let's discuss all of these paradoxical feelings, shall we?
we are remy (she/her, 18) and cecelia (she/her, 18) and we'll be having honest conversations about all the topics that pass through our minds, but don't get the time they deserve. teenage experience, expectations, navigating relationships, love, self-reflection, literature analysis: we'll be diving into all of it. don't be expecting any conclusions though...
a chat about the crazy amount of things people feel cringe about and how hard it is to break out of that mindset whether it's to do with putting yourself online, sharing your creativity or fashion, or just day to day life (why do we all have inflated egos???) follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on instagram follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on tiktok intro music by frankie doeedited by remycontact us via pristineparadoxespodcast@gmail.com
a discussion about some of the many ways social media has impacted us from friendships to aspirations for the future. our longest episode yet, let's go 💪follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on instagram follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on tiktok intro music by frankie doeedited by remycontact us via pristineparadoxespodcast@gmail.com ur mum
a chat about settling in various aspects of life of both the professional and personal. when should you settle and when should you not? is it okay to settle at different points in your life? hope you enjoy
a chat about online fandoms, viewing like celebrities like characters rather than people! hope you enjoy <3
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a chat about communication and how the way someone overexplaining and overjustifying can impact others in relationships, but can also cause stress for the person doing it! big hugs <3
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a chat about all things perfectionism; while it is completely normal to feel some level of perfectionism, it can be overwhelming and not a feeling that allows you to grow!
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a chat about labels, our personal experiences with them and how we should approach them as well as gender expression! follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on instagram follow @pristineparadoxespodcast on tiktok intro music by frankie doe edited by remy contact us via pristineparadoxespodcast@gmail.com
a chat about fomo (fear of missing out), something that cece and remy have a lot of experience of! we hope this episode serves as a reminder that you are not alone in this feeling that has become so common because of social media <3
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a discussion about the scary 'l word' aaahhhh! giving and receiving love, differentiating between platonic and romantic love, love languages and how the media has impacted our perception and expectations of our relationships: we've got a lot to unpack. hope you enjoy <3
things mentioned:
love languages quiz
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a discussion about the harsh ideas and expectations about productivity within ‘hustle culture’ online and how these don’t have to define your personal goals, habits, systems and routines! hope you enjoy <3
things mentioned:
rowena tsai (about making 'tiers' of routines)
useful time management videos...
ali abdaal
studyquill
muchelleb
Mariana's Corner
commentary videos on 'that girl'...
basicallyreese
zoeunlimited
rebecca jay
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sooooo we had a bit of a blip while trying to record the 2nd episode and we got too far from our planned topic, but this ended up being an interesting discussion nonetheless! hope you enjoy <3
disclaimer: we are both entirely aware of our privilege when it comes to discussing representation, so keep that in mind while listening :)
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a chat about gender, specifically femininity, literature. we discuss whether ideas about gender have changed over time or not, the intention around writing about gender and women in books and questioning if you are able to write a perspective from the male gaze without causing offence! hope you enjoy <3
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a chat about the stress of decision making. we cover both big decisions like applying to uni, but also the momentary choices we make every day and decisions surrounding transient things like our relationships and the paradoxical feelings within this! hope you enjoy <3
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