Family Life Movement: Recent Episodes
Matt & Jocelyn Woodrum
Matt & Jocelyn Woodrum co-host the Family Life Movement podcast which is all about having real conversations about family dynamics, the challenges of entrepreneurship, and that ever elusive idea of work/life balance.
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- Loneliness and Isolation
- Depression
- Not being 'equally yoked' in relationships
- Intimacy
- Application
We will be continuing the series for the next several weeks.
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Books
- Can You Hear Me Now?- Dallas & Nancy Demmitt
- Love and Respect-Emerson Eggerichs
Websites/ Influencers
- Nail in Head
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Not being understood is painful-across the lifespan and in various relationships
- The difference between men and women in communication styles and purpose
We will be continuing the series for the next several weeks.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Can You Hear Me Now?- Dallas & Nancy Demmitt
- Love and Respect-Emerson Eggerichs
Websites/ Influencers
- Nail in Head
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Introduction to Dallas and Nancy Demmitt
Miscommunication
Body Language
Our goals while reading this book
Discovery Talking/Listening
We will be continuing the series for the next several weeks.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Can You Hear Me Now?- Dallas & Nancy Demmitt
Websites/ Influencers
- Nail in Head
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Personalities in our Children
- Don't type young children
- Characteristics- encourage the ones you want
- Balance as a parent
- Asking good questions- avoiding leading questions
- Teaching kids how to self regulate
Teresa was with us in episodes #62 & 63.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Influencers/Podcasts
- John Maxwell
- Zig Ziglar
- Michael Hyatt
- Kim Avery
- Natalie Eckdahl
- Anna Powers
- Kent Julian
- Dan Miller
- Eagles Community
Teresa’s Links:
- https://www.therealifeprocess.com/
- Instagram: teresa.mccloy
- Facebook: @CoachTeresaMcCloy
- Email: teresa@teresamccloy.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Work- Life Balance
- Does it exist?
- Using Enneagram for balancing our lives
- Faith
Enneagram in relationships
- Words for discussing conflict
- Marriage
- Children
Teresa was with us in episode # 62 to discuss parenting, marriage, and life's struggles and will be back in episode #64 to discuss .
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The 5 Love Languages
Teresa’s Links:
- https://www.therealifeprocess.com/
- Instagram: teresa.mccloy
- Facebook: @CoachTeresaMcCloy
- Email: teresa@teresamccloy.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Overcoming Struggles
- Broken Trust
- Loss in Family
Enneagram
- Use what works for you
- Date nights
- Conversations to have with your spouse
Parenting Through Adversity
Teresa will be back in episode #63 & 64 to continue the discussion.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The 5 Love Languages
Teresa’s Links:
- https://www.therealifeprocess.com/
- Instagram: teresa.mccloy
- Facebook: @CoachTeresaMcCloy
- Email: teresa@teresamccloy.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Next Week: Theresa McCloy will be with us! She is amazing and talks about the enneagram and her REALIFE Process™
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Blame Game
- Dopamine Hit
- Ignoring
- Be the Change
- You don't have all of the answers
- You have the power to make someone else’s day
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Becoming better is needed before the solution
Wake-up! Pay attention- our kids are watching us
Created for a purpose
Guiding our children towards greatness
- Turn off Social Media
- Spend time with your children
- Love language
- Play with them
- Work on your own mindset
- Faith
- Live every day like it is your last
Stay tuned next week for the last episode in the Time to Rise Series.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books:
- The 5 Love Languages- Gary Chapman
- The 5 Love Languages of Teenagers- Gary Chapman
- The 5 Love Languages of Children- Gary Chapman & Ross Campbell
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Stop taking family for granted.
Family is thicker than water
Looking at what will actually make us happy and making goals towards that.
Enjoy the NOW
Happiness is a CHOICE
Plan intentional time with our children and our spouse.
Next week we will be back to continue the Time to Rise Series.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Cannot run on empty!
Cannot do it all on your own.
Get a mentor/ coach to talk to
Take care of your physical health, mental health
Stay tuned next week for the next episode in the Time to Rise Series.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Time to Dad-Up
- Raise the bar of other stay at home parents
- Overcoming the challenges that arise
Stigmas
- Masculinity called into question
- Lazy
- Clueless
Encouragement
- 2,000,000 stay-at-home dads!!
- Talk to your spouse
- FB/ meetups
- Investing in ourselves
Stay tuned next week for the next episode in the Time to Rise Series.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood- Free webinar!
- Wrestling with Fatherhood Facebook Group
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Stay-at-Home Dads
- What dad’s look like in media
- Marriage
- Servant Leadership
Stay-at-Home Dads: The Challenges and Benefits
Matt will be back to continue the series.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Wrestling with Fatherhood Links:
- Wrestling with Fatherhood
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Health of our Children
- Importance of food
- Mental and physical impact
Improving our kids’ mindsets
- Let them pick passions
- Encourage and motivate them
- Constructive criticism- think about it before
Building up our daughters
- Help them realize their ‘role models’ are fake
- Be a leader not a follower
- About who you are on the inside
- What makes them happy
- No one believes they look perfect
- They can do anything they want- if they put their mind and work towards it
Adjusting our own mindset
- Don't be afraid of change
- Face your fears
- Look at your schedule and what goals you have
- Need to want it bad enough
Morning Routines
- Meditation
- Something to wake you up- shower
- Exercise
- Make a plan
Daily Habits
- Organizing our time
- Avoid rushing- SLOW DOWN
Stacey was with us in episode #48 & 49 to discuss family, health, business during a pandemic, episode 53 & 54 to discuss mindset and parenting, marriage, self-esteem.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Websites/ Influencers
- Tony Robbins
- Jack Canfield
- Parenting.com
- Healthline.com
Stacey’s Websites
- Thecompleteherbalguide.com
- staceychillemi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
This episode was recorded in January 2020 for Matt's coming podcast-Wrestling with Fatherhood Reloaded. We had released the COVID-19 relevant episodes first in episodes 48 & 49, then felt it was important to talk about grief the last several weeks due to our personal place in life, but felt these episodes still had great information since you have already been introduced to Stacey.
Self-Esteem
- Accept ourselves for who you are
- Love ourselves
- Change what needs changed
- Be intentional daily
- Short Term and long term goals/ habits
- Weaknesses
- Strengths
- Goals
- Fear of change
- Will not be instant
- 1% improvement
- Hair loss
- How it impacts men vs women
- Talk with others dealing with the same difficulties
Staying motivated and inspired
- 2 steps forward- 5 steps back- lack of confidence, self-esteem
- Stop and focus on the good
- Revamp the goals/ journey expectations
- What are your strengths
- Focus on your passions
- Do something for others
- Spend time with people that have the qualities/ energy you want
Marriage/ Parenting
- Children will follow what you model
- When you don't feel good about yourself you are less likely to complement others
- Date night with spouse
- Quality time- talking
Stacey was with us in episode #48 & 49 to discuss family, health, business during a pandemic, episodes 53 to discuss mindset and parenting. She will be back in episodes 55 to continue the conversation.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Websites/ Influencers
- Hair Restoration Laboratory
- Tony Robbins
Stacey’s Websites
- Thecompleteherbalguide.com
- staceychillemi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
This episode was recorded in January 2020 for Matt's coming podcast-Wrestling with Fatherhood Reloaded. We had released the COVID-19 relevant episodes first in episodes 48 & 49, then felt it was important to talk about grief the last several weeks due to our personal place in life, but felt these episodes still had great information since you have already been introduced to Stacey.
Mindset
Caring for yourself- first
- Meditation
- Exercise
- more energy
- allows you to handle what comes
- improved relationships with spouse and kids
90% of illnesses are caused by stress
Stacey was with us in episode #48 & 49 to discuss family, health, business during a pandemic. She will be back in episodes 54 & 55.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Stacey’s Websites
- Thecompleteherbalguide.com
- staceychillemi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the convselfersation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Talking about death before hand and made sure to take time to spend with him
- Used the word die not put to sleep
- Explained why and answered any questions they had
- And stopped talking about it when they did
- Said goodbye at the vets
- Wanted to show the kids there were different ways to grieve and that's ok
- Its ok to not be ok
- We encourage our children to feel the loss
- We allowed them to see us dealing with the loss
- We printed pictures of Toby
- We keep him alive within our memories by talking about him
- We find things to laugh about (things Toby did)
- The girls prayed for another dog- we feel it's better to full grieve before ‘replacing’ him
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation.
- Family Life Movement Website
Breaking the Patterns of Childhood/Love Trauma with Riana Milne (part 2)
Effects of Trauma
- 3 generations deep
Allowing for change/ breaking the pattern
- Empower our kids
- Talk about feelings/events
- Kids are watching how you manage events
Importance of Dating your Wife
- Intimacy starts before the bedroom
- Woman need conversation
- Video Matt referred to- It's Not about the Nail
Riana was with us in episode #50 where we discussed what childhood and love trauma is and her position as a coach to help.
Riana’s Links:
- Life and Love Coach Riana Milne | Have The Life and Love You Deserve
- LOVE Beyond Your Dreams; Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve
- Amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com
- LIVE Beyond Your Dreams; From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose, and Success
- Amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com
- Lessonsinlifeandlove.com -Podcast
- Connect on Facebook
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Childhood & Love Trauma with Riana Milne (part 1)
- Types of Trauma
- Effects of Trauma
- Current medication effectiveness
Riana will be back in episode #50 to continue the discussion.
Riana’s Links:
- Life and Love Coach Riana Milne | Have The Life and Love You Deserve
- LOVE Beyond Your Dreams; Break Free of Toxic Relationships to Have the Love You Deserve
- Amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com
- LIVE Beyond Your Dreams; From Fear and Doubt to Personal Power, Purpose, and Success
- Amazon.com or barnesandnoble.com
- Lessonsinlifeandlove.com -Podcast
- Connect on Facebook
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Running a Business in a Pandemic with Stacey Chillemi
Owning a Business in a Pandemic
- Risk of going out of business
- Keeping customers and employees healthy
- Exercise to get manage stress
- Work stays at work
Routines
- Yoga
- Meditation
- Must be consistent- get back on as soon as possible
- Journal
- Start simple
- Just start writing
Building ourselves up/ Destressing Tips
- Set goals
- 1 day at a time
- Reach out to others for support and ideas
- Scents- Passion Flower, Lavender
- Doing everyday tasks together and make it fun
Future for running a business
- Germs and cleanliness
- No Contact
- Will take time
- We are not alone
Stacey was with us in episode #48 to discuss family and health in a pandemic.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The Complete Herbal Guide Directory by Stacey Chillemi
- The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Websites/Influencers
- Jack Canfield
- Guy Kawasaki
- Lulu.com
- Hair Restoration Laboratory
Stacey’s Websites
- Thecompleteherbalguide.com
- staceychillemi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Coronavirus and Kids with Stacey Chillemi
Overcoming health problems
- Trial and error to overcome seizures
Coronavirus
- Impacting our purpose and therefore motivation
- Bad diet impacting our mind- brain fog
- Depression, fear
- Fear of the unknown
- Find real new from a reputable source- CDC or WebMD
- Talk to your kids
- Coloring book/ Game to allow them to open
- On your kids level- know their personality!
- Coping with crisis
- Interacting during a pandemic with family and friends
- Using internet for communication with friends and family
- Facebook messenger- Kids
- Google Hangouts
- Do things the kids enjoy as a family
Stacey will be back in episode #49 to discuss running a business in a pandemic.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The Complete Herbal Guide Directory by Stacey Chillemi
Stacey’s Websites
- Thecompleteherbalguide.com
- staceychillemi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
5 Love Languages with Matt Woodrum
OVERVIEW
- Words of Affirmation: Building others up with words; Words are essential
- Quality Time: Enjoying time; In the moment
- Receiving Gifts: Thinking about their loved one
- Acts of Service: Doing something for the spouse
- Physical Touch: Does NOT have to be sexual; Presence
Words of Affirmation
- Emotional support, encouragement
- Words are power- whether on purpose or on accident
- Letter form, notes around house
Quality Time
- Time without words
- Meaningful time
- Showing love
- Eye contact when talking to them
- Listen for emotions
- Avoid interrupting
- Date Nights; no Cell phones; show interest in hobbies; bucket list
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- 5 Love Languages - Gary Chapman
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- 5 Love Languages Blog
Morning/ evening routines with Jocelyn Woodrum
Self-care
- Timers
- Benefits of personal time in AM
- Challenges of personal time in AM
- SAVERS - Hal Elrod
- Start with 1
- 6 minutes or 1 hour is ok!
Kid Routine
- Benefits of kids being on a routine
- Benefits of kids seeing you use a morning routine
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Miracle Morning- Hal Elrod
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Survival Course
Love is Spelled T-I-M-E with Matt Woodrum
Matt does another solo episode and this time dives into family and what is really the most important thing.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love that Lasts- by Gary Chapman
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Survival Course
- Love is Spelled T-I-M-E
Jocelyn is solo and talks about the coming course
The ups and downs of creating a course
Imposter syndrome
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
- Survival Course
3 things you need to have to get a business going
- Domain using your name
- godaddy.com
- namecheap.com
- Page Builder
- Wordpress
- ClickFunnels
- Wix
- Home Business Academy
- Auto Responder
- MailChimp
- Active Campaign
- GetResponse
- Aweber
- Group Coaching/ Course
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Work Life Balance
- Does it exist?
- Intentional
- Boundaries
- Priority
- Scheduling
- Every minute
- Block
- Avoid scheduling
- Choose a Focus
Figure out what works for you and do that not what ‘everyone’ says to do.
Get used to not having it done all at once
Mom Guilt
No Zero Days
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Take Responsibility
- Up to you
- Not blaming everyone else
- Push through
Think Differently
- Practice
- Your mess is your message
- 1 skill at a time
- Long game
Cory Chadwick was with us in episodes #37, 38, & 39.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Start with Why- Simon Sinek
- No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame-Janet Lansbury
- Elevating Child Care: A Guide To Respectful Parenting-Janet Lansbury
- The Essential Writings of Ralph Waldo Emerson
- Self-Reliance- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Podcasts
- The Tim Ferriss Show
Cory’s Links:
- The Personal Greatness Project
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
‘Work/Life Balance’
- All one life
- Moving in 1 direction
- Boundaries
- Priorities/hierarchy
- Intentional
Self-Care/Routines
- Water
- Meditation
- 2 min exercise
- Breakfast
- Kid routines
- Start before kids are up
- Sleep starts the night before
- Shower
- Read
- Mini-meditation
- Melatonin at
Strategies for starting a morning or evening routine
- Start with ONE task that you cannot mess up!
- Then add to it once it's a routine
- Know what you are working towards/your why
Success
- Happiness/ fulfillment
- How to live your 10
- Realize your potential
- Purpose
- Meaningful relationships
- Be intentional
Mindset
- Who do you want to be
- Why
- Just a little better each day
- Long game-get back on course
Own your Life and Live your 10
Cory Chadwick was with us in episodes #37, 38 and will be back in episode #40 to continue the discussion including motivation and starting a business.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Cory’s Links:
- The Personal Greatness Project
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Walk the Walk with Cory Chadwick (pt 2)
Challenges in Parenting
- All have challenges but not a ‘bad’ dad
- Moments of trying to be a better dad
- Keep trying to do better
- Teach children by doing
Challenges in Marriage
- Growing pains in a relationship
- Need to individually take time for yourself/ needs
Self Care
- Look to science
- Be healthy, not just not having a breakdown
Cory Chadwick was with us for part 1 of this conversation in episode 37 will be back in episodes 39 & 40 to continue the discussion on family and entrepreneurship.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Compound Effect- Darren Hardy
- No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame-Janet Lansbury
- Elevating Child Care: A Guide To Respectful Parenting-Janet Lansbury
Cory’s Links:
- The Personal Greatness Project
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Finding your Untapped Potential with Cory Chadwick (pt 1)
Potential
- Good but not great
- Getting to great
- Overcoming mental illness
- Becoming who you want to be
Family
- Relationship with wife
- Being intentional about picking your life partner
- Keep working on parenting, talk about it
Cory Chadwick will be back in episodes #38, 39, & 40 to continue the discussion on family and entrepreneurship.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Cory’s Links:
- The Personal Greatness Project
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Overcoming Obstacles with Alan and Angie Thomas (pt 2)
Obstacles
- Persistence
- Having a plan
- Stick to the plan
Mess is your message
- Support from coaches to step into coaching
Work/ Life Balance
- Not always 50/50
- Deciding what's important at this moment
Alan and Angie were with us in episode #35.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- 48 Days to the Work You Love-Dan Miller
- Obstacle is the Way- Ryan Holiday
- The Game of Life and How to Play it-Florence Scovel Shinn
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites/ Influencers
- 48days.com
- 48 Days Eagles Community
- TonyRobbins.com
- John Lee Dumas
- Jack Canfield
Alan’s Links:
- www.transformmyfuture.com
- Sticktoitnow.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
● Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
● Family Life Movement Website
- Matt mentions a podcast ‘Happy Hearts Podcast’ he is doing with our oldest daughter. It has not launched yet at the time of this episode’s release.
Weight Loss and Mindset with Alan and Angie Thomas
Weight
- A cover up
- Holding him back from reaching business goals
- Wake up call
- Knowing what to do
- Making a goal important enough to make progress
- Accountability
- Taking advantage of the crossroads
- Mindset shift
- Men and women differences
Alan and Angie will be back with us in episode #36 to continue our conversation.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Alan’s Links:
- www.transformmyfuture.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Mommy Guilt
- Time for yourself so you can love them better
- Clear lines
- Talking time at night
- Parenting as a team-different methods
Resources
- Outsource
- Systems
Meditation
- Not stopping on all thoughts
- Guided meditation
- Calm
Ashley was with us in episodes #31, 32 and 33.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- 48 Days to the Work You Love-Dan Miller
- One Thing-Gary Keller
- The Power of Full Engagement- Jim Loher
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Days Eagles Community
- later.com
- Tailwindapp.com
- Mailchimp.com
- Calm app
Ashley’s Links:
- Podcast-Mama Says Namaste
- Ashley’s Website
- Family Snapshots
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
15 Hour Work Week with Ashley Logsdon (pt 3)
DISCLAIMER There is background noise from our children. To record together we have to ‘balance’ the kids! Our sweet 18 month old Naya was happily talking in the background, broke a glass bowl (no injuries!) We assume most of our listeners are parents and understand the joy of parenting small children while trying to accomplish other things!
Morning Routines/ Habits
- Pitfalls in starting a routine
- 1 at a time
- Set period of time
- Preparation the night before
Business while Parenting
- Create parameters
- Train your children
- Allow work time and non work time
- Scheduling- allowing flexibility with small kids
- Allow yourself some grace
Personality styles
- Impacts how you need to schedule your time
15 hour work week
- 3-20%- Reading, studying, new knowledge
- 5-33%- Content creation
- 4-27%-Working directly with (potential) clients
- 3-20%-Marketing to build brand and reputation
Ashley was with us in episode #31 &32 and will be back in episode #34 continue the discussion on family and business and meditation.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- 48 Days to the Work You Love-Dan Miller
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Morning Routines/ Habits
- Pitfalls in starting a routine
- 1 at a time
- Set period of time
- Preparation the night before
Business while Parenting
- Create parameters
- Train your children
- Allow work time and non work time
- Scheduling- allowing flexibility with small kids
- Allow yourself some grace
Personality styles
- Impacts how you need to schedule your time
15 hour work week
- 3-20%- Reading, studying, new knowledge
- 5-33%- Content creation
- 4-27%-Working directly with (potential) clients
- 3-20%-Marketing to build brand and reputation
Ashley was with us in episode #31 &32 and will be back in episode #34 continue the discussion on family and business and meditation.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- 48 Days to the Work You Love-Dan Miller
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Days Eagles Community
Ashley’s Links:
- Podcast-Mama Says Namaste
- Ashley’s Website
- Family Snapshots
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Unschooling with Ashley Logsdon (pt 2)
Alternative Education
- Homeschooling
- Unschooling
- Functional education-mind, soul, body
- Love of learning
- Always assessing and increasing/decreasing structure as needed with the kids
- Will look different for each kid depending on age and personality
- Knowing how to find out the answer to the question they are asking
Deschooling
- Removing the parents preconceived expectations of schooling
- Get to know your kid-motivations, demotivations, curiosity
Learning Styles
- Driving forces and using as a positive
- Natural interests
Ashley was with us in episode #31 and will be back in episode #33 & 34 to discuss business, entrepreneurship.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Podcasts
- Ted Talks Daily
Websites
- Ted Talks
- Audible
- Netflix Documentaries
Ashley’s Links:
- Podcast-Mama Says Namaste
- Ashley’s Website
- Family Snapshots
- Clara’s Book- What If It Were Possible
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Taking a look at what you and your family want
- Feelings you want
- Taking action on that
- Being intentional- put a date on it
- Family MIssion statement
Work/Life/Family Balance
- Ebb and flow
- Personality style impacts
- Clear but hard line boundaries
- Have dedicated family time and dedicated work time
- Communication to get the whole family on board
- Don’t schedule every minute of the day
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Ashley will be back in episodes #32, 33, & 34 to discuss unschooling and entrepreneurship.
Books
- 48 Days to the Work You Love-Dan Miller
- Fire Starter Sessions- Danielle LaPorte
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Days Eagles Community
Ashley’s Links:
- Podcast-Mama Says Namaste
- Ashley’s Website
- Family Snapshots
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Marriage Takes Work with Kris Pavone (pt 2)
Marriage takes work
- Grow separately to grow together
- Pray for spouse
Strategies to support your wife
- Lead in faith
- Knowing your and spouse’s love language
- Not taking things personally
- Pause when agitated
- Pray for spouse
Balancing work/family
- Choosing to be busy vs being a victim
- What’s important to you
- Carve time out for those areas
- Being intentional
Kris was also featured in episode #29 where we discussed striving for your dream, overcoming hurdles and mindset.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The 5 Love Languages- Gary Chapman
- 48 Days to the Work You Love- Dan Miller
Podcasts
- Dan Miller- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Kris’ Links:
- Podcast: The Kris Pavone Show
- Krispavone.com
- Email: kris@krispavone.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Anything Worth Doing is Worth Pursuing with Kris Pavone
Striving to Reach a Dream
- Making sacrifices
- Choosing the right path
Pushing through the hurdles
- Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks
- Consistency
- Try out and change what doesn’t work
Mindset
- Labels- a self-fulfilling prophecy
- Momentum to silence the negative thoughts/talk
Kris will be back in episode #30 to discuss marriage and parenting.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- The 5 Love Languages- Gary Chapman
- 48 Days to the Work You Love- Dan Miller
Podcasts
- The Ray Edwards Show
- Dan Miller- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites/Influencers
- Tony Robbins
- Cliff Ravenscraft
Kris’ Links:
- Podcast: The Kris Pavone Show
- Krispavone.com
- Email: kris@krispavone.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Balancing kids’ interest
- Evenings at home most evenings
- Choosing activities that work for your family
Falling short at a parent
- Losing patience
- Learned lessons later not in the moment
- Kids will remember you loved them and the good things
Legacy
- Time
- Love
- Include them in everything
Dating on a budget
Keeping both job’ and ‘side passion project’
Starting a side business
- What are you good at
- What your enjoy
- What will people pay you to do
- What time can you devote to it- be efficient as possible
Productivity Tips
- Calendar
- 20 min review
- Time together
- Time individually
- Business time-what needs done
- Meals
- Dr appts
Personality Types
Laura McClellan was also in episode #27 to discuss family, marriage, raising kids, mindset, morning routines.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Websites
- BizChix
Laura’s Links:
- The Productive Woman
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Marriage is Teamwork with Laura McClellan (pt 1)
Marriage
- Teamwork
- Challenges and struggles
- Meaning of a promise
- Being supportive to your spouse
Productivity
- Teamwork with spouse
- Allow room for a pivot
Mindset
- Only things you can change
- What you think
- What you do
- It's not easy, requires intentionality and practice
Morning routines
- Be intentional
- Start the night before! Getting good sleep
- Time alone
- Taking care of our body
- Get support from spouse when kids are little and trade off
Laura McClellan will be back in episode #28 to discuss parenting, productivity.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Marriage
- Teamwork
- Challenges and struggles
- Meaning of a promise
- Being supportive to your spouse
Productivity
- Teamwork with spouse
- Allow room for a pivot
Mindset
- Only things you can change
- What you think
- What you do
- It's not easy, requires intentionality and practice
Morning routines
- Be intentional
- Start the night before! Getting good sleep
- Time alone
- Taking care of our body
- Get support from spouse when kids are little and trade off
Laura McClellan will be back in episode #28 to discuss parenting, productivity.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Laura’s Links:
- The Productive Woman
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Leaving the J-O-B with Greg Tosi
Leaving the J-O-B
- Niche down
- Planning financially to be ready for the switch
- Communication with spouse
- Have an end date for that level of intensity
- Mentors
Time
- Small shifts open up more
- Just start
- Implement
Mental Prep for Leaving the Job
- If it's Meant to Be it's up to me
- Get support from those around you that have done it
- Mastermind
Morning Routine
- Quiet time before kids/wife get up
- Protect the 1st hour of the day
Facebook Ads
- Product needs to be growing on its own BEFORE adding ads
- Many factors if it doesn’t work the first time
- Market research, testing
- Funnel building, copy
Greg was with us in episode #25 to discuss balance, intentional family time
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Total Money Makeover- Dave Ramsey
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Day Eagles
- Dave Ramsey
- Alan Thomas
Guest Links:
- Gregtosi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Funnels were mentioned in this episode- If you want to know more about what they are let us know. We use ClickFunnels and recommend One Funnel Away Challenge to learn more about it if you are ready for this step.
Intentional Living with Greg Tosi
Working from home
Work/ Life Balance
- Partner with wife on schedule
Parenting/ Strategies with kids
- Minimalism with tech
Intentional with wife
- Date nights
- Without tech/unplugging
- Spousal encouragement
Greg will be back in episode #26 to discuss being an entrepreneur, marketing, leaving the J-O-B.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Books
- Digital Minimalism-Cal Newport
- Can You Hear Me Now?- Dallas Demmitt
- The Meaning of Marriage- Tim Keller
- Parenting- Paul Tripp
- What Did You Expect: Redeeming the Realities of Marriage- Paul Tripp
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Day Eagles
Greg's Links:
- Flipphonefamily.com
- Gregtosi.com
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Ready- Aim- Aim- Aim with Winston Faircloth
Get Rich vs Being Rich
- Getting seen by potential clients
Creating a successful business
- Ready Aim Aim Aim Aim
Mentors
Winston Faircloth was with us in episode #7 and #23 where we discussed mindset and the value of your products.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Podcasts
- 48 Days to the Work You Love
- Search on podcasts before you hire!
Websites
- 48days.com
- 48 Day Eagles
- Strategic Coach
- James Wedmore
- Jim Fortin
Winston’s Links:
- Future7FigureCEO.com -Website and Free Book
- FB Page
- Begin Again with Winston Faircloth podcast
- Begin Again FB Group
- Course on Using a Beta Program
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Value of your Products with Winston Faircloth
Work/Life Balance
- Intentionality
- Are more productive than we think
- Time blocking our time
- Boundaries/ Priorities
- Cost of switching tasks
Mindset
- Belief
- A few steps ahead-more approachable
- Comparison is the thief of joy
- Value
Understand the value of your products
- Delegate things out of your zone of genius
- BUT difficulty placing value on what we do
- Things that come naturally to you OR things you get questions about
- Areas to monetize
- How to determine what to charge for your coaching
Getting 1st Clients
- Using a Beta Program
- Customers co-create with you
Winston Faircloth was with us in episode #7 and will be back in episode #24 to discuss the creation of a successful business, getting rich vs being rich, and the value of mentors.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Winston’s Links:
- Future7FigureCEO.com -Website and Free Book
- FB Page
- Begin Again with Winston Faircloth podcast
- Begin Again FB Group
- Course on Using a Beta Program
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
How to Sell with Justin Stephens
Avatar
- What problem are you going to solve
- What skill set do you have
- How do they think, do they have money?
Selling
- Fortune is in the follow-up
- Make money with your clients
- Guarantee
- Closers
- Charge what you are worth
- Raise your price
- Turn what you are good at into a product
- Specialize, build a business
- Follow-up
- Ask for referrals
- Be quiet!
Stop consuming content and do
You will fail, need to do
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Justin was with us in episode #20 and #21 and we discussed family, priorities, creating your business, entreprenuership.
Books
- Built to Sell-John Warrillow
Justin’s Links
- Justin's Website
- Business Website
- Justin’s Facebook
- Justin’s Instagram
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Raising Amazing Adults with Justin Stephens
Balance
- What is the outcome
- What is your priority
Raising amazing adults
- Allowing kids to fail to become a great adults
- Stranger danger
Create 3 outcomes you are trying to accomplish today
Guarding family time
- Good adults treat spouses and family with respect and love
- Kids will do what you do and how you treat your spouse
- Using Do Not Disturb
- Using screen time
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Justin was with us in episode #20 and will be back in episode #22 to discuss business, avatar, and selling.
Justin’s Links
- Justin's Website
- Business Website
- Justin’s Facebook
- Justin’s Instagram
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Using your Strengths with Justin Stephens
Transitioning
- Someone else’s business to owning
- Going all in
- Mistakes
Core Competencies
- Using your superpowers to your advantage
- Creating teams for predictable revenue and scaling
What impact means in a nutshell
3 Steps to creating a business
- What is my offer
- Who has money that can buy my offer
- How to find those people
- Close them
How to price your products
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Justin will be back in episodes #21 and 22 to discuss family and business!
Websites/Events
- Tony Robbins
- Date with Destiny
Justin’s Links
- Justin's Website
- Business Website
- Justin’s Facebook
- Justin’s Instagram
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
- Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
- Family Life Movement Website
Work/Life Balance with James Johnson
Work/Life/Family Balance
- Focus on 1 area another area with decline
- Figure out what works for you and do that not what ‘everyone’ says to do.
- Prioritizing wife and kids
Parenting/ Marriage Strategies
- Spend time with them
- Get on same page with wife
- Teaching generosity/lead by example
- Time away from the business can be a good thing
- Little things are really big for the kids
Advice
- Do what you need to around the house before kids/ before moving
Strategies to be intentional with wife
- Plan time away-even when challenging
- Be more relaxed
Sibling Rivalry
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
James was with us in episode #5 and will be back in a future episode to discuss business.
Books
- The Birth Order Book-Dr. Kevin Leman
Websites
- One Funnel Away Challenge
- Tony Robbins
James’ Links:
James' Facebook
Financial Freedom for Fathers FB group
YouTube Channel
James' Website
Financial Freedom for Fathers Podcast
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Running an Amazon Business with No Up-Front Cost with Cyn Meadows
Teaching kids business
No Up-Front cost for ability to sell products on Amazon
- Beneficial for both!
- Minimal time
Strategies for pitching opportunities
- Focus on conversations with people you meet
Raising entrepreneurial kids
- Giving them age appropriate tasks
- Teaching them simple virtual assistant tasks
- Customer service
Cyn was also featured in episodes #6 and #17
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Cyn’s Links:
Cyn is giving away a FREE SKILLS CHECKLIST!
7 Figure DNA Course
7 Figure DNA Facebook Group
Rockstar Funnels Business
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Family Priorities while Running a Business with Cyn Meadows
Getting into business
- Getting husband on board
- Time to get started in higher than to maintain later on
- Strategies to connect
Marriage/ Family
- Structure Your Time
- Put every minute on the calendar
- Who cares if you have a 6 figure income if you have no one to share it with
- Weekly date nights
- Intentional effort
Mistakes with family/work
- Protect family time to avoid downhill slope
Personality/ Learning Styles
Cyn was with us in episode #6 and will be back in episode #18 to discuss her business model.
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Cyn’s Links:
Cyn is giving away a FREE SKILLS CHECKLIST!
7 Figure DNA Course
7 Figure DNA Facebook Group
Rockstar Funnels Business
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Work/Life Balance
- Be Intentional with your time
- Knowing what needs done and when to move the needle forwards
- Knowing why you are working and fulfilling yourself
- Reflect on your time & Figuring out where the gaps
Facebook Groups
- A way to create connection/community
- Highly targeted
- Allows members to know, like, trust you
- Elevates your authority
- DO NOT INVITE EVERYBODY
- Goal is not size but ENGAGEMENT
- The 3 things to put into the qualifying questions
Strategies for engagement
- Over posting can decrease engagement
- 1 Live per week
- Weekly Winning Self-Share post
Strategies for Getting people in your group
Funnel vs Website
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Chantelle was with us in episode #4 and will be back in episode #16 to discuss facebook groups and business!
- The One Thing-Gary Keller & Jay Papasan
- Jamie Atkinson- Podcasting coach/course
- How to Win and Influence People-Dale Carnegie
- Podcasts
Guest Links:
Chantelle’s Facebook
Chantelle’s Website
Stronger Mommy Facebook group
Chantelle’s FB Group
Chantelle has 4 books coming out! See her website for the details!
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
We use ClickFunnels for our website- Feel free to reach out to us if you have questions about it! Our 1st introduction was the One Funnel Away Challenge
Episode 15 Teachable Moments with Chantelle Turner (part 1)
Work/Life Balance
- Be Intentional with your time
- Commit To 3
- Deadlines and timers
Gain Confidence/ Get rid of Fear
- Be ok with it
Parenting a child with Different abilities
- Smile, show them it’s ok
- Be thankful
- Joy we can give to others
- Teachable moments
- Be aware that we don’t know what is going on behind the scenes
Parenting advice
- Sometimes your own needs have to come first (especially moms who tend to take care of ourselves LAST)
Marriage Advice
- Communication
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Chantelle was with us in episode #4 and will be back in episode #16 to discuss Facebook groups and business!
- Commit to 3
- How to Win and Influence People-Dale Carnegie
Guest Links:
Chantelle’s Facebook
Chantelle’s Website
Stronger Mommy Facebook group
Chantelle’s FB Group
Chantelle has 4 books coming out! See her website for the details!
Matt and Jocelyn’s Links:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Strategies for ‘work-life’ balance
- Systems and routines
- Family devotional
- Family night-talk about a chosen topic
- Family councils
- Hard to be consistent
- Executive council-goals- daily with husband
- Dinner as a family most nights
- Take the moments the kids need then you can get back to your task
Components for a successful family
- Vehicle
- Family
- Stories
- Environment
- Navigation
- Mission
- Vision
- Value
- Maintenance
- Dates
- Who is driving? Parents or toddler or teenager?
- Coping with stressors
- Trust
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Jodi was with us in episodes #3 and 13!
Books/ Websites
Hold On to Your Kids-Gordon Neufeld
The Awakened Family- Shefali Tsabary
Thomas Jefferson Education- Oliver DeMille
Well Educated Heart Website
Well Educated Mind- Susan Wise Bauer
Guest’s Links:
Our Modern Heritage Website/Podcast
Jodi's Facebook
Jodi's Instagram
Links for Matt and Jocelyn:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
Family Life Movement Website
Intentional Family Culture with Jodi Chaffee
Determine your core values
- Others will begin to see those values and trust/respect those values
Shaping our children
- How personality affects the culture and shaping our children
- Fear based, no trust
- Children need to experience failure to develop resilience or grit
- Allow your kids to do the hard things
Reaction to build trust relationship
Taking regular inventory
Introducing kids to entrepreneurship
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Jodi was with us in episode #3 and will be back in episode #14!
Jodi's Links and Social:
Our Modern Heritage Website
Jodi's Facebook
Jodi's Instagram
Links for Matt & Jocelyn:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
familylifemovement.com
Sell the Soap with Scott Maderer (part 2)
Strategies to start a business
- 2 types
- New ideas constantly- 1) Pick 1!! 2) think about what you want out of the business (be selfish!)
- I wanna business- but know what what it is! 1) what do you want out of this business
- What do people buy-pleasure or pain reduction
- Practicing to sell
- Things holding me back
- Slow down to go fast
What advice would you give to your younger self
- Overcoming limiting beliefs earlier
- Stop doing it all
- Surrounding yourself with people
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Business resources:
- Coaching
- Masterminds
- Online courses
- Books:
- E-Myth Revisited- Michael E. Gerber
- 7 Habits of Highly Effective People -Stephen Covey
- Atomic Habits- James Clear
- The Power of Habit - James Duhigg
Family Resources:
- Laugh your way to a better marriage
- Tale of 2 Brains YouTube Video
- Spending time listening and doing- Participate in interests that your children have
- DISC
- Books:
- Bible
- The 5 Love Languages- Gary Chapman
- Love and Respect- Emerson Eggerichs
- Love and Respect in the Family- Emerson Eggerichs
Mastering Time, Talent, Treasures- https://inspiredstewardship.com/family
Scott's website- https://inspiredstewardship.com
Twitter- http://twitter.com/@stewardcoaching
Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/InspiredStewardship
Linkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/in/csmaderer/
Pinterest- https://www.pinterest.com/stewardcoach
Productivity Course-Productivity for your Passion- https://inspiredstewardship.com/launch
Progress not Perfection with Scott Maderer (part 1)
Being a better dad
- Emotionally abusive dad
- Tell your kids “I love you” daily!
- Learn lessons from parents- things to do and things to not do
Strategies on filling yourself up
- plan- execute- reflect- revise
- Run experiments
- Read non-fiction and put into practice
- Surround yourself with other good people- if you are hiring a coach, are they working with a coach themselves?
- Coach, masterminds, mentors
Managing Time
- Can’t manage time!
- Figure out your priorities
- Segment your space/time
- Plan- wish, outcome, obstacle, plan (if-then for preparing for the obstacles)
Work / life balance
- No such thing! Equality in all areas is impossible
- Balance is achieved by movement
- Boundaries- being deliberate/ intentional and protect those times
- Progress not perfection
Resources Mentioned: (Links may be affiliate providing a commission from your purchase to Family Life Movement)
Scott was with us in episode #2 and will be back in episode #12 to talk more about starting a business.
Harvard’s curriculum is online
Mastering Time, Talent, Treasures- https://inspiredstewardship.com/family
The Power of Positive Thinking -by Norman Peale
The Secret- Rhonda Byrne
Scott's website- https://inspiredstewardship.com
Twitter- http://twitter.com/@stewardcoaching
Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/InspiredStewardship
Linkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/in/csmaderer/
Pinterest- https://www.pinterest.com/stewardcoach
Productivity Course- https://inspiredstewardship.com/launch
10 Lori Lynn- Incremental Advances
Work Life Balance/ Productivity
You have to get use to not finishing ANYTHING
So many things happen when you’re a parent
Set Timers
Force yourself to NOT get up until the job is done
Little bits at a time, taking steps forward
Kevin David- No zero days
*Start small, I have time, Start small habits that compound
Story telling
People buy stuff only because they FEEL like it
Connect at an emotional level and stories do that
*Provide solutions, solve their problems, in story form
Developing their story tell
Have someone interview you and listen- repeat and practice
Pay attention to your customers
Testimonials
Creating the win-win
Strategies to improve yourself
Pick up your energy
Be intentional about the people you surround yourself with
*Don’t listen to someone that you wouldn’t want to trade places with
Resources Mentioned:
Podcasts
*Russell Branson-Marketing Secrets
*Myron Golden- Bible Success Secrets
*Jenna Kutcher- The Goal Digger Podcast
Websites
*Kevin David- https://officialkevindavid.com/
*Ben Suttle- https://bensettle.com/
Lori's Links and Social:
Lori's Recommended Reading List
Rise and Climb Podcast (Host)
Video Marketing Unleashed FB Group (Queen Moderator)
Personal Website
Personal Facebook Profile
The Top 10 Storytelling Mistakes to Avoid & The Hot-Button Words List
Links for Matt & Jocelyn:
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation and ask questions!
If you review our podcast on iTunes- snag a screenshot and email it to us at admin@thewoodrumcrew.com
Familylifemovement.com
Lori’s Beginning
- Started on the traditional track, became sick and depressed
- Started working at a Christian Radio Station allowing more flexibility and diversity
- Didn’t think she could have children-surprise!
- Homeschooling
Taking control of her own Story
- Vision drives decision
- Caught a vision teaching experiences
- She wanted her children to be similar to the ones she taught
- Loved the idea of having driven kids
- What are you doing now to pursue your passions?
- Lori reads lots of books with her children and doesn’t own a TV
- Seeing what’s possible and seeing how they did it
It IS possible
- Habits can be difficult to develop these healthy habits
- You have to be willing to give yourself some grace
Balancing work, life, and family
- Mom guilt
- Giving them the opportunity to be bored
- Help your children understand what it’s like to be in your shoes
Attitude of Gratitude
- Having the stuff and opportunity that others don’t have
- Being there for people who are suffering
- Celebrate people who are celebrating
- Serving with an organization
- Habits – at bedtime, 3 things that they are thankful for
- Books help them put themselves in other people’s shoes
- Being mindful of what we are consuming
- We want to become what we see
- See beauty, kindness, love
Resources mentioned: (Links may contain affiliate commissions)
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The Story of My Life – Helen Keller
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Missionary Stories With the Millers-Mildred A. Martin
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Just David- Eleanor Hodgman Porter
-Love Triangle-RaeLynn
-May We All-Georgia Florida Line Does Contain Minor Language
World Vision
Lori's Links and Social:
Rise and Climb Podcast (Host)
Video Marketing Unleashed FB Group (Queen Moderator)
Personal Website
Personal Facebook Profile
The Top 10 Storytelling Mistakes to Avoid & The Hot-Button Words List
Join us in the Family Life Movement FB Group to continue the conversation!
familylifemovement.com
Started to go to school to be a TherapistPassionate about entrepreneurship
- Loves the idea of paving your own path
- Wrote a business plan
- Looked for a mentor
Started his journey as a DJ
- Start in the light side of business
- Made decide to put his family
I made the best decision for my family, not for my business
- Family is in a better place
Did not like the down season vs the up season
- Either running or crawling
Got to a place where he wanted to serve
- Matt noticed that he had a deep passion for fatherhood
- Chief Executive Dads was born
Important lessons parents should be teaching
- Follow your dreams/passion
- Let kids be who they are
- Be the Guide
Take ActionFind a mentor
Thank you Matt for helping me find my passion
Follow your dream - not doing what others expext you to do
Who they are not who I expext them to be.
Guide
Find Jake at:
chiefexecutivedad.com
Jake Anderson also has a Facebook, Instagram, and Linkedin page that you can connect with him on.
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3 Seasons
- First 18 years - Non-profits and CEO of two organizations
- Second 15 years - Tech to support those two non profits
- Third - Started second business and relaunching coaching and consulting
Mistakes people make
- Not solving a problem with their service
- Intention of which you start your business
- Enriching your business vs Enriching your self vs Enriching other
Find Winston at:
http://future7figureceo.com/
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Our daughter Laelynn joins us for this podcast!
How did you get into this business
Wanted to get into Amazon but found out how difficult is was.
- Competition
- Trying to find wholesale
- Good product
- Private label in China
After struggling, Cyn switched, in fact she created her own model!
- List their products
- Lists their products
Biggest mistakes people make
- 1,000 of dollars in inventory
- To much product
- Race to the bottom
- To much competition
Cyn developed her own system
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Real Estate Invester* Partner needed money * Freed up time to spend with children
Read Money Master the game
Clickfunnels - One Funnel Away Challenge
Loss of Friends
- Death of friends
Strong why -> Kids
- Joined challenge for a purpose
Facebook Group
- Bringing in experts to the group
Teaching children
- Basics
- Treating people well
- Integrity
- Manners
- Courtesy
Connect with James
https://jamesmjohnson.net
https://www.facebook.com/groups/FinancialFreedomForFathers/
Resources
Money, Master the game by Tony Robbins
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Contains Minor Language
What brought Chantelle to this point in her life
- Realized in college that the busier she is, more she gets done
- School did its job and told her to climb
- 2012 - started a family
- Heart rate problem
- C-Section
- Everything looked good
- Couldnt figure out what was happening with the baby
- Part of the brain was dead
- Was diagnosed with cerebral palsy
Was $100,000 in medial debt
- Did not want to leave the debt to her child
Know she couldnt take on another job
Took on Network Marketing
- Over 2 years was able to pay off debt
- Took vacations
- Growing her business
Founded Stronger mommy to her other parents
- Started sharing with other people
- Working when she had a chance
Tons of engagement
Rewarding part of the “Job”
- 2016 starting earning enough to stay home
- UNderstood that 3 weeks of her life was spent in the car
- Joy of putting her daughter on and off the bus
- Taking her daughter to Dr appointment
- Going to Londan
- Keeps earning money
Find Chantelle Paige Turner:www.facebook.com/chantelle.p.turner
https://www.notyetnotable.com
https://chantelleturner.com (this one is getting redone and should be ready soon)
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Learned about family culture from her church - seeing marriages in different culturesWhat do you need to do to have a thriving family
- You forget about where you are from and agree on your new family culture
- Adapt the church culture of family
- Come together and agree on our identity going forward
Husband and Jodi Came from the same area, same faith, same background
Noticed how difficult it was to become successful and realized it was a culture problem
- Its ok to have debt…
- Its ok to ________
- We are supposed to do it this way...
We will be a strong family because of the choices that we make
Everyone has a culture, even if you don't notice.
Sometimes there's something in our culture that needs attention
The bricks that our cultures our cultures up.
Take inventory of your identity
Road trip journey
- What is our vehicle - who you are...Carrying you through the journey (carrying the family)
- Destination - Family Mission Statement
- The How, how are you going to get to the destination
- Core Values
Take inventory of whats working and whats not working
Resources:
Find Jodi Chaffee:Www.ourmodernheritage.com;
www.facebook.com/familyculturepodcast
www.instagram.com/familyculturepodcast
- Virtual Summit - How to Raise Entrepreneurs - Family Business Strategies
- https://www.ourmodernheritage.com/summit-registration33599427
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Calling comes from a personal place
- The advice giver in high school - seed for coaching career
- Educatur
- Struggling with debt - 70,000 when made 40,000
- Begin to believe he was worth more dead than alive
- Paid off 78,000 in debt
- Through the journey, came up with their name
You can take control
The voices inside your head
The 3 P’s
- Personal - Im a failure vs I failed at something. About you and your identity. Who you are is not how much money you make.
- Pervasive - Failed one time vs failed at everything I touch. It begins to be about everything in life. It becomes truth
- Permanent - Im a failure, who fails at everything, I’ll always fail at everything.
This voice is lying!!
Talk to someone and GET help!!
Make that little voice a joke and laugh at him
Home base: https://inspiredstewardship.com
FREEBIE: Inspiredstewardship.com/family
Twitter: http://twitter.com/@stewardcoaching
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/InspiredStewardship
Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/csmaderer/
Pinterest https://www.pinterest.com/stewardcoach
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Creating your own storyChanging things due to illness
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Always been a little different, outside the box
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Went to school, got good grades, ended up in the worse health of her life.
Starting teaching - Early married, before children
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Loved the flexibility
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Felt like she was doing something important
Started Homeschooling due to the fun and excitement of teaching
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Does Not push her children into acting
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Has been a co-worker with her children and loves it
Was not worried about doing things “the right way”
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Loves her children's hearts
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Loves their work ethic
Strategies
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Comparison is the their of joy
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Read about other people
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- We become what we see, so we read book
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- See Resources
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- Read everyday
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- Shapes her children
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- Help to put her and her children in their shoes
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- Talk to everyone
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- Show Respect
Resources:
Rise and Climb Podcast (Host)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/rise-and-climb/id1470830680
Video Marketing Unleashed FB Group (Queen Moderator)
facebook.com/groups/videomarketingunleashed
Personal Website
royaltymakers.net
Personal Profile:
facebook.com/herroyalexcitedness
Facebook Page:
https://www.facebook.com/royaltymakers
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/lorilynntodd/
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