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Are you yearning for a life that transcends the superficial? Ready to unearth the true essence of virtue as defined by character and divine connection? Join us for a deep dive into Proverbs 31, exploring the profound wisdom of these verses and their relevance in our lives today. We are concluding our Proverbs 31 series by delving into verses 27 to 31, where we uncover the vital role of a virtuous woman and the importance of diligence, responsibility, and spiritual vigilance in maintaining her home and family.

This is more than just a discussion about biblical teachings; it's an exploration of a woman's worth, extending beyond external appearances and material achievements. We reflect on the impact of her actions and how they earn respect and recognition. Moreover, we emphasize the significance of mutual respect and support within a family. As we wrap up this enlightening series, we hope to inspire you to strive for virtue in your own life and appreciate those who lead virtuous lives. Let's delve into God's wisdom together, embracing qualities like diligence, love, respect, and reverence for God. That's the true value of a virtuous woman.

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How can anyone listen to the description of this woman and come to the conclusion that she exists to be subdued, conquered or used?

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In this series, I’ll be going in depth discussing what it means to be a Proverbs 31 woman from the true biblical perspective.   We'll be discussing Proverbs 31:10-31 over the course of the study.

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In this series, I’ll be going in depth discussing what it means to be a Proverbs 31 woman from the true biblical perspective.   We'll be discussing Proverbs 31:10-31 over the course of the study.

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This episode is the first in a series.  In this series, I’ll be going in depth discussing what it means to be a Proverbs 31 woman from the true biblical perspective.   We'll be discussing Proverbs 31:10-31 over the course of the study.

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In this episode, it’s time to talk about how we don't know who we are, what we deserve, and how Summer Walker’s album is the theme music in a lot of our lives, but shouldn’t be.  

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In which we discuss comments made by the comedienne Monique.  LInk to article: https://dailyreports71.com/comedian-monique-lends-relationship-advice-to-black-women-let-your-guard-down/ 

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There  is a common sentiment going around that the "Black" Church keeps Black women from getting married. Here's why that is NOT true.  

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60% of Black girls in America are sexually abused before the age ol 18 by a Black man that they KNOW. I am one of them.

There is a code of silence in the Black "community" that protects these men and allows them to continue to violate our girls, steal their innocence and allows the abuse to multiply. Black girls are accused of lying, blamed for what was done to them, or ignored - if they report it at all. Most don't.

Black girls grow up with a host of issues that they carry with them well into adulthood and often throughout their entire lives.

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Documents and links referred to in this episode:

The Abuse To Prison Pipeline: The Girls' Story: https://www.law.georgetown.edu/poverty-inequality-center/wp-content/uploads/sites/14/2019/02/The-Sexual-Abuse-To-Prison-Pipeline-The-Girls%E2%80%99-Story.pdf

Black Women's Blueprint: https://www.blackwomensblueprint.org

Toolkit for addressing child sexual abuse: https://www.blackwomensblueprint.org/black-feminist-resources

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Proverbs 27:7 (New King James Version) says:

“A satisfied soul loathes the honeycomb, but to a hungry soul every bitter thing is weet.”

When I first read that verse, it hit me right in between the eyes:

Nakerville STARVES the souls of Black women  to the point that we will aceept ANYTHING. But once we get a taste of real, true, mature love,  we DESPISE anything else!

Let's  LEARN better, so we can CHOOSE better!

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We like to refer to ourselves and other Black women as queens.  In this episode, I discuss nine  Queenly Characteristics, what they mean, and how they look when appled..

1 Lead by example
2. Respect others
3. Elegance
4. Kindness
5. Composure
6. Courage
7. Confidence
8. Boundaries
9. Emotional Intelligence

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fFrther discussion about Black Femicide, hidden hatred for Black Women and the conditioning that enables it to thrive.  

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This is a topic that most of us are not addressing.  Black women die from domestic violence at THREE times the rate of other races.  A Black woman is killed EVERY SIX HOURS in America.  

It's time to pay attention.

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When a father is present and active in his daughter’s life, he shows her that he loves her for WHO SHE IS.  This gives her a foundation  of security,  love,  and appropriate self-esteem.  This foundation follows her throughout her life and affects the decisions she makes about the kind of man she will accept. 

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This episode  is about something that most of us are extremely familiar with:  being a STRONG BLACK WOMAN, what Nakerville’s expectations are of us, the effect it has on our general health, and finally how we can choose better in this area.

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Three more words every Sista should know.

In this episode, I discuss Accountability, Autonomy and Sovereignty and how they are applicable to  making  choices that benefit US.  In addition, I give my thoughts on Kitty Scamuels and the peition to remove him from his platform, as well as talking about some pushback on my choice of audience for this podcast and my choice of words. 

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Nakerville THRIVES because we support it!  

It's time for us to face some  hard truths and begin to choose better in vetting and demanding reciprocity.

Black Femicide US Facebook Page:   Black Femicide - U.S. | Facebook

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Sis, we as Black women have been hoodwinked, bamboozled and run amuck from BIRTH in varying degrees.  The problem:  Being born into and raised in the Toxic Black Culture….or what I’ll be calling it from here on out: NAKERVILLE. 

In this episode, I'm laying the foundation for the issues we face, describing how our upbringing and conditioning have caused us to make choices based on  lies.....

And of course, encouraging us to CHOOSE BETTER.

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Announcing the Choose Better Podcast and what it is about.

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