytor dig into the Scripture “your sons and your daughters shall prophesy” and make a bold case that prophecy isn’t reserved for a select few with a title. It’s a Spirit-empowered way for everyday believers to speak God’s truth with faith, authority, and love, whether you’re navigating marriage stress, parenting worries, a hard workplace, or a health report you didn’t want.

We unpack the difference between the office of a prophet and the gift of prophecy, then walk through what prophecy looks like in the New Testament: strengthening, encouragement, and comfort. You’ll hear why the written Word of God must anchor every prophetic word, how to test what people say “God told me,” and why accountability in the local church keeps the prophetic from getting weird or harmful. We also break down foretelling versus forthtelling, including the powerful Ezekiel 37 picture of speaking life into dry bones.

Tabatha shares a personal testimony of freedom after years of depression, including the practical steps that helped her rebuild: studying healing and identity scriptures, declaring God’s promises daily, and learning to resist oppressive spiritual attack with confidence. We close with five clear ways to grow in prophetic sensitivity: stay rooted in Scripture, pray consistently, remove constant noise, stay humble, and test every word. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. What’s one promise you’re ready to start speaking over your life today?

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What do you do when you still love your spouse, but you honestly do not like them right now? We go straight into the real-life stuff couples actually fight about: lights left on, shoes where they “shouldn’t” be, house rules, and that moment when a simple reminder suddenly sounds like disrespect. We laugh, but we also get serious about how tiny irritations can grow into contempt when we turn a habit into a verdict on someone’s character.

From there, we unpack a marriage truth that saves relationships: love and like are different. When people say they have “fallen out of love,” we believe the fastest path back is often rebuilding like. We talk about intentional ways to do that in a long-term marriage, like choosing shared activities again, creating new experiences like you did while dating, and changing the inner narrative you repeat about your spouse. Instead of building a case against them all day, we practice building a case for them, which changes how we show up at home.

We also ground everything in Christian marriage principles, including agape love from 1 Corinthians 13: love as a choice, love as a commitment, love that forgives, keeps no record of wrong, and believes the best. We share practical relationship advice you can use immediately: get curious instead of frustrated, name unmet needs, close emotional distance with small conversations, seek counseling or pastoral support without shame, and pray honestly for God to soften your heart. If you want faith-based marriage help that stays practical, this one is for you.

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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

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What if the next breakthrough in your marriage is something simple you can do this week at home, not a huge speech or a dramatic reset? We sit down for a Valentine’s week conversation that gets practical fast, sharing five real-world ways a wife can care for her husband in a way that changes the atmosphere of the whole house.

We start with honor, because respect is not fluff, it is fuel. From how you greet each other to the tiny “family culture” moments like dinner routines and even the last piece of cake, we talk about how honor communicates value and helps a man feel safe, seen, and welcomed at home. We also address a common tension: when home management turns into control. We share why family meetings matter, how to get buy-in on rules, and why a husband’s need to decompress is not rejection, it is often how he resets to lead and love well.

Then we lean into service, including Tabatha’s “Ken’s night” idea, and how serving each other builds momentum instead of scorekeeping. We also talk candidly about intimacy, why “enjoy sex often” is a relationship principle, and why many husbands feel deeply loved when a wife initiates sometimes. We close with a truth that gets missed in so many marriage conversations: caring for yourself is caring for your marriage, because your health, confidence, and emotional stability affect the entire home.

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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage is waiting on the other side of real leadership at home? Ken and Tabitha Claytor sit down for a direct, honest conversation aimed at husbands, future husbands, and anyone who wants a healthier Christian marriage. We talk to the man who’s doing his best and also to the man who’s stuck, tired, isolated, or never had a model for what faithful, strong, tender love even looks like.

We unpack why men need other men, why isolation quietly sabotages families, and how fatherhood and spiritual covering shape identity. Then we tackle the hot topic with clarity: biblical headship is responsibility, not control. It is not about value or power. It is about carrying the weight, listening well, choosing humility, and creating a home atmosphere that feels safe. We also challenge the “I pay the bills, I don’t cheat” mindset and explain why a wife still may not feel seen, honored, desired, or emotionally secure.

You’ll hear practical marriage advice for men you can apply today: how to be emotionally present, protect her heart, serve in simple ways, pursue her again, and lead spiritually without turning it into performative religion. We close with a list of ten concrete ways to love your wife like Christ loves the church, plus a prayer for men to pick up their crown and lead with integrity. If this helps you, subscribe, share it with a man you care about, and leave a review so more families can find it.

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Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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Most couples don’t break because they stop loving each other. They break because they stop feeling connected, and one of the fastest places that disconnection shows up is sexual intimacy. We go straight at the uncomfortable question many married Christians whisper but rarely say out loud: why does sex in marriage so often drift into frustration, avoidance, pressure, or a roommate vibe?

We unpack God’s design for sex with clarity and zero shame: yes, it’s for procreation, but it’s also for intimacy and real enjoyment. Tabitha shares how misconceptions, sexual trauma, and body insecurity can train your mind and body to shut down, and what it looks like to heal and renew your thinking so sex becomes safe, holy, and life-giving again. We also talk about how seasons like babies, stress, menopause, cancer recovery, and hormones affect libido, and when it’s wise to get medical help instead of suffering in silence.

Then we get practical about communication, feedback, and learning each other’s needs without ego or judgment. We explain why talking outside the bedroom matters, how emotional intimacy fuels physical intimacy, and how to stop using sex as a weapon. If you want a healthier Christian marriage, stronger connection, and a sex life that reflects covenant instead of conflict, this conversation gives you a roadmap.

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https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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What if the tension in your home isn’t proof you married the wrong person, but proof you’re fighting the wrong enemy? We get real about spiritual warfare in marriage, and we start with a mindset shift that can change everything: it’s not husband versus wife, it’s two people standing together against division, bitterness, and deception.

We open up about our own early years, including the ugly patterns that too many couples normalize: resentment, the silent treatment, manipulation, withholding intimacy, flirting, and the slow drift into emotional distance. We talk about why covenant matters, why “divorce is an option” quietly erodes trust, and how spiritual maturity shapes emotional maturity. We also share why marriage mentoring, counseling, and becoming a lifelong learner isn’t extra credit, it’s how you build a marriage that lasts through storms.

Then we break down the enemy’s most common tactics and what to do about them: division through distraction and busyness, bitterness and unforgiveness that becomes a foothold, temptation and sexual immorality as a lure, spiritual apathy that cools your fire, and miscommunication that creates confusion. We get practical about streamlining life with kids, creating a safe space for honest feelings, and fighting for unity without pretending pain isn’t real. We also touch on isolation and generational patterns, because what runs in a family doesn’t have to run your future.

If this helps you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review so more couples can find these tools. What was your biggest takeaway?

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Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site)

DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry:
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A marriage can look fine on the outside while quietly getting torn down from the inside by one habit: a critical inner dialogue. We get honest about what happens when you replay a moment, assume the worst, and start building a case against the person you love. If you’ve ever thought “What did they mean by that?” and felt the rabbit hole open up, this conversation gives you a better way forward.

We talk about what it means to defend your spouse to yourself and why that kind of mental discipline is a form of maturity. We share how fault finding chips away at respect, emotional safety, and physical intimacy, and why attraction struggles often start long before the bedroom, in the thoughts you repeatedly feed. You’ll hear our real-life rhythm of praying for each other, why we don’t force a “pray together” routine, and how daily intercession shifts your heart from irritation to empathy.

We also lay out practical steps you can use immediately: catch the thought, replace irritation with interpretation, separate behavior from identity, practice daily gratitude, stop comparing, and communicate instead of stewing. Along the way, we anchor it with scriptures about love covering offenses and choosing what to focus on. If you want Christian marriage advice that’s both spiritual and practical, this will help you build a healthier mindset and a stronger relationship.

If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review. What’s one critical thought you’re ready to replace today?

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https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry:
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Keeping a mental list of your spouse’s mistakes feels like self-protection, but it quietly turns your home into a courtroom. When every argument pulls out old receipts, intimacy dies, progress feels impossible, and “I forgive you” starts sounding like a trap. We get honest about what list keeping really is: mentally recording mistakes, replaying past failures, storing hurt for future fights, and measuring your spouse by who they used to be instead of who they are becoming.

We also dig into the deeper reason the list won’t go away: the original wound never healed. That’s why some couples describe a betrayal from five or ten years ago like it happened last week. We connect the dots between unforgiveness, negativity, and confirmation bias, and we challenge the habit of fault finding that makes you look for proof rather than pursue peace. Along the way, we ground the conversation in 1 Corinthians 13 and the idea that love keeps no record of wrongs, while still acknowledging a crucial truth: love and trust are not the same thing, and wise boundaries can coexist with real forgiveness.

You’ll walk away with practical steps to drop the list for good: forgive fully, stop rehearsing the offense, replace accusation with communication, separate patterns from moments, give credit for change, and ask God to heal the first hurt that started the scorekeeping. If you want a healthier marriage, a stronger emotional connection, and a future that isn’t chained to the past, press play and do this with us. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more couples can find the help.

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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

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A bad marriage can feel like you’re trapped in the same house with a stranger, stuck between “I don’t want to leave” and “I can’t do this anymore.” We go straight at that tension with humility and authority, because we’ve lived it. After 26 years of marriage and a rough start that nearly ended in divorce, we’ve learned that a struggling marriage is often less about “the wrong person” and more about missing tools, missing clarity, and missing spiritual covering.

We talk through what “bad marriage” really means, from emotional distance and constant tension to loneliness, lack of intimacy, and repeated arguments. We also name the situations that require immediate outside help, including adultery, abuse, and abandonment, and why counseling and wise leadership matter. Then we challenge one of the biggest traps couples fall into: focusing all their energy on changing their spouse. You can’t manipulate transformation, but you can take responsibility for your part, rebuild emotional safety, and choose respect when it would be easier to react.

We also unpack faith as action, not wishful thinking. That includes building a war room prayer life, refusing the spirit of accusation in your home, and learning to speak life over your spouse and your future. Finally, we lay out seven biblical steps to help turn a bad season around: stop pretending, get clear on what’s broken, own your part, stop fighting alone, rebuild safety, reintroduce God, and choose growth over escape.

If you’re looking for Christian marriage advice, biblical steps to save your marriage, and practical help for a struggling marriage, press play, share this with a friend, and leave a review so more couples can find it.

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📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry:
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Hurt has a way of sneaking into every relationship, and if we don’t deal with it, it doesn’t just fade. It hardens. Ken and Tabitha Claytor get honest about how emotional wounds, unmet expectations, betrayal, and disappointment can quietly turn into bitterness that reshapes your personality, drains your joy, and poisons your marriage, friendships, and faith.

We talk through what hurt really is, why “church hurt” is often just people hurt, and how maturity means learning to stay grounded instead of running from every painful moment. Along the way, we share real stories, name the difference between reacting and responding, and explain how replaying pain without healing creates resentment, cynicism, suspicion, and withdrawal. If you’ve felt guarded, negative, or constantly bracing for the worst, we help you spot the signs of a bitter root before it spreads.

Then we get practical and spiritual. We walk through eight clear steps for healing, including prayer, forgiveness without an apology, choosing safe people to process with, refusing a victim mindset, and using gratitude to starve bitterness. We close with a powerful prayer and daily declarations you can speak to break the cycle and move forward free.

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Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional:
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https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry:
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Some battles don’t start in your schedule, your bank account, or your relationships. They start as a thought you never challenge, a fear you keep feeding, or an offense you refuse to release. We talk about spiritual warfare with a steady head and a strong spine: not blaming the devil for every problem, but also not pretending the enemy isn’t real or organized.

We walk through what spiritual warfare actually looks like for believers, why the mind is such a target, and how deception can make a lie feel “obvious” while God’s truth starts to sound questionable. Tabatha shares her personal story of being set free from depression after years of coping methods that helped but didn’t cure. That testimony opens a bigger conversation about identity in Christ, spiritual authority, and why the Word of God matters when you’re facing anxiety, discouragement, temptation, or confusion.

We also get practical. We break down Ephesians 6 and the reality that our fight isn’t against flesh and blood, then lay out clear tactics the enemy uses: offense, isolation, distraction, compromise, and weariness. We end with direct, faith-filled prayers to renounce depression, anxiety, addiction, fear, and any occult doors, plus steps to stay submitted to God, stay in community, speak truth out loud, and rest when you’re tired. If you want a biblical, actionable guide to Christian spiritual warfare, deliverance, and resisting the devil, this conversation is for you.

Subscribe for more, share this with someone who’s in a fight, and if this helped you, leave a rating and review so more people can find it.

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DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️
https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888

📍 Join us in Florida at Alive Church — with campuses in Orlando, Tampa & Gainesville.

🎟 And don’t miss Alive Conference coming soon — 3 days that can change the next 30 years of your life!

https://redeemedevents.com/event-details/5326

Support Our Ministry:
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We name the difference between healthy and unhealthy soul ties, then get honest about why certain relationships keep pulling us back even when they hurt. We walk through spiritual and practical steps to break ungodly connections and close with a renouncing prayer for healing and freedom.

• defining soul ties as emotional, mental, and will-level bonding
• healthy soul ties in marriage, family, mentorship, and godly friendship
• unhealthy soul ties formed through manipulation, trauma bonding, and emotional dependence
• Tabatha’s testimony of breaking ties with words and obedience
• how trauma and sexual abuse can create lingering attachment and shame
• why sexual purity matters and how sexual sin creates bondage
• how unbroken past connections can affect dating and marriage
• signs you may have an unhealthy soul tie including comparison, guilt, confusion, and stalking social media
• why people stay in toxic relationships and how self-worth gets targeted
• safety, community, and practical help for leaving abusive relationships
• a step-by-step framework to acknowledge, repent, forgive, cut access, renounce, and renew your mind
• a guided renouncing prayer and declarations for peace, healing, and a clear path forward

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We talk about why God promotes trustworthy people over simply gifted people, using David’s life to show what a heart after God actually looks like under pressure. We unpack honor, repentance, private integrity, and worship as the habits that keep your heart clean when influence grows.
• David’s origin story as the overlooked shepherd anointed for leadership
• why time with God shapes a worshipful heart
• repentance as the key difference between David and Saul
• honoring leadership offices without excusing sin
• resisting gossip, slander, and platform-building through criticism
• guarding your heart from a culture of demonizing and outrage
• practical steps for a heart God can promote, including private integrity and serving first
• healing from wounds so you don’t bleed on innocent people
• choosing obedience over popularity and worshiping through warfare
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A marriage can look “fine” on paper and still feel dead in the day to day. If you’re living in the same house but the air feels cold, the talks are short, trust is thin, and intimacy feels complicated, we want to give you real hope and real tools.

We tell the truth about our own early years, including the season when Ken privately planned a divorce, the confusion and immaturity that made small issues feel unfixable, and how depression and anxiety impacted Tabitha’s ability to connect. We also share what changed everything: inviting God into the center of the marriage and letting Him work on us first, not just “fix” our spouse. That shift is where healing starts, because a restored marriage is built on transformed hearts, not better arguments.

From there, we get practical about marriage restoration: how to become the hero in the home, how to rebuild trust through consistent patterns instead of big promises, and how to communicate without attacking so you can finally talk about hard things without blowing up. We also dig into why many couples keep treating symptoms while the real root stays untouched, and why counseling, wisdom, and steady effort over time matter more than quick emotional moments.

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We define hypocrisy as stage acting and name how it keeps us bound when our image matters more than our integrity. We connect the cost to marriage, family, and spiritual witness, then walk through clear steps and prayers that help us live honest and free.

• Defining hypocrisy as pretending outwardly without inward growth
• Freedom versus bondage through shame, guilt, insecurity, fear, and addiction
• Separating real faith declarations from fake performance
• Why hypocrisy harms marriages, kids, friendships, and our witness
• Church as a hospital for honest people
• How hypocrisy shows up in marriage through unequal standards
• Acts 5 and the warning of Ananias and Sapphira
• Couples conspiring to hide problems and why it backfires
• Building wise accountability with trusted mentors and pastors
• Signs of slipping into hypocrisy like defensiveness and people pleasing
• Practical steps to get free including repentance and integrity
• Renouncement prayer and a closing prayer for freedom
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We get real about how blame shifting turns a struggling marriage into a dead-end and why owning your part is the first move toward change. We connect Scripture, self-awareness, and practical habits so you can stop living as the victim in every story and start growing on purpose.

• why every struggling relationship has blame shifting somewhere
• what “own your part” looks like even when you feel 95% right
• becoming the hero in the home instead of matching foolishness
• what blame shifting sounds like in everyday arguments
• Adam and Eve as the first blame shift
• how victim mentality keeps people stuck
• a candid talk on emotional abuse claims and getting wise counsel
• the role of self-awareness and security in hard conversations
• practical steps like reflecting, apologizing right, and seeking accountability
• repentance as change not just confession

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A lot of men were never taught how to be a husband. You can be loyal, hardworking, and faithful, yet still leave your wife feeling alone in the same house. We get honest about the gap between providing and loving, and we talk about why isolation is one of the fastest ways a man loses his confidence, his clarity, and his ability to lead well.

Ken and Tabitha Claytor unpack biblical marriage through a practical lens: headship is not dictatorship, it is responsibility. We explain what “covering” should feel like to a wife, why mutual submission takes strength, and how a husband’s leadership really begins when he comes home. We also address a common blind spot in Christian relationships: paying bills and “not cheating” is not the finish line. A wife needs emotional safety, affection, attention, reassurance, quality time, and to feel chosen again and again.

We also define spiritual leadership without the hype. It’s not about performing religion, it’s about seeking God, making wise decisions, setting vision for your family, and building shared goals and values so your home has a clear direction. Along the way, we call out the “nothing box” distractions that keep men stuck and we share 10 practical ways to love your wife with humility, tenderness, and Ephesians 5:25 self-sacrificial love.

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“Why am I still single?” can feel like a question with teeth, especially when everyone else’s highlight reel is scrolling past your face. We get honest about the pressure, the loneliness, and the quiet fear that something must be wrong with you, then we confront the biggest lie head-on: you are not unworthy, undesirable, or behind. We believe your relationship status does not determine your value, and we want you grounded in that truth before you ever say yes to dating, engagement, or marriage.

We also talk about what’s making modern singleness harder: social media comparison, unrealistic expectations, and turning marriage into an idol. A spouse is a gift, not a savior, and expecting marriage to fix emptiness is a fast track to disappointment. Instead, we unpack how faith works while you wait, why God’s timing matters, and how waiting can actually be preparation and protection. Sometimes what feels like rejection is God shielding you from the wrong person and shaping you for the right one.

Then we get extremely practical with dating advice for Christians: stop letting loneliness choose your relationships, clarify boundaries, stop entertaining red flags, and stop dating potential. If you keep choosing the wrong person, we challenge you to bring wise voices into your process and let trusted counsel help you see what you’ve been missing. We also talk about “becoming who you want to marry” spiritually, emotionally, financially, and mentally, building a full life now, and keeping purity strong because your future deserves a healthy you.

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We challenge the quiet norm of “sucky sex” in marriage and lay out why God designs sex for intimacy, connection, and real enjoyment without shame. We share our own healing journey from trauma, body insecurity, and bad beliefs to a healthier sex life built on safety, communication, and mutual pleasure.\n\n• why many married couples settle for frustration and distance\n• God’s design for sex: procreation, intimacy and enjoyment\n• renewing the mind after sexual abuse, shame and negative beliefs\n• body confidence through pregnancy changes, cancer and surgery recovery\n• facing trauma triggers and retraining the body to experience safe touch\n• rejecting duty-only sex and choosing mutual pleasure and curiosity\n• communication that gathers “intel” without ego or judgment\n• why sexlessness fuels disconnection, resentment and temptation\n• practical tools: talk outside the bedroom, build emotional intimacy daily, remove shame, protect boundaries and create healthy rhythms\n\nWe want to hear from you on this one. Comment where your relationship is and questions that you might have. We’ll do our best to get to those at some point.\nSend us an email. If you’re a social media person, tag us, let us know.

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The promotion you want might be carrying more than you think. We get honest about what “next level” really means, because promotion is not only a raise or a new title, it is pressure, visibility, responsibility, and accountability. If you’ve ever watched someone move up faster than you, felt stuck in your role, or wondered what leaders are actually looking for, this conversation is a clear, practical reset.

We talk about promotable character and why trust beats talent when it’s time to choose who advances. Ken and Tabitha unpack what it looks like to embrace hard instead of dodging it, build mental toughness without losing tenderness, and stay emotionally steady when the assignment stretches you. We also dig into the people side of leadership development: chemistry, humility, and why many promotions come through your ability to lead and develop others, not just your individual skill.

You’ll walk away with actionable promotion tips you can apply immediately at work, in ministry leadership, or anywhere you want to grow: become excellent at your current assignment, solve problems without being asked, bring solutions instead of complaints, ask for feedback, lead without authority, upgrade your skills, and protect integrity by avoiding gossip, shortcuts, bitterness, and comparison. If you’re serious about career growth and spiritual growth, this one is built to challenge you and help you level up.

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People don’t wake up one morning and decide they don’t love their spouse. What we see far more often is something quieter and more dangerous: a hurt that never gets resolved, a story we keep replaying, and a wall that goes up brick by brick until the house feels cold. We’re naming that enemy directly, unresolved offense, and we’re telling the truth about what it does to marriage, intimacy, friendship, and even your relationship with God.

We talk through how offense starts with “little foxes” like unmet expectations, small disappointments, and everyday irritations that don’t seem serious enough to address. Then we show how those “small” moments turn into patterns like assumptions, passive-aggressive comments, nitpicking, shutdown, emotional separation, and ultimately the claim that you’ve “fallen out of love.” Along the way we ground it in the Bible, including Ephesians 4:26 on urgency and Hebrews 12:15 on bitterness spreading, because resentment in marriage is never neutral.

You’ll also hear our real-life examples, what we’ve learned after 26 years, and the practical tools we use when conflict hits: stop keeping a list, deal with it fast, separate the issue from the person, bring it up without attacking, challenge the story in your head, forgive even when feelings lag behind, rebuild connection on purpose, and invite God into deeper healing when a conversation isn’t enough. We close with prayer and a chance to renounce offense and start again.

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In this episode of Doing Life with Ken & Tabatha, we talk about how to deal with rejection, criticism, and being misunderstood — especially when you’re trying to follow God and build something meaningful.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• Why don’t they like me?
• Why do people talk about you when you’re doing good?
• How do you keep your confidence when people criticize you?

This conversation is for you.

Pastor Ken and Tabatha unpack 10 real reasons people don’t like you, what the Bible says about persecution, and how to stay confident without becoming bitter or defensive.

You’ll learn how to:

• Handle rejection without losing confidence
• Stop living for people’s approval
• Protect your peace when people misunderstand you
• Set boundaries while still loving others
• Stay faithful to what God has called you to do

Sometimes criticism isn’t a sign you’re doing something wrong.

Sometimes it’s confirmation you’re moving in the right direction.

Because real confidence isn’t everyone liking you.

Real confidence is liking who God made you.

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What if the line between “okay” and “too far” isn’t a line worth walking? We open up about our 24-year sober journey and the moment a mentor reframed the question from “Is it allowed?” to “Is it wise for a king?” From there, the conversation turns honest and practical—how alcohol blurred judgment, complicated leadership, and stole the very peace it promised. We dig into Scripture’s balanced view, the call to be sober-minded, and why “living beyond the gray” can protect marriages, ministries, and mental health.

We also face the facts. Alcohol is a depressant that breaks sleep, raises cancer risk, and shows up in far too many assaults and crashes. Even modest use can fog thinking and dull discernment. Meanwhile, culture is shifting—low and no-alcohol options are booming, and younger generations are choosing clarity. For us, abstinence wasn’t loss; it was abundance. Joy got brighter, community got safer, and our witness grew stronger. We learned to host gatherings where the recovering feel welcome and leaders model restraint that builds trust rather than testing boundaries.

If alcohol is your gray area, try a simple experiment: a 30-day sobriety challenge. Let your body reset, watch your sleep improve, and see what happens to your focus, mood, and mornings. At the end, reassess with clear eyes. You might discover, as we did, that the tradeoffs aren’t worth it and that the life you want thrives without a drink. If this resonates, subscribe for more conversations like this, share it with someone who needs a nudge toward freedom, and leave a review to help others find the show. Your next 30 days could rewrite the next 30 years.

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What if the real path to promotion looks nothing like hustle culture promises? We take on two charged words—submission and faithfulness—and show how they form a powerful, practical way of life that advances marriages, teams, and callings. This isn’t about losing your voice. It’s about choosing God’s order, serving with strength, and becoming the kind of person heaven can trust.

We start by reframing submission as a voluntary, faith-filled posture that prioritizes mission over ego. In marriage, we talk equal dignity with distinct roles: a wife’s trust-filled submission and a husband’s call to love like Christ—protective, sacrificial, and servant-hearted. We address the hard cases too: when to appeal, when to say no, and how to honor while obeying God above man. Then we move beyond the home into work, church, and community, where mature people bring strong ideas, align after decisions, and stop the whispering that fractures teams.

From there we dig into faithfulness—commitment and consistency over time. We unpack why God promotes finishers who steward small assignments well, why “be found faithful” is a leadership superpower, and how to make diligence visible through clarity and follow-through. Expect concrete markers of a submitted heart (teachability, tone, peacemaking) and five next steps to grow: re-surrender daily, practice honor with honest appeal, master the small things, close the loop with cadence, and keep a clean, offense-proof heart.

If you’re ready to trade striving for strength and hype for substance, this conversation will meet you with courage and clarity. Subscribe, share with a friend who leads or serves, and leave a review with the one area you’ll choose to be found faithful this week.

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Money pressure has a way of sneaking into a marriage and turning simple conversations into fights. We open up about our early years—over $100k in debt, sleepless nights, and two very different backgrounds—and share the seven habits that helped us replace anxiety with unity. This is a practical, faith-filled roadmap: one shared plan, a zero-based budget, the 10-10-80 priority rule, and margin that lets you breathe. We talk through sinking funds for “predictable surprises,” why we moved from “his and her” money to “our” money, and how a simple solo spend limit protects trust without micromanaging.

You’ll hear how ditching personal credit cards and learning from wise friends changed our trajectory, plus how the debt snowball gave us momentum and milestone wins. Most importantly, we anchor every step in stewardship and Scripture—seeing money as God’s, not ours, and expecting favor, wisdom, and creative ideas rather than quick windfalls. We walk through passages like Deuteronomy 8:18, Malachi 3, and Proverbs 3 to ground financial choices in covenant, not fear. Good success means more than income; it’s peace in your home, clarity in your plan, and alignment with purpose.

If money fights are draining your relationship, this conversation offers simple tools and a hopeful path forward. Listen to learn how to budget together, build margin, set boundaries, and turn debt into a shared mission. Then share the episode with a friend who needs encouragement, subscribe for more faith-forward marriage and money insights, and leave a review with the first habit you’ll start today.

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Lukewarm faith feels easy—until it costs you power, joy, and purpose. We get honest about casual Christianity, why it’s so common, and how to move from a Sunday habit to a life that actually carries the presence of God. Ken shares his past as a “Christian atheist”—believing in God but living like He didn’t exist—and how that exposed the gap between form and power. Together, we walk through the telltale signs of a casual believer, from private faith and convenience-based attendance to tipping instead of tithing and resisting repentance, and we ask the question that matters most: is there fruit that matches your repentance?

To help you locate where you are and chart a way forward, we break down four levels of commitment—community, crowd, core, covenant—and why planting in a local church changes everything. The core grows the Church through sowing, serving, and making disciples, while covenant multiplies grace through spiritual fathers and mothers, accountability, and honor for God-ordained offices. We explore biblical models like Elijah and Elisha, Paul and Timothy, and Ruth and Naomi to show how covenant delivers double-portion impact. When you’re planted, you flourish: marriages heal, leaders emerge, and your witness stops being theoretical and starts transforming lives.

If you’re tired of a faith that feels nostalgic, irregular, and powerless, this conversation offers a practical path into a Spirit-filled, mission-shaped life. Reorder your identity around Jesus, build rhythms of Scripture and prayer, commit to gathered worship, and serve people you love enough to tell the truth. Casual Christianity is convenient; covenant is costly and worth it. Subscribe for more, share this with someone who needs a nudge toward purpose, and leave a review to tell us your next step.

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Dating does not have to be confusing, exhausting, or expensive. We’re pulling back the curtain on five practical rules that protect your heart, save your time, and set you up for a marriage that can actually thrive. From defining non‑negotiables to reading red flags without second‑guessing yourself, we walk through the mindsets and habits that turn your twenties into a launchpad instead of a landfill.

We start by reframing the goal: Christlikeness over a wedding date. Contentment beats comparison, and wholeness beats hurried timelines. Then we get specific. Date on purpose using a 90‑day clarity window. Ask better questions about faith, direction, and character. Choose character over chemistry by testing for humility, forgiveness, and submission to godly authority. Pace the relationship with clear boundaries—public early dates, digital guardrails, and honest conversations about sex, soul ties, and healing. We also tackle love bombing, why it feels so real at first, and how accountability reveals the truth before it’s too late.

Money matters too. Check the credit, not just the chemistry, and bring debt, spending, tithing, and budgeting into the light so you can build trust instead of resentment. Finally, don’t date alone. Isolation creates illusion; community brings clarity. Invite a married mentor and a wise peer, worship together, and let your circle call green, yellow, or red flags. Healthy relationships can handle scrutiny because they are built on truth.

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Settling for “okay” feels safe, but it quietly shrinks your marriage. We dig into why cruise control robs connection and how a few intentional shifts can turn your relationship into a lifelong adventure. From writing a simple family mission to scheduling a 20-second hug, we share the small, repeatable habits that build warmth, trust, and momentum across every season.

We get real about seasons and capacity: how wisdom can multiply what time no longer does, why pivoting your pace is not failure but stewardship, and how to keep your spouse first when life gets crowded with kids, career, and ministry. You’ll hear how we use family meetings to surface blind spots without blame, plus the honest questions that make feedback safe. We also name the trap of projection—how dissatisfaction with yourself can masquerade as disappointment with your partner—and offer a path back to ownership and healing.

Then we roll out an eight-part playbook to beat the “okay” marriage: craft a shared vision, win the day with small rituals, fight fair with a written playbook, pursue intimacy on purpose, treat money as a team sport, practice radical honesty, install protective guardrails, and keep novelty alive with monthly mini-adventures. Expect practical examples—date-night rhythms, conflict rules, trust “bricks,” Sunday money huddles—and a reminder that many couples don’t fall out of love; they fall out of like. Choose curiosity, choose growth, and choose each other.

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Resolutions powered by adrenaline rarely survive February. We’re after something deeper: a year that actually changes because your spirit leads, your mind renews, and your habits align with what God already says about you. Together we unpack why identity comes before intensity, how to let the old you die without shame, and the simple daily choices that turn conviction into consistency.

We start with the core conviction: this will be your best year ever if it’s your best year spiritually. That means speaking new language over your life, finding identity in Christ above career, politics, or past labels, and embracing the crucified life of Galatians 2:20 where influence grows as self decreases. From there, we get practical. We pair faith with works—Scripture and prayer before scrolling, weekly church in person as a non-negotiable, and one to three priorities per quarter that actually fit your calendar. We walk through building when-then systems, designing your environment, and swapping bad habits for better ones so you can grow an oak tree, not a firework.

Community and accountability carry the change forward. Choose friends going where you want to go, join a small group or serve team, and seek mentors with visible fruit inside your local church. Create boundaries that protect your calling—media limits, no-phone bedrooms, and clear yeses that define your noes. Celebrate small wins, restart without shame, and keep Matthew 6:33 at the center: seek first the kingdom and trust God with the rest.

If you’re ready for lasting change rooted in faith and multiplied by wise habits, press play and journey with us. Subscribe, share this conversation with a friend who needs a reset, and tell us your top three goals so we can pray with you. Let’s make this your strongest spiritual year yet.

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Ready to trade comfort for clarity? We’re kicking off the year with a 21-day journey that goes beyond skipping meals and straight into a deeper pursuit of God. Fasting without prayer is just a diet; fasting with prayer, scripture, and generosity becomes a spiritual reset that reshapes your days, your decisions, and your desires.

We share real stories and useful steps. Tabatha talks about fasting through a cancer battle and why walking into chemo in a fasted state (think autophagy and immune reset) paired with steady prayer brought strength and focus. Ken opens up about years of weekly fasting while launching a church and why he loves the benefits, even when his flesh complains. Together, we map out practical paths—sunrise-to-sunset, one-meal-a-day, Daniel-style—along with a rhythm that actually works: plan meals before day one, schedule prayer and scripture, reduce digital noise, and let hunger cues trigger time with God.

Isaiah 58 gives us the blueprint: a fast that breaks yokes, feeds the hungry, and ushers in healing and light. We press into that promise with simple, doable actions—reallocate time and food money to serve, forgive quickly, invite accountability, and make this a family practice. Kids can give up one favorite thing, couples can align their plans, and singles can thrive with a strong check‑in partner. If you slip, adjust without quitting. Finish by reassessing what returns to your life and what stays on the altar, then extend the momentum with our six‑month challenge: build your calendar around church, daily time in the Word, and a steady, prayerful pace.

Join us for 21 days, then decide what you never want to pick back up. Subscribe for new Thursday episodes, share this with a friend who needs a reset, and if you need a church home, join our live Sunday service at 9:45 AM EST on YouTube. Leave a review and tell us: what are you laying on the altar this year?

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Ready to stop making resolutions that fizzle and start setting goals that actually change your life? Ken and Tabatha dig into the difference between hype and habits, laying out a practical, faith-forward way to plan your year with clarity, courage, and consistency. We talk about why most resolutions collapse—no strategy, no steady will, too much emotion—and how to replace them with God-aligned goals backed by action steps, Scripture, and a plan you hold loosely while trusting God to direct your steps.

We get specific about what keeps you on track. Think written targets that focus your faith, goals that act like guardrails in a noisy world, and a morning you master by starting the night before. You’ll hear simple, proven tips: create a wind-down routine, protect your bedroom as a sleep sanctuary, shut down screens, journal, read the Word, and set out tomorrow’s cues so your decision is made before your feelings show up. We also cover wake-up motivation hacks, new-workout grit, and the daily rhythms that build a resilient soul—time in Scripture, prayer, worship, and practicing God’s presence beyond the quiet time.

If your heart carries “goal fatigue,” this conversation aims to restore it. We normalize obstacles, celebrate the wins that did arrive, and share stories of long-delayed breakthroughs that finally bloomed. The message is steady and hopeful: set your will, make a plan, pray it through, and don’t quit. Faith needs a target; your goals can be that target. Subscribe for more faith-and-life tools, share this with someone setting new goals, and leave a review to help others find the show.

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What if the gap between tension and tenderness is smaller than you think? We revisit a candid conversation about the real work of marriage—how to share the load at home, protect each other’s energy, and bring intimacy back from the brink without losing yourself in the process. No gloss, no clichés, just two people telling the truth about weight, pace, and the everyday choices that keep love steady.

We start by naming the unseen emotional labor many women carry and the unique pressures men face as leaders in the home. From there we map out how to move the division of labor toward center—evaluating quality of life, delegating, hiring help when needed, and choosing the family’s pace on purpose. We talk about why marriage is gritty, why public loyalty and private encouragement matter, and why comparing someone else’s highlight reel to your partner’s lowlight moments sabotages trust. Communication threads through everything: how to say what hurts without shaming, how to confess temptation before it confesses you, and how to replace blame with curiosity when stress or depression hits a home.

Then we get practical with seven keys to revive a sexless marriage. We reclaim a healthy, faith-filled view of sex, build a rhythm of honest conversations, and offer simple habits with outsized payoff: going to bed at the same time, touching outside of sex, scheduling intimacy when needed, taking turns initiating, and celebrating small wins during medical or emotional valleys. The goal isn’t to perform; it’s to reconnect—body, mind, and spirit—so your home feels like a refuge again.

If you’re ready to trade constant friction for calm partnership and real closeness, this conversation will meet you where you are and give you steps you can use tonight. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help others find the show.

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Dating with wisdom starts by turning your list into a mirror. We talk candidly about why so many singles overvalue appearance and chemistry, then feel blindsided after the wedding when character gaps show up at full volume. Attraction matters, but it won’t hold a marriage together. What does? Shared faith, proven integrity, and the humble skills that make peace during conflict.

We break down five practical filters for choosing well: spiritual alignment rooted in a real walk with God, character you can verify not just imagine, respectful conflict that doesn’t turn doors into drums, inviting wise counsel into your relationship, and giving time the chance to reveal truth. Along the way, we challenge narrow “types” and cultural boxes that can blind you to a great match. Preference isn’t a problem until it becomes a prison. If you’ve ever felt stuck between being pressed to couple up or too guarded to try, we show you the healthy middle: content in God, open to love, and clear on standards.

You’ll also hear why breakups can be protection, not proof you failed, plus four self-check questions to ask before saying yes. And we elevate the single season as sacred—an unmatched window to pursue purpose, deepen prayer, serve boldly, and become the kind of person your future spouse will thank you for. Whether you’re building a new list or revising an old one, this conversation helps you choose a partner you can stay in love with through highs, lows, and everything between.

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When your heart whispers “God feels far,” what if the real invitation is to come closer? We open up about seasons of pain, busyness, and spiritual immaturity and show how a felt distance doesn’t mean God has moved. From battling cancer to navigating marriage stress, we trace the path back to peace and explain a simple framework that helps you reconnect: return to His presence daily, repent and release what blocks intimacy, and reconnect with God’s people who can carry you when you feel weak.

We dig into the three layers of God’s presence—omnipresent, indwelling, and manifested—and get practical about hosting His nearness in ordinary life. Think worship in the car, quiet walks without noise, and quick prayers before a meeting. You’ll hear why awareness is like tuning a piano, how focus and surrender shape sensitivity, and what it means to live from overflow so serving doesn’t become burnout. We talk about Moses’ hunger for God’s presence as the mark that sets His people apart and how friendship with God moves you beyond mere duty into delight.

If you’ve wondered why your joy leaks or your peace feels thin, this conversation offers clear next steps and honest encouragement. You are hardwired for communion with your Maker; loneliness can become holy solitude when you acknowledge the Friend who never leaves. Lean in for simple practices, a faith-building prayer, and a renewed vision for carrying God’s presence into your home, work, and relationships. If this resonates, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs hope, and leave a review to help more people close the gap with God.

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What if hearing God was less about chasing a moment and more about walking in a steady conversation? We unpack five reliable ways to discern God’s voice—Scripture, the Spirit’s inner witness, wise community, peace that umpires your choices, and the clarity of open-and-closed doors—so you can move with confidence and courage.

We share personal stories of guidance in marriage, ministry, and business, including dreams that redirected calling, impressions that protected timing, and opportunities that confirmed next steps. You’ll learn the simple pathways many people experience—seer, hearer, feeler, knower—and why God often speaks through pictures and prompts that grow trust, not confusion. We also get practical about the hardest question: is it me, God, or the enemy? Our five-discernment filter helps you test any impression against Scripture, God’s character, peace versus chaos, confirmation from mature believers, and whether it requires faith and advances a mission bigger than your ego.

We talk candidly about prophecy with humility, why accountability beats “God said” declarations, and how fruit over time reveals true direction. If you’ve felt stuck in silence, you’ll discover how God’s quiet seasons still form you, and how everyday attentiveness turns down the noise so you can follow the still small voice. Ready to build a life where guidance is normal and obedience is natural? Press play, share with a friend who needs clarity, and if it helps you, subscribe and leave a review so more people can learn to hear God clearly.

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Butterflies don’t build marriages—choices do. We open up about the rush of infatuation, the friction of the fight for power, and the quiet strength of mature love, weaving our 26-year story through the science, the pitfalls, and the simple practices that help couples grow. You’ll hear why dopamine and oxytocin make those early days feel like a dream, how cortisol and stress twist small annoyances into big battles, and what it takes to move from me-versus-you to us-versus-the-problem.

We break down the three stages of love with honesty and hope. From late-night balcony confessions to the seven-year itch, we name what changes, what hurts, and what actually heals. Along the way, we offer concrete tools you can use tonight: summarize-before-you-respond listening, ground rules for hard talks, the three-to-one affirmation rule, and a pause, pray, plan approach for high-stakes decisions. We also tackle comparison, stonewalling, and scorekeeping, and we share how weekly family meetings, shared values, and small, daily touches restore trust and affection.

If you’ve wondered where the spark went, or feared you’ve fallen out of love, this conversation reframes conflict as the classroom where love grows up. Mature love isn’t less passionate; it’s more secure, more generous, and far more sustainable. And yes, the butterflies can return in moments—when your habits make space for them. Want more? Our new book, Butterfly Love, tells the whole story and hands you the tools we use. Listen, share with someone who needs it, and leave a review so others can find the show. Then tell us: which stage are you in, and what tool will you try this week?

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Dating doesn’t have to feel like a guessing game. We break down five clear red flags every Christian should watch for and show how trusting God, not the crowd, changes who you choose and how you choose. From spiritual alignment to character under pressure, we pull back the curtain on the patterns that predict a healthy marriage—or a painful one.

We start with the heart of it all: if someone pulls you away from God, isolates you from church, or mocks spiritual disciplines, that’s not love. Then we zoom into teachability and accountability—because an uncorrectable person becomes unleadable when life gets hard. We tackle dishonesty and secrecy, the silent killers that cloud conversations and erode peace. You’ll hear why watching how a date treats servers, coworkers, and family reveals who they are when no one’s grading their performance. And we unpack the cost of a partner with no vision or direction, plus how mismatched goals, theology, and values create constant friction.

Along the way, we challenge the myth that romance equals readiness. Infatuation is effortless; mature love is built on aligned values, shared purpose, and honest dialogue. So we trade surface talk for deeper questions: money habits, family history, conflict style, faith convictions, and life vision. We also invite community into the process—mentors, pastors, and trusted friends who can spot the warning signs you might miss. To close, we share five practical discernment keys: pray before you play, ask trusted voices, observe not excuse, look for fruit, and follow the Holy Spirit’s peace.

If you’re single, this is a guide to date with clarity and courage. If you’re advising someone you love, it’s a toolkit for wise counsel. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and tell us: which red flag or discernment key are you adding to your non-negotiables today?

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We unpack how an eleven-day journey became forty years and why our schedules often repeat the same loop. Four practical keys help us redeem time, seize kairos moments, and align daily choices with what lasts.

• the Exodus loop as a mirror for wasted time
• screen time, reruns, indecision and hidden drains
• numbering our days with humility and clarity
• trusting God’s hand over our times and seasons
• redeeming kairos opportunities instead of stalling
• four keys: audit and align, seize moments, live eternally, guard focus
• routines that anticipate fatigue and make good choices easy
• pruning good things to make room for God things
• choosing presence with God, family, service and calling

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Has your relationship started to feel more like routine than romance? 😬 You’re not alone — most couples hit seasons where the spark fades and connection feels distant. But it doesn’t have to stay that way.

In this episode, Pastors Ken & Tabatha Claytor get real about what causes relationships to lose their spark and share 5 practical ways to bring it back — emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Whether you’ve been married for 2 years or 20, these truths will help you reconnect, rekindle affection, and protect your “us” from the noise of life. 💛

💭 What You’ll Learn:

  • Why love can fade even in healthy marriages
  • How to rebuild emotional and physical connection
  • Simple habits that reignite passion and appreciation
  • How to protect your marriage from routine
  • Biblical principles that strengthen lasting love

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  • 1 Thessalonians 5:18
  • Song of Solomon 1:2
  • Genesis 2:24

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Some wounds don’t just hurt—they rearrange your world. We open up about betrayal in its many forms—breakups, family fractures, church hurt, even the quiet feeling that God didn’t show up—and we offer a path forward that’s both honest and hopeful. Without glossing over pain, we lay out five keys for healing: tell the truth about the wound, anchor your identity in God, choose forgiveness even if trust must be rebuilt, set boundaries that protect your heart, and invite God to redeem what was lost. Along the way, we share a vivid vision of broken glass becoming a mosaic, a reminder that your story can be remade into something stronger, rarer, and more beautiful.

You’ll hear how unhealed betrayal distorts identity, sabotages new relationships through projection and defensiveness, and traps us in loops of replayed pain. We talk about people-pleasing and why you don’t need universal approval to follow God’s call, especially when the resistance comes from your inner circle. We show how to love wisely at different levels of access—crowd, twelve, and three—without guilt or bitterness. With scriptures that speak to the brokenhearted and practical tools like journaling, counseling, and short daily prayers for those who hurt us, we move from theory to action.

We close with a guided prayer for healing, words of encouragement for men and women navigating fresh heartbreak, and a gentle challenge to share what resonated most. If you’re ready to release bitterness, rebuild trust wisely, and step into a redeemed season, press play and journey with us. If this helped you, subscribe, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help others find hope too.

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What if the temperature of your home could rise with one daily habit? After two rocky years at the start of our 26-year marriage, we learned that appreciation—not grand gestures—warms a cold house, heals silent nights, and makes a marriage last. We unpack how keeping a short memory, honoring each other’s roles, and practicing specific, daily gratitude turned us from scorekeepers into best friends.

Come for the story of our comeback; stay for the tools you can use tonight to strengthen intimacy, trust, and joy.

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Ever find yourself ignoring relationship red flags because your heart is saying "yes" when your gut is screaming "no"? In this revealing episode, Ken and Tabatha Claytor draw from their 26 years of marriage and ministry experience to shine a light on the seven unmistakable signs that someone isn't right for you—regardless of how strong your feelings might be.

The Claytors don't hold back as they challenge the casual dating culture with a powerful perspective: "I personally feel, especially as a Christian, we shouldn't date to date. I think we should date for marriage." This transformative approach to relationships helps singles avoid wasting emotional energy on connections that aren't heading toward a meaningful future.

Through personal stories—including Tabitha's candid admission of once staying in a relationship where she was called names and treated poorly—the couple unpacks warning signs like spiritual misalignment, disrespect, poor communication, and controlling behavior. Ken shares how he was once a "Christian atheist" who believed in God but lived as if He didn't exist, highlighting the dangers of being unequally yoked.

Perhaps most compelling is their insight on internal peace as the ultimate relationship compass. "The peace of God should be able to call something out or safe," Ken explains, encouraging listeners to trust their spiritual discernment even when others are pushing them toward a relationship. As they powerfully conclude, "The most important decision that you will ever make in your life after accepting Jesus is who you're going to marry."

Whether you're single, dating, or mentoring others in relationships, these seven principles provide a practical roadmap for finding a partner who will enhance your purpose rather than derail it. Subscribe now and join our community as we continue exploring how to build relationships that honor God and fulfill His purpose for your life.

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The assassination of Charlie Kirk has sent shockwaves through America, revealing deep divisions not just in politics, but within the church itself. In this raw, unscripted conversation, Ken and Tabatha offer a perspective you might not have considered – one that bridges understanding between drastically different viewpoints.

As Ken shares, "Everything changes when it comes to social media." Our digital algorithms create isolated bubbles of understanding where we only see content that confirms our existing beliefs. This explains why some are mourning Charlie as a fallen Christian leader while others celebrate his death as justice for perceived hatred. Rather than choosing sides, Ken and Tabatha model empathy toward both perspectives while explaining how they personally researched Kirk's statements to form their own conclusions.

The couple goes deeper than the surface-level conversation about one man's death to address the underlying spiritual issues: how we weaponize race for political purposes, the trap of victim mentality that keeps people in cycles of dependency, and the vital importance of honoring spiritual leadership even during controversial moments. Their personal stories of overcoming racism and poverty offer powerful testimony to the transformative power of the gospel.

Most importantly, they share a prophetic sense that this tragic moment has spiritual significance beyond what we can see. "I felt like my faith was attacked," Ken explains, "but I felt like there was something happening in the spirit." They describe a vision of a mantle falling on a new generation of bold believers and point to evidence of revival already breaking out in their church and beyond.

Ready to move past division and into revival? Join us for practical steps to position yourself for God's movement in this season. Share your prayer requests in the comments – we're here to support you on the journey.

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Have you ever found yourself loving your spouse but not particularly liking them in certain moments? That light switch they never flip off, those socks perpetually abandoned on the floor, or the crumbs consistently left on the counter – these small irritations can feel surprisingly monumental in marriage.

In this heartfelt and humor-filled conversation, we unpack the critical distinction between love and like in marriage. After 26 years together, we've learned that those "little foxes that spoil the vine" – the everyday annoyances – can either become relationship-destroying mountains or opportunities for growth, depending on how we respond.

We share candidly about our own friction points (bathroom door policies and house shoes rules included!) while exploring how these seemingly insignificant issues often reveal deeper relationship dynamics. The truth? Most conflicts arise when someone refuses to bend, creating power struggles that can eventually lead couples to divorce court citing "irreconcilable differences" – when really, they just never learned the art of mutual submission in small things.

Beyond just identifying the problem, we offer practical wisdom for rekindling "like" in your marriage: intentionally building a case FOR your spouse rather than against them, getting curious instead of frustrated, reconnecting with what initially attracted you to each other, and closing emotional distance through meaningful conversations. Remember – love is a choice and a commitment that transcends fluctuating feelings.

Whether you're in the butterfly-filled infatuation stage, the challenging "fight for power" phase, or working toward mature, committed love, this episode provides the tools to strengthen your relationship. Ready to transform how you view those everyday irritations? Listen now, and discover how to not just love your spouse, but genuinely like them again.

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Marriage can be beautiful, but it can also be incredibly challenging. In our case, the first two years were some of the hardest. What transformed our struggling relationship into a thriving partnership wasn't better communication or date nights—it was supernatural power.

Many believers are missing a crucial element in their spiritual lives and marriages: the baptism of the Holy Spirit. This isn't just theological jargon—it's a real, transformative experience that Jesus promised to every believer. While salvation brings the Holy Spirit to live within you, there's a second, distinct experience where He comes upon you with power. Think of it like drinking water versus being immersed in it.

For us, everything changed when we received this gift in 2001. Depression that had plagued our home for years disappeared. Priorities shifted naturally. Living a holy life became desire rather than duty. Most importantly, loving each other became easier because we weren't doing it in our own strength.

Throughout the Bible, we see this pattern clearly. John the Baptist said, "I baptize with water, but Jesus will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire." In Acts, new believers regularly received this power through simple faith. It wasn't reserved for special Christians—it was (and is) for everyone who asks.

The beautiful thing about this gift? You don't need to wait, tarry, or become perfect first. Jesus promised that if earthly parents know how to give good gifts, "how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask?" That's all it takes—simple, childlike asking.

Ready to experience supernatural power in your marriage and life? Listen as we share our journey and practical guidance for receiving everything God has for you. This could be the missing piece you've been searching for.

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Have you ever felt like your marriage was under attack? You might be right—but the attacker isn't your spouse.

When Ken and Tabatha Claytor stood at the altar 26 years ago, they had no idea their marriage would nearly end within two years. What saved them wasn't marriage counseling or communication techniques (though those helped). It was recognizing the spiritual warfare targeting their relationship.

"Marriage is God's idea, and it's the one relationship that shows the world how much Jesus loves the church," Ken explains. "This is precisely why Satan attacks it so fiercely." From their own near-divorce experience to now helping countless couples, the Claytor's have identified six tactical weapons the enemy uses to destroy marriages: division through distraction, bitterness and unforgiveness, sexual temptation, spiritual disconnection, miscommunication, and generational patterns.

The turning point in their relationship came when they realized they weren't fighting each other—they were experiencing spiritual warfare. "It's not me against you," Tabatha emphasizes. "It's us against the devil." This perspective shift transformed their marriage from battlefield to partnership.

Through transparent sharing of their early struggles—Ken's anger and resentment, Tabitha's depression, their communication breakdown—the Claytor's offer practical wisdom for recognizing when you're fighting the wrong enemy. Their candid discussion reveals how spiritual immaturity creates vulnerability to attack and how spiritual weapons can protect your marriage covenant.

Whether you're newlyweds struggling through those challenging first years or long-married partners wondering why you keep having the same conflicts, this episode equips you with strategies to stand united against the true adversary of your marriage.

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What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking.

Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of course you do. But do you remember every dirty dish, unmade bed, or forgotten errand that triggered an argument? Probably not—and that's precisely the point. When we fixate on minor irritations, we risk damaging something permanent over something temporary.

We tackle the critical distinction between mothering and wifing—a relationship dynamic that silently erodes many marriages. A mother hovers, controls, and directs; a wife comes alongside, supports, and honors. Through the powerful concept of "incubation," we explore how wives can nurture their husband's vision rather than dominating or dismissing it. This partnership approach creates space for both spouses to flourish.

Kindness emerges as the cornerstone of marital harmony. Many withhold kindness fearing it signals weakness, but scripture reveals kindness as divine strength in action. By becoming "Chief Encouragement Officers" in our homes, we create atmospheres where love thrives despite imperfections. The challenging question we pose: Would you want to live with you?

Through the lens of the "love chapter" in 1 Corinthians 13, we provide practical guidance for letting love—not irritation—guide your responses. When we remember that "love keeps no record of wrongs," we free ourselves from scorekeeping and create space for genuine connection.

Join us next Thursday as we continue unpacking marriage wisdom that transforms relationships from battlegrounds into sanctuaries where both partners can thrive.

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Have you ever faced a moment when everything you were working toward seemed to hit a wall? That intersection of disappointment and decision is exactly what we're diving into today as we explore the powerful concepts of pivoting and rebounding.

Life rarely follows a straight line. Dreams get derailed, plans fall apart, and sometimes what seemed like the perfect path suddenly becomes impassable. But what if these moments aren't failures but invitations to something better? Drawing from our own journey through cancer, ministry transitions, and business pivots, we share how to discern when it's time to change direction versus when to push through resistance.

The principle is simple yet profound: evaluate fruitfulness. Has what you've been doing produced the results you hoped for? If not, perhaps it's time for a strategic pivot. This doesn't mean abandoning your vision—it means finding a better route to get there. As we discuss in this episode, sometimes what appears to be a roadblock is actually divine redirection toward something greater than you initially imagined.

Equally important is the art of rebounding after failure. Your past is just a chapter, not your whole story. Many of the most successful people attribute their greatest achievements to lessons learned through their biggest disappointments. What if your current setback is actually setting you up for your greatest comeback?

The enemy of both pivoting and rebounding is a victim mentality. When we see ourselves as victims of circumstances rather than overcomers through Christ, we surrender our power to write the next chapter. Developing what we playfully call a "Scrappy" mentality—that determined spirit that refuses to stay down—positions you for victory regardless of what you're facing.

Whether you're considering a change in your career, ministry, relationships, or personal development, this conversation will equip you with practical wisdom to navigate life's inevitable transitions with courage and faith. Subscribe, share with someone who needs this message, and join us at KenandTabitha.com for more resources to fuel your journey.

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Marriages don't break overnight, and they aren't restored in a day either. In this raw and revealing conversation, Ken and Tabatha share the five transformative keys that saved their once-broken relationship and built the foundation for their marriage journey.

"Locate where you are" begins their practical framework—because you can't navigate to Macy's without first finding the "You Are Here" dot on the mall directory. This honest self-assessment creates the starting point for genuine change. From there, the couple dismantles the myth that you should "work on yourself first" before addressing your marriage, showing how personal growth and relationship building must happen simultaneously.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when Tabitha reveals her "jujitsu approach" to winning Ken's heart during their darkest season. Rather than matching his distance with her own withdrawal, she chose selfless love—preparing meals he wouldn't eat, showing affection he initially rejected—until her consistent kindness broke through his defenses in ways confrontation never could.

You'll hear their passionate plea to remove "divorce" from your vocabulary, including the moving story of a couple who literally cut the word from their family dictionary during their wedding ceremony. And finally, they share the cornerstone of their restoration: putting God at the center of everything.

Whether you're fighting to save a troubled marriage or seeking to strengthen a good one, these battle-tested principles offer both hope and practical pathways forward. As Ken and Tabatha remind us, sometimes the greatest victories come when we fight not with our flesh, but with our faith.

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The secret weapon sitting on your shelf might be collecting dust. When was the last time you actually opened your Bible and studied it with purpose? In this powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha tackle one of the most fundamental yet overlooked aspects of Christian life - how to develop a meaningful relationship with Scripture.

Christians often struggle with Bible study, feeling intimidated by ancient text or unsure how to extract relevant meaning for today's challenges. Both hosts candidly share their early experiences with Scripture - from falling asleep mid-verse to treating the Bible like a history textbook rather than living revelation. Their breakthrough came not through rigid discipline but through supernatural activation of the Holy Spirit, transforming words on a page into divine encounters.

The conversation moves beyond theory into practical application with five essential keys for effective Bible study: starting small with quality over quantity, using frameworks like SOAP (Scripture, Observation, Application, Prayer), establishing rhythm rather than rules, utilizing tools that match your learning style, and most critically, inviting the Holy Spirit's illumination. They emphasize that Scripture serves as our offensive spiritual weapon - the sword that cuts through depression, doubt, and spiritual warfare when wielded properly.

What makes this episode particularly valuable is the balanced approach to traditional and modern study methods. While honoring the tactile experience of paper Bibles with highlights and notes, they also embrace digital resources and audio versions for different learning styles. The hosts create space for both structured and free-spirited approaches to Scripture engagement, acknowledging that different seasons of life require adaptable strategies.

Ready to transform your relationship with God's Word? Listen now, and discover how to move beyond surface-level reading into life-changing revelation that powers every area of your life.

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The way you talk to yourself matters more than you might realize. Have you ever caught yourself saying things to your own reflection that you'd never dream of saying to someone else? In this deeply personal episode, we explore the transformative power of extending "Grace to Self" and how this simple practice can revolutionize your mental, spiritual, and even physical wellbeing.

Through vulnerable storytelling, we share the moment when a divine interruption challenged years of harsh self-criticism with a powerful question: "Who are you talking to like that? That's my daughter." This confrontation sparked a healing journey that not only transformed negative thought patterns but actually resulted in physical healing from an autoimmune condition. You'll discover how the war we wage against ourselves through our thoughts can manifest in our bodies—and how declaring peace can begin restoration.

We dive deep into seven practical keys for extending grace to yourself, from choosing self-forgiveness to developing healthy self-talk practices. For those struggling with perfectionism, religious guilt, or the constant feeling that you're never doing enough, this episode offers liberating insights about embracing your humanity while still pursuing growth. Whether you battle with negative self-image, impossible standards, or difficulty forgiving your own mistakes, you'll find practical wisdom for breaking free from self-condemnation.

Ready to stop being your own harshest critic? Join us as we explore how treating yourself with the same kindness, understanding, and forgiveness you'd offer to others can become the gateway to experiencing deeper joy, freedom, and spiritual wholeness. Your journey toward grace begins now.

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We explore God's design for intimacy within marriage and share eight essential principles for newlyweds navigating sexual expectations versus reality after the wedding day.

• Understanding God's purpose for sex: procreation, enjoyment, and intimacy between husband and wife
• Recognizing that great intimacy takes time, communication, and patience to develop
• Being patient with the journey rather than expecting instant perfection
• Communicating clearly and often about desires, preferences, and boundaries
• Inviting God into every aspect of your marriage, including the bedroom
• Focusing on connection beyond just physical pleasure
• Addressing and releasing unhelpful expectations from past experiences
• Overcoming insecurity and comparison for greater vulnerability
• Protecting intimacy with intentional boundaries against distractions
• Continuously learning and growing together through resources and conversation
• Approaching intimacy with tenderness, focusing on your spouse's experience
• Scheduling regular times for connection rather than leaving it to chance

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Struggling with dating in today's confusing landscape? Ken and Tabatha draw from their marriage to deliver straight-talking wisdom about what actually works in relationships.

"You got to be friends first," Ken emphasizes, highlighting how many couples rush into relationships without genuinely liking each other. This foundation of friendship—actually enjoying each other's company—creates the energy that sustains love through challenging seasons.

The hosts don't shy away from addressing physical attraction, timing important conversations, and maintaining standards while dating. "Know your worth and don't give discounts," becomes their rallying cry against settling for less than you deserve.

Their practical advice extends to relationship red flags too—like being "pressed" or desperate, looking for someone to complete you, giving too much too fast, playing house before marriage, and putting yourself in compromising positions. Each point is illustrated with relatable stories and insights from their ministry experience.

Most powerfully, they address the spiritual foundation necessary for lasting relationships. "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers," they caution, explaining how mismatched spiritual values can create lifelong challenges that even the most devoted partner can't overcome.

Whether you're navigating the early stages of dating or preparing for marriage, this episode provides a blueprint for building relationships that stand the test of time. Ready to transform your approach to dating? This conversation might just change how you view relationships forever.

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What happens when the unthinkable creeps into your relationship? The answers might surprise you. After counseling countless couples through the aftermath of infidelity, we've discovered that affairs rarely "just happen" – they're the result of small compromises that accumulate over time.

Drawing from both personal and professional experience, we reveal how good people can make devastating choices when they fail to establish proper boundaries. Our own marriage has weathered significant storms over 25 years, and we've learned that preventing infidelity requires intentional guardrails long before temptation strikes.

The episode explores common pathways that lead to affairs: emotional disconnection, unmet needs, loneliness within marriage, personal brokenness, revenge, crisis situations, and simple selfishness. We break down the progression from innocent interaction to full-blown affair, revealing how adultery always begins in the heart.

Most importantly, we share ten practical strategies for affair-proofing your relationship, including guarding your heart and mind, daily investment in emotional intimacy, maintaining a vibrant sexual connection, setting firm boundaries with the opposite sex, practicing complete transparency, surrounding yourself with pro-marriage friends, dealing quickly with conflict, and making God the center of your relationship.

Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, these principles provide concrete protection against one of marriage's greatest threats. The stakes couldn't be higher – as we explain, the consequences of infidelity go far beyond momentary pleasure, potentially destroying your family, reputation, and decades of shared history.

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What critical questions should you ask before saying "I do"? With half of all marriages ending in divorce despite everyone believing theirs will last forever, these three game-changing questions could save your relationship from becoming another statistic.

The marriage journey transforms us in ways we never anticipate. The first essential question recognizes this reality: "Can you handle me changing?" That vibrant 23-year-old you fell in love with will inevitably become a different person at 43 and 63. Many of us marry an image rather than a real person—attracted to their current appearance, ambitions, or how they make us feel—without considering the transformation that decades bring. Whether it's physical changes after children, shifting career goals, or evolving priorities, marriage requires love that transcends these natural evolutions.

Equally important is the counterpoint: "Can you handle me not changing?" We often enter marriage with a subconscious desire to mold our partner into versions of ourselves. That spouse who struggles with punctuality, plays video games excessively, or approaches finances differently may never fundamentally change these traits. Before marriage, become a "fruit inspector"—carefully examining consistent patterns and honestly asking if you can accept those unchangeable aspects for a lifetime. Many relationships deteriorate because one spouse continuously pressures the other to become someone they're not designed to be.

Finally, ask: "Will you love me when you don't like me?" Every marriage experiences seasons where affection wanes and irritation grows, yet commitment must remain. Many couples mistake the temporary butterflies of the infatuation stage (typically lasting three months to three years) for the foundation of marriage. Real love chooses connection even during difficult seasons and finds ways to rebuild fondness through intentional efforts.

These questions highlight why physical intimacy before marriage can cloud judgment about fundamental compatibility issues. The emotional bonds created through sex often lead people to overlook critical differences that become relationship-breaking problems after marriage.

Take time to honestly explore these three questions with your partner. Your willingness to face these realities now could make the difference between a marriage that thrives through decades of change and one that joins the sobering divorce statistics.

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Authenticity is becoming increasingly rare in our carefully curated world. While many struggle to present perfect images of themselves online and offline, Ken and Tabatha tackle the transformative power of radical honesty.

They introduce the HOT principle—Honest, Open, Transparent—as the foundation for truly meaningful relationships, whether in marriage, friendship, business, or ministry. "I don't understand why people portray themselves as something they're not," Ken reflects, challenging listeners to examine their own commitment to truth.

Throughout the conversation, they explore how dishonesty creates fractures in trust that eventually break relationships apart. "Without honesty, you don't have trust, and without trust, you don't have a relationship," Tabitha emphasizes. The spiritual implications are profound too—lying literally aligns us with what scripture calls "the father of lies" while truthfulness reflects God's character.

For singles, they offer straight-talking advice: put honesty near the top of your list when looking for a spouse, second only to loving God. For marrieds, they discuss how even withholding truth damages intimacy. For parents, they suggest practical ways to teach children the value of honesty without resorting to "white lies" about Santa or storks.

The episode concludes with five practical steps to grow in honesty: get honest with yourself first, speak truth in love, release fear of rejection, practice small honest acts daily, and invite accountability through safe conversations. Ken shares a powerful personal story about correcting a $1,000 billing error, demonstrating how choosing honesty—even when costly—yields greater rewards than monetary gain.

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"How often should married couples have sex?" It's the question many ask but few discuss openly. In this refreshingly candid conversation, Ken and Tabatha break through the awkwardness to address what happens when physical intimacy fades in marriage.

Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, they challenge conventional wisdom about bedroom dynamics with their revolutionary principle: "Only one person needs to be in the mood for sex to happen." This perspective shift alone has rescued countless relationships from the clinically-defined "sexless marriage" (less than 10 times per year).

The hosts don't shy away from addressing real challenges couples face: changing libidos, physical issues, loss of attraction, and the dreaded "not tonight" rejection. Their practical advice includes a powerful rule—if you decline your spouse's advances, initiate within 24 hours to prevent emotional distance from growing.

You'll discover why planning sex might be exactly what your marriage needs, why both spouses should take turns initiating, and why touching throughout the day creates the foundation for deeper connection. Ken and Tabitha blend spiritual wisdom with practical strategies, offering seven keys to revitalizing physical intimacy that apply whether you've been married for months or decades.

This episode provides a judgment-free zone where couples can find hope and practical steps forward. Whether you're in a season of thriving intimacy or struggling to reconnect physically, these insights will transform how you approach one of marriage's most important dimensions. Ready to strengthen your connection? Listen, apply these principles, and watch your relationship grow closer than ever before.

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The phrase "burnout" has become a buzzword, almost a badge of honor in some circles, but what if our fear of burnout is actually preventing us from discovering our true potential? In this eye-opening conversation, we challenge the prevailing narrative around burnout and offer a fresh perspective on stress, capacity, and growth.

Drawing from personal experiences, we distinguish between genuine burnout—characterized by emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion—and the increasingly common fear of pushing ourselves too hard. This distinction matters profoundly. When we're so afraid of burnout that we back away from our limits, we never discover our ceiling, which means we can never raise it.

Think about building muscle. Growth happens when you push slightly beyond your comfort zone. The same principle applies to life capacity. We share the powerful "one more principle"—doing just one more rep, making one more call, having one more difficult conversation—which creates the stress needed for expansion. Your ceiling must become your floor if you want meaningful growth.

For those genuinely experiencing burnout, we provide practical strategies: recognizing that rest is holy (not lazy), implementing delegation, making small adjustments to daily habits, prioritizing physical health, and helping others. We outline five key approaches to overcoming burnout fear: seeking mentorship, identifying your current capacity and committing to grow it, differentiating between actual burnout and fear of hard work, developing an "I can" mentality, and breaking up with fear.

The freedom comes not from avoiding stress but from building the capacity to handle more without being overwhelmed. This requires finding your limit, pressing against it, and allowing that threshold to expand. Rather than living in fear, choose to walk by faith—embracing the growth that comes through pressing your limits while maintaining wisdom about true self-care.

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Feeling the chill in your marriage bedroom? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, Ken and Tabatha break down the walls of silence surrounding sexless marriages, offering hope and practical wisdom from their 25-year journey together.

Marriage isn't always sexy – especially when life throws curveballs like career stress, parenting demands, health challenges, and aging bodies into the mix. After navigating breast cancer, menopause, and the everyday complexities of long-term commitment, Ken and Tabatha share how they've maintained a vibrant intimate connection despite the obstacles.

"When you're not in the mood" becomes more than just an occasional state – for many couples, it evolves into a persistent pattern that threatens the marriage foundation. The hosts challenge listeners to examine whether they've settled for less than God's design for marital intimacy, offering a biblical framework from 1 Corinthians 7 that reframes sex as both a privilege and responsibility within marriage.

Through candid conversation, they address common barriers to physical connection: exhaustion, body image issues, medical challenges, and the subtle ways couples begin prioritizing everything except their intimate life. Tabitha specifically speaks to women about recognizing and embracing their own sexual desires rather than viewing intimacy solely as meeting their husband's needs.

This conversation goes beyond bedroom techniques to address the heart issues that lead to sexual disconnection. Whether you're struggling with mismatched sex drives, physical limitations, or simply finding yourself in a pattern of rejection and resentment, this episode offers a pathway back to the intimate connection you once shared.

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The crushing weight of depression doesn't just affect the person diagnosed—it transforms marriages, reshaping how partners interact and survive together. Having walked this path ourselves, we're pulling back the curtain on what it truly takes to support a spouse battling the darkness of depression.

Tabatha shares her 12-year journey through severe depression that began in childhood following her father's death and experiences with abuse. The physical manifestations—debilitating migraines, panic attacks, insomnia—became as real as the emotional pain. Yet after finding spiritual healing at 24, she's experienced over two decades of complete freedom from these symptoms.

"Depression isn't occasional sadness—it's getting stuck, becoming debilitated by it," Tabatha explains. "It's not something you can simply snap out of." This misunderstanding often leads to shame and isolation for those suffering.

Ken reveals his own unexpected battle with depression following church leadership challenges and betrayal from those close to him. During this dark season, Tabatha became his bridge to healing—not by forcing him out of depression, but by supporting his vision when he couldn't see it himself, gathering resources to help him move forward, and giving him space when needed.

We explore the powerful connection between unforgiveness and depression, sharing how forgiveness became the key that unlocked Tabitha's healing. The spiritual dimensions of depression often go unaddressed in clinical settings, yet we've witnessed countless breakthroughs when both spiritual and natural interventions work together.

For those supporting a depressed spouse: speak life, not criticism. Understand their root struggles. Take spiritual authority over the situation while addressing practical needs. Build your own support system so you don't become depleted. And never stop believing that complete healing is possible—because we've lived it.

If depression has invaded your marriage, join us for this episode filled with hope, practical wisdom, and the promise that depression doesn't have to be a life sentence. Your breakthrough might be closer than you think.

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Have you ever wondered why so many marriages fall apart even though they started off great? A lot of it comes down to what people focus on when choosing who to marry.

In this honest and real conversation, we talk about 5 important qualities every man should look for in a wife—things that go deeper than just looks or money. We even share real stories from men (like barbers!) who said they just wanted someone who wouldn’t tear them down emotionally.

We also talk about how both men and women sometimes bring pain from the past into relationships. These hurts can cause women to react harshly and men to feel disrespected, which leads to a toxic cycle in marriage.

But we don’t just talk about the problems—we give practical advice on how to recognize a godly wife. We cover things like respect, spiritual strength, true submission (and what it really means), being strong under pressure, and most importantly—having a real relationship with God that comes before even the marriage.

Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode will help you see what it takes to build a healthy, God-centered relationship.
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What happens when faith meets entrepreneurship? For many believers, there's an unnecessary tension between pursuing business success and honoring God. But what if prosperity with purpose is exactly what God intended?

Ken and Tabatha Claytor bring a refreshing perspective to the intersection of faith and business, drawing from their experiences as successful entrepreneurs before their 18-year journey in pastoral ministry. Having built multiple businesses from scratch, they share candid insights about how biblical principles transformed their approach to entrepreneurship.

The conversation tackles head-on the misconceptions many Christians hold about money and success. Ken challenges the notion that spiritual maturity requires financial struggle, pointing to scripture that reveals God's pleasure in the prosperity of His people. Rather than demonizing wealth, the Claytors emphasize stewardship – recognizing that all resources belong to God and should ultimately advance His purposes.

Four powerful biblical principles emerge as the framework for godly success: integrity that refuses to cut corners, honesty that may sometimes cost you the deal, generosity that combats greed, and divine partnerships that yield eternal returns. These aren't just theoretical concepts but battle-tested strategies that have transformed countless businesses.

Perhaps most compelling is the idea that believers don't need to compartmentalize their faith and work. By redeeming Monday through Friday and seeing the marketplace as mission field, entrepreneurs can experience supernatural favor and direction. The Claytors share remarkable stories of divine guidance in business decisions that led to unexpected breakthroughs and profitability.

Whether you're a seasoned business owner or an aspiring entrepreneur, this conversation will transform how you view the relationship between faith and commerce. Discover how giving your prosperity purpose might be the key to both business growth and spiritual fulfillment.

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What do you do when someone wounds you deeply? The reality is that emotional hurt is part of the human experience, but far too many people remain trapped in cycles of pain, resentment, and withdrawal long after the initial injury. In this candid and powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha expose what they call a "hurt epidemic" sweeping through communities and churches worldwide.

Drawing from personal experience with trauma, rejection, and betrayal, they offer a refreshingly practical approach to emotional healing. You'll discover the transformative principle of "cast, don't carry" - a visualization exercise where you literally hand your hurts over to a higher power. This isn't theoretical spirituality but a tangible practice that has brought freedom to countless lives.

The biblical story of Joseph becomes a powerful case study in overcoming significant betrayal without becoming bitter. His declaration to his brothers - "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good" - provides a template for anyone who's been wounded by others yet refuses to let those wounds define their destiny.

What sets this conversation apart is its balanced approach. Ken and Tabatha acknowledge the reality of legitimate hurts while challenging the tendency toward perpetual victimhood. They distinguish between "hurts that are hurtful" and "perceived hurts," offering wisdom for addressing both. Their perspective shift from "victim to victor" isn't about denying pain but refusing to let it have the final word in your story.

Whether you're carrying church hurt, relational betrayal, or family wounds, this episode provides the practical tools and spiritual insights needed to break free and reclaim your purpose. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that their greatest pain might become their greatest purpose.

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Ten powerful strategies every single person needs to hear about preparing for future relationships while fully embracing their current season. This candid conversation cuts through common misconceptions about singleness, offering practical wisdom that balances spiritual growth with real-world relationship readiness.

We start by addressing the comparison trap that leaves many singles feeling inadequate when scrolling through social media. Those picture-perfect marriages you're envying? They might not be as perfect as they appear. Instead of comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone else's highlight reel, we explore how to find contentment right where you are.

The enemy loves feeding singles lies about their worth and desirability. We break down these deceptions and replace them with truth about who you really are. Whether confronting messages from past relationships or battling internal insecurities, this segment provides the ammunition you need to stand confidently in your identity.

Finding the balance between being too picky and settling for less than God's best presents a challenge for many singles. We provide clear guidance on distinguishing between superficial preferences and non-negotiable values, helping you navigate dating decisions with wisdom rather than desperation or unrealistic standards.

Your single season offers unparalleled opportunities for financial preparation, emotional healing, and spiritual growth. We detail specific actions you can take now—from eliminating debt to addressing past trauma to deepening your spiritual foundation—that will position you for a healthy future relationship if that's God's plan.

Rather than viewing singleness as merely waiting, we invite you to embrace this season as purposeful preparation. The choices you make now lay the groundwork for whatever lies ahead in your relational journey, creating a stronger foundation for potential marriage and greater contentment regardless of your future relationship status.

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What happens when a marriage teeters on the edge of collapse? Ken and Tabatha Claytor don't hold back as they reveal the raw truth about their first two years of marriage—when Ken had already planned to divorce Tabitha and she was battling severe depression.

This powerful episode takes you on their 25-year journey from those desperate early days to the thriving relationship they enjoy today. With refreshing honesty, they share how Tabitha's miraculous deliverance from depression became a turning point, allowing her to "pump the brakes" on their divorce and begin rebuilding what seemed irreparably broken.

The Claytors distill their hard-won wisdom into three essential principles that have transformed their marriage: making your spouse your absolute priority (yes, even above your children), building unshakable trustworthiness, and developing effective communication skills. They offer practical strategies for each principle, from establishing boundaries that protect your marriage to creating safe spaces for vulnerable conversations.

Their discussion on trustworthiness is particularly revealing as Tabatha shares what has built her confidence in Ken over the decades—his authentic relationship with God behind closed doors and his consistent character across all settings. Meanwhile, their playful back-and-forth about returning text messages demonstrates how even the strongest marriages navigate everyday frustrations.

Whether you're struggling to save a troubled relationship or simply want to strengthen an already good marriage, this episode delivers hope and practical tools you can implement immediately. As Ken powerfully reminds us, "It doesn't matter how bad your marriage might seem right now. There's a better day ahead."

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Would you want to live with you? This powerful question lies at the heart of Ken and Tabatha's wisdom-packed conversation about marriage and relationships. Drawing from over 24 years of marriage experience, they tackle the essential principle that life is simply too short to sweat the small stuff.

The couple explores how our memories work – we remember wedding days and children's births, not dirty dishes or minor frustrations. Yet many marriages crumble over "irreconcilable differences" that partners can't even specifically recall years later. Through personal stories and biblical principles, Ken and Tabatha outline practical ways to focus on what truly matters.

One fascinating distinction they unpack is the difference between mothering and wifely support. A mother hovers and dictates, while a wife comes alongside to support and uplift. They introduce the concept of "incubation" – how a wife can nurture her husband's vision like a seed, helping it grow through encouragement rather than criticism. This partnership approach allows both spouses to rise together, creating a marriage where both partners feel valued and respected.

Kindness emerges as a central theme throughout their conversation. Ken and Tabitha challenge the notion that kindness equals weakness, pointing to scripture that shows how love "is not easily angered" and "keeps no record of wrongs." They suggest becoming a "CEO" – Chief Encouragement Officer – in your home, creating an atmosphere of celebration rather than criticism. The episode culminates with a beautiful exploration of 1 Corinthians 13, revealing how these ancient principles of love provide practical solutions for modern relationship challenges.

Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode offers transformative perspectives on creating a marriage filled with patience, kindness and mutual support. Subscribe now and join us next Thursday for another powerful conversation about doing life together with purpose and love!

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Facing the death of a loved one can shatter our world and challenge our deepest beliefs. When Ken's mother passed away after a four-year battle with cancer, he found himself wrestling with profound theological questions. Despite believing in divine healing and standing on promises from Scripture, his mom transitioned to heaven at age 69, leaving him to navigate complex emotions of grief, faith, and acceptance.

This raw, heartfelt conversation explores the mystery of death from a biblical perspective, reframing it not as a fearful end but as a transition between realms. "I didn't lose her," Ken shares, "I know exactly where she is. She's with Jesus." For believers, death becomes less a tragedy and more a graduation—painful for those left behind but joyful for those who've entered eternity free from suffering.

Tabatha vulnerably shares her own journey through the fear of death during her cancer battle, describing how studying near-death experiences and Scripture transformed her perspective. "I am not afraid to die," she testifies. "This is a promotion. This is someplace that we are all going." Their discussion demystifies what happens when we die, offering comfort through biblical truths that affirm continued existence, reunion with loved ones, and the promise of new bodies.

The most powerful moment comes when Ken discusses Hebrews 11:13, which speaks of those who "died in faith, not having received the promise." His mother exemplified this—maintaining unwavering faith despite not seeing her healing manifested on earth. "I can't make a healing come," Ken reflects. "I'm the mailman; I deliver the package, but I can't make the package. God is the one who heals."

Whether you're actively grieving or seeking to understand death from a faith perspective, this conversation offers both compassion and clarity. The hosts remind us that while grief is natural, we don't grieve like those without hope. Your tears are valid, but they need not be permanent. Connect with us at Alive Church or grab our devotional "Living at a Nine" to continue your journey toward healing and hope.

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A focus on becoming a Chief Encouragement Officer can need positive transformations in household dynamics. Understanding the CEO role expands beyond business concepts into personal relationships.

• Discussing the significance of encouragement in building strong marriages
• Highlighting the need for positivity over authority in families
• Understanding encouragement as an integral part of personal and spiritual growth
• Offering practical steps to implement encouragement in daily life
• Recognizing the importance of self-encouragement before uplifting others
• Addressing the challenges and negativity that can permeate home life

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Embark on a journey toward better health in this enlightening episode! We dive deep into the struggles and triumphs of achieving a healthy lifestyle, emphasizing the need for realistic goal setting and self-compassion along the way. Through engaging anecdotes and practical insights, we encourage listeners to embrace the discomfort that comes with change and to view it as a stepping stone toward growth.

Central to this episode is the notion that establishing small, attainable goals can make the journey to fitness less overwhelming. We also discuss the crucial role nutrition plays in both physical and mental well-being, advocating for natural foods that nourish both body and mind. Additionally, listeners are reassured of the power of community in achieving fitness aspirations and personal growth.

As you listen, you’ll not only find motivation but also practical tips to integrate into your daily routine. Whether you're embarking on a fitness journey or looking to refine your current habits, this episode equips you with essential tools to foster a healthy lifestyle. Join us as we break down barriers, challenge misconceptions, and find joy in the process of self-improvement.

If you found this discussion helpful, we urge you to subscribe, share, and engage with us. Your journey to wellness matters!

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Every marriage experiences annoyance, but understanding and communication are key to overcoming these challenges. This episode addresses the importance of perspective, encourages treating your spouse with grace, and emphasizes the necessity of friendship in strengthening the marital bond.

• Discussing normalcy of marital conflicts
• Exploring why spouses irritate each other
• Importance of open communication
• Power of choice in reactions
• Strategies for self-care and personal reflection
• Encouragement to treat spouse as best friend
• Practical tips for maintaining harmony
• Significance of grace and understanding in marriage

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This podcast episode encourages married couples to embrace the beauty of sexual intimacy while confronting cultural taboos surrounding the topic. Ken and Tabitha share personal insights and experiences, introduce the concept of a Seven-Day Sex Challenge, and provide actionable steps to increase communication and pleasure in marriage.

• Importance of normalizing discussions about sex and intimacy
• Godly purposes of sex: procreation, intimacy, and enjoyment
• Overview of the Seven-Day Sex Challenge for couples
• Addressing sexual health issues and personal insecurities
• Encouragement to create regular space for open communication
• Tips for sustaining intimacy beyond the challenge
• Call to action for listeners to share their experiences and feedback

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In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of Grace to Self—a powerful mindset shift that encourages us to show ourselves the same love, kindness, and forgiveness we extend to others. 💛

So many of us struggle with self-criticism, negative self-talk, and the pressure to be perfect. But what if we learned to give ourselves grace instead? In this conversation, we share personal experiences, explore the connection between thoughts and physical health, and offer practical steps to help you break free from self-condemnation.

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✔️ What Grace to Self really means
✔️ How self-talk impacts your health and well-being
✔️ The difference between self-condemnation and self-grace
✔️ Steps to extend grace and forgiveness to yourself
✔️ Why embracing joy and delight is essential
✔️ How to let go of perfectionism while still growing

If you’ve ever felt like you’re your own worst critic, this episode is for you! It’s time to treat yourself as a friend and embrace the healing power of grace. ❤️

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The episode focuses on mastering your morning to unlock a fruitful and spiritually empowered day. With practical insights and biblical wisdom, we discuss five keys: planning for the next day, obtaining quality sleep, prioritizing God, engaging in exercise, and meal prepping, all aimed at eliminating excuses and setting a purposeful tone for daily life.
• Preparing the night before for a smoother morning
• Understanding the importance of quality sleep
• Prioritizing God through dedicated morning time
• Incorporating exercise into your morning routine
• Meal prepping to fuel your body for the day ahead

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The episode explores the profound effects of relationships on spiritual growth, emphasizing the need for discernment in choosing one's company. We discuss boundary-setting, the challenges posed by misunderstandings, and the call to prioritize spiritual families over blood ties.
• The impact of friends on decisions and behavior
• The duality of positive and negative influences
• Discernment in new relationships after conversion
• Misunderstandings from friends and family
• Emphasis on spiritual families
• The importance of setting healthy boundaries
• Prioritizing God’s approval over others’ opinions

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What if your relationship with God could transform not just your spiritual life, but every aspect of your existence? We're Ken and Tabitha, and today we're offering you an insightful journey into deepening that divine connection. Just like sporadic workouts can't give you a six-pack, attending church occasionally won't build a robust spiritual foundation. Tune in as we promise to equip you with tools for daily spiritual engagement, using our 60-day devotional, "Living at a Nine," as your guide to grow closer to Jesus. Our 25-year marriage is a testament to how a strong bond with God enhances every relationship, and we're here to share those insights with you.

Reviving intimacy with God is not just a resolution for the new year; it’s a profound transformation waiting to happen. Inspired by Matthew 6:33, we discuss the critical importance of prioritizing God's kingdom and how this focus can elevate every other aspect of your life. Whether you're facing depression, illness, or life's inevitable challenges, these moments can be fertile ground for spiritual renewal. By engaging with a supportive church community and maintaining a personal connection with God, you'll discover the strength to navigate life's toughest trials. Let our personal stories be a beacon of hope that even when God feels distant, those challenging times can be when He is closest.

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A strong marriage thrives on creating spaces that nurture both partners. This episode discusses practical ways to make room for husbands in the home, emphasizing collaboration and mutual respect in household rules, the importance of personal downtime, and actions that make them feel honored.

• Discussing the balance of rules and personal freedom in the home
• The importance of mutual buy-in for household decisions
• Encouraging husbands to engage with the podcast
• Setting up welcoming environments within the home
• Honoring the need for personal space and quiet time
• Practical tips on building relaxation time into daily life
• Celebrating your husband with thoughtful gestures

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Discover the profound spiritual rewards that come from fasting and prayer as we embark on a 21-day journey to start the new year with renewed faith and purpose. Through heartfelt personal stories from our own marriage, we reveal how fasting has helped us prioritize God's will, break strongholds, and enhance our spiritual intimacy. Drawing inspiration from biblical figures like Esther and Daniel, this episode will guide you toward preparing for a fast, setting meaningful parameters, and ultimately, ending your fast in a way that nurtures both body and soul.

We delve into the dual dimensions of fasting—spiritual and physical—highlighting its power to discipline the flesh and heighten spiritual sensitivity. By examining scripture from Romans and Galatians, we explore how fasting can clear barriers to divine connection. Alongside spiritual insights, we discuss the natural benefits of fasting, such as detoxification and healing, illustrating the divine design of our bodies for renewal. Our conversations touch on different fasting types, offering practical tips and real-life anecdotes to inspire your fasting practice.

As we explore various methods like the Daniel fast and six-to-six fasting, we also discuss the importance of selecting a fast that aligns with your personal challenges and spiritual goals. Learn the art of breaking a fast wisely, and consider how fasting can be integrated into your lifestyle for lasting growth. To top it off, we invite you to join an unforgettable experience in Orlando, where a transformative encounter and equipping conference awaits to potentially alter the next 30 years of your life. Secure your spot and prepare for a life-changing journey with us.

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We’re taking a much-needed break to focus on family and faith, but we promise to return in January with fresh content that aims to enrich your life. We believe 2025 is a year of growth, and we want to make it inclusive by inviting you to share your thoughts and questions with us. Your involvement is key to helping us create content that genuinely resonates and inspires.

Moreover, we're thrilled to share our church's cherished tradition—Super Sunday, a celebration focused on giving as the year winds down. For 24 years, this has been a way for us to offer something meaningful to God and now we’re extending this tradition to our online family. We're encouraging you to join us in this beautiful act of generosity and faith. As we stand in love and faith, let's remember the joy that comes from giving and how it can multiply blessings not only in our lives but in the lives of others.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from our family to yours, and we can’t wait to see what the new year brings!

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Ever wonder how unwrapping gifts can spark a lively debate during Christmas morning festivities? Join us, as we recount our personal tales and unique traditions that make Christmas an extraordinary time every year. From the peace that Christmas offered Tabatha during a turbulent childhood, to Ken's family's amusing tradition of not wrapping gifts, we explore how these experiences shape our holiday spirit. We promise you'll walk away with a renewed appreciation for how diverse and meaningful holiday customs can be.

Our conversation isn't just about the past; we delve into the profound significance of Christmas as a celebration of Jesus's birth, adding layers of meaning to cherished family gatherings and festive feasts. From homemade sausage gravy and biscuits to the essential Christmas sugar cookies, we share the flavors and aromas that make our holiday tables unforgettable.

The holiday magic doesn't stop there. We invite you to experience the warmth and joy of our family traditions, from classic Christmas movies and candlelight services to the playful innocence of Santa Claus stories.

Merry Christmas!! We love you all and appreciate your support.

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Have you ever wondered how generosity can transform every facet of your life? Join us on "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha" as we unfold the powerful influence of giving on relationships, finances, and spiritual well-being. We'll take you on a journey through our 25-year marriage, revealing how we overcame selfishness and pride by embracing a spirit of generosity. This episode promises to ignite a desire for giving, especially during the holiday season, and inspire you to strengthen connections with both God and your loved ones.

We're peeling back the layers on how financial generosity, even in times of scarcity, can unlock an abundance you never imagined. Through personal anecdotes and biblical principles like tithing and stewardship, we illustrate how a giving mindset isn't just about money but about aligning your life with deeper values. Our stories—from growing up with limited means to experiencing financial breakthroughs through committed generosity—highlight the transformative power of prioritizing others over ourselves, leading to both financial success and enriched relationships.

Finally, we explore the ripple effect of small acts of kindness and how they cultivate a community of support and growth. You'll hear about heartwarming instances where simple gestures made a big difference, proving that generosity isn't reserved for the wealthy. By adopting a stewardship mentality, we're not just holding on to what we have but are actively participating in a larger mission to make a positive impact. Get ready to challenge limiting beliefs and embrace the joy that comes from living a generous life. Whether it's through financial gifts or small kindnesses, we invite you to activate the blessings of generosity in your life and join our upcoming Super Sunday Giving celebration.

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Imagine transforming your darkest moments into opportunities for gratitude and growth. This episode takes you on a heartfelt journey of thanksgiving, as we reflect on the power of gratitude, even when life throws its toughest challenges our way. We explore how a thankful heart can redefine our perspective on life’s trials and triumphs. Our chat is filled with the warmth of family traditions and the joy of sharing cherished Thanksgiving memories, honoring the spirit of togetherness that this season embodies.

We unravel the transformative effects of gratitude and how it can be a beacon of hope through life's ups and downs. By sharing personal anecdotes of overcoming significant challenges, we demonstrate how shifting focus from what is lacking to what we have can be a powerful tool for resilience. We dive into conversations about the importance of choosing relationships wisely, understanding how gratitude and humility can strengthen bonds both in personal spheres and the broader community. Our discussion offers practical tips for integrating gratitude into daily life, encouraging listeners to reflect on the abundance around them.

Faith and gratitude intertwine as we navigate through stories of spiritual resilience. Inspired by biblical tales and real-life experiences, we discuss how gratitude can be a guiding light during the darkest times, offering strength and hope. This episode is not just about reflection; it’s a call to action, inviting you to partake in the spirit of giving and cultivate a lifestyle anchored in thankfulness. We conclude by offering prayers for healing and hope, reinforcing the power of community support and shared faith. Join us as we embrace the joy and positivity that a grateful heart brings, and let’s journey together toward a more appreciative and fulfilling life.

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We answered all your questions in this episode. For example, can setting boundaries with in-laws rejuvenate your marriage? Discover how prioritizing your relationship and applying the biblical principles of leaving and cleaving can create a sanctuary of respect and comfort. We unpack the power of words and the strategies spouses can employ to nurture their most important relationships, ensuring that love remains unfazed by toxic dynamics. By fostering supportive spaces, couples can learn to stand strong together, even when external pressures threaten to intrude.

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Join us as we delve into prioritizing both physical and emotional connections amidst the chaos of daily life. Through personal anecdotes, we explore how shared responsibilities and intentional communication can nurture intimacy. Whether it's addressing everyday acts like household chores or understanding the impact of health and self-care on a relationship, we've got you covered. This episode is perfect for anyone looking to strengthen their bond and create a more fulfilling partnership grounded in mutual respect and love.

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Curious about the ongoing bed-sharing debate? Listen as we dive into this hot topic sparked by a viral social media clip. We explore the varying perspectives on whether children should sleep in their parent's bed, debating the emotional bonds it can create versus the potential impact on marital intimacy. Drawing from our own experiences and those of our listeners, we share how setting boundaries around sleeping arrangements has strengthened our marriage and suggest ways couples can tailor these practices to fit their unique families.

Discover the art of balancing parenting duties with nurturing a strong marital bond. We'll guide you through establishing healthy sleep habits and boundaries that benefit the whole family. Learn how consistent bedtime routines can foster independence in children and create space for marital intimacy. With insights from our personal experiences, we encourage parents to trust in God for guidance and to focus on raising emotionally healthy adults while maintaining a harmonious family dynamic.

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Selfishness can be like a chokehold, stifling your relationships and potential, but there's a way out. Picture the fierce determination of a mixed martial arts fighter breaking free or the resilience of WWE legends like Hulk Hogan facing down their greatest challenges. That's the spirit we're channeling as we explore how embracing selflessness can breathe new life into your marriage, business, and everyday interactions. Drawing from personal stories and biblical lessons, we vividly picture moving beyond self-centeredness to prioritize others, fostering healthier and more fulfilling connections.

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How should Christians approach Halloween? Join us as we unpack this thought-provoking question, sharing personal stories from our 25-year journey of faith and marriage. Our exploration isn't about offering definitive answers but rather about nudging you toward considering your own beliefs and how they align with cultural practices. We reflect on our transitions from Halloween-loving children to new Christians wary of celebrations, and how we’ve since learned to balance cultural norms with kingdom principles.

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We believe it's time to break the silence on sexual liberation within Christianity without shying away from the tough conversations. Through open and honest dialogue, we reflect on past mistakes, sharing how faith and mentorship have guided us towards a healthier, more fulfilling sexual relationship. We'll explore the importance of reclaiming language around anatomy and celebrating virginity without judgment, all while equipping you with a godly perspective on sexuality to navigate the mire of misinformation. Join us as we share our experiences and insights, hoping to foster understanding, growth, and love within your relationship.

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Does the societal pressure to have children right after marriage feel overwhelming to you? Hear our personal stories and insights as we discuss why it's essential to make decisions based on your unique timeline and needs, rather than succumbing to external expectations. Plus, we address a listener's heartfelt concern about navigating intimacy when health complications make sex challenging, sharing ways to maintain deep connection and understanding within your marriage.

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In a world dominated by self-promotion and social media bravado, finding the right balance between humility and confidence is more crucial than ever. We dissect the fine line that separates healthy self-assurance from destructive pride, exploring why humility is not about devaluing oneself but about recognizing and giving glory to God. By contrasting the appealing nature of a humble heart with the repellent effects of prideful behavior, we offer practical advice on how to cultivate humility intentionally in your personal and professional life. Discover how humility can make you more approachable, authentic, and ultimately more successful.

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Thinking about how to vote in 2024? We guide you on voting with a Godly perspective, emphasizing the responsibility and privilege that comes with it. Understand the importance of focusing on policies over emotional reactions, and how to discern the truth amidst media manipulation and negative ad attacks. We also address critical issues such as the sanctity of life and aligning your vote with biblical principles. Join us for a thoughtful discussion on making informed, faith-based decisions to safeguard moral and biblical values in society.

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Is there really one soulmate out there for everyone, or is finding a lifelong partner more about choice and effort? We dive into this intriguing question, shedding light on God’s role in our relationships. From the importance of recognizing leadership potential in a partner to the sometimes controversial topic of women proposing to men, we draw from scripture and personal counseling experiences to offer a fresh perspective. Hear our thoughts on how God guides us toward the right person, even if there isn't just one destined soulmate.

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Neglect can set in when you put your relationship on cruise control, so we’ll discuss the importance of regular check-ins, date nights, and educational activities. We’ll also open up about rekindling intimacy, emphasizing the need for open communication and mutual understanding. By valuing and investing in every aspect of your relationship, you can ensure it remains strong and fulfilling even as years pass. Tune in for practical wisdom and encouragement that can transform your relationship journey.

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In our insightful discussion on spiritual mentorship, we focus on the responsibilities of both mentors and mentees. We emphasize the importance of gratitude, support, and alignment with church leadership, reflecting on the mutual growth that comes from honoring and valuing spiritual leaders. Through our own experiences, we highlight how becoming great followers through faith and patience can ultimately lead to becoming capable leaders. Tune in for practical steps on how you can actively support your church community and proudly represent it in your everyday life.

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Have you ever wondered how a positive perspective can transform your life and relationships? Join us as we share our personal stories of growing closer to God and each other by embracing traits like patience, self-love, joy, and peace. We discuss our commitment to living joyfully regardless of circumstances, while we also open up about our quest for greater patience and self-compassion. Together, we debate who is more positive and how we can improve, aiming to inspire you to enhance your personal and spiritual growth.

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Have you ever wondered why some relationships thrive while others falter? Unlock the secrets to building lasting connections in our latest episode. Through our 25 years of marriage and 23 years in ministry, we share five essential dating dos and don'ts that could transform your relationship approach. Rooted in practical wisdom and spiritual guidance, this episode promises to leave you feeling more confident and equipped to navigate the complexities of dating, whether you're single or single again.

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What if your faith could transform your life into something miraculous? Join us as we celebrate our 100th episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we discuss the essence of faith and its profound impact on our spiritual journey. Tabitha passionately shares why faith is indispensable for pleasing God and living a Christian life, while Ken delves into the divine timing of discussing faith at this significant milestone. Our practical advice, prophetic insights, and personal stories aim to help you strengthen your faith and deepen your relationship with Jesus.

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Ever wondered if God's promises are more than just comforting words? What if they are guarantees meant to transform your life? Join us in this episode as we explore the profound impact of truly believing in and claiming God's promises. We kick off with heartfelt personal stories and scriptures that reveal how recognizing these divine assurances can lead you to the abundant life Jesus promised. Learn how to move beyond mere salvation and start actively seeking and experiencing the bountiful blessings that are rightfully yours.

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Have you ever felt like your spiritual growth has hit a plateau? You're not alone. Join us as we share their deeply personal journeys—Ken from a Christian upbringing and Tabatha from an unchurched childhood—illustrating that growing in Jesus is a lifelong adventure marked by highs and lows. Whether you're a lifelong believer or just starting to explore faith, this discussion provides valuable insights into how our diverse experiences shape our spiritual paths and the importance of constantly seeking a closer relationship with God.

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Ever wondered how to reignite faith in a marriage where one partner seems less committed to God? Or what to do when disagreements find your spouse on the couch instead of beside you? We dive into these poignant questions, offering heartfelt advice on fostering respect, prayer, and open communication. Join us as we share personal experiences and strategies to help you nurture a more harmonious and spiritually connected relationship.

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Have you ever wondered how faith and resilience can transform your pregnancy and early motherhood journey? Join us on Doing Life with Ken and Tabstha as we recount our deeply personal experiences, from the struggles of conceiving our first child, Hannah, to the unforeseen joys and trials of pregnancy. We dive into the heart of our journey, emphasizing the importance of faith, prayer, and self-care. Tabatha brings her vast knowledge and personal insights, providing new moms with invaluable tips and encouragement to thrive in their new roles.

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Have you ever wondered how to navigate the tricky waters of a marriage where faith and commitment levels differ between partners? In this heartfelt episode of "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," we promise you'll gain actionable insights into enhancing your relationship and finding fulfillment. We open up about the importance of self-examination and living a godly lifestyle to influence your spouse positively.

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Can fear be the root cause of our deepest insecurities and limitations? On this special episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we confront fear head-on, reimagining it as false evidence appearing real. Through the lens of faith, we uncover how fear tries to paralyze us, while faith propels us forward. By sharing personal anecdotes and reflections, we reveal the often-overlooked ways fear infiltrates our lives, misleading us and keeping us from God's plan. It's time to liberate ourselves from fear’s deceitful grip.

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Ever wondered what it takes to sustain a loving, committed marriage for 25 years? Join us on this special anniversary episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, where we share 25 essential marriage principles that have helped us thrive. From navigating the turbulent early years to developing spiritual maturity, we reflect on our journey and offer insights that can help you deepen your relationship with both God and your loved ones.

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Ever wonder how prioritizing a God-first life can transform your everyday experiences? Join us for an inspiring journey as we share the story behind "Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha," from the initial spark of an idea to the heartfelt decision to make it happen. We reflect on the profound impact of living with a God-centered approach and how it has enriched our lives, providing valuable insights that go beyond our weekly sermons. You'll hear about the motivations and processes that brought our podcast to life, aiming to cover a spectrum of topics such as relationships, finances, and personal growth.

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When we tied the knot, we never imagined that our road to happily ever after would include detours through depression, communication breakdowns, and a near-divorce. But here we are, 25 years later, sharing not just our lives but a bond tighter than most. Today's episode peels back the curtain on our own marriage, revealing that even the rockiest of relationships can evolve into an extraordinary love story. We've distilled our journey into keys that unlock continuous improvement, whether your marriage feels like it's hanging by a thread or it's already the stuff of fairytales. Our candid conversation serves up hope and practical steps to nourish the health of your partnership, proving that dedication and the right tools are the secret ingredients to a fulfilling, lifelong commitment.

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In this episode, we provide an array of practical tools to help you delve deeper and personalize your Bible study experience. From the convenience of digital platforms like BibleGateway.com to the intimate guidance offered by our Better Marriage Devotional, these resources support a robust and introspective engagement with the Word. Join us and be inspired to create that serene study space where you and God can meet, leading to boundless spiritual growth and an even deeper connection.

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Have you ever considered the ripple effects your generosity could create? We've committed to a 'God First Summer,' and it's revolutionized our lives in more ways than we could have imagined. Our latest episode takes you behind the scenes of our personal journey with giving, exploring the spiritual and practical dimensions of generosity. We share stories of financial miracles and deepened faith that have emerged from our dedication to tithing and supporting God's work, inviting you to experience the joy and worship found in a generous life.

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If you've ever been told to "follow your heart," prepare to have that notion turned on its head. In our latest episode, we take a hard look at the biblical wisdom of guarding your heart, with Proverbs 4:23 as our compass. We're not just talking theory here; we delve into the nitty-gritty of everyday life, from the challenges of traffic jams to the complexities of personal relationships. Whether you're single or paired up, this episode is a must-listen, revealing three essential strategies to protect your heart that someone, maybe you, desperately needs to hear.

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In this episode we unpack scriptural interpretations and personal testimonies, diving into the importance of women's voices, callings, and spiritual authority within the church. We tackle the tough discussions, from the complexities of female pastoral leadership to the joys and challenges accompanying our leadership roles in our faith community.

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Are you ready to lead your family with the heart of an encourager? In our heartfelt discussion. This episode is an invitation to anyone looking to foster a nurturing environment that bolsters personal and professional relationships alike.

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Embark on a transformative episode into the heart of what makes a marriage not just survive but thrive. We dive deep into the five qualities of a godly wife. Whether you're a woman striving to grow in these virtues or a man seeking a lifelong companion, this episode promises to enrich your understanding of love beyond the superficial.

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In this episode, we define the five non-negotiable traits to keep an eye out for in a husband, a conversation not just for the ladies but for the gentlemen too, to foster these virtues within themselves. From spiritual maturity to unwavering integrity, join us as we weave personal experiences with solid advice, helping you build a relationship that's not just for the 'gram, but for a lifetime.

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Unlock the Seven Keys to Save Your Marriage with us, Ken and Tabatha, as we delve into the heart of what it means to rekindle the flame in your relationship. This episode is a treasure trove of insight, exploring the transformative power of love and the essential role of sexual fulfillment as taught in 1 Corinthians 7. We're cracking open our own 24-year marriage diary to share personal stories and practical advice that can turn any struggling relationship around, helping you and your spouse find that intimate connection that's been missing.

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Ever wonder how a marriage can withstand the test of time and tribulations? Join us, Ken and Tabatha, as we unpack the journey of our 25-year union, revealing the transformative power of training, humility, and mentorship in personal relationships. Tap into the wisdom of our episodes as we share how embracing life's 'dream team' of mentors can guide you through the complexities of marriage and beyond.

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Have you ever felt like there's a nagging message waiting for your attention, but you're just not sure how to tune in? That's where our conversation leads us, digging into the layers of God's call and the urgency of our response. We open up about our own experiences of God's calling, including Tabatha's inspiring battle with breast cancer and our upcoming 25th wedding anniversary. Through these stories and biblical narratives, we aim to equip you with the courage to say 'yes' to God's will, teaching you to navigate the small, practical steps of faith, as well as the grand leaps.

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Embark on an intimate voyage with us as we recount the pivotal moments of our marriage, marked by both trials and victories. We reveal how the Power of the Holy Spirit breathes new life into our union, turning our struggles into shared strengths. From the metaphorical 'death' of a tumultuous past to the rebirth of our relationship, we provide insights into the profound changes that led us to a more fulfilling, God-centered marriage. It's not just our story; it's an open invitation for every listener to discover spiritual renewal within their own lives.

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In this episode, we dig deep into the spiritual trenches, we discuss how the trials we face are not merely obstacles but stepping stones to a greater narrative of victory. We spilled our hearts, revealing personal stories of overcoming fear and the all-too-real specter of illness, sharing how these experiences have fortified our faith. It's a testament to the fortitude found in joy and worship, even when adversity looms large. We're reminded that the spiritual dimension of our struggles can offer profound perspectives and help us to persevere with a conqueror's mindset.

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Facing the trials that life throws at our bedroom doors, we refuse to shy away from the tough topics—erectile dysfunction, menopause, and emotional hurdles are all on the table. In this exchange, we normalize these challenges and offer hope, guiding you through the labyrinth of maintaining closeness despite life's changes. Listen as we share our own experiences, rating our sex life with transparency and encouraging continuous effort for that ever-elusive perfect harmony. With a generous dose of practical advice intertwined with empathy, we're here to support you in seeking help and keeping the fight for a fulfilling intimate life alive.

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Embark on a journey of deepening your spiritual connections and fortifying your marriage with us, Ken and Tabatha, as we unfold the secrets to fostering a flourishing relationship in our latest episode. Discover the five integral ways to care for your wife, insights that have not only strengthened our bond but have the power to transform yours too. From understanding the unique language of love your partner speaks to the pivotal role of spiritual leadership, we share our most personal experiences and lessons learned in the hopes of guiding you and your spouse towards a more harmonious and spiritually aligned life together.

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Honoring your spouse isn't an antiquated notion but a timeless gesture that can shape the heart of a home. In this heartfelt conversation, we peel back the layers of family traditions and respect, sharing personal stories that highlight the importance of recognizing the family leader. And it's more than just who gets the last slice of pie or the best seat at the dinner table; it's about creating a culture of reverence that transcends cultural barriers and aligns with core biblical principles. It's these seeds of honor, we discuss, that blossom into a home abundant in love and respect.

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Ever find yourself in a marital spat over who left the dishes undone or whose turn it is to pick up the kids? We're Ken and Tabatha, and this week on Doing Life with us, we're taking the heat out of those hot-button issues that can turn your love life lukewarm. With Valentine's Day around the corner, we're dishing out laughter-laced wisdom on navigating the little irritations that can cause big rifts, all drawn from our two-decade dance of marriage.

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Imagine navigating life’s twists and turns with unwavering faith and a heart for mentorship. This is what we dive into as we unravel the essence of a discipleship mindset. Our latest episode isn't just about talk; it's a celebration of walking the walk. We're here to share how these personal stories are not just ours—they're signposts for others on their journey toward Jesus, demonstrating the power of living a life that stands out.

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In this episode we peel back the layers of soul ties and their role in relationships, the conversation turns to the Armor of God, equipping listeners with the shield of faith to defend against negative thoughts. Tackling the tricky terrain of the mental and emotional aftermath of past relationships, we guide you through the process of identifying and breaking free from unhealthy attachments. We also delve into the scripture's wisdom on deep emotional bonds, connecting the dots between biblical teachings and modern psychological understandings.

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We're thrilled to take you along on our adventure, revealing the untold joys and life lessons of walking in discipleship. It's not just about learning; it's about imitating and reproducing the teachings of Jesus in a way that deeply enriches every facet of life, especially the sacred bond of marriage.

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Wrap up your sleeves because we're getting practical with "10 Steps to Accomplishing Goals" and gearing up for our 90-Day Marriage Boot Camp. Whether you're hydrating more or training for a marathon, every small victory is worth celebrating, and we're here to cheer you on! We're drawing from 25 years of love and commitment to share insights that will lift your marriage to celestial heights. So, whether you're seeking to enrich your spiritual walk or elevate your relationship, tune in for an experience of growth, goal-crushing, and God-centered fulfillment. Ready to transform your year? Let's make those goals a reality, together.

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In a world bustling with quick fixes and fleeting trends, we take a step back to honor timeless practices. Weaving through the chapters of our lives, we discuss the spiritual significance and practical approaches to fasting, from the well-known Daniel fast to the simple sun-up to sun-down approach. Witness the life-altering tales of individuals like Neil, who embarked on a journey from conquering his ice cream cravings to triumph over a smoking habit. It's a candid look at how these disciplines can not only break the shackles of personal struggles but also offer a pathway toward a deeper connection with God.

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In this episode, we delve into the extraordinary power of God to transform our lives and convert our struggles into victories. Drawing from the biblical narrative of Jesus healing a blind man, we invite you to explore how this divine power can bring about a radical change in your life. Don't miss out on our conversation about the relevance of truth and holiness in the world we live in today, where we stress the vital necessity of standing by God's Word and always speaking the truth in love. If you're ensnared in the web of sexual immorality, tune in to hear our message of hope and freedom as we urge you to seek solace in the Word of God. Expect an unforgettable journey of faith, family, and transformation that will leave you inspired and eager to step into the life God has planned for you.

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Want to become a more effective leader in all areas of your life? We promise to enrich your perspective as we unpack the five C's of leadership - calling, competence, chemistry, character, and commitment. With an emphasis on the critical role of leadership within the church community, we embolden you to enhance your leadership skills in various aspects of life, such as parenting, friendships, and work.

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Can you resist the allure of sin? Can you stand firm amidst the trials and temptations of life, especially those related to sexual immorality? Join us, Ken and Tabatha, on a transformative journey battling sexual temptation head-on, dissecting its roots and understanding its far-reaching impacts on our lives.

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Join us, Ken and Tabatha, on an enlightening journey as we delve into the transformative power of extending 'Grace to Self'. Ever wondered why it seems easier to offer grace to others and yet so difficult to extend the same grace to yourself? We're here to shed light on this potent concept and help you realize that you're deserving of the same kindness and compassion you so freely give to others.

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Ever wrestled with your reflection in the mirror, wishing that you could see past your perceived imperfections? Have you allowed others' opinions and societal norms to shape your self-image? Join us as we delve deep into our own personal experiences dealing with body shame, a topic that's often brushed under the rug, but holds a significant influence on our daily lives. From grappling with racism and self-doubt to overcoming adversity, we open up about our journey towards self-acceptance and how we learned to love ourselves, our flaws, and all.

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Struggling with forgiveness in your life? You're not alone. This week on 'Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha', we navigate the complex and often winding road to forgiveness. We share personal stories of hurt, betrayal, and the journey towards letting go. We explore how forgiveness is not just an act of love, but an essential step towards healing and personal well-being. Join us as we open our hearts and share how forgiveness has helped us become more like Jesus.

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In this episode of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha, we dissect the seemingly simple but quintessential questions that can save you from potential heartache - three questions you must ask before marriage. Sharing our personal journey of 24 years of marital bliss (and occasional chaos), we offer you pearls of wisdom on managing change, setting expectations right, and the art of loving when you're not quite 'liking.'

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Get ready to journey with us as we unpack the virtues of the Proverbs 31 woman and illuminate the principles that transcend gender. Promising empowerment, our episode is a must-listen for anyone striving for growth in their spiritual journey, and a deeper understanding of the women in their lives. This is not just for the ladies, gents - this is your chance to glean deep insights into the driving forces of your mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters.

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In this episode, we address the seductive pull of worldly pleasures. The key here is a relationship with God . We caution against the allure of the world's 'coolness' and how it can compromise your holiness. Join us as we unpack these insights and more, encouraging you to truly value holiness as an essential part of your Christian journey.

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Ever felt unheard in your relationship? We, Ken and Tabatha, discuss how to initiate conversations about communication, with a focus on partners who are reluctant to open up. Our faith-based advice emphasizes the importance of prayer in navigating such delicate aspects of relationships, and we assure you, it's a game-changer!

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Ever found yourself questioning the strength of your relationship? A feeling all too familiar to us, Ken and Tabatha. We've traveled that rocky road and turned our marital agony into a pathway of hope for others. Our journey in marriage has been a tumultuous ride, filled with trials and tribulations. But, with God's grace, we transformed our relationship, and now we're here to share with you five key points that brought about a divine turnaround in our marriage.

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What if you had the blueprint to navigate the complexities of sexual sin and its consequences? Picture the liberating sense of breaking free from the chains of immorality. That's what we offer in this enlightening discussion. We pull back the curtain on how pop culture often promotes sexual sins and the ways in which these can shatter our relationship with God. Drawing inspiration from Paul's stern warnings to the Corinthian church, we underline the need to measure ourselves by the Bible's standards, not our own.

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Ever found yourself grinding your teeth when your spouse leaves the lights on, for the tenth time? We've all been there. So put on your headphones, and join us, Ken and Tabatha, on an openhearted discussion about how to navigate those "Help, my spouse gets on my nerves!" moments. We're pulling back the curtain on common annoyances in marriage and sharing strategies that have worked for us in our 24 years together.

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Welcome to an episode that promises to shake up your preconceived notions about sexuality and replace the lies with love-filled truth. We're not afraid to ask the hard questions - is living together before marriage harmful? Does our sexuality define our identity? Can we break free from the devil's lies about our worth, abilities, and circumstances?

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Ever dreamt of owning your own home but felt like it was beyond reach? Join us as we strip away the complexities of home ownership with Mike Collier, real estate mogul and financial freedom advocate. From his early days at Disney to the thrill of closing a real estate deal, Mike's story is one of determination and perseverance.

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Have you ever found yourself in a heated disagreement in front of your kids and wondered if it was a healthy environment for them? Join us, Ken and Tabatha, as we share from our two-decade-long marriage journey, on how such situations can be leveraged to teach kids life skills and dealing with conflicts. Drawing from our personal experiences as parents, we engage in a frank discussion about the fine line between being a parent and a pastor.

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Ever wondered how to create an unshakeable bond in your marriage that not only withstands the test of time but also grows stronger with each passing day? Are you eager to understand how to make your marriage divorce-proof? Join us as we embark on this enlightening journey into the realm of love, faith, and lifelong commitment. We share invaluable insights into the foundational principles of maintaining a strong, vibrant, and faithful marriage.

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We're taking you on a deep dive into the underestimated power of words and their ability to influence the course of our lives. This isn't just about cussing, it's about the vitality of our thoughts, meditations, and the choices we make with our language.

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Have you ever stopped to consider the destructive power of pride? That's right, we're turning a spotlight on this often-overlooked culprit that can wreak havoc in every aspect of our lives, from marriages to finances. We're Ken and Tabatha, and in this episode, we're taking a deep dive into pride, its dangers and subtle disguises, and how it can give rise to a judgmental spirit.

From the words of Deuteronomy 8, we unearth the perilous consequences of pride and the importance of acknowledging our source and God's grace. We're not just talking about it; we're doing something about it. We're kick-starting a humility movement, a journey towards recognizing and renouncing pride, and we're inviting you to join us. It's about navigating success without falling into the pride trap and ensuring our best moments don't lead us on a detour.

We're sharing personal stories, shedding light on the sneaky ways pride can creep into our lives, and offering insights on how to replace it with humility, accountability, and godly confidence. We'll show you how to face your pride head-on, how to respond to unfair situations, and how to put a face to those causing you pain or anger. It's an all-out battle against pride, and it starts with choosing humility and a reverence for God. So, come, let's do life together, the humble way.

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Have you ever found yourself stuck in the perilous loop of the blame game? You're not alone, and we're here to explore it together. In our conversation today, we're pulling back the curtain on blame shifting - the insidious habit of dodging accountability and pointing fingers. Let's uncover how this ancient habit, rooted in the disobedience of Adam and Eve, affects our lives today, and learn how to take personal responsibility.

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Ever wondered why some relationships flourish while others flounder? Today, we're going to guide you on a journey to unlock the answers. We start by shattering a common misconception: your satisfaction comes from God, not from being married. With insights drawn from our own experiences, both as singles and married individuals, we propose 10 transformative ways to prime yourself for marriage. Our aim is to help you step into marriage as a fulfilled individual, rather than two halves seeking completion.

Let's switch gears a bit and venture into the exciting, yet often puzzling world of dating. Cultivating an unshakeable level of inner confidence is key. No desperation allowed here! We'll explain why having a life outside of dating is just as important as the dating itself. We'll also talk about why it's essential to focus more on spiritual qualities rather than being overly hung up on physical appearances.

And finally, are you ready to make your marriage a success? We'll highlight the value of investing time in prayer, mission trips, and small groups. It's about being actively engaged in the work of the Lord. We'll also discuss the importance of being in the best shape of your life - spiritually, emotionally, and physically. And no, we're not just talking about hitting the gym, but presenting the best version of yourself in every possible way. Remember, you don't have to wait until you're married to learn about marriage. So, whether you're single, dating, or considering proposing, join us as we share our experiences and insights to guide you on your relationship journey.

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Have you ever pondered over the void that resides deep inside you, regardless of your material accomplishments? Join us as Pastor Craig Altman of Grace Family Church unfolds his captivating journey from an unconventional religious background to a profound encounter with God. This episode promises to inspire you, as Pastor Craig’s story is compelling evidence of how faith can transform your life, filling that void and bringing you uncontainable joy.

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Eat for Life Nutritional Therapy
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Picture being not just a king or queen, but a kingdom builder, tasked with amassing wealth and using it to further the kingdom of God. A task that offers immense rewards. We delve into this concept, using examples from both the Bible and modern business. Learn as we analyze scriptures like Deuteronomy 8:18, debunk the myth that money is inherently evil, and discuss the importance of wisdom in managing both natural and spiritual resources.

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Ever wondered how your faith shapes your relationships? Join us, Ken and Tabatha, as we open up about our personal journeys navigating relationships through the lens of faith. From the impact of faith on our relationships, to the importance of surrounding ourselves with the right people, we share insights based on our experiences and belief systems. We also shed light on the importance of inventorying the people in our lives and ensuring they occupy the right space.

If you've ever found yourself in a challenging relationship situation and wondered how to respond, we've got you covered. We delve into the dynamics of cultivating healthy relationships and the discernment needed to understand who to keep close and who to distance ourselves from. This wasn't an easy journey for us, but through trial and error, we've learned to set boundaries around unhealthy relationships while loving people from a distance. We also touch on the effects of bad company and the importance of investing in beneficial relationships.

This episode may challenge your perspectives, but we promise it'll leave you with valuable insights and practical strategies to navigate your relationships effectively.

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What if managing finances in your marriage was not a source of tension, but a pathway to unity and freedom? Join us as we shine a light on the significance of a shared mindset in financial matters within a marriage, and discover how transforming your perspective on money can create harmony. We discuss ways to shift from individualistic attitudes towards money to a team mindset, guided by the teachings of the Bible on the love of money. Also don't miss our invite to our annual conference, where we'll explore this topic of shared finances in marriage even further!

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Have you ever found yourself dancing on the tightrope of financial differences and disagreements in your marriage, especially when it comes to tithing or battling debts? We've been there too and we can tell you that the solution starts with open conversations, seeking agreement, and respecting individual convictions. This episode of Asking Questions Part 2 of Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha brings you real-life experiences, insights, and advice about navigating through these issues, as well as some of the most heart-wrenching and sensitive topics.

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Are you dragging yourself through the day, desperately longing for a burst of energy? Our 23-year marriage has seen its fair share of struggles, from dealing with depression to battling cancer, and we're here to share our experiences and insights on overcoming physical and emotional exhaustion. Let us guide you on a journey towards better energy management and well-being in our latest episode.

The Bowtreader Podcast
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In this episode, we talk about how laughing got us out of some of the darkest seasons of our lives. If you are having a hard time finding joy, or keeping it.. this episode is for you.

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Religionless Christianity
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Finding a church home is extremely important.. In this episode we talk all about church hurt, false prophets, making a covenant with the church, the importance of attending church and so much more. 

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We have been sober for about 22 years, and there are many reasons why. In this episode, we share our story with alcohol, and the reason we decided to stopped drinking. This is a good one, you want to sit back, grab a snack and listen to the whole thing. 

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We are back with Part 2 of "Sex God's Way" in this episode we are diving deep into how to have satisfying sex with your spouse. 

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We all go through disappointment at some time in our lives. In this video I break down what has helped me cope with the disappointments that come with life.  

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Discipline can often time be difficult to obtain because the desires of our flesh are not necessarily things that are healthy for us. In this episode I sit with Josh Baker and talk about having discipline not only in our physical life, but also spiritual. 

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Even though we may not want to go through hard things we are going to face hardships. Knowing how to process the pain is important to be able to live a better life. In this episode, we talk about the hardest things we have been through, and what has helped us process this pain. 

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Helping your kids want a relationship with God is not always the easiest task. Especially when they are being more influenced by their friends than they are by their parents. In this episode, we dive in with Chris Estrada to talk all things about how to help your children want to have a relationship with God. 

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Are you having weekly family meetings? Communication is the lifeline of a relationship. These meetings are crucial in a family so that you can talk about things to be on the same page as well as catch it before it becomes an argument due to miscommunication. In this episode, we teach you how we have family meetings. 

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Most of our lives are not lived on the mountain top, it is lived mid mountain. So we are not always having babies, getting married, graduating, getting promotions. Most of our lives are lived washing dishes, picking up kids from school, cleaning, going to work. In this episode we break down what it really looks like to have joy in the mundane things and when you do not feel like it. 

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After being married for 23 years we have great advice up our sleeve. If you are married, planning to get married, or still praying to God for a spouse this episode is for you. 

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In this podcast episode, we share principles that we learned throughout our cancer journey that taught us how to trust God.

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Arguing in a relationship is inevitable. And we are not new to it. After 23 years of marriage we have learned the do's and don'ts of arguments. In this episode we are going to show you principles of how to fight right with your spouse.

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Sex is an important part of marriage. After 23 years of marriage we have learned what to do and what not to do when it comes to sex. In this episode we talk all things how a husband can have a better sex life, this is one you want to listen to all the way. Viewer discretion is advised.

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In this episode, I sit down with Stephen Chandler to discuss his latest book “Stop Waiting for Permission.”  This powerful book serves as a step-by-step guide to maximizing any area of your life. In everyday life there are challenges that we will face and need to seek Godly counsel for, but wouldn’t it be so much easier if we had an easy-to-read guide written by someone who has successfully navigated many of the same battles? Well now you have one. Listen in as Stephen AND I examine topics such as the importance of being an aggressive learner, how to be comfortable with taking risks, how to overcome your blind spots and so much more.

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Sex is an important part of marriage. After 23 years of marriage we have learned what to do and what not to do when it comes to sex. In this episode we talk all things how a wife can have a better sex life, this is one you want to listen to all the way.

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Many will say that we are in a mental health pandemic.. In this episode we talk all things how to improve your mental health from a natural and supernatural perspective with Licensed therapist Holly Rosario.

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What is convenient Christianity? In this Episode I sit down with Josh baker and we dive deep into what it is like to be all the way in for God and not for the world. 

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How can you remove the distractions in your life so that you can see what God wants for you? In this episode, I have the pleasure to talk to Aaron Burke about all things how to find balance in life. 

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This will be your best year yet if it’s your best year spiritually. Mathew 6:33 says “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness”. In this episode, we learn how to seek God, and put Him first on our list of priorities. 

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What does God say about divorce? Everyone knows marriage is hard, it’s a job. But is it ever ok to quit that job? In this episode we talk about the importance of the covenant of marriage and why it should be valued and taken seriously. Our marriage wasn’t always enjoyable, in fact, we have been on the brink of divorce ourselves. We wanted to share with you how we became best friends after bitterness.

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Faith without works is dead and it is crucial to walk by faith- not by sight. In this episode, we reveal 10 steps to unlock healing in your life. Listen closely to hear how you can receive these principles of healing in your life today. 

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Do you need Joy? In this episode, we are chatting about the gift of joy and it’s enemies. Even when our Joy is tested, and when we do not understand why it is important to stand on the word of God and believe that He is good. When you receive the gift of Joy, it is a daily choice to protect it. 

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Ask any married couple and they will tell you that marriage is a job and though that is true, it does not have to be one you hate. After 23 years of marriage, we have cracked the code on how to have a happy, healthy marriage. In this episode, we are giving advice about keeping your expectations realistic, making sure pet peeves do not grub into a divided household, and how we personally stopped our marriage from heading to divorce. 

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Do you feel like your kids are ruining your marriage? When it comes to parenting you must set boundaries with your kids, so they do not get in the middle of having a successful marriage. After 23 years of marriage, and 3 kids later we share our knowledge on how to parent but keep the passion burning in the marriage.  

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How to believe for you Boaz or your Proverbs 31 woman. All great marriages start with a foundation of selflessness. How to make your “list” align with the agape love of God.  

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  2. Make sure that you are marriage material
  3. Go on dates
  4. Don’t be pressed
  5. Keep it Holy

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Every one of us has been affected by suicide. In our journey, we’ve both had to battle our own thoughts of suicide and fight against depression. Suicide is born from a false narrative when the enemy convinces us that our lives are not worth living. In this episode we shed light, insight, and most importantly, truth, when it comes to the lies the enemy wants you to believe.