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People are curious where things come from

Types and kinds of persuasion money stories

David Garfinkel

Feinman

Desk clerk bus boy

Boy who thinks

Pornography, tech, and HIV

Acquired immune deficiency syndrome

The disincentives for sexuality in society

Sexual pleasure, value of pleasure, origins

Exploring sexual pleasure

Masturbation, contraception, pleasure with women and men.

Differences in males and females evolution

Adultery when they get a chance.

Dimorphism

Why quarrels among men and women prehistory occurred

Chimpanzee females can only rear one offspring every 4 years

Humans female gatherings

Ground rules

Marriage and sex

Labor and migration’s I

Marriage and adulteration

The ghotul dorm

How do you define marriage?

Reasoning about loss of estrus

An unreproductive view

Nonreproductive mating

Human Females estrus or no

They

Prevents pregnancy Adaptive’

Kinsey et Al

Fishers and Sherfeys

Males mimic copulation during masturbation

Mangaians and arousing female

Like a Unicorn

29% do not orgasm during intercourse

Female mammals orgasms

Invitations appetitive.

Clutching reactions

Do they experience orgasm like humans

Receptivity proceptivity

Nature isn't simple and persimony

Variety of sexual practices today

Siriono Care About Social fathers

Anthropology of sexuality

Scientific Evidenced

Resembling illusions of George Peter Murdock

Is And is not ought and ought not

Opposing Natural Selection

Sociobiology and theology

Moral Deviation

A successful gene

Altruism

Humans teach knowledge

Striking differences in Behavior

Shared experience is more inference

How mind came to be

Survival machines?

Language isn't used for scientific expansion

Pleistocene.

Hunting and gathering Persistent and Consistent

Environment is specific when

Culture and society issue

Evolved to value individual or groups?

Parental Investment

Female invest substantially

Male and female sexuality

Alcock

Developmental approach

Male environment, female innate for ducks?

Lehrman phenotype

Fitness of fox and evolution of menopause

Differential Reproduction

Proximate or immediate

Darwinian Selection

Ultimate vs immediate

Your brain is changing now

Becoming and being human

A shadowy time

Complex societies

Women Became Property

Farming and roaming groups had to be symbiotic

Domestication unclear

Language starting 8,500 years ago

The Matriarchy

Women became agricultural

Women started agriculture?

Puzzling stone objects

From Windover Bog

They started burying people.

Paleoindians preceded by ancient indians

Gatherer hunters

Semi permanent residents

People were there 5-6,000 years

Clovis Man!

Prolonging Economy in Societies

As they crossed further north

Aboriginal fishing

Australia aboriginal

Sea levels lowered

45,000 years ago original australian

Women write them but no men found

Women manufactured the stuff valuable for survival

Hunter stories

Ceramic of fat prosperous woman

She wakes from her tent

Formation of language

Symboling

Neanderthals were squat and extinct from lacked diversity

Symbolism

Late Paleolithic Capability of Hominids

Cro Magnon Humans

Inbreeding and Other Theories

Eve theory

Living in the band along the shore

mtDNA from placenta passed down from mothers unchanged

Come From Africa 2

22000 years ago the female idol

Proto speech

Ability to relate to abstract things

The evolution of animal vocal system

Ebu the hobbit

Mammalian brain requires 9x the metabolic rate from the body

Two fewer base pairs

Habilis grew a bigger brain

Hard to determine male and female.

Readily available sex for meat?

Women and men hunting or scavenging

Maternal love and behavior. Oxytocin Greek rapid birth.

The Multitasking Pelvis evolution

Impelling plus

Climate changed

Georgicus proper big homo erectus

2-1.2 million years ago now

Opposing theories about aggressive protohominids

Feminist interpret astralopethicus

Astralopethicus aparensis

The gauntlet of life

:

The drumming begins

They come alive

Science isn't trush but diminishing ignorance

Kaizen and Role play

Kaizen

Qstream

Fully grasped, mcdermott

The Thayer method

Strpmger learners

The pianist and writer

Do I remember what this stuff was about?

Reflection, what went well, what could've gone better

Elaboration

How it feels

Self quiz

Purposeful learning

364 numbers largest remembered

How they communicated. How marlys takes her exam..

Thinking your smart limits you

Region deeper in the brain nasal. Ganglia, is where habit is

Neuroplasticity

Takeaways from the long chapter

Examples vs principles l

Structure building

Styles preferences and proofs

Gone to school

He used to own real estate

Bruce Hendry self made

Train Like you practice

Keep the long view

The Curse of Knowledge Underestimating Someone Else's Ability To Learn What We Already know

Imagined Vividly can become memories of actual

We remember constructively

Story of chine airline 006

Desirable and Undersirable difficulties

Leap before you look

Students with fear of making errors do worse

Methods for difficulties

How do we learn concepts

Broadening Interleaving

Making it stick

Short term memory isn't robust, is ephemeral

Air Delivery Platoon commander

A little forgetting must set in

Spaced retrieval Practice critical in real world

Implicit and explicit memory

Better than massing

Massed vs interleaved practice

Key Takeaways from retrieval Practice. Retrieval itself creates greater retention.

Students recalled information 40% better

The Testing Effect is amazing

Proposing a model beyond faith and science to maneuver social and relational management

Retrieval ties the knot for memory.

A great deal of the ways we learn are based on unproductive strategies and intuition

Rereading fools you into thinking you know

Doesn't result in durable memory

Plenty Mongogonuts

Winning Is Losing The Game

Our economy thrives on growth

Egalitarian ways of managing society

Mystical experiences.

Demonizing harmless substances

Fear of death went away

"The greatest gifts bestowed by gods"

They'd be referred as psychotics

Hearing things

Why are so many people so lonely

Suffering after 75

Inversely the inverse

It's malleable!

Justice and fairness

You're rich

The Rich relatively

A future of humankind like our past.

Playfulness and work

Part of young persons life

Kelloggs and teens

Hunter gatherer social world. Children dependent on the band as a whole

May be other concerns

Children are raised communally

Mother gave birth to him and fear

Particle paternit

Discontented customers are best

Ought is not is.

Is your nature based on environment

Grasshoppers turn to locusts, like humans.

Statistics and Lies

Over the course

Diets and betterment?

Justification that civilization is getting better?

Nature or nurture

Bonobo no signs of war

26 subjects

Methods to keep the balance

Darwin believed compassion

I don't fear death, I've been dead a long time.

The natural state of starvation and misery?

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Natural selection evolved from malthusian dogma

Cheap human labor to keep civilisation going

Human nature offers little to cruelties but civilization did.

"The best people charmer piu65y

Columbus treated Indians horrendous

Everything change

Harshest in the llamet

Ask Brian Stevenson

Hope elect politicians work

Bands

Near universality among prehistoric and modern hunter gatherers

Not necessarily noble

The dame environment that created them

Delineation

Contemporary Foragers

Your origin story

Is progress better

Introduction

Nuclear Family myth

Darwin considering marriage.

A deceitful reluctant sort of monogamy

The Yucatan translating to I don't understand you, unfounded misconceptions

The Standard Narrative challenged

Standard Narrative questioned!

Are we above natire

Get critiques

Submitted to 20 editors

Our ability to infer what someone else is thinking

The cause needs to be clear

Subplots must connect to the Story

Better connect to main storyline

Unless we remember, we don't understand.

Don't kill conflict, anticipation and payoff

Setups read like fate

Everything To the reader is part of a pattern

Reader wants to be put into the situation without any threat

Get them embarrassed

The harder she tries, the harder it gets

And I need to know that why?

Build Story Momentum

The Story moves forward because of the internal struggle of the protagonist.

Showing is storytelling cause and effect, how they arrive at that decision

Let's learn to put narrative in ideas

Things hard to read aren't read

First we have to want to know the secret.

A sudden reveal is dull

Does her goal require a solution to the internal conflict

Naturally we hate conflict, so we turn to story!

Change is only from unavoidable conflict

Story are about people.

And examples of how they read.

Vague Reasons

Vague Generalities , concepts and ambiguities have no feelings and can't capture the minds of the readers.

Ticking time

Premise of bio

Where to Start in Your Story

A Misunderstanding and how the storyteller tells

Protagonist Must Overcome Internal Struggle

Everything has a reason in a story

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Before there were books, we read each other.

In a story, telling readers what to Feel pushes them out

Flow and body language

No need for quotations, tags

Reason and emotion are not polar opposites

The Protagonists Fatal Flaw that he must overcome to reach obstacle

Theme is not overtly communicated

Story is about how the plot affects the protagonist

Stick to the point

The human brains reward for fulfilling curiosity

A story is an internal journey, how the protagonist changes by dealing with the problem

Lisa Cron

End

Stretch my experience in that zone

A solo exercise

No substitute for exercise

A good exercise to hone control

Peaking multiple times

The 3 step process of multiorgasmic man

New or unusual sensations

Powerful Orgasm without disturbing the sexual connection

Peak

Stretching out your peaks

Use this position to get to level 7 8 9

The higher you go the harder the squeeze

Arousal and erections are not conjoined

Learn these levels of arousal

Gather focus exercise to bring you back in your body

None of them were naturally multi orgasmic

Some are lucky some require work

How To Think in a new way

Rid the world of monstrous evils

Order are carefully chosen

Working Together

She might feel left out

You haven't tried much new things.

Rigid adherence to the notion of "human family"

Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge

Polyamorous families

Sex love and destroying otherwise happy family

The Coolidge In Full Effect, Evolutions way to avoid incest

Why Men have such desire for variety.

Masturbating in adolescent

Different cultures that encouraged sexual exploration

Men more adamant with their imprinting sexuality

Women's Brain a Multitude

Men's were consistent

Men are from Africa. Women are from Africa.

Why women evolved this

Hint: women evolved then for sperm Competition

Replete with millenia of promiscuity

Why are females orgasms loud

Handbook of the Witcg Inquisitors

Anatomical Exertizations

Outcopulate Chimps and Bonobos

Asians. Caucasian and Black Spermatogenesis

Men have the largest penis of apes

Size of testis adapt fast to pressures

We don't compete out here but in there.

Evolutionary Psychology from our Body

Was prehistoric life glum?

Cortisol is the strongest immunosuppressant known

Did nobody live past 30?

Infanticide was common for. Population control

Are you picturing a diminutive type of people?

"Studies Find"?

1968

The study anthropologist get the warfare between chimps theory

Jane Goodalls throwing banana to chimps changes their aggression

Bonobos barely mentioned when comparing ancestry of Humans

Old Hobbesian view

Individuals that were subordinated would start coalitions

Selfish genes or altruistic

We all tend to protect our standards

How people interface in common ground in a small society or large one

The great Prison Experiment

No Poverty?

Leviathan was written during a bad time

Hobbes description

Fear is natural but jealousy?

Canela shares they're newly we with 20 men in an orgy

The many biases of the groups Buss studied for evolutionary psychology

Buss believe it's zero sum

Brother if each partners mother admonishes the marriage

The dedication of these birds are amazing?

Many anthropologists insist e while patriarchal

Mossuo culture of family centric sexuality

Extramarital connections web with neighbors

Sleeping in the same gut therefore married?!

Biases in anthropology

Marriage being a standard to humans?

Group marriage and group parenthood

Fatherly behavior expected of all men

Mother and alloparenting

Author of Open

Similarities is bonobo sex and human females continuity

It was the best most practical way to survive

Zero social primates are monogamous

Cultures where other than monogamy is practiced

Ache four different kind

Semen required for development is fetus

Human most sexual of all animals

Heaven hath no sexual intercourse

Understanding sexuality in the modern world

Primal horde

Sex expiration of friendship

Humans like chimpanzee?

How closely related we are

Whored Lies and Cheats

More on mpi

Standard Narrative of male parental investment

The Standard questioned

Inescapably sexual are we humans more than any other animals.

Promiscuity

In addition to.

Genetic inheritance and evolutionary psychology

Applied to begavior

Mythologies ancestors

Darwins Frame of Mind

The standard narrative of the origins

Redirected human life

Everything points out to our evolutionary ancestors

Marriage,family and sexuality

Libido killing boredom

The difference

A1 and a2

Unnatural?

Knowing men's penises

The multi orgasmic man

The most v successful detective of all time

Regression to the mean

Vera Atkins SOE

Fat tails in curves

Bayes factor

Slippery slope effect

Sufficiency

Thought experiment on margin loan

Trolley experiment

Thought Experiments

Identify first principles!

Socrates method

Fragile knowledge

Figuring out what works

Particularly acute.

Curiosity, monitoring and feedback

Sherpas

Maps reflect values

We trip right over them

We forget map is not reality

Map is not the territory

Latticework of mental Models

Touch an elephant 🐘

Mental model of gravity

Ego friend and enemy

Being able to draw on a repertoire

I came from a world of 1s and 0s

Probing tests

Disagreements

Social attention

Machinery exists

Attention Description

Thought is merely an extrapolating

Evil eye

The spatial structure of awareness.

Schematized

What the consequences of attention are

Attention and awareness

Distinction between being aware and knowing you're aware.

Attention is procedure, action. Awareness is knowledge.

The brains decision making

The presence of. Awareness

There is no evidence that the photo device has an inner experience

It's so vast.

Chunk of information

Machinery for social thinking

Awareness implies an intelligence experiencing knowing something

Attention used colloquially

The apple and information

It exists as Information?

Draw distinction

Attention schema theory

The theory of consciousness

Original philosophy of consciousness

Connection and autonomy

This person feels two things at once

Characters of both

Named by main and solomon

Emotionally focused

Preoccupied style of attachment

Laughing when angry?

Attachment ruptures aren't always the fault of figures

Having a secure base

When attachment needs are met in childhood

Part one

Monogamy is no longer the only style we can take

Glossary and intro

Foreword

Story told over and over again

Cyborgs

Genetic programming

Making a boxing champion feel weak

Cyborg

The Last people

In order to create oxen.

Sapiens are subject to the same physical forces

If I want to experience pleasant feelings

If happiness is based on feeling

Huxley said this

Chaos bloodnand war

The crucial importance of human expectations

Foundations of human prosperity

Humankind enjoy the stuff of fairytale

States no longer invade

Intl violence dropped

The Revolutions Of The Last 2 Centuries

The liberation of individuals at a cost

Most people worked in the community and survived only by community.

Families to State and Market

Habitats were destroyed

Modern economy people must persistently buy

The second agricultural revolution

There is no limit

The Secret stared them in the eye

Human energy and industrial revolution.

From private companies

Capital and politics influence each other

Credit rating for countries

Credit and companies stocks

Can be seen in bitter struggle with Spain and Netherlands

Early modern capitalism

New religion?

Growing pie 🥧

The circle of business dilemma

Scientific way of thinking

The race preceding languages in Europe

Decipher the old persian part of the inscription

Connection with science and Empire

Cortez and Montezuma

The Spaniards

During the 15th and 16th centuries

Maps of outside europe

During the early modern period

Not long before James Cooks expedition

How far is the sun from earth?

Do cows suffer mentally when. Separated from calves

Late modern religions already taken death out

Before the days of medicine

Gilgamesh looked over his friend

People did not originally believe in progress

Take a general to 500 year future

How many really understand quantum mechanics

Science has no dogma.

And capitalism

The discovery of ignorance

Mems and postmodernism

Transition from many small cultures to several large

Meinnkampf

If we take natural law religions...

God's vs ideas

What is syncretism

They believed they could make deals with monogods

2,000 years of monotheistic brainwashing

Animism and Polytheism

Universal and missionary

More are choosing the global empire

Empires are good or bad?

Pius and Marcus Aurelius and the golden age

Empires and cultures

Persia and Sargon the great

When Roman's invaded Scotland

Cultures and distinct territories

Roman's were used to losing

Money based on two principles

Roman Coins accepted

Cowry shells?

Seashells, cowry shells, goats and cowskin

Before they made money

Natives were not unfamiliar with yellow metal

The Global unification

Modern Sioux

Over the millenia cultures

Vanity of vanity says the priest

Sustaining social order elaborate

Matriarchal theory, cooperative

Men more willing to engage in violence

To be a man was presumed better.

He's a real man?

What is natural

Gender and rape

Hierarchy ideas that formed

Not all are morally

How did humans organize themselves and sustain it

Binary

And he caned me

Signs and numbers

They remembered poisonous plants etc

Animals instincts vs humans imaginations

Beliefs are powerful

Voltaire, there is no God but don't tell that to my servant lest he murder me at night

Xbg

C. 1776 bc and 1776 Ad

Long term v short term

Permanent settlements

Muscles softened for juicy steak

Built 8000 years before stonehenge 16-ft high

Wheat became abundant

Who agreed to this

Domus means house

Chinese farmed rice and pigs

Every island homos appeared

The sapien invaders

The total of food chain

Australia's megafaunas and when sapiens came

Afro Asian landmass

No one can know

Jabl Sahaba tribes or Israel peace?

Have The Foragers Thought

The ancient luxurious life

Pre agricultural life

We come from different cultures of tribes

The new abilities and wider consequences

Communication with sapiens

Large scale cooperation

Monkey lie to get banana

The Stadel Lion

How large bands got along

Sapiens vs other homos

Replacement theory

70,000 years ago

Cooking

Women who gave earlier birth fared better

An animal belonging to homo

An animal of no significance

It just doesn't work

Esther perels therapist buddy on open marriages

In love and love

New lover and cheating

Prevalence of the Coolidge Effect to avoid incest

Masturbation and youth sexuality

Men can find themselves trapped by rigidity of response

Women's hetero fluidity vs men's non fluidity

Women on birth control could make grave mistakes

Then absurd claim of war between sexes

The cervix designed to filter multimale soerms

Women benefit from sperm competition

Woman's body and preconscious

The meek demure coy sex is the source of high decibel moaning

Who are we to suppress mother naturs

What grievous symptoms!

Monogamy explaining men and women's incompatibility in orgasm?

Far from the only way humans channel sexual activities

Testes evolution and penis size by race

Porn if the pleistocene

Small, medium large?

Size of genitals

Early humans and harems

War driven or no

Sleep more eat less

35+

Infanticide and average life expectancies

Bonobos and Journalists

Yanomami fierce?

A limited amount of food

Literature neglecting bonobos

They maintained that war was fundamental to our nature?

Hunter gatherers had so much time

Evolution is not betterment

What happens when things are shared

Greed vs altruism

Poverty is a creation by civilization

The overcrowded imagined mantra by Hobbes Malthus and Darwin

Hobbies, Darwin and Malthus

Like the Musuo Tribe

Finding on fascinating disconnect between what they feel and what they feel they should feel.

Bad research

People will do anything their society deems normal

Societies where women have autonomy

Strong words

Lugu Lake in South China

Marriage a slippery a term

The word marriage has been deemed as natural due to the overlying regime

Do you ever wonder why marriage is a legal issue at all?

Psychological advantages of children seeing tribesmen and women as parents.

Sexuality and Sharing For Communal Peace

The total number of monogamous primates that exist in social groups is exactly zero

Socio Economical Exchanges or SE Ex

Rock AND roll, boogie, jazz etc

What if we knew of Bonobos before chimpanzees

Bonobos much like hominids

Killer ape theory killed?

Humans and Bonobos are more similar than the class of birds

So that multiples of males done kill their offspring

The Standard has so many contradictions

Ancestors were promiscuous

Bigger than they imagined

Women's libido myth

Evolutionary Theory not enough

Darwin's and other scientists assumptions

Darwin got his ideas from Hobbesian theory and such

Remember the Alamo

Few if any dispute the fossil evidence from this shift.

They were forced egalitarian

Nature Mr. Allnut is what we're put on this earth

Scientific language debunked

The future of simple speaking

This is where we leave basic english

Teaching English to foreigners

"Low level" reading?

Children's reading a yard stick

Rewrite these

Upon consideration.... Unless...

Readability

How to write ads copy

There is one group that studies books on writing

Stop being a layman

Explaining to laymen can begin with instructional.

The ordinary person bogged down in a book doesn't say this author can't write

Talking and reading down

Ye shall speak into the air

It's as if they're high and mighty talking down to people 7,000 ft below

Obtuse words

Brevity and simple language

The difference between heavy scientific treatment vs light handed

Simple language is the language of the people

Don't play games with your words and ideas.

Dashes, colons, enumerations

Pauses Equals Punctuations

Tax and empty words

Get rid of them

Examples are given to turning nouns to verbs

Here's an easy trick to kill three birds with one stone

Highfalutin Hard to Easy to understand

First excerpt of contract

Samples and excerpts from Times

Excerpts and examples

Get to an average number of affixes per 100 word

There are scientific facts about sentence length

Most people say language

When you don't think about it

All people simplify their languages

You probably don't care much about adding much Chinese to your vocabulary

Continuation from last chapter

By Rudolf Flesch

It happens. Culture is a byproduct of consistent behavior

These people free you from oversight

Don't hire someone until you've done the work

Press release is spam

Use this time to make mistakes when you get big, you can't take big risks

It's so easy to say yes! Say no as a default!

If they're spending 20k, spend less?

Copying in the business arena is usually more nefarious

Reality never sticks to best case scenarios

Problems are negotiable!

Interruption is the enemy of productivity!

Get it out there. Building something great begins with iteration

Focus on the right things!

Figure out the big things first.

Do you really need that?

You don't need outside capital

Working more is for the uncreative

Misconceptions about business

Use this method for learning

Your ability to access info in technology

Something happens to your brain when you rely on smartphones

Jim meets the Xmen

Jim gets in an accident and learn how to learn

Jim's friends Dad showed him the way

Limitless introduction

You're doing your website wrong.

We put it all. Together

Words are magic!

Implementation and Execution is key

This chapter goes through curiosity enlightenment commitment

Don't rush the relationship

Your product must show how it can help them survive. Marketing Made Simple

The first step to a relationship is curiosity MME

Marketing doesn't have to be hard. It's actually simple.

A list of what tomorrow brings, The Power of neuroplasticity

How to hold and facilitate a transformational retreat!

Why transformational retreat

Meditation as a focusing tool for the mind

Asking yourself these questions really bring mindfulness

31 days of 31 mindfulness cues

There are aware people and there are unaware

Uniqueness, Newness, variety, etc

How much do you know about the Polynesian garden plants?

This is about improving your life in significant and substantial ways

Our new understanding of neuroplasticity is changing the way you grow old

The last of the list of 12 attitudes you should wire into your brain

If your day needs special determination and focus, you can set up an attitude to do that for you!

These are 20 ses if attitude

When you're in the middle of your day and things are going well, stop for a sec....

The Power of Neuro Plasticity - anger management problems are almost always

Does the attitude breed the programs in your brain or vice versa?

These are some of the steps to program your self talk

Practice being your inner counselor

First one is monitor, the it's Edit.

The difference between self talk and affirmations is detail

Here's what happened to Jennifer when she actually used self talk

Imagine the gift you give others through showing them self talk changes lives

These are a few stories of how self talk changes lives

You may say one thing but your brain is saying a whole different thing.

Here we take a look at the differences and effects of positive and negative self talk

The science of. Self talk

I share some questions you have to ask yourself in order to figure out the "programs" in your brain operating in the background that do the choosing for you

How does belief affect your neuroplasticity programming?

These are the rest of the steps from the previous podcast on setting in new programs in your brain powerfully.

There is this powerful concoction your brain produces which you can use to program yourself more powerfully and permanently!

Through repetition, we take what's momentary to concrete in our neuroplastic brain.

Real focus is even more detailed than you think. Here's how detail, focus, and specificity affects the neurological process

How do you use intention to setting the goal? How do you create powerful programs in your mind? How important is setting an intention to achieving your goals?

Lean how choices are made either consciously and often unconsciously.

How mindfulness affects the way your brain's programming style

These are the seven rules of neuroplasticity to help you reprogram your unconscious processes.

What's the difference with the "mind" and the "brain"?

You've heard of unconscious programming. This is a different take.

We use the analogy of how the brain is like a computer.

These are the six environments that program your brain. How are you going to change?

Find out how mirror neurons work. Say hi to me on my blog jaxsolomon.com

If you've never recognized you can change your story. This will change the way you see life.

Who you are is based on your programs. How do you get your programs?

There are a lot of intellectuals that say IQ is something you're stuck with. Let's see why that may not be true.

What kind of brain do you have? Leave me a voice message or direct message!

We explore the story of two people with two different brains.

There's a feedback loop within your mind and here we explore it and how it works.

The holy grail of personal growth has more to do with your brain than you think. Pardon the pun. Pay attention to this one.

This episode talks about how you are rewiring your brain and the power of neuroplasticity