Dear Former InLaws: Recent Episodes
Eno
This podcast is about one woman’s search for answers, clarity, survival and inspiration during an ugly divorce that blindsided her. She is Eno!
Hi Explores! Welcome to today’s episode. In this episode we’re going to talk about how often we let unsatisfactory jobs define us. Is your job unfulfilling? Do you feel unseen? How does it affect your life? Let’s talk about it!
In this episode Eno talks about the immediate affects of hearing about a pending divorce or break up. What do you do? How did you react? Let’s talk about it!
Let’s talk about it! Let’s do a deep dive into this conversation. Too many times there is suffering from people talking about hard times they have at the office. Do you find yourself being alienated? Are you the one alienating other people? What does it feel like trying to build relationships with people who seem to have fleeting spirits? Let’s talk about it!
My vulnerability is no secret. I had an emotionally, financially, and mentally devastating divorce. In this podcast I talk about some of the things I experienced on my journey, some of the things that broke me and how I am today. Let’s talk about it! Don’t forget to buy my book on Amazon.
Hey Explorer’s! Have there been friendships that you left in the past and thought about revisiting? Is there any reason to leave an old friendship in the past? Is there a reason to open up that door today? Let’s talk about it!
You never think he will lose “friends“ during his separation or break up. Why does this happen? Let’s talk about it! Don’t forget to share this podcast with anyone you know going through a break up. Join me on Facebook – Africa’s ambassador of possibility
I think I’ve heard it all personally! Anything from “it’s your fault” to “ you didn’t pray enough” let’s talk about it!
When you’re going through a rough patch it’s important you treat yourself to something nice. Sometimes you don’t have the money. I can relate! What are some of the ways that you can treat yourself for free? Let’s talk about it!
There are different types of abuse that we sometimes miss on the front end. Is it possible to detect any signs of emotional abuse at the beginning of a relationship? Let’s talk about !
How kind are you to yourself? This quick podcast is my reminder to you to be kind to yourself during any trauma. Let’s talk about it!
In the short podcast, I share with you several instances where total strangers have positively affected my life. Do you think it’s possible to benefit from the words of a stranger? Let’s talk about it!
This is an area of suffering for many people. We have all been there. Are you holding on to people who know longer serve you. Had a relationship once with people who today or not on the same page with you? What do you do when you don’t feel empowered by that relationship? What do you do when you are no longer on the same page and it is not healthy? Do what our large intestines do intuitively- Let that shit go.
When it comes to break up, separation or divorce, many people asked me my opinion on how to accept it. It’s not a simple answer to get. Let’s talk about it!
In this episode will talk about future in-laws and some of the things people have shared with me on their journey. I’ll even share some personal stories. Let’s talk about it!
This topic will never get old for me. What do you do when someone has contempt for your goals? When people are quick to tell you that what you’re working on is not worth anything., how do you wrap your mind around that? Let’s talk about it!
In this topic, I share my opinions on my favorite subject. Let’s talk about people who look down on people who’ve been through a divorce and think divorce can’t happen to them. Does staying in a marriage where you are disempowered mean you are “together“ ? Let’s talk about it !
I recently had an opportunity to rekindle a friendship and I want to talk about it. What would you do? Let’s talk about it!
In this episode, I talk about a few people who showed up and showed out during my rough patch. I’m naming names! Sue me! Let’s talk about it!
Let’s talk about what the “strong friend”goes through at the beginning of her divorce. How does she navigate this space? Let’s talk about it!
There are certain people who stay with women they don’t love and treat them in spite. Why do they do that? Let’s talk about it!
How do you feel when someone Keeps asking you to justify yourself to them? What do you do when someone keeps questioning your growth? Or your decisions? Let’s talk about it!
So many times we over analyze how we feel about this respect. Not every conversation needs to be analyzed. When someone treats you probably there are times when you just have to walk. Let’s talk about it!
Hi Explores! In today’s episode we’re going to talk about moments when something is weird in the space and nobody wants to talk about it! Let’s talk about it!
Hello fellow Explores! In today’s podcast we’re going to talk about red flags and dating. We’re gonna do a quick rundown of the list and hopefully some of this information sticks! Let’s talk about it!
In this episode we are talking about Simple ways that we can make steps to get to the next level. Most people will be stuck where they are. What does it look like to truly get over a hump or move into the space where you think you belong. Let’s talk about it!
In this podcast will talk about a few random things I’ve learned about friendships. Let’s talk about it!
Hi People! Thank you for listening. Share this podcast on your page or platform. Someone needs to hear it. In today’s podcast we are talking about the importance of being there for someone who is in pain in a way that makes them feel comfortable. It’s not always about you. How can that be done? Let’s talk about it!
In this episode will talk about women who “dump”their friends because of a new dating relationship. Is there a different way to see it? Let’s talk about it! Send me a voice memo! https://anchor.fm/dearformerinlaws/message
There are so many reasons to look forward to your new post divorce journey. Let’s talk about it!
In this episode we’re gonna talk about friendships. There’s so much suffering so many people when it comes to this subject. Let’s talk about what it means to us and what it means to support the friends we have in our lives and the ones we need to get rid of for that matter… Let’s talk about it!
On my journey postdivorce, I saw so many mediocre leaders and decided to talk about that here. When you are on a journey where your self-esteem is being tried, you have to make sure that you’re being held up by good leadership, friends, and people
In this episode I briefly share about some of the people who had contempt for me during my divorce. There are some people who did not know how to behave through no fault of their own, they were others who thought I was cursed. They were a bunch of people who thought that my situation was contagious and did not want to be “bothered“. Ultimately I have learned that People are people. How many just do the best they can. Let’s talk about it!
Hi Explorers ! In this podcast I am talking about my father and some of the things I feel made him an excellent dad. I am unimpressed with men who torment their daughters with mediocre and unkind parenting. Do better, please. Please share the podcast. Enjoy!
For years I’ve been afraid to speak my truth. It started with a not-so subtle message from an “in-law”not wanting me to speak MY truth. I let that shackle go in this podcast. Let’s talk about it!
After speaking with several women on their journey, I decided to talk about this post divorce/post separation journey. What type of man do you watch out for after a separation? What do you do so that you’re not taken advantage of after divorce? Let’s talk about it!
I got a message from someone asking me to post more on breakups and divorce. This is for the one that wants me to talk about breakups during COVID-19. What do you need to keep in mind? Is it different from a break up outside of a pandemic? Let's talk about it! If you would like me to talk about court procedures during the pandemic, reach out on Facebook and let me know. " Africa's Ambassador of Possibility"
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How do you deal with a mean person. Why are people mean? Does it matter? What do you do in those instances? Let’s talk about it!
Let’s talk about criticism that we get from people. How is that criticism delivered? How do we experience it? What do we do when we don’t feel good about ourselves after said critique? Let’s talk about it!
In this podcast we talk about being afraid to love especially after divorce or separation. It happens a lot… You’ve been hurt and you don’t want to be hurt again. Let’s talk about it!
A lot of us are walking around in titled when we give apologies. We think “I already said I’m sorry“ or “They need to get over it“. Unwilling to make ourselves vulnerable, we act entitled to forgiveness. Let’s talk about it!
I had a recent experience with someone who gave me the silent treatment. I had no idea that this was a “thing“. Has that happened to you before? Let’s talk about it!
Hi Fellow Explorers! In this episode we are talking about selfish people. Why are people selfish? Why should we deal with them? What do we need to know for our own self-esteem and protection. Let’s talk about it!
One of my friends said many women date or marry down! I made some observations about this. Let’s talk about it!. Don’t forget to find me on Instagram IG@ dearformerinlaws
Hi! Explorers! In this podcast we will talk about when or if it is a good idea to reach out to someone you haven’t spoken to a while. I’ll share my personal stories of three recent scenarios. Let’s talk about it!
Inspired by an amazing conversation at the market today, I decided to talk about this often times quiet subject. It is a big deal to move from one place to the other. I did it and it was not the easiest thing in the world. What are your thoughts on people who move like that? I’m personally impressed Let’s talk about it!
Right after you’ve been blindsided by a break up, and for some time after, you might feel an unforgiving sense of loneliness. That was my story!. Let’s talk about it! #divorce
The fact is there is hope. If you’re starting over in life, there is hope if you were alive. Whether you are moving to a new city or from a new state, emotional or otherwise, let’s talk about a few ways to get your mind right. In this podcast I’ll share my personal story with you. Let’s talk about it!
Based on conversations I’ve had with a few people in the last few days, I realize that there’s so many people dealing with difficult people. And this was prior to Covid LOL. In this podcast we’re gonna talk about how we show up for difficult people and how to deal with them. Let’s talk about it! PS this podcast is published out of order. It’s an older episode
In this episode I’m sharing my thoughts on vulnerability and why it is important to me. Don’t forget to join me on Instagram “dear former in-laws“
Nothing will challenge your sense of self like a divorce. You will often ask yourself if you have enough education to navigate the rest of your life. Should you go back to school? Let’s talk about it!
My divorce journey taught me that my body needs to move. It’s not just a mind that needs love but your body as well. Here are a few things that we take for granted when it comes to exercise. You can start this today! Let’s talk about it