The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast: Recent Episodes
Kathy Murray
The Successful Relationship Coach podcast is all about becoming wildly successful without having to work 24/7 so you can prosper, have the relationship you want and make an impact in the world.
In every episode I’ll share from the heart about how I’ve helped hundreds of relationship coaches become wildly successful. Every show highlights common mistakes Relationship Coaches make that will keep you from having the impact you desire and show you exactly what to do instead.
Listen as I interview successful relationship coaches about what they did to get unstuck and become wildly successful so you can do the same thing.
Whether you’re a new relationship coach who wants more clients, a seasoned relationship coach who feels stuck, or you want to become a relationship coach, this podcast will help you be successful at work, playful and passionate at home, and empower others to have lasting, thriving relationships.
Listen and subscribe to the Successful Relationship Coach podcast with Master Coach Kathy Murray, the world's best Relationship Coach, so you can stop feeling frustrated, unsuccessful and exhausted and start feeling empowered, fulfilled and authentic.
Are you tired of posting on social media and hearing crickets? What if you could use just a few simple strategies to attract your ideal clients?
You can (without having to work 24/7)! Learn all about them in today’s episode as my special guest, who handles social media for Laura Doyle, reveals:
- How to create posts that connect emotionally with your audience
- Types of posts that reach the most women
- Tips to get started if you want to begin posting
Listen here and get inspired to make the most of this powerful tool to reach more women.
Would you say yes to your own coaching package?
If you’re unsure, it’s time to make it irresistible for your ideal clients!
Learn all about the proven ways to fine-tune your offer, including:
- Your pricing
- Creating scarcity with a limiter
- Providing a bonus
So you can make it a no-brainer for women to say YES!
What’s holding you back from building the coaching business of your dreams?
Spoiler: It’s not your skills—it’s your mindset.
That’s something I still work on to this day. Because malware can be a pesky thing.
Learn the specific tool to manage your mind so you too can be a wildly successful coach.
Also, be the first to know about a FREE special event for Laura Doyle certified coaches, which is coming up May 7, 2025!
What if hosting a single event could transform your coaching business? Imagine filling your calendar with clients after just one workshop.
That’s what happened—for multiple coaches—in Australia after a weekend event in 2023.
So today I’ll share how you too can use this secret sauce, just like Laura Doyle did in her own living room years ago.
You’ll learn:
- The pros and cons of in-person versus virtual workshops
- The first step to take if you’re thinking about hosting a workshop
- How you can grow your confidence and knowledge of the Intimacy Skills, guaranteed!
Imagine if the stories of the marriages you’ve helped save could inspire dozens more women to work with you.
That’s the power of sharing your coaching wins!
Today I’ll share exactly what my mentor taught me to do so you too can inspire others.
Listen now to learn the proven pathway to attracting clients and growing your coaching business.
(Stay until the end for an opportunity to share your story in a way that reaches even more women!)
Have you ever felt like hustling and grinding your way to success just doesn’t feel right?
What if tapping into your natural feminine energy could unlock your business’s full potential?
I’ve tried the masculine approach, back when I was chasing prestige. It was exhausting!
If that approach doesn't work for you either, this episode is for you.
Imagine instead nurturing authenticity, creativity, and connection. Being sensitive… soft… intuitive… receptive… and centered…
All while attracting the coaching business you desire.
Yes! You can be feminine AND wildly successful.
Listen now to learn how to retrain your brain.
Are you making these common coaching mistakes without even realizing it?
I know I did. They cost me the transformation I could have caused. And self-esteem. Even loss of friendship.
Fortunately, you can turn around every single one of these mistakes in a hurry. I’ll share the fixes you need to thrive in your coaching practice.
Learn how to 10x your clients’ transformation. They’ll walk away saying that coaching with you is the best investment they’ve ever made.
Listen here to become a thriving, wildly successful relationship coach.
Do you feel stuck at a plateau in your coaching business?
That is no fun, I know.
So today I’ll share how you can break through and scale the impact you want to make—without working harder or burning out.
You’ll learn:
- The best way to let people know that you can help them
- How to earn affiliate income easily (even if you don’t want to deliver personally)
- A creative way to lighten your load while teaching the Skills
…All while getting plenty of self-care and being ridiculously happy!
This unique approach to becoming wildly successful will be so fun you won’t want to stop.
Does being vulnerable make you feel exposed or scared?
Me too!
It took me five years to even decide to experiment with this Intimacy Skill!
But I’m glad I did because I learned that I could…
Be imperfect.
Be authentic.
Be connected.
So in this episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, I’ll share how you can find the courage to be vulnerable with those in your life. You’ll get the secret to attracting clients and truly connecting with them.
Don’t miss the specific phrases that will help your prospects and clients feel safe and open up to you.
Learn to cause transformation while making your own marriage more deeply connected.
Talk about a win-win.
Do enrollment calls make you nervous as a coach? You are not alone!
Only one thing gets in the way of successful enrollment calls: not using a proven system.
Having enrolled thousands of students here at LDC, we have developed that proven system. One of every four women I speak with says yes.
If you’re not seeing such success on your enrollment calls, I can’t wait to share this episode with you. I’ll give you specific practical steps you can take, plus ways of being you can bring to these calls to make them effortless.
You’ll learn exactly how to have a powerful, sacred, intimate conversation that will attract the right private clients for you.
Do you have a client who keeps complaining or just isn’t getting it? Ugh, that is so hard.
I confess—I used to be one of those challenging clients myself!
So I know what it takes to turn things around with a tough client.
Having coached thousands of women, I’ve gotten to perfect the recipe for the secret sauce that causes breakthroughs.
And I would love to share it with you!
This episode is a must if you want your client to:
- Feel safe with you and not alone 2. Be open to exploring where you’re guiding her and experimenting with something new 3. Uncover her blindspots 4. Take her Intimacy Skills to a whole new level (yours too!) 5. Like how she feels when coaching with you and want to renew
You can be a conduit to the transformation of even the toughest client. I’ll show you how.
When marriage counseling didn’t work for me, things felt so hopeless.
It makes me sad to think back on that time when I didn’t think there was a solution. I felt so alone.
That’s why I was thrilled to learn that there is a radically different alternative.
And why I’m still so excited about the revolution in saving marriages, so passionate about getting the Skills into the hands of every woman.
So there’s something important I want to make sure you know…
YOU can be part of this revolution.
Whether you want to shout from the rooftops or even if you just want to take your practice of the 6 Intimacy Skills™ to the next level, this episode is for you. I can’t wait to share a valuable opportunity for you.
Imagine serving the mission to end world divorce AND keep your marriage shiny in the process—win-win!
A paying client is waiting to work with you.
She’s ready for her transformation.
Are you?
There are lots of concrete things you can do to get ready, starting before you’re even certified to coach.
In today’s episode, learn exactly how to create a following and find your first client easily.
So many women don’t yet know about the Intimacy Skills. Your tenth and even 100th client are out there waiting.
Find out how to attract them so you can fulfill your purpose as a wildly successful relationship coach!
Having conversations with women seeking help, only to have them say NO, is so disappointing.
Especially when you care so deeply and are so committed to supporting her! It’s so frustrating when you have hope for her but something gets in the way of her saying yes to herself.
I remember feeling the same way.
What was actually getting in the way was my own enrollment skills (or lack thereof).
So I can’t wait to answer one of your burning questions in this episode and share how I cracked the code to successful enrollment.
If your enrollment rate is below 25%, you won’t want to miss this one. Tune in now to discover the relationship skill that will have your prospects saying YES to themselves!
Have you stayed awake at night trying to figure out exactly how to build your business?
Have you felt stuck or too overwhelmed to move forward with your vision?
You don’t have to reinvent the wheel.
There’s a set of specific strategies you can do over and over that are proven to build a successful coaching practice.
Others have already done the trial and error so you don’t have to. Those who have come before you have paved a simple way to attract the right clients and fulfill your purpose.
And grow your own transformation at the same time—win-win!
On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, you’ll learn the ten proven marketing strategies for filling your coaching practice.
Ever wonder how our most successful coaches got where they are?
It wasn’t by sitting back expecting it to come to them, which used to be my go-to! Embarrassing, I know.
I’ll make a few other confessions from the bad old days, before I learned to become a powerful manifester of my vision as a coach.
I’m excited to share ten ways to manifest your vision.
If you think it means doing more and more work, #6 should be a welcome relief.
Learn specific steps to get motivated, inspired, and lit up. To give yourself momentum. And to attract a powerful group of people to help bring your vision to fruition. (I would love to be one of them!)
Here’s to manifesting your vision!
Why do so many women choose Laura Doyle coaches over traditional therapists when seeking help for their marriages?
In this episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, we’ll explore the key advantages that relationship coaching offers compared to therapy. Learn how Laura Doyle coaches empower women to take charge of their happiness, restore emotional intimacy, and create lasting change in their marriages—without waiting around for their husbands to do it.
Discover why relationship coaching is becoming the go-to solution for women who want real results, real fast.
Whether you’re a coach looking to grow your practice or a woman seeking better tools for a thriving marriage, this episode reveals the coaching edge that makes all the difference.
Tune in to hear why women trust Laura Doyle coaches to transform their marriages—and how you can use these insights to build a thriving coaching practice.
Have you ever been asked the difference between marriage coaching and marriage counseling? In this episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, Master Coach Kathy Murray shares what every coach needs to know when helping women who are struggling in their marriages.
You’ll discover why coaching is so effective to save a marriage and how it empowers women to take action without waiting for their husbands to change.
Whether you’re a seasoned coach or just starting out, you’ll gain valuable insights on how to explain the benefits of marriage coaching, improve your client success rate, and grow your coaching business by offering real solutions that work.
Tune in to learn how relationship coaching can transform marriages, create lasting intimacy, and give women the tools they need to feel cherished and adored.
Spending these past 100!!! weeks with you has been so valuable. I feel honored to get to be so vulnerable with you. Here’s what I’ve learned in the process.
Thank you for celebrating this milestone with me!
If you’re anything like our coaches here at Laura Doyle Connect, you have great questions…
Questions like those I’ll answer today:
- How do I get clients?
- How can I coach for Laura Doyle?
- What if I haven't experienced what my client is facing?
- What if I’m concerned about her safety?
- What if my client isn’t making progress? What if she doesn’t get her miracle?
- Why do I still need support after becoming a coach?
- How can I coach on relinquishing control of the finances if I haven’t done so?
- Can I replace my income as a relationship coach?
- Do I have to build a business as a Laura Doyle certified coach?
- Bonus question from clients: Do you have a coach who has gone through my situation?
Listen here so you can get answers and become a wildly successful relationship coach!
Seeing the pain in the world can be so heavy. Seeing the pain around you—people you care about struggling and going through heartbreak—is saddening. Especially when you know there’s a solution! Imagine having the power to heal pain. Now imagine that, rather than draining you, bringing healing to others actually helps you live your best life.
You have that power. Today I’ll share how. You’ll also learn how you can:
- Allow others to see possibility for themselves
- Shift your own focus while you’re at it
- Live a purposeful life
- Create a positive ripple effect in the world
Whether you want to attract your first client and lead your first workshop or lead group calls and speak on stage, learn the key to becoming a masterful coach here.
Come behind the curtain as I share about a collective that’s usually members only. I’ll reveal the part that moves me to tears every time. It’s just too good to keep to ourselves!
Do you ever get the urge to coach others, like friends, family or even your husband?
I bet you do your best to avoid being “helpful” like that when it’s unsolicited.
But did you know that some coaching techniques are appropriate to practice in your marriage?
Today I’ll share the 6 coaching techniques that have made a big difference in my relationship. You’ll learn how some of the same things that make you a good coach can make your marriage shiny too!
Imagine what a gift it is when everyone else is telling a woman to give up—except you. The gift of not being judged or told what to do, instead getting to be vulnerable and validated, hopeful and inspired by you.
Today I’ll share how you can be that safe haven for your client in the midst of the noise around her. You’ll learn 10 simple ways you can be a role model for what’s possible in a modern marriage. These roles keep magnetizing my ideal client and have also made my own modern marriage so sweet. I can’t wait to hear how they serve you!
Check all that apply:
- I give Laura’s books to friends and family
- I’m the one people come to when they need to unburden their heart
- I’m pained to see couples around me struggling and getting divorced
- I feel called to help when I know there’s a solution
- Or I just want to be part of Laura Doyle’s community forever
- I even watch movies through the lens of the 6 Intimacy Skills™
If you checked any of these, you may be a natural. A natural Laura Doyle coach. When you’re coach material and women come to you when you’re not even trying, it’s tempting to coach them. Which can be challenging when you don’t have Laura’s training to coach someone, even on the Skills you know so well. So today we’re talking about what really qualifies you to be a Laura Doyle relationship coach. I’ll share how you can get empowered if you want to coach others on the 6 Intimacy Skills.
What are you enrolling people in? I used to enroll the people in my life—in all the wrong things.
So today I’ll talk about how you can master the skill of enrollment, in a way that grows your vision. I can’t wait to share which Intimacy Skill will make you more enrolling.
Is your prospect having a hard time deciding whether to invest? Is your client unsure whether to renew? Today I’ll share the single most important thing you can do to give prospects and clients clarity in their decision-making. It will allow you to:
- Have a woman be able to tell you anything
- Help her consider possibilities she has never considered before
- Give her hope and empower her to single-handedly transform her circumstances
I can’t wait to share this secret sauce with you in today’s 5-minute episode!
What would it feel like for you to beam with confidence as a coach? Since that is essential to being an effective coach, today I’ll share a powerful tool to boost your Coach Confidence IQ.
Listen now to take your coaching to the next level so we can end world divorce together!
Today I’ll share why I was mortified when I found Laura Doyle 23 years ago—and why I became a coach.
You’ll learn:
- The distinction between appropriate and inappropriate control
- A powerful antidote to feeling criticized
- The secret to keeping the 6 Intimacy Skills™ alive in your relationship
I’ll reveal how you can have a relaxed, beautiful way of life where you don’t have to do it all.
It’s a thrill when a woman gets to share things with you she has never shared with anyone. And you get to give her a glimmer of hope.
So today I’ll share how conducting relationship assessments serves you and your prospect. You’ll learn how you can grow in your deep listening while making a profound difference in her life.
Over two decades into this movement, we’ve found there’s no better way to contribute to the mission to end world divorce than this one thing. I’ll reveal what that is, along with how you can:
- Strengthen your practice of the Intimacy Skills
- Become more confident and attract clients
- Be a wildly successful relationship coach!
If you’re as passionate as I am about getting the 6 Intimacy Skills™ into the hands of women, this episode is for you!
Who knew that building a multimillion-dollar coaching organization could actually strengthen a marriage? It’s a far cry from how I used to get home from work, when my marriage was in the ditch.
So today I’ll share how practicing the Intimacy Skills™ in business gives you a unique opportunity to uplevel your marriage. You’ll learn three ways of being at work that will make you magnetic at home!
The intimacy was so far gone in my marriage. Life was hard, my load too heavy. I wouldn’t wish that pain on anyone.
So today I’ll share the game changer to my happiness and what has made all the difference to creating intimacy in my relationships. I’ll reveal how you too can feel relaxed (and have a hero husband like I do)!
I’m taken aback and overwhelmed by a certain feeling… It’s by doing something that makes me nervous. But it’s also a secret benefit of becoming a coach, one you won’t want to miss.
Listen now so you can feel loved as a wildly successful coach too!
Before my guest Sonya even got married, her own pastor declared “This isn’t good.” Sure enough, she struggled for the next fifteen years, feeling doomed to suffer. Here’s how she learned to make marriage easy. Then, Sonya surprised herself some more by becoming such a successful coach that she leads group coaching calls and practicum and even trains future coaches.
She’ll share:
- Her golden ticket to becoming a leader on campus
- And what she learned when she was losing sleep over a client
Listen now so you can become a wildly successful coach too!
I can’t wait to introduce you to Coach Stephanie. She gets vulnerable about the rollercoaster ride from her husband proposing divorce to knowing she was in the right place for the first time ever.
Stephanie will reveal how she shifted from chasing success to a more feminine approach. AND what changed everything for her so she’s now attracting everything she wanted. Learn how things can get better and better for you too!
I’m delighted to introduce you to Coach Jola! In the middle of her Relationship Coach Certification program, her husband told her it wasn’t working for him. Now he’s her biggest fan—even when she stopped working with him to start her own coaching practice.
Today she reveals how she can share about being on the verge of divorcing her husband, who is prominent in their community, without them losing face. She’ll also share:
- How to avoid burnout or shiny object syndrome
- Social media and networking secrets that have women messaging her for coaching
- How to leave behind masculine energy so you too can magnetize clients
If your client isn’t open or ready for your invitation to action, it can feel like she’s splashing cold water on the whole coaching session. It’s disappointing when you’ve taken pains to share your story, only to get a no. It can be scary when your approach just isn’t resonating with her.
So here are 6 ways to respond when you get pushback so you can inspire her to experiment!
Has your client ever come down with a nasty case of the he, he, he’s? As in “He did this, he did that, he did me wrong!” Then you know how costly that can be to a coaching session.
So today I’ll reveal two ways to guide her back to where her power lies, in such a loving, gentle way that she actually appreciates it. She’ll leave the call feeling supported, inspired, dignified, all while you create transformation!
Have you been doing lots of heavy lifting trying to get your client to “get it”? Do you want to empower her to find her own answers?
It’s so rewarding when you know how to guide your client to uncover her blindspot and accountability. So today I’ll share how to ask the questions that give your client inspiration and hope. You’ll learn the key to inspiring her to be brave!
If your client comes to a call just to vent, you may find yourself needing to vent! When your time together is so valuable, this time suck can be frustrating.
So today I’ll share the one thing that gets in the way of her showing up for transformation. You’ll learn practical ways to train your client to come to the call seeking solutions. Set yourself up for success as a coach and set your client up for success too!
If you’ve felt depleted lately, there could be a culprit you wouldn’t suspect. It gets in the way of your ability to grow. And to be happy. And to be a powerful coach!
Today I’ll expose that culprit so you can get your energy back—and be dignified and respectful, vulnerable and grateful. There’s no surer way to magnetize those around you, including your future clients!
Have you had a client spend fifteen or twenty minutes telling you the whole backstory? Or talking all about him, getting stuck in the he, he, he’s? Phew! If so, then you know how costly it can be to lose the lead of a session.
So today I’ll share how to lead in a loving way. You’ll learn to set the tone on your coaching calls just like you set the tone in your own home. Here’s how you can empower your clients with the transformation they’re looking for.
If women keep saying no to your offers, that can be so frustrating. I know because I’ve been there myself as a coach.
So today I’m sharing the secret I’ve discovered to making offers with integrity. I can’t wait to share this so you can attract more clients too!
In the bad old days, my response to obstacles was the biggest obstacle to success. But the obstacles kept coming!
Fortunately, I learned some ways of showing up so the obstacles no longer persist. I’m excited to share them with you so that obstacles can become a goldmine for you too.
Have you been struggling to get motivated?
Then this episode is for you! I’ll reveal a powerful key to unleashing your energy, one you can start today. I can’t wait for you to surprise yourself with the results when you try this approach.
As I look back on over a decade of building a coaching business with Laura Doyle, one thing is clear: When I started out, I wasn’t that good at it! So today I’ll reveal how we got started—and what turned things around so things began to click.
I’ll share what has helped me grow so that building a business can become smooth sailing for you.
What if you really could have it all? In my experience, you can. But it means showing up completely differently from how I always thought a good worker should.
Today I’ll reveal how to:
- Have plenty of time for family and yourself while building a business
- Expand your time
- Leave behind being so dang busy!
Get ready for things to get as good as you can stand as a coach!
What if your client takes NO action after you coach her? That’s every coach’s nightmare! Because no action means no transformation. So today I’ll uncover the common coaching behaviors that block a client from taking action—and what to do instead to cause her aha. Learn why smaller is better when it comes to coaching. If you want to make sure your client gets new results in her life, you won’t want to miss this episode.
Who knows what’s best for a client? I do! At least that’s how I’ve felt at times, when I was attached to her results, her timeline, and what I thought she should do.
So today I’ll share something I’ve worked on for 23 years, including a big setback in my own Skills timeline (and how I was rude to Laura Doyle back then). I’ll reveal the approach I keep coming back to, so you can relax instead of doing the heavy lifting as a coach, all while making the world a better place.
I’ve spent the past decade coaching coaches on their coaching and hundreds, if not thousands, of hours observing coaching sessions. In that time, something special has unfolded, which I’m excited to share today. If, like dozens and dozens of other coaches, you want to feel less nervous or more confident—or simply take your coaching to the next level—this is for you.
Learn how such coaches have become wildly successful while 10Xing their personal transformation. And whether you are eligible for this coveted opportunity so you can become a client magnet too!
For the picture of joy, purpose, and connection, you must meet Coach Vicki! She has a good laugh at herself remembering when she thought she didn’t need the Intimacy Skills but would join Relationship Coach Training just to help other women.
She’ll share her secrets to magnetizing women in her community and place of worship without relying on social media. You’ll learn how she has caused a ripple effect in her community, where transformation with the Skills is contagious! I can’t wait to reveal how you can be an irresistible client magnet too!
Coach Kristen wanted to become a Laura Doyle Connect lifetime member so she could avoid another divorce, and she ended up a wildly successful independent coach! She’ll share her journey leaving corporate and becoming an entrepreneur, including:
- The two guiding questions that have informed her popular program offerings
- And when the desire to give can actually be a liability
I’m excited to reveal Coach Kristen’s secrets to having abundant time on her hands for what brings her joy, while also attracting lots of clients when she’s not even trying.
I’m so excited for you to get to know Laura Doyle Senior Relationship Coach Sue. She is delightful, keeping it real about being a mere mortal woman even as a coach. She’ll share:
- How it’s possible to work full-time and coach at the same time
- What gave her a profound breakthrough in the Intimacy Skills, which allowed her to let go of shame
- How she bravely transitioned from corporate to become a full-time coach with a waiting list of clients
Learn why her clients are so lucky to have her so your clients will be lucky to have you as a coach!
Speaking of vulnerable, I’m having my own breakthrough as a coach. It came up just this week when talking about my ex, surprisingly. So today I’ll reveal a crucial element that can go missing in our coaching. (Hint: Clients love it when you share this!) You’ll learn 3 questions to ask yourself so you can create connection, convey hope, and cause breakthroughs!
What if your client is going through something you’ve never even experienced? Fortunately, that need not get in the way of causing a breakthrough for her. It all comes back to the #1 element of our coaching methodology.
So today I’ll share:
A definition of deep listening that will make your coaching powerful
Specific ways to convey real empathy
How you can hone your listening skills
My coach, Laura Doyle, said something to me 22 years ago that was so impactful it’s why I continue to invest in coaching to this day!
Your coaching can be just as enrolling. So today I’ll share:
- That coaching skill modeled to me when I discovered coaching
- The key question to ask yourself as a coach so you unlock something for your client, revealing a new pathway for her
- And the secret sauce so your coaching is transformative for YOU too!
As you become a wildly successful coach, you may find it’s not sustainable just to coach one on one as your client load keeps growing.
So today I’ll share a whole new model to broaden your reach, making your services more accessible for more women. Here’s how you can save your time and energy while helping even more women!
Here’s a head scratcher for you: Why would someone become a relationship coach if she didn’t want to coach? Today I’ll share the big surprise I’ve discovered after talking to many women who have joined Relationship Coach Training even if they never want to coach a single client.
What does being wildly successful look like for them? You’ll learn what they really wanted all along and how they got it.
Being a ridiculously happy wife is not only possible; it’s plausible. My marriage, my home life, even my family have healed, thanks to the best self-improvement program I've ever taken. The transformation has been so surprising that I still pinch myself!
Are you too ready to have purpose, prosperity, and intimacy as good as you can stand? Today I'll share how you can receive, receive, receive all three!
Are you a junkie for transformation? I am! In fact, I still remember the exact words that started my ongoing journey of transformation.
Today I’ll share those words and how you can:
- Bring your best self to your relationships with your man and family, your peers and coworkers
- Have integrity as a coach
- And transform your life while you’re at it!
Now that I’ve witnessed the transformation of hundreds of women who have joined Relationship Coach Training, I’ll also reveal why I’m so confident that becoming a relationship coach ALWAYS causes transformation.
If you are a newly certified Laura Doyle coach, congratulations—you have arrived! It’s both a grand accomplishment and just the beginning. There are so many possibilities ahead of you, it’s exciting but can be overwhelming too. You’re probably anxious to start. There are so many resources available to our coaches, where do you even begin?
Today I’ll share practical steps to guide you as you begin your journey as a coach. I can’t wait to reveal the key word—and the key date—to empower you to be wildly successful from the start!
If you’re a Laura Doyle coach, you have an enormous benefit, something that’s already done for you. Whether you’re a coach or future coach, I get excited imagining you choosing to receive this benefit. That’s because I still remember when someone else did it. She changed my marriage and my life, and I’ll never forget that event 22 years ago.
So today you’ll learn:
- The magical qualities at that event so you too can transform marriages (including your own)
- The best way to become known, liked, and trusted as an expert on the 6 Intimacy Skills™
- How to deepen your own knowledge of the Intimacy Skills and inspire others while you're at it!
Something changed my life 22 years ago. And something else changed around here after years of us hearing from you. Through it all, my mentor has done a key thing to attract a tribe I'm never leaving! Today I'll share the one thing you can do consistently as a coach to attract your own tribe of like-minded women for life.
After so many years being miserable, my happiness today can be a bit much. I am surrounded by great relationships, especially with my husband, who is on a mission to make me happy. Next month is our 34th anniversary. I’ve also been receiving coaching for 30 years, so you may be able to guess my secret! But there’s more to it than coaching. Today I’ll share the real key to keeping the Intimacy Skills alive in all my relationships—and to making my marriage better than ever.
Are you tempted to squeeze in a client to be nice or helpful even though your plate is already full? I still get tempted but have learned the hard way the cost of not honoring my limits. So here’s a vital skill to cultivate as a coach if you truly don’t have the time or bandwidth to serve her. Even if you can coach anyone, today I’ll share a simple test to identify whether you’re the right fit for a prospect. You’ll learn how to stand for her AND honor yourself at the same time.
If you’re going through challenges as a coach right now, I can’t wait to share with you the key to getting through the obstacles—and becoming a magnet to those around you, including future clients. I’ll share the key ingredients for a successful relationship coaching practice, including a daily practice you can do in minutes. You’ll learn the secret sauce to our success here at Laura Doyle Connect, which made all the difference in my own transformation. Listen now so you can attract the right clients for you and keep them too!
My guest Michaela would know. She was suffering the agony of infidelity. Today she vulnerably shares her experience with that breakdown, including the difference between culpability and accountability. She also reveals:
- Why she now leaves even the most heartbreaking calls feeling over the moon.
- Her experience in both Laura Doyle Connect Practicum and Next-Level Coaching and the difference between them.
- What’s next if you’re in Coach Training or newly certified.
You’ll learn why she never wanted to leave and, in turn, her own clients never want to leave. So they don’t! If you too want clients who won’t stop renewing, click here to listen to Michaela’s inspiring way of being.
My guest Dianne shares her counterintuitive journey out of overwhelm and anxiety to seeing her heart’s desire fulfilled. She’ll reveal her instant antidote to fear. You’ll also learn her secret to flourishing as a coach—without struggle (though she is pinching herself these days)!
I can’t wait for you to meet Coach Catherine of Australia because she is an inspiration. With the births of her children, Catherine felt restless in her career in the public sector, frustrated with her family dynamic, angry and pained in her marriage. As a researcher, she knew she was not alone—and that there had to be a solution. Catherine explains what has changed the trajectory of her entire life. And how she has actually achieved that elusive work-life balance. She vulnerably shares her journey as a coach so you too can do less, not more!
Looking back, I can laugh at how scared I was to tell the story of the breakdown in my marriage. Here’s how I got over my fear… to the point that last week I shared my story more vulnerably than ever—with the whole world in Newsweek! Today I’ll share the most growth-inducing experience I’ve ever had so you can attract your own ideal clients as a wildly successful coach!
I have repelled clients. Today I'll share how so you don’t have to repeat my mistakes! I’ll also share how you can measure the difference you’re making as a relationship coach. I can’t wait to give you the key question to ask yourself as well as a free resource to help you achieve your vision—and evolve as a coach every single day.
Are you setting up your own coaching business and trying to figure out where to start? Today I’ll share the 2 steps I took that have made the biggest difference in building a multimillion-dollar coaching organization. I’m excited to share how to set up the systems and structures so everything else falls into place for you and you can show up for your clients with calm, knowing your business is in order.
Even though I knew where I wanted to grow to be highly successful, I was stuck. Today I’ll share the familiar ways of thinking that kept me stalled for weeks—and how I finally got unblocked in a big way. I’ve been on cloud nine ever since, and there’s room for you on this cloud too! Listen here so you too can take the actions to create the results you want.
If you read the reviews before you’ll even try a new restaurant, like I do, then you know how vital it is to have glowing reviews as a coach. Today we’re talking about how to create a culture where your clients pour out their success stories. I’ll share concrete tools so you can create a library of their wins and establish your credibility with future clients. And so you can celebrate as one success turns into another for all your clients!
If you ever feel like you’re not good enough somehow, you are not alone. I felt the same way. Unfortunately, such self-judgment is an obstacle to being a powerful coach. Today I’ll share how to let go of negative self-talk. Because you deserve all the praise coming your way as a coach!
Could your deeply caring heart actually get in the way of a client’s breakthrough? I know that sounds backward, but I've seen it happen so many times. So today we’re talking about the top 5 reasons coaches don’t give advice. I’ll share how you can get clear on your role as a coach on her role as a client for a powerhouse duo. Listen here so you can become the most powerful coach you can be.
I’m right! They’re wrong! That’s a natural reaction to bait, an area I’m still growing in after 22 years.
Today I’ll share 4 ways to resist bait. You’ll learn specific practices when fear or hurt come up so you can continue to transform—and so the same skills can serve you in business just as powerfully as they do in your relationship.
Have you ever found yourself in territory you don’t belong in as a coach during a session? Boy, can that be unnerving! Today I’ll share how to create connection and safety with your client, even when she brings an outside topic or you haven’t been where she is. All while growing your own personal transformation at the same time!
Is the same thing stopping you from being wildly successful that was for me? Today I’ll share 6 myths about being a relationship coach to help you uncover what could be keeping you stuck. Listen here so you can be the wife, woman, and coach you want to be—without it having to be hard work.
Want to know the secret sauce to being a successful relationship coach? Then you’re in luck! Today I’ll share how I went from being the can-do girl—i.e., overworked and resentful—to feeling loved and supported in the remarkable culture at Laura Doyle Connect. I’m excited to share a few of my favorite things on our campus, which took me from a life of suffering to one of ending suffering. You’ll learn all about the unique structure for staying the course if you too want to choose intimacy—for life.
Today we’re talking about the best way to start when you become a coach. Plus how to join us if you’re not already a coach! You’ll learn:
- 2 ways to become known, liked, and trusted as a relationship coach
- 1 specific action step to move forward in your coaching practice
- How to get unlimited group coaching calls for life and keep the 6 Intimacy Skills™ alive for yourself
I’ll share the approach we’ve used to grow our business so you can grow yours too—without compromising your relationship or having to work so hard.
After the bad old days of falling behind after back-to-back meetings all day, I’ve learned ways to manage my calendar so it feels spacious. I’ll share how, including the morning routine that sources my day. And a surprising way to find the energy to catch up on projects.
You’ll also learn:
- The key thing I use to start, end, and punctuate the day
- How to keep tasks like email from stacking up
- A weekly commitment I could not do without
- And one not-so-guilty pleasure that may surprise you
Listen now so you too can align your desires and actions, and experience the rewards waiting for you.
Coach Shanit’s marriage was in the dumps, with her husband threatening divorce even during her Relationship Coach Training. But once she graduated, she felt she knew everything. She vulnerably shares the cost of overconfidence, judgment, and lack of safety as a coach. She also reveals why clients finally started renewing (and her husband never mentioned divorce again). You’ll learn how she opened herself to something bigger than herself so all the possibilities can open to you too.
My guest Angela vulnerably shares the heartbreak that led her to become a beloved coach. The former teacher reveals:
- The difference between coaching and teaching
- How she has let go of needing to do it all
- Plus her secret for avoiding exhaustion
You’ll also learn what she does when she’s scared to receive a new opportunity so that one opportunity turns into another for you too!
I can’t wait for you to get to know the inspiring Coach Tess! She’ll reveal the question a coach asked that changed her life, an indispensable habit for success as a coach, and the one Intimacy Skill becoming a coach has really taught her. Listen now to learn the promise she says will take you where you’re meant to go!
Want to know what a woman really means when she says she can’t afford coaching? Today I’ll reveal the crucial heart message behind those words. You’ll also learn 2 ways to respond to that objection and 2 practical things you can do as a coach so your prospect can find a way to have all that she wants.
Have you tried talking to potential clients at parties, to no avail? Me too. That was before I learned the one vital element to having a sacred conversation. Today I’ll share how to create the space to have that conversation successfully. You’ll also learn all the details to consider so you can coach on your terms and women not only enroll but renew with you!
I’m sure you’re proud of the offer you’ve developed as a coach, rightfully so after your hard work! Unfortunately, all the great features you offer are not what cause a woman to say yes to herself. Today I'll share what matters way more than the benefits you offer and how you can give that to her. I’ll reveal where I now focus my energy, to the point that one of my programs is self-enrolling, with no marketing. Here’s how you too can provide the greatest impact for your prospect.
There’s one skill I’m still stretching in. After going into hiding and years of Needless Emotional Turmoil and even quitting, I learned the hard way the #1 obstacle to all the opportunities that would otherwise come your way. If you ever find yourself where I was—playing it safe, crying and fretting, or feeling like a victim—you won’t want to miss this. I can’t wait to reveal the magic word that will open you to experience what is possible for you as a wildly successful coach. On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, we’re talking about the power of receptivity as a coach.
I admit I’ve had my share of blunders in my marriage—still do sometimes. But when I get into negativity, disrespect or being undignified, I don’t like how it feels. Today I’ll share the #1 ingredient that allows me to show up as my best self in my relationship. I’ll also give you the key that will unlock the doors to being wildly successful both in your relationship and in your coaching practice. If your prospects keep saying no when you’re making offers, you won’t want to miss this one!
We’ve all heard that it’s the journey, not the destination. But what if it’s not? Today I’ll share a surprising context where the destination is actually the important part. You’ll learn the focus that repels prospects, ways of being that enroll clients, the #1 quality I look for when hiring a coach, plus the secret that Laura Doyle has taught me the past 20+ years about the best way to attract clients!
Do you ever walk away from a coaching session feeling spent? Or at a loss in solving her problem or answering when she’s asking you what to do? I did too, until I discovered what was getting in the way of my client getting her breakthrough. Today I’ll share how to increase your confidence and lighten your load as a coach—and give your clients more breakthroughs while you’re at it!
As you know by now, my journey has not been so perfect. I was once on the brink of divorce, feeling so lonely, unloved, and unsuccessful in relationships. Today I’ll share why that is now my biggest asset. I’ll also reveal how to boost your confidence in your own coaching so you can provide your clients with even more hope and transformation. You’ll learn how you can bring your personal transformation into your coaching—and how to ensure your own ongoing transformation. It’s not about being perfect but about this vital way of being instead…
I’m fortunate to know a LOT of successful coaches and get to study them up close. Today I’ll reveal key practices of the most wildly successful coaches I’ve ever met. I’ll share 3 benefits you have to experience for yourself (including a surprising benefit for your relationship)! You’ll also learn 3 key questions that will help you move toward your vision of the kind of coach you want to be. And the #1 fear that gets in the way of having a bigger impact and magnetizing way more clients. You’ll walk away with concrete tools to become one of the most wildly successful coaches too!
Do you see your clients’ success as an indicator of your own? If so, you are not alone. It’s a common pitfall, and today I'll share why. You’ll learn to turn that around using this essential practice of successful relationship coaches. And you’ll walk away with plenty to celebrate!
When your client is struggling, do you wonder how good you really are as a coach? Today I’ll share the problem with basing your success on your client’s, along with 7 alternative ways to measure your success as a coach. I’ll reveal practical systems—including specific daily, monthly, and yearly practices—that will empower you with concrete measures of your success. You’ll learn to shift your mindset so you can be a wildly successful relationship coach!
In contrast to last week’s episode on coaching for an organization, this week we’re talking about the benefits of being an independent coach. I’ll also share how you can get support in fulfilling YOUR vision as a coach. Listen now if you’re ready to make a big difference!
What’s the best way for you to be of service as a relationship coach? Today I’ll share the benefits of coaching for an organization and what it’s like compared to coaching for yourself. If you’re still finding your lane, you won’t want to miss learning about this opportunity to expand your reach and make a difference.
What do busy-ness and irritation have in common? Those are telltale signs of avoidance for me. But after receiving coaching for over 30 years, I’ve learned how to address the real issue, which all comes down to taking action. (I’ll also share what happens when I avoid that action.) Today I’ll reveal common signs of avoidance—and the antidote—so you can identify the symptoms and the cure for you.
What are you really getting paid for as a coach? How do you convey the value of what you’re providing? I’ll share the 180° transformation I experienced on a single enrollment call when I was put on the spot about how much to charge for my coaching. This is for you if you’re grappling with how much to charge or want to shift your mindset around setting your prices. Listen now so you too can experience increased prosperity!
On today’s episode, Coach Stefanie shares the fear that struck when she got certified and the clients did NOT start pouring in. How’d she get from there to her client load becoming so full she had to start saying “I can’t” to new clients? From hating the whole idea of sales to becoming a top enroller? Here's how she moved from the masculine approach to making it happen to a more feminine approach, which let things happen effortlessly. The now Senior Coach and Director of Coach Training reveals the one word to which she attributes her success as a coach.
Coach Julie gets vulnerable about her desperation and embarrassment when things got to be too much and her varnished image threatened to crumble. She gets real to answer your burning questions: How do you get clients? How do you become wildly successful? Here’s how Coach Julie found her purpose—and the courage to actually carry it out.
Relationship Coach Training changed Mila’s life. She was so excited to start coaching, but then her first client said she wanted a different coach! Mila shares how this painful experience transformed her into the well-loved coach she is today, one who is transforming Bulgaria one marriage at a time. And how that ongoing growth as a coach makes her own marriage keep getting better and better too. Listen now to learn Mila’s super manageable approach to becoming a wildly successful coach.
Have you ever wondered “Am I enough? Do I have enough to offer?” My guest, Coach Darlene, did—all the time. That internal dialogue had her frozen in fear. Here’s the one thing that made all the difference in transforming her fear to become a beloved, celebrated coach. And the question she now asks herself, which empowers her to be wildly successful. You’ll also learn how a master coach shows up on every call with every client so you too can become a sought-after coach whom clients never want to leave!
I admit it. In the bad old days, I was a bulldozer. While being the girl who could make it all happen seemed to serve me well in my career, it cost me intimacy in my marriage. As it turns out, bulldozing wasn’t the best approach in the workplace either! I never would have known that had I not tried a more feminine approach. I was amazed as I experienced getting into the flow, without striving. On today’s episode of the Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, we’re talking about bringing a feminine approach to building a coaching practice. I’ll share how to get things done with a lot less stress—and a lot more success!
As a new coach, I was not so consistent. I was afraid. So I experienced firsthand the cost of being inconsistent. Here’s how I turned things around and started to see results. Today I share all about the impact you can have by consistently sharing your story and letting people know how you can help them.
In today’s episode, you’ll discover my secrets to taking brave steps towards my vision and purpose—and what got in my way along the way. Picking up from last week, I share the most important thing I’ve found to help me make the difference I’m called to make. I reveal how you can manage your mind and your actions so you can increase your belief and realize your dream of becoming a wildly successful coach. You don’t want to miss this opportunity to be vulnerable, authentic and courageous. I believe in you and am in awe of your desires to share your stories and to coach hurting women. Thank you for the honor of standing for your greatness and witnessing you standing for your own greatness too!
Is becoming a successful coach taking longer than you’d like? This question may sound unrelated, but have you also found yourself feeling uncomfortable receiving praise from your coach or mentor? My answers were YES and YES. When I started getting coaching over thirty years ago, I could not receive someone else standing for my greatness. I was so insecure that coaching felt more like criticism at times. But today I can hear what others say and believe and receive it too. This led to success fulfilling my purpose in life, which is standing for others’ greatness! On today's episode, I share a powerful secret to turning these challenges around. Tune in today so you can receive the stand others have for you—and successfully stand for others’ greatness too!
I know this sounds weird, but waking up with an alien on my face used to stop me from pursuing my purpose to make the world a better place. Yet somehow, failing on the way to growing a coaching business was a hidden gift I didn’t see coming. In today’s episode, I’ll share how my negative Self-Fulfilling Prophecies hindered my belief in my gifts and robbed me of receiving positive feedback graciously. Now you get a chance to uncover what negative Self-Fulfilling Prophecies are getting in the way of the difference you want to make. You’ll also hear how you can grow your positive belief so you can receive, receive, receive!
How do you leave people feeling about their interactions with you? In today’s episode, I share how impactful such questions have been in my journey becoming a successful relationship coach. How does your way of being with clients compare to who you are with your kids or husband? Mine was inconsistent. I was out of integrity by not practicing what I preached—until I created a practice that changed everything. Today I’ll share the vital practice I was lacking to show up as my best self.
Putting the cart before the horse when building a coaching practice can get in the way of becoming known, liked and trusted in the marketplace. In today’s episode, I’ll share one of the biggest mistakes coaches make when they jump too quickly. I’ll also reveal the secret to attracting your ideal client and becoming trusted. You’ll learn the differences between a lead, prospect and a client. To attract all three types of women so you can be wildly successful, you don’t want to miss this episode!
Have you ever been at a party or sitting next to someone on a plane who’s interested in what you do for a living? She even seems like your ideal client so you’re getting excited, but you know it’s not the proper setting. What do you do? Or, when a friend is pouring out her pain to you and you really want to help her, how do you handle that? I’ll confess some ways I’ve handled it that I’m not so proud of. I share my mistakes as a new coach and how dearly they cost me so you don’t have to go through the same struggle I did. You’ll learn what could be getting in the way of attracting clients—and what you can do instead so you can be a client magnet!
When someone threw a stone my way, I almost let it take me down. I wanted to get defensive, but I found a way to be accountable instead. Today I’ll share how such accountability has served me on my journey to becoming a successful relationship coach. You’ll hear how I almost sold out on myself and robbed my client of her own opportunity to be accountable. And what I did to empower myself instead so you can do it too!
On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, I share what has gotten in the way of becoming a wildly successful relationship coach for me. You’ll hear about the biggest fears and failures on my journey of becoming a relationship coach. Tune in and discover how vulnerable it’s been to break through my fear to become the client and coach I’m called to be. I’ll reveal what I avoid and what I’m no longer willing to let get in the way. I can’t wait to hear whether you can relate and are ready to finally break through too!
Today I share what it means to be a successful relationship coach. But I had no idea what that meant in the beginning. In 2001, when I was working full-time and raising kids while becoming a coach, I was hiding out, not wanting anyone to know my secrets or my struggles. I’ll never forget the day I thought I made one of the biggest mistakes in my career, but I was wrong. It was the best mistake I’ve ever made…
On today’s episode of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast, I’m coming out from behind the curtain.
I share why I don’t want my pain to go to waste and what I did to cause more transformation in my personal life, my marriage and my career than anything else I had ever tried.
BIG ANNOUNCEMENT: YOUR PRESENT AND PODCAST
For my birthday today, I have a present for you and every relationship coach who wants to have a more playful, passionate relationship and help others have the same.
Drumroll, please!
Presenting...THE SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP COACH PODCAST.
Where it’s all about becoming a wildly successful relationship coach without having to work 24/7 so you can prosper, have the relationship you want and make an impact in the world.
I’m sharing all my best stuff and it’s completely free!
Episode #1 is all about ending world divorce with successful relationship coaches.
I share exactly what I did to single-handedly turn my marriage around and make it passionate and gratifying again. You’ll hear why my marriage story went viral when I shared it on the BBC and how I helped build a multimillion dollar coaching organization where I’ve empowered thousands of women to have vibrant happy marriages and hundreds of coaches to become wildly successful.
The very best way to wish me a happy birthday is by leaving an honest 5-star review of The Successful Relationship Coach Podcast on Apple Podcasts. Thanks!
I’m Master Relationship Coach Kathy Murray and Creator of Next-Level Coaching. I’ve helped thousands of women fix their marriages and hundreds of relationship coaches become wildly successful while increasing their intimacy, impact and income.
But it wasn’t always that way.
At first, I couldn’t help anybody with their marriage because I couldn’t even save my own marriages–the first one fell apart and my second marriage was looking bleak. And I wasn’t trained in coaching, or relationships. All my training was in accounting. I had a good, safe job as a Chief Financial Officer of a prestigious private school, where I made a lot of money and supported my family. I couldn’t see giving that up. We depended on the money!
So it’s kind of crazy how I ended up becoming one of the best relationship coaches in the world then helped empower hundreds of relationship coaches to become wildly successful.
But let me start at the beginning… I want to share my marriage story from an interview with my mentor, friend and coach Laura Doyle from her Empowered Wife Podcast so you can hear how I first saved my own marriage from the brink of divorce, which qualified me to become a relationship coach to help others do the same.
Welcome to the Successful Relationship Coach podcast where it’s all about becoming a wildly successful relationship coach without having to work 24/7. So you can prosper, have the relationship you want and make an impact in the world. This is about learning to do less, not more. I’m Master Relationship Coach Kathy Murray and the Creator of Next Level Coaching. I’ve helped thousands of women fix their marriages and hundreds of relationship coaches become successful relationship coaches while increasing their intimacy, impact and income, but it wasn’t always that way.
At first, I couldn’t help anybody with their marriage because I couldn’t even save my own marriages–the first one fell apart and my second marriage was looking bleak. And I wasn’t trained in coaching, or relationships. All my training was in accounting. I had a good, safe job as a Chief Financial Officer of a prestigious private school where I made a lot of money and supported my family. I couldn’t see giving that up. We depended on the money!
So it’s kind of crazy how I ended up becoming one of the best relationship coaches in the world, and then helped empower hundreds of relationship coaches to become wildly successful.
But let me start at the beginning…
I Thought It Was All His Fault
My husband and I fought about everything all the time.
Every day I told him what to wear, what to do professionally and around the house. I controlled all the money–how we spent it and invested. I would even redo the laundry he had folded or the way he’d set up the online banking because I didn’t think he had done it right.
He responded by shouting. Our home was tense and volatile, but I was sure that if Doug would only see things my way we could save our marriage.
I started going to therapy, where I would complain about how much I resented him because he never took initiative. I was exhausted from working full time, managing the household budget, and raising four children and my husband too!
There was so much distance between us that we slept in separate bedrooms. I was lonely, unhappy and devastated by the thought of a second divorce, but I also felt powerless to fix things.
I thought our failing marriage was entirely my husband’s fault, just like I believed that my first divorce was entirely my first husband’s fault.
It turns out I did have the power to save my marriage--and even to make it blissful again.
One night, I was complaining about Doug to my girlfriend--again--when she shocked me by saying, “Either shut up or else get a divorce.”
I was devastated. I booked a flight to visit my mother. I knew she would listen, and she would know what I should do.
I brought some books with me. One of them was The Surrendered Wife. Upon reading that book, I felt ashamed and embarrassed. For the first time, I realized that I was responsible for my failed marriages.
It was very painful. I sobbed that night and all the next day. I felt that Laura Doyle understood my pain because she had made the same mistakes and still saved her marriage.
But under my pain, I felt a glimmer of hope.
When I returned, I decided to experiment. When Doug asked which cell phone service plan to pick, I said, “Whatever you think.” Those were completely foreign words to me, but I wanted to test the principles I’d read in Laura’s book, so I just said what she suggested.
My husband was nervous because he was sure he would blow it and hear about it from me later, so he asked again, “No, really--what should I do?”
I said, “Whatever you think. I trust you to make that decision.”
That night we crawled into bed together for the first time in months, and Doug said, “Boy, you have been so nice tonight.”
Tears rolled down my cheeks as I thought, “Oh my gosh! This works!” I felt like I turned my marriage around in one night. That was in 2001. I fired my therapist and hired Laura Doyle for coaching instead.
I let go of how my husband managed his life, the kids and chores, and I started taking better care of myself. I even handed over the chore of managing the finances, which my husband took on because he wanted to please me.
Soon we were blissfully happy again--just like when we’d met. He surprises me with presents and romantic trips. And this is as our 27th anniversary approaches!
It seemed so simple once I learned the 6 Intimacy Skills™.
If you feel like you are in charge or you’re lonely or you can’t figure out why your husband no longer pays attention to you, I certainly know what that’s like. I had a blind spot worth uncovering to restore the intimacy in my marriage.
What made all the difference was investing in myself, seeking support and surrounding myself with a group of like-minded women. Now I’m on a journey to end world divorce empowering coaches to do the same.