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Erin tried to become a "better" speaker.
She got the coach.
Did the reps.
Rehearsed the lines.
Followed the advice.
And then realized she may have accidentally polished the magic right out of herself.
In this solo episode, Erin shares what happened when a huge speaking opportunity pushed her into full preparation mode, why over-rehearsing made her feel less connected on stage, and the old coaching advice that came back swinging:
Trust your creative process.
This one is for anyone who has ever tried to improve themselves and accidentally started sanding down the exact thing that made them stand out.
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-Why "best practices" are only useful if they actually work for you
-How over-preparing can make you technically better but less you -Why Erin had to 50% Rule her own speaking proces
-The difference between memorizing words and connecting to the message
-Why your weird little way of doing things might be the whole damn point Book Erin to speak
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Trust Your Creative Process Editor's note: This transcript has been edited for clarity, length, and readability.
In this solo episode, Erin Hatzikostas shares what happened when she followed traditional public speaking advice so closely that she lost some of the authenticity that made her effective. She explores over-preparation, creative confidence, the 50% Rule, and how to improve your work without abandoning the process that makes you uniquely good at it.
When "Leveling Up" Starts to Change You Erin: Over the last nine months, I've gone through a journey that feels full circle, ironic, and maybe even a little hypocritical.
Erin: I preach authenticity. In my second book, I talk about the 50% Rule: whenever you're doing something, keep some of what works, introduce something new, and throw out the pieces that feel inauthentic or simply do not fit you.
Erin: I'm also a professional speaker. That's my main occupation, and last summer my speaking career was really starting to pick up steam. Then I was selected to speak at the International Association of Speaking Bureaus conference. These are the people who often help organizations find speakers for major events, so getting the chance to speak in front of them felt like a very big deal.
Erin: There were almost 100 applicants, and only six of us were selected. Speaking can be a roller coaster. You are constantly trying to earn the next opportunity, even after you've had success. But this felt like one of those moments where I thought, "Okay, Erin. This is your chance. Get your act together."
The Pressure to Rehearse Perfectly Erin: Around that same time, I had started working with a true speech and vocal coach, Darcy Webb. She was wonderful because she did not try to turn me into somebody else. She understood what made me, me, and helped bring more of that out.
Erin: She helped me embrace the facial expressions I naturally make. She also told me to stop whispering. I insisted I was not whispering, but then I watched the recordings and realized, "Oh. That is a little weird."
Erin: One of the biggest things she taught me was that I needed to rehearse. I needed to put in the hours, record myself, repeat the material, and get the words into my body.
Erin: I resisted that advice for a long time. Then this huge speaking opportunity came along, and I only had 20 minutes. In the speaking world, shorter is often harder. You have to be more concise, make stronger choices, and communicate the point in less time.
Erin: So I decided it was time to become the polished, mega-professional speaker I thought I was supposed to be. I rehearsed and rehearsed.
Why Perfect Preparation Did Not Create a Perfect Performance Erin: I already had some baggage around over-rehearsing. When I did my TEDx talk in 2020, I practiced it so much that the delivery stopped feeling like me. I still love the content, but the performance felt too controlled. My passion did not fully come through.
Erin: Still, I prepared heavily for the speakers bureau conference. I used some of my best material, knew what I wanted to say, and felt ready.
Erin: Then the event came. I did not flop, but I did not knock it out of the park either.
Erin: I am always trying to knock it out of the park, not because I think I work harder than everyone else or because I need people to tell me I'm great. I want to connect. I want people to feel something. That connection is what authenticity can create.
Erin: At first, I found other things to blame. Someone after me absolutely crushed it. My necklace was jangling against the microphone. There were all these little details I could point to.
Erin: But the deeper truth was that I had over-prepared. I was not fully in the moment with the people in front of me. I was delivering something polished, but I was not drawing from that conviction and energy that usually comes from deep inside me and pours into the audience.
When Rehearsal Became the New Habit Erin: The confusing part was that I had also learned how to rehearse. So for the next several months, I kept doing it.
Erin: I practiced for events in January, February, and March. I crafted catchy lines. I added new language. I made sure I could nail the material.
Erin: The talks went well. I did not bomb. I created customized moments and found creative ways to make each speech feel specific to the audience.
Erin: But something was missing.
Erin: Usually, I can feel the connection in the room. You can see it in people's faces. You know when the audience does not want the experience to end. These events were successful on paper, but they did not feel the same.
Erin: Then I spoke at an event in Chicago. I said everything I meant to say. I did not forget the important parts. Technically, I nailed it. But that thing I care about most still was not there.
Words Versus Intent Erin: That was when I realized what over-preparing had taken away from me.
Erin: My talks have structure. They are mapped into sections, and I know the points I want to make. I may have specific phrases or stories I want to land, but I have never needed every word written out.
Erin: Before I became so focused on rehearsal, I spent more time thinking about the intent of each section. I would ask, "What am I really trying to get across here? What do I need these people to understand or feel?"
Erin: Then I allowed myself the freedom to communicate that idea in the moment.
Erin: That freedom gave me space to bring in something I heard earlier in the day, respond to the audience, interact more naturally, or follow a thought that came to me while I was speaking.
Erin: When I over-rehearsed, I spent more time searching for the exact words than searching for the feeling, the purpose, and the passion behind them.
Erin: I cannot do both equally well. Some people can. Actors can deliver rehearsed lines with incredible emotional depth. Some speakers can memorize every beat and still make it feel spontaneous. God bless them. That is a real skill.
Erin: But it is not my skill. It is not where I bring the most value.
"Why Don't You Trust Your Creative Process?" Erin: This brought me back to something my first executive coach taught me years ago when I was still in corporate.
Erin: I was preparing a speech for a leadership event. I had planned the whole talk, but I had not figured out the ending. In my notes, I had essentially written, "And then some bada boom, bada bing ending."
Erin: I went into our coaching session and confessed that I thought I had a major flaw. I told her, "I'm a great starter, but I'm not a great finisher. I worked on this talk for hours, and I still could not complete it."
Erin: I expected her to give me techniques, hacks, or some process that would fix what I believed was broken.
Erin: Instead, she stopped and asked, "Erin, are you typically successful?"
Erin: I told her that I was not successful at everything, but yes, especially when it came to public speaking, I was usually better than average.
Erin: Then she said, "Why don't you trust your creative process?"
Erin: That question has stayed with me for more than eight years.
Advice Is Not an Absolute Erin: People love to give advice in absolutes. Never start a conversation this way. Always prepare for an interview that way. Follow this formula to find your career path. Use these exact steps to become successful.
Erin: My rule is this: be very cautious about advice that begins with "always" or "never."
Erin: There is more information available than ever, and many people make money by selling certainty. They tell you they have the formula. But even excellent advice may not work exactly as prescribed for you.
Erin: If you talked to 100 successful speakers, probably 99 of them would tell you that you have to do the reps, practice constantly, and rehearse until the material is locked in.
Erin: That may work beautifully for those 99 people. It does not work that way for me.
Erin: My mistake was not the rehearsal itself. My mistake was failing to apply my own 50% Rule. I accepted the advice as a total system instead of asking which parts would help me and which parts would erase something important.
Improve Without Erasing What Makes You Good Erin: The answer is not to reject coaching, training, or preparation. I have learned so much from all of it.
Erin: I am a stronger speaker now. I understand my voice better. I am more aware of my physical presence. I have new ways to customize talks and prepare meaningful openings. I am continuing to evolve.
Erin: But I am no longer willing to give up the creative process that works for me.
Erin: Now I prepare in my own way. I spend hours thinking, organizing stories, and deciding what each section needs to accomplish. I rehearse important pieces, but I do not force myself to say every sentence exactly the same way every time.
Erin: I focus on the intent. I focus on the passion. I focus on the point I want to make and the people I want to reach.
Erin: When I returned to that process for events in June and July, I could feel the difference. I felt like myself again.
Trust the Evidence From Your Own Life Erin: I want the same for you.
Erin: People will tell you how to run a meeting, answer interview questions, build a career, lead a team, create content, or prepare for a major opportunity. Learn from them. Borrow what makes you better. Stay open to coaching and improvement.
Erin: But also trust the data from your own life.
Erin: What has worked for you in the past may still work in the future. Your process may need to evolve, but evolution does not require you to throw away the qualities that made you effective in the first place.
Erin: Use the 50% Rule. Keep some of what works. Add new tools. Throw the pieces that do not fit into the trash.
Erin: Constantly look for ways to improve without abandoning what makes you, you.
Erin: Trust your creative process.
Modern work is getting weird.
In this episode, Erin and Nicole talk about career envy, AI "bot sitting," Gen Z's job search chaos, parents overstepping in the hiring process, airport drama, bathroom hideouts, and the deeply human ways people are trying to stand out, stay sane, and survive work right now.
They also unpack one of Erin's favorite new questions for killing comparison: "Would I actually want their life?" Because chasing someone else's version of success only works if you're willing to take the whole life that comes with it.
In this episode you'll hear:
This one is part workplace commentary, part group therapy, part "what the hell is happening out there?" And honestly? We need all three.
Anya Roodnitsky Video: https://www.instagram.com/p/DU6VPHhEgGn/
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Editor's note: This transcript has been lightly edited for clarity, readability, and flow while preserving the core conversation and strongest takeaways.
In this episode, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata unpack the weird, wild, and deeply human ways people are surviving modern work. From career envy and AI "bot sitting" to Gen Z's job search chaos, parents overstepping in hiring, airport drama, bathroom hideouts, and the pressure to stand out in a world full of sameness, this conversation is part workplace commentary, part group therapy, and part "what the hell is happening out there?"
Women, Work, and the Underground Network Erin: I have some updates. The first one is related to something you just said. I have to laugh at how freaking amazing working women are at multitasking.
This morning, I drove 45 minutes to Southington for an 8:30 coffee meeting with a former client who is now a current client because they're bringing me back again. But before that, I had placed a BJ's Warehouse order at the Southington location because we have a graduation party coming up.
So I had the coffee meeting, got gas under $4, picked up a ridiculous amount of party supplies, came home, sweated my ass off putting it all away, and thought, this is how women work.
People underestimate not only how efficient we are, but also how connected we are.
That reminded me of something else. A few weeks ago, our financial advisors decided to move to another bank for the second time in six years. The first time, we followed them. The second time, we paused.
I happen to use the same financial advisor as my woman work crush, Jean LaTour, who is a former chief investment officer for CBS and Aetna. She is a big deal, authentic as hell, and I'm proud to call her a friend.
When we both got the news, we immediately started texting. I told her the deal Morgan Stanley offered us to incentivize us to stay, which was different from hers. We were sent to different people. We've had lunch. We've compared notes on how the transition has gone.
So story number one is this: do not underestimate women and our ability to get all the things done, whether it's picking up BJ's after a business meeting or quietly sharing information behind the scenes to make sure we get the best deal possible.
Nicole: That reminds me of one of our early episodes about the things women don't talk about. One of the big ones was finances.
It's a mistake I still make sometimes. When things are changing, it can feel overwhelming. You want to trust what's happening. You get comfortable. But these are businesses. These are deal makers. You're their client, and you're paying them.
The more information you have, the better. I applaud you for asking, "Who else is in this with me? Let's have some conversations," instead of blindly going along with a deal that sounded good enough.
Erin: Exactly. And I know we have a lot of male listeners, so I'm not saying women are better. But get women into leadership positions because we are doing this at work too. We're multitasking, sharing information, and doing business differently.
Sometimes that women's network is working under the covers more than people think. And I mean that in the least weird way possible.
The Question That Kills Career Envy Erin: My second thought is something that has been helping me a lot lately.
I've been feeling really good about a mindset shift I've made around jealousy, comparison, and chasing things I don't actually want.
The speaking business can be ego-driven. I'm not selling widgets. I'm selling myself. So it's easy to get caught up in the idea that more bookings equal more validation.
But I don't want to be a speaker who does 40, 60, or 80 gigs a year. I used to think that was mostly because I didn't want to be on the road that much or because it was too much to balance with family. But it's also because I can't give fully to clients if I'm doing that much.
I have eight gigs between June and September, and I'm at capacity in terms of my ability to customize, understand each client, and not come in with a cookie-cutter talk.
So here's the question that has helped me when I see another speaker's amazing new reel or big event announcement:
Would I want their life?
And I don't mean, "That probably sucks because they're on the road so much." I mean literally: would I want their whole life?
Sometimes I know these people and their backgrounds, and sometimes I don't. But I ask myself, would I want the entire life that comes with that thing I'm jealous of?
The answer is almost always no.
I want my life. I want time with my husband. I want time with my kids. I want breathing room on a Friday. I don't want to take one thing and give up everything else.
You cannot compare yourself to somebody else without first asking, "Would I actually want their life?"
Maybe once in a while the answer will be yes. But even with celebrities, ask yourself: would I want their life?
You don't get to have the thing you're jealous of and keep everything you already have. You can't say, "I want that event with 3,000 people on a stage in Hawaii," without also taking the number of gigs, sacrifices, relationships, lifestyle, location, and everything else that comes with it.
You cannot pick and choose.
That has put me in this place of gratitude for the holistic picture of my life.
When speaker friends ask, "How's it going?" there is often this undertone of, "How many bookings are you doing?" And I've started answering differently. I say, "I really fucking love my life."
Yes, this is the busiest summer I've had speaking. But when you ask how I'm doing, I'm thinking about my daughter having the time of her life in her senior year, my husband and I getting along great, the weather being beautiful, visiting family, and building a life I actually want.
Nicole: What you're saying is interesting because you're not saying don't change or don't evolve. You're saying look at the landscape, the tools, the opportunities, and the framework you actually have.
Don't look at someone else's life with no context about who they are, how they got there, or what sacrifices they made, and assume you can just import one piece of it.
Erin: Yes. And I'm also giving people permission to make shit up.
Let's say someone's title comes across your feed and you think, "I always thought I wanted that role." You don't know that person. So you have the right to create a different narrative.
We make shit up all the time. It's just usually bad shit about us and good shit about other people.
You have the right to flip that.
If you're going to tell stories in your head, tell great stories about yourself too.
Nicole: As long as the narrative gives you balance and helps you dig into where you are instead of making you feel terrible about yourself, it can create growth.
Erin: Exactly. Because when you stop spending so much energy being depressed about where you are, you can actually grow.
And this is where the 50% Rule helps too. Once you do things half-normal, half-you, it becomes almost impossible to compare because you're not trying to do it the same way anyway.
I've told the universe something different. I've said I want around 25 gigs a year. I want balance. I want this life. And the universe has started to deliver exactly what is perfect for me.
Nicole: It goes back to what you said. You're creating an entire life you don't have to escape from.
Erin: Yes. This is not the time in my 50s to create something that looks good on paper but feels terrible in reality. I'm creating a lifestyle.
Authenticity as a Business Differentiator Erin: My third thought is something I'm still processing.
I had a repeat client who brought me in specifically for their sales organization, which I love because authenticity can sometimes sound like an HR thing. But where I get really excited is when it becomes about differentiation, growing your business, and doing things differently in a tangible way.
This client brought me in for a leadership keynote, and then we worked together for six months doing real-time group coaching with their sales team. We took actual scenarios and worked on making their responses, proposals, and communication more authentic.
Recently, I learned they had their best sales year ever by far.
And they are going through DOJ approval for an acquisition at a 20X EBITDA, which is hard to come by these days. They're not an AI company. The investment community is very focused on AI right now, so this was a big deal.
I am not taking full credit. There are always many factors. But I also don't believe in coincidences.
They invested in differentiating and doubling down on authenticity as their advantage. Then they had a huge sales year, which contributed to the valuation and the sale.
That was pretty freaking cool.
Nicole: They found their mantra, put it into action, and got results. Weird how that works.
Airport Drama Nicole: I want to share the latest reason I got stopped at the airport, because there is always something.
I was coming back into the United States, and my luggage got flagged. I've been traveling only with carry-on luggage because I'm constantly booking multiple flights with different airlines to maximize scheduling and pricing. The travel market is crazy, and I am not a bazillionaire.
So first, my known traveler ID and redress number disappeared off my ticket. I get sent through multiple lines at JetBlue. They finally put the information back in, and I go to the TSA PreCheck line.
Then they tell me I have to go to the special TSA PreCheck line.
Erin: Who knew those even existed?
Nicole: Exactly. I had already given myself a lot of time, and I had already passed USDA inspection, so no fruit and vegetable jail this time.
Then they immediately flag my bags. They pull them aside. There are officers, dogs, everything.
An agent comes up to me and says, "Ma'am, we've seen some unknown powders in here. Do you have coffee?"
I said, "I do have coffee, but it's in this bag," meaning the backpack he had already handed back to me.
Then he starts going through my suitcase and pulls out a packing cube. He says, "Ma'am, the issue is that your luggage is too well packed. It is too dense."
I was like, "My bathing suit and underwear?"
Then he finds some lady products because I'm a woman in menopause. He asks, "What is this syringe?"
I told him to read the label. He opens it, pushes it out, and realizes it's Lady Lube.
He starts calling over officers and saying it's illegal. Then a woman walks up out of nowhere, slams the suitcase shut, and says, "You're free to go."
Erin: Women to the rescue.
Nicole: Pink underwear, coffee, unknown powders, densely packed luggage, Lady Lube. I was done.
Bot Sitting and the Strange New Reality of Work Erin: Let's dive into some of the craziest recent workplace stories. Will there be lessons that inspire you and make you a better person? Probably not. Possibly. But mostly, we're here to laugh.
The first one I came across was the concept of bot sitting. Have you heard this term?
Nicole: I have, but explain it.
Erin: It's basically babysitting AI.
I've seen it with my 15-year-old, Mick, who has become really talented with AI, especially coding and building things. But he'll set something up, and then I'll walk into his room and see his laptop out while he's on his phone scrolling videos because he's bot sitting.
He's waiting for AI to crank something out or process.
This article was talking about how AI is supposed to make everyone more efficient, but in companies, people are using AI and then waiting two hours for it to process. So they're basically being paid to scroll their phones and bot sit.
Nicole: I know someone from the art world who just lost his job. He's a young medical researcher, and the only jobs he's being offered are essentially bot sitting jobs.
These are entry-level roles where he helps internal AI systems learn inside research companies. His job is to feed data into the bot, help it spit things out more efficiently, check the results, and fix errors.
That's what he's being offered as a PhD researcher.
Erin: Wow. Bot sitting.
Gen Z, Job Search Chaos, and the Resume That Actually Worked Erin: That's a good segue into one of my favorite articles: Anya Roodnitsky and her resume.
Anya is a recent Dartmouth grad with a mathematical physics degree. Not a slouch. But the job market is tough, especially for new grads.
She sent out hundreds of resumes, and she didn't just phone it in. She customized them. She did all the things HR people tell you to do. And she got nothing.
So out of frustration and fun, she made a simple, authentic PowerPoint-style resume and posted it on social media.
She did exactly what I talk about all the time: she exposed who she was and her flaws right away. She didn't pretend. She said, basically, "I've been doing hundreds of these, and it's rough out there, so here's what I'm going to do."
She talked about working with nuclear reactors and joked that she was basically Oppenheimer. She included competence, personality, and humor. She even promised to bring in baked goods.
The video got hundreds of thousands of views. She got 52 introductions or coffee chats, 20 referrals, 10 interviews, and landed a job.
Yes. Different is better than better.
If you're going through the same thing every day, whether it's resumes, sales presentations, town halls, or HR emails nobody reads, it is your fault if people aren't paying attention.
You're not pattern interrupting. You're not being authentic. You're not giving people a reason to stop and notice.
In this day and age, especially if you're trying to get hired, AI slop is going to kill you if you want to be heard, stand out, picked, chosen, or done business with.
Nicole: It's also disheartening that we can't trust these giant systems we've created. It feels like you have to be a disruptor just to access society and get a job.
I love her, but it's also fully disheartening for someone like me who would never do that.
Erin: Right. Her example was outlandish, but the broader point is that Gen Z is taking to content and social media because that's what they know. They're frustrated and saying, "Fuck it."
And honestly, this is what I'm saying. This is the future.
Parents, Please Step Away From the Hiring Manager Nicole: One thing I'm finding as a hiring manager is that students are getting more tools, encouragement, and guidance around networking and mentoring than we had.
That part is good. But with that, I'm having a total Step Brothers moment because I'm getting emails from parents.
Erin: Oh no. When we say work networks, we are not talking about your parents.
Nicole: Do not call me and say, "What does my kid need to do?"
Erin: Are you kidding me?
Nicole: I'm not. Parents are engaged in their kids' lives and professional development in a way our families weren't because the world has changed. But I cannot take that seriously.
It's unfair to the student too. Maybe they're lazy, or maybe they have an overbearing parent. Either way, it makes them look bad.
Erin: It's a red flag. A disqualifying red flag.
And if a parent did contact me, I'd be tempted to ask, "Is this how you've operated throughout their schooling? Have you been stepping in like this?" Because if the answer is yes, there's your reason.
You are the problem. Not just because you picked up the phone now, but because you've probably spent years enabling them instead of slowly stepping back and letting them figure things out.
Nicole: We all understand networks. We all understand nepotism exists. But cold-calling nepotism is a whole different world.
If you're engaging with a hiring manager, make sure it's for a job you want. And ask yourself: if your child were dating someone, would you call that person and ask 27 questions?
Professional and personal relationships are not in totally different universes. They're on the same spectrum.
So from the hiring desk of Nicole: if you're a parent, don't call me.
Workplace Weirdness, Government Voicemails, and HR Stories Nicole: One of my favorite stories you sent was about the Washington State DMV.
The story was that when people called the DMV and chose Spanish language support, instead of getting Spanish, they got heavily accented English.
I don't know if it's real, but because I work for a government agency, I can absolutely see how this could happen.
Government tech systems are constantly evolving, and agencies don't always have access to all of their own systems. Voicemails are not always recorded by voice actors or vendors. Sometimes it's just someone in IT with a nice voice.
Erin: And maybe they were trying to save money and decided Rosario down the hall would do it.
Nicole: Exactly. Someone says, "She speaks clearly." And suddenly that's the voicemail.
Erin: I think it's real. I tried to look it up, and it didn't immediately flag as fake.
I did have another article on the list about a woman supposedly working three full-time remote jobs, but that one appears to be fake.
Listeners, you'll have to tell us: do you know if the DMV story is real?
The Bathroom Popsicle Bandit and Where People Hide at Work Nicole: The random HR stories also had me dying. My favorite was the Bathroom Popsicle Bandit.
Apparently, an employee would sit in the bathroom all day eating freeze pops and reading a book on her phone. She was in there so long that someone found her and thought she was dead.
There were freeze pop wrappers all over the floor.
Erin: You can picture it.
Nicole: I can picture it because our bathroom situation at work is not great. We have one stall for a lot of people. The light goes out. The toilet doesn't flush well. And if you sit there too long, it keeps flushing, so people know you're in there.
But sometimes when people are constantly walking into my office, I hide in there. Or I hide in the old lactation room/mail room/storage room. I push the chairs aside just enough to slip in and sit there for 20 minutes with my phone flashlight.
There's no air. No ventilation. But sometimes you need a moment.
Erin: It's mental health. It's better than putting in a mental health claim.
Nicole: I want to know where people hide at work. What are your work hide-and-seek spots?
Mine is the mail room/lactation room/storage room, sometimes the bathroom, near the emergency exit no one uses.
Erin: That reminds me of when my kids were young and wanted to play hide-and-seek. I would grab a glass of wine and go to the hardest place for them to find me.
They would eventually say, "Mom, we give up," and I would just sit there drinking wine. Best game ever.
Substance Coping and Surviving Modern Work Nicole: A lot of those HR stories involved substance use too. People coming into the office drunk or medicated.
And I'll be honest: people seem much more medicated or open about their medication at work now than I'm used to.
I'm not always sure what counts as substance abuse versus substance coping these days.
Sometimes I like people better on their coping substances than off them. I'm not saying I condone it, but sometimes I'm like, please come to this meeting chilled out.
Erin: Can you blame them with the current workplace?
Nicole: I cannot.
Erin: That's why we share these stories. That's why we share this podcast. It's all part of your medication.
Nicole: We are all living this dream together and showing up every damn day because we've chosen it.
And sometimes you just have to call your squad and ask, "Am I getting the best deal where I am?" Have that conversation.
Erin: Work the underground tunnel.
Nicole: Exactly.
Final Thought Erin: Modern work is weird. AI is changing the way people apply for jobs, companies are asking people to bot sit, parents are emailing hiring managers, employees are hiding in bathrooms, and everyone is trying to stand out without losing their minds.
But underneath all of it is something deeply human. We're trying to build lives we don't have to escape from. We're trying to stop comparing ourselves to people whose lives we don't actually want. We're trying to be seen, chosen, trusted, and remembered in a world full of AI slop and workplace noise.
And honestly? Sometimes the best thing we can do is laugh, call our people, and ask better questions about what we actually want.
Trust at work isn't built through big promises or polished corporate statements. It's built in the tiny moments.
In this episode, Erin sits down with bestselling author, speaker, professor, and filmmaker Minda Harts to talk about her framework for the 7 Trust Languages and why trust is really a communication issue hiding in plain sight.
In this episode, you'll hear:
-Why leaders need to stop pretending employees don't see what's happening
-How the 7 Trust Languages can help leaders build stronger relationships
-How to rebuild trust after a mistake without rushing the repair
This episode is for anyone who wants to lead with more honesty, communicate with more humanity, and make work suck a whole lot less.
Minda's Website: https://www.mindaharts.com/
Connect with Minda on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mindaharts/
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Intro Note: This transcript has been edited for clarity, readability, and length while preserving the core conversation and key insights from the episode.
In this episode of b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck, Erin Hatzikostas talks with Minda Harts about workplace trust, the seven trust languages, leadership communication, rebuilding trust after mistakes, giving better feedback, psychological safety, and why leaders need to stop outsourcing their humanity.
Why Trust Is the Real Workplace Issue
Erin: I'm fascinated by your background because I'm like, "Oh yeah, she's all about trust. She's a speaker." And then I'm like, "Oh wait, she's a professor. Oh wait, she's a filmmaker. Oh wait, she wrote books."
I'm curious about trust. It's not exactly the sexiest topic, but there must have been a moment or story that made you obsessed with it.
Minda: The obsession actually started during COVID. I was living in New York City at the time, and I woke up around three o'clock in the morning. I kept hearing this voice saying, "The issue is always trust."
I didn't think too much about it in the moment, but I wrote "trust languages" in my notes app. Over time, I kept coming back to it. The more I thought about all the writing I'd done over the years, I realized the real problem I was trying to solve was trust.
In the workplace, when certain things happen, there's usually an expectation underneath that isn't being met. That erodes trust. But often, people don't even know they're doing it.
So I started to see that it's not just a trust issue. It's also a communication issue. If the other person knew what you needed, could that get trust back on the tracks?
In personal relationships, trust is a no-brainer. If I can't trust you, I don't know if this relationship is going to work. But in the workplace, we give people a pass for doing things that aren't trustworthy, and we never have conversations about it.
The Seven Trust Languages
Erin: I love the idea of trust languages because everybody thinks of love languages. You have seven trust languages. Where does it start? Do you need to understand the other person, or are these seven things everyone needs to do?
Minda: My thesis is that we all have a primary, secondary, and tertiary trust language. There may be a time when we're speaking all of them, but if I'm a leader and you report to me, and I want to get the most productivity out of my entire team, not just my go-to people, then in our next one-on-one, I'm going to ask, "What does trust look like to you?"
I want to make sure we have the most harmonious working relationship possible. I want to make sure you get the most out of being on this team. So what does trust look like to you?
When someone answers that question, they'll usually tell you two or three of their trust languages without even knowing the labels.
If I know feedback is important to you, or transparency is important to you, I can make note of that. Then when we're working together, I remember, "Erin values transparency. She values when I'm not being ambiguous. She values feedback that's meaningful and insightful."
I tell people it's about the double E's. We're either enhancing trust or eroding trust.
Erin: Always up or down.
Minda: Exactly. We may not be able to solve everything at work, but we can solve for respect. We can solve for trust.
The Question Every Leader Should Ask
Erin: That question is so powerful. I used to lead a lot of employees, and I'm thinking, "Crap, if I could've simply said in one meeting, 'Trust is important. What does trust look like for you?'"
Minda: I never had a manager ask me that. Not because they didn't want trust with me, but because we're all moving so fast in the workday that we forget there's a human on the other end.
The data shows that if we have more trust, we're more productive and less anxious. I don't want to be the reason someone is spiraling through the day and not even know it.
Erin: Imagine asking that in an interview when you're trying to attract the best talent. You think people aren't going to flock to that? They're going to be like, "Wow, I've never heard that before."
Minda: Yes. And I write about that in the book. If you know acknowledgement is important to you, ask questions in the interview process that help you see whether that environment can provide it.
Some people don't naturally say, "Great job. Thank you for delivering that project. I don't know where we'd be without it." That may not be the language they're most comfortable giving. But you may need that to survive and thrive at work.
So tell people what's important to you. Advocate for yourself. We're not always going to work for the person who asks, "What does trust look like?" Sometimes you have to take the bull by the horns.
Erin: And by sometimes, we mean most of the time.
How to Ask for the Trust You Need
Erin: Most of our listeners are leaders, but let's be honest, they're also employees. Everybody wants to be a great leader, but they also want to know how to be led better.
Can you give an example of how someone might use the trust languages in an interview to understand what kind of manager they'd be working for?
Minda: One trust language that is really important right now is sensitivity, which is about empathy and being mindful of our actions, tone, and behaviors.
If I were interviewing, I might say, "Many people work together in the workplace, but they experience the workplace differently. If I reported to you and there was a natural disaster where I live, and I couldn't get into the office three or five days a week, how would we handle that?"
That question tells me a lot about the manager.
If they say, "Absolutely. Were you impacted by the fires? I know that must have been tough," that tells me something.
But if they say, "Maybe you should move somewhere else because we need someone in the office five days a week," that tells me something too.
You start to see how people humanize you, or whether they're robotic.
Sensitivity, Security, and Psychological Safety
Minda: Another example is what happens in meetings. We've all been in a situation where someone says a joke that isn't funny to everyone. Does the leader sweep it under the rug and let that person keep saying inappropriate things in team meetings?
Or, if I have an issue, can I bring it to you without fear of retribution?
A lot of trust is eroded in big team meetings. People speak over each other. People say things that are inappropriate, not necessarily because they woke up deciding to be inappropriate, but because they're used to talking any kind of way.
That's where psychological safety comes in, which is connected to the trust language of security. Even if we have a difference of opinion, there should still be enough respect for me to have a good conversation with you.
And if someone gives feedback, how do you receive it? Do you say, "I've never heard that before," and get defensive? Or do you say, "Let me consider what you're saying. Tell me more. Let me ask some questions."
These behaviors keep showing up at work, and people don't always realize how detrimental they can be.
Erin: Everybody's different. I'm thinking about two people who support my business. One is more on the sensitivity side. If something gets messed up, I know I need to say, "Dude, no big deal at all." And when something is done well, I need to say the thing that's already inside my head: "You crushed it."
The other person is about as far from sensitive as you can imagine. For her, follow-through probably matters more. She's my operations person. It's more like, "Erin, you said you were going to send me three videos. Send me the three videos."
Understanding those people is really important.
How to Rebuild Trust After You Mess Up
Erin: Rebuilding trust is always a big one. Let's say you screwed something up with a client, customer, or major project. What are some ways to rebuild trust that people may not think of?
Minda: One trust language that matters here is demonstration. Do our actions align with our values?
I can tell you all day that I'm going to make the tacos the way you expect them every time you come to the taco truck. But if every time you come, they're made differently, I'm not demonstrating that you can trust this place.
When we make a mistake, we can acknowledge it. "You know what? We have a new cook. We're training them today. But we value you as a customer."
Then we pay attention. "Oh, you like your cheese sprinkled this way? Now that I know that, I want to demonstrate that you can trust us. Next time you come, I'm going to check the bag before you leave."
It's the show and the tell.
A lot of times in life, we want to skip over the repair part. We say, "I said I'm sorry. Move on." But rebuilding trust requires demonstration over time.
I believe if trust can be broken, it can be rebuilt, if it's not egregious. But it requires action. Trust is a noun and a verb.
Erin: It takes patience. When we mess up, we want instant gratification. We want the wound to be healed right away. In a big corporation, it might be, "We'll give you a fee holiday," because we want something tangible and quick.
But if you slow down and accept that it may be uncomfortable for a little while, then next week you can show up differently. You can go above and beyond. You can demonstrate the repair.
Minda: Absolutely. And we also have to give people the opportunity to rebuild. If we've been burned in our personal or professional lives, sometimes we come into the next situation with our defenses up.
You may be the best boss I've never had yet, but if I'm still holding onto hurts and broken promises from my last situation, I'm not going to get the best out of the situation with you, and you're not going to get the best from me.
So we also have to be self-aware. Is this person really eroding trust, or am I bringing baggage from past experiences?
Erin: Right. It's easy to tell stories like, "The boss is mad at me because I got a three-word email." But maybe the boss is running to another meeting and isn't actually worried about the mistake you made.
What to Do When You Break Trust With Your Boss
Erin: Let's say you mess something up with your boss. Maybe you botch a report, lose a customer, or mess up some technology. Beyond demonstrating that you can get it right next time, what else helps?
Minda: Remember that your boss is human too. They have expectations you may not be aware of, especially if you're new to the team.
You might say, "I know expectations can change depending on priorities, and I want to make sure we're aligned. I really enjoy working on your team, and I want our working relationship to be strong. What do you need from me to do your best work?"
Success is not a solo sport. When you ask that kind of question, they may not say, "Transparency is important to me," or, "Follow-through is important to me," but they'll tell you something that reveals what matters.
Then you can make a mental note. If you say you'll get something done by five and you can't, don't workplace ghost them. Follow up and say, "I know the deadline is approaching. Could I get an extension of one hour? I'll get it to you shortly."
That keeps trust on the tracks.
We create narratives in our heads that people will be upset with us, but most people just want honesty. We all bump up against deadlines. We all make mistakes. The issue is how we communicate it.
The Leadership Mistake That Drives Minda Crazy
Erin: What gets under your skin? What's your biggest leadership pet peeve? What's the simple thing leaders do wrong that you wish they'd change?
Minda: I really value transparency, which is clarity and honesty. What gets under my skin is when leaders act like employees are stupid.
We see the smoke coming out of the chimney. We hear the alarms going off. Then you come and tell us, "There's nothing to worry about. Nothing to see here."
You may not know why the smoke is happening. You may not know why the alarms are going off. But acknowledge it. Say, "I know you've smelled the smoke. I've smelled it too. I don't know exactly what's causing it, but once I do, I'll let you know."
That feels better and keeps trust intact more than pretending nothing happened.
Don't pretend we didn't just do a reorganization. Don't pretend we didn't just lay off half the team. Let's humanize it.
People are human first and colleagues second.
Sometimes leaders think they can't be honest because they're privy to certain information. Then say that. "I don't have all the information right now, but I understand how this might make you feel. If you have questions, book time with me and let's talk it through."
That feels much better than watching someone's work friend get laid off after ten years and then pretending nothing happened.
Erin: I love that. Stop thinking your employees are stupid. The bar is low, isn't it?
Minda: It's so low.
Don't Outsource Your Humanity
Erin: I saw a post where someone asked you a question about AI, and the gremlin that came out of you was, "Don't outsource your humanity." What caused that?
Minda: Someone asked me about using AI in workplace communication. I think it's important to use the tools available to us. But what can happen is I put my thoughts into an agent, then I email you. Then you put your thoughts into an agent, and now you're emailing me back.
At that point, we've taken ourselves out of it. It's just two agents talking to each other.
There's no nuance. The tools don't understand the history of what happened in the meeting. They're getting it from one angle.
So before you press send, just because the grammar is great and the message is direct, take another look. Think about the nuance. Think about the relationship.
When this person finishes reading the email, how are they going to feel? What is the relationship going to feel like?
If we're just two agents talking to each other, we may not be building trust. We may be eroding it. That's why I said, "Don't outsource your humanity."
Erin: Preaching to the choir. I'm an authenticity girl. Sounding smart is now suspicious. Stop sounding smart.
How to Give Tough Feedback Without Eroding Trust
Erin: Can we talk about giving tough feedback? Whether it's an annual review or on the fly, I think the feedback sandwich is over. Maybe that worked when people didn't know they were being sandwiched, but now we all know.
How do you give transparent feedback while still building trust?
Minda: One thing I created is a game called The Trust Catalyst, which helps people practice these conversations so they don't erode trust.
If we're doing a one-on-one or year-end review, I'm not going to start by launching into feedback. If you sit down or appear on Zoom, and the first thing I say is, "That report you did last week should have been done differently," you're immediately thinking, "I didn't know this was a problem."
That sets the tone for the whole meeting.
Think of the seven trust languages as tools. If you have a nail, you're not going to grab a wrench first. You're going to grab the right tool.
Maybe you start with acknowledgement. Maybe you start with sensitivity because you know this person has had a rough year. When you do get to feedback, make sure it's meaningful and gives the person an opportunity to grow.
It's not just what you say. It's how you say it.
You can say, "We need to meet these deadlines more consistently. Is there something you need from me so we can make sure you hit this mark three weeks from now?"
That sounds very different from making someone feel like they may not have a job by the end of the week.
I always go back to the double E's. Is what I'm about to say going to enhance this relationship or erode it?
Think about what you want the end of the conversation to look like. Do you want the person to feel down and out, waiting to turn off the camera? Or is there a way that when you see each other later, the relationship still feels intact?
Growing up, my mom and dad could say the exact same thing to me, but when my dad said it, I wanted to spiral down the wall because his delivery was harsh. My mom could say the same thing, and I would receive it because I knew she was telling me in a way that helped me grow.
That's something leaders and colleagues can do better.
When Your Peer Becomes Your Employee
Erin: Here's a sticky situation: your peer becomes your employee. You get promoted, and Joe, who used to be your sidekick and confidant, is now reporting to you. How do you build this new level of trust when the relationship changes?
Minda: That happens a lot, and it can be sticky depending on which side of the friendship you're on.
A big part of it is transparency. Talk about the elephant in the room.
You might say, "I know we have a great working relationship, and now I'm in this leadership position. There may be times when I have to put certain priorities first, but I want you to know you can always come to me. I hope we can have two relationships: our working relationship and our friendship. There may be times when I have sensitive information I can't talk about like I could before, but I hope we can find that balance."
I would much rather someone be transparent with me and create that sense of security than pretend I don't exist anymore or start acting weird.
Nine times out of ten, if people would communicate instead of being conflict avoidant, we could have better relationships.
We create narratives that it can't work, but why not talk about how it can work? Say, "If it ever feels like our friendship isn't there, or I'm acting differently because I'm in this role, tell me. I value that."
We have to say what we mean without being mean.
Erin: Exactly. Say the thing you're already going to say to your coach or your partner. Why not say it to the actual person?
Minda: Yes. Because now I have that information. I may think everything is fine, but you may feel like, "We used to talk every day, and now we only talk once a month."
You might assume I don't care as much now that I have this leadership title, when really, I'm just busy and hadn't thought about it.
Again, many of these things are communication issues before they become trust issues.
Green-Lighting Yourself
Erin: You haven't just focused on trust. You're also a filmmaker, and part of that is telling stories about real-life situations, friendships, and the things that make life beautiful and complicated.
So many people listening are trying to make work suck less, but they're also looking for inspiration to do things that feel uncomfortable or outlandish. Can you talk about the filmmaking side?
Minda: I never intended to be an author. I fell into it. So I would encourage people to remember that you can learn new things.
During the pandemic, I started taking screenwriting classes because I knew I wanted to take the stories I'd been telling and share them in another medium. I wanted to be a better storyteller, and I'm a big advocate of investing in yourself.
Whether I win an Oscar, a Webby, or nothing, I wanted to enhance that skill. I also thought about the intellectual property I have and how I could tell those stories in different ways.
I started taking classes about six years ago. At some point, I said, "I'm not going to wait for the green light from somebody else. I'm going to green light myself."
So I started making short films. I kept taking coursework, reading books, finding my crew on social media, and asking people around. Now I'm four short films in, and they've been in many festivals.
It feels good to uncover a new area of my life that I'm good at. Maybe I'll win Oscars in the future. Maybe I won't. But I'm enjoying this part of my life because it's another way to get stories heard by people who may never read my books.
Erin: You said something so simple: "I took a class." So many times we act like we don't even know where to start. But there's a class for everything.
Minda: Everything.
Erin: Just take the class. Get curious.
Minda: I'll tell you and your listeners a secret. Since I was a teenager, I've always wanted to take piano lessons. Every year, I'd put it on the vision board: "Take piano lessons." And I never did.
But later today, I'm taking my first piano lesson.
I may end up in a recital with preschoolers, but this is for me. Sometimes we just have to do things for us.
Minda's "Buck That" Story
Erin: We always ask people for their "buck that" story. It's a time when you bucked the norm, went against the grain, and something good happened as a result. Do you have one?
Minda: Yes. It's the intersection where I sit now.
I was in corporate America for 15 years, and in 2015, I started this dinosaur thing called a blog. I was frustrated about the workplace I was in. There was no trust anywhere.
The blog was a way for me to talk about what I was experiencing, not from a "woe is me" place, but from a place of, "If anybody else is feeling this way, here are the tips I wish I had used or that I'm working through."
Every Monday, I put out a memo. Eventually, those memos became my first bestselling book, The Memo. I had no idea that would happen. Now I'm on book four and making films.
So sow those seeds. Take the step.
I left a very stable job, and I was terrified. I'm type A. I love stability because I didn't have a lot of it growing up. I thought, "Give me the gold watch. I'm here forever."
Taking that leap, betting on myself, and bucking the system showed me that success isn't just one way. I think I'm a constant "buck that" girl now. That's just how I live.
Erin: Once you buck it once and it works out, that's the end of the story. That's why we love to share these stories for people who are holding themselves back.
One Last Tip to Make Work Suck Less
Erin: What's your one last tip to make work suck less?
Minda: Ask yourself, "What do I want out of work?"
Sometimes we do things at work to make work work for everybody else, but we never consider what it needs to look like for us.
Once you understand what you need, you can ask for it more clearly. Not what the person next to you wants. Not what someone on Microsoft Teams wants. What is really going to make you say, "This was worth the ride"?
We should remember that we are good enough to deserve the best workplace possible.
After years of advising CEOs and senior leaders, she's learned that the higher you climb, the more the same human stuff shows up: insecurity, miscommunication, fear of failure, and avoiding the conversations nobody wants to have.
In this episode, Erin sits down with the self-proclaimed "C-Suite Whisperer" , Paru Radia, to talk about tough conversations, turning adversity into an advantage, and why standing still might be the riskiest thing you can do. Along the way, Paru shares lessons from her own journey and her no-BS coaching style.
Some of the things you'll hear are: -Why Paru actually loves tough conversations (and how to stop dreading them)
-How being bullied, underestimated, and treated like an outsider became her superpower
-Why "magic happens in momentum"
If you've ever felt stuck, overlooked, or unsure of your next move, this episode will challenge how you think about growth, leadership, and success.
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"Don't self-filter and be apologetic about something. It is what it is.
"If you are not confident about the things that you don't like about yourself, you are giving people ammunition to also dislike you. Just own it."
"Magic happens in momentum."
"The magic won't happen if something is standing still. You need other things to happen for the reaction to happen, which equates to magic."
Editor's note: This transcript has been edited for clarity, readability, and length while preserving the core conversation and key teaching moments.
In this episode, Erin talks with executive strategist Paru Radia about how to navigate tough conversations at work, communicate with more clarity, own the messy parts of your story, and use momentum to create real career growth. Their conversation covers executive coaching, leadership communication, performance reviews, workplace conflict, career transitions, and the real-life messes behind success.
Transcript
Why Paru Calls Herself the C-Suite Whisperer
Erin: You call yourself the C-Suite Whisperer. If I saw that on a page without knowing you, I might side-eye it. But after meeting you, I thought, "Oh my gosh, she totally is." Where did that come from?
Paru: I was talking to a client a few years ago, describing what I do without making it sound too prescriptive. I was explaining how I listen, question, translate, and help executives understand what is really happening.
I thought of the show Ghost Whisperer, where someone translates what ghosts are saying to the people who cannot hear them. I realized, "I do what she does, but for executives." So I said, "I'm a C-Suite whisperer."
She completely got it. A week later, she told someone she had hired a C-Suite whisperer, then wrote about me on LinkedIn using that phrase. So I thought, "I guess that's what I am."
Erin: I love that idea of translating between what someone says and what people actually hear. What gets mistranslated the most when you are working with executives?
Paru: Intention. And that applies to everyone.
People are often so busy thinking about themselves, what they mean, and what they think other people are hearing that they miss how the message is actually landing. I do not mean that in an arrogant way. No matter how senior you get, it is the same stuff with more at stake.
It is the same insecurity, the same miscommunication, the same desire for the business to be successful, the same desire to look good, be liked, be understood, be seen, and be heard. We are all human. The stakes just get higher.
How Childhood Shaped Her Ability to Read People
Erin: I saw in another interview that when you were asked what time in your life you would change, you mentioned primary school and high school. What were those years like, and how did they shape the bold person you are now?
Paru: I want to be careful with that answer. I am really happy in my life now, and I know I would not be where I am today without everything I experienced. But if I could still be where I am today and remove some of the pain from those years, I would.
I grew up in a very conservative, traditional Indian household in the seventies and early eighties in racist Britain. We had bricks thrown through our window. We had racial slurs shouted at us. As a child, I had people on the street threaten me because I was Indian. It was scary.
Some of that racism translated to school. I was made fun of for being Indian. I was also a chubby kid, so I was made fun of for that too.
What happened was that it became safer for me to observe than to participate. It was safer to figure out where the next landmine was or where the next grenade might be thrown.
That has worked in my favor now. I observe closely. I have a very keen eye and a very keen ear. I think some of that came from life circumstances that forced me to develop those skills.
Erin: That makes so much sense. For people listening who have gone through challenges, trauma, or difficult experiences, how do they start to turn those things into a strength?
Paru: First, be kind to yourself. And I do not mean that in a fluffy way. I mean dig deep and own everything about yourself.
I am a big advocate of owning all of it. When I work with clients, I am their biggest fan, but I am also very direct. I often say that when you work with me, you will be punched and hugged at the same time.
I am not soft. I will tell you things other people are too scared to tell you. I will tell you things you may not want to hear. But I am also there to catch you. I am not doing it to be mean. I am doing it to be real, so we can actually address what is happening.
The first step is not self-filtering or apologizing for what is true. If something happened, it happened. If you messed something up, own it. If you do not like something about yourself, name it.
Many people start to malfunction when they are not being who they really are. When you try to cover something up or perform as someone else, it creates friction. It is what it is. Own it.
If you are not confident about the things you dislike about yourself, you give other people ammunition to dislike those things too. Own them. There are things about me I do not think are fantastic, but I love them anyway. It has taken me a long time to get here.
Why Tough Conversations Matter
Erin: One thing I wanted to talk to you about is tough conversations at work. The employee who is not performing. The job elimination. The numbers that are not hitting forecast. A lot of smart, capable people want to crawl under their desk when it is time to have those conversations. What advice do you give them?
Paru: I love tough conversations.
Erin: Why?
Paru: Because they are the beginning of something different. Once you have the tough conversation, something is going to change. It might be an action, a perception, or a mindset, but something shifts.
I am all for change. I challenge the status quo all the time. I am always looking to be better, do better, and grow. I want that for my clients too.
When it comes to tough conversations, language is incredibly important. If I were giving general advice, I would say: get out of your own head and be factual.
Avoid making everything about "you," because that can sound aggressive. Keep it business-focused. Ask questions. Do not go straight into the conversation without understanding the other person. Be genuinely curious.
I start many difficult conversations by asking for the person's understanding of the topic first. That way, we are on the same page. Then I can share my definition or perspective.
That moves me from being opposite them to being next to them. It becomes, "This is how I am looking at it. How are you looking at it?"
Then I stay factual. I might say, "The business needs this. The problem we have is this. What do you think we could do about that?"
If their answer is not feasible, I might say, "Here is what I am thinking. What are your thoughts on that?"
Behavioral issues are different and need more specific examples, but in general, curiosity, clarity, and facts matter.
How to Approach a Performance Conversation
Erin: Let's use an example. Joe is a project manager. He has moments of brilliance, but he is inconsistent. Sometimes he solves a big problem. Other times, he makes promises he cannot deliver, or his work is not good. How would you coach someone to have that conversation?
Paru: There is a lot I would want to understand first. I would want to know what is going through Joe's mind when he performs well, and what is going through his mind when he does not.
I would ask whether Joe agrees with the assessment that he is inconsistent. Does he think he is not performing well? What does "well" look like to him? What outcome does he want?
I am very outcome-focused. I always ask, "What outcome are you looking for?" Then we work backwards.
Many people start from where they are and move forward, but ego and fear get in the way. They think, "I do not want to look bad. I do not want them to think this. I do not want to say that."
As a kid, I never saw the point of doing a maze by constantly hitting walls. I would start in the middle, draw the path backwards, and say, "This is the way to get there." I approach coaching the same way.
When we start with the outcome, ego becomes less of a problem. We can say, "If you want that outcome, it will take this. You will need to say this. You will need to do that."
Once the person can see the outcome clearly, they are usually willing to put their ego aside because they know what they are aiming for.
Erin: So with Joe, instead of starting with, "How do you think you are doing?" you would start with what he wants?
Paru: Yes. If Joe says, "I want a promotion," I would ask, "What do you think it would take for that promotion to be awarded to you?"
He might say he needs to perform at a certain level. Then I would ask, "What would it take to perform at that level?" We would look at relationships, technical ability, consistency, communication, and everything else involved.
If relationships are part of the issue, I would ask, "What would your relationship with your boss need to look like?"
I do not call myself a coach. I am an executive strategist. Coaching is part of what I do, but I am also opinionated and will share my perspective. I do not do that upfront. I want the client to get there first, but if they do not, I will share what I see.
So I might say, "To me, it sounds like your boss needs to see this, this, and this. Right now, you are not showing it. What can we do to make sure you show that?"
Why Clarity Changes the Conversation
Erin: I love that because so many people go into reviews and ask broad questions like, "How do you think you are doing?" But that can feel like a trap.
Paru: Exactly. I like asking a lot of questions to get clarity. Clarity is the first word on my website because it matters so much.
When there is clarity, you can have conversations without obsessing over, "What are they going to think? How are they going to take it? What if they do not understand me?"
If someone asks me a question that is too broad, I usually do not answer it right away. I ask for context.
If someone asked me in a performance review, "How do you think you are doing?" I would either break the answer into categories or ask, "Is there a specific context for that question, or is there a category you would like me to focus on first?"
That way, I know I am answering the question they are actually asking, not the question I think they might be asking.
Erin: That is such a useful takeaway. If someone asks a question that feels too big or like a landmine, you can ask for clarity. You can say, "Are you asking about my attitude, my deadlines, my communication, or something else?"
Paru: Yes. It gives everyone a better chance of having the real conversation.
Preparing for High-Stakes Business Conversations
Erin: Let's say someone is going into a quarterly business review with their boss, the CFO, and other senior leaders. The business has missed revenue numbers three months in a row. Most people would dread that conversation. How would you advise them to go into it?
Paru: If there is going to be a tough conversation with a group, I would get to the audience before they are all in the same room.
Relationships are easier one-to-one. If there are four senior stakeholders in the room, I would try to speak with each one individually beforehand.
I want to know what I am walking into. I want to be able to predict what is coming my way. If I can preempt some of that through individual conversations, I am better equipped to have a potential solution, even if I have not fully actioned it yet.
I might still get hurt a little, but I am less likely to get destroyed by the meeting.
Erin: So you would have those pre-conversations, understand the feedback and questions, and make sure the missed numbers are not a surprise. What else?
Paru: I would want to know why the numbers were missed. What went wrong? How can it be fixed? How can you make sure it does not happen again? What will you do differently? How do you feel about it?
Then I would help the person take ownership of the parts they are responsible for. I would help them own the mistakes with confidence instead of becoming defensive.
No one wants to deal with someone who is defensive. The audience is already taking care of themselves. They do not have time to take care of your defensiveness too.
Go into the meeting understanding the problems, owning the mistakes, and bringing possible solutions.
Why Magic Happens in Momentum
Erin: You said something that caught my eye: "Magic happens in momentum." Tell us more about that.
Paru: I had that as the screenshot on my phone for about a year. There is an old saying that standing still is the equivalent of moving backwards. Things move. Things change. People evolve. Time passes. If you are not moving, you are going backwards.
Even if you are scared, do it anyway. Change will happen. You will grow. You will learn something. You might learn, "I do not like that," or "That did not work," but at least now you know and can move forward.
I am a big fan of momentum. Standing still bores me. That is my personality. Some people love stability. I am not risk-averse. I like newness, change, and growth. Momentum creates that.
Erin: When I read that, I thought about momentum in relationships too. Someone sends an email saying, "I loved your book," or "I loved your coaching session." There is a difference between responding three days later and capturing that energy in the moment.
Paru: Yes. People are forgetful, and enthusiasm dwindles.
If someone says, "I loved your book," and you respond a month later, they have already moved on to the next shiny object. The effort it takes to remind them how great you are becomes wasted energy.
When there is energy, build on it. That is what improv taught me too. I did improv classes for a year, and so much of improv is about building on other people's ideas. Momentum works the same way. You do something, then the next thing, then the next thing.
Magic is the result of action causing a reaction. If everything is standing still, nothing reacts. You need movement for the reaction to happen.
The Expiration Date on Favors
Erin: For our listeners, especially corporate women in mid-career and up, momentum is so important in relationships and sponsorship. If a senior leader notices what you are doing or reaches out after a good meeting, grab that momentum.
Paru: I have the same theory with favors. If you have done something for someone and they say, "Let me know if there is anything I can do for you," there is always an expiration date on that offer.
If there is something they can genuinely do, do not waste the favor. But if there is something meaningful, ask while the momentum is there.
They have just experienced the good feeling of what you did for them. That feeling will dwindle. People get distracted. Later, they may still help, but it is harder.
Erin: A body in motion tends to stay in motion.
Paru: Exactly.
The Messes Behind Successes
Erin: I want to talk about your book, Messes Behind Successes. What is the premise?
Paru: It is about navigating reality on your rise to the top.
I am tired of reading books about unicorn billionaires. I am happy for them, but many of those stories sound like, "Life was tough, I lost money, then I was on the golf course with my dad's best friend and he invested in my business. Now look at me."
That is great for them, but how does that help the rest of us? I do not have a rich dad. I do not have a golf course. I did not go to Harvard, and most people did not either.
We hear success stories, but we rarely get a real how-to guide for navigating the mess on the way there.
Mess is real. People get married. People get divorced. People move houses or countries. People get sick. People pass away. That is the personal side.
At work, you may not get along with your boss. You may not get the promotion. You may mess up an interview, a meeting, or a target. You may be scared you are going to get fired. People do not talk enough about those moments.
I am interviewing C-suite leaders who look very successful on paper, and many of them are successful and happy. But they had so much mess along the way.
I want to share those stories so people do not feel alone, and so they have tangible examples of how to navigate real life and still make it.
Erin: I love that. Those are the stories people need when they are wondering whether they should go for the career move, the big meeting, the executive job, or the new business. It is inspiring to hear how people got through the hard parts.
Paru: Exactly. The mess is part of the story.
Helping People Recalibrate in Career and Life
Erin: Who is your ideal client? Who might be listening and think, "I would really benefit from working with Paru"?
Paru: I work with executives in corporations, first-time CEOs, C-suite leaders, rising C-suite leaders, small businesses, startups, and multi-billion-dollar companies.
I love working with first-time CEOs because they often do not realize how great they are, and I get to help them shine.
I also work with individuals in transition. A lot of people come to me saying, "I want to do this," or "I want to do that," and I ask, "Why?" I really want to know why.
About half the time, once they answer that question, they realize they have been working so hard for a dream that is no longer their dream. Their dream has changed.
I love when those epiphanies happen. I like helping people in transition understand who they are deep down.
Things happen along the way, and sometimes people need to recalibrate. Who are you today because of everything that happened, or despite everything that happened? What does today's version of you want?
That is what I want to know, and then I want to help you get there.
Where to Find Paru
Erin: Where can people follow you and get more of your brilliance?
Paru: The only social media platform I am on is LinkedIn. You can find me there as Paru Radia. You can also visit my website.
I share a lot of my thoughts, stories, and lessons on LinkedIn. The book also includes many personal stories, including some I cringed while writing. But they are a big part of who I have become, how I think, and how I operate.
Erin: Please promise me you will read your own audiobook.
Paru: I absolutely will.
Erin: Good. Your personality and authenticity need to come through in the audio version. Thank you for sharing your candor, your insights, and part of yourself with us today.
Paru: Thank you for opening the door into your world and letting me in. It has been so much fun.
This episode is part journalism, part therapy, part "girl WHAT?!"
Today's guest, Melanie Marshall, is a former BBC foreign journalist turned filmmaker, speaker, and coach who has reported from some of the most intense places on earth. And somehow… despite seeing humanity at its messiest, she still believes people are mostly good.
Some of the things you'll hear:
-The wildly unexpected way radicalized followers of Osama Bin Laden welcomed her into an interview shortly after his death
-What actually creates human connection when people disagree on literally everything
-Why she repeatedly ignored her boss's instructions, chased stories anyway, and somehow ended up with life-changing moments… and a goat
-Stories that prove women across the world are a lot more alike than we think, even in radically different circumstances
-The time she got smacked repeatedly with a feather duster by a man, plus the moment she relied on her single greatest survival skill to get herself out of danger
Melanie tells stories the way your funniest friend would if your funniest friend also casually wandered through war zones, political unrest, and deeply human moments while carrying BBC equipment. It's equal parts hilarious, eye-opening, uncomfortable, hopeful, and "HOW IS THIS A REAL STORY?" energy.
How you can use Human Connection to drive change | Melanie Marshall | TEDx
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Website:http://melaniemarshall.com
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In this episode of Because Work Doesn't Have to Suck, Erin sits down with former BBC foreign journalist Melanie Marshall to talk about leadership, courage, connection, resilience, and why she still believes humanity is fundamentally good after reporting from some of the world's most dangerous places. From interviewing extremists in Pakistan to reporting in Afghanistan, Iraq, Libya, and the Philippines, Melanie shares unforgettable stories about human connection, optimism, fear, and what really helps people survive difficult moments.
Why Melanie Marshall Still Believes in Humanity
Erin: You've seen some of the worst parts of the world, yet your message is still rooted in hope and optimism. That feels almost impossible right now.
Melanie: I know optimism gets eye rolls these days. But what I've learned traveling the world is this: if you let it, the world will humble you. It'll break your heart. But it also teaches you that people are far more complicated, funny, resilient, and loving than headlines make them seem.
I've spent years in places like Afghanistan, Iraq, and Gaza. Even in places under terrible oppression, people still laugh. They still flirt. They still joke. They still find joy behind closed doors. Human beings don't stop being human just because circumstances become horrific.
That's where my optimism comes from. The story is hard, but it's not over.
Meeting Followers of Osama Bin Laden
Erin: Tell us about the experience you had just after Osama Bin Laden was killed.
Melanie: We went to Pakistan shortly after his death because I wanted audiences to understand something important: Bin Laden wasn't just a man. He represented a movement.
We arranged to meet with radicalized followers of his in Karachi. I was nervous. Deeply nervous. Externally, I looked calm. Internally, I was thinking, "Am I completely insane for doing this?"
As we drove up, I heard children playing. We were meeting at a school.
That immediately lowered my fear level because they had intentionally chosen a setting they knew would make us feel safer. Then we walked in and the welcoming committee was wearing USA baseball caps.
These were people whose ideology I completely rejected, but they were trying to communicate something human: "You're safe here."
That moment changed how I think about connection. Even in situations where people fundamentally disagree, humans still look for ways to create understanding.
"Be As Normal As Possible"
Melanie: One phrase I've used throughout my career is: "Be as normal as possible."
I used it walking into Taliban prisons. I used it in war zones. And honestly, it applies to corporate life too.
If you're about to walk into a terrifying meeting with a VP or ask for a raise, don't pressure yourself to be perfectly poised or fearless. It's not a normal situation.
Just be as normal as possible. A little awkwardness is fine.
The Currency Everyone Wants
Melanie: I met a young woman in Gaza who created art sculptures out of sand because that was the only material available to her.
What she wanted most wasn't pity. She wanted to be seen.
I told her her work reminded me of art I'd seen in California. That mattered to her because it acknowledged she belonged in the same conversation as artists everywhere else in the world.
Erin: I always say everyone has a currency. Usually it's much smaller and simpler than we think.
Melanie: Exactly. Most people just want acknowledgment, respect, or connection.
The Woman Who Changed Her Life
Melanie: One of the people who impacted me most was a woman named Ghada in Mosul, Iraq.
She was funny, independent, ambitious, and full of life. We instantly connected. We joked about men, talked about work, laughed constantly.
She was also exactly the kind of woman extremists hated: outspoken, educated, joyful, politically active.
At one point she escaped Mosul, but she went back because she didn't want to leave her father behind.
ISIS killed her.
What stays with me is that even while living under horrific conditions, she remained hopeful. Loving. Funny. Fully alive.
That changed me forever.
Why Connection Matters More Than Status
Melanie: I've interviewed celebrities, billionaires, world leaders, and people no one has ever heard of.
The people who changed me most were usually the latter.
Connection matters more than status. Once you really sit down with someone, the hierarchy starts disappearing. They're just people.
And I think we forget that constantly.
The Feather Duster Incident
Melanie: I once visited an extremely conservative shrine near the Iranian border where modesty rules were intensely enforced.
I was trying to manage my reporting team while also wearing a chador that kept slipping off my head. Every time even the tiniest strand of hair showed, a man would smack me with a feather duster.
Eventually I was furious. Absolutely furious.
And then a group of women saw what was happening.
They didn't confront the man directly. Instead, they surrounded me, fixed my chador, sat me down, and pulled out snacks.
That moment stuck with me forever.
Women see each other. They protect each other. Sometimes survival looks like forming a circle around someone and handing them food.
Bravery Isn't What People Think
Erin: People constantly describe you as brave.
Melanie: I honestly don't think I'm brave. I think I'm good at functioning during chaos.
There's a difference.
I've run from airstrikes in Ukraine. I've dropped to the ground while bullets flew overhead in Libya. I assure you: I was not standing there heroically.
Most people aren't fearless. They simply have a purpose bigger than their fear.
Families survive war zones because protecting their children matters more than panic. I kept reporting because I believed it mattered to connect people with the truth of what was happening.
Purpose propels you forward.
The Story Wasn't Over
Melanie: After covering devastating typhoon damage in the Philippines, I left feeling overwhelmed with guilt because I could leave and everyone else had to stay behind.
Years later, I stayed in touch with the local drivers and families we worked with there. I watched their children graduate school. I watched them rebuild their lives.
That experience taught me something important: the story wasn't over just because I left during the worst part.
We do this in our own lives too. We assume difficult moments are final chapters when they're often just hard middle sections.
Bucking the Norm in Afghanistan
Melanie: I once fought hard to report from one of the most remote regions of Afghanistan because I wanted to document what childbirth looked like in the most dangerous place in the world to give birth.
My bosses kept trying to convince us not to go.
We went anyway.
The journey was brutal. Multiple flat tires. Dangerous mountain roads. A clinic fire in the middle of the night. At one point villagers handed my bra around after rescuing our belongings from the fire, which became an entire cultural misunderstanding on its own.
Eventually, a woman arrived at the clinic to give birth. Her baby died, but she survived, and she was relieved simply to have lived.
That story changed how people understood maternal healthcare in Afghanistan because we insisted on going all the way to where the story actually lived.
Sometimes bucking the norm simply means refusing to stop halfway.
Final Thoughts on Hope
Melanie: The world can be heartbreaking. Truly heartbreaking.
But everywhere I've gone, I've also found humor, generosity, resilience, love, and connection.
That's why I still believe in people.
The story is difficult. But it isn't finished yet.
Life isn't all smooth conversations and easy people. Sometimes it's messy, uncomfortable, and straight-up frustrating.
In this episode, Erin sits down with former trial lawyer turned entrepreneur and conflict expert Gabe Karp to talk about how to handle tough situations without spiraling, avoiding, or blowing things up.
Because here's the truth: conflict isn't the problem. How you handle it is.
Gabe shares practical strategies to help you stay grounded, take control, and walk away without regret… even when the other person is making it hard.
Here's what you'll hear:
-The 5 traps that quietly sabotage your ability to handle conflict
-A simple shift that helps you stay calm when things start going sideways
-Gabe's least proud leadership moment and the lesson that stuck
-The subtle behavior that might be holding others back (and you don't even realize it)
Website: GabeKarp.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/gabe-karp-1b772a1b
Check out Gabe's TED Talk, How To Thrive With Difficult People: https://youtu.be/ggOQg6uUV2M?si=nKviXwvHJkGgvLGk
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In this episode, Erin Hatzikostas talks with conflict expert Gabe Karp about how to handle difficult workplace conversations, give feedback without becoming the bully, manage conflict with bosses and clients, and use practical tools like the "two tokens" theory, the "shopping list voice," and the penguin philosophy.
Why Conflict Is So Hard at Work
Erin: I'm really excited to talk to you today. I think we can never have too many episodes about tough conversations. Conflict is the word you use, and our audience is working in a very Game of Thrones-type environment — corporate America.
Erin: You are a conflict expert. Was there a moment when you realized this was the work you wanted to do?
Gabe: There was. I spent ten years as a litigator, mostly in commercial litigation and legal malpractice. If you think a normal lawsuit is contentious, suing lawyers for screwing up is that on steroids.
Gabe: I learned a lot about anger and how it flows through a room. For all the wrong reasons, I loved it.
Gabe: Then I left private practice and joined a startup. We were growing fast, and whenever there were issues — a client problem, an internal mistake, anything — I wanted to jump in and fix it. But everyone around me was uncomfortable with conflict, and I didn't realize that at first.
Gabe: I realized we couldn't fix what needed fixing if everyone was tiptoeing around issues. I had to consciously find ways to help people feel comfortable having difficult conversations.
Can People Get Better at Conflict?
Erin: Do you think people can transform? A lot of people listening may think, "I just naturally run from conflict."
Gabe: Absolutely. I think it's nurture, not nature. We all have the same fight-or-flight instinct. But the ability to pause that instinctive response in the moment is something people can learn.
Gabe: The thing I've found most effective is helping people find the right entry point into a difficult conversation. One line I use all the time is, "If I were in your position, I'd want someone to tell me this."
Gabe: Once people have that one sentence to break the ice, all the things they need to say can come out in a productive, respectful way.
Erin: So one of the most important things is the entry point into the conversation.
Gabe: Exactly. Most people have a sense of what needs to happen. They just don't know how to begin.
When Your Boss Keeps Changing Priorities
Erin: Let's take a common scenario. Someone's boss keeps changing priorities. One week it's one thing, the next week it's another. The employee is overwhelmed and hasn't said anything. How should they approach that conversation?
Gabe: You want to bring awareness to the boss. It's like holding up a mirror and letting them see what their behavior looks like.
Gabe: In the moment, you might say, "It sounds like this is important, but two days ago you told me the thing I'm working on now had the same level of urgency. If I drop this, it remains unfinished. If I move to this new thing and then two days from now we switch again, that becomes difficult for me because I don't know what's actually important."
Gabe: You're not attacking them. You're helping them see the pattern. Most people don't want to be perceived as the person who creates fire after fire after fire.
Erin: I think one of the most important things you said is to address it in the moment. A lot of people wait for the next one-on-one, and by then they're nervous or the meeting gets delayed.
The Two Tokens Theory
Erin: Let's talk about customer conflict. How do you handle a situation where you have to tell a client that something you promised isn't going to be delivered?
Gabe: There's a concept I love called the choice between two tokens. In every customer service complaint, there are two tokens on the table: the "it's not a big deal" token and the "this is the end of the world" token.
Gabe: Whoever picks up the first token forces the other side to pick up the only token that's left.
Gabe: If a customer has a serious complaint and you minimize it, they are forced into the "end of the world" position. But if you immediately take accountability and say, "This is unacceptable. We failed you. We're going to fix it," the customer often becomes the one to say, "Okay, it's not that bad."
Gabe: In business, there is almost no downside to taking accountability first, even if you don't know all the facts yet. If you later learn the other side was also at fault, you'll have more credibility because your default response was accountability.
Gabe: When you really screw something up for a client, that can actually become an opportunity to make the relationship stronger. Mistakes are inevitable. The real test is how you respond once you recognize the mistake.
Erin: I love that metaphor. I've never heard it explained that way, but I've seen that strategy work.
Why Conflict Drives Growth
Erin: You say conflict can drive growth and innovation. Tell us more about that.
Gabe: You cannot drive growth and innovation without conflict. It's impossible.
Gabe: Companies where everyone is a yes person and no one raises their hand when there's a problem will kill innovation. The same is true for careers. People grow when they receive feedback, learn from mistakes, and get better.
Gabe: If someone is repeatedly making a mistake and you know exactly what they're doing wrong, but you withhold that information because you don't want them to feel uncomfortable, you're depriving them of the opportunity to become the best version of themselves.
Gabe: People often think avoiding feedback is kind. But sometimes it's actually cruel because you're withholding information they need in order to grow.
Gabe: You can say something like, "If I were in your position, I'd want to be told this," or, "I think you're being perceived in a way you don't want to be perceived." Then get specific.
Gabe: It's not enough to tell someone what they did wrong. You also need to give them something they can take away and use to improve.
Feedback as a Leadership Gift
Erin: That reminds me of a boss who once gave me feedback after I ran a town hall. I thought I had crushed it, and he told me I said "I" a lot — "I think," "I want," "my vision." It stuck with me because he was right.
Erin: If he hadn't told me, he would have deprived me of becoming a better leader.
Gabe: That's huge. Whether or not he was your favorite boss, that was a real service he did for you.
Don't Get Mad at Penguins
Erin: We have to talk about penguins. Your book is called Don't Get Mad at Penguins. Why?
Gabe: Don't get mad at penguins because they can't fly.
Gabe: It's a lesson in acceptance. We need to accept people, limitations and all, and stop expecting them to do things they are not capable of doing.
Gabe: The hard part is that limitations are often hard to see. A penguin is a bird. It has wings and feathers. Everything about it suggests it should be able to fly. But it can't. Flight is literally beyond its ability.
Gabe: People often say, "Of course this person is capable of behaving differently. They're smart. They can analyze other people's behavior." But that doesn't necessarily mean they can see or change their own behavior.
Gabe: If someone behaves the same way every single time, and you know there's a 100% chance they'll do it again, why keep getting mad? Sometimes you have to accept the limitation.
Gabe: The penguin analogy helps people separate themselves from anger. They start picturing the difficult person as a little penguin who can't fly, and it takes the hot air out of the situation.
Erin: I love that. Think of people as penguins.
The Five Conflict Traps
Erin: You talk about five traps that turn conflict against businesses. What are they?
Gabe: The five traps are the bully trap, the need-to-win trap, the liar trap, the avoidance trap, and the judgment trap.
Gabe: These show up in all human interaction, not just business. Things like anger, fear, ego, and judgment are not always bad. In healthy amounts, they can be useful. Anger can motivate you to fix something broken. Fear can protect you.
Gabe: But when those things move outside their healthy range, they become toxic.
The Bully Trap
Gabe: The bully trap is not about a playground bully who enjoys hurting people. It's a situation where someone, because of urgency, fear, or passion, behaves in a way that is perceived as bullying.
Gabe: If someone on my team makes a mistake and I yell at them because I'm angry, I may think I'm giving feedback, but I'm not. I'm just beating them up.
Gabe: If I want to understand why something happened and I start by yelling, they're just going to defend themselves. There won't be a genuine conversation.
The Need-to-Win Trap
Gabe: The need-to-win trap happens when your desire to win a small battle eclipses the reason you entered that battle in the first place.
Gabe: I experienced this as a litigator. I had a case where I found a smoking gun piece of evidence. I knew I could destroy the other side at trial, and I wanted that moment.
Gabe: A judge pulled me aside during a settlement conference and reminded me that my job wasn't to win for the sake of winning. My job was to get the best result for my client.
Gabe: I had become so focused on winning and punishing the other side that I almost lost sight of what was actually best for the client.
Erin: I think we can all relate to that. Maybe not in a trial, but definitely at work or in relationships.
The Shopping List Voice
Erin: Let's talk about detoxing the bully trap. How do you do that?
Gabe: I love using what I call the shopping list voice.
Gabe: Imagine someone says, "Hey Gabe, I'm going to the store. Do you want me to pick anything up?" And I say, "Yes, eggs, milk, frosting, and sprinkles." It's matter-of-fact. Neutral. Calm.
Gabe: Now take a workplace example. A client fires us because someone on my team sent deliverables with mistakes, the client had to redo the work, and they missed a deadline.
Gabe: I could explode and attack the person. Or I could say in a calm voice, "I just got off the phone with the client. The deliverables had mistakes. They had to redo the work. They missed the deadline as a result. They said this wasn't the first time it happened, and they fired us. That was a $2 million account."
Gabe: The substance is the same. But in the angry version, the person stops listening almost immediately. In the shopping list voice version, they may not like what I'm saying, but they can actually hear it.
Gabe: If you're really mad, practice first. If you can't say it in the shopping list voice, you're not ready for the real conversation yet.
Accountability Plus Reaffirmation
Gabe: When people screw up, it's also an opportunity. Deliver the feedback in a shopping list voice, then reaffirm the person.
Gabe: You can say, "This is serious. But you are not horrible. You're smart and capable, and my hope is that this becomes a turning point in your career."
Gabe: That combination helps you avoid being perceived as a bully. You tell the truth clearly, and you also remind the person that the mistake is not their identity.
Erin: So it's a one-two punch: use the shopping list voice, then reaffirm the person at the end.
Bucking the Norm by Having the Hard Conversation
Erin: We always ask guests for a "buck that" story — a time they went against conventional wisdom. What's yours?
Gabe: I'll tell you about another mistake I made. When I first moved from litigation into a startup, I was still communicating like a litigator. Lawyers swear at each other all the time and no one is offended.
Gabe: One night, a sales person made a mistake, and I was dealing with the fallout. I sent him a brutal email with a subject line I should not have written. I copied another lawyer because I thought I was showing how I was managing the situation.
Gabe: The next morning, that lawyer told me, "You can't do that. These people aren't lawyers. They're real human beings with feelings."
Gabe: That was a turning point. I realized the way I communicated in litigation wasn't effective in the real world.
Gabe: The norm I decided to buck was avoidance. So many people avoid difficult conversations, but I made a commitment not to carry anger or frustration around at work or in my personal life.
Gabe: If someone does something that feels disrespectful of me or my time, I assume first that they don't realize it and are not being intentionally mean-spirited. Then I make them aware of it respectfully and quickly.
Final Advice to Make Work Suck Less
Erin: What is your final tip to make work suck less for our listeners?
Gabe: Think about the things that bother you at work and draw a circle around yourself. Anyone who enters that circle has to adhere to the higher standard you hold yourself to.
Gabe: When people fall short of that standard, respectfully give them the gift of awareness.
Gabe: It will make your professional life easier because people will learn how to work with you. It will also help you build the skill of expressing difficult concepts in a way people can actually hear.
Gabe: If you were about to walk on stage and I saw spinach in your teeth, it would be mean not to tell you. Workplace mistakes are the professional version of having food in your teeth. Tell people. It's a gift.
Erin: I love it. This has been great, and conflict is such a hot topic with our audience. Thank you so much for spending this time with us.
Gabe: Thanks for having me.
What happens when you actually step away from work… like really step away?
In this episode, Nicole shares what it looked like to take a true 19-day vacation with zero email, zero checking in, and zero control. What started as a milestone birthday trip turned into something much bigger: a reset on how she works, leads, and lives.
From skinny dipping under a full moon in Mexico to rethinking perfection, boundaries, and identity at work, this conversation gets real about burnout, control, and what it actually takes to create a life that feels good. Not perfect. Just good.
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In a world of overflowing inboxes, AI-generated emails, and corporate language that all sounds the same, most messages get ignored. Erin explains how changing just one word, adding an unexpected phrase, or using a little personality can break the pattern and actually get people to pay attention.
If you want people to listen to you at work, communicate more authentically, and stand out in workplace conversations, sometimes the fix is surprisingly simple.
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A toxic workplace pushed this week's guest to his breaking point. That moment changed everything for him.
In this episode, Erin sits down with Shola Richards, CEO of Go Together Global, bestselling author of Civil Unity, host of the Kindness Extremist Podcast, and a speaker who has taken his message from Google and Microsoft to the TODAY Show, CBS Mornings, and even Congress.
But this conversation is not about fluffy kindness.
After years of bullying, workplace toxicity, and untreated depression, Shola hit rock bottom and attempted to drive his car off an overpass in Los Angeles. The guardrail held. That moment launched his mission to change the world by changing how we treat each other at work.
Here's what you will hear:
-The difference between a bad day and workplace bullying and why pattern matters
-A practical three-step framework for addressing toxic behavior
-Why "kill them with kindness" does not always work
-What leaders must start doing immediately to make work suck less
If you have ever worked with a bully, tolerated bad behavior, or wondered whether kindness is weakness in leadership, this episode will challenge you in the best way.
Connect with Shola:
Linkedin: Shola Richards
Podcast: The Kindness Extremist Podcast
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Do you work for a neurotic boss?
You are capable. You know your numbers. You've done this before. But the moment there is a board meeting or executive presentation, your boss spirals and catapults into weeks of prep and endless rehearsals.
In this episode, Erin shares an executive coaching story about a seasoned P&L leader reporting to the COO whose boss demanded over-preparation and fully scripted talking points before presenting to the board.
The problem? No executive wants to be read to.
Erin breaks down three strategies to handle the panic without sacrificing credibility or authenticity.
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"If you start reading from a script, they are going to immediately want to poke their eyes out."
In this episode, Erin sits down with her friend Drew Sullivan for a deeply honest conversation about addiction, recovery, and what it's like to grow up feeling misunderstood. Drew shares how being labeled "too much," navigating ADHD, and never being asked why shaped the way he moved through the world and how those early experiences quietly laid the groundwork for addiction long before substances entered the picture. This isn't a polished redemption story or a neat recovery arc. It's a human conversation about loss, self-awareness, and what finally made change unavoidable. If you've ever felt misunderstood, struggled with addiction (your own or someone close to you), or are still carrying stories from your early years that shaped who you became, this episode is for you. What you'll hear: 1) Why being labeled "too much" is often about context, not character—and how to tell the difference. 2) What it actually means to live inside-out instead of chasing approval from the outside world. 3) How Drew believes addiction often starts long before substances, and why unmet needs fuel it. 4) A simple, brutally honest way to know when something in your life has crossed the line. 5) Why work gets easier when you stop hiding parts of yourself and find people who can carry their own baggage too. Follow Drew on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/andrewjamessullivan/ If you'd like quick, tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the 10 simple "plays" to stop selling out and start standing out at https://bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com/freebie To connect with Erin and/or Nicole, email hello@bauthenticinc.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, be sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Follow b Cause on Twitter (really it's mostly Nicole) Follow Erin on LinkedIn or Instagram Join the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group Take our simple, fun, and insightful "What's your workplace superhero name?" quiz Unleash your Authentic Superpower with Erin's book, "You Do You (ish)" Check out our blog for more no-BS career advice Work with Us Or just buy some fun, authentic, kick-ass merch here DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments "I wasn't being asked why I was being told what I was doing wrong." "I never felt safe. I never felt heard, and I never felt seen." "When we focus on living our lives from the outside in, we are f*cked. But when we focus on living our lives from the inside out, anything is possible." "I don't feel like I have to think about doing things before I do them anymore and that's how I know my life has aggressively changed."
This episode is for anyone who swears they're "fine" while secretly letting work run their entire nervous system.
Erin and Nicole get honest about toxic attachment to jobs, the martyr complex disguised as responsibility, and why being the most dependable person in the room isn't the flex you think it is.
If you've ever said "I'll just do it," treated every email like a five-alarm fire, or confused being needed with being valuable, this one might hit close to home.
Here's what you'll hear:
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"You could work in the most functional place, you could own the business, and still have a toxic attachment to the role you have." 6. "We often confuse responsibility with absorption. Just because you own something doesn't mean it has to become your inner essence." 7. "The things that make us feel safe are sometimes the very things that make us appear inflexible." 8. "You are not the crisis manager unless your job is literally crisis manager. Not everything urgent is a crisis." 9.
What does a futurist actually do, and how can understanding change make leadership and life feel less overwhelming?
In this episode, Erin talks with futurist Cecily Sommers about how change really works, why uncertainty feels so intense right now, and how leaders can stay grounded when planning horizons keep shrinking.
Here's what you'll hear: -A futurist studies change, not to predict outcomes, but to understand patterns.
-The future is not figure-out-able. It is followable.
-All change moves in cycles of order, disorder, and re-order.
-Understanding change lowers anxiety and increases agency.
-Leaders need shorter horizons, more experimentation, and stronger inner stability.
cecilysommers.com
leadlikeafuturist.com
Book:Think Like a Futurist
LinkedIn: Cecily Sommers
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In this micro-motivator episode, Erin shares the one strategy every new leader underestimates: using real stories of failure to build trust.
Whether you're stepping into a new role or trying to earn trust with a team that already knows you, this episode gives you a simple habit that makes people think, "I can be myself around this leader."
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Seven years, 300 episodes, and more stories, meltdowns, breakthroughs, and belly laughs than anyone could've planned for. In this monumental milestone episode, Erin and Nicole pull back the curtain and celebrate the journey that started on a couch in New Haven and somehow turned into a community of thousands navigating work, life, leadership, burnout, and everything in between.
And in this episode, they're not alone. They invited some of their most loyal listeners to join in the discussion and episode!
153: The 3-Step Method to Getting Anything You Want with Brandon Fong
216: How Pushing Back Propelled Her Career Forward with Barb Flitsch
207: From the Vault: Riding the Elevator Up with Renee Zaugg
206: From the Vault: Nicole's Moving Out, Up, and Onward
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Most resumes read like brag sheets no one asked for. Big words, boring buzzwords and mile-long bullet points that hiring managers will never read. In this episode, Erin breaks down what actually gets attention.
If you're tired of blending in and ready to get noticed by real people scanning hundreds of resumes, this episode shows you the exact shift to make.
If you're tired of blending in and ready to get noticed by real people scanning hundreds of resumes, this episode shows you the exact shift to make.
Here's what you'll hear:
1.) Why your resume should act like a marketing flyer, not a brag sheet
2.) The one section that matters most if you want to stand out
3.) How to write a summary that hooks people fast
4.) What a real superpower sounds like and how to explain it
5.) How to use keywords without turning your resume into fluff
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If you've ever wondered how to lead with more humanity without losing authority, this episode is for you.
Rachel DeAlto, keynote speaker, communication and leadership expert and author joins Erin to unpack what it really means to be a relatable leader-one who's respected, trusted, and real even when the pressure's high.
Here's what you'll hear:
The one thing teams say they crave most and most bosses forget to give
What it really takes to rebuild confidence after ego-driven leadership
How to use her "Me-You-We" method to navigate tough conversations
Check out Rachel's Book: The Relatable Leader: Create a Culture of Connection
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In this episode, Erin sits down with author, researcher, and keynote speaker Sheri Jacobs, whose new book The Unexpected Power of Boundaries flips the traditional idea of creativity on its head.
Sheri argues that innovation doesn't thrive in limitless freedom, it thrives inside clear constraints.
From playground fences to corporate experiments, from polar bears in the Arctic to the diagnosis that changed her life, Sheri shares powerful stories that prove boundaries aren't barriers, they're catalysts.
Here's what you'll hear:
1.) How boundaries don't limit creativity, they unleash it
2.) Why "Risk tolerance" is overrated and what you need to focus on instead
3.) The "Best New Mistake" award mindset
4.) How constraints spark innovation
5.) Why boundaries can be life-saving
The Unexpected Power of Boundaries Rethinking the Rules, Risks, and Real Drivers of Innovation
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In this micro episode, Erin shares one of the most powerful (and wildly overlooked) tools for building trust as a new leader: the humility moment. Not just “I suck at Excel” level vulnerability, but a real, human story that opens the door for connection, honesty, and trust. She also tells the story of failing seven actuarial exams, how that shaped her leadership style, and why ditching the old-school success rubric is actually the smartest move you can make.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
-Why trying to be perfect is killing your leadership credibility
-What a “humility moment” is (and how to find yours)
-How to use storytelling to build trust fast
Why failing early might be the best thing that ever happened to you
Whether you’re leading for the first time, managing former peers, or just trying to earn credibility quickly, this episode gives you a practical mindset shift to build trust in a way that actually works.
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Content warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help. In the U.S., you can dial or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. Think leadership is about pep talks, perks, or pushing harder? Phil Putnam, former tech executive, speaker, and author of Desire-Based Leadership disagrees.
In this conversation, Erin and Phil chat performance, loyalty and even take us into a topic most leaders avoid: menopause.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
• Why traditional motivation tactics don’t work
• The overlooked link between leadership and loyalty
• What companies miss about remote work culture
• The attrition math every leader should track
• How menopause symptoms get misread as performance problems
• Creating real safety and support at work
• Why Phil speaks out about menopause on stage-and why leaders should listen
Website: https://philputnam.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/philputnamspeaks/
We Do Not Care Club IG: @justbeingmelani
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What if caring less actually made you a better leader? In this episode, Nicole shares how dropping the mental load, setting unapologetic boundaries, and leading with humor have made her team stronger (and her stress levels lower).
Erin also jumps in with insights on why authenticity is finally winning in the workplace.
What’s Inside:
1.) Why “I don’t care” is Nicole’s new leadership mantra
2) .How humor helps you set boundaries without sounding like a jerk
3.) What ChatGPT is teaching us about tone, trust, and real connection
4.) The subtle difference between burnout and badassery
31: Thankful for 30: Erin & Nicole Recap the First 30 b CAUSE Episodes
246: Kill Your Company's Complexity with Lisa Bodell
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“I used to care about everything. You know where that got me? Miserable and stressed. Boundaries are the new promotions.”
Hate the “Tell me about yourself” question? Ok, we all kind of do, but truthfully you’re probably answering it all wrong. In this solo episode, Erin breaks down how to stop regurgitating your resume and start captivating your interviewer from the first question. Using her signature “Intriguing Intro” method, you’ll learn how to combine humility, credibility, and a dose of what’s-in-it-for-them to make hiring managers lean in and actually remember you.
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In this solo episode, Erin chats about the kind of burnout we don’t talk about enough—the kind that masquerades as dedication. After a powerful moment during a workshop with a high-achieving leader, Erin unpacks the hard truth: working nonstop isn’t always selfless… sometimes, it’s selfish. From addiction to the “hum” of hustle to the unintended signals we send our teams, this episode offers a tough-love reframe for anyone who’s worn burnout like a badge of honor.
If you’ve been struggling to set boundaries or feel guilty for slowing down, this one’s your permission slip (and reality check).
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You don’t need a PhD to get AI—you just need Dan Chuparkoff. A former tech leader at Google and McKinsey, Dan now helps people make sense of innovation as the “Understandable Technology” expert. From dropping out of college to redefining how leaders use AI, this episode is packed with mic-drop moments, real-world use cases, and fresh ways to rethink how you work.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) Why he dropped out of college and how that actually served him better in the long-run
2.) How using AI can be thought of as simply as finding small "copy/paste" moments
3.) How leaders should think about using AI to be more efficient (and why AI might not always be the answer)
4.) The biggest changes he sees coming with AI and work
5.) One company's unique approach to leveraging all those meeting notetakers' notes
Connect with Dan on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chuparkoff/
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In this episode, Erin and Nicole swap stories about the work traumas that shaped them—some painful, some funny, all of them unforgettable. From leadership flops and job losses to the quiet moments that hit a little too hard, they unpack the professional PTSD that left a lasting impression (and taught them what not to repeat). If you’ve ever wondered why a small comment still haunts you—or how to make meaning out of a mess—this one’s for you.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) Why your “superpower” might actually be a trauma response
2.) What Erin learned when a boss called her character into question
3.) The toxic startup job that taught Nicole how to separate brilliance from bullshit
4.) What happens when you sacrifice your wholeness for a job
5.) How validation-seeking keeps us stuck—and how to break the cycle
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If stress has ever hijacked your brain mid-meeting or made you question your own success, this episode is for you. Dr. Rebecca Heiss—stress physiologist, keynote speaker, and author of Springboard and Instinct—joins us to unpack the science behind stress and how to harness it as a powerful force for growth, resilience, and confidence. Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) Her Fear(less) Formula, a 3-step process for dealing with stress
2.) What the Hedonic Treadmill is and how it explains why you often feel stressed
3.) What the Winners Effect is and how it can help you achieve big things
4.) What a Disaster Diary is and how it can help you
5.) How to rewire (and rename) the age ole "Imposter Syndrome"
Dr. Rebecca’s Book-Springboard: https://rebeccaheiss.com/books/springboard/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebeccaheiss/
Instagram: @drrebeccaheiss
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What if the key to better work wasn’t more hustle—but deeper connection? In this episode, Shasta Nelson dives into the surprising science of friendship, why belonging matters more than ever, and how your relationships at work could be the hidden driver behind your success (and sanity). Shasta Nelson is a former pastor turned pioneer on the topics of loneliness and friendships, She's an in-demand keynote speaker, popular media resource, and author of three books in which she teaches how to build healthy relationships, including The Business of Friendship: Making the Most of the Relationships Where We Spend Most of Our Time.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) How being a pastor helped her see things others might not regarding loneliness and belonging
2.) The three things all friendships must have
3.) How setting a routine and capsule for your friendships is key to maintaining them
4.) The business case for having a best friend at work
5.) How she pushed back several times in her career against advice that would have derailed her work
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shastanelson
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shastamnelson/
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In this episode, Rashad Rayford brings the energy (and the poetry) with a fresh take on owning your voice, trusting your timing, and turning fear into fuel. From embracing boredom to battling imposter syndrome, Rashad breaks it all down with humor, heart, and a spoken-word mic drop you won’t want to miss. Rashad Rayford is an award-winning speaker, actor, and poet featured at TEDx, on NPR, and in The Wall Street Journal and USA Today. He's also a MOTH Story Hour GRANDslam champion. Rashad is known for his high-energy presentations that blend storytelling, spoken word, and actionable insights.
1.) How boredom was critical to him finding his calling
2.) Why you shouldn't try and microwave your growth
3.) How he 50% Rules poetry and keynote speaking
4.) How he almost didn't do the thing that launched his speaking career, and the simple acronym that helped him through it
5.) His improvised poem to you to make work suck less
Website: https://www.rashadthapoet.com/
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What does it take to build a leadership legacy that lasts? Stephanie Chung knows. As the first African American president of a private jet company—and now a sought-after speaker, author and board member—she’s lived the kind of career most only dream about.
In this episode, she shares the pivotal moments, tough lessons, and mindset shifts that helped her rise, lead with purpose, and leave a mark that matters.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) The time she TRIED to say "no thank you" to a big-girl job and what transpired
2.) The two powerful lessons she learned from her father and stories of how she put those into action
3.) How those annoying "bombs" that executives throw your way can be formative and helpful
4.) The unique way she handled her boss when someone on her team made a mistake and he was "hunting" for them
5.) What ALLY leadership stands for and practical ways to use it to be a legacy leader
Ally Leadership: How to Lead People Who Are Not Like You
Website: https://stephaniechung.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/TheStephanieChung/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TheStephanieChung/
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In this episode, Erin and Nicole tackle something we all need to get better at: ignoring. (Ignoring—strategically, of course.) Whether your inbox is flooded, your DMs are piling up, or you're just plain overstimulated, this episode is your permission slip to stop responding to everything like it’s a fire drill.
Here’s what you’ll hear:
1.) Why every message doesn’t deserve a reply—and how to tell the difference
2.) How to stop treating work like a courtroom (you’re not on trial, promise)
3.) Practical ways to prioritize what actually needs your energy
4.) What ignoring with intention looks like (and why silence is a superpower)
5.) And the real reason vague DMs are getting ghosted
From Pavlovian pings to text message booty calls (yep), this one’s packed with the hard-earned wisdom of two recovering over-responders. You’ll laugh, nod along, and maybe even mute a few notifications.
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Networking isn’t just a “nice to have” — it’s directly tied to your promotions, paycheck, and how others perceive your value. In this episode, Erin sits down with speaker, author, and networking expert Julie Brown to unpack why networking is critical for your career growth and how to do it more effectively (and authentically). Julie brings the data, the tough love, and the practical steps — from small, doable actions you can take today to common mistakes that are sabotaging your efforts, including the two most boring questions that kill any conversation. If you’ve been avoiding networking or just going through the motions, this conversation will change the way you think about it.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) The hard cold stats on why networking is key to your success
2.) The small first steps you can take if you're not doing enough networking
3.) The top two dopamine killing (i.e., bad) questions you probably ask at networking events
4.) Alternative, dopamine inducing questions to ask instead
5.) Her biggest pet peeve in networking
This Shit Works
https://juliebrownbd.com/
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What if the setback is the setup? In this episode, Angela Gargano shares how she went from biochemist to 6x American Ninja Warrior—and the mindset moves that kept her climbing (literally). From her RIGHT framework to delusional action, this convo is your reminder that even when everything feels off track… it might just be going right
Angela Gargano is a 6x American Ninja Warrior, Miss Fitness America 2016, 3x Cover Girl, international keynote speaker, and the founder of the Pull-Up Revolution, where she’s helped thousands of women conquer their first pull-up.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How her time as a biochemist surprisingly served her as an American Ninja warrior
2.) The mindset shifts she made when everything seemed to be going wrong
3.) Her RIGHT framework for getting through setbacks (and my real-time use of it to get over a setback I had just that day)
4.) Why brain dumping is critical to making the most of your setbacks
5.) The power of taking delusional action
www.angela-gargano.com
Podcast: www.angela-gargano.com/podcast
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What does it really take to leave a legacy as a leader? In this solo episode, Erin is coming in hot with a message that’s been on her mind for a while—one that’s part pep talk, part practical how-to: how to leave a real leadership legacy (and no, it’s not about working yourself to death or following every rule in the book).
From the awkwardness of admitting she left a legacy… to the specific things she did (and wishes she had done), this episode is packed with straight talk, strategic insight, and stories you’ll carry with you.
You’ll hear:
1.) Why Erin believes your legacy isn’t in the numbers—it’s in your people
2.) A behind-the-scenes look at the rule-breaking that actually paid off (even if it got her a slap on the wrist)
3.) The one thing most leaders forget to do—but makes all the difference
Erin’s 3-point checklist to make sure you’re building a legacy you can be proud of. No fluff. No fake humility. Just the truth about what works—and what matters.
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What if the chaos you’re experiencing isn’t a crisis… but a transformation? In this episode, Nicole opens up about turning 49, revisiting her own evolution, and what it’s taken to stay grounded when the world keeps shape-shifting.
From embracing therapy to rewriting her definitions of success, she lays out a real-life-tested five-point plan for navigating seasons of massive change — without losing yourself (or your sense of humor).
There’s some tough love, some funny sidebars (we’re looking at you, custom bra fitting), and a whole lot of clarity for anyone who feels like the ground is shifting beneath them.
We talk about:
1.) Why redefining “exceptional” might be the most exceptional thing you do
2.) What Nashville, leadership mugs, and chameleons have to do with adapting
3.) The difference between crisis and transformation — and why it matters
4.) How to simplify, reconnect, and stay sharp when resources are thin
5.) Nicole’s five-point framework for not just surviving, but sur-thriving
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What do a $10 Old Navy vest, mushroom coffee, and a curling iron that feels like butter have in common? They’ve all earned a permanent spot in Erin and Nicole’s lives. In this episode, Erin and Nicole swap their usual leadership talk for their Top 10 Products That Have Changed Their Lives in the Last Year—from game-changing health finds to everyday items that just make life better.
You’ll hear:
1.) The back-saving sleep hack Erin swears by
2.) The coffee alternative that secretly slashes inflammation
3.) The beauty tool Nicole thought was a sex toy (spoiler: it’s not)
4.) And of course, the skort that brought Nicole to the dark side (of shorts)
Is it life-changing? Possibly. Is it hilarious? Absolutely. And hey—there’s still a little leadership talk tucked in there… but mostly, it’s a love letter to the little things making life easier (and more fun) right now.
Nicole's Products:
Ryze Mushroom Coffee
Best Hairspray
Language Learning
AI helper
Skorts!
Erin's Products:
Mattress topper
Balanced Femme
Trader Joe's grilled chicken (not meant to buy here but to show you what it looks like
Old Navy Pleather Vest
1-inch curling iron
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Meet Jesse Cole, the Walt Disney of baseball. In 2016, Jesse and his family took a chance on a struggling baseball team in Savannah. What happened next? They didn’t just revive the team—they completely reinvented the game. If you've ever wondered "How did the Savannah Bananas start?", this episode dives into the wild journey that transformed them into a global sensation.
Instead of focusing on the sport itself, Jesse became obsessed with one thing: the fan experience. By challenging traditional baseball norms and making entertainment the priority, he and his team built a phenomenon that sells out every single game.
In this episode, Erin and Jesse talk about:
1.) Lessons from their success—how the Bananas became more than just a baseball team
2.) The power of putting fans first (and why most businesses get this wrong)
3.) Why standing out isn’t about being the best—it’s about being different
Whether you're an entrepreneur, a leader, or just someone looking for inspiration, Jesse's insights will make you rethink how you show up in your own field.
Find Your Yellow Tux
Fans First
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Ever wondered what it really means to be brave at work? Jennifer Pestikas, SVP of Business Development and founder of Brave Women at Work, shares her journey from a shy bank teller to a bold leader, proving that confidence isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build. In this episode, Jennifer and Erin chat about:
1.) The seemingly simple but bold "ask" that changed her career trajectory
2.) Her greatest leadership challenge and how she took control when things didn’t go as planned
3.) The difference between post-traumatic stress and post-traumatic growth—and how challenges can lead to unexpected success
4.) Real-life examples of being brave at work—from speaking up in meetings to making bold career moves
5.) The Greek concept of Chronos (bending time)—how to make space for your passions without burning out
If you've ever felt stuck, struggled with self-doubt, or wondered how to make courageous career moves, this episode is packed with lessons that will inspire you to take action.
LinkedIn: @Jennifer Pestikas
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bravewomenatwork/
Website: https://bravewomenatwork.com/author/jpestikas/
Find out more about Thrive in 2025 here: https://thrive-in25.com/
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In this raw and unfiltered solo episode, Erin chats about the weight of life, work, and the mental roadblocks that hold us back. From personal struggles to coaching insights, she shares what’s been on her mind—including three key mindset shifts that can change how you show up in your career and life. Erin also gets candid about challenges at home, why reaching out for support is always worth it, and the surprising advice that helped her land a CEO role.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, second-guessing yourself, or waiting for the “right moment” to take action—this episode is for you.
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This episode is one for the books. Melanie Marshall, a former BBC foreign journalist turned filmmaker, speaker, and coach, joins us with jaw-dropping stories from the world’s most challenging places. She’s witnessed humanity at its worst—and yet, she’s still relentlessly hopeful. Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.)How radicalized followers of Osama Bin Laden made her feel welcome in an interview just shortly after his death
2.) What anyone can do to create connection, despite differences
3.) How she defied her boss' (on multiple occasions) to do a story they thought was both dangerous and unnecessary, and the magic that resulted (and goat!)
4.) Stories of how some of the most oppressed women are actually just like you and find joy in their own ways
5.) So many other AMAZING stories, including the time she got repeatedly beat by a man with a feather duster and also the time she saved herself using her most important asset
Melanie’s storytelling is raw, hilarious, and filled with lessons on courage, connection, and seeing the good in the world—even when it’s hard to find.
How you can use Human Connection to drive change | Melanie Marshall | TEDx
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melanie-marshall-237a641/
Substack: https://imrama.substack.com/
Website:http://melaniemarshall.com
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New year, fresh start… or just another round of unrealistic expectations? In this episode, Erin and Nicole chat about the pressure that comes with the start of the year—why we feel it, how it messes with our motivation, and why setting massive, all-or-nothing goals can actually work against us.
Oh, and there’s also the story of how Nicole, a state regulator, opened an email full of unsolicited pics. So yeah, this episode has range.
If you’re feeling the weight of it all—personally, professionally, or just existentially—this one’s for you.
206: From the Vault: Nicole’s Moving Out, Up, and Onward
Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done
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In this episode, Erin sits down with Don Barden—a globally recognized expert in leadership and decision-making with a PhD in organizational leadership and behavioral economics—to explore the research behind his latest book, Here Come the Girls. Don makes a bold declaration: by 2028, the scales of leadership will tip, with women leading the way. But can the data back it up? Erin and Don discuss the systemic barriers, cultural shifts, and surprising factors influencing women’s roles in leadership—and dig into whether women even want to occupy those top spots.
This isn’t an episode packed with immediate action steps—it’s a thought-provoking conversation designed to explore where we can begin.
There’s some pushback, some probing, and a lot to reflect on as we tackle how individuals like us can drive meaningful change. If you’re ready to challenge assumptions and spark new ideas, this is the episode for you.
Here Comes the Girls book
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donwbarden/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/donbarden/
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How can you be successful and stay authentic doing it? In this episode, Leigh Brown—real estate authority, 3-time author, and speaker—gets real about why chasing money and the top spot left her unfulfilled.
She shares how redefining success and leaning into her imperfections helped her build deeper connections, stand out, and turn her outrageous authenticity into her ultimate power move.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How Leigh embraces her 50/50 blend of being her dad/mom to create trust and be unique in the market
2.) The one thing SHE uses to balance work-life on a daily, micro basis and how she also does it on a macro basis
3.) Why attaching your success to things that can be taken away may not be your best strategy
4.) How she makes videos about boring or controversial topics unique and worth watching
5.) The time she drove herself into a chainsaw company and got herself a job
Leigh’s Book: Outrageous Authenticity
From Smoky to Sellable: How to Prep a Smoker's House for Sale
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leighthomasbrown
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leighthomasbrown
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What happens when you ditch the corporate fluff and give your company a bold, authentic identity? In this episode, Erin takes us behind the scenes of helping a company embrace the theme “Taking the BS out of E&S” causing a major internal shift that sparked excitement from the top dog CEO to their employees.
Meanwhile, Nicole shares how leading an unconventional office Christmas party embraced their company’s theme—and their colleagues' personalities.
If you’re stuck playing it safe, it’s time to rethink what your audience—and your team—really crave: something real, memorable, and worth talking about.
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206: From the Vault: Nicole’s Moving Out, Up, and Onward
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In this episode, we’re tackling a topic that’s both incredibly important and eye-opening—understanding and supporting neurodivergent needs in the workplace. Sounds like a heavy topic? Well, it’s actually one that’s filled with tons of practical, real-world tips that could make a huge difference in your work environment.
From sensory needs to access and support, we’re breaking it all down in a way that’s easy to digest and—dare we say—kind of fun. If you’ve ever wondered how to make your workplace more inclusive (or just want to know what “neurodivergent” even means), this episode is for you.
Pasha Marlowe (she/they), is a trained marriage and family therapist, coach, speaker, and author. She wrote the best selling book "Creating Cultures of Neuroinclusion" and is recognized in Forbes as a neurodiversity expert. She enjoys presenting keynotes and workshops on neurodiversity-affirming practices and policies to organizations around the globe. Pasha proudly identifies as multiply-neurodivergent, disabled, and queer.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why we need to get away from talking in terms of functioning labels (ADHD, bipolar disorder, disabled, autism) and instead focus on unique needs
2.) How to focus specifically on three categories of needs: sensory, support, and access
3.) The practical things you can do and ask to be more inclusive of neurodivergent people
4.) How Pasha "Bucks That!" when she gives presentation, and how that can empower you
5.) How to talk with your child or children who might be neurodivergent
Connect with Pasha:
Instagram:@neuroqueercoach
LinkedIn:@PashaMarlowe
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265: How to Nourish Neurodivergent Minds in a Neurotypical Workplace
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Erin and Nicole couldn’t let this holiday season pass without a nod to their original, and highly relatable, "The Twelve Days of Work-mas" episode. So, to start your holiday off right, we’ve decided to revisit this fan-favorite and send you off with a few laughs. Plus, Nicole surprises Erin with her work rendition of Santa Baby. I mean, can it get any better?
The Twelve Days of Work-mas
12 hour workday
11th hour deadline
10 interns sleeping
9 hours of meetings
8 corporate trainings
A 7 year-old Intern
6 feet of distance
5 gooooldeeen handcuffs...
4 minute break
3 PowerPoints
A 2-percent raise
And a promotion to a trainee
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Life’s full of tough situations and tricky people—and nope, you can’t always dodge them. Sometimes, you’ve got to face them head-on. In this episode, we’ve got former trial lawyer turned entrepreneur, author, speaker, and conflict expert, Gabe Karp. He’s sharing how to handle tough situations—and even tougher people—with more grit, less regret, and a whole lot more control.
Gabe’s strategies will not only help you tackle conflict, drive growth, and fuel success, but also leave you feeling empowered and happier while doing it.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) The phenomenon of their always being two tokens to choose from
2.) 5 traps that turn conflict against you/businesses and how to detox from them
3.) Gabe's least proud leadership moment and what he learned from it
4.) Why you should use your Shopping List Voice when things take a wrong turn
5.) The thing you might be doing that's depriving someone from being the best person they can be
Website: GabeKarp.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/gabe-karp-1b772a1b
Check out Gabe’s TED Talk, How To Thrive With Difficult People: https://youtu.be/ggOQg6uUV2M?si=nKviXwvHJkGgvLGk
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Your money, your rules, your life. Ditch the tired financial narratives that keep you stuck and create strategies that help you live authentically—right now. Because building wealth isn’t just about numbers; it’s about crafting a legacy that feels as good as it looks.
Enter Karen Coyne. A certified financial planner, founder of Clarity Planning, and host of Money Without Math, Karen “deals in the real.” She’s the antidote to shaming and “shoulding,” bringing clarity and empowerment to your financial journey.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why the financial planning world obsession of "size and performance" is misguided
2.) Why the strategy of accumulation, accumulation, accumulation can be harmful
3.) Some basic and tangible tips regarding Estate Planning
4.) What the "Great Wealth Transfer" is and what it means to you
5.) Her son's advice on what you have to do to be #1
Website: https://www.raymondjames.com/clarity
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karencoyne/
Podcast: Money Without Math
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How thoughtful are you really being when hiring your next employee? Do you have a solid strategy in place, or are you just picking random questions from an AI-generated question bank? No judgment here, we’ve all been there! But what if you had a system? What if taking a little extra time and care in your hiring process could actually help you retain top talent and avoid costly mistakes? This week’s guest can help you with that. Konstanty Sliwowski is the founder of the School of Hiring and has conducted over 12,000 documented interviews and will help completely change your strategy and perspective on interviewing others.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) The cost and ramifications of shitty interviewing practices
2.) The importance of a Hiring Blueprint rather than a job description
3.) His few favorite questions to ask and why he asks them
4.) Why applications via Application Tracking Systems have grown by 50% (and what that means for you)
5.) Why people "Rust Out" and how you can be sure you don't
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sliwowskik/
https://schoolofhiring.com/
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Networking: you either love it, or you’re counting down the minutes ‘til you’re out of there. But what if you were more intentional? What if you walked into every networking event with a game plan to make those chats actually matter? This week’s guest knows the tricks to turn small talk into smart moves—and they’re spilling the goods to help you up your networking game.
Robbie Samuels is an event design consultant, executive Zoom producer, and business growth coach, recognized as a networking expert by NPR, Harvard Business Review, Forbes, and Inc.
He’s the award-winning author of three books, and founder of the Biz Book Publishing Hub, helping entrepreneurs become successful authors with launch teams and a strong review pipeline.
Since 2016, he’s hosted the On the Schmooze podcast and the #NoMoreBadZoom Virtual Happy Hour.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why you need to be less of a bagel and more of a croissant at events
2.) The importance of planning your business card and follow up strategy
3.) The one thing that you most need for an effective virtual meeting
http://robbiesamuels.com/tedx
http://www.linkedin.com/in/robbiesamuels
BombBomb:https://bombbomb.com/
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ADD and ADHD are finally getting some much-needed recognition in the workplace, but here’s the real question—are leaders ready to keep up? It’s one thing to acknowledge these neurodivergent traits, but it's another to actually adapt, ditching outdated systems and embracing new ways to lead. Spoiler alert: it’s not just about letting people fidget or work in bursts—it’s about creating a culture where everyone thrives, distractions and all.
So, are leaders truly on board? Well, one leader is and she’s telling you how she’s doing it.
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Does work-life balance exist? According to our guest, it can. In fact, she believes you can have a big, full life AND have the freedom to enjoy it. Cherylanne Skolnicki is the founder and CEO of Brilliant Balance, including her top-rated podcast. She's on a mission to redefine what it means to have it all.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How you need to diagnose WHY you are doing things for your kids
2.) What is "cognitive overload" and the tangible steps you can take to unload the overload
2.) What is "cognitive overload" and the tangible steps you can take to unload the overload
3.) The impact of us often thinking that future us is kinda a loser
4.) The invisible belief you likely have regarding your overfull work plate and how to change that
5.) What happened when her client took specific steps to get more balance (it involves P!NK!)
Website: https://brilliant-balance.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cherylanne-skolnicki-brilliant-balance/
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Is your work lingo working against you? In this episode, Erin chats with Julie Holunga—a leadership advisor, executive coach, and TEDx speaker on a mission to help professionals amplify their influence and impact.
Julie spills her secrets on how some seemingly innocent phrases might be stealthily sabotaging your career and more golden nuggets you won’t want to miss!
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) What she learned while working at Harvard...and what she had to unlearn
2.) The biggest words and phrases that can sabotage your career
3.) Tips for influencing people NOT reporting to you
4.) The 3 biggest components to Lazy Leadership...and simple habits to change to be less lazy
5.) Simple replacement phrases for the 3 most dreadful (and commonly said) phrases in business
Ready to find out which common phrases you need to ditch—and what to say instead?
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julieholunga/
Website: https://www.julieholunga.com/
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Curious what really makes those elusive HR professionals' brains itch? Us too. So we knew we had to bring in the big guns to ask. In this episode, we sit down with Bruce Wallace, Chief People Officer at Newman’s Own. Bruce became Chief People Officer at Newman’s Own in September 2020, overseeing Human Resources for both Newman’s Own, Inc. and Newman’s Own Foundation. He brings over 25 years of HR experience across industries including healthcare, retail, consumer products, and financial services.
Before joining Newman’s Own, Bruce served as VP and Senior HR Business Partner at Prudential Financial, where he provided HR support to key areas such as Product & Pricing, Sales, and Operations. His career began in sales and sales management before transitioning into HR, where he gained experience working with start-ups and Fortune 50 companies.
Bruce holds a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Theater from the University of Connecticut, a Master’s in Human Resources and Finance from Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute, and an executive coaching certification from Columbia University.
On the personal side, Bruce has three daughters -- two taxer-payers, and one college junior – and lives in the Greater Hartford area with another HR professional, his wife of 25 years.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
What he believes is the Career Advancement Conundrum and how to get through that
The #1 thing he looks for when he's keeping an eye on talent that'll rise
The biggest misstep you can make in an interview
Newman's Own's innovative 50% Ruled initiative
The 3 things he needs every day to make work suck less
Connect with Bruce on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bruce-wallace-0613/
Newman’s Own LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/newmans-own/mycompany/
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The 50% Rule is out TODAY! If you're all about actionable advice, a dash of salty language, and motivational stories that pack a punch, this book was made for you. Want to hear a little more about the book? Well this episode has you covered there too.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why bowling for Alzheimer’s is a thing—because fun can do good.
2.) The 50 percent rule—why aiming for 100 percent all the time is just unrealistic (and not necessary).
3.) What to expect from the book—spoiler: it’s something you’ll want on your shelf.
4.) The idea of a book mascot—is it ridiculous? Yes. Is it happening? It definitely needs to.
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In this episode of b Cause Work Doesn’t Have to Suck, Erin opens up about her recent health overhaul. From chronic back pain to sugar detoxes, she’s sharing how she’s turned things around in the last six months. Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Erin's wake-up call to change her health habits.
2.) Her surprising relationship with sugar and how she kicked it to the curb.
3.) The power of weightlifting and macronutrients in her transformation.
4.) The unexpected perks: less pain and a happier mindset.
239: 5 Things I've Learned on My Health Journey
188: Stress, Sex, & Sleep: The Truth About Your March to Menopause with Dr. Fiona Lovely
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Let’s face it—everyone has work complaints. Whether you’re thriving in your role or just trying to get by, we can all agree that sometimes work... just sucks. So, how do you make it less serious and a little more bearable? Well, believe it or not, a bit of humor can go a long way. This week’s guest, Kate Davis, will show you how lightening up and adding humor can turn even the toughest workdays around
Kate is a twelve-time nominee at the Canadian Comedy Awards for Best Female Standup and the prestigious Phil Hartman Award. Kate is also the star of her own hour-long comedy special on CTV and the Comedy Network, “Comedy Now.” Kate Headlines across the country and has performed at the Winnipeg Comedy Festival, The Hubcap Comedy Festival, The Kitchener-Waterloo Comedy Festival and LOL.
Kate has also shared the stage with Lewis Black and Seth Meyers. Hosted events for the former President, Bill Clinton, Barbara Walters and many others. Kate made it to the final round in Toronto for “Last Comic Standing” 2008 season. Kate has 2 Comedy Albums out “House Arrest and Tested Positive” available on all platforms. Her first book the Breast-Feeding Diaries won the iparent media award and her second book called “Second Best Mom - Stories, Tips and Okay Advice” is now available on all platforms.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) What happened one night when she walked into a comedy club after putting her children to bed
2.) How she used humor even in a solemn situation to make things better
3.) Why humor should be a key strategy you use for business success (even if you're not the one dishing out the funny stuff!)
4.) Her three commandments for using more humor in the workplace
5.) What happened when she sang a Campbell's soup song to a director when she was 18
Website: https://katedavis.ca/
LinkedIn: @KateDavis
Instagram: katedaviscomic
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Ready to kick self-doubt to the curb and reclaim your power? Meet Kathy Caprino—a career coach, former corporate VP, therapist, and Forbes contributor who’s basically done it all.She’s here to drop the truth bombs you need to close those pesky power gaps and level up. Tough feedback? She’s got hacks. Asking for what you deserve? Kathy’s got that covered too. Buckle up, because you're about to learn how to own your power like never before.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why having power isn't the "dirty word" you might think it is
2.) The 7 damaging power gaps that hold most women back
3.) Simple changes to how you preface challenging or tough feedback
4.) The thing you need to absolutely do first before asking for what you deserve
5.) Her powerful, tough-love question: "What if I had the power to shift this?"
Instagram: @kathycaprino
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/kathycaprino
Website - kathycaprino.com
Kathy's podcast - findingbrave.org
Kathy’s Book: The Most Powerful You: 7 Bravery-Boosting Paths to Career Bliss
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Michelle L. Gardner, Senior Supervising Director of Foundation Relations, is a master at linking dreamers with doers—those who want to make a difference and those who can make it happen. In this episode, we chat with Michelle about how The 50 Percent Rule is shaping her work and driving real, positive change.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How her personal brand of TRUST + GRATITUDE impacts her work and success
2.) Her unique approach to using donor needs to fuel positive change
3.) Why she joined The 50% Ruler workgroup
4.) What The 50% Rule means to her and why she thinks it holds so much power
5.) How she recently 50% Ruled something and what came of it
Connect with Michelle on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-l-gardner-cfre-2426542/
Binghamton University: https://www.binghamton.edu/organizations/b-first/michelle-gardner.html
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Ever wonder what makes you, well, you? If you're intrigued by what drives you—or those around you—this episode is your map to unlocking those secrets. In this episode, Erin and Nicole sit down with Kaitlyn Czapiga to explore the fascinating world of Human Design. Kaitlyn breaks down how their family fits into the different Human Design types—Manifestors, Generators, Projectors, and Reflectors—and explains how understanding these types can help each of us find greater peace and empowerment by better understanding ourselves and others.
Kaitlyn, a Hypnotist, Reiki Master, and the creative force behind Soul Magic, blends the mystical with the practical. She’s here to explain how Human Design can help you heal, grow, and embrace your unique wiring. Get ready for a conversation filled with fresh ideas, candid insights, and a whole lot of authenticity.
If you enjoyed this episode and want to learn more about Human Design, how you can use it in your own life, and what it can already tell you about it, visit: mybodygraph.com or soul-magic.com to learn more.
The 50% Rule is available for pre-order now! Click here to grab your copy.
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And that’s a wrap on National Authenticity Day, and what a ride it was—literally! Since it’s both National Authenticity Day AND National Rollercoaster Day, Erin took up Mall of America’s invitation (dare?!) to announce our National Authenticity Day award winners in the most authentic way possible: the Nickelodeon-themed Orange Streak rollercoaster…and she and Nicole are telling you all about it.
They also talk about how authenticity is having a moment, not just at Mall of America but in the Olympics with people like Snoop Dog and in the political spere with people like Tim Walz. Nicole caps off the episode with her hilarious original “rap” titled 10,000 Complaints.
Listen to this episode, then go check out the full interview with local radio and TV host, Falen Bonsett here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QanWdbGBtlw
The 50% Rule is available for pre-order now! Click here to grab your copy.
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Erin turned 50! In this episode, Erin spills the tea on hitting the big five-oh. From the highs of newfound wisdom to the lows of being uncomfortable in your own skin, Erin dishes out her reflections on aging, health hiccups, and embracing change.
239: 5 Things I've Learned on My Health Journey
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This week’s episode features Maritza Gé. Maritza is an Executive Assistant to the CEO at ATS Corporation and one of our 2024 Authenticity Award judges. We think you'll enjoy her authenticity, articulation, and reflection as Maritza and Erin discuss topics ranging from the power of being small to her thoughts on self-acceptance.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why she sees so much power in seeing yourself as small
2.) Her unique way of celebrating her son's birthday
3.) What most people get wrong about working with the CEO
4.) Her thoughts on self acceptance and where to get it
5.) Her powerful tip for making work suck less
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maritzage/
The 50% Rule is available for pre-order now! Click here to grab your copy.
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The 50% Rule is Out(ish)! In this episode, you’ll hear Erin give you the inside scoop on what The 50% Rule is and insight into how it has helped her and so many others go from underdog status to unmatched success in career and daily life.
She also reads an excerpt from one of the chapters about ‘Sleeprunning Syndrome’.
Ready to liberate you from life's mini hurdles and launch to new heights?
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Becoming a thought leader in today's workplace isn't just about knowing your stuff—it's about standing out and shaking things up. With a dash of confidence, a sprinkle of creativity, and a rebellious streak against the status quo, you CAN turn heads and inspire change. Are you ready to ditch the ordinary, share your brilliance, and leave a lasting mark on your industry? Then you’ll love this week’s guest, Julie Develin. Julie is a Sr. Partner, Human Capital Management Advisory & Human Insights at UKG, co-host of the The People Purpose podcast, keynote speaker, and a top 100 HR Influencer for 2023
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How you can become a thought leader before anyone tells you you can and how that can take many forms
2.) How her company, UKG, thinks more creatively about how to "3D" their thought leadership
3.) If you lack confidence to be more vocal, take a stance, and become a thought leader, where you can find it
4.) Some tough love on how you need to think about workplace trends you might not like
5.) Her top tip for making work less suck
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jdevhr
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When you hear endless griping, do you yearn for a giant mute button? Well, it’s time to turn down the volume on all that complaining! We're all busy, we're all tired, and we've all got a lot on our plates, but can we agree whining isn’t really getting us anywhere? What if we stopped the whining, embraced positivity and got things done instead? This week’s guest has some thoughts on that.
Christine Cashen is keynote speaker, the author of two books, and on a mission to stop global whining.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) Why you sometimes need to make up stories about other people
2.) How to H.A.L.T. yourself and the four things you can diagnose to figure out why you might be complaining
) How working at the Bloomingdale's men's socks and underwear department was the best decision she made
) What the 10 coin challenge is and how it can help you lift others and yourself
) Why she walks around with a banana and corded phone
Website: https://christinecashen.com/
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Working with a team of different generations can be a challenge, but it also brings awesome opportunities for growth and innovation. Curious how to make it work? This week’s guest has the answers. Meagan Johnson is a nationally recognized multi-generational expert who has been studying and speaking about generations since 1997! Meagan focuses on fostering collaboration across generations, avoiding stereotypes, and understanding what drives each generation to succeed.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
1.) How she decided to stop being miserable at her jobs and instead, focus on something that fascinated her
2.) The biggest thing people got wrong about Millenials
3.) A super creative way one leader is incentivising employees to form bonds and relationships (and no, it's not forcing them into the office)
4.) What a "Stay Interview" is and how one company threw out annual reviews and replaced it with this instead
5.) Why you need to stop saying "I'm too busy" and what to say (and think) instead
https://meaganjohnson.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/meaganjohnsonspeaker/
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Are You Fitting In or Standing Out? In this episode, Erin gives you permission to chuck the rulebook and transform your business strategy. You’ll hear Erin give real examples on how bold, authentic communication can make your business unforgettable and connect with your customers in ways you've never imagined.
In this episode you’ll hear how:
1.) Authenticity boosts both your internal culture and your external sales game.
2.) Authentic communication helps you stand out and build trust inside and out.
3.) To say goodbye to corporate buzzwords and hello to genuine, relatable language.
4.) Erin's rewrites show how real language makes a real impact.
5.) Tips to challenge the norm, stand out, and make your business unforgettable.
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Ever notice how your friendships shift as you hit major milestones like getting married, moving to a new city, or having kids? This episode dives deep into the complexities of relationships during these significant life changes. Erin and Nicole explore ways to maintain strong, meaningful connections as our lives grow and evolve. Whether it’s forging new friendships or nurturing old ones, this discussion offers real insights on how to adapt and keep your relationships thriving through it all.
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Bogged down by endless PowerPoints, meetings, and other 'stupid rules' throughout your workday? It’s no wonder you feel overloaded and uninspired. The constant stream of unnecessary tasks and interruptions leaves little room for creativity and productivity. So how do you identify these time-wasters so you can reclaim your day and focus on what truly matters? This week’s guest, Lisa Bodell, has some ideas.
Lisa Bodell is an award-winning author and CEO of FutureThink. She has repeatedly been selected as one of the Top 50 Keynote Speakers in the World and recognized as one of the top 50 futurists. As a futurist and expert on the topic of innovation and simplicity, she serves as a global council member of the World Economic Forum, and has helped thousands of senior leaders ignite innovation at Bloomberg, Pfizer, Lockheed Martin, and more.
In this episode you’ll hear:
1.) Why your busy schedule and crap work is (in part) your fault ... and what to start doing differently
2.) What a Simplicity Champion is and how they can fuel both innovation and culture at your company (3 birds with one stone)
3.) How to stop giving time away without thinking, and the two-word phrase you can use to change the game
5.) Her two biggest Buck That! stories that will inspire you to shove aside others' (strong) opinions from time to time and trust your gut
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisa-bodell-futurethink/
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When you hear the word "negotiation," does it feel like you're gearing up for battle? For many, the concept of negotiation brings to mind tense standoffs, strategic moves, and a relentless drive to win. It's easy to picture a scenario where every word and gesture is a tactical play in a high-stakes game. But does effective negotiation really need to be this way? This week’s guest has some thoughts on that.
Fontini Iconomopolous helps people negotiate to get what they want, personally and professionally.
Best-selling author of HarperCollins’ “Say Less, Get More: Unconventional Negotiation Techniques to Get What You Want” Fotini is the person Fortune 50 executives call into to help with their high stakes negotiations or to empower their teams through her intensive workshops on negotiation, communication and persuasion.
In this episode you’ll hear:
1.) What most people get wrong when thinking about negotiations
2.) The one most important thing to do (or not do?) when negotiating
3.) A powerful phrase you can use to give space and levity in your conversation
4.) A mock scenario of how to approach asking for a raise or promotion
5.) What happened when she pushed her boss and boss' boss for equal pay
Say Less, Get More: Unconventional Negotiation Techniques to Get What You Want
Website: https://fotiniicon.com/
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“What keeps people from doing the things that they want to do? It's a lack of energy and a lack of courage.” -Juan Bendana In this episode, we're unraveling the layers of energy, leadership, and confidence with Juan Bendana.
Juan is an internationally recognized keynote speaker that helps leaders navigate uncertainty and exponential change by developing the unwavering confidence to thrive in any environment. Juan brings a decade of experience on stage presenting to category leading companies such as Disney, American Express and Sony Pictures. His Science-backed Framework, the Confidence Cycle, has helped over 250,000 leaders thrive both personally & professionally.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
1.) How to prioritize energy and not being a victim of it.
2.) Two things NOT to do when someone else's energy is in the dumps.
3.) A super powerful (and super easy) question to start meetings.
4.) Three things people get wrong about confidence.
5.) Two steps nobody talks about when pursuing big goals.
6.) The spotlight effect and why it should matter to you.
Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/juanbendana/
LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/juan-bendana-1a683694/
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What makes a candidate truly stand out? In this episode, Erin and Nicole spill their secrets on the overlooked elements that make hiring managers say, “Hell yes!” This episode is sparked by a question from listener, Terry Fitzgerald. Terry asks,”What is the best thing you can do to make yourself attractive to potential employers?”
Learn everything from building genuine connections to mastering the art of controlling the interview narrative as Erin and Nicole share practical insights that can transform your job search journey.
Ready to leave a lasting impression? Tune in to this episode to get started.
Episode 177: How He Went from Ignored to His Dream Job with Joshua Cruz
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Ever found yourself in career limbo, hesitating to jump on a new opportunity because it wasn't the perfect fit? In this episode, Erin shares her take on the concept of "getting on the bus" and why saying 'yes' to imperfect opportunities may be your ticket to your dream job.
Get ready for some real-life scenarios, stories, and a little dose of tough love that might just make you rethink turning down your next big chance.
Links Mentioned in the Episode:
Episode 54: Don't Take "No" for an Answer: Erin Interviews Erin Berube
Episode 157: How to Have a Big Career by Not Conforming with Martha Temple
https://www.bauthenticinc.com/keynote-speaking
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We've all been there – working long hours, spending evenings checking things off our list, and hitting the pillow stressed, exhausted, and overwhelmed. When things don't work out, we hustle harder. But is this really the best way to live? What if we didn’t have to sacrifice our ambition or goals to live a fulfilling life? What if instead we were more thoughtful about how we pursue them? Well, Mel, today’s guest, has a thing or two to say about that.
Mel Miles is a coach, speaker, and the founder of Soulcation, a company that helps people develop vacation-like routines that revive the soul.
In this episode, you’ll hear Mel discuss:
How to crack the code and create a life that feels good
Tips to dodge the ‘fake rest’ trap and what to do instead
What Patriarchal Stress Disorder is and how to break free from it
Check out Mel’s book, Soulcation
Episode 106: Take a Soulcation: How Authenticity Sets Us Free
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Feel like you just don’t have the right words when it comes to storytelling? Erin and Nicole chat about the art of authentic storytelling, sparked by a question from listener Amy Scott. Amy shares her struggle with finding the perfect balance in writing her story, without coming across as boastful or overly self-deprecating.
In this episode, you’ll hear Erin and Nicole unpack the nuances of becoming a storyteller, with practical tips and personal insights to navigate this tricky skill. From creating a story catalog, to embracing vulnerability, this conversation is filled with valuable nuggets to empower you in crafting your own narrative with authenticity and confidence.
Ready to create your story? Tune in to find out how.
Have a question you’d like us to answer? Email hello@bauthenticinc.com
Episode 114: Crafting Your Intriguing Intro
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In this episode of 'b Cause Work Doesn’t Have to Suck,' Erin's sharing something a bit more personal: her own journey through health and wellness. And no, it’s not your typical shock-and-awe health story. Instead, she’s giving us a real, raw look at the ups and downs of dealing with a chronic issue. You’ll hear Erin talk about what she's learned about her body, health, and how we often get it wrong when we think about taking care of ourselves.
So, if you've ever wondered about the real impact of diet, exercise, and a proactive approach to health, you'll want to tune in. And who knows, Erin’s journey might just spark some ideas for your own.
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Curious about the kind of magic that happens when you turn 'you can't' into rocket fuel? In this episode of Buck That! Kristine Schlichting is here to share her story because amongst the doubters chanting 'you can't,' she didn't just shrug it off – she cranked heat with a 'hell no, I’m doing this!’ instead.
Kristine is a psychologist who leads and oversees over 30 psychiatrists and other professionals in a one-of-a-kind intensive outpatient program that helps adults and adolescents with extreme mental health challenges.
She’s telling us how she did it. And it all started with someone telling her she ‘can’t’.
In this episode, you’ll hear how:
1.) Kristine’s refusal to accept limitations fueled her determination to prove naysayers wrong.
2.) Despite facing skepticism, Kristine persisted in establishing an Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) for mental health, refusing to let setbacks (or side eyes) deter her pursuit of her dream.
3.) Kristine opts out of comparisonitis and leans into authenticity and action instead.
Instagram:Hopewell Health Solutions/Kristine Schlichting
LinkedIn:@Dr. Kristine Schlichting
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“They were hurled into an involuntary situation in which they had to buck the norm and they literally made a masterpiece out of it.” In 1990, at age of 11, Brooke Ellison encountered a life-altering event when she was struck by a car while walking home. This incident left her quadriplegic, altering the course of her life in unexpected ways. Instead of viewing this as a tragedy, Brooke and her family turned this challenging circumstance into a remarkable story of resilience and determination.
Brooke’s journey serves as a reminder that even in the face of adversity, you can carve out a path filled with hope and possibility.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
-How Brooke saw her limitations as opportunities for growth.
-About the significant role Brooke’s family played in helping her thrive despite her challenges.
-About the importance of pausing to listen and slowing down to include others.
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What happens when we choose authenticity over agenda? Chaos? Panic?
Nope, just breakthroughs. (and maybe even breakdancing)
In this episode of Buck That! Erin shares a time when she went off-script at a leadership event, proving once again that when we ditch the facade and keep it 100% real, magic happens.
Here are three takeaways from this episode:
Authenticity Always Wins: When you're authentic in leadership, you’re laying the groundwork for building solid connections with your team.
Purpose Packs a Punch: When leaders understand WHY they're doing what they're doing, it helps them make decisions that drive meaningful change.
Cut the Fluff: Sometimes less really is more. By simplifying your messages, you're not just making things clearer, you're making them more impactful.
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We're thrilled to present our brand-new series called "Buck That!"- a series to help you challenge conventional thinking, ignite your passion, and empower you to redefine what's possible. Each episode is short and is focused on just ONE story of how someone bucked the norm and had great success as a result.
To kick off this series, we’ve asked the incredible Dan Blanchard to join us. Not only is Dan a bestselling and award-winning author, but he's also a captivating speaker, educator, and TV host. He has made appearances on over 100 TV and radio shows, as well as some of the world's top ten podcasts.
In this episode, Dan shares his fascinating journey, starting with his unique accent which developed from overcoming challenges with his deafness during his childhood. He also takes us through his fearless pursuit of wrestling in the Junior Olympic Trials, an experience that changed his life forever.
Dan’s stories are a powerful reminder that true greatness stems from embracing our uniqueness and fearlessly (and authentically) pursuing our dreams.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blanchard_dan/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniel-blanchard-i-help-young-people-become-good-people-82a69723/
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Ever find yourself saying "YES" when every fiber of your being screams "NO"? Are you tirelessly tweaking your actions and words to fit into the molds of others' expectations? If so, you might be a people-pleaser. People-pleasing can seem like a safety net, ensuring harmony and acceptance. But at what cost? Our guest, Amy Green Smith helps you explore that very question. Amy is a certified and credentialed life coach and hypnotherapist, masterful speaker, and personal empowerment expert. Amy uses her roles as coach, writer, podcaster, and speaker to move individuals to a place of radical personal empowerment and self-worth.
In this episode you'll hear:
How people-pleasing isn't always bad and how to discern when it's ok or not
Her 3-step process - FMT - to use anytime you assume bad intentions from a comment, email, etc
The key first step to having a tough conversation with your boss and the thing you MUST own first
The power in asking people "Yes, No, or Counteroffer?
Her powerful house metaphor to help you deal with both the shit and the gifts that people send your way
So if you find yourself consistently feeling drained, resentful, or compromising your own happiness for the sake of others, this episode is one you don’t want to miss.
Instagram: @HeyAmyGreensmith
Website: HeyAmyGreensmith.com
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Replay Constantly feeling like you are not enough can be an overwhelming and exhausting mental battle. And let’s face it, it’s easy to succumb to the chorus in your head that tells you that what you have or who you are is not enough. So the real question is, is it possible to every truly be fulfilled in this one life you have? This week’s guest is here to tell us how you can start making that shift. Dr. Mandy Lehto is an expert when it comes to helping high-level professionals enhance their performance, leadership capabilities, and career progression. With impressive credentials in private equity, investment banking, law, and tech, Dr. Lehto has amassed a clientele of senior executives around the world. Her clients seek out her insights to gain promotion within their industry or increase their confidence as a leader.
Those who have consulted with her praise her for her intelligence and emotional intelligence which helps them break through barriers to success. And that level of trust allows leaders from all industries to feel safe stepping outside of their comfort zone to try new strategies for gaining tangible results.
Pop in your earbuds and enjoy this episode. Mandy’s words are something we all need to hear.
Listen to Mandy’s podcast ‘Enough’: https://mandylehto.com/listen/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandylehto/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mandylehtopersonalbrandimage/
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Replay We all want to create control in our lives, but let's face it - there's only so much of it to go around. We're caught in the middle of conflicting demands from the workplace and society, having to perform at top capacity while also remaining flexible and open-minded to new possibilities. It's not easy to live up to this standard and navigating this situation can be tough. In this episode, Erin and Nicole are here to show you that change is inevitable and provide insights into how to cope with constant changes and learn to embrace them as part of life.
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Replay Have you ever had one of those days where nothing seems to go right? Where every mistake and unfortunate event just piles up on top of one another until you're convinced the universe is conspiring against you? It can be all too easy to fall into a downward spiral of negative thinking, but Mental Toughness Coach, Chris Dorris, is here to show us there’s a different way to think. Chris started out as a social worker in Atlantic City helping the mentally ill, drug addicted, and homeless populations upgrade their lives. This eventually led him to his true vocation- helping people close the gap between how their lives are and how they want them to be.
Chris understands that our thoughts have a lot of power. And if we're constantly telling ourselves that things are going to go wrong, guess what? They probably will.
Feeling stuck in a rut and like nothing is going your way? This episode is for you.
In this episode you’ll hear:
1.) Chris’ secret for mental toughness that's reshaped the lives of elite athletes and CEOs
2.) His journey from social worker to success coach and how he turned obstacles into opportunities
3.) Key strategies to master your mindset for breakthrough success
4.) Inspiring stories of authenticity and resilience
5.) Practical tools for mental toughness you can start applying now to transform your life
Check out Chris’ Website: https://christopherdorris.com/
Gratitude Video: Master of Short Film Creation, Louis Schwartzberg, narrated by this great Austrian monk named Brother David Steinle Rest.
Daily Dose Mental Toughness Tips in 30 seconds or less.Mental Toughness Mantras
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Join Erin and Rohit Bhargava in a fascinating conversation about the power of non-obvious thinking. From discussing the transformative Haystack Method to exploring how AI is revolutionizing creativity, this episode is packed with insights on how to cultivate a non-obvious mindset to stand out in a crowded world. Rohit Bhargava is on a mission to inspire more non-obvious thinking in the world. He is a keynote speaker and a 3-time WSJ bestselling author of nine books on marketing, innovation, diversity and trends including his #1 bestseller Non-Obvious Megatrends and his new 2023 book, The Future Normal.
In this episode you’ll hear:
What are some of the biggest, most unique trends he sees for the near future, including things like Impact Hubs and even Making Weather
Why he always eats left handed, even though he's not
Why most things WON'T be obsolete in the future and why this matters
Why you should choose the window seat vs the aisle seat on planes ... and metaphorically
What he observes most in meetings that many others don't, and what you can do differently if you can notice it too
Subscribe to Rohit’s newsletter: https://nonobvious.com/subscribe/
Visit Rohit’s Website:https://nonobvious.com/
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Do you ever feel like you're lacking that inner fire to tackle challenges and chase after your dreams? Well, we’ve got good news for you. Our guest, Fia Fasbinder, is an expert in helping you discover your own unique confidence, or "moxie", and she's here to tell you how you can find yours. Fia Fasbinder arms speakers with the tools to deliver killer presentations. With over 15 years of experience in public speaking, classroom instruction, and presentation skill development, Fia teaches speakers to communicate with confidence, clarity and credibility. With a theater degree from NYU and a Masters in Education, Fia is uniquely positioned to render and teach dramatic arts concepts to adult learners. Her unique approach to keynoting utilizes theatrical techniques and performing arts skills in addition to practical, real world knowledge culled from coaching clients at TEDX, UCSD, Qualcomm, Intel and numerous Fortune 500 companies.
Some of the things you'll hear are:
Whether you're feeling stuck in your career or struggling to make a big life decision, Fia’s insights are sure to light a fire under your tush.
Website for Moxie Institute: www.moxieinstitute.com
Moxie Institute's Youtube Channel: www.youtube.com/moxieinstitute
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fiafasbinder/
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Feeling drained from the holiday season? This lighthearted episode is just what you need! We've got stories that will have you laughing and shaking your head in agreement, from imperfections around the holidays to unorthodox trip planning (just wait until you hear this one.) You'll also hear Erin and Nicole chat about the magic of The 50% Rule, a mindset that will change how you do...well, everything. And don't miss out on our Sports Ball segment- we'll be diving into the world of an Italian underdog who has captured our hearts. And to top it all off, we've got a collection of relatable memes that will help get you through even the toughest of days.
Ready to dive in? Let's go!
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
Shitty Work Residual Episode
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Let's be honest, we've all found ourselves in a toxic work environment at some point in our lives. It's draining, demotivating and can make the workday feel like a never-ending nightmare. But the truth is, finding a positive work environment can feel like trying to find a needle in a haystack. And while we can't control the actions of our coworkers or bosses, can we control our reactions and the way we handle ourselves in those situations? This week's guest, Andrea Butcher, has a few thoughts on that.
Andrea is a visionary—she knows how to lead organizations from big picture to execution. She is a dynamic speaker, executive coach, and facilitator. As the CEO and co-owner of HRD - A Leadership Development Company, she leads a national team of expert facilitators and coaches and drives the organization’s growth strategy.
She also hosts a daily and weekly leadership podcast, Being [at Work] and is the author of The Power in the Pivot: Leadership Lessons from Being [at Work] to Take You from Chaos to Clarity. In 2020, she was recognized by the Indianapolis Women’s Journal as a Woman of Influence. Andrea’s work spans organizations of all sizes and industries all over the world; she has experience in global HR positions, consulting, operations, and executive roles for private and public organizations.
Andrea is also the co-founder and President of Next Gen Talent, a program specifically designed to equip emerging HR leaders for success.
In this episode you’ll hear:
If you're struggling in your workplace, take a deep breath, grab a cup of coffee, and listen in. Andrea Butcher just might have the answers you've been looking for.
The Power in the Pivot
Human Resources Kit for Dummies
Being [at Work] Podcast
Linkedin: @AndreaButcher
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Leaving a job is tough, plain and simple. No matter the reason, there's probably a part of you that feels a little hesitant to let go. Maybe you've made some great friends in the office or maybe you're sad to leave behind the work you helped build. So how do you let go or do you? In the latest episode of the b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck podcast, Erin and Nicole dive into this topic and explore the reasons behind why we may hesitate to move on from a job. Whether you're currently facing this situation or you know someone who is, this episode will have you reflecting on your own experiences and provide valuable insights to help you navigate this challenging transition.
Create a Life Experience Instead of a Vacation
New Year’s Dares
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You may have spent years honing and perfecting your skills, becoming an expert in your field. But despite your success, there might be an underlying feeling of restlessness that won't seem to disappear. Sound familiar? If so, you’ll love this week’s guest, Aree Bly, a seasoned actuary turned Champion for Sustainable Success. Aree has spent over two decades honing her technical skills and nurturing diverse teams in the healthcare sector. Today, she leverages her analytical powers to help individuals navigate their unique values, strengths, and skills to find more sustainable footing in life and career.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
If you're ready to take your success to the next level in a more sustainable way, this episode is for you.
The Sustainable Brain: An Analytical Mind's Guide to Creating a Sustainable Life
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Have you ever heard of the Zero Moments of Truth (ZMOT)? It's that precious window of time before someone decides to buy from you, to hire you, or to work with you. It may sound like an elusive concept at first, but it actually plays a big role in our day-to-day decision making. In this episode, Erin and Nicole discuss three simple shifts that will help you reduce ZMOT to zero and give you the edge you need to come out on top.
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If there's one thing that can turn your day upside down, it's an unexpected confrontation. We often find ourselves in the thick of it, unsure how it got to this point and how we can make it out in one piece. Luckily for us, Dr. Bridget Cooper is here to give us practical tools to help us stay calm during those tough talks.
Dr. Bridget Cooper is a self-proclaimed cage rattler; a coach, speaker, and author with over two decades of experience helping teams and leaders think and communicate more clearly and strategically so they can work and navigate problems proactively and effectively.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Ready to navigate those tricky situations and come out feeling empowered? This episode is one you don’t want to miss.
www.drbridgetcooper.com
Unflappable: How Smart People Quit Overthinking, Ditch the Drama, & Thrive at Work"
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbridgetcooper/
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You know that moment when someone suggests something new or different, and we come up with every excuse in the book for why it won't work? It’s no secret most of us are resistant to change, often before we even give it a chance. But what would happen if we opened ourselves up to curiosity instead?
In this episode, Erin and Nicole discuss practical strategies to shift from your own opinions and beliefs to learning and understanding.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
-How to stay open to opportunities and embrace the unknown -One powerful word you can use that creates curiosity in the workplace -A strategy Nicole uses to move her life forward each day
So if you’re someone who wants to grow and challenge yourself, but struggles to let go of old habits and ways of thinking, this episode was made for you.
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Throughout history, there have been individuals who bravely stand up against tragedy, fighting for justice and the truth. Sandy Rosenthal is one of those people. After Hurricane Katrina and the federal levee failures in New Orleans, Sandy Rosenthal founded the non profit Levees.org with 25,000 supporters nationwide. Her book––Words Whispered in Water––is about how she led an investigative team to expose the culprit in the levee breach disaster––the Army Corps of Engineers––and how the agency spent millions covering up its mistakes. Rosenthal is an advocate for the 62% of the American population living by levees. Sandy hosts a weekly podcast called Beat the Big Guys where she coaches her national audience on how to take on the big guys in their own communities.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
-Steps Sandy took to start a crusade against the "Big Guys" -Signs to know when you're on the right track when fighting for a cause -The 3 most common tactics they big guys will try and use against you -What Sandy and her team discovered that blew things out of the water (pun intended) -How data and a smile might just be your best strategy
Whether you're passionate about tackling a significant global issue or seeking guidance on dealing with workplace bullies, this episode is a must-listen.
Sandy’s Website: https://levees.org/
Sandy’s Book: Words Whispered in Water: Why the Levees Broke in Hurricane Katrina
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This week, we're taking a trip down memory lane and replaying one of our most impactful episodes from a few years back. It's jam-packed with some amazing insights and actionable tips that will undoubtedly help you boost your LinkedIn game. In this episode, we’ll be doing a "grading" of Nicole's LinkedIn profile, step by step, and sharing proven techniques that have worked wonders for us and we have a feeling they will work for you too.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
Why LinkedIn is NOT the same as your online resume The mistakes most people make in using LinkedIn The most important (and simple) updates you can make to leapfrog others The number one emotion you're to evoke in people Why you need to write your info like you've just had a glass of wine (and your Mariah Carey) A key feature that Nicole had no idea even existed
Ready to supercharge your LinkedIn profile? Tune in to this episode to find out how.
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Prioritizing can be painful, but does it have to be? For many of us, prioritizing tasks and responsibilities can be an overwhelming experience. From endless to-do lists to the constant demand of others, it can often feel like we are drowning in a sea of obligations with no end in sight. However, prioritizing doesn't have to be a painful experience.
In the latest episode of the b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck podcast, Erin and Nicole share three innovative ways to carve out intentional productive time that are total game changers.
In this episode, Erin and Nicole discuss: - How to carve out intentional focus time - Creating co-working opportunities - The benefits of a morning moat
Ready to transform your workday from chaotic to intentional and productive? Listen in to find out how.
215: Mindset Shift: Making Yesterday Your Last Bad Day
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When it comes to asking questions, there's often a lot of pressure to ask the "right" thing. But is there really such a thing as a "stupid question"? Many argue that there isn't - after all, when we're curious and seeking knowledge, any question can lead to enlightenment. However, there are certainly questions that are less intentional than others.
So, how can we turn bad questions into intentional ones? Nicole and Erin explore this topic in this week of the b Cause Work Doesn’t Have to Suck podcast.
In this episode Erin and Nicole discuss: Stupid questions. Is there such a thing? How to turn ‘bad questions’ into questions that are intentional How to pause before answering or receiving a question to evaluate the intent
If you are interested in learning how to evaluate questions (and create better ones) this is the episode for you.
119: 3 Hacks For Asking Powerful Questions That Put You in the Pole Position
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Whether you realize it or not, presenting at work is often the biggest interview you’ll ever have; your ability to captivate, persuade, and engage others is often the differentiator between who stays where they’re at and who is tapped to take on the bigger-girl (or boy) role. And a successful presentation is dependent on WAY more than the fancy words you say or PowerPoints you paint together.
So how can you keep your audience hooked from start to finish? International Keynote Speaker and Leadership Expert, Dr. Cheryl Wood, has some invaluable tips on how to keep your presentation from falling flat and make people want to listen (and actually hear) what you have to say.
Dr. Cheryl Wood empowers professionals with tools to renew their commitment to their careers, re-energize their vested interest in winning big, explore new opportunities for growth, and implement a collaborative team environment for optimal success.
In this episode, Dr. Cheryl discusses: The number one barrier she sees in women being able to fully express their genius and make an impact doing so How the words you say are ONLY 7% of the impact in a presentation and what the other two, bigger impact items are The power of pausing and how to practically use it in a meeting or presentation - in-person AND on video What the "Big Me" list is and why you should create one The 3 things you should think about before every presentation
Ready to unlock the secret to captivating presentations? Tune in to find out how!
Check out Dr. Cheryl’s Website: http://cherylempowers.com
Connect with Dr. Cheryl on LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/cherylempowers
Connect with Dr. Cheryl on Instagram: http://instagram.com/CherylEmpowers
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Have you ever had one of those days where everything seems to go wrong? Maybe you woke up feeling groggy and rushed, spilled your coffee on your shirt, and then got stuck in traffic on the way to work. We've all been there.
But here's the thing - you don't have to let those bad days define you. In this episode, Nicole and Erin dive into the mindset shift of making yesterday your last bad day. They share tips on taking control of your own happiness, health, and life purpose, while also being kind to yourself and allowing for flexibility.
So if you're in need of some inspiration to shake off those bad days and take control of your life, give this episode a listen.
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Losing your job can be a serious blow to your confidence and motivation, especially if it happened unexpectedly. It's totally normal to feel overwhelmed or scared about what the future holds. But the good news is that there are some things you can do to help you stay focused and on track during this time! In today's episode, Erin breaks down the top five things you should avoid doing if you've been laid off. From assuming the worst to holding it in, these common pitfalls can make it harder to move forward and find your next opportunity.
But of course, she doesn’t leave you hanging! She also shares specific, and often creative, things you SHOULD do instead.
So if you're ready to learn how to take charge of your situation and stay motivated, be sure to tune in!
Let’s Make You the Valedictorian of LinkedIn
Stand Out with Your Reverse Mullet Resume
Breaking Societal Norms in Parenting, Work & Love with US Women’s National Soccer Player, Joanna Lohman
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Are you ready to take control of your finances and make your money work for you? Our guest, Tess Waresmith is here to help. Tess Waresmith is a single, 35 year old, self-made millionaire (by investing). Now, she's paying it forward as a financial coach and the genius behind the Money Confident Program that helps women in the workplace grow their money using simple investing strategies even if they are brand new to investing or short-on-time.
In this episode, Tess:
-Shares her first investment story and the $80,000 mistake she made in her twenties that totally shifted her life's path -Breaks down the biggest investing myth and shares valuable tips for what to do if you're feeling behind -Introduces us to the world of investments (some you may not even know exist!) - Takes us on a deep dive into real estate co ops - Shares how mindset and intention play a huge role in successful investing
Ready to learn the secrets to financial success from a self-made millionaire? Tune in because Tess is spilling all her secrets.
Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not!
Download Tess’ Savvy Investor Starter Pack at https://www.moneyconfidentcoach.com/savvy
Follow Tess for free tips on Instagram @wealthwithtess
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Do you have aspirations to reach the C-suite but feel unsure of where to start? Well, you're in luck because in this episode Erin sits down with Julie Ann Alvarado-Dubek who shares her tips to create a unique path to the top. Julie is Executive Vice President and Chief Human Resources Officer at Banner Health. As the top people person, she guides the Banner experience, creating a positive and inclusive environment that encourages growth and opportunity for the 52,000+ team members.
In this episode, you’ll hear: - How Julie created 80% of the jobs she ended up in -Groundbreaking advice on how to give feedback to a difficult boss -How Julie handled their return-to-work policy -The biggest mistake Julie sees people make in their careers
If you want to learn from someone who has successfully reached the top using authenticity to their advantage, and also has a unique perspective on how to make others successful within the organization, this is the perfect episode for you.
Connect with Julie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/julie-ann-alvarado-dubek/
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Nicole and Erin packed their bags and embarked on an epic adventure to Greece. But this wasn't your ordinary ‘vacation’. Instead, it became a life experience that sent them headfirst into the electrifying Greek culture and created memories that will last a lifetime. Get ready to hear about Nicole's unexpected adventure to the “hospital” (2x actually), a standout moment that could have been straight out of a thrilling episode of Dateline NBC, their memorable nights of dancing at local Grecian festival and how throughout their journey, they discovered peace and gratitude in unexpected moments.
Want the authentic recap of Erin and Nicole's big fat Greek framily vacation? Tune in for the scoop.
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Get ready to be blown away by Dr. Kennedy Garcia's awe-inspiring journey as she kicks society's pressures to the curb and embraces her authentic self. It's not just her brains and beauty that make her extraordinary—this Stanford graduate and reigning Mrs. California International 2023 is on an unwavering mission to make a future full of fierce female leaders and to see the world transformed through the influence of the modern day Queen. This episode is one that's sure to leave you feeling inspired and motivated to take action in your own life. Ready to get started?
Dr. Kennedy’s Website: https://www.spiritualbosschick.com
Dr. Kennedy’s Youtube: @spiritualbosschick
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Are you tired of playing by society's rules? Do you want to trust yourself, unapologetically? Well, our guest Angela Han has got your back. As a sovereignty practitioner, Angela is all about helping people find their own path to success, whatever that may look like. In this episode, she dishes out some serious wisdom on how to deal with anger, make decisions that honor yourself, and even some tips on parenting.
So, if you've ever felt like you didn't quite fit in with the rest of the world, or if you're just looking for some inspiration to follow your own dreams - this episode is the one for you.
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/itsangelahan
Instagram: @itsangelahan
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Success isn't always about winning; sometimes it's about how you play the game. Whether you're on the field with your kid's soccer team or leading your own team at work, victory shouldn't be the only measure of success. But how do you lead authentically while embracing both the wins and the losses? Joanna Lohman has the answer.
Joanna Lohman is a keynote speaker and performance coach who is building a new generation of authentic leaders who redefine success. She is the author of, "Raising Tomorrow's Champions" and a former member of the United States Women’s National Soccer Team. She is also the first player in Washington Spirit history to have her jersey retired, honoring her 16-year professional soccer playing career where she built a platform for social impact. She continues her influence as a human rights activist and Sport Diplomat.
If you're looking for someone to help you redefine success and lead with authenticity, this is one episode you can't afford to miss.
Website: joannalohman.com
Instagram: @joannalohman15
LinkedIn: Joanna Lohman
Book: Raising Tomorrow's Champions: https://rtcsoccer.com/
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Have you ever wondered how some people climb the corporate ladder while others struggle to even get their foot in the door? Well, we’ve got the inside scoop for you! In this episode from the vault, Erin interviews Renee Zaugg, the Chief Information Officer at Otis Elevator Company, and she’s ready to spill all the secrets on how to reach the top. This episode was SO powerful and one of the top listened to episodes, we had to bring it back to the top of the list!
With her incredible leadership skills and unwavering dedication, Renee was able to bring about a remarkable change in her workplace. She founded the Women's Leadership Alliance at Aetna and worked tirelessly to increase the number of women in leadership positions to an impressive 36%. But Renee's successes didn't come without their challenges. She had to fight against other executives who were resistant to change and advocated for recognition not just for herself, but for her colleagues and company as well. And through it all, Renee never lost sight of her values. She maintained her integrity no matter what and exercised balance in her personal and professional life.
Her story serves as a testament to the importance of perseverance, determination, and working towards progress in the face of adversity. You'll come away inspired and armed with tips to help you succeed in your own career.
Connect with Renee on LinkedIn
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One of the best things about this podcast is the no-holds-barred, insightful, hilarious, and often vulnerable conversations that Erin and Nicole have.
And this one’s no different.
Over the years, Nicole has let us in on her career-the good, the bad, and the ugly. Not many would be willing to go where she has and openly share the way she does.
We’re bringing back the episode when Nicole shares a huge announcement with us that has changed the trajectory of her career, added a little uncertainty to her life and undoubtedly a lot of excitement.
How’s she doing? In Nicole’s words, “somewhere between onward and oh fuck.”
Shonda Rhimes: My Year of Saying Yes to Everything
Finding Joe
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Ah, vacation. That magical time of year where we all get a chance to escape from the daily grinds of our jobs and take a much-needed breather. Nicole, like many of us, is looking forward to some time away from the hustle and bustle. But as she reflects, she wrestles with some of the nuances and mindset going into the vacation and the impact it might have on her team. She realizes that she’s not as stressed though as she should be. In this episode, Erin helps Nicole double down on her not-quite-freaking-out feeling and go even further - create an annuity for her team by adding one simple (but not intuitive) step to her pre-vacation planning. You too can create this “leadership annuity” - a leadership step that keeps on dishing out value well after you do it.
Episode 151: Learn How to Take a Soulcation with Mel Miles
Episode 58: Making Everyday a Soulcation: Nicole Interviews Melody Miles
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What if you could stop leaning into your career, and instead could have the confidence to go all-in? This week Erin talks with Erin Lydon, Managing Director for Poker Powher, a company that teaches women how to play Texas Hold’em and then helps them translate their newfound poker skills to compete and succeed in business, finance, and so much more.
Erin Lydon's career journey is a prime example of how life can take unexpected turns. She started in Wall Street, took time off to raise her daughters, and then made a triumphant return to a successful career. Her key to getting back into the workforce? Maintaining those vital connections and networks. The innovative company is now introducing newcomers to the world of poker and providing valuable skills that can be applied to business and finance. It's not just about being good at cards, it's also about keen observation and awareness of what's happening around you.
Erin Lydon is proof that with a little determination and the right skills, anyone can succeed in their chosen field.
Learn more at pokerpower.com
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The words, ‘We’d love it if you came in for an interview.’ are in your inbox. Your heart starts racing, you do a fist pump or two, ok, three, and then you stop. Panic sets in. Party over.
Interviewing is an uncomfortable rite of passage that we all have to go through at some point if we want to land our dream job. And if you’re human, it may cause you a little bit of anxiety. Maybe it's because we only hear about the interviewing horror stories and never the triumphs. Or maybe it's because we've built interviewing up to be this huge, important event when, really, it's just a conversation. Granted, one person is trying to convince the other to give them a job, but we’ll overlook that for a moment.
This episode was so popular the first go-round, we decided to bring it forward and reshare it’s gold. In the episode, Erin and Nicole discuss 3 surprising interview tips that’ll help you authentically prepare for the traditional (and snoozy) interviews we’re all accustomed to.
So, if you would like to stand out from the “expected” and land your dream job, tune in to get the full scoop.
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“Show me the money!” Is that what it takes to succeed in this world? A bold, brazen approach? Although this week’s podcast guest, Molly Fletcher, has been called the “Female Jerry McGuire”, you’ll quickly learn that it was her authenticity, not her audacity, that drove her success. We loved and have shared this episode so many times, that we had to bring it back to the top of your list!
Now a highly successful speaker, 5x author, and consultant, Molly shares the secrets to her success plus the best practices of the high-profile athletes, coaches, and broadcasters she worked with. Molly shares stories you’ll never forget that prove she and others changed the game and how insights in their approaches can help you change the game in your career as well.
Molly's Website: Mollyfletcher.com
Connect with Molly on LinkedIn at Molly Fletcher
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Are you looking to position yourself for promotion, but unsure of how to do it authentically? Look no further than Stacy Mayer, the best-selling author of Promotions Made Easy. Stacy Mayer is a true force to be reckoned with in the world of executive coaching and promotion strategy. As the creator of the Executive Ahead of Time group coaching program and host of the 'Women Changing Leadership with Stacy Mayer' podcast, she has helped countless corporate women achieve the career success they deserve.
In this episode, Erin and Stacy get into the nitty-gritty of how men and women perceive executive presence, how to demonstrate your skills and some actionable advice for advancing your career.
Whether you're striving for that next promotion or simply aiming to up your game, this one's for you.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/corporatebadass/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stacymayer/
Book: Promotions Made Easy: A Step-by-Step Guide to the Executive Suite
Podcast: Women Changing Leadership with Stacy Mayer
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Are you ready for a good laugh and some juicy behind-the-scenes reflections? Well, you're in luck because Nicole and Erin are celebrating their 200th episode with a bang! Heather Pierce, a loyal listener, gets the chance to interview the dynamic duo, and she did not disappoint. Nicole and Erin divulge things they've never revealed before and reflect on their journey so far. They keep it real, authentic, and unfiltered. From reminiscing on why they started, how the podcast has impacted their lives and even things they hate about each other.
Yep, they went there.
Whether you're a die-hard fan or a newcomer to the podcast, you won't want to miss this episode. It’s got a little something for everyone, so buckle up and tune in!
The Power of a Future Diary
5 Powerful Mantras Erin has on Repeat
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If you missed the She Who Wins conference, we’ve got you covered. Erin and Nicole are here to give you the inside scoop. Erin had an amazing opportunity to take the stage as a speaker, sharing her knowledge and expertise with the audience. And with all the other incredible speakers from the event, they too had some serious ahas and takeaways. From learning how to step up their networking game to realizing their own self-worth, these two left feeling empowered and they’re here to give you all the details.
You’ll also want to tune in for Nicole’s hilarious and inspirational story about her 4-hour trip to T-Mobile!
So kick back, relax, and get ready for some serious insight - you don't want to miss out on this!
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Can your awkwardness actually be your secret weapon for impossible change? This week’s guest has the answer. In this episode, Erin chats with the incredibly talented Henna Pryor, who not only has two TEDx talks under her belt, but is also a certified coach, global keynote speaker, executive facilitator, and workplace performance expert. She’s also a former executive recruiter, so she’s seen hiring from all the angles!
Erin and Henna dive into the topic of awkwardness and how embracing it can actually be a catalyst for change. And trust us, Henna knows what she's talking about–not only does she share her own stories but also those of her clients, providing endless inspiration.
So go ahead and lean into those awkward moments–this is one secret weapon you'll definitely want in your arsenal.
Links and resources mentioned in the episode:
Why awkwardness is your secret weapon for risk-taking at work
Is there such a thing as "good bragging"?
Good Awkward: How to Embrace the Embarrassing and Celebrate the Cringe to Become The Bravest You
LinkedIn: hennapryor
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Jason Barnaby, the founder of Fire Starters, Inc., is just as fiery as the name suggests. This guy is on a mission to light a spark in you and ignite your inner fire starter. But don't worry, he's not all flames and heat, he's also got a calming effect that will help you stay focused on your goals. With two books under his belt, Igniting the Fire Starter Within and 30 Days to Blaze Journaling Workbook, Jason knows how to motivate and inspire.
Get ready for a dose of stories, laughter, and aha moments and enjoy this interview with Jason Barnaby.
Connect with Jason on Social Media
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason%F0%9F%94%A5-barnaby-he-him-252a68
Instagram: Firestartersinc
Check out Jason's Books
30 Days to Blaze Journaling Workbook
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The fashion industry may have come a long way in terms of inclusivity, but it seems like the boardroom is still living in the 1950s. From office dress codes to bias during job interviews, there's a definite imbalance when it comes to body types in the professional world. In this episode, Erin and Nicole explore what this lack of diversity really means for those who don't fit into society’s traditional standards and the impact it’s really having on professional progress.
The Body Activists
The Gorgeous Agency
Body Equity Alliance
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Let's face it, getting an executive to take notice isn't always as easy as it sounds. You could try tap dancing on the conference table, but that might not be the best approach. In this episode, Erin shares some more subtle, but insanely effective ways to get their attention during a meeting. From asking thought-provoking questions to pausing and owning the space, she provides five practical tips that will have those executives sitting up and taking notice.
So, put away those tap shoes and get ready to make a lasting impression on your bosses.
Episode 193: How to Sell the Business Case to the Big Guys
Episode 119: 3 Hacks For Asking Powerful Questions That Put You in the Pole Position
Check out Erin’s book,You Do You(ish)
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Ready to be inspired? Today we're introducing you to someone who has achieved immense success in the corporate world, proving that it is possible to be successful without sacrificing your values and authenticity. Elizabeth Sandler had a 25-year career as a Chief Operating Officer at organizations like Blackstone and Deutsche Bank. Five years ago, she started Echo Juliette and is now a leadership team coach and keynote speaker. Three years ago, she founded subsidiary Juliette Works to partner with executive women on creating success and fulfilment. She is also a public company and non-profit board director in the US and UK, and a mom to two teenage sons.
In this episode, we explore strategies employed by Elizabeth to foster trust and collaboration. We’ll also look at how she effectively managed conflict, brought out the best in her team members, and how she is currently pushing herself to continue developing as an individual.
Connect with Elizabeth on LinkedIn:
https://linkedin.com/in/elizabethjsandler
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When it comes time to face the big wigs and convince them to take a chance on you and your idea, stress levels can skyrocket. Packing enthusiasm and ambition into the meeting can only get you so far- if you want to truly wow them and make sure you land their favor, you need tangible proof that your ideas work! In this episode, Erin and Nicole lay out a few tips that will help guide you in the right direction—and make sure that when that meeting with investors rolls around, they’ll know you’re the one for the job.
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Ready to make your closet work for you? If having too much but nothing that fits has become an all-too-familiar situation, it may be time to take control. And this week’s guest has all the details on how to create a wardrobe that works for you and boosts both style and confidence. Jessica Papineau is the founder of CSJ, a leading authentic fashion styling company for high-performing female entrepreneurs. She has personally styled hundreds of women, spanning 7-figure entrepreneurs, executives for billion-dollar global brands and more. Jessica knows how to create an impactful wardrobe that will take your status (and confidence) to the next level-transforming her clients’ looks into something that speaks volumes about their success. If you are ready to amp up your style game so you can stand out amongst the many – this is an episode you don’t want to miss. Grab the CSJ Wardrobe Edit Blueprint: https://www.customizedstylingbyjessica.com/links Interested in a Free Styling Call? Here's the link: https://csjscheduling.as.me/schedule.php Connect with Jessica on Instagram Connect with Jessica on Facebook
Grief is often an uncomfortable emotion, but it's something everybody experiences in one way or another. Even though it can be hard to accept and difficult to process, according to this week’s guest, we must remember that grief is not something to shame or try to “fix"-- instead, it needs to be recognized and honored. In this episode, we connected with Addison Brasil, a producer, speaker and author of the best-selling First Year of Grief Club: A Gift From A Friend Who Gets it. His book serves as a beacon to those entering grief club inspired by three compounded losses in his twenties - losing his brother to a brain tumor, finding his father after suicide and surviving a fatal accident that a dear friend did not.
This episode is an invitation to find peace, comfort, and understanding in the midst of grief. For anyone currently experiencing or knowing someone going through this difficult time – it's here for you.
www.addisonbrasil.com
Grief Club: The Podcast
First Year of Grief Club: A Gift From A Friend Who Gets It
Instagram: @addisonbrasil
Instagram: @sharemygriefclub
Connect with Addison on LinkedIn
Connect with Addison on Twitter
184: Overachiever, How to Stop Nexting and Be Enough with Dr. Mandy Lehto
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We all want to create control in our lives, but let's face it - there's only so much of it to go around. We're caught in the middle of conflicting demands from the workplace and society, having to perform at top capacity while also remaining flexible and open-minded to new possibilities. It's not easy to live up to this standard and navigating this situation can be tough. In this episode, Erin and Nicole are here to show you that change is inevitable and provide insights into how to cope with constant changes and learn to embrace them as part of life.
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Episode Swap with the She Who Wins Podcast We all carry trauma with us, even if we don't realize it at the time. It's embedded in our identity, seeping into our everyday actions and responses whether we are aware of it or not. But simply acknowledging its presence isn't enough to truly confront it – unpacking and processing that baggage requires real commitment.
This week, we are doing something a little different and listening in on a conversation from one of our favorite podcasts, She Who Wins, and airing an episode with host, Renee Bauer and her guest, Lauren Zoeller.
Lauren Zoeller is a seven-figure entrepreneur, speaker, author, and host of “The Aligned Love Podcast”. As the Founder of The Aligned Love Experience, Lauren is an expert practitioner in reparenting, generational healing, and somatic experiencing. Through her work, she created the proprietary Voice Activation Method that has been used to help thousands of men and women heal from past trauma and take ownership of their future.
In this episode, the two discuss the role that trauma plays in our lives and how we can turn it into an opportunity for growth rather than something that holds us back.
Connect with Renee:
The She Who Wins Podcast
Renee’s Website
Connect with Lauren:
Lauren's Website
Instagram: @laurenzoeller
Tiktok: @coachlaurenzoeller
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From hot flashes to cramps, perimenopause ain't playin’ around. And let's face it, it's not a topic that usually slips into casual conversations too easily. Figuring out the changes happening during this vital transition period can be downright confusing and totally overwhelming. At first, you'll think it's a fluke, and then once you accept that something might be happening, it could be tough to find the answers you're looking for or even a great doctor in your area.
Well luckily for us, this week we've got Dr. Fiona Lovely here to spill all her professional knowledge about perimenopause on our show - including the good stuff, bad stuff and funny stuff.
Dr Fiona Lovely is an expert of women’s health at the menopause transition, the creator of the Not Your Mother’s Menopause podcast and senior clinician. Her work is to see women where they are and offer wisdom and guidance through the lens of functional neurology, functional medicine and restorative endocrinology.
So open up a bottle of vino and join us as we chat with Dr. Lovely about all the things that everyone’s not.
Not Your Mother’s Menopause podcast
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Feeling stuck and unmotivated? We all have those days, but don't throw in the towel just yet. It's time to break out of that funk with some mantras from your own personal cheerleader, Erin. In this episode, Erin's got five motivating mantras you can use to skyrocket your success without selling out.
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Sticking with the same thing can feel safe, but it may be worth questioning if there could be a path forward that works even better. It's always important to take a moment and ask: "Am I sure this is right or should I rethink everything?" This week’s guest has a thing or two to say about that. Kristi Turner is a C-level executive, thought leader, author, consultant, and mentor.
Kristi provides counsel to executive teams, investment firms and boards on brand, marketing, product design, customer operations, smart diversity, and employee culture. She has worked with some of the top retail, telecom and financial brands including Target, Walmart, Apple, T-Mobile, AT&T, American Express, and Visa. She has also been interviewed and published in 50-plus publications and podcasts including Forbes.
As a mentor, coach, and difference maker, Turner guides leaders and individuals through her Rethink Everything process in each unique season of life and business. Her radical simplicity and contagious energy inspire companies and individuals to adopt a different kind of leadership—one that delivers improved bottom-line results while making a difference in their community, and in their sphere of influence.
Ready to break the mold and challenge convention? This episode will have you thinking outside-the-box with stories that’ll truly leave you inspired.
Rethink Everything Book
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This week Erin and Nicole tackle the big question on everyone's mind - is ChatGPT a hit or miss? Will it blow us away or simply be a passing fad? Could it truly revolutionize the way we interact with one another? Or did the developers just design a shiny toy that nobody ever needs? The verdict? Well, you'll have to listen in to find out.
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Constantly feeling like you’re not enough can be an overwhelming and exhausting mental battle. And let’s face it, it’s easy to succumb to the chorus in your head that tells you that what you have or who you are is not enough. So the real question is, is it possible to ever truly be fulfilled in this one life you have? This week’s guest is here to tell us how you can start making that shift. Dr. Mandy Lehto is an expert when it comes to helping high-level professionals enhance their performance, leadership capabilities, and career progression. With impressive credentials in private equity, investment banking, law, and tech, Dr. Lehto has amassed a clientele of senior executives around the world. Her clients seek out her insights to gain promotion within their industry or increase their confidence as a leader.
Those who have consulted with her praise her for her intelligence and emotional intelligence which helps them break through barriers to success. And that level of trust allows leaders from all industries to feel safe stepping outside of their comfort zone to try new strategies for gaining tangible results.
Pop in your earbuds and enjoy this episode. Mandy’s words are something we all need to hear.
Listen to Mandy’s podcast ‘Enough’
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Leadership doesn't have to be the Herculean task it often feels like. Harness your powers as an executive and use them to build amazing relationships with those you serve - creating enthusiastic fans in the process! If you're at a loss on how to get started - fear not - this week our guest will help you get started. Brittany Hodak is passionate about helping people take their customer base to the next level, and she's a pro at it.
Brittany is an award-winning entrepreneur, author, and customer experience speaker who has delivered keynotes across the globe to organizations including American Express and the United Nations. She has worked with some of the world’s biggest brands and entertainers, including Walmart, Disney, Katy Perry, and Dolly Parton. She also founded and scaled an entertainment startup to eight figures before exiting and is the former Chief Experience Officer of Experience.com.
To sum it up, Brittany really knows how superfans are made. And luckily for us, she has crafted an innovative approach to creating devoted customers or employees that anyone can use.
Ready to use your superpowers to create superfans? This is an episode you don’t want to miss.
Episode 52: When Something Big is Broken, Fix it Yourself
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Brittany’s Website
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Tired of the same old resolutions that don't quite stick? Erin and Nicole have revolutionized the traditional approach by ditching dull resolutions for bold new objectives.
Forget the monotonous "word of the year" and join them as they push their boundaries and keep it fun (and authentic) without getting caught in process or expectations.
Ready for a resolution revolution? This is the episode for you.
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Believe it or not, even corporate juggernauts aren't immune to the jitters when it comes time to have some tough conversations. Yup, you heard that right.
From delivering bad news to confronting their teams, it can be hard for even the most seasoned professionals to work up the courage to face a difficult dialogue.
Luckily for us, Paru Radia, C-Suite Whisperer, execution Ninja, speaker and author is here to give us tips on how to navigate those rocky waters.
If you ask Paru’s clients what sets her apart, they are likely to respond that not only does she get it, she gets to the root of the problem quickly and provides sound guidance, based on real world experience.
One of the things we love most about Paru though is that her approach isn’t formulaic. She instead focuses on who her client is and what their actual needs are allowing them take control of their businesses, careers, and lives, while staying true to who they are.
So, if you struggle with finding the right words for those tricky conversations, this is an episode you can’t afford to miss.
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Connect with Paru on LinkedIn
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Starting something new can be daunting, but it can also be a breath of fresh air! There's nothing like putting yourself out there and seeing where your talents could bring you. A side hustle is a great way to test the waters, gain experience and open possibilities for your future. Even if it's just a little extra money per month or learning about a new industry, having a side hustle can really give you energy, positivity and momentum that flows into other areas of your life.
In this episode, Nicole gives us the details on her new and surprising side hustle-how she started it, how it’s going and how it’s transformed her life.
Future Diary Follow-up: Building a Bridge to your Dream Life
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Money is such a taboo topic that we don't often talk about it, but it's something that affects all of us daily. From anxiety about whether we can pay our bills to the shame and guilt we feel when we overspend, our relationship with money can be a big source of stress in our lives. But how do we break free from the money monster’s grasp, regain control and hell, even have a little fun? This week’s guest is here to tell us how.
Hanna Bier works with ambitious women all over the world to recreate their relationship with money in a life-affirming, positive and loving way.
As an energy healer, family-constellation expert and certified life coach, she has woven her diverse skill set into a proven, and innovative capacity to allow her clients to transform their relationship with money from the inside out.
Hanna spent seven years trying to answer the question: Is it possible to create wealth without compromising our health, wellness and/or happiness. Can we actually create abundant lives while living a life of joy?
Well according to Hanna the answer is a resounding YES. And in this week’s episode she’s going to share with us how to get started.
Check out Hanna’s website
Email Hanna at hello@hannabier.com
Connect with Hanna on Instagram @hannamoneybliss
Other financial episodes you may enjoy:
147: Financially Irresponsible Strategies for Success with Rahkim Sabree
32: Financial Freedom, Our New Favorite "F" Words: Nicole Talks With Alexandra Miele, CFP®
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You want something, you work with people to get it done, the end. But what if that’s not the way you create real success? What if instead, it’s all about continually planting seeds – or magic beans – that will grow into things you haven’t even thought were possible?
This week, Erin tells a story about how some magic beans she planted are growing into donuts. Well, a speaking gig at a donut company. She then reflects and reverse engineers how things like this come about, reflecting on the biggest lessons she’s learned as an entrepreneur, and how you can apply those lessons to your corporate career.
In this week’s episode we’re sharing 3 simple ways to plant these beans that will grow into mind-blowing, unexpected success.
105: Make Every Step into a Data Point with Dr. Erin Baker
Check out Erin’s book, Joy-full AF
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Let's face it. The job search can be a soul-sucking experience. You spend hours crafting the perfect resume, only to be rejected by automated systems or ghosted by potential employers. But what if the problem isn't with your credentials, but with your method? Instead of submitting your resume blindly and hoping for the best, why not take a more proactive (and authentic) approach?
That’s exactly what our guest did and guess what? It paid off BIG time.
Joshua Cruz is a writer, motivational dancer/speaker and recruiter seeking to help other individuals build their happiness. He uses his career expertise paired with his personal experiences as a gay Afro Latino man in America, to create opportunities for individuals who are often looked over based on things such as race, gender and identity.
In this episode, Joshua shares how he went from unemployed to getting multiple job offers that led to his dream job. His secret? Well, you’ll just have to tune in to find that out.
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Ahhh the honeymoon period. The time when everything is fresh, new, and exciting as you start your new job. The work is interesting, your colleagues are friendly and helpful, and you can't wait to see what each new day brings. But then, after a few months or even weeks, the honeymoon period comes to an end. The work starts to feel repetitive, your colleagues become less patient with your questions, and you find yourself hitting the snooze button more often than you'd like to admit. Before you know it, you’re back to the grind, and the only thing that is new and exciting is your weekend plans.
But does it really have to be this way? What if instead you could take advantage of the honeymoon excitement and energy before you fall into a workplace slump? In this episode, we’ll tell you how.
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In this episode, we’re pulling back the curtain and letting you in on a conversation with Patti Hall, aka Erin's ride-or-die book coach. Now, we know what you're thinking..."I don't want to write a book." But, in true b Cause Work Doesn't Have to Suck fashion, we aren't talking technicalities, but instead revelations.
But first, who is Patti? Well, my friend, this introduction is long overdue.
Patti M. Hall is the Master Story Alchemist, whose particular coaching genius is distilling powerful stories and messages into books that serve. Patti is a writer, coach, proposal author and publishing guide for heart-lead entrepreneurs, transformational coaches, thought leaders and courageous memoirists. She’s also authentic AF.
In this episode, you'll hear Erin and Patti talk about 6 game-changing revelations they've had through writing Erin's latest book, You Do You-ish, and how these tactics can be applied to any profession.
Check out Patti’s book, Loving Large
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We've all been there – fixated on what could go wrong that we forget to take time to enjoy the ride. It's human nature to worry, but sometimes we need to take a step back and remind ourselves that life is meant to be enjoyed. After all, if we spend our time worrying about every little thing that could go wrong, we'll miss out on all the good stuff that's happening right in front of us. In this episode, Nicole talks about how her mom is movin’ back to town and Erin shares her best “slap ya mama” advice to help Nicole navigate this transition.
So, whether you're dealing with a difficult family situation or just trying to enjoy life despite all the craziness, this episode is sure to give you a good laugh – and maybe even some useful advice.
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You know that feeling when it seems like everything in the world is against you. No matter what you do, things just keep going wrong. Your alarm clock doesn't go off so you're late for work, your boss yells at you for being late, and then your coffee mug shatters when you accidentally knock it off your desk. It feels like you can't catch a break. But what if the real problem isn't the string of bad luck you're experiencing, but rather the way you're thinking about it? In this week’s episode, Mental Toughness Coach, Chris Dorris, is here to show us there’s a different way to think.
Chris started out as a social worker in Atlantic City helping the mentally ill, drug addicted, and homeless populations upgrade their lives. This eventually led him to his true vocation- helping people close the gap between how their lives are and how they want them to be.
And he clearly knows his stuff. Chris has trained the minds of world-famous actors, NFL and NHL Coaches, business executives, Super Bowl Champions and billionaires using his Mental Toughness tools to help them achieve success.
You see, Chris understands that our thoughts have a lot of power. And if we're constantly telling ourselves that things are going to go wrong, guess what? They probably will.
Feeling stuck in a rut and like nothing is going your way? This is an episode you won’t want to miss.
Check out Chris’ Website
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Quiet Quitting: it's the new buzzword on everyone's lips. It's not necessarily connected to quitting a job outright, but rather doing precisely what the job requires. This new movement is gaining steam as more and more people get fed up with their jobs. But how can leaders navigate this trend without completely losing their cool?
In this episode, Nicole shares how her performance evaluations took a left turn and how ‘quiet quitting’ was the culprit.
Tune into this episode to find out how she’s navigating the quiet quitting storm and coming out stronger on the other side…and how you can too.
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Quiet Quitting: it's the new buzzword on everyone's lips. It's not necessarily connected to quitting a job outright, but rather doing precisely what the job requires. This new movement is gaining steam as more and more people get fed up with their jobs. But how can leaders navigate this trend without completely losing their cool?
In this episode, Nicole shares how her performance evaluations took a left turn and how ‘quiet quitting’ was the culprit.
Tune into this episode to find out how she’s navigating the quiet quitting storm and coming out stronger on the other side…and how you can too.
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It's a Universal truth that we all want to be happy in our work. We strive to find a career that will make us look forward to Monday mornings, rather than dread them. And while it's important to have passion for what you do, there's something to be said for finding a job that you don't hate - even if it doesn't fulfill all your dreams. This week’s guest gives us the details on what it looks like to do something because you love it, not because you’re getting something out of it. Mollie Marcoux Samaan is a passionate golfer who has taken her long-term strategic thinking to the world’s oldest independent professional women's sports league. In running LPGA, she defined six pillars and created a Be Great performance model that employs best practices from across industries with input also coming directly from players.
Mollie Marcoux Samaan has become a leader for all of women’s sports, assuming the spokeswoman mantel on issues related to equality and inclusion. She is a leading advocate for increasing investments and growing opportunities for women in girls in every field of sports and entertainment.
If you’re interested in what it looks like to do your “job” for the love, not the goal, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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It's a Universal truth that we all want to be happy in our work. We strive to find a career that will make us look forward to Monday mornings, rather than dread them. And while it's important to have passion for what you do, there's something to be said for finding a job that you don't hate - even if it doesn't fulfill all your dreams. This week’s guest gives us the details on what it looks like to do something because you love it, not because you’re getting something out of it. Mollie Marcoux Samaan is a passionate golfer who has taken her long-term strategic thinking to the world’s oldest independent professional women's sports league. In running LPGA, she defined six pillars and created a Be Great performance model that employs best practices from across industries with input also coming directly from players.
Mollie Marcoux Samaan has become a leader for all of women’s sports, assuming the spokeswoman mantel on issues related to equality and inclusion. She is a leading advocate for increasing investments and growing opportunities for women in girls in every field of sports and entertainment.
If you’re interested in what it looks like to do your “job” for the love, not the goal, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.
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Being successful in the workplace requires more than just hard work and talent. In fact, some of the most important qualities for success are often intangible. Trust and authenticity are two such qualities. After all, no one wants to work with someone they can't trust, and it's hard to be successful if you're not being authentic. In the fast-paced world of work, it can be tempting to cut corners or take shortcuts. But ultimately, those who can build trust are the ones who will find the most success in the long run.
This week’s episode features the leading global expert in building high-trust leaders and organizations and bestselling author of The Trust Edge, David Horsager. David has advised leaders and delivered life-changing presentations on six continents, and including clients such as FedEx, Toyota, MIT, and global governments as well as the New York Yankees and the Department of Homeland Security.
David’s energy will keep you engaged, and his authenticity will keep you hooked. Trust us, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
Check out David’s Website
Connect with David on Instagram
Connect with David on LinkedIn
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Being successful in the workplace requires more than just hard work and talent. In fact, some of the most important qualities for success are often intangible. Trust and authenticity are two such qualities. After all, no one wants to work with someone they can't trust, and it's hard to be successful if you're not being authentic. In the fast-paced world of work, it can be tempting to cut corners or take shortcuts. But ultimately, those who can build trust are the ones who will find the most success in the long run.
This week’s episode features the leading global expert in building high-trust leaders and organizations and bestselling author of The Trust Edge, David Horsager. David has advised leaders and delivered life-changing presentations on six continents, and including clients such as FedEx, Toyota, MIT, and global governments as well as the New York Yankees and the Department of Homeland Security.
David’s energy will keep you engaged, and his authenticity will keep you hooked. Trust us, this is an episode you don’t want to miss.
Check out David’s Website
Connect with David on Instagram
Connect with David on LinkedIn
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Trying to impress your boss can be a delicate balancing act- on one hand, you want to demonstrate your value and stand out from the crowd. On the other hand, you don't want to overstep your bounds and end up on the unemployment line. To help you navigate this tricky tightrope, Erin and Nicole share five mistakes to avoid when working with executives.
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Trying to impress your boss can be a delicate balancing act- on one hand, you want to demonstrate your value and stand out from the crowd. On the other hand, you don't want to overstep your bounds and end up on the unemployment line. To help you navigate this tricky tightrope, Erin and Nicole share five mistakes to avoid when working with executives.
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162: 10 Power Questions to Crush Your Interview
148: 3 Surprising Interview Tips to Land the Job You Want
129: 3 Tips to Stand Out in Your Next Executive Meeting
119: 3 Hacks For Asking Powerful Questions That Put You in the Pole Position
133: Avoid Performance Discussion Pitfalls with This One Strategy
If you’d like quick tangible tips and practical corporate career advice to level up your authentic leadership, download the 10 simple “plays” to stop selling out and start standing out at https://bauthenticinc.mykajabi.com/freebie
To connect with Erin and/or Nicole, email: hello@bauthenticinc.com
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“Learn how to use your voice and, even more so, how to calibrate it in moments that really matter.” If you're interested in being an advocate for Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging in the workplace, you're not alone. In today's climate, more and more people are looking for ways to create workplaces that are safe and welcoming for everyone.But where do you start?
Cue our guest, the amazing Yvonne Alston
Yvonne Alston is an unapologetically authentic amplifier and advocate for Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging. She established Indelible Impressions Consulting to advance important conversations, education and transformation to help organizations understand the importance of culture and its impact on the human experience. Her firm and team focus on centering the employee experience, amplifying personal and professional value, and inspiring hearts and minds as they challenge systems of inequity, champion dimensions of diversity, and drive inclusive practices holistically.
In this eye-opening episode, Yvonne gives us pointers on how to advocate authentically and use our voice to inspire change in the workplace.
Connect with Yvonne on LinkedIn
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“Learn how to use your voice and, even more so, how to calibrate it in moments that really matter.” If you're interested in being an advocate for Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging in the workplace, you're not alone. In today's climate, more and more people are looking for ways to create workplaces that are safe and welcoming for everyone.But where do you start?
Cue our guest, the amazing Yvonne Alston
Yvonne Alston is an unapologetically authentic amplifier and advocate for Diversity, Equity, Inclusion and Belonging. She established Indelible Impressions Consulting to advance important conversations, education and transformation to help organizations understand the importance of culture and its impact on the human experience. Her firm and team focus on centering the employee experience, amplifying personal and professional value, and inspiring hearts and minds as they challenge systems of inequity, champion dimensions of diversity, and drive inclusive practices holistically.
In this eye-opening episode, Yvonne gives us pointers on how to advocate authentically and use our voice to inspire change in the workplace.
Connect with Yvonne on LinkedIn
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We've all been there. Many of us have found ourselves in a meeting, feeling like we have something important to say... but not saying it. Maybe we're afraid of being seen as pushy or bossy. Maybe we don't want to rock the boat or make waves. Or maybe we're just worried that our ideas won't be well-received. Whatever the reason, it's important to remember that our voices are worth hearing. And this week's guest knows a thing or two about putting yourself out there and getting results. Reagan Cannon is a former executive from some of the largest companies in the world, including Amazon and AT&T, where she had roles leading teams of 10,000+ and comprised of business strategy, technical product development, and large-scale global operations.
She’s now an accomplished speaker, who empowers organizations to retain talent with her A.P.P.L.E. model, which she first published in her 2016 book, The Cure for Career Quicksand.
In this episode, you'll hear Reagan talk about how she has been able to push back against the norm by speaking openly rather than worrying what others want to hear--and why it's time for all of us else do so as well!
Connect with Reagan on LinkedIn
The Cure for Career Quicksand: Advancing Your Career One Slice at a Time by Reagan Cannon
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Let's face it, the corporate world is a cutthroat place. In order to succeed, you have to constantly evolve and adapt to new challenges. Whether it’s in “normal” times or a time like now, where there’s a lot of concern about a recession, companies unfortunately have to constantly look at their workforce and often make tough decisions to let people go. But what if we told you that there are three strategies you can use to help"layoff-proof" yourself that'll keep you from getting the ax?
In this episode, Erin and Nicole discuss three strategies to help you stick around and survive the corporate jungle.
Looking for some tips on how to avoid being laid off just want to know how to build a successful career in the corporate world? Tune in. This is an episode you don’t want to miss.
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Meet Jesse Cole, the Walt Disney of baseball. In 2016, Cole and his family purchased a historically fledgling baseball team in Savannah and turned them into the world-renowned, Savannah Bananas where they’ve revolutionized a traditional sport. How? By putting fans first.
Instead of being obsessed with the game, he became obsessed with the experience. Particularly the fan experience.
Eventually, Cole's innovative marketing strategies and commitment to fan experience paid off in a big way. The Savannah Bananas have sold out every game since their first season and have been awarded Organization of the Year, Entrepreneur of the Year, and Business of the Year.
Today, Cole is an in-demand keynote speaker, serial yellow tux wearer and author of Find Your Yellow Tux and Fans First.
In this episode, you’ll hear Erin and Jesse discuss how you can use a Fans First strategy to create your own success.
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Fans First
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Whenever you're feeling lost or uncertain, it's easy to second-guess yourself. After all, there are so many voices out there telling you what to do and how to live your life. But what if the best guide isn't found in the noise of the world? What if the answer lies within you? Here's the thing: our gut instinct is usually spot-on. It's the voice in our head that tells us whether something feels right or wrong. And yet, we so often ignore it in favor of following the rules or doing what we're told. But what if we listened to our instincts more often?
Now, we’re not saying you should quit your job and move to Bali (although that does sound pretty tempting). But listening to your gut can help you make small decisions in your everyday life. And those small decisions can make a big impact on your overall happiness and wellbeing.
So next time you're feeling lost or uncertain, don't second-guess yourself - listen to your instincts (and this podcast) instead. It might just be the best guide you've got.
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When it comes to networking, we all know the importance of making a good impression. But let's be honest - sometimes, schmoozing can feel like a bit of a chore. You find yourself shaking hands and exchanging business cards with people you'll probably never see again, all while trying to keep a smile plastered on your face. It can be exhausting! So how can you network without feeling like a phony? Well, this week’s guest knows a thing or two about how to network…authentically.
Ted Pizzo is a Sr. VP & Client Advisor at Lockton and the President of the Northeast Executive Advisory Group (www.northeastexecutives.com), which started in 2004. The Northeast Executive Advisory Group (NEAG) includes thousands of executives, professionals and community leaders who help each other grow their respective businesses, offer support with referrals, collaborate on philanthropic endeavors and assist those between jobs land in the right place.
In this episode, you’ll hear Ted share stories from his career, why he started NEAG and how building authentic connections is at the center of it all.
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Get in touch with Ted: tpizzo@lockton.com
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Interviews can be pretty daunting. You've probably been on the other side of the table, sweating bullets as the interviewer fires question after question at you. And now it's your turn to ask the questions? Yikes. But don't worry, we've got your back. In this episode, Erin lays out 10 questions that you can easily use in an interview. Think of these questions as training wheels - they'll help you get started, but eventually, you'll be able to ride without them.
So, whether you're interviewing for your next A+ player or trying to find that missing piece to your team, tune in to learn how asking the right questions can make all the difference.
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We've all been guilty of trying to be perfect. We run around our house making it look like a museum. We run our meetings with the proper agenda. We have this constant anxiety that goes along with trying to make the inevitably imperfect, perfect.
But what if instead of focusing on perfection, we instead focus on creating a vibe? A feeling, an aura, an environment that is more focused on the feeling we want people to have than the façade.
Well, Erin and Nicole have tested this out and holy schnikies, it changes everything!
Because here's the thing–people are sick of going through the motions, both at work and (especially) in life. When you focus on creating a vibe instead of the perfect charcuterie board or board meeting, people think and feel “Ahhhh, I was so sick of everyone’s perfection. This is the vibe I’ve been craving instead and didn’t even know it!”
Tune to hear how just this small shift in mindset has changed work and life for both Erin and Nicole, and to start thinking about where you can replace perfection with creating a vibe.
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In this episode, Erin sits down with Anton Gunn, a former state legislator, federal policymaker, and Harvard Professor and now the founder of the 937 Strategy Group for discussion on, well, everything. Anton is sure to inspire you as he shares his passion for great leadership and how it was formed from a unique combination of being part of a family dedicated to service, the five U.S. Presidents he met, his many mentors, his college football coaches (what not to do) and hip hop.
If you're looking to truly become a great leader, you don't want to miss this episode. You'll be incredibly moved by his authentic perspective on how to move forward in life, take on incredible challenges and be the kind of leader that leaves a legacy for many people including, most importantly, your family.
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Employee burnout has become a hot topic in recent years, as more and more workers report feeling overwhelmed and stressed out. There are several reasons why this may be the case, but some of the most common include unrealistic expectations, a lack of work/life balance, and a feeling of being unappreciated. Oh, and a global pandemic. And we probably don’t have to tell you the impact. But we will. For employees, burnout can lead to physical and mental health problems, as well as job dissatisfaction and motivation. For employers, it can mean increased absenteeism, decreased productivity, and turnover.
Whatever the cause repercussions, burnout can have serious consequences for both employees and employers. And too often we talk about what a person can do for THEMSELVES to reduce burnout. But the reality is they need help from their leadership more than anything.
In this episode, Erin shares 10 practical tips for leaders to reduce employee burnout that are so easy to implement you can literally start tomorrow.
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Ego is a tricky little bastard. You think you have it under control, but then it pops up when you least expect it and wreaks havoc on your day. Like a small child, it needs constant supervision, except instead of demands for food or attention, ego's demands are for validation and recognition.
But what happens when our ego is left unchecked? Well, friend, it can easily spiral out of control and become the driving force behind everything you do.
In this episode, you’ll hear Nicole share how she tamed her trickster during her job transition and flipped her mindset to focus on what really matters.
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Like a fine wine that’s aged, Erin is finally busting out an interview with her favorite boss, Martha Temple, and she’s sharing all her thoughts on how to have a big career by not conforming. Earning an executive title and the corner office isn’t exactly easy. So, what’s the secret sauce to making it as a big time executive while maintaining your sanity and self? Well, here’s what Martha will tell you it's not: fitting in.
Martha is an experienced CEO and P&L owner who led several major subsidiary companies within Fortune 50 companies and is now a Board Member of six companies. An Actuary only by certification (not by stereotyped personality), Martha has spent her career bucking the norm and leading with authenticity and passion.
She’s a big believer that people have way more talent and great ideas than they give themselves credit for, and she’s passionate about helping people see that success only really comes when you commit to standing out and doing the things that aren’t necessarily popular or normal.
In this episode, you’ll hear Martha share what’s shaped her throughout her corporate career, dish out advice for others who want to make it to the top, and also share some funny stories along the way.
If you’re interested in climbing the ladder while maintaining your sanity and self, this episode is for you.
Connect with Martha on LinkedIn
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Break out the bubbly and put your party pants on because NICOLE. GOT. A. NEW. JOB! And to help her put her best foot forward, Erin’s sharing her top tips with Nicole (and you, dear listener) on how to make that fancy new job better than the last.
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We all want to be successful, but sometimes it can be hard to define what success looks like. Is it having a big house and a nice car? Is it being able to travel and see the world? Or is it simply being happy and content with your life?
The truth is, that success means different things to different people. But if you're having trouble defining what success looks like for you, our guest, Tim Schurrer, is here to help.
Tim knows what it takes to build a winning team. He spent almost a decade of his career-launching two brands— StoryBrand and Business Made Simple—as COO alongside New York Times bestselling author Donald Miller. Before that Tim worked at TOMS as well as Apple Inc. He is the host of the Build a Winning Team podcast, where he offers listeners actionable advice as he interviews some of the top leaders in business.
Ready to redefine what success looks like for you? Tune into this episode to find out how to get started.
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Authenticity isn’t fluffy unicorn doo-doo and we’ve got the proof to back it up. In this episode, Erin and Nicole share highlights of b Authentic Inc’s new study, “Authenticity in the Workplace.”
At first glance, it may seem like a tall order to prove that authenticity works in the workplace. After all, how can you measure something as subjective and intangible as trust or respect? But rest assured – we have the data to back up our claim.
Curious to see how much of a difference authenticity really makes in a company? You won't want to miss this one (or its mind-blowing results!)
The Impact of Authenticity in the Workplace National Study
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Despite the fact that he grew up in the free lunch program at school, our guest, Brandon Fong, became a published author, traveled to 23 countries with his wife, ran the marketing operations for a 7-figure online education company with 250,000+ students, was featured on TV, and launched his podcast to a top 2% global ranking in less than a year… all by the age of 25. Brandon is on his own path to build his first 7+ figure business and share what he learns along the way.
Brandon believes that one of the most effective solutions to some of the world's biggest problems is to create a movement of people dedicated to pursuing self-expansion and doing big things in the world - not just for the outcome, but for what it makes of them in the process.
In this episode, Brandon shares with us a 3-step method for creating engaging and genuine connections that provide massive value, but also lay the groundwork for future opportunities.
Download a summary of Brandon’s Magic Connection Method process
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It's always a bit of a shock when life throws us a curve ball. We think we have everything under control and then something happens to remind us that we're not actually in charge of anything. It can be a really difficult thing to deal with, especially if it feels like everything is crumbling down around us.
But when sh*t starts to go off the rails, it might be the perfect opportunity to reevaluate our lives and see if what we are currently doing is aligned with who we truly are.
Feeling stuck, unhappy with your current situation, or living in unalignment with your values? This just might be the episode you need to make a change.
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We've all been there – working long hours, spending evenings checking things off our list, and hitting the pillow stressed, exhausted, and overwhelmed. When things don't work out, we hustle harder. But is this really the best way to live?
What if we didn’t have to sacrifice our ambition or goals to live a fulfilling life? What if instead, we were more thoughtful about how we pursue them? Well, Mel, today’s guest, has a thing or two to say about that.
Mel Miles is a coach, speaker, and the founder of Soulcation, a company that helps people develop vacation-like routines that revive the soul.
Formerly a program officer at the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, she managed millions of dollars and helped launch the global campaign to eradicate malaria. After working in twenty-five African countries, she found herself hyperventilating through a panic attack, utterly confused about why she felt so stressed, exhausted, and unhappy when she was living the life she always thought she wanted. In the midst of her confusion and pain, she decided to quit her dream job, sell all her belongings, and travel alone around the world to answer the question keeping her up at night: In all her work fighting for the freedom and healing of others, was she living freely herself?
Mel currently lives in Lisbon, Portugal, where she is proud to have designed a life she doesn’t need a vacation from.
Ready to bring vacation vibes to the everyday? Be sure to tune in.
Check out Mel’s book, Soulcation
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Resumes. One of the most important documents of your professional life, and yet it can feel so impersonal and stilted.
Over time, resumes have become robotic, inhuman, and chock full of business buzzwords rather than a way to get to know someone. #inauthenticaf
And in today's job market, where competition is fierce and employers are looking for any reason to eliminate candidates from the pool, it's easy to see why people play it safe when it comes to their resumes. But truth is, playing it safe just may be keeping you from standing out.
Feeling trapped in resume-writing purgatory and would like to create a resume that’s unique, engaging and highlights your personality? This one’s for you.
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“I'm an African-American female from poverty. I could feel a lot of ways if I allow it to, but I know there's some beauty inside of me, so I unlock it every day.” - Lia Valencia Key The first time Erin saw Lia walk into a room, she was radiating with joy. There was something so warm and captivating about her and she just knew she needed to know this woman.
Lia went from growing up homeless to speaking on stages with Tony Robbins, Robin Roberts and spoken at Jamie Kern Lima’s conference filled with over 200,000 people. Pretty impressive, eh? Well after you meet Lia, you’ll see why they want her on their stages.
You see, Lia encourages people to find their own light so you can have the peace and happiness you deserve. But really, it’s so much more than that. It’s about making choices, believing in yourself, and embracing the possibilities (even if they sometimes seem impossible.)
It’s not really an interview at all. It’s an intervention. This is an episode you’ll likely listen to again and again.
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The words, ‘We’d love it if you came in for an interview’ are in your inbox. Your heart starts racing, you do a fist pump or two, ok, three, and then you stop. Panic sets in. Party over.
Interviewing is an uncomfortable rite of passage that we all have to go through at some point if we want to land our dream job. And if you’re human, it may cause you a little bit of anxiety. Maybe it's because we only hear about the interviewing horror stories and never the triumphs. Or maybe it's because we've built interviewing up to be this huge, important event when, really, it's just a conversation. Granted, one person is trying to convince the other to give them a job, but we’ll overlook that for a moment.
In today’s episode, Erin and Nicole discuss 3 surprising interview tips that’ll help you authentically prepare for the traditional (and snoozy) interviews we’re all accustomed to.
So, if you would like to stand out from the “expected” and land your dream job, tune in to get the full scoop.
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If someone were to ask you about personal finance, do you feel and well-informed, and ready to enlighten them with your financial savviness? Or do you nod, smile and schvitz -all while thinking you have no idea wtf they’re talking about?
No matter your answer, when it comes to personal finance game, today’s guest has the playbook.
Rahkim Sabree is an author/columnist, speaker, and financial coach who focuses on the pathway between financial literacy and financial empowerment. His work has been published in Business Insider, The Grio, Black Enterprise, Entrepreneur, CEO World Magazine, and more.
Rahkim works exclusively with leaders whose mission is to improve people's lives; who see bigger than themselves and who in addition to wanting to propel their business to the next level, want to (re-) find greater flexibility and freedom using the power of money.
We loved hearing Rahkim’s story and enjoyed hearing his positive and practical take when it comes to personal finance. So, if finances give you the scaries, this episode just may help you out.
Financially Irresponsible
https://www.rahkimsabree.com/
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When you hear the statement 'Work can help us heal’, what comes to mind? Do you believe that to be true? Or do you think it’s a tall order for the workplace?
In this week’s episode, you’ll hear Erin and Scott chat with Scott Shute. Scott is a keynote speaker, coach, executive, and author that combines the sublime of ancient wisdom with the practicality of work.
He has led Mindfulness and Compassion programs at LinkedIn. After twenty-five years of customer-oriented leadership roles, he found his dream job, where he utilized his entire skill set and embraced his passions. Now Scott is a “free-range chicken”, as he describes it, and works with companies and leaders to explore the possibility of human potential, helping employees become the very best version of themselves.
So no matter what camp you fall in, we have no doubt you’ll love hearing Scott’s perspective on bringing mindfulness and compassion to the workplace-and heal from the inside out.
Visit Scott's Website
The Full Body Yes
Atomic Habits by James Clear
Gwyneth x Oprah: Power, Perception & Soul Purpose
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What’s your TEDx moment? What do you stand for?
You see, this is a question that so many want to know, but few rarely explore. But shouldn’t we? In this episode, Erin and Nicole chat about this slightly heavy question, but in typical fashion, with a twist.
The two also manage to talk about Russia (because wtf), share major life updates and reveal a groundbreaking stat about zookeepers. Yep, they went there.
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You hear all the time that you need to stand out. But. Have we ever really talked about what a vulnerable and courageous act that really is?
Well, today’s guest, Paulina Tenner, knows a thing or two about standing out authentically and embracing your vulnerability when all eyes are on you.
Unapologetic speaker, serial entrepreneur, startup investor, author and… burlesque dancer? These are just a few titles that Paulina holds.
In this episode, Erin and Paulina discuss Paulina’s “weird, edgy hobby” and how it transformed her life in more ways than one. You’ll also hear Paulina chat about how finding courage and settling into vulnerability can lead to unforeseen and exciting opportunities.
Paulina just gets what it means to be authentic. And we have a feeling you’ll love her as much as we do. Ready to get started?
https://www.paulinatenner.com/
When Self-Set Pay Does More Harm than Good in Your Company
https://www.paulinatenner.com/book
Watch Paulina's Tedx Talk
Connect with Paulina on Instagram
Connect with Paulina on Twitter
Connect with Paulina on Linkedin
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How’s that to-do list of yours? Ever growing? Can’t seem to catch up? Maybe the thought of sliding it into the trash even crossed your mind a time or two?
Us too.
Well, what if you could make your to-do list a little less daunting, a little more motivating and hell, maybe even a little more enjoyable?
In this episode, Erin and Nicole chat about fun strategies to get sh*t done that you simply don’t want to do. So, if your task list is giving you the blues, tune in to this episode to see if any of these strategies light a spark under your…well, you know.
Jon Acuff: Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done
Episode 123: Game-changing Advice to Make You Fearless at Work with Molly Fletcher
The Energy Clock: 3 Simple Steps to Create a Life Full of ENERGY ― and Live Your Best Every Day
You Do You(ish): Unleash Your Authentic Superpowers to Get the Career You Deserve
It’s Been a Minute with Sam Sanders: Questlove's 'Summer of Soul' brings lost music back to life
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Often we have this perception of “woman at the top.” They don’t have kids. Or if they do, they must be willing to sacrifice so much of it for their career.
What if that wasn’t how it had to be? Well, it’s certainly not the case for Jean LaTorre. Jean talks about her rise from a family that had trouble making ends meet to becoming the Chief Investment Officer for a Fortune 50 company. And how she did that while remaining true to herself and her family.
Erin Hatzikostas interviews Jean LaTorre, former Chief Investment Officer and Corporate Economist of Aetna and the current Executive Vice President and Chief Investment Officer of Guardian.
Erin asks Jean how she started her career, and what she was like when she was younger. Jean talks about how she grew up “more than modest” in New York, sometimes struggling for rent or surviving on food stamps. After a poignant moment when her mom wasn’t able to pay for Jean’s health care incident, Jean decided she would make sure she could always “make ends meet.”
She went to college and although English was her passion, she coupled that degree with a major in business. It was “practical”, she says. She then started her career in the investment world and continually worked her way up the corporate ladder, progressing from one strong position to another.
Erin reflects on a time Jean inspired her with a speech at a women's conference, with words that have stuck with Erin to this day, “I like being a girl.”
Erin asks Jean to discuss tough managers and colleagues, and share some advice on how to deal with the more difficult of your work acquaintances.
Have you ever been passed by for an opportunity because your boss thinks you would be too stressed to handle the kids and the work? Or maybe you were in a car accident and your bosses only reply is "get here and get your head in the game".
Well, that happened to Jean. So yeah, she has a few tips and tricks on how to handle it.
Next, Erin asks Jean to give some advice for the working moms out there - what kind of boundaries to put up between work and home. Jean says, “Stop beating yourself up, there's no one right way to do something.”
They move on to discuss what drives Jean to work with different organizations, such as PRIDE, the LGBTQ+ Community at Guardian.
She reminisces on when she became Chief Investment Officer... in January 2008, so, that was a hard year. Then she gives her take on the current economic and social situation.
Erin talks about writing her book, and how to get around telling truthful stories without hurting the people involved. This opens an opportunity for Jean and Erin to share funny stories they’ve both experienced as it relates to the workplace that they think would go well in a book.
Connect with Jean on Linkedin
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In a world where we are told to go-go-go, have you ever just thought, “Ehhh, no”?
You often hear the words, ‘productivity’, ‘hustle’, and ‘success’ in relation to work, but one thing you hear less of is ‘space’, ‘succumb’ or…’going limp’. (More on ‘going limp’ later. Promise we won’t leave you hangin’ on this one.)
In today’s episode, Nicole discusses the societal pressure to be employed and how that’s impacting her during her transition. And Erin shares with her some “award-winning” advice to help her navigate through this time without losing her mind.
Somehow, they also manage to work in stories about waterslide catastrophes and in Nicole’s words, “middle-aged indignities.”
Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done by Jon Acuff
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A way to create connection, build authority and stand out from your peers in an unexpected way? *Yes please! *
A super simple strategy that most people aren’t leveraging in the workplace? *Where do I sign up? *
It’s completely centered around video.
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We get it. Video can be intimidating, a smidge uncomfortable and maybe a little unnatural.
But the gem of a human being featured on the podcast today will hopefully help you set aside those fears and make practical changes that’ll add a unique twist to your current video practices.
Oh, and they’re practically painless. Promise.
In this episode, you’ll hear Erin chat with Kerry Barrett. Kerry is an Emmy award-winning broadcast news anchor, reporter and producer, turned public speaking and media coach and trainer, who helps others bring their stories to life with confidence and personality. And you know, no big deal or anything, but you may have even seen Kerry on a few internationally renowned media institutions like NBC, ABD and Fox tv stations.
Ok, ok that’s kind of a big deal.
Even with that impressive lineup though, Kerry is most known for overcoming a massive and debilitating fear of public speaking. Now, she uses her experience to help business professionals move from obscurity to visibility through the power of video.
The way Kerry talks about video makes it seem like a natural and an attainable process, but even more so, it’s rooted around building an authentic connection with whomever is on the other side of the screen.
So, if you want to stand out from the crown and learn how to leverage the power of video authentically, this is an episode you’re not going to want to miss.
Connect with Kerry
Check out Kerry's website at Kerry Barrett.com
Connect with Kerry on Linkedin
Follow Kerry on Instagram @kerbarrett
Resources mentioned in the episode
Check out BombBomb
Learn more about Videoask
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One of the best things about this podcast is the no-holds-barred, insightful, hilarious, and often vulnerable conversations that Erin and Nicole have.
And this one’s no different.
Over the years, Nicole has let us in on her career-the good, the bad, and the ugly. Not many would be willing to go where she has and openly share the way she does.
In this episode, Nicole shares a huge announcement with us that has changed the trajectory of her career, added a little uncertainty to her life and undoubtedly a lot of excitement.
How’s she doing? In Nicole’s words, “somewhere between onward and oh fuck.”
Shonda Rhimes: My Year of Saying Yes to Everything
Finding Joe
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Think authenticity only applies to the corporate world? Think again. We’ve decided to shake things up and show you how authenticity can be applied to any career.
In this episode, Erin meets with Sergeant Major Matt Parrish. Matt is currently the Senior Enlisted Leader for the USSOCOM Preservation of the Force and Family program. He is a Green Beret who has spent his entire career within Special Operations, including 13 years on Special Forces operational teams. Matt has multiple tours to Iraq and Afghanistan as well most of the countries in Central and South America.
Pretty badass right?
You’ll hear Matt tells us captivating stories from his career that range from encounters with the Obamas, the one and only Snoop Dog and so many more that are fresh, unique, and incredibly bold. One thing these stories all have in common? Matt didn’t play it safe and used authenticity to advance his career, without compromising who he was.
Connect with Matt on Linkedin
Check out Matt’s podcast, SOFCAST
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Like the rest of the world, Nicole is taking a beat and recovering from Covid. By the way, does anyone have a date on when this is going to end or…?
Luckily, Erin, the other half of the duo, is still well and has decided to authentically let you in on four critical mindset shifts that helped her pivot from executive to entrepreneur.
P.S.- If you’d like to wish Nicole well in the b Cause Podcast Facebook Group ,we know she'd love that!
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You’ve heard the whispers, seen the teasers and have been holding your breath in anticipation.
And yes, the rumors are true: Erin and Nicole are back with a new podcast name, but the same (always slightly inappropriate) shenanigans.
In this episode, they’ll give you the scoop on the name switch, fun fan swag, and some inspiration to bring you imperfectly into 2022 (Hint, it’s not another variant…hopefully.)
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Erin and Nicole couldn’t let this holiday season pass without a nod to their original, and highly relatable, "The Twelve Days of Work-mas" episode.
So, to start your holiday off right, we’ve decided to revisit this fan-favorite and send you off with a few laughs. Plus, Nicole surprises Erin with her work rendition of Santa Baby. I mean, can it get any better?
The Twelve Days of Work-mas
12 hour workday
11th hour deadline
10 interns sleeping
9 hours of meetings
8 corporate trainings
A 7 year-old Intern
6 feet of distance
5 gooooldeeen handcuffs...
4 minute break
3 PowerPoints
A 2-percent raise
And a promo-o-tion to a trainee
Happy Holidays from both Erin & Nicole!
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Hands up if hearing “serve people first” never really clicked with you when it came to sales. You understood the concept but putting it into action was spotty at best. Well friend, you’re not alone.
In this episode, Erin and Nicole walk through the LESS Method - a gamified framework that takes the sliminess out of sales and is also completely grounded in authenticity. So, if sales aren’t your thing, this method just may be your new secret weapon to making connections, gaining trust, and selling through service. Bonus? It’s also pretty damn fun.
https://www.bauthenticinc.com/podcast/episode/1f40ff9e/123-game-changing-advice-to-make-you-fearless-at-work-with-molly-fletcher
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Performance Reviews. Depending on the person, reactions may vary. Some are ready to rock it, some are apprehensive, and some may just be ready to throw up in the nearest trash can.
Whatever camp you fall in, I think we can all agree that performance reviews are always in the back of our minds as we work through the year.
In today’s episode, Erin and Nicole are going to help you prepare for those possible performance review pitfalls so you can go into it feeling confident and leave your review (ahem, audit) feeling inspired and clear on what moves you should make next.
Links mentioned in the episode:
https://www.bauthenticinc.com/podcast/episode/254fbde9/119-3-hacks-for-asking-powerful-questions-that-put-you-in-the-pole-position
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“I’ve got a coach!”
You may have heard colleagues or friends mention how they’ve invested in a coach to level up their career. Instead of feeling pumped though, it left you puzzled, a little skeptical, and often wondering what they really got out of it.
In today’s episode, we’re taking the nebulous concept of coaching and what it can offer, by chatting with one of Erin’s coaching clients, Jen Shoop, founder and “Woman in Charge” of Shoop Consulting.
You’ll hear Jen spill how coaching helped her transition from ‘corporate weenie’ (her words) to full-time entrepreneur and powerhouse CEO of her successful consulting company.
If you’re interested in BS-free career coaching, Erin offers several programs that will help you reach your goals in a way that feels most authentic to you. Visit https://www.bauthenticinc.com/authentic-programs to get started.
Email Jen at shoopconsulting@gmail.com
Connect with Jen on Linkedin
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Covid shook the corporate world upside down. Instead of heading into work, you went to your makeshift desk, grimaced through virtual meetings as your kids yelled “mom!”, and had no human contact outside of your home whatsoever.
Cut to a year and a half(ish) later and we are starting to see hints of normalcy. Heading back to work is one of them.
In this episode, Erin and Nicole share their top six reasons why you should be pumped to ditch the work from home signature sweatpants and messy bun look and be excited to go back into the workplace and rock it. Hint: Sun Chips are high on the list.
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Have you been told you need more “Executive Presence” and are left wondering, “What does ‘Executive Presence” even mean?!” Or do you ever wonder what do recruiters and hiring managers look for in the talent they seek out?
This week Erin talks with Britt Bloch, Vice President of Talent Acquisition Strategy and Recruiting at Navy Federal in April 2021. This interview will give you all the 3D information and inspiration you need to answer those questions, and more.
Britt not only has a unique, inside-view into the world that is a black box for so many, her own story of success and bucking the norm will inspire you to do things your own way. Britt’s unique take on authentic leadership as well as finding talent with grit, resilience, and gravitas is without a doubt, Britt’s secret sauce.
In this episode, you’ll hear how Britt believes you should top shrinking to make someone else comfortable and instead be yourself, find a company culture that’s ready to embrace you, and never worry about Executive Presence again.
Follow Britt on Linkedin
Check out Britt's Website
Busting the Myth of Executive Presence
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Ever had a meeting with an executive and it didn’t quite go as planned? Instead of a clear and focused conversation you felt like you were word-vomiting your brilliant ideas, leaving the executive overwhelmed and completely burnt out?
In this episode, Erin and Nicole share corporate career advice with three tips on how to communicate with executives authentically that will help you not only feel more confident, but also stand out.
(Nicole also gives herself grades on each, and spoiler alert, they’re not great.)
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Links mentioned in the episode
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In this episode, Erin hosts an intriguing interview with Elisa van Dam, Vice President of Allyship & Inclusivity at Simmons University, as well as the co-author of the survey, “The Importance of Authenticity in the Workplace”.
Erin and Elisa dive into the results of research conducted and a survey derived from participants at their annual Simmons’ Leadership Conference entitled “Authenticity and Resilience”. Authenticity has always been at the heart of b Cause, but does the research tell us something different? Listeners get a view into their findings and Elisa’s perspective on the importance of authenticity, specifically for women in the workplace.
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Ever wonder why you’re not getting that promotion or that special project? In this week’s episode, Erin and Nicole talk mentors, sponsors, and introduce listeners to the never-talked-about....anti-sponsors! Yep, the people that can trump all the goodness that comes with a sponsor.
Well, the good news is that there are ways to get anti-sponsors on your team. Erin and Nicole discuss a fresh (and more authentic)way to tackle your anti-sponsor situation. Hint: the key is in being excellent, authentic, and aware of the conversations around you while nurturing relationships with those against you.
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Many company websites are nothing but facades with empty mission statements and value wheels. The concept looks good on the outside, but hollow on the inside. As Nicole put it: “To be your best authentic self, you have to be really mindful of everybody else in the experience with you.”
The good news is that with just a simple mindset shift you too can turn authenticity from a permission to a power. Hint: treated this way, authenticity will be a reflection on you, and it will all come back to you in amazing ways!
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BE MORE BANANA!! Erin interviews the incomparable and totally authentic Emma Stroud - Creator, Podcaster, Author, Speaker, MC, Coach, Businesswoman AND Clown. Emma is on a life voyage to persuade the world to adopt the life attitude to laugh, love and play more. Her stories will help you see there’s a greater connection between your disparate passions and a way to make money while having fun too. Authenticity is truly part of Emma’s character and without a doubt contributes to Emma’s success. As Emma says, “Have more fun enjoying your life!”, an attitude much needed. In this interview, you’ll hear Emma share unforgettable stories and the secret to her success as well as best practices in her many roles. While listening to Emma’s real-life anecdotes. it’s hard not to smile. I mean, who couldn’t use a little Orange in their life? Connect with Emma Stroud: Instagram: Linkedin: Podcast: Keep an eye out for Emma's book, Lessons From A Clown, which will be released on October 24th! Tweetable Comments “Be more Banana’ became a thing. Have more fun enjoying your life!” “If you see me, I’m 5 foot two and a half. So I’m not a threatening banana.” “Society dictates what we do in life is important.” “Adulting does not have to be serious.” “In all the status and job titles, people forget they are human.” “Masks and facades drop when people connect and remember they are human.” “The Realistic is not far from the Dreamer.” “As long as you are aware of your critic you are already in a place of change.” “Invest in yourself when you are happy and not just in times of crisis.” “Surround yourself with good people.” “Never use money as why you can’t; it’s just about being brave.” “If you want to change, you have to give yourself the space to slow down-from there anything is possible.” If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences.
Erin and Nicole are back and bring you a completely authentic, inside look at how they are planning to do a slight remod on the pod. In this episode you’ll get a peek behind the scenes of a brainstorming session between Erin and Nicole. You’ll hear how they are revamping (sort of) the b Cause podcast with fresh, focused work life topics and exciting, ambitious, authentic interviews with successful people. Tangible tips? You got ‘em. Practical advice? Check. Random and sometimes inappropriate stories? Yep, still in there. Authentic to the core? Of course. In the b Cause remod, Erin and Nicole plan to keep the best of the old while bringing in the best of the new. All of course to help you navigate the corporate BS and instead use authenticity as your secret weapon to success! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments “It’s become pretty clear that the themes may start out with Nicple talking about how she’s the Antichrist of everything we’re going to talk about.” “There might be some clues here to why I sometimes feel a bit of career stagnation.” “My number one interview tip? Don’t fcking interview me.” “She said, ‘When you meet with an interviewer you should let them lead.’ and I was like, ‘Oh that’s not what we’re doing here?’” “Sadly, my phone is a centimeter behind my kids in terms of saving it.” “I feel like I walked into the La boheme of Sucky Songs.” “Erin has used the word ‘context’ like 400 times tonight.” “I have? That’s super weenie.” “We want to better serve everyone.” “Capture your youthful energy by working smarter and more authentically.” “You are not special at work.” “We are back – badass and focused!”
“Show me the money!” Is that what it takes to succeed in this world? A bold, brazen approach? Although this week’s podcast guest, Molly Fletcher, has been called the “Female Jerry McGuire”, you’ll quickly learn that it was her authenticity, not her audacity, that drove her success. Now a highly successful speaker, 5x author, and consultant, Molly shares the secrets to her success plus the best practices of the high-profile athletes, coaches, and broadcasters she worked with. Molly shares stories you’ll never forget that prove she and others changed the game and how insights in their approaches can help you change the game in your career as well. Join Molly's monthly coaching huddles Enter b cause for $10.00 off If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments "If you’re authentic, kind, and real, people aren’t going to slam the door on you and walk away.” “When you ask for advice, you often get a job and when you ask for a job, you often get advice” “When you help people, when you add value to their lives, it gets harder for them to say ‘no.’” “Act like you have the business, before you have the business.” “They didn’t sit back and rest on their talent. Talent isn’t enough.” “How do you identify the gaps in the lives of people we serve and anticipate those gaps and close them?” “Get into the heads and hearts of people that you want to serve.” “How can I lean into who I authentically am, recognize the gifts in that and own that and see the superpower in it?” “Shift the story to ‘I’m worth it!’” “A negotiation is a conversation, and conversations are better when you have a strong relationship.” “Leaders forget what you do - kindly and authentically remind them.”
Space is the ultimate soil for creativity. I mean, we all know that our best ideas come when we’re in the shower, car driving, or DMV. Then why don’t we give space to ourselves more often? It’s so easy to get caught up in the “doing” that we forget that our best “doing” happens after we get space to breath and think. And that’s just what we want to give you this week on b Cause. Back from a brief hiatus, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant chat about what they've been up to since they've been away. You'll hear about 50th anniversaries, Nicole's namesake and hilarious escapades they've encountered while they've been gone. The two dive deep into the newly created National Authenticity Day - what it is, why it was created and how it plays a significant role for b Authentic inc. Erin and Nicole also share an announcement and what it means for the future of the b Cause podcast. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments "I'll trade in all the Rayguns and sex toys in the world for a good hair dryer." "And then, the coup d'état, the clencher, the bitch of all bitches-my hair dryer breaks the next day. " "You got NADS, we got NADS, one set of NADS to rule them all." "If you want to do it, you can freakin' do it. Create your own destiny." "Where is one place that you can take control?"
We spend so much time checking the boxes, doing what we think we're supposed to do, and following the rules. But is that what people actually want from us? This week, Erin sits down with her authenticity "Ground Zero" - her father - where he shares stories and inspiration of it's almost always those times when you stray from the norm that drive real, sustainable success (and make it a lot easier to love your job too!). This week we are given a glimpse into Erin's origin story. We hear where her passion for authenticity comes from, who inspired her in her life, and quite clearly where her storytelling ability comes from. Introducing: Erin's Dad. They start off discussing her parents' recent 50th anniversary, and Erin asks what her dad's tips are for making it to 50 years. He talks about always showing respect, knowing how to communicate...and knowing when to back off. Moving on, Erin talks about authenticity and how much of her inspiration came from her Dad, both in his career and personal life. Her Dad talks about his time as a teacher and how he thinks authenticity can be a key element to true success. they then share some work-related stories, and you can imagine a lifelong teacher has quite a few. Erin asks her Dad about the 'alter-ego' he would sometimes use while teaching. To try and help explain the metric system, he created an alter-ego character - Mr. Billy Boombah. With a popped-collar, upside-down glasses, and a rather questionable accent, he managed to reinvigorate the class. Erin asks how easily her Dad made the switch from teaching into real estate, which skills carried over and what was more difficult. Her Dad discusses one of the most important aspects to his work in real estate (and which definitely carried over from teaching), building a connection. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Respect. We have a lot of respect for each other. We know how to communicate...and when to back off." "I don't know how you can be successful if you don't enjoy what you're doing." "The true hack is to reverse it and ask, 'What would I want in that situation?'" "You have to find a way to build a connection with people." "Part of the reason you had this new energy was that you had this new challenge, something to figure out." "If you meet an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole. If you meet assholes all day, you're the asshole." (Quote from Raylan Givens in Justified) "Beer is like blue eyeshadow, you can never have enough."
We all know what it is. That thing that we say, "If I ever win the lotto, I'll do (it) for a living." But what if your dream career, or even your hobby, can not only be the thing you do for your "real" career, but something you could use to make people laugh, impact lives, and leave a legacy? That's exactly what Heather Tolley-Bauer did. After relocating for her husband's career, she decided to try some new things. Her first new thing she turned into her career. Now she's a Momedian, helping women and couples laugh more, stress less, and so much more. Erin kicks off asking about "First Half Heather" - what was Heather's story for the first part of her life? She gives us the crash course: married, un-married, worked in corporate, got re-married, built a career in public relations and communications at a large bank, then she moved south with her husband, became a stay-at-home mom (or as she jokes, a stay-at-home alcoholic). But she wasn't happy about her new stay-at-home status, so took the next logical step: comedy. Heather tells of her first step into the world of comedy, and how she went from there to running her own comedy production company, Hyphen Up. She talks about te difficulties of getting started in comedy, how it's a young person's game, and mostly a young MANS game. But, as a savvy businesswoman, Heather created a show to hook her audience, and now it's a sell-out show. A year into her newfound comedy glory, Heather was diagnosed with cancer. So, after the diagnosis, she really considered what she wanted her legacy to be, and she decided it involved comedy. Erin then asks Heather to discuss what it's like to raise awareness for cancer, what messages she wants to bring through her comedy, and her experience interacting and building relationships with audiences. They talk about empowering women through comedy; helping mothers realize they are better moms than they think, helping women to feel validated, and how it's fine for women to say no. Next, we find out why Heather has a vendetta against Influencers. They discuss the power of social media, and therefore the dangers, but also the possibilities, especially when you navigate it in an authentic way. Website: hyphenup.com IG: @hyphen_up LinkedIn: HeatherTollyBauer If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You sound so serious...that won't last long." "For the first time in my life I was a stay-at-home mom, and I was really pissed off about it." "I want people to embrace the part of their lives that makes up their story." "I can't play the young person game, I'm not a young person. But what I am is a really savvy businesswoman." "I was diagnosed with stage one colon cancer and that changed the trajectory of my entire life." "I was a total MILF. You know, a mommy interested in living past fifty." "I can love out of the spotlight and be fine; it's not my oxygen." "I understand what my purpose is, and it's not a Netflix special. It's making as many moms and women and couples laugh as I possibly can." "I am the first to admit I am not for everyone...and I don't lose any sleep over that."
It can feel so damn good to have the right answer or best idea in a meeting, eh? Bu t what if we told you, knowing stuff doesn't give you the most power? The most powerful person in the room is actually the person that asks the most powerful questions. In this episode, we talk about what impact asking a powerful question can have. Plus we give you three simple hacks to turn a poopy question into a powerful one. Erin's birthday was last week, so along with some other friends, her and Nicole had a last-minute rendezvous, which just so happened to align with national Pina Cola day. Nicole has a birthday quiz for Erin, and it's NOT about guys she dated in her 20's...or Patrick Swayze...though he manages to steal the show for a little while. They recap and discuss Nicole's solo episode from last week, with some reflection and insights into interviewing and recording yourself. On the subject of solo Nicole, she tells the story of her recent trip to a Lorean Spa and being "Scrubbed down by a really strong Korean Lady." "Is that an activity you do with friends?", they ask. Moving on to the topic of the week, Erin has three ways to turn a regular question into a power question. 1. Turn a "why" or "how" question into a "what" question. 2. Add in numbers: don't ask open ended questions, put actual numbers in. 3. Ask a "fill in the ___ (blank)" question. They discuss the power in these questions, what separates them from standard ways of questioning and the reasons why they are so impactful. Nicole also brings up, what environments do we need to create where people will feel comfortable enough to ask these types of questions. Erin points out that asking these questions in an interview can be a great way to flush that out, right from the start. They end with Erin asking Nicole potentially one of the most powerful questions she may ever have to answer. "What's the one Italian pastry that if you eat it, it will change your life forever?" Listen to find out her answer! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I ate my face off with the snacks. I ate all the snacks." "I look like I ate everyone's children." "I promise you now, a Patrick Swayze appreciation episode." "Sociopaths get shit done." "This is why I wear black all the time, and I haven't changed my hair in 20 years." "It was like a nail salon with industrial prison showers out back." "The primary purpose isn't to get the answer, it's to get the connection." "Almost any questions you ask, if you add in some sort of limiter, scale, or numbers, it will exponentially increase the value of that conversation." "A great question inspires a discussion all on it's own." "You don't get good questions without a good environment in which to ask them."
Have you ever wondered what it's like to talk to yourself for an hour out loud? Was that the last year in COVID? Nicole takes a skill she built up over a year of mostly solitude and goes "so-loca" (solo + a little bit crazy) and takes to the pod for an episode by herself. Despite lack of epic orchestration and live audience she envisioned for such a debut, Nicole answers questions that listeners want to know, like what set her on her current life path? This happens to be - without too many spoilers... Bagels!?!? And how does something doughy, delicious and yet 'not-a-doughnut' inspire a life? And how does the Ivy League and her vision of 'crime boss economics' play into this? Better listen and find out. This week Nicole goes solo, responding to her growing mailbag and audience queries while Erin is working on BIG THINGS (ahem...National Authenticity Day is coming August 16th!) Listeners have stuff they need to know from Nicole. Why does she do this podcast and share her "business" so openly? How does it serve her? What the heck is her academic background and how did she get here? Nicole gives insight into her relationship with Erin, how and why she is so willing to have her life examined and explored the way it is on the podcast. Erin may be pushy and have some compromising photos, but that only explains part of it! One question on listeners minds is about her education, and specifically her thoughts on prestigious colleges especially when it comes to her "blue-collar background". What is the value? What is the cost? And how does one get into such a school without the right pedigree (and what does that actually mean?!) Nicole dishes a bit on on that colorful and more importantly, outside of it. And how did she get there - Did she set a world record in something? Did she cure a rare disease? Was she an amazing athelete? Oh hell no, really. It was...Bagels. (Anyone surprised food is involved here?) When a world-famous bagel empire, which grew out of her hometown in New Haven, started a program to fight racial intolerance back in the 1990's, Nicole found herself headed to Poland, Czechoslovakia (at the time) and Israel to learn about the Holocaust and its aftermath. This truly developmental experience has stuck with Nicole ever since and was the bedrock upon which she built a mindset and path that continues to inform and lead her to where she is today. Even if visiting Auschwitz sounds really tough, as she puts it, "everything is better on a bagel." Coming back to modern day, and what's ahead, listeners want to know what book she would write, if she were to write one. Obviously, her dad, throwing a few punches in Middle School, organized crime and economics is involved. That's Nicole, always finding inspiration in her roots. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's a little bit of a skill to interview yourself, so you'll have to give me some grace on this one." "If you don't like the sound of my voice, this episode is not for you." "I'm a risk taker, I try not to live small." "There's a certain level of confidence that allows me to show how the sausage gets made. What do I have to hide?" "I didn't necessarily have the skills and tools to live the lifestyle or to have the experiences my peers were having. In the end I'm deeply grateful for that because it made me more resilient." "The best thing you can do is to make sure your child has the tools that they need to think for themselves." "I know visiting Auschwitz doesn't sound like anyone's version of summer camp...but it had a profound impact." "Those bagels, they changed my life." "I am a shadow of what the excellence of my dad is." "Treat everyone life they're your next boss." "Sometimes you have to know the value of letting the kid with no skill play on the team, because now they're part of a team." "Learn how to be alone. Do you know how to make decisions, can you take action, can you entertain yourself, can you think through problems and challenges..." "Are you able and willing to learn and to do?" "Take no for an answer, but then fucking leave. Keep moving."
"You should make an audiobook." Something Erin's heard over and over. And while she completely agrees, she's been a bit paralyzed, not knowing if she should read it or she should hire a trained professional. So, instead of waiting for perfection, Erin and Nicole decide it'd be a good idea to simply start here. To have Erin read a few chapters of the book. For those of you who haven't read it yet, it'll give you a great opportunity to try it on for size. And for everyone, we'd love your feedback. Should Erin record it herself, or should she hire someone else to read it? (only authentic feedback welcome though!) We truly hope you'll find a connection for you while listening to the first two chapters. everyone involved here at b Autetic Inc honestly believes this book can help so many people in so many different ways. Here are just a few of the reader reviews: "I hate self-help books. The fact that I cracked open your book and am already on Part 2, and only stopped to pee, shows that this is THE book for people that hate self-help books." "Hook, line and sinker...I am loving it so far. Laughing a lot. Feeling all the feels...This is brilliant!!!!" "I'm not bullshitting you. I loved every page. I probably should've told you ahead of time that I've hated almost every book I've picked up in the last few years because it's the same shit. Executive presence (barf) nonsense that makes everyone think they have to fit a mold. I can't wait to use the book in some of my mentoring. I know you'll have incredible success with this. I needed You Do You(ish) more than I knew. "I honestly felt like you were in my living room coaching as I read it the whole time!" "Wow! I started reading it right away on Monday night until I couldn't keep my eyelids open anymore. I gobbled up the rest of the book and scribbled notes along the way! Chapter 26 had me in tears." Buckle up, get ready to throw out tradition and do things your own way too! To order You Do You(ish), simply go to Amazon and type it in. To give feedback on this episode or on anything else, please join our b Cause podcast Facebook group or send an email to If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Being and doing authenticity in the workplace isn't about you, it's about the connection with others." "Don't hate, recreate." "Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius, and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." - Marilyn Monroe "I consider myself an Instant Gratification Whore." "Yeah, no shit there's a problem, how do I actually fix it?" "I hate books. And if there's one thing I hate more than books, it's a hypocrite. And yet, here I am." "Do it your own way." "A person can re-write the rules." "You are a badass." "Chasing rewards left you feeling like you were running on a treadmill." "Getting over that wall in order to go for the big jobs would mean having to compromise something even bigger, your soul." You can have a better overall life while simultaneously crushing your career." "I don't believe in changing people. I believe in changing people's addictions." "Get ready to get addicted to authenticity."
Hybrid, Hybrid, Hybrid! That's one of the hot new business buzzwords these days. But, what if that is just the book dust cover to what our new world may look like? This week, Erin and Nicole dive into a new study by Microsoft that lifts that dust cover (or, more like the plastic sofa cover your Aunt Rita has had on her couch for 30 years) on what employees are really thinking and talk about more than a world where you have to empty out Jose's two-day-old Hot Pocket wrapper from your shared garbage. Nicole and Erin leave you with lots to think about, including some inspiration as you think about your own "hybrid" - your afternoon of life. Erin tells Nicole about her preparation for two big virtual talks she is giving and how ll-consuming they can be - physically and mentally - especially for a non-binary thinker like Erin, whose brain is constantly shooting off new ideas. Erin's WTF of the week involves a story of the technical difficulties of one of those virtual talks. With the streaming service broken, Erin ended up thinking she was giving a recorded talk instead of a live talk. But at the end she realized people jumped on Webex midway through. Minor disruption from a dirtbike outside Nicole's house tees her up for a funny story of someone who she saw plow headfirst into a traffic sign while on their moped. Then she moves on to discuss her authentic so hard of the week - when she was asked to introduce a hair show at the local arts festival. What's a hair show? Well, you'll have to listen for all the details on that, but the real story is about the troubles Nicole aced that day. As a show that was created from the traditions of black communities in America, a show commencing on Jubilee day, you can imagine some people took issue with Nicole being the host. Well, Nicole fully understands, appreciates, and accepts that...but no one told her that beforehand. So, after days of preparing a speech that could hold up under these circumstances. Nicole threw out the speech on the walk to the stage, and instead told a funny hair story of her own, to bring everyone together with humor. And it worked. The authentic approach she took in the moment, with no preparation, could not have been a better idea. Nicole also has a WTF of the week when she was asked to attend a planning meeting call for a pre-meeting. Yes, you read that right. A planning call, for a pre-meeting. Oh, and it was on Father's Day (a Sunday of course). This leads into a quick discussion regarding worker satisfaction, and how it's estimated that 41% of the global workforce are considering leaving their employer this year. This comes frm the recent Microsoft Work Trend Index. This 2021 report has seven key findings. 1. Flexible work is here to stay. 2. Leaders are out of touch with employees and need a wake-up call. 3. High productivity is masking an exhausted workforce. 4. Gen Z is at risk and will need to be re-energized. 5. Shrinking networks are endangering innovation. 6. Authenticity will spur productivity and wellbeing (This one won't be a surprise for our listeners!) 7. Talent is everywhere in a hybrid working world. Erin and Nicole then talk through each of these points, interpreting them, challenging them, developing them, giving a detailed discussion on the future of the working world, the people at the heart of it, and the steps we all need to take to ensure the future is brighter and better than the past. Finally, they leave you with this quote by Carl Young. "Thoroughly unprepared, we take the step into the afternoon of life. Worse still, we take this step with the false presupposition that our truths and our ideals will serve us as hitherto. But we cannot live the afternoon of life according to the program of life's morning, for what was great in the morning will be little at evening and what in the morning was true, at evening will have become a lie." If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I am delicious and delightful." "Something must have been in retrograde because I felt like breaking things all day." "Of course, it's not their fault. It's somebody else's fault. Everyone at a big company owns just one fingernail of responsability." "As I walked up to the stage, I threw my speech out and instead told an authentic story. And it worked." "I had a planning call for a pre-meeting..." "Over 40% of the global workforce are considering leaving their employer this year." "Look, I was also really busy shoving a baked potato in my face rather than reading the article." "The difference between Nicole and I: she's like 'I only skimmed it', and I'm like, 'That's all I ever do." "We might be facing the same shitstorm, but if you're in a yacht, and I'm facing a tsunami in a canoe, it feels a little f***ing different." "How much structural change can you actually embrace to try and overcome some of this stuff." "When the pandemic hit, internal teams collaborated more, but external teams collaborated less." "Authenticity will spur productivity and wellbeing." "Be authentic, do that. But are you also encouraging a culture of authenticity?" "If you're in the wrong neighborhood, get out. But don't wait for the perfect house because you won't find it. Renovate your house with your own authenticity."
What if you could stop leaning into your career, and instead could have the confidence to go all-in? This week Erin talks with Erin Lydon, Managing Director for Poker Powher, a company that teaches women how to play Texas Hold'em and then helps them translate their newfound poker skills to compete and succeed in business, finance, and so much more. Erin Haztikostas starts off by asking how Erin Lydon's career started. While in Business School at Northwestern, she realized that the guys were taking big-paying finance jobs on Wallstreet, so she decided that was the place to be. She then decided to leave the workforce to raise her two daughters, after struggling (understandably) to work in such a busy environment and do that plus be a good wife and mother well. After a pause to raise her kids, Erin L. went back to work, first as a board member for a few companies. She later joined Evil Geniuses as their strategic advisor. Then, mere weeks before we were all hit by Covid, she took on the role as General Manager at Poker Powher. Erin H. asks how Erin L. was able to take a break from such an intense career and workforce, for such a long period of time, and then walk back into a job many people struggle to get who have never taken time out of work. Erin L. talks through the power and importance of maintaining your networks and connections, even (especially) when you're not looking for a job. Erin L. explains how she started working at Poker Powher and how the emergence of Covid could have very easily put an end to the business. However, they found a way to pivot to a virtual model. They discuss how learning poker, and practicing the game, can teach women so many skills they need to succeed at work. Erin H. asks what our listeners can do on their own to start to experiment, and what programs Poker Powher has for newcomers, especially individuals who might not consider going to something like this. She follows this up by asking. "What's the biggest, strategic thing you have done as a strategic poker player, that has helped her career?" Erin L. talks about how her newfound understanding of the power of observation helps her pause and gather more information at work, helping her have more successful interactions and results in all that she does. Learn more at pokerpower.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I worked on Wallstreet when pay was secret and pregnancy was hidden. That's not ok. Not 20 years ago and definitely not today." "I have continued and maintained relationships, and that's how doors were opened for me at Evil Geniuses." "I'm always selling. Even when I'm not selling...I'm always selling." "I wasn't still networking because I wanted to. I was doing it because I was sat at home bored with toddlers and what else was I going to do?." "When she first told me about Poker Powher, I said 'that's a terrible idea.'" "We do teach you how to bluff, but we also teach strategic thinking, quick decision making, computation, and risk assessment." "It's so exciting to see this transformation of 'I didn't know anything, and a year later I'm teaching this game to other women." "There are very few women who allocate capital and who are making decisions around capital." "They're going after positions that maybe they don't have the qualifications for, but suddenly they have the courage." "In poker, aggression is a positive word. It's being assertive at the table."
"Hi, I'm Sally and I've spent 27 years working in the healthcare space. I've held several leadership roles including in project management, product development, and strategy, I'm now the head of blah, blah, blah." Ugh, so many times we waste the most incredible opportunity to make a great first connection. If instead you use the power and principles of strategic authenticity, you can turn that snoozer of an intro into a doozer of a connection. And that's what we'll help you do in this week's b Cause podcast episode. Erin and Nicole kick things off with a quick story from Erin's most recent workshop and a song that a participant recommends that fits perfectly with the company's A-HOLE Manifesto (Authentic Humans Overhauling Lousy Energy). We also find out that Nicole is a total metal-head! They then discuss the world starting to re-open, with Erin being able to take her son to a hockey game and actually enter the rink to watch. Nicole asks Erin about her recent TV/Video productions trip. She gives the behind-the-scenes on her shoot for a new speaking reel she's putting together. Moving on to the WTF moments of the week, Nicole starts off with a story about her quest to find the perfect bra. Biggest Lesson? Don't buy a bra from an Instagram ad! Nicole has also got into the habit of buying herself a present every time she spends a day at work without having a freak-out. She shares a story about the savvy marketer at Dunkin Donuts who may know about this new indulgence and successfully pitched her a box of "stale-ass" munchies at 5:30 in the afternoon. Erin has her own donut story too, where she learned the power of the term, YOLO. You know all those times you have to introduce yourself, often giving a mundane summary of your resume while everyone else zones out and/or doesn't listen as they think about what they're going to say? Instead, Erin teaches you to seize the opportunity to immediately connect by compiling a humility moment and a big brag, all rolled up in a fun and intriguing story. She discusses the differences between an un-intriguing and an intriguing introduction, and how making this small change can make a huge impact. Erin then walks Nicole through the process (so get your pens out and follow along!) Erin explains the importance and power of all three components, and how storytelling shouldn't be seen as time-consuming or selfish. Instead, the listener will jump right in and make their own story right alongside you. After Erin's feedback on Nicole's first try, Nicole then tells the story again, and, well, when you hear it you'll understand how impactful the Intriguing Intro can be. Now go find and tell yours! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "That's your summer PSA everybody. As you get back out into the world, get dish soap." "I'm buying this bra. In fact, I'm so "in", I'm buying two." "If I don't have a work freak-out one day, I'm buying two." "she sold her stale-ass 5:30pm Munchkins to me, no problem." "You're the second middle-aged person who has told me about discovering the world YOLO." "We become a summary of our resume. Instead, we need an intriguing intro." "One of the biggest misconceptions about storytelling in the workplace is that people will get annoyed that you're taking up too much time." "I love helping people get to a place where they have better problems than they had yesterday." "This is the time to reframe yourself." "I have some good news to end the podcast with...the replacements bras have shipped."
This week we're re-playing a favorite episode of ours, What To Do When Your Boss is a Bully. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another "How Was Your Week?" episode, and this time, they're actually in the same room! They talk about everything from Erin's new fascination with Dr. Scholl's shoes - they're stylish, they're affordable, they're damn good for your feet - to tackling obstacles by breaking them into manageable milestones. Erin and Nicole catch up in person with laughter, good food, and good advice. They discuss the problems and suggest solutions to 'Boss Bullying'. What is it? How to identify it. How to deal with it, and approach it from an appropriate place. They both share stories of their own, and others, of times they have had to deal with bullying behavior in the workplace, and this conversation could help many out there facing the same issues. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's like voyeurism. It's a form of Suburbian Pornography." Nicole regarding Reality TV/Podcasts. "You're the Urban in my Suburban." "They're shoes made of sustainable materials...now we just have to ask about their policy on child labor, but other than that..." "Am I neuro-typical?...I've gotta make sure you're not making shit up ith those big words you use." "The point is not to lose weight. The point is to be more self-loving. Because I'm shitty at that." "We have to take obstacles and break them in to much smaller milestones." "I have this defiant part of my brain that always says, 'you're not gonna tell me what to do' even if it's me telling it what to do - my inner two-year-old." "In this world of collaboration and open management, even people at your own level, people with any amount of control - there is varying levels of bullying that goes on." "You have to stick up for yourself. And you have to go right back at them in a way that is appropriate and authentic for you." "Once you start feeling uncomfortable, once your gut says that it's inappropriate, the first thing you do is start documenting." "If you can take a deep breath, if you can take a moment, you can then acknowledge it and deal with it." "The one thing that always sticks with me is how insecure bullies are." "HR is not there specifically to help employees. They are there to protect the company." "The Godfather is the best management guide you've ever seen. And nobody likes a rat. So you have to be careful about how you go about sharing your story." "You have to create your own tribe to help you survive." "We all have the ability and responsibility to recognize and make change in our own lives." "Your best defense mechanism is to be f*cking excellent." "You have to wear your insecurities on the outside. Their own insecurities drive them. Because they pray on yours. There's no fuel. They're going to implode or moce onto somebody else." "The universe listens to the brave."
Fake it 'till you make it. You've heard that one a few, three...thousand times, eh? Well, what if that was the worst advice you could ever hear? Instead, Leslie Ehm wants you to focus on bringing your "swagger". And no, swagger isn't what you think it is (it actually looks and smells a lot like authenticity). Listen in to this high0energy and hilarious interview with the queen of swagger, and how you can practice getting your swagger on, so you can be everything you are and get everything you want. This week Erin sits down with former TV host and advertising Creative Director turned training guru, Leslie Ehm. She's a sagger coach, training guru, speaker, and now the best-selling author of "swagger: Unleash Everything You Are and Become Everything You Want." Erin kicks off by asking Leslie about herself pre-Swagger, especially when she worked on TV. Leslie grew up in Montreal but moved to London where she lived for 17 years. She discusses her start as a singer in a band and then landing a TV hosting gig. But, she quickly realized they wanted her to be a female Jerry Springer and she wanted to be a white Oprah. Erin asks if there was a certain moment when Leslie realized what she wanted to do, when she realized the power of her own "swagger". Leslie talks about working with someone who she clashed heads with a few times, because she has been putting on a persona at work. Then Leslie worked with her to just be herself, and she has since become the youngest VP of the company. Erin asks Leslie what the biggest clockers are that she has seen while coaching clients. Leslie says, although it's different for everyone, fear and insecurity are the most common (or the most easily identifiable). Erin follows this by asking Leslie, "How does radical change happen?" Leslie discusses the entrenched cultures in corporate workspaces, how people as individuals are now more capable (and ready to try) to change up those cultures to something more authentic. Erin asks Leslie her thoughts on "fake it till you make it"...she does not like it at all. Leslie says that true confidence only comes as a result of competence, a strong skillset can carry you through, whereas setting yourself up to "fake it till you make it", will only limit your own abilities. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm so good at fing up, that I can do it when I'm talking about how I fed up." "Someone gets to do that cool thing so why not you?" "People at their very core just do not believe they could be who they really were and still achieve success." "She has been her badass, authentic, real, unleashed self. As a result, she is unstoppable, unshakeable, unquakeable." "I want to get to a place where I can speak my truth and believe myself." "Pain is memory." "We are all human, we are all a mess, and we all struggle." "Do you want to be seen and valued, or be in a prison of your own design." "It's not a platform problem, it's not an A.I problem. It's a people problem." "When you pay people a lot of money for a long time, they lose touch with reality." "Never 'fake it till you make it', because confidence can only come from competence." "What we need is self-belief, confidence is overrated." "If you spend all your time looking up, then you're not looking in."
You know the call...it goes something like this, "Hey Max, I'm calling to give you the heads up that they're doing a reorg, and you'll now be reporting to Jocelyn." Immediately you think, 'I don't have the energy to impress yet another new boss. I just really got into a groove with my current boss!' Well, the good news is that there is a better way to approach your "new boss" situations. In this episode, Erin and Nicole discuss a fresh (and more authentic) way to tackle your infinity boss situation. Hint: the key is in the questions, not the answers. Erin and Nicole kick off another authentic catch-up discussing their favorite summer wine - Vinho Verde. With things slowly beginning to open up again, they also discuss their feelings about going back out into the world. They decide that it should be a "rager" of a summer (however you define "rager") and also declare it the year of no shoulds. Erin then announces that they're creating the first-ever National Authenticity Day, which will be held annually on August 16th. They move on to their WTFs of the week. Nicole refinances her house, which can be a stressful time, but after seeing the five digits when out in front of her she...well shall we ay she was extremely proud of herself and may have slightly lost control of her bodily functions. Erin has a story about an old boss, who she had for only three weeks and she was convinced was firing her one day. This leads into a discussion on bosses, how to approach them, including how to mentally prepare yourself for organizational change at work. Erin coaches Nicole, and the listeners, that it's all about asking powerful questions and connecting. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm socially conscious, but also fashionable and ready for anything - that's sort of my party mantra." "It's not the year of yes it's the year of no-shoulds." "Obviously, Authenticity Day will be me, behind the snack-shack at your place, making snow cones." "There's only one rule for National Authenticity Day; there are no rules." "Unfortunately, this revolving door of bosses is not uncommon." "Authenticity isn't about you. It's about creating connections and trust exponentially faster than going through the motions." "When people care about what you think, there's not much people love more than that." Don't come at it as if you're a risk, come at it like you're a reward." "Don't beat around the bush." "In an interview, it's not about answering questions, it's about HOW you answer them."
Isn't it funny how we're so good at delivering on everyone else's expectations, but yet we rarely set our own expectations? In this crazy do-everything-culture, it's more important than ever to schedule ourselves too (first?)! If you're ready to take a layover off the crazy train but don't know where to start, listen in to this week's episode as Erin talks to Tameika Isaac Devine, a lawyer, public servant, and work-life integration strategist. Tameika knew she wanted to be a lawyer since she was six, so after graduating she started law school and became a prosecutor for sexual and domestic violence. She ran for a seat on her City Council, and after winning the seat in 2002 she became the first African American ever elected, the first African American female elected, and the youngest person elected. And now she is running for Mayor, and if she wins will be the first female Mayor. Erin asks Tameika how she went from her idea to taking action, and what mindset she was in to be able to take that step. Tameika was prosecuting sexual and domestic violence cases, and they had a very antiquated system. She saw how the system kept letting women and families down. She was raised to not complain without offering a solution, and to get up and run for City Council, and be the person making the changes. Tameika was told that she would be unable to continue working as a prosecutor while she ran for office, so she had to rethink her next career move. The universe had a plan though, as two people she knew from Law School had decided to start their own firm. They asked Tameika to join them. Being an inspirational trailblazer, she was invited to panels to give talks and lead workshops, often discussing how she was able to maintain such a good work-life balance. Her answer? She came to the realization that "work-life balance" doesn't exist. So, she started wondering, how can she share those insights with other people? Which is when she started her business, Possibilities Institute. Erin asks Tameika what her biggest tip for work-life integration is, and one that people won't have heard before. She says to recognize that every person is different, so what works for someone else, might not work for you. She also says not to lean into expectations. If you have to go to your kids play and also go to a meeting for work, be honest with yourself, think about what you can actually get done, then be honest with everyone else to create realistic expectations. Erin then asks what advice Tameika has for those people who are managing their work and personal lives, and finding time to fit everything in, but it's completely draining them, leaving them fatigued by the end of the week. Tameika says they might be missing personal time that's just for them, so make sure to schedule that in. Whether you're the sort of person to write "bubble bath and wine" on your calendar or not, it's important to stay on top of how you are managing yourself too. They move on to discuss what people are struggling with the most amid Covid. Erin wants to know how tameika has helped people shift their mindset and attitudes towards home working. Tameika says to slow down and figure out how to stop yourself from being pushed into a realm where you are over-worked and over-scheduled. Figure out your end goal and how you can accomplish it. Ultimately, the key is to stay productive, not busy. Erin asks Tameika about the challenge of carrying some of these things out, and Tameika explains that challenges are inevitable, but how we approach them determines whether we are successful, not if we actually make it to the end goal. As a final tip, Tameika wants to challenge the listeners to go outside their comfort zome, because when you push out of this zone you start to understand your resilience and your capabilities much more deeply. Website: Socials: @tameikaisaacdevine If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I really felt how government could help, and how government could hurt." "I thought when I'm successful, it's not just about helping me, but it's about helping other people." "The reason I look like I have it all together, and I've mastered the work-life balance, is because I've come to the realization that 'work-life balance' doesn't exist." "Recognize we're all different people, what works for them might not work for you." "You can read all the books, you can get all the tips, but that doesn't mean your outcome will be the same as someone else's." "Stay productive, not busy." "Challenges are a part of life, but they are there to push us, not to defeat us." "Stretch yourself out of your comfort zone. If you're uncomfortable, then you're doing the right thing."
Why does it seem that the duty and obligation to give yourself "self-care" often creates more stress in of itself? Instead, what if self-care doesn't need to be appointments and breaks, meditation and pictures? What if self-care can be defined however the frick you want to define it and practiced on the regular, instead of some stop-in-time moment. This week you'll learn to define self-care as anything you want it to be. And once you do that, it'll be so much easier to integrate it into your everyday life. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet nearby Erin's new "snack shack" for another catch-up episode. They quickly dive into the apparent news of the week: Nicole being fired. No wait, she wasn't fired, everyone just...thinks...she was? But that isn't even Nicole's WTF for the week. She shares a story about an apparent mystery work phone and number...that she didn't know she had for a year+. Erin shares her WTF moment that's lingered for the last month. Erin received a connection from the executive producer of Last Week Tonight (freak out moment). Turns out they were looking for a career coach. Nicole tells her authentic-so-hard of the week, after meeting an artist in a bar she found herself naked and covered in paint, in a basement with a bow and arrow. She took part in a living art project and became the canvas for a body painting artist. This leads into a conversation about how taking chances and doing things you've always had at the back of your mind but never taken the step towards realizing it is actually an expression of self-care. What is your definition of self-care? Are your actions serving you? A pedicure might be your definition of self-care, but maybe learning a new skill is your definition. As Erin says, "What lights you up? What revitalizes you?" Nicole comes in with another story from her self-care experiences, this one is from her birthday when she was given an in-home sauna, is it considered self-care? We want all of you audience members to let us know your self-care routines, or what you'd like to try as a new self-care routine. Join the b Cause podcast Facebook group and let's work together to redefine self-care. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "People called me asking 'Oh my God, were you fired?!' and I was like 'What? I just took yesterday off..." "This is like faking my own death. I should enjoy it!" "So now I start every conversation with 'Oh by the way, have you been calling this number for years?'" "Let's get through my story, so we can get to your stank." "This is the stuff I can do when I'm a but more sober." "Fantasies are frolicking in front of my face." "This episode we might just ask Nicole to tell every story of her life." "You meet an artist in a bar and all of a sudden you're naked, covered in paint, in a basement with a bow and arrow." "My self-care is learning and doing something I don't know how to do." "Repitition is my Kryptonite." "Is there something you want that can serve you in a better way?" "I sat there, sweaty, dripping wet, with the tripod ready to take photos." "I came home and I thought, I'm just having Mac n Cheese for dinner...so I ate the whole box."
Do you consider yourself a bit of a "Weirdo"? If so, this is the episode for you. Our guest this week believes your weirdness isn't what separates you, but is actually the very thing that creates your greatest connections with others. Erin sits down with Shelley Brown, speaker, author, artist, mindfulness educator, and all around weird girl. Shelley is the founder of Weird Girl Adventures, and she's releasing her first book soon, Weird Girl Adventures from A to Z. (think: Judy Blume meets Sex in The City). Erin starts by asking Shelley what her definition of 'weird' is, and if there was a moment when her weirdness felt validated. Shelley Explains that trying to fit in for so long got to a point where she had a crisis at work from her stress response, what she found to help her, and what she would now suggest for others to do to help manage their stress levels. Shelley explains moving at a million miles an hour, never sleeping, over-thinking everything. She didn't know it could be any different. So, as soon as she figured out she didn't have to live in a constant state of stress, she wanted to share that with everyone she possibly could. Shelley talks about how she used rock music to try and understand mindfulness and meditation. Uhhh, pretty weird. And it works. Next, Erin asks Shelley about the concept of "bull-should". That is, when people tell you where you should be, who you should be, how you should be. "Should Shaming" runs rampant, and Shelley's fix for that is "allowing", instead of should-ing. This leads into a discussion on company culture and how effective mindfulness and individuality an be at turning the ecosystem of work into a much more humanized experience, which would then serve to optimize business outcomes. Finally, they talk about Shelley's upcoming book - a blend of Judy Blume and Sex and The City. Shelley tells us anyone can read this book...but you just have to be ok with vaginas. Follow and keep up to date with Shelley. Website: weirdgirladventures.com Instagram: weirdgirladventues Book: Weird Girl Adventures from A to Z (available everywhere) If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Ok peeps, it's about to get weird." "If you're bold and clear on what you care about and what your superpower is, you will find your people." "My weird was my itchy scratchy sweater I wore in heat that I couldn't take off." "Our weird doesn't know it's weird until it's judged by others." "When we are not seen as human beings it increases the stress response." "I really thought being a stressed-out mess was in my DNA." "We get to sit in the drivers seat and drive our awareness. And if we know we're veering off to some squirrel over there, we can steer it back." "We can't shut off our mind." "We are like the big retail salespeople in the world: 'Here, this fits you great!', but ultimately it's up to us to know what fits us." "You can have the safest, most epic culture, but you're coming with your narrative and your culture. And no safe culture is going to do the work that you need to do as an individual."
It's likely that every single human on this planet needs some dose of therapy right now. For some, professional help is necessary. But for many others, it may be as simple as crowdsourcing their therapy. We can all be part of each other's therapeutic regimen if we just slow down, ask better questions, and understand that we can all be part of the bigger solution - at work and everywhere. We hope this week's episode does that, in multiple ways, for you. This week, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant start by celebrating the b Cause podcast's two-year anniversay! Nicole tells us about her semi-unplanned birthday extravaganza weekend, swimming backstroke through hummus, overshadowing Easter and church visits for delicious Italian market food. Erin gives a quick look into her taxes this year and how her business is fairing, in the spirit of sharing her journey truthfully. Nicole coaches her through it, and they both agree that the investment will certainly pay off one day. This starts a discussion around embarrassment and shame and broader issues of mental health. Nicole mentions that the "coffee talk therapy" is gone from many people's lives now with Covid, and how people are now struggling to put words to their feelings. And with a rise in domestic abuse, gender abuse, and LGBTQ abuse, Nicole has added some links to resources where anyone can go to look for help or peace of mind, or even just a conversation, to help with these difficult times. Erin wants us to slow down and ask more mindful questions. For example, stop asking "How are you today?" and instead ask "How are you on a scale of 1-10?". She thinks the first is an exercise in futility, whereas the second is a great foundation for a conversation and an entry point to help people when they most need it. Nicole thinks the workforce is lacking a culture of accountability lately, with everyone working remotely. While Erin mentions the upcoming talent she thinks companies will face in the near future. RESOURCES FOR MORE HELP: SAMHSA National Disaster Distress Helpline. 1-800-985-5990 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8225) Covenant House Nine Line: 24-Hour teen crisis line. 1-800-999-9999 Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 741-741 LGBTQ: The Trevor Lifeline: 1-866-488-7386 Trans Crisis Line: 1-877-565-8860 National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I don't have time to go to church, but I do have time to go to every single Italian market." "so I went to all the markets, got all the food, flirted with all the guys at the meat counter." "I wanted to backstroke through the hummus and make angels in it." "Sometimes I'm not looking for solutions. I just want to talk through things." "It comes back to community. How do we serve each other?" "We may be energized. We may not be energized. We may want to punch energized people in the face. Who knows?" "I think this will be a test for the authenticness of authenticity." "Companies are going to face the biggest talent war they've ever faced." "I have to stop showing up where I'm needed. I have to show up where I'm loved." "Go forth, process, and prosper."
Could you use a vacation? Mel Miles' life mission is to give stressed out, overworked professionals permission to rewrite the script, create more space in their lives, and find the freedom they've always wanted. In this week's b Cause episode, we flip the script a bit and give you a dose of Soulcation and a dash of authenticity as we replay an interview Erin did on the Soulcation podcast. What better tool than authenticity to help you design a life you don't need a vacation from! RE-posted content from the Soulcation podcast Taking a break from "the way things have always been done"... could be your key to solving overwhelm, anxiety, and burnout. And blazing your own path could give you the balance and freedom you crave. No one knows that process better than Erin Haztikostas, the latest guest on the Soulcation Podcast. Erin is former corporate CEO turned professional pot-stirrer: in other words, she was successful in traditional circumstances, then took a different path and created her own circumstances. She's now the founder of b Authentic inc, a career coach, TEDx speaker, and nationally published thought leader. But before all that, she was itching for something new, she'd had great success as a corporate leader - but was craving more. "The epiphany I had is the same I teach time and time again", she said. "As I thought about the career and leadership space, and the reason I wasn't pursuing it was I didn't want to do it like everyone before. What I preach is don't not do something because you hate the way it was done before. You can actually do it your own way." That led to Erin developing her "strategic authenticity" framework - a way for corporate leaders to authentically lea their companies, without falling into the rut of the "way things have always been done," all while creating a healthier, happier work environment for employees. Authenticity is more than just "being yourself" - and Erin talks through her advice for how someone could tap into their own authenticity, and use it to jumpstart their life and career. We don't think of authenticity as anything more than simply being transparent. But it's so much more than that - and it could be your ticket to freedom, burnout recovery, and creating your own path in life. Listen in to hear more about Erin's story from corporate job to blazing her own path, what "strategic authenticity" actually is (and how you can use it in your own life), and how experimentation can help you determine your next move if you're ever feeling stuck. What You Will Learn: 3:35: Erin talks about her background as a CEO, her journey through corporate America, and when and why she started itching for something new. 6:40: The epiphany Erin had after her corporate career and how she teaches that same epiphany to her clients now 8:40: How Erin followed her intuition when leaving her job in the corporate world and what role experimentation played in that process 11:08: Erin explains how she defines the word "authenticity" 17:36: Erin describes how someone can connect with their own authenticity and who they truly are at their core 22:21: What "wall" Erin hits with her work now and how she moves past it 24:58: Erin explains what the "50 percent rule" is and how she applies it in her business 28:26: Erin describes a piece of her backstory that's allowed her the confidence to boldly express her opinions and to be authentic over traditional 31:51: Why Erin thinks the philosophy of "being yourself" isn't enough to truly live authentically 34:12: Erin gives advice for how someone could strategically use authenticity in their lives and their work 40:50 The six pillars of strategic authenticity that Erin writes about in her new book 44:02: The brain science and power being being "unexpected" Follow the soulcation movement @ If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences.
When you think about doing something new - small or big - it can feel scary. But what if you started thinking about your life as just a collection of millions of experiments where you're also collecting a million data points? One at a time. Erin sits down with Dr. Erin Baker, a Social Psychologist, elite-certified neuro-transformational coach, and authentic superstar, to talk about how we can shift our mindset to one of binary, stuck-in-the-mud thinking to a place where our work and growth is simply predicated on playful experimentation. Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Dr. Erin M Baker for an action-packed interview covering gender ideas and stereotypes, Dr Baker's studies in Social Psychology, their fascinating work at Facebook, their podcast, "Shift Starter", and the writing of Erin Baker's upcoming book. Doctor Baker, PHD, elite certified, has a mission to create a more authentic, connected, inclusive, equitable, and loving world. One person at a time. Erin is also queer and non-binary, fluidly moving between both genders as well as her overall identity. Erin (Hatzikostas), starts off by asking Dr Baker when they first started to have feelings that the stereotypical ideas of gender might not be well suited for them. Dr Baker explains that they have always had a love of basketball, and that it was traditionally a "boys sport", so they often asked themselves "Am I supposed to be a boy", which left them with a feeling they were always trying to figure out if they were one or the other. But in trying to fit into one gender, they felt like they were in a constant performance for who they actually were. It was at college when Erin B. started to meet other people with their own experiences, that they first started to realize it was possible to be fluid and be whoever you felt like being. Dr Baker tells us their feelings and thought process when deciding to have breast removal surgery, and their experiences since the surgery. Erin H. then asks what made Dr Baker go into the realm of Social Psychology. Dr Baker describes growing up with two academics as parents, and that played a part. Also believing that psychologists had things all (mostly?) wrong, and, although not knowing the right answer themself, they were curious enough to explore the field and make their own mark. After realizing writing academic papers might not be Erin's one true calling, they started to branch out. That's when an opportunity at Facebook came up. And where better to study people than a platform that hosts billions of people! After a few years working at Facebook and having achieved a lot across a wide and interesting scope of projects, Dr Baker asked themself "Is Facebook doing the good in the world that I want to do?". And when their mom fell sick and was hospitalized, it was a tipping point that made Dr Baker realize they wanted to have an impact on people and on their own terms. Erin transitions the conversation to ask Dr Baker what advice they would give to people who are struggling in their own way. Dr Baker says, "if you can see everything you do as a data point, it takes so much pressure off. IF you stop seeing everything as a success of failure, and instead a data point, it allows you to take more risks and relieves pressure." Following this Erin asks about "Shift Starters", a new podcast Dr Baker is hosting to explore people and work that ultimately creates a more authentic, connected, inclusive, equitable, and loving world. She also asks about the new book Dr Baker is writing. Dr. Baker has realized that after spending so long trying to achieve goals, the goal itself became almost meaningless. So instead of swimming through a proverbial ocean of proving, what if there was a piece of land where you were able to have fun and explore. And that is exactly what their book will you explore. Stay Tunes! Website: Facebook: Erin Baker Instagram: drerinmbaker If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Trying to fit into 'boy' or 'girl' left me feeling like I was constantly performing who I was." "Society tells you there are boxes and we want to categorize people." "And I realized, if I didn't try this then I would never be happy, and I needed to put myself first." "The cost of not standing out is far greater than the cost of doing so." "I thought this was a pretty progressive place...but I scared people out of restrooms, even at Facebook." "For a lot of people it's figuring out what is the worst-case scenario and then hovering around that." "The fear of 'what if I don't' just got to a place where it didn't matter what came from it." "Because there was always a part of me that just didn't understand me, I really wanted to understand people." "If you're hellbent on going to the Moon, you're going to miss signs saying you can go to Mars." "Treat everything as an experiment and treat it as the longest experiment of your life." "Clarity comes when you're in motion." "Getting out of the ocean of 'should' and 'they' and getting into 'what do I want and what can I do?'" "The curiosity of 'Can I?' will get you further along than you ever imagined."
We spend so much damn time trying to create change while following the rules that were "written" decades ago. Whether it's trying to affect massive inequities or just trying to create change for yourself, you cannot get there if you simply follow the rules. In this week's b Cause episode, Nicole and Erin give you several stories and inspiration to ensure you make real impact in the world and don't stay stuck at the "kids table" yourself. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another "How Was Your Week" episode to discuss equity, equality, and diversity. But what do those actually mean? And how do we even start to comprehend tackling the structures they exist within? They start by providing a few updates, including Nicole sharing her recent "hit and run" story, where she drives across her friend's lawn, knocking both the garbage and recycling bins into the street like some kind of Car-Bin-Bowling. (All after dropping off a bouquet of flowers!) Erin shares her own driving story, recalling she and her son driving home after hockey practice and driving 75 mph straight into a mystery animal/creature/beast stalking the roads at night. Following their driving antics, they get into the topic of the week: breaking the rules (when it comes to equity and equality). Erin shares a story of when she was asked to join a Board as a member alongside a CEO she had been working with. But after the team came back with the standard "Board playbook", she was only going to be offered an observer seat (i.e she could share her ideas but not vote on anything). Erin didn't nod "yes" though at the rules and playbook. Instead, she fought for a seat at the "adult table", recognizing that her situation was just the tip of the iceberg in why we struggle to get to gender equity in the workplace. Expanding on this, Nicole takes us through her thoughts on the subject, discussing the playbook for diversity in business, the difference between equity and equality, and whether companies actually have what it takes to make genuine structural changes. Erin then poses the question "How can individuals start to make change?", especially if the company they are in is not trying. Nicole answers this by talking about building teams and organizations with a core set of values that are not strayed from. Listen in for an episode full of insights, thoughtful questions, and an approach to equity, equality and diversity, that you probably won't find printed in the company HR manual! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm not a bad driver...I'm a bad night driver..." "I ran over everything on their front lawn with my pants on inside-out." "I may have trespassed a little bit, taken out your trash cans and created a public disturbance at the same time. But at least I didn't steal from your porch." "You don't get to equity and equality without breaking some rules." "That's what I would put on your headstone: 'They said don't do it, so she definitely did that.'" "You're not waiting for someone to die to get promoted to the adult's table." 2I think there's this measure of shifting to neutral." "Be a rule changer." "Male listeners, we need you to break the rules just as much as we do." As long as my driving isn't as bad as the tanker stuck in the Suez Canal." "You have to build teams and projects around a core set of values."
You've probably heard 1,834 times in the last year about how you have to think differently about fear. But what if the biggest fear you have is actually a fear of being "too much"? No, seriously. Think about it. How many times have you held yourself back because you have this weird, largely unidentified fear of simply being more than anyone can imagine (except maybe, you)? Erin Hatzikostas sits down with two-time New York Times best-selling author, a sought after speaker, and someone who thrives at the intersection of humor, justice, and professional troublemaking, Luvvie Ajayi Jones. Luvvie's Oriki: Luvvie of House Jones. First of Her Name. Assassin of the Alphabet. Bestseller of Books. Conquerer of Copy. Dame of Diction. Critic of Culture. Sorceress of Side-eyes. Eater of Jollof Rice. Rocker of Fierce Shoes. Queen of the Jones Kingdom. Taker of Stages. Nigerian Noble and Chi-Town Creator. Luvvie recently released her latest best-seller, "Professional Troublemaker, The Fear Fighter Manual", and in light of her booming success, Erin asks Luvvie all the questions. She starts by asking, "What would your grandmother say to you right now?" Luvvie says her grandmother would be proud, showing everyone the book constantly. She would feel honored. Erin then asked about Luvvie's Nigerian roots, and hoe they have shaped her. Luvvie explains how bold Nigerians can be... that they're not afraid to be themselves, but they also work together to bring those up around them. She explains how when she arrived in America she realized how different from other people she was, and while she hid parts of that to protect it, she never let it go, and she was never ashamed of it. They discuss topics on Luvvie's books, how dreaming big is already a privilege; there are things around us in life that tell us we have limits. Luvvie wants us to dream big in spite of those systems. They discuss just what dreaming big means and how it changes from person to person. Maybe you want a position that feels out of your reach, or maybe it's changing your career entirely and picking up a violin. It's about finding what you want to do, even if it feels too audacious. Erin asks Luvvie what she is dreaming of. Luvvie explains how hitting the New York Times Bestsellers list for a second time was her latest "airplane" dream. Not only did she make the list, she came in at number three. Luvvie tells the story of when she kept going, even after being told "no". After being asked to speak at a conference, she was refused any payment or reimbursement of travel expenses. After speaking with some people who had experience with the same conference, she started to realize that only white male speakers were paid or reimbursed in some way. That's when she decided, against her agents fears of repercussions, to speak up about it. Despite fears that speaking up would negatively impact her speaking career going forward, she spoke up. But guess what happened? She ended up having her most successful year to that point. Erin then poses the question, "Have there been times when speaking up has not worked out well?", Luvvie says she's absolutely had times where she's essentially "gotten in trouble". She explains that there will be times that you are not received well, but you need to tie your actions to your real-self, to your authenticity, regardless of whether it will land well. Erin asks Luvvie what advice she has for people who want their own voice, but they're not sure what to say. Luvvie says that even on the smallest scale, speaking up has power. Don't think you have to have a platform or a massive reach. For example, even if you are at dinner and someone says something you disagree with, use that moment to say the thing you need to say. They both then talk about breaking the rules and how the "rules" have led to rooms full of white men, closing off pools of people and thoughts from getting a "ticket" into the room. If the rules and traditions have led to situations like this, maybe instead of hiding behind rules and using them as an excuse, we should all strive to throw the rules away and make new ones. Erin then avails that she wrote her own Oriki: Erin of House Hatzikostas, First of her Name. Professional Pot-Stirrer. Authenticity Aficionado. Instant Gratification Whore. Shameless Speaker. Snarky Server. Math Master turned Audacious Author. Northeast Badass grounded by Michigan Roots. They end it all with getting Luvvie's insight into her favorite place to buy shea butter - but you'll have to listen until the end to hear that! Instagram: @luvvie Website: LuvvNation: https://www.luvvnation.com/ If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments:
I another of their melodramatic mini-series, "b Cause Work is Funny", Erin and Nicole take on Corporate America's ubiquitous and ever-present digital whiteboard, PowerPoint. This mini-podcast episode is perfect for you if you too have PowerPoint-phobia. Listen in for the quick-fix therapy you likely need to prevent you from hurling your computer against the wall. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "PowerPoint. The word in of itself is kinda disempowering." "I think PowerPoint's the single biggest, evil thing taking down Corporate America today." "I went to school for math. Not art." "In order to be taken seriously, you have to be able to do arts and crafts." "I was an executive and so people did PowerPoints for me. And I felt really dirty." "Oh, let's not do a huge 'page turn'. But I had 16 people working on this around the clock." "Have you ever looked at the fancies of PowerPoints? I can't figure out where the f*ck to put my eyes." "I'm the definition of coloring outside the lines. Maybe that's why I'm struggling so much." "PowerPoint seems to have become the dress suit of Corporate America."
It's easy to slip through life playing it safe. This week's guest challenges you to change your mind to wonder... if you were good at something the first time, maybe it wasn't hard enough. Erin Haztikostas sits down with LeRon Barton, a writer, author, 3x TEDx Speaker, and a fellow professional pot-stirrer to challenge your thinking about many things - from how you see race in America to how you think about the word, "failure". The interview starts out fast and furious, as LeRon gets straight into discussing how, before they hit record, Erin challenged him to update his website. Erin explains that, much like her high school basketball coach, she's the most forthright with people she cares about. Erin moves on to ask about LeRon's earlier years, growing up in the Midwest in Kansas City. LeRon talks about his experiences growing up as a black man in the Midwest, including getting the "talk" from his mom as she explained key things he needed to know to survive as a black man. He discusses his experience at the time of the horrific murder of James Byrd Jr. He then reflects on the situation as it is today, and the tightrope he has to walk every day just to exist. Erin asks how LeRon sees America compared to other countries in the world from the lens of race inequality. LeRon uses the lens of the industrial prison complex and explains how there are more black men in prison in the US than there are female prisoners in the world. She then asks how people in everyday life can act in ways that are supportive of less privileged people. LeRon explains that even small changes can make a huge difference. For example, people playing devil's advocate over race issues are never helpful, and people needn't act surprised at a black person's accomplishments or skills. As someone who has given multiple TED Talks, including his first talk, "How I Overcame My Fear of Stuttering", Erin is curious to ask about LeRon's stutter. He tells Erin he's had a stutter since her was young, so it is something he has simply learned to live with and not let it affect his life or his goals. LeRon explains that he started writing, but always kept the topic of stuttering close to his chest because it was too personal. To LeRon, though, a TED Talk is supposed to come from things personal and close to you, and for him that's stuttering. He discusses feeling like he couldn't be a speaker because of his stutter, but after realizing he's not a quitter, and that the reason he's never failed is because he never quit trying, he decided to do his first TED Talk on his stutter. Erin's final question to LeRon follows on from the talks of racial inequality. She asks LeRon to finish the phrase "I'll know we've made significant progress, and I can rest in peace, when I see X." LeRon says: "I'll know we've made significant progress when a black man or woman is president or CEO without it being a big deal." Website: leronbarton.com Linkedin: LeRon L Barton Twitter: @MainlineLeRon TED Talks: "How I Overcame My Fear of Stuttering", "The Power of Sharing Your Story" and "The Vital Importance of Documenting the Moment" If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The people we care about the most are the ones we should serve the most. And you don't serve by holding things back." "You can get anything you want in this world if you ask for it in the right way." "When you grow up in a situation like that, you learn who's full of it and who's not." "We would read about things and see images, but the savagery of this crime made us think it could happen to us." "I endure in spite of racism." "There are more black men in prison in America than there are female prisoners across the entire world." "America will say 'we hate white supremacy', but America practices it every day." "Playing Devil's Advocate is essentially saying 'I don't believe what you're saying is credible." "If I'm not going to be believed then why should I tell you? I'll just keep things bottled up." "I've always felt a TED Talk is something that should truly come from you." "FAIL: First Attempt In Learning." "If you are good at something the first time, then it wasn't hard enough." "When I truly started to embrace who I was, I was able to look at my stutter and see that it's a part of who I am."
Erin and Nicole meet for the 100th time on the b Cause Podcast! Well, their 101st time - and your 100th - because the first take recording was a complete hot mess. But there's a silver lining because Erin showed up at Nicole's house in person (also a hot mess) where the magic originally happened, and she kicked things off right by getting to experience the now-famous "dog-sized" treadmill. To celebrate the occasion - and being reunited (it feels so good!) - Nicole surprises Erin with a symbolic Bee/b Cause 100th episode gift (and sushi for four), and Erin...well Erin brings the wine and a non-plan. On to the celebration! As children of the 80s, they decide that Erin should host a Richard Dawson-style gameshow, something like "100,000-Dollar Pyramid" meets "Family Feud", meets "Quiz Bowl." Of course, Erin tortures Nicole first by having her guess which episodes were in the "Top 10" (by most listened to) based on Erin's cheat sheet of quotes, cryptic riddles and a host of other interesting anecdotes while reminiscing through some of the best moments of the podcast so far and even what some of their most favorite guests are up to now! (Can you figure out the episode before Nicole does?) An episode full of reflection and enjoying the trip down memory lane, Nicole wonders what the next 100 will look like and offers her own "revenge" game called "Stick or Sabotage." This game includes all kinds of ridiculous and pointless questions like, "What is something you started doing during COVID that you will keep post COVID...and one thing you will sabotage?" But just like every episode, Nicole also answers her own questions, asks even more questions and hysterics erupt as both look forward to the next 100 whatever it brings...especially all the "easter eggs" and surprises! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Get your own copy of Erin's book by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We made it to 100...twice...this is our second take." "Mick was more interested in eating cookies than talking to us...which I get." "I looked around and I was like, what do people do to celebrate 100? No one has done a gameshow." "She thinks I can see that? I wear negative six corrective contact lenses." "We can't survive without the (honey) b(ee)." "There's a stuffed bear in there...on wheels." "She's not someone we let interview herself." "I'm going to unf*ck myself and do everything." "Boy, I want open-kimono on that episode." "I can't even remember my husband's aunts name so it's ok." "It's like voyeurism, it's a form of suburban pornography." "Big boob bosses?" "If you hate your garden, turn it into a bar." "That does sound familiar, and three glasses ago it might have sounded very familiar." "When you're the first of your friends to get divorced, it really makes you wonder where you fit in." I'm still holding on, but the granny panties will come out at some point." "If I'm going to be bested on my own podcast, it's going to be by her."
It can feel like such a mystery: how do some people get to the "top floors" at a company, while others stay in the lobby? Well, we pull up one big curtain (and elevator) on that mystery this week. Erin talks with Renee Zaugg, CIO of Otis Elevator Company. It's clear from her rise that one "secret" is that people who get the big jobs lead...when they're not asked to lead. The b Cause podcast kicks off Women's History Month sitting down with women's equality luminary and CIO of Otis Elevator Company, Renee Zaugg. Renee is the Vice President and Chief Information Officer (CIO) at Otis Elevator Company. In addition, she serves as the Executive Sponsor for the Women in Technology employee resource group as well as the Digital Technology (DT) Energy Board employee engagement group. Prior to joining Oris, Renee served as Senior Vice President, Enterprise Infrastructure and Cloud Services at CVS Health, a Fortune 5 company. Erin kicks off their discussion by asking Renee if she always had aspirations to be a corporate executive in Technology. Renee recalls the time-capsule letter she wrote herself in school; her aspirations were simply to travel the world. But she also knew she wanted to be a leader, and as she grew in capability and confidence, the idea of becoming an executive grew with it. Erin then asks if there's something Renee achieved that, at the time, seemed like an impossible feat. Renee talks about when she was first promoted to a vice president role. She says that being given control of a large organization, just before an acquisition, was something she never expected. She stepped into the role a bit unsure of herself, but then she thought "Of course I can do this, because who else could do it?" They talk about Renee's passion to ensure we obtain equality for women in leadership roles. When she was at Aetna, she founded their Woman's Leadership Alliance (WLA). Renee recalls being taken aback by the significant inequalities between women and men in the top positions at the company. After launching WLA, within four years they had managed to change the number of women in leadership positions from 23% to 36%. Erin then wonders what Renee's biggest fear was in her career. Renee talks about her speech impediment, which she's struggled with her entire life and that left her with a major fear of public speaking. She talks about how she (mostly) overcame that fear and how important it is to force yourself to face your fear...to act upon it so you can overcome it. They then step into the topic of being a working mom. Erin asks Renee how she balances being a mom with her career. Renee found that setting aside time for her family was critical (and occasionally putting herself first, even though they may sound selfish). was essential to being able to have a balanced life. Renee then tells a story about the day she received a call from the lunch-lady at her daughter's school. She asked, "Did you mean to send her with one pound of ham?" She goes on to say "It's not just me, there's a whole market now on moms who are messes." Erin then asks Renee if she can recall a time when she went against the grain and did things her way, instead of the executive way. Renee tells a story about when she went against other executives to stand up for the plan and idea she had for progression. Renee also talks about the importance of bragging, something that has never come naturally to her, but something that can be an essential device for gaining recognition for yourself, your colleagues, and your company. Erin asks Renee if there has ever been something she would not compromise on no matter what. Renee remembers something her mom told her when she was 18: never let anyone question her integrity. Erin then wants to know what breaks Renee's heart. The answer is simple: seeing sick children. That's why Renee has always tied herself to support certain charities. Finally, Erin wants answers to something she's been wondering for a long time. And now that she's in the presence of the CIO of Otis Elevator Company, it's the perfect time to get answers. She ponders and asks, "Why don't elevators have an undo button?" Renee just might be the person to finally solve the problem. LinkedIn: Renee Zaugg Get your own copy by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm just an opportunity seeker." "Of course I can do it, because who else could?" "She said, 'I gave up having a family for my career.' So I looked right at her and said 'You're telling me I have to choose? Funny, our CEO has children, and he didn't have to choose." "When you get to the top, remember to send the elevator back down." "Pushing yourself to do it is what allows you to overcome it." "Everybody's life is a mess to some degree." "It's not just me, there's a whole market now on moms who are messes." "There are sacrifices when you're a parent. Their world is their world and you've just got to fit in where it makes sense." "The best and quickest way to get a seat at the table is to create it yourself." "You might not be the smartest person in the room, but you don't let anyone question your integrity. You can't get that back." "You just made elevators so sexy and cool."
Are you at least a bit curious about all the buzz surrounding Erin's new book, "You Do You(ish)?" This week Nicole gives you a glimpse in between the book covers by hosting a virtual book club made up of fans and friends of the show to discuss the recent release! Oh yeah, and she lets Erin (mostly) listen in too. Nicole kicks off the introductions by inviting the guests to think of one word to describe Erin. They throw out...determined, approachable, savvy, energizing, and magnetic. She asks the guests what they learned from reading the book. We hear insights and personal takes on authenticity, on the book, and what they have taken away from it. Then they dive into the Sucky Songs, talking about the things we all tell ourselves that hold us back from doing what we really want. Thinking they can't prioritize a job AND a family, thinking they can never be fully authentic at work, thinking the only way to get ahead is to forgo sleep and relaxation, to never switch off from work. They discuss what they think, or had always thought, their weaknesses were, but how changing the way you view yourself, your place where you are, how you can utilize your authentic self to turn those not-so-weak-weaknesses into very definite strengths of character. Why are we still talking about inauthenticity in the workplace? Why in 2021 is this still an issue? Could it be fear, sacrificing authenticity on the road to success and money? Could it be a lack of diversity in leadership roles, forcing underrepresented groups to try and fit in rather than stand out? Erin jumps in with a question for the group, asking them what their thoughts are on her definition of authenticity and if they have any critical comments to make, spurring an interesting conversation on everyone's own ideas on Erin's writing. What else could be included and how authenticity could be defined from other's perspectives. They finish by discussing who they would offer the book to plus who couldn't handle the book. Get your own copy by searching "You Do You Ish" in amazon or going to Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I put Erin in an uncomfortable and awkward position? Welcome to my life." "Authenticity is about exposing who you are, when people least expect it." "You shouldn't not do something because you hate the way it was done before. Instead, do it your own way." "I loved how human the book was." "I think humility is the first thing we ought to bring to the party." "I've had more time to think about how I can affect other people's lives, and it's changed mine." "I've kind of fallen in love with storytelling." "Be in your own skin, be comfortable, be confident." "Just let that stupid sucky song go." "There's a fear to fit in. People sacrifice their authenticity on the road to success and money." "I think there's still not enough diversity at leadership levels." "The book injects a sense of fun into work." "Let's form the army. Let's defeat them." "Energy is contagious, either you affect people or you infect people." - T. Harv Eker.
Feedback is gold, right? Well, sometimes. And sometimes you have to find your own way to turn what might feel a bit more like backfeed into your own fuel. This week Erin and Nicole catch up to contemplate their WTFs and authentic-so-hards for the week. But one moment sticks out the most. What do you do with feedback that clearly misses the mark? Well, other than talk about it on public podcat, you can also take that pile of sh*t and make your own fuel out of it! Erin Haztikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet for another "How Was Your Week?" episode. Nicole starts with the problems of Zoom meetings on repeat; eye twitches, ice cream cones, bathroom calls. You know, general Zoom fatigue. Ern asks Nicole for an update on the dog treadmill, a treadmill that immediately tried to throw Nicole through her own wall and has since been relegated to static artwork. Nicole talks about her vision board progress and how you can join in with the fun by joining the b Cause Facebook group. they let (almost) everyone in! Nicole has also been invited to talk at a conference, and she has some, shall we say, interesting ideas on how to portray authenticity during her talk. "Live from the Gyno!" is likely going to be the title of her next panel discussion. Erin tells a story about her authetic-so-hard moment, taking a Zoom call but the IGW in her had no time for pants. Followed by Nicole's story of joining a Zoom meeting mid-shower, because this is the world we live in now - a world where, as Nicole puts it, showering, working, and commuting, are no longer separate activities. They both share recent stories of having to endure mansplaining at work. Nicole "had to" have the calendar system explained to her, and Erin needed to hear about how she needed to develop a visual identity for her authenticity business (like, say what?!) This then leads into a conversation on how to give feedback, it's great to give feedback, but there is a line where it becomes condescending, especially if you make assumptions that the other person has no clue what they're doing. Erin's mansplainer did have a positive though, he acted as a catalyst for a discussion bringing together many of the things Erin talks about in her book. Inequality, authenticity, and as Nicole puts it: being a Maverick and not an Iceman. To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Feedback is sometimes just backfeed." "It's a process to dry my hair and not look like a wet rat." "There was a time when showering, working, and commuting were separate activities." "I don't know anyone who achieved big by magically waking up one morning put into the right body." "Dreaming your way into success usually has strategy and planning behind it." "Always give feedback, be authentic, serve people." "I'm happy to have gone through that cycle, and I'm happy that others can find their way through it too." "Go be Maverick in Top Gun, screw Iceman." "You know you're a good leader when people follow you out of curiosity." - Colin Powell "We all need a little exorcism once in a while."
What if fear and faith were binary? Ask yourself every time you set out on something new: "Do I choose fear or do I choose faith?" And no, it can't be a mix. While making anything binary is typically not our jam, this week's guest stopped Erin in her tracks when she talked about fear and failure and being mutually exclusive. What would change in your life if you had to choose? Andrea Hawkins, the owner of Berkins Blend Café (Erin's favorite coffee shop) and CEO of Leading Culture Solutions, talks with Erin Hatzikostas about everything from her incredible intersection to find her husband to how she believes diversity is the answer to many of her company's goals. Essentially, they talk coffee, culture, and community. Erin kicks off by asking Andrea about her story and journey to marry her husband. It's a story full of chance meetings and intersections that both led to marriage and to Berkins Blend. But it wasn't all easy. In the midst of trying to open a coffee shop, Andrea got two job offers at the same time, so after helping her husband set-up and open a business, she immediately jumped on a plane to start a new job, flying back and forth every weekend between her work and her business. Erin then asks Andrea how she and her husband were able to get past the inertia of starting a business and begin to do something they were truly passionate about. Andrea talks about how they built a supportive relationship over time that has massively helped them, both personally and professionally. Andrea discusses her desire to change the way companies approach diversity and inclusion...to move away from it being a separate strategy, and instead approach new strategies with diversity and inclusion fully engrained in the process. Erin asks: "What's the difference between a company who can enact change, and one who stays put?" Andrea says the first thing is a real commitment from the top, putting money behind it, and deliberately incorporating it into strategies. Following this, she also talks about the importance of executives expanding their network. She says, "You have to get out there and be uncomfortable." Erin asks her how everyone cna feel like they're making an impact and changing things at work, even if they're not a CEO. Andrea says that everyone can bring a unique perspective to the table. everyone has their own authenticity, and everyone struggles with who they are and why they are here, but if you find what works for you, you will be able to bring so much more to the table. Andrea shares a story of when she had a moment of clarity about who she was and what she should be doing, when a masseuse told her "You cannot live in fear and faith, so choose one." They close by talking about how Andrea managed studying, working, and raising her daughter. At one point she had four jobs, worked night shifts, and studied during the day so that she was able to be in a position to make choices, and not have choices choose her. She now instills the same mentality and attitude in her daughter, who she also wants to grow up with the ability to choose a life for herself. Get in touch with Andrea, or even find her for a coffee: Berkins Blend Café: 1003 Hebron Ave, Glastonbury, CT % 21 Oak Street, Hartford, CT To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Chance meetings and intersections, I think that's what life is really about." "I think I'm missing a strand of DNA around fear." "I'm responsible for my happiness. I'm responsible for the bad decisions I make over and over." "If you looked at my resume you would say 'who is she?! What is she trying to be?" "I love to take chaos and create order." "If I see people from different countries, with age diversity, gender diversity, and I see people with different abilities. Then I know you'll get some innovation out of that." "Everyone can bring a new perspective to the table." "My authenticity is about generosity." "I see people struggling the most with who they are." "You cannot live in fear and faith." "You need to do well, so you can have choices, and choices don't choose you."
Do you have an addiction to productivity and perfection? Or maybe you're addicted to starting something and not finishing it. Whatever it is, none of us are perfect. We all have these micro "addictions" that are holding us back. The good news is that once you recognize what addiction(s) are holding you back, moving away from them and towards a new addiction is not only possible; it's actually fun! "For so long I've defined change as somehow being the result of failure. I realized it's the result of success>" - Nicole This week Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant kick things off by getting Nicole's completely authentic reaction to her first read (skim!) of Erin's book. You Do You(ish). It quickly made it to the top of Nicole's present list for everyone she knows...everyone. Nicole Share's great news - her dad's heart surgery was successful and he's recovering well. Nicole goes on to tell some funny anecdotes from the recovery process. While there is good news for Nicole's dad, there is also the sad news that her grandma has covid, but she's made it to 101 years old, and from the stories Nicole has about her, we don't think that's changing anytime soon. Erin moves on to ask Nicole about what's been lighting her fire recently. Nicole explains how she saw a video posted by one of their friends (and podcast guest #58), discussing her addiction to perfection and productivity, which was the message and spark Nicole needed. With this positive outlook, she has started to contemplate change. She tells Erin that she's had an epiphany. She used to think of change as a result of failure. She now realizes that when things are going well, that is the best time to think about switching things up. They start talking about finding your own way, your own trigger. What works for one person might not work for someone else and that's ok. Finally, they talk about the difference between what you want to do, and how you want to feel, and how the accomplishments, goals, and actions, might not be as attached to those feelings as we think. To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: A lot of these books give you the economic policies of why you're fcked but not how to unfck yourself." "I said 'Mom what did you do, did you take dad to the taxidermist?' and she says 'Don't (Fcking) tempt me'." I need major surgery to improve my eating prospects right now. "I'm giving side-eyes to 2021. I'm not convinced it's being straight with us." "The best time to contemplate change is when things are good." "For so long I've defined change as somehow being the result of failure. I realized it's the result of success. "I look at my vision board every morning instead of the coffee machine and think 'You're going to do something for yourself today." "The best way to finally make that change is to figure out what's the one thing that's going to help you start to create an addiction to something else." "You need to find your own way and your own trigger." "How do you make small tweaks every single day to try and get to someplace bigger, better, or different?" "The weeds can be a fun place to hide. You just can't stay there for too long." "We've got a load of old smoked salami, and it can be good, but sometimes the salami overpowers the cheese." "Who knows what will happen by the end of this week. I'm either super stable or running fcking nuts." "Give me a couple of twizzlers and a pot of coffee and I can do that for you."
Do you ever feel like you just don't fit the corporate mold? Like anywhere...or in any way? Well, Scott Mason knows all too well how you're feeling, and he's determined to help people just like you find power in your authenticity. Listen in for inspiration on how you can create your own "Funkytown" and ensure you go on the journey of your life. Erin Haztikostas interviews Scott Mason, a former lawyer turned consultant and motivational speaker. Scott was adopted by African-Americans and raised in rural Middle America in an overwhelmingly white social milieu. Scott grew up far outside of any conceivable social box and knows all to well what it's like to wrestle with the concept of being your authentic self. Erin asks Scott about his early life, and Scott describes growing up in an area where he was misunderstood and how he had a unique perspective to view social stigmas (and experience many)through a lens that many people can't even imagine. Erin then asks about his journey from Kansas to Minnesota and then to New York city. They talk about what drove him to become a lawyer...whether it was something he always had the confidence to do or not. Scott talks about early foundational experiences of his life and how they helped shape his decision. Scott discusses wanting to be a lawyer, and the difference between the idea we have of a lawyer's job and the actual role, and how different they are from each other. Even with that difference though, it created a drive in him that helped motivate him to keep pushing forwards and outwards. After graduating from a liberal arts college, Scott applied to Law School where he truly began to realize not only the difference between the ideal of a lawyer and the reality, but also the reality of the environment he would be in and the people surrounding him. Scott talks about the different types of people he has met in his many experiences: lawyers, politicians, public servants, and non-profit workers. He goes into detail about the joys and difficulties of working in the non-profit world, the judgments and stigmas we hold culturally for people in different situations, how we often lack understanding as to why someone may have ended up where they are, and why they need help and guidance instead of criticism. When Erin prompts Scott to share some career advice from his experiences, he tells a story of one of his bosses from a government agency who said some truly unforgivable thing to him. So, Scott wants you all to remember that whatever got you in the door is also what will help you survive in the outside world. Erin asks Scott about a moment of realization in his life. Scott started a business with a partner, and after deciding to leave he took the chance to "enter the providential river". Looking back on his experiences, he realized he had been asking the wrong questions and looking in the wrong places. He started thinking instead as to how he could take his experiences, his gifts and his skills, and have them be of service. Now he has a vision, a vision where heroes go on journeys of their lives together. He wants to build a space where people can connect to find their higher purpose, to build a better self and a better world. Erin prompts Scott for some of his suggestions on what can help people get on that journey. He firsts suggests complementing people on a good job, we so often only comment on the negatives, assuming that pointing out failures will help people improve. But we underestimate the power that comes with people uplifting other people. He follows this by telling us that the possibilities for the future are better than we can imagine, and our inability to see that is our own limitation. So, he says, "Step into new opportunities." Finally, he wants you to understand that nothing is permanent, which sounds scary, but is actually a thing of beauty. Website: Podcast: To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "My parents did not like me being gay, and they were concerned about the way I looked because I might acclimate into the white community too much. Which was odd, because I never felt I could do that because of who I was." "Confidence comes from being in touch with your authentic self." "One of the foundational things in my life was the song "Funkytown"." "It was an environment where pedigree, elitism, and background were much less disguised and much more a part of the social hierarchy." "What motivates people can both define who they are and further silo who they become." "We have a tendency as a culture to make judgments on people's economic choices or what might be happening as a consequence in their lives." "I feel the inability to process our emotions properly is something that perpetuates a lot of dysfunction." "I realized if I was going to be focussed on service, then my purpose would be infinitely easier to figure out." "I realized I was participating in the creation of my own nightmare." "The possibilities for the future are better than you can imagine. Your inability to see that is your own limitation." "Nothing is permanent. That's a scary concept, but it's also beautiful."
Work has such funny shit, why aren't we laughing at it more? What's better than separating men and women at work to try and solve the issues facing women at work? Well, how about not separating us? From the co-hosts of the b Cause podcast with Erin & Nicole, they take to the couch to say the things you are thinking but are too afraid to say out loud (well, at least on the internet.) Check out more on our b Authentic inc Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj-QCA1-XckiHxlCCflzH-g To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences.
Who in this world doesn't look at a 183-line, Excel spreadsheet business operating plan and intuitively sprint in the other direction? Or, worse, want to throw up at the thought of a personal plan that you're supposed to have in place if you ever want to get anywhere special!? In this crazy, complex world, we underestimate the power of more simplistic, inspiring, get-you-into-the-flow tools to ensure you keep growing and achieve the success (happiness, money, love, etc.) that you deserve. The good news is that Erin & Nicole are going to help you switch your mindset on goal setting in a way that ensures you make it to the "South Pole" (without perishing!) So, we have to start here: who actually thought 2021 would be any different?! Just a week into 2021, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down to first discuss the recent events in Washington D.C. Nicole tells the story of the first insurrection she ever witnessed (some 25+ years ago) during the split of Czechoslovakia whilst she was in Prague on a school trip to understand the events of the Holocaust. They discuss the motivations people might have for such actions, what they could hope to gain from it, and whether they are fighting for someone who would "break bread" with them or not. Moving away from politics, Nicole talks about her father's unfortunate, upcoming heart surgery and the surprisingly comical story of her reaction to his surgery news. The big topic this week is one that comes from an audience suggestion: goal setting! (Listeners: keep the suggestions coming!) Erin talks about three strategies that listeners can replace their stuffy, crusty, uninspiring, and traditional strategies with. 1) Instead of a New Year's Resolution, pick one ord for the year. This helps ground you when things seem tough or out of control. 2) Pick one obsession. This is something that if you focus on it and crush it, will change everything. 3) Write your Future Diary. Create a 3D(ish) vision and story of your future you and future life. There's a lot that's been covered this week, and by the looks of 2021 so far, there's going to be a whole lot more to come! To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Maybe May can be the new January this year." "I would never fight for anybody who would refuse to break bread with me." "That's my mom, she's totally cute and depressed." "Maybe I can find inspiration on this bottle of Gorilla Glue." "What is the one thing that if I do it now, it will change everything?" "Shit is outta whack, and I need some space to re-whack it." "The power behind the space is that it's the only way to create the true magic." "I like the processes and when the process sucks it fucks with me." "Be unconditional."
Nicole kicks of the new year, interviewing the celebrated entrepreneur Kara Goldin, Founder and CEO of Hint Inc, the lifestyle company "committed to making it easy and enjoyable for consumers to live a healthy life." Known for producing the leading unsweetened flavored water, offerings have expanded with the recent launch of hint sunscreen. Kara is also an author, a motivational speaker, a podcaster, a mother and much more. Kara's journey was anything but uncomplicated, detailed in her 2020 breakout book "Undaunted: Overcoming Doubts and Doubters", which has landed on the Wallstreet Journal and the Amazon Bestsellers List, profiled by Nasdaq and receiving many more acolades. In "Undaunted", Kara though no stranger to success, details how she found herself a determined but "accidental entrepreneur" - an outsider to the beverage industry, new to raising venture capital, and selling an approach well outside the norm with consumer products. In discussion with Nicole, Kara shares her story and insights of her entrepreneurial journey for good. Already a respected Tech Executive, most recently with America Online, where she built the e-commerce and shopping partnerships, Kara became passionate about her business concept for Hint after her fourth child was born, and finding that as much as she tried with diet, lifestyle and exercise, her health was actually in serious and undiagnosed decline. In a moment of last resort, Kara decided to replace her Diet Coke habit with something else. The problem being Kara didn't like drinking plain water and in searching for a healthy and natural diest soda alternative she realized it didn't exist. Kara started adding fruit in water and two weeks cold-turkey from Diet Coke, she was on the road to recovery and the idea for Hint, Inc. was born. When Kara started Hint, consumers and investors were not yet talking about purpose-led for-profit companies, but Kara knew that she could provide not only a consumable product that customers wanted, but provide a product they didn't yet know they needed in the pursuit of a better life, not just momentary satisfaction. Market and purpose identified, Kara discusses setting out to make Hint exist for the masses, but discovering the difficulty of trying to launch a product with no experience or connections in the beverage industry despite what she knew she could achieve and a solid reputation. She shares how she stayed resolute, despite no easy path to bringing Hint to consumers and many more challenges as the company became established, including a life-changing disaster turned all-important discovery in her partnership with Starbucks. Out of doubt and disaster: triumph. Kara, wildly successful with Hint, still encountered challenges in sharing her story in "Undaunted", limited by unfounded concerns that the book would only sell to other female entrepreneurs - a too-niche market, sadly. Once again Kara's instinct proved right hearing from many men (and women) about the life-limiting doubts and doubters shaping their experiences, and how her story inspired them to keep going. Looking ahead, Kara shares many insights on how the events of 2020 are reshaping what it means to achieve healthier ways of living, and how Hint is thinking about serving that greater purpose. Nicole also asks Kara to share some thoughts and advice for listeners, as well as goals she has set herself for 2021 - the year we've all been waiting for! Listen and embrace "Undaunted" as your inspiration for 2021! Here's how you can find Kara: Social Media: @karagoldin Website/Book: To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I went looking for a product, and I realized it didn't exist." "I call myself an accidental entrepreneur." "I saw a gap in the market and I acted on it." "I didn't know if I could do it, but I knew I could try." "I had no experience, so most people just wanted to hang the phone up on me." "I've heard more from men than from women about having doubts in their life." "It's about being ok with potentially failing at certain points along the way." "We hear about the entrepreneurs that are unicorns or failures. But there's a lot in between." "Customers say, 'should we buy from you or buy from Costco?' and we say, 'wherever you want.'" "We sell to stores because we want consumers to have access to it." "With this year's situation, people are really starting to think about what they should be putting into their body." "You're like a gateway product for good." "You have to figure out what you are interested in doing every single day."
In this final b Cause episode of 2020, Erin and Nicole decided to give you a fun episode that includes their original "The Twelve Days of Work-mas." Plus, Nicole surprises Erin with her work rendition of Santa Baby. The Twelve Days of Work-mas 12 hour workday 11th hour deadline 10 interns sleeping 9 hours of meetings 8 corporate trainings A 7 year-old Intern 6 feet of distance 5 gooooldeeen handcuffs... 4 minute break 3 PowerPoints A 2-percent raise And a promo-o-tion to a trainee Happy Holidays from both Erin & Nicole! To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We're going to serenade 2020 right out the door." "I totally prepared, I got cash, wine, pizza bagels, and snow melt." "Cash and cleavage is going to get you through."
"You need to sell yourself" they say. But here's the truth: most people turn that into a babbling diatribe that likely does more harm than good. Why? Because there is an art to the "pitch". Whether you're pitching yourself for a promotion or to get on The Moth, there is a 3-part system that can change everything. As with anything, Erin and Nicole bring you powerful advice through real-world, real-time examples. The goal is to all grow and rise together. This episode is no exception. This week Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant once again join each other for another "How Was Your Week" episode. Nicole has a Covid scare, but she has the Italian magic of pastina, AKA "the life-saving juice." She updates everyone on her company's Christmas commercial debacle from a few weeks back. The short story: after all that drama, they're not using it. Time for take 2. Erin talks us through her latest embarrassing obsession: Instagram Reels. After shunning it for a long time, she may have found her calling. Although she may need some support from the listeners to overcome the mocking from her kids. Erin asks Nicole about The Moth, one of Nicole's favorite storytelling platforms, and her plans to pitch an idea. Which leads into a conversation on how to pitch an idea. Which leads into a conversation on how to pitch effectively, whether it's for a story idea, a Ted Talk, or a promotion at work. While different, there are elements to a good pitch which are applicable no matter the platform. Erin talks through the three key aspects of a successful pitch: the hook, the switch, and creating the connection. Nicole then talks about her idea for a pitch to The Moth. She and Erin discuss some ideas for how to approach the pitch. From writing the first draft, to cutting that draft into pieces and giving yourself the visual space to look at it differently. Erin uses her pitch writing process for her TEDx Talk as a comparative piece for Nicole as she goes into the process of her own pitch. Aside from the actual technique of pitch writing, they discuss the positives that come from taking a step toward doing something new. Whether you want to write a book, do a TV show, start a podcast, or get a new role at ork. Writing a pitch to bring your idea to life can actually bring you to life. Erin shares a story about one of her clients who needed help making a pitch at work for a promotion. She talks about how to apply the same three elements to this work situation: from prepping a hook (in this scenario that's your "superhero statement"), to writing a switch, to building a connection with the audience. We end with a hilarious story from Nicole and her board meeting for her Foundation this week. You'll have to listen in to learn more about Exhibit C! To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Every week Nicole has a crazy week, and this one is no exception." "My hair looked like a helmet...but a glamorous helmet." "A pitch needs intrigue, excitement, and curiosity." "Connection is all about flipping the table. IF I were on the other side of the table, what would I want?" "The first thing you do is write a shitty first draft." "The shorter and more succinct you need to be, the more work it takes." "Get the arc down, then focus on what is the main lesson. Go through it in layers." "I'm not trying to change you. I'm trying to change your addiction." "This is the Venn Diagram of all things Nicole." "You're not interviewing for the job you already have. Tell them what you can do, not what you've done." "Always think what is most important to the person on the other side of the table." "Things I'm doing are so transactional. What I need is something transformational." "If you're looking for Reference C, it's not fucking there!"
"Here is what I know. That I don't know. There is power in the unknown. Sit in the I don't know. It's a confident place to be. Trust me." -Christina Glickman. This week, Erin sits down with Christina Glickman, speaker and author of the bestselling book, "Xtra: The Art of Being", to find out just what it means to be unapologetically confident. And a little "xtra" too. They get straight into it discussing authenticity, Christina's book, and her life to this point. How she got to where she is, the steps she took, and all those things she didn't do that got her there. We often talk about choices we made that led us somewhere, but not the things we didn't do that led us here, or the things we chose not to do. Christina is a form believer in serving yourself before others, and that's not a selfish viewpoint, it's a necessary step to ensure your own happiness and success. Erin Hatzikostas asks Christina to talk about her younger years, if she struggled with who she was and where she was going. One moment stands out: being told that her ACT test scores weren't good enough, and she should reconsider her life plans (a fairly daunting conversation for a young student.) A big turning point for Christina though was getting into advertising, entering a world where you do have to fake it (a bit) until you make it. Erin asks about the loss of Christina's parents, how it changed the trajectory of her life. Christina explains the affect her parents had on her when they were alive, how they inspired her and shaped her. But, also, how the pain and suffering she experienced formed her into who she is now. This leads into a conversation on parenting, with Erin asking Christina if she has any advice from her own experience of parenthood. They discuss Christina's hair, and the funny story that led to a style that defines her (or does she define her hair?!) Christina talks about how being your authentic self can cause people to think you're trying to make a statement, when actually you're trying to not make a statement. You're just trying to be: you. Erin poses the question: is it more important to find out who you are, or define who you want to be in the future? For Christina, knowing who you are is the first step to help define where you are going. You have to know yourself before you know your potential. Erin digs in further, asking what pisses her off, what steps does she take to become less apologetic and more confident, and what steps does she suggest other people take to get where they want to be. Christina has some tough love messages for anyone that feels stuck. To end, Erin asks the most important question of all: Where does Christina shop for her attire? You'll have to tune in to find out! Follow Christina on Instagram: @christinaglickman To purchase her book, search "xtra: the art of being" on Amazon To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I only do what I want. You won't see me showing up in a way that's not serving myself." "This is yours. Not mine. Take it...whatever you have going on isn't mine to own. My bags are heavy enough." "The most profound relationship you'll have is with yourself." "Sitting in the unknown, sitting in the uncomfortable. These things are easy to say, but are you doing them?" "The world is aching for you to do what you love. Look for it. Find it. Hold on to it. Then let it go. When it doesn't give you joy. The search is the real happiness." "Movement was everything." "My list of wrongs in this world is large, but I know what I do right." "Get clear on what you want for your family and stick to it." "When it comes to my kids, I don't want them to be anything but themselves." "Sometimes when we arrive as our authentic selves people assume we're trying to make a statement." "There is no magic, it's hard work." "You don't lift somebody else if you feel bad about yourself." "Whatever it takes to get you out of bed in the morning, just do it." "The first asshole you're going to run into is yourself."
Performance evaluations: are they a proverbial party or just the most inefficient pyramid scheme? This week, Erin & Nicole riff on everything from performance evaluations to showing true gratitude to how to handle the pressures of the holiday season (including insane corporate deadlines like shooting a Christmas video by 10am on a Monday.) This episode is a rollercoaster of hysterics, deep thinking, and meows. Listen in if you want all the feels. In this week's b Cause podcast, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant first start by talking about workplace performance evaluations. Will Nicole follow Erin's advice and Tweet her way through this year's evaluation? Erin asks Nicole about her Holiday (meow) plans and mentions her friends quarantine rules for the kids - if you think it would be hard to keep a teenager in their room for two weeks, wait until you hear Nicole's idea of quarantine. Nicole talks about her day off, spending it (meow) taking a voluntary Covid test. But, as only would happen to Nicole, it ended up involving a dance-show from the staff at the testing center. They also talk about the upcoming holiday season, and the often-unnecessary stress, work and pressure that women tend to largely place on themselves. They suggest this year is a good year to lower those expectations and give yourself, and others, the grace of doing things a little simpler and with a little less stress. What are some traditions you have that maybe won't be the best idea this year? And what, this year especially, could we do differently to reach out to everyone and keep up the holiday spirit (meow) even if this year it all feels a bit different. Erin and Nicole tell us what they are grateful for this year, which leads into a discussion about the journey they've both taken into podcasting. How they approached it, where it's going, and why it's working. They discuss authenticity, how it can be manipulated in the corporate space, and how to keep things truly authentic. You have to model it, not parade it. You don't talk about it, you demonstrate it. Nicole ends the episode with a hilarious story about her being summoned to help with the Christmas video at work. That comes as a script in Spanish. And needs to be filmed in front of a green energy site. And it's raining. And it's Covid. And it's needed by Monday 10am. Tis the season! To preorder Erin's book You Do You(ish): Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Gratitude is the attitude." "Twitter: the mental meanderings of Nicole's brain." "This is the most inefficient pyramid scheme I've ever seen." "The smell of death in this car is likely related to food...maybe beer." "Dunkin Donuts is a ubiquitous experience here." "You don't have to do anything. Don't 'should' on yourself this holiday." "The holidays are exhausting. Just doing all the things we think we're supposed to do." "The ground has been shifting a lot this year." "Be a little gracious, show a little gratitude, by maybe bating somebody's hook." "Authenticity has given us the opportunity to control both the circumstances and the outcomes of our decisions." "The lends I use for authenticity if: if I were on the other side, what would I want?" "With authenticity, you don't talk about it, you demonstrate it." "If I say this, I will probably start World War III." "The Christmas video is either being filmed at a dump in Bridgeport or in the Mailroom."
What is your body telling you these days? It's highly likely that you're burnt-out at work. OR maybe, it's simply that you're bored-out. This week's episode dives deep into the signs, and remedies, for those of you feeling burnt-out at work. IT's an important episode, because we want you to see these signs well before Kea saw hers. Your health, family, and friends will thank you. This week Erin sits down with Kea Meyers Duggan - a life/career coach, and a professional speaker - to discuss her life, her struggles and her successes, in an episode that everyone can relate to. Erin starts out by asking about young Kea. She dives into what her childhood was like, and how it shaped her into who she is today. Kea remembers watching the 1984 Olympics with her dad, and him telling her, "You can do whatever you put your mind to." She talks how she necessarily understand that statement fully at the time. But later it became a guiding light for her...a way to find determination to do whatever she wanted to do. Erin asks Kea why she went into marketing. Kea explains she almost chose to pursue Marine Biology, and decided to follow advertising and marketing instead. But as she carried forward in her career, she couldn't help but question if she'd made the right choice. Her father stepped back in and suggested she start her own company, because she's be good at it plus she's also bad at being told what to do. Kea's first entrepreneurial venture was a dog walking and pet sitting business. However, KEa realized that human interaction was key to her happiness (and while dogs are cute, they don't make for great conversations.) She decided to go back to corporate America while she decided on her next move. She decided to start a coaching business, but working a 9-5 job while also trying to run a business on the side can easily build to an unstable point. One day, while sitting at her desk typing an email, she thought she was having a stroke. Luckily, instead, it was her body giving her a big wake-up call - a massive anxiety attack. Erin asks Kea what steps she took to try and reverse the situation. Kea said the first thing she did was to simply talk to a friend and tell them what had happened. The second, was to take a step back and think about her next move, how to handle the situation, and what she really wanted to do moving forward. Erin moves on to ask how people cans et up boundaries for themselves. Kea says to first check-in with yourself. What has you feeling so burned out and uncomfortable? Then, picture your ideal situation. What would it look like if everything was how you wanted it to be? They discuss how to take a breath and carve some time out for yourself. In summary? Just do it. There is always something else to do, so you have to take a stand and take that time when you need it. They end by explaining how you discern between being burned out vs. being bored-out. Burnout manifests itself physically; insomnia, body ailments like migraines, GI issues. Intense cynicism is also a major sign of being burnt out at work. Bored-out usually manifests itself through signs like listlessness, inability to sit still, being easily distracted. And the only remedy? It's time for a change! Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's the small moments that end up shaping your life in a major way." "I was always more interested in the ads than in the show." "If I were to die tomorrow, would I be glad that this were my eulogy?" "I need to be in community with other people in some way, shape or form." "You have to get your stress under control as soon as possible, otherwise things will not get better." "You seek inspiration from those around you. Not just those above you." "Our group is a no-bullshit group." "There's never going to be a 'good time' to not be online or not be available." "Self-care and rejuvenation look different for everybody."
If you think about Linkedin as a place to head when you need a new job, you are missing the boat. Completely. You need to think about LinkedIn less like a digital resume and more like a dating app. This week, Erin and Nicole dive deep into Nicole's profile as a proxy for helping you to understand the power of LinkedIn and the small changes you can make to ensure you stand out and maximize its value for you. Of course, this is all done with a healthy dose of humor and sarcasm (we'll just say "sorry" ahead of time to all the career HR professionals out there.) Before they hit LinkedIn though, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant discuss the authentic epiphanies they had as it related to the U.S Presidential election. They think about how important it's becoming that political figures, no matter which side of the aisle, need to come across authentically for people to connect with them and vote for them. They also discuss the passing of Alex Trebek, and the nostalgic loss that it is for so many people. If you had fifteen hours of Zoom calls would you still want to cook dinner, or would you settle for Reese's Peanut Butter Cups for the third day in a row? You can guess which one Nicole chose. Nicole talks about how she is dealing with work at the moment. Does it feel like you're stuck in Groundhog Day too? You might not be so alone. Erin follows this by explaining some changes that are happening at her old workplace, and the realization she had about the extreme value she has placed on creating her own business and making a real impact beyond a corporate paycheck. Moving the conversation back to Nicole's LinkedIn profile. Erin talks about how the platform is more "real" than you might want it to be. That it's really important to treat it like a 3D world vs. just an online resume or CV. Erin discusses how to effectively use LinkedIn, including the biggest mistake people make: waiting until they need a new job to use the platform. She talks about how you should be engaging with it regularly to maximize your potential opportunities. They talk through building a successful profile and presence on LinkedIn. What should your photo look like? How to approach writing your bio. Erin talks about how to use humility to anchor your moments of success. After the profile section, they move on to discuss how to be active on LinkedIn in a way that sees your network grow through engagement. Do more than just like a post, comment on it. Be thoughtful, ask questions, write your own posts. Erin then talks about how to write stories on LinkedIn, and the exponential benefits it can open up for you without you even realizing it. the LinkedIn algorithms mean that your posts can stay "alive" for weeks, and the more you interact on LinkedIn the Longer that happens for. And lastly, Erin's book, You do You(ish), is available for preorder! Pre-order You Do You(ish) Follow Nicole on LinkedIn: Follow Erin on LinkedIn: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "People say 'she's showing us what women can do.' But no, she's showing us what authenticity can do." "Authenticity is gender neutral, advantage women." "I ate Reece's Peanut Butter Cups for dinner three days this week." "I think it might be a dog treadmill." "I feel like I'm stuck in Groundhog Day a little bit." "My goal isn't to be ok ith making less doing what I love, my goal is to do something I love and make more." "An entrepreneur should be consistently raising their own value." "If you start to think about LinkedIn when it's time to find a new job, you are way too frickin' late." "No great jobs come from the sausage factory process." "You should be writing your LinkedIn profile like you've had one glass of wine." "The problem with these buzzwords is no one is going to actually read it. There's nothing exciting, there's nothing funny. "If you have time to scroll through Facebook, you have time to scroll through LinkedIn. You just have to cultivate yourself a bit more." "You need to put value in, before you get value back out."
Nicole interviews Ted Yang, a 13-time Serial Entrepreneur. MIT Engineer. Hedge Fund Executive. Author. Do-Gooder. Dad. Ted is not the kind of guy to sit on something important or big. If he sees a problem, the engineer in him looks to fix it. If he sees a financial opportunity or gap, the finance guy in him is figuring out how to leverage it. As part of this calculus, he wasn't always focused on personal evolution or self-reflection (despite that being a mantra of at least one former employer.) But when he and his wife Christine's micro-premiere triplets were born at 24 weeks in 2008, he realized he was on a different kind of journey. For a guy that knows no limits on success, just how far was he willing to go for his family and their future? The answer: whatever it takes. Coming out on November 17th, 2020 - World Prematurity Day - Ted talks about his new book, "Table for Five" the story from a father's unique perspective of the sudden joy of a miracle family, followed by the loss of his son Raymond and the fight for the survival of a daughter and son. This then followed by years of painful medical interventions and diagnosis of autism. The experience forced him to contend with things like vulnerability, powerlessness gratitude, the value of small successes, and embracing change in hard times. Ted also talks about being the son of Chinese immigrants, his drive for success and the expectation that fatherhood would simply fit into this model. But in facing a future that didn't look like a neat predictive model he found new ways to bring agency over his life, including becoming an entrepreneur. Knowing each other from philanthropy circles, Nicole can't help but discuss Ted's recent entrepreneurial foray for good as a co-founder of 4-CT.org, a hugely successful COVID-19 relief start-up delivering aid and helping to scale-up impactful projects state-wide in Connecticut. Despite this, Ted talks about his thoughts on philanthropy, why he always had an aversion to the term or the idea of being a Philanthropist, even now people are starting to call him one. As they talk about non-profits , entrepreneurship for good, and balancing multiple projects at once, Ted gives insight on what brought him to tell the story of his triplets now and what he hopes will come of it: that his unique perspective might give others the agency they need in their life to face the unthinkable and know that authentic success and happiness is possible, if yet still unrecognizable. Here's how you can find Ted Yang: Amazon pre-order: #1 New Release for Fatherhood #1 New Release for Pregnancy and Childbirth Book site: LinkedIn: Twitter: @tedsensei If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even share more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Ted is a - GSD - get shit done kinda guy." "I went down a fairly stereotypical path for an Asian living in America." "I needed it, cathartically, for myself. It was about putting down on paper some of the journey and some of the thoughts." "If you see another father opening up and being vulnerable, and that helps you open up and tell your story, that's great." "Saying 'my parents were horrible I'd never do this to my own children'...and then eating your words." "I'm not naturally emotive, I've become a lot more reflective obviously, but trying to put that down is hard." "When there's no wifi, boom. Headphones on, no interruptions." "Being entirely powerless like that, is a somewhat unique experience." "You're living within a blueprint that someone else has laid out for you." "There was a certain amount of looking around and thinking, well look where other people are and look where I am in this crisis."
Is your work consuming you? Or maybe instead, are you constantly consuming, so you have to work? Yeah, read that again. This week, Erin interviews Ryan Sterling, CEO of Future You Wealth and author of "You're making other people rich" to talk about how you should be looking at your wealth management strategy in an entirely different way. He talks about the cycle of consumption and how that can distort your view of happiness and your path forward. This week, Erin interviews Ryan Sterling, CEO of Future You Wealth and author of "You're making other people rich" to talk about how you should be looking at your wealth management strategy in an entirely different way. He talks about the cycle of consumption and how that can distort your view of happiness and your path forward. Erin sits down with Ryan Sterling, the CEO of Future You Wealth, and a fellow TEDx speaker. Ryan is transforming and modernizing how we think about wealth accumulation and our mindset around it. They both share their experiences with TEDx, that it's like preparing for so long only to have it all finish in a flash. Were their Chili's margaritas the proper capstone to this life-long dream?! Ryan talks about his financial mindset journey over the last several years, where he went from being outcome-oriented, to focussing on the journey itself. He talks about setting a financial goal he had for himself, and the epiphany he had when he actually reached his goal. That joy he expected to have? It was nowhere to be found. He realized all he was doing was continuing to consume more and more things. When he took a step back, he realized that both he and his wife were on a path to nowhere (potentially, quite literally.) That's when he decided to clear his mind, starting by eating cleaner for a few months. That gave him just enough space and clarity for both he and his wife to start turning their life around. They both reconsidered how they were living, and that was the beginning of a powerful transformation. Erin follows this with a story of her own realization that she wanted to make a change in life, looking at her financial situation and thinking 'I could keep remodeling the house, or I could take the time and space to figure out what's really next in life.' Ryan asked himself "what do I want?" What did he want his days to look and feel like? Who did he want to spend time with? After he removed the constraints of money and material things, he realized it was autonomy, freedom, and agency over his life that he wanted most. From there he was then able to look at this actions and ask whether that would help him live the life he wanted or not. They move on to talk about a system that is designed for us to be consumers. Ryan asks "How do we fight back against an intentionally designed system? You can't buy your way to happiness, so what can you do to get there?" Ryan talks about his own experience - signing up for a marathon and starting to write more. He didn't do this because it was some guaranteed road to happiness. He did this because he was no longer consuming, he was creating. He had a hobby, he had goals, he had personal achievements that didn't require consumption (except maybe more calories for all that running.) They end with Erin asking more about Ryan's book "You're Making Other People Rich." Ryan explained that he hopes it will help people invest in their own future, and show people how to truly own their life. Check out his book: "You're Making Other People Rich: Save, Invest, and Spend with Intention" Linkedin: Ryan Sterling Instagram: @theryansterling Website: TEDx Talk: "The Simple Path to Financial Independence" If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "For the last 10 years I wanted to be a TED speaker, and then you're up there for 12 minutes and it's done." "I've just finished my talk, now I'm in Chili's...but no one in Chili's knows or cares." "There's all these big moments in my life, with huge build-up and excitement, but then they're over." "The last few years I've shifted my mindset from just focussing on the outcome, to focussing on the journey." "You are successful because you are obedient to the call." "We were taking energy from each other and not giving each other energy." "We were caught in a cycle of consumption." "How do we design a life that's for us?" "We were going down a highway in the left lane at high speed, then we tapped the breaks, took the next exit, and took another look at the map to see where we really wanted to go." "Why are we consuming, why aren't we owning?" "How do we fight back against an intentionally designed system?" We fight with intention." "There's so many attachments we all have, we need to go through a process of detaching." When the universe gives you clues, explore it a little more." "Do it your own way."
Work has such funny shit, why aren't we laughing at it more? Open office spaces, the bane of your existence. A sensory nightmare resembling sweatshops, these places are enough to drive anyone insane. But do they actually inspire collaboration, or do they just help you listen in on one-side of your colleagues' marital problem debates? From the co-hosts of the b Cause podcast with Erin & Nicole, they take to the coach to say the things you are thinking but are too afraid to say out loud (well, at least on the internet.) Check out more on our b Authentic inc Youtube Channel:
In these video-conference-crazed times, we are literally looking at ourselves in the mirror every single day. But it's even more important to also figuratively look at yourself in the mirror as well. This week, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant swing the Zoom Camera spotlight right onto the sinkholes that they're both sitting in and talk about how they (and you) can climb out of them. This week, Nicole wakes up to two giant sinkholes right outside of her door, which Erin thinks is a pretty big-ass metaphor for how things have been going for her at work lately. In the meantime, Erin has entirely lost her memory and her mojo. Well, that's not entirely true, but she is feeling pretty burned out. She discusses needing to take a step back for some time to process things after her TEDx Talk and all of the work building up to it. She explores advice she was given to help fuel her fire at the start of the day. Nicole discusses having a new team at work and having to go through Myers Briggs testing and how much she just loves putting people's personalities into boxes (not.) How does mimicking behavior help, or not help, us? Nicole disagrees with typecasting, feeling that it can do more harm than good. Erin then shares with us the last time she took the Myers Briggs test, over 20 years ago when she was still an intern! And while her stand-out personality might have been a deficit then, it ended up being the thing that fuelled her career and serves as a metaphor for everything she now stands for - authenticity! Nicole talks about a new situation at work: a new boss and a new style of management. She reflects on how this has been a difficult transition, but also how she can, with hindsight, see some things that may have been missing before. Erin follows this by talking about the importance of small things that leaders can do to make a huge impact. She tells a story of when she had a new boss at work, and how the style and approach of that new boss gave Erin just enough permission to be herself. That small nuance made a huge difference. Erin and Nicole contemplate why do high achievers struggle and doubt themselves? Erin thinks it's because they do their best work when challenged. If the environment isn't challenging enough, then the high achievers often lose their mojo. Nicole brings up the scary situation that recently emerged in Erin's small hometown of Elk Rapids, Michigan. They talk about the recent events involving the stalking and potential hostage taking of Michigan's Governor. The plot was thankfully spoiled but was intended to all take place in her hometown and less than one mile from her parents', and her childhood, home. They end by going over Nicole's homework from last week. I.e. every day write five things she's good at (instead of just handling emergencies and crises.) Nicole tells us how this exercise has helped her mindset and how she views her strengths. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We now all live in the TV show, Candid Camera." "My WTF moment is that I can't remember what happened 3 hours ago." "Swallow the frog." "I needed to figure out what fuels my fire on a micro, and a macro level, and how I can start my day with that." "We spend a lot of time looking at where we are and mimicking situations around us to be successful." "I think introverts have very rich inner lives." "If your every day is mundane work, it's a sign you're not aligned with the things you love." "I didn't know what I didn't know." "There might be groups you call your nemesis, but a lot of times it's easier to work for them than against them." "That meeting could have been horrible or amazing. All she had to do was give me permission to be authentic, and she did that." "If it's too much of the same, it doesn't give you the same adrenaline and excitement and intellectual stimulation that fuels you to be the best you." "'Maybe' is actually a worse place than 'no'." "There's a lot of ways to see the world and a lot of ways to approach it in a positive mindset."
Chasing your dreams, or even simply moving yourself out of a tough situation, often feels daunting. The truth is that big change can only happen when you allow yourself to get curious, do small experiments, ad have the courage to slowly unmask your fears, so that you can eventually set yourself free from them. This week, Erin and Nicole fully unmask some of their fears and dreams, in hopes that it encourages you to do the same. The episode starts with Nicole Licata Grant asking Erin Hatzikostas about her TEDx Talk. She probes into things like what it was like doing a TED Talk amidst Covid, how it was set up, and some of the behind-the-scenes details. Erin shares the details behind what their Green Room looked like (it was certainly green), how they pulled together the event venue, and just where she touched up her makeup before taking the "stage". Nicole continues by talking about how Erin planned and performed her talk in a way that made it as effective as it was. Nicole also recapped some of her other favorite speakers, including Ming Shelby, who spoke about ensuring we don't "herd" children but rather that children are "heard." Nicole reflected on the importance of her message in bringing out the individual greatness of each child...really every person. She also talked about Marisa Zalabak's talk, and the important message she brought to the state regarding the importance of creativity and the "softer skills" that too go overlooked. Nicole reflects o this perfect triad throughout the talk: authenticity, individuality, and creativity. Erin relays the feedback her son Mick gave her on her talk, like "you could have said 'heck' and not 'hell'", but aside from getting in trouble for using too many adult words, he did like that her talk was about authenticity and she did it authentically! Nicole talks about her company being named one of the Forbes JUST 100, including being number one in the utility sector for community and sustainability. Nicole reflects on the last year at work, the impact her company has had, and the impact that she has had working there during a challenging year. She also discusses her mental health recently, how she's been feeling at work and at home, after a tumultuous year. She talks about her authentic self evolving, and how she navigates change in a healthier and more pro-active way than she did previously. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The truth will set you free." "You really need to bring out the individual greatness of each kid and not have them conform." "Creativity is a form of flourishing. It brings out our humanity." "Authenticity is tied to compassion." "A TEDx Talk is a very specific controlled environment. It's meant to have a specific impact." "Do it your own way." "It's not just an entertaining talk, there's an arc, a story, a point I'm trying to get across." "Underneath all of it, the truth, the authenticity, it's unmasking your own fear, too." "Sometimes I wonder if leaders change just for the sake of change." "Leadership starts with yourself." "I'm trying to make sure the next 20 years of my life are really valuable." "It took me two years to get you going from negative to positive."
There has been so much in the news about how the pandemic is setting women back, as they disproportionately take on more of the home-schooling burden. But no one is talking about the positive impact that Covid can bring to working women (or really anyone who wants to stand out.) Covid in many ways has shaken up the traditional, BS work environment. In this week's episode they give three actionable tips to stand out and get ahead during Covid. In this week's catch-up between Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant, they start by talking about Erin's TV debut. Nicole also discusses her recent blood drive and getting new eyebrows. Then Erin asks Nicole to give her authentic view on LinkedIn Learning. With a recent surge in "authenticity" as a buzzword across LinkedIn, Erin and Nicole discuss the effects they think it will have on people's view of the term, and how it can be both beneficial and damaging to the movement b Cause is trying to catalyze. Erin discusses being on TV - on Zoom - to talk about how Covid has disproportionately impacted moms. She talks about the behind-the-scenes of TV, how to pitch, how to get ready for the screen - and how it's all about making it happen, and not just waiting for a chance opportunity. Nicole has been a hot mess, forgetting to wear deodorant and eating pizza in the shower (although that last one doesn't sound like too bad an idea.) Erin moves the conversation toward something slightly more tangible at the end: her three tips for taking advantage of the Covid situation as a working mom. 1: Networking. Don't just sit back, take advantage, reach out. Have a mutually beneficial conversation. 2: Include your children in your work. Explain your work to them or let them watch a call you're on. They might not know it's impacting them, but it will shape them as they grow. 3: Exploit your Authenticity! (duh!) If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Authenticity can't be scripted." "I got two snacks for donating blood, which is the highlight of my day." "I have not been impaled through my vagina." "The younger generation really care about their audience; they're not just disseminating information." "Why is it so easy for me to be authentic? Because I just do the shit I want myself." "My media person always says 'eyes and lips'...but I can't find the right lipstick, so I just put 6 of them on." "Covid has disproportionately impacted moms." "I'm walking into the shower while eating pizza." "My shower just rains beer." "Covid has brought out so many of my worst qualities." "He gave me permission to eat whatever I wanted - thank you, Weird Al." "I feel like people came here for tangible stuff, so maybe we should try for that." "People are trying to put snowflakes back on the ground, but I'm trying to keep them up in the air." "Us chicks - when you get us networking - watch out." "Instead of asking your kids 'what do you want to be when you grow up?', ask them 'How do you want to be when you grow up?'" "Authenticity isn't just a passive thing."
If you've always been an overachiever, then it really sucks when you hit a wall. And if you hit that wall in one area of your life, it's likely you'll hit the wall...everywhere. That was Jen. She considers herself a successful person - a go-getter, over-achiever, happy-go-lucky person. She has always raised her hand for big things and that resulted in years of her climbing the corporate ladder. And then something happened (hint: she's not alone.) A crappy convergence of sorts. And one that she figured out how to overcome. Erin Hatzikostas sits down with one of her clients, Jen DeSantis, to discuss her life and her recent transformation. Erin asks who "little Jen" was growing up, and how she landed where she is today. She wanted to be a writer, to tell stories, but she also wanted to be a singer - so she pursued both for a while, before deciding on pursuing marketing and business as a more viable career option. Graduating into a less than ideal work climate, she took a job in local real estate for two years before being approached by a marketing company. From there she travelled the world, learning to market to, and work with, international audiences in a corporate environment. After having her first daughter she decided to take a step back. She cut down on the international travel and started work in a more "comfortable" jobs. But she realized, that wasn't her. Jen knew she could do more; she could raise her daughter and push her career simultaneously. So she took a new role in the organization, had a second child, and tried to battle the job market throughout the Covid Crisis. And she still felt stuck and frustrated. That's when she landed at Erin's doorstep. But, before we get onto that, Erin wants to know more about Jen's short musical ventures, starting in college when she was asked to sing for Julie Andrews. Erin then talks about the similarities she has seen in clients and at what stage of their lives/career they approached her. Which leads her to asking Jen why she approached Erin for advice. (It helps that Erin isn't a robot and actually takes the time to reply in person.) Erin discusses how she knows when a client has "it": the potential and talent she can see in people, and how quickly she saw this in Jen. They talk through Jen's first group coaching session, the up's and downs, and Jen getting real in front of strangers. Jen goes on to explain how she used everything she learned from Erin to go for her dream job and secure it, and how happy she is now. Erin asks Jen whether she has any insights or thoughts for the listeners. Jen explains she wants her daughter to be proud of her, and that really motivates her to keep pushing herself. They end by discussing the importance of having coaching and guidance in life, and how facing challenges with a strong network, friends, and coaches, is key to being successful in what you want to achieve. Linkedin: Jen DeSantis If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I kept falling into the shadow of my father." "How do I make my own name, so they remember me?" "I have the same birthday as her, so we are connected no matter what." "Working hard, raising your hand, being bold...those things only take you so far." "It was 10pm on a Friday night, and you replied...so I'm like, ok, she's real." "I could tell you were going to help me vocalize what I was thinking." "If you want to be a leader, you have to get into a role that is 50% uncomfortable." "I hate this. This is not me. This is not what I set out to be." "I truly brought my authentic self to that call." "You said, 'Jen, describe yourself in one word.' And I said, 'Unsupported!' And then I burst into tears." "I've only had three breakdowns in my life. And that was one of them." "Yes! I got the job!" "I wanted my own thing, whatever that would be. But I forgot I could do my own thing." "We've been celebrating change. Like really celebrating change." "I want her to be so proud of me that she want to be like me." "Getting through life, getting through these challenges, cannot be done alone."
What happens when you place the stat of your happiness on one thing? On your job, on the government, on just one person. Hint: likely nothing good. In this week's episode, Erin and Nicole talk bout Ruth Bader Ginsberg's passing and how that could affect the nation. They talk about how it doesn't have to be all sadness. The overarching lesson: you don't have to be a Supreme Court Judge to make an impact. You simply need to be willing to say the things people need to hear, when they least want to hear them. Erin Haztikostas and Nicole Licata Grant start off talking about the Zoom touch-up filter (yep, so not authentic but oh well) Erin's been experimenting with as of late, and Nicole describes her dream filter (if anyone from Zoom is listening, take note.) Erin talks about their recent Tedx Tailgate, where Erin ran through her Tedx Talk for the first time without a script. Nicole likens the Tedx speech process to that of a hostage situation. Erin talks about meeting the diverse group of speakers that will be at the event, and how her topic will fit in. Nicole shares her latest day helping run a Food Drive, and why she (mostly) thinks they are BS. They talk about the late Ruth Bader Ginsberg, how they fely when they first heard the news, what concerns and questions it raises for the future, and what a powerful, intelligent, and inspiring person she was. Erin shares thoughts on how people can carry on her legacy, even if they feel like they don't have the power and prominence to match Ruth Bader Ginsberg. Maybe we don't each need to bring the Supreme Court to it's knees, but if we each do whatever we can, and slide each small puzzle piece into place, we can make a difference. They discuss what the future may hold for Law, civil rights, and democracy across America. Erin then asks what positives she would take from the current time and circumstances. The answer? Don't be meek about your missions (and yes, Erin probably had to google the word "meek.") If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Did you just say Seffra? It's Sephora." "It's art, it's the delivery, the tone, the inflection, how and when to pause...it's kind of like a hostage situation, that's theatre too right?" "There is nothing happening in the world right now that doesn't deserve some kind of debate." "If it doesn't stir controversy, well then maybe you're dead." "It's very easy to live in an echo chamber, and that's a very dangerous place to live." "I am fully over make-up." "It was not even a person ago." "Change happens when you say the things people need to hear, when they don't want to hear them." "You can't come to Thanksgiving when the turkey is being carved and expect appetizers." "We're in a system where change happens in courtrooms." "This woman has a vision of a time that didn't even exist. She was like a time machine." "She wasn't anybody but herself." "If your grandmother is the Supreme Court Justice...that's pretty cool."
Exposing your authentic self can be hard, especially at work. But is it even harder for people (especially women) of color? La-Toya Hackney joins the b Cause "couch" to talk about the "thoughtful fearlessness" she used to help her go from being a self-proclaimed nerd from North Phili to becoming the Senior Vice President for a global 500 company. La-Toya shares her journey, including the four very powerful questions she uses to evaluate whether it's time for change or not. "You own your career", she says. And she shows you she's done just that for her own. Erin Hatzikostas meets with her friend La-Toya HAckney, for a discussion on discrimination, determination, and La-Toya's journey in life so far. With an undergraduate degree from Stanford and a Law degree from Harvard, and now entering a job as SVP, General Council and Secretary for Saint-Gobain, La-Toya is a source of authentic inspiration for us all. Erin introduces La-Toya, her accomplishments, and how they met. Then Erin asks her to describe who young La-Toya was and what she was like. She tells us she was a nerd before it was cool to be a nerd, an only child raised by a single mom, and a Philly girl through and through. Wanting to take a non-traditional path in life, La-Toya planned to overcome the assumptions people might have about her by having a laser focus on her goals - becoming a lawyer and having an education from the top schools in the country. Erin asks La-Toya what it was like to attend Stanford and what she got out of that education. While at Stanford she also did a semester at Howard, and another semester studying at Oxford (all of this by 18 years-old!) La-Toya shares some calming advice that her mom shared with her about being a black woman getting ready to head out into the world. Erin asks La-Toya to share some advice on what she would say to other young, disadvantaged people today who may not be able to get an Ivy League education. LA-Toya would give you the same advice she's giving her daughter: go where you'll feel most nurtured. Not everyone wants or will go to an Ivy League college, so find the right choice for you. La-Toya then discusses what resources she's giving her daughter to cope with discrimination in the world. She talks about how her daughter's perspective however is different than that of La-Toya's. She's hopeful that her daughter, and other women of color, will have to face less adversity than she did. La-Toya lets us in on her four questions she asks herself when she is accessing her career. Am I learning? Am I growing? Am I contributing? Do I still like the people? If she answer is no to any of these questions, then she knows she has to make an adjustment or change. Erin reflects on when and why people may be saying "no" to these questions, and her own experiences on when some of the answers to hose questions were certainly "no" for her. Erin asks about La-Toya's husband, how they maintain a marriage and co=parenting as they both work in very demanding jobs and share difficult experiences. Linkedin: La-Toya Hackney If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Nerds are cool now. I was a nerd when it was not cool at all." "I'm a Philly girl through and through." "I had a super lazer focus. I know, I sound like a fun kid, right?" "Being in a different environment, you have to really stretch yourself and adjust." "Stanford allowed me to craft my own unique undergraduate experience." "As a black woman going into Law, they may not like other things about you, but they can never deny your credentials." "I always expect a certain amount of discrimination I will have to push back against." "You have to reveal more of yourself to effectively lead teams." "Authenticity does not equal transparency." "Do not feel pressured to build your family in any way that is not authentic to yourself." "Not every single moment needs to be cracking the glass ceiling." "To whom much is given, much is required."
Work has such funny shit, why aren't we laughing at it more? Women's conferences are a treasure trove of brilliant ideas, awkward meetings, and straight-up bizarre situations. Especially when it comes to the techniques for ice breakers, like maintaining eye contact for 10 minutes. From the co-hosts of the b Cause podcast with Erin & Nicole, they take to the coach to say the things you are thinking but are too afraid to say out loud (well, at least on the internet.) Check out more on our b Authentic inc Youtube Channel:
We're all so programmed to do all the things. And do them quickly. But what might happen if you slow the ef down and give yourself permission to focus on small things? Hint: you'd see BIG transformation. In your work and in your life. This week Erin and Nicole do a deep dive check-in on how Erin's TEDx Talk is coming along (live on October 10th!), and what they find are so many lessons learned that can be applied to all of career and life. They kick off the episode talking about how broken Nicole Licata Grant feels right now. Well, mostly her computer. They share their WTF moments of the week, which have happy endings and...happy dead people?! Erin Hatzikostas loses the diamond on her wedding ring, and Nicole receives a mystery package from a distant family (well, sorta) member. Do you listen to the universe? Do you think it has an energy? Erin and Nicole discuss what they think on the topic, and what signs they've been sent recently. Nicole tells a story of visiting a medium, and what her grandmother wants to tell her from beyond the grave. Erin discusses the process of applying to do a TED Talk - how persistency, overcoming rejection, and practice, is key. She talks about how to logistically get through the talk and the writing process. Erin shares what she learned about herself and the process...and how that applies to so much more than preparing a TED Talk! Nicole links into some of Erin's advice on writing by reflecting on her future diary, and how she feels she may have written it with too much focus on what other people would want her to be doing. So, Erin asks her, if she could pick one thing, what would she change? They then discuss how to focus on the small things that matter to you, and how you shouldn't always focus on the big things in life, because it's the small things that will be the tipping point for bigger transformation. Nicole talks about her issue with the current lack of human interaction, and how she feels uncomfortable with the idea that people will get used to seeing each other less, and more used to a virtual world without in-person interaction. Though, maybe this is a projection of her feelings towards the Virtual Baby Shower she has to attend. Either way, Erin has some ideas to save the day, and if you our listeners have any ideas, send them in too! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Your shit is broken. You're broken. Everything is broken." "I'm really good at deflecting." "I'm Italian. I can't talk without my hands. If you tied them down, I'd probably be quiet." "She's the third wife of my mom's first cousin's first husband." "Persistency is key." "We run this Compromise Calculation, where you see this inverse correlation between your career and everything else." "You see people on the big stage, but it's the Mondays and Tuesdays that make the good speakers. It's the practice." "I think I need to go through a healing process." "My perfect day needs to be very quiet." "It's not the big things that make things tip. It's the small things that cause big transformation." "A good laugh goes a long way." "The fact that we're getting lazy about making human interactions s not healthy." "I'm going to maximize the shit out of these festivities." "Even out of broken things, we can make magic."
Often we have this perception of "woman at the top." They don't have kids. Or if they do, they must be willing to sacrifice so much for their career. What if that wasn't how it had to be? Well, it's certainly not the case for Jean LaTorre. Jean talks about her rise from a family that had trouble making ends meet to becoming the Chief Investment Officer for a Fortune 50 company. And how she did that while remaining true to herself and her family. Erin Hatzikostas interviews Jean LaTorre, former Chief Investment Officer and Corporate Economist of Aetna and the current Executive Vice President and Chief Investment Officer of Guardian. Erin asks Jean how she started her career, and what she was like when she was younger. Jean talks about how she grew up "more than modest" in New York, sometimes struggling for rent or surviving on food stamps. After a poignant moment when her mom wasn't able to pay for Jean's health care incident, Jean decided she would make sure she could always "make ends meet." She went to college and although English was her passion, she coupled that degree with a major in business. It was "practical", she says. She then started her career in the Investment world and continually worked her way up the corporate ladder, progressing from one strong position to another. Erin reflects on a time Jean inspired her with a speech at a women's conference, with words that have stuck with Erin to this day, "I like being a girl." Erin asks Jean to discuss tough managers and colleagues, and share some advice on how to deal with the more difficult of your work acquaintances. Have you ever been passed by for an opportunity because your boss thinks you would be too stressed to handle the kids and the work? Or maybe you were in a car accident and your bosses only reply is "get here and get your head in the game." Well, that happened to Jean. So yeah, she has a few tips and tricks on how to handle it. Next, Erin asks Jean to give some advice for the working moms out there - what kind of boundaries to put up between work and home. Jean says "Stop beating yourself up, there's no one right way to do something." They move on to discuss what drives Jean to work with different organizations, such as PRIDE, the LGBTQ+ Community at Guardian. She reminisces on when she became Chief Investment Officer...in January 2008, so, that was a hard year. Then she gives her take on the current economic and social situation. Erin talks about writing her book, and how to get around telling truthful stories without hurting the people involved. This opens an opportunity for Jean and Erin to share funny stories they've both experienced as it related to the workplace that they think would go well in a book. Linkedin: Jean LaTorre If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I had this fear I always had to make ends meet." "You have to leave your comfort zone. You could stay in your comfort zone, but then you wouldn't expand." "No matter where I was, I thought I was at the top of my game." "I really like being a girl." "In family responsibility, more than 50% lies within the woman." "Don't assume." "All I'm doing is stressing and rushing." "When I'm at work I need to be present at work, and when I'm at home, I need to be present at home." "Stop beating yourself up." "When I'm gone someday and my children talk about me, I want them to say 'my mother loved me.'" "An important part of being involved in communities you're not part of is that you can serve as an ally." "What breaks my heart is the story of a child that doesn't feel loved." "Is she the pretty one or the smart one? I still don't know which one to this day."
Erin and Nicole take you smack dab in the middle of their Future Diary process as it unfolds. Join alongside them as Nicole discovers a future she cannot live without, and Erin talks her through the steps to make it happen. What did you write in your Future Diary? If you haven't yet written one, stop right there and carve out 30 minutes to make it happen! What one thing will you not compromise on having? And what one, first step will you take towards achieving it? It's truly that simple. We start the episode off with some inspiring music. Erin Hatzikostas has found the perfect song for running, and air-drumming at the gym - Rise Up by Imagine Dragons. She also talks about an article she helped to write for Well+Good - "It's Been 5 Months Since Pants Died-But Is the Work From Home Dress Code Compromising Productivity." But after a brief conversation on music, Nicole Licata Grant can escape her homework review no longer: The Future Diary. Nicole talks about how she had trouble getting into what she thought was the right mindset to write this Future Diary. She realizes that maybe being in a bad place is in fact a good time for her to write. Erin talks about how a Future Diary is not meant to impress people or be fancy writing. They are just supposed to be honest about what your perfect day would be. Then they both decide to talk through each of their Future Diaries. Erin asks Nicole to focus on one thing that stands out from her diary. For Nicole it's focussing on creating an artistic outlet: interviewing artists, dancing, writing, and more. So then Erin asks, what would be your first step to do that? Nicole decides she's going to write a blog: a series f funny essays. Erin also asks her how it would feel to not achieve any of this. How would it feel to never achieve a single thing you wanted to, from the biggest part of your perfect day, to the smallest thing? Reflecting on the last question, Nicole starts to realize things about her current situation, and how she thinks she should be feeling about life. Erin encourages her to start thinking about trying to impress herself more than those around her. Erin then asks Nicole to go out and find five extenders - 5 people who have the success that Nicole wants and share their stories of how they got there. Erin then reads from her Future Diary. If you think it sounds grandiose, remember this is her third time writing one, and the first two largely came true. That is the point of the Future Diary, if you set out where you want to be in life, you are so much more likely to get there. To get Erin's FREE video course, Unst*ck Yourself, go to bauthenticinc.com/unstuck If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Do I look like a Hoodlum or what?" "Nothing has ever made me WANT to run." "ISn't there a makeup feature on Zoom yet?" "You can't wait for the perfect mindset to move forward." "Make it messy. Make it happen. Then make another one." "The Future Diary is not supposed to impress people." "We have a lot of societal cue's around women." "There are things that have me on the hamster wheel and make me feel chained." "You have to get to a place where you're more concerned with impressing yourself than impressing others." "I tackle routine shit with the same fervor and energy that I tackle things at work." "You're either on the Rocketship to success or you're on the street." "It's like mindfulness and gratitude got put on autoplay for us."
Have you ever felt unaligned with your work? Or maybe simply that you're not making the impact you could...in your job or in the world? In this episode, one of Erin's clients tells her story of how she went from unseen and bored to confident and literally sitting in the board room in just six months (and during Covid!) Erin Hatzikostas interviews Tara Autrey, a Strategic Marketing Manager at Aetna, and a Board Member of the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention. Erin kicks off by asking Tara to talk about her situation towards the end of last year, and what challenges she was facing. Tara talks about how she read one of Erin's articles and then was invited to her and Kaitlyn's "Your Richest Life" workshop. Tara took this as a sign from the universe that this is what she needed to break out of her rut. Erin asks Tara to talk through what she learned about herself and the result she's seen after taking this leap and participating in the workshop. Tara talks about what she learned about herself and how she evaluated her skills, passion, and her "ikigai". Tara discusses her uncle's suicide - how she felt she couldn't help him at the time, but has since dedicated much of her life to helping others, whether that be fundraising for charities, or sending simple messages to people who seem to be struggling, just so they know someone cares. Erin then asks Tara to explain some of the things that happened - tangible and intangible - since the conference. Tara talks about wanting to become a board member for the American Foundation of Suicide Prevention, and the steps she, successfully, took to get there. She explains that Covid has been a difficult time for so many people as it relates to mental health. However, she's found that mental health awareness as a whole has had a massive boost, with more and more people accepting the everyday realities of mental health. They both discuss the energy you need to do the things you want, how to change your mindset, how to network the right way, and how you might be surprised with how you feel afterwards. Tara explains how this confidence permeates all aspects of her life, from raising kids to going to the gym. The conversation moves on to mental health, the message Tara would like to get across about mental health: how to spot signs that someone might be struggling, how to react, and when to reach out. Erin and Tara end by talking about life decisions...that even the smallest of moments can have a huge impact on your life, and you may not even realize it until you look back. You can follow Tara @ LinkedIn: Twitter: TaraA_79 To get Erin's FREE video course, Unst*ck Yourself, go to bauthenticinc.com/unstuck If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I just knew I had to get out of this rut." "At any given time you need to be doing one of two things: you either need to be inspired, or you need to inspire others." "Corporate America wants you to be a bold leader, but you can still be a leader, a quiet leader." "I always had that in the back of my mind, but I never thought about making a living or a profession out of it." "In this time, people are more isolated, and people who are not generally depressed feel it even more. So Covid is making mental health more at the forefront." "People who are doing things they love to do or are having success; it's not a fancy formula, it's simply that they persisted." "I felt like my energy shifted, and I was more confident in my abilities." "Sometimes I have undermined my own value, and I just didn't see it." "The small poofs of inspiration can make all the difference." "Suicide affects a lot more than one person, so if you reach out to that one person you are making a difference and caring for a lot more people's lives." "Most people ask how you're doing, but they don't actually want to know." "Invest in yourself." "I think we're all ok and not ok at the very same time." "If you ever want to invest in yourself, take the chance."
Work has such funny shit, why aren't we laughing at it more? Interviews are Petri-dishes (sometimes quite literally) for all kinds of awkward and hilarious stuff. They're also a great place to ask deep and thoughtful questions like: "Who's your plastic surgeon?" From the co-hosts of the b Cause podcast with Erin & Nicole, they take to the coach to say the things you are thinking but are too afraid to say out loud (well, at least on the internet.) Check out more on our b Authentic inc Youtube Channel:
Too many people spend time trying to fit into the molds in front of them. How do I change to get the promotion? What does "Leadership" expect from me? What should I be doing for work? It's time to reverse that! You have to stop shoulding on yourself and instead, write down some of the big-ass life you want (and deserve). A Future Diary is Erin's non-woo-woo way of coaching people to manifest what they want. To see and feel the life they deserve. And then effing go get it! It's another fun-filled week with Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant, as they sit down for another "How was your week?" episode. Erin returns from a trip to Michigan with her family and a huge power outage in the wake of Tropical Storm, Isaias. She and Nicole discuss the effects of the storm, amid a global pandemic and also a heatwave - because 2020 is the year that keeps on giving. Erin asks Nicole to discuss how her job changes when an event such as Hurricane Isaias happens. Nicole talks about the struggle she feels between working on the ground level in emergency response, a role she loves, but now also being in a more senior position. Erin then asks her to think about which of these roles she prefers, and which she would choose if she had to. Nicole talks about recent difficulties at work, with new management and new situations, trying to find a mix between what she thinks is right, what others think are right, and trying to apply some of Erin's coaching and ideas. Erin asks Nicole a question that maybe many of our listeners have thought before - what keeps her there? Do you ever feel like the kid who wasn't picked for the team at P.E? Well, Nicole does. But maybe there's more to it than that. Maybe there were cliques who were bullies and wouldn't pick you, but maybe you never even liked the sport, maybe you arrived late and didn't really want to be there. Erin talks Nicole through her coaching tips, and writing a Future Diary - not to figure out how to get what you want, the steps that need to be taken, or what problems could arise along the way, but simply to write down your dreams. What is your perfect day? Even if 50% of it sounds ludicrous because you're on a yacht somewhere doing something you never expected, just write it, dream it. And stay tuned for episode 72 where Nicole will be on the hook to read us all her Future Diary! To get Erin's FREE video course, Unst*ck Yourself, go to bauthenticinc.com/unstuck If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You may be out of power, but you still have the force." "Oh you're sitting in a pandemic? Well let me give you this storm and take your power and your WIFI too." "In emergencies we allow ourselves to accept a measure of uncertainty." "Even as an entrepreneur with my own business I am constantly asking myself, 'what do I really love to do?" "Nobody hires a leader when things are good." "When I want to say ' are you fucking kidding me' I now say 'let me get back to you on that.'" "You have to fight the conspiracy in your own head." "A lot of leaders don't know how to communicate well either." "The other thing that keeps me there is fear. Am I worthy of something else?" "With a fresh start, you won't be a new person, but it will be so much easier." "Am I choosing not to play, or do I feel unqualified to play, or am I not invited to play?" "Part of my big challenge is that this is a pattern of behavior." "I'm in an industry that thrives on certainty and mitigating risk, but I'm doing work entirely based on uncertainty." "Culture is driven more by the leaders and not by the industry." "I believe you were put on this earth to do something bigger and better, that's run by you, that's strategized by you, that stands by you." "My goal with anyone I coach isn't to change them. It's to change their addiction." "Be audacious."
Work feels like one big game of Survivor these days, doesn't it? So we thought, "Hey, what if we could talk to a real Survivor winner (like CBS' epic show, 'Survivor'!) to see what we can learn from someone that had to face challenges way harder then your average office politics, all while hangry and homeless! This week, Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Survivor Season 24 winner Kim Spradlin-Wolfe (winning Survivior is a HUGE deal ya'll), to discuss what it was like to be on Survivor - through both a win and a loss - and more importantly, what lessons she took away for her own, real-life that she can share with others. Erin kicks things off by asking Kim about her time on Survivor, and how she felt about being thrown into a female/male divide (it was literally men vs women.) Kim discusses how she prepared (or didn't) for the show, and how her upbringing gave her a false sense of what "leadership" actually meant. With trust being such a volatile part of the game, Erin asks Kim how she handled others, both within and outside the game. Kim explains that she tried to build authentic connections with other contestants, so they had some level of trust in each other, even if trust is never truly possible in the game. Erin's daughter, Ella, wrote many of the questions Erin asked of Kim. For example, did playing the game destroy any bad habits? Spoiler: it certainly did. Did they get to bring toothbrushes? Spoiler: Nope! How do you put your emotions behind you? Do you get to wear sunscreen on survivor? They move on to discuss Kim's latest venture - her own design company - and how she decided to reinvent herself post show. Kim explains that during her first time of Survivor, she ran two bridal shops, but realized that it was actually the designing of th shop that she loved the most (selling dresses wasn't for her.) So with the prize money from winning the show, she decided to buy and renovate an old home, a process she enjoyed so much it led to her becoming an interior designer. Kim now focuses full time on interior design and renovation, and she's working on a potential pilot for a home renovation TV show! Kim won Survivor, but more importantly, she found her ikigai. You can follow Kim on IG @kimspradlinwolfe If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I was able to go in, get a lay of the land, and do what needed to be done." "You know you can; trust anyone; everyone will screw you over in the end. But you have to find a way to trust where you can." "I was trying to make authentic relationships, because there was a trust in the connection, even if there was no trust in the game." "Nothing in my life has changed me as much as Survivor has." "I realized I was in all these cycles, and I think Survivor helped me break them." "I was then playing with all these people I'd watched and idolized in my 20's - really a lot of pinch-me moments." "Go spelunking and see what's written on your walls." "If it's second class to be a girl, then I will be a strong girl who can throw a football better than the boys." "When it rains it pours. When things are going well they go really well. That's how One World felt the entire season." "Don't hate me because I'm eating peanut butter in the shower." "When I was a kid we moved to 16 homes, and the consolation prize was always getting to redo my room." "I like getting my hands dirty." "What I do has to be meaningful for me, otherwise I can get off track really easily." "One thing that breaks my heart is women who haven't locked into any identity and don't feel any power."
Who isn't asking themselves a few questions these days? How am I showing up? What am I serving up to myself, my colleagues, my family and anyone else one might see me in 3-D these days? Erin Hatzikoastas and Nicole Licata Grant take it all in as they Zoom it up for another How Was Your Week Episode. And it's chock full of humor and honesty about the aches and pains in life, work and everything in between. Appreciating that folks are still cheering her on 60+ big episodes in and asking some redemption, Nicole ponders a big Question, and talks about utilizing Erin's advice at work as she prepares for both the arrival of a new CEO/boss in the U.S and a virtual visit from the Big Boss from the global group. And, cue up a classic b Cause WTF moment...ah, the good 'ole times! Sometimes you have to not only ask the questions, but also answer your own damn question... This turns out to be a perfect into for Erin's Authentic So Hard (ASH) du jour, the launching of "A-H.O.L.E.S : Authentic Humans Overhauling Lousy Energy". In true Erin fashion, she's already drafted the manifesto and building a whole movement around it. But it hasn't been easy, and in a self-coaching moment Erin shares recent self-questioning, including that maybe it's time to shift her approach to include things she may have avoided. Nicole gives her own idea for a supplementary framework based on a favorite four-letter word: Finally Upending Keynote Speeches. b Cause, of course... would anyone question buying into that service? But another question looms: Are corporate spaces ready for the type of work Erin is doing? It seems that individuals clearly are hungry, but traditions and rules in the workplace create a gap between what corporations think serve en masses and what individuals want, Erin and Nicole feel like the playbook is changing; notable that employees being "out there" as valuable ambassadors - and assets - and not only can be, but must be leveraged in new ways, even if it doesn't seem like corporations are fully "there" yet. With that, Nicole talks about her own ASH moment, feeling that the pace she's been moving is not sustainable. So, when a colleague asks for a task, Nicole explains - authentically - the situation, and surprise, surprise, she got a positive response. Whoa! It all leads to the next big question: in this new world that's opening back up, what will going back to regular work (or different) life be like? But not to worry, the podcast will still be going strong: Nicole has a whole list of new observations, discomforts, and unsanitized questions to talk about. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Am I only fun to be around when I'm drunk?" "Here I am, Identifying my problems but doing nothing to solve them." "Anyone who hasn't listened to an episode before, that was a summary of the last 60+ episodes of Nicole's career." "The antichrist of authenticity is this lousy, fake, go through the motions, bullshit energy that's in the corporate workplace." "If I'm going to go and talk to corporations, how are they going to feel when they see things sassy like 'A-HOLE Manifesto'?" "I've got one for you: F.U.C.K. - Finally Upending Crappy Keynotes." "It's not going to stop me, but it reminds me I'm really pushing at the forefront of something that's different." "It's the same playbook being set everywhere, and it has been for 30 years, and it's just not enough. The playbook is not working." "If you're looking to move the needle, and you're looking to shake it up, then probably I'm you're gal." "A lot of this shit sounds self-serving, and it's self-serving for the people at the top." "You're doing the simple things that aren't that costly but make the biggest difference." My LinkedIn has really blown up recently, maybe it's because I'm no longer behind a firewall." "Every day I have people say 'if you have a job, I don't care what level, I'm gonna come and work for you." "I'm feeling burned out, I'm not feeling productive, I'm feeling like I need to not sit in front of a computer for 18 hours a day." "I've got a whole list of new anxieties to explore in this new world." "We could be the best MC's any women's conference has ever seen." "I was forced to have calls, I was forced to have interactions with people - there was a natural flow to things... even if it exhausted me."
It is nearly impossible to not feel inadequate in a world where accomplishment badges are everywhere. Comparison Monsters, as this week's guest calls them, can cripple our confidence. But what if you could change all of that by simply getting "back to neutral?" This week, Erin Hatzikostas talks with Hilary Billings, former Miss Nevada, an on-camera host, celebrity interviewer, event MC, digital influencer, and motivational comedian to talk about everything from overcoming rejection to overcoming third-degree burns. Hilary talks about her early life, coming from a "Production Family", which led her wanted to stay as far away from the entertainment industry as she could (you'll see how well that worked out.) After getting rejection letters from 14 different graduate schools, she went to Nicaragua to rest and recover. She unexpectedly started writing travel blogs before meeting a great community of people and deciding to continue working as a travel blogger/writer. Then, just a few weeks after returning home, she was tragically hit in the chest by a malfunctioning firework. While recovering she realized she needed to do something that would make her wildly uncomfortable. She landed on entering the Miss Nevada pageant, because being judged in a swimsuit with burn scars felt like the epitome of getting uncomfortable. Erin asks to discuss not only why she decided to go traveling, but how and why she started writing about her travels. Hilary tells the story of a young woman she met who inspired her to think a different way about her options in life, and who's death were a catalyst for Hilary's next steps in life. The discussion continues with Hilary explaining how she went from a travel writer to becoming Miss Nevada. She mentions how shocked she was when she realized how many of the contestants were not "the stereotypical pageant girl" but were in fact people with unique and sincere reasons to be there and use it as a platform for their message of positive change. Erin asks about Hilary's move into E! News (it helps being named best blogger of the year and then being contacted by the editor of USA Today) which leads into a conversation on work ethic and what she learned as a journalist. Ending on the big topic of confidence, Hilary discusses feelings of inadequacy and insecurity. How do you gain the confidence to take steps forward in life and in your career? She advocates for not jumping from one extreme to another and/or the "fake it till you make it" mentality. The likelihood is you will fall short. So instead of moving in extremes, move towards the neutral and slowly build your confidence. You can get her free workbook - "Four Steps To Quick Confidence" and so much more @ hilarybillings.com If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You bleed authenticity." "I love this idea of you as an authenticity bloodhound." "It's been this b-line of trying and getting involved in new things, and continuing down this path of embracing and overcoming diversity." "Take that experience and proactively apply it to the next problem you run in to. If you're able to look back and apply that knowledge - that's the win." "I'd never been in a pageant before. I was borrowing clothes and had my dress sponsored. I couldn't afford any of it." "My first ever interview was with Ryan Seacrest - so you know, no pressure." "The first rejection, you take it a lot harder. But then comes ages and time and seasons. The faster you fail, the more resilient you become." "If I got the thing I thought I wanted, I would not be here. " "Everyone we grew up looking at was airbrushed, but we didn't know it. Yet even now we do know, and we are aware, we still compare ourselves to it." "IF you're in that place of feeling inadequate, and you try to pretend confidence, it will pull you down further." "Try to find confidence in an authentic way." "The definition of confidence is having the belief that you can rely on someone or something." "For me, a big part of finding confidence and overcoming inadequacy is finding comedy in everyday life." "It's been a lesson in dealing with some of the lower consciousness of the world."
Does it make any sense that most people work nonstop for 40 years so they can simply enjoy the last few years of their life? Shelley Paxton would argue that your soul deserves better. She believes that everyone deserves to b successful, not success-empty - and a life that's more authentic, courageous and purposeful. Erin Hatzikostas sits down with the rebel of all rebels, Shelley Paxton, the former Chief Marketing Officer for Haley Davidson. She since has left and started a Soulbbatical movement. Shelley discusses her inspirational father, how he went from meager beginnings to a CEO at multiple companies, and how even his mentality while battling illness in his later life was an inspiration. Erin asks Shelley to talk about her younger life, how she was a rebel living the classic sex drugs and rock 'n' roll lifestyle...and also that time she drove into a lake. Shelley talks about how she left college and started a great job at a huge marketing agency, moonlighting as part of an improv comedy act...only to ask for a sabbatical at the age of 25. This sabbatical had a huge impact on her mindset, personal, and professional life, leading her to constantly question what do we NEED to do? When SHOULD we work? WHERE should we work? Should we save for 40 years so we can enjoy the last 5? Erin talks about her 50% rule when trying anything, whether at home or at work - 50% of what you should do, and 50% of how you do it your own way. Shelley talks about pushing your boundaries and living a life that is true to you. She also opens up about a dark time in her life when she wasn't talking about her feelings and didn't think asking for help was an ok thing to do. She talks openly about her attempted suicide, and what she's learned from looking back on that period of her life. We hear a few excerpts from Shelley's book, "Soulbbatical: A Corporate Rebel's Guide to Finding Your Best Life". Be sure to check it out to really bring out your inner rebel. (FYI the book is so incredibly written Erin might have the entire thing tattooed.) You can find Shelley and the Soulbbatical book and movement at: soulbbatical.com Instagram @ soulbbatical Facebook @ Soulbbatical Coaching / Shelley Paxton Linkedin@ Shelley Paxton If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "If we weren't living it before, we're living it now." "It was one of those things where you think 'This isn't supposed to happen. This can't happen.'" "I think I shot out of the womb rebelling against everything." "We somehow made our way through all of the trees, and our car nosedives into a lake." "Improv is like life training, it's magical." "We were 25/26 and we wanted to take a sabbatical. The Young and the Restless." "The rebel who forgot how to break the rules." "I want to spread my wings. So when an assignment comes up, send me wherever no one else wants to go." "The concept of a soulbbatical is not to leave your job, it's to find yourself." "My number one regret would be not living the life that was true to me." "What would change in your life right now if you were being 100% true to you?" "What are your personal values?" "We are powerful motherfuckers." "Awaken the rebel within."
It has been a dark several months. This week Nicole and Erin bring a big-ass spotlight of fun back into the b Cause Podcast via an improved run-through of the b Cause Facebook Group's least favorite business buzzwords. Erin and Nicole double-click on the best-in-class business buzzword long hanging fruit. From their vantage point, they socialize it by saying more words to find the synergies and unpack a bunch of stuff that's above their paygrade. In this short episode of fun and laughter, Erin Hatzikostas, Nicole Licata Grant, and Megan Thatford sit down together, reminiscing about the first-ever recording of b Cause and paying homage to the kick-ass community it has catalyzed. Besides the reminiscing and business buzzwords, they also get slightly sidetracked talking about Nicole's soaring success with the b Cause Twitter account (well, actually, she got put in Twitter prison after one tweet, which leads to the realization that she perhaps wasn't the right candidate for the job.) Listen in for the shortest, most action-packed b Cause episode yet! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We were having a quote on quote strategy meeting, and the quote on quote is very large because we're not that strategic." "You forgot to tell me your Twitter engagement was so low You didn't mention that in the interview." "I got put in Twitter Prison. Day one." "I don't know anything about the social media, I'm a dinosaur." "Anyone listening, hashtag speedmetal: it works." "You know Nicole, we're going to take this offline. Our listeners don't have time for this." "The juice isn't worth this grease." "There's probably synergies involved." "Our podcast listeners don't have time for this. I don't hav any line of sight on how this is going to help us get listeners." "I feel like you didn't socialize this. Potentially you just made a unilateral decision." "In reality, this is a little above my paygrade." "Can you just say more words about that?" "I think you just won." "That was best in class." "I'd like to double-click on that and maybe dive a bit deeper." "Eh, we've always done it that way." "Are we thinking enough outside the box though?" "I don't think that's been socialized enough before."
We've all taken those personality tests. Hell, we even talk about them on this podcast. But can these tests do more harm than good? Is your personality your authentic self? Or rather, is it that your personality (and your authenticity) can and SHOULD continually change? Erin sits down with Dr Benjamin Hardy, an organizational psychologist, to discuss everything from enneagrams, to trauma, to how envisioning your future self is critical to your growth. From humble beginnings and an unfortunate childhood situation, Ben is an organizational psychologist and bestselling author of Willpower Doesn't Work. His blogs have been read by over 100 million people and are featured on Forbes, Fortune, CNBC, Cheddar, Big Think, and many others. He is a regular contributor to Inc and Psychology Today and from 2015-2018, he was the #1 writer, in the world, on medium.com. He and his wife Lauren adopted three children through the foster system in February 2018 and, one month later, Lauren became pregnant with twins, who were born in December of 2018. They live on Orlando. Ben has gone on to become a best-selling author of one highly successful book, and working on two more, forged a career in organizational psychology, and started a family. Erin asks Ben what started him on the road to Organizational Psychology and they dive deep into the pitfalls of personality tests, such as enneagrams and Myers Briggs. Ben discusses the difference between identity and personality, and how they can shape, or be shaped, by behavior. He moves on to discuss how people view themselves, and how you can create a picture of your future self: how you want your future self to be, to make sure you don't become stuck in who you think you are now. You can find more information about Ben, his book, and his work here: Or you can buy his latest book, Personality Isn't Permanent here: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We even sare more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsustainable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You are a positive deviant in how you challenge the norm." "My big problem with these tests is that they overemphasize a person's personality." "Your identity shapes your behavior. And over time, your behavior becomes your personality." "You might notice everything that fits your label, but you won't notice all the other things that don't fit your identity." "Research shows that your personality will change over time, whether you do anything about it or not." "You can always develop, but if you stick yourself in a category then you might not even try it." "Last week could have become a trauma if I'd been caught up in it. But I decided not to be defined by it." "Trauma, if unresolved, creates a fixed mindset." "You see yourself a certain way, but it's not objective. IT's not fact." "You're as sick as your secrets." "I have so many roles, and if I was the same person in each of those roles it wouldn't work." "Nothing good happens when you do a bonfire with old high school friends."
You're running on the corporate treadmill. It keeps going faster and faster. It keeps getting tougher and tougher. What can you possibly do to not go flying off that treadmill, only to faceplant into the mirror on the wall?! Sometimes you have to look up from all the running you're doing and look straight into that mirror. If you can see the craziness and the beauty that is your authentic self, that's where change starts. First within. Then outside. This week's episode gets deeper and more raw than Nicole or Erin expected. Nicole starts by talking about the "Zoom-bomb" she got from her boss at 8:01 on a Monday morning to let her know of yet another big shift at work - a new CEO. Erin takes some time to coach Nicole, asking her to close her eyes and describe two paths she can go down as she heads into this change. They discuss Nicole's fear of being judged, and how the overcompensation for those fears and insecurities may just be the fuel to the fires she feels time and time again. Erin reflects on moments in her career where she faced similar challenges to Nicole, and they discuss the difference in attitudes, approaches, and outcomes. Finally, Erin asks Nicole to visualize a different path, where she finds self-love and has full control of her success in both her personal and professional life. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It was a typical Sunday night: half panic attack, half wanna drink a bottle of tequila and slide into Monday morning. I was feeling pretty good." "You're always half-dressed." "It feels like a loss of control, a complete breakdown in communication." "They're asking for an ocean when what they need is a grain of sand." "If I'm a CEO coming in, I want to have a dialogue. I want to be asked questions." "If you met an asshole in the morning, you met an asshole. If you meet assholes all day, you're the asshole." "That is how I came into this company, and that is how I had success. But I have been beaten down by the system, maybe it's time to be un-beaten down." "The goal was to connect. I defined how we would connect. And I really thought about him first." "Being a survivor is not mutually exclusive to being a victim." "None of this can systemically change until you decide to love yourself." "If you ask good questions - and you ask for feedback you're willing to accept - someone might come back to you and ask the same." "Nothing is wrong, or everything is wrong. That's just who I am."
Life often whispers at you. If you don't listen, it gets louder and louder. But what if you not only listened, but used it as the thing that powered you to rise to new heights? This week, Erin interviews Rafat Fields, Founder of Powered to Rise. Rafat is a woman small in stature but gigantic in spirit. They discuss everything from her career ups and downs to her son's autism to her journey from obesity to competitive USA weightlifting. Rafat also helps you to see that your personal brand is the key to unlocking success for you and your company. Rafat tells us that she has an addiction to being in control, something that's likely relatable to a lot of us. She talks about a time in her life where she felt a lack of talent or ability, of always trying to live up to standards expected of her (or of herself), and how it had massive negative effects on her mindset and quality of life at work. So, Erin asks her to discuss why she started feeling this way. She discusses her son's autism, how that affected decisions at the time involving work and where to settle. She moves on to discuss her weight, and her journey from being obese to becoming a competitive athlete. They also talk about the power that your own values and personal brand can have on your success within your own company, whether you're the CEO, a sales person, or just about anyone in the company. Finally, Erin and Rafat discuss how she is feeling, as a black woman living in America, in light of recent events. "Exhausted", Rafat replies. Rafat is an incredibly humble and inspiring soul. This is not an episode you want to miss! Follow Rafat @ Facebook: Linkedin: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I think what shaped me most in my youth was being an only child." "You had an addiction to being in control." "There's this conditioning and training, that you'll have to work twice as hard, to get half as far." "There was a point where I couldn't think of a single thing I was good at." "Weightlifting in general, I do five or six times a week. And for me it's about breathing, the music I play. Giving myself time to relieve tension." "The soundtrack to my life is 50% Beyoncé, 50% gospel music." "It's not just the values of the organization, it's the values of the leader." " if you want people to connect with your company, tell a story." "Systemic racism is there, but we can't live that emotion every day and still function, so we compartmentalize, we keep moving forward." "I do not see myself as an expert at solving the problem, but I've always been good at building relationships and connecting people." "I think a lot of people see silence as complicit behavior."
Erin and Nicole sit down, in light of the death of George Floyd, to discuss a truly pressing topic; how do we hold institutions and ourselves authentically accountable for basic and supposed inalienable rights, like equality, racial justice, and diversity? Erin and Nicole - while acknowledging the conversations being between two white women of means - reflect on the very nature of racism and recognizing it in ourselves as something as simple as passive indifference, inaction or avoidance. From there, they consider how we all get to a place where black and brown communities, first and foremost, are treated with dignity and value by default. Nicole and Erin take on a tough conversation about centers of power and institutions; which just like corporations need to consider what continuous improvement and systematic change looks like - especially when people's lives depend on it. They also consider the power of incentives and creating places and spaces where people can come together individually and collectively to see each other as people, while recognizing what investing in each other really looks like. And while it may not be that hard in theory, they know that shifting mindset and human behavior long term is very hard to do. But because even a global health crisis, massive economic disruption and global social unrest can't keep Erin's positive energy from flowing, she announces that she has reached a career "bucket list" goal: Being selected to give TEDx Talk on October 10th in New York. Erin and Nicole find humor in the ambiguous process even to apply to TEDx, with Erin ultimately finding that making it a family affair served her authentically to bring her right to the TEDx stage! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I feel for the first time in a long time, that I need to have a good honest conversation with myself about the choices I am making, and the kind of citizen that I'm being and how I am rising up diverse people." "It comes down to: how do you spend your money, who do you have at your kitchen table...it's really that simple." "Racism is...passive indifference. Or inaction. It's a form of ignorance. It's not even showing up." "If we're going to hold ourselves to a higher standard, let's actually hold ourselves to a higher standard." "There's no reason why, in this country, people shouldn't have a level of support." "Minority groups have buying power, speaking power, and you need to consider how to gain their trust." "I don't know how to tell anybody to think anything or do anything. But I know I can do things in my own life that allow me to walk around the earth in a more open way." "Everything is amplified. The good is great, and the bad...friggen sucks." "The reason we have a gender diversity issue is because the best talent is opting out, out of fear of compromise." "The only thing that had time to go through my head was "Thank frickin' lord I showered today." "If I'm the selection out of spite, I'll take it."
If there's one thing we've all learned during these crazy times, it's that our lives were/are full of unnecessary bullshit. Whether it's meetings at work where most people are probably watching cat videos on Youtube or endless personal calendar commitments that weren't serving anyone, now is the time to flatten the curve on the BS in your life. Nicole Licata Grant and Erin Hatzikostas sit down for another catch-up episode, where they discuss communities slowly coming out of quarantine and what this could mean. For example. do we have to all go back to wearing underwear and tidying up in case guests visit? Nicole discusses her promotion and how much response she's gotten from others in the b Cause Facebook community. She talks about how she's sharing her "template" for success that she used to ask for a promotion at work. If you need some guidance, please join the b Cause Facebook group! Nicole also discusses what work-life is like for her right now, including how some important work got deprioritized behind a story on pets in quarantine. Working from home has its perks, but how much are we affected by a lack of human interaction? Do we have the same experience by video, are we losing a big part of our work, or do we just need to find ways to adapt? Most importantly, Nicole and Erin discuss the opportunities we all have to capitalize on the changes we're all faced with. How can we use this time to cut out the things that don't matter? And just as importantly, how can we use this time to leverage the new ways of life (hello, video conferencing?!) Erin and Nicole discuss it all, as well as their ideas for some new business buzzwords that we're likely to all see post COVID. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Ok so the world opens today, and I'm supposed to greet it with open arms...and put on shoes and underwear?" "No Food, No Booze, No Blunts." "A lot of the work I do is cyclical, so a lot of my crazy is cyclical too." "What are greetings going to be like? There won't be hugs, there won't be handshakes." "Do we actually have any lessons to teach today?" "You can't say 'I don't get on video'. That's bullshit. think of all the people you could connect with." "You can do everyone!" "Let's use this as an opportunity to cut out some of the bullshit." "We're flattening the curve on meetings." "Talk to the hand, just don't touch it." "There are some meetings that are just bullshit." "Who gets to write the business casual rules for mask-wear?" "You might have meeting fatigue, so get rid of some of what you don't need."
Nicole Licata Grant sits down with Melody Miles, the emerging millennial leader on the topics of rest, self-care, and "creating space in life for your soul to breath." As the creator and "Chief Soul Officer" of the Soulcation, Melody joins the b Cause Podcast to share a personal journey that led her to help others "design a life they don't need a vacation from." Formerly with the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, Melody was leading their global campaign to eradicate malaria, with the goal of saving millions of lives. Yet, in all her work - 35 countries before the age of 30 - fighting for the wellness and healing of others, was she living well with herself? Spoiler alert from Melody: she wasn't. Sound familiar, b Causers? That's the point in time where Nicole and Melody start their conversation. On the floor. Of a bathroom. With Melody having a panic attack and realizing perhaps that her "perfect life" wasn't so perfect after all. Then, trying to figure out how would she get up off the floor, and where would she go from there? Melody shares the unexpected losses and epiphanies that upended the oath that she thought she was on, the sabbatical from the grind she took, how she sold all her belongings, travelled the world with freedom, and how it helped her tap into her own purpose and calm. Nicole - thinking about what a "Soulcation" might look like for her - seeks to now "what puts the soul in a Soulcation?" Melody helps her see that escaping pain (a.k.a "vacation") is not a long-term solution, and that the real goal is to live a life that calms inner chaos rather than foments it. Finally, not only is this possible, but embracing regular soul-soothing self-care is a necessary ingredient for anyone who wants to change the world. Join the Soulcation Sisterhood: Download the Free 12 Step Soulcation Blueprint: Follow Melody on Instagram: @themelodymiles If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm hanging in there. Another day in Quarantine." "I built up this armor around me. It was unbreakable." "I describe self-abandonment as anytime you're putting someone else's needs and desires ahead of your own." "You can't belong to yourself if you are abandoning yourself." "I had created this beautiful life, and then the universe hit me with this cosmic 2x4." "What if I forgot about everyone else's needs for a hot second...or a whole summer." "The path of descent is like the path of healing." "One thing I've learned is people couldn't care less about your life." "Even when I was traveling, it was doing the ordinary things that brought me the most happiness." "The longest journey I ever took was the 18 inches from my head to my heart." "1 in 4 women are faced with anxiety right now in America." "My whole mission is to help people design a life they don't need a vacation from." "Rewrite your narrative so you're a hero in your own life."
From connecting with others to helping our local communities to women having "equality" barriers come crumbling down, Erin and Nicole come to this week's episode with an uplifting Top 10 list. It's a heavy dose of gratitude sprinkled with doses of humor that hopefully will also have you seeing the pandemic positives. What do you think number one is? And what is the thing that you have now as a result of COVID that you're the most grateful for? Nicole Licata Grant starts off by talking about her marathon Sasquatch binge-watching. Is there a conspiracy with Netflix, forcing Nicole to watch conspiracy theory videos? Or does Nicole just watch so many conspiracy theory videos that Netflix is kindly suggesting others she might like? Erin Hatzikostas asks Nicole to discuss one thing that certainly isn't a conspiracy: her recent promotion. Nicole discusses people's reaction to the news, and how her method of letting the world know is probably slightly different to how most people do it. Nicole asks Erin to talk about the recent workshop that she led alongside Kaitlyn Czapiga called "Your Richest Life." Erin talks about the magic they were able to create for the attendees by combining their complementary skillsets and knowledge to develop this program that helps people find their "ikigai", or their life's purpose. Erin discusses hiring a book coach to help her with her writing process, and how when you're taking on a huge project it can be extremely beneficial to get some aid. She also encourages people to adopt the "shitty first draft" mindset that is used as a writing technique. They move on to their Top 10 list for this week. "Top ten things that are actually good out of Covid." From connecting with others and helping our local communities, to planning our futures differently and saving, and even connecting with our natural environment more. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The pig-pen, that's my office - or the sweat-lodge." "Do I believe in Bigfoot? I don't know. But we've been watching a lot of Sasquatch movies." "People just wanna know where they can get a vintage tracksuit with some glitter sneakers." "In these times we feel unbalances because we've lot regular things that we do." "To go on a journey you need a couple of things, a compass and a map, but it's pointless to go with the compass and not the map." "Our Top 10 list: because without a list, we can't persist." "There's an opportunity to do a lot of good, in our communities and in our families." People are seeing the Himalayas from parts of India for the first time in a generation." "We're not going to get back to normal. We're going to get back to better." "I wanna be an imperfectionist - that sounds amazing." "The number one priority you should have is yourself." "I'm seeing creativity in so many ways - reducing barriers to access, less egalitarian." Inviting more people to exercise their creativity, in work or life, is the best thing we can do right now." "Less is more." "Sometimes you have to strip things away from your life, in order to have a richer life." "People need to be more accepting when they are sick, to give themselves space to make themselves well."
Imagine starting a new daily habit to help boost one of your most important values. Now, imagine doing that for 365 days straight. Do you think it would create a fundamental shift in your life? How about your work and/or business? Erin Hatzikostas sits down with John Israel, a.k.a Mr. thank You, to discuss a curious journey of gratitude than spanned an entire year. John starts by telling the story of how he first got into business, selling Cutco knives to pay his way - losing his first big sale, but getting some golden advice from his mom, and how this ultimately led him to start the Mr. Thank You project years later. The Mr. Thank You Project is one which started as a personal quest and ended as a movement, where he's now on a mission to inspire 74 million 'thank you' cards written around the world. Ho did he go from writing a semi-awkward 'thank you' card to a single customer to trying to elevate the happiness of the entire world? John tells stories about just a few of the incredible occurrences that arise from his quest. He talks about what he learned as well as how he inspired others. He provides the listener with practical advice about how to find, set, and attain new habits that can change the course of their life in multiple ways. Erin and John talk about the difference between recognition and acknowledgment, including how it can become important in both your work life and your personal life. Finally, be sure to check out the 'What I love about you' video challenge, which he invites all of us to try. You can find out more about John and the Mr. Thank You Project at: Twitter @ themrthankyou Linkedin @ John Israel Email: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Who's gonna pay the most to do something that's legal and can allow me to keep my clothes on ideally." "I realized I wasn't upset that I'd lost a customer. I was upset that I'd lost that relationship." "When you realize you can value people over profit, you start to realize it's people ou bring you your profit." "In business, people don't care what you sell. They care why you're selling it." "I wanted to challenge myself to explore my capacity." "How do you appreciate someone you've never formally met?" "We took a high value and we made it an intentional practice to live that value every day." "I stopped trying to make it this 'I have to do it every day', and I instead tried to become aware of great opportunities to acknowledge somebody." "There is a difference between recognition and acknowledgment. Recognition is thanking someone for what they do. Acknowledgment is thanking someone for who they are." "How do you treat that for which you are grateful?"
So you feel severely undervalued; who HASN'T been there at some point in their career? But all is not lost; especially when we realize that the person with the greatest power to change our "status quo" is us. So, after months of (over)thinking, coaching, reflecting, scheming, proposing, and battling (especially with herself) - Nicole makes a move, and it literally pays off! Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for a special mini-episode to discuss Nicole's big news: her promotion! Nicole reflects on what inspired her to take action (even when things feel so uncertain), how she went about making a case, what she asked for, and the surprising allies who helped her along the way. She discusses what she wanted and what she, surprisingly, got (hint: a lot more than she expected). Erin and Nicole then talk about what the next rung of the ladder is like, while Erin shares a truth: it's critical to understand what behaviors you must exhibit to get promoted into senior roles. It is NOT about working harder. It takes much more strategic steps. If you want to get out episodes where we first teed up the challenges Nicole was having with not feeling valued and that fueled her crusade, check out Episodes 41 & 42. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "This has been a crusade." "Don't worry, that doesn't mean that I'm going to be a slave to the grind forever." "There were a lot of things in my life that were leading me towards feeling undervalued." "I got more than I asked for, and that surprised me." "So now I'm at the minimum wage of the next salary band up, of course." "What's the next step up? It's not about harder work. It's about being strategic, being a better leader. Creating ideas instead of just executing them." "All the people out there doing coaching - people are listening, and it's having an impact."
Have you ever been told you can't do something, and it fueled you even more? Good. That's the story of Erin Berube's life. You can't. Ok, I will prove you wrong. Erin Hatzikostas sits down to interview her old friend and colleague, Erin Berube. Erin Berube talks about her difficult start, and how it fueled her to get more from life than what she had experienced growing up. She talks about coming out of an abusive relationship, and how she met (our) Erin, who inspired her to tell her story and lead more authentically. Erin H. recalls how they first hired Erin B. and why she was drawn to her style of work and character. Erin B. discusses struggling with an illness - how she found out about it and how it affected her. At one point it was so bad she was in a wheelchair, with a high chance she would struggle to walk again, and possibly never have kids. But she walked again. And hiked Mount Kilimanjaro! After hiking the peaks of Kilimanjaro, she discusses combatting the odds yet again to start a family, even after doctors told her it would likely be very challenging to get pregnant. Erin B then discusses her second pregnancy, and the unfortunate situation of losing the child due to complications, and how difficult it is to continue to go to work and have back-to-back meetings in an environment where most of your colleagues wouldn't understand the struggle or the pain you're experiencing. Erin H. opens up about some of her miscarriages, and how it's easy to assume no one will understand or no one will relate, so you take the burden on alone, but how she thinks the stigma os miscarriages is shifting and people are more open to discuss and understand. Erin H. asks Erin B. what she has a leader would suggest other leaders can do to help people in difficult situations and any kind of hidden pain. Her advice: kindness and positive intent. Erin B. talks about the company she's recently launched - LACUNA - which she runs alongside her corporate job (she calls herself a "paralapreneur"). She talks about what spurred her to make the change, and how the journey has gone so far. She avails that Erin H's journey away from the corporate world inspired a lot of that for her. Erin B. talks about wanting to plant seeds for the future, so that at a later stage in life she can step away from the corporate world (like Erin H.) and have the life she wants - working where she wants, with more time for herself and her family. Erin H. asks Erin B. what is coming up next for her career, her company, and her journey overall. She has two retreats in the fall with spaces still open. Insta @ lacunaleaders FB @ Lacuna Leaders Linkedin: Erin Berube If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You grow up in that environment and you think 'it's all my fault'." "For me, it was about focusing on things I could control, and I learned that at an early age." "There's always been this spark, this fire, burning inside of me that makes me want to do more and be more." "Humour comes from trauma." "Doctors told me I was never going to hike again, run again, any type of competitive cycling...I'm going to prove them wrong." "This is a disease that hits 70-year-old men, this is not a disease a lot of young people get." "I think the stigma of miscarriages is changing, but we have so far to go." "I think the number one thing any leader can do is have a positive intent." "Leading with kindness is super important." "There's no greater time to just mix it up." "you love to travel. I love to teach yoga. We both love to lead. What if we pool it all together and make something?" "It's all about planting the seeds so I can do what I want to in the future." "I have no other response other than 'I want to eat him for dinner'."
We're all spending way too much time at home these days. Are we supposed to be reveling in extra time with the family and the dust bunnies? But wait: Do you actually prefer "playing" with your work more than playing with your kids, for example? Even famed TV producer Shonda Rimes agrees. Erin and Nicole talk about how Shonda opens herself to new things, but definitely sets some boundaries ("10-minute rule.) What else in your life can you apply this rule too? You have limited energy - how do you order and reorder it? Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another 'How Was Your Week?' episode, during a time where everyone's week are either a bit slower paced or more all over the map than usual (or both). Even the price of gas is back to 90's era prices. With that, Nicole hopes there are free corn dogs in her future. Nicole's parents have been married for 50 years, but the family can't go to Portugal to celebrate together as planned. If her parents can make 50 years together, we're sure they can manage confinement and a postponed celebration. But do you have to celebrate at 50? why not 49 or 51? Why do we have to even celebrate the same milestones in life? Do things your own way! Here's to the Azores for 51! They both discuss adapting to the lockdown and being at home all the time; juggling work and life, especially kids (yeah, here comes that "guilt" about not wanting to "play".) At Nicole's pad, the occupants are having conversations about required dress code to avoid any video call mishaps, while Erin tried to 'Milli Vanilli' her son's music homework. This is Gen X at it's finest. Erin also reflects on some difficulties and doubts about being an entrepreneur at the moment. In a rare glimpse of role reversal, Nicole talks Erin through her struggles. Nicole is actually one of the struggles as it turns out. After working on the podcast for a year, and following Nicole's journey throughout, Erin asks her to talk about where she is now amid all of this. Erin admits that she wants more for Nicole. Nicole helps Erin see that she has changed and is changing authentically in ways you can't always tell on the surface; that her growth is deep within her and is real. And, on her own terms. Her own way. and, there are some boundaries about how much everyone has to see. Erin follows on by reflecting on how she coaches, what it teaches her about herself, and how they can both use that (along with all of you!) to move forward and continue to make positive changes in their lives. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "When you get ahead, the Universe always finds a way to screw you." "Do things your own way." "Leave it to your pre-teen daughter to solve all your problems." "Everyone seems to be having these moments of questioning." "The things I rely on to make me feel relevant, valued...a part of something bigger, balanced...I've lost a lot of those things. We all have." "At some point they're going to be flagging you in for free gas and a corndog. You heard it here first." "We're going to need a language, and a culture - culture leaders - to help us get to that 90 degrees in-between." "What he's learning isn't really important; him having to figure things out is way more important." "Every time I'm asked "Mommy will you play with me?" It's either a distraction of me trying to get work done that's critical or a distraction from me 'playing' with my work." "This process has taught me to be less afraid and to hide less. I think I probably hid parts of myself for a very long time." "I might just have more compassion now." "Developing emotional intelligence doesn't come over night." "As long as we're moving." "If it's five years from now, or ten years from now, and there aren't big fucking things in your world, I'm gonna kick your ass." "If you want bigger things you have to reorder the energy in your life."
What makes a superfan? And can you create superfans for your business, product...or even yourself? Brittany Hodak, Superfan Expert, talks about what a superfan is and you can create and cultivate them to propel success. Not to mention, her story shows you that even a small-town girl can make big stuff happen. Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Brittany Hodak for an interview discussing her career from its early days as a junior in high school through the current day. Brittany first started her career as a radio station mascot at the age of 16. She found a way to creatively utilize her name as a play-on-words that allowed her to hang out with rock stars and documenting it all through her "Brittany Jones' Diary" blog. She talks about her vision as she writes a business plan, while still at college, to save the entire music industry. Did it work? Nope. She was sent back to doing intern work because that's what happens to young interns with big ideas. But after years of hard work and experience, with that one business plan still in mind, she eventually decided, with a little push from a good friend, to start her own business and take her business plan forward on her own. Erin then asks Brittany to continue to discuss the journey she took with her business, growing it from an idea through to a massively successful enterprise. Brittany tells the story about getting a call from a Shark Tank producer and he experience on the show. She talks about her favorite aspects of her business, and which artists were her favorite to work with, from Dolly Parton to Kiss. She discusses the personal best moments of her career, and the times she made a complete ass out of herself - because let's face it, those are the best stories and really the ones we all want to hear. They move on to discussing Brittany's exit from her company. How she spur-of-the-moment purchased a house in Nashville and started to move into the consulting side of the business, which then led to her being asked to do more ad more public speaking. Brittany and Erin will both be attending and speaking at a Create Wow conference hosted by Social Survey this coming September (or at some point, if it is rescheduled), so be sure to check it out! To find out more about Brittany and her current work visit: Website @ Instagram @brittanyhodak Linkedin @ Brittany Hodak Facebook @ Brittany Hodak Twitter @ Brittany Hodak If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I had this front-row seat from behind this giant bee suit." "I was blogging before blogging was a thing." "2021 is going to look like a very different place to what our world looked like in 2019 for sure, no doubt." "The downside was we had to figure everything out ourselves. We had no board, we had no investors, we had nobody helping us." "We had our client, the publicist, who clearly wanted us to get out. And then we had the Beach Boys with their arms around us telling us to stay." "The Beach Boys were singing to us in a conference room." "That was the first and only time we were ever late to an artist interview. You are never, ever late, to an artist interview." "Not only did I love it but speaking paid way more than consulting." "If you just keep moving, take risks, if you invest in yourself, you don't just learn you meet this incredible new solar system that raises your frequency." "A superfan is a customer who creates more customers for you." "The same things that make people a superfan of a celebrity, are the same things that make people a superfan of a product or a service." "I'm a superfan of my exterminator, Scott." "The things that we love become part of our identity." You need to be the world's best you, rather than a pretty good imitation of somebody else." "When you understand your story it becomes your superpower, and part of what you do that makes you better than everyone else."
We aren't just facing a global health crisis; we are on the brink of a paradigm shift in the world as we know it - at work, at home and everywhere else in between. The key is - how do you "sur-thrive" through it all? You can lead yourself and others out of it. We get straight into it this week, with Erin Hatzikostas asking Nicole Licata Grant to talk about the work she is doing, as someone who has been in a lot of humanitarian emergencies and is an expert in crisis management. Erin avails to Nicole that just that morning she acted as her agent and pitched on a whim to a local newspaper to have a feature made about Nicole and the podcast. Who knows what could happen?! Erin and Nicole discuss how they are adapting to the Coronavirus and the "new world order" (sadly, not the 80's band) it has brought with it. Erin ponders living an unexpected life at home, spending time with the family, and working on writing her first book. In the meantime, Nicole's dad has found a new interest in academia. Do you know how the Native Americans wiped their butts? Aurelio does and he has a plan. Also, why is toilet paper the most sought after and scarce item now? Nicole has one observation and it really has nothing to do with excessively clean backsides. Assuming everyone has surpassed the first hurdle of enough TP to go around, what else then makes a great leader in a crisis and through change? Who do we rely on in times like these? Who is essential? Erin and Nicole discuss authentic leadership (our favorite "A" word!), how authenticity shines through during momentous shifts and how it is not only good, but necessary. That is, necessary not just in leading others, but for your own health and sur-thrival! (Survive + Thrive = that's a new word we just made up.) And what about Corporations? Do Corporations need to change their ideas of risk management? Erin and Nicole both discuss their ideas on how Corporations can move forward, what challenges they face and how they react in crisis situations, both externally and internally. They discuss the most critical elements of leadership during a time like this: kindness, compassion, authenticity, leading from the bottom. Hmm, it sounds a lot like...embracing humanity. Erin provides advice on what people can do to help their bosses and managers. She emphasizes that it's more important now than ever to take initiative in a thoughtful way. Look, your boss does not know all the answers in uncertainty, and s/he is likely facing the same personal challenges you are. There are small but tangible things you can do - no matter what your level in the organization is - to lead during this time of crisis. And guess what? IT will also help you stand out, keeping you safer and also positioning you for promotion in the future. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The 'Rona has taken over our lives." "I think I'm largely running on Girl Scout Cookies and Adrenaline." "I'm not an introvert, I'm just having an individual life-experience and I'm enjoying it." "This is not a supply and demand problem; this is a human behavior problem." "On the macro-level, there's a lot of bad things happening, but on the micro-level, there's a lot of beauty going on." "It's a crisis of the self, and it's a crisis of the community." "Be authentic, be human." "The entire cadence of life is shifted." "This is the new definition of leadership." "This thing is just so bad, that something really great has to come from it."
Isn't it amazing how quickly the world has changed? Erin and Nicole reunite after Erin's cruise (!) to reconnect with each other and connect with you. They realize that in crisis comes clarity; and when you are feeling like crap doing things for others is the best way out. Trying to see the secret silver linings in all the madness, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another 'How Was Your Week?' episode, to help each other and, hopefully all of you, navigate these difficult and confusing times. Erin asks Nicole to explain from her expert viewpoint on the front lines of crisis now and in the past how she approaches a situation of this scale. And here's the punchline: follow your gut and instinct to combat uncertainty, but ensure that every movement matter and has purpose. Also, letting go of guilt and shame. In a global pandemic, with a lack of products in supermarkets, Nicole orders a pizza and finds handy napkins to replace the missing toilet paper - so remember to support your local businesses, you might even find/repurpose some handy survival gear in these trying times! Erin tells some vacation stories, from when she was away and only semi-aware of the unfolding events. She talks about suffering some toilet-paper-trauma at a water park. Her advice? Never, ever, give in to peer pressure if your gut says no. And all Nicole's mom needs to "keep on cookin'" during this time is a half-gallon of "Auntie Arwen's Ultimate Garlic Insanity" from a stand at the Country Fair last year. Hooray for internet shopping and home-based business! Erin truth-tells about the effect this pandemic is having on her business, and how she's adapting to that, and finding inspiration to use her skills to help people at a time where a lot of people will need help. This leads to a deeper conversation on the economy, how businesses are coping and changing in general, and the innovation that can come from hard times. Nicole talks about her proposal to get extra funding, when called into a meeting and given on the spot instructions to come up with a game plan. They end with a not on how to work together with your boss or your employees. They help you see that your relationship with your boss should be less of a one-way street than you realize, but rather a yin & yang relationship. Everyone needs helps and advice and guidance. Especially in times like these. Stay safe, stay sensible, help each other out, and we will get through this. Together. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The world is officially closed." "One week it was 'Where can I get milk?' and now it's 'Will my kids ever go back to school?'" "Every movement you make in this situation matters." "I'm not a prepper, but I am Italian, so I always have 100 bottles of Ajax in my basement." "I'm hoping to slow down the fact that my stomach's in my fucking forehead." "The reality is - corporations are always in cost-cutting mode." "When you feel like crap, doing things for others is the fastest way out." "so much of our economy is held up by small businesses." "The thing about hard times is that it often brings out incredible innovation." "The best bosses, and the best relationships, have that yin and yang relationship." "This is the time to be generous, not just because work is hard and the kids are home, but because systems are going to fall apart."
Do you want big things for your life? Do you yearn to make a major pivot...with your career, your marriage, your friendships, your economic status? Whatever it is, know that it's essentially like a rebirth. You must go through some really tough stuff first. It might get uncomfortable. It might get messy. But the beautiful life on the other end is so worth it! Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant catch up this week on so many things (well, as usual). They first reminisce about the time Nicole went to Mardi Gras and all she thought about that, and remembers, was her well-planned potty break plan. Erin also talks about her plans for their upcoming cruise (which ends up being right in the middle of the Coronavirus craziness. Good news: she and her family are doing a-ok.) Erin asks Nicole about her recent trip to Hampshire, where Nicole helps to create a donor base for a community-based project focusing on system change and organic growth. Nicole discusses her Friday troubles - getting asked big questions and being given more work late on a Friday, and the good and the bad ways to deal with that. They talk about her challenges at work and the fact that life gets really frickin' touch (like a birth through the old vagina canal) before it gets beautiful. Nicole talks about a dinner she had with some of New York's most interesting and eccentric Designers. As she becomes "Nickole" Carraway watching Gatsby having one of his infamous parties. But this time there's...Sperm Ornaments? Erin talks about meeting a coaching client, but she's sabotaged between a parking mete and a food delivery truck. So after (somehow) finding a second space she decides to walk, but this parking garage is actually a labyrinth, and Erin forgot to bring her ball of yarn. (Oh, and her glorious coaching input on someone giving up swearing for lent...) So what are you giving up for Lent? Nicole has some ideas on how to approach it and why, and how it's changed over the course of history. Then Erin and Nicole both discuss what they might give up, or change, for lent, and they both have some interesting ideas for this year. We end with finding your 1%, a conversation on how to surround yourself with the right kind of people to bring out the best in both of you. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I remember thinking, I have to find someplace to pee." "You're gonna own coronavirus. You'll have a Corona with limes, and she'll contain the virus. It's perfect." "Community groups know what they need in their own community." "Usually when you just pump money into a community without any kind of game plan it doesn't work out." "Did you authentic so hard while you were there?" "The universe is definitely backhanding me lately." "We're in Mercury retrograde, prepare for things to go wrong." "It's not bad luck. It's the universe telling you to wake the frick up." "If you're pushing more than one big thing to a person on a Friday after 12pm, you're an asshole." "On a scale of one to ten, what are the chances that within this environment you can have success?" "The company can keep using my talents, but I don't want my spirit to be destroyed." "You have a fucking conehead right now." "I don't call my friends by episode numbers like you do." "There's a lot of fun in failure." "It's really hard to be fabulous and industrious." "He said 'I don't spend a lot of time with straight women, but you're pretty fun." "Some of their decisions are predictable. When you put outrageous onto the average, there's not a lot of places for it to go." "Thank God my insecurities did not stop me from showing up." "Every year my dad gives up Catholicism for Lent." "What are you going to give up for lent? Your job?" "I need to reflect on the fact that you have two college degrees but have a hard time navigating a parking garage." "Find your 1%"
This week we dive deep into Enneagrams where we hope you'll learn how to work better with others, develop better versions of yourself, find healthy ways to deal with stress, and overall, find ways to become more whole in your life. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant welcome Bree Miller onto the b Cause podcast couch for a super powerful (and super funny) talk about Enneagrams. Bree Miller blends Enneagrams with Human Design (remember Kaitlyn Czapiga in episode #36?) to help coach people into mastering skills through habituation of their behavior and others. Stemming from a last-minute and wild trip to Peru with a friend to visit an ayahuasca retreat, Bree breaks free from her feelings of being stuck in life and opens her eyes to an entirely new way of thinking and being. Teaching lessons in empathy based on people's "types" (outlines below), Bree helps guide people to learn more about themselves and others in both a personal and workplace environment. Type 1 - The Reformer (Nicole's dominant type and boy does it nail her perfectly) Type 2 - Helper (Nicole's primary "wing") Type 3 - Achiever Type 4 - Individualist Type 5 - Investigator Type 6 - Loyalist Type 7 - Enthusiast )Erin's dominant type and also nails her!) Type 8 - Challenger (Erin's primary "wing") Type 9 - Peacemaker A discussion on how to adapt to new situations, especially hard ones, and even more for people with children, and how to approach telling them hard information (in light of covid-19 this is an important topic.) Are Erin and Nicole the perfect pair? There's only one way to find out... Before you listen, we'd love you to take the same Enneagram quiz Nicole and Erin took: Find out more and connect with Bree here: Website: Instagram: @museandmedthod or @breeanelyse Linkedin: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We're doing another threesome interview." "With Covid-19 opening up all inhibitions, welcome to the party." "We help people master skills and turn them into habits over time." "I didn't know what I needed; I just know I felt stuck where I was." "Go big or go home." "I never take a rest, and that's something I can work on." "When we're kids, we create these unconscious behavior patterns, and as adults sometimes we're still using them." "The Enneagrams will help us plug into other people's authenticity, as well as our own." "The escalator is going down and you're running up it." "Let's just say, I never tried to drive standard again." "Make sure you let your kids know it's ok to fail, don't just give them lip service." Bree: "No matter what you tell your kids, they're going to have some kind of story." Nicole: "They better, otherwise what are they gonna get drunk and cry about in college?" "Rely on your inner guidance and building that trust over time, and staying in the present moment, instead of being fixated on the future." "When you're a seven you're actively trying to avoid feeling things and feeling negative emotions." "Boredom is just another form of discomfort." "Like any behaviors to watch out for, just have observations and self-compassion." "You can change, you can evolve." "We are all capable of having all of these qualities, it's just what your default showing up is, versus what you desire to show up with." "It's not just about yourself, but also how do you plug into other people in a better way."
How would you feel if you made it to your 100th birthday? What legacy would you want to leave? Would you have any regrets? Thinking about this question NOW can make all the difference in how you live your life. (And because we are a couple of weeks ahead recording, wouldn't you know that we're dropping this right in the middle of the Coronapocalypse! It's not about CV-19, but it's kinda relatable. You're welcome!) Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant kick off with a quick reflection on their relevance and connectedness to a whole "woke" culture, or...not? What the hell does any of that mean anyway? Nicole dishes on her family reunion outside of Tuscon, Arizona with a bunch of other East Coast paesani in celebration of her maternal grandmother's 100th birthday. It's a "Shotguns meets Sambuca" kind of affair! Edith is a spitfire who was born before women had affirmed their right to vote and "always gets the last word" now that she has lived the longest of her generation! Erin is not to be beast with a hilarious Arizona story of her own from back in her corporate days - with one extremely displeased Dr. Popik. It seems that living the rich life isn't always that convenient. Or rich for that matter. (Also we learn there are two kinds of people in the world; those who use the bathroom on the corporate jet and those who don't. Guess which one Erin is?) But what does this all mean? As much as they typically dislike "binary" things, really a person can only be in one state of being at a time - happy or unhappy - and taking stock of that can help you pause in the moment and reflect on what it actually holds for you. Life is, after all, the moment we are in right now. Speaking of the moment, Erin and Nicole also talk handling the mundane tasks in your day-to-day life so they don't absorb all your brain space, time and create stress. Erin, as usual, takes us from uninspired to on fire! This includes Erin's "mundane" - like finally getting around to applying to Ted Talks! It's really about making the little things managed and meaningful, taking nothing for granted (especially this one life) and being grateful for those big challenges that actually propel us forward. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You almost showed up to the podcast recording without pants." "Is woke like bespoke? It sounds snooty." "If this were a season, Nicole would have just wrapped up the final episode with a fade to black." "I'm in touch with hip-hop, or, 1985 hip-hop." "You can do a lot in 100 years, or you can waste it." "Put fifty family members in a room, watch everyone's crazy and call it a holiday. Which is fun." "It was a typical Italian reunion. You're not sure if you're all related, but at some point you all shared a bed or a uterus or something." "Nicole: Grandma, 100 years! amazing, I hope that I live to be 100! Edith/Grandma: Oh why would you do that to yourself?" "There still won't be a female president in my lifetime though." "There's nothing more American than this table in front of me - Fritos and Firearms." "This place is fucked." "Happiness has different definitions and different grades." "I want the big happiness. The full life happiness. That sometimes means pain and sacrifice. There's probably going to be moments where there's pain and sacrifice, but it's part of the big happy." "Dr. Popik sounds like someone who produces porn for a living." "Arizona really brings out the best in us." "This term, mindfulness, I think it's so elusive." "As you exist in every moment, as you go through the world, ask yourself that question: 'Am I happy?'" "Am I using my time as I want to?" "You either stand up and find the silver lining, or you lay down and stare at the ceiling. And sometimes you do both." "When I open myself up. amazing things happen." "Sometimes when you sit down to do the big stuff, it's actually a load of little things" "It might be hard, but it's intentional." "It's about creating a community."
In this special episode, Erin and Nicole talk with Kaitlyn Czapiga about the wonder Human Design. Breaking down how Nicole + Erin's family fits into the different types of Human Design (Manifestors, Generators, Projectors, Reflectors), Kaitlyn describes how each of us can find peace and power by better understanding our - and others' - Human Design. Kaitlyn Czapiga, Hypnotist, Reiki Master and Owner of Soul Magic will take you on a magical (yet oddly practical) journey through the concept known as Human Design. (Perhaps you remember Kaitlyn from Episode 5? If now, we recommend you go and listen - it's still one of our most downloaded episodes!). She is now a Reiki Master, certified hypnotist, and a life-long student of Human Design. She sits down to explain what these things are, and how she is fusing them together to help people heal and propel. It's an episode full of ideas, honest opinions, and authentic conversation. For example, Nicole ruminates on how she probably needs to lose her "to-do" lists, while Kailtyn encourages her to simply shift her thinking on them just a slight bit given Nicole's Human Design blueprint. And they end on a positive, future-oriented message, to break from the usual gloom and doom we may be living at this time. If you enjoyed this episode and want to learn more about Human Design, how you can use it in your own life, and what it can already tell you about it, visit: mybodygraph.com -OR- soul-magic.com to learn more and book time with Kaitlyn for a specialized, one-to-one session. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'm waiting to be designed humanely." "It's important to have someone in your life who can keep your energy going." "Because we're high performing individuals, when we're not we start to wonder if we're becoming lazy." "I would always beat myself up over things instead of giving myself time to reflect." "If you don't have the energy to do the thing you should do, then you should take the energy you have to do something else." "Those moments of just being, 99% of the time, end up producing greater results. Because you have the energy or the thoughts and ideas." "You are able to look at your children and see their differences, and you are fostering them so uniquely." "Projectors are wise beyond their years. That's Mick." "Mick's either going to be the best salesman in the world or a cult leader." "It's our birthright to have an easy life." "We're supposed to be selfish in the work that we do, because we should feel satisfied." "We're on a Reflector hunt." "I've learned to say 'if you're waking up at 3am, and you have all these ideas, it's ok - go work, go do it." "Have the courage to uncover things for yourself and live without regret or fear from others." "The mind will lie to you, and we will lie to ourselves, but our gut is hard to ignore." "You are not your mind."
In the wake of superstar Kobe Bryant's death, the inevitable question gets asked: "What would you do differently if you approached each day thinking of life as having a game-ending shot clock, but don't know when it will go off?" Oh wait, that IS life. That's every freakin' day. In one of their most personal and possibly (sorta) profound "how was your week" check-ins yet, Kobe Bryant's and daughter Gianna's passing isn't the only thing that stinks this week. Having had a week full of literal shit storms - including questionable plumbing and pipe sawing by a neighbor - Nicole is ready to talk about how we navigate pain and the lessons it holds for us... Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant first take on the impact loss of all kinds - friendships, partners, loved ones, generational heroes, career - can have on families and communities. Erin's son Mick shares 8-year-old wisdom and reflects on the value of learning hard lessons young. But also, how do you hold onto grace, compassion, and humility when you really want to "rage against the machine"? What happens when you feel like you have no control in a blast zone of people who have nothing to lose? And how do you not be that kind of terrorist in your own life? (Thankfully another chaos-saving neighbor who spears sewer rats makes an appearance too. Considering the pathway out of pain (including having a podcast/community!), Erin and Nicole reflect that at the outset of b Cause, they thought they were here to "teach", but instead realize that they are the students and b Cause is a place to examine authentically "what are we going to learn and share with others real-time?" Despite only one-half of the duo being proficient in sport analogies, Erin talks about loss on the actual court as a coach of her daughter's basketball team. What can we all learn from sports - the losses as much as the wine - to live our own best lives? Erin shares coaching them to navigating challenging situations with an emotional "exorcism" - leading to the all-important conversation on being excellent, above all things. As they think about life's shot clock ticking down. Erin takes some new professional risks during a trip to Denver (vis Orlando?!) and reminds us that authenticity is gender-neutral with allies and extenders everywhere (this time it's a MArk, not a Dave, but good enough!) In her own "time of the essence moment", Nicole actually puts forward a proposal for elevating her position in her company, and how is now going to discuss with others how to put forward their own self-worth at work too. Keep on shooting, friends! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Why can I smell shit? Why is there brown stuff in my shower? Is that a burrito?" "Turns out our neighbor did some illegal plumbing on the house, so he's out there sawing a pipe on the front of the house." "There's probably a chopped-up body down there too." "You stole my cleanse." "I'd rather have to learn these things now than learn them when I'm an adult." - Mick. "I've been having conversations with the kids recently and really changing my philosophy on what's important in parenting." "You have to find the lessons, otherwise it hurts too much." "There's only one person who can find a path out of pain, and that's yourself." "Not everybody has a podcast, but God I hope everybody has a community." "How do we remember to have charity...have compassion for ourselves?" "Humility serves better over ego." "I put time in my calendar. I sat down, and I did it. I did something I wouldn't normally do." "People who have nothing to lose are like terrorists in their own life. They are going to blow up. You just have to try to contain it." "You need to have faith in your path. You need to have faith in what you are doing, ad you need to have fath in yourself." "You've got one chance; this is not a dress rehearsal." "We want to believe we can fix everything." "I did not use my drink coupon on the 5:45am flight out." "don't take me to a bowling alley and talk about women's issues. You will see someone that is one step away from being arrested." "Authenticity is gender-neutral." "You don't get to diversity by following the rules." "I was extremely clear that I'm not going to do more free labor to solve my own problems." "If it's an air ball, it's an air ball, but at least you took the shot."
Do you ever feel like your voice goes unheard at work? What if you literally did lose your voice for good? That's the deep question that Kevin Hancock, CEO of Hancock Lumber Company, was forced to ask himself when he was diagnosed with a rare speech disorder. And he didn't stop there, he decided to explore that question in a much deeper way and with many others. He wanted to know, "If everybody on earth delt respected, valued, and heard, what might change?" Erin sits down with Kevin Hancock, the CEO of Hancock Lumber Company. The company goes back to 1848 (which is before the first cannonball was fired in the civil war), and Kevin is the 6th generation of his family to work in the company. During 2010, at the peak of the economic (and housing) collapse in America, Kevin began having trouble with his voice, something he had never put any thought to before (do you realize the importance of your own voice?) He was diagnosed with an extremely rare neurologic issue called Spasmodic Dysphonia, which affects speech and has no known cause or cure. All of this was happening while Kevin had to handle one of the most economically difficult and unstable periods of time his company had been through. Kevin discusses what it was like adapting to his disorder while running a company as a "hands-on CEO". He had to learn new ways to communicate effectively while speaking less. He talks about his experience visiting a Native American Reserve to meet an entire community who have had their voices stolen, in another sense. They discuss spiritual enlightenment, learning to deal with new challenges in life, and adapting and changing to constantly be a better person, worker, and boss. They move on to discuss Kevin's book, and how the lessons in this book transition a personal awakening into a corporate renaissance, and how this book goes in search of lessons or principals for dispersing power, instead of collecting it. They talk about the fundamentals of creating change - how it comes from within, and how you can change the situation of others by finding value in yourself. Towards the end of the show, Erin asks Kevin to think of his favorite part from his latest book, with Erin relating from her own experiences in Corporate America. Check out his book 'The Seventh Power' here: You can also find his Ted Talk by searching Kevin Hancock Ted Talk or accessing directly from this link: Other ways to follow and connect with Kevin Hancock are: Kevinhancock.com email: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I began to have trouble speaking, something I'd always taken for granted and never thought of - but something I did a lot of." "When I left my corporate job, I got 4 illnesses I'd never had before. They weren't life-threatening, but it was clear I was running myself into the ground." "It happened at a time of economic crises, so taking time off was not an option. And I initially did what we all would have done - which is just fought through." "When talking becomes difficult, you develop strategies for doing less of it." "I would answer a question with a question, which put the responsibility of speaking on the other person." "The less I did, the better the company performed, which was counterintuitive to everything I had ever learned." "I started to see what happened to myself as an opportunity for myself and everyone else at the organization." "I met an entire community on that reservation who felt like their voice hadn't been heard." "There are lots of ways to lose your voice in this world." "Perhaps my vocal condition was an invitation to lead differently." "I was deconstructing some very traditional paradises about what a CEO should and shouldn't do." "The only way to give maximum value to the world is strengthening yourself." "I wasn't the same Erin. I wasn't firing from all cylinders. I know there was more, and I wanted to help in a better way." "If everybody on earth felt respected, valued, and heard, what might change?" "This book goes in search of lessons or principals for dispersing power, instead of collecting it." "Change is created first from within." "When everyone finds their voice, that's when you have a symphony, that's when beauty happens."
Mentoring, if career success had ten commandments, we're pretty sure this would be one of them. But do you feel that the 'mentoring system' isn't quite getting you what you need to succeed big time? Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another 'How Was Your Week' episode to discuss this and so much more. They talk about the difficulties of funding a podcast, the fun, stress, and emotions that came from their recent branding, photoshoot, and everything involved in keeping afloat in this multi-media world. They both recap the mini celebration they had for their one-year-of-podcasting, where they bump into their first public "fan" of b Cause (that they don't know!) Erin gives Nicole some coaching advice on recent challenges at work while Nicole explains her frustrations. They talk about the power of curiosity and persistence over simply putting your head down and doing PowerPoint. Erin coaches Nicole - from the way she emails over rewriting her bio for a website, to some advice with challenges at work. This leads to Nicole opening-up about her feelings of being taken advantage of at work. Communication is key: Erin discusses how issues with management can trickle downstream if communication isn't upheld properly. From the office to the home, communication is important everywhere from understanding your partners' needs to knowing hen something isn't your responsibility to bare. Nicole talks about her frustrations with being made a mentee at work and not a mentor (it's funny, most of the mentors seem to be white men...) Erin provides her perspective and tips on finding your mentors, and finding your sponsors (and the lesser-talked-about anti-sponsor.) And it all closes with a note to Amy Lacey, you can listen to her fascinating interview in episode 37. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You're not recording in the closet. You're not drinking wine to cope. You're celebrating with the ice cream cone. This is big-time people." "I was like, 'There's only one way he knows about us: he recognized Nicole's hair.'" "Consistency is everything, it's the thread that runs through." "Persistency and pivoting, and you just never know where you might go." "I have come to understand how important it is to have a multi-media aspect of anything you do." "I was fricking melting half the time. My shoe was broken. At one point I was sprawled across a board table with hair clips in and your kids putting sticky notes on my ass." "If not everyone's going to do it then I will jump in. And then it will be like the sixth-grade solar project again where I do everything by myself." "I believe that showing your vulnerabilities is actually a strength, because if people know the whole truth then they have nothing against you." "their issues aren't your own." "Bring that passion by being curious." "The last thing in the world that needs to happen is for an incident like that to wrap up 2-3 hours of your energy on a Friday." "It's not that I'm empathetic that drives it (I might be even less empathetic), it's my impatience." "I don't need help being leveraged by my company. I need help to be extraordinary." "The people that are going to get you to your dream career and your dream life are hard to find." "I want everybody to feel like they have full knowledge and full control of everything that's happening."
Did you know that it's Illegal to NOT allow discussing pay at work? Yeah, we didn't either. Or maybe we forgot. Or were too intimidated to do it. "Pay talk" is one of those elements of corporate culture that has a mythical and dis-equal hold on how we compete in the market. But why not take back the power so it is a "gateway drug" to other things. Like, how do you negotiate pay? Get information about your own net worth? Inspire others to share information? Nicole - who is in the middle of trying to make some career moves herself - interviews Cindy Medina Carson, CEO and Founder of Wager, to find out. Cindy talks about her journey from humble beginnings in working-class Holyoke, Massachusetts, tp policy analyst with the U.S government (where Nicole & Cindy met and have been following each other since!) to working in corporate recruitment and why she felt she had to turn the industry on its head. Cindy's dynamic career progressed as she started matchmaking professionals in similar industries and roles so they had a safe space to discuss their work and salary. They talk how companies pay people, and honesty upfront is essential and why looking for a new job shouldn't always be simply a last resort. She discusses how to network (Nicole's secret favorite topic/not so favorite skill) and how to stay on top of your own career moves. Nicole dives deep to take Cindy's guidance to heart as she figures out...what next? Find out more about Cindy and WAGER at the below links. Website: wewager.co Twitter: wewager Linkedin: Cindy Media Carson And sign up to her newsletter from her website! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I'll talk about anything you want me to talk about." "I think I've always cared about helping people to get where they want to be." "I can't do B.S. The whole recruiting process is B.S." "I just thought 'either I work for someone who is like me or I do something else." "I don't judge companies for how they're going to pay people, I judge them for not being transparent and not being honest upfront." "You were like the matchmaker. One person wants love, another wants a hamburger." "You know you're not in a good place when you're getting annoyed a little more often." "People can give you information, but having a connection creates a much more beautiful thing." "A lot of people think of a job hunt as a last resort, but you're saying it's a tool in our toolbox." "Getting out of our own networks and our own space feels impossible, but it's very important." "I think having wage conversations is a gateway drug." "I want you to talk more and to share more and then you make more." "I had a concern when I started to earn more than the rest of my family that I might start to feel disconnected." "I feel like people think if they improve their resumé everything will fall in to place, but it's a thousand other things." "If you're introverted you don't need to shy away from that in an interview. You can tell them 'look' I'm not the person that will be in the limelight, but I'll be back here doing all these things." "A lot of companies are losing men and women of color, and women at high levels, they're walking away and not coming back. So, how do you retain them? You start having more open and more transparent conversations."
Have you ever wondered if you're underpaid? That's the question that Erin and Nicole ponder and tackle in this week's episode. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant kick off by telling their classic Christmas comedies from this year. Erin talks about the stresses leading up to Christmas and the issues that ensue after their 3-year-old cousin barfs all over their couch on Christmas Day. But it's fine she hasn't lost her Christmas Spirit (We think...) Nicole brags about her CVS "status" and avails that she takes regular Sunday night trips to her local store. She discloses that she has a CVS BFF, Evelyn, and the wisdom Evelyn imparts on Nicole as she drives her to her bus stop after Evelyn's shift. Continuing on to more serious topics, Nicole discusses feeling undervalued at work. Using this to open up to a wider perspective, Erin talks through some ideas on what to do when you feel your paycheck doesn't reflect your value or compare fairly with your colleagues. They talk real-life scenarios at work for approaching discussions over pay, including the ins and outs of some corporate structures. Erin coaches Nicole base don her experience working with her CFO to examine employee pay and levels, giving us ALL the inside scoop on the topic of pay in the workplace. But what if the person at the other end of the conversation just sayd, "no"? Erin talks you through the conversation and where to go from there (hint, it will be ok.) Towards the end of the show, you are left with an extremely pressing matter...one of utmost urgency. A question for the ages. If you could pick a word of the year, what would it be? Go to the b Cause Facebook page and have your say! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "He's like 'I've got meat, therefore we will survive.'" "Let's put all the awkwardness in one room and call it a holiday." "Ho fucking ho. Merry fucking Christmas." "Wait, do you have a scheduled time to go to CVS? You just said 'I go to CVS on Sunday Nights." "If you could just let go of your perception of perfection, you'd see that this is nothing to be embarrassed by. This was a gift. Don't ever diminish your value." - Evelyn from CVS "I know a lot of people who have the mindset of 'ok once I get the promotion then I'll stretch myself and do the big stuff.' but no, you're screwed, That's not how it works." "It's not how hard you're working, it's about whether or not you're going above and beyond your job description." "A director does stuff they're told to do, they command the ship and they do really well, etc. A Senior Director? The difference is, nobody tells them what to do. They create the things that need to be done." "The first thing to do is to bullet out four or five reasons...and I'm talking to you, Nicole. Not a bunch of fancy fucking words, you have really big words." "Your title matters."
Too often we think about our health as needing to change how we treat our body. Amanda Walker will instead help you see that it all starts with how you treat your mind. Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Amanda Walker to discuss everything from changing your eating habits to managing your personal and work schedules to fit in more exercise, all while paying attention to your mental well-being. Amanda is a Health Coach and the host of the podcast, "Feel Amazing Naked." Erin asks what Amanda's motivations were for starting out in her career, what inspired her to become a Health Coach and take on the daunting task of realigning people's attitudes towards health and wellbeing. They talk connecting with audiences, and how intimacy can be key for truly getting people to open up honestly. Follow Amanda and her work: Podcast: Feel Amazing Naked Website: feelamazingnaked.com Instagram: awalkmyway If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The word sustainability was something I was profoundly dedicated to figuring out." "It's not just about how you look, it's how you feel in your body. That's not a size, or a weight, it's a confidence in yourself." "My journey is really one of thinking the physical would bring me everything, but that had nothing to do with it at all." "It's not about 60 pounds, it's not about weight at all. As soon as I started talking to women, the "why" underneath it all is simply them wanting to 'feel like them again'." "When we start to bring all the pieces of our life together, the illuminating thing is that we actually have more time then we tell ourselves." "If people are looking at you and looking up to you, you're a leader." "When you set boundaries to take care of your energetic state, and how you show up differently in your business, then you are unafraid to take big leaps." "The reason things fall to pieces is that the approach isn't 'long-term goals', it's 'get me there quickly.'" "Meal planning is hard if you don't know what shit to plan." "You can't read the label from inside the bottle." "All that money you're making, I want you to enjoy that for a long, long time." "We talk about career, we talk about life, but we really need to hit health."
Erin and Nicole sit down for another mono y mono episode and reflect on the immense possibilities they continue to see for their podcast, their lives...and for their listeners. They can see more and more every day that every single person out there has a unique and special purpose...and if they spend even a little time opening up "curtains", they'll find the answers they need to make it happen. Kicking off with some old stories Nicole Licata Grant an Erin Hatzikostas reminisce about the days when they were roomies, including when Nicole dug someone's car out of the snow with a plastic bowl (her first entrepreneurial adventure - she did NOT do it pro bono!) Following on from Erin's interview with Amy Lacey of Cali'flour Foods (Episode 37), and Erin's guilty pleasure for Fish Sticks, Nicole also tells their infamous fish sticks story. They recap their recent annual shopping trip and some steps you can take to get a healthier gut. But be warned, Erin's WTF of the week came at the cost of a happy gut. Knocking around Nashville, Erin and Nicole share stories about hanging out at Losers ('cause who wants to go next door to Winners...boooring), meeting fans, and Erin's dad networking through getting a young guy to continuously "strip". They open up the curtains about the reason they met up in Nashville and all that they learned that can inspire you to know that anything that's on your head to do, you can figure out how to get there. Erin briefly talks about her interview with Kate Duffy (episode 34), before the two move on to discuss the digital world, building and maintaining a brand and how "there is nothing you can't learn or can't do." Make sure to check our Erin's 2-day workshop March 20th-21st she's holding alongside Kaitlyn Czapiga (from Episode 5) titled "Your Richest Life". - Nicole will be there too! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's going to be a scavenger hunt for scrapers next year, there's going to be so many scrapers you're gonna not be able to not find them." "We've known each other longer than the fish sticks in my freezer." "When we want to do something...now. No patience." "All I get is some garlic, olive oil, ginger, and some vegetables, that's my whole dinner. So I sit down with these vegetables, and Manny leans over and takes a green pepper." "Doing a cleanse is not a relationship builder." "I love talking about food, it makes me so happy." "You guys were dope as hell and I love what you're up to...and the touching was lovely." "It's not enough to have a good message, you need to get that reach." Anything you dream of doing...that seems so mysterious, so elusive...the reality is, especially in this digital world, there is nothing you can't learn or can't do." "Anything you want to do, there is somebody out there - there's actually probably hundreds of thousands of people - that can help fast pass you and figure out how to do it." "There's enough space in the universe to have a message and get it the f*ck out there." "And then I had a moment where I thought, my god I actually might have something myself. And it's very hard for me to accept that." "I spent a year watching women do yoga, eating popcorn." "I know you never remember what you say." "Every day I;m seeing more possibility, and isn't that what we wanted from this journey, to keep figuring out what more we could do." I have some serious skepticism, 'people won't like me, they won't accept me, I'll be an outsider.' You know, we all tell ourselves stories." "In this day and age, we are all brands." "I just want to energize a base group of people." "It's fascinating to feel like there's real possibility." Mondays and Tuesdays I don't really help people. Every other day I do, but Mondays and Tuesdays it's just surviving." "I want better problems and better solutions in work and life." "Find the humor, find your resilience."
Erin and Nicole sit down to catch up on everything from crashing webinars to mental health days to them both meeting inspiring people. Erin Hatzikostas discusses hosting a webinar for over 400 women... before her computer decided to interrupt said meeting with a crash and a freeze-frame. But should you let that crash you as well? Heck no! You join straight back in (straight after 8 minutes anyway) make light of it and continue authentically. Erin talks as CVS' Women in Technology Annual Summit - but the kids had a day off, so how do you manage that schedule? They discuss giving keynote speeches and the difference between huge crowds and podiums, and small crowds and intimacy. They even throw in some coaching from Erin's kids, because who are more authentic than children? They both discuss recent meetings with inspiring people, Erin met Kate Duffy (listen to Episode 34for the interview with her). While Nicole discusses her follow up meeting with NPR, followed by her WTF moment of the week - ever turned up to work and your desk is gone? Looking over sizzle reels on mental health days, and eating Mexican food with margaritas from bodegas. And watch your back, Nicole and Erin start to plot a corporate bathroom takeover. Tune in for another great episode. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I may or may not have one of my video studios in my bedroom." "Your ironing board doubles as a production desk." "A good leader is somebody who is confident, and humble, and always gets people what they need more than what they want." - Mick Hatzikostas "Trust your creative process." "By physical comedy I mean I wore my sneakers and mu jumpsuit, and I was able to get down and dirty with these people." "I don't like podiums, I don't like physical barriers. I would rather be within a sea of people and find my place in that sea." "Do it your way." "It's about figuring out your uniqueness, and how to exploit that in the service of others." "Stop following the formula that works for everybody else." "You have to apply your authenticity flexibly." "Authenticity in action is not supposed to be self-serving, perhaps self-reflecting." "I hate the term networking, we're connecting." "It's really important that the pieces of my life don't exist in silos, I have to connect them." "Sometimes I just need to say no." "What does my vagina and its proclivities have to do with optimization?"
Erin Hatzikostas interviews Amy Lacey, Founder and Chief Innovation Officer of Cali'flour Foods, about how she turned her Lupus diagnosis into a $20M+ business. They talk about everything from healthy eating, healthy living, entrepreneurship, and family. Amy discusses her difficult upbringing, and how it shaped her into who she is today. She also talks about her diagnosis with Lupus and how it inspired her to start a health coaching business, which led her to taking her homemade cauliflower crusted pizza from her kitchen to farmers' markets to grocery freezers everywhere. Amy talks about the health + entrepreneurial twists and turns her life has taken and provides insights on how to be a successful businesswoman, without losing track of what's important in your life. To follow Cali'flour Foods and to learn more about Amy, check out the links below: Instagram: @heyamylacey Facebook: Amy Lacey Company: Book: Califlour Kitchen Learn more about Erin's In-Person Growthshop, "Your Richest Life": If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "There's a power in meeting new people - the mutual opportunity to authentically develop and support each other, and inspire each other." "Junk food was therapy for me, and even as a little girl I remember that." "I had always worked, because if I wanted anything I had to work for it." "I bought clothes from the off-season in New Zealand, sold them in the U.S, and in the first month I made $4000." "One day I became very sick, and my whole world as I knew it turned upside down." "Within about 6-8 months I started getting really healthy. I was off the medication, and so I wanted to be a health coach." "The whole purpose was to gain my health and my life back, but I started to get sick again because my business was consuming everything." "I was lying in bed, with these conditions that I've been teaching and coaching people how NOT to get, and I just thought 'How did I get here?'" "What's the choice? To lay in bed with no life, and not be there for the people you love?" "If you look at our county vs other countries, we are in really bad shape." "I'm diagnosed with non-alcoholic liver disease. I realized it was the stress." "I was back to where I was ten years ago, so I decided to make some changes." "I put my ego aside, I hired a CEO so I could take a step back and focus on my health and be innovative." "You can have it all, you just have to define what 'all' is." "There are so many solutions to a problem." "Make your customers the hero. Don't make it about your product or your services, make it about your customers using your product." "We get letters, almost daily, from people telling us how we've affected their lives." "You can always reinvent yourself." "If you pay it forward it always comes back to you."
Erin talks Nicole through her frustrations with her work schedule...and more. They grapple with the most important concept: does she have the power to change it? Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant continue their discussion from the pancake edition, following on from last week's women's conference debacle, and they go straight into an emotive wild ride of an episode. Erin kicks off with a story about Kody Lee, the young star with autism who won Americas Got Talent, and more importantly, the viewer's hearts. Nicole discusses how she is trying to change her perspective and approach to challenges in life - and sailing to Nicole Island less frequently. They talk managing schedules and the difficulty of choosing what to focus your time on. When is it ok to just say "this job is impossible"? If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ https://bbrilliant.bauthenticinc.com/ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ www.facebook.com/groups/bCAUSEPodcast We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to https://www.bauthenticinc.com/dog-quiz We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ https://www.bauthenticinc.com/ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ https://www.bauthenticinc.com/our-2-cents We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ https://www.bauthenticinc.com/b-you-shop DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "There are people in the world with special skills, and just because they don't necessarily have the skills to fit perfectly into what is considered "normal and accepted" we'll never be open to those skills. "What are all the little things that hold us back, not always related to work or professional careers, but just the things in life that are bothersome, and how do you make noticeable change?" "How do you say what's not important? When do you say 'What's missing?'" "Here's what's changed: I have a different mindset of what's possible." "Your job is to find room in your calendar to focus on the big stuff." "The act of managing your schedule is one of the most important things you do, and it's hard." "Anyone have meetings they scheduled themselves and they can't remember why?" "Emails are boomerangs." "While we've been talking I've gotten over 100 emails." "When I have 100 things to do it's really hard for me to just slow down and say 'pause, you're not handling this well.'" "One of the biggest issues I have seen is that nobody has actually defined what the communication protocols are, and who the decision-makers are." "When it gets to a certain point, I would just stop responding. You wouldn't find me anywhere. It's not serving anyone." "What happens if you just don't answer? Ignore some emails, see what happens - sometimes you gain more respect." "Nothing happens automatically, I don't care how many systems you have. Nothing happens automatically." "There are things you should fight through, but unfortunately there are many many things you should just flee from." "You don't have to be stuck, you just have to be curious and experiment and willing to listen to feedback and potentially have coaching. Invest a little bit in your life and yourself." "The more I tell myself I don't have any choice, and I just have to react, the worse I'm going to feel and the worse I'm going to perform." "The half-marathon: I hurt like hell, there were all kinds of negative talk - but I had a choice. I knew what was at the end of that. There was joy in finishing, high-fiving at the end, telling my friends. It's what got me through." "Everything's gonna feel like a sacrifice, everyhintg's gonna feel ridiculous, so I have to come at it from a positive place." "I want this. I own this. Even if it's hard, it's better for me." "It might be hard but it's better. This is our marathon."
Nicole grapples with the concept of "How do I truly make change?" She can now see the possibilities, which makes it even more frustrating trying to figure out how to actually get there... get a better job, career, and life. How does she get to a place of focussing on "gain" instead of "sacrifice"? Erin provides her, and all of you, with some simple but powerful advice - mindset, curiosity, and experimentation. This week Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant release their next episode after a short break for Christmas - everyone deserves a rest sometimes. This is a two-part series where the primary theme is time management. Ironic?! Totally. It does take them some time to get to the main theme, but there are just too many insights and epiphanies on the way to leave them out. They talk change at Nicole's Company, and how you can prepare yourself for, and handle, big shifts in corporate situations. Leading into an important conversation about women in senior positions, or lack thereof as it usually is. They talk about an f'ed up women's conference and out comes the concept of Pancakes vs Waffles - and everything wrong with that idea (hint: it's not actually about pancakes or waffles.) Erin discusses her trip to Michigan and explains what motivates her to run, and how that motivation can be used in any aspect of life, sport, or otherwise. She also discusses the unexpected, positive outcome with her husband and kids If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Change is the only constant where I am right now." "We used to have 3 female executives... and now we have 0." "Change is one thing, but I'm just really tired of not seeing anyone like myself making it to the top and staying there." "When you watch the top talent tap-out, you have to wonder is it them deciding they had to compromise who they were for the role or is there another reason they wanted to step down." "We see this all the time, the crappy boss either shows up or doesn't leave. Then the person you really admire, boss or otherwise, leaves and it's very depressing." "It's probably because we're a bunch of pancakes and the men are waffles." "I just want to point out the candy has come out of my pocket." "I have three shirts on, and they all have candy stuffed in the pockets." "I wish my vanity would make me run 13 miles." "If it's always about the sacrifice I'm not going to stick with it, and that's why I try to see things in a different light." "Running isn't for everyone, but the only way to make big changes is to find something you're addicted to." "Let's add tingly scalp as one of the feminine qualities." "Invest in your mindset." "Get a gym membership for your mind." "Curiosity is so powerful, it's underrated."
A meeting of two storytellers. This week Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Kate G. Duffy for an interview that stretches from Pole to Pole. And by that, we mean boardroom to Saturday Night Live. They talk improvising, how it works and when it works best. What it's like giving presentations, or keynote speeches, and how you can connect with the room. How does improvisation add to authenticity? How is it rooted in great listening? Are we addicted to the wrong things at work? And what would you do with far too many nesting bowls? Listen in for advice on Dialogue vs Debate. Improvisation vs Planning. Comedy vs...well, comedy wins this round. Especially with stories from messing with Steve Carell and a run-in with a pretend Billy Idol. Follow and learn more about Kate: Business Improv: businessimprov.com Instagram: dufffah Twitter: dufffah Email: Blog: theparentingofparents.com/blog If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I was so focussed on what I needed to do that I almost didn't notice who was in the room." "We help leaders to be more present, be more adaptable, and to say "no" with grace." "One of the best presentations I ever saw was just a series of questions." "Data is important, it's just not memorable." "So often we are not listening to people, we're waiting for them to be done so we can say our own thing. So it's very important to listen." "Dialogue is a good discussion, debate is coming in and trying to win the conversation." "You've gotta know your shit." "Our number one goal in every meeting should just simply be connection." "When I started improvising I became a better friend and family member, because I was listening to people, without an agenda." "We are just a bunch of matter walking around with vibrational frequencies, and by raising that frequency it brings out the better ideas in others." "For me, it's about taking the first big energetic step into whatever I'm doing, even if I don't feel it." "People ask me how I manage my nerves, and I put it down to simply making a good connection." "It's really hard to be a great listener these days, there are so many things to distract us." "We are distracted by our own internal monologue all of the time." "I've been in situations, where questions get weaponized." "Floating boats...float - Idioms are not your thing."
Bored of "women's events?" Tired of feeling separated because of gender? Fed up with the corporate approach to equality? Well, you've come to the right place. Erin Haztikostas and Nicole Licata Grant discuss their recent trip to New York where they led a "Ladies' Conference" event like you've never seen before. They took to the stage in front of a crowd of businesswomen to lead an amazing evening that essentially reverses everything "traditional" about a women's event. They also discuss how persistence and investment is key in creating success. Erin shares an update on a second trip she took to NYC as part of a group she invested in to learn how to successfully pitch major publications in order to get your voice and message amplified. Lastly, the discuss the concept of "Change" through the lens of Nicole's employer entering into yet another merger and on the cusp of heading into major change for all involved. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "To be perfectly honest, up until about three weeks before this event, I totally thought we were going to New York for a planning session." "In our heads, we forecast that this would be different, but we also forgot that nobody reads anything anymore." Let's go to New York, think about what we could do, let's talk with some venture capital people who have women's groups and brainstorm together and just typical bullshit." "Energy trumps words." "The only market that would have been harder is Texas - those women don't play." "It was not scripted. That is the way I operate." "There were a lot of things that felt extremely professional. You walked in there and were like, 'Erin and Nicole have totally done this a million times.' And you and I are standing in the hall by the back bathroom like, 'Is this really happening?'" "I remember about five words I said." "We're not being bold enough if we don't have haters'." "You have to dry clean it because it's b-dazzling. But you're right, I had a sticker on my ass." "If you want to do something, whether it's change the world or change the way you dress, I don't care what it is. You just start somewhere." "We basically reversed everything you know about a women's conference." "Trust your creative process." "If you want to do something...you just start somewhere." "I think the day I hit rock bottom was a day when I was trying to put forward some good idea, and I spent my time trying to find an icon bullet to match my idea than I did thinking about my idea." "Not everyone's a frickin' graphic designer. If you don't have something that's come off a professional design team, then it's not worth people paying attention to." "I feel like everytime I have an idea I have to think 'how does this translate into a PowerPoint?' And then I want to kill myself." "If you sometimes just ask for what you want, and put yourself out there, amazing things can happen." "We think it, we want it, but we don't say it. 9 times out of ten the person on the other end simply wants clarity." "If we don't have some 70's/80's throwback at some point in our episodes it's not a full catch-up." "Persistence is key." "Check yourself, see what you want and need, what you can tolerate and take. Just have an honest conversation with yourself and figure out where the deck is going." "There's a silver lining in every shit sandwich." "You're going to do healthy things, I'll be at Starbucks shoving a croissant down my face."
Nicole Licata Grant gets accountable to her financial goals and sits down with guest Alexandra Miele to discuss real-life financial challenges, biases, and decisions that can be both obstacles and a door to the 'big life' we all want (or at least the "liberation" many of us hope for someday!) Alex is a Certified Financial Planner® and a Partner at a wealth management firm in Connecticut. Recently named one of Forbes Magazine's 2019 Best-in State Next-Gen Advisors, she has been practicing for 12 years and takes a hands-on educational approach to working with clients and serving their financial needs. So, if you are worried about understanding finances and where your money is going, or can't figure out how to take risks, even struggling with talking to your partner or still questioning those next big financial moves, then listen in to hear Alex's expert advice on how we can secure our financial present, take ownership of our independent futures, and move past what has held us back all along. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I originally found myself working with women, going through major transitions, such as divorce, the death of a spouse, a new job." "When I started I was 21, so it was quite hard to say to people 'hey let me manage your finances.'" "We are legally fiduciaries, we are held to a fudiciary standard, which is my favorite F word - there's a nerdy joke for you." "We want to be your first call when something major happens, because at the end of the day that helps me be a better advisor to you." "When I get to put things in boxes or check boxes it is like eating chicken nuggets, immensely satisfying." "I've liberated myself of things that are tying me down, by either selling them, donating them, or blowing them up." "I don't think I've heard liberation fund yet, I might steal that." "I think there's this fear about money in general, that we're all socially trained about." "At the end of the day most people just want to know 'Am I doing the right stuff?'" "You're told your whole life to be fiscally conservative, don't take any risk, don't think about fantastic returns - be happy with what you have. But that's counter-intuitive." "When we as women are taking less risk, and we're earning less money...we're shooting ourselves in the foot." 8 out of 10 can rattle off their mortgage payments, cable bill...but can't tell me about their lifestyle expenses." "When you have a partner...You can divide the labor, but you cannot divide the responsibility of taking your financial life, understanding it, and knowing what the big picture is." "Actuarially, we live longer than the guys do...that's a homage to Erin." "What the listeners can't see is, as soon as Nicole said 'we hope everyone would do the right thing' I immediately started shaking my head." "You're not getting a wake-up call, you're getting a wake-up gut punch." "I don't want to trade my future for my present, nor do I want to trade my present for my future." "It's short-term pain, intermediate-term gain."
Want to catch up on what the heck b CAUSE is all about? Or are you a superfan and would love a chance to walk down memory lane with Erin and Nicole? If you said "yes" to either of those, this episode is for you! Join our hosts, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant, as they pause, take a deep breath, and celebrate the fact that somehow they punched out 30 podcast episodes in the last 7 months. Join this episode to hear them recount and recap some of the best moments and most poignant thoughts that have come out of the "first 30". Of course and as always, these are lots of laughs (mostly at their own expense) to be had in the episode. And there's also a lot of raw emotion and inspiration to be drawn as well. Happy 30th to our listeners! Here's to be 30+ more! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "People will see how you start to understand your uniqueness and your value, and that's what's really cool about this." "I'd been out sniffing butts." "This concept of compassion is exactly what's needed." "I think that was the one where you had walked 300ft in the morning and your phone was shocked at your profound activity." "Part of the art of this has been vulnerability, opening up, real-time therapy...lots of humor." "We hate this concept of binary." "If we'd thought about this relationship very binary, so much magic wouldn't have happened for both of us." "We attract certain people for a certain reason." "We decided to interview people on the streets, not only with our recorder but with our wind guard that looks like Don King's hair." "Don't forget about the CEO of the Hotdog Stand who tried to take you to New York for a 'not date'..." "I mean I was exhausted...but then we went and ate everything, so I was fine." "Forget safety, live where you fear to live, destroy your reputation, be notorious." "For people just tuning in you should know that Nicole uses really big words and my vocabulary sucks." "I'm going to act like an Impeachment Trial 'I don't recall any of that.'" "If you want to be a great leader, look around you at what everyone else is doing, and do the complete opposite." "Time for a rant: I have lived out east now for 22/23 years, and no one knows Michigan has two Peninsulas - get with the program people." "Be a rebel, mom." "If you're looking for a rollercoaster of relationships, and topics, and intellect, and talking about Urban America, watch episode 12." "When I started the podcast, I didn't realize it was going to be such a journey of self-discovery." "Wait, she's learning about sec before she learns about Santa?" "In this complex world, we try to solve that with big solutions, but actually it's often just the simple things that make a difference." "Episode 16/17 - our first two-part episode - this is for people going through a complete shitshow at work." "Mick's awesome mantra: belive, achieve, repeat." "What always sticks in my head is she started a mega-law office with a folding table and chair." "I think we were carved from the same stone at birth - though she's younger and has much longer legs than I do." "You have to expand your definition of what a paycheck is, what do you get for it, and what is financial security." "She doubled down, kept building a business, and has essentially created her dream life." "I don't have a handbag for work and a 2-ton truck for life. I'm driving the U-Haul everywhere." "We talk about what to do when your boss is a bully, or if your colleagues are bullies, and what to do in the situation...we also talk about suburban pornography." "Authenticity is great but what if your authentic self is an asshole." "We turned 29 into a drinking game, but for coffee...which might actually be more detrimental for me because of my caffeine addiction."
Is there a dream job? Is there a dream life? Is there any possible way to "have it all"? This week Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down to discuss the journey they have taken so far, what they have both learned from it about themselves and each other, and then bring into question their mottos and advice, showing how important self-reflection is. While discussing their journeys, both personal and professional, they let you in on some recent good news, for both of them, and also some whacky stories in the WTF moments of the week - FYI stay away from poison ivy and poisonous car dealers. It's important for everyone to reflect on what has passed, to be critical of themselves, and to highlight the positives so that moving forward we can all grow and develop. Listen in for another 'How Was Your Week?' wild ride. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I used to not be open to it at all, 'I don't want your epiphanies, it sounds like a cheap candy - put it back in the candy bowl." "This outside perspective, the different perspective, is something I think is really powerful." "When things start getting touchy-feely I'm immediately thinking 'we've gotta bring a spreadsheet to his, I need a diagram or something.'" "You're heading to Broadway but you've ended up on 9th. But that's not where you're supposed to be, and you wouldn't have so many barriers if you'd taken that right turn." "Who says this is the top?" "If you keep just doing the things and hitting the deadlines, that is the best way to blend in." "The 'dream job' is not a static thing, and it's probably not even a job, it's a dream life." "Failures are the golden eggs of opportunity." "I look at myself and I say 'Nicole you're not a distance runner, you're not gonna win a marathon' and I'm ok with that, so why would I try and win the corporate marathon?" "I think that 'you can have it all' has been said so many times that we've let society define it." "Own your all." "Do you remember when we named it b CAUSE, because we had a cause...and because we had no clue what we were doing." "Why do we keep asking perfection of ourselves, when we are dealing with something that is so imperfect." "You're the kind of person that just gets shit done." "If you keep doing the things and hitting the deadlines, that is the best way to just blend into the wall." "Monday I was coming back from a wedding, shit got all messed up, and I was running a board meeting from a truck stop in New Jersey." "If you were perfect people might think that you're not human." "I got there at 9. I was in the poison ivy bush by about 9:36." "There's greatness, and there's great work to be done, and I want to get the fuck to it."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down to discuss the topic of the week: open office spaces. Do they work? Are they efficient? Can we develop them in a positive direction? Or are they just another example of trying to solve a root problem with the wrong solution? Sound Boring? Of course, it never is on b CAUSE. But if you want to be fully sold, you can make this episode a drinking game. every time you hear the word "authentic", take a drink (ADVISORY WARNING: Do try this at home, not at work.) They, of course, tackle a number of other first world problems, like why duvet cover changing is a 2-person job and the problem of massively expensive china on wedding registries of people that likely live in a 500 sq foot home. Oh, and let's not forget Erin's breakthrough news - b Authentic inc is official! That's right, it's a registered trademark and allll theirs! Getting down to the nitty-gritty, they talk about how different leaders use the term "authenticity", what it means to an individual, and if it's even possible to define in a broader sense. Nicole reflects on her recent mentoring session with someone she knows, and what she herself took from the experience. Erin, coaching the session, relates this back to the workplace with some advice everyone can implement. Another How Was Your Week episode packed full of stories, advice, and some nutty fun. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "That bitch, Bed Bath & Beyond - I feel like it's America society that has sold us this lie of a duvet." "I'm all about the side hustle." "You're telling me you have the space to store, like, 16+ sets of china in New York City?" "I had to make a business plan - well, I don't actually have a frickin' business plan." "I'm probably a terrible customer too. I'm not going to deny it. I'm a bit cranky and hold them to these high standards I think I deserve." "If we had to change the branding I don't even know what I'd choose, it would just be something very similar like 'be kind of yourself...inc?" "I had someone tell me it's an oxymoron to define what authenticity is - and I kind of agree with that." "hat if the leader's authentic self just sucks?" "Authenticity is just not lying to yourself." "Trying to achieve some measure of success based on the ego or the self is seen as somehow taking away from the greater mission, or the ultimate impact." "Part of the identity is around sacrifice in the non-profit world. But I'm not sure if that is a long-term strategy for success or wellness." It's hard to have meaningful interactions when you're working three jobs." "There's always shitty leadership and people just going through the motions." "That's why you call it a job. Stuff's broken and you've gotta fix it. That's 95% of jobs." "Don't think going into things that they will be better or easier, but sometimes the mere function of change can open up a world in which you didn't know you had." "I'm pretty sure self-checkouts are conspiracy theories to make cashiers look good." "Let's just hope I don't drop anything on my boobs." "It goes back to a root issue that people are not having deeper, richer conversations in their workplace." "How do we put on our leadership pants, our leadership skirts, and how do we inspire? How do we encourage?" "How do we make things less complex, instead of asking, 'Hey, Nicole, do you have anything else to add?', you just ask 'What else?'" "Most meetings don't end up being meetings at all. They end up being a platform to vomit information on people, and then to walk away without any clear next steps." "Slow down and inspire." "Lead where you are." "It's better to be seen as ridiculous than not be seen at all."
Erin Hatzikostas ('Mooki') sits down with retired Air Forse Chief Master Sergeant, Tim Pachasa ('Chachi') to discuss his 24 years in the military: How does leadership apply in life and death situations? How does it compare to a pseudo-corporate type setting? Chachi discusses his inspirations as a High School Senior looking for the next step in life, watching events unfold such as Black Hawk Down and icons like Tim Wilkinson, and how this led him to the Air Force. Erin asks about his new podcast, and his company CAPE Lead (Caring, Alignment, Perspective, Expectations.) They discuss the term "expectations"; what does it mean and how can you use them properly and efficiently? Erin asks his biggest advice to allow leaders to thrive. Listen in for a Veteran's approach to leadership, coming from one of the hardest jobs there is. There is no room for failure, but how did he measure success? You can find more about Chachi, his podcast, and his company at the following: Podcast: CAPE Lead Website: capelead.com Email: Instagram: @chachipachasa Twitter: @timpachasa Facebook: Cape Lead If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's extremely challenging, extremely rewarding, and I loved every second of service." "In High School, I was voted two things: Most likely to be on Oprah and Most likely to be a Shoe Salesman." "I knew if I went to college, where most of my friends were going, I would have just pissed it away. I knew I didn't have the discipline to do that." "Most people have two distinct steps: when they enter the Military and when they JOIN the Military." "It was really at my lowest moment that I realized what I wanted to become." "I wanted the people who went home at the end of the day after working for me...I wanted them knowing they did what they could, with what they had at that time, regardless of the circumstances and whether they wanted to or not." "I wanted to help shape environments for people to thrive." "I ask people 'Do you want to be a good leader, a great leader, or a superhero leader?" "If you're always under-promising and over-delivering, you'll never know what your team's true capacity for work is." "We're so used to the five W's, how could it be wrong if it's alliteration right? So we stick with it, but we haven't passed our understanding of it." "You, and you alone, are in charge of your awesomeness." "The first step to good leadership is simply being a good dude or a good chic. I call it 'dudership' and 'chicership'." "Let's focus on being good people, treating each other well, and shaping the right conversations."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant sit down for another "How Was Your Week?" episode, and this time, they're actually in the same room! They talk about everything from Erin's new fascination with Dr. Scholl's shoes - they're stylish, they're affordable, they're damn good for your feet - to tackling obstacles by breaking them into manageable milestones. Erin and Nicole catch up in person with laughter, good food, and good advice. They discuss the problems and suggest solutions to 'Boss Bullying'. What is it? How to identify it. How to deal with it, and approach it from an appropriate place. They both share stories of their own, and others, of times they have had to deal with bullying behavior in the workplace, and this conversation could help many out there facing the same issues. Lastly, Erin and Nicole preview their upcoming "Ladies Conference Takeover" event - a live event in NYC! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's like voyeurism. It's a form of Suburbian Pornography." Nicole regarding Reality TV/Podcasts. "You're the Urban in my Suburban." "They're shoes made of sustainable materials...now we just have to ask about their policy on child labor, but other than that..." "Am I neuro-typical?...I've gotta make sure you're not making shit up ith those big words you use." "The point is not to lose weight. The point is to be more self-loving. Because I'm shitty at that." "We have to take obstacles and break them in to much smaller milestones." "I have this defiant part of my brain that always says, 'you're not gonna tell me what to do' even if it's me telling it what to do - my inner two-year-old." "In this world of collaboration and open management, even people at your own level, people with any amount of control - there is varying levels of bullying that goes on." "You have to stick up for yourself. And you have to go right back at them in a way that is appropriate and authentic for you." "Once you start feeling uncomfortable, once your gut says that it's inappropriate, the first thing you do is start documenting." "If you can take a deep breath, if you can take a moment, you can then acknowledge it and deal with it." "The one thing that always sticks with me is how insecure bullies are." "HR is not there specifically to help employees. They are there to protect the company." "The Godfather is the best management guide you've ever seen. And nobody likes a rat. So you have to be careful about how you go about sharing your story." "You have to create your own tribe to help you survive." "We all have the ability and responsibility to recognize and make change in our own lives." "Your best defense mechanism is to be f*cking excellent." "You have to wear your insecurities on the outside. Their own insecurities drive them. Because they pray on yours. There's no fuel. They're going to implode or moce onto somebody else." "The universe listens to the brave."
This week Erin Haztikostas sits down with Michelle Newman for an interview on the entertainment industry, entrepreneurship, and women's issues. Michelle Newman is an award-winning television executive turned marketing strategist and life coach for women in their mid-life journey. Michelle Spent much of her life as an executive at leading entertainment companies including Disney, Fox, and CBS. Her marketing and brand management expertise has led to her working with some of Hollywood's biggest celebrities including Betty White, Neill Patrick Harris, Drew Carey, Wayne Brady, Sara Gilbert, and Sharon Osborne. Currently, Michelle is the host of the radio show and podcast "The New Mid". Each week Michelle shares tips, insights, hilarious stories, and an honest perspective of real-life ups, downs, challenges, dreams and how you can make sure you live an abundant second half. Discussing ambition at work, embracing (or changing?) the mid-life journey, and the rollercoaster of having kids, Erin and Michelle gives us an insight into life in the entertainment industry, from meeting famous actors to writing Promos fo The Simpsons. A wife, a mother of two, an entrepreneur and a survivor. Oh, and now a Radio & Podcast Host! Erin and Michelle show you what women can do. Actually, by the end of this episode, you might be wondering what they can't do. You can follow Michelle and The New Mid @ thenewmid.com, on Instagram @thenewmid, or email her directly @ If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The Universe rewards risk. If you go out and invest first it's amazing what it can bring." "The information you learn is wonderful, but it's probably only 30% of the value. The big value is the people you surround yourself with." "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." "Fortunately, doors opened for me, I had to work hard, it was easier for me than for my older female bosses." "She said 'you don't need any drive or ambition, just sit in your cube and do what I tell you', so I sat in my cube, and I instantly emailed my contacts for a new place to work." "I got to write some Promos for The Simpsons, so I'd have friends call me at work and say 'what are you doing?" and I'd say 'oh just watching The Simpsons' - I used to watch The Simpsons for a living." "When you have a kid, your whole outlook on life changes." "I was in this whole narcissistic mode, and then the Universe decided, 'Nope, I'm going to throw a wrench in your plans', and I had a brain hemorrhage." "It's amazing how almost dying makes you realign...see things differently." "You can have a new exhilarating, exciting career, that gives you more flexibility, but that still allows you to be this kickass businesswoman. It's not as binary as people think." "I don't like the term 'mid-life', I didn't like the title 'mid-life crises', I didn't like any of that, and I thought you know what, we're the new mid."
It's back with a blast, the long-awaited second installment of another "How Was Your Week?" episode. We kick off with Erin Hatzikostas in the heat of the moment offering stellar advice to Nicole Licata Grant, as Nicole speaks about her new mindset and "thinking about things" first. An episode full of advice, Nicole continues to discuss her recent meeting with a boss and making her voice heard "at the table" as well as using her authentic self to make an impact. This episode includes a smorgasbord of inspiration including serving the greater good, exploring the dimmer switch at work, and even some advice from Marilyn Monroe. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Typically, if I had not been in this mindset, I wouldn't have been taking a pause, thinking about things, thinking 'what is the intention behind the words." "Don't forget to bring the people along." "How do you build trust? You have open conversations. And I have to be more willing to take input at the onset." "The good lesson here is to say 'whoa, back the truck up and have some conversations again." "I said, 'what about just putting me at the table so my voice can be heard, and not filtered through others." "In general you might think that you're ambitious and goals are linear as 'I want to move up in my company, I want to keep getting this big important jobs...but it's not for everyone, and you have to know what you're getting in to." "Don't change for the job, change the job." "When I took that CEO position, I did it my own way. I busted through 60-70% of the crap I wouldn't have wanted in that job. and I still had to have a level of aptitude, desire, talent to do that job." "When people are faced by your authenticity, they probably think it is the worst thing ever, but as they observe it in a broader sense, it's something they appreciate." "New people in the company are given this mantle of 'you need to fix all of this', and I got this mantle when I showed up too. you have to realize you can't do it alone." "If it's not serving the greater good then we should stop doing it." "Just tell them you want the job." "You're not getting a seat at the table unless people are voting you in, and more people have a vote than you think." "You've gotta know when someone isn't ready for your big note. You'r not being a different person, it's the dimmer switch." "You gotta know when someone isn't ready for your big note." "Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." - Marilyn Monroe.
Coming to you with another 'How Was Your Week?' episode with so much crammed in that we split it in half to create two glorious episodes. This week we learn tactics of success from the kids: Nicole Licata Grant and Erin Hatzikostas reflect on Erin's son's attitude towards success and failure (Believe. Achieve. Repeat.), and then we apply it to our own working lives and experiences. We then take a sidetrack and briefly delve into marriages past and present, with a quick word of warning and advice to the ladies out there that may be contemplating marriage (hint: if they say 'Don't be an asshole' just before they propose...RUN!! What's that sound? It's another VP take over while the boss is away. Nicole brings up the idea of VP Cointainment Zones at her work (you remember her Italian Mafia stage right?), which allows Erin to coach her, and you, on how to look at "Containers" with a new lens...and how to maximize your results if you can set aside your frustration and instead slow down and get them on the bus with a cocktail of 'What's in it for them'. We hope you enjoy the episode and the next in this 2-part series! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I think we come from a place of failure a lot. Versus Mick, he's 8, he's got a turtle brain. He just forgets a failure and starts again." "Sometimes the "believe. Achieve. Repeat." is small. it's knowing you're not going to grab the cheese from the refrigerator." "I told you before he is either going to be a mega-millionaire salesman/entrepreneur or is going to start a cult." "That's a killer in a relationship...the transaction." "The fact that you took that risk, made that shift, and believed there was something better on the other side, it's pretty inspirational." "So, everyone, if you're with someone who's an asshole before you get married and have kids, they're probably going to be worse afterward." "You're at the end of this big project, and anyone could have supported or collaborated with you at the beginning, then at the end they come in and just want to create a barrier to your success because they want to contain the mid-level management group." "It's fear. There's a lot of fear at the top, because you're responsible for a lot of things, and you need to determine when to put on the fear radar, to detect what can negatively impact your product." "People don't necessarily want you at the table, but they want to take that information and power for themselves." "A lot of people call it 'politics'. It's actually just how business gets done."
Sit down and get comfy for another 'How Was Your Week?' episode with Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant. Erins takes her turn to open up this episode and discusses a personal journey, family, and stresses with work. Erin discusses one of the big things that held her back in her career. They also reflect on the coaching and personal work that Erin is coaching Nicole on; Nicole 2.0. They share a bit from their full day together where they focus on developing, analyzing and taking action on Nicole's vision for a bigger life. All of this goes down while Nicole tries to avoid the spider's nest that is in her hair and the plight of an angry baby spider mob invading her home. Nicole also shares the revitalization of her younger rocker-self by visiting an Alice In Chains concert and finds herself mulling over some old feelings with new perspectives. It's been another hectic week, and we can't wait to share it with you! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "The first limiting factor is my husband...and, a lot of it is my perception." "I'm pitching (our first b CAUSE live event) over drinks, so I feel like I'm already over 50% of the hump." "It's wierd becayse all the things you said to me are actually coming true." "You want to defend yourself. You want to be like, 'No, what I'm doing is just fine. Look at my degrees and my paycheck. The reality is...all of the stuff you're saying about creating this next version of yourself is actually real." Don't think 'I don't have a team, I need a team to do this' - you can do that (leadership) with anyone...a friend, a colleague." "When there are people who will follow you to the ends of the Earth and back, it's mutual, it's so mutual." "Why do you care what he thinks?" "If I'm running around doing all the work as a leader, what can everyone else do? It's hard to step onto a moving train." "If you have to operate behind a curtain, then you can't be excellent." It's about turning words to action, not making excuses. Look I'm busy, everybody's busy. It's about finding those two minutes." "I spend more time putting 2-minute tasks on my to-do-list than I actually do to complete the task."
Erin Hatzikostas Interviews Elizabeth Hartke, Entrepreneur, Business Coach, Speaker and Podcast Host of "Scaling Up". Elizabeth mentors business owners and entrepreneurs to help them "get back to their original dream" by helping them grow their business and have an impact while ensuring they don't always have to trade dollars for hours. Erin explores Elizabeth's journey - how she went from her "climate-controlled cubicle" to pursuing her dreams. They discuss the "little seeds" that get planted in our heads when we're young, and how to think about them when they're not quite the right fit, yet they can end up sprouting into something different. Elizabeth talks about the importance of putting health first in everything you do. She also shares the questions she asks and the process she takes to help others envision and make their dream life happen. Sit back, relax, go for a run, take a train, or go swimming with waterproof headphones. It's a podcast, you choose, but make sure you do listen because this episode isn't to be missed. You can learn more about Elizabeth and her company here: Or take a run through her FREE 'Future Forecast Formula' by going here: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I realized it wasn't my dream, it was just a seed planted as a kid, and I think that happens to a lot of us." "The day to day didn't look how I wanted it to, so that's when I started looking elsewhere and started making moves." "So many jobs didn't teach me what I want, they taught me what I didn't want." "There is such a thing as quitting, but in your career...in business...it's evolution." "I hate that phrase "start over". You're never starting over unless you're dead and reincarnate. You are still moving forward. You're really only starting over if you aren't gaining wisdom from the life you've already lived."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet again to discuss the topic of the week: The addiction no one's talking about - your paycheck. They discuss how it can become easier to simply protect your survival and regular money influx than take a breath, risk and leave, to create a much bigger life. They throw in topics - from money affecting your ability to take risks, or even completely affecting your outlook - to Erin discussing her recent trip back home and how she feels welcomed but humbled by it. They also sneak in that Nicole's employer has caught wind of the podcast...and briefly comment on how Nicole is working through that (hint: b notorious is the mantra driving her forward and through any political bumps). Authentic family life, authentic working life, authentic troubles, and authentic successes. We can all learn something from this. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "How many people do you see do something outlandish or carve a new path? People appreciate that." "People are starting to recognize us. They might be our own friends, but that's unimportant." "When I decided to retire, I didn't get a package, I wasn't miserable, I just wanted something more." "People save for a car, a new house, a holiday, a new kitchen - how about saving for freedom?" "You have to allow yourself to believe that you can get to that place. It might not be easy for you, it might not look the same, but you have to believe it's possible or else you are always going to be living paycheck to paycheck." "A lot of people don't necessarily value their own time." "I certainly believe that volunteer activity is a critical thing. But if that's at the expense of thinking about ways to provide the freedom and flexibility that you and your family need, then you need to rethink your priorities." "Money is just an energy exchange. It's not about being greedy and being wealthy." "If you're able to find ways to turn your passion, your experience, your knowledge, your intellect, yoru connections into something for others in a way that propels them forward - not just financially but also holistically - there's such a value to that. And there's only so much energy you can put behind that if you're only paid the minimum." "Everybody wants to sell you a system. 'The system is going to fricking change your life.' Well, not if the morons running it has no idea. Not if your policies are out of place, and not if your leadership looks bad." "Treat your decisions like wealth. They're your riches, you must use them wisely." - Nicole's Uber Driver. "This week I choose to be notorious."
Think beauty queens are the Antichrist of authenticity? Well, think again. At least that is so not the case with former Miss USA, Erin Brady. Erin Hatzikostas (co-host) meets with Erin Brady (Former Miss USA). Erin B shares her highly unlikely journey to becoming Miss USA, including the very prominent and real role that being her total authentic-self played in her success. While it was clear that Erin H's 8-year-old son wasn't all that impressed, you'll be incredibly inspired by her story, the lessons she shares, and how to 'just go for it'. (What you'll, unfortunately, miss hearing/seeing is the huge smudge of mascara Erin H had on her face after laughing with Erin B for hours that night. She is one funny chick!) Check out b BRILLIANT, Erin's unique and totally authentic career coaching program: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "It's very easy to talk yourself out of something because you come up with a bazillion reasons why it's not the right time, the right fit. I feel like you just have to be able to dig deep and say, you know what, I'm going to go for it." "So I watch a few YoutTube videos - thank God for YouTube - and long story short, I end up winning Miss Connecticut." "They called me 'Beauty and Brains'" "Well, it could have been worse - 'Boobs and Beauty'" "Yes, you're right, it could have been worse." "This is just something that happened to me, it's not a defining factor. IT was my ability to take my authentic Erin-isms and put them out into the world for a whole year." "Beauty is abstract, it's different for everyone. For me, it's in the heart." "I learn so much about myself through others." "I've seen really cool things, I've lived a pretty crazy five years, but like everyone else I want to work hard, move, and succeed." "It sucks to be them." "You're a much friendlier ghost than Nicole."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant catch up after a lot has gone on. They reflect on Nicole's interview with Seth Poole and the top 3 insights Erin drew from her interview. Erin also gives an update and PSA on the importance of mammograms. They discuss how "authenticity" is not binary - that it's a spectrum and also the importance of plugging into other people's authenticity. They then dive deep into boundaries and work-life balance, including the interesting data and their unique perspectives on how to trudge through this common and intense life challenge. What real steps do you take to balance life and work? Let us know via our b CAUSE podcast Facebook page! If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "Mammograms: I'm sure we've just lost some listeners. All the men are like 'click' - let me go listen to some Joe Rogan." "That's the third example in 15 episodes where you have been naked and afraid." "I'm telling you world, you may feel like your work and your meetings and your deadlines are so important, and you just couldn't possibly get away, but it's all bullshit because you won't have any work to do when you end up in the hospital." "You know you're a great leader when people follow you out of curiosity." - Colin Powell. "We act like you're a leader or you're not, you're authentic or you're not, but there's a whole spectrum of experiences and situations, and each day you might find yourself a leader at one point and not at another." "We should make authenticity badges: you made it through twelve episodes - you get a badge!" "I went out this week of my own volition and walked up a frickin' hill. ...I was promised a fresh tomato pie, a beer, and a Bavarian pretzel with cheese. So there was a lot edging me forward." "Give yourself small obstacles, overcome them, and then see what you can do." "Intermingle work and life, but make sure it's a two-way street." "If you're going to (take a late conference call), you have to give yourself permission to do it on the other side."
Nicole Licata Grant interviews Renée Caggiano Bauer - family lawyer, author, self-proclaimed peacemaker, entrepreneur, wife, "Brady Bunch" mom, and all-around amazing human. Join them as they share drinks and sushi in Renee's former garden turned bar (the Alibi Room!) and investigate how rejecting the status quo, confronting the inauthentic and embracing inner passion is a powerful and transformative - if not linear - journey. Renée and Nicole share stories about grief, when being a leader means "the first one to get divorced, finding excellence in the dis-empowering (a.k.a WTF) moments and blazing that path forward to "O.K" and well beyond. Renée gets real, raw, and shares like never before. You can find Renée at: If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are some options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We share even more crazy stuff here (you probably thought that was impossible). Take our simple, fun and insightful "What Kind of Dog Are You At Work?" by going to We have so much fun stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out - join the authenticity movement and our community by adding your email just about anywhere @ Check out our blog for more of our no-BS career advice @ We have fun and inspiring t-shirts @ DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "I am awful at asking people for money." "Hey listeners, you have learned one thing here: If you hate your garden, turn it into a bar." "On summer days I would go cleaning houses with my mother and help her out, and the payment was a coffee coolatta." "Ten years of friendship and you cleaned up the dead fly for me." "I don't know how old I was but I was a year away from my first divorce." "When people get caught up in the conflict and the chaos, I can say "Slow down, this can go a couple of ways." "People can show the best of themselves in the way that they interact with their children." "It was within that loneliness and the weekends of crying that I had the space to do...the ultimate reinvention." "The reality is that banana daiquiris don't solve everything." "The project was about the words, it gave me an outlet at a dark time in my life." "It's when you know something you are in is not going to serve your purpose anymore." "If the fire isn't in your belly, then that f***ing sucks." "When you are down, or with people who are maybe not at the best time in their life, you can still see excellence." "It doesn't matter what you do for a job or how successful you are, but if you are in a toxic relationship that person can bring you right down and create all kinds of self-doubt."
In this second of a two-part series, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant pick back up the conversation after Nicole's back from her figurative, and literal, meltdown in Spain. They turn their focus to solutions. What is the art and science between setting boundaries? And ultimately, how do you take control and understand that you're the only one that can truly unf*ck yourself? When it is all said and done, they conclude that the talk was a bit of truth, a little bit of trauma, and a little bit of triumph. Oh and that they'll just have to keep on truckin'. If you like jammin' with us on the podcast, b sure to join us for more inspiration! Here are a few options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group@ . We'd love to hear from you and have you truly b part of our community. b Authentic inc community (AKA our mothership) by adding you're email just about anywhere @ We have so much stuff going on...we wouldn't want you to miss out! Disclaimer: This content is not explicit, though may contain mild swearing unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You should rise in your career without selling your soul. One of those main facets is not compromising your family and children." "Believe. Achieve. Repeat." "Don't wait for your kid to hear a ten-minute graduation speech when they're eighteen to be inspired" "It's not about creating the perfect childhood, it's about creating a positive, engaging, environment at the place they spend most of their lives. "I like to call boundaries 'instruction for care' about how we should interact." "There are some hard barriers, like not being abused or harassed in the office, there's an obvious line here." "Making and managing boundaries is a good thing, but you have to make sure not to invent false barriers that make you inauthentic." "I have a job right now. But my career comes from a place of personal passion, personal achievement and personal experiences of being human in the world. If I can't get that back? If we're really happy, stomping around in our little fucking work puddle and being all pouty in it, then fine, but there's probably a great lake out there that we haven't quite found yet." "I think a lot of bad rap is given to young people today...won't give up holidays, won't move location, won't do the menial tasks on repeat, this is actually something we need in the workplace. One day it will be their workplace." "That's what we're doing, we're saying you know, I don't give a crap about what the standard is. I'm going to do what I want and what other people want, and that's going to be the future."
This week on the b CAUSE Podcast we've broken the episode in two, because, well, there's just too much to say for one episode. Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant catch up, analyze, pontificate and coach through Nicole's recent trip to Spain: The heat, the travel, the sunken eyes, and the problems with "the inner-circle" of leaders. Though, the problems might not always be where you think they are. Listen in to not only follow Nicole's path, but to connect and learn more about how you can think about and handle your work bullshit. And please b sure to join us for more fun and inspiration! Here are a few options... Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b Cause Podcast Facebook group @ We'd love to hear from you and have you truly b part of our community! b Authentic inc community (AKA our mothership) by adding your email to just about anywhere @ We have so much fun stuff going on... we wouldn't want you to miss out! DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Links: Tweetable Comments: "Sometimes these corporate Pow-wows feel like hazing." "99% of the time it's not hazing: it's fear and it's ignorance and it's ego that just rolls downhill." "The main reason for spending 100+ hours on one presentation is failing as a leader, and focussing on all the wrong things." "I shouldn't even be a leader if I'm not going to trust the people who have proven they want to be in my inner circle." "It's as simple as putting yourself in someone else's shoes." "You might know the path, but boy it's easy to deviate." "Just why is it so hard to stop eating the whole bag of Cheetos. It's really hard to not eat the whole bag of Cheetos. You have to practice. You have to sometimes eat a quarter bag or a half a bag and then roll it back." "I encourage people to say I'm going to take two steps forward and one step back. That relieves the pressure. If you do that...in a year from now, you're going to be a mile ahead from where you're at." "We have to quit listening to the voices in our heads that debase us: that say we're not good enough leaders, we're in the periphery." "Storytelling in the workplace can be really powerful, storytelling inside your own head can be dangerous."
There's a bit of an echo, must be the resonance of Erin Hatzikostas' words. This week we listen in to a speech Erin gave at the Alegeus CDHx, where she makes the business case for enabling authenticity in the workplace and how it can kill two issues with one stone - inequality of women in the workplace and lack of employee engagement. And somehow she ties it all together (pun intended) with how she ties her shoes to help rid herself of a debilitating disease. As always, it's authenticity at the core, but this speech actually explores and proves the power of authenticity in the workplace. DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though may contain mild swearing unsuitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "People respect authority, but they follow authenticity." "For my leaders in the room, get over yourselves. Stop impressing your boss, start impressing your people. Connect with your people, add your recipe for authenticity, and watch what happens." "Inspiration is a circular reference." "In this complex world, we often forget that the solutions to big problems are simpler than we think." "There are more CEOs named John than there are female CEOs." "Imperfect men have been ruling the universe since the beginning of time, it's time to give women the opportunity to do the same."
This week Erin Hatzikostas sits down with Anton Gunn, a former state legislator, federal policymaker and Harvard Professor and now the founder of the 937 Strategy Group for discussion on, well, everything. Anton will inspire you as he shares his passion for great leadership and how it was formed from a unique combination of being part of a family dedicated to service, the five U.S. Presidents he met, his many mentors, his college football coaches (what not to do) and hip hop. If you're looking to truly become a great leader, you don't want to miss this episode. You'll be incredibly moved by his authentic perspective on how to move forward in life, take on incredible challenges and be the kind of leader that leaves a legacy for many people including, most importantly, your family. DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "You're never too big to help someone out, because there's always someone out there in the universe who needs to hear from you." "Who am I to deny someone of their opportunity? It's not a rivalry, it's authentic." "We'll give someone a business card, we'll take there's: but we'll go home and never look at it again. There's so much value sitting on your desk at home." "I teach leaders not to be transactional but to be relational." "To focus on relationships, regardless of status, is really important." "Let me put it down to where the goats can get it." "When you don't have a good environment, where people feel valued or respected, you can't get people to optimally perform." "I wasn't appreciated as a person, so I did the bare minimum, and you see the same in the workplace. You mentally quit long before you physically quit." "If you're disabled, if you have limited English proficiency if you're just poor, the system is fragmented for you and it's hard to live out your potential." "When you get into a new leadership position...you're only entitled to the respect and value of a leader for one day. The next day you have to begin earning that title and earning that respect of the team you lead." "You need to interview the people on your team for their expertise on how you should be doing a great job." "All of us at some point get told what we can't do, what we can't have, and that we don't have all the tools in the toolbox that other people have." "How do you encounter the person at the store, doing your laundry, the person washing your car. You can act a certain way with everyone, and that attitude reflects in your leadership."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet for another How Was Your Week episode, discussing "The Talk" with Erin's kids - as well as a few more talks that maybe everyone should have (because babies don't get delivered by friendly flying Storks). Nicole opens up in this episode and talks about a recent "diagnosis" she serendipitously got while touring one of the community health orginizations she supports. As Erin put it, and Nicole lived it, you learn most about others by taking the time to walk in their shoes. Join us for one of the most authentic episodes yet, b CAUSE it's worth it. We would LOVE to hear from you. Give us your thoughts, feedback, ideas, keys to your vacation home... whatever! You can write to us at DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing unsuitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "You don't need to qualify anything, it's the wine." "You have to surround yourself with mums who are bar-lowerers, not bar-higherers." "So wait, sex before Santa?" "I agree that people should know babies and pee don't come out the same hole." "We're studying the space shuttle and the next thing a girl is passing out putting a condom on a plastic penis." "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand, they listen with the intent to reply." - Stephen Covey" "I know sometimes I listen to you...and sometimes I don't." "I see things that are out of order, that are not allocated properly, and I want to break something. I feel like my passion is to make things work better and more efficiently." "Being your authentic self is the easy part, recognizing everyone else's authenticity and how to connect to that, is the tough part." "I've started to use the verb authenticate."
b CAUSE goes back to one-half of its authentic roots as Nicole Licata Grant talks with long-time friend and New Haven Mayoral Candidate Seth Poole. Childhood friendships to "Ego-Death", "hard times to having "all that": venture outside the confines of Corporate America to discover guerrilla-style leadership in urban America. Join us for a powerful conversation, battling stigmas, divides and conflicts, the business potential of a pair of Jordan's, and what happens when you realize pedigree is not just a brand of dog food. This is a long one. Please join us to the end. Ignore the yearbook page flipping, coffee pouring, and bird noises. You won't be disappointed. And you can find and support Seth via and "Poole for Mayor" on Facebook. DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though does contain some mild swearing that may be inappropriate for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "To me, the word 'pedigree' meant the quality of your dogfood." "Imagine that, backing into sex education because of learning about AIDS. That basically sums up our childhood." "I did not know you had all that and I have known you for a long-ass time!" "Hard times are spreading. Just like the flu. Watch out, homeboy, don't let it catch you" - Run DMC, Hard Times." "You can pile all of your Catholic Churches on top of each other and you still will not be half as conservative as a black grandma." "What happens in the house stays in the house: children are to be seen not heard... if the children are being disrespected and they are not allowed to speak out, what kind of kids do you get?" "I can be your DJ and Justice of Peace." "I think that in the words of Ice Cube, there has to be some 'hard-core administrating'." "I've experienced what it is to be someone who grew up in a single-parent household and on assistant with TANF and WIC and all the rest of that stuff. I know what it's like to have a household full of roaches, and what it's like to have a mouse problem. I know what it's like to lose a job, what it's like to not know where your next meal is coming from. And I also know what it's like to sit on top of the Great Wall of China." "I grew up here. I am a concerned citizen. And this is my birthplace... and it shouldn't be something you aspire to get away from. It should be something you aspire to have ownership of." "For me, the way out has always been through." "I am throwing the rope down for a living." "We are going to ask for the grace of people who do not have any reason to be gracious." "We have to build our houses of worship that are focussed around the community. We worship each other's better successes." "I see New Haven as the tipping point for the planet." "None of this is about you. None of this is about me. This is about young people, this is about old people, this is about paying it forward and creating a culture of supporting the most vulnerable. If we do that everyone can also profit from each other." "All we have to do is get off the selfish, and that's a big part of leadership." "You are literally one pair of Jordans away from being a business owner." "I show up hardcore every day." "This shouldn't be a place where only two classes of people exist: you can either afford to insulate yourself, or you can't afford to leave." "We are going to improve this city with the people in it."
Battling jetlag and the duress of women's conferences during a late night recording session, Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet for another How Was Your Week episode. Erin rolls back from Ireland after one too many potatoes, while her husband battles driving manual on the wrong side of the road. Nicole discusses her recent coaching session, and that she is now working in partnership with RAINN - Rape Abuse and Incest National Networks - as part of the leadership council. Discover the behind-the-scenes of women's leadership conferences: a labor of love or just more labor for women? How to prepare for presentations and meetings, and as always, how to be truly authentic with one another. DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "I'm pretty sure these car insurance packages have been drummed up to lure Americans over to Europe so they can crash and then pay out." "Words can reverberate, and it doesn't matter what your age is." "Disconnect. Take a real holiday. It's not just about you, it's about your boss, your coworkers, your employees." "How would you be if you took full responsibility for your own happiness?" "She said I was a unicorn, and I said I usually just think of myself as an old fat rhinoceros." "Every 92 seconds someone in America is the victim of sexual violence, and that is purely unacceptable." "I feel a lot of the diversity, the 'women's stuff' is just checking the box, making the board happy, and it doesn't have to be." "When passion meets inspiration, an obsession is born." "What holds us back? Lack of boundaries, guilt, shame, it's all about you, and you have to get ahold of this stuff and then let it go."
Take a step back with us this week as we learn of Erin Hatzikostas' roots, the things that shaped and nurtured her, and the influences that helped turn her on to the path she is on today. Listen in as Nicole Licata Grant interviews Pam Davis, a teacher and an educator, and Erin's Mom. We learn of the Midwest's orientation for family values, the beautiful scenery surrounding Erin's childhood, and the bold step she took to follow her corporate journey. From cross-generational issues affecting women in the workplace and at home, to the mantra of a strong-willed and independent child, discover the history and family that laid the pathways to everything that is b Authentic. Disclaimer: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ /b-you-shop Tweetable Comments: "She was always aggressive about doing her best in whatever she did." "We both encouraged her to follow her dreams, and I think it was worse for us after she left because we realized 'Oh, she might not come back'." "I was at the beginning of the generation of women going to the workplace, working at home with the family, and it's so beneficial to fulfill you in a way that is separate from the family home life." "Be a rebel mom - that was her mantra." So many different people are alive now, so many generations to capture - we hope someone can get something out of this." "With education you have to be able to give and take, to be a good listener and a good communicator, and to be authentic you have to concentrate on that." "Stereotypes seem to be the opposite of authenticity."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant celebrate the release of the podcast! (episodes are recorded in advance). Erin and Nicole discuss the inauthentic 'badges' people give themselves at work, and the roles that play out with them at top levels. They talk about how to set these aside and instead do the simple things that will make you stand out and have people following you in droves. As always, their career advice and inspiration comes sandwiched between other relevant topics like cheerleading and strategic weddings appetizer planning. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ b-you-shop DISCLAIMER: This content is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may be unsuitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "If you want to be a leader you have to completely differentiate yourself from the flock, and to do that you need to be completely in touch with yourself and everyone else." "People give themselves these badges, these roles, and they find some sort of hierarchy and authority through it." "If you want to be a great leader look around you at what everyone else is doing and do the exact opposite." "Sometimes you have to make a fool of yourself, you have to be the goofball." "Forget safety, live where you fear to live, destroy your reputation, be notorious." - Rumi "If you're looking to leave your mark in the world and pave a new path...if you don't have haters, you're doing something wrong." "If you have a one million dollar business and you want a one billion dollar business you need to destroy your one million dollar mindset." - Brooke Castillo "You can't operate the same way for new things, you need to keep growing and developing." "I can only fully commit to you, if you can fully commit to yourself." "Trust your creative process - even if you have a process that is less than perfect - if you get results." "Go out there and be bold and be different, and don't do what everyone else is doing."
This week we bring you another interview segment of the b CAUSE podcast with Erin Hatzikostas & Nicole Licata Grant. This week, Erin interviews Executive Recruiter and Partner at Oxeon Partners, Mia Jung. They Discuss her perspective on authenticity in the workplace and her advice and tactics on how to stand out in a sea of other talent. DISCLAIMER: This content is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ https://www.bauthenticinc.com/b-brilliant Tweetable Comments: "I put my oxygen mask on in the morning, go running, do my thing, and then I'm able to give myself whole heartedly to my work, to my team, and to my candidates for the rest of the day." "I think authenticity is being true to yourself. There are a lot of academic definitions, but it's about being true and doing a lot of self-exploration to find what drives you and what inspires you." "With candidates, I try to spot the fakes by asking my assistant 'how did they treat you over email?' If there's inconsistency it's a big red flag." As females I think we are not great networkers, we're working hard, we're in the right places, but we're not networking properly." "Finding the right job is like jean shopping: when you're out looking for jeans they're never the right size, but when you're out looking for anything else you'll find the perfect jeans." "My mom was a stay at home mom for of her life, and she always told my sister and I 'always work, always have your own money, always be independent."
Another week catching up with Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant. their WTF moments of the week, their travels, family, and general thoughts on life. A new editor, a new structure, and a quote of the week to lead a conversation - as well as some insights on women's fashion in the workplace. Listen in for insightful knowledge on looking for work at the right time, taking a step back or even a step-down, to think of the future and the bigger picture. And remember, always reach for the cheese. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Check out b BRILLIANT, an online career development workshop like you've never seen. Enrollment is only open through June 12th so check it out now @ bauthenticinc.com/b-brilliant DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "We have a new podcast editor, we told him to slap us up spin us around, and how to actually make a podcast." "I'm on the cusp of my mid-40s, which is terrifying, but you know only a few people got hurt in the process, which is good." "I've been feeling more jazzed the last couple of weeks. Trying new things, taking shit less seriously, did some travel. I feel like 43 will be a great year - it's the best thing when you start something new and feel good about it." "So I go to the drawer in my fridge, I open it to put something in, but I just get really distracted by the cheese. I bought this amazing cheese." "Readers, reach for the cheese. Yes, you're readers, and yes, Steve did not hide the cheese well enough." "It's like when you're running and get a stitch, they tell you to breathe right into it, go at it. That's what you do, you get right into it." "Looking for a job is like buying a house, it's all location, location, location." "The chances that a great job is just waiting for you, exactly when you're ready and looking for it, it's just unlikely." "It's like riding a bike, you're pedaling a thousand miles an hour, but you're on gear one so you're not necessarily going further. So, you have to move up a gear even though it feels like you're moving slower." "The thing you have to shed is worrying about what people will think when you take a job." "Go out, enjoy it, don't beat yourself up over it. You can have your cupcake too."
Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant decide to stop just chatting about authenticity and instead jump in the car and take to the streets of New Haven to meet authentic people in authentic places. With the aid of their Don King-esque looking podcast mic, they tackle the challenge of approaching strangers to get their take on the corporate world, leadership, and what makes them tick. They build connections through a combo of quirky and serious questions to understand each person as an individual. Tune-in to discover the lives of real people that make up the city of New Haven and represent our authentic world more broadly. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Check out b BRILLIANT, an online career development workshop like you've never seen. Enrollment is only open through June 12th so check it out now @ bauthenticinc.com/b-brilliant DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Tweetable comments: "Do you think people are going to look at us funny for the Don King on our recorder?" "We should do an episode entirely on New Haven." "Are we not doing that right now? You don't get two episodes on your town." "When you write your autobiography, what's it going to be called? "The Baddest." "We're court interpreters, it's a fulfilling job because every day we can help people navigate their judicial system. I just wish New Haven was more welcoming with parking..." (Nicole's boyfriend runs part of New Haven's parking dept.) "My definition of leadership is someone who works with you, next to you, doing the same things you do and not just delegating from above. A leader is one that is with you all the time." "A leader does just that, they lead - but by example." "You haven't arrived until they know your name at the redemption center."
An interview with Erin Hatzikostas' most unexpected student AND coach. They discuss how they first met, Kaitlyn's discovery of her true passions, her directions in life, and the messy but powerful routes she took to get there. How Erin's work in bringing authenticity to the forefront of people's lives has affected their careers and outlook, as well as mentioning their collaboration to birth the upcoming launch of Erin's online career workshop and course: b Brilliant. With a touch of Soul Magic, they explore Kaitlyn's quest for the perfect partner - was it written in stone or inked in skin? - and how important it is to always be searching for what your life's ultimate purpose is. Erin ultimately pushes you to think outside the box as to who can inspire you, and how ultimately inspiration is a circular reference. To follow Kaitlyn on her Soul Magic journey, you can start by connecting with her on Instagram @ katesmaniquest Episode Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ bauthenticinc.com bauthenticinc.com/b-brilliant DISCLAIMER: This episode is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Tweetable Comments: "You found your calling, that was so deep and rich that it forced me to think about what I was doing on a much deeper level." "What is authenticity? if you get really honest with yourself, and you get quiet and you ask what do I want to do, who am I? That's all you need to know. It's one of the hardest things you can ask yourself." "The yellow brick road is just authenticity, and you have to be honest with yourself, and that can be a really big challenge." "So, I seem to inspire a lot of people to quit their jobs." "What breaks your heart? It's a really powerful question." "It's important, when you take the time to invest, first of all, in somebody, whether it's to help you out or to be part of your team, to not just see them as somebody to do a job, but to see the energy exchange that's possible, and to really explore that." "Inspiration is a circular reference." "You're going to shift this dynamic of Corporate America, this boredom, this misery, you're changing it." "Every single person that we interact with, they are there as a mirror, a lesson, a test. They are there for a reason."
Listen in for laughs, love and authentic self-reflection as Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant meet for a 'How Was Your Week?' episode. Delving into the world outside of America, Nicole discusses her trip to Spain and reconnecting with her inner-traveler (a traveler who likes to sneak high-quality ham back to the U.S). While Erin talks about her tactics for handling multiple projects - and finishing them - with a creative twist. As well as a quick intro into her upcoming video series of online classes. Discover inspiration, discover cultures, discover authenticity. DISCLAIMER: This content is not explicit, however, contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Tweetable Comments: "My profound input: we've gone full circle. We used to communicate with pictures on the wall, and now we use emojis. We're right back where we started." "There's so much joy in seeing other places, sometimes the getting there is hard, but the being there is amazing. I suppose that's true for everything." "She was very inspiring for me, she basically told me 'you have a formula that works for you' and since then I've come to terms with it and realised, I work best when I'm inspired." "You confronted something that didn't feel authentic and you owned it, you thought let me recapture this and let me not be afraid to do this again, and di it differently, better." "I feel like I've found ways to take these big audacious goals that are stacked on top of each other, including releasing this podcast, and I've found creative ways to make it flow better and more authentically, and also not have an anxiety attack - so I feel good."
How do Erin Hatzikostas and Nicole Licata Grant define authenticity? Well, they certainly each have their own point of view. They come to some rough definitions...including moral compi or compassesses. Nicole discusses her role working in warzones and dangerous locations, and how compassion and integrity play an important role in her authenticity. Where did she most test her authenticity? When negotiating her way out of being detained abroad (in transit, no arrests!) Erin talks humility at work and the facade of the corporate smile, and she's clearly passionate about the inauthentic corporate communications that leave employees underwhelmed. Disclaimer: This show is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Tweetable Comments: "When I think of authenticity I think of compassion because that is how you interact with the world at it's most basic, critical level." "And at the end, when they were putting all my bobby pins back in my suitcase and putting the guns away, they said, "we've talked to a lot of people like you...but nobody actually told us what you were doing." "For a long time, my definition of doing good in the world was trying to help everybody, but I had to step back from that and say "I have a certain set of tools, and I can help a certain set of people at a certain time with a certain thing." "Operate in front of the curtain, if you have to act behind the curtain then something is wrong." "The bcc is bullshit." be transparent, because if you can't be transparent, if you can't be honest, especially with yourself, you've got work to do." "For me, authenticity is humility, and maybe that's because of the context of working in a corporate world, but people weren't authentic." "99 out of 100 people do not read those communications written by somebody else, and the one person that does regrets it." "There's just so much that happens in the corporate world that is an exercise in futility, to check a box and to look good for the people that don't matter." "At the end of the day, it's remaining true to that inner voice. Would I do that at a dinner party? Then I'll be like it at work too." "My phone was congratulating me for having the most activity I've ever had before 10am: I walked a whole quarter of a mile. I think that's because I walked up your driveway from my car."
Turning the table (and the microphone) we delve into Erin Hatzikostas' backstory, her journey from small-town Mid-West to the high-rise corporate life, and all the butts sniffed along the way. As well as a few insights from Erin's six-year-old son, managing life as a top ranking CEO, a mother, and a wife, there's something for everyone in this rollercoaster of an episode. DISCLAIMER: This content is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Tweetable Comments: "Acquiescing, and forcing people to take the lead, is the biggest enablement and support you can give." "We're running around like crazy sniffing butts." "I think Corporate America is too traditional, it isn't diverse, certainly in women's leadership, people of color, and overall diversity, that segregation won't get us far." "We've got a new acronym, non-Pinterest moms, I'm and NPM." "You learn these leadership principles, and then you go home and it all goes to hell in a handbasket." "Mick looks at me, six years old, and says 'at least you made it to 43' - thanks Mick."
Erin Hatzikostas pops the question(s) to Nicole Licata Grant in this totally impromptu first episode. Hanging out in Nicole's living room, along with their friend Megan, Erin breaks out her phone and interviews Nicole to get her thoughts on starting this venture, how she thinks about authenticity, and so much more. We dabble in Nicole's backstory, Erin's quirky questions, and both their authentic laughs. From ghosts taking Corporate America by hostage to the infallible Mother Teresa, there's no topic that can't be put under the microscope of authenticity. DISCLAIMER This content is not explicit, though contains mild swearing that may not be suitable for younger audiences. Links: Check out the b BRILLIANT career coaching program @ Tweetable Comments "I think hostage taking is a pretty effective tool." "I'm still holding on, but I tell you, the granny panties will come out at some point." "What is authentic, that's an important question and I don't think we have an answer, I don't think we know in this day and age what that means." "Hello, America Waste Company. Welcome to urban America. Real problems, real things, real distractions, authentic distractions." "It's going to be through the community, through talking about authenticity you're kind of giving permission, and I think that there's a lot of people out there that need that permission to be authentic." "I don't want like-minded, that's why we want to investigate this notion of authenticity and we're not looking to just sit in a sound room, we want to talk to people who aren't like ourselves."
A podcast that is determined to break the norm. Two longtime friends, who are opposites in just about everything, come together to help you contemplate and contend with the “bS” that is in work, life and everything in between. In this first special episode, Erin Hatzikostas & Nicole Licata Grant sit down in podcast-land AND in YouTube-land (check out the video on YouTube if you want to see your hosts) to give you a glimpse into what this podcast is all about.