Becoming Wilkinson: Recent Episodes
WILKINSON
This is a story of my journey from married man with three sons, involved in ministry in the NW, to my current life as a gay man in Palm Springs, CA. I weave in interesting interviews with amazing people whom I've met along the way. Life is fascinating, it's a gift and it's always leading me down new roads to explore! It's stunning for me to look back on my adult life and to see the changes that have taken place- from a closed minded, judgmental, very unhappy man to the energized, open minded, hopeful, loving man I am becoming today. The Universe always continues to send me just the right people at just the right time to open up a new door in my mind. I've learned so much from these souls. Join me as I share this journey with you.
In this engaging podcast episode, host Wilkinson reconnects with Rick McCarthy, who shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man. From his childhood in Boston to navigating relationships and family dynamics, Rick discusses the challenges and triumphs of coming out. He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic, his career evolution, and the importance of community involvement. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-love, personal growth, and the lessons learned throughout life's journey.
TAKEAWAYS
Rick shares his experience of growing up in a traditional family in Boston.
He discusses the process of coming out and the reactions from his family.
Rick emphasizes the importance of self-love and acceptance.
He reflects on the impact of the AIDS epidemic on his relationships.
Rick highlights the significance of community involvement and activism.
He encourages listeners to seek help and get involved in their communities.
Rick believes in the power of personal growth and self-discovery.
He shares insights on navigating relationships and the importance of communication.
Rick discusses the idea that relationships can be successful even if they end.
He concludes with a message of abundance and living life to the fullest.
Image: Copyright Wilkinson 2025
Contact Wilkinson: becomingwilkinson@gmail.com
CHAPTERS
00:00
Introduction to Murph and the Gay Men's Collective
02:43
Murph's Early Life and Self-Discovery
05:08
Coming Out and Understanding Identity
07:50
First Experiences and Relationships
10:07
Exploring Sexuality and Community
12:34
Uber Stories and Encounters
15:00
Bachelorette Parties and Observations
17:29
Reflections on Safe Spaces and Community Dynamics
22:33
Observations on Social Dynamics in Gay Bars
23:43
Navigating the New York City Gay Scene
27:09
The Transition from Acting to Retail Sales
32:35
Skills Transfer: From Performance to Sales Training
34:43
Future Aspirations and Retirement Plans
43:22
Life Lessons and Personal Insights
SUMMARY
In this engaging conversation, Murph shares his journey from his early life in Ireland to his experiences in the LGBTQ community, including coming out, navigating the AIDS epidemic, and his life in New York City. He discusses his time in the drag scene, memorable Uber stories, and the lessons he's learned throughout his life. The conversation highlights the importance of self-acceptance, the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community, and the joy of travel and personal connections.
TAKEAWAYS
Murph's early experiences shaped his understanding of his identity.
Coming out can be a complex journey influenced by societal perceptions.
The AIDS epidemic had a profound impact on the LGBTQ community during the 80s and 90s.
Personal relationships can be both innocent and transformative during adolescence.
Life in New York City offered Murph a vibrant LGBTQ culture and opportunities.
Memorable encounters while driving Uber reveal the diversity of experiences in Palm Springs.
Traveling can lead to self-discovery and deeper connections with others.
Lessons learned include the importance of taking chances and being true to oneself.
Respect is more important than being liked in personal relationships.
Finding joy in the small moments can reset one's perspective.
BIO
John "Murf" is Irish-born, New York-based, and living proof that wanderlust, wit, and a well-curated playlist can take you far.
He’s as happy glamping in the woods as he is lounging on a beach — ideally after museum-hopping and a three-course lunch. A Modigliani fan, Paris devotee, and certified foodie, he curates his life like his music: part 70s disco, part 90s nostalgia, all vibes.
Gay, glam, and occasionally grounded, John believes in good shoes, great stories, and never saying no to dessert — or a flight to somewhere fabulous.
To contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
CHAPTERS
00:00
Navigating Technical Glitches and Film Discussions
02:39
Exploring Nuanced Acting in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps'
05:24
The Collaborative Spirit of Indie Films
08:08
Intimacy and Comfort in Filming
10:51
Future Projects and Industry Insights
13:20
Reflections on Humanity and Personal Growth
SUMMARY
In this engaging conversation, Matt Pascua reflects on his experiences in the film industry, discussing his roles in 'Say Yes' and 'Baby Steps', the creative process behind 'Scrambled', and the importance of intimacy coordination in film. He shares insights on navigating current events, personal growth, and the significance of kindness in everyday life. The discussion highlights the collaborative nature of indie projects and the emotional impact of storytelling.
TAKEAWAYS
The importance of emotional connection in acting.
Indie projects foster a family-like atmosphere.
Intimacy coordinators enhance safety in film production.
The journey of filmmaking is as important as the final product.
Kindness can significantly impact someone's day.
Navigating the film industry requires adaptability and openness.
Creative collaboration leads to better storytelling.
Recognizing personal growth is essential for happiness.
Current events can challenge faith in humanity.
Art can reflect societal issues and provoke thought.
BIO
MATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.
Matt's IG/: https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/
Photo credit: Kristi Griffith Photography
THIS IS PART ONE. PART TWO WILL BE RELEASED IN A FEW DAYS.
:00
Introduction and Background
02:47
Journey into Acting
05:37
Navigating the Acting Industry
08:28
Life in New York vs. LA
11:25
Travel and Personal Life
14:07
Finding Love and Relationships
16:54
Coming Out and Identity
19:39
Family Dynamics and Support
20:33
Exploring Sexuality and Identity
23:21
The Making of 'Say Yes'
27:53
Character Reflections and Personal Connections
SUMMARY
In this conversation, Matt Pascua shares his journey from a Midwest upbringing to becoming an actor in New York City. He discusses the challenges and joys of navigating the acting world, the competitive nature of LA and New York, and his experiences with love and identity. Matt reflects on his coming out journey, the support from his family, and how he relates to his character in the independent film 'Say Yes.' The conversation highlights themes of self-discovery, emotional honesty, and the importance of community.
TAKEAWAYS
Matt Pascua grew up outside of Chicago and didn't pursue acting until later in life.
He found his passion for acting while studying at Ithaca College.
Matt emphasizes the importance of emotional honesty in acting.
He believes there is no correct trajectory in an acting career.
Self-assessment is crucial for artists to ensure they find joy in their work.
Matt's journey of coming out was supported by his younger brother, who is also gay.
He values the growth and learning that comes with family dynamics.
Matt identified as bisexual and acknowledged his late exploration of this part of his identity. He now simply identifies as Queer.
He shares a positive experience of finding love through Grindr during the pandemic.
Matt relates deeply to his character Caden in 'Say Yes,' infusing personal experiences into his performance.
BIO
MATT PASCUA is an actor based in New York City. After studying at the Neighborhood Playhouse, he began working in commercials and on stage, including an earlier, regional production of Matthew Spangler's "The Kite Runner," an adaptation of Khaled Hosseini's best-selling novel of the same name. His television work includes appearances on "Grey's Anatomy," "Castle," "Rosewood," "Insecure," "Dynasty," "Fantasy Island," "Mayor of Kingstown," and "FBI: Most Wanted." Through 2024, Matt recurred as Ben Perez on "Walker," The CW's family drama-reboot of "Walker, Texas Ranger." On film, he can be seen in Jean-Marc Vallée's "Wild" and in Stewart Wade's "Say Yes" and "Baby Steps," amongst several other independent releases. In 2019, two projects he headlined, Lise Johnson's "Other Loving" and Anthony Meindl's "Where We Go From Here," screened at the Cannes Film Festival. Matt is also an alum of the ABC Discovers Talent Showcase, which takes pride in Chadwick Boseman, Lupita Nyong’o, and Gina Rodriguez, among many others, as some of its previously selected artists.
Matt's IG/: https://www.instagram.com/pattmascua/
Contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
CHAPTERS:
00:00
Introduction to Personal Growth Journey
09:25
Experiences at Awaken Your Highest Self Conference
18:39
Breathwork and Emotional Healing
27:29
Ancestral Connections and Healing
36:35
Transformative Breathwork and Financial Insights
DESCRIPTION:
In this conversation, Wilkinson shares his personal journey of self-discovery and healing through breathwork and spiritual practices. He reflects on his experiences at a mens retreat and also at a recent "Awaken Your Higher Self" conference, discussing the emotional breakthroughs he encountered, particularly related to his family dynamics and his recent cancer diagnosis. The conversation emphasizes the importance of openness to experiences, the healing power of breathwork, and the ongoing journey of personal growth and understanding.
TAKEAWAYS
Wilkinson emphasizes the importance of being open to experiences.
Breathwork can trigger profound emotional releases and memories.
He recalls a significant breakthrough during a breathwork session.
Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal healing.
The concept of allowing others to have their own journey is vital.
Wilkinson's cancer diagnosis has prompted deep introspection.
He experienced a sense of connection with his ancestors during breathwork.
The healing process involves confronting past traumas and shame.
Wilkinson's journey reflects a shift towards love and kindness.
He remains hopeful about his health and the lessons it brings.
Contact Wilkinson at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Chapters:
00:00
Introduction to My Medical Journey
02:58
The Car Accident and Its Aftermath
05:48
Life Changes and New Beginnings
08:46
Couchsurfing and Unexpected Insights
12:05
Prostate Cancer Diagnosis and Treatment Decisions
17:46
Navigating Medical Challenges and Surgeries
23:48
Reflections on Health and Healing
30:04
Recent Developments and Future Outlook
Summary:
In this podcast, the host shares a deeply personal narrative about his medical journey, starting from a car accident in 1988 that led to chronic pain and a series of health challenges, including a life-threatening blood clot and a prostate cancer diagnosis. He reflects on significant life changes, including coming out as gay, hosting Couchsurfers, and navigating the complexities of the medical system. The conversation also touches on personal growth, resilience, and the importance of self-advocacy in healthcare. The host concludes with insights gained from a recent road trip and a commitment to continue sharing his journey.
Takeaways:
The importance of self-advocacy in healthcare.
Life can change dramatically due to unexpected events.
Couchsurfing provided valuable insights into human connection.
Prostate cancer can be slow-growing, requiring careful monitoring.
Navigating the medical system can be challenging and frustrating.
Personal growth often comes from facing adversity.
The mind-body connection plays a crucial role in healing.
Sharing personal stories can foster community and support.
Travel can be a powerful tool for self-discovery.
Maintaining a positive outlook is essential during health challenges.
Contact Wilkinson @BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Note: This is story of my journey, from my perspective. It's not medical advice. For that, you need to contact your own medical professional.
Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Laura Stearns
01:42
Exploring Trauma and Healing
04:03
The Impact of Childhood Experiences
06:09
The Role of Institutions in Abuse
08:28
Personal Stories of Assault
11:04
The Aftermath of Trauma
12:59
Marriage and Relationships Post-Trauma
15:06
Legislative Changes and Advocacy
17:43
Public Disclosure and Its Consequences
20:38
Understanding Trauma in the Arts
22:08
The Healing Journey and Self-Discovery
26:36
Navigating Identity and Relationships
30:48
The Impact of Trauma on Society
32:24
Current Projects and Future Aspirations
35:49
Living Authentically and Trusting Your Gut
Summary
In this conversation, Laura Stearns shares her journey as an actor, author, and advocate for trauma survivors. She discusses her experiences with childhood trauma, the impact of her time in the theater community, and her healing process. Laura emphasizes the importance of understanding trauma, the implications of the Child Victims Act, and the role of art in healing. She also shares insights from her memoir and her current projects, highlighting the need for community and support for survivors.
Takeaways
Laura's journey through trauma began in childhood.
The theater community can harbor hidden dangers.
Understanding false core beliefs is crucial for healing.
The Child Victims Act allows survivors to seek justice.
Art can be a powerful tool for healing and expression.
Community support is vital for trauma survivors.
Litigation can be a re-traumatizing experience.
Self-discovery is a key part of the healing process.
Sharing stories helps build connections and understanding.
Trusting one's gut is essential for personal growth.
Laura Stearns' Bio
Laura studied theater in Minneapolis, Minnesota, and has been working in professional theater since the age of thirteen. As a theater maker in the Twin Cities, which included twelve years on staff at the world-renowned Guthrie Theater, Laura has worked with some of the most talented artists from around the world, both on and off stage. Laura is an accomplished actor and director with a diverse skill set that has given her the opportunity to work in almost every department of theater production as a manager, technician, and designer. Now living in Southern California, she is the winner of the 2024 Desert Theatre League Award for Best Direction of The Woman in the Mirror. She also designed and fabricated the puppets for Avenue Q at Revolution Stage Company. Palm Springs audiences will recognize Laura from her performances this past season as Norma Baxter in Perfect Arrangement at The Bent, and Dr. Charlotte in Falsettos at Dezart Performs. She is also the author of Shattered: Exposing the Open Secret of the Children’s Theatre Scandal and Daring to Heal: Growing Beyond Trauma Through Awareness, Acceptance, and Action, co-author of The Minnesota Theater Standards for Safety and Accountability and co-founder of the Minnesota Theater Accountability Coalition. Her testimony at the state legislature supported the removal of the criminal Statute of Limitations for rape victims in the state of Minnesota. As a proud member of Actors Equity Association and an associate with the Stage Directors and Choreographers Society, Laura is a fierce advocate for safe spaces in theater production and education.
Learn more about Laura at http://www.laurastearns.com
LAURA STEARNS
she/her/hers
Artist ~ Advocate ~ Consultant
Actor- SAG/AFTRA ~ AEA
Director- Associate, Stage Directors and Choreographers Society
Intimacy Direction - IDC Consent Forward Artist Certified
Words and Actions Matter
Contact Wilkinson: www.BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
"Once upon a time on June 14, 2025".
And one day in June, a broken, poor little boy stole money from his uncle and threw himself a big party and a parade. He lined up all his toy tanks and his toy soldiers. He pretended to be important as he stood behind his little glass-enclosed podium and watched as the festivities unfolded before him.
He was surrounded by (those whom he had convinced himself were) his friends. But they all knew the truth. They weren't real friends. He had bought them with favors and gifts. Their friendships were nothing but transactions on paper with loyalty written in water.
He was hidden behind the podium, but there were some who were sitting close to him who could see the truth. They remained silent as they observed that his small feet could not come close to filling the shoes he was wearing. His body, though chubby for his age, was overwhelmed by the oversized suit he was trying to wear.
Simultaneously, in all the villages near and far, the true warriors gathered. They knew their secret power. They gathered in love, realized that they were united in brotherhood and they simply stood and let their light shine for all to see. The light from each village shot in beams overhead.
The beams joined forces above, becoming a bright, white cosmic mass - shining into the darkness for the entire world to see. The light began to affect the clouds overhead. The water began to pour out of the clouds. As the rain hit the people gathered in the villages, they began to smile and laugh and sing and dance. They were experiencing the joy of the real party.
But as the rain hit the small boy’s parade, it began to wash away and disintegrate his small toys as if they were made of paper. The street before him became a river. The water overwhelmed the boy’s podium, turning it over and knocking him to the ground. He slipped out of his oversized suit. His big-boy shoes washed away. Various folks who had come to observe his party and parade, (and his so-called friends) all dashed for cover, leaving him utterly alone.
He stood up, with nothing left accept the cameras that he had placed to show off his pretend party to the world. But the world finally saw the truth: Everyone looked down with pity and disgust at the broken, naked, friendless little poor boy with no clothes.
© Wilkinson/2025
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
01:29
Coming Out Journey
03:50
First Experiences and Relationships
07:55
Finding Love and Long-Term Partnership
11:46
Becoming an Author
14:43
Writing Themes and Audience
18:28
Future Projects and Aspirations
21:19
Summary
In this conversation, Blake Allwood shares his journey of self-discovery, from his coming out experience in a conservative environment to becoming a successful author. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up in a small town, his exploration of sexuality, and the impact of his relationships on his life. Blake also delves into his writing career, revealing how he transitioned from being terrified of writing to publishing numerous books, primarily focused on gay romance. He reflects on the importance of authenticity and the lessons learned.
Takeaways
Blake's coming out story was influenced by his upbringing in a conservative environment.
He didn't fully understand his sexuality until he was in college.
Therapy played a crucial role in Blake's self-discovery.
Blake's first sexual experience was with a man he met at a bar.
He identifies as demisexual, preferring emotional connections over casual encounters.
Blake has been with his husband for over 30 years, emphasizing the importance of finding the right partner.
His writing journey began as a way to help a troubled foster son.
Blake has published around 35 books, mostly focused on gay romance.
He enjoys writing stories that offer hope and happy endings.
Blake's audience primarily consists of straight women who enjoy gay romance.
Bio
Blake Allwood was born in Tennessee, then moved to Missouri after earning a degree in Early Childhood Education from Graceland College in Lamoni, Iowa. He met his husband Shaun in 1995 and they officially married in 2015, once gay marriage was legalized; although they still consider Valentines Day 1995 as their true “anniversary date”. Twenty-two years later (2017), after fostering 12 children together, he and his husband sold their home, purchased an RV and began traveling the country with their two dogs.
Most of Blake’s stories are inspired by the places they have visited in their ongoing travels. His first book, Aiden Inspired, was released in 2019 and he has now written over 30 books. On June 1st, Blake released his latest book, Cleats and Pumps, which is an NFL football player to drag queen star novel.
Blake also writes under the pen name of Adam J. Ridley for his urban fantasy fans looking for stories revolving around gay characters. His first series is The Witch Brothers Saga, starting with Emerald Earth. He will release two new books under Adam J. Ridley this fall.
Contact Info:
Email: Blake@blakeallwood.com
Website: blakeallwood.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blake.allwood.5
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blakeallwood9/
BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/authorblakeallwood.bsky.social
To contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
02:39
Coming Out Journey
04:44
Navigating Family Dynamics
06:59
Spiritual Awakening and Identity
09:32
Career Transitions and Purpose
14:33
Coaching and Trauma Recovery
19:19
Future Aspirations and Reflections
21:14
Navigating Nonprofit Challenges
23:00
Understanding Trauma and Its Impact
25:45
The Intersection of Religion and Identity
27:52
Exploring the Nature of Joy
33:02
The Role of Mindfulness in Healing
39:42
Life Lessons and Personal Guardrails
Summary
In this conversation, Brad Ward shares his journey of self-discovery, coming out, and the impact of trauma on his life. He discusses his transition from a career in banking to nonprofit work and coaching, emphasizing the importance of mindfulness and healing. Brad also explores the concept of joy and its vulnerability, while reflecting on the lessons he has learned about kindness and compassion.
Takeaways
- Brad's coming out journey began at a young age.
- He faced challenges in reconciling his sexuality with his religious upbringing.
- Brad experienced trauma related to his identity and upbringing.
- He transitioned from banking to nonprofit work, finding purpose in helping others.
- Mindfulness plays a crucial role in managing trauma and emotions.
- Joy is a complex emotion that requires presence and authenticity.
- Brad emphasizes the importance of kindness and compassion in life.
- He believes in the power of community for LGBTQ+ individuals.
- Brad's work focuses on helping clients heal from trauma.
- He is currently writing a book exploring the nature of joy.
Bio
Brad Ward, PCC, TICC, TIRC brings 20 years of nonprofit leadership experience to his professional coaching practice. His style is all about inclusivity, support, and holistic growth. He reminds clients that leadership is found within: it's an inner journey. Drawing on his professional and personal experiences and insights, he helps his clients to expand their perception of themselves and their strengths, and to deepen their appreciation of who they are. Brad is a Professional Certified Coach credentialed through the International Coaching Federation, a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach and Certified Trauma-Informed Relationship Coach from Moving The Human Spirit, and a Certified Values Coach from Discover Your Values, LLC.
https://www.bradwardcoaching.com/
mailto:brad@bradwardcoaching.com
Contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2025
Chapters:
00:00
Introduction and Background
01:12
Theater Experience and Personal Growth
01:55
Coming Out Journey
07:07
Family Dynamics and Relationships
07:45
Boy Scouts and Early Trauma
12:37
Path to Acting and New Beginnings
15:39
Moving to New York and New Opportunities
17:47
Journey Through New York and Palm Springs
18:57
Love and Relationships in Transition
19:37
Theater Dreams and New Beginnings
21:24
The Impact of 'The Inheritance'
22:29
Vulnerability on Stage
27:05
Life Lessons and Moving Forward
Summary:
In this conversation, Sam Moffatt shares his journey of coming out as a gay man, detailing the challenges he faced growing up in a Southern Baptist family, including experiences with conversion therapy. He discusses his early involvement in theater, his move to New York City to pursue acting, and the complexities of his relationship with his parents. Sam emphasizes the importance of kindness, understanding, and the power of changing one's environment for better mental health. He also shares insights on the significance of humor and authenticity in life.
Bio:
Samuel Moffatt is a stage and screen actor, singer-songwriter, and multi-instrumentalist originally from Duncan, Oklahoma. Now based in New York City after a recent move from Palm Springs, Samuel is passionate about musical theatre and has brought his talents to a variety of roles across both coasts. A graduate of Texas A&M University, he blends his theatrical work with original music, accompanying himself on piano and guitar. Whether performing under the spotlight or writing his next song, Samuel brings heart, authenticity, and a deep love for storytelling to everything he does.
Takeaways:
Sam's journey of coming out was challenging due to his Southern Baptist upbringing.
He faced conversion therapy, which was traumatic and damaging.
Sam's experience in Boy Scouts led to legal troubles and further challenges.
Acting became a vital outlet for Sam, allowing him to express himself.
He moved to New York to pursue his dreams after college, despite his parents' wishes.
Sam's relationship with his parents has improved over time, but remains complex.
He emphasizes the importance of kindness and understanding towards others.
Sam believes in the power of changing one's environment for better mental health.
He encourages others to pursue their passions, even in the face of adversity.
Humor and fun are essential in life, according to Sam.
https://www.instagram.com/samuelmoffatt/
https://www.tiktok.com/@samuelmoffatt
Contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Photo: Wilkinson/2025
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
03:02
Life in California vs. Nashville
05:59
Growing Up in Minnesota
08:51
Coming to Terms with Sexuality
11:45
Experiences with Conversion Therapy
15:01
Finding Community and Connection
17:57
Creating the Gay Men's Collective
20:56
Navigating Relationships and Vulnerability
23:56
The Importance of Meaningful Connections
35:30
The Importance of Connection and Respect
36:14
Reflecting on Past Relationships and Self-Discovery
38:35
Memorable Connections and Energetic Relationships
39:07
Navigating Dating Apps and Open Relationships
41:08
Embracing Single Life and Personal Growth
43:34
The Journey into Coaching and Teaching
47:30
Connecting with Amy Grant and Personal Heroes
50:57
Family Dynamics and Discovering Siblings
01:01:12
Life Lessons and Personal Philosophy
Summary
In this conversation, Matt Moran shares his journey from growing up in Minnesota to navigating life in Nashville and California. He discusses his late realization of his sexuality, experiences with conversion therapy, and the importance of community for gay men. Moran emphasizes the need for meaningful connections and vulnerability in relationships, ultimately leading to the creation of the Gay Men's Collective, a platform for gay men seeking authentic connections. In this engaging conversation, Matt Moran and Wilkinson explore themes of connection, self-discovery, and personal growth. They reflect on past relationships, the importance of energetic connections, and the journey of being single. Matt shares his experiences with coaching and teaching, as well as his connection with Amy Grant, a significant figure in his life. The discussion also delves into family dynamics, including the discovery of siblings and the complexities of personal history. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of understanding others' stories and the lessons learned from their own experiences.
Sound Bites
- "I didn't have any clue that I was gay."
- "I want to be like these guys."
- "I realized I'm still gay."
- "I started sleeping around."
- "I never ever had gay friends in my life."
- "I definitely prefer some element of connection."
- "I didn't jerk off until after I was married."
- "I have a guidepost that feels kind of internal."
- "I would rather struggle with loneliness single."
- "I love teaching and engaging with participants."
- "Amy Grant was a lifeline for me growing up."
- "He told me everything I don't want him to know."
- "We probably have more siblings out there."
Bio:
For the past two decades, Matt Moran has coached people from all walks of life across the globe, helping individuals and teams to present themselves, both internally and to the external marketplace, with excellence and precision. Through his training and one-on-one coaching, Matt has worked with Fortune 500 companies in nearly every industry, transforming the often daunting task of public presentation into one of simplicity and confident ease.
In addition to his work as a professional coach, Matt Moran has dedicated his expertise to guiding individuals and teams on a transformative journey toward self-improvement, self-acceptance, confidence building, spiritual growth, and overall personal well-being. His passion lies in fostering connectedness, empathy, and authenticity, empowering individuals to unlock their true potential and find genuine fulfillment.
http://www.matt-moran.com
http://www.gaymenscollective.com
Contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
CHAPTERS:
00:00
Introduction and Setting the Scene
03:03
John's Journey of Self-Discovery
06:07
College Life and Relationships
08:55
Love and Loss: The Story of Ted
12:11
Reflections on Coming Out
14:58
Life After Antioch: Moving and New Beginnings
18:05
The Impact of the AIDS Epidemic
21:01
Family Dynamics and Acceptance
23:57
Final Thoughts and Reflections
24:20
Coming Out and Family Dynamics
28:32
Life in New York and the Search for Belonging
32:53
Embracing Identity and Personal Growth
36:30
The Journey of Writing a Memoir
41:43
Struggles with Addiction and Recovery
48:55
The Future: Theater Adaptation and Life Lessons
TAKEAWAYS:
John's journey of self-discovery began in college.
He had a significant coming out moment while biking.
His relationship with Ted was transformative and deeply impactful.
Family acceptance played a crucial role in his life.
John reflects on the challenges of navigating love and loss.
The AIDS epidemic shaped his experiences and relationships.
He emphasizes the importance of embracing one's identity.
SUMMARY:
In this engaging conversation, John Giarelli shares his personal journey of self-discovery, coming out, and navigating love and loss within the LGBTQ community. He reflects on his experiences at Antioch College, the impact of the AIDS epidemic, and the complexities of family acceptance. John discusses the lessons learned throughout his life, the importance of embracing one's identity, and the motivation behind writing his book. The conversation culminates in a heartfelt exploration of belonging and the ongoing quest for self-acceptance.
BIO:
John Giarelli was born in Connecticut in 1957. He received his BA from Antioch College in Yellow Springs, Ohio in 1980 and his MA from the University of Connecticut in 1988. He taught English literature and writing for 30 years at several colleges and universities across the country. He has lived in Boston, Washington, DC, San Francisco, New York City, and Los Angeles, and has traveled extensively throughout Europe. He is done with cities and currently lives in a small town in the mountains between Los Angeles and Palm Springs.
His recently published memoir, “A Gay Boomer Story,” is a roller coaster ride through the past seven decades. His story begins in the straight-laced 1950s, and runs through the tumultuous 60s, “Coming Out” in the Disco era of the 70s, moving to San Francisco in the 80s, and wandering through America’s Gay ghettos in the 90s. He finally settled down with dogs and nature in the mountains, and is currently producing a theatrical adaptation of his book and taking it on the road.
Contact John: Email: jliterati@gmail.com. Phone# 323-271-8788
Contact Wilkinson: BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Community Life
03:03
John's Early Life and Struggles
05:54
Coming Out and Embracing Identity
08:58
The Journey into Ex-Gay Ministry
11:48
Family Dynamics and Healing
15:01
The Cracks in the Ex-Gay Ministry
19:57
Transitioning Away from Ex-Gay Beliefs
25:04
New Relationships and Personal Growth
35:03
Redefining God and Spirituality
38:32
Living Authentically and Embracing Life
42:41
Exploring Sexual Freedom and Relationships
50:17
The Impact of Ex-Gay Ministries
56:23
Supporting the Transgender Community
58:01
Lessons Learned and Guiding Principles
TAKEAWAYS:
John was raised in a complicated household that impacted his emotional development.
He discovered his identity as a homosexual later in life after years of confusion.
John believed he was doing God's work while involved in ex-gay ministries.
He struggled with intimacy in his marriage due to his sexual orientation.
John's journey led him to question the beliefs he had held for years.
He found freedom in accepting his identity and moving away from ex-gay beliefs.
John emphasizes the importance of living authentically and being true to oneself.
He is actively involved in supporting the LGBTQ community in Hot Springs.
John reflects on the impact of ex-gay ministries and the harm they cause.
He believes in making amends to those affected by his past actions.
SUMMARY:
In this conversation, John Smid shares his journey from a complicated upbringing to discovering his identity as a gay man. He discusses his experiences with ex-gay ministries, the struggles he faced with family acceptance, and his eventual transition away from those beliefs. John reflects on his current views on faith, sexuality, and the importance of community support, emphasizing the need for authenticity and personal growth.
From John J. Smid:
I was born in July of 1954. Throughout my life I have lived through the mantra, “How can things be better?” As I continue to ask that question, my life has gone through several quite impactful life transitions.
I have been married three times. I have two children and four grandchildren from my first marriage. Each marriage was a classroom of life for me through which I grew more aware each time that being a gay man wasn’t always easy to embrace.
I spent over 25 years trying to suppress my natural sexuality in order to please God and my then, religious beliefs. 22 of those years I was deeply entrenched in the Evangelical ExGay movement. I was the Executive Director for Love In Action, a residential ExGay ministry and a board member for eleven of those years with Exodus International, a worldwide coalition of ExGay ministries.
I resigned from Love in Action in 2008 and at that time began a search for what was really true for me and my religious beliefs. I’ve spent these last 17 years working to make amends whenever possible for the messages I taught and the impact they had on hundreds of people very personally. Through personal reconnections with program clients and speaking out I hope I am at least making a dent in the harm done.
After 24 years in my second marriage, I finally grew the courage to answer that life question once again. For life to be better I needed to fully embrace my homosexuality and life a more authentic life.
Today, I am married to my husband Larry. We spend most of our time managing our acreage in central Arkansas and our little Airbnb cabin. We have a wonderful LGBTQ+ community here and are very active socially with our friends.
Website:
http://www.johnjsmid.com
John's book: https://johnjsmid.com/exd-out-2/
Contact via email: js@johnjsmid.com
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Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Connection
02:26
Real Estate Dreams and Retirement Plans
04:48
Adoption Story and Family Background
07:27
Understanding Sexuality and Identity
09:54
Coming Out and Family Dynamics
12:35
Spiritual Experiences and Past Lives
15:07
Reflections on Family Relationships
17:59
Life Lessons and Personal Growth
21:52
Adapting to New Environments
23:34
Pets and Their Needs
24:21
Relationships and Love
25:22
Career Transitions and Playwriting
28:51
The Impact of HIV/AIDS on Relationships
31:55
The Journey to Becoming a Playwright
35:25
Navigating the Film Industry
38:35
Upcoming Projects and Aspirations
40:42
Life Lessons and Philosophies
43:42
Reflections on Society and Politics
Summary:
In this episode, Stephen Druckman shares his personal journey from his early life in Boston to his successful career as a playwright. He discusses his family dynamics, coming out as gay, and the challenges he faced in his identity. Stephen reflects on his artistic philosophy, the importance of kindness, and his current projects, including a new play. The conversation touches on themes of love, acceptance, and the complexities of navigating life as an artist in today's world.
Takeaways:
Stephen's early life was marked by family challenges and adoption.
He always knew he was different and gay from a young age.
His journey into playwriting began as a way to express his identity.
Stephen emphasizes the importance of kindness in life and art.
He believes love is the core reason for our existence.
His experiences in the theater have shaped his artistic philosophy.
Stephen's new play explores themes of love and aging.
He reflects on the impact of the AIDS crisis on his generation.
The conversation highlights the importance of authenticity in art.
Stephen's insights on the current political climate reveal his concerns for the future.
Bio:
STEVEN DRUKMAN was nominated for the Pulitzer Prize in Drama for his play Another Fine Mess (Portland Center Stage). His plays include Pru Payne (Arizona Theatre Company, SpeakEasy Stage in Boston, MA); Going to See the Kid (Merrimack Rep); Death of the Author (Geffen Playhouse, starring Austin Butler in his first stage role); The Prince of Atlantis (South Coast Rep); The Innocents (Asolo Rep); The Bullet Round (Arena Stage, Portland, OR); In this Corner (The Old Globe, winner of the San Diego Circle Best New Play Award); Going Native (Long Wharf Theatre); Flattery Will Get You (Connecticut Rep); and more. Drukman’s work has been developed by the Mark Taper Forum, Manhattan Theatre Club, Intiman Theatre, Sundance Theatre Lab, Williamstown Theatre Festival, Playwrights Horizons, New York Theatre Workshop, and many others. As a journalist, Drukman wrote for The New York Times for many years, as well as The Nation, The Village Voice, and International Herald Tribune. He also served as the theatre reviewer for Artforum and WNYC-FM. As an actor, Drukman has been directed by Richard Foreman, Anne Bogart, Maria Irene Fornes and Arnold Wesker, and was a member of the Organic Theater Company in Chicago, where he won a Jeff Award. He received his Ph.D. from NYU, where he is an Associate Professor of playwriting.
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Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Personal Journey
04:45
Spirituality and Consciousness Expansion
09:14
The Shift from 3D to 5D Thinking
13:45
Authenticity and Sexual Expression
17:47
The Impact of Shame and Repression
22:19
Cultural Taboos and Their Consequences
26:06
Exploring 3D vs 5D Consciousness
26:59
Future Outlook and Societal Change
28:13
The Importance of Empathy in Society
31:31
Awareness and the Anti-Fascist Movement
35:55
Cultural Differences in Attitudes Towards Sexuality
37:59
The Impact of Shame on Creative Expression
40:33
Personal Growth and Business Success
In this conversation, Patrick Prohaska discusses the evolving landscape of sexuality and consciousness, sharing personal experiences that highlight the challenges of tolerance and acceptance. He explores the differences between 3D and 5D consciousness, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and the detrimental effects of shame and repression. The dialogue also touches on current societal challenges, the role of empathy, and the hope for a more connected future.
Bio:
Patrick Prohaska is an author and life coach specializing in sexual healing, personal empowerment, and consciousness expansion. Patrick has a bachelor’s degree in philosophy of science and a Master’s degree in the religions of ancient India, and developed the Light Bridge system of healing and personal transformation. He’s the author of Brain Cells: Escape Your Mental Prisons and Dream Yourself Awake: The Power of Lucid Living, as well as the forthcoming book Myths to Stop Living By. Patrick lives in Colorado and is available for lectures, seminars, and workshops around the globe.
More info: https://www.sexpowersoul.com/
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In this engaging conversation, David Wichman discusses his latest book, "The Four Rooms", which explores themes of sexual freedom and wellbeing, particularly for queer men. The discussion delves into the concept of the 'Four Rooms,' a framework for understanding the queer male experience, and emphasizes the importance of curiosity over judgment in navigating personal and societal challenges. Wichman also reflects on the current political climate, the significance of community, and the role of storytelling in fostering connection and resilience among marginalized groups. The conversation concludes with Wichman sharing his plans for promoting his book and engaging with audiences.
Bio :
David Wichman Also known as David-SF is an award-winning author, speaker advocate for sexual freedom and a long time sex worker.
Known for his raw intense passion in his online adult content presence. David’s message and his work also explores the intersections of shame, desire, and self-acceptance with fearless vulnerability.
His memoir, Every Grain of Sand, earned many accolades including the 2024 American Legacy Book Award in LGBTQ+ Nonfiction, solidifying his voice within the LGBTQ+ community.
With over 18 years of experience as a sex worker, David brings a deeply personal lens to his writing, sharing stories that challenge comfort zones and highlight the complexities of sexuality and healing.
His latest book, The Four Rooms: An InQueery on Sexual Freedom and Well-being, invites readers to uncover the parts of themselves often silenced by shame and societal conditioning, offering a path toward deeper connection and self-acceptance.
Through bold storytelling and thought-provoking insights, David opens the door to meaningful conversations about identity, intimacy, and the journey to sexual well-being. His work continues to inspire and guide those seeking to embrace their full sexual selves with curiosity and compassion.
Contact David: http://www.davidsworld.me
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Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background of Matt Nightingale
02:05
Understanding Identity and Early Realizations
05:57
Marriage and the Struggle with Sexual Orientation
10:00
Coming Out and the Journey of Acceptance
14:01
Reflections on Marriage and Family Life
17:49
Navigating Relationships with Children
19:57
Public Coming Out and Community Support
22:15
Coming Out and Its Impact
25:02
Navigating Relationships and Acceptance
28:01
The Evolution of Self-Acceptance
29:58
Finding Love During a Pandemic
36:58
Current Work and Spiritual Journey
In this conversation, Matt Nightingale shares his journey of self-discovery as a gay man raised in a fundamentalist Christian environment. He discusses his early awareness of his sexual orientation, the complexities of marrying a woman while grappling with his identity, and the challenges of living a double life. Matt reflects on his experiences in reparative therapy, the impact of his coming out on his family, and the evolution of his relationships with his children and ex-wife. He emphasizes the importance of acceptance and understanding within the LGBTQ community and the Christian faith. In this conversation, Matt Nightingale shares his journey of coming out as gay, navigating the complexities of relationships, and evolving his understanding of faith and spirituality. He discusses the challenges he faced during his marriage, the acceptance he found within himself, and how he ultimately found love during the pandemic. Matt also talks about his current work in ministry and his passion for supporting others in their spiritual journeys, particularly those deconstructing conservative Christian beliefs.
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BIO
Matt Nightingale is a pastor, musician, speaker, writer, and spiritual director from San Francisco’s North Bay Area. He is founder and executive director of Common Sanctuary, and co-pastor (along with his long-time best friend, Tony Gapastione) of The Quest.
Matt’s musical/creative exploits have included performing a solo show at the Tulsa Jazz Hall of Fame, singing the national anthem at two 49ers games and a stint with the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus. His song, “Always Entertaining Me (The La-La Song)” was featured in the hit Korean drama IRIS, and his song, “Going Home” was recorded by Broadway star and Emmy winner Loretta Devine and is featured on the soundtrack of the short film “Neighbor.”
For seventeen years, Matt worked as a worship pastor in the Evangelical Covenant Church, serving churches in Redwood City, CA; Houston, TX; Tulsa, OK; Seattle, WA; and Santa Rosa, CA. He is a graduate of the Spiritual Director Formation Program at The Journey Center Association and a member of Spiritual Directors International.
As a gay Christian, Matt is passionate about the intersection of sexuality and spirituality, and he works to create safe, sacred spaces for people exploring these identities. His TEDx talk, “Choosing Gratitude and Hope,” with his former wife, Luanne Nightingale, tells their story of a mixed-orientation marriage, an evolving understanding of faith and sexuality, and the choice to divorce with gratitude and hope.
Matt is the husband of Alejandro and the father of four adult children: Joshua, Jacob, Emily and Zachary.
CONTACT:
Matt's website: http://www.mattnightingale.com.
Matt is also @mattnightingale on Twitter, Bluesky, Instagram and FB.
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In this conversation, John Gordon shares his life experiences, including his journey of self-discovery as a gay man, his relationships, and the challenges he faced with fear and personal growth. He reflects on his past relationships, the impact of HIV, and how he navigated life lessons that shaped his current outlook. John emphasizes the importance of facing fears and living authentically, while also discussing his current living situation and lifestyle choices.
Contact John on FB: https://www.facebook.com/john.gordon.3511
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In this engaging conversation, Dale Allen Rowse shares his multifaceted journey from a successful ballet dancer to a real estate trainer and author. He discusses his struggles with a debilitating neurological disorder, his healing journey through writing and shamanism, and the impact of his personal experiences on his literary work. Dale's insights into language, spirituality, and the creative process provide a profound understanding of his life and work.
Dale and his husband John live on a five-acre ranch in Mountain Center, California. They currently have five dogs with a miniature donkey possibly in their future. Other things that keep Dale occupied are his quilts – you can see his work online as the Quilting Cowboy – and his day job as a real estate sales educator and coach.
From Dale:
📚 Read my best-selling books: amazon.com/author/dale-allen-rowse
🌟 Learn about my journey: www.DaleAllenRowse.com
✨ Shop my quilts and patterns: www.etsy.com/shop/thequiltingcowboy
🎨 Discover more: QuiltingCowboy.com
📺 Watch more: YouTube.com/@Quiltin
Retreats: https://www.merkaba.mx/
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Filmmaker Steve Balderson discusses his diverse filmography, the challenges of blending genres, and the complexities of distribution and marketing in the film industry. He reflects on the provocative nature of his work, particularly in 'Watch Out,' and the balance between explicit content and artistic expression in 'Sex, Love, Venice.' Balderson also shares insights on character development, casting choices, and the importance of humor and improvisation in filmmaking. He concludes with thoughts on the financial realities of independent filmmaking and his journey of learning a new language while immersing himself in European culture. In this engaging conversation, Steve Balderson shares his insights on the intricacies of casting, auditioning, and the creative processes involved in filmmaking. He discusses the importance of personal growth, facing fears, and embracing change, particularly in the context of moving to Europe. The dialogue also explores the dynamics of relationships, the impact of public perception and reviews, and the exploration of non-traditional relationship structures. Additionally, Balderson delves into the sensory experiences in film and the meticulous art of filmmaking, emphasizing the precision required in creating compelling narratives.
BIO
Roger Ebert gave Steve’s film FIRECRACKER, starring Karen Black and Mike Patton, a Special Jury Award on his annual Best Films of the Year list. The U.S. Library of Congress selected his film THE CASSEROLE CLUB, starring Kevin Richardson of the Backstreet Boys, for its permanent collection. Steve ranks #47 on the IMDb's Top 100 Gay and Lesbian director's working today.
Film Threat magazine praises, “Balderson makes movies that are so gorgeous that it’s not unreasonable to say that, cinematographically at least; he’s the equal of an Argento or Kubrick in their prime. Some people have perfect vocal pitch,
Steve has perfect visual composition.”
Steve’s debut book, “Filmmaking Confidential,” debuted as an Amazon and Audible best-seller. He is a contributor to The Advocate and MovieMaker magazines and shares his extensive filmmaking knowledge as a guest lecturer at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA).
http://www.stevebalderson.com/
http://www.filmmakingconfidential.com/
http://www.dikenga.com/
Dikenga Films | WhatsApp +1 785 565 25 35
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JEROME COURSHON
In this week's episode of the Becoming Wilkinson podcast, my guest is Jerome Courshon. I met him a few weeks ago when Steve Balderson's film "Sex Love Venice" was distributed and shown at the Palm Springs Cultural Center. As an ally to the LGBTQ+ Community, Jerome loved the film and had great things to say about it.
He shares his unique journey in the film industry, discussing his transition from acting to producing and eventually to film distribution. He emphasizes the importance of honesty in the industry, the challenges faced by independent filmmakers, and the evolving landscape of film distribution in the digital age.
Jerome also reflects on the impact of films on relationships and the significance of creating content that resonates with audiences. He discusses the importance of integrity in personal and professional relationships, the evolving landscape of filmmaking, and the criteria for evaluating film content. He reflects on personal growth, perseverance, and the moral choices we make in life.
The dialogue also touches on the impact of political discourse on personal beliefs and the balance between living a life of love versus fear. The conversation concludes with reflections on the value of meaningful discussions and the importance of staying true to oneself.
Finally, as CEO of Lion Heart Distribution (launched in 2022), he has quite a bit to say about the unethical behavior in this industry.
THE DETAILS:
Distribution Expert and “go-to” authority of getting independent films into the marketplace for 15 years (2007 – 2022), producer Jerome Courshon launched Lion Heart Distribution in 2022.
As the CEO, he serves and provides an ethical option for Producers & Directors to have success in the U.S. & Canadian marketplace with their movies, without being ripped off by unscrupulous distributors.
Growth of his company was exponential in 2024, and Courshon is currently seeking investors to grow the company further. Potentially interested parties may reach him through his website:
http://www.LionHeart.LA
For Filmmakers & Producers: All genres of movies are considered for distribution, as well as full-length documentaries and completed TV series.
For more info, visit: http://www.LionHeart.LA
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In this engaging conversation, Wilkinson and Steve Balderson explore themes of personal growth, sexuality, and the journey of becoming a filmmaker. Steve shares his unique upbringing in Kansas, his awakening to his identity, and the pivotal experiences that shaped his life and career. The discussion delves into the importance of storytelling, the transformative power of love, and the lessons learned through art and self-discovery. Steve's insights on kindness, humor, and finding love in everyone he meets resonate throughout the conversation, making it a rich exploration of life as an artist and individual.
BIO
Roger Ebert gave Steve’s film FIRECRACKER, starring Karen Black and Mike Patton, a Special Jury Award on his annual Best Films of the Year list. The U.S. Library of Congress selected his film THE CASSEROLE CLUB, starring Kevin Richardson of the Backstreet Boys, for its permanent collection. Steve ranks #47 on the IMDb's Top 100 Gay and Lesbian director's working today.
Film Threat magazine praises, “Balderson makes movies that are so gorgeous that it’s not unreasonable to say that, cinematographically at least; he’s the equal of an Argento or Kubrick in their prime. Some people have perfect vocal pitch,
Steve has perfect visual composition.”
Steve’s debut book, “Filmmaking Confidential,” debuted as an Amazon and Audible best-seller. He is a contributor to The Advocate and MovieMaker magazines and shares his extensive filmmaking knowledge as a guest lecturer at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA).
http://www.stevebalderson.com/
http://www.filmmakingconfidential.com/
http://www.dikenga.com/
Dikenga Films | WhatsApp +1 785 565 25 35
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
In this engaging conversation, Ronny Borrelli shares his personal journey of coming out, navigating life as a gay man in various environments, and his experiences in the adult film industry. He discusses the challenges he faced growing up in Lake Havasu, his transition to Palm Springs, and his return to performing arts. The conversation also touches on the importance of activism, the impact of the AIDS epidemic, and the significance of art in inspiring change.
Ronny's Bio:
Ronny Borrelli hails from Lake Havasu City, AZ where he participated in productions at the Lake Havasu's theater, Grace Arts Live in “South Pacific”, “Jekyll and Hyde: The Musical”, “Little Shop of Horrors”, “Peter Pan”, and “The Wizard of Oz”.
A resident of the Palm Springs area since 2014, he returned to his love of performing arts last year as Harvey Johnson in “Bye Bye Birdie” at the Palm Canyon Theatre.
He performed in “F**king Men” with The Bent and he was also featured as Spike in his first time performing at Revolution Stage Company.
Ronny is looking forward to pursuing his passion for the performing arts and is eager to see what other opportunities await! He’s excited to join the cast of “The Inheritance” at The Bent’s final play of season 3. (The Inheritance is an inspired two-part examination of survival, healing, class divide, and what it means to call a place home. Part 2 will lead off The Bent’s season 4 in Palm Springs). No wonder Ronny is excited to be chosen to be a part of this epic play!
Contact Ronny on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ronny.borrelli
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In this engaging conversation, James Jardine shares his transformative journey from a corporate banking career in Southern California to embarking on adventurous road trips and working on a fishing boat in Alaska. He discusses the challenges and experiences he faced at sea, including a harrowing incident involving a capsizing boat. The conversation also touches on personal growth, the importance of saying yes to new opportunities, and the exciting new venture of creating content together on platforms like OnlyFans. As they reflect on their past adventures and future plans, both James and Wilkinson emphasize the value of living life to the fullest and embracing change.
Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2024
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Jonathan Brett is a Performer, Director, and Teacher (Credentialed in English/Theatre with a Master’s Degree in Social Emotional Learning).
He is a proud member of Sag Aftra.
Some of his favorite theatrical performances include “Bye Bye Birdie” (Albert), “Let it Rain” (Mick, Best Actor- Professional, 2024 Desert Star Awards Nominee), “Little Shop of Horrors” (Seymour), “Fiddler on the Roof” (Motel), and “South Pacific” (Stewpot). He has also acted in TV shows such as “Zoey 101,” “Big Time Rush,” and “Cold Case,” as well as various other films, shows and commercials. Directed works include “Legally Blonde: The Musical” (Best Director, Best Musical, 2024 Desert Star Awards Nominee) “It’s a Wonderful Life: A Live Radio Play,” (Best Director, Best Play, 2024 Desert Star Awards Nominee) Nominee “Trap” (Best Director, 2024 Desert Star Awards Nominee), “Little Shop of Horrors” (Best Musical, 2023 Desert Star Awards Nominee), “A Christmas Carol” (Best Director Nominee, Best Play WINNER 2023 Desert Star Awards), “Theatre Duranged,” “Aladdin Jr., ” “Starlight Spotlight,” “Bye Bye Birdie,” “The Sound of Music,” “Disney’s Deviants” and more.
As the head of the Theatre department at La Quinta High School, Mr. Brett teaches beginning, intermediate, and advanced levels of theatre (including audition technique, scene study, improvisation, playwriting, history, and mindfulness, etc.).
Currently, he is Directing “She Kills Monsters: Young Adventurers Edition” at La Quinta High School. The show runs November 14, 15, 16 (6:30 PM) and November 17 (2:30 PM). Tickets are available at the box office on performance days.
He is thrilled to have an amazing husband (Randy) and fur-child (Clarence).
If you would like to contact him, please email him: jonathanbretteb@gmail.com
RANDY BRENNERIn this engaging conversation, Randy Brenner shares his journey from a child performer in Philadelphia to a successful actor and director in theater and television. He discusses the challenges and joys of performing, his coming out experience, and his efforts to raise awareness and funds for AIDS through innovative theater productions. The conversation also touches on his marriage to his husband Jonathan, life in Palm Springs, and the importance of pursuing creative passions at any age.
BIO:
Mr. Brenner’s most recent directing credit, was the highly critical acclaimed Mr. Parker at Dezart Performs, nominated for 8 Desert Star Awards, including Best director, and won Best Drama Professional 2024! Previously, he was nominated for a DTL Award for his direction of A Funny Thing Happened On The Way To The Gynecologic Oncology Unit At Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Of New York City for Dezart last season. Mr. Brenner directed a very successful staged reading of Beverly Hills Hotel Peace Talks, which will have a full production and be part of the 2024-2025 season at CVRep. premiering May 20th. He has been nominated and won multiple Awards including the New York Outer Critics’ Circle, Drama-Logue, Robbie, Phoebe, Scenie, Desert Theatre League, GLAAD, and raves from the New York Times for his off-Broadway production of The Only Worse Thing You Could Have Told Me… starring Dan Butler and, later, Greg Louganis. He has directed over 50 musicals and plays including White Christmas, You're a Good Man Charlie Brown (with an all-star Broadway cast), Fiddler…, South Pacific, Nine, Stephen Schwartz’s Snapshots (Directed/Created with Stephen Schwartz), Autumn Canticle, Man of La Mancha, Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, and the first gay version of Marry Me A Little sanctioned by Mr. Sondheim himself. Previously, Mr. Brenner served as director and dramaturg for the Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts’ GROW Program, leading a class he developed in collaboration with Steven Schwartz and Stormy Sacks, where young adults wrote and presented new musical works. Randy would like to thank his husband Jonathan, and their fur-child Clarence for their love and support. Randy is a proud member of SDC.
As an actor, Mr. Brenner was last seen on stage to rave reviews as Nostradamus in 5 Star Theatricals production of “Something Rotten” at Thousand Oaks Performing Arts Center. Previously lead roles: Ballroom (CVREP), Aladdin (Disney’s California Adventure), Beauty and the Beast (Disney Imagineering), City of Angeles (Reprise!), Follies, How to Succeed, L’il Abner (MTW), Empire, Burlesque (The Broad), Toby in Sweeney Todd (SJCLO), Guys and Dolls (La Mirada), A Midsummer Night’s Dream, Shine, Tintypes (Virginia Museum Theatre). Broadway/Off- Broadway; Found a Peanut, The Front, Man of La Mancha, New Faces of ’52 (Revival), Joley (Pre Broadway). Touring; Fiddler on the Roof, The Music Man, Tintypes.TV/Film; “911: Lonestar”, “Glow”, “Seinfeld”, “My Name is Earl”, “SpongeBob”, “Evil Dead 2”, “Geppetto”. Randy is a proud member of Actor’s Equity Association.
Contract Randy via Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/randy.brenner.9
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
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Dr. Robert Philipson
Filmmaker/Executive
Philipson is a former academic professor of African-American studies with a passion for Jazz & African art. A published author and Harlem Renaissance historian, he has produced multiple films about the intersectionality of Race, Music, & Sexuality.
His newest film is "The Knowing"
Written by Dr. Robert Philipson and directed by Jonathan Rowan
Adam, a white man in his late 30s, is visiting his Black ex-lover, Peter, who is dying of AIDS in a DC hospital. The year is 1992. Also in attendance is Cherie, a Black lesbian naval officer who is Peter’s best friend. The two sympathetically listen to Peter’s complaints about how his “Christian” family has abandoned him until a nurse arrives to give Peter medication. While waiting in the hospital cafeteria, Adam and Cherie, meeting that day for the first time, compare notes about the course of Peter’s illness. This leads them to a terrible discovery. Adam, in particular, is confronted with a choice that, while still in shock, he doesn’t know how to handle.
For more information on Dr. Philipson and Shoga Films, go to:
https://www.shogafilms.com
Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2024
Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
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IN BRETT'S OWN WORDS:I initially did the Ride in 1999 because, at the time, I thought I had only months to live. It was my sixth anniversary of being HIV. Medications were limited and toxic. My health was struggling greatly, so I wanted to challenge myself to fight for those living and aging with HIV/AIDS one last time, myself included. However, to my thankful surprise, I'm still here!
Since 1993, when the Ride began as the "California AIDS Ride," participants have raised more than $300+ million and completed more than 42,000 journeys on bikes from San Francisco to Los Angeles.
The stigma of HIV remains very prevalent, and many in the HIV community are still reluctant to talk about it. Those living and aging with HIV/AIDS struggle daily to maintain their health and get reasonably priced health services. New infections are still alarmingly present in communities all over the US. Those becoming HIV+ are constantly saying, "We didn't know, we didn't realize, we don't care, no one told us, we thought it was a manageable disease!.
We realize that the week out on AIDS/LifeCycle is the hardest we will work all year, but it is also the most emotional and fulfilling for me and the other Riders and Roadies.
(from 2021) My personal training story started in September after a ten-month recovery from a nasty bike crash. Thankfully, I'm now riding 100-200 miles weekly, but it can be grueling, a huge time-suck, and days filled with mental and physical challenges, but I do it with my Desert Roadrunners team of like-minded and selfless individuals. Team Desert Roadrunners represents our own 'desert love bubble.' I was raised on the idea that community and service are essential and can fulfill your wildest dreams and goals. The love that comes towards you as a Rider or Roadie, you get to give back tenfold to other people. It's incredibly emotionally filling.
The AIDS/LifeCycle advances the shared interests of the beneficiaries in reducing new HIV infections and improving the quality of life for people living and aging with HIV/AIDS. It raises crucial awareness about the ongoing epidemic, in addition to funding critical services such as HIV testing and screenings for other sexually transmitted infections, medical care, prevention services, housing, and more.
In addition to the 1.2 million people living with HIV and AIDS in the United States, 1 in 7 people do not know they live with the disease.
https://giving.aidslifecycle.org/participant/43387
Desert Sun: https://www.desertsun.com/story/news/health/2022/06/03/palm-springs-resident-ride-545-miles-raise-funds-hiv-aids/7462292001/
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
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Daniel Stewart
After the death of his mother when he was only six years old was when his father said it was "God's will" and he was not to question it. That was only the beginning of his problems that went on for decades.
Daniel Stewart has led a very interesting life. As a teen, he figured out that he was gay, was outed to his religious father by a disgruntled lover and was subsequently rejected and kicked out of his home. That started him on a precarious downward spiral. But he figured out a way to turn his life around...
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Dr. Sean Ferri is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist (#34510) in both California and New Jersey. His doctoral research focused on the need for expanding LGBTQ+ competency within school-based mental health programs across the U.S. Prior to his clinical work, he was an educator and taught in a multitude of settings including China, Harlem, NY, and NJ. He currently teaches Human Sexuality and Intimacy at Pepperdine’s Graduate School of Education & Psychology. His areas of focus include the LGBTQ+ Community, anxiety, grief, and exploring the intersectionality of neurodivergency and gender identity.
Contact Sean via email: drseantherapy@gmail.com.
LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free.
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
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I'm very happy that my friend Amine came by and we recorded this podcast episode. It's a definite eye-opener!
Contact Amine here:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amineraif/
email: amineraif@yahoo.com
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Text or call 988 on your cell phone for help.
LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free.
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
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Ryan St. Michael is a full-time content creator based out of Palm Springs, CA. After graduating from the University of South Carolina in his home state, he moved to Cape Town, South Africa for fourteen months to study in a Masters in Public Health Program while on a Rotary International Ambassadorial Scholarship. Following his time overseas, St. Michael went to law school at the University of Houston Law Center. He practiced family law litigation for four years before resigning to go into full-time business with his ex, an artist. In addition to owning and operating an art gallery for a dozen years, the couple co-founded a nonprofit for artists to train them on entrepreneurial skills. After their divorce, Ryan decided to pursue his passion of content creation.
Links:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ryanstmichael
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ryansaintmichael/
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In Shaun's own words:
As a young boy, growing up in Virginia, I used to pour over house plan books from the local library for hours! I was fascinated with interior design, architecture, and what HOME represents to all people. I found that rooms and our environments can influence us in many ways including our emotions and our life experiences. I continued my hobby of design, and architecture appreciation throughout my teen years. I initially followed a career path in Musical Theater, but that is a story for another time. After discovering that I preferred roots to wings I decided that the traveling life was not for me and honed my skills in hospitality management with the Marriott Corporation. It is there that I found my love of service and helping others realize their dreams. I moved to the Palm Springs area eight years ago after falling in love with the architecture and the natural beauty of the Coachella Valley. I am extremely grateful to be able to help others find their piece of paradise here in our glorious valley.
Contact Shaun: https://shaunwaters.com/
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Aaron Fury is an actor, model and medical professional. Born and raised in Washington state, Aaron’s small town charm and creative flair have served him well, engaging in a variety of entertainment roles including show producer, gogo dancer, DJ, singer songwriter and now actor and model. Aaron made the big leap from Washington State to California to pursue his dreams and see where the sun, palm trees and opportunities lead him.
CONTACT AARON:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaron_fury_/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AaronFury
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Trent Blanchard, M.A. is a human being in search of the true meaning of life! He’s spent over half of his life studying, attending endless workshops and being therapatized up the yin yang to understand his own internal struggle to figure it out and ultimately, experience that ever elusive thing called inner peace.
What he thinks he’s figured out is that love, worthiness and perfection are the foundation of our being and that it is up to us to embark on a journey of releasing any emotional, physical, mental or spiritual beliefs that are not in alignment with this Truth.
Whilst Trent continues to walk his own journey he feels obligated, and privileged, to share the wisdom he’s acquired with others as they walk through theirs.
Trent Blanchard is an accidental alchemist; through the love he showed himself in facing his own struggle, he has transformed his pain into medicine that heals himself and others.
Contact:Trent Blanchard, MA
760.481.4445
https://www.instagram.com/trent4change/
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STEVEN DREW AUERBACH
Steven Drew Auerbach is a recognized International Business Consultant specializing in Brand Marketing/Management for over 30 years. His work has taken him around the world, and he has brought numerous luxury brands to the U.S. market. Steven has been featured as both “A Retail Guru” and “A Top Designer to Watch” by LDB Magazine. He has also been a guest on National Public Radio due to his work in social entrepreneurship.
Raised on the east coast by a fashion model/clothing designer mother and legal scholar/entrepreneur father, provided him with the foundation to be both a designer and business executive. Auerbach earned his Bachelor of Science Degree in Business/Consumer Science at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst. He also holds certificates in International Negotiation, Importation and Harmonized Scheduling. Additionally, he earned a Writer’s Certificate from UCLA and is a published journalist and public speaker.
In 2017 Auerbach shifted his career from private business to non-profit. He has served on the advisory boards of two non-profits that focus on the health and welfare of the LGBTQ+ community, is the COO and Director of Business Development for the HIV+ Aging Research Project and is a Founding Partner of The Chosen Family Project.
Residing in Palm Springs, CA Auerbach lives with his two dogs, Rocco and Teddi, (which he declares are “full of so much love it should be illegal”). Auerbach enjoys yoga, is an ardent reader, news junkie and makes a mean kugel.
Web:
http://www.TheChosenFamilyProject.org
http://www.HARP-PS.org
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In Matt Irby's own words:
When the pandemic hit, I was working a corporate job in Seattle and was given the opportunity to work from home and live where I pleased. My first thought? Palm Springs! I moved here in late 2020, made a great group of friends and started doing "game nights" every week.
As game nights went on and the group got larger, it became a true source of happiness and connection in an otherwise chaotic work life I had.
Then it hit me!
If I could feel this great connecting with new and old friends playing games, aren’t there others out there wanting the same thing? I was sitting at my desk in another corporate drone meeting, and it came to me: “Play”. I wanted a cool hangout spot that I could go to and meet new people that centered around games. Then more came to my mind... why not extend it and have a café in the morning where people can work from and grab some food throughout the day, then flip it to a lounge in the evening with fun board games, outdoor games, pool tables, darts, etc. with a different selection of beer and wine?
Play was officially born and opened in September 2023.
I love sharing my passion with you and making a lot of new friends along the way! See you at Play!
Matt Irby
web site: https://www.playloungeps.com
Matt's email: Matt@playloungeps.com
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IN ANGELA'S OWN WORDS:
I was in the 3rd grade at an elementary school in rural Oregon, when my teacher Mrs. Peterson gave me the lead role of Little Red Riding Hood in the school play to help me overcome my paralyzing shyness. It worked. If she saw me now, she’d ask me to stand down and let someone else take a turn.
Following my 9-year-old acting debut, I auditioned for a nearby musical theatre company with my mom & brother. They were both cast in the chorus of ‘The Music Man,’ and I was asked to stay off-stage and run the spotlight. My lack of singing ability stalled my career as quickly as it started.
The acting bug didn’t strike again until a modeling gig for a cheerleading uniform company helped me land an agent in Portland. From there came a handful of commercials and lots of dinner theatre.
I didn’t exactly sprint out of the gate, but I did count my blessings early with a fun role in a Robin Williams movie and a guest-star role on ER, …oooh, maybe I’ll meet Clooney!
Then there was a big writer’s strike. It went on so long my agency shut down and I was, as they say on set, ‘back to one.’ (Disclosure-I was and am in full support of my fellow union workers!)
Waiting for the phone to ring sucks, so I took matters into my own hands and produced a staged play at a small black box theatre. Surely, if I spent all my hard-earned waitressing dollars on theatrical rights, stage rentals, and hard-to-find props, I’d be discovered.
When that didn’t work, I decided to by a camcorder and take a film class at the community college. I wrote a short film about the perils of being a struggling actress and managed to convince some friends to help me make it. My mom was even in town and worked as a free cinematographer.
The countless short films and web series may not have been seen by Spielberg, but they sure were a blast. And learning about every stage of production and every job on set paid off in ways I’m still benefitting from. Both in working knowledge & connections.
I won best comedy writing awards, best comedy actress awards, and best indie film awards. I got to play all three Kartrashian sisters, Elizabeth Taylor and even dropped my first single complete with a music video. If only auto-tune had been around for that early musical audition!
The skills behind the scenes have helped me find a ‘day job’ that allows me to share my talents with the local non-profit, Alzheimer’s Los Angeles, where I develop and create edutainment that raises awareness and makes a difference in people’s lives. Some of the scripted works have received multiple boundary-breaking and innovation awards.
Along my journey I met the uber-talented Laura Lee Bahr, who wrote and directed a feature for me to produce and star in alongside the cutest dog in the world, who happens to be mine. It was truly an art-imitating-life story about an actress, moonlighting as a dog-walker who must save an adorable Maltese from some crazy Hollywood characters. We overcame the typical odds of an indie film and secured both national and worldwide distribution. #humblebrag
I’ve schmoozed as a TV Academy member, performed my set on famous comedy stages and finally got to go to the Emmys.
I should probably add some more celebrity name dropping and list the high-profile credits, but this bio has gotten a little too long so you will have to click on the resume button on my website if you want to see those.
I’m grateful to be able to pursue the things I love and build fabulous relationships along the way. While I may not have my series regular role…YET, I’m certainly living my dream.
More info and to contact Angela: http://www.angelalandis.com
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Freddy Rodriguez, also known as @freddynotfred, established his digital footprint with his blog on Tumblr called Blue Perk in 2011 in New York City. Over the years, Freddy has evolved Blue Perk into a dynamic lifestyle brand that has worked with various clients such as H&M, Kenneth Cole, Samsung, Toyota, Pottery Barn, Visit Berlin, Visit Puerto Vallarta, Jet Blue, and more.
Freddy curates content that resonates with digitally savvy, LGBTQ+, fashion-forward urbanites, offering a kaleidoscope of happy, uplifting moments. Freddy dedicates himself fully to managing his brand, dividing his time between Los Angeles, New York City, and various vibrant cultural hubs globally, perpetuating his mission of spreading joy, fashion, and LGBTQ+ acceptance through colorful experiences.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/freddynotfred/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@freddy.notfred
Website: https://blueperkmoment.com/
Tumblr: https://blueperk.tumblr.com/
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Joe Boss is a Certified Addiction Counselor II, (CADC ll) and Internationally Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (ICADC), registered with the California Consortium of Addiction Programs and Professionals (CCAPP). He has actively worked as an addiction and co-dependency professional in the field for over 16 years at The Betty Ford Center, ABC Recovery Center, and with renowned addiction specialist and author, Dr. Harry Haroutunian. Joe owns and operates Boss Counseling Services, focusing on co-dependence, relationship, and addiction counseling. He has also been dedicated to his own recovery from addiction and codependency for over 22 years. Additionally, he is the author of the book, Take Your Power Back, A Journal To Self-Discovery.
Website: bosscounselingservices.net
Email: joe@bosscounselingservices.net
Link to book: https://a.co/d/4IlyFhe
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In Joseph's own words:
"I grew up in a large Catholic Family in the 60s and 70s. My family has a long history of depression, suicide and addiction and I not only navigated my parent’s battles, but as an adult lived with my own. I started singing as a child and at the age of 13 sang with the MN Orchestra in the nationally known Metropolitan Boy’s Choir. I met my husband during my 40th birthday weekend and married him on my 43rd Birthday. He told me the first night we met that he had a mental illness, but he was managing it successfully. I was profoundly and deeply in love with him throughout our marriage and I think he felt the same about me. Two weeks after we took our 16th Anniversary roadtrip vacation, he was murdered by our mentally ill neighbor. My life exploded and I almost killed myself with alcohol. Luckily, with mass amounts of support I sobered up and dealt with my grief by helping to pass historic mental health legislation in the state of MN. I formed a foundation in my husband’s name (ThePaulJamesPfeiferFoundation.org) to advocate for those suffering with a mental illness and use my lifelong passion for singing and story telling to raise $ for that foundation. I continue to live in MN, but also own a home in Palm Springs (paradise) California".
More info: http://www.thepauljamespfeiferfoundation.org
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John Corr is very active on the Coachella Valley/Palm Springs theatre scene.
He has some very interesting thoughts and stories to tell...
John on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/jacorrjr
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I met James Maillet many years ago in Seattle. He's an adventure seeker who just quit his corporate banking job in order to travel around the world for at least two years... hear the why and how of his adventure. So many of us dream about doing something like this- but he's actually doing it!
James' IG: http://instagram.com/jamesmaillet
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Steve Milliken
Steve Milliken is the proud gay author of LATE BLOOMER BABY BOOMER—A Collection of Humorous Essays About Being Gay Back in the Day and Finally Finding My Way. Born and raised in Southern California, his literary escapade takes you on a journey through the decades, chronicling his adventures as a gay baby boomer and his lifelong pursuit of the perfect coming-out story—spoiler alert: it's a comedy of errors…..
While the primary focus of these essays is to bring laughter to the hearts of readers, LATE BLOOMER BABY BOOMER offers more than just entertainment. While drawing comparisons to David Sedaris, it also helps bridge the gay generation gap between the younger and older gay men’s communities through its humor and historical perspective on the challenges gay men have faced through the years. His unique blend of laughter and nostalgia with sprinkles of wisdom will captivate readers as a certified remedy for those pesky "I need a good laugh and some enlightenment" moments….
LBBB back cover text:
What happens when the class clown becomes the teacher?
Whether teaching in the urban ghetto or navigating the gay ghetto, Steve Milliken bridges the gay generation gap as he finds the funny about the lifelong coming out process.
This book is for anyone who is gay, knows someone who is gay, or even a “straight” guy who’s had a gay experience, like wearing a belt that matches his shoes.
"Steve Milliken's writing style is reminiscent of David Sedaris's quirky humor, but with own his unique spin. He has the true humorist's ability to find the hilariousness in all of life's awkward and sometimes painful moments. Treat yourself to this book if you love writing that will make you laugh out loud!" ANDI MATHENY, actress, acting coach, and author of Act ALIVE: The Essential Guide to Igniting and Sustaining Your Working Actor Career
Author Steve Milliken reveals, “While teaching in the inner-city with an implicit ‘Don’t ask, don’t tell’ policy, I led a double life, somewhere between Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde and Hannah Montana. While intelligent and insightful, I counter this by being incredibly gullible and naïve. Strong, yet timid, caring but sarcastic, I’m all about the balance, as any self-respecting oxymoron should be….”
A Southern California native, his wide-ranging essays include concealing your inner sissy in the 60s, a guide for piloting the proper parameters of profanity in the workplace, tapping into your potential for prank calls, and looking behind the scenes at catering to the temperamental stars of the ’70s at the famed Brown Derby Restaurant.
Steve Milliken’s experiential essay titles include “My Rocky Horror Virginity Show,” “Sober Porn,” “My Colonoscopy Eve,” and “Bitch Ass Snitch” to name just a few….
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STAN ZIMMERMAN is a man of many mediums (TV, film and theatre). He’s been nominated for two WGA Awards for Best Comedy Writing – The Golden Girls and Roseanne. Stan’s also written and produced on Gilmore Girls, co-created the Lifetime sitcom, Rita Rocks, wrote on both Brady Bunch movies and rewrote the ABC-TV movie of Annie. Stan has a BFA-Drama from NYU/Circle-in-the-Square and has directed such LA productions as The Diary of Anne Frank-Latinx (eight iterations since 2018), Entertaining Mr. Sloane, A Tuna Christmas, Gemini, Spike Heels, Pledge, Heartbreak Help and his original plays -- Meet & Greet, Knife to the Heart, Yes Virginia and Have a Good One. Stan directed Off-Broadway’s Hyprov (Daryl Roth Theatre). TRWplays has published and licensed four of his works -- Yes Virginia, Silver Foxes and his suicide awareness play, right before I go, including a School Edition. Stan has appeared in the play across the U.S. Zimmerman & Berg wrote the recent Lifetime Christmas movie, Ladies of the 80’s: A Divas Christmas. Stan’s book, The Girls: From Golden to Gilmore is available from Indigo River Publishing. Stan’s next directing gig is the World Premiere of Peter Ritt’s High Maintenance (Road Theatre Company, North Hollywood, April ‘24).
Web: https://www.zimmermanstan.com
IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0956785/
Buy the Book: https://www.amazon.com/Girls-Golden-Gilmore-Stan-Zimmerman/dp/1954676603/
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Andrew Easton is a young scientist who decided to get into the gay adult entertainment industry as a performer.
Contact Andrew: scruffygaynerd@gmail.com
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Barbara Kerr, APR, Fellow PRSA, is an award-winning journalist, public relations leader, and actress whose career has taken her across the United States and around the world.
Journalism, communications and public relationsAn Emmy-nominated reporter as well as an anchor, producer and news director at network television affiliates in Ohio and Maryland, Barbara Kerr was named “Achiever of the Year” by the Dayton Chapter of American Women in Radio and Television. In 2019, she was inducted into the Dayton (Ohio) Area Broadcasters Hall of Fame.
As a communications and media advisor for government, business, public and nonprofit organizations, she has worked nationally in cities including New York City, San Francisco, Portland, Milwaukee and Washington, D.C. as well as internationally in Bulgaria, Hong Kong and the Philippines.
Her honors include the “Leading Change Award” from the Southeastern Wisconsin Chapter of Women in Communications as well as recognition from the Hermes Creative Awards, MarCom Awards and the National Council for Marketing & Public Relations.
As a member of PRSA's Portland Metro Chapter (now part of PRSA Oregon), Kerr served as chapter president in 2014, having previously served as vice president of member services and vice president of member communications. In 2016, she received the chapter’s William W. Marsh Lifetime Achievement Award. In 2015, she was inducted into the PRSA College of Fellows. She served in multiple roles on the College of Fellows Executive Committee, including secretary-treasurer, vice chair and chair.
With a passion for stories about people and the arts, she has served as a freelance writer for the Desert Sun, a daily news outlet serving the Coachella Valley, and for other regional organizations.
TheaterBarbara Kerr’s lifelong love of theater began in the first grade and has continued throughout her life.
She has appeared in regional productions from New York City to San Francisco and in Canada and Greenland. In the Coachella Valley, she has been proud to perform with The Bent Theatre, Desert Ensemble Theatre and RJ Art Theatrical Productions.
She received rave reviews for her performance in the one-woman play, Shirley Valentine. Her dramatic credits includeThe Lion in Winter (Eleanor of Aquitaine), Agnes of God (Mother Superior and Dr. Livingstone), Hamlet (Gertrude), Wit (Dr. Vivian Bearing), The Sisters Rosensweig (Sara), Crumbs from the Table of Joy (Gerte), The Guys (Joan), Moon Over Buffalo (Charlotte Hay), Separate Tables (Anne/Sibyl), Talley’s Folly (Sally Talley), and Monday After the Miracle(Anne Sullivan Macy).
She has performed in comedies including It’s Only A Play (Julia Budder), The Importance of Being Earnest (Lady Bracknell), Moon Over Buffalo (Charlotte Hay), A Midsummer Night’s Dream (Helena) and Plaza Suite(Karen/Muriel/Norma).
Her musical credits include Gypsy (Rose), Mame (Mame), Follies (Phyllis), Company (Joanne), Anyone Can Whistle (Cora and Fay), Anything Goes (Reno), Annie (Miss Hannigan), A Little Night Music (Charlotte), The Most Happy Fella (Cleo), Bye Bye Birdie (Rosie), Applause (Margo), Lady in the Dark (Liza),and musical tributes to Stephen Sondheim, Cole Porter, George Gershwin, Rodgers and Hart, Kurt Weill and Sir NoëlCoward.
To contact Barbara: barbararkerr@hotmail.com
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In Marc's own words:
"The practice of Orgasmic Shamanism emerged as a result of exploring Shamanism, somatic movement therapy and tantra.
It is also a Mystery school practice. Mainly attributed to the Ancient Greeks and Egyptians, the mystery school is a grueling and process of radical transformation.
It is based on awakening the true self by connecting with the greater realms of the unseen, the cosmos.
All my workshops, sessions, retreats, trainings all work within a 5-stage framework:
Stage 1- Discovery: The discovery that our body is our tool to access great transformation by connecting us to oneness.
Stage 2- Initiation: After this discovery, we then find ourselves able to face our demons, our shadow, every area of our life that is seeking resolution.
Stage 3- Awakening: This is the awakening of a higher power within. It also involves the realization of the uniqueness of our essence.
Stage 4- Embodying: We then embody and harness this higher within ourselves and feel its medicine.
Stage 5- Integration: We then embody and harness this higher within ourself and feel its medicine.
Today my work is unapologetic, simultaneously subtle and explicit, supportive and radical.
I work with men to explore every aspect of their lives. Together, we explore their darkest shadows and most shameful fantasies and learn to make space for their highest gifts to emerge. At times, we sit in the stillness of the eternal void and let the energy transmissions do their job.
Everything I do aims to help people connect to their truth by engaging with the oneness within. Whether someone is a beginner, an experienced practitioner, a facilitator in training, or an advanced therapist, this work is about allowing them to be who they truly are; to engage with the flow of life; and to bring forward their highest gifts in the most effortless way possible".
For more info or to contact Marc, please visit his website (Must be 18+ years old):
https://orgasmicshaman.com
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Interesting Facts About **Kevin Phinney:
***He has worked across the strata of media and yet so far remains below your radar.
*Over the course of his various lifetimes, he has been a drama critic, a boyfriend, fiancé, a husband , morning show radio host, an ex-husband, the creator of a gay advice column called "Ask Daddy" that briefly broke the internet and an entertainment reporter whose interviews range from stage and screen stars to musicians, politicians, news celebrities, and sports heroes.
*He's a native of Brooklyn who was raised in El Paso, Texas and graduated from a small college in Austin.
*He's lived in Los Angeles, New Orleans, Seattle and New York City.
*These days, he divides his time between NYC and his beloved second home of Austin.
*He's currently a resident of Hell's Kitchen, and partnered to Ryan Branom, perhaps the sweetest man on Earth.
*He works part time as a Manhattan tour guide and moonlights as a screenwriter.
*He is an adult survivor of domestic violence and no longer bats an eye to be hypospadic.
*Also being Irish, his favorite drink is the next one.
*He is the only man alive who can honestly claim to have been understudy to Sonny Bono in "The Owl and the Pussycat," and to have bought U2's Bono his first margarita.
Everything else is all lies, rumor and innuendo.
Contact Kevin via Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kevin.phinney.12
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Find Micky on his IG: https://www.instagram.com/luismigueldmc/
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STEWART WADE
From a young age, Stewart Wade knew he wanted to tell stories. He performed skits in the backyard for his captive parents and friends, and attempted his first novel at age ten. A bit later, Stewart tried his hand at poetry, short stories, and playwriting, ultimately getting a Master’s degree in Theater, Film and Television from UCLA.
After a few years in the Hollywood trenches, Stewart wrote and directed his first feature film, Coffee Date, starring Wilson Cruz, Jonathan Silverman, Sally Kirkland, Elaine Hendrix, Jason Stuart, and Debbie Gibson. The movie garnered numerous awards and received a limited theatrical release, ultimately playing in rotation for a year on MTV's LOGO channel. His next movie, Tru Loved, starred Najarra Townsend and Jake Abel, and featured Jasmine Guy, Alexandra Paul, Alec Mapa, Cynda Williams, Bruce Vilanch, Nichelle Nichols, Vernon Wells -- and Jane Lynch. It also won several awards before playing in rotation on Here!TV for many years.
Next up, Stewart directed and co-produced Such Good People, a screwball comedy written by David Michael Barrett and starring Michael Urie, Randy Harrison, and James Urbaniak, with supporting roles by Scott Wolf, Ana Ortiz, Lance Bass, Alec Mapa, Tom Lenk, Drew Droege, and Rick Overton. At about this same time, Stewart created Coffee House Chronicles. This web series is an ongoing passion, as each episode is self-contained and can be produced when time and money allow.
Most recently, Stewart has written and directed his first drama, Say Yes, and now the sequel, Baby Steps. Both star Patrick Zeller and Matt Pascua, and are available on Amazon Prime.
Contact: Stewartnla@aol.com
Web: http://www.stewartwadefilms.wordpress.com
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BILLY CLIFT
Emmy nominated filmmaker, Billy Clift, “A Long Road to Freedom: The Advocate Celebrates 50 years”, has created a vast body of work that consists of a wide range of different genres. Such as the Feature film “Jacked”, on Homeless youth, The short films, “Monty”, Montgomery’s Clift’s last dying day, “No Goodbyes”, a true story about love in a concentration camp, and “Lena’s Dance” ( Dee Wallace). The ridiculous cult comedies, “Baby Jane?” And “Hush Up Sweet Charlotte” (Mink Stole, Varla Jean Merman), realty tv such as “Food Fetish”, “Behind the Bar” and the travel show “Underground”. Streaming tv shows, (two seasons) “Not So Straight in Silver Lake”, (Daniel Franzaese, Calpernia Adams), “My Sister is So Gay”, (Loni Anderson, Debra Wilson, Ray Dawn Chong) and in post for “The Lair : Hollywood” to be streaming in January 2024.
He's created over 40 music video’s of different musical styles… short form documentaries focusing on people who have made significant contributions to society like Arron Walton, a CEO of a black Public relations firm to Lawyer, Gloria Allred who has been a strong force in underserved rights.
He is in post-production for the feature film “Here We Are”, a film on racism during the pandemic, starring Sally Kirkland, Christine Elise, Elizabeth Regan, Wil J. Jackson and Mel England. He's also in post-production for the documentary “Our Lady in The Kitchen” About a painting that had been stolen by the Nazis, ending up in a household in Silver Lake, California.
Billy is in pre-production with a plethora of different projects, continually striving to push his creativity to find new fresh ways to tell stories.
Email Billy: billyclift@me.com
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J Craig Fong is a recovering attorney. It is not clear whether an attorney ever truly recovers.
A graduate of Yale and the University of Pennsylvania, J has been a corporate attorney and a civil rights advocate. J served as the Director of Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund and also as the Board Chair of Asian Pacific AIDS Intervention Team in Los Angeles.
In recent decades, J was an immigration attorney with offices in Hollywood, Pasadena, and Palm Springs, focusing primarily on family unification cases and visas.
Currently, he serves as a Commissioner on the Palm Springs International Airport Commission.
He lives in the Cathedral City Cove, with his two cats Benji and Merlin, and with his husband Andrew.
Email J at: jcf@fongaquino.com
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Craig Chester is an award winning actor best known for his roles in the movies “Swoon”, ”Grief”, “Frisk”, “Kiss Me, Guido”, “I Shot Andy Warhol” and as the Birkin Bag Guy on “Sex & The City”.
He transitioned to a successful career as a television writer when St. Martin’s Press published his memoir, “Why The Long Face? The Adventures of a Truly Independent Actor”, writing and producing three seasons of LOGO’s “Big Gay Sketch Show” and HBO’s smash hit, “True Blood”.
He is currently working on a new memoir and “Adam & Steve 55+”, the sequel to 2005’s “Adam & Steve”, which he starred in and also wrote and directed.
He lives in Palm Springs, CA.
Craig's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrcraigchester/
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BENNETT YELLIN
Born and raised in Los Angeles, Bennett received his B.A. in fiction from U.C.L.A. Still not ready to enter the real world, he enrolled at UMass in Amherst for an M.F.A. in fiction. It was there — on the first day of school — that he met and befriended Peter Farrelly. On a lark, they tried writing a comedy together and this spec script ultimately got into the hands of Eddie Murphy and the Zucker Brothers, creators of Airplane and The Naked Gun. Both Murphy and the Zuckers asked the duo to write movies for them, and their career was off and running.
Yellin wrote exclusively with Peter for years until they asked his brother Bobby to join them. The three went on to write a number of unproduced features together until they created Dumb and Dumber in 1994 and reunited in 2014 to co-write the official sequel chronicling the further idiotic adventures of Harry and Lloyd, Dumb and Dumber To.
In 2007, the Farrelly Brothers branched out on their own and Yellin partnered with James Robert Johnson to create a professional writing duo that has endured for sixteen years. Among the plethora of projects they’ve tackled during their career — some produced, others not — the two have co-written Let’s Scare Jessica to Deathfor Paramount Pictures, the Fox situation comedy Unhitched, the direct-to-DVD thriller Joy Ride 2: Dead Ahead, Paramount Pictures’ Hotel For Dogs 2, the Anchor Bay action-thriller In the Blood with Gina Carano, the 20th Century Fox family film, Santa’s Little Helper, and the Warner Brothers re-boot of the Police Academy series, Police Academy: Takin’ it to the Streets. More recently, Yellin and Johnston have co-written a live action family stage show adaptation of the hugely popular Angry Birds IP, and the two are currently at work creating an original pilot for a new animated show.
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GAMÉL
Artist's Statement:
"In 2020, I left the tech industry and moved to Palm Springs to pursue my passion for art full-time. During this time of adjustment, I worked on a painting titled "The Other Side", which proved to be prophetic. In January 2022 I experienced a personal tragedy when my mother passed away from COVID-19. In spite of this sorrow, I found solace and purpose in my artwork which helped me to cope. My works are unique in their use of color, space and materials, drawing on influences from the Renaissance period as well as 60's Pop Art and 21st Century design. The themes explored in these pieces reflect my struggles with life experience and strive for self-alteration. My works often combine hyperreal painting with a variety of materials such as acrylic, oil, steel, wood, transparent resin and Plexiglass to create an immersive viewing experience for the viewer.
By August of 2022 I opened my own gallery in Palm Springs where I exhibit these pieces. In my continual pursuit of self-expression, knowledge and experiences, I am constantly challenging myself to create pieces that are distinctively my own. My aim is to produce artwork that tells a story of resilience and what it means to be human, ultimately striving to evoke an atmosphere of eternal search or hunger for meaning. Through this work I have found healing in the midst of tragedy and hope in spite of life’s struggles. I believe that art is a powerful form of communication and I strive to create pieces that are both informed and individualized, reflecting the depths of my soul for all to witness. My journey continues with each canvas and every brushstroke as I work towards a brighter future. Thank you for joining me in this exploration".
Gamél/Palm Springs, CA/September 2023
Web: https://www.jongamelart.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jongamelart/
email: jon@jongamel.com
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Behind the scenes in Hollywood with Costume Designer Cherlyn Lanning.
And she has some pretty interesting stories!
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Paul Hietter
This is Paul's second visit as a guest on my podcast. This time we discuss aging as gay men in Palm Springs and a few of life's learned lessons.
Paul is a true renaissance man - having worked in a number of industries, with his favorites of being a caterer and event planner to the stars and a new thought minister.
He is always happiest when he is of service and learning something new.
Overcoming life’s obstacles seems a good hobby and with hiking, working out, being a Chef and humanitarian, there is never a dull moment.
Currently single, and a cat daddy of Rumi and Leo, Paul lives in Palm Springs, CA.
He may be reached at 760-567-5820 or PaulHietter@icloud.com.
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Nathan Serrato
As an ICF Certified Life Coach, Reiki Practitioner, Yoga Instructor, and Master Practitioner & Trainer in Time Line Therapy®, Hypnotherapy, and NLP; Nathan Serrato helps queer leaders and visionaries in their journeys toward deeper intimacy, spiritual reclamation, and purpose driven living so that they can fully embody their authentic, gifts and savor the joys of the queerdom along the way.
Website: queerconscious.com/soulconfidence
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/queerconscious/
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Originally from Boston, for the last decade, Alan Carvalho has been semi-retired in Cathedral City, CA. He continues shooting videos throughout the valley with his company: Cambridge Video.
He's been with his partner for 50 years and they've been in a 3 person relationship (throuple) for 28 years (they all live together). And now they're ready to conquer the next stage of retirement!
Bill Marx
William Woollcott Marx (born January 8, 1937) is an American pianist, arranger, and composer. He is the adopted son of actors Harpo Marx and Susan Fleming.
Marx was placed in the Children's Home Society in Los Angeles by his birth parents when he was eight months old, and four months later he was adopted by Harpo Marx and his wife, Susan Fleming. He attended the Juilliard School, where he studied composition and he studied with composer Mario Castelnuovo-Tedesco. He began working in entertainment when he was 12 years old, when he was put in charge of his father's props for shows, including his harp. At 16 he became arranger and musical conductor for his father.
Marx's compositions include concertos for alto saxophone, flute, harp, piano, and violin.] He also composed symphonies and scores for films, including the score for the film Weekend Pass (1984).
Marx transcribed music that his father composed, because the elder Marx did not read music. The two worked together on two albums that Harpo recorded in the early 1960s. He also composed and arranged for recording artists in both jazz and popular music.
In 1961, Marx signed with Vee-Jay Records. His projects there included arranging cover versions of music for four albums by the Castaway Strings. In 1967, he began writing music for commercials.
In the 1970s, he composed for several low-budget horror movies, including Scream Blacula Scream, Terror at Red Wolf Inn, and Count Yorga, Vampire. For these projects, he often collaborated with lyricist Marilyn Lovell. He continued his work on films outside the horror genre throughout the 1980s, such as arranging music for John Cassavetes' Big Trouble .
As a performer, Marx has played in jazz clubs, lounges, and theaters In the late 1980s, Marx and harpist Carrol McLaughlin toured the United States, giving performances and promoting Harpo Speaks, his father's autobiography.
In the early 1990s, Los Angeles magazine named Marx the most popular lounge pianist in that city. In 2002, he received a star at 265 S. Palm Canyon Drive on the Palm Springs Walk of Stars.
(Adapted from wikipedia).
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Gina Zollman grew up in Southern California, always singing in choirs and being in shows. She graduated from UCSD with a BA in Linguistics and a minor in Music. Her choral career extended way beyond college, culminating with performances at Carnegie Hall in NYC and at the Nokia and The Dorothy Chandler Pavilion in LA.
After being trained on Wall Street and establishing herself as a successful stockbroker in San Diego, Gina moved back to the LA area and worked as an executive in her family’s business, but soon show biz called and Gina pivoted to what she’d always longed to do. Soon she was a SAG member and putting on one-woman shows at nightclubs and bistros across the Southland. A highlight was selling out the Hollywood-Roosevelt Cinegrill, receiving 3 standing ovations, her name emblazoned on the 30-foot marquee.
Gina has also performed extensively in Palm Springs, appearing at The Arthur Newman Theatre with her one-woman show, appearing with Derrik Lewis and his “It’s Better With a Band” series, various nightclubs, and guest starring at Jazzville, at Agua Caliente Resort this past November.
Gina recorded her first CD “Anywhere With You” and released it at Catalina Jazz Club in Hollywood in March of 2023, to critical acclaim. She is poised to appear in 3 musical theatre productions at The Palm Canyon Theatre’s 2023-2024 season and has 2 one-woman shows she is booking in the US and Canada: “Love, Loss, and What I Weighed” including comedy as well as all the songs from her CD; she is also starring in a brand new “Anne Murray Tribute Show.” She has been called a “song stylist par excellence” and excels at getting to the heart of her carefully chosen songs, mostly from the Great American Songbook, sprinkled with original material and arrangements.
Contact Gina at: http://www.ginazollman.com
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"I had another experience when I was meditating that affirmed my life was transforming again. I dreamed I was standing on a river bank. There were people in canoes peacefully rowing in a river. I came to understand that the river was peaceful flow. The people in the canoes waved and smiled to come in. I looked up and down the river bank. There were countless people standing on the banks. Some walked into the river and a canoe appeared for their transport. Some shook with fear on the side. Those in the river were committed. Somehow I knew it was a big commitment. I waded in and the next thing I knew I was in a canoe. I felt immense peace. I knew I would never go back to the river bank. At the same time, there was no judgment about those on the river bank. There was a simple invitation to wade into the peaceful river of life...
I have witnessed the prison-house closing in on the growing child within myself and within my family. My work is dedicated to millions who have felt bound by the conditions that would imprison. My story is not unique. My message is simple, never ever give up! There is always hope. It is my intention that as you hear the story of my journey, you will remember from deep within you-- your calling, your purpose, and your recovery of the truth of who you are. You are already free.
You simply need to remember."
Larendee Roos
Founder Director Miracle Activation Center
Founder CEO Roos Advisors
Partner Ador Development
Facilitator Trainer Pathways of LightGrateful
Spouse, mom, and grandmother. Daughter of Abba Father.
To contact Larendee, simply text her at 1-801-209-3611
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NOTE**: This episode with Larendee originally aired in early 2022 when my podcast was new and I had few listeners/followers. I've re-mixed the audio and I'm re-publishing it now because a larger audience should hear her story.
Enrique Quintero is a Puerto Rican actor, writer, and video editor who now lives between Palm Springs and LA.
His television credits include Amazon’s Bosch, HBO Max’s Queer You Are, Netflix’s High Heat, and Hulu’s Tengoku Daimakyo. He appeared recently on films such as Anchor and Hope and Tu Me Manques.
He has graced the stage on productions of Chicago (Billy Flynn), In The Heights (Sonny), Arena (Adan Torrez), and Daddy Date (Beto).
He is currently working on a comedy screenplay called Kill Your Selves and is editing a queer documentary titled Flamingo Camp.
He was a finalist on the NBC Nosotros’ Ya Tú Sabes! Monologue Slam as a writer.
Represented by Trinity Artists International (310) 728-4000
For more into- email: wendy@trinityartist.com
https://www.instagram.com/enriquequintero787/
http://www.youtube.com/c/dorksided
http://www.twitter.com/@dorksided787
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Byron Scott Jones
"Everything you want is on the other side of fear". Transforming from an introverted gay man to performing naked in a play on stage. Byron discusses the process he went through in order to change. It happened one day in 2015. He sat down and made a list of all of the things that he felt were causing his depression. But he didn't stop there. He did something about it!
Byron is a 52 years old Miami native. He's been programming computers since he was a child and is currently a software engineer in the Healthcare education industry.
He's also a photographer, a model, an astronomer, a great cook and an avid reader.
He's been married 33 years, although that's coming to an amicable end shortly.
Byrons says that a he's looking forward to starting the next chapter of his life and will be moving to Palm Springs as soon as his family responsibilities allow. Stay tuned...
Contact Byron via email: Byronjones@outlook.com
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Helene Verin has a B.S. in Art from the University of Wisconsin at Madison and has a certificate in arts appraisal from NYU. Verin has worked for many galleries, museums as well as individual artists; including the Museum of Contemporary Art in Chicago, Documenta (where she worked with Joseph Beuys), was the Edinburgh Arts Administrator, and worked for Dennis Oppenheim as his registrar. She has written for FlashArt, Interview, and the Smithsonian.
As an award-winning designer of shoes, rugs, wallpaper, and tiles, Verin is intimately involved with contemporary design, with a specialty in couture and accessories. Her work has appeared in countless books and publications. A Professor at the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City, Verin has lectured around the world.
Recognized as the expert on Beth Levine, (having written Beth Levine Shoes, (Stewart, Tabori & Chang 2009) and curated 3 exhibitions, as well as authored Arsho Baghsarian (Schiffer Fashion Press.)
Verin moved to Palm Springs during Covid, May 2020.
Contact Helene: helene.verin@gmail.com
Helene's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heleneverin/?hl=en
Helene's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/helene.verin.9
Artsy Article: https://www.artsy.net/article/artsy-editorial-sit-andy-warhol
LABUCQ interview: https://labucq.com/pages/helene-verin
Helene's Books:
"Beth Levine Shoes " (2009)
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1584797592/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0
"Arsho Baghsarian: A Life in Shoes" (2019) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0764357328/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1
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The last two weeks, I visited my middle son Dave, his wife Meredith and my two grandsons Henry and Jack at their home in Dartmouth MA.
Dave is a good sport. He agreed to be interviewed for my podcast. After we were finished, he told me that it was now my turn and that he was going to interview ME for a podcast episode!
I was surprised at what I was feeling at first. I guess I was afraid of what he might ask. After all, he IS an attorney and he's be putting me on the stand, so to speak. LOL.
But as I thought about it and mentioned to my friend and energy guru Mark Hollenstein, he encouraged me to do it. He thought it would be good for both of us.
Before this interview, I had a little time to reflect and one of the things thatI realized was that I knew virtually nothing about my own father (or his father). What a gift it would have been to have been able to sit my own "Pop" down and ask him a bunch of questions. So we did the interview. I kind of figured that it would be a gift to each of us.
I had no idea what Dave would ask me. There were some interesting questions and I'm pretty sure that he got some interesting answers. Like: "Whoa. No, I did not know that grandma used to be an underwear model before she met your Dad and then she became a radio preacher"!
It's a light-hearted interview with a lot of interesting questions. I appreciate the time Dave took in preparing to participate.
Listen in to our bantering, interspersed with some great dialogue.
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NOTE: This interview was recorded earlier, when my podcast was new. I've enhanced the audio, upgraded the artwork and re-issued it now that more listeners will get to enjoy it.
An Interview with my middle son: Dave Wilkinson. We chat about his journey from each of our perspectives, his family, his business and his perspective when I came out to him as a gay man in 1999.
In this episode, I interview one of my favorite people in this world: my son David.
Two people can experience the exact same event and yet they can have two different perspectives on what happened. So we discuss what I saw as an amazing turnabout in his life from a very average high school student, to his life now as an attorney with multiple law offices on both coasts.
He talks about his current life as a married man and dad and we share some memories of his life growing up.
Lastly, we discuss what it was like for him when I came out as a gay man in 1999.
I hope you enjoy this rather personal look into my life as a father to this amazing man.
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NOTE: THIS IS AN INTERVIEW FROM MID 2022 WHEN MY PODCAST WAS NEW AND I DIDN'T HAVE MANY FOLLOWERS. I'VE BEEN RE-ISSUING SOME OF THE BETTER EPISODES SO THAT MY CURRENT AUDIENCE CAN ENJOY THEM!
Boy Scotty, Mr. Phoenix Leather 2018, is a former President of the Phoenix boys of Leather. He is a BDSM educator teaching classes on the Violet Wand, Role Play, and his experience as a leather boy.
He is a former professional actor and acting teacher from New York City, which is how he developed his “Expanding the Self Through Role Play” class.
He is Alpha boy in the Leather House of Shangri-La and is currently on the Board of Directors of the Phoenix Queer Center, Phoenix’s new LGBTQ+ Center.
He’s a student of humanity and loves sharing experiences with people. He’s always up for making a new friend or giving a hug.
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Luke YankeeHas written, directed, produced, taught, lectured and acted throughout the country and abroad. He has run two regional theatres, serving as Producing Artistic Director of the Long Beach Civic Light Opera and the Struthers Library theatre.
Luke’s published plays include THE LAST LIFEBOAT and A PLACE AT FOREST LAWN, both published by Dramatists Play Service. His other plays include THE JESUS HICKEY (which premiered in Los Angeles starring Harry Hamlin) and THE MAN WHO KILLED THE CURE, which had it's world premiere in Southern California in February 2017. He has also written numerous TV spec scripts and pilots.
His book, JUST OUTSIDE THE SPOTLIGHT: GROWING UP WITH EILEEN HECKART is published by Random House (under the imprint of Back Stage Books), with a foreword by Mary Tyler Moore. Critics have praised it as “One of the most compassionate, illuminating showbiz books ever written.” (Musto, The Village Voice) It was recently cited by PaperMag as “One of the Ten Best Celebrity Memoirs of All Time.”
He has taught and guest directed extensively at colleges, universities and conservatories throughout the U.S. and abroad, including five years at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts, Northwestern, Ohio State, AMDA, Denison, University of New Mexico, the Folkwang Hochschule (in Essen, Germany) and three years on the faculty of Columbia College-Hollywood. He has been a panelist and guest instructor at the William Inge Theatre Festival, where he has performed with Marybeth Hurt, Holland Taylor and George Grizzard. He is also a member of their Advisory Board. He is currently on the faculty of The American Musical and Dramatic Academy (AMDA), teaching advanced acting and scene study.
His theatre acting credits include “Our Town” at the American Shakespesare Theatre with Fred Gwynne, the U.S. premiere of “The Greeks” at The Williamstown Theatre Festival with Gwyneth Paltrow, Blythe Danner, Christopher Reeve and Celeste Holm and “The Dream Watcher” with Eva LeGallienne. In film and television, he has appeared in “The Hiding Place” with Julie Harris, “Ragtime” with Elizabeth McGovern, “Evergreen” with Armand Assante and “The Equalizer” with Jim Dale.
Luke has studied at the Juilliard School of Drama, New York University, University of California – Riverside, Northwestern University, Circle in the Square and the Herbert Berghof Studio.
He is the son of the late Eileen Heckart, who won an Academy Award for “Butterflies Are Free” and appeared in over 15 feature films, 20 Broadway plays, and countless television programs. Ms. Heckart is a member of the Theatre Hall of Fame and a multiple Emmy and Tony Award winner. In her honor, Luke created the Eileen Heckart Memorial Scholarship Fund at Ohio State University, her alma mater.
Luke toured internationally for more than ten years with DIVA DISH, his one-man show about the golden age of Broadway and Hollywood. There was such demand for a sequel, he created DIVA DISH: THE SECOND HELPING, which he premiered at the Desert Rose Theatre in Palm Springs.
Luke and his husband Don Hill spend time at their homes in Long Beach, CA and Palm Springs, CA.
For more info ( including his full Bio) or to contact Luke: https://yankeehillproductions.com
Luke's email is: luke@lukeyankee.net
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Donal Brophy proudly hails from Dublin Ireland and found his love of storytelling growing up there. Donal moved to NYC to study acting under the legendary Bill Esper. After graduating he worked extensively in the New York downtown theater and Independent cinema scene.
In 2008, to satisfy his love and knowledge of Scotch Whisky, Donal opened his first gastro pub, the west village institution HIGHLANDS to a roaring reception.
Following the success of HIGHLANDS Donal’s career took a detour from the performing arts and went on to have a rewarding career in the restaurant world, proving himself to be a real renaissance man opening up a string of boutique restaurant and bars; Mary Queen of Scots on the lower east side, WHITEHALL in the west Village and The Surf Lodge in Montauk.
After seven years of owning and operating his businesses Donal got the acting bug once more and got back to doing what he loves best; being a story teller. Donal’s career has been in full flight since his return with such notable credits as Blue Bloods on CBS, Unforgettable on AMC, the HBO original move ‘En el séptimo día’ On the seventh day) and the critically acclaimed remake if the Francis Ford Coppola classic DEMENTIA 13. Donal has also been in several recent successful off Broadway stage productions such as The Picture of Dorian Grey and the immersive masterpiece Sleep No More.
Donal co-founded Idyllwild Pictures with Emrhys Cooper in 2019 and since then has been busy developing projects as a writer, producer and actor. Donal co-wrote the dark comedic feature The Shuroo Process (as well as starring in the movie). Upcoming projects include the much-anticipated docuseries Historical Homos and the Irish political thriller feature CLODAGH.
Contact Donal via Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donaljbrophy/
Production company website: http://www.idyllwildpictures.com
HH website: http://historicalhomos.com/
HH podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/historical-homos/id1688718350
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EMRHYS COOPER
Originally from Devon, England. After training at the Central School Ballet, he transferred to the Laine Theatre Arts London, where he focused on acting and musical theater.
Emrhys found considerable success after graduating in acclaimed West End shows such as Queen’s ‘We Will Rock You’ and ‘Fame: The Musical’. Other notable theater credits include: The title role in Joe Ortons Entertaining Mr Sloane (Winner Best Lead actor Stage Scene LA and Broadway World Person to Watch) and Aladdin.
Emrhys moved to Los Angeles, where he transitioned to television.
He is best known for playing the male lead in the Emmy nominated drama series Vanity (Amazon Prime), in which he starred alongside Denise Richards. Other select TV credits include: Desperate Housewives, CSI: NY, Touch, From here on out and Person of Interest, among others.
Selected film credits include: Mammia Mia the movie! Walk a mile in my Pradas (Netflix) Bright Young Things, Dreamcatcher (Hulu) Trophy Boy (Official entry Cannes Film Festival) The Shuroo Process (Gravitas Ventures)
Up next, will be seen starring in the remake of the classic horror Nosferatu alongside Doug Jones.
Contact Emrhys:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/emrhys.cooper.3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emrhyscooper/
Production company website: http://www.idyllwildpictures.com
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Kai Brothers
Kai was born in Santa Cruz in the 1960’s and spent his early years there with his family, going to school and growing into an out gay person living life to the fullest- starting a career, dating guys and doing whatever theater opportunities that came along. At 18 he moved to San Francisco to begin his adult life, where he continued his career, finding his community and studying theater at San Francisco State University. Life was good, life was fun.
Then came HIV/AIDS and he became positive before anyone even knew what was going on. He was still thriving and continuing his career in technology, eventually buying a home with his partner who he eventually married. unlike his friends, he didn't succumb to AIDS and found out later that he was a non-progressor. He survived for 35 years without taking any medication and outlived all his friends who succumbed to AIDS. So, physically unscathed, but emotionally scarred, he carried on. He participated in multiple research studies to find out the secrets of long term survivors.
Having lost the drive to pursue performing arts, he eventually joined the SF Gay Men’s Chorus which brought him back to theater and performing. This was always a huge desire of his but he had let it wane. Now in his 40’s, he became involved in the San Francisco theater scene, performing in underground shows with The Thrillpeddlers and SF Oasis to larger venues such as the SF opera and New Conservatory Theatre.
As he approached his 60’s he made a life changing decision to move to Palm Springs. This new life brought a community and performing opportunities that became a bigger part of his life. Now retired and doing movies, commercials, dance performance as well as theater, he feels he is living the fullest and most satisfying phase of his life.
He recently played the role of Hank in "Boys in the Band", produced by The Bent Theatre (Palm Springs' newest LGBT Theatre).
To contact Kai: https://www.instagram.com/kaibrosf/?hl=en
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Kai Brothers
Kai was born in Santa Cruz in the 1960’s and spent his early years there with his family, going to school and growing into an out gay person living life to the fullest- starting a career, dating guys and doing whatever theater opportunities that came along. At 18 he moved to San Francisco to begin his adult life, where he continued his career, finding his community and studying theater at San Francisco State University. Life was good, life was fun.
Then came HIV/AIDS and he became positive before anyone even knew what was going on. He was still thriving and continuing his career in technology, eventually buying a home with his partner who he eventually married. unlike his friends, he didn't succumb to AIDS and found out later that he was a non-progressor. He survived for 35 years without taking any medication and outlived all his friends who succumbed to AIDS. So, physically unscathed, but emotionally scarred, he carried on. He participated in multiple research studies to find out the secrets of long term survivors.
Having lost the drive to pursue performing arts, he eventually joined the SF Gay Men’s Chorus which brought him back to theater and performing. This was always a huge desire of his but he had let it wane. Now in his 40’s, he became involved in the San Francisco theater scene, performing in underground shows with The Thrillpeddlers and SF Oasis to larger venues such as the SF opera and New Conservatory Theatre.
As he approached his 60’s he made a life changing decision to move to Palm Springs. This new life brought a community and performing opportunities that became a bigger part of his life. Now retired and doing movies, commercials, dance performance as well as theater, he feels he is living the fullest and most satisfying phase of his life.
He recently played the role of Hank in "Boys in the Band", produced by The Bent Theatre (Palm Springs' newest LGBT Theatre).
To contact Kai: https://www.instagram.com/kaibrosf/?hl=en
Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2023
Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Kaye Laine is a person of many talents. She has designed clothes for LA music awards, and owned her own clothing line. She has had the opportunity to model in LA fashion week and she once worked as a ring girl in Yuma Arizona. Kaye has modeled in many lookbooks, catalogs, and was even nominated Latin model of the year, though she is not Latin. She was Miss Abril, for Viva Latino America. Partially why she was in modeling, she wanted to know the fashion end of the industry so she can have her own company. She has worn many hats in the fashion industry and there’s many hats that you don’t know about as well. Kaye Laine has also been in the entertainment industry. She started out as a young girl performing in plays, musicals, and as she grew a little older, she had the opportunity to do commercials.
She is now a member of SAG-AFTRA, which is the screen actors Guild. Her first speaking role in the film was One More Round, a Kevin Sorbo film, which she plays a judge’s wife. She has been featured in season seven episode one of The New Girl, as the angry mother. She’s also done a lot of standing work and worked with Joan Cusack, Tig Notaro, along with many other wonderful people. She continues to work in the industry, though it may have slow down for her during the quarantine, she still strives by doing stand-up comedy at her local area and has worked in Hollywood, studio city, and other parts of Los Angeles and is currently in the Coachella valley.
Kaye Laine has made it to where she is due to the struggles that she has had in her life.
She is a bit of the black sheep of our family, she is a second oldest of six kids and the only one that’s in the entertainment industry. But she struggles in this area because she puts her family first due to the trauma that has hit her in the past. She’s a mother of three kids, the second oldest has autism. And currently is a stay at home mom. But when she has a break, she takes us moments and does things that she loves: acting, art, comedy, etc.
She uses her past as a daily boost to move forward. She may be a victim of domestic violence, but it helps her in her daily life. Especially in comedy. And she’s continually looking for ways to help her heal. Surrounding herself with like-minded people, positive places and positive situations. She has done more than just Comedy to help herself move forward. It’s been a huge step, but it has been worth it.
Everything in case life has been a very slow journey, not because she’s just healing because she puts her family first. She continues to work on other projects that help her heal and move forward in life. She’s currently working on a book that reflects on this. It will be posted on her website when it’s published and it'll have a link to where it can be purchased.
Contact Kaye: http://www.Kayelaine-exclusive.com
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Jason Mannino
Jason has decades of experience in multiple various careers that overlap including careers as an Executive Search Consultant, Executive Coach, Singer, Actor.
In Executive Search Jason has partnered with a variety of mission-driven clients both in house and with some of the world’s top executive recruiting agencies including Korn Ferry and Koya Partners (a division of Diversified Search Group). He also implemented in house executive search functions at world class organizations including University of Southern California, UC Berkeley, LA Care Health Plan among others. He also spent years working throughout the entertainment industry at organizations including Warner Bros. The Walt Disney Company and Universal Music among others.
In addition, Jason has had a lifelong love affair with the performing arts as a performer and supporter. Since moving to Palm Springs in 2021 he has sung withModern Men, Coachella Valley Men’s Chorus, and had the honor of performing in the world premiere of their commission Momentum. He's performed multiple times with A Cabello, the Coachella Valley’s Premier Male Vocal Ensemble.. And he made his operatic debut in the lead role of Guy in TigerBear Productions' West Coast Premiere of Unbound in 2022.
He holds a B.A. in Theater Arts from Rutgers University and an M.A. in Spiritual Psychology from University of Santa Monica and he is credentialed as an executive/career coach with the International Coaching Federation ( He is also a certified massage therapist and certified conscious breath worker.
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.comNOTE: This is a re-issue of a podcast that I released last year when my podcast was new and I had few downloads and followers. I've been re-issuing some of the better ones on Friday, now that I have additional followers who can now enjoy them.
Michael Vaccaro had ended a 16 year relationship. In the dumps, he searched the internet for sad songs and poems to match his melancholy mood. But he found one poem that was uplifting. He liked the poem so much that he printed it out and put it in his wallet, where he carried it for five or six years. Then one day he met a man who embodied what was written in the poem. They were inseparable from that point on.
This is a love story completely orchestrated by the Universe. Call it fate. Call it The Law of Attraction. Whatever words are used to describe this story- it was a time of pure magic. And it's one that will haunt the listener for a very long time.
Wait for Him:
Wait for the guy that calls you beautiful instead of hot,
Who calls you back when you hang up on him,
Who stays awake just to watch you sleep,
who worries and takes care of you when you are ill.
Wait for the guy that kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are wearing sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Wait for the guy who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you,
and how lucky he is to have you.
Wait for the guy who turns to his friends and say, "That's him!"
Wait for the guy who only wants you.
- Antonio
From the WeHo Times:
"Michael Vaccaro is an actor/writer/producer/director/print model and singer. Michael grew up in New York City, and began working as a child actor. His film work includes “Deleted Scenes," “The Endless Possibility of Sky," "You Can't Stay Here," “A Play On Words," "The Other Side of Infinity," “Look Back,” “The True Blue Ripper,” & "Eat Your Heart Out." His TV work includes “Bronx: SIU,”(Amazon Prime) “No Brainer”(Netflix), “The Middle Ages,” and five seasons of “Child of the ‘70s.” He is a graduate of the Second City Improv Conservatory. Follow him at @MichaelVaccaro www.Instagram.com/MichaelVaccaro".
But this podcast episode is a very real love story between two gay men. Michael currently lives in LA.
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David Zecca describes the amazing gay journey that's brought him to where he is today.
He talks about the hardships of his childhood as a young boy - discovering his sexual identity, being on his own and learning how to survive.
He's had multiple careers and he's truly very entrepreneurial! He discusses what made him get into sex work for a season and he shares the tender lessons that he learned through these experiences.
Finally, he shares why he had a tattoo placed on his armpit (one of the most painfully sensitive parts of the body) and what that symbolizes.
His story is interesting, heartfelt, poignant and it contains some wonderful advice for all who would listen.
David lives in Palm Springs with his fiancé Doug.
In Steve Oppenheimer's own words:
"Although the concept of change is difficult for many of us to consider, I choose to look at change as an "opportunity" to re-imagine, and re-prioritize what we want.
It's an opportunity to re-examine our path in life, make positive changes, and experience personal healing.
Although this is typically not an easy time, it is an opportunity filled with the potential of great personal power.
As we move forward through our lives, we learn that life is not always fair. We face challenges and obstacles on a daily basis. Some of these we overcome; some of these, we come short.
It's the moments of our life experience, which create, and then reinforce, not only our belief system and values, but also shape our "automatic thoughts."
Some of our automatic thoughts may lead us to create barriers for ourselves, which prevent us from finding a sense of satisfaction and personnel happiness.
Additionally, some of our automatic thoughts may lead us to feel anxious, afraid, sad, stressed, depressed, unsatisfied, desperate, angry and alone.
We can find ourselves trapped in a dead-end job or stuck in unhappy, or unhealthy, relationship.
Even when we know things in our lives are just not working and we say that we want a change...It may be the fear, embarrassment or sadness that keeps us from moving forward. It's our automatic thoughts that keep us from creating a life that we so deeply know we deserve.
Through authentic, honest and caring conversation and reflection, one can problem-solve, face life challenges, and find contentment and success.
You can grow, make positive changes in Your life, and find personnel happiness".
To contact Steve: https://www.stevenoppenheimermft.com/
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Scott Vitale is a gay man who weighed 312 pounds when he went in for his annual check up.
His doctor said: "Scott, you're going to die".
Scott: "Everyone is going to die."'
Doc: "No, I mean soon."
He was told that if he didn't lose a lot of his 312 pounds, that would be it...
He was then referred to a doctor who did bariatric surgery. Scott credits a lot of his success to the nutritionist who helped him learn to eat differently. Under her guidance, he lost 45 pounds before the surgery. Subsequently, the surgeon removed two thirds of his stomach, which caused some drastic changes in his life.
His husband Eric supported him all along the way in this journey, and accompanied him to that first visit with the nutritionist. When they returned home, Eric began to toss all of the bread, pastas , cereals, etc. into the trash and he told Scott that he too, would not be eating those things any longer.
With his new-found energy and new life, Scott took up cycling and completed the San Francisco to LA Aids/Life Cycle ride in 2022. He continues to cycle today and it's become his passion. Today he's maintains his ideal weight at 165 pounds.
You may contact Scott via email at: svitale03@yahoo.com
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Brett Paesel is the author of the Los Angeles Times bestseller, “Mommies Who Drink, Sex, Drugs, and Other Distant Memories of an Ordinary Mom” (Warner) and the novel, “Everything is Just Fine” (Grand Central).
Paesel’s humorous essays have appeared in several collections including “Toddler”, “Behind the Bedroom Door”, “Lights, Action, Travel”, and “Afterbirth”. She has been a contributing editor to three national magazines: Violet, Wondertime, and Parents. She has also published pieces in numerous publications including The New York Times, The Los Angeles Times, The Kennedy Center, and Salon.com.
In Hollywood, Brett has developed television shows for HBO, ABC, Fox, Comedy Central, WB, Nick at Nite, and Lifetime.
As an actor, Brett was a cast member for several seasons on two critically acclaimed shows: HBO’s “Mr. Show with Bob and David” and Amazon’s “Transparent”.
Contact Brett: http://www.brettpaesel.com
Find her books: https://www.amazon.com/s?k=brett+paesel&crid=2VAIWK81VPQD7&sprefix=brett+pae%2Caps%2C160&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_9
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STEVEN SKEELS
SINGER • SONGWRITER • ACTOR • PRODUCER
"TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE" - WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
Steven was living the "perfect" life in NYC. He was married to the man who was the love of his life and they were both living an enviable, successful life on stage and in the arts. Then one day, after picking up his husband Jerad after his matinee performance in "Wicked" on Broadway, they headed to a day off at their cabin in the Poconos. Their car hit an unexpected patch of black ice and the unimaginable happened in the blink of an eye.
He shares the story of agonizing physical and emotional pain in the aftermath of the accident, and he also shares some very important lessons that he and his husband Jerad learned. And he tells us some of the principals he lives by...
Over his 40 year career, Steven Skeels has established himself as one of music’s most versatile artists, equally as passionate as a performer on the concert stage singing his own material to writing and producing for other artists as well. As a singer, songwriter, and producer, he has explored nearly every genre of music and continues to explore new sounds and experiences. He has performed in over forty countries and has been seen on the Oprah Winfrey Show, as well as numerous television programs throughout Europe.
As an actor and performer, Steven was handpicked by Andrew Lloyd Webber to originate the starring role of “Rusty” in the hit musical Starlight Express, both in Germany and Las Vegas. This role garnered him a European radio Top 10 single with the title song “Starlight Express” for CBS Records. Other roles include Lt. Cable in South Pacific (American Hawaii Cruise Lines), the Scarecrow in The Wizard Of Oz (Macy’s Theatricals of NYC), and Tom Thumb in Barnum (The S.S. Norway). In film, Steven has been featured in the award-winning short film, Leaving Malcolm, and as well as composing music for the film. Steven is currently in post-production for his documentary, Becoming Whole, which chronicles his journey from humble beginnings to the top of the entertainment business.
To see his entire bio and to contact Steven, go tohttps://www.stevenskeels.com
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In 2015, Alan Fraser was in the best physical condition of his life. But then one day after training he went home and realized that something just wasn't right. Thankfully his (now) husband Tim jumped into action and drove a couple hours to see why Alan had stopped responding when Tim kept checking on him. Tim found Alan unconscious in his bed, helped revive him and then rushed him to the nearest ER. They were told later that if he hadn't come in at that time, he wouldn't be with us today.
His condition was so bad that the medical team had to put him in an induced medical coma in order to save his life. He was "out" for two weeks. He describes how the induced coma saved his life, but it had other severe consequences that would impact him the rest of his life.
His story is real, it's heartfelt and it has meaning and a message for all of us...
Listen as he describes the ordeal that he had to endure and he shares what he's learned from this experience.
NOTE: This is a re-issue of an earlier episode when my podcast was new. I'm re-sharing some of the best ones as a Friday feature, since more people will now be able to hear and learn from it.
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David Eugene Perry is the founder and CEO of the public relations firm David Perry & Associates, Inc. For 10 years, he was the host and creator of 10 Percent TV, the longest running LGBTQ TV show in California history. He has written for such publications as The Advocate, the San Francisco Examiner, Omni, The Desert Sun and The Utne Reader and hosts an online interview show Ahoy! He and his husband, Alfredo Casuso, live in Palm Springs with frequent trips to San Francisco, and when possible, Orvieto and Spain. His first novel, Upon This Rock, has been critically acclaimed, including praise from Tales of The City author Armistead Maupin who called the book “an elegant, twisty thriller” and from Fenton Johnson who said Upon This Rock is “the gay ‘DaVinci Code’ but a lot better.” Upon This Rock is the winner of the 2021 Ben Franklin Silver Medal from the Independent Book Publishers Association and “Best Gay Book of 2021” from the San Francisco Book Festival. The book is currently being shopped for TV and film options and actively seeking European distribution, especially an Italian translation. Perry is currently at work on the sequel to Upon This Rock. Entitled Thorns of the 15 Roses it is a murder mystery and historical thriller inspired by the Andalusian town of Grazalema and the Spanish Civil. It is slated for completion in 2023.
Contact David:
https://www.instagram.com/davidperrysf/
https://twitter.com/DavidPerrySF
http://www.facebook.com/davidperrysf
https://www.davidperry.com/clients/upon-this-rock
Buy the book:
https://www.amazon.com/Upon-This-David-Eugene-Perry/dp/0941936066
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
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STEVEN SKEELS
SINGER • SONGWRITER • ACTOR • PRODUCER
"TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE" - WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
Over his 40 year career, Steven Skeels has established himself as one of music’s most versatile artists, equally as passionate as a performer on the concert stage singing his own material to writing and producing for other artists as well. As a singer, songwriter, and producer, he has explored nearly every genre of music and continues to explore new sounds and experiences. He has performed in over forty countries and has been seen on the Oprah Winfrey Show, as well as numerous television programs throughout Europe.
As an actor and performer, Steven was handpicked by Andrew Lloyd Webber to originate the starring role of “Rusty” in the hit musical Starlight Express, both in Germany and Las Vegas. This role garnered him a European radio Top 10 single with the title song “Starlight Express” for CBS Records. Other roles include Lt. Cable in South Pacific (American Hawaii Cruise Lines), the Scarecrow in The Wizard Of Oz (Macy’s Theatricals of NYC), and Tom Thumb in Barnum (The S.S. Norway). In film, Steven has been featured in the award-winning short film, Leaving Malcolm, and as well as composing music for the film. Steven is currently in post-production for his documentary, Becoming Whole, which chronicles his journey from humble beginnings to the top of the entertainment business.
To see his entire bio and to contact Steven, go tohttps://www.stevenskeels.com
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
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Vinnie Rotalo is an amazing man.
He hasn't had an easy life. When he was only 14, he tried to save his mother's life via instructions in CPR given by a 911 dispatcher. After her death, he had to go live with his father whom he didn't really know.
He became a trainer and was settling into a successful career with modeling potential when he became paralyzed. It took him a year of fierce struggle to come back to his normal self.
He got involved in drugs, spent some years in the gay porn industry and lost his partner to suicide. He also lost his beloved feline buddy Baxter, who had stuck with Vinnie through all of the ups and downs.
Vinnie is a courageous, beautiful man who's a bit shy - but he's very funny when you get to know him. His beautiful energy will be obvious to even the most casual observer as you listen to his story and be encouraged...
Vinnie's contact info:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vjr39/
Email: Vjrotalo@gmail.com
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**To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
NOTE: This is a re-issue of an episode I did earlier in 2022 when my podcast was "newish". I've been re-posting some of the really good ones on Fridays this year, so that a wider audience can now enjoy listening to them.**
It's highly unusual for teens to know the direction they want to take in life. But these two did... here's their story.
Preston Shatwell and Brenton Thomas have been together for over 13 years. Brenton added Preston on Myspace when they were 14 and 16 years old and that started their love story.
Preston is a born and raised Oklahoman with a passion for local progressive politics and advocacy. He is a creative professional using his skills to support causes he cares about and currently works in the adolescent sexual health nonprofit field.
IG: @PrestonShatwell
Email: prestonshatwell@gmail.com
Brenton works as a consultant at a software company. Brenton is fun-loving, excitable, and always ready to dance and laugh. He loves to travel, experience new cultures, and meet people.
IG: @Brenton.Thomas
Email: brentonthomas1@gmail.com
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MINA HARTONG
Emcee, Educator, Funny Lady
Award winning comedian Mina Hartong (Caroline’s New York, Curve Magazine, Cipriani’s) has been performing and touring for over twenty years. Favorite shows and venues include Don’t Tell Mama’s, Montreal Fringe Festival, and headlining at Iceland Pride where she marched with the lesbian mayor. Mina taught in the public schools for twenty years.
These days, when she is not on stage, Mina enjoys teaching Acting and Stand up Comedy and developing new comics. Recent appearances include Palm Springs Pride, Diversionary Theater in San Diego, and The Triad Theater in New York City. Mina’s comedy show Lez Out Loud, just had their seventh sold out show. She teaches online, in New York City, and with the McCallum Theater.
In 2020, Mina and her wife relocated to Palm Springs to escape the pandemic in New York City. In less than a year, Mina produced her own comedy show Lez Out Loud at Runway Bar and Restaurant in Cathedral City to sold out audiences which continues today.
Look for new Lez Out Loud shows coming in April. Mina also collaborates with The L-Fund, a non profit that assists cis and trans lesbians in the Coachella Valley. She recently Emceed the L-Fund’s sold out Gala in February, 2023.
To book Mina for Hosting, teaching, or comedy shows, please contact her at:
https://linktr.ee/lezoutloud
https://www.facebook.com/mina.hartong/
https://www.instagram.com/hartongmina/
https://vimeo.com/mshartong
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Growing up, Edras Cordova's father constantly reminded him of a saying. Edras chose to remember his father's teaching by having it tattooed across the top of his chest. Roughly translated, the words say: "Only the one who carries a knapsack knows what's in it".
We never know what another person is going through. Edras took the message to heart and it softened him. Unfortunately, it appears that his siblings and other family members did not learn such a message.
People are so often trapped in their religious beliefs and systems that they are blinded to truth and reality.
Many of my prior podcast guests have told stories of being trapped in such systems, and they described how they were able to escape and ultimately live fulfilled lives as their authentic selves.
Edras Cordova and his brother were both gay. Edras was able to navigate his escape route from the Jehovah's Witness cult (his word) and to go on to live a life he never thought possible when he was trapped in that religious system.
His brother was not so fortunate. He chose a path of staying in the system, marrying, have two children and believing that somehow he would be "cured" or "fixed" and being gay would go away.
The torment and pain of being caught in such an untenable position ultimately drove him to multiple suicide attempts. Two weeks before taking his own life, he told his family that he was either going to live his gay life, or commit suicide.
Edras discusses the pain and fallout of his brother's choice in hopes that people who are caught in such systems will open their eyes and hearts to the truth: If we don't allow ourselves and others to be who they are, the cost will be unbearable.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. Text or call 988 on your cell phone for help.
LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free.
https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
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In David's words:
"Welcome! I'm glad you're here. My name is David Wichman, and I am an author, speaker, and certified Conscious Recovery™ coach with a focus on sexual wellness. I have been creating workshops and writing about sex and sobriety for many years.
It is my deepest passion to witness men at the intersection of sexual freedom in recovery and I am dedicated to helping Queer, Gay, Bi, and Trans-identified men navigate the sacred and beautiful nature of sex love and intimacy.
If you are in recovery or seeking guidance around sex in recovery, I hope you will explore working with me free of dogma,shame and judgement.
(NOTE: You do not have to be in recovery to work with me)."
David Wichman is an author, speaker, sexual healer, and entrepreneur who is respected and well-known all over the world to those who seek to live free of stigma, shame, and fear around sex, love, and intimacy.
Raised in Fremont, California, David survived a childhood marked by severe neglect and abuse, which led him into years of homelessness, alcoholism, and drug addiction. After decades of struggle and rehabilitation failures, he finally obtained freedom from his addiction in 2005. He remains an active member of New Thought and recovery movements to this day.
In 2006, David found a calling in sex work. While working with seniors, the disabled, and those with severe intimacy issues, he discovered the profound transformational power that sex work creates for both client and provider. In 2009, he founded his travel-companion company, the Male Adventure, through which he has accompanied clients on life-changing adventures to all seven continents. He is an activist, vocal ally, and grateful member of the LGBTQI2 community.
In 2016, David co-founded Heal-VR, a software development company that merges ancient spiritual principles and meditation techniques with modern virtual reality technology.
David lives with his partner Todd & their 3 rescue dogs: Panda Petey & Siain in their home in the Coachella Valley area of California.
Find David at: http://www.dpwichman.com
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Daniel Bateman
Originally from Kansas City MO, Daniel has been performing since he was a toddler. He performed in several NYC Broadway musicals, national touring productions and studied with The Juilliard School in NYC as well as The American Musical and Dramatic Academy in Los Angeles; a city where he lived and worked professionally over 10 years.
Most recently, he starred in the West Coast Premiere of “Why Can't the Trains Run On Time?” Now a Palm Springs resident, Daniel is thrilled to be on stage again here and has big goals he’s excited to work on building within the SoCal Arts community. Getting to tell LGBT stories is a dream come true and a huge passion of his. He is beyond grateful to his loving parents who have always been his biggest cheerleaders!
Contact Daniel:
Email: ItsDanielBateman@gmail.com
Business #: 760.422.3041
https://www.instagram.com/dbatemanofficial/
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Sean Hoey is a Democratic political operative who has worked from Democratic political candidates across the country, including Hillary Clinton and Joe Biden.
Sean was born and raised in Madison, Wisconsin. He's the son of small business owners, lived his childhood in the closet, and witnessed the power of politics growing up in a capital city. His upbringing informs the values and the candidates he believes in and advocates for.
Today, he lives in Las Vegas, Nevada. Look him up for recommendations on what to do off the Strip!
Contact Sean:
608-287-8523
seanlhoey@gmail.com
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Daniel Patrick O'Reilly is a jack-of-all-trades and a master of none. You can find him selling wine by day, slinging drinks by night, or on your television sets as a young dad in a First Five California commercial.
If interested to know more about his life and adventures, you can reach out to him on his IG at http://www. Instagram.com/danpatrickoreilly
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“…I say, follow your bliss and don’t be afraid, and doors will open where you didn’t know they were going to be.” Joseph Campbell
Michael is a native Nevadan who spent his childhood between a high desert dirt pile surrounded by every animal his parents would let him have and a tire & auto repair store alongside his parents while on roller skates.
He has lived in 3 of the 4 US time zones and the country of Sweden while in college. He is an alumna of Johnson & Wales University in Providence, RI and Simpson College in Indianola, IA. Ask him about his careers in sales, marketing, accounting, property management and hospitality or the 3 businesses and 501(c)3 non-profit that he started and operated or currently operates.
He is an outdoor and sports enthusiast and has/does actively engage in: soccer, track, downhill skiing, sailing – racing/cruising, hiking, camping, mountain biking, volleyball, rollerblading and swimming, but still doesn’t do near enough kite flying or throwing a Frisbee. Other interests that are close to his heart are regenerative agriculture and silvopasture, food as medicine, home renovation and design, wine (particularly anything sparkling), real estate, travel, other cultures and traditions and the stories and lessons learned from the paths of others.
He was given the gift of singing and has performed in a number of concerts and productions from the time he was 4 (which may have included dancing with a broom). He is currently contributing his time and talents to the Miracle Activation Center as the Director of Operations – a non-profit healing center – where he hopes to support others on their journey as he actively follows his. He is currently working toward becoming an Ordained Ministerial Counselor and a Certified Food Matters Nutrition Coach.
Michael's email: Michael@MiracleActivationCenter.com
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Brent Heinze has a master’s degree in clinical counseling and has been working in the mental health field for over 18 years. He is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in California specializing in working with gay men, sexuality, couples, and non-traditional relationships.
He is a published author of two self-improvement books, “Redefining Normal 1 & 2: A Modern Gay Man’s Guide to Happy and Healthy Living” and was a senior columnist for Out Front Magazine.
Brent is also the Executive Director of Perspective Shift, a national non-profit company focusing on producing educational and social community events benefitting LGBTQ+ and sex-positive charitable organizations.
He won the title of Mr. Leather Colorado 2010 and finished in 4th place at IML. He was the recipient of the Pantheon of Leather Award in 2015 and the NLA Community Service and Leadership Award in 2011. He has been a judge for International Deaf Leather in 2011, as well as judging and emceeing many other events.
Brent performs with his electronic music projects Probe 7, The AXIOM Divide, and Darling Kandie in addition to producing a new musical and writing songs for film and television.
He currently lives in Palm Springs with his husband.
Contact Brent:
Web: http://www.BeginTheShift.org
Email: Brent@BeginTheShift.org
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Rick R. Reed is an award-winning and bestselling author of more than fifty works of published fiction.
He has won the LGBTQ literary prize, the Rainbow Award three times (for Raining Men in 2013 best gay contemporary fiction and in 2021, his psychological thriller revolving around Jeffrey Dahmer, The Man from Milwaukee won for best gay mystery and best gay novel overall; the book has also been optioned for film and an Italian translation is slated for a May release at the Turin Book Fair, Italy's largest book fair).
He is also a three-time EPIC Ebook Award winner and a Lambda Literary Award finalist for Blue Umbrella Sky. Entertainment Weekly has described his work as “heartrending and sensitive.” Lambda Literary has called him: “A writer that doesn’t disappoint…”
Rick lives in Palm Springs, CA, with his husband, Bruce, and their two rescue dogs, Kodi and Joaquin.
Find him at www.rickrreedreality.blogspot.com.
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Matthew Mitchell is a Los Angeles based photographer/director. His work is stylish, yet effortless. Images of beauties such as Eva Longoria, Leighton Meister and Anna Lynne McCord have graced the covers and pages of magazines internationally.
His background as a former dancer, and make-up artist, serve him well when capturing more than the exterior of his subjects.
He remarks: “FUN, that’s what my shoots are about - FUN.”
It’s this kind of lightheartedness that lands Mitchell in front of the lens as an on-camera photographer for TV shows like Oprah, The Bachelor and How To Look Good Naked.
When asked what he is working on next... Mitchell answers “Working on my pecs, biceps and abs of steel".
Matthew's contact info:
Email: matthewmitchellphoto@gmail.com
cell: 310.488.9134
http://www.desertluxuryimages.com
http://www.matthewmitchellfoto.com
https://www.mrpinque.com
Find tickets to Mr. Pinque's Brolesque:
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In Peter Leahy's own words:
"What happens when you finally come out of the closet and stop living a lie?
For many years, I saw myself as a coward – too scared to admit that I was gay and embrace who I was. Throughout my 20’s and 30’s, my active life was masked with what I believed was “normalcy,” but underneath I was tormented by sadness, emptiness and most importantly, self-loathing. Finally, I summoned the courage to walk away and eventually become a proud (and fabulous) gay man.
Reaching out and being vulnerable to people is scary and you may fail the first time. You have the power to try again, to find your courage and become the best version of yourself, even if that means leaving everything and starting over. You can move from the world of shadows and hurtful ideas to a healthy sense of self. Whatever struggles you face, there’s no reason to handle them alone. I hope my story can inspire you to be your unique self and overcome life’s challenges. Authentic happiness is out there"!
Contact Peter: glowingupgay@gmail.com
Buy the book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/bNrpOTC
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JASON STUARTWhen you think one of the most prolific character actors, who’s also an outrageous openly gay stand-up comedian, one name comes to mind.... Jason Stuart. After years of steady work in film and televi- sion, and over 150 credits on his IMDB page, actor and comedianJason Stuart has achieved a pinnacle of success many actors only dream of. "For the last few years, people have started to approach me and say, 'You're that guy,'" he explains with his characteristic gravelly laugh. Stuart has now established himself as one of those all-too-familiar faces who might just pop up anywhere, in any kind of role. And most recently he won the Worldwide Comedy Award for Best LGBTQ Comedian from some heaven weight stand ups like Margaret Cho to Billy Eichner to Tig Notaro to Wanda Sykes.
Recently he had a major role in The Birth Of A Nation, and stars in the indie drama Hank, the action film Abducted on Showtime, the thriller Immortal and his new comedy series on Amazon, Smoth- ered which he won the Indie Series Award for Best Actor in a Comedy. Jason also has appeared in the award winning films Tan- gerine, Love Is Strange, Gia with Kindergarten Cop and Vegas Vacation among his fan favorites. He has wowed TV audiences with guest roles on such shows as Goliath, Swedish Dicks, Love (Judd Apatow), Sleepy Hollow, Real Rob, Entourage, The Closer, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, House, Everybody Hates Chris, George Lopez, Will & Grace, Charmed and as “Dr. Thomas" on My Wife and Kids. As a stand up comic you have laughed with him on Gotham Comedy Live, Red Eye, One Night Stand Up, Wisecrack, Comics Unleashed and his own comedy special Making It To The Middle, his new comedy album I’m The Daddy and I Have Candy and autobiography Shut Up, Im Talking! From CCB Publishing.https://www.jasonstuart.comhttp://www.imdb.me/jasonstuart
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Darya Teesewell (she/her) is a writer, storyteller and member of the Hollywood filmmaking diaspora. Darya is a woman of trans/queer history born in mid-century in Los Angeles at Cedars of Lebanon in Hollywood. She now lives in Cathedral City, California where being mid-century is the apex of fashion.
Darya worked a below-the-line job in the film industry for forty years under another name making other people’s dreams come true; now she’s retired, on a pension and finishing a memoir about facing being trans at age 45 during the heady L.A. club days of the 1990’s. She’s tall, blonde and dresses like the world’s oldest rocker chick.
She’s married to and in love with one woman for a long time and has two amazing kids. She’s written for Huffington Post, Fourculture online magazine and has told stories at Strong Words in Los Angeles and in Palm Springs and read a piece as a part of Queerwise Los Angeles commemorating world AIDS day in December 2021.
Darya’s Facebook page is: https://www.facebook.com/daryateesewell/
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Shawn Smith gives a historical perspective on the formation of the gay bear community and he also shares some insights about bears. It's almost like sitting in a college class as he gives us some insider information and insights regarding the bear community.
In addition to his knowledge and engagement in the bear community, his involvement in an emerging Gay college campus organization began a path of LGBT activism, advocacy, and community-building as the Gay Rights Movement began to coalesce in the mid-70's across America.
Lured by the freedom and anonymity of big city life, Shawn shares his adventures along the road to freedom of sexual expression.
A writer and storyteller by trade, he's now quasi-retired and slacking poolside: A dirty old man enjoying the free and Fabulously Gay life that Palm Springs has to offer.
Contact Shawn at: macgizmoguy@hotmail.com
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Steven Henke joined DAP Health in 2017 and was promoted to Director of Brand Marketing in 2019, He currently leads all strategic branding, marketing, and communications for the organization and Revivals Stores.
"I bring good people and great ideas together."
Henke spent his first five years in the Coachella Valley as Client Strategies Manager for Gannett owned Desert Sun Media Group, an integrated media and marketing company that included The Desert Sun, DesertSun.com, DESERT magazine, and Desert Outlook magazine. During his tenure, he developed innovative digital and social first marketing strategies that won first place International News Media Association (INMA) awards in 2014 and 2015.
Deeply engaged in the local community, Henke has served on numerous boards and committees benefiting local non-profit organizations – including Seathletes, United Way of the Desert, Equality California, Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast, and Special Olympics. He served as President of the Palm Springs Chamber of Commerce where he acted as creative director for the Palm Springs Chamber City Guide Magazine shining a bright spotlight on members of the chamber.
He can be seen as a correspondent for NBC Palm Springs and heard on the Joey English show twice monthly discussing upcoming events and organizations that benefit residents of Greater Palm Springs.
Before moving to the Coachella Valley, Henke lived in Minneapolis where he worked for Target Corporation, Sphere Trending, and Hanover Accessories focusing on strategic pathways driven by consumer and design trends.
Contact Steven:https://www.instagram.com/trendguy/
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Mel discusses his journey on the professional side in this second episode. MEL ENGLAND has starred on Screen and Stage, Off-Broadway, internationally and across the USA, since his debut at age 10 in CYRANO DE BERGERAC, directed by British Actor/Director Anton Rogers at the Dallas Theatre Center. He's played Brad in the play ELECTRICITY for audiences around the country, from New York, Los Angeles, Palm Springs, to Minneapolis, where he won Best Actor in a Tour from Lavender Magazine.
On film, he starred in the title role of RON AND LAURA TAKE BACK AMERICA for which he won a Best Acting Ensemble award (IIFC) and two Best Actor nominations (NYCIFF & IndieFest). The film, which he co-wrote and co-directed with co-star Janice Markham, earned 13 other wins and nominations, including Best Comedy & Best Director, co-starred Golden Globe Best Actress Nominee Irene Bedard and Jim J. Bullock, and can be seen on Amazon Prime. He stars in the feature BEST DAY EVER, Winner Best LGBT Film (IndieFest) also on Amazon, and appears alongside Academy Award Best Actress Nominee and Golden Globe Winner Sally Kirkland in ARCHAEOLOGY OF A WOMAN. He recently signed to star with Kirkland in the upcoming feature film LOVE ANONYMOUS.
Other film roles include Mr. Ghoulden in the hilarious dark comedy feature PERSONA AU GRATIN, Winner Best Comedy (IndieFest USA) and co-starring alongside horror film star Sid Haig in the indie hit LITTLE BIG TOP (released worldwide on Netflix & Amazon). He also starred in the dark comedy PERSONA AU GRATIN (Best Comedy, IndieFest), and as a minister confronted with his own crisis of faith in HIGHLIGHTS (Best Drama Nominee, Moviefone Film Festival). Most recently, he can be seen in the feature FROM ZERO TO I LOVE YOU, and in the TV movie FAME AT DEADLY COST on Lifetime and internationally on Canal.
On Stage, England's solo show SWIMMING WITH THE POLAR BEARS directed by Jill Andre, premiered Off-Broadway at the Lynn Redgrave Theatre, as part of a benefit for The Climate Project, featuring posters of the show signed by former Vice President Al Gore, and then toured world-wide, to the 2009 UN SUMMIT ON CLIMATE CHANGE in Copenhagen, LA, and the National Mall in Washington DC for the 40th Anniversary of Earth Day. Other Off-Broadway credits include HECUBA, MARRIAGE with the Pearl Theatre Company.
England has been a proud part of many notable "original" New York productions, including THE RING OF DEATH by Off-Broadway legend H.M. Koutoukas, director Chris Sanderson's MIDSUMMER NIGHT'S DREAM in Washington Square, HONEYSUCKLES (developed for TV by FOX), SEA MONKEYS at Playwrights Horizons by Tony Nominee Chad Beguelin (THE PROM), FREDDY at LA’s Fountain Theatre, and KING OF CONNECTICUT with Phillip Seymour Hoffman.
England studied with legendary acting teachers Stella Adler and Terry Schreiber, attended NYU's Tisch School of the Arts, trained with internationally acclaimed director Agousto Boal, with members of the Royal Shakespeare Company at the British American Theatre Institute, and is a graduate of Dallas' High School for the Performing and Visual Arts with Karon Cogdill & Jane Farris, and in the beginning at the children’s theatre program the Dallas Theatre Center, under the direction of Synthia Rogers.
For Mel's full bio and other information, please go to: http://www.MelEngland.com
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Mel discusses in background and early life in this first episode. MEL ENGLAND has starred on Screen and Stage, Off-Broadway, internationally and across the USA, since his debut at age 10 in CYRANO DE BERGERAC, directed by British Actor/Director Anton Rogers at the Dallas Theatre Center. He's played Brad in the play ELECTRICITY for audiences around the country, from New York, Los Angeles, Palm Springs, to Minneapolis, where he won Best Actor in a Tour from Lavender Magazine.
On film, he starred in the title role of RON AND LAURA TAKE BACK AMERICA for which he won a Best Acting Ensemble award (IIFC) and two Best Actor nominations (NYCIFF & IndieFest). The film, which he co-wrote and co-directed with co-star Janice Markham, earned 13 other wins and nominations, including Best Comedy & Best Director, co-starred Golden Globe Best Actress Nominee Irene Bedard and Jim J. Bullock, and can be seen on Amazon Prime. He stars in the feature BEST DAY EVER, Winner Best LGBT Film (IndieFest) also on Amazon, and appears alongside Academy Award Best Actress Nominee and Golden Globe Winner Sally Kirkland in ARCHAEOLOGY OF A WOMAN. He recently signed to star with Kirkland in the upcoming feature film LOVE ANONYMOUS.
Other film roles include Mr. Ghoulden in the hilarious dark comedy feature PERSONA AU GRATIN, Winner Best Comedy (IndieFest USA) and co-starring alongside horror film star Sid Haig in the indie hit LITTLE BIG TOP (released worldwide on Netflix & Amazon). He also starred in the dark comedy PERSONA AU GRATIN (Best Comedy, IndieFest), and as a minister confronted with his own crisis of faith in HIGHLIGHTS (Best Drama Nominee, Moviefone Film Festival). Most recently, he can be seen in the feature FROM ZERO TO I LOVE YOU, and in the TV movie FAME AT DEADLY COST on Lifetime and internationally on Canal.
On Stage, England's solo show SWIMMING WITH THE POLAR BEARS directed by Jill Andre, premiered Off-Broadway at the Lynn Redgrave Theatre, as part of a benefit for The Climate Project, featuring posters of the show signed by former Vice President Al Gore, and then toured world-wide, to the 2009 UN SUMMIT ON CLIMATE CHANGE in Copenhagen, LA, and the National Mall in Washington DC for the 40th Anniversary of Earth Day. Other Off-Broadway credits include HECUBA, MARRIAGE with the Pearl Theatre Company.
England has been a proud part of many notable "original" New York productions, including THE RING OF DEATH by Off-Broadway legend H.M. Koutoukas, director Chris Sanderson's MIDSUMMER NIGHT'S DREAM in Washington Square, HONEYSUCKLES (developed for TV by FOX), SEA MONKEYS at Playwrights Horizons by Tony Nominee Chad Beguelin (THE PROM), FREDDY at LA’s Fountain Theatre, and KING OF CONNECTICUT with Phillip Seymour Hoffman.
England studied with legendary acting teachers Stella Adler and Terry Schreiber, attended NYU's Tisch School of the Arts, trained with internationally acclaimed director Agousto Boal, with members of the Royal Shakespeare Company at the British American Theatre Institute, and is a graduate of Dallas' High School for the Performing and Visual Arts with Karon Cogdill & Jane Farris, and in the beginning at the children’s theatre program the Dallas Theatre Center, under the direction of Synthia Rogers.
For Mel's full bio and other information, please go to: http://www.MelEngland.com
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AUSTIN URBAN
Austin Urban shares his story in this "Anatomy of an Abusive Gay Relationship" and he also shares some insights into other men's personalities, wants and needs in his experience as a gay male escort.
It's easy to look at someone else's failing relationship and to then make a judgment about it.
"Why is he putting up with that behavior from his partner"?
"Why doesn't he just leave"?
"What does he see in him"?
But life isn't always so cut and dried. Sometimes there are unresolved issues from one's past that keep people in relationships that are not good for them. Sometimes fear or economic reasons come into play.
And some people falsely believe that only male/female relationships are subject to abuse.
In this episode, Austin Urban shares the details in this "Anatomy of an abususive gay relationship".
He also shares some insights into other men's personalities, wants and needs in his experience as a gay, male escort.
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In the words of Terry Ray:
"I can't remember not wanting to be an actor. To be fair, I can barely remember having hair, but still. It's a passion I've fought hard to nurture and a dream I've never given up on, even when it defied all odds and all logic... and believe me, it usually did...
Then one day I decided to quit waiting for the phone to ring for that one line as the theater manager on 7th HEAVEN (of course I used an example that I booked) and create my own opportunities by adding the hyphenates writer-producer to the acting thang. I teamed with Larry LaFond and we amazingly hit a home run our first time at bat (look at me with the sports metaphors) with the incredibly successful little short film GAYDAR, which was in over 120 film festivals, won a ton of awards and was recently named by California Independent Film Festival as one of the 20 Best Comedy Short Films of all time. Larry and I also made a short film called THE COST OF LIVING, a way too timely comedy about life after global co-starring Jim J. Bullock, Molly Hagan & Greg Mullavey. (More film festivals and awards).
I'm the creator, writer and star of HERE TV's first original sitcom FROM HERE ON OUT (available on Amazon Prime) with Juliet Millsas well as the co-creator-writer-producer-star (sharing that "co" with Wendy Michaels) of MY SISTER IS SO GAY (Amazon Prime) with Loni Anderson as my mother. I got to co-star in 5 seasons of Michael Vaccaro's star-studded comedy CHILD OF THE 70s. I wrote and co-created the game show MODD COUPLES now playing on Hulu, I co-wrote the 2017 TV movie LOVE UNPLUGGED. My new show, TV THERAPY features a different classic TV character (played once again by the original actor) in a therapy session today (with me as the doctor) with all the issue they would currently have...
Since 2016 I've been starring in ELECTRICITY (my debut as a playwright)....Mel England as my co-star we became the longest running play in Palm Springs, performing in two venues at the same time: as an immersive theater experience inside a real Palm Springs hotel room and also on stage as Oscar's Bar & Cabaret Theater and then moving to The Desert Rose Playhouse as our final venue and we prepare for an Off-Broadway run.
I'm the first instructor at the famed Actor's Lab's new Palm Springs branch of their acting school. Maybe my master plan is starting to work"!
-Terry Ray
Epilogue: Terry's latest play is THE LINCOLN DEBATE which explores the possibility that Lincoln was actually gay. It premiered in Palm Springs in December 2022 and will be returning in the Spring of 2023 at The Bent Theatre- Palm Spring's newest and only gay theatre. Terry is also the managing director of The Bent.
See Terry's full bio and other fun info at: http://www.terryray.tv
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Rob Rosen is a multi-award-winning and best-selling author/editor/anthologist.
He's the author of:
Sparkle: The Queerest Book You'll Ever Love
Divas Las Vegas
Hot Lava
Southern Fried
Queerwolf
Vamp
Queens of the Apocalypse
Creature Comfort
Fate
Midlife Crisis
Fierce
And God Belched
Mary, Queen of Scotch
Ted of the d'Urbervilles
Sort of Dead
Genie in a Vodka Bottle
Bobby Ray Breaks the Universe.
His short stories have appeared in more than 200 anthologies.
You can read some of his best ones in:
Short Spurts
Short Spurts 2
Short Spurts 3
He is also the editor of:
Lust in Time: Erotic Romance Through the Ages
Men of the Manor
Best Gay Erotica 2015
Best Gay Erotica of the Year, Volumes 1, 2, 3 and 4.
Please visit him at www.therobrosen.com
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Alex Price is new to Palm Springs after moving here from the East coast in 2021.
His life has taken him from the sticks of Tennessee, to Washington DC, a brief detour in Wuhan, China (ever heard of it?), and finally to the West coast and the Coachella Valley. A government bureaucrat during the day, Alex has rekindled his love of acting and can be found performing in two different, local stage productions.
Check him out in The Bent’s production of THE LINCOLN DEBATE at the Palm Springs Cultural Center in February 2023 as well as Desert Theatreworks’ production of THE MOUSETRAP in February and March.
You can find Alex at www.thealexprice.com or through his Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/xand83/
Find tickets to THE MOUSETRAP: https://ci.ovationtix.com/36400/
Find tickets for The LINCOLN DEBATE atThe Bent Theatre:https://www.thebent.org
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Jason Reale is a recent transplant from NYC where he was a director of design for a global branding agency.
At the age of thirty he decided to change up his life, quit his job and rediscover his passion for acting by studying the Hagen technique at HB Studio. It was there where he was able to start to unravel the facade he had built up over the years and reawaken his creative spark.
Since moving to Palm Springs he has started to find his people through the plays he has been cast in. His most recent play, The Lincoln Debate by Terry Ray, poses the questions of Lincolns sexuality. This play has been his most challenging role to date and probably the role that has helped him grow the most.
It doesn't hurt that he shares a lot in common with the sixteenth president, besides just the beard.
More info and to contact Jason: http://jasonreale.com/
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Alan Kraemer and Claudia Ried
After careers in the tech industry and the fashion industry respectively, Alan Kraemer and Claudia Ried have reinvented themselves in the desert as producers and entertainers. On this show they tell us about their various ventures and adventures.
Links:
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@PalmSpringsPointofView
Facebook: https://www.Facebook.com/PSPOV
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pspov1938/
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Kevin has travelled extensively throughout the USA. After getting kicked out of his home as a teen, he had many harrowing adventures that seemed to bring him to various forks in the road. But somehow, he beat the odds and was able to choose the path away from certain destruction.
But it wasn't until he tested positive for HIV that it all came together and he was able to settle down, complete his education, get married and find purpose in life doing a job that he loves. And all the previous challenges meshed together to make him the man he is today.
It took many round about ways to get places but eventually always made it!
He currently resides in NYC with his husband and he's working as a nurse in a NYC hospital.
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Kevin has travelled extensively throughout the USA. After getting kicked out of his home as a teen, he had many harrowing adventures that seemed to bring him to various forks in the road. But somehow, he beat the odds and was able to choose the path away from certain destruction.
In other words, he takes many round about ways to get places but eventually always makes it!
He currently resides in NYC with his husband and he's working as a nurse at a NYC hospital.
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Adam Ross is a writer, a three-time Moth StorySLAM winner, and a three-time Moth GrandSLAM performer. His stories have been featured on The Moth Podcast and the Bawdy Storytelling Podcast. He has performed at curated storytelling shows in San Francisco, Los Angeles, Palm Springs, Chicago and New York City, including Strong Words, GatherNYC, OUTspoken, This Much is True, Talk Therapy, Bawdy Storytelling, and Better Luck Next Time.
Adam has been writing both fiction and nonfiction stories since he and his nerdy friends started ditching recess in the 4th grade to create short plays and home movies. He is currently producing a short film dramatization of his shocking “Since We’re Being Honest” story.
In addition to Adam’s creative projects, Adam has spent the last two-decades working for technology companies in various legal and business capacities, where he has almost mastered the art of cat-herding. Though he doesn’t enjoy long walks on the beach, Adam does enjoy being a part-time science nerd, political junkie, and gay rights rabble-rouser.
https://adamross.me/
http://Twitter.com/adamross
http://Instagram.com/adam.ross.stories
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Shawn Smith shares his stories of coming out in the rural midwest.
His involvement in an emerging Gay college campus organization began a path of LGBT activism, advocacy, and community-building as the Gay Rights Movement began to coalesce in the mid-70's across America.
Lured by the freedom and anonymity of big city life, Shawn shares his adventures along the road to freedom of sexual expression.
A writer and storyteller by trade, he's now quasi-retired and slacking poolside: A dirty old man enjoying the free and Fabulously Gay life that Palm Springs has to offer.
Contact Shawn at: macgizmoguy@hotmail.com
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Aaron Jay Young grew up in a very conservative, religious home in Pennsylvania.
He escaped at age 19 and he's spent his adult life on a journey of growth and self-discovery. Today he's an amazing portrait photographer based in LA and Palm Springs. I'm proud to have had the chance to get to know and interview this beautiful soul.
In Aaron's own words:
"My work is my passion. It is a culmination of all my life experiences - the pain, the trauma, the work I’ve done to find forgiveness, love, and compassion - not just for myself but for others. The process allows me to see other people, their pain, their joy, their vulnerability, and capture it authentically. It is with my camera that I take this journey; through self-portraits and through portraiture of others.
It’s a very intimate experience; when a subject is in front of me, whether it’s for 30 seconds, or much longer. There is an undeniable connection that is established. We exchange a sense of trust. All other distractions fall away and it is my sole purpose to see them and to capture those moments of truth.
Self-portraits are a way for me to expose not only my own inner world, but the inner world of others; to capture emotional states that are not encouraged to be shown in our society. Yet this is the very essence of what everyone can relate to throughout their own moments in life".
Aaron Jay Young
Web: https://www.aaronjayyoung.com
Email: aaron@aaronjayyoung.com
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Matthew Hardy is a New York City based actor and musical theater writer. His musicals can be seen Off-Broadway, at theaters across the United States and as far away as Poland. As an actor he has performed in theater, film and television but has recently made the leap to the tiny screen where you can find him on tiktok singing impromptu songs in his underwear.
www.matthewhardy.org
www.tiktok.com/@matthewahardy
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Rob Ollander-Krane
Rob grew up in New Jersey where he met his husband Jason 43 years ago at 19 years old! It was there that he also started his career in retail and Human Resources…a career that led to Harvard Business Case creating a case study that focused on the innovative work he did in Performance Management.
The two left New Jersey for the greener pastures of California and settled in San Francisco in 1987. Two years later, they were among the first gay men to both legally adopt a child. Their son Craig, now 37, lives in Virginia with his wife and 4-year-old son. Rob is a real gay grandpa!
A few years back, Jason and Rob relocated to Palm Desert and retired. But that hasn’t slowed Rob down. Since moving here, he has become a singer/songwriter, penning three songs after unsuccessfully trying to write songs for many years. The trick he discovered…a song writing camp in the Catskills run by his favorite band, the Milk Carton Kids.
But if that wasn’t enough, he also started a gay country western dance space called Palm Springs Country Dance Association where he and 50 others dance every Friday night.
Seems Rob is a bit of a renaissance man. What will he do next?
Come dance at the Palm Springs Country Dance Association: https://www.facebook.com/groups/3149602058688600
Listen to Rob’s favorite band: https://www.themilkcartonkids.com
And check Rob out at Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rob.ollanderkrane
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Ram Charan has been passionate about exploring consciousness through meditation and healing work for decades.
A native of New York, he has spent the greater part of 30 years in India where he gained a deep appreciation and understanding of spiritual awareness practices and intuitive wisdom, which finds expression in his practice of integrative bodywork and transformational coaching.
He combines this with extensive training in multiple holistic therapeutic approaches. He received his coaching training and certification through Coacharya in Chennai, India. His bodywork and coaching styles integrate his skills in a wide variety of manual techniques with a subtle understanding of the healing value of deep presence and conscious dialogue.
He teaches and works extensively internationally and is based on Cape Cod from Spring through Autumn.
For more information about his coaching and bodywork services, see:
www.healherenow.com
www.adamramcharan.com
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RUSSELL POE
When he was a young man, Russ Poe had a professor who told him notto follow his passion of becoming a teacher. Years later, with a lot of life experiences under his belt and with three children of his own, circumstances in his life changed and he was able to once again come back to his passion. He returned to school, obtained the necessary teaching credentials and began teaching.
That was twelve years ago. having moved from the Chicago suburbs to the desert, he now teaches middle school in Desert Host Springs.
He shares some insights from teaching middle schoolers and also manages to share a few life lessons with us.
Borrowing a line from a Ben Rector song, he says:
"I'm living my best life
I wake up with the sunrise
It does not look a thing like I thought that it would
I've been getting my steps in
And I sleep with my best friend..."
Russ says that he feels like he's cheating at life. His second chapter is starting so well...
He lives with his wife and three children in Cathedral City, CA.
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RICKY REIDLING
Ricky was born in the small southern town of Winder, Georgia on May 15th. Doing local theater productions since he was a kid he got his first real break when he was 15 when he was asked to audition for "Annie Get Your Gun" playing 'lil Jake, Annie's brother. He won the audience's over with great reviews to follow. Ricky continued acting in various productions throughout his career and finally decided to make the move to California where he was referred to a talent agent by a well known casting director and appeared in several films. Ricky then decided to start his own entertainment company where he would write/produce/direct and act in some of his own productions.
Ricky is a filmmaker, writer, actor and creator of the Cable series BoysTown, the feature film HEELS and the T.V. pilot ***Some Kind of Wonderful.
Some Kind of Wonderful*** Website: www.skowseries.com
Ricky's IMDB profile and info:
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm1579379/?ref_=nv_sr_srsg_0
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ricky.reidling
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rickyreidling/
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I met Tom Grissinger online more than 20 years ago. We had initially considered dating but that didn't work out. We remained friends over these many years.
In this episode, he discusses the rather unique grieving process he used in dealing with the unexpected death of his partner Kelly Turner.
We bounce around on many topics, including why he chose to father four children for four lesbian couples, some crazy dating stories and why he's so obsessed with game shows (and how he managed to successfully go on so many of them).
Lastly, he chats about his latest ventures in writing plays and storytelling.
Tom lives with his husband Andy Kelchner and they spend time between their homes in Oakland and Palm Springs.
Contact Tom via email: tgriss@gmail.com
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Who is Alex Stratikis? Here's his story in his own words:
"Hi, I’m Alex Stratikis, founder of Autism Adventures Abroad. I’m a 20-something travel blogger/writer (I’m also a Japanese to English translator too!) and I just happen to have an Autism diagnosis too. I was inspired to start my blog and establish this website to encourage other young autistic people who are ambitious about exploring the world to push their boundaries and give traveling a go, even if society may convince them otherwise. I could never have imagined that my life would turn out the way it has!
I was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome at the age of 6 (I now simply identify with the broader Autism Spectrum). I always knew there had to be a bigger, more interesting and exciting world than the small ex-mining community where I grew up in Scotland. I dreamt of living in Japan and from the age of 13 I began to study the language, I eventually studied for an Honours Degree in Japanese at Newcastle University in England and graduated in 2019.
I traveled myself for the first time abroad at the age of 19, to Japan and spent 6 months in Tokyo, studying at a language school. Those were some of the best times of my life. I learned a lot about myself, my limits, my likes and dislikes, I really pushed myself to try new things and explore new places during my stay.
I started to develop connections with others who like me were living in a foreign country and this was a key point I noted. Nobody was there to judge anyone else’s differences, everyone was there to connect with the people present, most of whom were of different cultures to themselves.
I was raised in Scotland (I’m Greek/Scottish) and really struggled socially throughout my childhood, I struggled to make friends because no-one I knew seemed to be interested in the things I wanted to talk about and here I am now at the beginning of an incredible journey that has seen me travelling (mainly solo) to over 30 countries, 6 of which I have lived, worked and studied in. I now have friends in countries all over the world!
I have a real interest in visiting sites and venues of historical and architectural significance (I did think about studying archaeology at university before I settled on Japanese).
I post regularly on Instagram, photos and stories from my travels so please take a look, like my posts, leave me a comment and if you like what you see, follow me and I might just follow you back"!
Alex's blog: https://www.autismadventuresabroad.com
Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/AutismAdventuresAbroad
Alex's travel Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/autismadventuresabroad/
Alex's tip jar/donation: https://gofund.me/20645a45 or
https://www.buymeacoffee.com/AlexStratikis
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XIAOBING is from China.
He spent four months as an artist in residence at the Tom of Finland Foundation in Los Angeles.
After that experience, he's been traveling around the US. I caught up with him as a guest at my Airbnb in Palm Springs (Palm Springs Interlude).
He chats with me about his art, his family and gay life in China.
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**To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Wilkinson's airbnb: https://www.airbnb.com/users/251586484/**
Vinnie Rotalo is an amazing man.
He hasn't had an easy life. When he was only 14, he tried to save his mother's life via instructions in CPR given by a 911 dispatcher. After her death, he had to go live with his father whom he didn't really know.
He became a trainer and was settling into a successful career with modeling potential when he became paralyzed. It took him a year of fierce struggle to come back to his normal self.
He got involved in drugs, spent some years in the gay porn industry and lost his partner to suicide. He also lost his beloved feline buddy Baxter, who had stuck with Vinnie through all of the ups and downs.
Vinnie is a courageous, beautiful man who's a bit shy - but he's very funny when you get to know him. His beautiful energy will be obvious to even the most casual observer as you listen to his story and be encouraged...
Vinnie's contact info:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vjr39/
Email: Vjrotalo@gmail.com
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A native of San Diego County, Rev. Dr. Jerry Troyer has been a New Thought/Religious Science minister since 2007.
Jerry is a founding board member and currently Director of Relationship Development for Urban Street Angels, an organization in San Diego that works to end youth homelessness by providing housing, life skills training and employment referrals to homeless transition age youth, ages 18 to 25.
He also serves as staff minister for Om Center for Spiritual Living, and is the author of the acclaimed book, Coming Out to Ourselves: Admitting, Accepting and Embracing Who We Truly Are.
Rev. Dr. Jerry’s husband, also Jerry, died in 2018, after a 33 year relationship. As a result of experiencing conflicting feelings of grief, loss and “toxic positivity,” he created an interactive workshop titled “The Search for Inner Peace: Being at Home in the Muddy Water.”
Through the grieving process, Jerry connected with others, especially in the LGBTQ community, experiencing difficulty in finding a sense of purpose and possibility after the death of a dear one or other life trauma. As a result of his connection with “ElderPride,” a focus ministry of the Centers for Spiritual Living, he began creating his second book about life after 60, which is expected to be published in 2023.
Rev. Dr. Jerry lives in La Mesa, a suburb of San Diego, with his English Cream Golden Retriever, “Maggie.” His son Brandon and family, including seven grandchildren, live near Eugene, Oregon.
Links:
http://www.revjerrytroyer.com
http://www.urbanstreetangels.org
http://www.omcsl.org
http://www.elderpride4me.org
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Dan RossiDan discusses his coming out process, life on the east coast and other topics, including his vast experience heading up several large non-profits.
Prior to his current job as Executive Director of the Palm Springs Animal Shelter, Dan was with the Humane Animal Rescue of Pittsburgh, where he led the very successful Humane Animal Rescue of Pittsburgh over 12 years.
Dan is a Pittsburgh native and holds a Bachelor’s Degree from Carnegie-Mellon University, as well as a Master’s Degree from Robert Morris University.
His extensive nonprofit experience spans not only animal welfare but also human health, having served as CEO of United Cerebral Palsy of Central Arizona, part of the United Cerebral Palsy network which is one of the largest health nonprofits in the United States.
Dan’s animal welfare journey really took off in 2010 when he accepted the role of Executive Director at the Animal Rescue League. Under his leadership the ARL experienced unprecedented growth and became the largest animal shelter in the Pittsburgh region, touching the lives of more than 25,000 animals and 30,000 households annually.
In 2017, Dan was named CEO of Humane Animal Rescue – the legacy organization of the merged Animal Rescue League and Western PA Humane Society.
Dan is married to his husband Ed Garofolo and they live with their pets in Palm Springs, California.
Visit the Palm Springs Animal Shelter: https://psanimalshelter.org
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John Adam Di PietroJohnearned his J.D. degree from the University of Notre Dame. In addition to being a civil litigator for most of his career, he also brought in excess of four decades of experience in real estate, title, zoning, land use, litigation, business and municipal law to The Danek Law Firm.
He has served as solicitor for many municipalities and zoning and planning boards. In addition to representing local governments, he has acted as legal counsel for real estate developers, general contractors and financial institutions. He has also served a five-year term as in-house underwriting counsel and marketing agent for a national title insurance company.
John was a panel participant in numerous legal seminars for members of the Pennsylvania Bar and for various professional organizations, including the National Business Institute. Some of his presentations have been at the following seminars:
- “Practical Guide To Zoning and Land Use Law” Philadelphia, PA March 14, 2016;
- “Practical Guide To Zoning and Land Use Law” King of Prussia, PA September 16, 2015;
- “Title Law From Start To Finish” Philadelphia, PA April 28, 2015;
- “Title Workshop: From Examination to Commitment: March 10, 2014;
- “Title Law in Pennsylvania” Philadelphia, PA July 10, 2013;
- “Practical Guide To Zoning and Land Use Law” Philadelphia, PA October 1, 2013; and
- “Legal Issue in Local Government” Philadelphia, PA March 2, 2012.
He was often a guest columnist on legal issues in a variety of internet media outlets. As a member of the Pennsylvania, Montgomery and Philadelphia County Bar Associations he practiced before several U.S. Federal District Courts. As an appellate attorney he has also represented clients before the Commonwealth’s appellate courts.
He is fluent in Italian and French and has represented clients abroad in various business matters.
John was also active in local politics. In 1979, he was elected as councilman-at-large to Wilkes-Barre City Council for a four-year term.
Community service includes Chairperson of the East Norriton Township Zoning Hearing Board and member of the Human Relations Commission of East Norriton Township. He is also a member of the Independence Business Alliance of Philadelphia.
Past Solicitorships:
- Luzerne County Institution District;
- Borough of Conshohocken; 1992 – 2004;
- North Wales Borough;
- Springfield Township Zoning Hearing Board;
- Springfield Township Civil Service Commission;
- Special Counsel to Borough of Conshohocken;
- Special Counsel to Ambler Zoning Hearing Board.
John is married to his husband Rich and now enjoys a busy life of retirement in Palm Springs, California.
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Luke YankeeHas written, directed, produced, taught, lectured and acted throughout the country and abroad. He has run two regional theatres, serving as Producing Artistic Director of the Long Beach Civic Light Opera and the Struthers Library theatre.
Luke’s published plays include THE LAST LIFEBOAT and A PLACE AT FOREST LAWN, both published by Dramatists Play Service. His other plays include THE JESUS HICKEY (which premiered in Los Angeles starring Harry Hamlin) and THE MAN WHO KILLED THE CURE, which had it's world premiere in Southern California in February 2017. He has also written numerous TV spec scripts and pilots.
His book, JUST OUTSIDE THE SPOTLIGHT: GROWING UP WITH EILEEN HECKART is published by Random House (under the imprint of Back Stage Books), with a foreword by Mary Tyler Moore. Critics have praised it as “One of the most compassionate, illuminating showbiz books ever written.” (Musto, The Village Voice) It was recently cited by PaperMag as “One of the Ten Best Celebrity Memoirs of All Time.”
He has taught and guest directed extensively at colleges, universities and conservatories throughout the U.S. and abroad, including five years at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts, Northwestern, Ohio State, AMDA, Denison, University of New Mexico, the Folkwang Hochschule (in Essen, Germany) and three years on the faculty of Columbia College-Hollywood. He has been a panelist and guest instructor at the William Inge Theatre Festival, where he has performed with Marybeth Hurt, Holland Taylor and George Grizzard. He is also a member of their Advisory Board. He is currently on the faculty of The American Musical and Dramatic Academy (AMDA), teaching advanced acting and scene study.
His theatre acting credits include “Our Town” at the American Shakespesare Theatre with Fred Gwynne, the U.S. premiere of “The Greeks” at The Williamstown Theatre Festival with Gwyneth Paltrow, Blythe Danner, Christopher Reeve and Celeste Holm and “The Dream Watcher” with Eva LeGallienne. In film and television, he has appeared in “The Hiding Place” with Julie Harris, “Ragtime” with Elizabeth McGovern, “Evergreen” with Armand Assante and “The Equalizer” with Jim Dale.
Luke has studied at the Juilliard School of Drama, New York University, University of California – Riverside, Northwestern University, Circle in the Square and the Herbert Berghof Studio.
He is the son of the late Eileen Heckart, who won an Academy Award for “Butterflies Are Free” and appeared in over 15 feature films, 20 Broadway plays, and countless television programs. Ms. Heckart is a member of the Theatre Hall of Fame and a multiple Emmy and Tony Award winner. In her honor, Luke created the Eileen Heckart Memorial Scholarship Fund at Ohio State University, her alma mater.
Luke toured internationally for more than ten years with DIVA DISH, his one-man show about the golden age of Broadway and Hollywood. There was such demand for a sequel, he created DIVA DISH: THE SECOND HELPING, which he premiered at the Desert Rose Theatre in Palm Springs.
Luke and his husband Don Hill spend time at their homes in Long Beach, CA and Palm Springs, CA.
For more info ( including his full Bio) or to contact Luke: https://yankeehillproductions.com
Luke's email is: luke@lukeyankee.net
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"Facing The Truth Of Your Life" by Merle Yost
The bad news: Your parents lied to you about who you are and what life is about.
The good news: Most parents didn’t do it intentionally. They told you what they learned from their parents.
ARE YOU READY TO:
- Look at the world differently?
- Challenge the beliefs that you were force-fed as a child?
- Live life on your terms, being free and at peace with yourself?
- Stop passing fiction to your own children and their children?
- ...then you are ready for Facing the Truth of Your Life.
Some self-help books promise simple solutions that sound easy and might even feel good. Yet the fact about your personal truth is that getting down to it, facing it, and getting to the other side of it, involves some pain. There’s no way around it. The way out is through.
Facing the Truth of Your Life is a tough, enlightening and demanding book that delivers.
Contact Merle: http://www.MerleYost.com
Merle's workshops: https://unspokenboundaries.com
Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Facing-Truth-Your-Merle-James/dp/0999154702/
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Helene Verin has a B.S. in Art from the University of Wisconsin at Madison and has a certificate in arts appraisal from NYU. Verin has worked for many galleries, museums as well as individual artists; including the Museum of Contemporary Art in Chicago, Documenta (where she worked with Joseph Beuys), was the Edinburgh Arts Administrator, and worked for Dennis Oppenheim as his registrar. She has written for FlashArt, Interview, and the Smithsonian.
As an award-winning designer of shoes, rugs, wallpaper, and tiles, Verin is intimately involved with contemporary design, with a specialty in couture and accessories. Her work has appeared in countless books and publications. A Professor at the Fashion Institute of Technology in New York City, Verin has lectured around the world.
Recognized as the expert on Beth Levine, (having written Beth Levine Shoes, (Stewart, Tabori & Chang 2009) and curated 3 exhibitions, as well as authored Arsho Baghsarian (Schiffer Fashion Press.)
Verin moved to Palm Springs during Covid, May 2020.
Contact Helene: helene.verin@gmail.com
Helene's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heleneverin/?hl=en
Helene's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/helene.verin.9
Artsy Article: https://www.artsy.net/article/artsy-editorial-sit-andy-warhol
LABUCQ interview: https://labucq.com/pages/helene-verin
Helene's Books:
"Beth Levine Shoes " (2009)
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1584797592/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0
"Arsho Baghsarian: A Life in Shoes" (2019) https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0764357328/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i1
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Jeff Witthuhn
Peepa's owner & designer, Jeff Witthuhn, has been a Palm Springs resident since 2016. He began his retail career in 1998 when he worked at The Gap. From there he spent twelve years at Express and then moved into a buyers position at The Bon-Ton before moving to Palm Springs and opening up Peepa’s.
Peepa’s is named after Jeff’s Great Grandpa, Bud Storch. Bud and his wife Roma were instrumental in raising Jeff. Jeff spent most of his childhood at their house. Bud & Roma had a workshop in their basement where they made wood crafts and home goods in their retirement years. And Jeff always had to be down there with them. So it was decided many years ago, if Jeff ever opened up a store, it would be named in his Great Grandparents honor.
Peepa's
Nestled in the heart of downtown Palm Springs, California, Peepa’s has become a go-to destination for Palm Springs locals and tourists. At Peepa’s, they strive to give the best shopping experience in Palm Springs. They carry a wide assortment of products including mens & women's apparel, art, gift and seasonal goods. At Peepa’s they focus on bringing in artists and designers who are independent and/or local. This helps them keep their assortment unique and different.
As a gay owned business, they like to especially support other LGBTQ, black and female brand/artists. Their in store experience is rooted in exceptional customer service, just like the old days! They look at themselves as hosts of the best daily party in Palm Springs. And it's their job to make you feel welcome and comfortable in their store. They enjoy the opportunity to tell customers all the interesting stories about their featured artists and designers too! And they love to learn where you are from and what brings you to fabulous Palm Springs!
They play lively, upbeat music from a variety of genres and decades. So one minute you may be bopping to Lizzo and the next minute to Donna Summer. They keep it light, happy and fun! The store is colorful, clean and well merchandised, so its easy to shop. Every visit in Peeps, you’ll discover something new!
Jeff lives with his partner Darren in the home they've just remodeled in Palm Springs.
Visit and shop Peepa's: https://www.peepasps.com
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Jared Rohrer is an advocate for healthy touch and sexual exploration. It is his passion to dispel shame by bringing dark things into the light and empowering people to want what they want in a way that benefits everyone’s highest good.
To contact him email:
jaredrdc@gmail.com
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Brock Bennett shares his story of growing up in a fundamentalist family with a preacher as his father.
In this "no holds barred" interview, Brock discusses the damage done by a parent who was unable to face the true realities of life and how each person is created and who they are.
He was told, and believed, that his "same sex attraction" was his thorn in the flesh- something that he had to live with, but not succumb to- so that he could spend eternity in heaven.
It wasn't until he reached his thirties that he was able to escape the prison of religion.
He set out on a quest to find out for himself what it meant to be gay, and allowed himself to feel what was obvious to him when he was only five years old.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Text or call 988 on your cell phone for help. LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free. https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/Contact Brock Bennett at: BrockisFree66@gmail.com
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Prince Fleet Easton:Was born in Akron, Ohio where he made his singing debut at the age of 5. Soon after he began his show business career by appearing in many Broadway musical productions at the Equity Goodyear Musical Theater. He has an extensive background in dance, acting and singing. He studied at American Ballet Theater, Ballet Arts and took master classes at the world-renowned Julliard School.
Now living in Palm Springs, California Fleet has devoted his spare time appearing for many benefits, believing that you must give back to move forward. Fleet worked for several years with the 'Well In The Desert' feeding the homeless and those in need of a hot meal. He has performed on the 'Joey English TV Show' 'Joey English Radio Show' 'Eye On The Desert' and 'KMIR 6 Morning Show' 'Pink Lady Presents' just to name a few. On February 2008 he sang with 'Musical Chairs'. In 2007 Fleet joined the cast and became one of the stars of the Bella Da Ball Cabaret Dinner Show and was with them for 8 years. He has been the soloist and musical director for 'Innerfaith Spiritual Center Worldwide now for 12 years. In 2008 Fleet won the Desert Idol competition for Palm Springs California. On June 7th 2009 Fleet made his debut as one of the 'National Anthem' singers for the Palm Springs Powerball Baseball team and now is a spokesperson for them. He has also sung the National Anthem for the Empire Polo Club in Indio California. While living in Florida Fleet was a 'National Anthem' singer for Micheal Jordan's Blue Ducks Basketball Team and the Florida Marlin's Baseball Team.
On December 9th. 2016 Prince Fleet received the 407th Star on the 'Palm Springs Walk Of Stars'. On April 22nd. 2017 Fleet received the 'Lifetime Achievement Award' again from the White house along with acknowledgements from the United States Congress, the United States Senate and from the California Senate and the California Congress. In 2018 Prince Fleet Easton received the 'Presidents Choice Entertainer Of The Year' in Hollywood California from the Southern California Motion Picture Council. In January of 2018 he once again received the 'Lifetime Achievement Award' from the White House.
Prince Fleet can soon be seen in the feature film 'Hashtag Blessed' and heard in the soundtrack of the movie. Singing the orginal song 'Why Can't Christmas Be Here Everyday'
Prince Fleet can be also be seen in the new action comedy film 'Team Of Two' as Detective Johnson. He has now released a single, a inspiritational anthem for the Ukrainian War titles "We Will Carry On'. In 2023 Prince Fleet will be honored in Paris France with the Fabulous Celebs Global Award.
Contact Prince Fleet Easton via his email: Fleeteaston@yahoo.com
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Kevin Hansen takes us along as he describes his upbringing in an ultra-religious family, his dealing with diabetes and his surviving lung cancer.
And one day (while he was a little high), he decided to leave the moderate safety of a house that had begun to flood, in order to go for a fun swim in the floodwaters smack dab in the middle of Hurricane Katrina!
He's moved around a lot, and we join him as he recounts his many moves, relationships and adventures.
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Jonathan GoldmanJonathan has been involved in teaching improv classes and workshops in Palm Springs for a number of years.
*After attending public schools in Brooklyn, NY, Jonathan then trained to be an optometrist in Boston. Upon realizing that there should be more to a career than forever saying, "Which is clearer? One or Two?", he became the first O.D. to get an M.B.A. in Health Administration (from Temple University in Philadelphia). His career took me to Chicago where he taught; and also took Toastmasters classes. In 1983 Jonathan moved to San Francisco and worked for the Department of Public Health for much of the end of our last century. His last two positions were as a Workers Comp Coordinator and a Hospital Trainer. He also presented "Critical Thinking" workshops for various Kaiser Permanente North hospitals' staff and was manager for Project Inform's National HIV/AIDS treatment hotline.
Happily discovering the BATS School of Improvisation (then known as Bay Area Theatresports™ in 1998, he soon became the Volunteer Director for their community service program, Laughing Stock, which provides free Improv classes to people living with life-threatening illnesses such as HIV/AIDS, Cancer, Hep C, etc., and their care partners. He continued taking specialty classes, performed occasionally with the Mirth Brokers ensemble under the direction of Gerri Lawlor, and lead Intro to Improv workshops at a variety of HIV/AIDS and men's retreats in northern and southern California and afloat on the Caribbean and Pacific Ocean.
Jonathan credits his improv skills for getting him to be a contestant for Wheel of Fortune in 2005. Although landing on a Bankrupt on his first wheel spin and then did the "Ta Dah - Circus Bow" for all of America; he later went on to the Bonus round. According to Slate.Com, he solved one of the 15 toughest WOF puzzles in the past 25 years. Improv also landed him a featured role for the Frameline32 Film Festival trailers as a game show contestant with perpetual wrong answers.
Jonathan moved to Palm Springs in February 2014 with his mixed rescue terrier, Roopert, to re-invent himself. Improv has helped keep his spirits youthful (well, that and a good moisturizer) and energized. He performed with Andy Harmon's Acting Improv class at the 2014 Improv/Comedy Festival in Indio. He's always looking forward to making new friends as he offers locals the opportunity to sample the fun and joy that is Improvisational Theater. Improv builds community!*Flexible thinking skills gained from Improv:
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Increased self-confidence.
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Enthused spirit.
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Better coping with stressful situations.
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Greater freedom of expression.
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More spontaneity.
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Thinking outside the box.
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Creative solutions to challenges.
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Letting go of control.
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Getting out of your head and into the present.
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Improved collaborative efforts = better teamwork.
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Making new friends, both real and imaginary.
**To contact Jonathan or to join in the fun:
Web: http://www.theimprovoasis.com Phone: 760-656-8338**
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Dwayne A. Ratleff
Dancing to the Lyrics is a timeless and timely coming-of-age tale. Through the eyes of the young protagonist, Grant Cole, we are offered a first-hand account of an African American gay youth who perseveres in spite of personal and family obstacles as well as the larger challenges of his era.
As Grant struggles to comprehend his own nature, his world, and the adults who populate it, he observes and emotionally reacts to the assassinations of MLK and RFK, the Baltimore riots, the Vietnam War and more. Poverty, accompanied by crime, violence and fear, is his frequent companion, but his own vivid imagination and close relationships with his younger sisters, various family members and friends bring hope and humor into his life.
While Grant witnesses the abuse of his mother at the hands of a cruel stepfather, and discovers the man he doesn’t want to be, he strives continually toward understanding the person he was born to be. He learns crucial lessons from his life teachers: faith and pragmatism from his grandparents, and open-mindedness and self-acceptance from a diverse cast of unconventional but kindly characters woven throughout his story.
While very much an individual’s story of overcoming adversity during a specific point in time and place – 1960’s America – Dancing to the Lyrics also provides a lens through which we can view events in our current time. The lessons that young Grant learns are as relevant today as ever and discerning them through the eyes of such an insightful youngster is a revelation.
Buy the book:
https://www.amazon.com/Dancing-Lyrics-Finding-Inner-Rhythm/dp/1735525308/
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To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Jason Mannino
Jason has decades of experience in multiple various careers that overlap including careers as an Executive Search Consultant, Executive Coach, Singer, Actor.
In Executive Search Jason has partnered with a variety of mission-driven clients both in house and with some of the world’s top executive recruiting agencies including Korn Ferry and Koya Partners (a division of Diversified Search Group). He also implemented in house executive search functions at world class organizations including University of Southern California, UC Berkeley, LA Care Health Plan among others. He also spent years working throughout the entertainment industry at organizations including Warner Bros. The Walt Disney Company and Universal Music among others.
In addition, Jason has had a lifelong love affair with the performing arts as a performer and supporter. Since moving to Palm Springs in 2021 he has sung with Modern Men, Coachella Valley Men’s Chorus, and had the honor of performing in the world premiere of their commission Momentum. Next weekend will mark his 3rd concert with A Cabello, the Coachella Valley’s Premier Male Vocal Ensemble, in their tribute to the James Bond franchise’s 60th anniversary. Also, this month he makes his operatic debut in the lead role of Guy in TigerBear Productions' West Coast Premiere of Unbound.
He holds a B.A. in Theater Arts from Rutgers University and an M.A. in Spiritual Psychology from University of Santa Monica and he is credentialed as an executive/career coach with the International Coaching Federation (www.coachmannino.com), He is also a certified massage therapist and certified conscious breath worker.
LINKS:
Music: A Cabbello (The Coachella Valley’s Premier Male Vocal Ensemble): www.acabbello.org
Opera: www.unboundopera.com (be sure to check performance dates/times or the Black Cast to see Jason)
Career Coaching: www.coachmannino.com
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Scott Vitale is a gay man who weighed 312 pounds when he went in for his annual check up.
His doctor told him that if something didn't change in his lifestyle, he would die fairly soon.
He was referred to a doctor who did bariatric surgery. Scott credits a lot of his success to the nutritionist who helped him learn to eat differently. Under her guidance, he lost 45 pounds before the surgery. Subsequently, the surgeon removed two thirds of his stomach, which caused some drastic changes in his life.
His husband Eric supported him all along the way in this journey, and accompanied him to that first visit with the nutritionist. When they returned home, Eric began to toss all of the bread, pastas , cereals, etc. into the trash and he told Scott that he too, would not be eating those things any longer.
With his new-found energy and new life, Scott took up cycling and completed the San Francisco to LA Aids/Life Cycle ride in 2022. He continues to cycle today and it's become his passion. Today he's maintains his ideal weight at 165 pounds.
You may contact Scott via email at: svitale03@yahoo.com
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To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
TED FOX
The misadventures of Ted Fox's young gay life in Tennessee: early childhood adventures, a very flamboyant piano teacher, the diving team, begging Jesus to change him, travel, relatives in denial, becoming a trampoline champ, working as a dancer and actor, getting busted for weed, and other adventures!
And of course all those adventures have given him great memories and also material for his Facebook storytelling group!
Ted's Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/100051154877132
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**Peter Bedard, M.A., C.Ht
Author of "Convergence Healing- Healing pain with energetic love".*"The doctors were able to put the bones back together, but they didn't put my life back together..."*"*Millions of people suffer from some form of chronic pain (whether it be physical, emotional, or existential), and this discomfort silently drains too many of us of our highest potential and our power. Living in a state of unending pain pushes people to the margins of their own lives and robs them of direct access to their most authentic, essential, worthy selves. Pain, ironically, renders too many beautiful voices mute; it cripples the body, leaving too many dancing souls lost. And nobody knows this better than Peter Bedard.
One night, seventeen-year-old dancer, Peter Bedard, died in a traffic accident. The white-bearded messenger waiting at the gate of heaven sent him back to Earth with a task to help others heal. After a decade of debilitating physical and emotional suffering, Peter uncovered an empowered, new way of healing chronic pain without medicine—convergence healing. In his groundbreaking approach, Bedard invites us to look at our pain as the greatest source of wisdom we will ever have. Instead of medicating it, trying to break with it, or somehow outwit it, he invites us to surrender to our pain so that we may finally integrate our losses, our transitions, our heartaches, and our mortality and make peace with the everlasting truth of who, uniquely, we truly are.
Through the author’s own near-death experience and other compelling stories and case studies, Convergence Healing offers a whole new body-mind paradigm for those interested in living a balanced, well-integrated life".*Check out www.ConvergenceHealingTeas.com and www.ConvergenceHealing.com for more healing love!
Find Peter on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/peter.bedard
Buy his book: https://www.amazon.com/Convergence-Healing-Pain-Energetic-Love/dp/1501119524/Photo: Copyright Wilkinson/2022
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Paul Hietter
Paul is a true renaissance man - having worked in a number of industries, with his favorites of being a caterer and event planner to the stars and a new thought minister.
He is always happiest when he is of service and learning something new.
Overcoming life’s obstacles seems a good hobby and with hiking, working out, being a Chef and humanitarian, there is never a dull moment.
Currently single, and a cat daddy of Rumi and Leo, Paul lives in Palm Springs, CA.
He may be reached at 760-567-5820 or PaulHietter@icloud.com.
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Lucas Schelkens
Sometimes things happen in life which we interpret as negative events.
But in hindsight, often it's those events which propel us to success in other areas of our lives.
Lucas paints a word picture of such things in his own life. We join him in his journey as hardships launch him into several successful careers.
And sometimes failures in a relationship can lead us down a different path. And sometimes you round a corner and discover what you had desired all along: Finding the true love of your life.
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Jesse Rosenberg and Ken Avedisian: Finding true love in their sixties. It IS possible!
So many times, as single gay men reach their third chapter in life, they believe that it's no longer possible to find love.
Ken Avedisian and Jesse Rosenberg prove that this is not always the case. After a chance meeting on a street corner during Leather Pride when they were each visiting Palm Springs, something clicked and the rest is history.
They subsequently each moved to Palm Springs and bought a home together, remodeled it, got married during Covid and just returned from a month-long dream honeymoon in Africa.
In this episode, they discuss their lives, their meeting and how they've compromised and worked together to form a new life together.
Contact Ken:
http:///www.cordonselections.com
or
Email: info@cordonselections.com
Contact Jesse:http://www.yogawithbears.com
or
Email: info@yogawithbears.com
andhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/436531930583333
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Charlie Harding is an accomplished actor and singer, with a diverse mix of projects.
He began his professional acting career with a co-starring role in the independent film Proxy. Charlie is also the host and an executive producer of Underground and Out and About travel shows for Here! TV, and Planet Out.
He recently played the Bouncer in the upcoming film Here We Are, and stars with an ensemble cast in the mini series Silverlake
. He was the lead singer of the band PROBE 7, releasing a full studio album and touring the west coast. As a songwriter and music producer, Charlie recently co-wrote and sang vocals for the song "Invisible Man," for a documentary about the unhoused.
Contact Charlie:
Web: http://www.HireCharlieHarding.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrcharding/
Invisible Man on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2JDbztdp0H8
Unbound (kink) Opera: https://www.unboundopera.com
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Adam's story and his struggles.
Even though we each have dreams for that perfect life, many times we self sabotage ourselves for some hidden reason. Adam shares the struggles he's had over the past several years with failed gay relationships, hurting himself and hurting others whom he's loved and lost. Thankfully, his suicide attempts were not successful and he's here to share his poignant story with us.
It's so easy to judge others. "Why didn't you do that"? "Why did you say that"? "Didn't you learn anything from the last time this happened"? And yet, so many times we all do this type of thing to ourselves. Hopefully, Adam's courage in sharing his story will give each of us insight into the way we so often behave in the very same way.
And perhaps it will remind us to truly appreciate whom we have in the person sitting there, right in front of us.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Text or call 988 on your cell phone for help. LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free. https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
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Peter Gordon is a licensed marriage and family therapist with a private practice in Palm Springs, CA.
His life's path progressed from his days as a youth in NYC through various careers including a brief stint as a gypsy in the New York theater world to a landscape designer in Santa Fe, NM and then on to graduate school for counseling psychology at university outside of San Francisco at 50 years young
Peter's initial desire for his new career path was based on a desire to work with queer youth navigating the treacherous waters of coming out, which, as most baby boomers know, was traumatic at best, at least until Stonewall and the modern movement toward equality.
However, his plans were fouled by the advent of the internet which allowed queer youth to connect world wide, from small towns to large cities in an entirely new way, accessing a community and achieving a degree of acceptance and self-respect, thereby limiting the need for a therapist. But there was still a lot of trauma in the LGBT community; and Peter focused on working with clients to heal using a relatively new theoretical model for trauma - EMDR.*
Gradually, Peter began to understand the ultimate limitations of various existing theoretical models of recovery programs, psychotherapy and psychotropic medications**. The idea of plant medicines being used therapeutically has caught his attention and focus.
The recent positive research regarding the therapeutic benefits of the use of psychedelics to heal trauma, help addicts and alcoholics recover, and increase a sense of spirituality and connectedness has changed the direction of his practice.
Peter's practice is now heading into the future of healing trauma at a deeper level by combining psychedelics and therapy.
EMDR*: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing.
Psychotropic Medications: A psychotropic drug is a drug that affects behavior, mood, thoughts, or perception (such as antidepressants).
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Sam Salar is a Persian, Jewish Gay man who has created the law firm LEGALLY QUEER in order to give back to the LGBT community.Sam discusses the struggles he had growing up in his Persian, Jewish family/community. His parents struggled to understand and accept who he was as a gay man, but they ultimately came around and became the ones who would help other Persian/Jewish parents understand and accept their gay children.
Sam earned his law degree and then started his career in litigation (where he had been working as a paralegal in that field) prior to passing the California bar exam. When he passed the bar, his friends then asked him "Are you happy"? But he knew he wasn't.
His mentor suggested to him that perhaps he should consider switching to a practice that would give back to the LGBT community. So after some consideration of that suggestion, he created LEGALLY QUEER.
And today he IS happy!
Contact Sam:
Sam Salar R., Esq.
SamSalarLaw@gmail.com
310-666-5546Instagram:@legallyqueer_
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/legallyqueer
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Aneela Zaman is the author of Goodbye Isn't Goodbye.
Still recovering from her separation and divorce, she meets an older gentleman in her yoga class. Though obviously smitten with her, nevertheless, he accepts her wish to be merely friends, and not cross the line to be romantically involved. She tells the story of her gradual realization that this gentleman (although far from being the ideal partner that she had formed in her head) was everything that she wanted in a man. Shortly after she had this awakening, he was diagnosed with cancer and passed away only months later.
She talks about her journey in this process, and describes how John now comes to her from the other side of the veil, guiding her and encouraging her:
"The perched butterfly on your morning newspaper, the fluttering of a delicate hummingbird directly at eye level, the flickering of bedroom lights just as the radio plays your favorite song. Coincidence? Mere acts of randomness? What if there was more? What if each seemingly random act carried a message, and one not always from this realm? When your deceased loved ones come knocking, perhaps it's only the heart that can ever know for sure. As in this tale of friendship turned to romance and the connections that spanned beyond space and time".
"Goodbye Isn't Goodbye" is available on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1545287805?psc=1&ref=ppx_yo2ov_dt_b_product_details
She is also a very accomplished Realtor:
Aneela Zaman Luxury Estates.
Contact Aneela here: https://www.facebook.com/aneelazamanrealestate
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Growing up, Edras Cordova's father constantly reminded him of a saying. Edras chose to remember his father's teaching by having it tattooed across the top of his chest. Roughly translated, the words say: "Only the one who carries a knapsack knows what's in it".
We never know what another person is going through. Edras took the message to heart and it softened him. Unfortunately, it appears that his siblings and other family members did not learn such a message.
People are so often trapped in their religious beliefs and systems that they are blinded to truth and reality.
Many of my prior podcast guests have told stories of being trapped in such systems, and they described how they were able to escape and ultimately live fulfilled lives as their authentic selves.
Edras Cordova and his brother were both gay. Edras was able to navigate his escape route from the Jehovah's Witness cult (his word) and to go on to live a life he never thought possible when he was trapped in that religious system.
His brother was not so fortunate. He chose a path of staying in the system, marrying, have two children and believing that somehow he would be "cured" or "fixed" and being gay would go away.
The torment and pain of being caught in such an untenable position ultimately drove him to multiple suicide attempts. Two weeks before taking his own life, he told his family that he was either going to live his gay life, or commit suicide.
Edras discusses the pain and fallout of his brother's choice in hopes that people who are caught in such systems will open their eyes and hearts to the truth: If we don't allow ourselves and others to be who they are, the cost will be unbearable.
The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is now: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Text or call 988 on your cell phone for help. LGBT youth crisis helpline. If you are thinking about harming yourself — get immediate support. Connect to a crisis counselor 24/7, 365 days a year, from anywhere in the U.S. It is 100% confidential, and 100% free. https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Chris Hassett is a singer- song writer and recording artist (His 6th album of original songs is coming soon).
Chris is also the co-author of Friendship Chronicles - Letters Between a Gay and a Straight Man.
About Chris HassettChris Hassett has been delighting audiences with his unique style of singing, song-writing & story-telling for four decades. An accomplished entertainer with a rich baritone, Chris can also point to successful careers in coaching, teaching, publishing, manufacturing and communications. His passion for music, however, has remained strong throughout his life and it now drives his current creative projects. He’s working on a sixth album and hopes to introduce a dozen or more original love songs to his audience in the spring of 2023. A published author, he also hopes to continue with a second book project.
His original songs come from his heart, drawing upon his life experiences as a gay man. Although his original lyrics have particular appeal for open-hearted types, he has been known to win over a large audience that crosses all lines -- gender, sexual orientation, genre, age, and even political persuasions. For more information on his music, visit his website, www.chrishassett.com.
Chris also has his own YouTube channel (www.youtube.com/user/cahassett49), an artist page on iTunes (Chris Hassett), and he maintains a strong presence on Facebook (Chris Hassett Music) & Instagram (@kitchencrooner).
Brief Bio
Chris is the third of five boys, born to Frank and Doris Hassett. As an Air Force family, the Hassetts moved from base to base every few years (and sometimes every few months) throughout his childhood, eventually settling in California. In that same Central Valley town, Merced, Chris also spent his early adult years as a high school math teacher and swim coach. Music was always a big part of family life — not so much in an organized way as in a constant, impromptu way, with dad usually getting the ball rolling. Chris was fortunate to inherit his dad’s love of singing and strong voice. In spite of developing a wide-range of interests in his life, Chris knows that singing is what he does best.
Chris was singing regularly in the San Diego area from the early 1980s. Whether in private or community concerts, benefit or professional gigs, Chris earned a reputation as a poised, naturally humorous and gifted entertainer with a powerful and expressive voice. In 2009, he began a recording career and now has five albums to his credit. About half of the tracks across those albums are his original compositions.
In 2018, Chris — suddenly single and ready for a change of scenery — moved from San Diego to Palm Springs. Although more than half of the time in his new town has been affected by COVID restrictions, he remains optimistic that this desert town will give him the community, resources and music opportunities that he craves.
Aside from music & writing, Chris is an accomplished swimmer, gardener and yoga enthusiast. He has close ties to his three surviving brothers and has maintained strong friendships with people across the decades.
If you are interested in a copy of his book, Friendship Chronicles, you may contact him via email: chris@chrishassett.com ($15 plus $3 for shipping).
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Chris' song in this podcast is "This I Promise You." Copyright 2012 Chris Hassett. All rights reserved.
Contact Wilkinson- BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
Bill Kavanagh, LMFT
Author of “Keep Your Fork; Something Sweet is Coming”
Bill was determined to dedicate his future towards helping others discover the path of healing that he had personally discovered after a life of extreme highs and lows. Today, his writings and therapy techniques are focused on creative methods of dealing with the challenges that life offers us. As a writer for Psychology Today, he addresses ideas that can relieve trauma and transform it into happiness.
Bill is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Southern California. After battling Stage IV cancer, he received his Masters Degree in Clinical Psychology from Antioch University Los Angeles, and was selected to be commencement speaker.
Prior to becoming a mental health professional, Bill spent his career writing scripts and producing major events, including several awards shows, Olympic Ceremonies, and the Walt Disney Company.
Bill has embraced beauty and acquired grace, along with the power and strength to write his book, which he believes can offer others a similar chance for courage and peace as they take their next steps forward.
Contact Bill: Bill@BillKavanagh.com
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From an article by Max Berlinger in Vogue Runway:
"Some designers create for fantasy, some designers create for reality, and then there’s Rio Uribe of Gypsy Sport, who doesn’t bother differentiating between the two. In fact, that blurring of the lines is a hallmark of his brand, which draws deeply on the Chicano American experience and then filters it through Uribe’s viewpoint as a queer man.
This season, the designer showed in Los Angeles, the city where he was raised and has returned to during the pandemic. He had originally planned to show here in March of 2020, but the coronavirus upended that. So the mood atop the Petersen Automotive Museum, where his runway show was staged just as the sun dipped below the Pacific, was ebullient. Hoots and whistles rose up as the lights went down, and the clapping began before the first model even hit the catwalk. The clothes matched the vibe.
“The main arc is about Chicano culture,” Uribe said. “But there’s so many subcultures under that umbrella.” So he pulled together the looks of various groups: the swaggering machismo of the lowriders; the ornate street look of the cholos and cholas; the zoot-suit-wearing pachucos and their elegant pachuca wives, who flourished in L.A. during the 1950s; and the whitewashed, exoticized version of the bombshell Latina that was offered up by Old Hollywood. Sprinkle on top of those elements a heavy dose of the drag and vogueing scenes, and you get a sense of Uribe’s vision...."
**Check out Gypsy Sport at Vogue Runway (copy and paste):
https://www.vogue.com/fashion-shows/designer/gypsy-sport
And in LA Fashion Week (copy and paste):
https://lafw.net/portfolio-item/gypsy-sport/**
Or simply go to http://gypsysportny.com
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Eddi Kreg Anderson talks about the group he created some time ago:
"Among Friends is all about... YOU!!!
We exist to provide a platform to produce true community in the Palm Springs Area. We are an event company that loves to do fun activities, Interactive movies, and charity events to bring the community together.
Come join us...
Even if you don't know anyone...
You are AMONG FRIENDS."
Find Eddie and the gang of community -minded friends on FaceBook (Copy and paste): http://www.facebook.com/Amongfriendscommunity/
And in this podcast episode: Eddie discusses what circumstances in his life brought him to the place he is today. It's an interesting and poignant story of this father of eight, now living his best gay life in Palm Springs.
Bonus: He reveals why he wears a cape while dancing each week at Oscar's Sunday Tea dance, and what the cape symbolizes.
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This is my second episode with Mark as my guest. In the first episode, he primarily discussed his own personal journey and then he touched on his energy work toward the end of the recording.
In this episode, he explains in more detail how he approaches the energy work that he does.
EVERYTHING IS ONE WITH SOURCE CREATOR.
"That makes us all co-creators. We are, I AM, consciousness and right now WE are expanding into our fully awakened, co-creator beings! Can you feel it? We are remembering who we truly are in profound ways that are dramatically shifting how we live on planet Earth. We are coming together in awakened power, purpose and divine perfection. It is so exciting"!
-Mark Hollenstein
As a facilitator and coach for over two decades, Mark Hollenstein has been honored to blend his skills and gifts as a business coach, spiritual life coach, energy healer and intuitive reader to what he describes as a call to “Love on” people in the name of the Divine.
He see himself as a conduit for Spirit, The Divine, Source, The Universe, God, Goddess, Creator, or All That Is. However one divines that/it for his or her self. Simply, the Source, or energy greater than ourselves the guides, instructs, leads, loves and supports all of us, absolutely unconditionally through this human experience we call life.
As his personal evolution has continued and he experienced higher energetic vibratory upgrades daily, his work is now calling out to men and women of all gender identification and sexual orientation who are resonating, recognizing, and remembering – in order to together find our way to each other.
Find out more about Mark here: http://MarkHollenstein.com
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In 2015, Alan Fraser was in the best physical condition of his life. But then one day after training he went home and realized that something just wasn't right. Thankfully his (now) husband Tim jumped into action and drove a couple hours to see why Alan had stopped responding when Tim kept checking on him. Tim found Alan unconscious in his bed, helped revive him and then rushed him to the nearest ER. They were told later that if he hadn't come in at that time, he wouldn't be with us today.
His condition was so bad that the medical team had to put him in an induced medical coma in order to save his life. He was "out" for two weeks. He describes how the induced coma saved his life, but it had other severe consequences that would impact him the rest of his life.
His story is real, it's heartfelt and it has meaning and a message for all of us...
Listen as he describes the ordeal that he had to endure and he shares what he's learned from this experience.
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
The last two weeks, I visited my middle son Dave, his wife Meredith and my two grandsons Henry and Jack at their home in Dartmouth MA.
Dave is a good sport. He agreed to be interviewed for my podcast. After we were finished, he told me that it was now my turn and that he was going to interview ME for a podcast episode!
I was surprised at what I was feeling at first. I guess I was afraid of what he might ask. After all, he IS an attorney and he's be putting me on the stand, so to speak. LOL.
But as I thought about it and mentioned to my friend and energy guru Mark Hollenstein, he encouraged me to do it. He thought it would be good for both of us.
Before this interview, I had a little time to reflect and one of the things thatI realized was that I knew virtually nothing about my own father (or his father). What a gift it would have been to have been able to sit my own "Pop" down and ask him a bunch of questions. So we did the interview. I kind of figured that it would be a gift to each of us.
I had no idea what Dave would ask me. There were some interesting questions and I'm pretty sure that he got some interesting answers. Like: "Whoa. No, I did not know that grandma used to be an underwear model before she met your Dad and then she became a radio preacher"!
It's a light-hearted interview with a lot of interesting questions. I appreciate the time Dave took in preparing to participate.
Listen in to our bantering, interspersed with some great dialogue.
Photo by Meredith Wilkinson/2022
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To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
In this episode, I interview one of my favorite people in this world: my son David.
Two people can experience the exact same event and yet they can have two different perspectives on what happened. So we discuss what I saw as an amazing turnabout in his life from a very average high school student, to his life now as an attorney with multiple law offices on both coasts.
He talks about his current life as a married man and dad and we share some memories of his life growing up.
Lastly, we discuss what it was like for him when I came out as a gay man in 1999.
I hope you enjoy this rather personal look into my life as a father to this amazing man.
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
RICHARD H JESSUP
Richard has been Producing, Directing, Choreographing and Teaching Dance since 1982. He has focused his work in the genres of Musical Theatre and Concert Dance. Richard has directed and/or choreographed over 100 productions.
Richard was the founding member of Against the Grain/MEN IN DANCE, and is the Producing President for the organizations Festival of MEN IN DANCE, now in its 26th year.
Some of Richard’s other favorite things to do, include massage, hiking, travel, and eating coffee-flavored ice cream. He lives in Palm Springs, CA and would rather be nowhere else.
Links
website: http://www.menindance.org
Virtual "watch" page: http://www.watch.menindance.org
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Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
To contact Wilkinson- email him at BecomingWilkinson@gmail.com
An Interview with Bar Bionic- a Non-Binary* Visual and Musical Artist.Pronouns: They/Their/Them*Bar and their friend came to visit Palm Springs over the 4th of July holiday weekend and they stayed at my Airbnb. I found Bar's story, look and history to be fascinating. In this interview, we chat about Bar's life in Israel, coming to the USA and landing in New York City where they experienced the brutal "Chew them up and spit them out" mentality found in parts of the entertainment industry. We chat about their various struggles arriving in a large city - not knowing a single person. The creative process, sources of inspiration and gaining a foothold in the social media/entertainment universe are further explored and discussed. Watching some of their videos and spending time over a couple days was a real treat for me! I found their over-the-top creativity, professionalism, kind & gentle spirit (and chutzpah!) to be absolutely amazing. Check out some of their videos via the links below.
Non-Binary Defined
"Some people don't identify with any gender*. Some people's gender changes over time. People whose gender is not male or female use many different terms to describe themselves, with non-binary being one of the most common. Other terms include genderqueer, agender, bigender, and more". ( Reference: Google)
Links (Copy and Paste where Required):
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bar_bionic?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bar-Bionic-113834460168592
Twitter: http://twittter.com/barbionic
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/16H8BCBnedryC6Grw1hEQQ
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bar_bionic/
Listen On @applemusic: http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1529841379
Listen on Itunes: http://itunes.apple.com/album/id1529841379?ls=1&app=itunes
Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/1lGoIbyX4YZ9HtWFQDQsDn
Listen on Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/King-of-Downtown/dp/B08H5TWWVF/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=bar+bionic+king+of+downtown&qid=1599717097&sr=8-1...
Listen on YouTube Music: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCk8nbC2PNR7623_9bZuDUlA
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An Interview with Ben Miller. Searching: The Wanderlust of a 60-Year Old Gay Man from Pender to Pittsburgh, From Lincoln to LA, and Many Points in Between.
Ben Miller and I discuss his interesting sixty year journey to where he is today. He shares some of his spiritual practices which he uses to find peace and ground himself. And he discusses a long term struggle with addiction and how he has managed to stay on the upper road in his journey for many, many years.
I was introduced to Ben by our mutual friend Larendee Roos. She talks about Ben in a transcript that she wrote many years ago, detailing her amazing story. She wrote:
"... My lifelong soul mate and friend, Ben flew in from LA to stay with my children and me. I will always think of him when I smell bacon. He loved my children and held me in his arms as I slowly unraveled and pulled myself back together again. To this day, he always knows just when I need him. Within a few hours he is on the phone calling or in my city to hold me..."
After spending just a few hours with Ben, I get why she feels this way about him. His gentle spirit and his heart are obvious in this short interview....
**Ben Miller has been an actor, director, writer, Alexander technique teacher and college professor. Right now he's working on a screenplay that has been gurgling in his brain for years. He strives to be kind. He's opinionated.
Contact Ben at: benjaminmillerla001@gmail.com. (323) 385-9537**
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LUI GERVAIS is the author of "The Nipple Whisperer and other erotic epiphanies".Here is the review that I wrote after reading his book:
"When Paul, my Seattle friend called and told me that he received Lui's new book, I immediately ordered a copy. I was familiar with Lui from some past experiences with him. Notably, he offered a portion of the material in this book to a group of men who gathered for a workshop at my place in Palm Springs pre-covid.
The workshop was only a few hours but I definitely "felt" what he was showing and teaching us at that time. I was excited to get the book because information from workshops (no matter how good they may have been) fades over time. And the book did not disappoint, because it fleshed out a lot more than he was able to present in those few hours, years ago.
I started reading and literally did not stop until I finished the book. To me, when I'm reading a book for the first time, I have to ask myself how many times I was prompted to grab my yellow pen and mark things that I wanted to remember. It's a good way to be able to go back and think a little deeper about something after that first "BAM"! as I'm reading the book. And trust me, I used a lot of yellow ink on this book!
A few of the lines in the book state "Nipple whispering itself is a form of intimate listening. It is a sensual communication of touch and sound born from the ecstasy of a thousand men". (Page 6). This book talks about a LOT more than merely how to connect and incorporate the nipples in one's intimate experiences. It encompasses the whole man, the whole couple and the whole experience. And as the lines quoted above reveal, it also connects the reader to the men who have lived and experienced their lives before us. Feeling grounded in that way felt really great!
As an English Literature major, I was constantly struck by the poetic beauty and flow in so many lines in this book. And I think that is also a reflection of what Lui is presenting here: As men, that we open up and let the poetic/energetic/spiritual flow happen IN US- in all aspects of the sexual-spiritual experience- connecting within ourselves and with any potential partner.
It's an easy read and I highly recommend it".
FROM LUI IN HIS OWN WORDS:My Work "The Nipple Whisperer began as a blog more than ten years ago. Over the years of teaching and sharing sacred intimacy, I created and compiled these tools and exercises. As they piled up, it became clear I was writing a book but it took many years and the encouragement of friends and colleagues to bring it to life".
"I am not a prolific writer. I don’t really see myself as a writer at all but as a mover, lover and artist who feels occasionally compelled to capture his ideas in words. The real mastery of my work remains in the body. In movement, touch, sound. Intimacy, sensuality and sexuality. As these embodied pleasures are impossible to transfer through a digital format, these words will have to do until we can be together in person".
LINKS:
http://TheNippleWhisperer.com
http://MenBodiedInstitute.org
Buy the book on Amazon:
https://www.amazon.com/Nipple-Whisperer-other-erotic-epiphanies/dp/0578388715/
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Dr. Jallen Rix
"Sex educator, author and activist Jallen Rix holds a Doctorate of Education in Sexology from Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco, where he later taught as a Professor. He maintains a private practice in Palm Springs CA, which includes personal consulting, sacred intimacy work, and surrogate-style partner experiences. He has appeared on talk shows, like Our America with Lisa Ling on Oprah’s OWN Channel, and ABC’s News Magazine 20/20.
He is a leading expert on the damaging effects of ex-gay ministries and so-call “reparative therapy.” His book, Ex-Gay No Way: Survival and Recovery from Religious Abuse, was nominated as best non-fiction books of 2010 by the Lambda Literary Foundation. His film, Lewd & Lascivious: The 1965 Police Raid on California Hallpremiered to sold out crowds at Frameline 2013, San Francisco’s LGBTQ film festival, and won the AASECT Media Award for 2014. During 2015 and 2016 his solo-performance piece touring up and down the US West Coast, called, Stake In The Ground: Celebrating the Intersection of Self-pleasuring and Self-compassion".
Contact Jallen Rix: https://doctorrix.com
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From the Prologue to Jill's book:
"In a million years I could not have predicted that I would become the Dancing Queen of Palm Springs. I could never have foreseen my growth and evolution into someone who the Gay Community would come to love and respect. I did not know that I had so much in common with gay men, yet I do. It still amazes me that it is through my Dancing that we have all come together. It is my hope that by reading about my journey, you may gain some insights into your own lives and perhaps recognize some of your own patterns as well".
Check out Jill's book How I Became the Dancing Queen of Palm Springs:
https://www.amazon.com/became-Dancing-Queen-Palm-Springs/dp/1983540854/refFind Jill on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jill.langham
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**Barry Schoenfeld is the creator of the California Community of Men.
Barry Schoenfeld** founded and runs Clear Vision Partners, an independent marketing consultancy, based in Palm Springs. Before moving to Palm Springs in 2014, he held several executive roles in advertising agencies in New York and Los Angeles.
In 2012, he founded The California Community of Men ("CalComMen"), a global mens' community of over 10,000 men-who-love-men, who goal is to provide drug, alcohol, smoke and electronics free spaces for men to engage & connect more genuinely and more authentically.
In addition, he teaches online at seven universities across the country, on subjects ranging from opera to archeology to travel.
He lives with his husband Ron, of 15 years.
"The California Community of Men is a unique community of heart-centered, passionate and caring men, 18-90+ of all colors of the rainbow, faith traditions, sizes, shapes & abilities, who create spiritual & social events, personal growth workshops, and our unique, joy-filled weekends we call "Community Camp," without formal committees, officers or bylaws. Our goal is to build a radically diverse & inclusive community of men-who-love-men, the likes of which is rarely seen in Southern California. We align ourselves with some of the values, beliefs and consciousness of the Northern California Billys, and the Radical Faeries.
CalComMen is the only mens community in SoCal that reachs out to, and warmly welcomes ALL men-who-love-men (gay, bi, trans, queer, cis & straight). We are also the only men's community that is drug, alcohol, smoke and electronics-free, so that we can connect and engage in new and more meaningful ways, with far fewer distractions".
CalComMen web site: https://www.calcommen.com
Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/CalComMen
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She's Iranian and she's opinionated. After I interviewed Ideene for the last podcast episode, she insisted on switching mics and put me in the hot seat so she could interview me. Here's the result.
Here's the link to Wilkinson's Vacation room rentals for males at his "Palm Springs Interlude": https://www.airbnb.com/users/251586484/listings
Photo credit: Selfie of us by Ideene Dehdashti
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While living in Seattle, I became a couchsurfing super host.
Over a few years, I hosted over 650 (primarily International) travelers in my home. Lifelong friendships were formed with many of these folks, and not a few have subsequently visited me here at my place in Palm Springs.
Ideene Dehdashti and her former boyfriend James are two such people. She and I chatted on one of her recent visits. This is one of my most light-hearted episodes, and we had fun recording it.
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LARRY DEAN HARRIS
Larry Dean Harris is a storyteller, playwright, producer and founder of Strong Words. He’s performed stories in LA, Chicago, his hometown Toledo, New York City and Palm Springs. As a playwright, he’s earned New York Outer Critics Circle Award, Ovation Award, GLAAD and LA Weekly Theatre Award nominations. Larry sits on the Council of the Dramatists Guild of America and teaches storytelling and performance with fellow Strong Words producer Marlene Nichols.
For more information on Strong Words events: https://strongwordslive.com
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How would you feel in this scenario? You're a twenty year old, and you receive a phone call at work from the local hospital, coldly telling you that you are HIV positive and that you need to "Get your papers" in order because you only have 6-12 months to live? That was FORTY years ago. Listen to Michael Sartori's amazing story...
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Just in time to wrap up Mental Health Awareness Month!
Robert Aerts is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. He owns and operates his own practice called Aerts Family Counseling in Apple Valley, CA. Robert is a husband, father and grandfather.
Robert graduated from Cal Baptist University with his Masters in Counseling Psychology and has worked for public service for over 30 years. He has worked with the Aging and Adult population as well as school aged children from elementary to high school. Robert presented at the annual Models of Pride in Los Angeles sharing his story of his coming out.
Currently he is working with adults on a individual basis. His desire is to bring awareness to his community about LGBTQ and the struggles that some may face in their journey.
He can be reached at Robert AertsLMFT@gmail.com.
His Instagram is: @aerts_family_counseling
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Carl is 74 and Michael is 40. They've been together now for twenty years. We discuss how that's worked out in this May-December romance, partnership and marriage.
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Bryce Bailey, MA, ATR.
Registered Art Therapist from Seattle, WA currently living in Palm Springs, CA. He launched his own creativity/ design consulting practice “EmpowerART Studio” and offers Per Diem Art Therapy at a local physical rehabilitation hospital. He leads art therapy groups and facilitates creativity workshops in community. Bryce is passionate about utilizing the creative process to facilitate personal growth, transformation, healing and connection through artmaking. He has worked with most populations but specializes in LGBTQ, at-risk adolescents, addiction recovery, and identity empowerment. Bryce has remained active in giving back to the recovery community for over 22 years, sober since 9/24/99. He enjoys his own artmaking through collage, mixed media, oil pastels, and visual journaling.
Graduating from Antioch University Seattle's Masters in Psychology/Art Therapy program (2006), he interned at Seattle Counseling Service (LGBTQ), worked as art therapist and mental health clinician at Community Psychiatric Clinic and Michael’s House Dual-Diagnosis Treatment Center, facilitated creative recovery & visual journaling workshops in Miami, San Jose, San Diego, Palm Springs, and Seattle, and volunteered with homeless and LGBT youth in Seattle. His research project "Artmaking as a Component and Facilitator of Resiliency with Homeless Youth" was published in the Art Therapy Journal (2008). Bryce served on the Board of Evergreen Art Therapy Association chapter in Seattle from 2005-2015, presented at several national Art Therapy Association conferences, and became Local Chair for the 2013 American Art Therapy Association conference in Seattle.
Bryce can be reached at: empowerartstudio@gmail.com;
Instagram: @bryce_empowerartstudio
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"I had another experience when I was meditating that affirmed my life was transforming again. I dreamed I was standing on a river bank. There were people in canoes peacefully rowing in a river. I came to understand that the river was peaceful flow. The people in the canoes waved and smiled to come in. I looked up and down the river bank. There were countless people standing on the banks. Some walked into the river and a canoe appeared for their transport. Some shook with fear on the side. Those in the river were committed. Somehow I knew it was a big commitment. I waded in and the next thing I knew I was in a canoe. I felt immense peace. I knew I would never go back to the river bank. At the same time, there was no judgment about those on the river bank. There was a simple invitation to wade into the peaceful river of life...
I have witnessed the prison-house closing in on the growing child within myself and within my family. My work is dedicated to millions who have felt bound by the conditions that would imprison. My story is not unique. My message is simple, never ever give up! There is always hope. It is my intention that as you hear the story of my journey, you will remember from deep within you-- your calling, your purpose, and your recovery of the truth of who you are. You are already free.
You simply need to remember."
Larendee Roos
Founder Director Miracle Activation Center
Founder CEO Roos Advisors
Partner Ador Development
Facilitator Trainer Pathways of LightGrateful
Spouse, mom, and grandmother. Daughter of Abba Father.
To contact Larendee, simply text her at 1-801-209-3611
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Bob Blackford discusses how he felt after donating blood, only to have the clinic subsequently call him in to discuss some "irregularities" that the testing had revealed.... then informing him that he was HIV positive. This was when he was in the ministry, was married with kids and it was prior to meds being developed. He basically heard a death sentence. He had to not only tell his wife that he was HIV positive, but also that he had had some gay sexual experiences. He describes how they negotiated that, managed to raise two daughters, wrote a book and then share the mic with his wife in telling their joint story to an International audience. And he tells how feels to be in Palm Springs, living his authentic life today as a gay man.
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Chapter One: The Law of Attraction.
I've learned that "Where focus goes- energy flows"! What we choose to throw out into the Universe is what comes back to us. I share some of the rather profound experiences I've had in this area. So many of my friends are amazed at what I seem to create or attract into my life. I've learned that "Where focus goes- energy flows"! What we choose to put out into the Universe is what comes back to us. That means if we expect good, it will come to us. But if we dwell on the negative or constantly worry about what "might" happen in the future, those negative things come prancing back into our lives. It took me a very long time to grasp this concept but it's very real. I give you some concrete, amazing examples from my life on how this has worked.
Chapter Two: My Energy Work Journey.
I've had quite a few "Whoa" moments the last few years! It took a lot to change from a pretty close-minded guy in ministry to opening up to what also might be true in the Universe! When I was in the church in my "former life", I never would have considered even the possibility of exploring energy work. To me, in my narrow definition of the world and reality, it was all "devil stuff" and to be avoided at all costs. But then one day a friend in Seattle gifted me a session with her energy gal via a phone call. At first I resisted but then I said yes after doing some open-minded research. The session with the gal was interesting, but we weren't quite on the same page. But that experience opened the door to another reality. I've been seeing my energy guy (Mark Hollenstein) on a weekly basis for about five years now. Things have really changed and my mind, heart and understanding have expanded by leaps and bounds. There's been a few "shocking" moments, for sure. Here's a bit of the story...
Chapter Three: Let's Talk About Love.
What does real love look like? How does it play out in our lives? Does the religious right even know what love is? Here are a few thoughts on this topic. Love is a term that's thrown around lightly. We love chocolate sundaes. We love our jobs, our kids, our partners and our pets. The Christian Right has their ideas on what love is. Things get messy. But what does real love look like? How does it play out in our lives? Here are a few of my thoughts on this topic.
Chapter Four: Remembering my little sister Sunday (She used to say, "My name is Sunday- just like the day of the week")!
I didn't have a lot of regrets in my life. But a thought haunted me for many, many years. "What was so important that I had to get on the plane that day"? In the period 2000-2003, I lost my two sisters, my nephew, both of my parents and a friend. I reflect on part of this story...
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Image credits:
Model: Andrew Delta.
Photographer: Wilkinson (Copyright Wilkinson/2022)
Found art location: The Ruins in N. desert Hot Springs, CA.
Abandoned desert buildings with various graffiti artists' work.
"Love" created by graffiti artist "Crew".
I met John Woodruff at a pool party some time ago. I was immediately drawn to his friendly personality and Southern accent. And his body was pretty amazing as well! I gave him a business card and we eventually did a couple very fun photo shoots. He's definitely fitness model material! Some time after that, I read one of his social media posts where, in 2015, he described his weighing 245 pounds and he couldn't stand for more than ten minutes at a time due to degenerative disc disease. His doctors wanted to fuse his vertebrae together. He took matters into his own hands and followed the knowing in his heart. His story is amazing and he also shares what happened when he left the ministry, came out as a gay man and subsequently got into a pretty interesting relationship. Here's the scoop!
Find John on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/woodruff2940/
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David Wichman is an author, speaker, sexual healer, and entrepreneur who is respected and well-known all over the world to those who seek to live free of stigma, shame, and fear around sex, love, and intimacy.
Raised in Fremont, California, David survived a childhood marked by severe neglect and abuse, which led him into years of homelessness, alcoholism, and drug addiction. After decades of struggle and rehabilitation failures, he finally obtained freedom from his addiction in 2005. He remains an active member of New Thought and recovery movements to this day.
In 2006, David found a calling in sex work. While working with seniors, the disabled, and those with severe intimacy issues, he discovered the profound transformational power that sex work creates for both client and provider. In 2009, he founded his travel-companion company, the Male Adventure, through which he has accompanied clients on life-changing adventures to all seven continents. He is an activist, vocal ally, and grateful member of the LGBTQI2 community.
David lives with his partner Todd & their 3 rescue dogs: Panda Petey & Siain in their home in the Coachella Valley area of California. In 2016, David co-founded Heal-VR, a software development company that merges ancient spiritual principles and meditation techniques with modern virtual reality technology.
His story is both profound and touching. Prepare to think and feel deeply as this gentle soul shares his heart with us.
Find David at: http://DavidsWorld.me
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So many of my friends are amazed at what I seem to create or attract into my life. I've learned that "Where focus goes- energy flows"! What we choose to put out into the Universe is what comes back to us. That means if we expect good, it will come to us. But if we dwell on the negative or constantly worry about what "might" happen in the future, those negative things come prancing back into our lives. It took me a very long time to grasp this concept but it's very real. I give you some concrete, amazing examples from my life on how this has worked.
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As a facilitator and coach for over two decades, Mark Hollenstein has been honored to blend his skills and gifts as a business coach, spiritual life coach, energy healer and intuitive reader to what he describes as a call to “Love on” people in the name of the Divine.
He see himself as a conduit for Spirit, The Divine, Source, The Universe, God, Goddess, Creator, or All That Is. However one divines that/it for his or her self. Simply, the Source, or energy greater than ourselves the guides, instructs, leads, loves and supports all of us, absolutely unconditionally through this human experience we call life.
As his personal evolution has continued and he experienced higher energetic vibratory upgrades daily, his work is now calling out to men and women of all gender identification and sexual orientation who are resonating, recognizing, and remembering – in order to together find our way to each other.
Find out more about Mark here: http://MarkHollenstein.com
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Jase Nagaia is the mastermind behind "Endeavor with Jase" which is an exercise class held at Demuth Park in Palm Springs. Jase is also one of the most positive people I know- always saying a good word about everyone and seeing the best in them. He talks with me about the struggles he's had with the lack of diversity in the desert, and how he sees things changing. It's definitely worth a listen!
Find Jase here:
https://endeavorpalmsprings.com
https://m.facebook.com/endeavorpalmsprings/
https://www.instagram.com/endeavorwithjase/
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When I was in the church in my "former life", I never would have considered even the possibility of exploring energy work. To me, in my narrow definition of the world and reality, it was all "devil stuff" and to be avoided at all costs. But then one day a friend in Seattle gifted me a session with her energy gal via a phone call. At first I resisted but then I said yes after doing some open-minded research. The session with the gal was interesting, but we weren't quite on the same page. But that experience opened the door to another reality. I've been seeing my energy guy (Mark Hollenstein) on a weekly basis for about five years now. Things have really changed and my mind, heart and understanding have expanded by leaps and bounds. There's been a few "shocking" moments, for sure. Here's a bit of the story...
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Patrick Prohaska is an author and life coach specializing in personal empowerment, consciousness expansion, and sexual healing. Patrick has a Bachelor’s degree in history of science and a Master’s degree in the religions of ancient India, and has studied several healing systems, including Ayurveda, Reiki, Theta Healing, aromatherapy, and more. He’s the author of Brain Cells: Escape Your Mental Prisons and Dream Yourself Awake: The Power of Lucid Living. His newest book Good Sex: Spiritual Principles for an Electrifying Sex Life will be published in June, 2022. He lives in Southern California and is available for lectures, seminars, and workshops around the globe. When he’s away from the office, you’ll probably find him hiking in the wilderness.
We chat about his journey and his new book... Everybody loves to listen in to a conversation about sex, right? Join us now as we explore this topic.
Find Patrick at: https://www.sexpowersoul.com
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In the time period 2000 to 2003, I lost five family members and a friend. Two of my sisters died just nine days apart. Though that period was very dark, the light finally broke through. Here's a bit of the story...
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Jerry Lynch was priest in the Catholic Church for nearly three decades. He loved what he was doing, serving people - but there came a time when he realized that he could no longer live an inauthentic life. He had to live a congruent life as a gay man. He talks about this process and the joys and struggles of his journey. Listen to his heart as his story unfolds.
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I decided to move to Palm Springs in mid-2017 where I'd begin the "Next Chapter" of my life. It wasn't exactly smooth sailing at the start. I opened the front door when I arrived (it was 127 degrees outside) and I got the first shock. The next day my Seattle doc called and told me I had cancer. I talk about what I was experiencing that first week, and how I came to be at peace with everything...
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Jeff Coe spent his early years in Texas and Oklahoma. At one point he finally came out as gay and lived as a young gay man for many years. Then he moved to the NW, had a religious experience, rejected his authentic self as a gay man, and went back into the closet where he slammed the door shut. Over the next couple of decades, he continued life in the church as an "Ex-gay, straight man" and even moved to Southern California where he worked at a national ex-gay ministry where they attempted to "fix" people so they no longer identified as gay (conversion therapy with a religious/church twist).
A couple years after he moved, I came out in late 1999 after getting divorced six months earlier. While we had considered ourselves good friends prior to that, nevertheless, he cut off all communication with me when I came out. That lasted approximately eight years. Then one day out of the blue, he emailed me and told me that he wanted to "chat" when he came up to Seattle. Turns out he came out again! Things progressed, we went back and forth from the NW and SoCal and consequently, we got together and we were partners for about six years. We split in early 2013. Separately, we each moved to the Palm Springs area (Jeff moved in 2013 and I moved here in 2017). We're once again friends. We discuss his journey in this podcast.
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Looking back over many decades, I've realized that I've always opened up my homes and my heart to people throughout my entire adult life. It seems to be some kind of habit that I developed at some point! And I have to say, meeting and welcoming strangers has been a highlight and a joy of my life. My friends always say things to me like: "How do you have the energy to do this"? Or "Aren't you afraid that these people are going to harm you in some way? Or (heaven forbid)- "What if they take your STUFF"? It hasn't happened. I believe in the basic goodness of people and they haven't let me down. Yes, there have been a few disappointing events with a very small percentage of people. But the good- all of the friendships that have been formed, all of the amazing things I've learned - stories from the mouths and hearts of people from all over the world- have made it all worthwhile. In this episode, I've shared a few details about this part of my journey in opening up my heart and my home to both friends and strangers alike.
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When I was living my life as a married "straight" man, I remember going out to a restaurant on Capital Hill in Seattle with my then wife. "The Hill" was the gay area. I remember sitting there - we typically would be arguing about something- and I'd look over to the gay men at the nearby tables- chatting comfortably with each other. I had no concept of what it would be like to accept one's self as gay. The idea that two men could fall in love and become partners, or get married, never crossed my mind. After my divorce in 1999, I finally said the dreaded H word to myself. Yes, I was gay. The conversation today is with two men in their mid twenties who have fallen in love and it's the most natural thing in the world to them. We talk about some of the differences a few decades have made in how we look at things.
Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.
As I remember my "former" life as a married man with kids, struggling to be someone I was not- I remember that even thinking that I could have the life I have now was a pure impossibility. There was no way out for me. I was a gay man, trapped in a religious system that forbade divorce. And the thought of actually beginning a journey of discovery to find my authentic self? Never! But I escaped. And because I DID escape, I feel compelled to share my story with others who today may be trapped in such an environment and system. There is hope. My desire is to share my story in the belief that it will encourage you to take the next steps to begin (or continue) your journey to your authentic self, whomever that may be!
Opening and closing music courtesy the very talented Zakhar Valaha via Pixabay.