Marriage Monthly: Recent Episodes
Gabe & Melissa Kolstad
Marriage Monthly is a monthly boost for your marriage, intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.
💛 “Have you been making more withdrawals than deposits lately?” - SEPTEMBER 2025 Marriage Monthly
In this month’s episode of Marriage Monthly, we’re unpacking a powerful truth: your marriage is like a bank account. Every word, action, and attitude is either a deposit that builds connection—or a withdrawal that creates distance.
Whether you’re feeling drained or full of love, this episode will help you become more intentional about the way you invest in your spouse. Through laughs, vulnerable stories, and practical encouragement, we’ll explore how to reset the balance and love generously, just as Christ has loved us.
🧠Discover:
- What counts as a relational “deposit” or “withdrawal”
- How unmet expectations can silently erode intimacy
- The biblical connection between forgiveness and fullness
- Why speaking the truth in love matters
- How your love language shapes your emotional “balance”
- Why the source of your deposits must be the Lord
- What to do when you feel like you’re giving more than you’re getting
đź“– Bible Verses Mentioned:
- Ephesians 4:2–3
- Ephesians 4:15
- Ephesians 4:26–27
- Ephesians 4:29
- Ephesians 4:32
đź’¬ Question:
What’s one deposit you can intentionally make into your marriage this week?
đź“Ł Call to Action:
👉 Like & subscribe for more real-talk about love, faith, and commitment.
📝 Leave a comment with how you’ll apply today’s message!
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🎙️ 42 Years Strong — The Secrets to Building a Marriage That Lasts
What does it take to build a marriage that stands the test of time — through addiction, recovery, dreams, disappointments, and God’s redemption? In this powerful Marriage Monthly episode, Gabe and Alyssa sit down with Steve and Julia Jordan, who share their 42-year journey of building a life together.
From meeting at age 8, to surviving deep valleys of bitterness and alcoholism, to seeing God restore their relationship and bless them with a dream home they now use for ministry — this conversation is filled with real, hard-earned wisdom for couples in every season.
Discover:
- Why keeping Jesus at the center changes everything
- How to survive and heal after deep wounds in marriage
- The role of forgiveness — for your spouse and yourself
- How your greatest trials can become your greatest ministry
- The story of building a dream home as a couple and using it for God’s purposes
- Practical encouragement for couples in dark seasons
Steve and Julia’s testimony is living proof that surrender, humility, and faith can turn the hardest chapters into the most beautiful stories.
đź“– Bible Verses Mentioned:
- Proverbs 3:5–6
- Psalm 127:1
- Jeremiah 29:11
đź’¬ Question for you:
What’s one step you can take this week to strengthen the foundation of your marriage?
âś… Call to Action:
Like & subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement!
Leave a comment sharing how you’ve seen God restore something broken in your marriage.
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🎉 30 years of marriage! In this special anniversary episode, we’re recording from the King George Hotel in San Francisco, where it all began. From sweaty wedding dresses to surprise flowers, we’re diving deep into why celebration is essential in every season of marriage.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in routine, discouraged in your relationship, or just needed a reminder to smile more together—this episode is for you. Let’s talk about why celebrating your spouse might just be the missing piece to a joyful, long-lasting marriage.
💛 Marriage started with a celebration—let’s keep it going.
Discover:
- Why celebration strengthens your connection
- The power of cheering each other on
- How to support your spouse’s passions
- Creating traditions of gratitude in your home
- Resetting the tone of your relationship with simple moments
- What research says about celebrating wins in marriage
- The spiritual side of honoring your spouse
đź“– Bible Verses Mentioned:
- Romans 12:15 – “Rejoice with those who rejoice.”
- Romans 12:10 – “Love each other with genuine affection and take delight in honoring each other.”
- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 – “Be joyful always…”
- Galatians 5:13 – “Serve one another humbly in love.”
- Proverbs 17:22 – “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”
- John 10:10 – “The thief comes to steal, kill and destroy…”
đź’¬ Question for You:
What’s one small way you can celebrate your spouse this week?
✨ Call to Action:
Like đź‘Ť, comment đź’¬, and subscribe đź”” for more faith-filled encouragement to strengthen your marriage!
Tag your spouse or share this episode with a couple who inspires you.
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“Why do we keep doing this?”
That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage.
In this month’s episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we’ve accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns.
💬 Drawing from personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-earned lessons from nearly 30 years of marriage, we explore how couples can rewrite their story—together.
đź“– Key Scripture:
Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”
đź’ˇ Discover:
- How to recognize patterns that are holding your marriage back
- Breaking generational cycles of addiction, dysfunction, and trauma
- The link between emotional safety and long-term satisfaction
- Practical tools for spiritual connection and mental renewal
- The power of one bold step toward change
- King Josiah’s legacy of transformation and how it applies today
🎯 Key Takeaways:
- Every couple inherits patterns—some helpful, some harmful
- Defining your vision for your marriage is the first step
- Breaking a cycle takes awareness, agreement, and aligned action
- Community and spiritual connection are essential in the process
- One decision can start a ripple of healing for future generations
🙋‍♂️ Question for you:
What’s one cycle in your marriage or family history that needs to end—and what’s one small step you can take this week?
👉 Like & subscribe for more faith-filled marriage conversations!
💬 Leave a comment: What’s one cycle you’re breaking in your marriage?
đź”— Share this with a friend who needs encouragement today.
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Will our marriage really last? That’s the question most couples ask—whether they say it out loud or not. In this powerful episode, we unpack the top predictor of marital success based on brand-new research shared by Les Parrott at a recent marriage conference: perceived partner commitment. What does that mean, and how do you build it?
We break down the difference between commitment busters and commitment builders—everything from separate bank accounts and secrets to road trips and red lipstick moments. We share insights from 30 years of marriage, including personal stories, scriptures, and the hard lessons we’ve learned the long way. Whether you’re just starting out or decades in, this episode will encourage you to build the kind of marriage that lasts—one built on intentional, everyday commitment.
đź’ˇ Discover:
- What “perceived partner commitment” actually means
- The marriage triangle: passion, intimacy, and commitment
- 6 commitment busters to watch out for
- 8 commitment builders that create lasting love
- How to protect your marriage from separation, secrets, and criticism
- How shared memories, empathy, and sacrifice keep couples close
đź“– Bible Verses Mentioned:
Mark 10:7–9 – “Let no one split them apart.”
Philippians 2:3–5 – “Be humble…have the same attitude as Christ.”
đź’ Question for You:
What’s one way you can show your spouse your commitment this week?
❤️ Call to Action:
Leave a comment and let us know how you’re building commitment in your marriage. Like & subscribe for more episodes to help your marriage grow strong!
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In this episode, we’re joined by our friends, Steve and Lori Barker, to talk about the challenges of balancing a busy marriage and life filled with parenting, careers, and everything in between. From juggling schedules, prioritizing each other, to how they make time for their dreams and personal growth, Steve and Lori share their insights and experiences on maintaining a strong relationship through life’s busiest seasons. We also dive into how they integrate their faith and stay connected through it all, offering practical advice on how to stay grounded and emotionally healthy while managing a hectic life. Whether you’re parenting, in a busy season, or just trying to figure out how to prioritize your spouse while managing the chaos, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable stories.
Key Points:
- Strategies for balancing marriage, kids, and busy careers
- How to keep your marriage strong in the midst of life’s demands
- The importance of being a cheerleader for your spouse’s dreams
- How setting boundaries, like family schedules and tech-free time, can bring peace
- Practical ways to stay emotionally connected while parenting and working
- The value of prayer and supporting each other through challenges
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Join us as we recap our powerful marriage retreat! We dive deep into the four essential habits for a thriving marriage, inspired by Ted Lowe's book, 'Your Best Us.' Discover practical tips on having 'serious fun,' prioritizing God in your relationship, cultivating love and respect, and practicing your promises. Learn how to overcome common marriage barriers like busyness, seriousness, and the challenges of raising children. We also discuss the importance of date nights, intimacy, and open communication. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your bond and build a God-centered marriage.
❤️ Don’t forget to subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement!
📢 Like this episode? Share it with a couple who needs to hear it!
Key Points:
- Recap of the marriage retreat and key takeaways from 'Your Best Us'
- The importance of having 'serious fun' and overcoming fun barriers
- Putting God first in your marriage and the power of faith
- Cultivating love and respect through effective communication
- Practicing your promises and building a lasting commitment
- Practical tips for date nights, intimacy, and shared goals
Resources Mentioned:
- 'Your Best Us' by Ted Lowe
- 'Love and Respect' by Emerson Eggerich
- Proverbs 5
- Mark 12:30
- Ephesians 4:29
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Comment your answer! Questions:
- What are some 'fun barriers' you've faced in your marriage, and how did you overcome them?
- How do you prioritize God in your relationship?
- What are some ways you and your spouse practice your promises to one another?
- What are your favorite ways to have fun with your spouse?
Happy Valentine’s! Whether you’re all about the romance or you think it’s just another day, we’re here to give you 14 creative ways to show love to your spouse—not just on Valentine’s Day, but all year round!
There are so many things in life that can distract us from prioritizing our spouse, so we’re sharing practical, fun, and flirty ways to keep the love alive in your marriage. From love notes and surprise treats to sexy texts and spontaneous date nights, these simple yet powerful gestures can help deepen your connection and bring you closer together.
đź’¬ Key Points Discussed:
✅ Why saying “I love you” and showing it matters
âś… 14 creative ways to keep the spark alive
âś… How small gestures (like sticky notes & long kisses) make a big impact
âś… The power of intentional touch, flirtation, and planned dates
✅ How to prioritize your spouse daily—even in a busy life
đź“– Bible Verses Mentioned:
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – Love is patient, love is kind…
- Ephesians 5:25 – Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church…
- Proverbs 5:18-19 – Rejoice in the wife of your youth…
đź’¬ Question:
Which of these 14 ways do you already practice? Which one do you want to try next? Let us know in the comments!
❤️ Don’t forget to subscribe for more faith-based marriage encouragement!
📢 Like this episode? Share it with a couple who needs to hear it!
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Are you or your spouse navigating a difficult season? Whether it’s financial pressure, health challenges, or emotional struggles, this episode of Marriage Monthly dives deep into how to support a struggling spouse with care, empathy, and intention. 💛
Join Gabe and Melissa as they share 10 practical and faith-driven strategies to strengthen your marriage during tough times. From understanding their pace to encouraging their passions, each tip is rooted in Biblical wisdom and real-life experiences. You’ll also learn:
- How to truly listen and provide a safe space for your spouse.
- Why consistent encouragement and small wins matter.
- The importance of self-care when your spouse is struggling.
- How to embrace their pace and celebrate progress.
- Why prayer and faith are essential for breakthrough moments.
🔑 Scripture References:
- Ephesians 4:2: “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.”
- Philippians 4:6-7: “Don’t be anxious about anything…”
This episode is packed with actionable advice to help you navigate hard seasons together, with God at the center. Don’t miss it! 🙌
💬 What’s one way you’ll apply these tips this week? Let us know in the comments!
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Drama can feel unavoidable, especially during high-pressure seasons like the holidays, but it doesn’t have to define your marriage. In this episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa Kolstad dive into the unique challenges couples face when drama creeps in and share their proven five-step P.E.A.C.E. Plan for navigating conflict and restoring harmony in your relationship.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- The root causes of marital drama and why it often doubles in December.
- How to approach disagreements with intentionality and prayer.
- The P.E.A.C.E. Plan:
Key Bible Verses:
- Matthew 5:9 – “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.”
- Romans 12:18 – “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
- Philippians 4:6-7 – “Do not be anxious about anything… And the peace of God… will guard your hearts and your minds.”
Discussion Questions:
- What unresolved drama is currently stealing your peace in marriage?
- Which step of the P.E.A.C.E. Plan can you implement this week?
With practical advice, scriptural wisdom, and real-life examples, this episode equips you with tools to build a stronger, more peaceful marriage, even when life feels chaotic.
Welcome to another enriching episode of Marriage Monthly, where Gabe and Melissa Kolstad dive into the joys and intricacies of vacationing together. This episode is not just about the relaxation and escape vacations offer, but about deepening bonds and creating lasting memories. Whether it’s exploring the cultural tapestry of Copenhagen, experiencing the heritage-rich scenes of Scandinavia, or simply enjoying the thrill of new destinations, Gabe and Melissa share their insights on how vacations can significantly enrich relationships.
Key Points Covered:
•Strategic Vacationing: Learn the art of planning and executing memorable vacations that rejuvenate your relationship.
•Economic Travel Tips: Discover how to enjoy lavish trips without the lavish price tag, including tips on using travel points effectively.
•Making Memories: Understand why creating shared memories is foundational to a strong relationship and how to make the most out of every trip.
•Balancing Relaxation with Adventure: Explore the dynamics of different vacationing styles and find what best suits your relationship.
Resources Mentioned:
•Expedia for booking and managing travel plans to maximize points.
•Groupon for affordable travel deals.
•Specific travel credit cards for earning points towards free trips.
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Do you ever feel like life’s busyness is pulling your family in different directions? In this episode, we unpack the challenge of maintaining meaningful connections amidst work, schedules, and the chaos that comes with raising teenagers. Whether it’s reclaiming family dinners, embracing intentional moments, or balancing personal goals with relationships, we’ve got practical insights to help you reconnect.
Join us as we discuss:
- Navigating the Shift: How to adjust when teenagers start working and schedules get hectic.
- Replacing Busy with Intentionality: Why swapping “busy time” for “together time” makes all the difference.
- Avoiding Relational Drift: How to stay emotionally connected even during long, hard seasons.
- Productivity vs. Presence: Finding a healthy balance between achieving goals and making space for loved ones.
- Practical Tips to Reconnect: From family walks to casual errands—small actions that build deeper bonds.
Whether you’re in the thick of raising kids, pursuing personal goals, or simply feeling disconnected from loved ones, this episode offers relatable stories and helpful advice.
Resources Mentioned:
- Family Dinner Rituals – Why creating consistent time matters.
- Tips for Intentional Breaks – Making space for each other amidst busy schedules.
- Personal Reflections on Parenting and Marriage – How we’ve stayed connected through life’s ups and downs.
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In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa dive into the three critical signs that indicate a marriage may be heading toward misery. With compassion and practical advice, they help listeners identify these signs and provide actionable steps to restore joy and connection in their relationships.
Key Topics Covered:
- Sign 1: Emotional Disconnect: Learn to recognize when communication breaks down and feelings of loneliness set in. Gabe and Melissa discuss the importance of prioritizing emotional intimacy and engagement.
- Sign 2: Constant Conflict: Understand how frequent arguments can erode the foundation of a marriage. They share strategies for navigating conflicts constructively and turning disagreements into opportunities for growth.
- Sign 3: Lack of Commitment: Explore the signs of complacency and disengagement. Gabe and Melissa emphasize the necessity of recommitting to one another and share practical tips for reigniting passion and dedication.
- Actionable Solutions: For each sign, the couple provides concrete steps couples can take to address issues and enhance their marriage, fostering a deeper connection and understanding.
Resources Mentioned:
- Biblical Reference: Ephesians 4:2-3, focusing on humility and patience in relationships.
- Practical Exercises: Suggestions for activities that couples can do together to strengthen their bond.
If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment or question below, and let us know your thoughts. Your feedback helps us create more valuable content for couples striving to build stronger marriages.
Join us next month for another impactful episode where we continue to explore the challenges and triumphs of marriage. Together, we can make every relationship stronger and more fulfilling.
In this heartwarming episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa are joined by a very special couple—Melissa's father, Pastor Ken Wooten, and his wife, Luetta. Together, they share invaluable insights on how to keep the sweetness alive in marriage, drawing from decades of personal experience and a deep commitment to each other.
Key Topics Covered:
- Sweetness in Marriage: Discover how small, daily acts of kindness can transform your relationship. From holding hands to bringing morning coffee in bed, Gabe and Melissa highlight the power of these simple gestures.
- Influence of Upbringing: Pastor Ken and Luetta discuss how their upbringing influenced their approach to marriage and how they consciously chose to build a loving, peaceful home.
- Importance of Positivity: Learn how a positive attitude and laughter can lead to a sweeter, more fulfilling relationship. The couple shares practical advice on avoiding sharp words and mean looks, emphasizing the impact of staying positive.
- Practical Tips: From daily rituals like praying together to creating time for just the two of you, this episode is packed with actionable advice to keep your marriage strong and loving, even amidst the busyness of life.
Resources and References:
- Marriage Seminars: The couple talks about attending seminars early in their marriage to learn how to build a strong relationship.
- Bible Verses: 1 Corinthians 13:4 - "Love suffers long and is kind," and how it applies to marriage.
- Books & Tools: Mention of marriage enrichment resources that have helped shape their relationship.
If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment below to share your thoughts and experiences. Let's work together to spread love, kindness, and sweetness in marriages everywhere!
Join us next month for more inspiring stories and practical advice on building a marriage that stands the test of time.
In this powerful episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa delve into one of the most difficult challenges in relationships: infidelity. With compassion and insight, they explore the complex reasons why couples cheat and provide a comprehensive guide on how to recover from broken trust.
Key Topics Covered:
- Understanding Infidelity: Dive deep into the reasons behind cheating, from distorted views of sexuality to emotional dissatisfaction within the marriage.
- Biblical Perspectives: Learn about the biblical principles surrounding marriage, trust, and restoration, emphasizing that God honors the process of rebuilding a relationship.
- Impact of Culture: Discuss how modern culture, including the influence of pornography and changing sexual norms, affects marital fidelity.
- Setting Boundaries: Practical advice on establishing physical, relational, spatial, emotional, and technological boundaries to safeguard your marriage.
- Healing and Recovery: Steps to forgive, rebuild trust, and create a marriage recovery plan. Hear real-life success stories of couples who have overcome infidelity.
Staying Connected:
Tips on keeping your marriage vibrant, including flirting, dating, and maintaining emotional and physical intimacy.
Resources Mentioned:
Documentary: "Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Cyber Attacks"
Survey Data: From Today's Christian Woman and The Gospel Coalition
Bible Verses: Exodus 20:14, Proverbs 6:32, Matthew 5:27-28, 1 Corinthians 7:5
If you found this episode helpful, please like, share, and subscribe to Marriage Monthly. Leave a comment or question below, and let us know your thoughts. Your feedback helps us create more valuable content for you and other couples striving to build stronger marriages.
Join us next month for another impactful episode where we continue to explore the challenges and triumphs of marriage. Together, we can make every relationship stronger and more fulfilling.
In this episode, we discuss the importance of maintaining a healthy household and share tips for a happy marriage.
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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Learn how to keep things spicy in your relationship with these helpful tips! Don't let the spark die.
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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In this episode, we discuss the transition from power trips to partnership in relationships. Tune in for valuable insights and tips on how to build a strong and healthy partnership with your significant other.
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Monthly, Gabe and Melissa Kolstad dive deep into the heart of what it means to say "I love you" in a marriage. Discover the three essential types of love - Eros, Phileo, and Agape - and learn why your marriage might feel out of balance without them. From the passionate beginnings with Eros to the deep friendship of Phileo and the unconditional, sacrificial Agape love, the Kolstads share personal insights and biblical wisdom on how to nurture each type of love in your relationship. Whether you're newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode will inspire you to look at your love life in a whole new way. Tune in to explore how these loves work together and why getting them in the right order can transform your marriage. Don't miss this blend of humor, honesty, and practical advice that could be the key to deepening your connection and ensuring your love thrives through the years.
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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In this video, we'll discuss how changing your thoughts can positively impact your marriage. Learn the power of mindset and how shifting your perspective can improve your relationship with your spouse. Don't miss out on this valuable advice for a healthier and happier marriage! #marriageadvice #mindsetshift #relationshipgoals
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthlypodcast
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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In this episode, we're talking about boredom in marriage and how to overcome it. Whether you've been married for a few years or a few decades, boredom can sneak in and take a toll on your relationship. We'll discuss practical tips to spice up your marriage and keep the spark alive! #MarriageAdvice #relationshiptips
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
LINKS & RESOURCES:
SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemont...
Visit us any Sunday at 8:30am, 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad...
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_k...
Thanks so much for joining us!
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Don't let the stress of the holidays get to you! In this video, we're going to share some tips on how to have less stress this holiday season. From dealing with kids and Christmas on your own to marriage during the holiday season, we've got you covered!
No matter what kind of holiday stress you're dealing with, we're here to help. Check out this video and learn some tips on how to have less stress this holiday season!
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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If you're feeling like money is destroying your relationship, then you're not alone. This episode of Marriage Monthly is about money and how it can be a problem in your marriage. Most importantly, we will provide ways to overcome this and share our best practices that will solve this problem. Money should help your marriage, not destroy it.
In this episode, we'll be discussing the topic of money and how it can be a problem in your marriage. We'll be discussing the different ways money can damage your relationship, and offer ways to manage money and communication in a way that will support your marriage and let you flourish.
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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On October 2023, we'll be discussing Why Sex Matters in marriage. Join us to find out what makes sex such an important part of a strong and fulfilling relationship!
If you're married or in a committed relationship, then you know that sex is an essential part of a strong relationship. In this video, we'll be discussing why sex is so important and what makes it so special. We'll give you advice on how to make sex in your marriage even better, and discuss the benefits of sex in marriage!
Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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In this episode of Marriage Monthly, hosts Gabe and Melissa Kolstad discuss a common issue that many couples face: when your spouse is driving you crazy. They delve into the reasons why spouses can clash and how to understand and appreciate each other's differences. They also provide practical tips for resolving conflicts and improving your marriage. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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In this episode of Marriage Monthly, hosts Gabe and Melissa Kolstad discuss a common issue that many couples face: when your spouse is driving you crazy. They delve into the reasons why spouses can clash and how to understand and appreciate each other's differences. They also provide practical tips for resolving conflicts and improving your marriage. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: https://www.youtube.com/@marriagemonthly6027
Visit us any Sunday at 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com/
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad/?hl=en
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_kolstad/?hl=en
Thanks so much for joining us!
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In this episode of Marriage Monthly, hosts Gabe and Melissa Kolstad discuss a common issue that many couples face: when your spouse is driving you crazy. They delve into the reasons why spouses can clash and how to understand and appreciate each other's differences. They also provide practical tips for resolving conflicts and improving your marriage. Whether you're a newlywed or have been married for years, this podcast is a must-listen for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. Tune in to Marriage Monthly for more marriage tips and advice from a Christian perspective.
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SUBSCRIBE to always see our content and improve your marriage: / @marriagemonthly6027
Visit us any Sunday at 10am & 11:30am here: https://www.westsidecommunitychurch.com/
STAY CONNECTED:
Gabe: https://www.instagram.com/gabekolstad...
Melissa: https://www.instagram.com/melissa_b_k...
Thanks so much for joining us!
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Check out this episode to learn how to get a handle on your spouse's high maintenance behavior, and find out how to make your relationship happier and more fulfilling!
If you’re in a relationship, whether it’s been going well for a while or not so well, this episode is for you.
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In this episode, we talk about spiritual intimacy in marriage. We discuss what it means, how to have it, and why it’s so important.
If you’re in a relationship, whether it’s been going well for a while or not so well, this episode is for you. We discuss why spiritual intimacy is so important in a relationship, what it looks like, and how to create it. Whether you’re newly married or in a long-term relationship, this episode is a must-listen!
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In this episode, Gabe & Melissa talk about Fail Proof Your Marriage! In this episode, we're going to be discussing the steps you need to take to make sure that your marriage is fail-proof.
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Check out this weeks Marriage Monthly! In this video, we're going to share 3 Signs of a Miserable Marriage. If you're suffering in your marriage, chances are you're living out one or more of these signs and if you aren't suffering in your marriage, you will know what to avoid to make your marriage even better.
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As were in Valentines month, we want to encourage you with a few ways to bringing sexy back. Join Gabe and Melissa Kolstad in the secrets of showing your partner true, lasting love.
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In this video, Gabe and Melissa are discussing the phenomenon of doubt in marriage and how to deal with it.
Spouses can doubt each other in a number of ways, and it can pose a number of challenges in the relationship. If you're feeling doubtful about your spouse, hopefully this video helps! We're here help you navigate through this difficult period and build a stronger relationship in the process.
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In this video, we'll be discussing tips for making your love life more exciting with Gabe and Melissa Kolstad in our mission of helping you improve your marriage.
Whether you're new to the dating scene or you're feeling a little stale in your relationship, this video is for you! We'll give you some tips on how to spice up your love life and make it more enjoyable! So what are you waiting for? Get started on your journey to a more exciting love life!
Share this podcast with your favorite couple to give them a relationship boost today and some tips on how to navigate the different phases they will come across in their marriage!
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This month on the podcast we are talking about How To Get on The Same Page With Your Spouse in our mission of helping you improve your marriage.
Share this podcast with your favorite couple to give them a relationship boost today and some tips on how to navigate the different phases they will come across in their marriage!
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This month on the podcast we are talking about how to navigate the phases of marriage in our mission of helping you improve your marriage.
Share this podcast with your favorite couple to give them a relationship boost today and some tips on how to navigate the different phases they will come across in their marriage!
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In-laws, jealousy, money troubles, conflict, blow-ups, meltdowns, insecurity, and third wheels. Yikes! If those words trigger your anxiety, you may be experiencing DRAMA in your marriage. In this episode Gabe and Melissa unpack the WEAPONS of drama, and how to effectively deal with it so you can get back to peace.
Join Gabe and Melissa this month as they discuss how to Create a Safe Zone.
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Join Gabe and Melissa this month as they discuss how to Jump Start Your Marriage.
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Join Gabe and Melissa this month as they discuss a top cause of divorce and how to avoid it.
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This month we're joined by our guests Ron and Julie Baum as they share their experience creating solid boundaries to keep out the intruders of marriage.
Have you ever stepped on a marriage land mine? It's no fun! It can instantly compromise the peace in your relationship. Join Gabe and Melissa this month as they explain how to spot and avoid the land mines of marriage.
It's an important question: How healthy is your most important relationship? We'll tackle that question this month, along with tips on what to do if you discover toxic tendencies.Â
A lot of marriages and families are more stressed and divided after Christmas than before. Don't let this happen to you. Here's some help for the holidays.
As you get ready for the holidays, we want to help you score some extra points this season by creating some new traditions. Take a listen and find out why traditions are sexy, and how they just might save your marriage.
Modern family dynamics can be a lot to work with! Step-parents, exes, starting over, moving on...all of these factors can add stress to your family. But many are succeeding. Tune in as our guests Tim and Melissa share the secrets to their happiness.
Too often, marriage has a reputation for being dull when it comes to the bedroom. But apparently God intended for married couples to have a RED HOT sex life with one another. Dive in with us this month as we explore (1) What sex IS, (2) What sex ISN'T, (3) The purpose behind it all, and (4) How to effectively flirt with your spouse.
Bringing faith into your home can be an intimidating prospect. Join us this month as we break it down and share practical tips, ideas and experiences.
With every great relationship comes conflict. That may be a surprise to hear, but when you fight right your marriage is stronger afterward.
In a time when romantic pursuit has been more challenging than ever, don't let your marriage grow stale! This month we share date ideas for every season, giving you a boost in creativity and planning so you can get that spark back.
Parenting is the greatest thrill and the greatest challenge! Being a good parent is something we all want, but with so much to juggle it's difficult to keep our marriages hot while helping our kids grow. Jump in with us as we explore time-tested practices for raising your kids without wrecking our marriage.
Communication can make or break a marriage. Learn the 3 important areas to watch, and how to break through instead of breaking down.
Having "Home Sweet Home" is within your grasp! In this episode we share 4 simple steps to a sweeter home - learned from decades of experience, trial and error, and good advice from the people we respect most.
Not everybody does it - but everybody should! Couples that serve together are happier, and serving together is so easy! Check out this short episode for an inspiring story of Kevin & June, a couple who have found their passion in serving the underserved together, and for tips on how you can take your next step in building your marriage.
We're convinced marriage can be the most exhilarating aspect of your life. Sometimes all that's lacking is consistent adventure. This episode takes a fun look at some proven ways to ditch your excuses and add that spice back to your life.
Everyone knows you're supposed to love your spouse. But what if you liked each other more? In this episode we'll walk through why Friendship makes such a big difference in enjoying your marriage, and how to make progress no matter where you're starting from.
Welcome to Marriage Monthly - a monthly boost for your marriage intended to give guidance, point out landmines, provide tips and encourage community as you navigate your most important relationships.