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Gettin Kinky w/ Chia
Sex is a topic on the top of everyones mind and the tip of everyones tongue. Here, your guilty pleasures are common place so we can all feel comfortable talking and learning about life, love and sexuality! Show Live Wed 8pm-9pm est www.blogtalkradio.com/gettinkinky email GettinKinky@Gmail.com blog www.gettinkinky.blogspot.com
At some point in everyone's dating history, you find yourself with a person who you wish you could change in some way to become your perfect match. It's true that people change and sometimes get better with time, but is it realistic to be with a person in hopes that they'll change to become what you want? Is it true that you cant teach an old dog new tricks?
Music is one thing that throughout the ages has had the power to inspire. But many feel that the influence of music in this generation has been inspiring the most dangerous behavior there is. Can we blame a generations behavior on pop culture?
Tis the season for the jump off? The weathers getting warmer, the cloths are getting shorter and sex drives are through the roof. If u want a cuddle buddy you'll have to wait for the winter because spring is for flings and summer is for trouble. How do seasons relate to love and dating?
There's a lot of talk about settling these days. Staying with a person "just because" is like the dating "in case of emergency" button. No one wants to settle for less than they're worth, but many people won't settle for less than perfect. Maybe that's why so many people are single these days? Are there great catches out there being overlooked by a society obsessed by perfection? Are we settling ourselves into depression?
One look, one text, any unspoken signal can be misinterpreted to welcome a come on. Is flirtation harmless fun or do we need to pay attention to who we flirt with? does this reflect a time when sex is so casual and the thrill of the chase is prefer over stability?
It seems like nice guys are starting to feel neglected. What does a woman really want, a nice guy or a bad boy?
Just because you are a mature adult, that doesn't mean you are making sexually mature decisions. There are many levels of development as we grow into our sexuality. Understanding how to crawl before we walk and walk before we run is a very important part of maturing as a sexual being. What are the results of skipping steps? And how can developing sexual maturity improve our lives?
There are all different level of intimacy. But, from commitment to casual relationships there has always been a debate about if romance the main fator in strengthening a bond or if its just a fantasized version of reality? To what extent is romance important? Is it important in jump offs? In friends with benefits? In marriage?
Half of dating games is the thrill of the chase, but like hunting, the problem surfaces after the catch when you have to figure out what to do with your new prize. And like modern day hunters, usually a catch becomes little more than a prize for the wall and when the high wares off they're out on the hunt again wat can be said of the thrill of the chase?
In the u.s. of 2007 there are approximately 13 and a half million single parents. Is this a new trend that needs to be addressed? are there rules involved in dating a person with kids? what does it mean for both parties when a kid is a factor?
Gettin out of relationship can be tough. Rebounds can sometimes be a easy way to transition back into single life. but how long after the break up does it stop being a rebound? can you turn one into a relationship? special Guest: relationship consultant Anslem Samuel creator of www.nakedwithsockson.com
Nothing is free in the world we live in, least of all our social life. So How has recession affected our love life and confidence?
The upper hand in any relationship can be a tricky thing. Is it necessary for one person to have more control allowing one to lead and the other to follow? Or can it harm the balance of any bond?
If cheating has become common place in society, does that means there are a lot of people who like to be in a relationship with someone who already in a commitment, right?
While some of us use seduction as a stress relief and some don't use it at all, others use manipulative Seduction What does this mean? How is it done? And what are the repercussions? who use it more man or women?
What makes two people compatible enough to make a relationship work? Are the qualities that we search for in a partner even compatible with our personalities or lifestyles? Is there even such a thing as compatibility or do we make our relationships work some other way? Special guest Tre Black from Power 105.1
The show topic is Should you date your friend Ex's? Some people feel that it's too taboo and you should never cross that line and Some think that as long as you get permission from your friend everything is a go. we will talk about this and more
It's easy to get caught up in the holiday hype. If the cold weather doesn't have you feeling romantic, then the holidays may certainly push you over the edge. Whether the holidays are having feeling closer to your partner or lonely because you don't have one, we want to talk about it.
when your relationship gets mundane in the bedroom, your options are limited. Either get kinkier or get bored. But sometimes, talking about your fantasies or reading erotic literature can peak your imagination and stimulate your mind and your body. We'll tell you why.
In some cultures, sex is a spiritual event with incredible powers for healing. In America, it's viewed mostly as a means for an orgasm. Are there any real benefits to having sex other than pleasure? Many doctors say yes! Find out why on the next Gettin Kinky w/ Chia. Let me know what you think and ill be sure to get your opinions on tomorrows show.
Personally, I never got the trend of marrying young. I know why my grandparents did it, and I can even understand why my parents did it. But our generation is more independent, lives longer and is under less social pressure to commit young. What leads young people to marry under these social conditions? Is there more or less stress involved? Does it work?
Now it's more common than ever for the first date to end with "goodnight sex. What can be said of today's high sexual expectations? Is pre-emotional sex helping the dynamic between men and women, or is it making it much worse?
We all know someone stuck in an on-again, off-again relationship. Sometimes they seem impossible but in rare cases really do work. What are your thoughts? Is it worth it? Or is it a bad idea to date your ex? Hear about it on this weeks show
In studio this week: Winner of VH1's hot new show "I Want to Work for Diddy" Mic Barber
Is it possible to maintain a friendship with all the benefits of a relationship and none of the obligations or heartache?
In the 21st century, conventional families barely exist. When a home breaks, who picks up the pieces? How can we salvage a seemingly hopeless situation, to have the best in mind for all involved. Join us with Naima Ince to talk about her new play "Men Always Leave." SAME DAY, NEW TIME 8-9pm
Relationships are full time jobs. It's sometimes difficult to balance a relationship and your many other obligations such as work or school. How do you deal with a busy partner AND a busy schedule?
Today Topic: Author Lesley Nurse of the Book 19 reason why he really left you honey (and How it may not be too late to get him back) will join us to talk about her new book and talk about today topic of why man will called it quits.
How have gender roles translated to the 21st century? Have they changed? Can gender roles have a positive affect on society or is it something that we have to overcome?
Life seems to be different when you're in a relationship vs. when you're single. Do relationships tend to be boring? Do singles really have more fun?
Obesity is at an all time high in America, food and drugs are decreasing our sex drive and increasing our chances for unhealthy babies. Most of us aren't even aware of the damage our lifestyles do to our bodies, and by extention, our sex lives! We will discuss how to be healthier, more flexible, and more verile. Our guest this week will answer all your questions on sexual health.
The days of pulling out chairs, and opening car doors seem to be an etiquette of the past. But hopefully all chivalry has not been sucked out of the dating game. How has the game changed, and is it for the better, or worse? What is the dating etiquette of the new millennium?
So often these days it seems as if finding a partner who will not eventually cheat on you (or visa-versa) is impossible, and it leads to the question, is cheating only natural? What makes people want to cheat? Why do people risk getting caught even when they don't want to loose their partner? What are some of your experiences either cheating or being cheated on?
Being young doesn't make someone immature any more than being old makes someone smart, so why does age seem to be such an important factor in a relationship?
Everyone thinks they know what's what when it comes to long distance relationships. These days, you should be thankful if your relationship works with your partner living next door. But doesn't absence make the heart grow fonder? How can they work, or why can't they?
In a relationship there will be many ups and downs. And if we find ourselves bored in a relationship, it is not because our partner all-of-the-sudden became boring, but because WE have settled or became stagnant. If this is the case, then pushing away your partner is not the answer. How do we know if our relationship is worth saving?
As complicated at various relationships may be, sometimes the most difficult part is knowing when to end it. Plus catch the special news segment featuring the R. Kelly aquittal.
In order to maintain certain standards in relationships, most people will choose to set their sights either too high or too low, leaving one person or both people dissatisfied. Why do we do this and how can we find a happy medium?
There are do's and don'ts of gettin kinky without gettin fired, arrested, or beat up.. It's a sexual world, and these are the laws..
What happens when people from different races, religions or backgrounds enter into a relationship? Does this melting pot country and new age make it easy, or are the differences too difficult to overcome?
Hannah Montana poses for provocative pictures, Roger Clemens has alleged affair with 15 year old girl, Jimi Hendrix sex tape, and how to go on a great date without breaking the bank!!.
What we're attracted to isn't always what's good for us, but does the choice between what we want and what we need always leave us wanting?