【行人過馬路，安全零失誤】

行人穿越馬路時，應注意號誌燈，並循行人穿越設施通行，且勿任意穿行。行人安全過馬路，平安回家零失誤。

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開啟理解的魔法鑰匙：「我訊息」 / 當代的溝通藝術
A Magic Key to Better Relationships: The Power of "I-Statements" / Contemporary Art of Communication

在日常生活中，我們與親密伴侶或家人之間，常因家務分配等瑣事而產生爭執。許多人習慣使用帶有指責意味的「你訊息」（You-statements），例如「你都不幫忙！」，這往往會讓對方感到被攻擊，進而引發防禦和反擊。

In our daily lives, it’s common for disputes to arise with our partners or family members over seemingly small things, like household chores. Many people instinctively use accusatory "you-statements," such as "You never help out!" This often makes the other person feel attacked, leading to defensiveness and counter-arguments.

然而，有一種更有效的溝通技巧，能夠化解這種僵局，那就是「我訊息」（I-statements）。「我訊息」是一種溫和的溝通方式，它將表達的焦點從「指責對方」轉向「陳述自己的感受和需求」，讓對方更容易傾聽與理解，因為他們不會感覺到威脅或批評。

However, there is a far more effective communication technique that can diffuse these tensions: "I-statements." This is a gentler approach that shifts the focus from blaming the other person to stating your own feelings and needs. It encourages your partner to listen because they don't feel threatened or criticized.

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From My Frame to Your Frame.
拋開偏見，同步視野。
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從創新的環保產品、ESG 相關服務，
到推動聯合國永續發展目標（SDGs）的企業，
我們精選並分享每一則對地球友善的故事。

我們也關注電影、藝術與文化中
關於環境議題的呈現——因為有時，
故事的力量不亞於科學。

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無論你用中文或英文閱讀，
我們共享同一個願景：
不只是用自己的眼睛看世界，而
是能夠用心彼此理解、互相看見：
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情緒智商：職場的隱形超能力
Emotional Intelligence: The Invisible Superpower at Work

許多全球知名企業的領導者都公開表示，在招聘和晉升決策中，他們更看重 EQ 而非 IQ。其中，前 Google 高階主管 Laszlo Bock 曾指出：「在 Google，我們發現 IQ 與工作表現的相關性最低。」同樣，星巴克前執行長 Howard Schultz 曾強調，他更傾向於僱用具備同理心和人際溝通能力的人才。

Many leaders of globally renowned companies have publicly stated that they value EQ over IQ in their hiring and promotion decisions. For example, former Google executive Laszlo Bock once noted, "At Google, we found that IQ is the least correlated with job performance." Similarly, former Starbucks CEO Howard Schultz has emphasized that he prefers to hire people with empathy and strong interpersonal skills.

這背後的原因很簡單：技術能力（IQ）可以透過培訓獲得，但團隊合作、領導力、適應能力和文化契合度等軟實力（EQ）則更難以培養。在高壓且不斷變化的商業環境中，具備高 EQ 的員工能夠更好地應對衝突、激勵團隊、保持韌性，並為公司創造更積極、更具生產力的氛圍。因此，Williams 的書為所有希望在職場和生活中取得更大成功的人，提供了寶貴的洞見和實用工具。

The reason behind this is simple: technical skills (IQ) can be taught through training, but soft skills like teamwork, leadership, adaptability, and cultural fit (EQ) are much harder to cultivate. In a high-pressure and constantly changing business environment, employees with high EQ are better equipped to handle conflicts, inspire teams, remain resilient, and contribute to a more positive and productive company culture. As a result, Williams's book offers valuable insights and practical tools for anyone looking to achieve greater success in their career and life.

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