Between Two Worlds with Chaya and Rivka: Recent Episodes
Chaya Gurkow and Rivka Cohen
Two religious Jewish girls living in a secular world. Our lives look different than the typical gals in this city, and we believe we have some unique thoughts to share. Open your mind to a new perspective and way of life. Isn't that what you are here for? Video available at: https://youtube.com/channel/UCvbeR4AxBILPB16wHe4jziQOur Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cet69SdjTS-/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=Please review and follow!
In this episode, we dive deep into the intriguing life of Charlie, a multifaceted personality who juggles the worlds of rap and psychotherapy.
Join us as we explore his unique journey into both industries. As a psychotherapist, he reveals the unconventional approaches he employs with his clients. Delving into the complexities of patient-therapist relationships, we delve into the art of bonding and knowing when to release.
Charlie dissects the roles society assigns to men and women within partnerships, offering a thought-provoking commentary on the dynamics that shape our connections. He emphasizes the significance of kindness and empathy, reminding us that everyone carries a past that molds them – yet, it's not their sole definition.
In a powerful moment, we confront the notion of responsibility for one's trauma, regardless of its weight. Charlie challenges us to reevaluate our understanding of personal history and embrace the concept of growth beyond our struggles.
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In this episode, we discuss the Lizzo controversy that recently took social media by storm. Join us as we explore the intricacies of body positivity, public perceptions, and the fine line between empowerment and oversharing. We also discuss the Cardi B incident where she threw her microphone at a fan. We analyze the dynamics of celebrity-fan interactions, and what it would be like if people took that time to stay off their phones. We delve into the concept of keeping shabbos, a practice observed by many for religious reasons, which also carries the benefit of detaching from our ever-present screens. Discover how this ancient tradition offers a valuable lesson in finding balance, mindfulness, and the importance of taking a digital detox.
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In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we take a deep dive into the controversy surrounding actor Jonah Hill's expression of emotional boundaries within his relationship. Recent events have sparked a heated debate about whether his requests were justified self-care or crossed the line into emotional abuse.
Join us as we examine the intricacies of emotional boundaries in relationships, seeking to understand the nuances and dynamics that can exist between partners.
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In this episode, we engage in a thought-provoking discussion about the clash between religious communities and individual choices. We delve into the complexities of navigating diverse belief systems and share our perspectives on how to approach situations when people make choices that differ from our own beliefs.
Additionally, we explore the world of influencers, focusing specifically on fitness influencers and family vloggers. We examine the balance between living in the present moment and creating content, discussing the potential challenges and ethical considerations that arise.
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Join us on this episode as we delve into the complexities of fame, navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals, the challenges faced by kind-hearted people, and the topic of getting married at a young age.
First, we embark on a profound exploration of fame. Is the glittering allure of fame worth the sacrifices it demands? We candidly discuss the pros and cons, weighing the benefits of recognition against the potential loss of privacy, personal relationships, and the toll it takes on mental health.
Next, we delve into the intricate dynamics of dealing with narcissistic individuals. We explore the impact such relationships have on one's self-esteem, mental well-being, and overall happiness, providing practical tips for preserving our own emotional health when dealing with narcissistic individuals.
Moving on, we explore the often-overlooked topic of nice people being taken advantage of. We unravel the reasons behind this recurring pattern and discuss how kindness and vulnerability can sometimes become a double-edged sword. Drawing on our own experiences, we offer valuable insights into recognizing manipulative behavior, building assertiveness, and fostering healthier relationships based on mutual respect and reciprocity.
Lastly, we tackle the subject of getting married at a young age. We discuss societal and religious expectations on this topic.
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In this episode, we have the pleasure of speaking with Chani, an expert in Setai alternative healing, particularly focused on women during the birthing process. We'll dive into what Setai is, the methods it employs for healing the body, its differences from traditional medicine, and Chanie's personal experiences witnessing the transformative power of Setai.
She has seen how Setai techniques can help ease physical discomfort, reduce stress and anxiety, and support the body's natural processes during labor. By promoting relaxation and facilitating the release of tension, Setai can create a more positive and empowering birthing experience.
To get in touch with Chani go to her Instagram @hanirajchman.
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In this episode we speak with artist, singer-songwriter and professional sensitive person Ari Rabin, AKA, Alnev. Much like his music, we get incredibly deep- both personal and philosophical- in this conversation about art, expression, and being true to who you are.
You can find Alnev on Spotify (and all other places you listen to music) and on his instagram @alnev.
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In this episode, we're joined by Chaya and Simcha, two software engineers who made significant career shifts that took them in unexpected directions. Despite starting out on different paths, they both found themselves feeling unfulfilled and unhappy in their day-to-day jobs. They share their stories of realizing it was time for a change, the challenges they faced during the transition, and how they found fulfillment in their new careers.
If you're feeling stuck in your current profession or unhappy with your job, this episode will provide you with the inspiration and motivation to take the leap and explore new career paths. Chaya and Simcha's experiences show that it's never too late to change your career trajectory and find fulfillment in a new direction. Tune in to hear their inspiring stories and gain practical advice for making a successful career shift.
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In this episode, we discuss different hypotheticals and "what would you do" discussions. We also discuss the difference between confidence and ego, the toxic Hollywood culture, and more.
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In this episode, we sit down with singer, songwriter, and producer Mendel Goldman. Enjoy the ride as we discover what goes on beyond the music of an artist. What does it take to create a song? What has fueled Mendel to pursue this passion for over 10 years? How has vulnerability helped him in creating music that people can relate to?
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In today's episode, we go through some basic Jewish culture like food, shabbos, and swinging chickens over our heads. We are also joined by Chani our amazing friend who shared such good insight!
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0:00 Intro
4:16 LA vs NY
13:25 Taking breaks
16:07 Family
20:59 Rivka's mother's food
25:45 Chaya's grandfather's chewing
27:17 Rivka loves watching chaya eat
28:58 single gendered schools
36:29 Nail salon stories
46:12 Living in Florida
48:36 Chaya's workouts
51:02 Rabbis and priests
1:01:32 Teenage-hood without boys
1:05:36 Journaling
1:07:44 self-worth
1:13:43 Love is blind
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In this episode, we sit down with Solomon Berezin to discuss meditation. Solomon has spent many years meditating and learning about its benefits and methods. This is a great start if you want to learn more about meditation and how to apply it!
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In this episode, we talk about the hype and pressure surrounding New Years Resolutions, how to actually keep to new 2023 goals, the Logan Paul controversy, and Andrew Tates arrest.
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In this episode, we sit down with Yael Cohen- Malachowsky who has been running her own business for nearly 5 years. We discuss what it takes to be an entrepreneur, tips she has learned from her own experiences and the power that comes from running your own business. Check out Yael's photography on Instagram @talkingphotography
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In this episode, we talk about Brene Brown's book on vulnerability and shame, Daring Greatly. We talk about what shame looks like in our community and in our lives and how being vulnerable can be the antidote we need.
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In this episode, we discuss the reality of moving on from relationships, friendships, and how "growing up" sometimes means moving on.
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This episodes a little bit of a mish-mosh on a bunch of topics on our mind: travel stories, intellectuals "destroying" college-campus students, best ways to argue and a rapid-fire get to know Rivka Q&A session.
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Riki Rose is a social media personality from sharing comedic content to openly discussing her struggles with mental health. In this episode, we discuss Rikki's religious background and her journey to finding herself. She broke boundaries and chose to express her true self despite it all. Listen to hear the amazing story of Rikki Rose!
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Today we sit down with singer-songwriter Yosef David. We delve deep into what goes behind writing, producing, and performing songs.
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In this episode we address the recent tweets and comments made by rap artist Kanye West and those who we think have failed to condemn him.
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In this episode, we discuss the Enneagram and it's nine personality types. We go into detail about each number and outline what makes someone their number.
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In this episode, we sit with Chani Katzman, a fellow podcaster, and discuss what it is like to express your unique self when the fear of judgment is so high. Enjoy this episode and make sure to leave a review! Check out Chani’s website: Daretodifferentiate.com/podcast
In this episode, we talk with Chana Rahmani, who believes that IFS therapy is a powerful tool for healthy behavior. IFS therapy drives the thought process of never being bad. According to IFS, we merely react to past experiences and protect ourselves from getting hurt again. When we view ourselves through compassion, we can do the same for others. We can then heal those unexpressed parts of ourselves in exile because of the fear of being in pain.
In this week's episode, we discuss shabbos. A weekly occurrence where we unplug from the material world to rest. We talk about growing up where every single week no matter what we were forced to spend time with our family. Today, technology is infused in every aspect of our life, and dedicating one day to unplugging is unique and very special.
In this episode, Chaya interviews Patis's regional manager Goldie Fridman and learns how she went from a behind-the-scenes pastry chef to one of the top people at the artisan bakery.
In this episode, we talk with Solomon who found Judaism when he decided to focus on his mental health. We discuss his background in growing up in the secular world and what brought him to leave it. We delve into the intricacies of meditation and processing emotions. What exactly is meditation? Why would someone choose to be religious? Is religion for everyone, or is it just some people's paths?
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In this episode, Chaya and Rivka review the book The Silent Patient. We talk about our thoughts on the storyline, plotholes found in the book, and what we thought of certain characters. We further discuss how trauma can control unhealthy habits without conscious thought. We speak about how self-value is the most important thing and how irrationally you can act when you don't have any.
In this episode, Chaya and Rivka chat about about Disney's Pixar movie Soul and if we create our purpose in life.
Mushkie and I both have parents who set out to do "shlichus" which is dedicating oneself to building a Jewish community center in a specific area. This entails running a non-for-profit organization and committing to always giving back to the community. In this episode, we discuss skills we have built as we are constantly meeting new people from different walks of life. We also discuss some downsides and the journey of growing up in this lifestyle
In this episode, Rivka interviews instagram fashion blogger Chana David-Freidman and how she came to appreciate and love modest dressing.
in this episode we discuss how creativity and consuming media are viewed in our community. Can art influence you separately from the artist messages? should media consumption be limited to protect your mindspace? Has our artistic expression been stifled from growing up in this way? Listen to this episode to understand more about this topic, Enjoy!
Growing up in large families we have lots to say about our experience. In this episode, we discuss what truly makes a successful family. Does your financial situation need to be all figured out before deciding to have kids? Does having many siblings split your parent's love 7 or 8 ways? We delve into the principles and traditions when it comes to planning a family in our religious world. Please share and leave a rating if you enjoy it, thank you!!
Stereotyping is a primal human trait that sprouts forth judgment and negativity toward those who choose to counter it. In this episode, we talk with Faigy about her journey of breaking a stereotype in our community. We discuss the importance of staying authentic to who you are and knowing how to preserve your values simultaneously. We hope you enjoy and please leave a review if you did!
In this episode, we introduce the way our community perceived a college education. What are the benefits of taking one or two gap years before deciding to attend school again? What are some disadvantages in the way we were taught to think about going to college? We talk enneagram, measuring happiness and success, building character through adversity, and much more!
In this episode, Chaya and Rivka talk about the documentary that exposed the FLDS sect of Mormonism. We compare and contrast our community with theirs. Does believing in something make you blind to logic and objectivity? Can skepticism and faith overlap? We also delve into whichever tangent we find ourselves in as it is our fashion :) Enjoy!!!!!!
In this episode of Between Two Worlds we discuss the different stereotypes we experience in our religious community. We discuss the misinterpretations some of our teachers teach of the Torah and Chabad view on women. We talk about some advantages and disadvantages we experience as Jewish women and specifically religious ones.
Relationships with the opposite gender are restricted in our community as it is sacred for marriage. This includes following the laws of Shomer Negiah where physical touch between girls and boys is not allowed. In this episode, we discuss our thoughts on this way of life. We discuss some advantages and disadvantages we experience in keeping this obligation. Thank you for checking us out, and please leave a review to let us know what you think!
We discuss what happened in buffalo and whether words can be responsible for physical violence. We also talk about what limitations in clothing we face as religious girls. Do our clothes really define us? perhaps what we wear has nothing to do with how modest we are. Finally, we discuss the drama between Tiger Belly and Brendan Schaub and how drama drives up views. Thanks for listening!