been there with Molly Patterson : Recent Episodes

Molly Patterson

Welcome to been there, the podcast that talks through all things life, friendships, relationships, toxic situations, happy situations, sticky situations, and basically how to overcome (or just laugh at) anything life throws your way. Tune in each week to hear me and my guests talk about what we have been through and try to offer some advice, or just laugh at ourselves and how we navigated these situations. We've all been there!

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HEY! Welcome back to a full tell all episode about the truth going on with education. It's time that we actually talk about whats going on in our schools and the real trauma our teachers and students are going through. We have to stop sugar coating it and making it seem "all okay". Toxic positivity is not going to heal the damage that is happening everyday. I hope you all enjoy this episode and share with a friend !!!!!!!!!! 


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Helllllooooooooo and welcome to lucky episode 13 :) I sit down with one of my best friends and we answer the age old question- can you be friends with an ex? How does instagram play a roll in this? What even are the rules? We break down this topic and spill some tea on former relationships we've had and how they reacted. Leave a 5 star rating and share with a friend! THANKS FOR LISTENING!!  INSTA: @beentherepodcast

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Annnnnnnd we’re back. Hi!!! It’s been a HOT minute since I’ve posted a podcast, but the break has been nice and I now have SO much podcast content that the show may never end. I’m so excited to give y’all an update on everything that's been going on in my life over the past few months. It has been a whirlwind. Hope you enjoy and leave a 5 star review :) 

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We've all been on bad dates before, but this story takes the cake. This week my friend Elizabeth comes on and shares her very recent worst first date story with us, and we discuss what actually makes a good first date. Should the guy always pay? Should the girl follow up with a text? How do you plan for the second date? Are we all doomed to awkward first dates forever? Listen and subscribe and rate the podcast 5 stars on Apple Podcasts! Instagram: @beentherepodcast @_molly_patterson_

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MAMA WE MADE IT! Episode 10, officially in the double digits of the podcast and we are truly thriving. Thank you to everyone who has been supporting and making this podcast so successful! I cannot wait for whats to come. This week you are getting a fun filled episode of me answering some of your burning questions and attempting to give my best advice! Keep 'em coming in my DM's, they are so fun to read through. RATE, SUBSCRIBE, SHARE with someone in your life. Happy listening :)  Instagram: @beentherepodcast @_molly_patterson_


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Who needs some YouTube drama explained? I know I did! This week we break down whats been going on with David Dobrik and the vlog squad, and what cancel culture really means to us. Who should really be cancelled in life? We also talk about being single for an extended amount of time and what that may look like for other people. This episode really has it all! Share with someone who would also enjoy this amazing content and leave a 5 star review! Happy listening!  Instagram: @beentherepodcast _molly_patterson_

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Have you ever just wanted to move somewhere completely different? This week my best friend comes on and shares her journey on moving from Oklahoma to Maui without knowing ANYONE and not having a job. She truly just went for it! We have the best conversation about how she made it happen, the logistics, the myths people have about moving to a new place, and her advice to help others do the same. Maybe this will inspire you to do the same! Happy listening!  Insta: @beentherepodcast  @_molly_patterson_ 


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This week I have on a guest who gives me life... literally: my mom! My mom and I love to travel, and she has figured out so many ways to make it affordable. She has some of the best tricks to help people with any budget save SO much and enjoy new places without breaking the bank. We have been able to travel all across the United States on a teachers salary because of her amazing hacks. Of course we talk about Disney because... obviously. But we also talk about how we went to New York, California, the beach, Philly, D.C., Virginia, Delaware, and the list goes on. With Summer coming up, now is the perfect time to start thinking about ways to save on any travel plans you may have. Happy listening! 

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It's just me, myself, and I... for this episode at least ;) This week you get a whole podcast just listening to my voice and I answer some questions I've been getting since the podcast started. I give you all a mental health update and how I really feel about starting this show. Be sure to always send your questions to @beentherepodcast on Instagram, or beentherewithpodcast@gmail.com. Happy listening! 


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Do you need closure to get over a relationship? How do we want to be broken up with? Is there such thing as a good ending to something? This week my guest and I talk about relationships we've been in that we did not get closure from, but we were forced to move on and some TEA from those situations. We talk about how to move on when someone is not going to give you the answers you want and how to heal your heart. Everyone has a situation in their life where they were blindsided, or viewed the relationship differently. We talk about how you can come out better on the other side of things and use these situations to benefit yourself. Happy listening! Be sure to rate the podcast 5 stars and leave a review! 

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY! aka my favorite holiday because I love love. YUP. I love people in love, happiness, joy, all the things. So I thought...what better way to celebrate love than to interview 3 different couples who have been married for different lengths of time to share their love stories and advice for couples just starting out and single people everywhere! Our first couple has been married for almost a year, the second couple is coming up on 30 years, and our final couple has been married for 73 years! 104 years of love combined. I hope you enjoy these interviews! Leave a review on Apple podcasts and SUBSCRIBE! 

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In this week's episode, my friend Mackenzie and I shed light on our time competing in the swimsuit competition of Miss Oklahoma. During our time competing, we went through a hard diet that still to this day effects us and plays mind tricks on us that we are learning to overcome. We dive into the training we had to endure, the emotional toll it took on us, and the challenges we are working to overcome. We speak on goal setting, the journey to actually LOVING your body, and how we wish to inspire others to truly do things that make them feel their best self and ignore this pressure to be perfect! Loving the podcast? Leave a 5 star rating and review on Apple! THANKS FOR LISTENING! 

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Ever been ghosted? Ever been ghosted and then had a full podcast episode with the guy who ghosted you??? Same. This week we dive deep into something almost everyone has been through- and thats the beautiful journey of being ghosted. My guest Braeden and I hash it out and then I ask him why people even ghost, how to prevent it (is that possible?), and how to bounce back from the situation. Basically, if you want to laugh for a good 40 minuets this is the place to be.

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EPISODE 1 LETS GO!

I am SO excited to finally release my new podcast: been there. Each week I'm bringing you candid conversations about relationships, friendships, trauma, love, loss, and everything in between with people who have been through it all. In this episode, I give you a little background on WHY I wanted to start this podcast, and eventually go on a tangent about going after your dreams and opening up about my life.  Enjoy :)

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