The Industrial Wordsmith: Recent Episodes
Weston Bell
I might not be a poet or an orator but I recognize the power of words. That the words I use decide the quality of my relationships. My relationships create my success. Facebook friends and Twitter followers are not enough for me. I build my relationships one person and one conversation at a time.
The 3rd rule of Communication. You must be genuine in your desire to build relationships. Otherwise you are just a con man.
What do you do when the rules don't apply? When someone isn't smart or they have emotional or psychological issues?
The Second Rule of communication has to do with how we look at the emotions of other people.
People will always listen to someone who makes them feel good about themselves, and hopeful about the future.
As long as you are dealing with Alternative Facts instead of dealing with the real issues in your relationship, you will never be able to effect the change you want.
If you want to be the leader in your relationships, you need to be the one with the power. But having the power is much less difficult or controlling than you would think.
Are you frustrated with with the relationships in your life? Do you wish your relationship with your Spouse, Boss, Co-workers or customers was what you wanted it to be. Well it can!