Living Out Loud is a podcast hosted by Jess Phillips who is an expert at bringing people together and promoting laughter and connection to sensitive, hot topics. Living Out Loud connects people from all walks of life to learn more about addictions, good (and bad) relationships and self-esteem. Each episode will ensure wonderful, bright and funny guests who are experts in their domain. Living Out Loud guarentees laughter, tears, newfound knowledge and authenticity.
Have you ever felt like you were over-giving in a relationship, or that you have asked for what you need so many times and it seems to fall on deaf ears?
Well, you might be trapped in what I like to call the anxious-avoidant dance in relationships.
In today's episode, Jess explains why anxiously attached individuals tend to gravitate towards avoidantly attached people, and why the chemistry can feel so electric; even though we know it's causing problems.
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In this episode, Jess breaks down the four main attachment styles. This episode is for anyone who would like to understand how and why they show up the way they do in relationships. In this beginner friendly take on attachment, you will learn where attachment theory originated; how our upbringing often serves as a framework for the relationships we will go on to develop; and how can we learn to become more secure in our current actions and behaviours. If you haven't done so yet, take my FREE attachment style quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/661d1b60f6411e0015043f47And, if you're ready to go even deeper into the work, apply to work with me one on one in my signature 10-week Secure Self Coaching Program which will transform the way you show up in your relationships, your career, and most importantly, with yourself: https://www.jessphillipscoaching.com
In this episode, Jess answers another great question from the audience: Why are boundaries so important and what to do if people don't respect them?
We will cover the different types of boundaries and walk through helpful, tangible steps you can take to start setting firmer boundaries in your own life.
My 10-Week Secure Self Coaching Program is now open for enrolment. If you would like to work one on one with me, please fill out a submission form on my website.
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In this episode, Jess answers questions live from listeners!
Are there specific communication strategies that can benefit couples where one partner has a secure attachment style and the other has an insecure attachment style?
Jess provides a three step framework in helping partners learn to communicate effcectley despite their attachment style. Listen to the end for a bonus tip!
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In this two-part episode we welcome back Joe Alvarez as we take another deep dive into some of the limiting beliefs that can hold us back. In this episode, Joe walks us through his nine step belief buster and shows us how we can begin to challenge many of the negative thoughts that hold us back in our personal lives, our careers, and finances.
If you are interested in a copy of Joe's 9 Step Belief Buster, please send me an email at jess@jessphillipscoaching.com and I will reply with your free copy.
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In today's episode I interview the wonderful, energetic Food Addition and Weight Loss Specialist- Meghann Alice. Meghann walks us through her battles through childhood depression and mental illness and what life looked like for her medicated and unmedicated. Meghann has found freedom through cutting out sugar and processed flour from her diet, and has also helped many others do the same. Meghann graciously shares her journey from binge eating to getting into the best shape of her life; physically, mentally, and emotionally. Join us for a fun, informative episode on how you too can find peace through food and exercise.
Meghann can be found on instagram @meghann.alice
In this episode, we welcome back human transformation coach-Joe Alvarez and take a deep dive into what types of beliefs hold us back in life. Joe is an expert in retraining the subconscious mind and always brings so much to the table. If you're feeling stuck, discouraged, or just don't know how to feel better about yourself.. this episode is for you!
If you or someone you know struggles with feelings of indecisiveness, this episode is for you. Whether we want to feel happier, build a stronger sense of community, or kick start some health habits-we often need to make a decision and stick with it.
Jess & Holistic Fitness Coach Paige Rose talk about all things wellness; and how Paige encourages individuals to stay fit not only physically, but emotionally and mentally too. Paige opens up about her struggles with alcoholism, how she overcame it, and finding love when she wasn't looking.
Are you an attention seeker? Have you asked yourself what you really might be needing in those moments? In today's episode we will cover some of the ways we find ourselves attention seeking, what we can do about it, and how we can improve our levels of self-esteem and self-worth.
In this episode, Jess walks us through the tangled web of codependent behaviours, control issues and trying to please everyone but yourself. If you're looking for ways to increase self-esteem and become a boundary boss, this episode is for you!
In her new mini episodes, host Jess Phillips takes a deep dive into common experienced struggles on the path to discipline and success, followed by an anonymous question and answer period from a trusted listener!
Gregg Champion, Recovery Coach and Co Founder of Startup Recovery gets candid about marriage, staying clean and the importance of staying transparent in all affairs. Jess & Gregg share their humbling experiences of making mistakes, learning from them and coming out stronger and clearer on the other side. If you're sober, debating on getting sober or being gently coerced to get sober, this episode is for you!
Host Jess Phillips walks us through the importance of how we connect with our primary caregivers and how that translates into our future relationships. Jess talks discusses codependency, identity and how honouring our truest self will always lead the way.
David Wolfe, Registered Dietician and Sugar Addiction Coach, shares candidly about what it what like watching his mother struggle with food addiction and how it not only affected her physically, but drastically altered her moods and behaviour. After getting rid of a 25 year Adderall addiction, David shares his experience of how and why he was bingeing on processed sugar and flour, and why he gave it up completely.
Living Out Loud's host Jess Phillips gets candid about her life, struggles with addiction and why the podcast was created. Jess opens up about her own journey with attachment injuries and how that affected her ability to relate with others in and out of romantic relationships. Jess talks openly about substance use, food addiction and learning how to move through pain instead of continually numbing it. A raw, candid look into Jess' personal history and triumphs.
Psychotherapist Laurie Poole talks about going to graduate school at 50 years old and becoming a psychotherapist specializing in couples, diverse and Emotionally Focused Therapy. We laugh, we reminisce and we talk about the joy that is to come in later life. Laurie perfectly outlines patterns in childhood that we take with us into relationships as adults; you won't want to miss this episode!
This very first episode of Living Out Loud hosts Transformational Coach, Joe Alvarez and discusses the ins and outs of change, struggle and coming out stronger on the other side. Joe discusses how he went from his lowest point in life to success and happiness helping others and changing lives along the way. Joe & Jess laugh, share and discuss how they went from rehab roommates to successful coaches and all the love, sweat and tears along the way.