The UnChristian Podcast: Recent Episodes
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Parenting, by itself, is challenging and demanding. How much more when you have to parent a "troubled child" - a child that either has special needs, is sickly, comes from an abusive background, one from divorced parents or is even struggling with crime and substance abuse.
Ntalo Mathebula is a parenting coach, speech therapist, children's ministry specialist and child education trainer. In this episode, we tackled this difficult topic, and she offered insightful, practical advice for such parents.
Candice Modiselle-Sello has had an illustrious career; she has accumulated many accolades and awards as an actress, presenter, brand ambassador, voice artist, and so much more at her young age. She's a household name in Africa and a highly acclaimed storyteller. In all she's accomplished, her greatest achievement has been to transform her life through the power and saving grace of Jesus, and how become a powerful force in discipling and spiritually inspiring this generation. She took us through her life-changing journey and where she is now - still in the entertainment industry, but as a transformed woman.
This is one of the most hard-hitting and insightful conversations we've had on this network. Ndumiso has a sit-down with Blaque Nubon, who is the host of the ever-popular That Husband Podcast, and he is a multifaceted creative genius.
Blaque's life journey has been marked by numerous experiences of challenge, triumph, and impact. He uses his talent as a filmmaker, musician and speaker to reach this generation with his message of growth and hope, especially for men.
This is a therapy session for men, packaged as a podcast episode, and will also help women understand men better.
Women have historically lagged behind economically, socially, and in leadership roles globally. Through her organisation, Sister's Keeper Foundation, Suzan Motseo has worked to change the narrative for women over the years.We discussed the various hurdles that women still face today in their development and empowerment. She has become a key voice in this area within the nation of South Africa and has dedicated her life to transforming the lives of women of all ages and backgrounds so they can achieve their full potential.
In this powerful and necessary conversation, we sit down with Dr. Zamahlubi Dlamini-Manana, a leading voice in psychiatry and mental health advocacy; who's also a pastor, to unpack the complex intersection between mental health and the Church.Why is mental health still taboo in many faith spaces? How can the Church move beyond silence and stigma to become a place of healing and hope? Dr. Dlamini-Manana offers clinical insight, cultural sensitivity, and spiritual nuance as we explore how theology, tradition, and trauma collide—and how restoration is possible.Whether you’re a leader, congregant, or simply someone seeking clarity and compassion, this episode invites you into a conversation we can’t afford to ignore.Topics Covered:– The spiritualisation of mental illness– Therapy vs. prayer: false beliefs– Burnout in ministry– Building mentally healthy congregations– How the Church can better support those silently strugglingRaw, real, and redemptive—this episode is a bridge between the pulpit and the therapist’s couch.IF YOU OR ANYONE YOU KNOW ARE STRUGGLING WITH ANY MENTAL HEALTH CONDITION, ADDICTION OR THOUGHTS OF SUICIDE, PLEASE REACH OUT FOR HELP:THE SOUTH AFRICAN DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY GROUP (SADAG), TOOL FREE: 0800 456 789 OR THE SUICIDE AND CRISIS LINE: 0800 657 56724/7 AND FREE OF CHARGE
Bishop Vincent Mafu, also known as the “Rated-R Bishop,” is not only a preacher but also a transformational thought leader, author, psychologist, and sought-after speaker. His bold, cutting-edge, and unconventional style makes him one of the most influential communicators and healers of our time.
In this episode, we explored the connection between spirituality and health—both physical and mental. We also discussed how physical and mental conditions can be inherited through bloodlines. Do generational curses exist even for Christians? If they do, how can we break them?
The world is currently in the biggest communications and technological shifts in history; and the question is, "How will the church take advantage of this opportunity to advance the Kingdom?"In this episode, we dive into all the technical and conceptual issues on how media and the creative arts can be used to reach our world with the message of hope effectively.We had the honour of having Tumelo "Sox" Semenya and Thabo "States" Setati of EyeListen Media, one of South Africa's premiere media houses - also in the gospel space to learn from their vast experience in the field.They're also holding the EyeCan Creative Conference on 24th May 2025 in Midrand, South Africa - a conference for all Christian creatives and media teams.Tickets are available from Quicket: https://www.quicket.co.za/events/301208-eyecan-creative-conference/For info: eyelistenmedia@gmail.com
Ncebakazi Msomi is one of South Africa's leading gospel voices since her early days at Joyous Celebration. This conversation unveils the deeper layers of this multi-talented and incredibly wise woman, which many do not know until now. She took us deep into her mind, marriage, relationship with God, professional career and the heart of her worship music; in a candid and honest chat that will leave you both inspired and challenged.
Is the Bible still relevant today, or is it just an ancient book with no real authority? In this thought-provoking episode, we challenge everything you thought you knew about the Bible. • Who decided it was the ultimate book for Christians? • Has it been altered or manipulated over time? • Is it truly divine or just a historical text?We dive deep into these questions with Pastor Israel Phiri of Shapers Church, unpacking history, theology, and controversy. Whether you’re a believer, a skeptic, or just curious, this episode will challenge your perspective. Watch until the end—you won’t believe what we uncover!🔔 Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more eye-opening discussions!
In Africa, you cannot speak of worship music and not speak about Mmuso Worship. Coming out of one of South Africa’s fastest growing churches, Mmuso Worship, this group has cemented their impact in the Kingdom of God. Founded by Pastors Koketso and Thato Molaolwe, Mmuso Worship have a vision of sharing the message and heart of Christ through song. We had an amazing chat with some of their members on their latest album, Jesus to The City Volume 2 as well as the upcoming What’s Your Next Summit. Let’s talk about it!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theunchristianpodcast/message
The debate, on whether should be allowed to preach or lead churches, still rages on in our time. While it is very clear, that throughout history and even today, God has used women mightily as ministers and leaders in the church, many still oppose this based on scripture.We looked at various angles of this conversation and an extensive conversation. Which side of the debate do you stand on?Let's talk about it...
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Ayanda Hlubi is an inspirational young woman born and bred in Tsakane in the East of Johannesburg, South Africa. She's the founder of The Whole Woman South Africa, an organisation aimed at empowering men and women to reach wholeness and holistic wellness. She is also a marketing lecturer, a speaker, event MC and radio contributor. We had an enlightening conversation with Ms. Aya to find out who the woman behind the brand and work is.
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One of the most neglected and often maligned groups of people in religious communities are single-parents, particularly single mothers. Even the church doesn't seem to know how to care and attend to them, a group that is already facing stigma and rejection from their own families and communities. In this episode Ndumiso and Dudu had an open conversation with two women who are not only single moms; but also ministers in the church. We heard of their experiences and what solutions that we implemented to solve this dilemma. Pastor Mirriam Mashego and Elizabeth Ranoto challenged the prevailing thinking on this issue and spoke with great wisdom. Let's talk about it.#singlemothers #singleparenting #singles #parenting #love
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Robot Boii is a multi-talented entertainer and artist, born and bred in South Africa. He is currently one of Africa's biggest rising stars, who's also making in roads internationally. He is loved and celebrated for his comedy, music, dancing, social media content and rapping. What many do not know about him is that is devoted Christian and leads a lifestyle that often goes again the grain of his industry. He calls it CLEAN! We took a journey with him throughout his upbringing and rise into the spotlight, how he keeps grounded and his mindset towards his work.
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Lungelo Mdletshe, also known as Lungelo KM, is a definitely one of the voices and personalities of our generation to watch. Born and bred in Durban, South Africa, Lungelo is a qualified and registered consulting engineer by profession, a master of ceremonies, content creator and the host of the Engineer Your Life Podcast. Through this talk show, he aims to facilitate conversations that change lives; and he’s definitely succeeding in that - having hosted some of the most interesting and impactful people in South Africa.
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Rev Thobile Magerman, is one of the most renowned ministry leaders in Africa. Often operating in environments where female ministers are not appreciated, she has managed to navigate her way with great authority; and is being used mightily by God. We had a candid conversation on her journey and her views on various ministry matters.
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With the South Africa, as well as 50% of the world's population, are in election year, we are running this political series to educate you about the policies of various parties and movements. Your vote matters, but it must be an informed vote!First up, is Mpho Dagada, president of Arise South Africa. He is a very gifted and intelligent entrepreneur, leader, technologist, author of 2 books, a former advisor South Africa president, Cyril Ramaphosa and is running for the office of president himself in 2024.We spoke, in-depth, on the state of the nation and his vision for South Africa.Let's talk about it...
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Pastor Gugu Mbuku, based in East London. South Africa, is a renowned ministry figure and musician. He is the founder and senior pastor of Four Winds City Church. Pastor G, as he is affectionately known is one of the most solid men and pastors that there are. An uncompromising preacher of the word, an anointed musician, entrepreneur ; he is one of sound voices of our generation.This episode is honest, insightful and life giving.
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The heated debate over tattoos and piercings within faith communities persists. Are they holy? Do they dishonour our bodies which are The Temple of The Holy Spirit? In this episode, Ndumiso and Dudu have an in-depth conversation on all the religious, cultural and societal beliefs on this taboo topic.
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It is the dream of almost every couple to bear children and start their own family. But what happens when this dream is dashed by infertility issues and other health challenges? In this episode we speak to Catherine Cokotho of Hannah's Grace, who is using her own journey and struggle in this area to encourage and coach other women through it.
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Nandipha Mlombi is a controversial public figure, reality TV star and Pastor's Wife of the Methodist Church.Her family has gone through you many challenges in the recent past; and we got a chance to speak to her about her journey and story.
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Sibu Hlatshwayo: Episode 16
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This week’s episode of Intimate Moments With… features my own pastor. Apostle Themba Manana is the founder and senior pastor of Lets Go To Glory Worship Centre, with various branches in South Africa and ESwatini.He’s a great thinker, an unconventional ministry leader, sought-out speaker and all round creative.
We also spoke about our personal journey in my life of helping me heal and be restored after divorce. We went in…
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Healing the Mother Wound with Moshitadi Lehlomela
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Apostle Motsamai Kareli
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We’ve been seeing the rise of criminal incidences in the church from brazen armed criminals who have found the churches to be easy targets. Recently, we’ve even seen pastors being shot dead in the church while preachingThere is a clear problem! We speak to Sandile Khanyile on what we can do to curb this problem. Should pastors have bodyguards? Should churches buy guns to protect themselves?Let’s talk about it.
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Sipho Mkhwanazi, affectionately known to his legion of fans as Alphi, is an incredible story of black excellence and just the pure grace of God. Popular for his TikTok content, that is not just hilarious, but also layered in deep truths and reflect our own lives. He now works with many local and international brands and MCs some of the biggest and best events. On stage, he brings what can only be described as magic, to whatever event he hosts.We get close and personal with the man behind the videos, the mic and the brand.
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Linda Yende is a prominent thought-leader and speaker in South Africa. Through his writings, talks, projects and media work, Linda impacts this generation powerfully in the areas of relationships, youth development and personal development.We had a wide-ranging conversation on manhood, relationships, the cost of failure, governance and so much more.
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Pastor Sifiso Twala has released a much needed marriage book entitled, The 40 Day Marriage Devotional. In today's times, where marriages are under attack; with the divorce rate in South Africa and in many parts of world is approaching 50%; one would be tempted to ask, "Does marriage still work?" We look at these issues with Pastor Sifiso in this insightful conversation.Let's talk about it.
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Pastor Koketso Molaolwe, founder and senior pastor of Mmuso Church in Pretoria, South Africa, is a phenomenal leader, preacher, leadership consultant and creative.Mmuso church is a unique, fast-growing, innovative and dynamic church that is making a huge impact in the nation of South Africa. This is surely a next-generation leader to watch.
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Grief and bereavement are an inevitable part of life. Whether it’s the loss of a loved one, a job, property, a relationship or opportunity; we will need to face the emotions and healing process of loss. In this episode we spoke with widow of South African gospel great, Prophet Neyi Zimu, Dr Nelisiwe Zimu as well as Bohlale Mokwele on their personal journeys with grief and how others can best deal with this experience. Let’s have the conversation.
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Unathi Mzekeli is one of Africa’s leading worship voices with whose worship ministry began 20 years ago.Having worked with some of the world’s greatest musicians and ministers. This conversation help me to discover the deep well of wisdom that he is; and we dealt with some real issues.
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We had a fascinating conversation with Mpho Ama Mohapi who is a business mindset coach. She is also a personal development coach and a podcaster. Through her work, she helps entrepreneurs and aspiring business owners master their mentality and develop productive habits. Website: www.coachamawealth.comSocial media: @coachamawealth
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The expression of; and approach to ministry often differs in various regions and locations in the world. We had a conversation with Pastor Martin Mgiba on the experiences and challenges of running ministry in the city and in urban areas. Pastor Martin Mgiba is the founder and senior pastor of Eternal Glory Church situated in Fourways, Johannesburg, South Africa. He also an author and attorney by profession.
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Xolani Khumalo is the host of the popular South African television show Sizok'thola on Moja Love channel 157 DSTV. He has personally taken on the fight against drugs in the nation and has expanded his work further through his newly established foundation. We had a chat with the man on his work and life.
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Futhi Mhlongo has hit the South African gospel music industry by storm. We sat down with her a candid conversation on life, career, marriage and mother as well as her ministry in music.
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The scourge of drug addiction is ravaging our communities in Africa at an alarming scale. Families are being torn apart, young people are having their lives and futures destroyed and governments seem to be helpless. We sat down with a recovering drug addict: Chris Mzila who is now turning his life around from addiction to drugs and changing his destiny
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Dr. David Molapo is a living legend and one of the leading speakers, leadership consultants and authors in Africa. He is the founder of I Can Holdings, the mother company of I Can 4IR, I Can Leadership Institute of Africa and others.
Having written over 50 books, he is a highly sought after speaker and extensively well travelled.
We sat down with Molapo for a heart to heart conversation with the man behind the accolades and had a vulnerable conversation on his marriage and business failures, mental health, the state of the church and nations: as well as his journey to restoration.
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This conversation delves deep into the reality of living with a narcissist. Narcissism is one of the most toxic and dangerous traits a person can possess; and can be very dangerous to those surrounding that individual. We are joined by Dr Katlego Motlhatlego and Zaz Molo who have lived experiences in this; and who share their stories with us.
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Nombulelo Tshefu is a South African gospel artist, speaker, MC and community builder. In this open and vulnerable episode, she spoke to us about her journey in the music industry as top-five finalist in the renowned music competition, "I Want to Sing Gospel", her battles with mental health, divorce and the restoration of God in her life.
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Ndumiso Mazibuko, host of The UnChristian Podcast sat down with taxation expert, Natasha Lorde as well as property expert, Nomsa Nhlabathi for a wide-ranging conversation on finances, entrepreneurship, tax matters and property investments. As the world faces hard economic times, this is the discussion you've been waiting for in order to get your personal and business finances in order. Let's have the conversation...
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Lebo Lion is known as the "Voice of Marketing" in Africa. As a leading thought-leader in the branding and marketing sector, she is a sought-after speaker, author of the book "Audacity", a podcaster and entrepreneur. We had a wide-ranging conversation about herself, business, life, relationships and the podcasting landscape in South Africa.
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Today we sit with two amazing female entrepreneurs from South Africa: Zoey Mkabela who is the founder of Volumicious Hair Care and Mpho Moshiga of Lepyatla Apparel. Both ladies are building phenomenal brands and share their journey as well advice on how to build successful businesses.
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One of South Africa's seasoned and dearly loved female minsters is Dr Thandie Ngonelo. She shared her heart openly on a wide-range of issues with great wisdom.
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On today's episode, Nandipa hosts an all-women panel to discuss all things womanhood. This conversation is an in-depth discussion on identity, relationships, parenting, abuse and development of women
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The rate of pastors who are dropping out of ministry is alarmingly high globally. With this, many are reporting poor mental health as they struggle to cope with the pressures and strain of ministry on themselves and their families. Rev. Lefoko Mokgotsi recently came out and announced his controversial decision to leave the ministry in order to focus on his mental health, marriage family. We hear his story. Let's have the conversation.
Ntokozo Ngongoma is one of South Africa's most seasoned gospel music artists and producers with a career spanning over 20 years. The "Izindlela Zakhe" hitmaker had a conversation with us - giving a rare view into his life and work.
Rape and other sexual crimes are a serious issue in our society globally, but particularly in South Africa. In this episode we hear from Mbali Lekhuleni, who was only 16 years old when she was raped at gunpoint. She shares her story of this tragic event, how she ended up shooting the assailant in self-defense and her subsequent journey of healing and restoration.
Mbali is now building her music career, has launched her the RATO Foundation and is a member of Joyous Celebration, Africa's biggest gospel music outfit.
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Sindi Ntombela is one of South Africa's powerful rising gospel artists. We had an intimate conversation.
An issue not spoken about, yet so many are living with this trauma; rape of men and boys is the dark secret in many families. Pastor Sir Montle and Ndumiso Mazibuko speak of their experiences, effects and challenges of this monster.
It's our men's conference! Society is full of broken men who are in turn responsible for many of its ills. In this episode we get to the bottom of what causes toxic masculinity, how the boy child can be raised in a wholesome manner and how men can find healing for their own wounds and traumas. We further discuss what true manhood is and how men can become better lovers and communicators.
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As we conclude our series on African Spirituality, we sat with Apostle, Mzwakhe Jezile to hear a different perspective on the matter.This episode is full of wisdom and truth on another level.
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When Prophet Clive Botha came out as a sangoma, that would also still continue practicing as a pastor, he was met with widespread anger, criticism and rejection. His decision would also cause the demise of his marriage to his ex-wife Pastor Sithembile Masilela. In this episode, we hear from them both in a no-holds-barred conversation.
One of the most controversial and divisive issues in the faith community is African Spirituality; and how it interfaces with other religions.
In this episode we sat down with our biggest panel yet that included traditional African healers (sangomas) who also subscribe as pastors and preachers of Christianity.
This is a wide-ranging discussion that ranges from the definition of African Spirituality, its various beliefs and practices; as well as how a Christian can still have a relationship with their ancestors.
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Prophet Sibongile Sithole is one of Africa's most prominent, respected and sought-after female preachers and speakers. With a ministry spanning decades, she has impacted the continent; and territories beyond; through her dynamic style of ministry and deep wisdom. She's the author of 3 books, the founder of POPLAR Frontline Foundation and co-pastor of Oasis of Life Family Church in Daveyton, South Africa. These are just but a few hats that she wears.
We sat down with her in this two-part special to learn from her ministry journey and to discuss the ever controversial topic of Women in Ministry.
Prophet Sibongile Sithole is one of Africa's most prominent, respected and sought-after female preachers and speakers. With a ministry spanning decades, she has impacted the continent; and territories beyond; through her dynamic style of ministry and deep wisdom. She's the author of 3 books, the founder of POPLAR Frontline Foundation and co-pastor of Oasis of Life Family Church in Daveyton, South Africa. These are just but a few hats that she wears.
We sat down with her in this two-part special to learn from her ministry journey and to discuss the ever controversial topic of Women in Ministry.
Part 2 coming next time!
Today we're in conversation with Cathy Sibeko on the experiences, joys and challenges of being a young makoti (young bride).
Muzi Mthabela is one of South Africa's leading actors and household names. With a successful acting career, spanning 16 years, Muzi has not only cemented his place in the entertainment industry but is also using his influence for the positive.
We had a chat with him to meet the man behind the acting, the brand and show business. We encountered a very wise, grounded and passionate man who is determined to make an impact in his world.
What a man...
Nobuntu Hlazo-Webster is a phenomenal woman, leader, social activist and entrepreneur in the media space. She is also the co-founder and deputy leader of Build One South Africa (BOSA), one of South Africa's newest and fastest growing political movements.
We had the honour of sitting down with this powerhouse to chat about her life journey, philosophies, faith and passions. We also discussed some of the ideas she shares in her book, "Fire in my Bones: Burning Everything Religion Taught me". This amazing work details how she grew and evolved in her mindset on religion and how it relates to society.
We sat down with the multi-talented gospel music sensation, Oncemore Six; as well as professional drummer, Sphelelo Mazibuko, to get a rare insight into the personal lives and careers of musicians. In this wide-ranging conversation we discussed their personal lives, growing up as PKs, the challenges of the music industry, finding their spiritual footing, the relationship of musicians and the church and so much more.
In the "Church Hurt" conversation, the side of the pastors is often never heard. Very few people understand, firstly, the the heavy responsibilities on the lives of pastors; and secondly, the hurt and wounds they carry.
We expect pastors to do everything and know everything at all times and have very little regard for their wellbeing.
In this episode, we have an in-depth and heart-to-heart conversation with Pastors Gerald Mthembi and Mojalefa Maluka who share their own experiences and pains as pastors.
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Church Hurt is certainly one of the most trending issues in the Christian world; with many citing it as their reason for dropping out of church altogether. In his latest book entitled, "Church Hurt" Apostle Brandon Bailey offers an incredibly balanced insight into this issue and helps us put it proper perspective beyond emotion and blame.
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Church drop-out rates, especially among young adults, have increased in the recent past. We had a candid chat with two favourite guests of the podcast, Dudu Nkosi and Kgotso Gila, on this worrying trend. We hope that this conversation gives some insights into what this generation is feeling thinking about church and that this will inspire the church to solve some of these issues.
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Many argue that the church been weakened, over the past few years, in terms of growth, impact and influence. Much of the state of affairs can be attributed to the "pulpit" - the leaders and what they are preaching.
In this episode, we have a chat with Pastor Israel Phiri on how we can turn this around and bring authenticity back into our pulpits.
Pastor Israel Phiri is the founder and senior pastor of Shapers Church, Randburg, Johannesburg, South Africa.
Astrology is a topic that has been widely debated among Christians for centuries, with some seeing it as a harmless form of entertainment or self-discovery, while others view it as incompatible with their faith. In this podcast, we chat to Tlhodi Ntuli, who is a practicing astrologer, ane we explore the various aspects of astrology; seek to understand what this is all about. We will discuss the origins of astrology, its different forms, and how it has evolved over time. We will also examine its claims about personality traits, future events, and compatibility between individuals. Through this exploration, we hope to provide a balanced and informed view of astrology and help you, our listeners, navigate this complex and often controversial topic in a way that is consistent with their Christian beliefs.
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In South Africa it is said, "Umjolo (dating) is a pandemic". The dating pool has become the ghetto. How can a young, spiritual person find happiness in the world of dating where, in many respects, relationships have become transactional and intentions impure?
We sit with two young adults, Dudu Nkosi and Kgotso Gila, and we chop up this issue!
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We had a heart-to-heart talk with Khaya Mthethwa on Leadership as a young man. Our conversation touched on his relationship with God, stories behind his new album, family, relationships, fathering and getting through depression. He reveals some of his deep emotions during trying times and how God strengthened him through these seasons. It's a fun, deep and insightful conversation with the man behind the stardom and pulpit; and we're so greatful for his amazing honesty and candour.
Part 2 of "Before you Say, "I Do", with the Pastors Lehlohonolo and Phindile Mazindo, explores some psychological and mental health issues that affect relationships and even marriage.
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Surprise! Yes we've brought you a surprise bonus episode for Valentines Day with Pastor Lehlohonolo Mazindo. In this audio only episode it's all about love and romance! Enjoy...
Marriage is a big step for anyone; and as such it must be taken with the greatest of caution. Many people take this decision based on emotions and do not appreciate the gravity of of this commitment. Joined by Pastors Lehlohonolo and Phindile Mazindo, we have a deep and wide-ranging conversation on all things that must be taken into consideration before you say, "I do". This is Part 1 of the discussion.
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In his books, Dr Mashudu Mbedzi asks, "If marriage had an expiry date, would you renew it?" A controversial but sobering question to ask, but one that forces us to look deeper into ourselves and our love relationships. Could you be with the wrong spouse or partner - and how can you know?
We sat down with Dr Mbedzi for a fascinating conversation on all things love and marriage and interrogated some of these uncomfortable but necessary issues.
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Very few issues are as controversial as plastic surgery. Beauty, itself, is a topic that raises debate in many circles, including houses of worship. Are we playing god by doing surgical and non-invasive enhancements to our bodies?
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It's a new year! How can you make 2023 a success? Do New Year resolutions really work? Why do so many of us fail in them.
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Mental Health is a serious pandemic in our times, affecting people of all walks of life and all class levels. Believers are not immune to this and mental health continues to be a taboo issue in houses of worship, although many believers are living with mental health conditions.
This lack of conversation and education on mental health has left many very lonely and helpless while living treatable conditions and their lifestyles could be improved.
Let's have the conversation! Let's break the stigma!
We're back with part 2 of a conversation on Spiritual Abuse. Thousands of people of faith have been spiritually abused are many still are. The sad truth is many don't know it.
When spiritual leaders take advantage of their authority and positions over their followers in order to exploit and control them, it can be very damaging to these people in many ways. In this episode, we look a the specific tactics that spiritual abusers use to fulfil their malicious intents.
Let's have the conversation!
Most Christians grow up being told that drinking alcohol is a sin and leads to hell. In recent times this issue has sparked debate among those who strongly preach against drinking alcohol and more liberal believers who have in fact found no Biblical restriction to the drinking of wine and other alcoholic drinks.
On the the other hand, our society is plagued with all kinds of ills stemming from the abuse of alcohol such as gender-based violence, drinking and driving, violent crimes, foetal alcoholic syndrome and a myriad of other health issues.
So what do we say to the issue of drinking alcohol as children of God? Let's have the conversation!
Is the age-old practice of lobola or paying a bride price still relevant in the modern era? What was the original intent behind it? How does it is practiced today? What does the Bible say about this? In this episode, we tackle this conversation; and on this one we've agreed to disagree!
We continue to delve deeper and more candidly into the issues of religion, its dangers and why we left Christianity. Religion carries bondage, legalism and traditions. It has no life. On the other hand, God is inviting us to an intimate relationship with him and citizenship in His Kingdom through Jesus Christ.
The issue of pastors and financial management, in churches, is quite a controversial one. Moreover, pastors with huge levels of wealth and riches have invited great criticism as many have been found to be involved in corruption and exploitation of their followers. But is there really a problem with a spiritual leader being rich? Is it Biblically or morally wrong? Are we just painting all spiritual leaders with the same brush? Let's have the conversation.
Places of worship are meant to be a haven of safety, comfort and development. But what happens when those in authority use their influence and spirituality to manipulate and exploit their followers for personal gain. This is called Spiritual Abuse; and in this episode we discuss this form of abuse and give insights on how to identify it.
Parenting after a divorce or break-up can be tricky. While navigating your way to finding healing and your new norm, the responsibilities of parenting are un-relenting. Today, we explore the parenting model of co-parenting with all its challenges and positives.
In this episode we discuss the various needs that both men and women have in romantic relationships. It's an enlightening conversation that sheds new light on an age old mystery; while also looking at how Christians can navigate Relationship-vile.
Oops! Did the the episode title scare you? Here we have a brave conversation on the state of Christianity and the Church; and how the church can find its relevance again. How can one find their identity and journey with God without being shackled by the chains of religion and legalism.
Get to know more about this podcast and the hosts, in this episode. We share with you the vision behind this podcast and let you get to know the hosts better.