Steadfast Corner.: Recent Episodes
Toru Ebi
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Love is pure when it is expressed inconvenience. We must understand that we love not because we are comfortable but because we are dedicated and committed to making love work. We are expected to be intentional in dealings and proceedings with our loved one(s). Through thick and thin, we choose to love, have and be there for the ones we love. In this episode, I wrapped up this season with an accurate explanation on how to express love in earnest.
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Doubting your partner can cause arguments, mistrusts, and uneasiness. It is bad for both parties because it causes tension and can lead to heart break. Love trust, beliefs and is at ease. So when you say you love someone, you take them at their words without trying to verify.
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Being a hopeless romantic and taking everything Hook, line and sinker is not what entails. Yes it is good to believe in the union despite the challenges, but, it is very important to see reciprocated efforts before you have high hopes. Against the backdrop of being a hopeless romantic, this episode exposes the reality of love as being hopeful. Which entails being passionate, yet, pragmatic. Listen in.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Pride is a precursor to loveless living; it struggles with love because it requires a focus of self. It is deceptive, as it always negotiates for its own benefit. There is a driving force behind pride that is unhealthy and unnecessary.There's no room in the heart of love. In this episode I give a description of how pride shows itself in our everyday love life and how it can't be dealt with. Listen.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
In a dating-relarionship or marriage, jealousy displays itself in three different facets which are; healthy jealousy, toxic jealousy and resentment for the achievements of your partner. The first is good for your love experience as it shows your partner how much you don't want to lose them. The second is toxicity caused by a self image distortion, misguided sense of ownership and control over your partner, and mistrust—this is torture to your partner. The final one it very subtle as most people do not take is to be serious, but, the is it is very serious. When the third creeps in and left unattended, it breeds envy which poisons the love experience with resentment and bad treatment. Listen to find out more on why jealousy and envy is not love, as well as four bullet points on how to deal with jealousy if you feel that way.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
To be indecisive in a relationship means not having the willpower to make decisions and stand by them. Someoneindecisive can take a long time to decide on something dueto fear of the unknown, the fear of failure, laziness, fear ofbeing responsible, etc. And that is not love.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Sexual compatibility and financial security contribute to a happy marriage, but love is a separate and a more important part of it. Sex can become impossible; finances can change; love is not based on either and can make it easier to tolerate changes in the first two.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
This episode explains that unforgiveness creates and harden heart in partners, leaving the dating-relationship and marriage filled with negative emotions which is not love. In love partners make excuses for mistakes, carelessness or weaknesses that offend and hurt them. Rather than insisting on having your way and attempting to 'even the score', we forgive and let go. In every relationship and marriage, there are times when we are hurt, disappointed, betrayed by the other person. But when we decide to forgive, we are saying 'I love you' regardless of what you did or said. Commitment to the relationship is a choice and a decision to love. Away from feelings, we decide to make the decision to love, to have, to hold, to protect and to forgive. Listen in.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Helping couples understand that in love; you truly embrace letting things slide off your shoulders, you come to better understanding of yourself and yourPartner. Thereby enabling a thriving your relationship--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Helping couples understand that love in the face of irritation doesn't give major reactions like; banging the door, leaving the house, cursing and saying hurtful words to your partner without fare, and/or discussing your partner's errors with your family and friends. But love is even-tempered making you have a kind and generous disposition, knowing that everyone including yourself have weaknesses. A loving partner in the face of problems exercises self-control. Listen-in.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Self seeking is the selfish promotion of ones interest without concern for that of others. On this episode Toru explains that seeking the attention of our partners and withholding ours from because we don't care about their welfare, as far as we are getting our way in the dating-relationship is a self-seeking wicked act. So get it right and fix things. Ps self-seeking is not selfishness one seeks interests, the other lives in interest in the detriment of another. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beauty-bliss/message
Helping you understand that Love through patience acknowledges partners have different spaces, therefore time and space is created for both parties to build and grow individually. Simultaneously you both put in work individually to grow as a couple. Whatever it is you want to see in your relationship is achieved through patience. You have to be patient with your partner to enjoy your dating relationship and marriage because in it you allow room for growth in progression.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/beauty-bliss/message
Final Episode. In conclusion of the Christmas limited Series'22, Toru gives yh relationship between love, sex and money in a dating relationship. Stating how couples can use this to build love.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/beauty-bliss/message
In this season of giving couple give for. Variety of reasons, some give money for sex and vice versa. If you stick to this transactional big rocks and neglect the essence of love which is companionship. Tell me, would you cuddle on money or have talks with sex when loneliness hits? Call it what it is, is it a sexual transactional relationship or it it true love? Press play.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/beauty-bliss/message
We can't talk about contemporary romantic relationships without talking about sex, it is like the Central of most dating relationships. Sex is good as it helps partners understand themselves intimately and see each other beyond the clothing. But, when we cum during sexual intercourse, we remit our sexual energy which is the energy responsible for procreation. It is the creative energy of a couple. On this episode, a swift understanding of the relationship between these two transactional big rocks of romance is given. Press play.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/beauty-bliss/message
It is draculan to think that you can have a colourful love life without money. Finance gives beauty to your love experience and makes it sweeter with a blend of adventure. To spark romance, you need money no matter how small, you wouldn't take your partner out and after buying something you pay the cashier with 'I LOVE HER/HIM SO MUCH'. Definitely they'll take you to the hospital. You need money to pay. However, note that it is the responsibility of both parties to finance the romance in the relationship. Play for more.--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/beauty-bliss/message
Couple Chemistry is intimacy and passion mised with interest for someone. It is the excitement needed to keep the cozy feeling of the relationship. On this episode i walk you through the possibilities of building and sustaining that magical spark you desire with your partner. Yes! It can be built.
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Have you ever met a person and felt sparks fly instantly? Do you feel drawn to them for reasons you can’t explain? Is there a magnetic pull between the two of you that is just irresistible?
Chances are, you have amazing chemistry. But how can you know for sure? Here are 10 of good Couple Chemistry.
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Most people have probably heard of the term “chemistry” when it comes to relationships, but it may be unclear what this term means.
Understanding what is chemistry in a relationship and learning the answer to is chemistry important in a relationship can help you to create a more satisfying romantic partnership in your life.
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Paying undivided attention to your partner is the right way to be romantic. By so doing, you get to understand them and respond graciously to their needs
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Romance solidifies the bond between partners in a dating relationship. A good romance with your spouse will make you really know them deeply. It reveals a spouse personality. Romance makes couples so intimate they want to discuss everything about themselves. But, know that sex is not romance. On this episode, I appraise what romance is and it's importance in a dating relationship.
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Giving is essential in any relationship, be it in friendship or in a romantic relationship. It is the product and proof of love. Whatever you want from your your relationship you have to give first in before you can take. You give your time, attention, care, heart, ear to listen, your space, and love. Many people are stingy with all these things which are meant to serve as the ingredients in their relationship. However, not everyone that gifts us loves us. On this episode I gave an appraisal giving and taking as the companionship sustaining concept of love.
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Everyone has emotional needs. Consider basic survival needs like water, air, food, and shelter. Meeting these physical needs means you can stay alive, but it takes more to give life meaning. You can’t see or touch things like companionship, affection, security, or appreciation, but they’re just as valuable. The same goes for feeling heard or valued. In a relationship, the strength of your bond can make a big difference in whether you both get your needs met. Although every relationship looks a little different, these emotional needs are a good starting point for considering whether you and your partner are each getting what you need from the relationship. Stay tuned.
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Everyone has emotional needs.
Consider basic survival needs like water, air, food, and shelter. Meeting these physical needs means you can stay alive, but it takes more to give life meaning. You can’t see or touch things like companionship, affection, security, or appreciation, but they’re just as valuable. The same goes for feeling heard or valued.
In a relationship, the strength of your bond can make a big difference in whether you both get your needs met.
Although every relationship looks a little different, these emotional needs are a good starting point for considering whether you and your partner are each getting what you need from the relationship.
Stay tuned.
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Knowing your partner's love language will help you discern how they show their love so you can feel more appreciated. Often times it's not that our partner doesn't love us, it's that they love us only in the ways that they know how to love us. On this episode, Toru gives a clear cord explanation of the five love languages as a prerequisite for expressing heartfelt commitment to your partner.
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Love calculators are used when we want to test for love compatibility. Knowing if we are compatible with our love interest is important as it determines if the dating relationship will stand the test of time. Too often feeling strongly about a person doesn't mean they are our perfect match. Many people have at one point been convinced by their feelings that they have met their perfect match, but ultimately discover that they aren’t compatible with them. Consider, at the very least, modern divorce rates. Hence, we have to test for love compatibility. In this episode, Toru gives a better working formula to test for love compatibility. He calls it the five (5) observation matrix formula.
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On this episode, Toru gives an explanation to why people fall in love. Citing researches done by notable psychotherapist and psychiatrist, he explains how our brain produces feel good hormones responsible for our happiness. It is these feel good hormones that triggers us to fall in love, fulfilling that fundamental human desire to love, be loved and be nurtured. Listen to sugar talk podcast and learn how to enjoy your love experience be it in a dating relationship or marriage.
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Yes! You can have a fairytale love story. All you need do is write it by having a broad understanding of what love is. Toru gives a description of what love is. He analysis the universal definition of love, added his definition and give an answer to what love is. He defines love as a feeling of deep affection and a need of rational decision, stating that in reality only decision to love can sustain a dating relationship or marriage. He explains that when the feeling gets cold decision rekindles the fire. Understand this and enjoy your dating experience.
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Toru gives a extensive description of love. He analysis the universal definition of love, added his definition and give an answer to what love is. He defines love as a feeling of deep affection and a need of rational decision. He further explains love from the perspective of a decision, stating that away from the feeling in reality which only decision to love can sustain, explaining that when the feeling get cold decision rekindles the fire. He also explained the oneness in marriage.