The Betrayed, The Addicted, The Expert: Recent Episodes
Ashlynn Mitchell, Brannon Patrick, Coby Mitchell
Have you been through an affair, or struggle with healing a shattered or disconnected relationship?
Each week we will share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.
Caller Question: "I am in the process of filing for divorce. I feel it was the right decision, however now that Have been out of the situation that caused a nervous system overload, and as the hurt caused is starting to fade, I am more clearly able to see my role/issues/shortcomings I played a role in in the marriage (critical, expecting him to live up to my husband “manual”, layering shame on top of his already existing shame) the list goes on … this is leaving me with conflicting feelings… and it hurts. It isn’t fun to see that I guess my question is how do I sort through the feelings of the divorce being what I needed to do and feeling like … I could have done much better at ex//(Not layering on the shame whenever he made a mistake/speaking my truth calmly when triggered )… the feeling is maybe there is more I could have done? I am feeling a responsibility for the situation too where I hadn’t really before…. Kind of a messy, unorganized question, but these are my thoughts. Thanks for your time!"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
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Caller Question: " In sex addiction, can you and your partner's attachment style be mislabeled? I have several women that I know that think they are "avoidant" because they are rejecting their husband's external validation seeking through sex. Is addiction usually avoidant attachment?"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify Come join us at one of our Retreats! https://risingsonconference.com
Caller Question: "My husband just got back from your Rising Son conference and it’s feeling like he’s changing and becoming the man I’ve always known he could become. The problem is now that he’s taking his place in our family I am losing my place as the strong steady lead of our family. I honestly don’t know where I fit. So my question is 2 fold, 1: As he embraces his masculinity how do I embrace my femininity? I don’t even know what that means. 2: Does one weekend of spiritual awakening just erase 11 years of pornography addiction. I terrible that I can’t move on like he is."
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify Come join us at one of our Retreats! https://risingsonconference.com
Caller Question: "What is the best way to handle a relapse, both for the person struggling with addiction and for their partner? What is the best way to move forward?"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify Come join us at one of our Retreats! https://risingsonconference.com
Guest Ashlynn joins Brannon for a unique episode focused on recovery from different types of pain, Betrayal and Divorce.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way. Join her on her new podcast HERE Follow her on social media at HERE Mentor with her at HERE My guest today is Kristin Hodson, she is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. Founder & CEO of The Healing Group. She has a unique ability to break down the topics of sexuality into easily digestible pieces empowering people to further develop their sexual identity. Online courses a https://www.kristinbhodson.com Follow her on social media: HERE Kristin talked about the 6 principles of sexual health SEXUAL HEALTH CONSENT NON EXPLOITATION HONESTY MUTUAL PLEASURE FREE FROM STI & PREGNANCY SHARED VALUES
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.Jessica Miller is an LCSW who has worked with children and families who have experienced trauma. she works to help people heal from significant emotional, physical or sexual abuse using various trauma modalities along with attachment theory. Jessica hosts the podcast Thoughts on Thoughts with two fellow therapists, KJ Reid and Taylor Thomas. KJ a licensed therapist and for most of her career she worked in residential treatment with at risk teens. She is now a stay at home mom and have a private practice where she mainly works with adult women who are working to heal trauma and insecure attachment styles. She started the podcast Thoughts on Thoughts with Jessica and Taylor in 2018 to help people have more access to the things we talk about in therapy that we feel should be common knowledge so that people can work on having healthier relationships. After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest! Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller: Hi! Betrayed partner here (porn addiction). I'm a new listener & I just listened to E58-is it ok to be attracted to more than 1 person. I have to say that coming from the betrayed partner's perspective, what was said & talking about the "3 second rule" is terrifying! For a lot of us, our partners could only have sex with us BECAUSE they had an image of someone else in their mind OR it was someone that he saw that made him want to have sex with his partner ONLY because she's the only physical option at the time &\or didn't have the opportunity to go masturbate at the time. So after seeing an attractive woman, even if it's hours later, we're wondering if it's REALLY me he wants to be with or is he just fantasizing about her. & if we don't have sex, we're thinking it's because, after seeing her, he just isn't aroused with "settling" for me! It's a huge double edged sword for some of us. How in the world are we supposed to get past that?
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify Come join us at one of our Retreats! https://risingsonconference.com
Trusting ourselves is a challenge as it denotes that we know who we are inside despite expectations around us. Yoga Therapist and betrayal trauma body expert, Sariah Bastian joins Coby to discuss the importance of trusting ourselves and how to do it.
Sariah Bastian can be reached HERE
You can follow her on IG HERE
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
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Ellie is my youngest of two daughters. She is my fiery redhead who teaches me to have more empathy, more love & how to do my makeup! She is would take over this podcast if I let her, so we may have more Ellie in our future.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
I don't feel like i have a really clear question to ask, i've just been in limbo for 3 years. Knowing God will bring me and my spouse back together and it happening feel like two alien forces working against eachother. As my counselor says, "i am the only one who can determine how long I can live this way." After 3 years of separation, i would say he is still doing things for recovery, but he doesn’t know why he’s not safe, why I don’t trust him, and I’m not convinced he believes he needs “recovery.” He had 3 affairs, 20+ years, does Bible study, has accountability partner I don’t think is helping, has counselors that seem to think I need to forgive him, and he says if he moves into the house he would be able to be emotionally intimate. I completely agree with your comments about him never trusting me, and I don’t think he can trust me yet. I do wonder if I should take the leap, trust God, let him move in, trust he will move towards me, etc? I believe in a God of miracles, but He also blessed me with a brain and values me as His child, He wants me to be in a relationship where I am cherished and loved. I am patient, obviously, and I’m one of those that doesn’t want to pull the trigger, but I want to honor God and where He wants me. Am I crazy?
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
Candice is a Master's level psychologist, and has worked in jail and prison settings as well as in crisis work too (doing assessments at hospitals for people whom are in a mental health crisis of some kind). She has experience working with suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety and trauma. She recently started her own practice in June. She's a single mother to her son, and they live in Michigan. You can find Candice on IG at @hoperising_candice_mallp & on psychology today HERE
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
"I loved the Podcast I listened to on Boundaries. So much great info, tools and principles discussed. I appreciated the podcast because of the difficulty I had with a group my wife got involved in that did a lot of the things you talked about and then some. I'm willing to bet they've destroyed more families that they have actually helped. They broke so much of my own trust and actually caused me a lot of trauma. I had to do multiple therapy sessions of EMDR to get over that. My wife (soon to be ex) is stuck in her victimhood and refuses to move on. It took me a long time to realize that my wife was the last bad habit I had to kick to get into Recovery. I have found new love and have the connection I have always wanted using the tools and principles I have found here.
My question is along the lines of my wife retaining her victim status and not moving forward, especially due to the women’s group she is with. Because of that I have been cut off from my son. I have seen or talked to him in 3 months now. I’m trying to go through the legal system and enforce my parental rights but it takes so long and my child is almost 18. So perhaps my question is how do you deal and go through the process of parental alienation? I have literally had to grieve the loss of my son due to my wife’s inability to cope with her emotions and continue to emotionally abuse and manipulate my child."
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
BenJoe joins Coby to discuss the emotions that come along with moving a family from El Salvador back to the US after 11 years. Having 5 kids and lots of professional and ecclesiastical responsibilities, BenJoe shares how he has navigated such a transition as a parent, partner, professional and individual.
Ben is the COO of an international call agency and has lived overseas for 11 years. Upon returning home he shares how he dealt with the issues he faced as a parent, partner, professional and individual. Facing emotions and looking ahead to forcast what could happen helped him anticipate what issues his kids and wife may have so he could deal with it the way that was best for him and his family. You can follow BenJoe on Linkedin at:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/benjoem
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
Find the podcast "Grow With Coby" on any podcast app.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
Caller Question: "Does society manufacture Lust addicts through shame? i'm seeing more in myself and my fellows in SAL how damaging shame is to recovery. this mentality of "I'm a sexaholic, an addict" whilst i personally feel necessary in the start of recovery, is causing a lot of shame-train and relapse. I see shame still being this huge driving force that is impeding my growth. i'd love to discuss with you guys your thoughts on if Lust actually is the problem, or if it's this pressure that we have put on ourselves due to our morals, shame on not living them, and if there's a self-fulfilling cycle out there that society at large provides me that fuels this train. it makes me curious if there's a better method than the "I'm a sexaholic" deal"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
Nate Farnsworth is the Presiden and CEO of Factory Six which is a private label CBD manufacturer but is also a friend of Coby's and has been for years. He has spent many years in business as an entrepreneur and has thrown his hat in the arena of extreme sports in that he has run an ultra marathon in the Wasatch mountains at high elevation but also ran marathons and many half marathons.
He and Coby discuss what discomfort is about both physically and mentally especially when we are in stressful situations in life. Learning to access those situations and evaluate their intensity and corresponding emotions is vital in reducing collateral damage in our lives and relationships.
Nate can be found on IG @natan720 or at his companies website factory6cbd.com
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller Question: "How can I be a Sex Addict and a Sexual Anorexic? In a recent podcast about increasing sex drive, sexual anorexia was mentioned, and I looked into it. As a sex addict it seems confusing that I would also be a sexual anorexic, but the criteria seems to fit. My wife and I were physical while dating, but as soon as we got married the desire for sexual intimacy disappeared. The pornography addiction remained, but despite my wife's desire for sex, I struggled to be intimate with her. I assumed it was the addiction, but 3 years of recovery has not increased the sexual desire for my wife. Is it Sexual Anorexia? Intimacy Anorexia? Or something else entirely?"
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
My guest, Emma Belle was born in the UK and lives in Dubai with her partner and two gorgeous cats. They are currently going through fertility treatment to try and have a family. They have had 7 rounds of fertility treatments (ovulation inductions and IUI).
She is a survivor of Domestic violence and sexual trauma and was diagnosed with Bipolar 10 years ago. She now gives back to others. You can find her weekly online support groups HERE for those living with Bipolar Disorder and those that are sadly TFMR Mamas.
She is an ambassador for www.bipolaruk.org and is host a new podcast for them called "Let's talk bipolar".
She is the host of the Vulnerability Rocks Podcast where her guests bravely step in to vulnerability to share their own experiences to help others.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
Scott & Melissa join from Canada. They allowed us to dig into some of the ups and downs of their journey in recovery. The hard parts including D-day, miscarriage, and feeling disconnected from God. The highlights including rebuilt trust, overcoming sexual anorexia, and Love. We had some beautiful moments filled with emotion. Thank you for sharing this with us Scott & Melissa.
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
My guest Amy is a business owner, designer, mother and wife. She is passionate about building and growth in her life, within herself, her business, and building up those around her. She lives and works in Utah’s Heber Valley with her husband and three kids. She enjoys spending time outside (especially the desert), wake surfing and boating, traveling, playing pickleball and spending time with family.
Amy has a passion for creating spaces and values the vulnerability that comes with design. Her business Styled Life Design specializes in new build construction design. She believes that your environment can reflect you, and help you to achieve your dream life.
We met in line at a conference where i was speaking. Kept in contact online. Then years later wound up rooming together at ALT summit in Palm Springs California - the rest is history I suppose. Lots of events, dance parties, walk and talks, Marco polos, more conferences, karaoke, axe throwing, double dates — you name it. We do the fun and the serious, laugh and cry. We talk therapy, kids, business, spirituality and life.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller Question: How do I overcome residual lack of self confidence and catastrophizing after childhood bullying? I still struggle with lack of confidence and fear of what life holds after childhood bullying. I have a hard time loving myself and believing that I deserve success because I still have residual beliefs that shape my self image and identity. I would love more insight on what I can do to forge a new life and move past this."
We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). Tap here to listen on Apple Podcasts Tap here to listen on Spotify
Lucy Mitchell, daughter to Coby shares her story about creating spike to use as a character who puts thoughts in her head that aren't hers and actions that don't represent who she really is.
Spike has four methods of trying to keep us from being our true and #authentic selves.
TEMPT US: This is when thoughts of losing #patience, lashing out, making decisions that do not reflect who we really are, and become actions that cause damage to ourselves and our #relationships.
SHAME US: Thoughts like "I'm not good #enough", or "They will never forgive me", or "I'm so stupid because of what I did." As humans, we don't come wired to think these thoughts but by living life the Spike Narrative does come and these #destructive thoughts are not us.
MOUNTAINS OUT OF MOLEHILLS: When something goes wrong and all of a sudden it's doomsday and we've lost all hope or thoughts of catastrophe flow one after another.
MINIMIZE, RATIONALIZE AND JUSTIFY: This is when lashing out becomes ok. This is when thoughts of hurting #relationships are rationalized or justified. This is when thoughts of NOT being one's self are "ok".
The best way to know these is to spend a few moments each day thinking about how these thoughts showed up.
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
My guest today is my friend Amanda. She is a mom to four kids living in Northern Utah. She's been on a journey of healing and expanding and evolving for the last 3 years. She loves to be outside in any capacity, traveling, dancing and other ridiculousness, and is learning to lean into things that scare her or make her uncomfortable. Like being on this podcast. She is not an expert but has found so much healing in mindfulness and mediation and crystals.
Amanda was in one of my groups and then won a ticket to a dance party and I invited her to my house to get ready before. It was one of the scariest things she had ever done showing up by herself that night but she will never regret it! So so happy and grateful we became friends!
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller Question: "What Does Healthy Masculinity Have To Do With Recovery?" Brannon and Tyler talk with guest Jon about his recovery and the different periods of growth that he's experienced and what the obstacles have been. Brannon and Tyler both know Jon and have had the chance to watch him develop into the man that he is today.
Join us and 29 other men at our Rising Son Men's Conference this September from the 23rd - 25th at Bear Lake. This experience is designed for Christian men seek to build a deeper connection to God, Self, and Others while experiencing Higher Level Recovery principles through immersive activities. https://risingsonconference.com
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com.
When anxiety and then overwhelming feelings hit in a very abrupt and sudden way, Coby faces the reality of his emotions in an effort to find out what is really behind the anger he feels. He used the following steps to work through this emotional upheaval.
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Recognized his body saying something was off by manifesting #anxiety.
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Identified the #overwhelming #emotions without #judging them.
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Changed the #music to a #playlist that would help him #calm down.
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Recognized his #projecting #anger on another driver on the road as his own #emotional #overload and realized there was more going on inwardly.
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Listed the current situations (situational #triggers) that were going on in life and what #emotions each one evoked.
This process allowed Coby to #connect with himself and process in a way that gave him insights into what his body was saying. This allowed him to not take #emotions out on anyone but to be #calm when returning home to his girls.
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
My guest today is my former therapist, Amy Andrus. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013. She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma.
Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual change and work with the family system to ensure long-term growth and change. Amy's a single mom of six. Her youngest daughter has Down Syndrome, and raising her has taught her countless life lessons. Find her on Instagram at @askamyandrus Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
The Therapy Brothers focus on the need for healthy boundaries and define a little more clearly what that is by playing out some real world scenarios from their therapy practices. Tyler even digs into some of his own recovery work with his wife and boundaries he got hung up on.
If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com or therapybros.com.
Situations that lead to intense #emotions, which in turn create #behavior that is unwanted. That is a situational #trigger and they are real in everyday life. Here are a few takeaways from the episode.
There are 2 types of situational triggers:
- Know situational #triggers
- Unknow situational #triggers
Within those are 2 variations:
- Current situational #triggers
- Ongoing situational #triggers
HOW DO WE IDENTIFY THEM?
- Which situations have intense emotions surrounding them?
- Which roles in life have these situations as an: #individual, #professional, #parent or #partner, whatever applies
WHAT DO WE DO ONCE WE IDENTIFY THEM?
- List them by the role you play
- Rank the intensity on a 1-10 scale with 10 being most intense
HOW DO I USE THIS CONCEPT EACH DAY?
- Rank their intensity on a 1-10 scale each day till they no longer play a role in life.
- Identify which situations you will face each week and the night before each day.
- When you can't control situations around you, all you can do is pour your energy into the things you can control, your dailies in preparing mentally, physically, and spiritually.
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
Kallie is an operating room nurse who lives with her husband and two children in Iowa. Meditation and mindfulness have been an integral part of her healing journey. They had such an impact on her that she became a certified meditation instructor. Kallie trained under Deepak Chopra and Roger Gabriel through the Chopra Center and now enjoys sharing the gifts of mindfulness and meditation with others in small and sustainable steps.
You can find her HERE
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller Question: "How Do I Increase My Sexual Desire While I'm Working My Recovery?"
We hope you found something meaningful in this episode. If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com or therapybros.com.
Knowing yourself enough to the extent of seeing the same frustrating and maddening situations come ahead of time and then still losing your cool is nuts. It is also common. Why does this happen? What can be done to prevent it? That is what this episode is about.
#Emotions that trigger #behavior we don't want are so so common in every human but how do we experience them without getting so upset?
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
"How can I determine whether it's scrupulosity or if I am in denial again? A few years ago, I was diagnosed with scrupulosity. During my upbringing, my understanding of religion became very strict, and I acquired the perception that I needed to be perfect in order to be worthy and loved in the sight of God. I was led to believe that if I felt certain feelings that I was sinning. These feelings of worthlessness were coped with sexual misbehaviors. Throughout my youth, I began be very obsessive about confessing my sins to my church leaders. I literally saw repentance as confession, and yet I couldn't figure out why I still felt unworthy no matter how much I would confess, so I assumed I wasn't specific enough, that I didn't cover enough, and that I never did enough to be forgiven by God. My addiction progressed into my marriage as well as my obsessive confessions but to my wife, yet there were obvious patterns of denial as well. I struggle to know the difference within me."
We hope you found something meaningful in this episode. If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com or therapybros.com.
Being ready to face life each day is not complex but our brains resist new activities because it is not a #routine and our brains operate best on cruise control. So how do we establish #dailyhabits that foster physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual balance so we can show up our best selves when life goes sideways? This episode is about sharing best practices for establishing dailies.
#Workout: 30 minutes
#Spiritual Devotional: 10 minutes
#Journal Daily Emotions by Role in Life: 5 minutes
Share emotions with your safe person: read your list of emotions
Things to keep in mind about dailies:
-Do what you enjoy so it is #sustainable
-Take the path of least resistance
-Use your tech to establish #reminders
-Plan ahead by reviewing when #dailies are scheduled each night for the next day
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
For more info and to connect with Coby go to growwithcoby.com
Jordan Ferney has been my friend since I was 9 years old & she always had big ideas. She continues to create as a successful entrepreneur building www.OhHappyDay.com & Color Factory. She is currently a contributing editor at Domino Magazine, living in NYC with her 3 cute kids & lovely artist husband Paul. You can find Jordan at HERE
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible when life doesn't go as planned & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of intention & freedom.
Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
After producing 200 episodes together. The Hosts of the Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert have expanded to 3 separate podcasts still supporting those healing in there journeys of life.
Sundays join the "Grow with Coby" show for the tools to grow and heal from the challenges of life.
Monday join Brannon and his brother for "Real Talk Recovery" Podcast with of not 1 but 2 expert therapists.
Wednesdays check out "This is Ashlynn" as Ashlynn Mitchell reveals the people and process that support her in living her life to the fullest!
Each of these podcasts support you in relationships, healing from trauma, owning your sexuality, finding authenticity, and enjoying life beyond the trials.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Caller Question: "Masturbation. Ive heard both of your episodes on it. As well as one from sex for saints podcast. I dont deny theres a change in the church about masturbation and love the new movement you're a part of to speak up. Im hopping aboard to speak up publicly about how I'm a recovering sexaholic, working the SAL program, etc. So far from what you guys have spoken about in regards to masturbation, i agree to a degree. But I was hoping you could help answer my question: I'm curious if you could speak more to how lust plays a part in masturbation. From my own experiences it definitely has played a central role. And as a married man i dont know if i can masturbate without lusting to a degree that would ruin my recovery/slippery slope and scratch the itch/ relieve sexual tension/ etc. But for my kids. Teaching them. I agree a lot with what you've said, but i know that masturbation is a dangerous gateway into lust addiction." We hope you found something meaningful in this episode. If you're looking for insight into real recovery, you can find more stories and conversations like this on The REAL TALK RECOVERY Podcast hosted by The Therapy Brothers (Brannon Patrick LSCW "The Expert" and Tyler Patrick LMFT "The Wandering Therapist"). We'd love to have you as a guest. You can submit your question and have a real and honest conversation with 2 experienced therapists on realtalkrecovery.com or therapybros.com.
Ellie is my youngest of two daughters. She is my fiery redhead who teaches me to have more empathy, more love & how to do my makeup! She is would take over this podcast if I let her, so we may have more Ellie in our future.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
When we started this journey we had no idea, where it would lead. Although we have never taken a stand as to what should happen with a relationship after infidelity, we have strived to keep ours together.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
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Kelly Petersen is the friend that you want in your corner whether you're going through a tough time or having the best time of your life! We met through Instagram and have discovered we share a love for being your true self and teaching kids all about emotions.
She is lovingly known as Boundaries Babe by those who know her. She is passionate about all things self care, just graduated with her degree in elementary teaching where she is committed to creating safe classrooms and teaching for all students. She's been married 6 years and from Omaha, Nebraska.
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible after betrayal & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while being boundaried & free from the past.
She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of adventure & freedom. Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
When we started this journey we had no idea, where it would lead. Although we have never taken a stand as to what should happen with a relationship after infidelity, we have strived to keep ours together.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Connect on Instagram:
HERE
Ashlynn Mitchell kicks divorce & betrayal in the teeth. With her real world example of what’s possible when life doesn't go as planned & how to live boldly with compassion & forgiveness while free from the past. She is an advocate for women who want to live a life full of intention & freedom.
Come listen to her perspectives while she has conversations with those she loves & respects who share their #bethebuffalo moments that may just help you shift your own journey in a beautiful way.
Join her on her new podcast HERE
Follow her on social media at HERE
Mentor with her at HERE
When we started this journey we had no idea, where it would lead. Although we have never taken a stand as to what should happen with a relationship after infidelity, we have strived to keep ours together.
We still believe in what we teach. If you need help you can go to? Go to HERE
Click here to move beyond betrayal HERE
Connect on Instagram:
HERE
In this inaugural episode of Grow with Coby, he shares his daily eval format to review his day so he can show up his best self by reviewing how he did with specific skills. This overview of his format is a taste of how he will present concepts, skills, and best practices to cause less damage to self and people around but also to grow closer to one's self and deepen connections in life.
Want to be on an episode with Coby to walk through one of your hard situations in real-time? If so click HERE and click the contact button and email me with who you are and what situation you want to walk through.
Moving forward, Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby will be hosting their own podcasts so you can see how they face life in a way that demonstrates recovery without the context of betrayal and addiction. If you have not already, please listen to Episode 200
You can find Brannon here at Therapy Utah
Find Ashlynn here
Find Coby here
When we started this journey we had no idea, where it would lead. Although we have never taken a stand as to what should happen with a relationship after infidelity, we have strived to keep ours together.
Today's announcement was incredibly difficult and highly concerning for you our audience. And we feel it was now time to open up with a most intimate challenge that we have reached a place to share finally.
We still believe in the principles we have taught all along if you need help you can go to? Go to https://beyond-enough.com/step1
BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens! Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
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Brannon and Ashlynn discuss the lenses we all use in life to see things.
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What is over functioning? Is it a thing? Brannon and Ashlynn discuss this rarely mentioned but important topic.
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Brannon and Coby discuss this one skill that is overlooked and underrated in recovery. Simple but yet not easy.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASHLYNN!!!!! She is giving everyone a 30% discount on Beyond Betrayal for a limited time! Click the link below for that discount!
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There is another identity that is deep within each human and that is a sexual identity. How can a woman learn to be sexually empowered after she experiences betrayal? What does that look like?
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ASHLYNN!!!!! She is giving everyone a 30% discount on Beyond Betrayal for a limited time! Click the link below for that discount!
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Brannon and Coby discuss this topic that allows individuals to connect to themselves even when things are hard. Being able to know one's self enough to connect to the pain and yet still ask questions is a big deal and an effective skill in recovery.
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Brannon and Ashlynn talk about recovery demanding we grow and learn to respond rather than react but how is that done? Does this apply outside of the arena of addiction and betrayal? Yup. Listen to understand why.
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How do I recognize I'm overwhelmed? Does the feeling of overwhelm show up before I meltdown? How can I recognize it in future and what can I do to help myself get through it?
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby talk about the different ways that partners advance in recovery and the various speeds and what impact that can have and what it means.
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share their perspectives and vicarious experience on this topic. Many men have reached out having been betrayed by their female partners with either porn, masturbation or infidelity. This heart breaking but very real topic is more common than anyone would care to consider.
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It takes varying degrees of courage to disclose acting out but it does feel bette when shared but when the betrayed partner hears the news and are crushed. It is a crazy dichotomy but how is it navigated?
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Garrett Jonsson is the podcast producer and a public presenter for Fight the New Drug, an organization that is raising awareness about the harmful effects of porn using only science, facts and personal experiences. He shares his journey of recovery which includes 30 marathons in 30 days followed by riding his bike over 3,800 miles across The United States to raise awareness of the effects of porn. It is an unorthodox story of recovery and is beautiful at the same time.
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Acting out sexually was Coby's way of dealing with stress but having sex with his wife Ashlynn didn't yield the same result. Sex with Ashlynn was a disconnecting and selfish act for Coby because he had no idea what his own sexuality was about, let alone what sex with his partner was. This episode will talk about sex then vs sex now.
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Knowing which recovery efforts are counterfeits and which are not isn't as straight forward as one would think. Coby, Ashlynn, and Brannon share their experience with this principle.
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Not knowing if you are screwing up your kids is something that freaks out Coby, Ashlynn and Brannon. This episode brings light to a key concept to help parents do better simply by knowing better.
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Cameron Browne is a licensed therapist who specializes in addiction and betrayal trauma and he also uses trauma therapy, EMDR and ART, to help patients heal from their wounds. Coby and Ashlynn share their experience with using ART, accelerated resolution therapy, to move through their wounds that have caused them to stay stuck in behaviors they don't want.
Brannon has also done EMDR, eye movement desensitization and reprocessing, for years and also shares his thoughts on the the subject.
Cameron Browne is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor with 9 years of experience practicing therapy. He has a passion for helping people recover from trauma and believes that unresolved trauma is at the root of many mental health issues. This passion for treating trauma has led him to become trained in several trauma-focused therapies. He is trained in
Neurofeedback, EMDR, and has advanced training in Accelerated Resolution Therapy. Cameron currently has a private practice in Lindon, Ut. In his free time, he enjoys sports, movies, music, and outdoor activities including hiking, boating, golfing, and fishing. He enjoys spending time with his wife of 12 years and his three kids. He can be reached at: utahtraumacare.com
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BEYOND BETRAYAL, the latest program from Ashlynn and Brannon so you can get it when it reopens! Click here https://www.beyond-enough.com/beyondbetrayal
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Today's podcast is a controversial topic, but one that is becoming more and more at the center of healing from mental and emotional illnesses and challenges.
Today we have a frank and honest conversation about with our our guest "Javier". We hope to provide you a save place to learn about Ayahuasca and Huachuma and other plant medicines that can possible help in your healing.
Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share insights and their own experience with balancing a healthy relationship when things did not start out that way. Coby shares his perspective on the relationship he had with his own Mother and what impact it had on his marriage.
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Jessica joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to share her experience of hope and healing.
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby all share thier take on how essential it is to keep reality front of mind when considering where our partner is in their recovery. This episode discusses one key piece that could get in the way of reality.
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the concept of the one who betrayed in the relationship having a voice. This is a complicated but very important part of any relationship.
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Tony Overbay is an expert in Narcissism Personality Disorder and he joins Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby to talk the ins and outs of narcissism how how it comes to be. To find more about Tony Overbay go to his website at tonyoverbay.com.
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Murray Hidary is a music composer and shares how music, along with other therapy efforts, helped him heal from the biggest and most challenging trauma and trial of his life. He discusses what his role was in his own efforts as a composer to heal as well as thousands and thousands of others on his website mindtravel.com
Murray Hidary is a meditation teacher, composer and pianist. He studied Music and Composition at NYU & sees music as a bridge connecting that which is hidden with that which is manifest.
Hidary is well known for his SilentHikes where Participants wear headphones while they experience an environment such as a garden or a beach, guided by verbal and musical cues from him.
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While Brannon is on vacation, Ashlynn and Coby address what they have learned about going on holiday while still dealing with heavy issues and still being in the throws of recovery. They will address the following topics:
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healthy compartmentalism
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planning for triggers
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planning around "seasons"
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planning enough "recharge time"
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the very tricky topic of disclosure and how it can be messed up when denial is present.
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Dr. Robert Navarra is the guest on this episode and discusses the balanced way a couple can simultaneously work recovery while focusing on alternatives to codependency.
Dr. Navarra is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist and Master Trainer, and holds National Certification as a Master Addiction Counselor. He is a popular presenter at national conferences, podcasts, and webinars.
He has trained counselors and therapists nationally and internationally. Dr. Navarra has co-authored several book chapters with Drs. John and Julie Gottman and co-authored articles on Gottman Therapy for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy with Dr. John Gottman. Additionally, Dr. Navarra contributed an article on couple recovery from addiction for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy.
Based on his research at Mental Research Institute in Palo Alto California, Dr. Navarra created Roadmap for the Journey: A Path for Couple Recovery, a two-day workshop for couples in recovery from an addictive disorder. Roadmap for the Journey has been a featured workshop at Hazelden Betty Ford and has been given at treatment programs as well as in small, semi-private workshop settings. Dr. Navarra and Dr. John Gottman are currently researching the impact of Roadmap for the Journey in helping couples integrate recovery in their relationship, a missing element in most treatment programs. In collaboration with The Gottman Institute, Dr. Navarra has created a one-training workshop for counselors and therapists, called Couples and Addiction Recovery.
Dr. Navarra maintains a private practice in San Carlos, CA, specializing in providing marathon therapy for couples in distress, and for couples in addiction recovery.
He can be found at https://drrobertnavarra.com
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Coby shares his personal experience with letting go of his addiction and what that looked like but he also shares why he held onto it for so many decades without consciously knowing it. Brannon and Ashlynn also share their observations and experience on this difficult and perplexing concept.
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With the launch of their new program called BEYOND BETRAYAL, Ashlynn and Brannon share what they have both observed and what Ashlynn has experienced first hand. Listen as they describe what healing really feels like.
Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content. During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020 and extending through Sunday 27 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.
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This episode is focused on the topic of what to do when you find out your partner is cheating. Brannon and Ashlynn drill down on this situation and Ashlynn shares what she did in each case when her partner Coby cheated. Brannon also gives key insights into this situation from the perspective of the professional who has treated people for this exact situation.
Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content. During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.
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Beyond Betrayal is the newest program from BAE and in this episode, Brannon and Ashlynn outline the content. During the launch week, starting 15 Sept 2020, the program will be discounted by 40% so take advantage of this unique and comprehensive content that was masterfully put together by Brannon and Ashlynn both.
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Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn share their insights on 5 ways to work through betrayal triggers and discuss the launch of a new program for the betrayed called "Beyond Betrayal".
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Trusting one's self following betrayal can be so challenging. Knowing what is real and what is not, is a struggle. Listen as Brannon and Ashlynn share insights on what this path may look like.
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Is there a timeline I can follow on healing from betrayal? When will it stop hurting? How long till life is back to normal? Will it ever be normal? These questions are discussed in today's episode.
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Today, we have Kim Christensen (@talkwordytome) to the show! She is a writer, reader, mother, blogger, entrepreneur and creator of Loom Journals now Promptly. She’s been a journalist, radio talk show host and magazine editor & is working on her 2nd novel.
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Brannon is joined by Amy Andrus and three of her kids so they can share their perspective while going through their parents divorce.
Amy Andrus, Coby and Ashlynn's therapist, joins the podcast to share obstacles they faced and overcame in order to get into recovery.
Amy is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013. She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma.
Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual change and work with the family system to ensure long-term growth and change.
Amy's a single mom of six. Her youngest daughter has Down Syndrome, and raising her has taught her countless life lessons.
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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Ashlynn, and Coby to share her work on how to discuss healthy sexuality with kids.
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. She has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology.
In addition to her dissertation research on LDS women's sexuality and relationship to desire, she has taught college-level human sexuality courses. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. She offers online relationships and sexuality courses as well as live workshops and retreats for LDS couples and individuals.
She can be found at finlayson-fife.com
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In Part 2 of this series on How Sex Addiction and Betrayal Trauma Effect Kids, Dina joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to discuss the topic of empowering and educating kids on porn.
Dina Alexander is the founder and CEO of Educate and Empower Kids. She is the creator of How to Talk to Your Kids About Pornography and the "30 Days of Sex Talks" and "30 Days to a Stronger Child" programs. You can find her at https://educateempowerkids.org.
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In part 1 of 4 Stefanie Carnes join's BAE to discuss kids and talking sexuality. Often there are many considerations for a topic like this one and Stefanie shares her perspective on the matter.
Stefanie can be reached at https://stefaniecarnes.com
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby are joined by Kristin Hodson who is a sex therapist and they discuss how to establish sex in a relationship after a breach of trust.
Kristin Hodson is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. She has a unique ability to break down the topics of sexuality into easily digestible pieces empowering people to further develop their sexual identity.
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The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast production of Beyond Enough. This all started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick.
Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn discuss the behavior exhibited by one who cheats but are those the same behaviors of an addict?
The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast production of Beyond Enough. This all started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick.
Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the key distinctions between addictive behaviors and tendencies versus the way a narcissist presents.
April Davis joins Brannon, Ashlynn, and Coby to discuss a particular piece of education on women that had Coby speechless and if you know Coby, it is rare he is so.
A compelling speaker, creative consultant, visual artist, and wordsmith, April Davis has been featured in magazines, on podcasts, and on stage, sharing her wisdom, humor, and knowledge as the creator of The Vagina Blog and The Vagina Blog Podcast. Her passion and drive have created an entire community around female body health, as she empowers women and vagina owners to love themselves fully while focusing on bringing light to taboo topics that we just don't talk enough about, like sex and periods, along with self-love and positivity.
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The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast production of Beyond Enough. This all started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick. Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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Brannon and Ashlynn are joined by Bea who has been divorced and they discuss the dynamic of divorce and the impact that could have if not thought through correctly.
Alison Faulkner joins Ashlynn and Coby on this episode to share her personal experience of being compelled to change and what the outcome was. Her story parallels the lives of so many who deal with addiction and betrayal in that a life-changing can compel a person to slow down but what can that mean and what are the potential takeaways from such hardship.
Alison Faulkner of The Alison Show has made a career doing whatever she feels like doing. But it always involves finding ways to feel awesome and help others feel awesome too.
Alison is a branding and events expert with a highly engaged online community. She hosts an iTunes top 100 podcast with her music producer hubby called Awesome with Alison. And founded Alison's Brand School which has helped thousands through workshops and online courses that empower entrepreneurs with heart to build a brand that can support their dreams.
She collaborates and consults with Fortune 500 companies and believes in love, dancing inappropriately, and putting your own name in lights.
Hear Alison on her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/…/awesome-with-alis…/id1191721368 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/awesome-with-alison/id1191721368?fbclid=IwAR0kg1YUKMOWtom2tXx8lurBsW1OtjSqDJw_gEHJieZ8jjOajAF8FFQ9E88
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The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick.
Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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How does a man lose his heart? How does he lose his identity and his way? How can that be related to sex addiction? This is the topic of today's episode.
Find John Eldredge at https://wildatheart.org
The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick. Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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Dr. Rob Weiss joins Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn as they tackle the issue of co-occurring addictions and what that looks like.
Robert Weiss Ph.D., LCSW is Chief Clinical Officer of Seeking Integrity LLC, He is the author of ten books on sexuality, technology, and intimate relationships, including Sex Addiction 101, Out of the Doghouse, and Prodependence. His Sex, Love, and Addiction Podcast is currently in the Top 10 of US Addiction-Health Podcasts. Dr. Rob hosts a no-cost weekly Sex and Intimacy Q&A on Seeking Integrity’s self-help website, SexandRelationshipHealing.com (@SexandHealing).
The Sex and Relationship Healing website provides free information for addicts, partners of addicts, and therapists dealing with sex addiction, porn addiction, and substance abuse issues.
Dr. Rob can be contacted via Seeking Integrity.com and SexandRelationshipHealing.com. All his writing is available on Amazon, while he can also be found on Twitter (@RobWeissMSW), on LinkedIn (Robert Weiss LCSW), and on Facebook (Rob Weiss MSW).
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In this episode, Ashlynn and Coby are joined by Shana James to discuss the value of knowing the right kind of questions that lead to connection. They also discuss questions and statements that can lead to understanding, empathy, and bonding.
For 15 years, Shana James has coached more than thousand men and women — leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers, and those with big visions -- to find love, rekindle the spark, create a legacy, become effective and impactful leaders and be personally inspired and fulfilled.
Find out more at https://shanajamescoaching.com/tedx and on her Man Alive podcast.
The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick. Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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What impact do the right details have on a relationship? What is the impact when the wrong details are shared? How does one know which to share and which not to? How does one know what is ok to ask for and what is not? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby address this emotionally charged topic.
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Ashlynn, Coby, and Brannon address the issue of having needs met. It is not easy to ask a partner for the things that are needed when addiction and betrayal exist. So how is it done?
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How do we know if it is addict behavior or just our partner being annoying? What do we do about it? How do we find out? These are the questions addressed in this episode.
The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick. Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
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What is the missing link for men? Why is this one thing so challenging to grasp? How can they understand and own this one concept and still be an empathetic partner? Shana James shares the huge impact and role of masculinity and authenticity can play in any relationship.
For 15 years, Shana James has coached more than a thousand men and women — leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers, and those with big visions -- to find love, rekindle the spark, create a legacy, become effective and impactful leaders and be personally inspired and fulfilled. With a Masters in psychology, DISC certification, more than a decade facilitating workshops, starting multiple businesses, and helping hundreds of entrepreneurs start their own, as well as mindfulness, meditation, and communication training. Shana’s range of skills supports all areas of life. Find out more at www.shanajamescoaching.com
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby all discuss the ways recovery can take place when the world is in some variation of quarantine.
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Bea Hess is a woman who went through a divorce after betrayal and joins Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon to discuss her journey and share takeaways.
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Amy Andrus, Coby and Ashlynn's therapist, joins the podcast to share obstacles they faced and overcame in order to get into recovery.
Amy is a licensed marriage and family therapist since 2000 & CSAT since 2013. She’s taught courses at BYU & counseled many students at the Women’s Services and Resources Center, where her eyes were opened to the world of sexual addiction and trauma.
Amy's life has been affected by sex addiction in a personal way. She knows the struggle, shame, and guilt the addict experiences. She has found it rewarding to facilitate individual change and work with the family system to ensure long-term growth and change.
Amy's a single mom of six. Her youngest daughter has Down Syndrome, and raising her has taught her countless life lessons.
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The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real-life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done alongside an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick.
Thomas McConkie is the founder of Lower Lights School of Wisdom and has a passion for the world's Wisdom traditions. Raised LDS, at 18 years old he discovered Buddhism, which remains a wellspring of inspiration over 20 years later.
Influenced profoundly in his twenties by world travel and the study of adult development, over time he began to ask the question of what spiritual flourishing will look like in the 21st century.
He is trained as a developmental researcher, facilitator, and mindfulness teacher. He hosts the Lower Light Sangha with the intention of providing a supportive environment where seekers of any kind can discover new depths and heights in their evolving faith journey.
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The Betrayed, The Addicted, and the Expert is a podcast that started out as an opportunity to open up the discussion of how to move forward after infidelity, or an affair. We discuss the heavy stuff and share Coby and Ashlynn's real life experience of recovery after sex addiction and betrayal trauma. All this is done along side an expert in sex addiction Brannon Patrick.
Whether you are struggling with the super heavy stuff of broken trust in your relationship, or if you just want to improve your communication and create better connection, this podcast will give you so much of what you are looking for.
Dr. Navarra is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist and Master Trainer, and holds National Certification as a Master Addiction Counselor. He is a popular presenter at national conferences, podcasts, and webinars.
He has trained counselors and therapists nationally and internationally. Dr. Navarra has co-authored several book chapters with Drs. John and Julie Gottman and co-authored articles on Gottman Therapy for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy with Dr. John Gottman. Additionally, Dr. Navarra contributed an article on couple recovery from addiction for the Encyclopedia of Couple and Family Therapy.
Based on his research at Mental Research Institute in Palo Alto California, Dr. Navarra created Roadmap for the Journey: A Path for Couple Recovery, a two-day workshop for couples in recovery from an addictive disorder. Roadmap for the Journey has been a featured workshop at Hazelden Betty Ford and has been given at treatment programs as well as in small, semi-private workshop settings. Dr. Navarra and Dr. John Gottman are currently researching the impact of Roadmap for the Journey in helping couples integrate recovery in their relationship, a missing element in most treatment programs. In collaboration with The Gottman Institute, Dr. Navarra has created a one-training workshop for counselors and therapists, called Couples and Addiction Recovery.
Dr. Navarra maintains a private practice in San Carlos, CA, specializing in providing marathon therapy for couples in distress, and for couples in addiction recovery. He also teaches graduate classes on addictive disorders at Santa Clara University. https://drrobertnavarra.com/ https://couplerecovery.org/ https://gottman.com https://goo.gl/mpjm9A https://www.gottman.com/about/researc...
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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife joins Brannon, Ashlynn, and Coby to share her work on how it is possible to be sex-positive and still deeply devoted to one's religion.
Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach as well as a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor in the state of Illinois. She has a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology.
In addition to her dissertation research on LDS women's sexuality and relationship to desire, she has taught college-level human sexuality courses. Her teaching and coaching focus on helping LDS individuals and couples achieve greater satisfaction and passion in their emotional and sexual relationships. She offers online relationships and sexuality courses as well as live workshops and retreats for LDS couples and individuals.
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Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss the simple, small and sustainable things that help make relationships work no matter what the history.
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Stefanie Carnes, Ph.D. is the President of the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals, a training institute and professional organization for addiction professionals, and a senior fellow for Meadows Behavioral Healthcare where she works with sexually addicted clients and their families. Dr. Carnes is the clinical architect for Willow House: Relationship Healing for Women struggling with sex, love and intimacy disorders and works closely with the staff of Willow House and Gentle Path to bring her unique expertise to the programs and to aid the clients who suffer from intimacy and relationship disorders. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and an AAMFT approved supervisor. Dr. Carnes is also a clinical sexologist and certified sex addiction therapist and supervisor, specializing in therapy for couples and families struggling with sexual addiction. She presents regularly at conferences at both the state and national levels. She is also the author of numerous publications including her books, Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts, and Facing Heartbreak: Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts, and Facing Addiction: Starting Recovery from Alcohol and Drugs. Her new book, scheduled to be released in may is titled “Courageous Love: A Guide for Couples Conquering Betrayal”.
In this episode Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby will discuss a list of things to keep front-of-mind when ready to really face addiction and or infidelity.
The list of things to actually do which are in part 2 of this series are found at beyond-enough.com/steps.
Prodependence... Ending Codependency with Robert Wiess is an amazing conversation with another absolute Expert in the Arena of Addiction. If you have struggled with the shame of addiction or feeling the shame associated with loving a partner that struggles with addiction, you will want to experience this conversation.
Robert Weiss PhD, LCSW is Chief Clinical Officer of Seeking Integrity LLC, He is the author of ten books on sexuality, technology, and intimate relationships, including Sex Addiction 101, Out of the Doghouse, and Prodependence. His Sex, Love, and Addiction Podcast is currently in the Top 10 of US Addiction-Health Podcasts. Dr. Rob hosts a no-cost weekly Sex and Intimacy Q&A on Seeking Integrity’s self-help website, SexandRelationshipHealing.com (@SexandHealing).
The Sex and Relationship Healing website provides free information for addicts, partners of addicts, and therapists dealing with sex addiction, porn addiction, and substance abuse issues.
Dr. Rob can be contacted via Seeking Integrity.com and SexandRelationshipHealing.com. All his writing is available on Amazon, while he can also be found on Twitter (@RobWeissMSW), on LinkedIn (Robert Weiss LCSW), and on Facebook (Rob Weiss MSW). We are so grateful we had the time with Dr. Robert Weiss today and hope you enjoy the podcast as well. As Well, you can check out our course for Rebuilding Trust at www.shatteredtothriving.com. Use the code "YTFAN" to get a special discount only for our Youtube followers. And Follow us at @recovery_coaches on IG.
Shannon is a life coach; merging business and personal coaching together. She bridges the gap between our emotions, finding trust where it has been lost & then bringing that into the business world. She’s worked with 100’s of women, helping them embrace the power in their femininity. She’ does a great job helping others find the value in what is already inside of them.
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What do you do when you don’t feel like you want to emotionally connect and be vulnerable with you spouse?
From my husband- As I’m working on my sex addiction recovery, I am also experiencing outbursts of anger. Can the anger issues be resolved by the work in my addiction recovery?
What are all your thoughts on the saying "sobriety is not recovery"?
I am in a 3 year relationship and I don't feel physically attracted to my partner, I've used porn for 6-8 years and have been sober for 2 years with 1 relapse early on in the 2 years, I find it tempting to look at attractive women on the street. I find it hard to give genuine compliments about my partner and their physical appearance. Every time I try to, I ask myself internally and try to confirm about whether what I whether I find something physical/otherwise about them attractive and I never feel that I can say anything nice about them. Every time I don't give a compliment, they feel worthless and inadequate and this makes me feel anxious. How can I work on this and give genuine compliments?
Okay, so I think my husband is sitting in "victim mode." He's mopey a lot of the time and he's blaming me for his short comings. When he walks into the room I'm in, he looks at me and starts to cry. I'm a super codependent person...and I'm trying super hard not to spiral down into depressions like I've done in the past. What can I do while he is in this mode?
I have been on the path of recovery for almost three years after living with an addiction for over 40 years. I am currently living in Cambodia and the resources here for recovery are limited. Your podcasts help to provide a ray of hope for restoration of my marriage. I understand the need to have regular counseling sessions to work on areas in my life. That presents a bit of a challenge here. I wonder if you could recommend a counselor that might be available for video conferences.
We are in an area where resources such as groups are scarce and our finances are too. What is some basic recovery work we can access without having to put out thousands of dollars? Maybe a basic recovery plan resource?
My husband disclosed his affair over a year ago, but last year on Valentine’s Day he wrote a love letter/text to his affair partner. I found it, and that did not go over well. He tried to sell it as a “goodbye letter”. Valentine’s Day is coming up, and I’m kind of dreading it. How do you navigate hard days that triggering? When we’ve talked about the letter in the past he tells me “that that’s how he felt and there is that part of him that exists. He doesn’t need to feed it but it’s still there.” That doesn’t ever sit well with me. Can you explain the acceptance aspect of feeling for someone else? Or what goes on when that connection exists and doesn’t just disappear?
In what ways is your Shattered to Thriving program different and similar to a 12 step program?
I don’t want this in my life and have been doing really well in my recovery the last several months but I feel lately that what my wife says or does can trigger me back to addictive behaviors.
How do I strengthen my recovery to a point where what my wife is doing or saying doesn’t affect my recovery?
I’m struggling to attend church because I feel so disconnected and isolated and some of the discussions are difficult because of people not understanding what we are going through and when people ask me how I’m doing I don’t know how to answer appropriately and I either over share or avoid but it’s all uncomfortable. Any tips for navigating this area of my life while I heal? I really don’t even want to go
What is the BEST WAY for the BETRAYED to disclose a discovery of betrayal without coming across as accusatory, pushing the addict into defense/denial? What’s the best way to get an honest disclosure from them about a discovery?
Individual and couples therapy is often discussed right out of the gate but what about group therapy? What is group accountability and can that be helpful? Can Psych-Ed help? Listen as these various types are discussed and what their potential roles could be.
Education is power and that power can be found by learning about Betrayal Trauma while recovering from addiction. Understanding what it is can help during intense moments when the partner is triggered and goes into trauma. Listen to Coby's experience as he learned to identify when Ashlylnn was triggered and what he did to deal with it.
How does it work? How can it be a thing to feel pain when the partner is also in pain from a life event, even outside of betrayal and addiction? Is a partner warranted in suffering when they have hurt their partner? What does this delicate situation look like when approached the right way? Listen as Coby and Brannon break this down.
In this episode, the flow goes to self-evaluation and knowing when to stop, take a breath and perhaps even take a break. "Don't should on yourself" is a phrase Brannon uses a lot and we will see how that can manifest inside each of us and what we can do about it. Coby and Ashlynn each share their own experience with this concept. Listen to see how.
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What are the markers of addiction? What are some indicators of the behaviors of addiction that I may have? This is a recreation and update of Episode #1 that was done 3 years ago. Coby and Brannon both discuss the ins and outs of addiction in this episode.
This episode will be about making small changes named, shifts. When done properly, shifts can be the bedrock of change. Shifts are small and easy and done in a sustainable way. What could that look like for you? Listen.
In part 5 of this series on indicators of real recovery Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss consistent actions and behaviors. Listen in as they share their experience from days when consistency never showed up for them in either action or behavior. Then they share how they chose to be consistent and what helped them to be so even 5 years into recovery.
Part 4 of this 5 part series discusses the household needs and the connection to them as an indicator of real recovery.
In part 3 of this 5 part series Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss what it is like to give empathy and patience to the one betrayed. The good news is that they will share how to and how not to do this and it will be from their personal experiences.
What does it look like, to be honest? Why do some lie or share half-truths? What does that do to relationships? How can it be given without reservation? Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss this topic that is so small but is a key building block to safety and trust.
This is part one of a five part series and it will describe how you can know if they are in recovery. There is a balance between "doing" and "being" recovery. This series will help identify markers of both to determine if they really are in recovery.
When the the conversation seems to take a left turn and then another and in confusion, you ask yourself what they really mean? It is hard to know what they really mean and what they are trying to get at and there are numerous ways the message is clouded. Let's see what Brannon and Tyler Patrick, his brother that treats sex addiction and betrayal trauma, say about this challenging aspect of recovery.
Brannon and his brother are both therapists who treat sex addiction and betrayal trauma but how did that happen? For the first time, they are in the studio to discuss how they both ended up in the same field with the same specialty. Listen as they discuss some of the key issues they face as therapists from the perspective of brothers.
The podcast is really a way to Brannon, Ashlynn, and Coby to share their experience and insights from addiction, betrayal, and recovery both in life and in the clinic. However, they are aware that the anonymity that the podcast provides also does not facilitate the ability for listeners to ask questions. That is challenging. However once a month they do allow people to ask questions on their Patreon site. Today's episode is a sneak peek as to what that monthly Q&A is like. Find out more about the access to Brannon, Ashlynn, and Coby go to patreon.com/betrayedaddictedexpert and see what fits you best. Supporting the podcast can be done with a simple $2 monthly donation.
When there are so many unknowns in life how do we manage our thoughts to the point of not letting the worst-case scenarios play out in our heads over and over? How do we recognize we are going down that path before things really get out of control? How do we reality check our fears that manifest in our minds and feel so real? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby approach this topic.
Why did Brannon decide to become a therapist? What was behind his decision and how did he become so specialized? Listen as Coby and Ashlynn ask all kinds of questions to reveal the man behind the expertise.
Relapse is a part of recovery and a painful one at that. What happens when relapse does take place and what is the right course of action? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby walk through the ins and outs of this topic.
Passive-Aggressive relationships are challenging but most people don't know they are acting that way. It is taught by example and very easy to pick up. Honesty and vulnerability are the keys to getting out of this kind of relationship. It takes mindfulness but once you really get it, you can work on it.
Sexual feelings can be riddled with shame and guilt which can increase the feeling of being "bad" for having them. Where do they come from? How can one see it when it happens and make sense of it? How can one move beyond them? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby move through this episode on the delicate topic.
When the conversation of sex is avoided, minimized and ignored what do we do? What can be done? How can it be discussed in a way that is safe and honest? What keeps this topic so taboo? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby share experiences of their own and the journey they have had.
What does it feel like to be controlled by a partner when it comes to sex? What is the approach when one person in a relationship does not feel like like they can be themselves and authentic to who they are because they are being controlled by the other?
As part of the Sextember series on the podcast, Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby walk through rejection and how it plays a role in a relationship. Why does the addict reject the betrayed? Why does the betrayed reject the addicted? What must be considered when people deal with this? Listen as Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn take a new spin on this sensitive topic.
This is a one of a kind episode where Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby host a live event and allow their audience to ask questions of any kind. They have never produced an episode like this so listen as they field questions of all kinds.
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Speaking truth for Coby as a young boy was always scary as even if he told the truth, he would get in trouble. That carried over with him into his marraige to Ashlynn. What else was it that lead Coby from disclosing the truth? Listen as Brannon leads Ashlynn and Coby on this episode to discovering the things that kept him from disclosing truth.
Trust is a foundational piece to any relationship but can we feel it and trust that it is what we think it is? Can we also feel the lack of trust when it is gone or when it starts to subside? How can we become more sensitive to the emotions and feelings of trust? Listen as Brannon, Ashlynn and Coby discuss this paramount feeling of trust.
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Giving our emotions to someone else to determine how we feel, for better or worse, is codependency. How does this take place? Why do we betray ourselves when this happens? This episode will identify how codependent both Coby and Ashlynn were and how they sometimes deal with it still.
Work was an environment for Coby where he was a different person. He did not act the same at work as he did at home. This caused a lot of questions, anxiety, confusion, doubt and betrayal for Ashlynn. Listen as Coby shares what he did do that was no appropriate at work and its effect on Ashlynn.
How can one ever feel enough when they are betrayed? Does the addict struggle with not feeling enough? What do you do when this is a pervasive thought? How does one deal with it? This episode will walk through the journey Ashlynn and Coby on this topic.
Women are susceptible to cheating the same as men. However, what does a man do when his female partner has the affair? There are way more resources for women who have been betrayed than the men so what is a guy to do? Listen as this dynamic is discussed.
Relapsing over and over can put an addict into a headspace of apathy as they can feel powerless to stop. The betrayed can spiral in the face of continual relapse as the message from the addict can be that they don't care. Why does relapsing keep happening despite the best, heartfelt intentions?
The way we act as adults is largely affected by the way we were raised. When things are so challenging in life how do we overcome the habits, mindset and behavioral norms from our childhood? Listen as Coby and Ashlynn walk through their experience with Brannon.
There are all kinds of steps to take in recovery and in life but what happens when one partner is not ready to move at the same pace another is? That can be a tricky path to walk and may be in the pace they want to take in recovery and many others. How do we focus on ourselves and still allow our partners their pace even if we want to move faster?
There are so many therapists with the credentials that speak to what they may be able to do to help but is there more to a good therapist? Is there something more to take into consideration when making a decision on which therapist is right for me? All these questions and more are discussed today on this very honest and candid episode.
What are the signs? What are the things to be looking for? How do I know they are cheating or if I am just spinning in my head? All these questions are addressed in this episode.
There is never any magic pill to recovery but there is a way to make small improvements even when things suck. Being curious can make all the difference when things are tough as it can help you get out of your own way and consider where your partner is.
Feeling unique is a common thing. One can go to a single 12 step meeting and walk away thinking their story is better or worse than others and feel a sense of hopelessness or a sense of pride and denial. Listen as Brannon, Coby and Ashlynn share their experience with this curious frame of mind and perspective.
Abuse is a devastating thing in all its forms and has no place in a relationship no matter who you are. Is it possible though to be in a relationship and not realize it is abusive? How do I know if my partner and I abusive to each other without knowing it? Brannon walks Coby and Ashlynn through this difficult topic.
There are always unanswered questions about an affair that can spin endlessly in the mind of the one betrayed. What are some considerations in pursuing the idea? What would you say? Listen as Ashlynn shares her thoughts on what she did when she reached out to Coby's second affair partner.
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When the addicted has betrayed so many times, lied over and over how can the one who was hurt NOT watch every move with an all seeing eye? That is the first instinct much of the time but why is it not helpful? What does it do to the relationship? Listen as Brannon walks through this key crossroad of recovery with Coby and Ashlynn.
This is a sneak peek of the first of six modules in an online course we are creating called From Shattered to Thriving. This episode will give a little glimpse of what to expect behind this content-rich course. For more info on the course go to shatteredtothriving.com
When words are cheap how can an addict expect the betrayed to embrace a kind and sweet word? How can something be true when there is nothing by way of action to support such a statement? Listen as Coby gives insights to this exact action when he was acting out in addiction and how Ashlynn felt and responded when she heard such things. Brannon sheds light on this dynamic that is riddled with complexity.
Betrayal trauma is a real thing. It affects so many and is devastating. But what if the experts treating this have it wrong and cannot get their patients through this trauma? What if they don't know how to move them forward in a systematic way so their patients are not stuck?
Not acting out is a thing and often times is the immediate goal. However, when we don't feel better and our partners seem to feel the energy that goes with the white knuckling, things can get tough. So why can't I stop white knuckling?
Coby could not figure out how to build trust as he did not know how to speak the truth even in small things. The effect on Ashlynn was significant to see him hide or lie about the little things in life. Brannon leads these two on the journey of discovering why truth was so hard for Coby to speak and what the effect was on Ashlynn.
There is so much that goes into recovery. Doing can keep everyone busy till the wee hours of the night but what happens when we feel like something is missing? Here some things to consider when you get to that spot.
This delicate episode will describe how Ashlynn and Coby were raised when it comes to demonstrations of love and those behavioral norms impact their relationship. Brannon leads them through the path of bridging the gap.
Ashlynn and Coby are guided by Brannon on how recovery can be a drag and what that looks like. It can be a hardship to put so much time, energy and resources into such a devastating thing when you don't feel better.
When things went wrong for Ashlynn and Coby, they developed eyes to see all the things that were bad, hard or fell short of expectations. This episode describes what that looked like and how Coby developed eyes to see his failings from a young age and how he carried that into his marriage and perpetuated addiction.
Boundaries are a critical piece of any relationship, especially a committed relationship. Today, the BAE crew discusses what healthy boundaries in marriage and relationships should look like. And what boundaries are not. If you want a thriving relationship boundaries are critical and here you'll find Brannon provide a checklist of effective boundary creation.
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Recovery is so hard because it makes me so uncomfortable at best and painful at its worst. So how long does it take cause it is exhausting? This episode will illustrate how pain tolerance is a key function of recovery so we don't see time as working against us.
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In today's culture, it is not whether someone has seen porn or not. The foregone conclusion is that people have seen it since a young age by choice or by porn finding them. So while #dating how do you have the conversation about the experience each person has with #porn so it is known what you are dealing with? What are the considerations and what are dealbreakers?
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Coby used to give the power of his emotions to Ashlynn and others to determine how he felt (Codependent).
Ashlynn would emotionally withdraw to a state of independence where she would function in a detached way from Coby and operate as an independent partner in their relationship (Independence).
Listen as they discuss what they did and what the implications of this behavior were.
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Each week we will share our 3 different perspectives on topics dealing with relationships, recovery, betrayal & addiction leaving you with HOPE for change no matter your circumstance.
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THE PODCAST DEEP DIVE is a step by step how to on what to do to develop attraction again in your partner. Click the link to our Patreon site below.
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For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
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For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
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Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/betrayedaddictedexpert
For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
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Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971
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For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
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Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971
For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971
For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
Got Questions? Want more content, access and interaction with Ashlynn, Coby and Brannon? That is found at https://www.patreon.com/user?u=11077971
For therapy at Brannon’s clinic go to https://therapyutah.org
For group mentoring with Ashlynn for the betrayed and group and/or one on one mentoring for the addicted go to www.ashlynnandcoby.com/contactus
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Discovering safe resources for families is important for all parents as there are those who produce porn are seeking to put porn in front of our children and having resources to protect them is critical. VidAngel gives the power of choice to parents. Listen as we explore this choice with Neal.
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For a free 30 day trial with http://www.bloomforwomen.com/ref/ashlynn and use the promo code “ashlynn30”.
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