This Could Work: Recent Episodes
Mary Young and Mallika Viegas
Welcome to This Could Work — a podcast where we not only tout self-love, we attempt to put it into action. Join us, Mary Young and Mallika Viegas, as we explore the ever trending and sometimes monetized world of self-care. We are honest, open and above all, human. We aim to explore whether self-care practises are all they’re cracked up to be — or if they’re just another passing trend. Through meeting with different experts (scientists, therapists, friends and professionals), we explore and uncover whether these additions to our routine could have profound life long impacts.
Look, the last thing any of us want right now is another person telling us we NEED to be incorporating another thing into our busy lives; but with the right incentive and result based research we are committed to presenting self-care in a way that’s accessible. We are all about learning alongside you as we go because — growth, baby! Join us for new episodes every Tuesday.
We’re back! And we’re ready to jump into September strong — or at least we’re feeling this energetic shift in a big way. We’re so happy to be reunited with you and here we’re catching up on our summers: how we drew boundaries left, right and center, our skin care routines, and all the ways in which our bodies ached in the past 2 months — we’re so fun! and of course, we’re excited to share what Season 3 will bring! Welcome back!
We all face curveballs in life but for this weeks guest, Delia, her curveball arrived as the Big C, aka Cancer, not once, but twice in the past decade. Delia shares her journey with diagnosis, processing, prioritizing her health and how her perspective on life has changed. From ignoring signs her body was telling her to ignoring calls from the hospital – both she does not recommend – to deciding a career in law is not all she imagined it to be and learning how to stop being a people pleaser and doing what's right for her, Delia gives us the advice and wisdom we all need to hear.
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Have you ever had that friend that always has the best suggestions on books, movies, clothes — and they’re just SO cool? Well for me (Mallika), that’s Mary! And I want to know how; so that I can BE Mary. No, but for real, this week we’re diving into some fun people and places Mary visits on the internet. Because while we all might (pretend to) listen to The Daily — there are more soothing folks like book vlogs and down-to-earth influencers that you might get more out of on the reg.
Mary's list:
Bodies podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/4IAZn2jwHa5nX9BSJT8gSg?si=4b14f5203df44347
Two Hot Takes podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/6kCMPmQxqL1gO0DNtqeyQl?si=666f95ca42744c0c
Nailcou YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@Nailcou
Haley Pham YouTube (book/reading) - https://www.youtube.com/@haleypham
Ale Fehr on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alefehr/
Missy on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/missssayy/
Scout on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/scoutsobel/
On Hold Substack - https://onhold.substack.com/
Pretend it Exists Substack - https://melodyhansen.substack.com/
Niki Saint Substack - https://nikisaint.substack.com/
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Summer is in full swing and for some reason at this time of year, more than ever we feel either left out or socially burnt out. Today we discuss the concept of FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) and JOMO (Joy of Missing Out) to see what our personal triggers are for each emotion, how we grapple with the envy you feel, and which one we feel more often at this stage in our lives.
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There is a very obvious decline in empathy — even for those we love, and those that love us. But why? And why does being empathetic seem like such a strain.
This week we explore why empathy doesn’t always mean taking on the pain or struggle of someone else, and why being empathic can be a joyous experience. We also muse about what keeps us from this kind of empathy and connection and how empathy is something we build.
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There is a very obvious decline in empathy — even for those we love, and those that love us. But why? And why does being empathetic seem like such a strain.
This week we explore why empathy doesn’t always mean taking on the pain or struggle of someone else, and why being empathic can be a joyous experience. We also muse about what keeps us from this kind of empathy and connection and how empathy is something we build.
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There is a very obvious decline in empathy — even for those we love, and those that love us. But why? And why does being empathetic seem like such a strain. This week we explore why empathy doesn’t always mean taking on the pain or struggle of someone else, and why being empathic can be a joyous experience. We also muse about what keeps us from this kind of empathy and connection and how empathy is something we build.
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We all know that dancing feels good, but what about movement as a healing power. Our guest today, Jenny C. Cohen, knows about this first hand. Jenny wrote a book about her journey of recovery and healing from cancer through dance. A trained dancer (+ coach, actor, supermom), Jenny talks about movement as an everyday need — not just in a professional or designated space — but anywhere, and often. If Jenny can do butt flexes while driving, so can you!
For your free copy of "Outside In Recovery: Dancing My Way Back to My Self After Breast Cancer" at www.outsideinrecovery.com
Keep up with Jenny –
https://www.facebook.com/jenny.dance18 https://instagram.com/jennyccohen https://www.linkedin.com/in/jennyccohen https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dance-to-heal/id1683371104
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Join us this week as we chat with Elizabeth, mom of two (soon to be three) and founder of Elle Nove, a platform dedicated to honest snippets of motherhood. Liz told us about how moms can implement some simple strategies into their days to boost their self-care and create more happiness in their lives. And the best part of this chat, we talked about how unrealistic that sometimes is. We also go into foundations of self-care, ways in which we can instil these practices into our kids, without them even realizing it. Sneak attack self care!
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In this extra special episode Kira Mae Kazuko guides us through 5 minutes of mindful breathing. In just 5 minutes you’ll understand the potential of breath, and we promise you’ll feel boosted. Think you have 5 minutes for self-care today?
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Today’s guest is Kira Mae Kazuko. Kira is an instructor with the Wim Hof Method for breathwork, cold exposure and meditations. She shares her story about how she got started with breath work and how it has empowered and guided her to living life with intention. We chat about breath work being the bases of so many other things, but how focusing on the breath alone, can have profound impacts on training your mind. Join Kira for a five minute breathwork in our bonus episode!
Learn more about Kira - https://kiramaekazuko.com/ and follow her on Instagram @kiramaekazuko
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We talk a lot about what could work, but this week we're looking back at our short 30 something lived lives and the tried and true methods that have and continue to work.
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We all know there's more than meets the eye, but how does this play into self-care and the versions of ourselves we put out to the world? This week we attempt to explain posting strategies, the other side of the lens and the maybe positive aspects to an online presence — because it can't all be bad, can it?
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Astrologer Sarah L'Hrar shares with us her beautiful perspective on Astro-healing. We love this chat so much, because while we like to go into things with a healthy dose of skepticism, Sarah swayed that thinking. Instead of concerning ourselves with what’s “real” or “proven”, we focus on how we reach compassion and acceptance of self. By viewing ourselves as a reflection of the energies of the planets governing us at time of our birth, it helps us gain perspective that each of us is unique. Isn’t that a beautiful thought! Follow Sarah online at @astroauntie
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Are we self sabotaging through self-care? This week we talk about the vacuum that is self-improvement and self-care and the addiction behind this multi billion dollar industry. Because really what is this fixation on "healing" really doing for our mental health? Plus the idea that generationally, we're putting in the work for the greater good...is exhausting.
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This week we have Dr. Natasha Williams; clinical psychologist and Chair of the inaugural Association of Black Psychologists in Toronto. Dr. Williams talks with us about the accessibility of self care — particularly when it comes to race. We talk about the confines and boundaries we put upon ourselves when it comes to putting ourselves first; especially burdened with our generational “values”. Finally we discuss the importance of thriving versus the status quo of striving.
It's often easier to give than receive. We’ve talked a lot about how we create our emotions by the thoughts that we think. We can feel something, we can feel love for someone, and that feeling doesn’t just jump from our body into theirs. So when someone loves us, they feel that. We don’t. It doesn’t jump from their body into ours. So how do we know when someone loves us? How are we at receiving that love that someone is trying to show us. And what is it about our life experiences and baggage that makes that so damn difficult to believe?
Michelle Obama's wisdom - https://youtu.be/i48_768APW4
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This episode we’re doing a general check in on life; and truth be told, we’re not going our best. Turns out Mallika had Dengue, not COVID; but Mary had COVID — and self-care has frankly gone a little bit sideways. Listen in to what’s going on and how we’re coping (read: not coping) with it all.
Certified life and career coach, Ashley Marcinek dispels the common misperception that boundaries are selfish, and controlling, and offers a fresh take on personal limits as a source of freedom and liberation for everyone involved. Wait — WHAT. Shocking, we know. Beyond friends and family we dive deep into technology and the glaringly obvious gendered way we approach friendships. You know, that female urge to answer ALL notifications and make sure everyone feels seen and heard in a timely matter. Brutal. Listen in so that you can tune more people out ;)
YOU ARE SO LUCKY!!! In today's episode we talk all about another social media buzz phrase: lucky girl syndrome. When it comes to this seemingly harmless moniker, does the pendulum swing towards witchy manifestation or toxic positivity? What does this trend really mean for how we continue to compare ourselves online, and throw privilege to the wind? And is there truly a positive way to spin this in your favour?
When your day is packed with obligations, how do you find that playful side of yourself? And how do you play? That’s something we’ve been discovering in the past two weeks. Listen in to how we succeeded and failed in tapping into play time — because turns out, * spoiler alert* these scheduled type A personalities were cultivated eaaaaarly.
One of our favourite terms born out of TikTok — the ick. A perfect term to describe when we feel turned off or grossed out by certain actions or mannerisms in a significant other. On this episode, we’ve done it: we’ve cracked “the ick”. We chat about how the ick is a projection of our own insecurities and the ways in which toxic masculinity shows up when we get the ick. Turns out, if you’ve got the ick, you’re most likely the asshole.
Do you know how to play? Play is proven to help ease stress and inspire creative problem solving. So what do you do when the stresses of life stop you from playing or worse yet, you forget what play is to you? We…don’t know yet. This week Mary and Mallika incorporate (read: force) playing every day. Listen in as we theorize the benefits, cry about our forgotten childhood dreams and prepare to kick the dust off and play.
Read Overwhelmed: How to Work, Love and Play When No One Has The Time by Brigid Schulte - Mary's must read!
In this special episode we celebrate our 1 year anniversary by pointing out all the things wrong with ourselves. Not really — but a big thing we’ve learned after a year of doing this is that we’re not as grown as we thought we were — and there is always plenty of room for improvement. We chat about testing our patience, victim mentality, checking your ego and letting go of control. So you know, just a calm, cool & casual episode. We know you’ll love it.
Overwhelmed by Brigid Schulte - book recommendation from Mary
In this raw and intimate conversation, we chat about why our culture has denied death for so long, how COVID has changed the dying process, and how we can find peace in the final moments for our loved ones – and hopefully ourselves with special guest Valenca Valenzuela. After losing her father at a young age, she’s been holding space for people and end-of-life since 2007. Valenca is a Death Doula and Grief Companion. She is on a mission to take away the fear and uncertainty around the dying process. So often clouded and judged in today’s society — how we approach and observe death is something we could all use hand holding in.
We have a treat in store for you today in the form of our first Ask Us Anything episode, where we take questions from you, our listeners, and answer as many as we can throughout the episode!
You asked us questions like,
How do you get over a friendship breakup?How do I curb anxiety?How do I tell my MIL to fuck off?
You know, some real hard hitters — which, frankly, we were thrilled to answer, because you know we’re dishing out real life examples with all of these.
Our guest today Orlando Franklin, former NFL Denver Broncos offensive lineman, retired from the NFL at 30 to focus on being a father and being the best version of himself for his family. Boom. Talk about levelling up in self-care. We talk to Orlando about making this massive decision, at such a young age and how it has informed and shaped the last few years of his life. He gets incredibly real with us about the messy bits and the ongoing work you’ve got to put in to ensure that by taking care of yourself, you’re taking care of the people you love.
When did pleasure become so taboo? And how do we normalize it to ourselves, our family, our friends and our kids? These are all questions our guest Janielle Bryan answered for us. Janielle is a public health practitioner and professor who facilitates space for people to connect deeper with their desires for their body, relationships, life, and our world. She shares with us her sex-positive, sex education that focuses on the joyful, pleasurable aspects of sex and sensuality as a means of political change and a positive force toward social equity. Janielle has created an inclusive space for people to reclaim their sexuality and body agency. This week, listen in as we’re learning to overcome our fears of allowing ourselves pleasure.
Curveballs. Life throws a lot of them at us — constantly. Yet how we weather them is the true testament; and how we show up for ourselves dictates how we show up for those around us. This week we have no better teacher than Mara Hutchinson. Mara is a legally blind mom, wife and advocate. She uses her platform as an open discussion on disabilities, grief, mental health and joy. Mara is a true champion of self-care and anyone who gets a dose of Mara, can count themselves lucky. So buckle in, because you’re about to listen to a whole lot of realness and love.
Sexual healing. Wtf does that mean? This week we're looking at the healing power of pleasure and the many, many intricacies of sex and how they have steered our understanding of our own pleasure. Luckily we have an expert navigating this conversation. Sensuality Doula, Ev’Yan Whitney joins us this week and enlightens us on all things sensual. Trust us, this is one you really don't want to miss!
We’re kicking the year off with reflections rather than resolutions — because if there’s one thing 2022 taught us is to slow down and check yourself. In this episode we talk about what a transformative year 2022 was, and ways in which we’ve grown through this podcast and beyond. From huge transformations in our relationships with food and movement to ways in which we navigate and manage stress; we’re hoping that you connect with us on more than one of these points because we owe a lot of this reflection to this podcast and to you!
Our ten learnings from 2022
- Everyone sleeps differently and that’s ok — kids included - your body, their body will adjust. Stressing about it will just make it worse. 2. Stress is compounding and shows up in physical ways3. A good day starts when you go to bed4. Meditation can be found in many forms. A body scan that intentionally relaxes each muscle one by one can do wonders.5. Small things matter - sunshine, walks, deep conversations6. Intentional movement > traditional “exercise”7. Intentional eating changed my life.8. Making new friends is like dating. 9. BOUNDARIES: an ongoing learning experience10. Stretching matters
Stretch with Mallika and Adriene on YouTube
Food and the Holidays — a conversation old as time. We've all obsessed over eating "badly", eating excessively, just eating in general — flip, it's exhausting. What a perfect time for us to wrap up our thoughts on intuitive eating. We had some real epiphanies y'all. From food being a measure of self-worth, to healing our inner child — we're rounding off this year strong — and dipping into a little of everything we've learned this past year. What a trip.
Because self-care has always been thought of (and marketed) as something practiced primarily by women, men are behind the curve and may not even know where to begin. Well, why not right here with our in house experts - our husbands - say hello to Michael and Doug. "Experts in what?", you may ask. Well, in being themselves — and in being completely open and honest about their experiences with self-care. Listen in on our double date and ways in which these two manage to inspire each other in more ways than we ever have.
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the cinderella story of Nick Nurse
This week we’re exploring Intuitive Eating and what that means to us an individuals. Some people might imagine an all-potato-chip diet when they hear about this approach but for each of us it’s not only different, it’s all A-ok. This episode we talk about our relationship with our bodies and hunger — and our path to making peace with food.
This week we chat with author and relationship expert, Natalie Lue. Natalie sparked all kinds of epiphanies during our talk as we explored self-care, or lack there of in relationships — romantic or otherwise. From “nice guys” to “good partners don’t fight” — we broke down our favourite and outrageous relationship offenders. Trust us, you’re not going to want to miss this one.
Read Natatlie's blog Baggage Reclaim and listen to her podcast The Baggage Reclaim Sessions.
PS. don't forget to save the date for her new book releasing January 3rd 2023!
Today Mary & Mallika discuss the need for a break and the importance of listening to your body before burnout. You know that feeling when you reach the point where you’re physically, emotionally, and mentally exhausted due to prolonged and excessive stress at work? Ya, that leads you to burnout. You start to malfunction in your daily life, work less and become unproductive. Nobody willingly burns themselves out. We all want a productive and stress-free work life so we remain our best selves for the rest of life. In this episode we discusses why taking breaks daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, and yearly is crucial to rejuvenating our body and rewiring our minds.
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Book recommended by Mary - Overwhelmed: How to Work, Love and Play When No One Has the Time by Brigid Schulte
Join Mary for her first solo episode as she dives deep with Dr Courtney Ranieri, Naturopathic Doctor on all things hormones and gut health. The conversation explores what your gut biome actually is, hormonal myths and if those viral TikTok carrot salads are actually beneficial. Sit back and take notes on this one as you'll leave ready to eat well, and everything you want and maybe, just maybe add in a little Metamucil Fibre.
Follow Dr Courtney Ranieri on Instagram and learn more about Blossom Co's research driven and naturally focused approach.
We have a BIGGIE for you today! The Chloe Wilde (entertainment personality and wellness mentor) joins us on the pod to talk success, time management and listening to your body WHILE literally doing all the things. Super fun, super informative, super engaging — I think we made a new bestie, we think you will too.
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Does self-care mean only essentials? This week we tally up our cost benefit analysis of self-care and make some startling discoveries. Are we so hyper focused on the marketing mold that is “self-care” that we’re discounting so many other things that fill our cup. Spoiler alert: yes.
This week we’re adding it all up! Time, money, energy — how much are we actually spending on self care daily? Mallika and Mary make their predictions based on time, money and even location. Like the cost for personal self-care in Costa Rica is drastically different than LA — which adds up to drastically different self care wants versus needs. We’re hoping that this can be an eye opening discovery into what kind of care we think we’re allot for ourselves versus the factual numbers. This is the kind of math we’re on board for. Add with us!
This week on the pod we’re talking to Prayag Menon — a stylist and staple in the fashion scene. Besides being featured by huge names like Elle, Vogue, GQ etc. he and his husband have built up a (very busy) life based on trust, personal growth and boundaries. We talk about the necessity of self-care in a relationship, the accessibility of services to men and the ways in which to prioritize yourself constantly and unconditionally.
While the urge to shelter is strong (fall vibes) — Mary and Mallika have put the whole "fresh air" hypothesis to the test. And this week we talk about our findings, both personal and scientific. From circadian rhythms, to dressing the part, to 1km long driveways — we chat up a storm (pun intended) on the benefits of going outside every single. damn. day.
Say hello to our first guest of season 2! This week Dr Linda Carlson chats with us about her work in oncology and psychosocial interventions. A clinical psychologist and professor, Linda has some damn impressive research on the link between mindfulness and cancer. We dive into her research and how it has not only affected patients, but her own life as well. Linda’s academic expertise and personal reflection really had us hanging on every word. This chat was a much needed perspective shift that gave so much meaning to quality over quantity.
And just like that, we're back for season 2! We know, you've been counting down the days and it's finally here. Join us as we catch up on our summer days, or for Mallika, rainy days, where our life is at now – including what self care routines we're still practicing – and the intro to our newest self care routine of going outside first thing in the morning. Plus what this season holds and the new changes coming!
As Mary and Mallika close out season one, we sit and talk candidly about the joys and trials from a season of growth. One thing we can firmly agree on is that connecting with you and our experts while growing our community of self-love has been incredibly fulfilling. Thank you for the love and support. Seriously, we are soooo crunchy now. Listen in as we discuss season two and the spicy things we have in store.
We’ve been open to receiving and giving for a solid week now — or at least we thought we were. Luckily this episode we have on our special guest and expert Kendra Adachi — certified life coach and general chaser of full-body, fuck-yes life experiences. AKA someone very knowledgable on the art of giving and receiving. Kendra guides us through what can only be seen as a therapy-lite session. We discover what it really means to be receiving and practical ways in which we (and you!) can go about crafting better relationships and even letting go of ones that don’t serve us anymore. Listen in as we go deeper into embracing the “woo-woo” life and maybe becoming less cynical versions of ourselves. Weird.
On this week’s episode Mallika and Mary make the startling discovery that maybe self-care practices like Gua Sha aren’t about what you’re doing but that you’re taking the time to do it. Ground breaking, we know! We’re also kicking off our latest soon-to-be habit of being open to receiving and giving. Listen in as we a) struggle to explain this b) figure out why it’s so damn hard to receive help, support, love, etc. and c) psychoanalyze the shit out of each other — lots of mother wounds to unpack. Join us right here, right now.
We're a week in and we’ve been draining the sh*t out of our lymph nodes. But for real it’s been one of the nicest forms of self-care we’ve experienced thus far. And to further solidify our choices we are thrilled at the opportunity to have a true expert in our midst. This week we chatted with Patricia San Pedro, author of Face Fitness and TikTok star of all things Gua Sha and lymphatic drainage. Aside from being a fountain of knowledge (and youth), Patricia is a mum of four and a huge proponent of self-care. She fills us in on proper techniques and the ways in which she strives to fill her cup.
This week we’re putting 3 pages to bed but not completely putting down our pens. We’ve gotten in the groove and hoping that our rambling journal habit continues beyond these two weeks. We’re also kicking off a new challenge: lymphatic drainage, more commonly referred to as Gua Sha. Our superficial sides are very excited at the aspect of sculpting our faces and halting aging — but we’re looking at the holistic side of this practice as well. There must be more to this 700 year old practice than a DIY face lift, right?
We’ve been writing 3 pages every morning for the past week and we want to check in! For one thing, writing has been tough and surprising. Especially when you get a couple pages in, ie. the sweet spot. On this episode we were lucky enough to discuss that with an expert. Buster Benson is a writer and founder of 750words.com, which is a service that has helped half a million people develop a private journaling practice. A morning pages master himself, Buster has been journaling for over a decade. Mary and Mallika talked to Buster about how to get the most out of your writing and have him sign off on the only acceptable situation in which you can talk about yourself in the third person.
Have you heard? Morning pages are going to change your life – they are going to give you better art, better relationships, better mental health and a clear head. Or so we've been told. This week we're exploring the practice of putting pen to paper and word vomit writing 3 pages every morning. Three. pages. every. damn. morning. Does your hand hurt thinking about it, or does your brain spin trying to figure out juggling morning schedules? Ours too. But we're up for the challenge. This episode Mary and Mallika fill you in in the background of this tried and tested method that aims to inspire creativity and reach higher senses of enlightenment. We also chat logistics; because this was all well and good in our twenties, but we got things to do and places to be — so let's see if enlightenment has time for us.
Is #realgirl the new #thatgirl? Maybe not — we'll work on the hashtag but this week we're wrapping up intentional movement and checking in with Mary and Mallika on how it’s all going so far. Have we managed to keep multiple self-care routines in place simultaneously, have we fallen off the wagon, have we forgotten the topic of this episode and rambled on for most of it? Maybe! But it’s a good one, and most importantly it explores the realistic side of Self Care instead of the monetized, insta-hyped versions we are already seemingly failing by striving for. Join us for the real real.
One week of intentional moving and it’s rewiring our brains! Truly. On this episode we have on Andrea Barber, the founder and creator of the online movement platform: A Few Fun Moves. AFFM focuses on feel good, fun movement that you an access anywhere, anytime, all at your own pace. A fitness industry veteran, Andrea talks to us about how the industry is designed with very specific “goals” and “outcomes” in mind. We chat about removing the guilt, and how a week into thinking this way has already made a profound impact. You don’t want to miss this one it not only could work, it could change your life!
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It's a new week and we’re getting fit! Except not in the way you’re thinking. This episode we’re looking at intentional movement by unlearning everything we’ve been taught about the fitness industry along the way. Mary and Mallika wrap up their thoughts on meditation, chat about their journey with movement and what it’s meant for their mental health and relationships with their bodies and fitness. They sign on with A Few Fun Moves, a platform designed to incorporate intentional movement and considerate fitness wordage. Essentially this time round we’re on a mission to squash our inner fit-obsessed, insta-hoe and boost hot girl walks and mindful movement. Growth, baby!
Save 50% on your first month with A Few Fun Moves with code THISCOULDWORK and start the 14 day program today.
One week into meditation and it’s still a fairly intimidating practice and seemingly impossible to get “right”. In this episode Mary and Mallika dive deeper into trendy self-care practices versus shaping the exercise to suit your own needs and growth. Mallika shares her own meditation experience in the hopes that she can convince Mary — that this (in one way or another) could work! Find out if we’re zen or destined to be kinda batshit forever.
In this episode we wrap up our verdict on cold showers — and we’re very surprised and hope you’ve surprised yourself as well. We also kick off our newest experiment and one of the OG’s of self-care: meditation. With promises of lower stress, improved focus, and the potential to teach you to be less of an asshole to yourself and to others — we’re still not sold. Listen in as we wonder why being alone with ourselves sounds like the worst.
One week and we’ve been cold showering everyday. Surprise, surprise: it still feels frigid AF. But we’re learning that maybe that’s the whole idea. On this episode we speak to Amanda Laine — founder of Othership and all round ice bath enthusiast. She fills us in on the science behind why we hate them, but are still weirdly addicted. After all, as all self care states: no pain, no gain — right?
Have you ever thought to yourself “I’d love an ice cold bath right now...” Neither have we. But we’re doing it — for science! This week Mallika and Mary dive into cold therapy via ice cold showers. We know it’s the trendiest thing right now, but we want to know if there’s more to it than “aesthetics”. Dating back centuries we’re sussing out if cold water therapy could work and turn us non-believers into polar swimmers.
Seven days into Sleep Hygiene and spoiler alert it is not going well. We dive into this episode frustrated and honestly — more tired than ever. Enter: Dr. Kristine Wilckens, a professor in the Sleep and Chronobiology Center in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Pittsburgh. Her research focuses on how sleep structure can be altered to enhance cognitive function (woah). Mary and Mallika share their sleep habits in the hopes that Dr. Wilckens’ research and insight scares them into good habits. Listen in and find out if we took the doctor’s orders or if we’re doomed to be sleep deprived and ultimately suffer premature deaths. It’s a fun one, we promise!
Round two and we’re tackling sleep. Specifically the buzziest of buzz phrases: “sleep hygiene”. Mary and Mallika venture into the world of getting better sleep — and hopefully wake up feeling more well-rested. Listen in as we kick off our sleep week, scared. Because tbh, we don’t know if this could work. Join us and let’s catch some Z’s.
Read along with Mary – Why We Sleep: Unlocking the power of sleep and dreams by Matthew Walker Phd
14 days of mirror work and we may never be the same again. Mary talks worthiness, Mallika is pretty much a therapist and we find out we both shaved our faces as children. Safe to say we're very into ourselves right now. Listen in as we conclude if this — Mirror Work — could work.
We are in some challenging times right now, our friends. And in stressful times, self-care can seem frivolous or selfish. We get that — we feel that. On this bonus episode we chat about the role of self care in times like these. Because frankly, we know a lot of you are running on empty. We’re sharing some ways we’re wrapping our brains around self-care and the ways in which you can give yourself permission to indulge. It’s not (just) about salt baths and chocolate cake: it’s about making the choice to build a life you don’t need to regularly escape from.
We're seven days in of incorporating mirror work into our daily routine – fun fact, it's not called mirror talk. Some surprising revelations have already come to light and even more epiphanies have arose as we chatted with Libby Moore certified life coach, international speaker and founder of LoveX Global. Libby has been utilizing mirror work for over seven years and can whole heartedly say it has changed her life. We dive deep into the realities and benefits of mirror work plus some love for our queen Oprah – Libby was her Chief of Staff and mentored by Oprah herself for over ten years. Join us for our check-in and what we hope to see over the next seven days!
Learn more about Libby at www.libbymoore.com and follow her at @libbymooregypsytour
Read You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay
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For our very first episode we dive in to positive affirmations, more importantly mirror talk and are committed to seeing if it's all that it's cracked up to be. You may choose to use positive affirmations to motivate yourself, encourage positive changes in your life, or boost your self-esteem – brining these positive affirmations to the mirror can have a lasting impact. If you frequently find yourself getting caught up in negative self-talk, positive affirmations can be used to combat these often subconscious patterns and replace them with more adaptive narratives. But.... does saying positive affirmations and "I love you's" in the mirror actually work? How do you get past the cringe-worthy awkwardness of it all? This episode we're kicking off 14 days with mirror talk and positive affirmations – some real daily self-love.
Welcome to This Could Work — a podcast where we not only tout self-love, we attempt to put it into action. Join us, Mary Young and Mallika Viegas, as we explore the ever trending and sometimes monetized world of self-care. We are honest, open and above all, human. We aim to explore whether self-care practises are all they’re cracked up to be — or if they’re just another passing trend. Through meeting with different experts (scientists, therapists, friends and professionals), we explore and uncover whether these additions to our routine could have profound life long impacts.
Look, the last thing any of us want right now is another person telling us we NEED to be incorporating another thing into our busy lives; but with the right incentive and result based research we are committed to presenting self-care in a way that's accessible. We are all about learning alongside you as we go because — growth, baby! Join us for new episodes every Tuesday.