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Colour and Style hints and tips, from globally award-winning image consultant Imogen Lamport who shares her encyclopaedic knowledge of all things personal style, answers your style and colour questions and wants to help you get up, get dressed, and get out the door looking and feeling fabulous every single day.
If you could grant one wish, I wish you could find clothes to fit my shape or magically make 50lbs disappear.The problem is my friendship group favours very relaxed casual dressing styles and so I often feel slightly overdressed at catch ups.As a classic style person I struggle with looking put together when we have 3-4 months of high ninety and low one hundred degree temperatures in Texas.
I have too many clothes, and I love them all. I need to donate more and can’t seem to cull them out.I do not know my style other than comfortable. I feel I dress boring. I do not like fussy clothes.My biggest challenge is finding outfits that look good on me.
I would like to be able to mix & match my clothes.How to put together a capsule wardrobe with all these bright colors.I hate my hair color dye job. help.
I would love to wear pants with belts or tuck in my tops but the pouch I carry makes me feel very self conscious.I struggle with looking put together when we have 3-4 months of high ninety and low one hundred degree temperatures in Texas.Friendship group favours very relaxed casual dressing styles and so I often feel slightly overdressed at catch ups.
In This Episode 0.12 I am tallish (5ft 8in) and not slender (UK size 16), and I like clothes. I can describe the kind I want – but they don’t exist. Right now, I’d like a replacement for a 20 year old unlined slouchy blazer In a greeny grey (or greyish green) that goes with…
In This Video 0.08 How do I make my acne look less obvious? Your Skin is a Public Experience What You Must Know About Choosing Prints for Patterned Skin Your Skin is a Public Experience Want to Avoid Getting Wrinkles? You Need a Sun Smart Strategy 2.36 How do I look modern without wearing black,…
In This Episode 0:10 I would like to understand my colouring now that my hair has turned grey How to Adjust Your Wardrobe for Your New Grey? How to Adjust Your Wardrobe for Your New Grey? Why I Decided to Embrace My Grey Hair and Become a Silver Foxette How to Mix and Match Greys…
In This Episode 0.08 Want to dress age appropriate but many woman my age dress frumpy or 10 years older. I’m 63. Many women my age don’t care how they look. How do I know if I’m dressing my age? Age Appropriate Dressing What are Age Appropriate Clothes and Colours and How to Find Them?…
In This Video 0:08 love a relaxed and natural style but most of the time it feels boring on me. I need to find the special tick to my outfits How to Embrace Your Unique Relaxed Style Colour Personality – 2. Natural – Relaxed/Casual Relaxed Style Elevated: How to Look Stylish Without Sacrificing Comfort How…
In This Episode 0:13 I have trouble giving myself permission to purchase more expensive items that in the long run I will love and use more than the cheap stuff – how can I overcome this? Discovering What Works for You The Secret to Effortless Style: Discovering What Works for You What’s Holding Back Your…
In This Episode 0:06 I struggle knowing how to mix colours and patterns – what tips do you have? Mix Colours and Prints Which Patterns Easily Mix With Anything? Struggling with Mixed-Colour Patterns? Here’s How to Choose Right Ones for Your Colour Palette Colour Coordination: A Guide to Harmonious Outfits 6:48 How do I…
In This Episode 0.08 Finding the new confidence to wear what I like and feel right wearing and not to try tone it down so I just blend in – how do I create interesting outfits and not keep wearing the same things together? Where Does Confidence in Appearance Come From? How Your Clothes Impact…
In This Video 0.08 My weight. I am 30 kilos overweight and even under Drs and nutritionists and gyms, nothing changes. Clothes just don’t look good. Body Image and Your Style 11 Ways to Improve Your Body Image, Self-Acceptance and Your Style The Myth of the ‘Ideal Weight’: Don’t Wait to Look Stylish What’s…
In this Episode Do you have a non-model body that means finding clothes to fit and flatter is hard? You’re not alone. 0:10 I am basically underweight by 10 pounds so I have extremely skinny legs and a type 2 diabetic belly that’s always bloated, I struggle figuring out what to wear 2:13 My height…
In this Episode 0:08 when I wear casual clothes I look like I’m not trying – I want to look more put together 3:28 I need to revamp my style post double mastectomy. So my body has completely changed shape. I’m also 63 and moving into a new season of my life and need to…
In this Episode 0:08 I struggle with smart casual dressing and I want to have more confidence and feel good. 5:18 I find prints tricky, I’m not sure about finding my preferred shapes and colours when current trends don’t reflect them. My daughter says I should just wear solid colours and neutrals, but I like…
In this Video 0:08 I’d love some help with getting my wardrobe more organised and stop buying clothes that don’t suit me – I tend to admire certain styles on others but they don’t feel like me – what’s the solution? 4:04 How can I get ready in under 15 minutes per day and…
In This Episode 0.07 My challenge is finding the right colours for my summer wardrobe when they aren’t current fashions 2.34 How do I incorporate my essence by John Kitchener into my style relating to my 8 shape body? When I do personality quizzes I get more Classic than what I got with Kitchener which…
In This Episode 0.08 – The thing that holds me back from working on my style is time! Five years of being a full-time caregiver have just ended and I am trying to put my life back together. By necessity, I fell into lots of bad personal care habits and now I would like to…
In This Episode 0.11 I have lost my confidence after retiring, I used to dress up everyday. I’m now trying to find correct clothes for a petite in height O shape body for my retired lifestyle. What to Wear When You’re Retired How Your Wardrobe Changes as You Age: Adapting Style to Life Stages…
In This Episode 0:11 I struggle with finding colours and styles to suit. I know a few things that suit me, e.g. scoop necklines and dresses just above the knee, but it’s more working out how to dress my apple shape and sway back. Colour Analysis Busted! 7 Myths About Personal Colour Analysis Holding…
In This Episode 0.08 The biggest style issue I have is layering in winter. I live in an area that has extremes in temperature with hot, dry summers. Winters are cold and dry. Summer dressing is easy – lots of frocks, sandals and a light cardi. Winter has to be about the layers as…
I am tall and finding clothes to fit me is very difficult. Any tips?Any going out in the evening winter outfit formula that works for you?How do I resist going back to an old lady style?
I have two challenges which maybe are related, the major one is not being experimental enough with my existing huge collection and then I’m also unable to stop buying more!My main issue is that I love classic styles, but have trouble keeping them from looking frumpy - aka, styling them in new and fresh ways.I am tall and finding clothes to fit me is very difficult.
The problem I am facing right now is what colors to wear.I want to know which cuts work for me.I guess my main problem with my wardrobe is that I don't have a lot of clothes, and I don't like the style of some of them.
My question is would you be able to shed some light on why I can never style my wide leg grey trousers in a way that I feel comfortable in them.I want to know how to mix patterns so I don’t look like a clownI struggle with my hair, it seems to have a life of its own and won’t do what I want it to do
In This Episode 0.08: How do I get the right outfit that matches my color? How to Match Your Outfit with Your Colour Swatch Colour Coordination: A Guide to Harmonious Outfits 5 Colour Concept Essentials You Need to Understand To Create Harmonious Outfits How to Use a Colour Swatch When Shopping and Match Colours…
In This Episode 0:13 How do I know when and how to bend style rules while staying true to myself? How to Break Your Style Rules My Style Philosophy – Rules are Made to Be Broken How to Break Your Style Rules Like a Pro What’s Holding Back Your Style? 6:44 How do I…
In This Episode 0.10 How do I determine the undertone of colours that go with my cool summer analysis? How to Identify the Undertone of Colours The Intricacies of Colour Overtone and Undertone: A Guide to Understanding and Application How to Discover Neutrals with the Right Undertone For You How to Identify the Undertone…
In This Episode 0.13 How do I look more put together without looking uptight? How to Put Together Outfits Is There a Process for Putting Stylish Outfits Together? How to Put Together Outfits with Confidence Tips on How to Cultivate Your Style 3.07 How can I quickly add style to my outfits, when I feel…
In This Episode 0.10 I struggle with Coordinating different pieces and getting new pieces to work well with others. I tend to buy all the bold statement pieces and end up with a big mix of those instead of being able to build outfits effectively. How to Mix and Match How to Combine Clothes and…
In This Episode 0.10 My biggest challenge right now is finding clothes that fit right, are flattering, and that I can afford. My size makes me want to hide my figure, but I can’t help but think that there has to be clothes out there that would look decent if I just knew how…
My biggest challenge would be: finding clothes in my color palette.I found it difficult to know what to wear once I left the work force and became a Mom.I’d like to be considered stylish even if it’s a relaxed look outfit.
My biggest challenge is selecting solid colors that work well together. Do you have any tips for dark brown/slightly auburn hair has gone silver?My hair has gone white grey and I still have a warm complexion and I’m not sure which colours work for me anymore?
My challenge is distinguishing between my Style and Lifestyle.I'm very frustrated and have been for years trying to figure out my colors.The style issue I have is that I love long flowy skirts and feminine clothing I’m always drawn to them.
I think my biggest challenge is making my wardrobe work until I'm able to replace those pieces that don't suit my body shape.One of my biggest challenges is finding quality fabrics.I have always put comfort over style.
So many sub seasons and different colour systems that it gets really confusing.I’m short x shape with very short waist I retired recent and want more creative style.I struggle with casual chic; as I’m trying to adapt to retirement in the US southwest when my style and all time favorite outfits were NYC heels, hose, and suit.
I’d love to have a minimalist wardrobe but where everything works together – what’s the best way of achieving this?How can I look taller? I’d love to gain some height!How can I find clothes that are fun but also very comfortable?
I’ve got Broad hips which I’d like to camouflage so am always aware of what I’m wearing . How to wear my top? I do not like tucked in all around. I’m shy and would like to improve my style but I’m gaining weight and am so used to wearing sports clothing/athleisure that I worry about people noticing me.How do I create an overall cohesive look for example choosing ...proper accessories to match the 'feel' of a look. For example what handbag styles go with casual vs dressy
I need help to figure out what jeans look good on me!Can you please Help me overcome my style insecurities? I struggle as Most clothing styles don’t fit my body type.
In This Episode 0:14 How to choose neutrals other than black even though it doesn’t suit my personality and I find it harsh. I find it hard to find greys that go together as there are so many different shades. What are some smart solutions for combining neutrals? Wear Your Best Neutrals How do…
In This Episode 0.10 I took the personality test and received the relaxed style answer. I would not wear most of what is shown in that style, not would I wear most of those colors. I am perplexed. Please help. Relaxed Dressing Style How to Use Your Personality to Create Stylish Outfits When You…
What is a good Guide for pairing shoes and handbags with an outfit.How can I incorporate color into my wardrobe without overwhelming my look?What to wear in Summer?
How to pick the warm/cool palette when patterns have a mix of both warm and cool colours (eg. Blue and orange, blue and yellow).I struggle with choosing shoes -what shoes to wear with what!! That's a hard one for me, I just want warm comfy feet!I have so many clothes and do not know what really suits me.
I struggle with styling my clothes into outfits where I feel confident for any situationHow to go medium low contrast for winter with dark trousers when you are cool light and mutedI'm afraid of people judging my style
I seem to have a full wardrobe but nothing matches. I have no plan when doing shoppingMy biggest challenge is a lack of time and although I have managed to have a big edit in my wardrobe of late, I really struggle to know how to put outfits together that work naturally.I struggle with simplifying my wardrobe. I know what I look good in, but I want to look good in other styles so I buy them and never wear them because they don't fit my lifestyle.
I struggle with my mid-section. I believe I'm an 8 shape. I'm lean with an hourglass shape with a slightly wider high hip. I'm always trying to hide my tummy and I'm sure of how to look long and lean.My main problem is that I hide my femininity.My biggest challenge right now is this: I have had a rapid weight gain with hormonal and adrenal disruption (hello menopause and stress). My body is different. Nothing fits. I’m not sure if this is temporary or my new body.
In This Episode 0.08 I love ALL colors, but having too many clothes in my closet is overwhelming and then I don’t even go in, how do I create outfit formulas using colour palettes? Understanding Colour Properties and Putting Outfits Together Understanding Colour Properties 11 Real Life Examples of Dressing to Your Contrast 5…
In This Video 0.08: Can you help me to find the courage to wear stylish clothes when it hasn’t been my look? How to Wear Stylish Clothes How to Build Your Style Muscles and Become More Stylish How to Create a Stylish Outfit? What Are Your Criteria that Makes it Great? Master the Art…
In This Episode 0.08: My biggest wardrobe challenge would be, living on the road with two suitcases and being comfortable during season change. Seasonal Wardrobe How to Edit Your Wardrobe for the New Season in 5 Easy Steps How to Layer with Style How To Layer a Third Piece Over Your Longer Tops 5.03…
In This Episode 0.08 My biggest challenge is trying to pick clothes or trying to go through the ones in my closet trying to understand what clothing I like myself rather than feeling like I should dress in a certain way for someone else, or approval from other people. I feel like the way…
In This Episode 0.07 My biggest challenge with my style is my job, I’m a kindergarten teacher so I tend to have an uninteresting casual work wardrobe (jeans, cropped pants, merino trackies (winter) and dresses (summer) because I don’t want to spend too much money on items that could easily be ruined by in…
In This Episode 0.10 I wanna ask about the effect of Ruching/ Gathering and Draping. – Are they curved lines and do they add volume and curves to our body? Why do you recommend ruching/ gathering and draping top to hide big belly? How can those details make tummy area smaller? – What are…
In This Episode 0.08 My biggest challenge is my weight. I keep thinking/hoping/praying I’ll lose it. Meanwhile, I put off buying new clothes that work on the body I have now. I’ve never been a big shopper, even when I wore a size 8/9. I’m an 18/20 now & have been for over 25 years.…
Since what you wear communicates non-verbally a lot about you - from your values to your personality and beliefs, and because the science of enclothed cognition has found that what you wear impacts how you feel on the inside and behave on the outside.
There are lots of different AI apps appearing these days that will do a colour analysis or shops using AI to tell you what suits your body and what to buy, but there is so much more to these skills than AI currently can do which is why they don't always work as well as advertised.
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0:08 Since I've retired I haven't needed to "dress up" much, thoough I've been trying to wear makeup and nice clothes but I don’t like wearing accessories like jewelry, scarves, belts and . It would also be nice to wear heels, but my ankles flop. I thought I might try a platform shoe – any other suggestions for finding a retirements style? Adding Interest to Your Outfit https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2023/07/how-to-look-stylish-yet-be-comfortable-practical-attractive-and-interesting.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/05/accessorizing-basic-outfit.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2023/07/finding-your-sense-of-style-rediscovering-and-refining-your-fashion-identity.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/07/your-ultimate-flat-shoe-wardrobe-and-where-to-find-those-elusive-perfect-shoes.html
4:41 How do I hide a single mastectomy as it’s new to me? How to Look Stylish Yet Comfortable https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2014/02/how-to-look-stylish-yet-be-super-comfortable.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/10/what-are-mental-and-emotional-comfort-with-regards-to-personal-style.html
8:52 My biggest style challenge? I spend most of my life in a casual, sometimes seriously outdoor-active environment, both working and for leisure. Part of my outdoor work requires me to wear a uniform. Casual and Active Dressing Ideas https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/09/how-to-make-a-classic-garment-suit-a-casual-lifestyle.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2010/08/how-to-do-smart-casual-in-a-hot-climate.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/09/choosing-activewear-tops-for-your-body-shape.html If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your Colours If you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style. Subscribe to my Podcast You can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episode
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Question: for the last 20 years (since retirement) I have attended a theatrical production several times a week and i wore long flowing dresses, hat and heels. now due to age and tripping, I am restricted to runners and pants. I’m very petite with long torso, a bit of a belly, and very short legs. What suggestions do you have for generating a new ‘signature style'
I’m struggling with my style now that I’m Older have gotten overweight and find, physical shopping difficultI struggle with summer dressing with layers I’ve started to accept that buying a larger size will be more comfortable and even more flattering, but it’s depressing
I’d love you to teach me to combine my style ideas.I compare myself too much to others and am tempted to follow trendsHow can I know what pieces go together
In This Episode 0.08 How do I create more interest and excitement in my outfits?Watch my Outfit Masterclass for tips on adding the right kind of excitement and interest for you.Tips on Creating Outfitshttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/11/how-to-take-the-extra-step-to-complete-and-upgrade-your-outfits.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/08/the-value-of-having-go-to-outfits.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/12/how-to-include-more-interest-and-unique-colour-combinations-in-your-outfits.html3.23 My biggest style challenge is dressing for my apple shape--specifically for tops that don't emphasize my muffin top and yet don't look like maternity tops. Additionally, I am petite with narrow shoulders and shorter arms. Regular sizing rarely works for me, and petites are getting harder to find in the US. Even petite tops seem to be getting longer and longer, and I'm not a fan of tunics! I would consider myself a "classic" dresser and am print phobic, except perhaps for stripes.Petite Dressing Stylehttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/06/the-best-clothing-alterations-based-on-your-body-shape-2.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2008/09/10-tips-for-the-voluptuous-petite-woman.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/08/5-outfit-ideas-to-flatter-your-o-shape-body.html8.46 I find I’m always wearing the same items – how can I get out of my style rut?Join Evolve Your Style designed to get you out of that style rut.What to Do When You’re Stuck in a Style Ruthttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/08/are-you-in-a-style-rut.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/11/shop-your-wardrobe-and-get-out-of-your-style-rut.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2011/11/style-is-a-journey-not-a-destination-7-ways-to-define-your-style.htmlIf You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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In This EpisodeI recently got this question from an Inside Out Style reader:I struggle with not knowing how to combine clothes harmoniously and interestinglyAnd I thought - you're not the only one - and it's because knowing your body shape doesn't tell you how to do this (and that's what most people think they need to know to become stylish). Instead, there is so much more to this question and struggle to unpack. You need a style recipeYou need to know how to create harmony in design and coloursYou need to know what is interesting to you in clothing and outfits - what's your interpretation?You need to understand your personality and how you want to align your style to express it so it feels authentic and the best version of you.Following other people's "must have" lists or "outfit formulas" just doesn't cut it and will never make you feel like you're stylish in a genuine way.Get your Style EducationInstead, you need to become educated about your style, and this includes how your personality influences every single style choice you make. You need to understand your values and how they impact your style too. There is so much to style, and you were never taught it at school or through fashion magazines which is why I developed my 7 Steps to Style program as it's designed to lead you through my tried-and-tested process so that you can define your own personal style and learn how to create your own stylish outfits that are harmonious and feel interesting to you.Come and join me and let me help you find your style!If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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In This EpisodeCancer, a Mastectomy and Weight Gain0.08 Right now I’m struggling with my style I’m having chemo and then breast surgery- so thin and straw-like hair, weight gain from chemo and a future flat chest are taking over my style at present and I lack energy – any tips?https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/08/8-tips-on-what-to-wear-when-you-have-a-flat-chest.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2011/03/how-to-tie-head-scarves.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/08/the-value-of-having-go-to-outfits.htmlBody Changes That Make Shopping Hard and the Mum Style Rut3.26 I'm turning 40 this year (though I still feel 30 honestly!), I have an 18 month old baby and I just feel like my style is in a huge, Mum-rut.Since dropping my breastfeeding down to once a day, I noticed the weight start to creep on around my tummy (and I've always been a naturally thin person) - so if I try to wear any of my dresses, I almost look like I could be pregnant again. I feel yuk when I look in the mirror, and I'm sick of always wearing jeans and a t-shirt.Biggest challenge is finding clothes I a) like in shops that b) suit my age and figure. Clothes are either super skimpy or loose-fitting which only makes me look bigger than I am.I have a classic hourglass shape, with hips and a bum (and now a little pouch in the front) - so even the clothes I think I like on the model or mannequin - hardly ever suit my shape.I feel like this makes me super fussy when it comes to clothes, because I never feel comfortable. https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/02/shopping-strategies.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/05/strategies-successful-clothes-shopping.htmlPlus Size Pear and Adding White10.34 I struggle with being a plus size pear, who appears to be more like an apple. My profile is my biggest challenge. On profile my skinny legs just accentuate the fullness of my torso, so I've thrown away skinnies, tapered pants, straight leg pants and joggers. I have also thrown away leggings and skirts above or at the knee in order to create a softer contrast between these two areas.I also miss wearing white tops, especially in winter. Wearing a scarf simply adds bulk to my profile. Aside from waistcoats and jackets, is there any thing else I can do to reintroduce a little white?https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2015/04/body-shape-bible-understanding-how-to-dress-a-shape-bodies.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/01/principle-of-volume-body-shapes.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2018/12/body-shape-change-with-age.htmlBecome the Discerning Empowered Shopper You Want to BeGet your style fundamentals sorted so you can shop with discernment and ease watch my free Masterclass: How to Confidently Select Clothes That Feel FlatteringThis masterclass will show you all the common mistakes you're making when shopping (and they are NOT your fault) so that you can become better at shopping and only bring home what really works for you so you adore your wardrobe.If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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In This Episode0.08 When does your body shape change from one to another? What’s the turning point from an 8 shape to H shape? I think this is happening to me: I've always had a body shape 8 and quite a bust, but now at 54, I have more weight and tummy, and my natural waist is the same as my underbust (I have read your articles on the waist). I see my defined waist, but with my clothes on it is hardly noticeable. Tips for body 8 mark the waist, but those for body H avoid it. I experiment with clothes. Is there anything else I can do?4.16 I have recently gained some menopausal weight. Since I have always been very skinny, this is a challenge for me because I now have lost my style and do not know how to dress anymore.9.47 I just don’t know how to transfer my style into something that fits and flatters my body.How Your Body Shape May Change with Age and Weight Gainhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2018/12/body-shape-change-with-age.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/04/6-tips-for-looking-stylish-when-menopause-hits-2.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/09/your-colour-and-style-questions-answered-on-video-30.htmlEmbrace The Body You Have Todayhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/02/the-truth-about-how-ageing-actually-affects-your-style-2.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/12/align-your-wardrobe-with-the-person-you-are-today.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/05/how-to-rebuild-your-wardrobe-when-you-have-to-start-again.htmlHow to Find my Stylehttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/12/finding-your-style-and-determining-the-true-you.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2011/11/style-is-a-journey-not-a-destination-7-ways-to-define-your-style.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/11/8-tips-for-finding-your-signature-style.htmlIf You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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In This Episode0.08 Biggest challenge is finding clothes I like in shops that suit my age and figure. Clothes are either super skimpy or loose-fitting which only makes me look bigger than I am.I have a classic hourglass shape, with hips and a bum (and now a little pouch in the front) - so even the clothes I think I like on the model or mannequin - hardly ever suit my shape.I feel like this makes me super fussy when it comes to clothes, because I never feel comfortable.8.41 I struggle with learning to dress a very short, kinda curvy (61kg) body with very short legs in a way that is not girly, looks good and powerful in flat shoes (plantar fasciitis, chronic shin splints) and makes sense for someone who's 53.13.21 My biggest issue right now is finding age appropriate clothes that I LOVE. I’m 55 and (based on your quiz) I’m a Classic style and I do like to always have a “put together” look, but that is getting hard to do. I don’t want to look like my 27 year old daughter, but I also don’t want to wear “frumpy” clothes. I’ve also started reading that as I age I shouldn’t wear black-which as an an 8 body shape , I wear a lot of black because it’s slimming. So I struggle daily with an inner voice that tells me I look ridiculous in a tiered dress with my jeans jacket, but I also love to have someone compliment me on my outfit and don’t want to wear “old lady clothes”. I’m not even sure where to shop anymore as nothing fits correctly. My staples are Talbots and Loft, but I’m afraid Loft is getting too young for meHow to Shop for Clotheshttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/03/7-tips-for-narrowing-down-your-options-when-shopping-in-stores.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/08/behind-the-dressing-room-curtain-lets-talk-about-personality-and-shopping-for-clothes.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/04/your-ultimate-guide-to-online-clothes-shopping.htmlBody Proportionshttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2011/08/short-legs-long-rise-how-to-define-your-waist-when-wearing-jeans.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/07/figure-flattery-guidelines-with-the-body-equation.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2009/04/body-proprtions-explained-long-body-shorter-legs.htmlAge Appropriate Clotheshttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2009/06/what-is-age-appropriate-dressing.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2013/06/7-easy-ways-to-dressing-youthfully-but-not-too-young.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/06/how-to-look-modern-sophisticated-and-stylish-as-you-age.htmlIf You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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In This Episode0.08 My concern is how do I feel stylish AND comfortable at work! I have a 1 hour commute, with some walking, and sneakers are not an option at the office...I am curvy, 5'6" a UK 16 up (big bust) and a 12 down. So it is not easy to find clothes that fit right.5.22The big issue I am stressing about is what to wear on my YouTube videos.I am a quilter and really want to pump up my YouTube content this coming year. I see some people wear a uniform. Others go all out.I am the relaxed style, according to your quiz. And I am in Denver. We tend to keep it very casual, like you just came in from hiking or something. I need to be genuine and dress my style but still a little unsure how to make it look good for the camera.I also need it to be easy and somewhat feminine, but not frilly. I need to be able to make quick changes and allow for coordinating with quilts that might be behind me. The right color in the right place is a big thing for me.And I need to be able to plan for several videos at once and have outfits ready.10.12 - I have 2 issues, the first is how to look chic but I can only wear flat shoes.The second is Fit. I’m a size 6, but my derrière is a little flat and my shoulders are relatively broad. Finding clothes that don’t gap here or there is a challenge.How to Style Sneakershttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/07/your-ultimate-flat-shoe-wardrobe-and-where-to-find-those-elusive-perfect-shoes.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/07/how-to-style-sneakers-with-everything-2.htmlLarge Bust Dressing Guidehttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/01/camouflage-a-large-bust.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/03/3-steps-to-flatter-a-large-bust-when-wearing-a-high-neckline.htmlWhat to Wear on Camerahttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/05/what-colours-look-good-on-video.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/08/how-to-look-good-on-a-video-call.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/04/what-to-wear-for-your-family-photo-shoot.htmlAlterations are Not a Sign of Failurehttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2015/03/how-a-small-alteration-makes-a-big-difference.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/06/the-best-clothing-alterations-based-on-your-body-shape-2.htmlhttps://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/12/how-to-hem-jeans-in-5-steps-without-losing-the-original-hem.htmlIf You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your ColoursIf you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style.Subscribe to my PodcastYou can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episodeApple PodcastsGoogle Play
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0.08 How do I create outfits that respect my natural style, my soft cool light colouring and my curvy X shape body with the season of winter. For example – winter clothes are traditionally dark and I’m best in light When I put a belt on to define my waist – it’s not as comfortable and feels too sophisticated which with my relaxed personality style is at odds. How do I work with my preferences and my body and colouring as well as the season? 4.10 How do I feel stylish and comfortable at work - I need to be able to walk easily, but sneakers are not an option at the office, I’m also a very top-heavy body shape (2 sizes different top to bottom)? Dressing for Winter https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2018/07/the-secrets-of-the-most-stylish-winter-outfits.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/01/layering-using-more-than-one-colour.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/12/winter-dressing-in-skirts-and-dresses-without-feeling-cold.html Dressing for Work https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/06/4-simple-ways-to-wear-more-colour-in-the-workplace-2.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2018/06/what-to-wear-when-you-work-in-a-corporate-environment-but-prefer-a-relaxed-dressing-style.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2015/11/12-work-outfit-ideas-to-steal.html If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your Colours If you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style. Subscribe to my Podcast You can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episode
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What is a Signature Style Anyway? It can be a look that is almost like a uniform, think Vogue editor Anna Wintour (signature bob, frock and sunglasses), or Ellen Degeneres (pants, shirt and sweater or vest), or Jackie Kennedy Onassis - where you can pretty much guess what they will wear each day. It's a very defined look if you go for the uniform version.
In This Episode 0.11 My biggest problem with my style is that I seem to have lost it! I began dressing casually when I had kids and I just never seemed to get my flair back. I am also a theatre nurse so when I go to work I get changed into my "pajamas". So I haven't put much effort into how I look as I just get changed. I guess I've just lost my spark and aren't sure how to get it back. I see lots of stuff I like but at 51 I'm not sure what works for me and I find it easier to just fall back into track pants/active wear.
9.41 If I wanted to put it in a nutshell, my biggest style struggle is overwhelm. I’ve been told that my colouring is Clear and deep winter, and true winter and bright spring and vivid winter and so I’m totally confused and then as far as body shape goes there are so many systems, from Kibbe to Trinny and Susannah (What not to wear) and so many more. I’m so confused I don’t know who to believe and what to do. I wish had the self-confidence to dress with certainty rather than always feeling confused about what is right.
Body Image and Your Style https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/02/the-truth-about-how-ageing-actually-affects-your-style-2.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2016/03/embrace-body-today.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2018/12/body-shape-change-with-age.html Understanding Colour Systems and Personal Colour Analysis https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/05/when-your-colour-analysis-result-is-not-what-you-expected.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/05/how-to-individualise-a-generic-colour-palette.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2021/01/how-do-you-figure-out-if-youre-warm-or-cool.html Body Shape System https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/07/figure-flattery-guidelines-with-the-body-equation.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2019/11/what-to-do-with-conflicting-figure-flattery-advice.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2016/03/want-to-figure-out-your-body-shape-try-my-quiz.html If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your Colours If you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work and you know there is a better way, then join my 7 Steps to Style program and get the right information for you and your style. Subscribe to my Podcast You can now get these videos as podcasts subscribe and never miss an episode
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0.08 If you want to wear analogous colours how can you get your colour contrast if you are medium-high colour contrast? 2.21 Silhouettes are changing in fashion and new proportions are key to looking current’…I’d love to hear your perspective. How can we stay true to our own personal style without being completely left behind? 5.36 My whole wardrobe is warm, all jewellery gold. What is the cheapest way for me to go about building a cool wardrobe?
Medium-High Colour Contrast https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2014/11/7-important-factors-for-working-with-contrast.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2016/04/what-exactly-is-medium-high-value-contrast.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2016/05/how-to-use-medium-value-colours-when-you-are-high-contrast.html How to Look Current and Modern https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2014/05/modernise-your-style-in-may.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2020/09/should-you-wear-that-fashion-trend.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/04/aligning-your-style-from-the-inside-out.html Transition from Warm to Cool Colouring https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2014/02/understanding-undertone-warm-to-cool.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2022/02/warm-vs-cool-grey-hair-and-how-going-grey-may-change-your-wardrobe-choices.html
https://insideoutstyleblog.com/2017/06/metallic-colour-palette.html
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In This Episode 0.10 My lifestyle is very casual and my personal style is relaxed/romantic/classical. While relaxed is easy to style as casual. how do I add romantic and classical elements to my outfits? Do I use specific colors? Warm pinks maybe? Specific shapes in Jewelry or shoes? 3.38 Could you share about finding a…
I called my blog Inside Out Style because I've found when you align your outside with your personality - who you are on the inside - you feel your most comfortable and confident. That said, not every day do we feel like the best version of ourselves which led me to think about Outside In style (and Inside Out style in a different context which I'm discussing here.
The relaxed personality style report you sent to me is 100% me but little of my wardrobe reflects that. I have recently retired at 66. I haven’t really transitioned into my style from work clothes, dead easy to buy, Reiss and Hobbs and silk blouses, these still fill my wardrobe yet are unworn. I’m slobbing around in shorts and tees hirts or black leggings. When I pluck up courage to go shopping I can’t decide what to buy, I dislike buying on line as depending on brand and cut I might be an 8 or a 10. Often I am overwhelmed by choice. So really where do I start? My biggest problem is I am short (1m58), curvy (but not curvy enough to fit in plus-size models) and that’s sometimes hard to find. Help Footwear issues: what to wear with each kind of outfit? I can't wear heels because of a bad back and I never know what type of shoe to wear that is both stylish and season appropriate (warm in winter. etc) and what kind of leg covering goes with what: leggings and socks, just socks, foot leggings, what? The regular panty hose is not warm enough for the cold winters in my region.
How do you know which is which so that you love what you buy rather than realise that it's "just not me"?
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One reason there are so many mistakes are made shopping for clothes, and why so many have a wardrobe full of clothes yet nothing to wear, or just feel dissatisfied with our style is that we haven't defined the starting point to your style. Just like when you plan any journey, you need to know your starting point before you can plan your route. The same can be said for your style, if you don't know where you are now, and what your criteria are that you need to focus on to make the best shopping decisions.
It's not what is the same, it's what is different, and we often perceive those differences as flaws to be hidden not uniqueness to be celebrated. It's time to embrace the Japanese concept of Kintsugi and taken what you perceive to be broken and instead realise how resilient you really are and see the beauty in those metaphorical scars.
Your colour questions answered about colour palette, high contrast, matching shoes, and colour values.
How do you dress more Rebellious when black all over is a little overpowering for your coloring? Do I stick with black on the bottom and grays up top? I still love rock band T-shirts, leather stuff, metals, etc. but I don't want to look like I'm trying too hard. I also have elements of Creative, Natural personality styles and am a hopeless romantic.
Further reading: What to Wear to Look Credible and Professional in a Relaxed Business Environment 4 Simple Ways to Wear More Colour in the Workplace What to Wear in the Corporate World If You’d Like to Define Your Style and Discover Your Colours If you’re sick of wasting money on clothes that don’t work…
Reader Question: "I struggle with aligning how I feel inside with what my external image is meant to convey. It makes me doubt many of my intuitive wardrobe decisions! Help"
If vanity is a sin then is caring about your style shallow? I don't believe so (at all) and wanted to share with you some of my thoughts on why I believe this and I've got some research to back my beliefs up!
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Have you watched the Netflix series, Inventing Anna? It’s the story of Anna Sorokin/Delvey who steals hundreds of thousands of dollars from a variety of people and institutions before getting caught. Watching this series you really can see just how Anna used her image, the clothes she wore, her hair and accessories as tools to…
Reader Issue: My biggest challenge is creating a cohesive style when my wardrobe is made up of extremes: very boring and very outrageous, very feminine and very androgynous, too youthful and too ageing, and I hate shopping too!
I struggle with prints in general – what to choose. I’m a bit scared that they won’t work so I tend to avoid them. Any tips? How do I dress practically and attractively, being comfortable but still in an interesting but not crazy way, so vibrant but not aggressive? Why is it that I am tempted to follow trends even when they don’t fit my lifestyle or body type?
Why is it that even though I’m average height at 5’6” petite size tops fit me better? I hate shopping. Cannot find my favorite colors and I find that clothes off the rack fit poorly. Any tips? How do I improve my style consistency – some days I look great and others I feel like a slob
I want to learn better how to express who I am without being obsessed with my appearance and not to be invisible unless I choose to be. As an older women, it is easy to be overlooked, but I’m not interested in being dramatic as a means of countering that bias. I don’t object to it in other, but my own style is more understated. I struggle most with hair and makeup. I’ve no idea what is suitable for my age - which is 52 – I’d like to be more elegant. I have too much stuff that I picked up on sale that is now so unorganized that I can't see what I have. How can I organise my wardrobe?
I like too many clothes! I am a mood dresser, and sometimes have too many items! How can I develop a core capsule for my style? Help me transition away from a predominantly corporate wardrobe to more smart casual- retirement; and help with my colors as I move to grey hair color
I feel like my style is on constant repeat I find it hard to locate any variety anywhere not in my wardrobe or the shops How can I find something different? How do I Look smart without being too formal? I’ve been hiding in a very basic “uniform” for a long time and am nervous about showing who I am through style.
I've retired now and in my working life found it easy to dress smart. Now I'm more into dressing casual but I really don't know where to start. I need to find clothes that don’t emphasize my stomach or hips. I suppose my biggest style challenge at the moment would be, what am I going to wear ?
I'm a retired person now living in Mexico, my greatest challenge is making the transition from the work wardrobe to the more casual, climate appropriate style. The body shape challenge is crazy because of all the conflicting advice. I sew and design my own patterns, so I can make anything happen. As soon as I figure out what "anything " I'm aiming for.
I can't find a bra that fits, the cup size is not right when I choose a larger band size to fit my more expanded waist. Any tips? I really do not know what style actually suits me. I am over 60 approximately 5ft 6in tall have salt and pepper longish hair and a pearish body shape with short body , short waist and long legs I have gained weight in the past 12 months in the hip abdominal area and have a pot belly and lost my side/hip definition therefore I don't know what to wear and I prefer trousers 12.48 My biggest challenge is that I live in the wrong climate for my style LOL!! I'm currently living in the UK, but I like to dress in soft, silky, lightweight satiny lacy things as well as cute kitten heels and pointy shoes. I'm either always freezing to death or dodging puddles and mud. I just moved here 4 years ago and tried doing the lumpy sweaters and rubber wellies but I feel so UGH in them. I can't afford a total wardrobe redo, but I need to get some "sexy" back in my closet!
I just watched your post about flattering necklines and how matching your jawline is best. I do not wear the types of necklines I would look best in due to modesty reasons. How does wearing something under a v-neck or scoop neck affect the “ideal” neckline of the scoop or v-neck? Can I use necklaces over boat or crew necks to get this ideal neckline instead? I struggle with finding clothes as there is so much Inconsistent sizing between stores. My weight which has settled in my middle. I am attempting to lose weight but even if I do. I believe I will never have a waist again. I am a rectangle . At my best I will be a small rectangle. It is quite a change since my youth when I was an hourglass I am also short so when I attempt to hide the middle with longer tops I have no legs. I do not think it is possible to dress this and look attractive in any way. I try to be moderate and so have lost interest in clothes
The big one for me atm is ageing -- I don't want to give up, any tips? My biggest issue with fashion is finding ready-made clothing that fits well enough to wear comfortably & look good. I wear a size 8 jean, but need a 14-16 top to fit the bustline. However, the 14-16 shoulders, neck/sleeve openings, sleeve lengths, etc. are too big to look nice on me. How can I combine my feminine style personality with a relaxed lifestyle? I love florals, lace, pink, skirts and dresses, and feminine details, but as a stay at home mom with five kids (including a baby that I'm breastfeeding), I need my clothes to be practical, comfortable, and casual. I also have (I think) medium high value contrast and medium color contrast, so the very low contrast pastel look of many feminine outfits doesn't work for me. I would appreciate any tips.
How exactly do colors need to match when you have an outfit with multiple items in the same color? For example, I have a pink and beige patterned skirt. I would normally think to wear it with a pink top or cardigan, but none of mine are exactly the same pink. Is that okay, or is it better to wear a top that's neutral or a different color? How do I create a perfect capsule wardrobe where everything goes together for all changing seasons and no thought about what to wear everyday? How do I edit my wardrobe so it’s just my best clothes?
My classic rectangular body that goes with my classic, style has disappeared. I feel I look like an apple on a stick! Help! My biggest challenge is reigning it all in. I adore clothes. I've spent the last few years downsizing and have gotten rid of a lot, but my closet is still overflowing. I wear outfits in rotation so everything gets worn at some point. It's overwhelming most of the time. I would love to cut it all down by half. My problem is mainly is what would look good on me, which colors to keep in my wardrobe, how many colors for my casual lifestyle as I’m trying to make myself a guided plan with what I’m looking for!
I just wonder if you can be value contrast dominant although your ideal value contrast is medium? But what if you have medium value contrast and neutral features? My biggest style challenge is getting out of the rut I'm in with my clothes - I feel like my clothes are boring, dull and lack imagination and creativity. Would you please recommend some clothing styles that would work for someone petite, creative (but in a business setting), and will let me look my age or younger?
I tend to wear the same all the time. I have many nice things, but sometimes lack the confidence to wear/style them. How can identify my body shape? My biggest problem is finding the colors I want. Turquoise, brilliant blue and royal purple.
How often do you buy clothing and accessories? Is it rarely or frequently? What's the reason for these purchases?
I was inspired to talk about body image after receiving these 3 style struggles: My biggest challenge is... I was slim and sexy, now I am menopausal, well over fifty and have a huge protruding belly and double chin. No, this is not a joke, I wish it were. I've stopped going out for months because of this. (I picked up weight also, was always 60 kgs now 100 kgs My body shape is my biggest challenge. I am a pear shape.... thin arms, small face, tiny bust yet I have a bit of a tummy, bottom and hips. Also my age:( I'm 55 and don't want to dress too young, yet not like an old maid. And I can't stand tight fitting clothes 😒Help !!!! My biggest challenge, is I like structure and tailored clothes but I am short and I have a big stomach that ruins it for me!
My biggest challenge is streamlining my wardrobe. I have too many items that I don’t wear. I wear belts to highlight my waist as I’m a petite X shape and it works really well. My problem is many skirts and pants don’t have belt loops and I find the belts slip up at the back or twist as I move. Any suggestions as to how to keep them nicely in place. What clothing can I buy to last a lifetime?
How do I choose outfits I could easily mix and match and not feel as though I’m wearing the same thing over and over again. How do you find great clothes without spending a fortune or buying cheap unethically created (no cheap and abused labour in poor countries) garments? Having had 2 children my body shape has changed and I struggle to fit my style into the new body - any tips?
I don’t want to dress like a teenager but I want to dress like an old woman. Any tips? My biggest challenge is combining what looks good on my more yang frame and also fits my more yin personality. I wear jeans to work and rarely have a need to dress up. Plus, comfort and not putting much thought into getting dressed are important to me. Most inspiration outfits that would look good on my silhouette are with blazers, dresses, skirts, or dress pants, which I usually don’t wear. A lot of the clothes with bows and other pretty details come in pastel colors, which wash me out. Simple has always looked best on me. But, as I’m getting older, I find that I need more drama in my look. My biggest challenge is being overweight. I don't look as good in my clothes and can't do some of the styling with my clothes that I could if I was thinner. My classic rectangular body that goes with my classic, style has disappeared.
I am retired and exercise and train triathlon. I am classic style with a bob. I currently wear leggings or stretch pants long legs with a top that is wickked. I get very salty hair from my workouts and am trying to develop a style where I don't need to change more than once a day. Sometimes I might do a hard bike ride eg 2 hrs then meet someone for lunch then go swimming pm. I don’t have a sense of what looks good on me. I also have sensory sensitivities, particularly to fabric feel and tightness. I’ve been studying color theory, and personality style. My biggest issues are trying to put all of this together while still having a functional, practical, and comfortable style for my lifestyle, which relies on layers and outfits suitable for a casual outdoorsy lifestyle. With age I’ve shrunk and my waist has expanded and I can’t wear heels. I love wearing skirts and dresses but having difficulty choosing pattern/style for the dress which doesn’t overwhelm me or shorten me. (I am a sewer)
What challenges me is how to move from my existing wardrobe to a more curated style - especially with a restricted budget. I have a really nice light beige dress pants and jacket that I really like to wear in summer. As an "enigmatic", I tend to wear it with a darker top. I was thinking it would be nice to get some more wear out of it before winter sets in. Would you have any ideas how to wear it? or should I just forget about it until next summer? I love my taste in fashion and I have fun with it too. But, getting dressed for work in the morning is a real pain. I love looking put together and I have very nice clothes but lack the desire to take the time and effort to do so. Since my job is casual I mostly opt for activewear (cute activewear though). I wish for the motivation to wear those faves in my closet