The Pondering Stepmom Podcast: Recent Episodes
Michelle Brown
A podcast dedicated to the dynamic community of women who are navigating the realm of stepparenting.
This Podcast was inspired by my blog, The Pondering Nook, where I write about my own experiences as a stepmom AND as a mom among other topics.
Each week that the podcast airs there will be a topic or question posted days prior on The Pondering Nook’s Facebook and Instagram page. I’ll discuss the topic on the show and read the responses (many will be anonymous!) Most episodes are 30 min or under so you can listen while you’re on the go, on your lunch break, or on your drive to work.
Hi, stepmoms! Whether your stepchild or stepchildren start school in August or September, it is about to be upon us again soon! I wanted to drop in and talk about the school-year aggravations that visit many stepmoms, especially with kids going back and forth between two households. I discuss missing homework, lost socks, and the dreaded lunch box.
Do you have questions or a topic you’d like me to address on the podcast? Comment here or email me: Farawaytree3@hotmail.com xoxo
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In this final episode of the season, I touch on being a stepmom and a bio mom, and what lessons each parenting role has given for every kind of 'momming' experience.
Thank you all for tuning in, old listeners and new. Please catch bonus sessions of this podcast over at Substack. xoxo
If you like this episode, check out "Do You Like Your Stepkids?"
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In this episode, I talk about stepmoms who feel like they're overcompensating for others, namely bio mom or their partner within their stepmom role.
If you like this episode, you may also like, "Hey, jealousy..."
You can hear me being interviewed by Andrew G Marshall - Therapy at The Meaningful Life Podcast about being a stepmom. Tune in! https://open.spotify.com/episode/7BjFt5Rz386yzjwPAvQkah... Enjoying this podcast? Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me!
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Continuing from the last episode, I read more stepmom feedback about how the relationship between their partner and the ex ended and how it affected them, their relationship, and their role.
If you like this episode, try, "When Stepmoms Feel like 'The Bad Guy' For Expressing Themselves"
Find more from me at The Pondering Nook on Substack. You can subscribe to get my articles for free.
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On this first episode of a 2-part episode podcast, stepmoms reveal how the relationship between their ex and bio mom ended, how that has affected their relationship with their partner, and how it has affected their stepmom role. I got tons of feedback on this! Tune in!
If you like this episode, you may enjoy, "Why Stepmoms Step Back"
Thank you for listening!
Please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me!
Find my articles about being a stepmom at The Pondering Nook & at I, Stepmother at Medium.
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In this episode, I relay seasoned stepmom advice on how to approach, navigate, and ultimately survive the teen years.
If you like this episode on stepparenting teens, you may also like:
"Are We There Yet? The Journey of Step-Parenting Teens"
"Seasoned Stepmom Advice For Stepparenting Teens"
If you love this podcast, please rate and review me with positive feedback so other stepmoms can find me! xoxo
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In this episode, stepmoms reveal how Mother's Day does - OR doesn't - affect them on their stepparenting journey. Tune in!If you like this episode, you may also like 'Creating Your Stepmom Space'--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ponderingstepmompodcast/message
This week, I discuss stepmoms who might feel like an outsider within their own home and what we can do to remind ourselves to take up our own space in a healthy way! Please tune in!
If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, "Why Stepmoms Step Back."
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore how the act of marriage changes (or doesn't change) the way a stepmom is perceived by others and also how she perceives herself.
I got some terrific feedback that I think you'll like!! Tune in!
If you like this episode, you may also like, "Anger Issues"
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Do people comment about whether or not your stepkids look like you? We stepmoms have to field all kinds of comments and opinions about our role and this is one of them. Tune in to hear feedback from other stepmoms on this fascinating topic!
If you like this episode, you may also like "Great Expectations"
Find more from me at The Pondering Nook on Substack. You can subscribe to get my articles for free.
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This week, I discuss feedback from stepmoms about how they initially felt about their stepchild or stepchildren when they first met them and how that may have changed over the years. I got some excellent and varying feedback from stepmoms in all kinds of blended family dynamics. Tune in!
If you like this episode, try, "When Stepmoms Feel like 'The Bad Guy' For Expressing Themselves"
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This week, I talk about stepmoms who feel like they are handling most of the problem-solving with their stepkids, fielding the majority of the communication between bio mom or bio dad, and feeling too much like a "fixer" within their blended family situation.
I hope you enjoy it! If you like this episode, you may also like, "Anger Issues"
Please find The Pondering Nook at Substack and thank you for listening! xoxo
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Welcome to season 8 of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast!
For the first episode, I discuss feelings of anger and how our stepmom roles can cause us to feel emotionally fried to an unhealthy degree.
Join me as I discuss stepmom feedback about their experiences and advice on managing anger.
Please find The Pondering Nook at Substack and thank you for listening! xoxo
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In this 100th episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I talk about the positive evolution the stepparenting journey has brought other stepmoms. Please tune in for this uplifting episode.
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "The Introverted Stepmom"
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This week I discuss scenarios where stepmoms had to put their foot down and just say NO to doing things they used to do after finding themselves tired, resentful, and just DONE. I got some great feedback from stepmoms so tune in!
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "The Introverted Stepmom"
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In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about experiences they have had with their stepchild or stepchildren being jealous of their presence. I ask stepmoms what advice they can offer other stepmoms who are going through this complicated situation.
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "Nice To Meet You...?" OR "The Ex-Factor"
You can hear me being interviewed by Andrew G Marshall - Therapy at The Meaningful Life Podcast about being a stepmom. Tune in! https://open.spotify.com/episode/7BjFt5Rz386yzjwPAvQkah...
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Hey there,
This week, I get some feedback from stepmoms as to what their favorite stepmom resources are & I give a big shout-out to a handful of my favorites.
Tune in to hear what books, podcasts, or pages are helping to guide stepmoms, including myself.
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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Hey, stepmoms...
How do you feel about expressing anger or emotions within your blended family home? Are you comfortable doing so or do you feel like you can't say anything at all?
This week, I hear from stepmoms on how they are coping with this issue inside their homes...
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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In this episode, I hear from stepmoms about decisions that are made without their input and/or control.
This episode was very personal to me and I hope other stepmoms out there will be able to relate and gain comfort knowing they are not alone in this issue.
Thank you for listening!
If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, "Why Stepmoms Step Back."
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore how much stepparenting has impacted the personal space and privacy of stepmoms. Got some fantastic responses that offered up unique perspectives while being absolutely relatable. Thank you for tuning in!
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "The Introverted Stepmom"
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore feedback from stepmoms about how they initially felt about dating a person who already had a child or children and how their expectations about becoming a stepmom matched up with reality.
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "Parenting Biological Kids vs. Stepkids"
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This week, the floodgates open as stepmoms tell me what they would say to their stepchildren's biological mother if they could speak freely. This episode is already one of my favorites. The feedback was poignant, cathartic, and honest.
Thank you for listening!
If you liked this episode, you might also want to hear, "Why Stepmoms Step Back."
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Is stepparenting a toddler easier than stepparenting older kids? Does it help seal the bond more when you begin stepparenting kids at a younger age? Are there advantages and/or disadvantages to being a stepmom to toddlers? I asked, and stepmoms answered! Tune in!
If you enjoyed this episode, you may also like "Seasoned Stepmom Advice For Stepparenting Teens" OR "Are We There Yet? The Journey of Step-Parenting Teens"Thank you for listening!
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Are your partner's expectations of your stepmom role realistic or do you think they expect too much from you? Tune in to this first episode of season 7 as I discuss the dynamics of partner expectations and how they affect the mental and emotional journey of a stepmom.
Thank you for listening! xoxo
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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How do you handle stepmom life as an introvert? I wanted to know if I'm the only stepmom who struggles with this issue. Whether it's setting boundaries or talking to new people, being an introvert can be challenging, especially within a blended family dynamic. Join me for this bonus summer episode!
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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In this bonus episode, I drop in to congratulate and thank the stepparents who are in the trenches during this end-of-school-year season. Award ceremonies and graduation events can bring up awkward and tense emotions for stepparents this time of year. Tune in for a much-needed dose of appreciation! I miss you guys!
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "Parenting Biological Kids VS Stepkids"
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In this episode, I explore feedback from seasoned stepmoms about the advice they would give to newer stepmoms about navigating their feelings around Mother's day. Tune in to this final episode of season 6! xoxo
If you enjoy this episode, you may also like, "Clash of Parenting Styles: When You & Your Partner Don't Agree on How To Parent Your Stepchildren"Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about what they knew or thought about the role of a stepmother as they were growing up and what they've learned from eventually becoming a stepmom themselves. Tune in to hear from real stepmoms navigating their journeys through this ever-changing and challenging parenting role.
If you enjoy this episode, you may also like, "How We Have Changed: The New Stepmom Narrative"
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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Stepmoms, are you the primary communicator with bio mom or is your partner? Maybe it's a little bit of both. Are there communication boundaries in place or not? In this episode, I explore what's going on in other blended family situations and how involved stepmoms are with communication.
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "Why Stepmoms Step Back"
Thank you for listening!
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Hey, stepmoms!
In this episode, I talk about how it feels to be a stepmom when you don't have close friends who are also stepmoms. Your besties might be bio moms, but when it comes to relating to blended family struggles, it's super hard. Join me for some fantastic stepmom feedback on this topic! xoxo
If you like this episode, you may also enjoy "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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In this episode, I explore how stepmoms who are also bio-moms cope with high-conflict stepparenting situations in regard to explaining and shielding their biological children from these experiences.
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "Parenting Biological Kids VS Stepkids"
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In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms who talk about the first time they felt a true bond with their stepchild or stepchildren as well as sharing feedback from stepmoms who say they've never felt any connection at all even after many years. I share my own personal stories about my stepmom/stepchild connection and give my advice on the topic. Thank you for listening!! xoxo
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "Parenting Biological Kids VS Stepkids"
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In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms whose partners have full or primary custody of their kids. They bravely share their personal journeys of how they ended up in the full-time custody arrangement & how it has affected their stepmom role. Thank you to all the beautiful stepmoms who responded and to all my loyal listeners for tuning in! xoxo
If you like this episode, you may also want to hear, "All The Things Stepmoms Wish You Knew"
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In this episode, I share much-needed advice from real-world stepmoms who have experience raising teens within their blended families. If you're a stepmom or know a stepmom who is struggling with the teen years or who is curious about a plan of action for when the teen years arrive, this is the episode for you!
Thank you for listening!
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In this episode, I hear from stepmoms who explain the situation/experience that caused them to disengage from their role. Tune in to this honest and intriguing account of what real stepmoms describe as their own personal breaking points.
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, stepmoms talk about how being a biological parent has influenced their stepparenting role, sometimes in very unexpected ways. The feedback in this episode, as always, is raw, honest, and enlightening. Thank you to all the stepmoms who shared their stories with me and with the Pondering community xoxo
Thank you for listening!
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In this episode, I asked stepmoms to tell me what has surprised them the most on their stepmom journey and I got a TON of great feedback. Please join me for this honest and cathartic episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast.
Thank you for listening!
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Hey, stepmoms!
This week I share feedback from stepmoms regarding their most aggravating issues on and around transition days with the other household. There was a lot to unpack here and if you're a stepmom who's at her wit's end and needs some relief, tune in and realize that you're not alone!
Thank you for listening. xoxo
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The term "control freak" is thrown around a lot. I use it to describe myself. I have heard many stepmoms, in particular, refer to themselves as control freaks also. This made me wonder WHY so many stepmoms think they're control freaks & what this term actually means to them. I asked stepmoms how they feel about this term and I got some GREAT feedback! Tune in to hear it! xoxo
Thank you for listening. xoxo
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In this holiday bonus episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about the things they wish others could understand the most about their role. Please tune in to this episode if you're a stepmom who wants to relate to other stepmoms like you AND feel free to share this podcast with someone who may both appreciate it and learn from it.
Thank you for listening. xoxo
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In this season finale of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I explore how the perception of stepmoms has changed over time thanks to some fantastic feedback from other stepmoms. I discuss the positive evolution of the stepmom role and those evil stepmom narratives from the past.
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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In this episode I ask the question: If you were not in your stepmom role, do you think you would be friends with your stepchild's biological mom? Tune in as I explore the feedback from other stepmoms about how they think a relationship with the bio mom in their lives might go under different circumstances...
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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Are you a stepmom who is coping with raising a stepchild (or stepchildren) whose biological mother has left the scene? This week, I delve into the experiences of stepmoms who are in this extremely challenging situation, and hopefully, in sharing these stories, there are stepmoms out there who will feel less alone.
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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Are you a stepmom who is coping with raising a stepchild (or stepchildren) whose biological mother has left the scene? This week, I delve into the experiences of stepmoms who are in this extremely challenging situation, and hopefully, in sharing these stories, there are stepmoms out there who will feel less alone.
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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If you're a stepmom who has biological children, how do those children feel about your role as a stepmom? In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about how their biological children react and relate to having a mom who is also a stepmom.
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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If you're a stepmom who has biological children, how do those children feel about your role as a stepmom? In this episode, I explore feedback from stepmoms about how their biological children react and relate to having a mom who is also a stepmom.
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
If you're enjoying this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me!
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Are any of your partner's family members still close with your stepchild's biological mother? Join me for this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast where I explore feedback from stepmoms regarding their experiences with this very complicated blended family dynamic. Available on every major podcast app!
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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In this episode, I explore how stepmoms have adjusted to their stepkids turning 18 and becoming adults. Did the 18th birthday magically make their stepparenting role easier or did it make things harder?
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
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In this episode, I explore how stepmoms have adjusted to their stepkids turning 18 and becoming adults. Did the 18th birthday magically make their stepparenting role easier or did it make things harder?
Thanks to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback xoxo
If you're enjoying this podcast, please leave me a glowing review wherever you listen so others can find me!
Find my articles about being a stepmom at The Pondering Nook & at I, Stepmother at Medium.
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Have you ever tried to step back or "disengage" from your stepmom role and your partner just doesn't understand why..? In this episode, I explore how the partners of stepmoms have reacted when there's a desire from a stepmom to disengage from her role. Real-world stepmoms share their own disengagement experiences with raw and graceful honesty.
Thank you to all the stepmoms who chimed in and thank you to all who have listened to The Pondering Stepmom Podcast!
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Have you ever tried to step back or "disengage" from your stepmom role and your partner just doesn't understand why..? In this episode, I explore how the partners of stepmoms have reacted when there's a desire from a stepmom to disengage from her role. Real-world stepmoms share their own disengagement experiences with raw and graceful honesty.
Thank you to all the stepmoms who chimed in and thank you to all who have listened to The Pondering Stepmom Podcast!
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I asked for feedback from stepmoms who have been through enough seasons in their stepmom journey to offer up some much-needed advice for new and/or struggling stepmoms deep in the trenches. Boy, did stepmoms deliver! There are some real gems of wisdom in this episode that you'll want to hear. Thank you to all the stepmoms who shared their experiences and to everyone who tunes in! xoxo
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I asked for feedback from stepmoms who have been through enough seasons in their stepmom journey to offer up some much-needed advice for new and/or struggling stepmoms deep in the trenches. Boy, did stepmoms deliver! There are some real gems of wisdom in this episode that you'll want to hear. Thank you to all the stepmoms who shared their experiences and to everyone who tunes in! xoxo
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I discuss feedback from stepmoms on what their first meeting/impression of their stepchildren's biological mother was like & if that relationship has evolved from that moment on or not. I also share my personal experience during my own first meeting. I got an overwhelming response to this topic so please tune in! I hope stepmoms can relate to some of these experiences and find some comfort in knowing you are NOT alone xox
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In this episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast, I discuss the challenges of clashing with your partner about how to parent/discipline stepkids. So many stepmoms struggle with differing parenting styles and many are at their wits end over it! Please tune in as I read feedback from other stepmoms on this issue and discuss coping strategies.
Thanks for tuning in, and as I mention in the episode regarding absent bio moms, here is a link to an episode where I discuss being a full-time stepmom and the challenges that can bring as far as discipline, behavior, etc...
"Full-Time Dynamics"
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Hi, stepmoms!
What does summer break look like in your blended home? Do your stepkids stay with you, or otherwise? Is this a stressful time of year for you as a stepmom or not? Tune in to find out what other stepmoms had to say on this topic! Thank you to all the stepmoms who gave their feedback and for tuning in! xoxo
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Welcome to the first Patron-only bonus episode of The Pondering Stepmom Podcast! This first one is free but the second episode will be Patron-only.
These very personal and intimate episodes will focus solely on my own stepmom journey and they will publish in between my regular podcast episodes. I hope you enjoy and please consider becoming a Patron today here.
Thank you! xoxo
Hey, stepmoms! What do your stepchildren call you? Do they call you by your first name? Do they call you 'mom'? Or do they refer to you in another way? In this episode, I find out how other real-world stepmoms feel about the names/labels that are used for them and I also discuss my own personal experience with stepmom labels.
Tune in!
You can read my article, "You Don't Have To Call Me Mom" HERE
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In this episode, I discuss feedback from stepmoms about how they're feeling about Mother's Day this year. Tune in as I read all about how stepmoms from many different blended family dynamics and perspectives chime in. Stay strong, stepmoms!
Thank you for tuning in! xoxo
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Step-parenting teenagers can be the hardest season in a stepmother's journey! In this episode, I discuss feedback from stepmoms with step-teens who describe their own experiences as well as offer some advice to other stepmoms who are on this journey as well.
Thank you for tuning in! xoxo
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Hi! Please join me for a discussion about what we as stepmoms wish our partners could understand about the most challenging parts of being a stepmom. Thank you to all the stepmoms who gave me feedback and to the listeners tuning in! xoxo
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Hey, stepmoms, How old were you when you first became a stepmom? Do you think that your age has influenced your role or affected people's perceptions of you? Tune in as I read comments from stepmoms of all ages who describe their experiences and revelations about age, wisdom & the stepmom role! xoxo
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xoxo
Do you know your stepkid's friends and/or their parents? Are you super involved in your stepkid's friendships or not at all? I discuss how awkward these social situations can be for everyone and how different every blended family dynamic can be regarding this subject.
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Are you and your spouse on the same page as far as parenting & disciplining? Does your spouse follow through when you ask them to handle a parenting issue? This week I talk about stepmom frustrations as far as parenting & disciplining within the blended family & how this affects both the relationship and the household as a whole. Thanks for tuning in!
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We've all heard and talked about the concept of "disengaging" from the stepmom role BUT what does that actually look like in the real world?
In this episode, I share feedback from all kinds of stepmoms who each have their own take on what disengaging can look like and how they implement it within their own family dynamics. Thank you so much for tuning in! Enjoy! xoxo
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Hi, stepmoms! This week, the topic is a listener request regarding jealousy between biological children and stepchildren. Do you struggle with jealousy dynamics between your step-kids & bio-kids? Tune in! Near the end of the podcast, I read one of my articles that touches on feelings of rejection, conflict, and hopefully some much-needed comfort for stepmoms! You can read my article here.
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Stepmoms, what's your partner's relationship like with the ex/bio-mom? How does the state of that relationship affect your role as a stepmom? This week, I read some terrific feedback from stepmoms out in the world just like you! Tune in! xoxo
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Are you a stay-at-home stepmom? How has this affected your stepparenting journey? This week I read comments with experiences from stay-at-home stepmoms and I dissect some of the challenges they face on a daily basis. SO many insightful comments this week! Thank you!
You can find more stepmom content at I, Stepmother.
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Hi! This week I discuss feedback from stepmoms about how the biological mom of their stepchild/stepchildren reacted to an "ours baby" coming into the picture. Stepmoms shared with me their sometimes very difficult and painful experiences as well as sharing some positive stories. Please tune in!
If you're interested in writing for my stepmom publication on Medium called, "I, Stepmother." visit the publication here and check out the content and guidelines. Once you've done that, feel free to email me at farawaytree3@hotmail.com if you're interested.
Thank you!
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Hey, stepmoms! This episode revolves around disciplining stepchildren. Who does it in your household? You? Your partner? Both? I got some fabulous feedback from stepmoms out there in the world so tune in and enjoy the conversation! xoxo
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Stepmoms, do people ever say things to you about your stepmom role that really bother you? In this first episode of season 4, we talk about those comments, questions, assumptions, and presumptions that people say and make about stepmoms and how to practice the art of shrugging that stuff off! Thank you to all the stepmoms who gave me feedback for this episode! I love all of you!
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How's your mental health, stepmoms? In the season 3 finale, I talk about how we as stepmoms deal with an array of problems, situations, and challenges that can take a major toll on our mental health. I read some comments from other stepmoms going through the same thing and I get honest about my own feelings. Tune in!
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This week I talk about stepmoms who have had an 'ours baby' while step-parenting children who are much older. I hear from stepmoms who discuss how their stepchild/stepchildren reacted to the news of a younger sibling and how stepmoms broke the news to their stepchild/stepchildren initially about the new baby. Thank you for tuning in! xoxo
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Hello, stepmoms!
This week I asked stepmoms if they feel like their stepkids actually like them and how they feel about whether they do or they don't. From cohabitating, bonding, and disciplining, how much does your stepchild liking you really matter? Let's find out! Tune in!
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This week stepmoms tell me about the traits they feel make them stronger as stepmoms and the things they have learned along the way that gifted them with the ability to be kinder to themselves as well as better functioning stepmoms.
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Are you Facebook friends with the biological mom of your stepchild/stepchildren? This week, I read a ton of responses from stepmoms who have been there, done that. My hope is that not only can other stepmoms out there learn from these stories but they can know they're not alone. Thank you so much for tuning in & you can always find me at The Pondering Nook!
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Stepmoms, do get negative comments from the bio mom about yourself and/or your spouse sent back to your home with your stepchild? How do you handle it? This week I share experiences and advice from other stepmoms who are either going through this challenge right now or who have been through it in the past. Please tune in!
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Hey, stepmoms! How involved are you with your stepchild's schooling or extracurricular activities? This week, I find out from other stepmoms exactly how involved or NOT involved they are and why. There were a lot of responses on this one! Tune in!
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Hi, stepmoms! This week we're talking about the personal sacrifices we've made in order to do what we feel is best for our blended families. Stepmoms chime in on what they've given up and tolerated in the name of keeping the peace and we discuss how much is TOO much. Where do we draw the line?
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Hey there! Do you have any stepmom friends? What is that experience like? Tune in to hear other stepmoms talk about the stepmom friendships in their lives as well as how they cope with not having those kinds of friendships. Find me at The Pondering Nook & check out my stepmom publication on Medium here. xoxo
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Are you a full-time stepmom? Did you know you were going to be a full-time stepmom when you started dating your partner? In this episode, I discuss feedback from full-time stepmoms who have both jumped into the full-time role immediately and those who have evolved into a full-time role over time. Please tune in!
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Stepmoms, have you ever gotten "in too deep" with your stepchild's bio mom as far as creating a relationship? Have you gotten close and then had it fall apart OR even get better? In this episode, I discuss how other stepmoms have coped and learned from their ever-changing relationships with the bio mom and when they felt they needed to take a BIG step back.
As always, you can find me at The Pondering Nook!
xox Michelle
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Hi, stepmoms! This is the first episode of season 3 where I discuss what makes stepmoms feel powerless and what helps many stepmoms take that power BACK! I read listener responses on their experiences as well as share my own journey with taking back my power. Thank you for listening and you can always find me at The Pondering Nook!
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In this episode, I share and discuss feedback from stepmoms about how Mother's Day makes them feel and if they are celebrated by their stepchild or stepchildren. I received a huge amount of responses from stepmoms acknowledging how difficult this day can be and ways to overcome the feelings of resentment and disappointment.
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In this episode, we discuss how stepmoms are navigating the dynamics of children going back and forth between two homes. We talk about how rules and expectations vary between the two homes as well as the transition fatigue that often comes up during these situations.
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Thank you!
xox Michelle
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In this episode, I talk about "stepmom guilt" and I share feedback from other stepmoms who describe situations where they feel this emotion bubble up and how they deal with it. Please tune in for this candid discussion about something so many stepmothers go through.
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Thank you!
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In this episode, I asked other stepmoms when the last time they felt they had to disengage was and why. I also talk about how the idea of disengaging felt like a dirty word to me at the beginning of my stepmom journey and how I've learned to adapt to the concept of what it means for me.
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In this episode, I share feedback from other stepmoms about their "origin stories" describing how they became stepmoms, and how they felt at the beginning of their stepmom journey as opposed to how they're feeling about it now. They share their challenges, triumphs, and those inevitable lessons learned along the way.
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Stepmoms, how do you cope when a biological parent jumps in and out of your stepchild's life in an inconsistent manner or is absent for years only to return without warning? In this episode, I discuss this topic along with some great feedback from other stepmoms who are going through this ever-changing and challenging journey.
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In this episode, I discuss how stepmoms deal with their frustrations regarding how their partner handles situations with their stepchild or stepchildren. I read feedback from other stepmoms dealing with these challenges and I work through how we can deal with these feelings going forward.
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As a stepmom, how is your relationship with the biological mom of your stepchild or stepchildren? Are you happy with the relationship? Are there aspects of the relationship you wish you could change or improve on? Is that even possible in your situation? In this episode, we discuss some of the different stepmom/bio mom relationships and how they have either improved or not improved over time.
Thank you to all the stepmoms who gave feedback and who support this podcast!
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Are you the stepmom of a teenager who is dating? What has been your experience? What is your advice to other stepmoms? In this episode, I discuss the challenges of a stepmom's role with their step-teens and dating. I got some feedback from my fellow ponderers about their own experiences and, of course, I talk about my own!
As always, you can visit me at The Pondering Nook & Medium!
xoxo Michelle
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During this episode, I talk about stepmoms, like myself, who are also moms to biological children, and how our biological children feel about our role as stepmothers. I received some great responses detailing personal experiences with this dynamic and I also read an excerpt from an article I wrote recently regarding this topic that I will attach.
As always, thank you to all the listeners and also to those who have provided the feedback I need to create this podcast! Happy New year!
'I Don't Get To Have A Stepmom'
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In this episode, we discuss the greatest fears stepmoms have in their stepparenting journey. From being afraid of never being appreciated to the very real fear of losing a bond that has been built over time, I read stepmom responses and discuss how we can find perspective. I also read an excerpt from a terrific article over on my stepmom publication on Medium.
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In this episode, I talk about the challenges that high-conflict stepchildren can cause for stepmoms. As we come closer to the holidays with the added stresses of new pandemic lockdowns, many stepmoms are more frazzled and fed up than ever. Hopefully hearing about other stepmoms who are battling through the same kinds of issues can be a comfort.
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In this episode, I discuss the role of a full-time stepmom and all of the challenges it brings. I share some real stepmom experiences with being full-time as well as coping with absent or dysfunctional biological mothers. As always, these stories of sadness, triumph, and determination bring much-needed enlightenment and catharsis.
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In this episode, I discuss the issue of reaching our breaking points as stepmoms. I read the experiences that other stepmoms have shared regarding times in their own journeys when they felt like giving up and quitting the role of being a stepmom. In the discussion, we also talk about advice for moving on and healing from these incredibly difficult moments.
Thank you to all the stepmoms who have participated and shared pieces of their journeys. Thank you to all who listen and here's to remaining strong!
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Thank you!
Michelle
In this episode, I discuss how stepmoms feel they are a positive influence on their stepchild/stepchildren and why. I read responses from real stepmoms struggling with this challenge as well as sharing some of my own thoughts and struggles with how to be a force of inspiration and light as a stepmother.
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In this episode, I do a catch-up after 7 months away from the show. How are we all doing? How have we been coping with the Covid-19 lockdowns and challenges? I check in with my own personal updates and a little bit of stepmom feedback. I also read an excerpt from "Time To Be Honest About Stepmom Life" from my Medium publication, "I, Stepmother." which contains some relatable and comforting truths for all of us.
Welcome back, moms, stepmoms & blended families. Just remember that you're not alone.
Until next time...
Thank you!
Cheers!
Michelle
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Hello listeners!
It's been a while since season 1 of The Pondering Podcast and I'm about to launch Season 2! I need your input! What topics do you want to hear this season? What's bothering you? What's been challenging for you? Please comment on my Facebook page or Instagram page. You can also private message me OR email me at Farawaytree3@hotmail.com.
Chat soon!
Michelle xox
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In this last episode of the season, I discuss how stepmoms feel within their step-parenting role and if they think they are valued/respected for all that they do. I also share my own personal story about how I rose up from being a stepmom who did WAY too much in the beginning while feeling an avalanche of resentment to becoming a stepmom who learned how to thrive while also saying no to others and how to ask for help! Thank you all for your phenomenal feedback over the last 20 episodes and I can't wait to talk at you in season 2!! xoxo Michelle
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In this episode, I discuss feedback from stepmoms and moms as to how they're coping with homeschooling their children and stepchildren. I also share my own personal experiences with our sudden change in lifestyle. Sending everyone my hopeful thoughts for the future! Xoxo Cheers!
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This week I discuss responses from blended families about how they are handling household schedules and co-parenting duties during the Coronavirus outbreak. I also add my best friend's advice into the mix as a divorced mother who explains her reasons for making the stand to keep her kids with her during this crisis.
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This week I sneak in a Podcast during the wee hours of the morning while the kids are off school due to the Coronavirus scare. I (quietly) talk about the challenges many of you are facing with your spouse/partner in regards to stepparenting. I truly appreciate the feedback from all of you who commented and I hope you can still enjoy this somewhat short, somewhat whispery episode (my apologies for the low voice--listening at a higher volume should help!)
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This week I discuss feedback from stepmoms about what they feel has been their biggest mistake or mistakes on their stepparenting journey and how they learned from those mistakes. The goal of this episode is to help other stepmoms who are perhaps new to this role by sharing the struggles and lessons which so many of us have gone through.
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In this episode, I explore who my fellow stepmoms turn to in their time of need. Do they have friends who are also stepmoms? Do they go to counseling? Do they join support groups online? I share great feedback from real stepmoms who describe who they have in their lives for support and how they deal with the daily stress of step-parenting. Join me!
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In this episode, I discuss "ex-drama." I go over some stories and experiences from stepmoms who are dealing with or who have dealt with high-conflict exes. I go over their feedback and also discuss how many stepmoms have worked through some of the toughest issues and moved on to a better relationship with the biological mom. Please join me as I try to dissect the drama and figure out the key to a more productive blended family life.
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This week I go over feedback from stepmoms about how they feel they've been a positive influence on their stepchild or stepchildren. The comments are heartwarming, powerful, and a true testament to how stepmoms are changing lives and impacting children in a wonderful way. Please tune in to be inspired by these stories!
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In this episode, I discuss what it's like to be a "childless stepmom." I go over the feedback from stepmoms who share their intimate stories about how the journey of being a stepmom while not having biological children has affected them. The responses are emotional, informative, and eye-opening to say the least. Join the raw and honest discussion. xox
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This week I discuss the topic of being BOTH a mom and a stepmom at the same time and which role is more difficult. The overwhelming responses definitely tipped in one main direction with more fantastic feedback from real moms and stepmoms who are living the journey. Tune in to hear the responses and for the discussion of the topic.
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This week I discuss what it's like to have an "ours" baby while also being a stepmom. I discuss real experiences from moms and stepmoms to learn how they reacted and dealt with this very intense blended family dynamic. Tune in for some absolutely relatable experiences such as dealing with sibling jealousy, boundaries, and (step)mom guilt. Gain some helpful advice from women who have BEEN there, who ARE there, and who are LIVING the journey!
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This week we have a reader/listener requested topic about step-parenting adult stepchildren. I discuss how we sometimes think when kids turn 18 many of our stresses or problems will be over but that is simply not the case. I discuss experiences from other stepmoms who have adult stepchildren and talk about my own worries about when my stepchild becomes an adult.
At the end of the segment, I read a fabulous excerpt from an article called, "What my (step)son’s mother said to me at his wedding" by Anna Breslin. It tells the inspiring story of a stepmom's journey to her stepson's wedding and the unexpected experience she had there.
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How does the holiday season work in your blended family situation? Do you stress out over visitation schedules, co-parenting dramas, or struggle to create new traditions with your children and/or step-children? In this episode, I share experiences from stepmoms and moms about how they maneuver their way through the often chaotic weeks of the holiday season. Join me!
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In this episode, I discuss being a stepmom to teenagers. I go over feedback from my listeners as to how their own experiences with step-parenting teens are going -- plus we talk about how technology and cell phones are affecting the blended family dynamics. I offer up advice on how we can better manage our own behavior when our emotions are put to the limits with teenage and co-parenting challenges. Join me for this relatable discussion and feel free to share with a brave stepmom you know!
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In this week's episode, I go over vital advice for new stepmoms given to me by seasoned stepmoms who have been there. I also talk about my own personal mistakes and lessons as a new stepmom back in the day while offering up my own advice. At the end of the podcast, I go over 5 points from my article, 5 Essential Questions to Ask Yourself Before Becoming a Stepmom. I really hope this helps some beautiful stepmoms out there and thank you so much for tuning in!
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Do you feel supported by your spouse in your blended family dynamic? This week on The Pondering Podcast, I discuss the challenges of maintaining a relationship while also navigating parenting & step-parenting. As always, I share the phenomenal feedback from real women who are in the trenches of blended family dynamics as well as sharing my own personal experiences. Tune in!
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In this episode, I discuss how having a stepparent as a child influenced how you navigate your current role as a stepparent. Included are some wonderful reader responses on the topic as well as my own personal experiences. I also go over modern perceptions of the "wicked stepmother" idea and how that has changed in our society.
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In this episode, I discuss the relationships between stepmoms and biological moms. I go over feedback from real stepmoms who are dealing with varying challenges in trying to co-parent with their stepchildren's biological mothers and ways in which we can try to cope with the issues that arise.
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In this first full episode of The Pondering Podcast, I delve into some of the biggest challenges stepmoms face in their daily lives such as co-parenting, biological moms, full-time stepmom challenges, finding balance parenting both stepchildren and biological children in the home... plus more. While discussing feedback from real stepmoms, I go over ways we can all move forward in a productive way and how the dynamic role of a strong stepmom is really the glue that holds the blended family together.
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