Can We Talk?: Recent Episodes
Can We Talk Podcast
On this episode, I have a chat with Ethel and Shari, two best friends and two halves of the creative duo, Shnaks. They are passionate about producing vibrant, culturally relevant content that tells stories and offers experiences. We talk about what finding home in their friendship has looked like and how that has evolved over a span of more than ten years. What is finding home in friendship? How do we leave space for the self within friendships? How do you make home for the ways in which the friendship changes?
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On this episode, I have a chat with Achieng Julietta, who is passionate about personal development, well being & prosperity. She takes us on her personal journey of finding home within her roots and her work with her organization, The Conscious Africans. She shares about how becoming curious about her ancestry has helped her on the journey of discovering herself. How can we break generational patterns? What does finding home in your roots mean? What does that look like? Follow Achieng Julietta: @a_conscious_aj @achie_julietta @theconsciousafricans Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_media Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @tinaford.now Art by: @ibrahimkizza_
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On this episode, I have a chat with Roberta Kisubi, who is pursuing a career in mental health policy. She takes us on her personal journey of finding home within her mind and how that journey has changed over the years. She keeps it real about how hard doing the work can get, but how rewarding it is. How do you protect your mind? Do you set boundaries for yourself? Have you found home within your mind? What does that look like?
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On this episode, I have a chat with Carol Kagezi, a writer, wanderer, wellness practitioner and enthusiast. She takes us on her personal journey of finding home within her body and how that journey has changed over the years. We talk about feeling shamed, and how the journey to our bodies, is a holistic one. Have you found home within your body? What does that look like? How does finding home in your body impact other parts of your life? Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @tinaford.now Art by: @ibrahimkizza_
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On this episode, I am joined by Tina Ford, a Ugandan Neo-Afro soul musician, who uses music as an art of storytelling, incorporating dance and drama as a form of expression. She shares what home means to her, and takes us on her personal journey of finding home within herself. We talk about facing the darkness within us, standing in our power and things we have had to unlearn along the way.
Do you ever find home within yourself? How do we know when we are living in our truth?
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Annnnnd WE'RE BACK! Season Three is going to be focused on Finding Home. Before we jump into the conversations this season, I share my personal thoughts on what finding home means. Join me (@muna_kampala) as I have conversations with different people surrounding their journey of finding home. Finding home within themselves. Within their bodies & mind, as well as in other people.
As always, we are showing up authentically and keeping it real. So, again, CAN WE TALK? Soundtrack by @tinaford.now Art by @ibrahimkizza_
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On this episode, we are joined by Ophelia Kemigisha, a queer, feminist, human rights lawyer & writer who is interested in building a new future filled with pleasure & justice. We get into the role colonialism played in creating the systems of oppression today. We also get into stereotypes around tribes, savior complex and the inter-connections between the 3 isms. Does tribalism exist? What IS tribalism? Is privilege a bad thing? How can one use their privilege to create better systems? Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @themekaslab Art by: @a.o.draws
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On this episode we are joined by guests, Will & Arthur, Ugandan-Canadian brothers, to talk about the realities of cultivating a healthy relationship in today's world. We talk about the changes in dating & relationships as we grow up. We also get into dating across cultures, as well as the significance of cultural/traditional weddings, why men ghost and more. Does the way we were raised have an impact on the partners we choose? What role do friends and community play in our intimate relationships? Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @themekaslab Art by: @a.o.draws
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On this episode, we share our personal spiritual/religious journeys. We open up about our different spiritual awakenings and search for truth. Religion & spirituality although closely related, are different. Whichever journey you're on, they both play a big part in our lives & shaping our identity: the freedom we feel, the shame we carry, the hope we hold on to, the values we hold. How do you define God? How have the structures of religion affected your relationship with God? Do you feel seen in your religion? Get ready for some good ol' conversation. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @themekaslab Art by: @a.o.draws
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On this episode, we talk about alcoholism in our community. We open up about our personal journeys with alcohol. Sometimes we drink because it's Saturday. Then we drink because we just got off work. Or because we're stressed. Maybe because we're socializing. How do you know when it's time to put the bottle down? How can we change our habits for better coping mechanisms?
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Who are we and why are we doing this season together? In this episode, we (@muna_kampala and @shesamukiga) tell y'all a little about ourselves and how we came to host this season together. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online Music by: @themekaslab Art by: @a.o.draws
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Officially back for Season Two! On this episode, Kabasigyi (@shesamukiga) and I (@muna_kampala) begin to unpack the culture of silence in our community. As we explore taboo topics this season, it's important to first dive into why these topics became taboo. Why don't we feel comfortable to express ourselves in our relationships? Why do we feel shame around being seen and/or heard? We talk about our different experiences being raised in Ugandan homes (one in Kampala, and the other in Canada) and how it affected the way we express ourselves. We touch on why some of us in the younger generation to speak on the current political situation in Uganda. We also get into silence in the workplace, church and lots more! Get ready for some good ol' conversation.
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WE'RE BACK!
Season Two of the podcast is going to be focused on healing and learning through conversations about taboo topics in our Ugandan community. I (@muna_kampala) is joined by Kabasigyi (@shesamukiga) for this season.
Understanding what causes us trauma and causes us to be the way we are is not only the first step to healing, but breaking generational patterns. So join us this season as we unpack and break the silence around different taboo topics; from family-inflicted trauma to sex and alcohol, we're going in!
We're showing up authentically, keeping it real and going IN this season. So, CAN WE TALK?
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Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Paddy Ntulume about masculinity. We talk about the notion of a 'real man', men's mental health, men's friendships and how patriarchy is deeply embedded in our institutions. And more! What are some of the things men of today's generation have to unlearn and learn? Can men be allies in gender equality? How? The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! Don't forget to follow/ subscribe on Apple podcasts, Google podcasts, Stitcher, and Anchor. Instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast Website: canwetalkpodcast.online YouTube: Can We Talk Podcast
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Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Jarvin and Esther from the Millennial Rants Podcast (@millennialrants.pod). We talk about how imposter syndrome can affect different parts of our lives, from the art we create to our careers and relationships. We talk about the root of imposter syndrome and how it presents itself for men versus women. And more!
Do you find yourself comparing your accomplishments to others? Has social media increased levels of feeling inadequate? Do you have an unconscious fear of success?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
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Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Patsy Mugabi (@patsymugabi on IG, Patsy Mugabi on YouTube), a money and creative coach. We explore the topic of money through different lenses. We talk about the culture of silence around money in African families, how women relate with money versus how men relate with it. We also talk about unlearning and learning certain money beliefs and more!
What is your money personality? How do you relate with money; are you a spender or saver? Do you discuss finances in your dating life? What is your mental relationship with money?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
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Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode, I talk to Esther Nshakira (@sometimes_esi on IG), a Communications, Digital Marketing & Branding Consultant. We explore the topic of career and purpose. We talk about her decision to go to law school that was shaped by societal and family pressures and how she turned her career around. We talk about the lows of unemployment and the job search, productivity, the fear of rejection and more!
What shaped your decision to enter the field you are working in now? Does creativity allows have to turn into a side hustle? What's your life's purpose and is that different from your career path?
The conversations series features guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
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Excited to be back with another episode in the conversation series! In this episode I talk to Mugabi Byenkya, writer, poet and occasional rapper. We talk about his experiences as a black man living with disabilities, existing within multiple marginalized social categories, spirituality and more!
How do you deal with pain? Do you sit with it in acceptance or do you try to run from it? Do you recognize your privileges as an able bodied person in society? What is your experience with finding the right therapist?
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Excited to be back with another episode in our conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! In this episode, I talk to Sarah Kukie, creator of Lyflyn Designs, a design & wellness brand, about her journey to finding home. We talk about home as a place, through the lens of our experiences of leaving our home country and returning; home as the people and community you surround yourself with and much more! What has your journey of finding home within yourself looked like? Do we really ever find home within ourselves? Is home a place or a feeling? Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast. Host: @muna_kampala Follow Lyflyn Designs on all social media platforms (@Lyflyndesigns) and be sure to join their community!
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In this self-reflective episode, I explore different aspects relating to sex. Sex is a topic that comes up all the time among adults. But how is sex introduced to us as young adults? How does the way sex is introduced to us affect our relationship with it? Is your sex life affecting your mental health? Join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Don't forget to Subscribe, rate and review!
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Excited to be back with another episode in our conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! In this episode, I talk to Dushiime, co-founder of Pearls for Her, a Ugandan female owned business, about our experiences as African women (Ugandan women in particular). We talk about the role feminism plays in empowering Ugandan women, the power of representation, women's reproductive health and much more! Should men be included in the conversation on feminism? What does the landscape for the next generation of the African woman look like? Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast. You can follow Pearls for Her on instagram (@pearlsforherug)
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Excited to be back with a NEW EPISODE!!! In this self-reflective episode, I explore my own personal spiritual & religious journey. Spirituality and religion involve the belief and worship of something bigger than us and provide a way of finding answers and searching for the meaning of life. What does your journey look like? How has your spiritual/ religious journey evolved through the years? How do you incorporate your spiritual/religious beliefs in your daily life? Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.
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Excited to be back with another episode in our conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
In this episode, I talk to Melissa Tendo about beauty. How do you define beauty? What frames what/who we consider beautiful? Does conventional beauty play a role in your dating life? Would you consider cosmetic plastic surgery? We talk about colorism, how it affects us as young black women and how society's view on dark-skin has changed, and what implications that has had. All this and more!
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Music: Big Bumpa- Mun G
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Hey guys! Excited to be back with another episode! Hope you are keeping your social distance and listening to the medical professionals' advice on flattening the curve during this time of Corona Virus. Before we get back to our regular episodes, here's an episode on what you can do to keep busy while you stay home. Whether it's getting enough rest or pumping up your home workout, we got you! How are you spending this time at home?
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Music: Muna Kampala | Ykee Benda
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We are excited to be back with a new episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
In this episode, I continue to talk with Bwomono about all things love and relationships. Have you been heartbroken? How did you find healing? How do you maintain your sense of self within a relationship? We get into how society's view on relationships has changed and how to keep the outside noise out of your relationship. All this and more in this second part of the conversation!
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Music: When a man loves a woman
Omukwano | Maddox
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It's Valentines Day & we are excited to be back with a new surprise episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! In this episode, I talk with Bwomono about all things love and relationships. How do you define love? How do you love? Do people give and receive love the same way? We get into what it means to have an intentional relationship and how the relationship with African parents shapes our perspective on love. All this and more in Part one! Because we had to keep it short and sweet as always, part two of the conversation will be out next week on Tuesdays as always! Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts or follow on anchor. Follow us on instagram at @can_we_talk_podcast.
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You asked for more conversations & we are excited to be back with a new episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation!
This is part 2 of my conversation with Martin (you can find part 1 here https://anchor.fm/can-we-talk/episodes/Conversations-series-Ep--3-Culture-is-not-static-e9aa2q). In this second part of the conversation we talk about places to visit in nigeria, then we dive into toxic masculinity, physical vs. emotional strength, masculinity in the context of nigerian culture, women's attraction to toxic masculinity and more! Connect with Martin on instagram: @ijele_africaa Connect with the host, Belinda on instagram: @kemisolar Connect with us on instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast
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Kind of late to the party, but Happy New Year! February is already here, but its never too late to start your new year! What are some of your new year rituals? How do you set your goals? Are you intentional about your goals? What lessons have you learnt from the previous decade? We discuss this and more in this episode.
Song: Obudde - Radio & Weasel
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Excited to be back with a new episode in our Conversations series! The series will feature guests from different backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! This time I sit down with Martin to talk about men are trash, feminism in regards to the African culture and we get into masculinity on part 2 of the conversation next week! In this first part of the conversation, we talk about the watering down of the men are trash message, how the African culture upholds patriarchy and lots more! Connect with Martin on instagram: @ijele_africaa Connect with the host, Belinda on instagram: @kemisolar Connect with us on instagram: @can_we_talk_podcast
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Back with a new episode about navigating relationships with parents! The relationship we have with our parents/guardians can get tricky as you grow up and begin to make your own decisions. This episode explores boundary setting with parents, as well as the implications our the relationship we had with our primary care giver can has on us as adults. I also talk about the different attachment styles.
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Clinical psychologist and professor, Jordan Peterson's 12 rules for life provides us with tips and life advice drawing from psychology, religion and personal experience. He calls it an antidote to chaos. "Life is suffering. Get over it." is how I would sum up the book. In this episode we review 12 Rules for life. We talk about caring for yourself, standing up tall and comparing yourself. What rules do YOU live by? Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.
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How has your definition of love changed throughout the years? What does it mean to you to love someone? How do you feel loved? Is loving yourself separate from loving others? The way we are introduced to love through our relationship with our parents, the movies we watched as kids or the novels we read, shapes a lot of the unconscious ways we behave in intimate relationships. That perception may change as we evolve, through experiences of love, heartbreak and everything in between. We dive into the topic of love on this episode! Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe! on Apple podcasts.
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Back with part two of our conversation with Awele Juwe (AJ) as part of our conversation series where we'll be hosting different people like you and me, not far from our reality, to talk everything adulting. Some great ol' conversation! In this part two, we talk about being comfortable in your skin, having difficult conversations and setting boundaries with friends, social media identity and trying out internet dating. And more! Connect with AJ on instagram: @thejulesguide @dinewithjules_ Connect with us on instagram: can_we_talk_podcast Don't forget to subscribe on Apple podcasts!
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I'm excited to be back for season 2 and we're starting it off with an episode from our new conversation series. The series will feature guests from all backgrounds, who are close to our reality, trying to figure out career, love, family and everything adulting. So get ready for some good ol' conversation! First up, is Awele Juwe, Nigerian, currently living in Canada. She's a blogger, feminist, digital marketer, and is not afraid to be herself. We talk about the last season, cancel culture, owning your identity in the dating game and navigating relationships with African parents. And more! We love to keep our episodes short and sweet so look out for part 2 next week! Connect with AJ on instagram: @thejulesguide @dinewithjules_ Connect with us on instagram: can_we_talk_podcast
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How is your mental health holding up as you navigate the ups and downs of adulting? What tools are you clutching on to to keep from going under? Is it hard for you to talk about your bad days? Mental health affects how we think, feel and act. We need to take care of our minds first before we can be on our A game in all areas of our lives. So let's talk mental health in this last episode of the first season of the Can we talk? podcast!
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe!
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How are your friendships as an adult going? Not the 500 friends you have on Facebook or that one friend you randomly find at the bar every Saturday and share drinks with. Your tribe/squad play a huge role in influencing your behaviour and energy. 20s are a transitional period where we outgrow friendships and gain new ones just as much. Are you trading face-to-face interaction for social media friendships? Is your squad facilitating your development? Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Don't forget to join the conversation on our social media, https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/ Subscribe!
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In this episode, we explore the decisions we make when it comes to our career life. How do you make your decisions in your career life? How do you decide which jobs to apply for and what field you are choosing to navigate? How do you balance between working to survive and fulfillment?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between. Tune in and don't forget to join the conversation on our social media. You can follow us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/can_we_talk_podcast/, or email at canwetalkpodcast25@gmail.com.
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In this episode, we explore hook up culture and how it has impacted society's dating world, as well as mental health. What are your thoughts on hookup culture? How are you navigating dating and commitment in a society where casual sex has become the norm?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between.
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Welcome to Can We Talk!
In this episode, I talk about IDENTITY and the importance of knowing who you are especially in your 20s. What do you base your identity on? Your own values and experiences? Your family? Your social media?
Can we talk? is an honest fun informative conversation about the messiness of adulting and everything in between.
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