Why Intervention Podcast

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When Christopher Doyle reflects on his father Jimmy's journey from nine years in prison to becoming a cornerstone of the recovery community, he sees more than just personal transformation. He sees a roadmap for families navigating their own loved one's addiction. This deeply personal conversation with longtime family friend John Ronayne reveals how recovery can reshape not just individuals, but entire family systems across generations.

Jimmy Doyle's story spans decades of struggle and eventual triumph, offering families a powerful reminder that no bottom is too low and no situation too hopeless for recovery to take root and flourish.

Highlights

What You'll Discover:

The surprising response that planted seeds instead of shame- What Jimmy said when 16-year-old Christopher first admitted to drinking will completely change how you think about confronting addiction in your family
Why having sober parents didn't prevent addiction- Christopher's story reveals the complex relationship between family recovery history and individual substance use patterns
The counterintuitive size that makes recovery meetings most effective- Why 10-15 people created deeper transformation than rooms of 150, and what this means for finding the right support
The daily habit that created an instant early warning system- Jimmy's morning routine was so powerful that any deviation felt immediately wrong within seconds of waking
How helping the "unhelpable" transformed the helper- The specific type of people Jimmy chose to work with, and why this choice became central to his spiritual development
Why a four-year relapse actually strengthened his recovery- The surprising reason Jimmy's return to the community was even more impactful than his original sobriety
The distinction between attraction and promotion in recovery work- What made Jimmy's approach so effective that people still reference it 15 years after his death
What happened when a 17-year-old entered rooms where both parents were already sober- The unexpected advantages and challenges this created for early recovery
The selfless response that surprised even a firefighter- Why the recovery community's reaction to Jimmy's cancer treatment needs revealed something profound about these bonds compared to other tight-knit groups
The train track analogy that ended arguments about controlled drinking- Jimmy's simple story that made the impossibility of "just one drink" crystal clear to newcomers
How spiritual presence becomes visible to others- What observers noticed about Jimmy's transformation over 23 years, and how routine created this "aura"
The business meeting question that still guides decisions today- How "What would Jimmy do?" continues to influence group dynamics years later
The moment that eliminated alcohol's psychological power forever- JR's complete acceptance that fundamentally changed his relationship with craving
The unrecognizable transformation that neighbors witnessed- How someone who remembered Jimmy from the 1970s couldn't believe they were seeing the same person
What the last conversation between father and son revealed- The final exchange that perfectly captured everything Jimmy had taught about priorities and service

For families feeling exhausted by their loved one's addiction, this episode provides both practical strategies and emotional reassurance. You'll hear how to respond supportively when addiction is discovered, understand why relapses don't negate previous progress, and learn how recovery communities can become extended family systems.

The conversation also highlights crucial resources: local AA groups (particularly smaller, intimate meetings), meditation meetings, and the power of having sober mentors available for guidance and support.

If you're supporting someone in early recovery or wondering if change is truly possible, Jimmy Doyle's legacy reminds us that with the right community, consistent practice, and commitment to helping others, transformation isn't just possible- it's inevitable.

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When Brock Bevel was in active addiction, he never imagined he'd one day be the person dropping a rope into the hole for others. Today, this former police officer and detective runs the Fentanyl Project in Arizona, where he saves lives on the streets every single day. His story reminds us that recovery is possible, even from the depths of fentanyl addiction.

Brock brings a unique perspective to the conversation about addiction and recovery. As someone who experienced the physical and emotional devastation of opioid addiction firsthand, and now works directly with people struggling with fentanyl on the streets of Arizona, he understands both sides of this crisis. His work with the Fentanyl Project has helped dozens of people find their way to recovery, proving that hope exists even in the darkest circumstances.

Highlights

What You'll Discover:

• The "Chocolate Chip Cookie Effect" — Why someone with extreme tolerance can still die from a single pill, and what this means for your loved one's safety

• The Tylenol Pill Discovery — What police found during a routine traffic stop that changed everything families need to know about today's drug supply

• Why Experimentation Has Changed Forever — How a simple party decision that was once relatively safe has become potentially deadly, and what parents need to discuss now

• The Four-Hour Rule — The surprising timeline that drives the psychological warfare people with fentanyl addiction face every single day

• When "Just Meth" Isn't Just Meth — Why people think they're using one drug but are actually unknowingly taking something completely different

• The Seven-Day Truth — What really happens during fentanyl withdrawal and why most treatment programs get this critically wrong

• The Moment That Changes Everything — How Brock identifies when someone is truly ready for help and what families can learn from this recognition

• The Baseball Diamond Approach — Brock's simple framework for understanding what every person in addiction is really struggling with

• Why People Chase the Deadliest Supply — The counterintuitive reason that news of an overdose can actually increase demand for that dealer's product

• The Success Story You Need to Hear — How someone went from stumbling in traffic half-clothed to celebrating a year of recovery

• The Family Connection Factor — Why the people who recover from street-level fentanyl addiction almost always have this one thing in common

• The Environment Trap — Why even successful detox often leads right back to using, and what actually works instead

• The Magic Wand Solution — What Brock would create if he could design the perfect recovery system from scratch

• The Rope in the Hole — A powerful metaphor that will change how you think about your role in your loved one's recovery journey

This conversation offers both sobering realities about the current drug crisis and genuine hope for families facing these challenges. Brock's daily work on the streets of Arizona proves that recovery is possible, even from the depths of fentanyl addiction. His approach of meeting people where they are, providing life-saving resources, and connecting them to proper treatment when they're ready offers a model that families can adapt to their own situations.

For families feeling overwhelmed by a loved one's addiction, remember that your involvement matters more than you might realize. While you can't force someone into recovery, you can be prepared with resources, maintain appropriate boundaries, and be ready to act when the moment of willingness arrives.

Recovery starts with family. Your love, properly channeled through education and appropriate action, can make all the difference for your loved one.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
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https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: The Connected Response™ Method: My gift to parents concerned about teen substance use - a prevention and early intervention framework providing the exact scripts needed to address concerns while preserving your relationship with your child.
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Connect with Brock Bevell
https://www.linkedin.com/in/brock-bevell-45858a19a/
https://www.instagram.com/fentanylprojectaz/
Donate to the Fentanyl Project: https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-the-fentanyl-project-and-help-save-lives?attribution_id=sl:f9fad090-f82b-44e7-a29a-3103457fffb8⟨=en_US&ts=1749052198&utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link

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Jeff Jay was sleeping under bushes in San Francisco, physically deteriorating and contemplating suicide, when his parents found him through an unlikely series of events. What started as a simple phone call became the beginning of a 40+ year recovery journey, and eventually helped create the modern intervention methods that have guided thousands of families.

Highlights

What Every Family Needs to Know:

The gentle question that changed everything- how one father's caring words reached his son when nothing else could (and why the approach mattered more than the words themselves)
Why "they have to want it" isn't the whole story- understanding how motivation and readiness actually work in recovery, plus what families can do while waiting
The doctor's straightforward explanation that provided clarity- a simple framework that helped make sense of addiction as a medical condition
Real success rates for family interventions- 85-90% when done thoughtfully, and what happens with the remaining 10-15%
Understanding the addicted brain- why decision-making is compromised and how this knowledge can help families respond with compassion instead of frustration
How families can recognize their influence- you have more impact than you might think, especially when you know how to use it constructively
What "raising the bottom" means for your family- helping someone reach acceptance sooner rather than waiting for more consequences
The power of "doing this together"- why recovery works better when the whole family participates, not just the person with addiction
When intervention doesn't work on day one- what families can do to maintain momentum and continue the conversation
Why modern treatment approaches can be confusing- navigating the difference between treating addiction and treating other conditions simultaneously
The trauma and addiction connection explained- understanding when to address underlying issues and when to focus on sobriety first
How structured family recovery works- supporting your loved one (and yourselves) through the crucial first year
The difference between enabling and supporting- practical guidance for families learning new boundaries
What to do when you feel exhausted and hopeless- finding your way back to effective action when you've been through so much
Why having an ally matters- the importance of not going through this alone, and how to find the right support
Practical next steps for families ready to learn more- where to start when you're ready to try a different approach

This conversation offers both hope and practical guidance for families who love someone struggling with addiction. Jeff's story reminds us that even in the darkest moments, the right kind of help- offered with love and clear boundaries- can make all the difference.

If you're feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to start, remember: you don't have to figure this out alone, and you don't have to solve everything at once.

Resources mentioned: Love First (3rd edition), It Takes a Family, No More Letting Go, https://lovefirst.net/

For families ready to move from feeling helpless to taking loving action- this episode shows you it's possible.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: The Connected Response™ Method: My gift to parents concerned about teen substance use - a prevention and early intervention framework providing the exact scripts needed to address concerns while preserving your relationship with your child.
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Connect with Jeff Jay
https://lovefirst.net/clinical-intervention/our-team/

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In this powerful episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle sits down with Michael Chernow, the founder of Kreatures of Habit and co-founder of The Meatball Shop, who shares his remarkable journey from addiction to 20 years of sobriety and entrepreneurial success.

Highlights

"Four hours later I was using again" — The shocking moment Michael realized the true meaning of powerlessness, and what it revealed about addiction's grip
The unexpected ultimatum — How losing the one thing still tethering him to life became the catalyst that changed everything
"I needed to see someone who was sober, who was cool" — The unconventional mentor who shattered Michael's preconceptions and gave him a vision of what recovery could truly be
The three words families need to say — Michael's urgent advice for loved ones watching someone battle addiction, and why it matters more than you think
The morning ritual that saved his life — How a simple daily habit from his first week of sobriety eventually transformed into a thriving business two decades later
"We are the gladiators" — The surprising perspective shift that turned Michael's greatest weakness into his most profound strength
The breathwork experience that healed a lifetime wound — How Michael reconnected with his father without using substances, and what it means for trauma healing
The parenting approach he completely abandoned — Why Michael dramatically changed his strategy for talking with his children about substances in today's world

This episode offers a raw, unfiltered look at both the darkest depths of addiction and the extraordinary heights of recovery. Michael's journey reminds us that transformation is possible even when hope seems lost, and that sometimes our greatest struggles can become our most powerful purpose.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
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Connect with Michael Chernow
https://www.michaelchernow.com/
https://twitter.com/michaelchernow
https://www.facebook.com/MichaelPChernow/
https://www.instagram.com/michaelchernow/#

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In this riveting episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle sits down with Adam Jablin – a man who once orchestrated his entire day around pills and alcohol while running a successful business, and now coaches some of the world's highest performers.

Highlights

The shocking morning-to-night "pharmacist routine" that kept Adam functioning while slowly killing him – and why no one suspected a thing
The two words from his interventionist that Adam literally couldn't process (he repeated them FIVE times in disbelief)
Why fixing your "outsides" (Adam transformed from the "fat kid" to having a bodybuilder physique) does NOTHING to fix your insides
The counterintuitive truth: It's not about the addict hitting bottom – discover who REALLY needs to "hit bottom" for recovery to begin
The bizarre "spiritual relationship" Adam had with substances that regular people will never understand (and why it changes everything about recovery)
How Adam saw TWO versions of himself during a phone call – and the split-second decision that saved his life
The unexpected panic attack that finally made Adam accept he was an addict (it wasn't what you think)
How Adam's infant daughter became the unexpected "saving grace" that made intervention possible – for both him and his wife in profoundly different ways
The "Superman Effect" – the seductive feeling substances provide that makes quitting nearly impossible (until you understand this)
The simple 3-part equation that explains why some interventions work and others fail miserably

PLUS: The surprising connection between Michael Jordan's "love of the game" clause and lasting transformation that Adam uses with his highest-performing clients

This episode offers a rare window into one man's journey through addiction and recovery. Adam's candid sharing about his high-functioning addiction, intervention experience, and transformation provides valuable insights that may help families better understand their loved one's struggles and the potential power of intervention.

Listen now to discover why Adam says, "What I thought was prison turned into spiritual camp" and how this complete perspective shift might be exactly what your family needs.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time:https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Connect with Adam Jablin
https://adamjablin.com/
https://www.instagram.com/adamjablin/

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In this eye-opening episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle interviews Heather Hayes, founder and CEO of Heather R. Hayes and Associates, Inc., a master's level licensed counselor and board registered interventionist with over 35 years of experience in treating complex mental health issues and addictive disorders.

Guest’s Info

Heather Hayes is the founder and CEO of Heather R. Hayes & Associates, Inc. She is a Master’s level Licensed Counselor in the State of Georgia, and Board Registered Interventionist (CIP). With over 35 years of experience in treating clients with complex mental health issues and the full spectrum of addictive disorders, she has worked with clients of all ages and specializes in the treatment of trauma. As the globe’s most prominent authorities on these topics, she is widely-recognized for her trauma-informed responsive approach to intervention.

Highlights

The shocking truth about what's really behind "denial" in families affected by addiction – it's not what you think, and understanding this changes everything
Why telling an addict to "just stop" is like telling someone with a broken leg to "just walk" – the crucial brain chemistry factor most families completely miss
The dangerous trap of "compassion" that actually keeps your loved one stuck in addiction (and what real compassion looks like instead)
The "cucumber to pickle" phenomenon that explains why some people can experiment with substances while others are instantly hooked
How standard treatment models are catastrophically failing teenagers – and the minimum effective dosage required according to research that almost no one follows
Why kicking someone out might be the worst thing you can do – but letting them stay could be equally destructive (and the precise third option that works)
The internet trap that's sending thousands of desperate families into the hands of the highest bidder rather than the best help
The revolutionary six-month family commitment that transformed Heather's entire approach to intervention
Why today's drug landscape gives parents zero room for error – the terrifying reality of what's actually in street drugs now
The hostage negotiation techniques Heather adapted for family intervention that change everything about how we approach resistance
How trauma-informed care has completely revolutionized intervention – moving from confrontation to connection while maintaining boundaries
The counterintuitive reason why bringing recovered addicts to speak to teens actually INCREASES drug experimentation

Listen now to discover why Heather Hayes is considered one of the foremost authorities on intervention and learn how her trauma-informed, responsive approach might be exactly what your family needs.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
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https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time:https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Connect with Heather Hayes
heather@heatherhayes.com
https://heatherhayes.com/

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Pam Lanhart is a mother of four, grandmother of eight, author of "Praying Our Loved One Home," and founder of Thrive Recovery Resources. After experiencing the emotional rollercoaster of loving a family member with substance use disorder and struggling to find trustworthy treatment centers and evidence-based resources, Pam turned her pain into purpose by founding Thrive in 2016.

Having grown up in a home where both parents struggled with alcohol use disorder, Pam brings a unique perspective as both a child affected by addiction and a parent who navigated her son's substance use journey. Thrive recognizes that families are critical components to recovery, providing support and proven strategies to empower real change that moves both the loved one and the family toward wellness.

Highlights

The boundary secret that actually STRENGTHENS your relationship with your addicted child (when everyone else is telling you to "detach with love")
The hidden childhood wounds driving your seemingly "rational" responses to your loved one's addiction (and why understanding this changes everything)
The gut-wrenching "make it stop" behaviors most parents don't even realize they're doing – that silently feed the addiction cycle instead of breaking it
The Irish wisdom that cuts through all the noise and finally explains what your loved one is REALLY seeking when they use
The life-altering question that stopped Pam in her tracks: "You say you'd die for your kids, but will you LIVE for them?" (and why your answer matters more than you know)
The "last text" principle that will forever change how you communicate with your struggling loved one (Pam shares the final message she sent her son before losing him)
The doorway-opening phrases your loved one is already saying that you're missing – that could lead to real change if you knew how to respond
Why treating an addict with dignity – especially when they're actively using – might be the most powerful gift you haven't given (yet)
The compassion approach that replaces outdated "tough love" tactics (and actually works to rebuild what addiction has torn apart)
The uncomfortable truth about why some recover and others don't (and the only guarantee you CAN count on regardless of outcome)

Listen as Pam vulnerably shares how she navigated her son Jake's addiction journey – from his pills in a backpack at 13 to the grief of ultimately losing him too soon, yet finding meaning and purpose through it all. This conversation isn't just about addiction – it's about reclaiming your life while still fighting for theirs.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
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https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time:https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Connect with Pam Lanhart
pam@thrivefrr.org
https://www.thrivefrr.org/
https://www.facebook.com/pam.lanhart/

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In this powerful episode of The Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle sits down with Aidan Morgan, who shares his harrowing journey from childhood experimentation to full-blown addiction and ultimately to recovery.

Guest’s Info Aidan Morgan is a remarkable example of transformation and resilience. After battling addiction from age 12, Aidan has now maintained sobriety for six years, completely rebuilding his life in the process. A native New Yorker with deep roots in his community, Aidan's journey from addiction to recovery showcases the power of human connection and the possibility of change even in the darkest circumstances. Now 28, Aidan has transformed from someone who couldn't be relied upon to the family member everyone calls first when they need help. His story provides both hope and practical insights for families struggling with a loved one's addiction. With honesty, humility, and occasional humor, Aidan shares his personal experiences not as an expert but as someone who's lived through the struggle and found his way to the other side. His story stands as powerful evidence that recovery is possible and that intervention can save lives.

Highlights

Why the "wait until they hit bottom" approach is DANGEROUS and potentially DEADLY in today's world where "you could hit a casket before you hit bottom"
The SHOCKING truth about what happened when Aidan nearly died in a car accident while high - and why it STILL wasn't enough to make him stop
The DEVASTATING "9-HOUR DECISION" phenomenon that explains why addicts can't stop using even when they desperately want to and have days of abstinence
Why your addicted loved one already has ENOUGH PAIN to change - they just need the right connection and opportunity NOW
How Aidan's father's surprising SILENCE became the catalyst that finally broke through when nothing else would
The COUNTERINTUITIVE reason why taking away a teen's activities as punishment for substance use actually ACCELERATES their addiction
The BIZARRE encounter with "Franklin" that kept Aidan from walking out of detox over a veggie burger
Why an addict telling you "I promise I'll stop" and ACTUALLY MEANING IT still isn't enough to overcome addiction
The EMOTIONAL MOMENT when a father's three simple words - "It's over" - finally gave his son permission to surrender
The PROFOUND TRUTH that most recovered addicts didn't seek help on their own - and what this means for your intervention strategy
How Aidan went from being "the last person anyone would call" to handle a problem to becoming the family's MOST RELIABLE member

If you're struggling with a loved one's addiction, this episode provides both the inspiration and practical framework for taking action before it's too late.

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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap

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In this powerful episode, recovery veterans Christopher Doyle and Joe Courtney (with 48 combined years of sobriety) dismantle the dangerous myth that you can't help someone until they "want it" or "hit bottom."

Guest’s Info Joe Courtney is many people's first phone call when they need help with an addicted loved one. Joe is married 24 years, has 4 beautiful children, and 30 years sober.

Highlights

The truth behind "they have to want it" that the conventional wisdom gets totally backward
Why your loved one's first meeting rarely happens because they chose it (and what actually gets them there)
The surprisingly simple sentence that's gotten hundreds of resistant addicts to agree to help
Why the person who got you sober might be the one person you never thank
The heartbreaking story of waiting "until they're ready" that ended in a funeral just days before this recording
The counterintuitive leverage point that turns "I don't have a problem" into "I'll go to one meeting"
Why the most resistant addicts who fought all the way to rehab are often the most grateful afterward
The shockingly simple 10-word question that can be your loved one's turning point

Joe and Chris reveal their personal journeys, relapse stories, and the practical tactics they've used to help countless others find recovery - even when those people initially wanted nothing to do with getting help.

This isn't just theory - it's battle-tested wisdom from two men who've been on both sides: the resistant addict and the person making that vital first call.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Even Russell Brand misses the point: Youtube video - "How to treat the addict you love!: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJ-y5QSpgTo

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In this powerful episode of the Why Intervention podcast, host Christopher Doyle interviews Sally Harris, who transformed her devastating experience with her daughter's estrangement into a mission helping other mothers find healing.

Guest’s Info Sally helps mothers navigate one of life's most challenging journeys - estrangement from their children. After over a decade battling addiction, depression, and the despair of suicide attempts, it was a severe health crisis that ultimately sparked Sally’s profound transformation. Through deepening faith and a revolutionary insight - that her well-being couldn't depend on her daughter's choices - Sally found her way to healing. Today, she celebrates years of sobriety, a renewed relationship with her daughter, and a thriving coaching practice that helps other mothers find their path to wholeness.”

Highlights

The shocking truth about what "estrangement" really means—and why it's not always what you think (hint: your child might be in more pain than you realize)
Why 60% of mothers dealing with estrangement have ZERO support system—and the dangerous spiral this creates
The "front porch vs. front yard" strategy that will immediately transform who you talk to about your child's struggles
The critical difference between HELPING and ENABLING your adult child (most parents get this dangerously wrong)
Why loving detachment might be the most painful—yet healing—gift you can give both yourself and your child
How to handle the soul-crushing judgment from others who haven't walked in your shoes
The unexpected revelation about "control" that changed everything for Sally (and can do the same for you)
The simple communication technique that can instantly transform your relationship with your adult child
Why forgiving YOURSELF might be the missing key to healing your relationship (most parents skip this crucial step)
The counterintuitive approach to boundaries that actually strengthens your bond with your child
The profound mistake Sally made that led to dangerous enabling—and how you can avoid the same path
Why Sally chooses to meet with mothers on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day (the revelation will bring tears to your eyes)

Listen now to discover how Sally found her way to healing after years of addiction, depression, and suicide attempts—and how her journey can light the path for your own healing and reconciliation.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Connect with Sally Harris
www.sally-harris.com
https://www.youtube.com/@sallyharriscoach

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In this episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, Christopher Doyle and Kirsten Cobabe dive deep into the turbulent waters of teen development and addiction risk. Kirsten draws from over two decades of experience guiding parents through the challenges of adolescence to reveal the hidden connections between brain development, parenting approaches, and addiction vulnerability.

Beyond the typical "just say no" advice, this conversation explores why teens make the decisions they do, how parents can maintain influence during these critical years, and the powerful protective factors that can prevent addiction before it starts. What emerges is a masterclass in understanding the teen brain and building the kind of relationship that keeps communication open even when the stakes are highest.

You'll discover exactly what's happening in your teenager's mind, why traditional approaches often backfire spectacularly, and the specific conversational techniques that transform parent-teen relationships from battlegrounds to lifelines. This isn't just information—it's a roadmap for connection when it matters most.

WARNING: What you're about to discover might forever change how you speak to your teenager…

Guest’s Info

Kirsten Cobabe is a former therapist turned coach, specializing in supporting families navigate the waves of adolescence. For over two decades, she has guided parents in learning how to listen to, and talk with, their teens. She engages parents in personal reflection, embracing their evolving role, understanding the teen brain and restoring harmony in the home. In recognizing this unique stage of development, her hope is to bridge the widening gap between parents and their children, creating timeless bonds. Through compassionate guidance, intentional strategies and a tailored approach, Kirsten empowers families to pilot these pivotal years with deeper awareness. Her work is not just about addressing immediate concerns, but about lighting the path to a more empowered future, ensuring that today's challenges become the foundation for tomorrow's brighter relationships. Kirsten works with parents, teens and the entire family constellation with a holistic lens, starting with what is already working.

Highlights

The shocking truth about your teen's brain and why expecting them to "just make better decisions" is like expecting a car with no brakes to stop safely
Why your teenager might be HARDWIRED to seek thrills that terrify you (and the counterintuitive way smart parents can channel this energy)
The "substitute prefrontal cortex" technique that helps teens navigate risk without destroying their lives in the process
Why some teens try substances once and walk away while others spiral into addiction – the answer isn't what most "experts" claim
The emotional detection system every teenager possesses that allows them to "read" your true feelings (even when you think you're hiding them perfectly)
The counterintuitive reason why your teenager's complaints and negativity are actually GOLDEN OPPORTUNITIES you should never shut down
Why "Connect Before Correct" might be the three most important words any parent of a teen will ever hear The devastating childhood experiences that dramatically increase addiction vulnerability (and the surprising protective factor that can neutralize them)
How to be the person your teen WANTS to talk to about the scary, dangerous, confusing parts of their life
The tragic mistake well-meaning parents make when setting boundaries around substance use (and what to do instead)

This conversation offers something truly valuable – practical wisdom that strengthens the parent-teen relationship and builds the resilience young people need to navigate adolescence successfully. The tools shared here don't just help prevent problems – they create the foundation for deeper connection and understanding that lasts a lifetime.

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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap
Connect with Kirsten Cobabe
hello@kirstencobabe.com
www.parentingwave.com

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In this episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, Christopher Doyle and Daniel Klein discuss the complexities of addiction, particularly in teenagers. They explore the rapid onset of addiction in today's society, the psychological and physical aspects of substance use, and the importance of parental intervention.

The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to recognize the signs of addiction and to take proactive steps to help their children. They introduce the Four-Part Connection Formula as a method for parents to effectively communicate and support their loved ones in recovery.

In this conversation, Chris and Danny discuss the critical role of family members in the recovery journey of loved ones struggling with addiction. They explore the importance of being a catalyst for change, the balance between influence and control, and the necessity of empathy and communication.

The discussion also addresses common misconceptions about addiction, the societal responsibility to intervene, and the long-term nature of recovery. Ultimately, they emphasize that while accepting help lies with the individual, family support is essential in facilitating that journey.

Highlights

The shocking brain scan evidence that explains why your loved one keeps using despite promising to stop (hint: it's nearly identical to another devastating condition)
Why "waiting for them to hit bottom" is a dangerous myth that keeps families paralyzed while their loved one drowns
The uncomfortable truth about sobriety stories that even recovered addicts don't realize about their own journey to recovery
A startling confession from Dan: "I spent 10 years saying 'I'll stop tomorrow' - here's why tomorrow never came until someone else made it happen"
The secret 2% statistic that explains why your traditional approach to helping your addicted loved one is almost guaranteed to fail
How to be the catalyst for your loved one's recovery without staging a dramatic intervention (the same method that helped Chris get sober at 17)
The critical difference between "swimming in rough waters" and "drowning" - and why it changes everything about how you should respond

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TIME SENSITIVE, FREE RESOURCE: Get an early preview of Christopher's new book "Stop Addiction Early: A Recovery Roadmap For Proactive Parents" at no cost for a limited time: https://helpthisbook.com/recoveryroadmapforparents/recovery-roadmap

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In this eye-opening episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle interviews Shanenn Bryant, pattern transformation expert and founder of Top Self, who reveals the hidden connections between childhood experiences and adult relationship patterns.

Guest’s Info

Shanenn Bryant helps women demolish their patterns and dominate their future. As a Pattern Transformation Expert and founder of Top Self, she bridges the gap between attachment theory and real-world transformation, showing women how to recognize and transform patterns that limit both their personal and professional lives.

Combining her certification in Integrated Attachment Theory with nearly a decade of corporate Learning and Development experience, Shanenn demonstrates why "conscious seeing leads to conscious being." Host of the 2.5% globally ranked podcast Top Self, she's helped thousands of women transform their relationship with themselves and others by understanding the science behind their stories.

Shanenn brings a unique blend of professional expertise and personal insight to her work. She demonstrates how the same patterns that show up in relationships often appear in professional settings, helping women create lasting transformation in all areas of life.

Through speaking engagements, workshops, and her podcast, she's on a mission to help women move from old patterns to personal power.

Highlights

The shocking truth about why anxious and avoidant people fall in love– and the unconscious dance that keeps them locked in painful cycles
The "relationship land mine" hiding in children of alcoholics – why growing up with addiction creates a dangerous attachment style that sabotages love just when it starts feeling safe
Why "trying harder" never works – Shanenn's personal revelation about why willpower alone couldn't stop her jealousy (and why addicts can't just "stop using")
The hidden "core wounds" driving your relationships– uncover what's really happening when you keep choosing partners who can't love you back
The surprising reason secure relationships often feel "boring" – and how your brain creates chaos when things get too calm
The BTEA method– a powerful technique to trace your triggered behaviors back to their original childhood wounds
How Shanenn overcame crippling jealousy – the turning point that saved her marriage after 8 years of struggle
Why your brain is designed to confirm your worst beliefs – and the simple reprogramming technique that can permanently change your patterns
The unexpected way Shanenn healed her relationship with her alcoholic father – after decades of estrangement

Listen as Christopher and Shanenn share personal experiences and professional insights that will transform how you understand both yourself and the addicted loved ones in your life.

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Connect with Shanenn Bryant
https://www.topself.com/

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In this powerful episode, Christopher Doyle and Daniel Klein explore the critical distinction between addiction and dependence. Through personal stories and professional insights, they unpack how addiction fundamentally means "can't stop" - a completely different experience from dependence.

The conversation examines nuances of pain medication use, environmental factors, and why families often struggle to recognize true addiction. Klein shares vulnerable stories from his own journey while Doyle offers clinical perspectives from his extensive experience, creating a comprehensive guide for anyone trying to understand if their loved one is experiencing addiction, dependence, a phase, or simply a bad habit.

Highlights

The overlooked "brake system" that 90% of substance users have – and why 10% are racing toward disaster without one
Why the most dangerous phrase a parent can utter is "it's just a phase" – and the hidden warning signs most families completely miss until it's too late
The bizarre Vietnam heroin phenomenon that shattered addiction myths – and what it reveals about your loved one's struggles
The startling 5-minute conversation test that exposes whether you're dealing with addiction or dependence (warning: most therapists get this wrong)
Why "pep talks" and "tough love" produce miracles for some users – and catastrophic failure for others
The heartbreaking "tomorrow trap" that keeps addicted people believing they can quit for 365+ consecutive days – while family members waste precious time and resources
How distinguishing between "can't stop" and "can stop" could literally save your loved one's life – and why getting this wrong leads to years of unnecessary suffering

Discover why everything you thought you knew about addiction might be wrong – and the surprisingly simple focus shift that could finally break through to your struggling loved one.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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https://www.instagram.com/whyintervention/
https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/06/a-landmark-study-in-the-origins-of-alcoholism/563372/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PY9DcIMGxMs

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In this gripping episode, business coach and speaker Leah Lemberg reveals her shocking journey as honor student and heroin addict – and the moment that saved her life.

Guest’s Info Leah Lemberg is a business coach and speaker who helps high-powered business owners achieve more freedom, profitability, and balance through strategic growth and mindset shifts. She is the creator of The Freedom Framework and Pipeline Mastery, two courses designed to help entrepreneurs scale their businesses and create sustainable growth. Leah’s one-on-one work is grounded in personal accountability, and she draws from her own journey of overcoming addiction and adversity to inspire others. As a speaker, Leah delivers actionable insights on business strategy, leadership, and personal transformation.

What you'll discover

The "perfect example" delusion Leah believed about addiction that nearly killed her before she turned 18
Why being "too smart" for addiction treatment is actually the deadliest trap imaginable
The bizarre warning sign in preschool that everyone missed – and what parents should watch for
The shocking contents of a mother's dryer that could have changed everything (but didn't)
Why the "good kid" maintaining a 4.0 GPA might be hiding the deepest hurts of all
The strange 7-word revelation on a treatment center's steps that finally broke through after months of resistance
The "plucking method" that saved Leah's life when reasoning and negotiation had utterly failed
Why a 28-day program is "barely doing anything" and what actually works instead
How Leah went from stealing veterinary drugs to creating the "Freedom Framework" for entrepreneurs

Leah's raw honesty about her teenage addiction, treatment resistance, and 16-year recovery offers crucial insights for families struggling with a loved one's substance use. Her story proves that intervention works – even when the person doesn't want help – and recovery is always possible.

Listen now to discover why what appears to be a "lost year" in treatment might be the thing that saves a lifetime.

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Connect with Leah Lemberg
https://leahlemberg.com/

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In this powerful milestone episode of the Why Intervention Podcast, host Christopher Doyle marks 18 years of sobriety alongside co-host Danny Klein. Through raw and insightful dialogue, they unpack the profound transformations that emerge from long-term recovery - far beyond just staying sober.

Chris shares how sobriety revealed gifts he never expected: finding power in silence, breaking free from the grip of judgment and gossip, and developing a profound capacity to love others exactly as they are. The conversation dives deep into how recovery becomes a masterclass in emotional intelligence, teaching us to sit with uncomfortable feelings without trying to fix or flee from them.

A highlight of the episode is Christopher's vulnerable reflection on how helping others through their darkest moments became the light that guided his own path. He explores the delicate balance of service work in recovery, and how true healing often comes through extending a hand to others while maintaining healthy boundaries.

Episode Highlights Chris and Danny examine the ripple effects of self-worth on every relationship in our lives, offering practical wisdom on:

Navigating emotional triggers with grace and self-awareness
Breaking free from the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing
Finding the courage to say "no" without guilt
Transforming grief and loss into catalysts for spiritual growth

This episode isn't just for those in recovery - it's for anyone seeking to build more authentic relationships, develop emotional resilience, and discover the profound peace that comes from truly knowing yourself.

Takeaways

Celebrating 18 years of sobriety is a significant milestone.
Sobriety brings unexpected gifts that enhance personal growth.
The ability to keep quiet can lead to better relationships.
Freedom from gossip and judgment fosters inner peace.
Loving and accepting others is a key aspect of recovery.
Self-created crises can be understood and overcome.
Embracing thoughts and feelings without judgment is liberating.
Compassion for oneself leads to compassion for others.
Expectations can impact relationships, especially in addiction.
Time flies, and recovery is a journey of continuous growth.
Detaching from thoughts helps in recovery.
Transformation is a powerful gift of recovery.
Self-worth should not be based on external expectations.
The victim mentality hinders recovery and growth.
Personal responsibility is key to overcoming disturbances.
Effective communication is crucial in relationships.
Understanding the root of disturbances leads to healing.
Saying no is a form of self-care and empowerment.
Freedom from justification enhances personal relationships.
Service to others is a key aspect of recovery.
Helping others can provide a sense of purpose.
Intuition plays a significant role in decision-making post recovery.
Recovery can lead to profound spiritual growth.
Grief can be experienced without added shame or blame.
The journey of sobriety is filled with unexpected gifts.
Sobriety allows for a new perspective on life events.
The importance of community in the recovery process.
Recovery is a continuous journey of self-discovery.
The ripple effect of recovery can change lives.

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Tune into the Why Intervention Podcast for an enlightening episode with host Chris Doyle featuring Joe Polish, founder of Genius Network & Genius Recovery. Explore compassionate addiction treatment and recovery, jam-packed with personal insights and actionable advice. Support for families and those struggling with addiction awaits!

Episode Highlights

Addiction: The fastest two-word definition.
Chris Doyle’s personal recovery story.
The delusion of addiction: “I don’t have a problem.”
Identifying moments of clarity for intervention.
Definition of addiction vs. dependence.
The concept of “can’t stop” in addiction.
The misunderstanding that addicts must “hit bottom” to seek help.
The role of a family member in helping addicts.
Importance of external motivating factors in recovery.
Substance use disorder’s definitions and criteria.
Chris Doyle’s role as an interventionist for first responders.
The importance of addressing trauma in recovery.
Recovery: Managing the need for a solution.
Challenges in helping high-stress professions (first responders) with addiction.
The lasting impact of early interventions in first responder communities.
The family’s role in getting a loved one to realize the need for help.
Empathy and support for those dealing with addiction.
The significance of acknowledging and supporting recovery pathways.
Community support in maintaining sobriety.
Tailoring addiction recovery to individual needs.

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In this Valentine's Day special, intervention specialists Christopher Doyle and Danny Klein reveal counterintuitive truths about loving someone with addiction…

They discuss the challenges of maintaining a loving relationship with someone struggling with substance use, the importance of connection, and the necessity of intervention and support. The speakers emphasize the need for effective communication, setting boundaries, and recognizing addiction as a serious issue that requires outside help. They share a case study illustrating the positive impact of a recovery contract and highlight the importance of envisioning a healthy future in relationships.

In this conversation, Chris and Danny explore the complexities of relationships affected by substance use. They discuss the importance of understanding the impact of addiction on loved ones, the difficult decisions that must be made, and the duality of outcomes that can arise from these situations. The conversation emphasizes the need for support, the effectiveness of contrary actions in conflict resolution, and the significant role family members play in the recovery process. They highlight that external influences often drive individuals towards sobriety and encourage listeners to seek help and resources for their loved ones.

Episode Highlights

Relationships are central to our lives and recovery.
Addiction complicates relationships, creating a two-on-one dynamic.
Effective communication is crucial in relationships affected by addiction.
Intervention is often necessary to address addiction.
Recognizing addiction is the first step towards recovery.
A recovery contract can provide structure and accountability.
Improving communication can enhance relationships, regardless of addiction status.
Setting boundaries is essential for both partners' well-being.
Envisioning a happy future can motivate change in relationships.
Honesty and willingness to change are key to overcoming challenges. If your loved one continues to use substances, your vision for the future may be impossible.
Making informed decisions about relationships can lead to healthier outcomes.
Divorce can sometimes lead to positive changes for both partners.
Hope exists in various forms, even in difficult endings.
Addiction requires a unique approach that differs from typical relationship advice.
The most obvious actions in addiction situations can often be the most dangerous.
Supporting recovery is not the same as enabling addiction.
Family members can play a crucial role in initiating recovery for loved ones.
Most individuals achieve sobriety due to external influences rather than internal motivation.
It's essential to seek help and resources when dealing with addiction in relationships.

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In this poignant episode, Chris returns with Danny after a long break to share a heartfelt story of loss, resilience, and hope. Christopher opens up about the devastating loss of his son Conor and the challenges faced by his family. Despite the grief, Christopher found new strength to help other families by preventing addiction early. This episode is a moving testament to healing, community support, and the power of turning tragedy into a mission for good. Listen to discover how Christopher’s personal journey could drive change in your life too.

Episode Highlights

Discussing unexpected life changes.
Devastating loss of son, Conor.
Story of strength during delivery crisis.
Grieving and explaining to young children.
Recovery community’s support.
Wife’s health scare and resilience.
Writing a transformative book.
Stop addiction early to save lives.
Addressing the opioid crisis.
Empowering parents to act early.
Honoring Conor through action.

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This podcast episode features Certified Professional Coach Mary Ann Palmer who shares her struggles with denial about the severity of her son’s addiction and how she overcame it. She addresses misconceptions about addiction and stresses the importance of family support in the recovery process. Mary Ann emphasizes the need for patience and persistence due to the long-term nature of recovery. She also provides insights on managing a child's cravings, identifying triggers, and the benefits of community support. She advises working with a professional coach and continuous self-education. Chris and Mary Ann challenge the idea of waiting for a loved one to reach their lowest point before considering stepping in to help.

Episode Highlights

The story of her mother's addiction and her brother suffering from alcohol use disorder and eventually passing sober
The notable moment when she found her son's backpack full of empty beer bottles and had her first acceptance of the fact that there was something wrong
The assumption and denial stage in which most parents are in when they seek out help
The final time her son went to rehab was his path to sobriety, as he did so after finding out that his girlfriend was pregnant
Her son's momentary relapse after a year of sobriety when she found him drunk in their kitchen
How she strategized her response to her son's relapse using the CRAFT methodology and displayed calmness instead of anger, resulting in a constructive conversation
The usefulness of the term "influence" in managing addictive behavior
The exercise she uses to explain what addiction feels like to the person suffering from it
What drew her to peer coaching and how she decided to help parents going through what she went through in dealing with a child suffering addiction
How you can start preparing a plan and potentially writing a contract for relapse situations
The importance of positively reinforcing good behaviors

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https://www.maryanncpalmer.com/
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Chris and Danny provide a walkthrough of what to expect during a professionally led family intervention process.

Episode Highlights

Danny shares a recent case of a concerned mother and father whose adult son is facing alcoholism
The need to have professionally guided conversations when talking about issues of addiction or treatment
The methodology of leading with love and concern in interventions
How a problematic behavior is caused by addiction or alcoholism
The issue of families confronting addiction on a surface level, rather than a deeper, more meaningful level
Reinforcing the importance of seeking professional guidance in conducting interventions
How interventions are not about ambushing or deceiving the person suffering from addiction, but are aimed at creating a directed, loving, and caring conversation to encourage them to agree to get help
Common beliefs families endure, like waiting for their loved one to hit rock bottom before they can get help

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https://www.amazon.com/Intervention-Help-Someone-Doesnt-Want/dp/0935908315
https://www.amazon.com/Love-First-Familys-Guide-Intervention/dp/1592856616

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Love First: A Family's Guide to Intervention

Intervention: How to Help Someone Who Doesn't Want Help

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Chris had guest Brinn Flagg to discuss her personal and professional experience with handling other people's addictions. She shares her knowledge on addiction and codependency. She suggests clear communication and boundary setting and stresses the need for individual recovery work. The decision to leave an addicted partner is complex and personal, and continuing personal growth after leaving is crucial to prevent repeating toxic patterns.

Episode Highlights

How Brinn Flagg got into the field
Her experience dating someone with an active addiction to prescription drugs which differed from her sister's heroin addiction
The importance of learning about addiction to navigate its challenges and lend compassion towards loved ones in the throes of addiction
Her relationship experience as a codependent partner to someone addicted to substances
The nature of her partner’s addiction
The benefits of recovering on her own and how seeking a coach led her to recognize harmful tendencies in relationships
The complexities of dealing with family addiction, particularly concerning the high level of focus and concern on the addict
Negative impacts of codependency on mental and physical health

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Connect with Brinn Flagg
brinn@joinawen.com
https://www.brinnflagg.com/
https://www.brinnflagg.com/work-with-me
https://www.instagram.com/brinnflagg/

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Chris and Danny talk about the mindset and perspective shift families gain by applying separation, empathy and compassion to their loved one's addiction.

Episode Highlights

The concept of separating loved ones from their addiction
Seeking information about addiction and recovery
Separation, empathy, and compassion as tools to understand and handle addiction
The hardships families face dealing with an addicted loved one
The importance of separating the person from their addiction
Substance abuse not being a moral failing, countering the stigma that people with substance use issues are inherently flawed or have made poor choices
Who may be the most empathetic towards addiction?
How to address a loved one in a situation like jail due to addiction
Remember to “Take a S.E.C.” when you approach your addicted loved one
Letting them off the hook: Understanding that they're 'hooked' on their addiction and can't unhook themselves without intervention

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Jessica Lahey's book "The Addiction Inoculation": https://a.co/d/cb3IUO1

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Chris and Danny discuss the action steps you can expect to see your loved one taking when starting out in a 12-step program and what you can do to be helpful in their recovery journey.

Episode Highlights

The importance of helping families understand the journey of the individual who is recovering
How, as a loved one in recovery, attending 90 meetings in 90 days (a meeting everyday) can be essential along with the family supporting the individual
Getting a sponsor and listening to suggestions
The essential advice for loved ones returning home after treatment
The sense of commitment and responsibility that being part of a home group can promote
Importance of feeling good about oneself as a motivation to keep away from destructive, addictive behavior
Using the 12-step recovery journey as a way to model recovery and provide support
Behavioral changes that can take place through this process, helping the individual to become more truthful, reliable, and focused on helping others
The concept of being 'restored to sanity' in every meeting attended and the subsequent shift in perspective that occurs
How surrendering to the powerlessness over addiction is a crucial part of the journey
How loved ones can support the recovery journey by creating conditions that allow sobriety to occur, despite the inability to control the outcome
Some family members’ misconceptions about rehab after a relapse
How an individual’s reflection on their powerlessness can be a turning point

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Chris and Danny discuss personal experiences, parenthood, combating addiction, and interventions. They use the story of Chris’ recent trip to a gun range to relate to the process of addressing addiction, emphasizing the need for expert guidance and building new frames of reference. They discourage a lone wolf approach to dealing with addiction and urge listeners to seek professional help instead, based on personal experiences and observations with different families struggling with addiction. They narrate the importance of a robust support network and sharing experiences and problems with others.

Episode Highlights

Christopher shares about his first trip to a gun range
He draws parallels between the gun shooting lesson and interventions, emphasizing on the importance of expert guidance and trusting the process
They compare a family's skepticism at the beginning of an intervention process to their disbelief when it works out
The importance of having a clear outcome in mind while dealing with a loved one suffering from addiction
The importance of pointing someone struggling with a specific issue to someone who has experienced and conquered a similar issue
The necessity to seek help from someone who understands the specifics of addiction and recovery rather than someone who merely sympathizes
How families often remain silent because they do not know how to help their loved ones struggling with addiction
The biggest challenge for addicts: Achieving day one of sobriety

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Chris and Danny discuss the various similarities between fighting addiction and fighting a fire since Chris recently retired from the FDNY. They also discuss the importance of leverage, how intervention makes the once seemingly impossible now routine.

Episode Highlights

The importance of not being discouraged by an initial "no" from an addicted loved one when suggesting rehab/treatment
Does an addicted person need to be "ready" for treatment, or is it more like a game of hide and seek?
How addicted individuals often want to stop their substance use, but struggle to act on it due to the nature of addiction
Emphasizing the need to separate an addicted loved one from the substance and not believing any promises they make while still using
How an individual's spirituality and clarity can be wiped out when using substances again
The importance of setting constraints or boundaries for the family members in coping with their loved one's addiction
Understanding the value of having the necessary skills to deal with a loved one's addiction and the importance of early intervention
The effectiveness of coaching and support for family members in dealing with their loved one's addiction and creating a healthier family dynamic
Sharing a story about a firefighter, emphasizing the importance of having a clear procedure and training for dealing with seemingly impossible situations
The struggle of watching people resist help while knowing the potential benefits of intervention

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Chris and Danny discuss the crucial role of effective communication and support for families dealing with a loved one's addiction. They emphasize building resilience through facing adversity and failures. A new six-week closed group intensive is announced, aiming to teach families how to communicate effectively and support their loved ones in achieving lasting sobriety. The program offers tools, guidance, and peer support to participants.

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Initial family outreach and the complexity of cases
How cases can resolve before an intervention is needed
Introduction of the closed group intensive and its goals
The importance of developing skills to help loved ones get sober
Creating a recovery contract for future concerns
Case success: wife's attentiveness gets husband back in treatment within 5 days of relapse
The challenge of discussing suspicions without causing conflict
The hesitation in discussing suspicions due to fear of worsening the situation
The impact of past experiences on family members' thinking
Case success: crafting effective communication to get a loved one into treatment
The importance of trusting and following directions
Trusting in experts to understand the situation
Narrowing down focus to reach the goal more efficiently
Addressing the root problem rather than individual circumstances
The difficulty in communicating effectively with a loved one suffering from addiction
The importance of effective communication to help a loved one
Recognizing patterns of enabling and finding solutions to help a loved one with addiction
The necessity of failure in building character and succeeding in life
Introduction of the closed group intensive program for effective communication with addicted loved ones
The goal of having loved ones in treatment by the end of the 6-week program
Understanding the need for more leverage and potentially professional intervention
Participants gaining education, understanding, and options to help their loved ones at a fraction of the cost

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Chris and Danny discuss the value of having supportive people in your corner while dealing with a loved one's addiction. They cover the concept of "bring someone in" from the "DEBBIE Method" in multiple ways. They also discuss the crucial roles of family and professional intervention in the journey from addiction to sobriety and highlight the difference between merely getting sober and staying sober, emphasizing the importance of seeking help, letting go of shame, and changing one's environment. Additionally, Chris and Danny critique the traditional therapy and 12-step meetings for providing limited support, advocating for combined professional interventions for better results.

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The importance of help accessibility for families dealing with addiction
What is The DEBBIE Method?
Bringing an interventionist into the situation as the most helpful level of involvement
Trusting influential people with addicted loved ones and letting them know some facts as a form of support
Breaking the family's secret: Reaching out to uncle with long-term sobriety as the start of a recovery journey
The power of bringing people together in the intervention process
Accepting addiction as a possibility and knowing that there is a solution available
The importance of recognizing when help is required for an addicted loved one
Understanding the impact of environmental change for those in treatment
Living in the present moment and accepting reality for what it is
Overcoming the shame and stigma associated with addiction
The benefits of environmental change during addiction treatment
Connecting an addicted loved one to the right help and support system
The value of getting out of the way and letting experienced professionals take over
Learning to step back and let others take over in providing support during recovery.
The intervention process: Ways to connect an addicted loved one to help.
Family members stepping back and allowing the necessary conversations to take place between an addicted loved one and a sponsor
The benefits and limitations of therapy and 12-step programs for families dealing with addiction
The importance of engaging with recovery programs and not merely attending meetings Links and Resources from this Episode
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Chris and Danny discuss overcoming the feeling of helplessness when dealing with addiction, for both addicts and their family members. They emphasize the importance of separating the addiction from the person and recognizing it as an illness rather than a personal issue. Taking small steps such as learning about addiction and seeking help from experienced individuals, can help people regain control and work towards recovery. Effective communication and mindset shifts play a significant role in addressing addiction, and it is crucial to believe change is possible.

Episode Highlights

Relating the freeze response to family members struggling with a loved one's addiction and their feeling of being stuck
The story of Danny dealing with his mother's attempts to manage his addiction and how her eventual withdrawal ultimately led to his treatment
The concept of Learned Helplessness and its roots in a 1967 study involving dogs and electric shocks
The discovery that the original Learned Helplessness theory actually has it backwards: We have to learn that we have the power to control outcomes
Overriding the instinctual drive by looking for small actions that can influence the outcome
Recognizing the feeling of being stuck and finding small options to get unstuck in relation to dealing with an addicted loved one
Conventional wisdom in addiction and the importance of seeking help and learning new skills to combat learned helplessness
Making addiction treatment entirely up to the addicted person, the flawed concept of hitting rock bottom, and the reality of continued use despite negative consequences
Sharing insights about people in recovery, many of whom were pushed into it by their families
Addressing the feelings of helplessness, permanence, pervasiveness, and personal responsibility in dealing with a loved one's addiction
The importance of seeking help from others and avoiding taking personal responsibility for a loved one's addiction
Learning more about addiction as an illness and separating it from the person in order to find a solution for the problem
Providing an example of successful detachment from a personal perspective to appropriately address a loved one's addiction
Developing a skill set to cope with addiction in the family, understanding that it takes work and dedication to reach a level of detachment
Overcoming feelings of helplessness and understanding that with effort, change is possible
The power of effective communication and how changing the way things are said can influence a person to seek treatment
Realizing that addiction is not permanent and sharing examples of countless people who have found recovery
The simplicity of saying yes to treatment, and how family members' belief in recovery can make a significant difference in taking that step
Recognizing that it's unreasonable to think you can handle the situation on your own, but with proper guidance, you can unstick yourself and make progress in response to a loved one's addiction Links and Resources from this Episode
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Chris and Danny discuss the Stop D.R.E.A.M.I.N.G. Framework, an essential tool designed specifically for families who are courageously grappling with the complex challenges of a loved one's addiction. This transformative approach not only promises to reshape the way families interact with their addicted members but also increases the likelihood of guiding them towards seeking help, embracing change, and eventually starting their recovery journey.

Utilizing these principles, families will discover the skills required to establish and maintain firm boundaries while renouncing the enabling behaviors that often plague these difficult situations. The hosts shed light on the significance of sidestepping unproductive and repetitive pitfalls such as arguments, misinterpretation, or guessing games. In their stead, a more fruitful alternative is presented: Supporting and motivating the addicted individual to take advantage of the professional help and resources required to gradually regain control of their life.

Episode Highlights

Recognize denial: Before addressing addiction, it's important to recognize and acknowledge your own denial as the family member of an addicted person
Understanding the difference between rationalizing and justifying
Heart-to-heart conversations are more effective than head-to-head
Establishing boundaries can make a significant difference
Addiction can lead to delusion: An addicted person may genuinely believe certain rationalizations for their actions, making it challenging for them to recognize the truth
How to recognize the impact of addiction
The dangers of enabling behaviors
Apologize for past actions and change moving forward
Do not minimize the consequences of addiction: Driving under the influence or engaging in other dangerous behaviors should be taken seriously
Learn from past experiences to improve future interactions
Don't waste time and money guessing
Stop negotiating and take control
Get help and support from others
Dangers of delaying action Links and Resources from this Episode
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In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss some of the benefits of 12-step recovery, including their effectiveness and common resistance to them. They emphasize the importance of having an open mind and committing to the program, even in the face of setbacks and relapses. The hosts also share personal stories and anecdotes to illustrate their points, and provide resources for loved ones looking to intervene and help their struggling family members. Overall, they stress the importance of seeking help and support, and not giving up on the potential for recovery.

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How even in the midst of addiction, some people still have a sense of caring for others
How people often make excuses for why A.A. didn't work for them
They point out that these excuses often have a pro, but there is usually something underlying that makes a person resistant to receiving help
Encouraging loved ones to separate the addiction from the person and not to carry the addict's negative words with them
The language of addiction is very powerful and can cause people to resist help
Repressing feelings due to fear of judgment and shame is a common issue among those struggling with addiction
Sharing and being vulnerable in recovery can lead to validation and connection with others
The culture of addiction can vary depending on where someone grew up
Simple remedial jobs like making coffee and setting up meetings can help build self-esteem and contribute to feeling part of something
The root of addiction is selfishness and self-centeredness, and receiving help offers a way to combat it
Simple actions like attending meetings and following the 12 steps can lead to significant transformation Links and Resources from this Episode
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In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss a few case studies that highlight some simple things families can do that they wouldn’t necessarily think to do on their own.

Connection makes the difference. They discuss the 4-part connection formula families can use to get their addicted loved ones the help they need. Chris and Danny also highlight the importance of recognizing when an emergency situation arises and acting quickly in order to ensure the safety of those involved.

Episode Highlights

Intervention strategies for an addicted loved one
Prioritizing the safety of children
Dealing with an emergency situation involving children
Emergency situations and treatment plans
The benefits of family intervention for substance abuse recovery
Dealing with emotional outbursts
Intervention planning and its success rate
The benefits of having an intervention for someone suffering from substance abuse
Having a family intervention and discussion on treatment facilities and recovery
Recognizing addiction and taking action for help
Conversation between two brothers: A story of hope and redemption
How a simple phone call saved a life
Taking the next step towards recovery
Exploring the challenges of addiction
Substance use disorder intervention outcome
Addiction coaching framework
Maintaining singular focus during an intervention
Shifting dynamics in the family
Leveraging behavioral change for effective coaching
Seizing leverageable moments for recovery
Leveraging receptive moments to encourage change
Making the connections for addiction recovery
Benefits of family coaching for addiction treatment
Why you should start the intervention and coaching for addicted loved ones Links and Resources from this Episode
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If you are a family member with a loved one who needs help, it is important to get support before you offer support.

In this episode, Chris and Danny discuss the importance and benefits that come when you Model Recovery, both for your addicted loved one and yourself. They talk about the importance of family members getting involved in recovery programs when their loved one is going through treatment. Chris and Danny share how it can help give the family member a leg up and increase the success rate of their loved one's recovery. Additionally, they enumerate the problems that arise when family members don't get involved in their own recovery program.

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Model recovery: Immediately talking to family members with addicted loved ones
Benefits of a recovery program before your loved one returns home from treatment
Having a game plan for addiction recovery
Why family members need to adopt a program of recovery
Dealing with family anxiety and recovery programs
Urgency and intervention for addiction treatment
Recovery support for families and friends of loved ones in treatment
Exploring the dynamics of addiction and recovery in relationships
Unconsciously repeating unresolved childhood issues
Exploring supportive resources for addicted loved ones
Why you should join a recovery program for yourself and your loved ones
Adopting a recovery lifestyle
Benefits of 12-Step Programs
Co-Dependency and reclaiming yourself
Creating awareness and decreasing negative aspects
Awareness and shifting perspectives in recovery
Intervention Process: Connecting to resources and supporting recovery Links and Resources from this Episode
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According to the 2021 National Home Survey on Drug Use and Health, 44 million American adults ages 18+ have a substance use disorder.

This means the possibility of having a family member or a loved one needing help is high.

If you are seeking treatment for a loved one, you are not alone.

In this episode, Chris and Danny share their first experiences with drugs and alcohol, the distinction between heavy drinkers and alcoholics, and the physical craving for more once they start drinking or using drugs. Together, they discussed the different resources that can help someone in need to better understand their situation and how to help.

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Resource guide for supporting a loved one who needs treatment
Advocacy for addiction treatment
Understanding the need for intervention in addiction and mental health
Reflections on intervention training and efficiency
Effects of family beliefs on the effects of intervention
Story of their first time drinking and using
Introduction to opioids and alcohol use
The impact of early drinking experiences
Differentiating the factors between drinkers
Trying out different substances
Recognizing that you are in need of help
Distinguishing between alcoholism and stress-related abuse
How to encourage someone to get the help that they need
Experiencing addiction in the workplace
Exploring the phenomenon of cravings in addiction and alcoholism
Devastating effects of addiction
Turning the boat around Links and Resources from this Episode
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2021 National Survey of Drug Use and Health (NSDUH) Releases

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It is challenging to help a loved one struggling with any type of addiction.

Sometimes, a direct conversation can spearhead the road to recovery. However, when it comes to addiction, the person struggling with the problem won’t be able to see it and acknowledge it.

This is why a more focused approach is needed. Shifting your mindset can help get them into treatment.

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny reference the concept of positive leverage, which is another way to get someone with an addiction to doing something beneficial that they don’t want to. They discuss the need for discipline when dealing with addiction and why intervention is the easiest and fastest way to get a loved one to accept help for their addiction.

Intervention is important for an addicted loved one because they may be subconsciously waiting for it. The family must intervene to remove them from their current environment and put them in a healthy and safe environment. This allows the addicted loved one to move from denial to acceptance and build a foundation of understanding about the severity of the problem. Once this happens, they can have the epiphany that they need to change for the better.

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Using positive leverage to combat addiction
Exploring human nature in recovery
The resistance that prevents people from seeking help
Having the discipline to continue with recovery
Leveraging discipline to help an addicted loved one
Recognizing addiction and taking steps to change
Recognizing the signs and offering support
Different treatment options available
Using the family to breakthrough denial
Leveraging family to compel a loved one to follow a protocol
The reality of talking someone into doing something they don’t want to do
Urgency of intervention for addiction and alcoholism
Realization of active addiction and the need for external pressure to seek help
Supporting a loved one through addiction recovery
Treatment transition from resistance to acceptance
Understanding the challenges of early treatment for substance abuse
Leveraging intervention tactics to help those struggling with addiction
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A good number of people with active addiction are unfortunately in a lot of pain during the months of January and February.

As a loved one, should you just watch them succumb to their addictions? Is there something that you can do to solve the problem?

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny talk about the various misconceptions that society and families have about helping people with addictions. These misconceptions can lead to addiction getting worse, in families' homes and for society as a whole.

They also discuss how to help an addicted loved one, including professional interventions, attending support groups, and modeling recovery. They emphasize the importance of external constraints to help keep an addict on the straight and narrow and to help them realize the value of sobriety.

Episode Highlights

Effects of the holidays on people who are struggling
The perfect time to talk to your loved ones to seek help
Dangers of winter to those in active addiction
Why human contact is necessary to promote interventions
Hitting rock bottom during recovery
Importance of motivation in recovery
Different constraints in recovery
The dangers of relapse during the road to recovery
Why people will go to any length to justify their use
The long-term approach to addiction recovery
The urgency of getting help for addiction Links and Resources from this Episode
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Substance and alcohol use can ruin not only your addicted loved one’s lives.. but also yours.

If you’ve reached the end of your rope and you can’t take it anymore, should you deliver an ultimatum? Can ultimatums really solve the problem?

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss the differences between ultimatums, consequences, and healthy boundaries.

They describe how ineffective ultimatums are because the person giving the ultimatum is not always committed to following through on it. If a parent tells a child that they will be kicked out if they continue to use substances or drink, but if the parent is not actually willing to follow through, then the child will learn that they can continue their addiction without consequence.

Chris and Danny also argue that ultimatums and consequences are usually ineffective because they are reactionary and not well thought out. Setting healthy boundaries is a better choice because it requires more insight and planning.

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The differences between ultimatums, consequences, and healthy boundaries
Are ultimatums effective?
The dangers of ultimatums for people in recovery
Different types of ultimatums
Effectiveness of ultimatums in intervention
Should consequences be given to a loved one?
Dangers of drinking and driving
The consequences of enabling an addicted loved one
Three stages of dealing with addiction in a family
Why should you let your child experience natural consequences?
Setting healthy boundaries with your loved ones
Changing negative beliefs by setting healthy boundaries
Power of reframing your beliefs
Setting standards during the recovery process

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How often do family members deal with a drunk relative during the holidays? Amidst the glitter, the glamor, and the fun of the holidays, it can be frustrating to deal with family members who drink or misuse substances.

These situations can be funny or horrific, depending on the outcome, but as a family member, you don’t have to suffer alone.

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny talk about the difference between how a family would respond to an accident if it was alcohol or drug-induced versus if it’s not. The family would be much more likely to minimize and shake off the incident if it was drug or alcohol related. This is especially true during the Thanksgiving and Christmas seasons. These situations can be a very painful thing for the family to address.

Chris and Danny also highlight the importance of having resources and help available during the family’s trying times. They also discussed how families can be affected by these events, and how thankful they are when everyone is safe.

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Dealing with alcohol during the holidays
The dangers of alcohol during the holiday season
Impact on relationships
Benefits of intervention
Recalling a personal story: Son carries father
The difference between getting sober and staying sober.
Providing intervention
The dangers of waiting too long to seek help for a loved one
Possibility of a marriage ending in divorce post-intervention
Impact of divorce on treatment
Enabling of people
The process of change through intervention
Intervention tactics: The right way to talk to your loved one
The possible dangers of self-medication
Calling an intervention specialist

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January is often a time when people realize they need help with their addicted loved ones, and we encourage anyone in need of assistance to reach out for help.

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss the importance of raising awareness about interventions, especially during the busy holiday season. They note that addiction is a progressive disease and that holding off on treatment can be dangerous. They talk about interventions as a possible solution for families struggling with addiction and emphasize that it is important to seek help as soon as possible.

Chris and Danny also mentioned the benefits of having a professional interventionist involved when a family is trying to help a loved one with addiction problems. It can be overwhelming for a family to try to coordinate everything on their own, and having someone with experience can make a big difference.

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Highlights * The dangers of putting off seeking help * Benefits of hiring a professional interventionist * Potential pitfalls of an intervention * The emotional connection in an intervention * Why families should support an intervention * The dangers of getting emotionally involved in a person’s struggling life * What the “concept of contrary actions” means * Misinformation in interventions * The bias and lack of understanding surrounding interventions * Different types of family dynamics * Why you should address the problem head on * Four most common obstacles to getting treatment

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Words are powerful, especially during early recovery. Building connections with someone struggling with recovery can either make or break their progress.

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss how behaviors like gambling can lead to other problems, especially those under the influence. They talk about how being under the influence works and the powerlessness that comes with it.

Chris and Danny also share about the hope and recovery that is possible, even after struggling for years. With the power of transformation in recovery, coupled with connection, words, and encouragement from the people around them, any person dealing with these problems can find themselves on the road to recovery.

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Highlights * Admitting that you are powerless * Dangers of getting hooked on casinos * The most popular saying about the 12-step program * The dangers of relapses and how you can avoid them * Why should you take it one day at a time? * Overcoming adversity in recovery * First things first: Do the next right thing * Consequences of not dealing with the problem * The power of language on the road to recovery * Benefits of attending recovery meetings and 12-step fellowships * Identification of AA’s * The consequences of not following the directions of a 12-step program * The power of words in early recovery * Connecting with the person who’s in the deep, dark hole. * Stick around for the miracle in recovery * Happiness is an inside job

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In the recovery world, it is often said that the first drink gets you drunk. This means that once someone with trouble dealing with alcohol or drugs takes that first one, they are unable to stop. This is because addiction is an illness, and the first drink sets off a chain of events that the person cannot control. This is just one of the concepts people in early recovery need to grasp.

For today’s episode, Chris and Danny discuss 27 sayings that people who get sober are astonished by. They talk about how these sayings can be impactful and helpful for people in recovery, and how they can also be helpful for families of loved ones with addiction.

The conversation discusses the various things that people in recovery hear that are helpful to them. These things can give insights into what is going on in the mind of a loved one struggling with addiction. The conversation also points out that addiction does not have to define a person.

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Highlights * The most powerful things that impacted Chris when in the process of recovery * First step in recovery: Understanding the "One is Too Many" principle * Dangers of relying too much on alcohol * How quitting can change your life * Going through a 7-day detox * The power of positive sayings in recovery * When is the right time to strike a conversation during an intervention? * Why is it so hard to quit? * Dangers of denial: Why accepting your situation is crucial for your loved ones * Importance of seeking treatment * Dangers of enabling an alcoholic or addict * Benefits of running as a part of the treatment * Ways that people approach recovery * Importance of replacement in alcohol recovery * How revealing your secrets can help you heal * What to expect with Part 2

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Chris and Danny discuss multiple ways families can get help for their loved ones, some of which are outside traditional norms and expectations. They talk about how the podcast is the best way to get information out to families and how it is helpful for families with loved ones who need intervention. They also share their plans for the future and how they hope to help even more people in the coming years.

In addition to this, Chris and Danny also cite the various interventions they have conducted over the past year and how these can be helpful for families with members who are struggling. They describe how interventions can be used to preemptively take action to help a loved one get treatment, and how in some cases, an intervention may need to be more urgent.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Never Split The Difference by Chris Voss

Highlights * Benefits of listening to the Why Intervention Podcast * Intervention options for your loved ones who need help * The importance of urgency in getting an intervention * Why should you start and ask for help? * Family’s role in intervention * Various ways on how you can help a loved one * Difference between a 12-Step Program and a more formal intervention with families involved * Tips for a successful family intervention * What is it like hiring a professional interventionist? * Selecting the right treatment center * Success stories of going on interventions * What you need to know if you’ll send a loved one on a treatment center * Dangers of relapse in recovery * Options for dealing with a loved one’s abuse problem * Intervention or family coaching: Which one to choose? * The power of family dynamics in recovery * Magic words for seizing a moment of clarity

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Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It

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If a family member is dealing with addiction, what should the other family members do? Should they immediately take them to rehab or should they start a family conversation?

Christopher welcomes Amanda E. White, Licensed Therapist and creator of the popular Instagram page @therapyforwomen to talk not only about dealing with substance abuse but how her family helped her get over her addiction problem. She gives Christopher a glimpse of the past: How it all started by experimenting to handle her eating disorder to full-on relying on drugs and how intervention and therapy aided her to get where she is today.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://therapyforwomencenter.com/
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Show Notes * Experiences working with families as a therapist. - 1:46 * Her motivations to study in the field. - 2:19 * If you’re a people pleaser, you’re probably a parent pleaser. - 4:37 * How she started experimenting. - 6:48 * Studying to be a therapist to help with her eating disorder. - 7:36 * What’s driving it? - 12:28 * How often do they disregard or not take the possibility of addiction? - 16:01 * Her parents were aware of the alcohol and drug problems and what they did in response. - 20:56 * What’s behind their disbelief? - 22:39 * Years it took her to figure everything out. - 29:44 * What happened next after failing the 30-day challenge? - 35:07 * Approach if addiction is present with something else. - 37:44 * How she lovingly explains to clients that they need to own their own shit. - 40:28 * Where is the guilt coming from? - 45:07 * The beauty of having an intervention. - 54:44

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Many people don’t really understand why other people become addicted to alcohol, substances, or drugs. But if a loved one is suffering from it, what’s the best thing to do in this situation?

Christopher and Danny talk about the very definition of addiction and how addiction can cause a rift in relationships. They share how as a family member, you can give the help that they desperately need. They also reiterate the importance of utilizing a family: Not only seeking the help of a professional but having a conversation with your loved one matters.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes * Using a tool when it comes to explaining to immediate families as if you’re dealing with three different people and that you’re talking to a person dealing with addiction. - 0:44 * The three ways to look at it. - 1:22 * Story of the person who got drunk for the first time. - 4:23 * The key metaphor that is helpful for people in recovery. - 7:48 * The power of choice. - 12:11 * For us, a lot of freedom is gonna come when we finally come to grips with this. When we finally understand it. - 14:54 * The very definition of addiction. - 18:02 * It’s a losing battle: Even if you win the fight, you lose. - 27:52
Is the survivor remorseful? - 34:31 * How many people in recovery know that they can’t do this anymore? - 35:04 * As a family member or a loved one, should you always have a conversation with the survivor? - 39:55 * The “less is more” approach. - 44:41 * Trying to figure things out on your own is exhausting. - 48:46 * What sparked Chris’ intention to begin with the transformation and recovery. - 52:00 * Final thoughts. - 54:24

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It is difficult for a parent to know that their child is dealing with addiction. With the many misconceptions surrounding addiction that can prevent a parent from helping their child’s substance abuse, you might wonder “What can I do?”

Christopher invites Cathy Taughinbaugh to talk about the CRAFT program. She shares that as a parent, you can deal with your kids struggling with addiction through better communication by saying the words that they want to hear in order to take the right actions. According to Cathy, it’s a judgment call oftentimes for parents. Always remember: It’s different for every family, what works for others may not work for you.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Cathy Taughinbaugh
https://cathytaughinbaugh.com/

Show Notes * How Cathy became aware that there’s something going on connected to substance abuse. - 1:54 * An experience when she was surprised, but at the same time, she’s trying to minimize things trying to figure things out - 4:51 * Initiating an intuitive conversation with her daughter. - 8:08 * Next steps she made after the conversation. - 10:32 * What drew her to become a certified parent coach? - 13:04 * What parents are missing. - 19:44 * The conversation and communication pieces are big. - 22:07 * Mom’s role with a child dealing with addiction. - 26:40 * How did she come to an understanding of drinking responsibly? - 27:50 * Tactics she’s practicing and teaching others when it comes to the communication piece for better communication. - 32:35 * Part of the program where parents are struggling with the most. - 35:59 * Can the program address get better at being able to take those actions? - 41:09 * Where to contact Cathy and how to get free resources - 52:27

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As a family member, what can you do to help someone go through the road of recovery?

Christopher and Danny discuss the different approaches that family members can do to help push a loved one to the road of recovery. They also shared the different enemies that most people trying to stay sober face. According to Christopher and Danny, as a family member and loved one: You can change aspects of this that can make monumental changes for the future.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Bridge of Spies
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Show Notes * How Christopher acted when he was still not sober. - 2:06 * Danny’s biggest enemy during recovery. - 5:58 * Recovery involves patience and tolerance. - 7:58 * Life-changing moment: The Bridge of Spy reference. - 8:56 * For family members, the initial thing that needs to happen is to get to a place where I can accept the things that I can’t change. - 13:16 * You can develop courage so that you can take action on the things that you can change. The things that you can influence. - 18:48 * You can be done and not try to fix it and not try to control it and also find the courage to change the things that you can in this situation. - 24:11 * The soft intervention or slow play. - 32:52 * As a loved one, what’s the best approach? - 37:17 * A person’s recovery from addiction begins when someone close to them says, “That’s it, I’m done. I have had enough. You have to do something about this or else..” - 44:16

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If a person is struggling with alcohol or drug addiction, every member of the family is affected. But as a loved one, how can you help them recover?

Christopher welcomes Darren Prince to know more about his story. In this emotional yet inspirational talk with Darren, he shares his journey from struggling and succumbing to addiction to helping and guiding others by burying the hatchet and getting through addiction.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://aiminghighfoundation.org/
https://www.instagram.com/agent_dp/

Show Notes * Who is Darren Prince? - 0:31 * The motivation for writing Aiming High. - 1:19 * Reasons why he succumbed to addiction. 5:40 * Did he get support from other people? - 12:47 * The realization: Admitting that there’s a problem. - 16:45 * Did he find himself calling an interventionist or having to be involved in an intervention? - 19:18 * Starting with the Aiming High Foundation. - 33:45 * In the moment of argument, it’s better to feel alright and right. That’s where the strength comes from. - 36:55 * How long did it take Darren to get out of the fog of his old mindset? - 37:34 * Tangible difference between the success of business back then to his business now that he’s sober. - 39:15 * In the past, does Darren think it will be possible for his family or someone around him to say something or do something that might have gotten through to him and help him? - 44:01

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Is helping your loved one struggling with addiction financially a good step to make? You might think you are, but you’re not. You may be acting as an enabler.

Being an enabler surrounds the talk between Christopher and Danny. They shared different scenarios as to how family members can act as enablers in the life of a person with active addiction. They also talked about the role of a family in helping a person struggling with addiction to seek treatment and retaliation.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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ADHD 2.0 by Edward M. Hallowell and John J. Ratey
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Show Notes * Why is it called “Stop Dreaming”? - 1:39 * Hope is not a game plan. - 4:33 * For family members, there is a solution beyond talking and venting about the addiction war stories. - 9:40 * If the willingness is present, we can send the person in recovery to talk with a person who’s struggling, and that works wonderfully. However, if the person is unwilling, which is 90% of the time, then you need to have the family on board. -14:32 * Story of enabling as a descriptor and not as a villainous term. - 19:06 * Parents subsidize their addicted child, in different ways, shapes, and forms. - 29:25 * Inability to go to treatments because of jobs. - 32:19 * People with addictions are thinking about wanting to stop all the time. - 38:24 * How do you get your loved ones to go from where they are now to the inpatient treatment program? - 46:33 * Properly place the blame on the addiction and not on your addicted loved one. - 56:24 * There are going to be things that you can do in order to help move your loved one in the direction of getting help. - 1:07:20 * For people who are feeling as though there’s nothing you can do because you’re always told that there’s nothing you can do, that is wrong. There is something you can do. It just takes a bit of professional guidance. - 1:08:11

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ADHD 2.0: New Science and Essential Strategies for Thriving with Distraction--from Childhood through Adulthood

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Is there hope for a person dealing with addiction? Yes, there’s hope for a person struggling and dealing with substance, drugs, or alcohol abuse: And it starts with themselves and their families.

Chris welcomes Heidi Le to answer the important question: How can you start healing from addiction? Heidi discusses how music helped her escape the problems starting at her home and how addiction affected not only her father but also the whole family. She also shares different stories that she experienced as a family member of someone dealing with addiction and their journey of healing and recovery.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Codependent No More
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https://heidilemusic.com/
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Show Notes * Who is Heidi Le? - 0:31 * How long has Heidi been a rock chick? - 1:42 * Music was an escape for me. - 11:19 * The turmoil at home. - 12:53 * Shifting from pain. - 21:50 * Codependency is linked to addiction. - 28:35 * Respecting other people’s journey: It steals people’s dignity to be telling them what they need to do. - 35:48 * The difference between relapsing pre-recovery and the last relapse. - 37:14 * Recovery begins with you: The recovery that you’ll have is the very best shot that your loved one is going to have at re-engaging with recovery or getting started in recovery. - 40:07 * The two intervention types of conversations Heidi tried with her father. - 50:36 * Tools that helped with the journey of recovery. - 55:28 * Keep in mind: What are the things that are of value to your family member, not just you. - 58:54 * Where can people connect with Heidi? - 1:05:58 * The greatest thing that happened to Heidi, being in recovery today. - 1:07:24 * Thoughts and prayers for Heidi, her father, and her family. - 1:09:48

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Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

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90% of people who struggle with an addiction never get help for it. As a family member, what can you do to help?

Believe it or not, the change starts with the members of the family. As a family member, you have more power, more leverage, more influence over your loved one than anyone. In this episode, Chris and Danny share the difference between an Intervention and a 12th Step Call and the best option that can work for a person who’s fighting addiction.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes * Getting sober versus staying sober. - 2:58 * As a family member, you have more power, more leverage, more influence over your loved one than anyone. - 7:16 * They can’t stop on their own. They are getting stopped all the time. Staying stopped in order to stay sober rarely happens. - 8:57 * When’s the best time to get the intervention? - 11:01 * He doesn’t listen to me. - 15:15 * Admitting you have a problem is the first step. - 19:31 * Does the enhanced interrogation technique work? - 25:27 * What’s the difference between the 12 steps and an intervention? - 27:49 * The 12th Step Call. - 28:31 * People with addictions don’t believe they have a problem. * People with addictions do not perceive the need for help. - 35:49 * How long is the process? - 41:25 * In order for something to click, there are a lot of connective tissues to be sober and stay sober. There’s a plan that should be put in place. - 49:32 * In order for them to be internally motivated, it should start from external motivation. - 53:58

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Can a repeat alcoholic or alcohol abuser change? What are the reasons why a person turns to alcohol to solve his or her problems? These are some of the questions that Chris and Gillian answered. Gillian, the brain behind the Sober Powered Podcast, shares her journey from being a repeat alcoholic hating herself and thinking of herself as a loser to helping people get over alcoholism. She talks about how people around her changed her perception about dealing with her problems and how you can also take the journey of healing and recovering.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Gillian Tietz
https://www.soberpowered.com/
https://www.instagram.com/sober.powered/?hl=en
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeSyBTEFmsP49h2q_mxqMOw

Show Notes * Who is Gillian Tietz? - 0:33 * What fascinated Gill as a biochemist to get into neuroplasticity, effects of alcohol in the brain, etc? - 1:20 * Supporting the brain concept: As soon as we start, we can’t stop. - 5:26 * Different experiences in life affect alcoholism and alcohol dependence. - 5:55 * When I first quit, I hated myself so much. - 11:04 * 20% of drinkers are high functioning. - 13:45 * Effects of abusing alcohol results in Wernicke-Korsakoff syndrome. - 17:55 * We drink because we’re getting something from it. * Something good is occurring from drinking that makes us want to keep on drinking. - 21:38 * Gill’s second-worst night drinking. - 23:54 * How much in her moderation attempts are wrapped up in “I need to stop entirely” but start drinking again? - 29:53 * Enough is enough: How the change started? Who are the people who helped her? - 36:23 * It took six months of sobriety and repairing my life to finally like myself. - 43:17 * Key things that got Gill into transformation. - 48:57

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Chris and Danny talk about how intervention has an important role. Intervention is the initial recovery spark. Be sure to listen to this episode and understand why people in addiction recovery get their story wrong.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://whyintervention.com/
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https://youtu.be/oJ-y5QSpgTo

Show Notes

The right way to go to a first recovery meeting - 5:51
Understanding that you need help - 11:39
When do you come out of treatment? - 16:51
Taking ownership of the recovery - 17:24
The whole definition of addiction - 32:05
How to get your loved one sober - 38:38
Treatment programs - 40:36
The best way to get started - 41:53
Are you struggling with addiction? - 42:51
Choosing to stop all the time - 54:46
Getting sober vs. staying sober - 56:12
A sort of intervention from a family member - 58:40

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What’s a family’s role to a loved one who’s dealing with addiction? Chris and Lisa discussed the family’s involvement in healing from addiction. Making the phone call can make a big, significant change, especially since 90% of people with addiction don’t get help for it as it’s a general thinking for others to help them once that person hits rock bottom. They also discussed the misconceptions about addiction, treatments, and going to rehabs. There’s always an intervention: love as the first method is a much better route than the threat of jail time.

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Connect with Lisa Badgley
https://www.lisabadgley.com/

Show Notes * Introducing Lisa Badgley. - 0:37 * Looking back: How Lisa started in the treatment field - 1:49 * The key benefits of having an interventionist. - 4:35 * Intervention is so important because you’re involving the family as the greatest support throughout the process, helping a person who’s struggling. - 8:51 * When did Lisa first start working with families? - 11:03 * Feeling helpless and not knowing what to do. - 14:46 * When it comes to addiction, the reaction from your loved ones depends on your reaction. - 19:08 * Advice to families who are hesitant to make the first phone call. - 23:35 * The person with addiction can’t put the shovel down. - 28:49 * The minute you get some red flags and you think someone is in trouble, make that phone call. - 33:57 * What’s love’s first process? - 41:27 * If you don’t believe that there’s a way out of this, like your loved one can’t get better, then they won’t. - 55:22 * Make that phone call. Don’t wait until that person is a hundred feet down. The earlier you do it, the easier it is to get it done. - 57:44 * How can people connect with Lisa and make that phone call? - 58:28

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This is part 3 about addiction with Chris and Danny. They talked about how addicts fight the will to stay away from drugs and alcohol. Chris and Danny also discussed family members’ roles in helping someone get over their addiction and how the change doesn’t start simple: It starts within ourselves.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Alcoholics Anonymous
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Show Notes * You have to let an alcoholic keep their bottle. - 3:27 * Do you really wanna be sober right now? - 9:36 * “I am the problem. I have a million problems with myself that don’t include drugs and alcohol.” I think it’s so important for parents and family members to know that. - 11:56 * As a family member, you can begin to see how futile your efforts are to negotiate or broker a deal with someone dealing with recovering. - 17:51 * My mind wouldn’t shut off. It would just keep going while I’m thinking about the future. - 20:10 * We’re just feeling the feelings and the feelings grow in intensity and we don’t want to feel those feelings. - 22:17 * What helped Danny forget about the pain and misery that drugs caused him. - 34:39 * Influence of Alcoholics Synonymous. - 35:14 * In one-on-one combat, addicts lose to addiction. - 41:45
The problem is me. The problem is inside of me. And I have no choice in the matter. - 42:36 * In order to turn my mind off, for one minute, I’ll trade away everything. That’s how powerful drugs and alcohol did to me. - 45:22 * The baffling thing about addiction. - 47:09

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This is part 2 about addiction. Chris and Danny share 30 questions you can ask yourself to find out if your loved one has an addiction. They discuss some cases for each question and how to react to each of them.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

Each question is a brand new topic - 2:03
The creation of interventions - 2:53
The reporting of the death - 9:31
Punishment is not an effective way to handle an addiction - 12:00
Denying a drinking problem - 14:01
A red flag indicator - 33:36
Three and a half years of sobriety - 45:00
Driving drunk - 53:16
A victim type of situation - 59:20
Substance use - 1:01:44
When you know when a person needs to be intervened - 1:03:07

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Chris and Danny share 30 questions you can ask yourself to find out if your loved one has an addiction. They discuss some cases for each question and how to react to each of them.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

Is your loved one addicted or not? - 4:35
Identifying your own fear - 9:40
Do you worry about your loved one's addiction? - 14:57
Does the person refuse to talk about their drinking or drug abuse? - 16:47
A natural human tendency - 24:44
Identifying an addiction - 31:50
Have you ever been embarrassed by a person that is addicted? - 32:35
The getting help process - 38:37
Understanding and identifying addiction - 39:25
The problem is when the person cannot see that there is an addiction - 44:17
Your job as a family member - 53:06
How to help people with addictions - 53:43
Will you feel guilty? - 55:22
Experiencing anxiety and tension - 1:00:40

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Chris has a conversation with Mrs. L, in which they talk about addiction. When you love someone struggling with addiction, no one tells you that you will be straddling two worlds and no one teaches you how to do this. Listen in as they share their thoughts on this topic.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Mrs. L
https://www.instagram.com/addictionmakesthree/?hl=en

Show Notes

Her story: why she felt so isolated - 1:10
When she first noticed that her husband had a problem - 2:13
The behaviors got worse - 4:58
Somebody that does not care about their well being - 13:45
Needing help for herself - 15:03
Recovery is a process, it’s one day at a time - 16:06
Losing self-love - 22:55
The struggle with substances - 26:26
It’s powerful to share these type of stories - 41:32
Love and compassion - 51:07
Recognizing that there was a problem - 57:06
The last thing that anybody wants to consider - 58:19
Prioritizing your well-being - 1:01:58

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Are you wondering why tough love has failed to work for you in the past? Chris and Danny discuss misconceptions about tough love, redefine tough love and intervention, and they reveal why tough love hasn't worked in the past.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

Skeptical feelings around the idea of interventions - 1:36
Having a punitive feel - 5:00
Intervention needs tough love - 5:28
It’s never a good time to go to treatment - 8:34
The kind of things that families experience - 17:59
A third party is necessary in this situation - 21:24
Tolerating the intolerable - 25:05
Shifting the dynamics of a relationship - 39:45
Why intervention works - 58:50
A willingness to escape from fear - 1:02:00
Intervention is looked at as drama - 1:04:00
Recovery needs to start with family - 1:06:00

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Christopher talks with Ken Seely, who has remained professionally and personally involved in recovery since his sobriety date of July 14, 1989. He applies his relevant experience and boundless enthusiasm to change the lives of people suffering from the disease of addiction – for individuals, their family, and their friends. Ken works with clients to realign family systems to support recovery through his work as the founder of Intervention 911 and Ken Seeley Rehab. Ken has been featured on the Emmy Award-Winning, A&E television series Intervention since 2005.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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http://kenseeleycommunities.com/
https://intervention911.com/
https://www.kenseeleyrehab.com/
Ken Seeley kseeley@intervention911.com
drew@kcsfamily.com

Show Notes * Helping people get into recovery - 3:02 * Intervention is for the family - 4:55 * Doing an intervention - 6:55 * What intervention is - 10:26 * Every interventionist needs to understand case management - 19:37 * Why people do not go to treatment - 21:09 * Five important things in life - 26:04 * The nature of addiction - 44:12 * Nobody goes into treatment on their own - 58:21 * It’s really important to pick the right treatment center - 1:00:33

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Christopher and Danny talk about what we can do to support our loved ones when they’re in treatment. What’s next? Check it out in this episode!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

The experience of being in treatment - 2:55
When someone is going to treatment - 4:30
What treatment needs to look like - 9:28
What do we need to be prepared for - 10:24
Sending someone to treatment - 12:53
What actions to take - 25:16
Changes taking place everywhere - 26:25
One of the benefits of having an interventionist - 37:47
The emotional regulation takes time - 42:42
Being concerned for your loved one - 53:55
Things to avoid coming out of treatment - 59:44
The gradual process of recovery - 1:06:00

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Christopher talks with Eric Paskin, Founder and Managing Partner of Restore Health and Wellness, which is one of the premier addiction rehabilitation facilities located in Los Angeles, California. It delivers residential therapeutic services, in an alcohol and drug-free environment, to adult men and women, ages 18 and older.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Eric Paskin
https://www.restorecenterla.com/

Show Notes

It’s always a good time to have a child - 3:10
Focus on work - 6:10
Being homeless - 7:00
The business of addiction treatment - 11:15
His definition of recovery - 15:30
It’s really easy when you’re in treatment - 18:10
Drugs saved his life - 37:52
What recovery is - 38:45
Intervention is a long process - 41:35
Getting sober is hard work - 43:08
One of the real gifts of recovery - 46:27
Gratitude lists - 48:05
Quality over quantity - 49:09

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Chris and Danny share a unique, detailed perspective on the various ways your loved one's addiction makes you feel guilty, why it's so important to free yourself from guilt, and how to stay off the emotional roller coaster ride for good.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

What they have seen regarding guilt - 2:11
Parents feel guilty - 5:28
What to do to not feel guilt - 7:16
Are you expecting to solve addiction? - 13:43
This is bigger than you - 20:28
Feeling guilty about mistakes made - 34:31
How powerful is a recovery story - 44:31
You need to take ownership for the mistakes that you have made - 50:16
Your loved one that struggles with addiction may be in pain - 51:08
Addiction is not your fault as a parent - 54:46

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Michael Wilson CIP, President of Baystate Recovery Services, Creator of the Family Focused Intervention Model, and Author of Loving Lions: A Guide for Families Struggling with Addiction, sits down with Chris to discuss impressive new ways to help your addicted loved one.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Michael Wilson
https://baystaterecovery.com
https://www.lovinglions.com/
mw@baystaterecovery.com

Show Notes

Having a passion to work with families - 1:42
Helping a loved one - 5:24
People do not know what they need - 6:27
An intervention as an opportunity - 7:40
Going to detox and stop using drugs - 15:41
Offering an opportunity for hope - 22:45
Working with your loved one for 90 days - 26:56
Focusing on the addicted loved one - 30:27
Modifying the intervention process - 36:17
Working in a business where not everybody survives - 49:21
Having access to people that can help your loved one - 57:00

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How, when, and why your loved one became addicted… this is the topic that Chris and Danny will talk about today. They share their perspective on this important topic.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes * Discovering your life's purpose - 3:25 * Getting ready to go out - 7:01 * People that end with an addiction - 11:02 * How, when and why - 15:16 * What you’re going to hear in the first three meetings - 20:18 * Handling a difficult situation - 24:07 * Miraculous transformations that take place - 25:22 * Having different types of conversations - 27:34 * Chris and Danny giving their experience - 31:24 * How people with addictions become addicts - 36:02 * His solution for every single problem in his life - 41:15 * What enables alcohol and drugs - 44:32 * Families that blame themselves - 49:19 * Who do we need to call for help - 58:02

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Angela shares her experience with helping families and her personal story of recovery from alcoholism.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Angela Pugh
https://www.angelapugh.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/angela-pugh/
https://www.angelapugh.com/instagram.com/angela_pugh_

Show Notes

How she describes alcoholism - 1:02
Not being stronger than the alcoholism - 1:49
When an intervention is appropriate - 5:49
Intervention is strategy - 6:31
Intervention means “step in” - 8:20
Get somebody involved in a treatment process - 9:36
A chronic alcoholic - 15:27
Not having issues before - 17.28
What made her stop after the accident - 17:50
Going home after the accident - 25:04
“Drinking one last time” - 27:17
The first meeting she went through - 31:04
Hating the person she had become - 40:45
Her intervention business - 52:02
Where’s the challenge? - 56:31

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Chris and Danny discuss the one problem families need to solve- the real problem of "I don't have a problem."

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://twitter.com/whyintervention
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https://www.samhsa.gov/data/report/2019-nsduh-annual-national-report

Show Notes

Convincing yourself that you do not have a problem - 2:15
Not believing that you have a problem - 5:33
The U.S. drug policy - 9:18
The big statistic families need to know - 14:13
One of three families are impacted by addiction - 17:08
Why addicts and alcoholics die - 19:12
Dealing with an addict or alcoholic - 24:09
The problem that intervention solves - 26:00
Starting to get back control - 35:07
It needs to be a “family-centered approach” - 42:21
We need a different approach - 43:39
The frustration that families feel much of the time - 53:11

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Dr. Adena is a pharmacist, researcher, and mother. She shares her professional experience as well as her personal story with helping an addicted loved one with other disorders.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Dr. Adena
dradena@dreamovement.com
https://drugfreemovement.com/
https://drugfree.org/
https://motivationandchange.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-adena-pharmacist-93136537/

Show Notes

Dr. Adena’s background - 1:13
The opioid crisis - 2:00
Opioids and heroin - 4:11
Trying methadone - 6:50
Make sure you’re taking care of yourself - 9:11
What it takes to recover from addiction - 13:56
Her piece of advice - 15:42
Feeling the unconditional love from God - 21:14
Reaching out to God - 22:19
Wanting to help your loved one - 24:07
A story about a loved one that was using drugs - 27:39
Keeping the love and having forgiveness - 29:19
Having bipolar disorder - 34:35
Her experience being a coach - 43:46
Finding one on one coaching and helpful tools - 44:01
What is our biggest fear as a family member - 46:00
Helping families feel supported - 57:09

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Chris and Danny discuss ways to overcome various forms of manipulation, where it's all stemming from, and why there's still hope for transformation and the biggest gaslight of them all.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9Qixc77KhCo88E5muxUjmA

Show Notes

What’s gaslighting? - 2:04
A narcissistic disorder - 5:10
Learning about narcissism with Dr. Ramani Youtube Channel - 10:55
A real big challenge to overcome - 12:26
A word to protect what you’re doing - 15:53
An addicted person has to lie - 17:02
This is what addiction looks like - 18:11
When it comes to addiction, transformation is possible - 36:46
How transformation is possible - 39:33
Tools of manipulation being used against you - 53:13

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Christopher interviewed Jessica Lahey. Jess shares her research and expertise in her new book helping to prevent addiction in young people. This is so needed, now more than ever. And it's everything Chris wants every family to know before a loved one's substance use gets out of control. So they might as well learn it now before they even start using substances.

Here are some of her book’s testimonials:
- “Substance abuse is a complex topic, but Lahey separates myth from reality in this deeply researched resource for parents and educators. As a therapist, I know I will be recommending her book to many families for years to come.” -- Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk To Someone

“The Addiction Inoculation is a vital look into best practices parenting. Writing as a teacher, a mother, and, as it happens, a recovering alcoholic, Lahey's stance is so compassionate, her advice so smart, any and all parents will benefit from her hard-won wisdom.” -- Peggy Orenstein, author of Girls & Sex and Boys & Sex
“Hard and tremendously important conversations are at the core of The Addiction Inoculation. But thanks to Jessica Lahey’s wit, compassion, and beautiful writing, reading it feels like having those conversations with your most entertaining friend who also happens to be an expert in substance abuse research, education, and child development.” -- David Epstein, author of Range and The Sports Gene

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Jessica Lahey
https://www.jessicalahey.com/

Show Notes

Why Chris started the Why Intervention Podcast - 1:44
About substance abuse - 2:52
Places to send kids - 4:10
The stories people often share - 8:02
Recovery for young adults is so difficult - 8:45
Being loved - 11:51
Getting into recovery - 13:45
Look at the stories behind the research - 14:57
Not understanding the consequences of the actions - 23:04
Friends supporting you in sobriety - 27:08
Moderate drinking - 30:05
The book under the hands of parents - 31:00
Substance abuse prevention programs in schools - 34:27
We have to help kids find the answers themselves - 39:32
The prescription of opioids - 46:16
What an alcoholic looks like - 52:23
Maintaining denial - 56:09

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Chris and Danny share the stories of how their mothers were instrumental in getting them sober. You can apply these same ideas to help your loved one. Thank you to all mothers that are always there for us, Happy Mothers Day!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

The power of Mothers - 2:20
Circumstances are context-specific - 6:56
Mothers playing an integral role - 7:18
Having a lot of things to feed the addiction - 8:11
Moving your loved one in a direction of getting help - 9:43
It’s difficult to deal with people with an active addiction - 13:03
How Christopher’s mom helped him with his addiction - 17:13
An intervention is a solution for a person in active addiction - 20:01
Having intervention conversations with people - 22:35
Interviewing in a drug problem - 29:14
Setting the baseline - 34:41
Why treatment is necessary - 38:12
An unwinnable battle - 45:17
Keeping ourselves calm - 49:00
What makes intervention so special - 50:40
Another giant misconception - 57:48
Giving support and mindfulness - 1:03:09
Raising awareness about the intervention process - 1:07:38
Happy Mothers Day! - 1:09:00

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Chris talks with Archie Messersmith-Bunting. Their conversation is focused on the struggles families go through while attempting to help addicted loved ones. Also, in this episode, Archie has an intervention epiphany.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Archie Messersmith-Bunting
https://archiecares.com/

Show Notes

The saver-role - 2:56
Challenging the current paradigm - 5:17
A misunderstanding about addiction - 5:54
Taking care of ourselves - 8:14
His second rehab - 8:58
People in recovery and the first time they went to a meeting - 15:37
Chris’ first day in recovery - 18:35
Deciding to get help - 19:18
Meetings at the churches - 20:48
Excuses that we came up with - 29:30
The reason why he overdosed - 31:29
Mental illness and addiction - 43:28
Words that are uncomfortable to say to someone - 46:43
Denial is part of the process - 48:22
The difference with a person with addiction - 49:10
What’s the scary part? - 49:54

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Chris and Danny discuss misconceptions and new perspectives about hitting the bottom.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

The idea around hitting bottom - 1:19
What happens when someone hits bottom - 2:11
When they experience severe consequences, it’s when they realize they need help - 4:05
Taking care of the problem - 12:30
Being in the mindset of an intervention - 14:42
What an intervention does - 19:29
Consequences will continue - 24:44
Breaking through the denial - 35:45
Trying to be helpful - 50:41
There’s plenty that we can do - 52:03
What addiction is - 52:56

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Leah Lamarr is an actress, writer, and stand-up comedian, currently based in Los Angeles. She shares how her al-anon experience transformed her life. Leah describes so many of the personal behaviors and difficult emotions families with addicted loved ones struggle with and how she mastered them.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Leah Lamarr
http://www.leahlamarr.com/
https://al-anon.org/
https://www.instagram.com/leahlamarr/?hl=en
ibookleah@gmail.com

Show Notes

Growing up in Queens - 1:15
Joining the stand-up community - 4:05
How she wanted to be perceived - 5:50
Having friends that wanted to get better - 9:45
Alcoholism is a family disease - 12:07
Resistant to therapy - 14:35
Her greatest strength - 18:41
Learning how to love - 23:32
A very intense spiritual program - 27:23
Freedom is priceless - 31:08
Getting help sooner - 36:57
Her relationship with her parents and how it had changed over the years - 39:57
Healing the hurt - 43:54

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Chris and Danny discuss what denial is more like when it comes to addiction (delusion), what prevents you from admitting that your loved one has a problem and why it's so important to be honest.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/aces/index.html
Show Notes
Experience with denial - 1:24
Being in detox is a unique experience - 4:11
The consequences of drug use - 11:03
Trying to self-detox - 11:45
Their experience with denial - 13:14
Denial is very simple: lie to me - 14:16
What’s going on in active addiction - 16:11
What happens if you’re not identifying addition - 16:42
Someone has to admit that there is an addiction problem - 17:55
Having a substance abuse problem - 25:35
Their first time in detox - 28:36
Realizing the severity of the issue - 35:21
Denial and delusion - 37:36
The delusion with the truth - 38:56
We’re here to help you with your addiction - 40:13
Misconceptions that addiction brings - 45:32
The answer is intervention - 48:32
Understanding addiction - 49:32

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Scott shares his recovery journey, his addiction struggles, and his movement with The Phoenix. If you’re in recovery from substance use disorder and have the desire to live sober, The Phoenix will help you find strength and a new community of friends to support your journey.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Scott Strode
scott@thephoenix.org
kwaters@thephoenix.org
https://thephoenix.org/
Show Notes
A day in Scott’s life - 1:19
The impact he is making - 3:08
A big moment for Scott - 6:10
How The Phoenix got started - 6:46
Recovery is possible - 7:28
What the intervention process is all about - 7:58
When he first started to drink - 11:09
Identifying who is who - 15:22
Normalizing the abnormal circumstances - 17:37
Feeling emotions entirely - 19:46
Own version of denial - 22:15
Having innovative approaches - 25:15
Transforming people’s understanding - 27:24
Being a recovery community - 28:38
Staying sober - 34:19
There’s more than drinking and using - 36:11
Keep trying different things - 39:21
Feeling a kind of fulfillment - 40:22
Moving your body resets the brain chemistry - 42:23
The science behind you - 44:12
Continuing to fight - 46:07
Having virtual programs - 50:54
What’s important on the recovery journey - 53:52

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Do you want to know why recovery is so hard? Chris and Danny talk about recovery challenges from treatment to long-term sobriety.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
https://lovefirst.net/

Show Notes

Mental health challenges with the pandemic - 1:49
Everyone is exhausted - 5:01
A very difficult year due to covid and substance abuse - 6:27
Many people looking for help - 8:47
Why is recovery so hard? - 9:38
The place matters - 11:04
Having expectations when it comes to recovery - 12:36
The environmental shift - 18:28
A long-term commitment - 22:42
Establishing new rules - 24:53
A losing game - 26:59
Staying away long-term - 32:06
Detoxing a person - 32:46
Alcohol and drugs work faster than recovery - 34:50
Recovery - 36:12
Recovery needs to be a priority - 37:04
How to react and how to behave - 38:00
This is just the beginning - 38:43
Why intervention exists - 40:43
You have to realize the severity of the problem - 47:55
The sooner you take action, the better - 49:58
There’s no better source than the family - 54:16

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Chris and Tim discuss his story and talk shop around intervention cases, particularly young people with addictions.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
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Connect with Tim Ryan
Tim@DopeToHope.com
https://dopetohope.com/

Show Notes * We have to do something for our addicted loved one - 1:52 * Recovery is awesome - 2:38 * Persons that do not want to go to treatment - 3:34 * Being a tornado of destruction - 4:11 * The first time he tried cocaine - 5:10 * Calling the rehab - 5:56 * Being 14 months sober - 10:36 * Having 8 overdoses - 11:21 * Having a drug problem - 12:57 * Getting divorced when he was in prison - 18:57 * His son’s death - 22:52 * The system of recovery - 24:44 * Changing people’s places and things - 27:18 * A driver’s license is a privilege - 29:07 * People don’t care about you in this game - 31:32 * What’s the deal with the intervention process - 34:51 * Doing an intervention - 36:15 * Where do you want to go with your loved one - 38:27 * He does interventions with his wife - 40:09 * The challenges now during the pandemic - 47:57

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Danny and Christopher answer the above question for families who have a loved one newly in recovery, and cover it from different angles, adding other scenarios. They discuss what's behind the desire to have a couple of drinks at all. How to handle the worry and concern of this question being raised.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
https://palgroup.org/
https://www.familiesanonymous.org/
https://al-anon.org/

Show Notes

A question that families often ask - 1:50
Understanding the addiction - 4:16
Keeping you sober - 6:31
Wanting to get help - 9:11
What happens at St. Patrick’s Day - 9:44
Drugs destruct a life much faster - 10:19
Telling somebody the truth - 11:29
The severity of addiction in general - 12:00
Alcohol use disorder - 13:53
How every story starts - 18:03
Doing something when you know that you’re now going to stop - 23:53
How we tell families “That’s a bad idea” - 25:11
Discussing it with the intervention team - 26:53
Why intervention is so important - 30:58
Going to a treatment program - 31:55
Drinking and using drugs in the past - 38:19

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Chris interviewed Dr. Joan Rosenberg, facing eight unpleasant feelings and how her work helps families with addicted loved ones. Joan I. Rosenberg, Ph.D., creator of Emotional Mastery™ and Emotional Mastery Training™, is a highly regarded expert psychologist, master clinician, trainer, and consultant. As a cutting-edge psychologist who is known as an innovative thinker, trainer, and speaker, Joan has shared her life-changing ideas and models for emotional mastery, change, and personal growth in professional and educational seminars, psychotherapy sessions, and graduate psychology teaching.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Connect with Dr. Joan Rosenberg
jrsocmedia@gmail.com
https://drjoanrosenberg.com/
Show Notes
Being glad to serve and help people - 2:03
How she would describe her work - 2:48
The unpleasant feelings - 3:46
Being shy as a kid - 5:42
Dealing with unpleasant feelings - 8:09
Being aware - 10:15
The eight unpleasant feelings - 17:18
One of the biggest challenges of people with addiction - 21:17
Having unpleasant feelings that you do not want to feel - 23:44
Helping your loved one - 27:30
Taking action - how “doing” can make a difference - 29:17
The benefits of speaking up - 34:32
Maintaining a level of awareness - 40:19
Facing shame - 50:40
Talking about self-compassion - 52:01
Get in touch with Dr. Joan Rosenberg - 56:38

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Chris and Danny discuss the intervention process, the successful intervention of cousin George and what Chris's intentions were for the Why Intervention podcast, and what they will focus on moving forward.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode
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https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs

Show Notes

A new format for the podcast - 1:41
Working with families that are struggling with addiction - 2:17
Following a nice introduction - 2:59
Chris’s intention with this podcast - 7:31
Having trained in interventions - 11:51
Starting the Why Intervention Podcast - 13:49
Learning the skills of interventions - 14:36
The reason for the podcast - 16:14
What’s going on in your loved one’s mind - 30:59
The sooner you start, the better results of recovery you’ll have - 32:13
We need more people providing interventions - 43:50
What we will share in the next episodes - 50:53
Recovery is possible for everyone, you just need help - 52:00

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Chris and Earl discuss the intervention process, the importance of family, and the pre-intervention work. For over 35 years, Earl Hightower has worked on the front lines of addiction and recovery.

The unique perspective that only behavioral health intervention work can offer caused Earl to recognize that the greatest gap in addiction services is during the first 60 days following residential treatment. In other words, people are not making it across The Bridge From Treatment To Recovery©. They are relapsing, post-treatment before they have had a chance to firmly connect themselves to their recovery communities. As a result, Earl’s focus for Hightower Associates’ family of companies has been to develop systems and strategies that support our clients in their goal of achieving a lasting connection to recovery.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
Connect with Earl Hightower
https://hightowerassociates.com/

Show Notes

What intervention is - 1:09
The pre-intervention part - 4:39
What alcoholism does to individuals - 8:16
Stop having a rational conversation with an irrational person - 9:12
Doing interventions for many years - 14:27
The second phase of an intervention - 23:21
One of the most misunderstood things on the planet - 40:03
Every family is a new puzzle - 43:43
Asking the right questions at the right time - 44:30
Offering the patient the opportunity to talk about something else - 48:46
Saying no - 54:50
Doing interventions over Zoom - 1:02:58

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Christopher and Anna talk about addiction and recovery: some general misconceptions about what works and what doesn't, and how to share your message to be of service to others. Anna David is a NY Times bestselling author of 8 books, TEDx speaker, journalist, and podcaster.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Anna David
- anna@annadavid.com
- https://geniusrecovery.org/
- https://annadavid.com/
- https://www.launchpadpub.com/make-your-mess-your-memoir-1
- https://www.instagram.com/annabdavid/
- https://twitter.com/annabdavid

Show Notes

Telling her story - 2:26
Being out of options - 6:48
A journey and description of a recovery - 7:14
Recovering for the first time - 11:13
Calling her mom to ask for help - 14:19
Active addiction is a difficult thing to deal with - 21:15
Talking about her company - 23:38
The addiction diaries - 24:44
The first time she got drunk - 27:19
Getting sober vs. staying sober - 33:30
Talking about her books - 42:52
Get in touch with Anna - 44:09

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George is celebrating a one-year sober following a family intervention. He shares his story with openness and vulnerability to encourage families that intervention works.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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- Connect with George
- gdelgrosso711@gmail.com

Show Notes

When George realized that “t was time” - 1:08
What happened the first weeks of the intervention - 2:45
When he first started to use substances - 5:56
Identifying who he was - 7:14
Having an addict personality from a young age - 9:05
Starting to do well - 14:33
George’s definition for co-dependence - 16:25
What’s codependency - 16:55
What did drugs to him - 10.39
Losing his apartment - 22:48
The level of his addiction - 23:29
Mothers taking responsibility for an addiction - 26:25
Going into treatment - 27:43
Being so “weak” - 28:40
Trying to kill himself - 31:20
Just wanting to go home - 32:13
Being sick and tired or not - 34:04
What does an Intervention - 40:52
Having the support of his family - 46:09

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Jake Cortez shares his story about being in and out of prison with some striking depictions. He gives back to the prison community now, inspiring young men that there is hope for change. Also, Jake Cortez’s first business was the marketing and sales arm of a national relocation company and he has extensive knowledge of sales, guiding the experiential flow of the client, and marketing.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Jake Cortez
- thejakecortez@gmail.com
- https://www.poweredbygrants.org/programs1590031153611
- https://www.mindhackhabits.com/home1588372491116
- https://savagepipeline.com/

Show Notes

Providing salvation and redemption - 1:06
How things are going in Jack’s life today - 1:40
Thinking outside the box - 2:55
Jack’s mindset when he was younger - 5:32
The darker side of things - 9:37
The first time that he committed a crime - 11:49
Jack’s childhood - 18:24
Trying to solve the problem - 25:30
Going back to prison - 33:08
The process of recovery - 35:11
Facing the consequences of his acts - 44:19
Through pain comes knowledge - 46:50
The challenge of many peoples’ lives - 51:36
When he realized that something changed - 52:29
Creating a vision for his future - 53:53
The battle that he chooses to fight - 57:51
Everybody has the chance to have a transformation - 1:00:04
Transformation is possible! - 1:01:10

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Christopher Doyle and Dr. Benjamin Hardy talk about Ben's new book and the role of future self, future goals, and empathetic witnesses in the change process. Hardy is an organizational psychologist and bestselling author of Willpower Doesn’t Work. His blogs have been read by over 100 million people and are featured on Forbes, Fortune, CNBC, and many others.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

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https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Dr. Benjamin Hardy
- https://benjaminhardy.com/
- schedule@benjaminhardy.com

Show Notes

The addictive personality - 1:34
Your personality is your comfort zone - 2:03
Being stuck in active addiction - 4:25
Having a different perspective - 7:03
The perspective shift of his father - 7:47
Understanding their decision-making process - 9:27
Growing up in an alcoholic home - 10:21
Understanding the term “identity” - 12:07
It is important to have empathetic witnesses - 13:41
Helping an addictive loved one - 15:53
Having hope and a sense of meaning - 21:11
Faith as a superpower - 21:56
The process of intervention - 23:33
Labeling yourself - 28:43
Your description matters - 29:31
Progressing in life - 32:57
Addiction treatments - 34:33
Recovery principles - 38:46

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Rod tells his personal story of addiction, recovery through intervention, and treatment. Also, he shares his experience of becoming an Interventionist.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Rod Espudo + rmespudo@aol.com + https://www.linkedin.com/in/rod-espudo-20653a82

Show Notes * A recovery and intervention story - 0:23 * Rod’s background and story - 1:22 * Looking at him as an alien - 3:50 * When he realized that it was a problem - 5:20 * A family intervention - 8:23 * His family and the addiction process - 11:39 * Not wanting to hurt anybody - 13:19 * His relationship with his mom - 14:25 * Starting to drink again - 16:06 * Talking about the intervention - 17:55 * How his mom helped him - 19:18 * Rod’s version of reality - 23:13 * His intervention process - 27:12 * Rod’s nightmare - 29:42 * The intervention that he went through - 32:18 * Getting people into help - 33:47 * The interventions that he has done as an interventionist - 37:18 * Scaling the process of interventions - 41:25 * Families that struggle with addicts - 41:39 * Making a difference - 43:23

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Ryan Hampton shares his experience with his mother's love, compassion, and continued support through 10 years of opioid use. She knew he had an illness. While there were many ups and downs throughout the recovery journey, Ryan is convinced he would not have made it without his mom. Stay tuned and enjoy this episode!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Ryan Hampton + https://ryanhampton.org/ + https://actionnetwork.org/

Show Notes * Ryan's background - 0:14 * His story and his mom's help - 1:02 * The only person that believed in him - 1:30 * His opioid addiction - 2:43 * Ryan's childhood - 6:00 * All things that were going on with Ryan - 6:55 * A situation that created friction in his family - 8:00 * When the addiction started - 8:54 * Experiencing hard times in his life - 13:15 * His mom as a friend and partner during his fight against opioid addiction - 14:25 * Recovery is possible - 15:38 * His recovery program - 18:43 * Making an important decision - 19:17 * The source of so much frustration - 20:09 * The behavior change - 21:29 * Your mindset has to be different - 24:20 * Having a purpose to live - 26:36 * Finding sustainable wellness - 28:46 * The importance of the Intervention Process - 31:20 * Choosing the right interventionist - 32:30 * Establishing a connection - 36:00

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Christopher Doyle interviews a friend, Scott Phelan. He is currently recovering from coronavirus and is also in recovery from addiction. He shares his story with us.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Scott Phelan + scottnoconditions@yahoo.com + https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1179673515

Show Notes * A long addiction recovery history - 0:53 * Coronavirus is not a joke - 1:19 * Being overwhelmed with the pandemic - 3:33 * Scott’s experience with the coronavirus disease - 4:13 * Is the coronavirus a flu? - 6:36 * Afraid when you cannot breathe - 7:37 * What are the symptoms? - 9:12 * Pneumonia or coronavirus? - 11:28 * The first time he got help for his addictions - 15:20 * The process of recovery - 27:06 * How to support recovery - 33:24 * The role of the family in a recovery process - 34:27 * The effects of active addiction - 37:42 * Sobriety and stopping the addiction - 38:08

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Michael Collins has been completely sugar-free for over 30 years. He is Chairman of the Board of a Food Addiction Institute, which helps raise awareness about processed food and sugar worldwide and is the founder of https://sugaraddiction.com/, which has been helping thousands successfully quit sugar for over nine years. Mike and Christopher discuss the parallels between sugar addiction and other substance addictions. Enjoy!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Michael Collins + https://sugaraddiction.com/

Show Notes * Diving into recovery from addiction - 0:28 * Michael's story - 1:29 * Sugar as a drug - 1:47 * The definition of addiction - 2:26 * Being sober at 28 - 3:23 * Going back to sugar - 3:36 * What happens to your brain and body when you consume sugar - 5:43 * When the brain stops producing dopamine - 7:29 * Getting into other substances - 8:10 * Alcohol is sugar - 8:40 * Your brain tells you: "I need sugar" - 9:30 * Dealing with the effects of alcohol or drugs - 11:18 * The consequences of sugar addiction - 13:02 * What happens in sugar recovery - 14:26 * The recovery program needs support - 17:48 * Feeling anxious in social situations - 21:05 * You need glucose to live - 21:23 * Playing with your brain - 23:18 * Fructose and glucose - 24:39 * How Michael's life was a mess - 26:40 * When he got sober - 27:00 * The explosion of Alcoholics Anonymous - 27:42 * Children that cry for cookies - 31:15 * How Michael gets happy today - 33:30 * Getting in touch with Michael Collins - 38:03

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Bob Marier is an interventionist and coach, and CEO and founder of Hired Sobriety. Hired Sobriety’s mission is to provide people with the support, knowledge, and discipline required to achieve long term sobriety and lead healthier and happier lives. Enjoy this interview!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Bob Marier + http://www.hiredsobriety.com/ + https://www.instagram.com/hiredsobriety/?hl=es-la + info@hiredsobriety.com + https://www.instagram.com/sober_coach/?hl=es-la

Show Notes * Hired Sobriety services - 0:38 * Helping families with the intervention process - 1:31 * The best time to ask for help - 3:04 * The process of taking an intervention - 4:03 * Families concerns - 5:45 * Hired Sobriety’s job - 6:15 * How Bob helps families understand the intervention process - 9:11 * The lack of understanding when it comes to addiction - 9:38 * Why Hired Sobriety May be the best option for treatment - 11:14 * Chris’s experience with sobriety and recovery - 14:10 * The most important thing that you can do - 16:25 * Bob’s experience with the intervention process - 17:05 * Bob’s detox process - 18:12 * Sobriety’s experience - 21:48 * Being sober for years - 29:52 * Everyone can be an interventionist - 37:51 * Helping people with interventions during his life - 41:23 * Qualities of a good interventionist - 43:13 * How many interventions does Bob do during a year - 45:15

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Happy Jack Yoga empowers you to be the greatest version of yourself. It is a lifestyle, a transformational process, and a revolutionary system of yoga. In today's episode, host Christopher Doyle talks with Yoga Innovator, Speaker & High-Performance Coach at Happy Jack Yoga: Jack Boken. He is one of the most inspirational and infectiously positive thought leaders who has a growing & thriving yoga community around the world.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Jack Boken + https://happyjackyoga.com/ + https://www.instagram.com/happyjackyoga/ + https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz5sXoqZ4jq8f6dHz9BNhfQ + https://ca.linkedin.com/in/happyjack

Show Notes * When it all started - 1:50 * Discovering alcohol - 2:14 * What happened after Jack got sober - 4:52 * Trying yoga for the first time - 5:12 * Facing addiction - 6:44 * What you can do if you struggle with addiction - 8:34 * Trying yoga and feeling free - 21:07 * Learning more about yoga - 21:30 * Jack's experiences - 25:19 * The best decision in his life - 26:41 * What's life right now for Jack - 30:00 * Doing yoga all over the place - 33:58 * What you could do if you or someone you know is struggling with addictions - 39:29 * Helping addicts with the intervention process - 41:30 * Many diseases are addiction-related - 42:38 * Taking action against addiction - 43:53 * An addict at a young age - 49:40

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Mary F. comes from a family of alcoholics, she also comes from a neighborhood in which drinking was seen as positive and accepted. In today's episode, Christopher will interview Mary about her life, experience, and alcoholism struggle.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs

Show Notes * A neighborhood with drinking history - 2:49 * Mary's experience with drugs and alcohol - 3:34 * Being an alcoholic - 4:21 * Her family recovery history - 5:07 * Starting to smoke at eleven years old - 7:28 * Liking the smell and taste of alcohol - 10:17 * The craving phenomena - 11:35 * When her life was chaos - 13:29 * At 16 years old, she was pregnant - 15:07 * It was all about drinking and consuming drugs - 16:25 * The best definition of addiction - 16:57 * Going to recovery meetings - 18:31 * Blocking out everything she was hearing - 19:02 * The feeling of active addiction - 19:56 * When she realized that she had to stop - 23:00 * The feeling of not knowing how to stop - 24:14 * The Irish Intervention - 29:35 * How her uncle helped her with an intervention - 34:30 * What happened when a loved one died - 41:30 * The best of being in recovery - 42:10 * Having feelings of embarrassment - 45:26 * What happens when somebody does something unintentionally - 48:09 * How her daughter started to use drugs - 48:38 * Recovery begins with you - 51:30

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Chris Schroeder is the AVP of Corporate Development at Ammon Labs. Family owned and operated, Ammon Labs has been the preferred drug testing laboratory of addiction treatment professionals and healthcare partners for over 20 years. Backed by the nation’s leading scientists, Ammon Labs is an innovator in toxicology, clinical blood and genetics testing. Specializing in personalized, targeted solutions for healthcare partners, Ammon Labs provides quality services and competitive pricing. Stay tuned and enjoy this episode!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Chris Schroeder + https://www.linkedin.com/in/chris-schroeder-0aa3016 + https://www.linkedin.com/company/ammon-labs + https://ammonlabs.com/ + https://thisismap.com/patients/map-recovery-support

Show Notes * There's a misunderstanding around addictions - 0:53 * Sharing knowledge and experience about the recovery programs - 1:40 * People that deal with alcoholism - 3:00 * One of the aspects of the illness - 4:18 * What happens to a person that is in a recovery process - 5:26 * Alcoholism and drug addiction - 6:50 * Putting yourself in a treatment center - 8:29 * Having power, choice, and control - 12:59 * An initial choice when you start drinking or consuming drugs - 13:51 * An event talking about taking a recovery - 16:45 * Knowing that alcoholism could kill him - 17:45 * It is a disease - 20:30 * An addictive illness - 20:21 * The emotional deal - 23:10 * What happens with opioids addiction - 26:02 * What recovery looks like - 27:12 * A message to families: Do not give up hope - 29:07 * Going into detox - 34:17 * The recovery process - 35:43 * The process of preparing to go to an intervention - 39:55 * What an individual needs to do for a recovery - 43:00 * We need more access to treatment - 44:11 * What treatment is for - 45:30 * The importance of having decent treatment centers - 46:30

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Christopher Doyle is joined by Jenifer MacDonald, who is an interventionist. They dive into different topics as it relates to families and what to do when it comes to dealing with addiction. She's celebrating 31 years of recovery, which is why this episode is very special for her. Enjoy her story and stay tuned until the end!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Jenifer MacDonald
- Her Phone Number: 403-710-5176

Show Notes

How she got into recovery - 1:33
Struggling with the idea of being an addict - 2:00
Feeding the addiction and not saying anything to her husband - 3:09
Pretending that all was socially acceptable - 5:35
Her first experience with alcohol - 7:26
Her need to consume - 10:21
The process of an intervention - 11:52
Having the spirit of being an interventionist - 12:30
The process of understanding as an addict - 16:34
When she knew that she could be an interventionist - 18:35
Beautiful moments that she witnessed in interventions - 21:21
Why is an intervention necessary? - 25:18
The process of the post-intervention - 29:17
Why families do not want to call for an intervention - 30:06
10% of addicts do not want to go to an intervention - 36:51
A very crucial time during the intervention - 38:18
Dealing with an addict and what you can do during the intervention - 42:30
What they ask a family member - 44:34
When the change has to happen - 48:25
Indicators for long-term recovery - 48:55

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Christopher Doyle is joined by Kevin Parker Jr., Influencer, Motivational Speaker, Life & Recovery Coach, Interventionist, Holistic Health Advocate, Drug Activist, and Inspirational Community Icon who has dedicated his life to inspiring, motivating, and adding value to everyone he encounters. His life mission is to help people unlock their strength and potential to unleash their True Warrior. Enjoy this podcast!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Kevin Parker
- https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-parker-jr-ncrc-b43b32145
- https://www.truewarriorsuccess.com/
- https://www.facebook.com/kevin.parker.1610092

Show Notes

Having struggled with addiction - 0:50
Being an addict in every sense of the word - 1:13
Starting to smoke marijuana - 1:44
Using a lot of drugs - 2:34
When he knew that it was a problem - 3:46
Attempting an intervention - 7:26
Being in an explosive situation - 11:20
Being in a vicious cycle - 13:39
The first time he realized that his actions had consequences - 16:09
Wanting to survive - 16:42
His experience during his time in the hospital - 19:06
Family fights with you against the addiction - 19:59
A recovery experience is always difficult - 21:41
The emotional pain when he came out of the coma - 23:11
How things are going now for Kevin - 25:41
Being trained as a transformational coach - 26:39
Coaching people and speaking at events - 27:25
The importance of an intervention and the family role - 28:52

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Kate Duffy, President of Tipping Point Recovery, is an inspirational facilitator and catalyst for change who has inspired growth for over twenty-five years. She became deeply passionate about changing the language of recovery after facing her own battle with substance use. Kate’s strongest skills are engaging individuals resistant to begin recovery, and in educating families to understand recovery language to help them assist their loved one in a more impactful way.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help to begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Kate Duffy + https://www.tippingpointrecovery.com/services-2/ + kate@tippingpointrecovery.com + https://www.facebook.com/tippingpointrecovery/

Show Notes * Her beginning helping families deal with addiction - 1:03 * Being a recovery coach - 1:20 * Helping people at the emergency room - 3:57 * Having a connection - 6:37 * Building a connection with people that have addiction problems - 7:41 * The family knowing the truth helps the addict get better - 14:10 * Speaking with the family members - 15:05 * You need to understand recovery language - 16:22 * Families need to understand the disease - 16:38 * Describing the pain - 17:15 * Understanding where the addiction lives in our brain - 17:37 * Give them an understanding of the recovery process - 19:36 * Recovery vs. feeding the addiction - 19:49 * The experience of being a recovery coach - 22:48 * Be the recovery your family wants - 26:44 * Sometimes, the family does not have the solution - 28:06 * Talking about a family program - 31:07 * Starting to adopt recovery principles - 32:11 * Are we doing something to support the addict? - 32:29 * Communicating through pain and fear? - 36:30 * Why intervention is necessary - 38:07 * Get in touch with Kate - 39:50 * How your health is impacted - 41:18

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Christopher Doyle talks with Richard Jones, who has experience in the addiction treatment field. Richard talks about his story, his insights, and shares his wisdom with the audience. He is the CEO of FAVOR Greenville and Co-Founder of Youturn.net where they are passionate about helping others avoid the heartbreak that can result from addiction. Youturn is a revolutionary answer to a broken recovery system. It's about hope and freedom and walking out into a brighter life. Youturn is much more than an online educational recovery platform—it's a better way to get better. Stay tuned and enjoy!

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts, and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Richard Jones + https://youturn.net/about-us/ + https://www.linkedin.com/in/richardjones5 + https://favorgreenville.org/advocacy/richs-recovery-blog/

Show Notes * Getting involved in family-related addiction recovery - 1:03 * The family is very powerful for an addicted person - 2:09 * Families are crucial in the recovery system - 2:52 * Addiction is vicious - 3:34 * Doing an Intervention - 8:16 * The term intervention and family meetings - 11:02 * How will you get better if you talk with the same people? - 12:51 * Having a family education group - 17:11 * You have to be your own advocate - 17:46 * Only ten percent of addicted people receive help - 18:58 * Paying for detox? - 22:29 * Dynamics of the recovery treatment center - 24:52 * It all starts with families - 27:57 * Rich's educational platform - 33:02 * How do you get the information out? - 34:44 * Families can get paralyzed with fear - 36:16

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As an entrepreneur in long-term recovery, Jesse Harless is passionate about helping people overcome obstacles and make choices that inspire them to live their best lives. Jesse is a trainer, author, professional life coach, group empowerment facilitator, and mentor for people in addiction recovery.

Jesse Harless is the founder of Entrepreneurs in Recovery. He started Entrepreneurs in Recovery in 2017 as a way to transform the lives of 5000 men and women in addiction recovery through one-on-one coaching, facilitation, writing, and speaking. He currently works with communities, addiction treatment centers, and sober living facilities in the Northeast U.S. where he helps facilitate change using Entrepreneurs in Recovery workshops.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode * https://whyintervention.com/ * https://twitter.com/whyintervention * https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs * + Connect with Jesse Harless + https://www.jesseharless.com/ + https://www.instagram.com/jesseharless221/ + https://recoveryfacilitation.com/ + https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesseharless/ + https://twitter.com/JesseHarless22

Show Notes * Jesse's recovery process - 0:56 * Going to recovery homes - 2:50 * His mission: Entrepreneurs' Recovery - 5:27 * Wanting to access the recovery coaching world - 6:55 * Getting feedback - 8:40 * Marijuana, alcohol, and heroin - 14:35 * A familiar yet traumatic experience - 16:00 * Using cocaine for the first time - 16:28 * When people say that you are an addict - 19:14 * Someone that is suffering: an addict - 20:51 * Everyone’s addiction story is different - 24:40 * What happened in 2005 - 27:05 * Having to make a decision or go to a Federal Prison - 29:05 * An important point for people to know - 34:00 * The effects of not having support - 36:00 * Do not give up hope - 37:19 * There is a world after active addiction - 39:29 * Get in touch with Jesse - 40:50

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Pejman Alaghamandan is the co-host of "The Sober Grind Podcast" and a recovery counselor. He and Chris talk about Pejman's experience with addiction and the lessons we can learn from it.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

How Pejman got started - 1:20
Being an interventionist - 2:18
A recovery coach - 2:41
The car accident - 3:27
Pedjman's experiences with drugs - 4:30
Needing his family in his life - 5:20
Alcohol and drugs as a solution to pain - 6:55
Having a huge ego and feeling abandoned - 9:46
"You are dead to me" - 13:20
Being homeless - 14:20
A series of events that changed his life - 16:17
Helping children with addiction problems - 18:15
The importance of an intervention - 20:40
Some of the benefits of an intervention - 22:55
The teenage brain - 28:00
How powerful is the intervention process? - 29:18
Families' involvement in the intervention process - 32:32
A family disease and a family recovery - 36:00
Take responsibility for yourself - 37:11
The experience of being sober - 39:00

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An enticing tale of overcoming addiction as told by one of Christopher's old neighborhood friends: Maurene. Stay tuned to listen to them share stories of their younger years growing up together in the same community and how she came back into his life having experienced the struggles of recovering from a debilitating and life-threatening addiction.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

The old neighborhood - 0:56
Starting to drink at a young age - 1:32
Acknowledging the drinking problem - 3:09
The first time blacking out - 3:53
Skipping classes in college - 4:52
Needing help - 5:52
She was hurting herself - 7:13
Going to rehab twice - 8:21
Her relationship with her family - 10:32
The life that she was living - 11:32
Losing a sister to an overdose - 12:29
Family intervention - 13:27
Everyone's support and company - 16:54
A successful family intervention - 19:13
The recovery process - 19:51
Giving things to God - 20:54
People struggling with addiction often try to feel loved - 22:23
Having true friends during the recovery process - 22:58
Her father's cancer diagnosis - 23:55
Being grateful - 25:25
A recommendation for families: Consideration and support for the person that has an addiction - 25:52

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Christopher Doyle talks on this show to a wonderful couple that made a documentary about their life story: Lindsay and Adam. They share how they overcome the husband’s addiction and how sobriety changed the dynamic of the entire family.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

How they met and got together - 0:43
Together for 16 years - 1:54
Started to drink - 2:14
Acknowledging he had a problem - 3:42
Lindsay's mom also had addiction problems - 4:30
His inner self and ego - 7:13
Denying how bad the situation was -8:30
Her mom's story with addiction - 9:20
Knowing you’ll die if you don’t do anything - 10:08
Getting help for Adam - 11:55
30% chance of living - 12:38
Attempting to stop addiction - 14:00
Changing his behavior - 15:33
Survival mode - 16:45
Feeling strong - 17:24
Blaming everybody except yourself - 18:18
Why intervention? - 19:07
How long was the treatment? - 20:30
Feeling scared and trying to walk - 21:24
Dealing with addiction and recovery - 22:02
What alcohol did to him - 23:33
What does recovery look like today for Adam? - 28:07
Crossing the bridge from addiction to recovery - 30:15
Not having control of the situation - 33:40
Addiction is not something to be embarrassed about - 35:17
Becoming addicted to the addict - 37:00
Acknowledging that you are an addict - 40:00
The most amazing feeling in the world - 43:02

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How difficult is it to seek help?, on today's Why Intervention Podcast, Christopher talks to a friend, Ian Depew, about the different intervention processes as well as having the courage to help a beloved one get into one of this programs.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

Links and Resources from this Episode

https://whyintervention.com/
https://twitter.com/whyintervention
https://www.facebook.com/whyintervention/?ref=br_rs
- Connect with Ian Depew
- https://westcoastrecoverycenters.com/

Show Notes

Ian's background - 0:57
His first rehab process - 1:20
Learning the difference between treatment and recovery - 2:02
West Coast recovery centers - 4:00
What should the families expect? - 4:25
Making recovery difficult - 5:55
Recovery centers and their marketing systems - 6:40
The motivation behind a recovery center - 7:20
Sending your beloved one to a center that is best for you - 8:50
Interventions at west coast recovery centers - 10:02
Working as an interventionist - 11:06
The whole family as a client - 12:02
Emotions that come with an addicted family - 12:28
Chemical effects in the brain - 13:07
The goal of the process - 14:13
The brain needs time to readjust - 15:41
The recovery journey - 16:58
You need a year to detox - 18:08
Recovery options after treatment - 19:08
What happens when you leave treatment? - 20:49
The family's influence is key for the intervention process - 21:41
What drives you to go to an intervention process - 25:40
Supporting the family - 29:09
Things that happen in a recovery journey - 30:30
It takes a lot of time to be healthy again - 31:41
Get in touch with Ian - 35:23

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Christopher is the founder of the “Why Intervention Podcast”, he is a counselor, an interventionist, a firefighter, a father and also a person in recovery. Christopher talks with his good friend, John, who was in recovery from a double addiction and returned to life using the “intervention process”.

The Why Intervention Podcast is aimed at helping family and friends feel supported and encouraged that recovery from addiction is possible, for themselves as well as their loved ones. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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Show Notes

The addiction treatment field -1:23
John's background - 3:03
First experience getting drunk or high - 3:59
Consequences of getting drunk - 5:40
Experiences while intoxicated - 7:23
Everything had become problematic - 10:08
Drug and alcohol withdrawal - 13:32
His family during the intervention process - 17:05
The arrest - 18:35
What is like having a double addiction - 19:19
How the Intervention Process helped him - 24:18
Feeling relief after the intervention - 27:37
Was the intervention necessary? - 30:28
Feeling you are about to die - 30:55
Participating in two interventions - 35:47
Living in life and recovering - 38:52
The greatest victory - 39:59
The best gift: being here - 41:18

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This podcast is for family members and friends who have a loved one that is struggling with an addiction. You'll hear how to affect positive change in their life and help your loved one begin a successful recovery. Host Christopher Doyle shares his insights, talks with experts and interviews people who have gone through recovery.

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