Show Up with Sarah: Recent Episodes

Sarah Hipps

Hi, I’m Sarah A. Hipps, Opportunity Coach. Being an Opportunity Coach simply means that I help you discover opportunities for growth and how to stop self-sabotaging behaviors. And I want to bring my real time thoughts, influences, and connections to you through Show Up with Sarah. This podcast is aimed to make the intimate and vulnerable parts of growth and discovery a real and more common conversation. On my solo episodes, I will bring you practices I do with clients to help you become more self-aware; and on my guest episodes, you’ll hear discussion about self-determination, recovery, addiction, entrepreneurship, mental health, and relationships. From experts in their fields to everyday people discovering their best selves, this podcast is for the person who knows they can be more but doesn’t know where to start. To learn more about me or Opportunity Coaching, find me at www.sarahhipps.com and thank you for showing up for the conversation!

This episode is an excellent one discussing mental health, ADHD, community, and the Black man.

John Hazelwood is an early 30's African American male mental health advocate in the fields of ADHD and Black Men's healing awareness. John was diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 21 due to emotional regulation and productivity issues experienced throughout his college career. Though his degree and career are in the Mechanical Engineering field, he has found an unwavering passion for mental health awareness within recent years, especially as a minority, as he embarked on a journey to understand his own mental health. John and Marc Almodovar are founders of the Men's ADHD Facebook Support Group with over 10k members. He is the co-host of the Men's ADHD Support Group podcast where he discusses disparities in the mental health community while also documenting a daily journey with ADHD. John utilizes YT, twitter, FB, and IG to create mental health inspired content and is affiliated with mental health resource groups such as Black Men Heal and Therapy for Black Men. His content has been featured throughout numerous mental health accounts including recognition from high-profile influencers for work in the field.

John's goal is to inspire, empower, and motivate men, especially those of color. He proves that safe space does exist and mental health is important by being a much-needed Black male representative in the ADHD community. Through vulnerability, transparency, honesty, and resilience, John hopes to bridge the gap in understanding neurodiversity while sharing from a place of authenticity personal experiences, educating, and networking with other likeminded individuals. Moving forward, he wishes to expand his presence to TV, streaming throughout networks instead of only social media!

"Change begins with us acknowledging and being accountable for how we show up, pledging to dedicate the bandwidth it takes to make a difference in our community and our own lives."

Follow John:

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Twitter: j0n_j0n

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In this episode, Sarah explores the reasons she chose to move out of Chicago, IL after only 8 months. She shares how she used her own coaching skills to drill down on the reasons for and against moving and how she determined what was best for her future goals.

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Kenna helps guide women through today's fast paced dating world. Her process is focused on the human behavior aspect to dating, by looking at how our patterns create the same results in our lives. She helps steer clients to dating for their future, rather than their past so they can meet their guy in just 6 months.

In this episode, listen as Kenna and Sarah dive into navigating the unknown of life and finding what is possible for you. Find Kenna:

thekennarenee - Listen on Spotify - Linktree

www.instagram.com/thekennarenee

I want to use this season of Show Up with Sarah to use more episodes to dive deeper into fewer topics that I discuss with my clients so often that I believe bringing it to my listeners would be a big benefit!

In this episode, I discuss Communication Anxiety - a trend I see in my clients where they don't communicate because of certain fears that lead to them not showing up for themselves and taking the power from others by deciding their capacity to receive you. Here, you'll learn my favorite motto!

If you want to work with Sarah Hipps, head to www.sarahhipps.com to book a free intro call on how you can become better, faster!

A great episode where Sarah dives in with Coach & Entrepreneur, Mark Burik to discuss his journey as a business owner, his mindset toward success, and his next steps. This episode will challenge you to analyze your own pursuits and the enthusiasm you have for what you're pouring yourself into.

About Mark: Mark has been coaching sports for over 20 years and has played 15 years of professional volleyball all over the world. After receiving his degree in Exercise Science from George Mason University, he played indoor professionally in Sweden, Norway, and Croatia.

Burik has been a mainstay on the AVP Tour and also competes on the FIVB World Tour. Recognized as one of the top beach volleyball players in the country, he has numerous championships under his belt. He recently added a NORCECA Continental Championship and a trip to the 2019 Pan American Games representing Team USA.

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Mark has been coaching sports for over 20 years and has played 15 years of professional volleyball all over the world. After receiving his degree in Exercise Science from George Mason University, he played indoor professionally in Sweden, Norway, and Croatia.

Burik has been a mainstay on the AVP Tour and also competes on the FIVB World Tour. Recognized as one of the top beach volleyball players in the country, he has numerous championships under his belt. He recently added a NORCECA Continental Championship and a trip to the 2019 Pan American Games representing Team USA.

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Want to work with Sarah or be a guest on her show? Email at info@sarahhipps.com

Kristina Bergsten is the owner and founder of The Animal Law Firm. The Animal Law Firm represents people and their pets and livestock in Colorado, Pennsylvania, and New Jersey. As the name of the firm implies, her practice focuses exclusively on animal law. As a vegan and animal lover, she strives for animal welfare and protection. Some of the cases she handles involve veterinary malpractice, pet custody disputes, puppy lemon law violations, dog bite defense, breeder contracts, and service animal representation.

After undergrad, Ms. Bergsten was accepted into The Ohio State University Moritz College of Law and obtained her Juris Doctor in 2012. During law school, she was part of the American Indian Council and the Student Animal Legal Defense Fund (SALDF). She was admitted to practice in Pennsylvania and New Jersey in 2013 and then in Colorado in 2017.

With a reputation for professionalism and high ethical standards, Ms. Bergsten has received myriad testimonials and five-star ratings on Avvo, Google, and Justia. She frequently educates her clients on off-leash laws and dog park etiquette, and represents dogs and other animals that have a history of biting.

A nationally recognized animal attorney, Ms. Bergsten has obtained favorable results on behalf of her clients in cases related to state and federal service animal compliance, illegal ownership of exotic and wild animals, the Pet Animal Care Facilities Act (PACFA), sanctuaries and rescues.

When not fighting for the best interests of animals, Ms. Bergsten continues to play an active role in her legal community through her memberships in various professional organizations. She is a member of the Colorado Bar Association’s Civil Rights Committee and Judicial Liaison Committee, the Colorado Women's Bar Association, the Denver Bar Association, the Colorado Trial Lawyers Association, the Delaware County Bar Association, the Philadelphia Bar Association, the Pennsylvania Bar Association, the New Jersey Bar Association, and the New Jersey Trial Lawyers Association.

Ms. Bergsten actively volunteers to provide services to those in need. She is among the board of directors of the Colorado Voters for Animals, Denver Indian Family Center, Canine Partners of the Rockies advisory board, and is a part of Metro Volunteers.

www.theanimallawfirm.com

Instagram: @theanimallawfirm

Facebook: The Animal Law Firm

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-bergsten-976674168/

Want to work with Sarah or be a guest on her show? Email her at info@sarahhipps.com

How often does the idea of "taking control" of your life begin to feel restrictive? Perhaps it isn't about "taking control" and more about allowing yourself to become your best in the midst of life. And how can we do that? Identifying how we cut ourselves off from our power and limit our ability to grow. Listen as Sarah discusses powerlessness, taking control, and how to allow more.

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In this episode, we discuss confronting fear in all its forms and pushing ourselves all the way through it.

Sara McInerney Hauck is an ever-evolving woman on a mission to face fear in her life. Through speaking, the Facing Fear podcast and her social media, she encourages others to face fear while remaining unapologetically authentic. She is proud of all her labels, but especially those including daughter, sister, aunt and wife.

Sara's Website: www.facingfearwithsara.com

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Sara's Instagram: instagram.com/saramcinerneyhauck

Want to work with Sarah Hipps or be a guest on Sarah's podcast? Email her: info@sarahhipps.com

Have you stepped into a big change? Like moving, starting a new job, joined a new friend group? When we step out of our comfort zone and find the hard, it is easy to get overwhelmed or depressed. This podcast is about how to lean away from depressed and fall into allowing.

Want to work with Sarah? Email her at info@sarahhipps.com

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Erika Righter is a social worker-turned small business owner, consultant, community advocate, and Mom. Her work in the social services field included the foster care system, rural social work, and programs serving low income older adults. In 2012, Erika founded Hope Tank, a community space and gift store that gives back in Denver. Hope Tank uses retail to connect customers to justice-focused organizations, artists, micro businesses, and groups doing important work in our community. That Hope Lady Consulting works with businesses, nonprofits, and leaders to identify their values, put them into action, and articulate them to their clients, customers, donors, and investors. In response to constant calls for introductions to BIPOC, LGBTQ, and women-owned businesses, in 2017 Erika started the Go Big For Small Biz Inclusive Guide- a searchable directory as well as a growing community of micro businesses owners who use mutual aid to fill in the gaps for resources available to them. She views the micro business community as an integral part of building and sustaining healthy communities, and devotes a large part of her efforts towards uplifting their contributions.

Hope Tank online shop

Custom curated gift boxes - here

Rent sliding scale space for workshops, panels, small events - here

Hope Tank gofundme!

Contact Erika for consulting - erika@hopetank.org

Hope Tank Instagram

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Hooman is a founder dedicated to helping other founders. He's co-founder and CEO of Collective (www.collective.com), Venture Partner at Expa, founder of 10e9, and co-founder of AddThis (acquired by Oracle).

As CEO of Collective, he is responsible for the strategy, growth, and operations for the company. Collective's vision is to increase the number of financially successful businesses-of-one by enabling self-employed people to focus on their passion not their paperwork.

As a founding partner at Expa, he collaborated with the founders and former leadership from Uber, Foursquare, and Twitter to partner with founders building category-defining, new businesses. Hooman works with companies like Convoy, Sweetgreen, Thrive Market, Onfido, Uber, and other start-ups as an investor and advisor via his personal investment platform, 10e9. He began his entrepreneurial career as founder and CEO of AddThis. AddThis was acquired by Oracle in 2016. At the time of the acquisition, the platform was used by a network of 15 million web publishers to increase their online traffic to nearly 2B unique viewers worldwide.

Named one of Tech's Best Entrepreneurs in BusinessWeek and one of iMedia's 25 most influential online marketing professionals, Hooman has been featured by NBC, ABC, Wall Street Journal, Fast Company, Forbes, and the New York Times. He has guest lectured on entrepreneurship and innovation at prominent institutions like Stanford, Berkeley and Carnegie Mellon and supports a number of organizations such as Charity: Water and Pencils of Promise.

Self-awareness is vital, we know this, but do you understand how being efficient makes you your most successful or fulfilled self? Listen in and learn more.

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In this episode, I get to dive into the current state of politics with State Rep. Leslie Herod. This is definitely one to listen to!

Representative Leslie Herod was elected in 2016 as the first LGBTQ African American in the Colorado General Assembly. Since then, she has passed 150 bills, addressing criminal justice reform, mental health, addiction, youth homelessness, and civil rights protections.

Some of her signature work includes:

Ending cash bail for minor offenses
De-felonizing drug possession
Giving every Colorado newborn a $100 college kickstarter account
Providing free menstrual hygiene products to inmates in Colorado’s prisons and jails

- Passing a comprehensive police accountability bill following the highly public murder of George Floyd, and the nationwide movement that followed

In addition to winning reelection in 2018, Herod championed a ballot initiative - Caring for Denver - that raises $35 million annually for mental health and substance abuse treatment and services for children and adults. Herod serves as Chair of the House Appropriations Committee and is a member of the powerful Joint Budget Committee.

Follow Leslie: @leslieherod (twitter, ig), /LeslieForColorado (fb)

Want to be a guest on my podcast or ready to work with me? Find Sarah Hipps at www.sarahhipps.com

How Georgia went from existing with disease, to helping others live and thrive through theirs and potentially live without pain altogether.

After dealing with debilitating autoimmune conditions and Lyme Disease for several years, Georgia became a certified Holistic Health Coach.

She is passionate about helping others find healing which led Georgia to start Whole Body Healing Nutrition where her clients can get support for autoimmune disorders, Lyme Disease, hormones, inflammation, and weight loss.

Georgia believes that wherever one is on your journey, healing is possible.

Find Georgia at https://wholebodyhealingnutrition.com/ and on social media at www.instagram.com/wholebodyhealing

It is important to understand the role of shame and how it can become inefficient for those who have vision. Listen as I discuss how you can allow shame to make you more efficient.

Want to work with Sarah? Find her at www.sarahhipps.com

The lifestyle entrepreneur on showing up for the hard things, herself, and her family.

Kat Berezowski is a nurse, mother of two, micro farmer, and ex bodybuilder. She has a passion for whole food wellness, learning to live “slowly”, and moving toward self-sufficiency. You can find her on Instagram at @katberezowski where she posts about health & wellness, gardening, and the daily chaos of living with two heathens.

As a solopreneur, I know it is easy to become so fixated on your goals and vision that you lose track of maintaining other healthful habits. One being, connecting with others in a non-work capacity.

This episode discusses loneliness, the various forms it presents as, and how we are our best selves when we allow slowing down for human touch and support.

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What William Spencer does is impressive and quite literally one-of-a-kind. Who he is though, is the real story. Sit and listen as William dives into the foundation of his passion, the journey he takes within himself and his form of art every single day, and how he endeavors to show up to prove impossible is simply what hasn't been done yet. Stuntman, actor, filmmaker, and skateboard professional known for making Spiderman look as incredible as he is drawn and bringing a new world of depth to skateboarding, William is a Thrasher Magazine name and the athleticism behind some of the most incredible scenes you've seen without knowing who performed them. William leaves you with the simple question: are you pushing yourself to discover your best, especially when it resides behind fear of failure?

Connect with William: @Williamspencer | Linktree

Sarah is releasing a new series called "90 and 90" which is based on the pillars of self-love, letting go, vision, and boundaries. The goal is to constantly grow and improve herself and her clients. Today’s discussion is about how to maintain a level of self-awareness by always being honest with yourself and others. Despite how we may feel about certain things, it is important to recognize that our level of self-awareness is different than that of most people and is not pretentious. Sarah encourages others to set boundaries for themselves and live a good life.

[00:01 - 04:28] Opening Segment

The new series “90 and 90”
based on the five pillars of self-love, letting go, vision and boundaries, and brutal honesty
Having a to-do list, and then breaking it down into four quadrants
Moving from quadrant to quadrant

[10:26 - 23:38] Relationship with Money Can Affect Your Success

Giving back to the community and friends
Clients often have a problem with money because of their beliefs about money
Letting go of a lifelong held belief
Pushing a client when they want to pull back is important
Mental health and physical health can both improve when you are consistent with your workouts or exercises
There's no excuse for cheap meals

[23:39 - 28:48] Leveling Up: Becoming Consistent in Your Standards

Showing up by having a no workday
Boundaries must be set from the beginning in order to be effectively implemented
Asking for help when struggling
The importance of being firm with oneself

[28:49 - 29:50] SarahHP: Facing Self Sabotage, I Become Healthy

A sneak peek of Sarah’s upcoming two-week program on self-sabotage

Quotes:

"When we are inconsistent, we are not showing up for ourselves." - Sarah Hipps

"What would your physical health look like? What would your body look like? What would your choices of food look like if you are dedicating an hour every single day to moving your body and challenging it? What was your opinion of yourself? How would that change over 90 days?" - Sarah Hipps

"When you start to build boundaries and you start to set them, you will not implement them the first time. You won't implement them the second time. And you may not implement them fully the 18th time." - Sarah Hipps

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas, and guests that can help you lead a life without self-sabotage and with more power!

Jenn Roubal is an entrepreneur who believes that it is important to maintain a positive attitude and to not get too caught up in the negative aspects of being successful. As a professional wedding planner, Jenn talks about how it is important to maintain a good composure even when things are going bad and to not give up. Jenn shares the challenges that she has faced, and teaches us how to overcome those in order to achieve success. Let’s jump right in and learn about self-care and how to focus on your own happiness!

[00:01 - 18:05] Opening Segment

I introduce Jenn to the show
Jenn's wedding planning tips for intersex nonbinary folks
Being a wedding planner after working in the entertainment industry
The most complicated thing of wedding planning: Decisions
How to better desire to show up for yourself

[17:44 - 45:12] Forgiveness and Avoiding Self-Sabotage

Jenn’s brother’s addiction and its implications
Forgiveness
Understanding addiction and its mental health effects
An addict’s struggle for honesty
Alcoholism and Sex Addiction

[45:13 - 53:00] What Is a Good Friend?

Sarah talks about accepting that not everyone is going to be there for her
The difficulty of being a good friend
You have a good and an evil side inside of you
Generosity
Selfishness, anger, resentment, and regret

[53:01 - 60:09] Wedding Planning and Relationships

Wedding planning is a process that changes over time
Depression and its implications in relationships
Dealing with unresponsive friends

[60:10 - 81:11] Closing Segment

Final words
Connect with Jen!
See links below

Quotes:

"I try to invest into myself as much as I invest into others and my couples. I meditate every morning, and I used to do it here and there, but I made myself meditate to have a peace of mind."

You can connect with Jenn through Instagram and Facebook, or you can visit www.annaraeevents.com.

Work with me and find me at www.sarahhipps.com or connect with me through my social media:

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas and guests that can help you lead a life without self sabotage and with more power!

Sabrina Skiles is a cancer survivor who started a blog in order to help others who are going through similar experiences. She discusses how she feels alone and lost after her diagnosis, and how she wants to help others regain their sense of self-care. Sabrina shares her story in order to revitalize the conversation around cancer care. The goal of this conversation is for the speaker to learn how to better serve themselves so that they can better care for others.

[00:04 - 02:39] Opening Segment

I welcome Sabrina to the show
Sense of isolation after being diagnosed with breast cancer
Helping others lead a life without self-sabotage
Learning how to do a self breast exam
Sabrina shares how cancer can be a “calm-before-the-storm” experience

[13:33 - 17:24] Mental and Emotional Effects of Cancer

Cancer can be a traumatic experience emotionally
Vulnerability as a key to build stronger relationships
The importance of having open conversations with friends and family about cancer

[29:31 - 33:17] Emotional Support After Being Diagnosed

The importance of mental health professionals after diagnosis
Sabrina shares her experiences going through chemotherapy and radiation therapy
Utilizing social media to spread awareness on cancer
Having a community of people who support each other
The importance of honesty when it comes to sharing your struggles
Embracing both sides of vanity/mental health coin
there is no one-size-fits-all approach to managing mental health

[56:13 - 63:39] Closing Segment

Honesty in expressing your feelings
Sabrina emphasizes the importance of self-care
Meditation
Reflection
Journaling
Final words
See links below to connect with Jenn!

Quotes:

"If you have breasts, you have a risk of getting breast cancer." - Sabrina Skiles

"It's like you're sitting in your life so calmly, and then somebody just comes and shakes it for you, and then you have no idea what's going to happen with all these things in the air." - Sabrina Skiles

"It's okay to mourn what your life would have been if those things didn't take place." - Sabrina Skiles

"Sometimes God gives us a mountain just so other people can see that it can be carried or crossed." - Sarah Hipps

"Sometimes we don't need words. We just need somebody to say, yeah, this sucks. Yeah, it sucks. What do you need from me? What can I do to help you get through this?" - Sabrina Skiles

You can connect with Jenn through Instagram and Twitter, or you can visit https://www.annaraeevents.com/.

Work with me and find me at www.sarahhipps.com or connect with me through my social media:

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas and guests that can help you lead a life without self sabotage and with more power!

In this episode, I will discuss how self-sabotage can be a way to avoid feelings of fear or insecurity. I will offer advice on how to overcome rationalization, which is a knee-jerk response to avoid these feelings. I will also share how we have three voices inside of us and that our head usually just gives logical reasons for things on either side, but our heart is usually the one keeping us where we are. If we want to work on overcoming self sabotage, we need to set boundaries and figure out who we want to become and then build processes in place to help us get there.

[00:04 - 01:51] Opening Segment

Rationalizing wrong decisions
Attempting to justify inappropriate behaviors

[03:29 - 05:48] Rationalization

Slow down and question your decisions
Ask yourself if you are moving forward or staying where you are
Strip the emotions; listen to the true logic of things
Allow yourself to truly hear yourself
Rationalization is avoiding “better” by naming it “hard”
Becoming aware of your potential and never meeting it

[08:30 - 10:09] Closing Segment

Overcome self-sabotage and achieve your goals
Final words

Quotes:

"You have to keep running to outrun the beasts, but you're also trying to figure out what will happen once you get to the cliff. As you get closer, you see that there are pillars set up to allow you to cross the Canyon. You're deathly scared of heights, and the idea of having to jump from pillar to pillar is something you can't fathom doing. What other options do you have?" - Sarah Hipps

"At some point you have to become more stricter with yourself. Set boundaries, figure out who you want to become and then put processes in place to build towards it." - Sarah Hipps

Work with me and find me at www.sarahhipps.com or connect with me through my social media:

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas and guests that can help you lead a life without self sabotage and with more power!

So what does it feel like to cry? And how do we relate to crying in our culture or within our family or friends? It's really about opening up and being vulnerable and learning about ourselves. In today’s episode, I welcome Cyrus Henry to share with us how he is promoting vulnerability and openness towards emotions in a world of toxic masculinity. In this episode, we talk about why it's important for men to learn how to cry, and how this process of self-discovery can open up a pathway for them to connect with their emotions, their spiritual essence, and their physicality. We also discuss the importance of taking on a more supportive role in our relationships with others, and how alcohol and violence can be symptomatic of underlying shame or fear.

[00:04 - 09:24] Opening Segment

Helping men learn about themselves and develop their own individual dreams
Cyrus talks about the Haka dance and its significance
Connection between men and masculinity
They need safe ways to express their anger in a healthy way

[09:25 - 21:06] Growing Up In Today’s Society

Cyrus talks about some of his childhood experiences
Men and women’s need to be aware of their masculine and feminine qualities
Creating psychological safety for themselves and their partners

[21:07 - 24:39] Breaking Gender-Specific Roles

We talk about how being the provider is not always a man’s job
The effects of having a female provider

[27:52 - 36:25]

Men need to be held accountable for their actions
They also need a safe space to work on their issues
Men can benefit from working on anger and releasing it safely.
Men need to be educated about their emotions
Cyrus’ retreat program
Using emotional release techniques to help men and women connect more effectively

[36:25 - 37:33] Closing Segment

Final words
See links below to know more about Cyrus!

Quotes:

"It's a bit of both people designing a deeper awareness of their masculine qualities and how to access and soften into the feminine qualities." - Cyrus Henry

"When I work with men, it's kind of like…bringing awareness to emotions and naming emotions." - Cyrus Henry

You can connect with Henry by visiting https://www.tamataane.com, or you can follow him through his socials:

Instagram

Facebook

Work with me and find me at www.sarahhipps.com or connect with me through my social media:

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas and guests that can help you lead a life without self sabotage and with more power!

Our society could sometimes be oversimplified and narrow-minded when it comes to certain traditions. We are taught that hitting your child is always because of their love, no matter what. But this isn't always ideal or necessary.

In today's episode, I'll be sharing the impact of culture on how we communicate. Negative ideas, and how not questioning them can lead to problems down the line.

There's a reason why we're defending something and it doesn't always have to do with our comfort level. It's important to ask ourselves why we're doing this and if there's a better answer than just "It's fine for me." There are valid reasons for why we do such things, but the real question is, isn't there another way that won't result in physical and psychological consequences?

[00:04 - 07:05] Opening Segment

Defending things in our lives that don't need defending
Physical discipline in children
Hazing: does the benefits outweigh the consequences?

[07:06 - 19:06] Weighing the Benefits vs. the Risks

Hazing as a way to build bonds, but could be humiliating and dangerous
Hitting as a sign of love amongst parents
What is worth defending?
How narrow-mindedness prevents us from being better

[19:07 - 28:11] Rational and Emotional

Rational self - knows what is best for the situation
Emotional self - defends what is perceived as necessary
The importance of being honest with yourself
Recognizing being defensive

[28:12 - 29:49] Closing Segment

Final words
Watch out for future episodes

Work with me and find me at www.sarahhipps.com or connect with me through my social media:

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Tune in next week for more thoughts, ideas and guests that can help you lead a life without self sabotage and with more power!

Quotes:

"When we defend things, our thoughts, our beliefs, our ideals, our actions should legitimately be questioned. And if we don't have real answers for them, then you're just defending something that you just don't have to." - Sarah Hipps

"There are plenty of things that I have lived through that I don't think anybody should have to live through. And our narrow sidedness of not recognizing if there are different paths to the same thing, even if it makes us uncomfortable, it needs to be explored." - Sarah Hipps

Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast!

Ned W. Schaut has a mission to redefine fatherhood. He is a husband to one beauty, a father to five fun kiddos, and a friend to many. He is an Author, Podcast Host, and small business owner. He lives in Kona, Hawaii and can be found outside exploring new things with his family. Ned has found his greatest opportunity to leave a mark on this earth by embracing his role and opportunity as a father. He wants to help other fathers make that same discovery to enjoy their adventure of fatherhood and be proud of the legacy they will leave future generations. He believes every father who embraces their role intentionally will change the world for generations to come.

In 2019 he wrote a book called Rebel & Create: A Compass for the Craft of Fatherhood. Following the release of his book he launched the Fatherhood Field Notes podcast. In this podcast he uncovers real, authentic, and messy stories from everyday life creating an opportunity for men on the adventure of fatherhood to learn from each other's wins and losses. From the momentum of his book he created the Fatherhood Legacy Journal which is a daily journal to engage fathers. This project was successfully funded through a Kickstarter Campaign, the journals were printed and shipped for January 2020. He embraces this global mantra daily: Rebel against the view that our actions as fathers have little impact, together we will Create lives engaged in mastering the craft of fatherhood…this will Redefine Fatherhood.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 10:27] Opening Segment

When your surname is a natural pun
Why Ned wants to talk about Fatherhood
- Surviving journey as a father of 5
- Ned’s desires came true as a father
The answer to why dads do not step into their role

[10:28 - 20:20] An extra layer of soft space for fathers

Being vulnerable and showing up for youths
- Men must balance their vulnerability and strength
- Be curious with men’s group
Ned showing up as himself
Ways they can fathers invite themselves in
- Men need to be needed
- Dudes feel alone - more than all of us know

[20:21 - 33:53] A constant surrender

Some men get angry when called to attention
- Let the dads fulfill their role
- There’s zero destination for most people
What Ned is up to right now
- Men, realize who you really are
- Please wait for Ned’s children’s books
- A long, good marriage is possible

[33:54 - 39:21] Closing Segment

What masculinity means for Ned
- Ned is compassionate
How Ned wants to show up for others and himself
Final words
Watch out for the upcoming episodes

Connect with Ned:

Visit his website www.rebelandcreate.com

Tedx Talk - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L3cr-W8BGo&t=1s

Follow his Instagram and shoot him an email at ned@rebelandcreate.com

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Tweetable Quotes:

“I have a great dad. He was always there for me.” - Ned W. Schaut

“I’ve always been a good dad, but in 2015 when this 36,000 sq. ft. building just fell apart, my identity was taken away. With that and through a lot of self reflection and lots of long walks on the beach, I realized that those desires that I have as a man, I want to be respected, valued, needed, loved, and know that I’m leaving a mark on this Earth.” - Ned W. Schaut

“The mom needs to give the dad some space to try to take advice and not do it her way every time. Let it happen and let them figure it out.” - Ned W. Schaut

Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast!

Today, we'll listen to a coach's honest and vulnerable approach to enlighten and encourage coaches who might have been discouraged by life's blows. Here's a bit about Jordan:

Jordan Pendleton is passionate about helping purpose-driven Financial Advisors create authentic, sustainable, soul-fulfilling success! Through her podcast, online courses, and coaching programs, Jordan guides others to uncover their authentic message and tell their story to attract their people and make the income AND impact they truly desire. Her passion and drive stem from her own pain of working around the clock to build a successful financial planning business in her 20s - only to find herself feeling empty and that her success was only surface level. Jordan knew there was more to life and more to business than she was experiencing. She has spent the last 5+ years discovering the keys to creating a solid foundation for true success, impact, and income - and is determined to help others take ownership of their lives and do the same!

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 11:16] Opening Segment

Jordan is a financial advisor and a coach to millenials
- When Jordan fell apart - the money coach fell into debt
- The other facets of money
Jordan talks about her experience with debt
- Her spending habits and struggle with realism
- Your coping mechanisms tell about your underlying beliefs

[11:17 - 22:06] When you really can’t keep up with everyone

How Jordan works with clients
- Don’t compare, collaborate
- Make them believe that they are enough
When people shame you for coaching others
- It’s okay to slowly grow
“Your faith is not enough”
Do you have the capacity to go forward?

[22:07 - 32:57] the biggest things every coach desires for their clients

Your desire and definition of success improves as you grow
Yep, the problem really isn’t the problem
- Don’t lose sight of what matters
Jordan’s tips to those trying to figure out additional source of income
- Your business is not your purpose

[32:58 - 37:28] Reaching fulfillment and happiness

Misconceptions with success and striving
Jordan’s pillar of encouragement to her clients in the financial industry
- Know your giftings

[37:29 - 44:18] Closing Segment

How Jordan desires to better show up for others and for herself
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
Final words

Connect with Jordan and get a hold of her courses!

Instagram: @jordanypendleton

Podcast: Lead on Purpose

Email: jordan@boldleadercollective.com

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Tweetable Quotes:

“Financial advising is a lifelong career if you’re gonna build and be serious about it.” - Jordan Pendleton

“For me, credit cards became a thing I used to keep up, even with coaching, hiring people even if I can’t afford it. In order to be good enough, I have to do X, Y, and Z and that’s a lot of my internal story. I have to strive to be good and if I’m not, I will be perceived as a failure.” - Jordan Pendleton

“I think I always have to remind myself that I’m comparing my inner world to their outer world. You can’t compare what you’re going through to their instagram profile and whatever they are posting.” - Jordan Pendleton

Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast!

Today’s episode is for those of you who watch Love is Blind. The coach in me really wants to discuss regression that is present in one of the characters of the show. If you don’t know Love is Blind, can you fall in love with a person whom you haven’t seen yet? As controversial as that plot is, we will talk about regression as a defense mechanism that is destructive for a person.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 08:59] Opening Segment

Listen to this excerpt of the show I was watching
- If you know, you know
- The idea of Love is Blind
- The bad guy meets a girl
Where things went downhill
but – today’s not just ALL about Love is blind
- Let’s look at the example we just saw in that

[09:00 - 22:27] How Shake responded to his pain

A person of color in this country can feel inadequate
- Where the pain came from for this guy
Meeting someone who receives you from where you are
- She created a soft space for this person
- When the girl said no
Regressing happens more with men
- Men are more selective with who they want to marry
- What is regression?

[22:28 - 32:53] Self-sabotage

Survival tactics for a healthy and an unhealthy person
- Shake was on a high-alert
- His reaction is a place of survival
If I were to be Shake’s coach
- Let’s get to the root
Stop it when it gets destructive to you

[32:54 - 34:11] Closing Segment

Watch out for the upcoming episodes
Final words

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Tweetable Quotes:

“Can real, true love be based on not seeing them? Not of looks?” - Sarah Hipps

“She rejected him, and he did what so many people do: he, a 1000% regressed back to the form of him that cannot get hurt.’” - Sarah Hipps

“Women are more prepared for heartache, and men just aren’t. - Sarah Hipps

Steven Knight is the owner and creator of The Knight Show LLC. a podcast and production company he established while serving on active duty in the US Coast Guard in 2015. Raised in southern Maryland, Steven has always been a proponent of personal development and self inquiry hosting guests from across the globe covering a wide array of topics including the political rights, history, and future of indigenous people in Alaska and the pacific island of West Papua as they fight for social and environmental justice. Men’s mental & emotional health and the effects of single parenthood.

Music & culture and the importance of sex positivity in our society. All the while centering this narrative from the perspective of an omnipresent timeline. His perspective having served in the military for almost 2 decades traveling the world throughout Asia and the Pacific, Central America, South America and the Caribbean lends to his global perspective on humanity, community, and self determination with his often heard motto “Create Yourself.” The Knight Show exists to hold space for conversations that show the divine in all of us and elevate our society through collaboration.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 27:18] Opening Segment

Steven shares about his evolution as a person
- His family’s military and Christian background
- When Steven stopped practicing “Christianity”
The defining moment for Steven
- Inquisitive attitude, searching for knowledge
Dealing with “but you’re black, right?”
Throw ideas in the garbage
Trying to find a black identity
- A lighter skin is a privilege
- How Steven takes care of his mental health
- Racists do not come from low-level class of people

[27:19 - 48:42] Let’s talk about Race and Mental Health

People of color’s journey
- Black people’s suffering is specified
- Asians have experienced racism more because of the pandemic
- Black is not a bad word
Understanding the difference between “it is what it is” and what’s not normal
- Black trauma is monetized in this country
- An unhealthy anxiety
- Depression is a “white” problem
Steven’s conversation with men about mental health

[48:43 - 01:09:45] Soft Spaces for Men

Key things to do to achieve this space
- Men can cry too
What being soft looks like for Steven
Show Up for other men

[01:09:46 - 01:13:54] Closing Segment

How Steven desires to better show up for himself and for others
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
Final words

Connect with Steven:

Shoot him an email at theknightshow@icloud.com

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Tweetable Quotes:

“It’s one thing to be protected psychologically, physically, and spiritually by your parents, it’s another thing to take what you know or what you’ve been programmed with and take on to the world.” - Steven Knight

“There’s so many things we need to divorce ourselves from that’s not our culture.’” - Steven Knight

“We have to rationalize our level of anxiety or paranoia or rage or fear.” - Sarah Hipps

Our amazing guest for today is Troy Blyden who is a Professional Athlete, content creator, and a clothing designer. Let’s learn about the beauty of imperfect confidence. Shall we?

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 10:18] Opening Segment

How Troy became a General at HarlemGlobeTrotters
Some things Troy could have done differently
What made Troy get the message out to people
- Imperfection is not bad
- Creating something more than meaningful

[10:19 - 22:48] Reason behind Troy’s Passion

The active ways Troy show’s up for other people
- Giving back is a fulfillment
- Spreading positivity and leading by example
No one is really paying attention to you!
- You do you
How Troy reaches the youth
- It’s selfish not to share. Speak out!
- Figure life out as you grow
- One person who receives a positive message is enough
Kids needs to be felt understood
- What affects a child’s confidence and growth

[22:49 - 36:18] Showing Up as a Grown (and experienced) Adult

Troy is a work in progress
- Not afraid to be himself
- Your voice has a meaning
What is the impact Troy wants to be known for after he dies
(im)perfect’s futures
- The message of the brand
How Troy got to where he is today
A realization about being honest with yourself

[36:19 - 48:03] Where is Troy headed now

Struggling to get to where he needs to be
Living in the moment
Give yourself grace to move forward
A lack of confidence and the answer to the problem
A powerful moment

[48:04 - 53:27] Closing Segment

How Troy desires to better show up for himself
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“When you’re young, when you have less responsibilities, when you’re a kid, it’s like you wanna double down on these passions and really pursue them because it can just blossom into what they call a job, and it won’t feel like work.” - Troy Blyden

“Social media is always such an experiment.” - Sarah Hipps

“I haven’t figured it all out. I’m just living this human experience with everybody else.’” - Troy Blyden

“If you focus on everybody’s perception of you, you’re not going to get anything done.’” - Troy Blyden

Connect with Troy’s personal social media

Instagram: (@troyblyden) https://instagram.com/troyblyden?utm_medium=copy_link

YouTube: (Troy Blyden) https://youtube.com/c/TroyBlyden

TikTok: @troyblyden) https://vm.tiktok.com/TTPdjb5J4x/

Twitter: (@TBlyden)

Clothing: https://troyblyden.com/

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Nadiya came to Show Up with Sarah to discuss some specific pain points, and what we came away with were some realizations about how she prioritizes herself and where she finds her worth. Listen along to find out how both Sarah and Nadiya showed up for this conversation and open session.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 16:20] Opening Segment

What’s our Open Opportunity Session all about
Nadiya’s mental health diagnosis
A history of trauma
- Nadiya wants to figure out how to move past these traumas
- Helping others is Nadiya’s mission
What keeps Nadiya from moving past these traumas
A burden to others
- Showing up for people but they won’t do the same
- When did it start feeling burdensome
Correcting the misconception

[16:21 - 34:46] A child dealing with adult things

Mourning about something properly
A pattern with Nadiya’s romantic relationships
- Not meeting their fathers
- An emotional disconnect
Do you cry for yourself?
Hiding what the truth is from everyone
- There’s no a lightswitch we can click quickly
Are your friends tired of the stories you tell?
- Some immediate things
- Don’t hold into survival mode too long

[34:47 - 46:00] Living beyond the trauma, loving yourself

Don’t victim shame yourself!
- It’s not your fault
Finding a secure, great love
- Why are you looking for that love?
- Why are you still in the survival phase?
Knowing the big questions
- Not always knowing the answers

[46:01 - 55:45] Closing Segment

Sarah reminds Nadiya of the things she need to think about
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“There's a difference between liking and loving yourself. I cannot like myself today even though I love myself.” - Sarah Hipps

“If you feel that I’m a burden, you’re not my person.” - Sarah Hipps

“A healthy person doesn’t watch a friend go through things and immediately say, ‘nothing I’m going through is valid now.’ A healthy person goes, ‘wow, I’m happy for them, my life is still valid, and they are just experiencing some big things.’” - Sarah Hipps

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast! Today’s amazing guest is Julius Johnson.

Born and raised in Denver, CO, Julius has countless crazy opinions about society. Julius enjoys having high level conversations with people of all walks of life. When he's not at his day job, he is putting all his controversial takes on his new podcast, Toxic Tangents, where he loves discussing everything from pop culture to relationships.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 21:18] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
I introduce today’s guest to the show, Julius
What made Julius do the show
Who is Julius
Body positivity and other marketing schemes
Losing weight and intrinsic motivation
Careless about others opinion
Opposite sex attraction and showing up for someone

[21:19 - 47:49] Men are persons first

Men and mental health
- Julius was given DWAI
Soft space without safe spaces
When was the last time Julius cried
Avoiding to show vulnerability
Black community and masculinity
Privileges regardless of race and gender
Prejudice and Racism
Ways women can show up for men
Listen, show, communicate
Affectionate gesture that makes Julius let down his guard
Showing up for other men more
Discovering and keeping a high-level conversation group

[47:50 - 50:35] Closing Segment

Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“There’s a correlation between BMI. Overweight BMI or Obese BMI with health complications.” - Julius Johnson

“That’s why men keep from showing certain emotions; it's because we have people relying on us, you know. Like, we gotta hold it down.” - Julius Johnson

“Actions speak louder than words. You can say that all you want, but obviously we’re not gonna listen to that until you show it.” - Julius Johnson

connect with Julius:

toxictangents@gmail.com

Instagram: @ToxicTangentsPod

www.ToxicTangents.com

Checkout his podcast on all major platforms

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast!

Today’s guest is my friend, Nicolette Bernardes. This episode is the Part 2 of “Creating a Safe Container for People to be Honest” episode that aired last week. Here’s a bit about Nicolette:

Nicolette Bernardes is many things; wild woman on a journey; truth seeker + speaker, artist, writer, emotional body healing guide to name a few. She creates and holds space— inviting us to explore what our own authentic Truth is, and empowering a reconnection to that truth. She is the human behind Soul Filled Space LLC, a container for exploration, healing and growth to take place as well as the voice and creator of Relentlessly Authentic Radio— a podcast created with the intention to bring humanity back into the forefront, through talking about all human things…

Over the last decade, she has coached others through, as well as embarked on her own deep physical, emotional, and spiritual healing journey. Her purpose in this life is to experience the full depths and spectrum of humanity, allowing herself to feel it personally and through witnessing those around her. In turn, she is able to guide others’ on their unique journey home to their authentic self, empowering and inspiring them to take ownership of their emotions and healing journey; helping them to recognize that they have the power to transform their lives from within and teaching them how to access this power.

Her current client work includes 1:1 Release + Reconnect integrated healing sessions and Sacred Wheel Journeys, utilizing the practice of Experiential Astrology. She is also creator and facilitator of Soul Filled Space retreats and workshops [coming 2022]

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 00:37] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
We continue our conversation with Nicolette

[00:38 - 39:33] A Healing, Safe Space with Nicolette

Lovingly hold the part of yourself
Birth is traumatic
Sensitivity is a challenge and a superpower
We have a fluid Energy
True and authentic reaction
Men have had a lot of trauma under women too
How has Nicolette evolved from who she was before?
Don’t shame others for their experiences
I and Nicolette share our personal experiences of assault
Truth is not comfortable

[39:34 - 46:05] Closing Segment

How Nicolette wants to better show up for herself and others
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“The reason that birth is so traumatic is because we come out from this nice little, cozy, warm, dark space in the womb out into this cluster of this world.” - Nicolette Bernardes

“We are not designed to sit still, we are designed to move.” - Nicolette Bernardes

“If this was relaxation I have never experienced relaxation before.” - Nicolette Bernardes

connect with her:

www.nicolettebernardes.com

@relentlesslyauthentic https://www.instagram.com/relentlesslyauthentic/

@soulfilledspace https://www.instagram.com/soulfilledspace/

Checkout her podcast on all major platforms

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast!

Today’s guest is my friend, Nicolette Bernardes.

Nicolette Bernardes is many things; wild woman on a journey; truth seeker + speaker, artist, writer, emotional body healing guide to name a few. She creates and holds space— inviting us to explore what our own authentic Truth is, and empowering a reconnection to that truth. She is the human behind Soul Filled Space LLC, a container for exploration, healing and growth to take place as well as the voice and creator of Relentlessly Authentic Radio— a podcast created with the intention to bring humanity back into the forefront, through talking about all human things…

Over the last decade, she has coached others through, as well as embarked on her own deep physical, emotional, and spiritual healing journey. Her purpose in this life is to experience the full depths and spectrum of humanity, allowing herself to feel it personally and through witnessing those around her. In turn, she is able to guide others’ on their unique journey home to their authentic self, empowering and inspiring them to take ownership of their emotions and healing journey; helping them to recognize that they have the power to transform their lives from within and teaching them how to access this power.

Her current client work includes 1:1 Release + Reconnect integrated healing sessions and Sacred Wheel Journeys, utilizing the practice of Experiential Astrology. She is also creator and facilitator of Soul Filled Space retreats and workshops [coming 2022]

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 07:08] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
I introduce our topic for the episode
I introduce the guest for today’s show
I reminisce life with Nicholette

[07:09 - 33:48] Safe and Comfortable Spaces for You

What Nicholette does in life
Geeking about the astrological stuff
What serves a purpose for you at this moment?
Safe Spaces vs. Soft Spaces
Not only “hear”, but “here”
Being aware of your vulnerability
It always starts with yourself
Emotional expressions as manipulation
Recognizing and Accepting who you are

[33:49 - 34:23] Closing Segment

Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“I create and hold space.” - Nicolette Bernardes

“What are the spaces you can share more of your inner self?” - Nicolette Bernardes

“We all have the [twelve] signs within us. It’s like a blueprint essentially of our psyche’s.” - Nicolette Bernardes

connect with her:

www.nicolettebernardes.com

@relentlesslyauthentic https://www.instagram.com/relentlesslyauthentic/

@soulfilledspace https://www.instagram.com/soulfilledspace/

Checkout her podcast on all major platforms

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast! Today will be a solo episode.

I want to read to you an excerpt from my upcoming book "Get Out of Your Own Way: A Guide To Showing Up Better." If you have that level of freshness to the things about to happen to you this year, don’t waste that. Make sure that you look at the present too, and let yourself breathe from shielding yourself all the time.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 01:57] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
I introduce our topic for the episode
We’re all on to a fresh start this new year
Let’s start this year with full understanding of ourselves

[01:58 - 08:49] The First Reading

Traumatic events and coping with it
Saying enough to rejection
Self-sabotage and your second self
Creating a new reality for ourselves
Our myopic view eats us
Choose to take off that label
I am very proud of you!
What sight and vision does

[08:50 - 10:55] Closing Segment

You needed to protect the vulnerable you
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“We all have that second self that begins as a small voice of reluctance, and turns into an overpowering voice of fear and absolute self-doubt.” - Sarah Hipps

“The reality is the part of ourselves that lives to protect us from pain and disappointment was created by ourselves.” - Sarah Hipps

“Multiple realities exist outside of the one we’ve chosen to own as ours.” - Sarah Hipps

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast! Today will be a solo episode. I've been wondering how I wanted to bring you solo episodes, and what struck me this week was the realization that I ask my guests to come here and share their origin stories with me and I am not with you. If I do the same with my clients, I have to do the same with you. I am very transparent.

Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 2:04] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
I introduce our topic for the episode
A solo episode could help you trust on me

[ 2:05 - 39:25] Why am I so passionate about being an opportunity coach?

Why I don't see my story as special
I share with you some information about the things I have been living
I have been the receiver of verbal abuse
I did participate in sex work
I’m a recovering sex addict
I tried to self terminate once
I have had a life of privilege on the back
Life and my experience with depression
The impact of the events that I lived
Mental health
My relationships
My relationship with God
I don’t believe in hell
I’m proud of myself
Labels and identity
We put labels on everything
What I related to my sexual addiction
“The best way to fail kill yourself”
How paralyzing anxiety and paranoia can be
Instinct
Resist and fight
Could be exhausting and hard
In the process, you could lose and win friends

[ 39:26 - 41:54] Closing Segment

Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“When you live with depression, a lot of your memories and a lot of your views, it becomes a ‘good villain’ film.” - Sarah Hipps

“The world put the label on us and we don’t know where it sells enough. Or when people keep putting labels on us and we’re not strong enough to reject them or take them off.” - Sarah Hipps

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Welcome to another episode of Show Up with Sarah! Listen to Hans & Erica Schaler (recently married!) share their journeys through addiction to drugs and alcohol, realizing they had a substance abuse problem, and into recovery.

Hans recounts his struggle throughout his collegiate athletic career and how he shows up today with more than a decade of sobriety. Erica discusses her work through various types of therapy and addiction meetings after not only surviving early years of sexual abuse but now having a life full of thriving potential. Erica also shares how her lifelong disease impacts her recovery and perception of self and how she shows up for herself and others now as an attorney and advocate for equality. Listen along to their transformations and the future of their life together and as impactful individuals!

[00:01 - 1:29] Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
Introduce my guests, Hans and Erica Schaler
Info relevant about my guests

[ 1:30 - 1:15:00] How did Hans and Erica recover?

The before and after of a recover
How long they have recovered
How started they process and how they have been having the progress
Erica shares her part of the story
The first time she felt hope
How Erica realized that she had a problem with drugs
Hans shares his part of the story
How Hans realized that he had a problem with drugs
What happened before, during, and after their processes?
I share an interesting story about how was my situation with my addictions
The importance of balance
How they confronted their problems
The strong connection between muy guests
Their identities

[ 1:16:00 - 1:18:00] Closing Segment

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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“I was spiraling down faster than I can lower my expectations.” - Erica Schaler

“My experience is helping the woman who I work today” - Erica Schaler

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Welcome to another episode of Show Up with Sarah! This episode is very special because you’ll have the chance to sit in on a live session with a brave and vulnerable person. You'll get to see how a session can unfold, the questions asked, and the path to discovery.

In this first episode of the Behind the Scenes series, please let me introduce you to Lauren Fielder. She is an intelligent, ambitious, and charismatic woman who has done a lot of work in the past year. However, despite all these, she still finds herself stuck. Lauren showed up for the opportunity to have a session recorded for an episode of Show Up with Sarah. Listen in on how a session with Sarah works and what thoughts and roots Sarah and Lauren discover!

I do not currently work with Lauren and BTS guests do not pay for their session. To volunteer to be a BTS guest, email shipps@fullaro.com.

[00:01 - 05:30| Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
What does working with me look like?
Giving the opportunity to do a session with me
Free of charge!
I introduce our first open session guest, Lauren
Lauren shares why she did the open session
Being seen and being vulnerable
No longer afraid of being seen

[05:31 - 43:40] Behind the Scenes with Lauren

Where is Lauren currently stuck
Having the strength to change
Finally taking out the “trash”
Where is your desire to keep going?
Focusing on loving herself
Loves her personality but not happy with her body
Being ashamed of standing up for herself
Seeing the lessons behind the challenges
Letting go of the shame of being being fired
How being fired led her to realizing her self worth
How she talks to herself when feeling shame
The narrative she tells herself
How shame presents as you negatively talk to yourself?
Feeling authority and feeling power over herself
Knowing how people should treat her
Stepping into who she really is
Recalling rejections from the past
How these have manifested in the present
Fear of rejection equating to the body

[43:41 - 49:54| Closing Segment

Owning her voice and figuring out how her power looks like
Practicing how to receive compliments
Connect with Lauren through the link below
Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“It has been a year of just the trash finally being taken out. Because I'm, I can finally identify that it is trash.” - Lauren Fielder

“I think what I've learned is that I can literally go from rock bottom, and I'm still fine.” - Lauren Fielder

“The first thing that we need to get you on board with is letting go of that shame, because it's not going to help you move forward, it's only that self judgment that keeps you in the past. And there's so much around how this has bettered you and how technically, if you look at it, if you step back, you can be like, okay, yeah, actually, this all really was to my benefit.” - Sarah Hipps

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Welcome to another episode of Show Up with Sarah! Today we will be chatting with Jose Lugo who is now 34 years old. He would join an L.A. street gang when he was 16, and would be convicted and sentenced to 5 years in prison at the age of 18. When he was paroled from prison, he vowed to himself that he would never go back and dreamed of one day telling the stories of his peers

In this episode, Jose shares with us how he would go through life never fully understanding the value in his own story. At the age of 31 he would return to jail for a D.U.I, and after his 3-day incarceration, he had lost all hope. He took inventory of his life and saw himself only as a criminal with no value. On the brink of taking his own life, he cried out to God and was able to remember a simple truth that he had believed as a child - that he as a person had inherent value and that his story had meaning. It was at that moment that he was able to find the value in his story once again.

Jose is the founder and lead creative of We Are All One Story. He currently travels the country listening to and sharing peoples stories. He also just finished his memoir, Love, Faith and Violence: A True Song and Story.

[00:01 - 05:33| Opening Segment

I welcome Jose on the show
Jose shares about We Are All One Story
Having narratives as a whole
Our stories are all connected
Why Jose and his brother started the organization
Desire to tell stories
Combined overcoming own traumas to see the good
A concept where people can embrace their own stories

[05:34 - 44:12| Embracing and Sharing Stories

Connecting with our people with the same purpose
Moving forward regardless of the outcome
Finding the purpose through the pain
Difference between the men and women they have interviewed
Giving permission to not self edit
Having faith is the core of Jose’s transformation
Setting boundaries
How soft space looks like for Jose
Jose shares his experiences with shame

[44:13 - 49:03| Closing Segment

I share a little bit about my experience
Connect with Jose through the links below
Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“There's so much good, it's just our own pain that blinds us from feeling the fullness of the good that's out there, because maybe we don't think we deserve it.” - Jose Lugo

“The only way you're gonna succeed is that you have to love the day to day, right?” - Jose Lugo

Connect with Jose Lugo on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, TikTok, and LinkedIn! Or checkout his website at https://weareallonestory.net.

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Welcome to another episode of the Show Up with Sarah Podcast! Today is going to be a solo episode because I feel compelled to discuss with you guys the idea of surviving vs. thriving. I decided that I wanted to discuss this because it's something that I noticed so much with not just my clients, but with everybody, myself included. And when I talk to people about surviving, usually the people who come to work with me, is because they have set in a survival technique or tactic that is now hindering themselves. Which now needs to be shifted from survival to thriving.

In this episode we will be talking about the difference between surviving and thriving, and how to switch from the former to the latter. Make sure to tune until the end, because I will be sharing a lot more personal stores that I’m sure you can learn something from. Let’s dive in!

[00:01 - 5:27| Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
I introduce our topic for the episode
I share about how I love to talk about other people
I talk about using myself as an example for most of my stories

[05:28 - 15:12| Let’s talk about Survival

What is survival
How it looked like for me
Matured a little earlier
Adopting a nurturing personality
Sharing my learnings about my experience
Being on survival mode

[15:13 - 28:43] How Thriving Looks Like

Having firm boundaries
Saying “no” a lot more
Saying “i cannot” and “i will not”
How to switch from surviving to thriving
Our brain has done years of work to keep us on survival mode
Being aware of how others are treating you
Being grateful of yourself instead of being ashamed

[28:44 - 33:44| Closing Segment

How Sarah is like today
Keep talking about forward growth
Watch out for the upcoming episodes
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Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“And so I realized, at a certain point, that what I thought were qualities that made me a good person, were actually just survival tactics that I had learned at a young age that I was still using, in times that I should be thriving by being an adult. ” - Sarah Hipps

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Welcome to the very first episode of Show Up with Sarah! Today we will be sitting down with the founder of You Don’t Fight Alone and the host of the You Don’t Fight Alone Podcast, Keaton Leikam. Keaton’s nonprofit organization is dedicated to helping those with mental illness and provide support, comfort, and camaraderie, with the goal of reducing stigma around mental illness. YDFA is on a mission to Show Up for others, by providing free coping kits for those who need support.

In this episode, Keaton shares with us his story and how this has inspired him to provide an avenue to make mental health be part of the conversation. We also talked about how our culture drives the difference in mental health between men and women, and how having radical acceptance was key to his growth journey.

[00:01 - 05:33| Opening Segment

I welcome Keaton on the show
Keaton shares about his background
- Making mental health be part of the conversation
- Reason why he started You Don’t Fight Alone
I share about my diagnosis

[05:34 - 34:30| Let’s Talk About Mental Health

Not talking about mental health because of the stigma
The difference in mental health between men and women
- How culture drives these differences
- Women are told to have emotion
- Men are not “allowed” to have emotion except anger
Keys for Keaton’s growth
- Learning the concept of radical acceptance
- Forgiving yourself
The Soft Space concept
- Space where you release all expectations of yourself and be vulnerable
- Allowing yourself to pay attention to the red flags
- Keaton shares his Soft Space
The Danger Hallway Concept
- What our psyche has determined to be put away so we can function
Importance of boundaries
- Setting boundaries with family
- Boundaries as personal policies

[34:31 - 40:33| Closing Segment

Desire to better show up for Keaton
- Leaving room for gratitude
Desire to better show up for others
- Practicing intentionality
Check out the coping kits through this link
Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“The only way to get past it (people’s expectations), is to talk about it.” - Keatom Leikam

“The only answer to fixing shame is just forgiving yourself. Forgiving yourself for what you didn't know then, that you know now.” - Sarah Hipps

Connect with Keaton Leikam through his website at www.youdontfightalone.org and listen to his podcast!

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Welcome to the Show Up with Sarah Podcast! I am so excited that we’re finally launching this podcast to bring you guys information, thoughts, and discussion about recovery, mental health, addiction, and self determination. This is going to be a safe space for you and for our guests who are on different paths to share different perspectives. I can’t wait to introduce to you our male and female guests to help us view situations on different lenses.

So make sure to tune in until the end because I will be letting you in on why I chose to be an Opportunity coach as opposed to being a Life coach, and I will also be sharing some exciting things that you can expect and look forward to in this podcast!

[00:01 - 2:12| Opening Segment

Welcome to the episode!
What you can expect in the coming episodes
What topics we will be talking about
Bringing in different people to see different perspectives

[02:13 - 8:46| Why I Became an Opportunity Coach

Why I am not a life coach
Helping people discover where they want to go
How everybody needs a soft space for both males and females
Helping people to live their best lives

[8:47 - 11:25| What You Can Expect from the Podcast

Bringing examples and information to eliminate shame
Get to know me and my story
Learning from our guests’s experiences

[11:26 - 12:53| Closing Segment

Watch out for the upcoming episodes
Subscribe to the podcast and follow me through the links below
Final words

Tweetable Quotes:

“Everybody needs what I call soft space, the space where they are able to be their most vulnerable self, their most role self to be able to receive what they need to be able to show for themselves and not have fear dictate how they communicate, what they communicate or when they communicate. ” - Sarah Hipps

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