We'll be sharing mindset tips during COVID-19, for people experiencing anxiety. Positivity is practical!
It’s the last Extra Mile - positivity during COVID lockdown, and I’m going to wrap up this series with the Japanese concept of Kaizen..
Kaizen means continuous change, if you break down the characters in Japanese, ‘change good’- it’s self whipping and a sheep on alter... self change + sacrifice for the greater good basically. You make small sacrifice for the whole group and aren’t just thinking for yourself constantly.
Kaizen is this idea that a business never arrives, and the employees are empowered from the ceo down to the assembly line to make continuous improvements, never stop making those improvements, and always making it a little better. As opposed to radical changes or top down management - this is about small, constant rhythmic changes and empowering the team throughout the company.
Small ongoing positive changes can reap significant improvements. What small changes are you going to make today, and how can you better empower your team to own that result?
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This is Tim Brown and this is the Extra Mile, Positivity During COVID-19. Today I want to talk about why Grit is so important for company culture.
Angela Duckworth says “If you want to be grittier, find a gritty culture and join it. If you can not find it, then create it.” - company culture forms our identity - just like you become the top 5 people you hang around, If you have a culture where people persevere, and are better after a problem happens than before... you will start to own that ideal as well.
Grittiness, and hardiness get things done, mental toughness is not a nice to have, but a crucial component of emotional maturity. And we could all use a little mor of that, especially during this time.
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This is the Extra Mile - positive thinking during Covid-19, and yesterday I talked about 5 ways to get more grit and one of the strategies is Brian Tracy’s ‘Eat That Frog” getting the hardest thing on your to-do list done early in the day is the basic idea.
I really appreciated a lot of ideas in this book 1. the idea of writing down your three highest value tasks the night before... 2. the idea that saying no is a magical way to create time, and 3. That Writing it down is essential, and there’s something about physically writing that helps engrain our priorities and our goals in our minds.
Having priorities and sticking to them - is a demonstration of grit. Soft people don’t have self discipline, and lack of self discipline will lead to enjoying life less in my experience.
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This is the Extra Mile - positive thinking during Covid-19, and I talked yesterday about how important Grit is – persistence, mental toughness, why successful people have grit. But how do you cultivate that? I came up with 5 ways to get more grit:
Those are my 5 practical tips for getting grittier - thanks for following along! Follow the daily podcast on Spotify at hookagency.com/extra
This is the Extra Mile - positive thinking during Covid-19, this week we’ll be talking about the important of Grit and how to get more of it, I just tested the ideas in a book called Hell Week, had an 80hr week and I think that’s probably a little over where I stay mentally sharp but I wanted to test my grit.
David Goggins says motivation is fickle - motivation comes and goes, your going to need something deeper, you’re going to need to steel your resolve and get shit done even when you’re not motivated.
Angela Duckworth says that a lot of people that are talented oddly have less grit, count me as one of those people perhaps I always felt like I had a handicap and had to work harder than other people but she also found - that consistently “More grit equaled more success”
I see so many people seeking comfort. Personally, professionally, and the problem with that is that it’s a phantom. Even if you were swaddled in a machine and bottled fed formula and opioids all day - there would come a day when you’d need more. Comfort is a bottomless pit, and just like ‘novelty and thrills’ seeking it constantly will leave you empty. You have to seek discomfort - oddly it’s the strongest possible flex. Cause discomfort will come - and you’ll be way more mentally resilient if you sought it out vs just let it happen to you against your will. Align with the natural rhythm of life - seek discomfort.
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Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is the Extra Mile - positivity during COVID-19.
No one is perfect about goal setting and habits - so more important than perfection is the ability to be hearty and return when you fall off.
And more important than perfect consistency, is a general rhythm that most of the time you’re making progress. Because that regularity + is where you get that compounding benefit. I just finished a year of doing 365 logos in 365 days - and I was horribly spotty at it, This was my 5th year doing a 365 day challenge and I’m going to chill for a while.
It is crazy though how much I would progress when I did one thing every day for 30 days in a row though - daily is a beautifully effective rhythm. So my 15 min challenge to you today, is to find one thing you want to better at, and start a 30day challenge and share it on Instagram or social somewhere (which is great for keeping you accountable.)
Next week may be the end of this 4 week weekday challenge for me - if the full lockdown in Minnesota ends, but you can find all these episodes in a mega guide at hookagency.com/positivity - Next week I’ll be talking about Grit, and some of ya’all need more of that too. ;)
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We’ve talked about vision, goals, and habits… now I want to introduce the under-rated hero.. which I call BUMPERS.
They say putting out your workout clothes the night before increases your chances of follow through, and in my experience things like this really help. To me – calendar invites, a note on my phone with my to-do list, and anything else that is a nudge like alarms on a phone, or an accountability partner - are bumpers (like you know in bowling) and are the most likely elements to help you stick to your habits.
Bumpers are beautiful – and I strongly suggest that you use them heavily in your goal setting and habit creation. A good book around this book - is Atomic Habits, by James Clear - in it, James suggests that you can go real small with your habits, like 2 minute meditation, just as long as you DO IT, it’s the pattern he says that’s important. He gives examples of people that go to the gym day after day even if they didn’t work out - just to get in that rhythm.
So my suggested 15 minute exercise today is super simple. Do you have any ‘bumpers’ that help you stick to your goals? Try to write down 1 or 2 for each of your top 5 goals!
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Habits are huge when it comes to accomplishing the goals you set out for yourself. I like to come up with 5 key goals for a 3 month period, and based on the book 12-week year, create a weekly habit for each of those 3 month goals.
It’s interesting because we’re starting to get to the super specific moment where we’re implementing HABITS that are directly in line with your DREAMS. HABITS…. DREAMS.
If you did the vision exercise (hookagency.com/vision) and you did the goal pyramid exercise (goalpyramid.com) you can complement your 3 month goals you’ve cooked up- with this template to track your weekly habits related to your 3 month goals (hookagency.com/12 and press copy) It’s from a book called 12 week year, that I highly suggest.
The whole idea in The 12 Week Year by Brian Moran is that yearly plans don’t work because too much changes in that amount of time - and 3 months is a good increment.
Another key point is that there are “Leading indicators” and “lagging indicators” of performance, and you need to track the ‘leading indicators’ as weekly or daily habits, get accountability, and implement systems for staying on top of your habits. He also talks a lot about time blocking for the key things you need to get done.
I really feel like in the end it comes down to this… if you’re not plotting key actions that will drive towards your vision and dream every week – ONTO YOUR TO-DO lists, in specific days… Why do you think you’ll ever accomplish your dream? We got to find ways to make sure our steps towards are vision is systematically hitting our to-do list. Do you have those systems in place?
Check out hookagency.com/12 (and press copy) to use the Google docs habits tracking system, and check out the 12 week year on Amazon! Quick link to this series as a podcast on Spotify - hookagency.com/extra (join me every weekday after my mile run for a couple minutes of positivity)
Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is the Extra Mile - positivity during COVID-19. If you filled out the template from yesterday you have clear 5-year vision and today we’re going to break that down into smaller manageable chunks until we’re looking at the next clear steps towards that vision. (Check out the goal pyramid template I’m going to describe at a little site I spun up for it goalpyramid.com)
Why is breaking down your goals so important? Well having a vision is beautiful it can sometimes feel overwhelming so breaking it down can help you see it as manageable and make it way easier to take rhythmic, steady action towards the long term dream.
So think about it - what steps would you have taken one year from now that lead you strongly along that path towards your 3-5 year goals?
I like to have key goals 5 key categories (for instance I might choose - health & fitness, relationships, money, self-development and spirituality/centeredness- but you can choose your top 5 priorities)
Now once you have your top goal for each of those categories. - Break each of the 5 categories of goals down by 1 year, then by 3 months, then by 2 weeks, and if you want you can plot next steps into the next 3 days..
Download the free template for this and you can download it at goalpyramid.com.
Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is the Extra Mile - positivity during COVID-19. I believe in goal-setting, and have deeply enjoyed doing this regularly, and I want to share that with you. I’m basically putting on a goal-setting BOOTCAMP this week! Want to get your vision, goals and habits tight in a 15 minute exercise each a day this week?
Join me for a clear step by step approach to setting an energizing vision, breaking your goals down by 1 year, 3 months, 2 weeks, and week.. habits & bumpers to keep those habits in place, and how to be hearty & get back on your systems when you fall off.
So today though – I want you to have a bit of fun and take 15 Minutes and really get your ideal life 5 years from now super clear, so you know exactly what you’re aiming for. Everything I’m going to share with you is in a
Write out your ideal life 5 years from now. Smells, sounds, taste, touch & feel, what you’ll be looking at. How will folks be relating to you, how’s your relationship growing & healthy, family vibes, wealth & health.
How do you relate to the world? I find it useful to look at 2-3 heroes’ you want to be like - and even come up with a couple words that encompass my aspirational identity - for me I want to be a ‘magnetic listener’ - write down your 2-5 heroes, along with your ‘heroic’ aspirational identity. A couple of words that energize you and describe how you’d like to be.
If you write these things down along with the smells, sounds, tastes, touch & feel, and relationship of what your ideal life looks like…. It feels GOOD. It helps you look for little creative ways to make more of this stuff happen, and gives you something to shoot for that’s fun. I created a Google Doc template with each of these queries - quicklink hookagency.com/vision (and press copy)
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Hey this is Tim Brown and this is The Extra Mile- positivity during COVID-19.
Gratefulness is a superpower and life is pain… how do I reconcile these two seeming opposites?
Well… Acceptance is the first step to gratefulness.
If you’re struggling against your current circumstance, then it’s really hard to be grateful for what you do have that’s great.
“Acceptance is the Answer” is huge in 12 step programs.. (which I’m very grateful for) ;)
“And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation-some fact of my life-unacceptable to me, and can find no serenity until I accept that person, place, thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment.
Another great quote…
In response to my “life is pain” segment yesterday, James T. Olsen related this nugget: “Suffering = Pain x Resistance” Pain is inevitable, suffering is not. We only suffer if we try to resist the pain rather than embrace it or acknowledge it.
Acceptance is a great first step to gratefulness.
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The Extra Mile – Positivity during COVID-19 is an opportunity for me to get accountability on running a mile :) and get better about helping others maintain a positive mindset.
I follow an account on Instagram called ‘@natureismetal’ and lions eat bears, and crocodiles eat buffalo.
Sometimes when I see people blaming the government, blaming the opposition party, blaming religion, blaming atheists, or blaming their family – I feel like they are neglecting one important fact.
Nature is brutal. Life is pain. And it’s not those people’s fault that bad things are happening. Just like there’s an incomprehensible amount of good, beautiful and inspiring things in the world – there’s also a truly mind-boggling amount of pain and death, even though I know we do our best to help others…
When it comes to our own psychology and outlook, we sometimes imagine that underlying all things it’s a bed of rose-petals, and it was was all human malice that layered on the thorns.
The thorns were there all along – and our ancestors just plucked them out one by one - with each ingenious technological advancement they discovered, from houses, to indoor heating to shoes.
So rather than think is existence is supposed to be comfy, I think it’s useful to come to terms with the brutality of nature – and then be grateful, because if you’re not currently experiencing pain, you are particularly lucky or blessed.
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I’ve seen a bunch of messaging out there during this unusual time along the lines of:
Hey you do lockdown your way - and I’ll do lockdown mine. I don’t judge people really, I just know my brain needs activity to thrive. Am I getting use to a little less action outside of the house, yeah. But I’m treating this like every Christmas break when other people chilled. I used it to get ahead, because that’s what I like.
I like challenging myself. I feel alive when I do something new, and I would be depressed if I ‘took it easy on myself’ or used this time for naps. I’m not you. And I don’t pretend to know what makes you more positive and grateful.
Just know yourself and don’t judge other people cause they want to hustle their ass off during this time. That’s just how some people get fulfillment. For me - I don’t feel like I have to ‘be in a bad mood’ or that we’re all ‘obviously feeling that way’ - some of us don’t feel like that’s required. ‘ (not saying your not allowed to.) live and let live.
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The Extra Mile – Positivity during COVID-19 is an opportunity for me to get accountability on running a mile :) and get better about helping others maintain a positive mindset.
A book that made a particularly big impact on my mindset regarding gratefulness and mindset was “Man’s Search for Meaning”. In it Victor Frankl talks a lot about how we can’t control what happens to us – but we can control how we respond to it.
In response to “I feel like killing myself,” his answer would usually be, “Well, why DON’T you?” - which sounds insanely harsh, and I wouldn’t suggest it.
But interestingly enough, if people answered genuinely - it would shed light on a golden thread that he would follow to help them become healthier versions of themselves. Like they might say [ I want to see my daughter grow up ] or [ I want to see what happens in a particular aspect of my life]
He experienced what it was like in a concentration camp in World War II – and saw some people give up and dwindle away, and others who had some light at the end of the tunnel that they would focus on and that kept them from giving up mentally.
What is that for you today – though I’m not at risk of self-harm, it is a highly stressful time in a lot of ways. My answer on why I want to keep going is just [ I really want to see the adventure through – I want to see how it unfolds, it’s interesting to me ]
I’m grateful for all of the behavioral psychologists that have helped pave the way for positive psychology and psychotherapy available out there today, and I’m grateful for mental health providers in general.
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The Extra Mile – Positivity during COVID-19 is an opportunity for me to get accountability on running a mile :) and get better about helping others maintain a positive mindset. The next 3 weeks we’ll be going through the 3 categories of practical skills to be more positive - This week – Gratefulness, then Goal-setting, and Grit. The 3 G’s.
You see I believe “gratefulness is a superpower” – why? Because it’s really hard to look at all of the awesome things about your life, and feel ‘bummed out’. Try it now – go through and note 3 things you’re grateful for and see if you can maintain the same level of anxiety you had before you started doing it.
Plumbing. boom. Electricity. Boom. Indoor heating & air conditioning. boom. Running water. boom. If you’re lucky to have a smart phone, if you’re able to work for a living, if you have a roof over your head – I can go on and on. It’s great to have ambition – it’s great to be ‘dis-satisfied’ with where you are sometimes, because that’ll help drive you to get to the next level…
But sometimes you just gotta say HOLY SHIT – look how far I’ve come. That’s gratefulness man. And the pathways in your brain may steer you towards other patterns if you don’t constantly, consciously create new patterns.
The pattern should be – gratefulness. In fact, I’d almost say AWE. And for me that means looking to something bigger than myself, whether that be community, or even a greater, kinder, beautiful force that’s taking care of us. Heck I don’t know – I’m just grateful. There’s a lot of great things going on if we look for them, even during a very scary time.
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Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is Extra Mile: Positive Thinking During COVID-19, and I’m doing this every day during lockdown so I can get good at helping people maintain a positive mindset.
I’m of the mind it takes work to keep yourself positive... and perhaps you want or need something of more substance here... some of these books I’ve read 3 and 5 times because they’re that good.
The basic idea is Think and grow rich is that you can use affirmations, to seed the pot of your mind with positivity, and having a clear defined purpose allows your subconscious to continually help you achieve it.
The 10X rule is about taking your goal and multiplying your goal by 10 and saying what would I need to do to hit that, and then taking massive action toward that.
Factulness gives you in clear data why the world is literally better than its ever been and is getting better every year, from the worst poverty being diminished by 60-80% in the last 40 years, to 100’s of other clear stats that turn the idea of slowly dying society on its head.
The power of full engagement talks about high-performance executives like their athletes. Your personal energy is important to manage and this book guides you to recognize when in the day you should be wielding that, why and how.
Antifragile is heavy but has massive impact. The basic idea is that many organic things in life not only are ‘resilient’ they’re better after adversity than before it.
Tons of actionable stuff in these 5 books. Write down your goals, what actions would you take if you had to hit 10x your number, look for the real positive data that our brain sometimes ignores in its bias towards looking for threats. Stack your highest value tasks in the time of your day when you have the best energy and lastly look at how much better off you’ll be If you get hit but take the right attitude about it.
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Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is Extra Mile: Positive Thinking During COVID-19, and I’m doing this every day during lockdown so I can get good at helping people maintain a positive mindset.
I mentioned yesterday that my trip to the Appalachians helped me trust myself – climbing a giant mountain on that trip also slammed home a very important point in my mind.
Climbing up hour after hour, I kept on coming to what I thought was the top. However, I would get up to that top and see through the mist that there was an even higher peak above. I had to stop assuming the top I was seeing was the real top.
So for your bit of positivity today – can you look how far you’ve come in the past year, past 5 years, past 10 years? How much you’ve grown and learned? How much you’ve progressed.
And then keep going – cause you’re not done yet. Quicklink to subscribe on Spotify “hookagency.com/extra” - this is Tim Brown, join me every weekday after my mile run for a couple minutes of positivity.
Hey it’s Tim Brown and this is Extra Mile: Positive Thinking During COVID-19, and I’m doing this every day during lockdown so I can get good at helping people maintain a positive mindset.
One of the most impactful ways I’ve learned to cultivate a positive mindset is simply to “TRUST MYSELF”
What this means is:
For instance when I was going out on my own with my new business... I always wanted someone else to give me permission...
Should I quit my job?
Is it the right time?
How much of a financial runway do I need?
so much of that depended on my intestinal fortitude - and I knew I did have it (a lot of people don’t) and do you have to use that understanding you have of your self to make these kinds of decisions and no one has more info about that than... You.
This was a huge revelation for me - that I had on a hiking trip in the Appalachians... I’ll share another revelation I had on that adventure tomorrow, and it’s about “false summits”
Looking forward to it! The quick link to the podcast version is this on Spotify is hookagency.com/extra
Have a great day!
I’m doing this every day during lockdown so I can get good at helping people maintain a positive mindset.
I don’t do all of these 7 habits to become more positive I’m about to share with you, all of the time - but I do find refreshing habits to keep in a positive mindset is something I need to do quite regularly, and it’s ok to go in bursts.
In my experience here are 7 things that have sincerely helped me be more positive.
No joke - there’s probably 100 more. If you’re watching this, comment below with one to help your fellow anxious humans..
I’m grateful I live in the age of the iPhone and can share like this, I’m grateful that anyone ever watches these videos and I’m grateful I can breathe. See 3 things are super easy - think of them each morning :)
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Recently I heard Seth Godin say by the end of lockdown, what do you want to be amazing at? I decided I want to be great at ENCOURAGING - Every weekday for at least the next couple weeks I’m going to share some encouragement or practical positive mindset tips.
I’m calling it ‘the Extra Mile!’ Positive thinking Tips during Covid-19. and you can sign up to listen on Spotify as well!
This episode I want to talk about how positivity is extremely practical. When I take on a positive attitude, in my experience I look for opportunities, I look the good, I look for next steps based on the fact I am hoping or assuming things will go well.
Write out what you want 1 year to look like from now. How could you be better off because of the current challenges?
Tim Brown, reminding you POSITIVITY IS PRACTICAL! I challenge you to comment below – what’s one thing YOU want to be amazing at by the end of lockdown?