Don’t Let The Selfies Fool You!: Recent Episodes
Nyckki Cervantes
My husband Anthony and I have been married ELEVEN beautiful blessed years. We discovered after many blowouts and breakdowns in communication, tools to help US get US. Join our journey and discover how we continue to grow, heal, and evolve as individuals AND as a married couple. Not being the representative or who we thought we should be for each other, but by telling the truth in love, being vulnerable and accountable to one another AND being our authentic selves. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/nyckki-cervantes/support
Today we dive in, after a long day with deadlines, meetings and errands to run. We take time to talk about how He shows up when we least expect Him. We discuss why we still stand despite what our flesh thinks and feels. We do we still move forward even thought we might be tired. Sound familiar? Join with us today.
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A mentor once told us ,"Take one is better than none." We shared this three outtakes with you this morning in hopes to encourage you to just allow Holy Spirit to use you as your gift will make room for you. It doesn't have to be perfect AND how honesty is FREEDOM!
Remember God loves and accepts you for you! His perfect plan His considered when he anointed and appointed you for your earthly assignment! It ALL works together for your good ! Lastly, laughter is truly healing for the soul! God Bless
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Take 2.. we thought!
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Today's outtakes and bloopers.. what just happened!
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Join us as we continue to share how we are growing, healing and learning more about each other and the love of our Heavenly Father through everyday experiences. Make sure to go back and listen to the outtakes 1-3 from this morning's breakdown...lol. We are not ashamed to be raw, open and share with you the REAL deal on being married and how challenging it is at times to be a "good christian", while processing past issues.
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Today my husband and I chew on what gifts of ours were birthed out of pain and trauma in our childhoods, marriage and as individuals and how God's hand has been on our lives since day one.
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Join us as we recap and discuss what came up for us so far as individuals and a married couple, since reading the previous chapters. We talk candidly and transparent about our thoughts, feelings , expectations. We also share some of the things Holy Spirit has revealed to us, heal us and restored us on a deeper level. How our relationship and understanding for God's love as demonstrated by Christ death, burial and resurrection is demonstrated daily in our marriage as well. Through forgiveness, grace, patience, and accepting one another as we are with hope, prayer and faith believing who God called us to be.
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Join us for another unscripted episode as we deep dive into how drugs affect children and change the trajectory of everyone's lives involved. Also we discuss my personal relationship with the Lord( then and now) as my Heavenly Father.
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Join us as we get into Chapter 10 and discuss mental health and finding peace within traumatic circumstances.
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Join us today as we deep dive into my relationship and the dynamics between my father and I. We also talk about how God is a good father to all and is available to heal, restore and deliver to anyone that is willing to ask for help. My husband also talked about how this all played out in the early years of our marriage as we both came with "our baggage."
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Happy Thanksgiving! Join us as we have a discussion on violation and how it showed up in our marriage. Also talk about the gratitude of the love of God and how He was there even in the darkest times, where I felt trapped and alone as a child. Remember Holy Spirit is our comforter and His job is to be there for us , even when we don't understand through experiences beyond our control.
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Join us today as we talk about a mixed bag ( with no coffee!) lol and debrief on what life was like as a single child going into a marriage and early childhood memories learning about God and forming relationships with others.
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Join us today as we discuss domestic violence relationships and trauma bonding. We provide hope and resources for those who may be ia victim ( past or present relationship) of domestic violence.
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Join us as we continue to deep dive into my book Butterfly Chronicles as we have an organic Holy Spirit led conversation on parental family history as its trauma ( fatherless children, and various abuse) and the affects. How God never leaves us but will send lighthouses along our paths. We also share two books that have help us heal our relationship with each other and Father God. I recommended , "Seeing God as the Perfect Father and Seeing You as Loved, Pursued and Secure": By Louie Giglio. Anthony recommended, " Power of a Praying Husband": By Stormy Omartian
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Happy Sunday! Today we were led by Holy Spirit to talk about how discussing the book, gave us an opportunity to heal on a deeper level with things we are still struggling with today as individuals, in our marriage and as parents. We also talked about familiar spirits and how they tormented not only the characters in the book , but in our lives as well. Last and certainly not least, we had a special guest today our daughter Faith contribute to the conversation! As always we are vulnerable honest and raw.
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Join us as we continue to read and deep dive and process together my book Butterfly Chronicles.
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Join us as we discuss how various forms of child abuse affect all relationships most important our relationship and understanding of God our Father.
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Join us today as we continue with reading my book Butterfly Chronicles as my husband Anthony gently leads me into processing my journey. We highlight how God's forgiveness and love gave me the conviction and courage to forgive my mom.
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Please tune into part two of chapter one and my reflections of the process of reading out loud.
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Press play to listen to my book The Butterfly Chronicles. It is a brutally honest portrayal of a life layered with pain, helplessness, hopelessness, loss, and a precocious knowledge about drugs and violence that no child should ever learn. However, there was also hope and faith that propelled the main character out of what could have been more broken dreams, desperation and a continuation of the cycle of violence that have entrapped too many. The transformation reminds us of how essential it is for us to nurture the spirit of all humanity, to nurture the good out of the bad and to know that we all matter.
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We are back! We know it's been awhile! Well, tune in for and update on where we have been and what is to come !
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Are you a spontaneous listener or are you a thinker with a resolution to your spouses issue? In todays episode we discuss what happened following church this morning and the importance on truly listening to your spouse.
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Hey Hey Hey! We are back for another Soulversation. Ya'll know what it is!! we deep diving into parenting styles and how our kids have QUICKLY identified them all!
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Join us for a 5 minute deeper dive on the power of resetting a painful narrative through music.
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What "background" music is shaping, affecting and creating the soundtrack of your life? Tune in this week as we discuss HOT ( Humble, Open and Transparent) how music can create, set a mood, heal a relationship, and connect you back to your true self. Words have LIFE and we have the power to change an environment, circumstance, uplift our spirits and shift a mindset simply through our words.
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How many times do you have a wonderful day with your family, your spouse, your kids and You say, YES, this is what I need to do "exactly" next time! We discuss that life is not a cookie cutter and each day we need to approach our relationships, marriage, raising our kids as a new experience. We ask the Holy Spirit to guide us with each decision and extend grace to ourselves and one another.
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What do you ask God to take away, purge or teach you? Does He just beam the breakthrough or does he.....We share some of our techniques that we have with both our children and with each other. Do you stay a student while letting God work on your soul?
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This week we are back after a 4 month break !! We deep dive into how it looks to discover the beautiful parts of your spouse as they lean into their own past pain and ultimately embrace those "ugly" parts that we would like to keep covered and hidden. By becoming vulnerable, sensitive and available to the nudges of God's still small voice, we find peace and reassurance knowing "HERE IS HOLY".
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We discuss how we celebrated our anniversary and focused on giving each other our flowers. We also share some insights on what we have learned together in this journey of life.
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In this episode, The Queen is back. After serving others across the world, yes she is back. We share that reconnecting and reminiscing help our marriage our relationship stay strong.
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In this episode, I am solo, that is right folks, solo as my Queen is serving overseas. I discuss what I have realized about myself and pray that You too will take something away from this weeks episode. I also give an exercise that You can use to help "release" things in Your life.
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Hey HEY HEY! We are back with another episode, this time focusing on honoring and celebrating the previous versions of ourselves, rather than criticizing them. Listen to our testimony on how we honor, celebrate and embrace each day the former us.
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In this episode, we reflect on our pioneers with our marriage. We discuss some great memories with our loved ones and also offer some tools on how You can too process your feelings for a loved one that has transitioned.
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In this episode, we discuss lessons we've learned from one another, our children and even our cat! These beautiful, messy breakdowns & breakthroughs provided insight, awareness and expounded our capacity to exhibit compassion as individuals, parents, spouses, friends and pet owners.
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In this episode we provide you with some tips to use to connect with your loved ones.....remember we are to sometimes to hold the space. We also read a letter from our son's.......CAT??
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In this episode we discuss how we come back to the middle with laughter. We also share some tools on how to to give yourself grace. We also put each other in the hot seat. You are not going to want to miss this episode.
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In this episode we deep dive by ripping the band aid off and have a raw conversation on some of our recent experiences with our adult son post high school and post college experiences and now transitioning into the Navy!
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We are back and FULL effect! Season 2 of our podcast. In this episode we discuss why we needed to take a step back and hit a button. What button you ask? Find out by listening today.
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In this episode, we share the process of moving into our first home together and the compromising that we had bringing furniture and past habits/routines with us. We dive into some tips on how You can effectively communicate Your needs to Your spouse.
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How do You keep Your SEX life a priority in the bedroom (and/or other rooms) after having little children? Today we discuss how we ensure both of our feelings and needs are heard and met. Today's SOULwork will have You and Your spouse setting up the foundation for a more open dialogue on how to connect beyond the physical act.
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In this episode we discuss the importance to pray! Pray for a deeper understanding on Your life. We give some tips on how to see if You/We are not addressing other see a different reality. We encourage You and each other to spend time with The Holy Spirit daily. He is as real as You want Him to be.
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How do You heal? Better yet, how can You help your spouse, partner, friend heal? We share our journey on on-going healing and drop some jewels how to heal.
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When is the last time You were naked with your spouse? We all should be comfortable with being naked, intimate with our spouse. Part of being more intimate is being transparent with Your needs. We give You some nuggets in this episode while being transparent in our walk. Soulwork: If You are unable to be transparent with Your needs, get a journal and ask the Holy Spirit to guide You to becoming more intimate in Your relationships.
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What lessons can you recall learning? You choose..... to carry what You want into your family! How do You honor and show gratitude for the lessons You learned from your parents/parental figures/caretakers? Today we share what We learned and chose to carry on from our parents and have fun in the conversation.
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In this episode, We talk about making plans and pivoting all while staying committed to working on Ourselves (mentally and physically). We share some gems in this episode thank to The Holy Spirit leading the conversation. Last, we discuss what could be root to ........ you will have to listen to hear that gem.
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When you read multitasking, what is the first thing that You think of? Are you the "multi-tasker" in Your marriage? How does multitasking serve You? Drop us a line and let us know.
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How do you start Your day? Better yet, how do you get filled up before being able to fill up your partner? We talk about what We are doing right now and how when putting God first, the rest of Our day is peaceful.
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Who attends to Your garden? Who pours life into You? We all have those in our lives that have poured in to us. Who can You let know that they poured into Your life? Call them, text them, pray for them.
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This time around WE had some fun making fun of an event that might have not been as "fun" at the time. In relationships, someone is always doing more than the other. Listen now to hear who was doing the most and who was the host! Who was doing the 80 and who was doing the 20 that YOU can recall.
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Do you remember courting your spouse? What was it like, how did you meet your spouse, what led you to pursue them? In this episode we discuss the courting stage and also highlight a very important tip.....tune in today.
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In todays episode we discuss the importance of not loosing YOURself through the different seasons of YOUR marriage. We also provide suggestions on how to stay connected to YOURself and YOUR spouse.
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We can all run around trying to figure out what makes our soulmate, lover, partner tick and.....be completely off. It is important to not only learn your spouses love language AND make sure you know Your love language. Soulwork: What is Your love language?
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In this weeks soulversation we talk about Our Rainbow Baby and the Our journey together coming together to process and support one another. This weeks SOULwork, What is Your Rainbow story?
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We have a tendency to believe the worst about ourselves and/or each other by an event or an exchange we have with our spouses. A brief encounter, can plant a seed of negativity in our hearts where we start to believe a false narrative. In turn, it affects our relationship, the way we act directly or indirectly with one another all because we assume and don't ask for what we need or clarification. In this week's episode we unpack what "She said AND what she thought he meant and what he thought AND said HEARD her say". We'd like to invite you to listen to our soulversation, laugh and learn the practical tools we use to help us grow.
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In this episode we discuss the benefits on being being vulnerable with your loved ones. We also share some tools to use with your partner that can assist YOU with being vulnerable to trust your loved ones response. Are you quick to judge on how your loved ones will respond?
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In this episode, we give tools on how we have stay connected with our adult son. How do YOU ensure that your kids know that communication remains open between the two of you?
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In this episode, we discuss how God sends earth angels along your path to pour into your soul and give you fuel for journey. Now more than ever, we invite you to reconnect with that divine appointment. Our prayer is that it will remind you of WHO you are called to be. Peace & Blessings
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Join us for our first episode " Don't Let The Selfies Fool You" where we deep dive into being vulnerable with ourselves and each other. Things get spicy as we turn up the heat and discuss intimacy :), our fears and discover one another through this beautiful soulversation exchange. Its raw, real and relatable.
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