Under Our Roof: Recent Episodes
Grace & Elizabeth Baldridge
Hosts Grace and Lizzie invite you into the conversations they're having at home, whether about queer newlywed life, that true crime case they can't stop thinking about, or what's for dinner this week. New episodes every Monday.
After missing a couple of weeks, Grace and Lizzie get a chance to update the houseguests on their latest parenting milestones, hobbies, and what kind of brat summer they are having.
It's been almost a year since we switched roofs! To reflect on one year in the new house, Grace and Lizzie talk about the updates they've made and the projects they are looking forward to next.
Here's Grace's code for mouth tape: https://www.dryftsleep.com/NIGHTACHES
We can all recognize the issues with pandering to the gay community, but for a bit of fun, Grace and Lizzie share their guilty pleasures of pride month. From gay whales to corporate logos, the hosts discuss their musings.
Lizzie is going back to work! The hosts catch up on that looming fact and their latest life updates, and Lizzie shares a list of things she didn't expect about becoming a mom.
This week, Grace and Lizzie are joined by Grace's Mom (Hodi) as a special guest! The three talk about the circumstances that lead to Hodi moving across the country--and across the street from The Roof. Grace's Mom shares some inspiring words about making big, spontaneous changes in life.
After an unexpected hiatus, Grace and Lizzie share some updates on life with a 5 month old, baby sleep woes, and their recent adventures furnishing a house on a budget for Grace’s mom to live in and be Frances’s nanny.
This chatty episode goes deep on what Grace and Lizzie think about interpreting song lyrics differently from the way they were intended. Tune in for their spicy and sassy takes.
As Grace insisted, here is a link to Chappell Roan's new single, Good Luck, Babe.
Here is a link to Operation Olive Branch, a grassroots movement to support and amplify aid requests to Palestinian families.
Recorded after a long day of travel, Grace and Lizzie give a quick update of an exciting development in their lives! UOR will be back next week with a full episode.
In the midst of a sleep regression, Grace interviews Lizzie about her reading journey while nursing Frances so far.
In this first “real” episode back in a few weeks, Grace and Lizzie yap about their thoughts on public gushing on the internet—and maybe change their opinions partway through.
By listener request, this is a solo episode of Lizzie’s “declassified guide” to law school and beyond.
Two months into parenthood, Grace and Lizzie are asking the question: will they be strict with Frances? Listen in for their thoughts on tattoos, the drinking age, curfews, and more.
In this solo audio message from Lizzie, she shares what it’s actually like hanging with a baby all day and what you need and don’t need in terms of baby products.
Inspired by a recent online debate, Grace and Lizzie give their (sometimes heated) take on "Side A" and "Side B" Christians. If you don't know what that means, listen in for an explanation and some updated thoughts from the hosts on queerness and religion.
Where were you when the world stopped turning? Grace and Lizzie share their memories of pivotal moments throughout their lives, on both a personal level and in global news.
In this solo episode, Lizzie shares more about her postpartum experience, healing, favorite products and foods, and some tips on supporting families in your life with new baby.
This episode is all about what we’ve been watching, reading, and playing under our roof while on maternity leave. We’ll be back next week with a longer episode!
Ask Us Anything! Grace and Lizzie answer listener questions, ranging from favorite meals lately to recent novels read to more thoughts on parenthood. Thanks to all who submitted questions!
In the last of this three-part series relating to Frances's birth, Grace and Lizzie share some sleepy ramblings on what parenthood and the newborn stage has been like for them so far.
This week, Grace and Lizzie are back with part two of the story of the first week of Frances's life. They share the saga of her NICU stay and some new nicknames they are calling her.
Under Our Roof's permanent houseguest is here! Grace and Lizzie share a big life update with the birth of their daughter, including the labor and delivery story.
Welcome to the Under Our Roof hyperfixation episode! Grace and Lizzie chat about recent documentaries they've watched, their interests in remote islands, and most importantly, the Ninth Wonder of the World, Chyna. Enjoy (and Merry Christmas!)
In this quick & cozy episode, the hosts talk about their experiences with queer spaces and read listeners’ submissions about their favorite queer community events and places (whether real or dreamed-of).
Link to Lizzie’s Instagram
Link to the Semler Discord
We are officially on baby watch!! Grace and Lizzie talk about the things they're excited to do in the days they have left as a family of 4 (counting Bean and Bunny of course).
Hi houseguests! All is well. We have had an unexpected (non-baby-related) emergency come up and will be back next week. Be well!
The hosts are feeling nostalgic this week, only a few weeks (or less) away from welcoming Baby Baldridge. They talk about what initially drew them to the other, the early crush days, and some fun UOR lore.
Grace and Lizzie are very different people and have different sides of the internet. In today's episode, they talk about what they see online and their varied internet "special interests."
A few links to things discussed:
Wishbone Kitchen
Spiderman Turn Off the Dark Video
Article About the Liver King
Grace and Lizzie are in full baby mode! On this week's episode, they talk about planning a baby shower and their best party tips in general.
Lizzie and Grace are only a few weeks out from parenthood! In this first episode back after Grace's tour, they talk about all the preparations they are doing, plus some more thoughts about raising kids with or without religion.
In this solo episode, join Lizzie on a journey through her notes app list on random observations about pregnancy. Both physically and mentally, pregnancy has been a wild ride.
What scared you as a kid? That's the question Grace and Lizzie asked listeners for this year's scare-a-thon. The hosts deliver one of their favorite episodes of the year with a bit of a twist.
Lately the conversation under our roof has been a lot about NAMES! Grace and Lizzie are deciding on a baby name, and that has also invited a lot of discussions about the meaning and significance of names more broadly. Listeners wrote in to share whether they identify with the name their parents gave them, and made guesses about what the permanent houseguest will be called.
This episode gives a deep dive on the making of Semler's latest musical project, NIGHT ACHES. Lizzie interviews Grace on the stories behind the songs, inspiration for the project, and insomnia. The hosts also talk about Grace's upcoming tour (tickets linked here!) and a new song releasing on October 11.
Come along as Lizzie takes you through her fertility journey and gives the ins and outs of the fertility process. She covers all the ABCs and basics, like IUI, IVF, using donor genetic material, and the emotional rollercoaster of fertility treatments.
Grace and Lizzie say hi for a quick catch up and a preview of what houseguests can expect in the week to come.
After several episodes talking about house hunting, and one or two referencing "switching roofs," Grace and Lizzie are finally sharing all the details of their house hunt and purchase this summer. Here's to an exciting new chapter of cozy queer chaos.
Hello from Mexico! Grace and Lizzie are recording live from their babymoon, and as a treat, they share a bit about a pattern they noticed that somewhat inspired the creation of the Under Our Roof.
This week it's Grace's turn on the mic! Lizzie is at a bachelorette party and Grace gives listeners a special treat of a surprise solo episode.
Buy tickets to Grace's October shows here!
Guess what! Under Our Roof is now coming to you from under a brand new roof. Well, new to us. This is just a short catch up episode from Lizzie in the midst of the current chaos. More soon! Thanks for your patience!
Fresh off their two week vacation, Grace and Lizzie share their best tips for traveling smoothly and enjoying the ride.
Greetings from beautiful Finland! Grace and Lizzie are here for the wedding of their friends Miki and Hope. They share a travel update and answer some more listener-submitted baby questions.
Please welcome a guest to the podcast this week, Jersh Tattoos! Grace's tattoo artist Jersh (Josh) shares his wisdom on tattoo designs, placement, and decisions, and Grace and Josh talk about Grace's tattoo journey over the years.
Thank you for all the kind words and support on our announcement last week! In this episode, Lizzie answers listener questions about pregnancy so far and the fertility journey.
Surprise! Grace and Lizzie have been keeping a tiny secret for the last few months—they will be adding a new member to their family later this year! In this episode, the hosts share their thoughts on the parenthood journey so far and their trepidations about opening up their news to a wider audience.
Thank you everyone for all the kind words and support so far!
In all honesty, the biggest conversation happening Under Our Roof in the past week has been the missing (and then discovered) Titan submersible and Titanic tourism more broadly. In this episode, Grace interviews Lizzie about this special interest, and Lizzie shares her thoughts on why it's natural that humans want to see the Titanic.
Here is a link to the James Cameron video we shared.
Here is a link to the billionaire math breakdown.
Hello Houseguests! No full episode this week, but we’ll be back next week. Happy Juneteenth.
If you're like Grace and Lizzie and what feels like every queer person they know, you've recently watched the queer season of Netflix's Ultimatum. The hosts break down the season, their thoughts, and what they would change about the host and format of the show.
It’s Pride weekend in West Hollywood! Grace and Lizzie give a mini update on their Pride preparations and share some abridged thoughts on the queer season of Ultimatum (more to come soon).
Take a trip down memory lane with UOR. In honor of the Little Mermaid remake coming out, Grace and Lizzie go through the Disney movies from their childhood and discuss how queer-coded (or not) they are. Let us know your thoughts!
Under Our Roof has played imaginary house hunters, but come along with Grace and Lizzie as they embark on a real house hunting journey. The hosts share a bit about the experience so far and chat about what they're looking for in a dream house.
Lizzie and (very briefly) Grace give a short catch-up and talk about Lizzie’s bucket list for the best spring and summer ever.
Unfortunately, we all (or at least most of us) have to have a job. Tune in for Grace and Lizzie's tips on how to successfully girlboss in the workforce and handle stressful email situations with ease. The hosts also give an update on their latest travels and house hunting.
In this solo episode with Lizzie, she talks about the differences between being in your 30s versus your 20s and the best things about both. Lizzie shares what wisdom shes gained about being in the same stages of life as friends, knowing your own body and mind, carefree travel, and more.
Spring has sprung! Grace and Lizzie talk about their spring plans and bucket list items and, in honor of Coachella weekend in California, build their own imaginary music festivals.
Here's a link to the lemon rolls we want to make (but have not tried yet, full disclosure, so can't officially endorse the recipe).
Take a walk down memory lane as Grace and Lizzie share the movies and TV from their childhoods that made them who they are today. The hosts also read listener comments about favorite nostalgic movies.
This week Grace and Lizzie are feeling a little bit heavy about the state of current events and the news cycle. They share their thoughts on how to process the constant stream of news in the world and ways to stop a doom scroll.
Here's a link to the water sommelier on TikTok.
Here's a link to the Semler Discord.
Welcome to Under Our Roof's Deux Moi era. On this episode, Grace and Lizzie share listener stories (and a few of their own) of celebrity sightings and encounters.
Grace and Lizzie are in their wellness era... sort of. Tune in to hear about the latest sleep hack being implemented under our roof, and Lizzie quizzes Grace on whether wellness trends are real or fake.
It's time for Grace and Lizzie to break their silence on the Scandoval. Just kidding, very few people asked for this, but today Under Our Roof is covering the latest Vanderpump Rules drama and—more interestingly—taking a quiz about what "counts" as cheating. Tune in for Grace and Lizzie's opinions on flirty messages, holding hands, secret-keeping and more.
The quiz we took is linked here.
Grace's childhood bestie Juliana is Under Our Roof today! Grace and Lizzie interview Juli about her experience growing up with Grace, her identity as a third culture kid, and her perspective on life after beating breast cancer at age 26. Tune in for a very special and inspiring episode.
Grace and Lizzie catch up on the rainy LA week they've been having. Grace puts Lizzie's legal knowledge to the test with a quiz queue the quiz show music to see if she can tell real laws from made-up ones.
Introducing a new Under Our Roof original game (though we are probably not the first to do it)! Inspired by Grace's work on House Hunters and Flip or Flop, Grace and Lizzie go imaginary house hunting, with each coming up with three houses for the other to choose from. Tune in for our takes on open floor plans, scenic views, imaginary/future pets, and Grace's non-negotiable number of bathrooms.
Here's a link to the SNL House Hunters skit.
Dating has always been tough. Grace and Lizzie discuss historical dating rituals and customs, and they also read listeners' suggestions for cute dates. Enjoy and happy Valentine's Day!
Links to articles about historical dating:
Refinery29 Article
Reader's Digest Article
It's the month of love! Inspired by their recent rom-com binge, Grace and Lizzie share their personal lists of telltale signs that someone is—or isn't—just that into you. Tune in for the hosts' thoughts on sending each other music, introducing you to family/friends, and blunt communication.
Link to the Semler discord
Featured song: Crush by Ethel Cain
In this (somewhat) Dear Abby style episode, Grace asks Lizzie how she would handle a range of social and professional situations. Lizzie gives her best advice and shares tips for dealing with mishaps.
In this episode Grace and Lizzie share their "skills starter packs," or the things they think are really important to know/learn in life.
Here's a link to the Martha Stewart Instagram post that inspired the episode.
The latest installment of queer content for your consideration features some recent favorites, some disappointments, and some instances of Grace and Lizzie probably having bad taste. Tune in for recommendations and rants.
Here's a link to the Semler discord.
You can always email us at underourroofpod@gmail.com.
In this solo episode while Grace is on tour, Lizzie shares her ins and outs for 2023 - the things she wants more and less of in this next year.
Grace and Lizzie dive deep into their upbringings in different denominations of the Christian church. In this mostly lighthearted episode, the hosts share their memories of the unwritten rules they learned they were supposed to follow.
Grace and Lizzie read listener stories about the best--and worst--gifts they've ever received.
Here's a link to the PBS story about the origins of Santa Claus.
Wishing everyone a very happy holiday season from Under Our Roof!
Grace is joined by a special co-host while Lizzie is away and gets an unfiltered window into the heterosexual lifestyle.
It's Winter Formal season! At least, it's Winter Formal season Under Our Roof. In this episode, Grace and Lizzie talk about their school dance and prom memories in anticipation of the Semler Winter Formal coming up in just a couple of weeks.
Here's a link to tickets for the Semler Winter Formal (December 17 in LA)
Here's a link to an intro to Mississippi prom TikTok
Here's a link to what bubble dresses look like
This episode includes a clip of Miki Ratsula's song, "Second."
Would you like to spend the rest of your life with arugula, spinach, or romaine? What if you could only celebrate Christmas, Halloween, or your own birthday? Grace and Lizzie play a lighthearted version of the classic game "eff"/marry/kill.
Here's a link to the Semler group discord.
In this short n' sweet Thanksgiving episode, Grace and Lizzie do a quick recap on Grace's tour and react to polls about listeners' Thanksgiving favorites.
Links to resources to help victims of Club Q mass shooting in Colorado Springs here, here, and here.
In this solo episode, Lizzie shares a candid look at life these days at home, why she hasn’t gone to Grace’s shows on this run, what she’s cooking, and how she’s structuring this alone time.
Here are the links to what Lizzie has been cooking at home!
Pistachio crusted salmon
Brussels sprouts caesar salad
Roasted Brussels sprouts with balsamic glaze
Spaghetti squash pasta
Grace and Lizzie answer a range of listener questions in this advice column-style episode. From personal style to who to invite to your wedding to how to get over a crush, they dole out their best words of wisdom.
Here's the link to one of Grace's current sources of style inspiration.
Here's a link to the first part of this advice column series.
Happy Halloween from Under Our Roof! This episode continues the thread from last week of listener-submitted spooky stories, and Grace and Lizzie share a bit about how they spent Halloween weekend. Enjoy!
Happy Halloween (almost)! Grace and Lizzie read some houseguest-submitted spooky stories and tell a couple of their own. Grace also gives a short recap of the Dove Awards.
Link to past episode with Lizzie's brother's haunting story.
Link to source for Grace's short scary story.
This solo episode is a cozy advice corner with Lizzie. She answers listener questions ranging from getting over what to do when you’re annoyed with a significant other to moving into a new space to complimenting a non-binary partner and more.
Join Lizzie and Grace for this silly conspiracy theory episode with a few rabbit holes along the way. All of the conspiracy theories presented are meant to be fun and lighthearted. Happy listening!
Links for your perusal:
Chuck E. Cheese Pizza Conspiracy
Chuck E. Cheese Characters Google Search
Denver Airport Conspiracy
The Touch the Feel of Cotton - Ghost Child
The Touch the Feel of Cotton - Hayden Panettiere
The Touch the Feel of Cotton - Zooey Deschanel
The Touch the Feel of Cotton - Jazmine Sullivan
The Touch the Feel of Cotton - Leona Lewis
In the first episode of October 2022, Grace and Lizzie share how they're making their home feel cozy for fall and discuss recent events in their lives.
Here's a link to the soup recipe Lizzie discusses making.
In this conversational episode, Grace and Lizzie share the details of their recent misadventure and some tips for coping in stressful situations.
Here's part two of Lizzie's journey through queer/sapphic media! In this second part, she updates the houseguests on some recent media discoveries and shares a wishlist and predictions of movies/TV we might see in the future.
Here's a link to the halloumi/tomato/peach dish mentioned in the episode.
Here's a link to Lizzie's TikTok account.
Just in time for Under Our Roof episode 101, Lizzie’s sapphic media class 101 is in session. In this episode, Lizzie chronicles her own journey over the past 15 plus years of discovering queer media, from the OC’s lesbian storyline in 2005 to the present. This is part one of a two-part series.
Under Our Roof is 100 episodes long! To celebrate, Grace and Lizzie put together a video episode featuring house superlatives and a weird salad. You can watch here. You can also listen to the audio on any podcast platform as usual. Please enjoy and thank you for sticking with the podcast or joining along the way!
It's the 99th episode of Under Our Roof, and it's a QUEER LETTER episode! Grace and Lizzie answer listener questions ranging from moving in together after long distance, to sharing your art with the world, to feeling attracted to someone else while in a relationship.
It's breakup season... maybe not here Under Our Roof, but under roofs across the world. Although Grace and Lizzie are NOT breaking up, they give their best advice from breakups past and weigh in on how to handle breakup scenarios.
In this imaginative and daydreamy episode, Lizzie and Grace share their ideas for the perfect bar, restaurant, retail store, and inn/hotel with the listeners. Come along for the ride and enjoy!
Grace and Lizzie share their respective lists of dream guests and also their nightmare guests to come on Under Our Roof. Drew and Keke, if you're listening, there's an open spot on the couch to record with us.
Link to Drew Afualo's TikTok
Link to the Semler discord
It's summertime, and Grace and Lizzie are dreaming of getaways both near and far. In this episode, they discuss their best tips for all kinds of trips, from camping to Airbnbs to hotels.
Some old posts from Lizzie's blog that might be helpful:
Finding the right camping or glamping site
Tips for an extra-special camping experience
How to stay in a hotel with a dog
We're taking a week off of Under Our Roof, as Grace is still in the thick of healing. But in the meantime, here's the Discord link to connect with other listeners of Semler and the podcast. Also, here is a link to some new music Grace is obsessed with: Quinnie and Beach Bunny. See you next week!
Welcome to Under Our Roof, ~Post Secret~ edition! In this episode, Grace and Lizzie read listeners' anonymous confessions, and the hosts are also joined by special guest Daron Gardner.
If you're dying for more Daron, you can listen to her first appearance on the podcast here.
Link to Daron's Instagram.
Grace has 20+ tattoos. Lizzie has zero. In this episode, they talk about Grace's experience in acquiring body artwork and share tips for people interested in tattoos.
Times are tough, and it's easy to get discouraged about the state of the world. Grace and Lizzie weigh in on recent events and share some things that have been keeping their spirits up lately.
In the final episode of Pride Month 2022, Grace and Lizzie review this year's corporate pride collections.
Links:
Burger King's "same side" burgers
Last year's Under Our Roof episode on rainbow capitalism
Target's 2022 Pride Collection
Sephora Pride Makeup 2022
Forever 21's 2022 Pride Collection
Postmates' Bottom-Friendly Pride Menu
Walmart's 2022 Pride Collection
Pride Bratz Dolls
Lizzie is another year older, and in this solo episode she shares 31 things she has learned in 31 years.
Tune into this episode for a detailed discussion of what Lizzie has been cooking lately (links below), Bunny's first trip to the beach, and a gay passengers on the Titanic update!
Miso Glazed Salmon
Bang Bang Salmon
Roasted Salmon with Pineapple-Jalapeño Salsa
Tomato Butter Toast
A twist on Peanut Butter Cups
Greet Meatballs with Sweet Potato Fries
Happy Pride Month! Grace and Lizzie answer listener-submitted questions in this chatty episode.
Here is a link to Lizzie's blog post from a few years ago about hosting a Pride-themed picnic.
It's finally here! Stages of a Breakdown came out last month, and today Grace and Lizzie bring you a listening guide with some background, thoughts, and memories tied to each song.
Links:
Titanic: The Untold Tale of Gay Passengers and Crew
Music video for You're Not My Friend
Music video for Don't Tell Anyone
Ever wondered if The Grinch, Katniss Everdeen, Hannibal Lecter, Rose from Titanic, or some of your other favorite fictional characters are queer allies? We may never know, but listen in for Grace and Lizzie's speculations.
The Bunny's out of the bag! Grace and Lizzie adopted a new three-legged member of the family, and they share all about her on this episode - including a story about how they almost "lost" Bunny only a few days after adopting her.
Listen in to play a round of Grace and Lizzie's favorite road trip game: Perfect In Every Way. Your hosts chat about their dating deal-breakers and funny relationship hypotheticals.
Grace and Lizzie are back after their one-week hiatus with a fun, all-over-the-place episode that hits many of the Under Our Roof highlights.
Lizzie shares the good, the bad, & the ugly about her religious upbringing in the Methodist Church.
Grace and Lizzie are back in action, together, for this conversational episode of Under Our Roof!
Here's a link to the video of Gaga saying she switched baristas (if you know, you know).
Here's a link to Grace's recent music videos for You're Not My Friend and Don't Tell Anyone.
In what is likely Lizzie's last solo episode for awhile, she shares her best tips and tricks as an Enneagram 2 AND a lover of gift-giving. Tune in for practical ways on how to make people feel celebrated, how to help people thorugh a difficult time, and how to make a partner/best friend/roommate/family member feel especially loved and thought of.
Get ready for an extra-long chatty episode as Lizzie hosts a solo Q&A session.
Here's a link to the BEST crispy tofu recipe.
And here are some links to past blog posts Lizzie has written about favorite podcasts:
Favorite Podcasts for Road Trips
Favorite Podcasts in Quarantine
Best Podcasts for Road Trips part 2
Best Podcasts that AREN'T True Crime
And LIVE from tour with Relient K, it's Grace and Haley! Grace is currently on a national tour with pop-punk band Relient K, and Grace's best friend Haley has been along for the ride for a portion of it. Grace and Haley recorded this episode in between sound checks, and they share a glimpse into road life and some fun moments from tour so far.
Grace is on tour and Lizzie is in charge of Under Our Roof! In this solo episode, Lizzie gives a short life update and then answers some frequently-asked-questions about Grace.
Here's the recipe to the chile crisp discussed in the episode.
Please excuse the click-baity title... all will be explained in the episode! Grace and Lizzie read funny tips and tricks from Cosmopolitan Magazine and laugh along.
Apologies, but we couldn't find Grace's prom photo to share in the show notes.
Here is a link to the Jessica Simpson article Grace mentions in the episode.
Under Our Roof is back with more queer content for you to consider! In this episode, Grace and Lizzie round up some of the latest shows and movies they've been watching and break down the queer content in each.
As discussed at the beginning of the episode, here is a link to a Twitter thread of mutual aid working to combat the anti-trans legislation in Texas. And here's a link to the Ukraine Crisis Global Relief Fund.
This episode is all about setting social media boundaries. Grace and Lizzie share their thoughts on blocking (including who is more likely between the two of them to hit the block button), DMs, muting stories, and making friends through social media.
Here are links to the two recipes Lizzie talks about in the episode: Risotto; Tortellini alla Vodka Soup.
Whether it's a terrible boss, a food prep disaster, or toxic co-workers (or customers)--work can really suck sometimes. Grace and Lizzie read listener-submitted stories about worst workplace experiences; listen in for laughs and commiseration.
Here's a link to the trucker TikTok account we talk about.
Here's a link to the Semler discord.
Do you believe in the Power of Positive Thinking? Grace and Lizzie channel their inner life coach (kidding) to share their thoughts on manifestation, the law of attraction, positive thinking, prayer, and toxic positivity.
Here are a couple of links to articles (first, second) about some of the science behind manifestation and vibrational frequencies.
Here's a link to the caesar salad recipe Lizzie talks about in the episode.
Under Our Roof dives into new territory in this episode - REALITY TV! Grace and Lizzie talk about their favorite and least favorite reality TV, and Grace quizes Lizzie about whether reality show descriptions are fact or fiction, complete with quiz show music. Special shout out to "Playing It Straight."
Here's a link to the list of the wildest reality TV shows that Grace pulled from to make the quiz.
Today, we're roasting the tired, repetitive "playbook" that it seems like so many people have used to cast judgment in the name of religion. Listen in for the cringey ways people have claimed to be "praying for you" - and Grace and Lizzie's thoughts on how embarrassing that is.
Here's a link to the Eye Witness intro theme.
Here's a link to Drew Afualo's TikTok profile.
This week, come hang out under our roof and hear Grace and Lizzie's takes on which movies and other media have the best (and worst) world-building. The house-hosts talk about entertainment phenomena ranging from Twilight, to the OA, to Studio Ghibli, to Pixar. Enjoy!
Apologies - the audio gets choppy in a few places. New recording equipment is coming soon :)
Lastly, here's a link to a photo of a hermit crab out of its shell.
Welcome to Under Our Roof's first ever SOLO episode! With Grace in the studio recording new music this week, Lizzie shares her thoughts on striving for balance throughout life. Tune in for tips on managing the day-to-day and avoiding burnout and overwhelm.
Here's a link to Lizzie's favorite daily overview notepad.
And here's a link to the strawberry timer Lizzie talks about on this episode.
Happy New Year! Grace and Lizzie share intentions for 2022, talk about their dreams and reflections on positive thinking, and brainstorm some fresh energy for the podcast.
It's the last podcast episode of 2021! To celebrate, Grace and Lizzie interview some of Lizzie's family members, and each one shares something that makes them unique. Enjoy hearing about Lizzie's mom's hospitality tips, her brother's paranormal encounters, and her sister's life as a rom com character.
You can find the Wikipedia page on Street Lamp Interference here.
You can find a link to Lizzie's brother's musical project, Blurr Witch, on Spotify here.
Merry Christmas week to those who celebrate! In this episode, Grace and Lizzie discuss listener-submitted holiday traditions--especially those that are unique and unusual.
We wish all of our listeners very happy holidays.
Here is a link to the Nick Offerman whiskey and fireplace video.
Lizzie's best friend Anna is visiting this week! Lizzie, Grace, and Anna all went to the same college, and they share some stories from their college days and give advice on making the college experience work for you - especially if you are on a campus where it doesn't feel like you fit in.
Here is a link to the "I'll do whatever it takes to be an alpha chi" video.
Only a few more weeks left this year! Grace and Lizzie talk about what they're looking forward to for the rest of 2021, update the houseguests on some recent happenings, and Grace shares some thoughts on Santa.
In true Under Our Roof Fashion, there are some audio issues around the 20:45-21:20 minute mark. Bear with us, and just pretend you're on an old timey radio show.
Here's a link to last year's episode all about our holiday traditions.
Here's a link to the Discord (Discord links expire after a certain amount of time, but you can email underourroofpod@gmail.com if you are looking for the link later).
Here's a link to Christina Aguilera's new music video for her song Pa' Mis Muchahas.
Happy (belated) Thanksgiving from Under Our Roof! This episode is the podcast version of a big cozy round-table with Grace's family in Kentucky. We get some words from podcast favorite, Grace's mom, and introduce a few new Baldridge characters. Enjoy!
Happy Thanksgiving from Under Our Roof! In this cozy, chatty episode Grace and Lizzie give a bit of a life update and share a fun road trip game that is something of a tradition to them. Apologies to Big Bird.
In (maybe?) the first episode ever recorded NOT "under our roof," Grace and Lizzie share stories from Grace's West Coast tour thus far. Tune in for very on-brand queer chaos.
(We recorded this episode away from our usual setup at home, so please bear with us through a couple of audio issues).
Grace and Lizzie went live on TikTok and recorded a podcast! In this episode, they answer questions from the TikTok community, on everything to favorite parts of Late Bloomer to goal setting to thoughts on marshmallow peeps to whether Lizzie can drive.
Here's a link to a photo of Gibby from iCarly (IYKYK).
For the second year in a row, Grace and Lizzie are sharing some spooky stories to get you in the mood for Hallo-week. Enjoy & get cozy with these listener-submitted ghost stories and unexplained occurrences.
Here's a link to the episode of Criminal mentioned in this episode.
Grace and Lizzie share all about Grace's forthcoming EP, LATE BLOOMER, out October 22. In this episode, they listen through the new songs and discuss the behind the scenes of making this record.
Link to pre-save LATE BLOOMER
Link to Jax Anderson's music
Grace and Lizzie share all about their favorite Fall traditions, and Lizzie reveals that she is part of The Village Fandom.
Here's a link to pre-save the upcoming Semler EP, Late Bloomer!
Here is how to make Lizzie's crockpot apple cider:
-quarter 5-10 apples (depending on the size of your crockpot) and cut out the seeds--a mix of green, red, pink, and yellow is best
-add them to the crockpot and fill the remaining space with water
-add in 3-5 cinnamon sticks and a small handful of whole cloves and whole allspice
-cook on low for 8-10 hours
-about halfway through the cooking time, roughly mash up the soft apples in the crockpot to release more flavor
-strain through a mesh strainer into a jar or large container
-store in the fridge and enjoy!
Grace and Lizzie have a fireside chat about creativity and some recent events involving Switchfoot and LuLaRoe.
In three places, the audio of this episode is garbled. Please accept our apologies and know that it doesn't last long.
Here are links to the Switchfoot TikTok saga: Grace's initial video, the vlog of the concert, Switchfoot's response, and Grace's response to Switchfoot.
As a wise poet once said: "Everybody has those days. Everybody knows what, what I'm talkin 'bout. Everybody gets that way."
Grace and Lizzie share their tips on how to have a better day and read listeners' suggestions and favorite creature comforts.
As promised, here is a link to the Spotify page for Sleeping At Last, and the Spotify page for Sleeping With Sirens.
Hope you have a great day!
It's a surprise QUEERY LETTER episode! Grace and Lizzie dig deep into the Under Our Roof inbox and read listener questions submitted over the past few weeks. Topics include long-distance crushes, tips for keeping a tidy space, falling in love with a friend, coming out to a lukewarm parent, and dating dealbreakers.
You can find the step-by-step guide to butterfly kisses here.
This is not a drill. It's THE SALAD EPISODE!!!
In this much-requested episode, Grace and Lizzie try making different types of church potluck, 1970's midwestern-style "salads," and share their opinions on the results.
You can find a blog post accompanying this episode (with pictures) here.
If you just want the recipes:
Snickers Salad
Pea 'n' Peanut Salad
Lizzie's favorite coleslaw
ORANGE FLUFF SALAD
8 oz frozen whipped topping, thawed
3 oz package orange gelatin mix, just the powder
16 oz of 4% fat cottage cheese, small or large curd will work
14 oz can mandarin oranges, drained
1 cup mini marshmallows
Combine the thawed whipped topping and orange gelatin powder together in a large bowl and stir until combined.
Add in the cottage cheese, mandarin oranges and mini marshmallows and gently fold in until mixture is combined.
Enjoy right away or chill covered in the fridge until ready to serve.
Meet Laura, one of Grace's best friends from Belgium! In this episode, Laura shares what it was like growing up in an ex-pat family overseas--and growing up in high school with Grace. This episode features some extra special musical references and Lizzie's scratchy smoke voice.
Grace and Lizzie give their spicy takes on things they think are both over and under-rated.
Grace and Lizzie take a temperature check on listeners: salty or sweet? Beach or mountains? Trip to outer space or the deep sea??
Listen in to hear some controversial opinions on those and many more topics ... plus a few fun digressions.
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As a nod to their wedding anniversary this month, Grace and Lizzie share all about their wedding day three years ago. Listen in for recommendations, favorite memories and things they'd do differently, queer wedding planning advice, and thoughts on changing your last name. Also, weigh in on whether Under Our Roof should do an episode all about salads (??).
Click here for a link to Lizzie's wedding blog series, which includes links to all wedding vendors discussed, etc.
Grace and Lizzie catch up on the last, weird, couple of weeks. This is an episode of highs and lows, just like life lately!
This week's episode is a bit of a "State of the Union" update on what's been going on Under Our Roof. There are a few tears shed, but we're hanging in there. We love y'all!
This week, Under Our Roof listeners are dealing with breakups! Moves to new cities! Long-distance love! Deciding whether to start relationships! Wanting to stay physically and mentally well! And much more. Grace and Lizzie are here to help.
Happy July! Pride Month might be over, but things are still VERY gay here Under Our Roof. In this episode, Grace and Lizzie have fun analyzing some common gay stereotypes.
In a couple of places, the audio gets fuzzy--please bear with us, as it only lasts a few seconds!
Here's a link to the 1993 Washington Post article about lesbian stereotypes that Grace and Lizzie discuss.
Here's a link to the stereotype quiz they take, and also a link to the Her App blog post about stereotype analysis.
It's shot girl summer! Grace and Lizzie talk about the high points, what they're looking forward to, and the low points (aka the rose, bud, and thorn) of reentering the social world post-Covid.
Also, in case you were wondering, the Elizabeth Holmes documentary is in fact titled "The Inventor: Out for Blood in Silicon Valley." You can watch it on HBO here.
As queer people, our timelines to life, family, etc. often look different and that is okay--in fact, it's one of our many gifts. In this episode, Grace and Lizzie break down this concept and share some of their own stories of time travel.
Here's a link to a Pinterest board of Bo Bice. IYKYK.
And here is a link to our recent favorite TikTok account, @jellybean.celine!
In this chatty, cozy episode, Grace talks about genderqueer style (including some tips and tricks), and Lizzie shares all about her seasonal bucket lists. Grace and Lizzie also do a mini-queer-content update.
Here's a link to Grace's favorite t-shirts.
And a link to Haute Butch for formal wear.
Grace and Lizzie have a literal houseguest this week--and it's Grace's wonderful mom, Isabel! Isabel answers listener questions, including what she'd say to non-affirming parents, and what Grace was like as a little kid.
June is Pride Month! Grace and Lizzie share what Pride means to them, and Grace gives a short history lesson on the origins of Pride celebrations in the United States. This episode also touches on the topic of rainbow capitalism. Happy Pride!
Links to the articles Grace cites:
https://www.newsweek.com/before-stonewall-riots-1445365
https://www.them.us/story/the-complete-history-of-pride
https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2021/05/nyc-pride-reverses-ban-uniformed-cops-parade-reverse-reversal-hours-later/
In this episode, Grace and Lizzie share your best "GAY PANIC" stories! Listen in to hear about the knee brushes, shoe store encounters, and costume zip-up situations that make gays sweat. Grace and Lizzie also tell some of their own experiences of this phenomenon.
Grace and Lizzie are ~making the move~ to talk about living together. This episode covers timelines for moving in, tips on sharing a space (whether with a roommate or partner), and the best and hardest parts about going from separate living spaces to a shared one.
What did you want to be when you grew up? Grace and Lizzie talk about their childhood dreams, including how they imagined their life as a queer person when they were younger. Tune in for a pep talk from Grace about making those dreams come true even if it feels like it's too late.
This episode of Under Our Roof is all about the KITCHEN! Grace and Lizzie talk about their philosophies for eating at home, well-worn routines, and favorite recipes and kitchen hacks.
Links to some of the things mentioned in this episode:
Home Cooking podcast
New York Times Cooking
Best crispy baked tofu recipe
Martha Stewart Cole Slaw
Two Peas and Their Pod blog
Pinch of Yum blog
Gimme Some Oven blog
Half Baked Harvest blog
Grace and Lizzie break down their views on religious deconstruction and share a bit of their own stories.
Here is a link to the thread of Barbra Streisand's accomplishments.
And here is a link to the Middle Church sermon on the story of Joseph/Josephine.
True to the mission statement of Under Our Roof, this episode is ALL about the conversations Grace and Lizzie are having at home. They cover everything from RuPaul's Drag Race, to Taylor Swift song lyrics, to (unfortunately) the four hours of chaos that was the Jake Paul fight last weekend.
Here's a link to the Vice article discussed in the episode.
In this much-requested episode, Grace and Lizzie do a deeper dive on their respective gender journeys and offer some words of advice and encouragement.
Here's a link to the New York Times article Grace quotes from.
And here's a link to gc2b binders.
Grace and Lizzie are back with another installment of Queer Content For Your Consideration! In this episode, they give a wide-ranging round of recommendations and talk about some current "controversies"--from Montero (Call Me By Your Name) to the Christian Netflix movie A Week Away.
In this cozy, chatty episode, Grace and Lizzie divulge a few of their guilty-pleasure obsessions. Long live Reba McEntire!
Grace and Lizzie share their best advice for motivation and getting started on tough projects. They also get silly and talk about some hot takes and a general catch-up.
Grace and Lizzie open up and answer a huge range of listener questions, from would-you-rathers to future baby plans to queer theology.
Links to queer faith-based resources: God is Grey on YouTube, Queerology, Believr App, Kevin Garcia, and Beloved Arise.
Episode production, editing, and original music by Grace.
This episode is a Magic School Bus ride through some of Grace and Lizzie's favorite travel memories. After almost a year of travel restrictions and lockdowns, they're also letting themselves dream about future travel plans.
Here are links to some of Lizzie's blog posts about past travel:
New Orleans
Honeymooning in Hawaii
Our most recent Belgium trip
Episode production, music, and editing by Grace.
Happy March! Our lives have now been affected by Covid for almost a whole year. Under Our Roof was born in quarantine, and today we'll talk about our other habits and hobbies over the past year - including some that we've never shared before.
Here's a link to our favorite way of making ramen.
Here's a link to Lizzie's blog.
Episode music, production, and editing by Grace.
Grace and Lizzie read your CRUSH REVEAL stories: these are juicy, fun, funny, and romantic. They also share some of their own stories and tips!
Here's a link to the Semler Discord (which includes an Under Our Roof channel).
Here's a link to Texas mutual aid/resources.
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This is a goodie-bag of an episode, where Grace and Lizzie update you on the latest with Preacher's Kid, give their best tips for making life at home a little bit sweeter, and answer a Queery Letter.
Here's a link to the video I used to make our blanket fort.
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It's finally here - our Valentine's gift to you, our Houseguests. In this episode you can hear us read the profiles of other podcast listeners who are looking to connect. Thank you to everyone who wrote in and submitted a matchmaking profile. Even if you didn't, please feel free to contact us at underourroofpod@gmail.com throughout the month of February if you'd like the link to the spreadsheet with the contact info for our eligible contenders (both romantic and platonic).
You're all one in a million.
Lots of Love, Grace & Lizzie
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Happy February! To kick off the ~month of love~ Grace and Lizzie talk about growing together as a couple over the past eight years and take some funny relationship quizzes.
Here's a link to the Buzzfeed quiz and the Marriage.com quiz.
Pre-save Grace's upcoming EP, Preacher's Kid, here!
If you would like to submit an episode suggestion - or a question to be answered on a future episode - please email us at underourroofpod@gmail.com.
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We asked, you answered, and now we're making it happen. Please listen to this special bonus episode for all the details on how to be part of our matchmaking scheme (both platonic and romantic). If you'd like to be part of it, please send your name/about you/preferred contact to underourroofpod@gmail.com.
That's underourroofpod@gmail.com!
We'll be sharing the profiles, hyping you up, and officially kicking this off on February 8.
In this cozy catch-up episode, Grace and Lizzie talk about some current events and then have a chat about comparison.
Pre-save Grace's upcoming EP, Preacher's Kid, here!
If you would like to submit a question to be answered on a future episode, please email us at underourroofpod@gmail.com.
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This very special episode of Under Our Roof welcomes the first ever podcast guest, Daron Dean! Daron is a model and actress, recent nursing school graduate, and one of Grace's best friends for over a decade. Daron joins the pod to talk about lasting friendships, starting a joint venture with a friend, and cheering each other on through life.
You can find Daron on Instagram.
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We're back for another episode of answering your Queery Letters! Grace and Lizzie answer your questions about supporting your partner with conservative/evangelical parents, how to turn a friendship into romance, and etiquette for sliding into DMs.
If you would like to submit a question to be answered on a future episode, please email us at underourroofpod@gmail.com
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Happy New Year! In this episode, Grace and Lizzie talk about their hopes for 2021 and some recent queer content they've watched at home: The Wilds, Ammonite, and Basic Instinct.
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In a fitting last episode of 2020, Grace and Lizzie share their thoughts on TikTok and discuss your comments about what the app has taught you this year.
Links to TikTok accounts mentioned in this episode:
Rev. Brandon, Tabitha Brown, Reya Sunshine, rynnstar, Nabela, Mommy Farmer, and The Woodmother.
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In this very special episode, Grace and Lizzie share all about their adopted pups, Casper, Willie Nelson, and Jellybean "Bean" Baldridge. They also discuss some tips and philosophies about adding dogs into your family.
From our quiz on today's show, here's a link to the random foods that are supposed to be good for dogs, and bad for dogs.
And here are three blog posts Lizzie wrote:
One about the life (and death) of Casper,
One about adopting Willie,
And one about adopting Bean. Enjoy!
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In this extra-cozy episode, Grace and Lizzie share some of their favorite holiday traditions and talk about simple ways to make this time of year special.
Here's the Christmas sugar cookie recipe Lizzie's family has been making for years.
Here's the homemade Chex Mix recipe Lizzie uses.
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In this episode, Grace and Lizzie talk about what it was like growing up in their respective hometowns (Waterloo, Belgium, and Raleigh, NC), and they also share some listener stories.
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Grace and Lizzie dated long distance for three years at the beginning of their relationship, and in this episode they discuss their thoughts and advice on LDRs.
Here's a link to longdistancerelationshipstatistics.com.
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In this episode, Grace and Lizzie share some unsolicited hot takes and potentially unpopular opinions as part of a trend called "No Nuance November."
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Grace and Lizzie discuss coming out and share their best advice - plus, an honest discussion about gender and pronouns.
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In this episode, Grace and Lizzie tackle the question of whether faith leaders and organizations can be publicly silent, but privately affirming of LGBTQ+ people.
In this special edition of Under Our Roof, Grace and Lizzie bring back Grace's old talk show, Murder With Friends. The topic is the 2005 disappearance of Natalee Holloway.
Link to Vanity Fair Article about Natalee Holloway and the "Missing White Woman" syndrome.
Link to E! Online Article compiling all the false leads in the Natalee Holloway case.
Link to article about other women who went missing around the same time as Natalee.
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Happy Halloween! Grace and Lizzie talk about their favorite traditions and then try to scare each other with spooky stories.
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In this episode, Grace and Lizzie talk about living in Los Angeles as creatives (of different sorts).
Pumpkin Snickerdoodle Cookies
Korean Chicken Bowls with Sweet Potatoes and Yum Yum Sauce
New York Times Article on Metro Areas with Largest and Smallest Gay Populations
Links to some of Grace and Lizzie's creative projects: Grace's documentary show State of Grace; Grace's musical project, Semler; Lizzie's blog Have Dog, Will Drive.
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In part three of a three-episode special release for the launch of Under Our Roof, hosts Grace and Lizzie give advice on anonymously-submitted topics.
Here's a link to the recipe for Butternut Squash Pasta Carbonara with Rosemary Bacon that Lizzie recently made.
Here are some links for finding more resources on queer-affirming faith:
God and the Gay Christian by Matthew Vines
God is Grey on YouTube
Church Clarity
Queer Theology on Instagram
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In part one of a three-episode special release for the launch of Under Our Roof, hosts Grace and Lizzie introduce themselves and preview what they'll be talking about in upcoming episodes.
Links to some of the things discussed in this episode: Grace's documentary show State of Grace; Grace's musical project, Semler; Grace's past project Murder with Friends; and Lizzie's blog Have Dog, Will Drive.
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In part two of a three-episode special release for the launch of Under Our Roof, hosts Grace and Lizzie talk about how they met, their enneagram types, star signs, birth order, and other fun get-to-know-you topics.
Here's a link to an enneagram test, if you're curious to know yours.
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