Enneagram and Marriage: Recent Episodes
Christa Hardin, MA
The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in her 18+ years of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add in another layer of understanding as to how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect with others and how we view the world.
The work we do across personality types often has its very foundation in how our thinking tends to shift in stressful moments. In this E + M mini, Christa walks you through all the ways our mental fixations can attack us in life and marriage. To combat the dysregulating thinking, we also walk together through the holy ways of thinking of each type (the Enneagram holy ideas) and release our biggest mental blocks spiritually. Take a few moments to try to bring your unhealthy mental focus into healthier rhythms with us right here!
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Parenting well with intention has so many great benefits for your child, but also takes its toll if you forget to take care of yourself. Yes, dysregulated and exhausted parents need support, too, and as we walk through the parenting era together, we have one of our favorite guests back to guide us, Dr. Morgan Cutlip, psychologist, burnout support expert Instagram leader, and beloved Enneagram 9 (9-3 pairing). Whether your kids are littles, big, or grown, we invite you to today's refreshing episode!
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There are so many cultural overlays that affect our relationships, and development across generations is absolutely one that matters, both in your marriage and as you hack or deep dive your way through life, depending on your generation. Take a quick dive intergenerationally with Christa today as we dive into practical tips for both Erikson's developmental theory and Strauss and Howe's generational theory for your marriage and family today!
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As we jump into talking about marriage across seasons, stages, and generations all month, we take a fun leap into September with author Molly Wilcox, Enneagram 7, as we walk through the steps it takes to shine brightly together once again or for the very first time. With a book behind and another ahead, as well as work and baby life in the first five years of honeymoon, Molly has systematized ways to keep her married life both intentional and playful and continues to thrive even after the honeymoon has lost its first gleams. How does Molly keep balance, love, and faith in her life even across the busy threads of life? And how can you follow suit as you re-embrace your own honeymoon a bit here with us? Join us here for lift-off to a journey of joy on this fun Labor Day episode!
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When we learn to pause, you give your system time to regulate, and you also bring yourself into sensory awareness for the very best of conversations and inner scripts to spring forth. Each Enneagram type in marriage and life needs intentional pausing for a different reason, and today we talk about what those reasons are in this E + M mini with Christa. Listen here as you truly become more life-giving and empowered in your relationship right here!
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It’s a common fallacy in marriage to look at one’s spouse as being less healthy than one's self or to think that having a spouse of another type may create fewer issues. However, we bring ourselves into all relationships as a common denominator, too, an extremely important issue to consider. Today we are so grateful to have European Union diplomat Frederick Coene, Enneagram researcher and SP 6 to help us process what to do when you hit these difficult seasons all couples will hit from time to time, sexually or otherwise in marriage. This is a time where integrity and doing one's work matters more than ever and we are learning together! Join Christa in this riveting and potentially life-changing conversation right here!
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We work very hard to balance our self-preserving, sexual, and social instincts, but who are we outside of that - and more importantly, above these base instincts? Christa walks you through the higher virtues lying outside of the instincts today so that you cannot only keep balance amidst the lower-hanging fruit of the three instincts themselves but also keep a higher plain of goodness in your life. Check out this in quick but important E + M mini right here!
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Work relationships can and do affect the ways we treat one another at home. As we dive into this much-needed topic today, today’s juicy podcast episode features Kaleigh Newby, MA, Enneagram 2w1 (2-9 pairing). Kaleigh is the perfect guest for the job, having done significant Enneagram and relationship work across organizational development as she's helped individuals and couples of each Enneagram type to find their best strides. In this pivotal episode on balancing work + relationships for each type, Kaleigh not only welcomes people of each type to learn how to walk through their work stress better but she also gives relationship tips for each of us and our partners. Tune in for these clear and activating steps right here!
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It's tempting to want to box our kids into one type or another the moment we see certain behaviors emerging, but an even better way to process how our kids are emerging is to honor both their gifts as well as the shifts and nuances across your children's development. As you help them to find and hone their traits, listen as Christa walks you through all nine types across the Enneagram in terms of developing children. We share key ways for you to reach kids across all kinds of struggles in this brief episode.
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When we confess our sexual struggles, we are given grace, hope and most, love and a release from the binding shame that comes with this brokenness. Matt Cline of Restored Ministries reaches out to spouses here in this E + M mini! He talks about community, God's grace, and his own story of recovery as well with us right here! Listen as Matt walks you through what he continues to teach thousands across campuses and groups about sexual brokenness and pornography recovery and restoration. Matt shares practical steps for walking in healing and the fullness of God's love here as well. Find Matt's ministry right here! Love this episode? Share with others and at Apple Podcast here, too! Join the E + M Membership right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Pornography is not always something people feel comfortable talking about, inside of marriage or out. This is most especially true within the church. Today Christa is joined by author Jessica Harris, Enneagram 4w5 (4-3 marriage pairing) as she both shares her story and discusses an important topic for couples, especially women who desire to find freedom and true healing from pornography. As we discss this pivotal topic that has been ignored in the church in many cases (often out of fear or not knowing what to say many times), we talk about ways we can hold one another with grace and love as we walk through and emerge from these binding struggles. We also talk about what Jesus had to say to the woman at the well, and most, what you can do to regain healing from your own struggles with this addiction, as well as lean in to support those struggling who may come your way. Watch the Episode on YouTube! Get Jessica's book right here Visit Jessica's Beggar's Daughter website and study guide here Join the E + M Membership right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
If you feel like you're doing everything you can to just keep afloat amidst endless to-dos or busy seasons of life, your self-preservation - and your entire marriage and family - has likely looped off track. Today Christa is joined by Jenn Johnson, Health Coach and E + M Certified Coach to guide you back on track. This is an episode you definitely don't want to miss as we deep dive into all three instincts and how you can find your healthiest self with grace, intention, and improved marriage rhythms with encouragement, no matter what season or shape you're in! Watch the Episode on YouTube! Get Jenn's Health Coaching right here Join the E + M Membership right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Across many transitions of life, there are important grounding lessons to be learned as we aim to parent well too. Today as we prepare to launch kids into their own mental wellness with healthy rhythms, Christa is joined by Enneagram expert, and coach Kelsey Lincoln, Enneagram 6 (Fuller Theological Sem, Intercultural Studies). Kelsey shares her wisdom and foresight to give us these tools we need for relationship success across every single type as we do our best to parent with love, wisdom, and lots of grace right here together! Watch the Episode on YouTube! Get Kelsey's on-point Instagram tips right here! Visit Kelsey's website here! Join the E + M Membership right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out our membership and all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Have you ever wondered how your personality affects your well-being in terms of financial savvy and success? Or which Enneagram (and MBTI) types are more and less motivated by more relational versus financial provisions? Truity Psychometrics has done the deep diving for us about what we can all learn from one another, and the world is paying attention. In this all-new episode for you, we get to chat practically and relationally today about the findings, and today Christa interviews Megan Malone, Truity's fabulous content creator and an Enneagram Two. Walk with us through the types and how you can find balance and expansion in your individual, couple, and work growth in this fascinating episode.
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In our conversation last summer w/Dr. Sam Greenberg, we had a groundbreaking episode on sex and how we see it across various instinctual patterns, depending on whether we're more socially, sexually, or wired for more self-preservation. Here we are joined yet again by Christa and Dr. Sam on a deeper dive level for each and every Enneagram type in terms of the typical sexual findings, in hopes you can truly find your best sexual closeness yet. This episode is SO helpful for your marriage growth, so don't miss out! Watch the Episode on YouTube! Find Dr. Sam on Instagram Visit Dr. Sam's website! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Your goal is deeper intimacy, but did you know autonomy and healthy boundaries and self-care are SO helpful for a relationship as well? Today Christa is joined by one of our most popular guests, Gottman, AACC, and E +M Certified Coach Melissa M Thompson, Enneagram 2, in a conversation about how to do just this for each and every type. Join us as Melissa refreshes us with healthy hacks and reminders of how we can hold love, strength, boundaries, and compassion at the same time. Watch the Episode on YouTube! Find Melissa for coaching info here! Read Melissa's boundaries blog! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
You and your spouse's intimacy issues began long before you were married. Award-winning author, therapist, and ordained minister Jay Stringer has integrated the best of research and marital modalities for a deeper understanding of how our intimacy patterns began, and more importantly, how they can truly improve together. Today in this vital episode for marital healing, we take a truly biopsychosocialspiritual journey across the most important ways you can build safety together. Take the holistic desire survey here! https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/holisticdesire For the couple's research survey on desire, send both your emails to madeline@heartofmanjourney.com Jay's website: https://jay-stringer.com/
Often we wonder what we've carried forth from childhood in our Enneagram and relationship work, as well as wonder what we may have incidentally left behind in our quest for pleasing our family of origin. Today on this special episode with marriage and family therapist (and likely one of your fave Instagram therapy accounts) Michael Shahan, we take a tour around the Enneagram to walk through the Enneagram inner child theory derived from Sandra Maitri and others, also called the Soul Child theory. We do this to make sure you're running on all healthy cylinders as much as possible with your relationship growth, and we talk through ways you can do this work with your spouse or partner, too. No matter your type, join us for this deep dive into growth for every personality! Watch on YouTube! Michael's website Michael's poyvagal courses Michael's heart-mind-body Costa Rica trip Follow Michael's Instagram here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Truly knowing one another and sharing meaningful stories is the best way to reach the deepest intimacy in relationships. Today, we are grateful to have ReStory expert Tracy Johnson, Enneagram 8 (8-7 pairing), introducing us to a model for reaching one another again and again as we tell new stories and find new ways to make that deeper meaning together. She gives us a formula that has a natural yet practical flow so we can bring ourselves to each date or activity ready for reconnection. Enjoy this rich conversation with Tracy as we walk towards delighting, discovering, sharing our depths, and connecting more closely than ever before.
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You may often deal with expectations (and sexpectations) for the roles you hope the other spouse will play in your sexual journey together. Many times, these expectations don't get discussed and spouses are left hurt and distant on the interior. These brief but vital questions will bring you on a deeper level of intimacy than ever before, so take them one at a time as we draw you closer together than ever before right here! Grab our Love Maps freebie to increase general intimacy also!
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This must-listen episode is for both men and women since couples who track and hack their unique monthly female cycle together tend to strategically understand one another better across the board. This allows for work, family, and relationship dynamics to thrive in a healthier system than ever before, and this issue is so big in fact, that about 90% of couples experience these shifts in their relationships across the month. Today, Christa deep dives with us in a practical and also fun conversation (we promise!) with Enneagram coach, and female cycle expert, Evie Jenner, Type 1sx (1-5 Marriage Pairing) of @thetypeguide. You definitely don't want to miss the best ways to make the most of the shifting seasons across each month together with us right here! We talk about which times of the month are best for rest, for work, for creating, for sexual intimacy, and SO much more together right here! Get Evie's freebie right here: https://www.thetypeguide.co.uk/ and follow her at @thetypeguide on Instagram, Tiktok, and Thrive!
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There are five absolutely key components for a healthier and happier sex life and culture in your marriage and in this quick episode, Christa walks you through ALL of them. Tune in for these practical tips you can incorporate immediately as you create a healthier vibe together all summer (and year!) long. Don't miss the opportunity to both identify the greatest stumbling blocks to intimacy and the best and most tangible steps forward.
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Many times we bring trauma into marriage unwittingly and our spouse has to work very hard to work with us and our sensitive idiosyncrasies. Today we welcome Enneagram Coach and trauma practitioner, Jennifer Hurst of Everyday Enneagram to walk us through compassionate inquiry in our own healing versus relying on our spouses to be all things to us, a term coined by the world-renowned trauma/addictions MD, Dr. Gabor Maté, whose program Jennifer has trained in. Join us as we walk through both general tips to safety together as well as dig deep, type by type with open hearts. You can find Jennifer @everyday-enneagram on Instagram for coaching services and encouragement, too!
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What can you do when your marriage is in crisis… now? This episode is geared toward every person or couple who’s ever had a really bad day or moment in marriage or other relationships and just needs some support to help them out of a difficult spot. In this episode, Christa takes you around the Enneagram with lots of tips, bringing you warmth, soothing, and most of all, an array of clarified, simple strategies to help you find your healthy self — and your relationship again. In this episode, Christa brings your warmth, soothing, and most of all, practical tips you can take with you now to help you find your healthy self — and your relationship again.
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Often we can make the mistake of completely defining others with unilateral Enneagram stereotypes, further expanding our differences, leaving us not only in the box of our type, but in the shadows of relationships. In this new episode just for you, author and expert Stephanie Spencer invites us into a more adventurous yet intimate journey through our styles of interaction using the broader lens of nature metaphors by type (Did you know, for instance, 4s can be like an iceberg at times as well as an octopus?) Join us as we sit with beautiful photographic concepts for each of us as we venture through the wild together through more connecting lenses of communication for life and marriage. Stephanie also invites us to read her beautiful brand-new hardcover book, Out of the Box and Into the Wild, displaying her and her husband's awesome National Park Adventure pictures, metaphors for each type and triad, and more!
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Adventures vary across couples and across types. But we can all agree on one thing - they're essential to a healthy marriage. Today Christa takes you on a quick but important journey across the stances in the various ways each of us brings the best and the worst into our marriage adventures. Listen in for clues for bringing the very best adventuring this season!
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When you're in an opposites-attract marriage, you've got to be creative to make sure you're moving together in harmony. Today we get to talk to Dove-award winning artist Paul Cardall, whose lilting songs have been downloaded billions of times and graced the stage and airwaves for two decades, even through a heart transplant, about this very thing. Paul is an Enneagram 4 (with high 3 and 8 traits) and his wife Tina has strong 1 and 5 traits. Together they bring expansiveness and a very powerful outreach of love to the world. Today we get to take creative tips from him as he shares a window into the ways they've done that, and the many adventures they've shared along the way.
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When you're upset in your relationship, do you ever villainize your spouse? You're not alone if you do, in fact, it's part of human nature to rate oneself as above average and to give oneself grace while fault-finding in one's spouse, especially in the post-honeymoon years. But you're not average, you're right about that part. You're doing your work, and today Christa walks you through doing just that as we cover every Enneagram type in marriage and the ways you can watch out for both villainizing your spouse as well as finding the grace for them that you give yourself. With this mini-midweek message, may you reach farther across the table to your truest trust, love, and attachment yet!
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When you have family, fame, and faith, plus a Dove-award-winning musical career with millions of downloads (Sanctus Real, Matt Hammitt), life can feel a bit like coasting. Yet today, recording artist Matt Hammitt, Enneagram 9, reminds us that the space of Enneagram 9 must not only bring comfort but connection for relationships to truly thrive. In this candid interview, Matt walks us through his story of truly leading with love and outlines the radical steps he took to be in his marriage, and not just working for his marriage, and how the time and connection he has truly gained have been incredible. He also walks us through his story of church hurt, offering listeners hope for redemption and reconstruction for a life with God and community in their own personal way.
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Order Matt's book Lead Me here
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Do you ever notice how when your emotions get flooded, you end up finding yourself on the wrong side of regulation? Your relationships, especially those closest bonds, suffer while you put on a happy face for everyone at work and community. When this happens, you need tools, and this mini-podcast is a meditation for each of us when we hit every space on the Enneagram. This episode was created so you could truly find refreshment and a bit of rest with us if you're feeling anxious or overwhelmed in the midst of it all. Take a few joyful moments with us so you can rejuvenate without finding yourself in your vices and fixations.
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How does your Enneagram personality type specifically get in the way of your deepest attachments in marriage? Without a safe language, you're probably deeply uncomfortable talking about the vulnerabilities that are preventing you from truly bonding intimately. Today we will talk from an attachments framework about each and every Enneagram type in marriage and the ways you can become closer together in this brand new episode. Christa finally shares the big E + M news also! Listen up, now for special bonuses!!
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Do you ever feel like your spouse truly misses out on what your greatest attachment needs are? You may even wonder occasionally if you're doomed as a couple for not agreeing on what secure attachment really looks and feels like. In today's mini-episode, Christa walks you through the reasons those who lead with their hearts, minds, or bodies, tend to feel differently about what secure attachment really looks like, and more, how you can begin to live life more securely together. This is an episode you don't want to miss as you lean into love and into one another with an understanding of your mutual strengths and shadows.
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Here's the Attachment Project Quiz!
Post episode: Congrats to winners of the last episode's contest on Monday @rhhorstman and @annamariereilly for guessing Kate and Adam's types (9 and 5) correctly, as well as to all of the others who did as well (and thanks for playing even if you didn't!! They win one of Kate's brand new Enneagram books and one of our Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Games!
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As you kick back a bit from work this opening summer Monday, we hope you take some time to chill during this fun conversation together with author Kate Hallock. As you learn about Kate, her husband, and their process for undertaking the first Enneagram mystery novel, Nine Ways to Die: An Enneagram Murder Mystery, we also have a mystery to solve together right on air! Join us here to examine what type Kate and her husband are for a chance to win a copy of Kate's novel and one of our mystery dinner games!
Watch the live interview with Christa and Kate on YouTube!
Get Kate's book
Find Kate's bio and Instagram here!
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We each bring something valuable and beautiful to our marriages in terms of worldview but also bring an accompanying shadow to the relationship as well. Today we are talking about what each of us brings in terms of worldview to our marriage via our Enneagram type. We are also going through an exercise that gives you briefly a chance to move toward one another when you hit a roadblock in achieving your goals together.
Today's show links:
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Did you feel different when you fell in love? Love does indeed change our brains, and wonderfully, love can even support us with emotional bonding. However, the intensity of love can also have negative effects on the activity within the brain.
Today on the podcast, we demystify the brain and practically hack our way through the best ways we can allow our thinking and activities to support us in our goals together!
Join Christa with an exclusive look at how to boost your brain with healthy hacks as we sit at the feet of neuroscientist Dr. Krissy Thomas, Ph.D, Enneagram Three. It's a powerful and fun episode as we dissect the very best ways to boost your joy and life together!
Learn the hacks around:
- Why & how crying releases endorphins as stress is released
- The sympathetic & parasympathetic nervous process
- Dopamine (our feel-good brain chemical)
- Serotonin (a mood-boosting brain chemical)
- Oxytocin (a relationship, "love chemical")
- Endorphins (natural pain relievers for relieving mood)
- Mirror neurons and how we can help each other
- Sleep and its housekeeping role for our life and marriage
- And SO much more!
Show Links:
Watch the live interview with Christa and Dr. Krissy on YouTube!
Visit Dr. Krissy on her fabulous Instagram for regular brain hacks!
Visit Dr. Krissy's website here for more info about her and her life coaching assistance!
Congrats to our contest winner @KollerCommentary
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In this unabashedly romantic and just-for-fun episode, Christa and Hannah curl up in the 7 space with some decaf chai and invite listeners to grab a cup and join them in another personality-type excavation! This time we invite our audience to Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan characters with us across their cinematic history of slow-burn and enemies-to-lovers tropes together. We visit the magical mutual pining in Sleepless in Seattle, revisit the modern Pride and Prejudice in You've Got Mail, and make a brief touchdown into Joe Versus the Volcano in this new rom-com Enneagram typing episode just for you!
Show Links:
Contest fun! We invite you to cast your votes of each type on our Instagram account for this episode too for a chance to win a pairing guide for you or a friend here!
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You need to know exactly what's getting in the way of the two of you in conflict, not only in terms of Enneagram type issues but also in terms of your meta-communication. In fact, if conflicts aren't addressed, they'll continue to control you from under the surface of your vices. On this brand new episode just for you, we are making the goal-getting deep and meaningful but also fun and practical with #1 rated marriage podcast experts Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of One Extraordinary Marriage joining us. Christa first takes you briefly through the Enneagram system type by type vices so you can detect which issues you’re likely struggling with bringing into conflict and then we’ll leave it to Tony and Alisa to show us their creative and very helpful structure for processing conflict together better than ever before.
Show Links:
Tony and Alisa's new book (with visuals!) on breaking conflict cycles is right here!
Check out One Extraordinary Marriage for So Many Tips!!
You can also watch on the E + M YouTube Channel here!
www.conflictresolutionbook.com
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Research tells us kids struggle more post-Covid with mental health issues and it's often because they have a sense of hopelessness and culture. They look to what social media tells them, largely, about who they are., and yet come up empty every time they don't measure up. Why not gift them with the best awareness of themselves and their incredibly precious gifts as they navigate these times, so they too can find balance? Christa invites you here to life-changing tips for your child as they develop emerging personality traits Enneagram and learn the very best ways they can grow with love, wisdom, balance, and hope for the future once again. Don't miss out on this special episode as we approach Mother's Day!
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This week of Mother's Day, we work together on parenting goals as we look at the absolute best and worst researched-based practices with teens as they will influence marriage and sexual relationships with Sheila Wray Gregoire, Enneagram 8w7. We take both a microscopic and wide lens view of generational practices around sexual and faith norms across generations, from prior to Gen X to purity culture and now, there's still work to do around healthy teaching and training and we have the best tips for you!
Specifically, Christa invites expert Sheila Wray Gregoire of Bare Marriage to help us navigate:
What parenting research is tied to marriage health and healthy marriages
What teaching a girl about her period and healthy sex ed can do for healthy adulting
What internalized masochism does to their future mental health, finding voice, and the belief that women talk more than men
Why Gen X had better sex-ed than Millenials and why purity culture came in for awhile
Show Links:
Sheila's new book, She Deserves Better: Raising Girls To Resist Toxic Teachings on Sex, Self, and Speaking Up
Sheila's Website - Bare Marriage
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Sometimes you just need to let down and read a really good book, and today Christa is joined by her daughter Melody Hardin, Enneagram Nine, to discuss exactly that - great books for each and every personality type! Join us for this exclusive episode where we wind down after a busy spring, and prepared to launch ourselves into summer with some levity, love, and, fun literature as well!
Check out Melody's book club reads on her page on the E + M website here!
Wes and Christa's Book Recommendations for Each Type Instagram Reel
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As we begin to refine our goals together this month, we're covering the area of sexual intimacy right off the bat with the wonderful sex educator you always wish you had, Carlie Palmer-Webb, MS! Carlie runs the popular Instagram account @theChristianSexEducator to teach people who may not have been given healthy tools about sex the chance to build beautiful intimacy together. We talk about sexual mindfulness, purity culture, low libido, differences in desire, and how we can build up sexual desire together if it's low, in seasons of raising kids, and how sharing the load helps this area to be managed well! Carlie has SO many resources on and off the air including 20 questions to ask your spouse about sex, guides for engaged and newlywed couples, and The Women-Tell-All Learning to Orgasm Guide. Listen up!
Show Links:
Carlie's Instagram is right here to educate you!
The Women Tell-All Guide to Orgasm - Free Resource!
Carlie's website and more tools!
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In this "Life" series, you're getting to listen in on the relationship stories of each of the Enneagram types. It's a time for you to experience sitting with an authentic person of each personality type in a very authentic fashion as you join us for a meaningful chat as we finish our last dripping of the Enneagram type series of chats, ending with Christa's hubby Wes today, who helps us learn more about the Type 1! Christa and Wes have shared over twenty five years of growth together and so you're in for a treat as you dive deep with us as we don't shy away from the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a One and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a One as well!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a One
The Way the Compliance/Dependence Stance
Present Orientation from the One perspective
When you feel like your One is super stressed/critical
When a One is working too hard and angry
And more!
For a Deep Dive on Type One, share here!
Wes and Hannah's special father-daughter project!
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What's preventing you from reaching your goals, from thriving personally, relationally, or at work? It's often so more than just circumstantial, but something you could actually get a handle on by increasing your emotional intelligence quotient with the Enneagram of personality, including your Enneagram instincts, defense strategies, triads, core fears, and more. Scott Allender, Enneagram 3 (3-4 pairing), is here to talk about all of this with us as you take steps to move your life, business, or family into a healthier direction with his deep dive into this truly next-level Enneagram training so you can truly thrive with newfound energy and goals! Tune in to hear about his brand new book, The Enneagram of Emotional Intelligence: A Journey to Personal and Professional Success, and learn with us about how you can truly find your way through the biggest blocks to purposes you're meant for.
Show Links:
Join the E + M Collective for Marriage Support! Open only till April 25!
Scott's book!
Scott's website, writing, and podcast offerings
Scott's Instagram Account
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How can those who struggle with sobriety create mindfulness around alcohol, especially since the struggle affects all of us culturally as the leading substance issue today? Join us today for a compassionate and thoughtful conversation with author, sobriety coach, and spiritual director Erin Jean Warde, Enneagram 6. Erin shares practical ways we can honor one another's experiences more gracefully and allows for rich conversations as we walk towards virtue together individually, in relationships, in community, and globally as well, as she shares her beautiful new Brazos Press book, Sober Spirituality, with us right here!
Show Links:
Join the E + M Collective for Marriage Support! Open only till April 25!
Erin's website, writing, and Substack offerings
Erin's Instagram Account
Contact Erin
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So many individuals and couples depend on faith for life's sustenance as well as a purposeful call together in relationships, and yet many times there are often so many faith or cultural disillusionments that send us far away from the rhythms of life wrapped up with God and communities of faith, especially at this precarious moment in culture wars. Prolific author Sara Billups, Enneagram 4 (4-5 pairing) invites us into a deep and curious dive into the past as well as movements for going forward in culture with meaningful, compassionate, and justice-oriented faith rhythms in her brand new book Orphaned Believers: How a Generation of Christian Exiles Can Find Their Way Home, that we talk about together today with you.
Show Links:
Get Sara's book here on Amazon!
Sara's website writing and offerings
Sara's Instagram Account
Sara's beautiful Substack account
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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and open person of each personality type in a very down-to-earth fashion, too. Join us for another fascinating chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series with this week's guest Kirsten Barker, who is not only an E + M Certified Coach, but also a 2 who has been doing her work for a long time! Kirsten is also a wife, mom, and an Enneagram teacher as well. Most of all, she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask or help a Two with and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Two as well!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 2
The Compliant/Dependent Stance
Present Orientation from the Two perspective
When you feel like your Two is thought-inhibited (thinking only about relationships)
When a Two is attention seeking
And more!
Show links:
Give Kirsten's website links a browse and check out her coaching!
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Grief hits us all at times - as a world, as a community, and yes, even as leaders, helpers, pastors, parents, or spouses. When gried and the ensuing life-changing rhythms and questions move us to new spaces that our friends, families, and often spouses, cannot fully navigate, what can do we do? And when faith questions arise, where can we go? In other words, you must give your loss and sadness a healthy space to process so you can both honor your story as well as emerge when the time is right for new life and hope again and again. Join us for this very special episode together as we do this very thing with psychologist and Tedx speaker Dr. Mekel Harrish, PhD, Enneagram 4w3 as she shares from both the space of personal loss and her own expertise as a grief therapist with tools for us as well.
Show Links:
Get Dr. Mekel's book Get it here on Amazon!
Dr. Mekel's offerings on her website
Dr. Mekel's Instagram Account
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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for an authentic chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type with Christa's sister Abbie today, who is an SX 3! Abigal is the COO of the Detroit Area Agency on Aging, a mom of five children, and a full-on go-getting 3. Most of all, she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Three and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Three as well!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 3
The Aggressive Stance
Present Orientation from the Three perspective
When you feel like your Three is working too har
When a Three is attention seeking
And more!
For a Deep Dive on Type Three, share here!
Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here!
Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here!
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Whenever we approach spiritual growth, we look for roots. In this new series on digging deep for faith individually and/or as couples, we ask hard questions - questions everyone has asked at some point but may not always feel heard. Today we welcome speaker, writer, and influencer at Proverbs 31 Ministries, author Kia Stephens as we discuss one of the key questions surrounding faith - what to do when there’s a father wound. Though Kia’s book has a special sensitivity around the huge amount of research detailing that many women have a father wound, this is a conversation males also will want to tune in for themselves and/or other wives or partners.
Show Links:
Get Kia's book Overcoming Father Wounds here on Amazon! Get it here on her website!
Kia's offerings on her website
Kia's Instagram Account
Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here!
Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here!
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In this "Life" series, you get to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very relaxed fashion, too. Join us for a restful and deep chat here as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing Jentry Courter, Enneagram 4 and ICU Nurse. Join us as Jentry curates restful rhythms for not only Fours but brings her caring wisdom to offers sleep tips for individuals of each Enneagram type as well. In this deep dive episode with a little extra fun on the side, you'll get to truly learn the insides of a Four and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) as a Four as well!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Life as an 4
The Withdrawing Stance
Past Orientation from the Four perspective
When you feel like your Four wants what it doesn't have (envy)
And all about rhythms of rest also!
Find Jentry's Podcast Here!
Find Jentry on Instagram here!
Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here!
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Whether you're hypervigilant or you tend to become withdrawn in the aftermath of trauma, there are certain costs to being strong - we were made well and we can live in survival mode for a long time. However, walking to freedom and safety on the other side is not only the goal, but it's accessible and present. Today we are grateful to have acclaimed trauma specialist and author Aundi Kolber, LMHC of Try Softer sharing her brand new book, Strong Like Water as we learn the way to more fluidly and safely process trauma. She offers us tips for individuals and couples as we learn the way to resiliency and ultimately to becoming strong like water together.
Show Links:
Get Aundi's brand new book Strong Like Water here!
Visit Aundi's website here!
Meet Aundi on her Instagram here!
Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here!
Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here!
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In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about relationships with each of the Enneagram types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type in a very real fashion, too. Join us for a truly treasured deep chat as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing Jennifer Passmore, school principal, pastor's wife, and mom of four adult children, Enneagram Five. Jennifer's not only a Five but she's willing to dive deep with us about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a Five and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a Five as well!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 5
The Withdrawing Stance
Past Orientation from the Five perspective
When you feel like your Five won't reach out in an emotional capacity
When a Five won't change their scarcity fixation
And more!
For a Deep Dive on Type Five, share here!
Sign up for the Gospel for Enneagram Conference Free Registration here!
Sign up for the All-Access Pass to the conference with speaker bonuses and recordings here!
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When we don’t have a healthy foundation or direction for exploring conflict well together, things tend to fall apart and keep falling apart - conflict management is essential as we have been discussing all month.
Today on this deeper dive into conflict, we are joined by author Jackie Brewster as she walks us through her practical, hands-on brand new 7-week workbook on using extremely practical and organized Enneagram tools and tips to help you grow personally and heal these threads of discord between you.
Our E + M audience also gets a special 30% off of Jackie's book, The Enneagram & Your Marriage, right here!
You can also find her book at Amazon.com here!
You can learn more about Jackie at her website here or her popular IG account here!
Along with many others, Jackie and Christa will also be speaking at the Gospel for Enneagram Conference coming up this April. Get your free ticket here!
Want to watch the conference on your own time versus live + get access to bonuses? Get your all-access pass right here and get more fun, freebies, and extras!
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Join us for a cup of matcha and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Today we are interviewing singer, dietician, momma, and wife, Heather Richmond, Enneagram Type 6 on all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 6!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 6
The Compliant/Dependent Stance (and the Counterphobic side of a 6 also!)
Present Orientation of a 6 from a 6
What a 6 appreciates in marriage
When a 6 is spinning with anxiety and self-doubt
And more!
Grab the Deep Dive on Type 6 Here!
Visit Heather's page >> here
Psychologist Dr. Wyatt has an important mission: to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and today on the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, he does just that. As one of the leading marriage and relationships podcasters, today we are in for a treat as he vulnerably shares not only from an objective clinical lens but from a visceral empathy from his own marriage trauma healing over seasons as well. As we study conflict together all month, this episode gives you a very practical look at shaping your marriage healthily through one of Dr. Wyatt's nine tools - the five-minute, small but mighty "Bullseye" tool so you can get moving in a healthy direction right away!
Show links:
Find Dr. Wyatt Fisher's clinical marriage podcast here, and more about his practice, app, and website >> here
In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing artist and illustrator, Alaina Pompa, Enneagram Type 7 of Ray of Light (the artist behind our glow guides and planner!) all about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a 7 and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 7!
Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 7
The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance
Future Orientation of a 7 from a 7
When you feel like your 7 won't slow down and address the feelings under the motion
When a 7 won't change their planning fixation
And more!
Grab our Glow Guides and E + M 52 Week Planner Designed by Alaina Here!
Visits Alaina's Ray of Light Shop >> here
Join us for a deep dive into a relationship chat on stances with Suzanne Stabile, best-selling author, speaker, and Master Enneagram teacher (The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, The Journey Toward Wholeness). Suzanne shares her wisdom from connecting with thousands and thirty-five years of marriage, offering honest advice for marriage success, including a discussion on changing instincts across seasons and a conversation about our stances or repressed Centers of Intelligence as we learn to balance thinking, feeling, and doing with more consistency and balance with intention.
Show links:
Find Suzanne's books and courses, including her The Table Membership >> here
In today’s mini-podcast just-for-fun episode, we take you through the nine Enneagram types by way of some of our favorite classical characters in the Jane Austen novels! In particular, we walk you through the 9 types as found in Persuasion, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, and Emma. Join Christa as we analyze character arcs, talk love tropes, share mini-book reviews, talk Enneagram typing, and most of all, bring love lessons from the world's number one romantic writer of all time together to bring refreshment and wisdom to our days together!
In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with a person of each personalty type as well. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing writer, teacher, and master organizer, Laurie Palau, Enneagram Type 8 of This Organized Life about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask an Eight as well as a few tips about her very 8 way of bringing clarity and order to a sometimes overwhelmed family with her worldwide business!
You'll learn all about Laurie's major wiring and ways of love with an 8. Specifically, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with an 8
The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance
Future Orientation of an 8 from an 8
When you feel bulldozed by an 8
When an 8 won't apologize
And more!
https://www.simplyborganized.com/
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Although there are nine ways of seeing the world, today we're talking about four encompassing and diverse ways of love in a marriage.
Join us as we discuss eros, filial love, affectionate love, and agape love so you can see which ones you're thriving in and which ones you need support in with today's refreshing reminders.
We're reflecting on the ways we can engage with God for strength and encouragement on the journey together this Ash Wednesday.
Jan Richardson's Ash Wednesday: Blessing the Dust
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Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing an Enneagram Type 9 speaker and coach, Emily Wingfield, about all the nitty gritty Nine issues you've been wondering about such as:
You'll learn all about Emily's work, family, and love story, and at the 18 minute mark, you will hear about:
Marriage and family with a 9
Withdrawing
Merging
Past Orientation
Action/Sloth
And more!
https://enneagramwithemily.com/
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In this fun shortie episode, Christa invites listeners to join her in a personality-type excavation to find the Enneagram types of a couple in a brief, light case study as we welcome listeners to a Valentine's Day Mystery Contest as well as open the doors to studying actual case studies in our E + M Certification program.
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As we explore romance together, one of the most important ways we can connect hearts together is by really understanding the deepest needs of our spouse. As we walk through today's episode with Dani Cooper, certified Enneagram teacher, author, and coach for individuals, couples, and teams, (and 1-6 marriage pairing with her hubby Sean), we get clarifying reminders about what each personality type really ultimately delights in receiving in terms of their deepest needs. Don't miss this heartfelt episode and fun episode even as we gently challenge one another to the most bountiful kinds of love!
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Dani Cooper is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Coach for individuals, couples and teams. She is the author of a new book, The Enneagram for Christian Couples, which came out in March 2022.
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Visit Dani @deepwatersenneagram on Instagram here!
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February can be a tough month of disillusionment and regret because of a lack of expected romance, a break of connection due to stress, or even finding ourselves alone and misunderstood because of gender differences in processing styles or other disparities. Today we are privileged to have the relationship expert Elizabeth Overstreet on the pod as we navigate these complex issues with clarity, hope, and joy. Elizabeth has been featured on ABC, NBC, CBS, and all over media as a practical and poised relationship coach and this month of love she is bringing us to the heart of truly intimate marriage connection.
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We begin a month of romance with our fresh and fun first February guest relationship coach Dana Che, Enneagram 3! Dana is witty, articulate, hilarious, and fun, and she has not only been coaching couples for practically forever, but she's down to earth and able to be honest about her journey of depth here with us as well. Join Dana as she brings us all into our goal-oriented 3 space by loving our partner with intention, an open heart, and lots of loving action! Become an E + M Certified Coach - Classes Start Feb 23! Sign up here!
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When we started the podcast just around the time of the pandemic, we had no idea what was in store; so many systems for healthy relationships have developed since then as a result of the collective of people who have come together to bring this show to life. Spend time reflecting in this milestone episode with Christa about the building up the E + M framework for finding our Enneagram rhythms together as we take an open-hearted and grateful look back with you before we look ahead to what's on the horizon. We also celebrate with a fun contest as well so check our FB group and Instagram for this!
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In this darkest time of the year, it's so important we have good ways to wrestle with the things keeping us from hope, from faith, and from light. In this episode, Jesse Eubanks of Love Thy Neighborhood and The Enneacast remains us that empathy is one of the key ingredients of deep trust with God and others as he joins us for an important discussion on how Christ relates to each of the Enneagram types as we discuss his brand new Harper-Collins Zondervan book, How We Relate: Understanding God, Yourself, and Others through the Enneagram. Join us for this important conversation on moving into this important space together individually and in relationship now!
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Jesse Eubanks' links:
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Love Thy Neighborhood Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ltneighborhood/?hl=en
Love Thy Neighborhood Podcast
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Christa talks about how critical anger processing is for our physical and marital health. In this episode, we cover the four-step path to working out your anger as shared by Dr. Gabor Mate, as well as how to process the trauma that has prevented us from processing anger in a healthy way. Need a romantic getaway, stat? Buy your 2/3 Glow Gala Dinner-Dance Tix for a Valentine's Glow Together: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Become An Enneagram & Marriage Certified Coach w/Zoom Classes Starting 2/23! https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/become-a-coach Just for fun! Wes and Christa's Stereotypes of Each Type "Out to Lunch" on Instagram Reels!
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When we agree to vows to support one another in sickness and in health, we want to be able to provide one another a safe space to heal as well as a safe space to grow a healthier immune system. We interview Coach Jenn Johnson, Enneagram One, trained by Dr. Hyman's Institute for Integrative Nutrition, who is also an E + M Certified Coach, and she not only helps us to honor our marriage vows during times of sickness but also helps us to create a winning, research-based formula for immunity-building, one tiny habit at a time together! SHOW LINKS: Visit Jenn's Coaching Website Here! Visit Jenn's Instagram Here! Tiny Habits book! Truity's 7 Love Styles Test Need a romantic getaway, stat? Buy your 2/3 Glow Gala Dinner-Dance Tix for a Valentine's Glow Together: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Become An Enneagram & Marriage Certified Coach w/Zoom Classes Starting 2/23! https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/become-a-coach Just for fun! Wes and Christa's Stereotypes of Each Type "Out to Lunch" on Instagram Reels!
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We interviewed each type to find out what would be the most popular goals of each Enneagram type in marriage this year. In this mini-episode, we have the results of these conversations, as well as some E + M recommended steps for each of the Enneagram types in life and marriage. Need a warm getaway, stat? Buy your Feb Glow Gala Dinner-Dance Tix for a Valetine's Glow Together: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Become An Enneagram & Marriage Certified Coach: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/become-a-coach Join Our Collective for the last week open! Just for fun! Wes and Christa's Stereotypes of Each Type "Out to Lunch" on Instagram Reels!
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Join E + M Certified Coach and trauma-informed polyvagal specialist and marriage helper Jessica Vangnes, of the 4-8 pairing on today's E + M Pod. Jessica walks you through practical and peaceful steps to bringing healing to your body this month as we continue our journey through wellness in the New Year. Christa and Jessica also discuss Jessica and her husband Travis' (4-8 pairing) peaceful mountain retreat center in East TN for couples!
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Visit Enneagram and Marriage & for all of your relationship tools and use code NEWYEAR for 25% off The 52-Week Glow Planner! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Often our instincts lead the way in marriage, sometimes even more than type. However, they can also be our biggest stumbling block. In this E + M Mini, join Christa in building a stronger foundation by bravely awakening your repressed instinct. You'll be inspired to take steps to thrive, not just survive, as you grow and glow together in marriage and family.
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Our second week of the New Year brings your brightest and best in the bedroom to the together as we discuss the 5 main sexual love languages in your marriage. In this episode, Christa not only shares some insights type by type sexually but also walks you through five love styles sexually, offering you tips to bring you back to the most intimate times together yet!
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Christa briefly walks you through five essential goal practices that have not only been life-changing and that are going to help you clarify and step into your New Year's rhythms and bring into your home and family for your brightest glow together! Visit Enneagram and Marriage & use code NEWYEAR for 25% off The 52-Week Glow Planner! Need a special getaway gift idea? Buy your Feb Glow Gala Dinner-Dance Tix for a Holiday Allure: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
We open Season Five of the E + M Podcast as Christa walks you through five habits that have been life-giving and life-changing for her and invites you into healthy rhythms for your new year.
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Resentments are one of the main issues in a marriage, and we've got the reasons why for both marriages in general as well as Enneagram users. E + M did research with our audience and today we're closing out 2022 letting go of resentments together. Take a deep cleansing breath and tune in with us to find out not only what the resentments of each type are as well as how to heal, release, and reconnect together.
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When the holiday stress arises and you need to just relax, there’s nothing more fun than hanging out together and talking about Christmas movies and the Enneagram! Join this casual convo with Christa and guest Amy Wicks of Wholehearted Enneagram and get double the type 7 joy and fun as we invite you into a full-out convo about both holiday Rom-Coms While You Were Sleeping and Elf, Enneagram style! And yes we did classify Elf as a rom-com for this TOTALLY carefree and fun time with you!
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Amy Wicks' Wholehearted Enneagram Instagram Page:
Amy Wicks' Wholehearted Podcast
Amy's Website Simply Wholehearted
During a season of dysregulation, it's easy to forget the good of our spouse. Studies also remind us that the holiday vibes create a wishful desire for our spouse to match the latest Hollywood holiday heartthrob. But what if you settled your heart in a peaceful, loving, joyful, and also realistic way? What if you regulated yourself enough to see the good each type brings to life and to marriage this holiday and beyond? Take a moment to dive into a relaxation practice with us, to release stress, and to really allow the beautiful gifts each type sink in this season. Join us as we do this together!
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Though each member in a couple can balance one another out as we give to one another, there are also certain ways we crash together in terms of our head, heart, and body centers. Today's E + M listener-requested mini-podcast helps us to not only avoid predictable pitfalls when we consider the tendencies of the Enneagram types merging with one another across and within the heart, heart, and body triads, but also to find our way to healthier connection and vulnerability together!
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Have you been going through the motions lately, scared to look under the surface for fear you may not be able to get back up again? Today's episode has specific tips geared toward helping you to walk from the shadows and into the light and life you were made for. Neal and Carly Samudre, founders and a therapist and coach team, expertly help us to not push emotions down, but to embrace each one as it comes and to find joy, flow, and hope on the other side.
Episode links:
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So many times, we don’t realize that the parental overlays from our first few years of development have laid a foundation that runs deeper than we can imagine. In this mini episode, Christa runs through the dysregulation patterns of each Enneagram type just in time for the holidays so you can make sure that you are not only aware of potential connection disruptions, but also truly prepared for the very best times together in life and marriage!
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Destiny Boyum, MT-BC, Enneagram 2w3 joins Christa on the podcast today to help our community to process how music therapy can heal and soothe and even potentially mend marriage communication, sexual intimacy, sleep, grief, and dysregulation. Don't miss this special episode on music and marriage in your Enneagram as well as our special gift to you, type-by-type audience submitted E + M playlists!
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When the holidays get busy, it can be so easy to get lost in the shuffle of the tyranny of the urgent. However, without intention, you not only won't merge your Enneagram gifts to find your best and brightest ways to glow in the world, but worse, you can fall into the shadows. Join Christa for this mini that includes a brief writing exercise as well to get you fired up and focused together out there as you shine!
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As we head into the topic of marriage communication, Christa takes us on a journey of nonverbal communication research and why the tiny nuances in microexpressions matter more than you may have ever realized. We talk about mitigating communication, good encoding, acoustic manipulations, and so mix more as we refine the very best of the 3 C’s of nonverbal communication styles in life and marriage together here!
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Are you feeling alone in your grief or even just stuck this season? Join Christa for a therapeutic journey of discovering ways of processing grief, learning to lament and move ahead, and honoring the story within. Show Links: Dr. Mekel Harris, PhD >> Free Mindful Grief Journaling Prompts << Use the code "HOLIDAYGLOW" for $10 off of ALL PDFs @ www.enneagramandmarriage.com Need a special getaway gift idea? Buy your Feb Glow Gala Dinnr-Dance Tix for a Holiday Allure: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
The dangers of a complacent marriage are many, ranging from stagnancy to infidelity, the latter of which makes trauma imminent. During the holidays, as couples get busier, marriage often gets put on the back burner and the allure is gone. However, "do no harm" can hurt just as much as an overt issue, and in this episode, we address both the makings of an affair as well as the makings of a magnetic monogamous relationship! Join Christa for an episode on affair prevention and the discovery of your best glow together. Use the code "HOLIDAYGLOW" for $10 off of ALL PDFs @ www.enneagramandmarriage.com Need a special getaway gift idea? Buy your Feb Glow Gala Dinnr-Dance Tix for a Holiday Allure: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
How can you best shine together this holiday? This episode is not only a safeguard against stress and struggle over the holiday maritally, but it's an important shortie episode for you to remember the best ways to show up for your partner so you truly get your glow on together! Listen to tips for each type so you can remember the tips with all the various pivots across type, wing, arrow, and more that you each take all through the holidays for your very best together! Use the code "HOLIDAYGLOW" for $10 off Need a gift idea? Buy our Feb Glow Gala Tix for a Holiday Gift: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
We're digging into the nuances of how each of the nine Enneagram type communicates in terms of their communication style strengths and stressors in marriage. We've brought communications expert and Instagram influencer Steph Barron Hall, Enneagram 3 of @NineTypesCo for this special final piece of her two-part episode with us! As you listen, you can truly intentionally cross the bridge of clear communication together, meeting one another on the journey, and finding your way to the brightest glow yet. Show Links: Steph's Popular Nine Types Co. Instagram ninetypesco Steph's pod & program www.EnneagramIRL.com Steph's website with her course: https://ninetypes.co/ Closing the Confidence Gap (book Steph mentions on the episode) Need a gift idea? Buy our Feb Glow Gala Tix for a Holiday Gift: https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Types Two, Seven, and Nine stay as positive as possible and as such there are some extremely important reminders as you learn to walk through your love life with them! In this mini-episode, we're talking about incorporating healthy love initiation and responses with Enneagram Types Two, Seven, and Nine to give you a straightforward and simple shortie relational boost! Show Links: Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on all of the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
We all need good tools for marriage communication as we try to stay warm together this holiday season ahead. Christa is joined for this important 2 part communication conversation by none other than Steph Barron Hall of the popular Nine Types Co. Instagram account. Here in part 1, you're getting 3 tips for communication for all couples surrounding family culture, narrative, and listening. We also get to learn how Steph, a 3, intentionally avoids burnout and is learning to stay strong as an individual and family member, especially as she glows out there with her ambitious and hardworking hubby, Brandon, Type 1. Show Links: Steph's Popular Nine Types Co. Instagram ninetypesco Steph's website with her course: https://ninetypes.co/ Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on all of the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Types Four, Six, and Eight are quite passionate and as such there are some extremely important lessons to find - and keep - love with them! In this mini-episode, we're talking about incorporating healthy love initiation and responses with Enneagram Types Four, Six, and Eight to give you a straightforward and simple shortie relational boost! Show Links:
Struggling in your marriage or just need some support? Today, Wednesday, Nov 2, 2022 is the LAST day to have you join our membership! Join here now << for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on all of the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Dr. Jerome helps us to understand how we develop provocative differences in marriage over time, differences that can cause conflict but that are essentially important for brain health or neuroplasticity. In this fascinating interview on brain and body health in marriage, we look at both our top Enneagram proficiency areas as well as those in which we have a lower aptitude - we need both to level us out. Dr. Jerome also helps us to take small steps to learn to practice pacing with one another better as friends, partners, and companionship through breathwork and healthy evolving together in the head, heart, and body. Join us for this important topic as we learn to calm down our sympathetic nervous systems and truly help our bodies to know we can handle whatever comes our way! Show Links: www.DrJerome.com Dr. Jerome E-Course Listen Notes - The Collection of Podcasts with Dr. Jerome Dr. Jerome's Instagram
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Types One, Three, and Five are quite logical and as such there are some extremely important straightforward ways to finding love with them! In this mini-episode, we're talking about incorporating healthy love initiation and responses with Enneagram Types One, Three, and Five to give you a practical and simple shortie relational boost! Show Links:
Struggling in your marriage or just need some support? We would love to have you join our membership! until Nov 2! Join here now << for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on all of the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
You bring your internal narratives to everything you do, and as such, the stories and scripts inside of you not only matter but affect your life more than you may realize. Today's podcast gives you a chance to recognize your inner narratives and offers steps to help you become more grounded as you incorporate an inner Enneagram coaching technique that you can use as you prepare to enter the ups and downs of the holiday season. Before we walk through this exercise together, Christa and Jenn also lead you through an internal E + M discussion about what's on the inner track of the E + M Membership, the Collective. Join Christa and Jenn on the podcast today as they talk about not just weaving a healthier internal and external story, but offering steps for seeing through a healthier lens in life and marriage! Show Links:
Our membership is open only until Nov 2! Join here now << for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on all of the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 1, 4, and 7, create patterns of idealistic expectations that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 1, 4, and 7, and the ways they can bypass the realities and deep connections of marriage, in favor of seeking impossible ideals. Check the last two Wednesday for the other six types in marriage! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 1, 4, 7, and all the types right here! Show Links:
Our membership is open only until Nov 2! Join here now for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, and 9 and all the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Sometimes we do all the right steps and we still don't get the desired results with family and friends around us. Dr. Alison Cook joins us with some profound answers as she invites you to say a healthy "yes" to others even as you set boundaries for yourself. Join Christa and Alison as they discuss not only riveting points from Dr. Cook's book about boundaries in general, but also how to approach in-laws from each and every direction, whatever generation you're currently a part of. This is because we truly want you to be held in every season, and the best of your precious legacy as well. Find Dr. Alison Cook's Book & Social Media at the links below! Dr. Cook's The Best of You is >> right here! << Dr. Alison Cook's >> website & tools << Dr. Alison Cooke's >> Instagram << We also talk about the E + M Collective opening our doors again for those who need extra support over the holidays! >> Join the E + M Collective Membership << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 3, 6, and 9, create patterns of comforting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 3, 6, and 9, and the ways they can bypass deep connection in favor of comfort. Stay tuned for the other types! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, 9, and all the types right here! Show Links:
Our membership is open only until Nov 2! Join here now for extra podcasts weekly, Zoom meet ups, and your 5 Step Glow Process Course + PDFS! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 3, 6, and 9 and all the types right here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
In-law issues and extended family are enormous contributors to marital discord. Because of the exorbitant stress, one of the best ways to look both inward and outward at this complex dynamic is with an Enneagram 9 therapist and we're doing that on today's episode. Hailey Brown, LCMHC has not only been a counselor for the past decade but is also an Enneagram and Marriage certified coach. We get to not only hear about Hailey's 9-5 marriage story (two withdrawing types, a rare treat on this pod!) and also her perfectly-timed tip with extended family just a bit before we get to holidays. Don't miss these calming and clarifying tips and we walk you through your extended family issues with grace and wisdom today! Find Hailey's Instagram & Sat & Light Counseling and Coaching Services at the link below! https://www.instagram.com/salt.light.therapy.enneagram/ https://www.saltandlightcounselling.com/ >> Join the E + M Collective Membership << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Some of us, particularly those who identify with Enneagram 2, 5, and 8, create patterns of rejecting behavior that potentially hinder their quality of life and their love match. Join Christa for a mini-episode on the Harmony groups as we discuss types 2, 5, and 8, and the ways they can reject nurturing and accidentally bring out something they fear most, rejection from the ones they love. Stay tuned for the other types! Learn even more in our deeper dive PDFs on types 2, 5, 8, and all the types right here! Make sure you subscribe @ Apple Podcast for our mid-week deeper dive podcast series also, currently on attachment types. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
When we're considering how to glow or even relate with a spouse from a different family pattern than us, we are often called to not only marital or personal but spiritual work as we come across our unhealthy inner scripts. It's wonderful to get to process this topic and to do a spiritual exercise to the depths with Marilyn Vancil, 9, Spiritual Director, Author, and Enneagram teacher as she launches her new book, Beyond the Enneagram. Marilyn has not only been studying the Enneagram for over thirty years but she also has been married to her husband Jeff, Enneagram 3 for over fifty years. Marilyn is truly showing us an exhibition of the glow possible across seasons and her passion for helping people to listen to God, experience inner soul restoration, and enjoy a life of freedom and fullness as their true God-gifted self is seen. Marilyn's Books: Self to Lose, Self to Find Beyond the Enneagram Marilyn's Instagram Donate to Hurricane Ian and the Anna and Ryan Herzog fund: https://gofund.me/c2776609 Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
In today's mini-episode with Christa, we share an extension of gratitude for the kindness and love shown in this time of Hurricane Ian crisis and our current positioning in the midst of it.
Christa also mentions her dear friends Ryan and Anna Herzog and their teen daughter Lily on this episode who lost their home suddenly in Hurricane Ian last Thursday. If you'd like to donate to their GoFundMe page, here is the donation page!
Anna, Ryan, and Lily's Go Fund Me
If you'd like to otherwise help those without a home and food and medical supplies in this time due to Ian, contact the Red Cross Ian relief below:
https://www.redcross.org/donate/donation.html/
For many, a marriage or close relationship with addiction is the norm, and yet life with an addicted partner is not only not the ideal, but is often a source of chaos, negativity, emotional upheaval, and worse, sometimes for generations on end. Join Christa in this special episode with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D, who has a specialty in working with couples and addictions. Dr. Russo shares clarified great hope and tips for those walking on this often lonely and misunderstood road.
Show links:
Dr. Russo and Christa's 2-hour addiction training Sat, Oct 1, 2022
Click here for the training: https://connectionsrelationalrecovery.com/crr-workshop-breaking-intergenerational-trauma-together
Addictions Inventory Mentioned:
https://auditscreen.org/check-your-drinking
Spousal Support:
https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/
As we talk about seasons of change, today we are focusing on how to walk through the shadows that often accompany us while remembering we are more than just our Enneagram patterns. Today we are joined by Seth Creekmore (Creek), Drew Moser (The Enneagram of Discernment), and Seth Abram (Abram) of the Fathoms Enneagram Podcast. Join Christa and the Fathoms podcast crew as we talk about about how to walk through our issues across seasons with grace, wellness, and intention.
Fathoms links:
Check out the Fathoms Podcast!
Fathoms Podcast Enneagram Instagram
https://www.instagram.com/integratedenneagram/
https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/
https://www.instagram.com/typetrailenneagram/
https://www.instagram.com/drewmoser/
Seth Creek: https://www.instagram.com/creekmoremusic/ and https://linktr.ee/ataenneagrampodcast
Enneagram and Marriage links:
The Glow Gala
Intergenerational Trauma Recovery Chat with Dr. Deborah Russo, Psy.D. and Christa Hardin, MA
https://connectionsrelationalrecovery.com/offerings
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Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Nine in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Nine? Find our guide right here!
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When we begin relationships, we often have no idea how past trauma from the past will affect us in the future, nor do we often know how to address it early on. Today we get to learn how Evan and Tiffany Doyle (Enneagram 5-2 Pairing) walked through their relationship stages both early on and then later when trauma patterns settled in, as well as how they built trust together. We talk about releasing secrets, dealing with shame and shadows, and shifting systems together in the relationship. Tune in to walk with us through this beautiful and hopeful love story.
Evan and Tiffany's links for the E + M Community:
https://freeofshame.com/ < The ministry Tiffany, Enneagram 2, discusses
https://mythrivingcommunity.com/marriage < Special trust-building resource just for our community from Evan, Enneagram 5!
www.EnneagramGift.com
Instagram @EnneagramGifts
The Glow Gala Dinner/Dance Link is below!
https://www.enneagraminyourmarriage.com/glowgala
Intergenerational Trauma training with Christa and Dr. Russo
Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Eight in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Eight? Find our guide right here!
Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Today we not only brief you on the stages of marriage across seasons, but we share seasons of a friendship "glow" also so you can make sure your friendships are healthy and strong also! Join us for a chat about the essential lessons friendships can teach us across the Enneagram types, and across the miles as well. Christa is joined by her best friend Stacey Day, Enneagram 2, as we share about wisdom gathered through a friendship that has lasted from the dating years through sending kids off to college and beyond. Show notes: Grab yout tickets for the Glow Gala here! Get your. ticket/s to the free Wholehearted Enneagram Conference here - starts Mon, Sept 12, 2022! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type as we share about the three subtypes of Seven in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Seven? Find our guide right here!
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As we roll into Fall this Labor Day episode, we aim to find rhythms and balance amidst work and family life, especially since the days are long but the years are short. Wellness and relationship coach Melissa Thompson of Reflections Counseling & Coaching, who truly balances much with grace and strength, offers you tips for the new season for your work, family, and personal life!
Episode links:
www.MelissasLifeCoaching.com
Melissa's Life Coaching Instagram
Get tickets for the Glow Gala here!
As Amazon Prime releases the new Lord of the Rings prequel, The Rings of Power, it's time for the merging of the worlds and a trek into Middle Earth for a special episode discussing JRR Tolkien's LOTR trilogy as well as having some fun Enneagram typing the fictional characters as well. For this epic journey, Christa is joined by Natalie Hooper of the The Lettering Wife, Enneagram 2, not only a huge LOTR fan in her own life and marriage (2-8 Glow), but she's also done gorgeous lettering and drawings of the archetypes. Join us for the episode and a fun contest also at Natalie's Instagram here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Six in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Six? Find our guide right here!
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Today's podcast offer both a personal and a collective experience for empowered healthy fitness lifestyle habits. Christa is joined by Sarah Thomas of Burn Fat and Feast, an Enneagram 1 (1-8 Glow). Sarah not only shares her hard journey from the college weigh-ins to truly empowered living with less of a focus on the scale. She has helped thousands to find their way back to abundant and strong eating rhythms. Instead of body shaming, we emerge from this month stronger for our marriages and families together!
Today's Episode Links:
Find Sarah Thomas's Burn Fat & Feast health coaching website here!
Find Sarah's Burn Fat and Feast and her truly on fire Instagram here!
Get the details on our Glow Gala dinner-dance event here!
Find your new Enneagram and Marriage merch here!
Don't forget your Wholehearted Enneagram Conference Ticket here free!
Write to us or visit us at Instagram to play the contest also! (What's one tip you learned from Jenn to enter to win a pair of Deep Dives + a Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Game!)
Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram contest: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Five in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Five? Find our guide right here!
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When you're struggling with healthy eating or extra weight, the last thing you need is to be shamed. However, your life and relationship is ever so much stronger when you're feeling good physically. And what better way to learn about the body than from a body type 1? Join me with accredited Health Coach Jenn Johnson. She is awesome at sharing life-changing health and fitness tips you won't want to miss for anything!
Today's Episode Links:
Find Jenn's health coaching website and info here! Find Jenn's Instagram here!
Get the details on our Glow Gala dinner-dance event here!
Find your new Enneagram and Marriage merch here!
Write to us or visit us at Instagram to play the contest also! (What's one tip you learned from Jenn to enter to win a pair of Deep Dives + a Supper Sleuths Mystery Dinner Game!)
Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram contest: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Four in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Four? Find our guide right here!
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We are indeed better spouses when we're energized and following a healthy fitness and eating routine, but let's face it, sometimes we simply need someone to cheer us on, someone who knows both Enneagram + Health Coaching. Today we are delighted to be joined by the fabulous health coach Myrna Cervetti, Enneagram 1, of Enneagram & Health (@Enneahealth on Instagram). If you need inspiration and hope for the journey, we give an added boost to each and every Enneagram type together! Find and follow Myrna's Enneagram & Health awesome website & Instagram below: Enneagram & Health Instagram www.Enneahealth.com Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Threes in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Three? Find our guide right here!
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As we lean into our health and fitness focus on the podcast this month, Christa takes an interview-style approach with her husband Wes, a specialist in family medicine, who has helped thousands of families with their healthcare needs across seasons of life and marriage. Make sure you tune in to this important discussion of getting and staying as healthy as possible together for your own happily ever after! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Twos in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type Two? Find our guide right here!
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As we pause to reflect on all of the growth of the seasons past, we transition to new spaces with spiritual growth in mind. Christa is joined by author Meredith W. Boggs, Type Eight, as she walks us through not only the virtues and essence of each Enneagram type, but also three of the most helpful spiritual practices for each of the Enneagram types as well. As we focus on growth, take a listen to this deep dive into practices you can take into your life, marriage, parenting, and friendships as well. Meredith's Resources: Pre-order the book we covered on this show >> The Journey Home <<
Finding Freedom: Healing Your Enneagram Types Core Wound with the Goodness of the Gospel >> https://signup.e2ma.net/signup/1970808/1765292/ << and her Instagram is right here!
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Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share about the three subtypes of Ones in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 1? Find our guide right here!
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Join us for our final episode in the July sex series with the wonderful Chris and Jamie Bailey of Expedition Marriage. Christa brings the hard but most important questions to Chris and Jamie about the journey to the most satisfying intimate experiences of a couple's life, and their life as a 9 and 6 on the Enneagram also. We are so happy to share this episode with you as not only do Chris and Jamie share the best of their marriage but they also share life lessons they've needed to learn along the way, tips you don't want to miss for your marriage either!
To follow Chris and Jamie, please visit them at Instagram at Expedition Marriage here!
You can find Expedition Marriage here on their website!
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Join us for this just-for-fun episode on Delia Owens' Where the Crawdads Sings. We talk with biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 5 about relationships in the story, the dominant instincts of the main characters, and this fun book and movie that has become a world best-seller!
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Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage?
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Nines want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 9? Find our guide right here!
Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod
Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
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Have you wondered how your survival instincts affect your sex life or lack of intimacy as a couple? The instincts are undoubtedly relevant as we talk with Enneagram researcher and sexpert, Sam E. Greenberg, Enneagram 5 about how you can grow together as you work to understand one another's ways of staying feeling loved, close, and safe in the world. Sam and Christa go over both the basics as well as the depths of each of the instincts and how you as partners can relax enough in your instincts together to enjoy a mutually pleasurable intimacy life together. Tune in as you find one another's very best together!
Check out Sam's resources here:
Sam's Instagram
Sam's website: https://enneagramsexpert.com/
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Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage?
Join us for this simple series on each type, including as we share what Type Eights want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 8? Find our guide right here!
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So many times couples aren't on the same page about sex and often it's due to one or both lacking desire. Find out four root causes that lead couples and especially women away from desiring sex in marriage as well as ways you can shine brightly not only in the world together but also in the bedroom. Join Christa as she brings not only clarity but also competency when it comes to healing the intimacy gaps in your relationship.
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Tune in to hear how masculine and feminine energy affect your marriage and your life. This episode kicks off this month talking all about sexual intimacy. Christa discusses the sexual polarity and differences between people attracted to one another. She gives actionable steps to bring you closer to your spouse and find the intimacy you crave!
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How do you not only build but keep intimacy and adventures over the long years of marriage? We talk real marriage tips today, not just the honeymoon, to the world's number one marriage podcast hosts Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo of the One Extraordinary Marriage Podcast. Join Christa with guests Tony and Alisa as they take us on a deep dive into their marriage story, and adventures, and share the 6 essential pillars of intimacy building! (Hint, you need them all!)
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After the honeymoon period of marriage, it's so important that couples work together to turn their dreams into reality together. Whatever your pairing, we're happy to get great tips from Enneagram & Marriage Jenn and her husband Rob today, who are part of the 1-3 Pairing. They're also taking us on a deep dive itno bringing health into your adventures and life together since Jenn's a health coach with awesome tips for all!
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What do you do when you've got two opposite temperaments system in your marriage or relationship? One of Christa's favorite mentors, Dr. Sharon Otis, PhD, Enneagram 2 (2-9 Glow), is here for the task of telling you how she's done it and how you can do it too! With positivity through tremendous trials, with grace, and with lots of love, Sharon is here with joy, hope, and the wisdom of fifty years of working with family systems. This is a #lifer episode you don't want to miss!
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This special anniversary episode with Christa and Wes as they go over the very best and worst of adventuring together in marriage. You'll get tips for how to plan for as well as to enjoy your marriage and plan for amazing adventures together as we open up the month of June and hear from various couples and individuals about how to plan the adventures of a lifetime together! Join us for this special anniversary episode with us! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here through June 14. Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a review so others can find us, too right >> here <
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Let's take the mystery out of what makes for a great couple pairing. Today Christa is joined by Dana and Johnny Lawson who are #goals for so many in their community because of their beautiful love story. Have fun in this special episode with us and guess the personality type of this wonderful couple over at Instagram here for a chance to win our special Memorial Day contest! Grab your mystery dinner kit PDF here for $5 off with code "MYSTERYCOUPLE" at www.suppersleuths.com Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Do you want to know the collective facts about what each Enneagram type wants in marriage? Join us for this simple series on each type, starting right here with what Type Ones want in marriage and family life! Want a deeper dive into the type 1? Find our guide right here! Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14!
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Goal-getting differs type by type and stumbling blocks are a very real thing. As we talk about marriage and individual goals in terms of the nuances of each type, join Christa in unwrapping how to get through blocks each type experiences. Most of all, discover how to get through those blocks! Be sure to find the chart-topping new book Speaking Through the Numbers to help you in your goal getting and make sure to use our E + M code for a major discount! All links from today's episode below. Coupon code: EMPOD30 for 30% OFF + FREE US SHIPPING right here at www.ivpress.com Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Jealousy is often an under-discussed issue in achieving marriage and life goals. Join Christa in a brief convo and exercises in addressing and discharging jealousy that arises as we do our work with intention. Join the E + M Membership, the E + M Collective here! Doors close June 14! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Marriages statistically drop in health once babies come and yet your marriage is more than just a statistic. Join Christa as she talked with psychologist and professor Dr. Camden Morgante, Enneagram 6 and her husband John, Enneagram 9 as they tell us some of the best ways they've gone from pre-pregnancy to happily married and well-adjusted to life with two kids! All links from today's episode below. Show Minutes:
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When you're stuck in a rut, it's often helpful to hear how someone else worked through something, and the ancient stories in the Bible truly bring the instinctual lens home to us. Join Christa for a brief journey and a sharing of wisdom gained through the narratives of biblical characters who struggled with the same instinctual issues as we do in life and marriage.
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The Enneagram stances assist us so well with goal-setting in marriage and life and today, Christa is joined by speaker, Enneagram theorist, author, and coach Sean Palmer, Enneagram 3 (3-1 Glow Pairing) to walk you through your goals with both love and success together. Continue plunging the depths of communication across stances in Sean's chart-topping new book Speaking Through the Numbers and make sure to use our E + M code for a major discount! Important spots in the pod by minute: Preview & E + M Updates: 2:00
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In this E + M Shorts episode, Christa brings us a visual of each of the types coming together as a collective to make a beautiful event, and in this case, a party! As you will hear, every single type is needed to make the project or process the very best and as we open the doors to our new E + M Collective, we hope you will bring your type to the E + M Glow adventure together!
The E + M Collective Membership, an Enneagram + Marriage Membership is OPEN! Founder's pricing only till June 1, 2022 and membership doors close June 14, 2022! We have a dynamic relationship training mini-course inside for you to find your glow together, exclusive marriage PDFS for you, monthly live Zoom trainings with Christa, and a FB group that opens June 1 also as we come together to shine out in the world.
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Marriage has many seasons and today, Christa talks to one of her favorite couples, author and executive pastor at Willow Creek Church, Tim Stevens and his wife Faith Stevens, 2-5 Glow, about setting important marriage goals around all the seasons of marriage. As they remind us, it may seem slow at times but it goes by really fast and about how to prioritize dates, geting away, not scaring your kids away from God, and previous Enneagram coaching with Christa. E + M Collective is also open for enrollment till June 14 for those who want group coaching support and so much more. Founder's rate until June 1!
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As spouses grow and shift in marriage, it's going to make the ride a bit bumpy at times, with one of you potentially dragging one another along or unintentionally sabotaging or undoing the work of the other partner. This is a must-listen E + M short on how to avoid sabotaging the marriage relationship while you're each on your own growth journey with us here at Enneagram & Marriage.
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We look for the missing pieces of ourselves as we’re trying to find a soulmate as well as in our spouse if we're already married. But if we're not healthy ourselves in our attachment styles, will this really help? In our desperation to make the best match, we often miss doing some of our own work. Join Christa and guest "The Date Doctor Christie", Dr. Christie Kederian, EdD, MFT who has paired the Enneagram with both the healthiest dating and long-term attachment strategies both for those married and for those seeking a mate as well!
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Dr. Christie Tcharkhoutian Kederian EdD, M.A., MFT Is a National Dating&Relationship Expert, Coach & Consultant: Work with Christie Representative of Education for California Association of Marriage and Family Therapist Featured: ABC, NBC, LA Times, Wall Street Journal & KTLA News Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific relationship question for the show? Fill out this form to get your podcast questions answered!
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A Forgiveness Practice: The E + M Shorts Series When hurts blocks you from forgiving someone in your life, whether it be your spouse, family member, friend, or maybe even yourself it can be tempting to hold on to the feeling of control and bitterness. Join Christa for this mini-episode where she leads you in a forgiveness practice you can experience as many times as needed as you release to God during this special E & M Short specially made for our vices and virtues month on the Enneagram & Marriage Podcast.
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Conflict is an important part of a relationship, it's how we learn. But when we turn towards one another and attune, we learn how we can truly grow together. Christa is joined by Gottman level 2 coach Melissa Thomson, Enneagram 2 who is also E + M Certified to cover this important topic of couples learning to open their hearts to one another in ways that will truly help them to both self-attune as well heal on the deepest of levels emotionally, spiritually, physically, and bodily as we go through each of the Enneagram types together.
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Every person within an affair has a story and when a couple decides to heal together, those stories must be told, often again and again so the couple can find healing rhythms together in the aftermath. Join Christa with one of the world's leading marriage experts and professors from Northwestern's Family Institute, Dr. Alexandra Solomon, PhD, Enneagram 3w2, as she discusses the very best and researched-backed ways to heal together.
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What do you do when you get to the end of yourself and you realize your deeper personal and emotional vices are hurting you, your marriage, and your closest relationships? Christa is joined by author Tyler Zach, Enneagram 3 (3-6 Glow with his wife Lindsey) who is a co-pastor of a multi-ethnic church and heads up the Gospel for Enneagram Instagram account to talk about this through the lens of faith and community. Take a peek with us inside of the hopeful narratives of many heroes of the faith who also struggled with the very same things as we do!
Show notes:
Tyler is currently writing 40-day devotionals for EVERY Enneagram type. He’s written books for Type 3, 4, 6, and 9. Type 1 is coming out this June 2022. Just go to his web site to get them: www.gospelforenenagram.com.
Tyler started an Instagram account (@GospelForEnneagram) which has grown to over 20,000 followers. You can get lots of free Enneagram faith-related content there. He’s also on Facebook (www.facebook.com/gospelforenneagram) and Twitter (https://twitter.com/gospelforgram).
Because some Christians are skeptical of using the Enneagram, Tyler’s written an e-book called “Should Christians Use The Enneagram?” which you can download for free on his web site www.gospelforenneagram.com.
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A lot of our sexual issues stem from issues we just aren't talking about, some of them from within the well-intentioned church of the last few decades. Your married sex can be healed, however, and today's podcast with Christa and Sheila Wray Gregoire offers you beautiful reminders of redeeming romance in the bedroom. can work through! This is an episode that can change your sex life forever!
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Nine in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Nine, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Nine in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Nine (and all the types!) >> here << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Christa is joined by Lisa Carter of Stonegate Fellowship as they discuss the fascinating forgiveness research surrounding the Enneagram and marriage. Learn through you and your spouse's type's lenses so you can find ways back to true and unfiltered and forgiving connection with your spouse!
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Eight in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Eight, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Eight in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Eight (and all the types!) >> here << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
There are three distinctive ways of being that are hard-wired into our nervous systems and they are associated with the three centers in the Enneagram, body, heart, and mind. Today Leslie Hershberger, Enneagram expert of 25+ years, and married to her husband Dave for 40 years, shares with us here and on YouTube about the ways we process conflict in marriage. Don't miss Leslie's very deep dive into the centers with us as she unpacks the ways we defend our positions as well as the ways we can continue to find a richer path to healing together. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/g9QQ1JDz44U Find Leslie's website here! https://lesliehershberger.com/ https://lesliehershberger.com/courses/foundations-of-the-enneagram/ World Vision Ukrainian Fund Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Seven in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Seven, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Seven in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Seven (and all the types!) >> here << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Many couples think that conflict is bad or unhealthy but our most recent studies and experts on the show, including Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of the world-renowned relationship outreach, Marriage Helper, disagree. Conflict keeps a marriage honest, healthy, and allows couples to learn with each other and to teach one another. Today Christa is joined by Kimberly, who is an Enneagram 3, to talk about the healthy ways couples can specifically grow in the area of conflict resolution so that they can use it to strengthen them and not tear them apart.
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What happens when real love is actually on tap at Netflix? Tune in to hear our fun tea and convo on the social experiment of Season 2: Love is Blind as we discuss the love stories that skyrocketed the show to the number #1 rank on Netflix last week and had seventy percent of our audience intrigued. Christa and guest Olivia Haymond bring you right into the experiment with us as we discuss the love we saw on air, surmise about being in the shoes of the show members, and of course, try to extend grace and wisdom as we wrap our fascinated minds around the good, the bad, and the ugly of love blindness with you! Grab your deeper dive here: Deep Dives
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Six in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Six, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Six in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Six right here (and all the types!) >> here Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
How can we shift our knee-jerk instinctual responses in marriage? How can we offer more compassion and growth opportunities where we may have written one another off as deficient? In today's episode Christa chats with world-renowned Enneagram teacher, thought leader, and coach Beatrice Chestnut of CP Enneagram Academy about how we can both respond to and gently learn to shift and balance with our spouses, partners, and communities as we learn about our SP (self-preserving), SX (sexual), and SO (social) instincts together.
Find Beatrice Chestnut's books, podcast, and masterclasses with Uranio Paes at CP Enneagram here
https://cpenneagram.com/
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Five in marriage and relationships. They talk about the origins of a Five, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Five in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Five right here (and all the types!) >> here << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Today’s podcast is a special show that aims to both inspire and balance you as we talk about walking through the season of darkness and divorce with Enneagram author Kim Eddy, Type 1. It's so important to know how to support the many who go through a divorce in friend circles, in extended families, and especially when it's personal to you. Join Christa and Kim as we talk through tips for not letting bitterness overtake us in these moments but instead slowly learn to light a candle of grace in the dark as we hold onto faith, hope, and community.
Links from today's episode:
Find & follow Kim Eddy at Instagram >> here <
https://www.instagram.com/christianenneagram.coach/Kim's clarifying Enneagram book is right here!
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Four in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Four, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Four in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!
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Although the love languages were created several decades ago, the Truity Psychometric Assessment team recently studied 500,000 modern individuals to find out if the data had shifted. Evidence shows there are now seven styles of love for partners to discuss and to discover their best ways of loving together, which is exciting. We're talking about them here with Truity's founder and CEO Molly Owens, Enneagram 4 as we bring research practically into our homes and into our hearts together! Don't miss this chance to learn and grow with us as well as to take the test yourself!
Episode Links:
To take the free test visit Truity's 7 Love Styles Test >> here <<
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Three in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a Three, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Three in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long! Grab your PDF copy of our in-depth Deep Dive on Type Three right here (and all the types!) >> here <<
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We all desire romance but making it happen is an intentional process, one that takes both motivation and effort after the honeymoon period of a relationship. However, just because something is hard doesn't mean it's not worth the investment. In fact quite the opposite is true - you and your relationship are very much worth it. Join Christa with special guest Alicia Larkey, an Enneagram Life and Marriage Coach, Enneagram 2, as you discover the secrets to your deepest and most vibrant intimate life together. To find Alicia for more inspiring resources, visit her at: Alicia Larkey Certified Enneagram Life Coach & Marriage Coach Website: www.AliciaLarkey.com Instagram: @AliciaLarkey Professional Wedding Photography & Disney Weddings: Website: www.MakeItHappenPhotography.com Instagram: @MakeItHappenPhotography Disney Inspired Etsy Shop Shirts, Sweatshirts, Hats, Masks, Decals and more Website: www.etsy.com/shop/makingmagichappenco Instagram: @Making.Magic.Happen The Enneagram Girl Etsy Shop Enneagram Gifts & Apparel || Opening March 1, 2022 Website: www.etsy.com/shop/TheEnneagramGirl Grab your deeper dive here: Deep Dives
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Love takes many shapes in families and in this special episode, Christa and her daughter Hannah take you on a journey to delve deep into The Notebook and briefly, Encanto. In this special coffee-shop style chat about love, romance, and family bonds, join us as we consider who these characters really are as they struggle to find themselves. We also talk about what deep love and commitment really means across seasons and generations. Whether you're married or single, join us in the bustle of the cafe as we analyze all of these memorable characters!
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type Two in marriage and relationships.
They talk about origins of a Two, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram Two in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!
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As couples, we tend to fall into relationship patterns that make us both comfortable and friendly together. This is great but you don't want to leave intimacy behind in your desire for healthy long-term attachment. Amy Wicks, Enneagram 7 (7-9 Pairing) of the Simply Wholehearted Podcast shares her refreshing joy with us and her seventeen years of marriage wisdom as well! Tune in to hear tips for your marriage as you prepare to enjoy Valentine's Day and an entire month's focus on romance here with us at the E + M Podcast! Episode Links: Amy's awesome Simply Wholehearted Podcast!
Amy's Instagram
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Join Christa as she and Jenn take you on a deep dive discussing the following traits of Type One in marriage and relationships. They talk about origins of a One, the vices (passions), fixations (thought patterns), subtypes, wings, arrows, and most of all tips for a healthier and more fulfilled life and marriage. Share this episode with the Enneagram One in your life so you can shine brighter together all year long!
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We're entering the terrain of bringing the brain into romance today and there's no one better to help guide us there than two head types, Cassandra and Dylan Boom (5-7 Glow). We not only get to learn about their beautiful and fun love-at-first-sight introvert-extrovert story but also about their commitment to ongoing learning together. Dylan and Cassandra also love displaying their love as an interracial African-Canadian and German/Dutch Canadian couple, graciously reminding us that love comes not only in all Enneagram types but in all shades and cultures as well.
Important Links Mentioned on Today's Show:
Cassandra's Instagram Account
Dylan's Instagram
https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2017/love-actually-science-behind-lust-attraction-companionship/
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Join Christa and guests Juli and Thomas Hobby from Marriage Puzzle as we break down both individual and couple strategies for making sure your mental wellness stays in check all year long. Whatever your Enneagram type, you're getting tips so you can find your way back to time logging off, time leaning in, and time loving your people intentionally.
Episode Links:
https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle/
https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/
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Doing your bodywork is so much more than just fitness and nutrition, it's about engaging on a microlevel both at your own body and hormones, as well as taking a deep and refreshing look at the world around you. Join Christa and guest, biologist Katy Beckham, Enneagram 6 (6-1 pairing, Perfectly Planned) as she talks about life, marriage, bodywork, and the keys to a less anxious and more empowered, healthy life for her pairing and all types.
Episode Links:
https://www.fitrwoman.com/ - the app for hormones
To find our guest Katy Beckham, biologist, and 1-6 Glow Pairing, find her on Instagram at @weareallhumanpodcast
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Over time in our relationships, we absolutely must be able to go deep into the recesses of both joy and grief in life and marriage. As we talk about emotions, Christa is joined by author Elisabeth Bennett of Enneagram Life, as she talks about all things emotions for every type, the 4-1 pairing and her popular Enneagram devotional series. Elisabeth shares invaluable tips from the contemplative and open-hearted 4w5 perspective as we walk through both grieving well and stepping back into life with love and joy.
Episode Links:
https://www.fitrwoman.com/ - the app for hormones
Find Elisabeth's books, work and IG below!
https://www.elisabethbennettenneagram.com/
https://www.instagram.com/enneagram.life/?hl=en
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You know that last-minute resolutions aren't going to get you on your way in your marriage for 2022 as well as we do. Instead it will be grace-filled intentional growth that gets you there, growth that factors in your personality type, your instincts, and your nuances as a pairing. Join Christa and Jenn for tips for your head, heart, and body as you plan your very best for the next step of growth!
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With all of the Enneagram tools out there, sometimes it's hard to know what order we do our work in. Though there will be nuances for each person and relationship, the work we do as couples does need to have a particular flow if we're going to make any headway individually, one to one, and in shining our lights together in the world also. Join this special show to learn how to move with personal refreshment, couple growth, and to make a fun and beautiful impact together in the world also as we study the order and flow of managing our instincts!
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Join this fun episode of Christa interviewing her teens Hannah and Melody about using the Enneagram as they talk casually and candidly about how the Enneagram can help or hurt them in their developing lives, families, and friendships. Figure out the best timing in sharing the Enneagram with your kids as you plan for, begin, or continue the parenting journey, how to grow and glow in type across time, and about how to both find your identity as well as avoid your kids getting boxed in by evolving type work.
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Join Christa for an episode packed with hands-on tips for re-energizing your Enneagram route to healing by living with intention as you grow in your life and marriage. Today's podcast differentiates wings from arrows and takes every listener on a type-by-type journey of how they can reclaim their arrow lines to offer them more routes and healthy options in their Enneagram growth journey, both personally and in marriage!
Listen to Christa's husband Wes talk on the Joy FM about our new couples' mystery dinner game
Grab our newest Christmas mystery game right here!
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Join Christa and Olivia for the annual E + M Christmas movie typing special in analyzing the rom-com "Serendipity." Set in Christmas in New York City in the early 2000s, Serendipity has so many playful and fun, romantic characters to type. The movie also brings so much encouragement to those seeking the right relationship as well as those seeking to revive their love. Grab some popcorn and a mug of hot cocoa and join us for this fun special and not-so-serious Enneagram and movie review and typing episode!
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We're always talking about which wing we "are" in our Enneagram types versus deeper diving into how we can use both wings to grow in our lives and marriage. In this episode, take a deeper dive with Christa into the route for how to move from one wing into the other so you are most balanced in your type work. We go type by type to process the nuances of what your work may look like and most importantly, how you can take this growth into your life so you can live life with beautiful attention and intention!
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Keeping your marriage and family goals aligned with your big dreams for shaping your corner of the world is an intentional process and there's no one better to talk about it on our show today than the ambitious Connor Swenson and Claire Dinan, both Enneagram types 378 on Truity's Enneagram assessment living out their dreams both at home in London as well as all over the world together. Join them in steps as they talk about the truly innovative four-step "Make Time" process that connected us to their love story!
Show Notes:
The book Make Time by Jake Knapp and John Zeratsky
Connor's website: https://www.connorswenson.com/
Connor and Claire's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/crswenny
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Holidays are a time for families to come together but often with the extra time comes the noticing of our disparities in marriage as well. Take time to listen to this week's episode with Christa and her assistant, coach Jenn Johnson (1-3 Glow) for a chat about all things love stories, Enneagram and the holidays. You'll get tips for how to keep your love alive as well as tips to avoid and work through marriage and relationship triggers, plus ideas for the kids also.
Episode notes:
These are the bingo cards Christa makes for her kids during Thanksgiving for a fun game time!
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When two expressive types come together, there's pure passion no matter the result. It's truly a journey to find balance with all the big love and feelings going on. Today Christa takes a journey with Kirsten and Jeshua Barker (2-8 Glow) as they help couples with lots of emotions process the ins and outs of dealing with the codependency that can occur with passionate pairings. They also share the blessing of the Enneagram across the family, and the process of their own healing journeys as they learned to come back together in marriage, now bringing their glow of love to others.
To work with Kirsten, see her relationship and life coaching work details below!
livebetterwithenneagram@gmail.com
www.livebetterwithenneagram.com
865-585-5789 Kirsten Barker's coaching line
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We've got a power-packed episode for you today as we discuss not only the E + M Glow Relationship Planner launch but also the all-important topic and research results from a recent marriage and sensory issues survey! Beth Johnson, Occupational Therapist and 1-1 Glow Pairing joins Christa for a riveting episode on how much our sensory issues can impact our marriages and cause stress in our families. Today's episode is full of teachings and tips and we can't wait for you to tune in!
Links from Today's Show:
DM Beth for an OT consult here and find Beth's sensory freebie right here and our other freebies right here! Beth is also on IG @enneablooms so be sure to add her there as well!
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Great, pleasurable sex life isn’t something a lot of people even in premarital counseling are taught since intimacy is such a private space. After having their 6 kids, Dan and Emily Purcell (types 7-9) of the Intimately Us App and the Getting Your Marriage On Podcast are sharing a tool that helps couples bring their morals as well as a ton of fun into their most intimate space together. Today Dan shares tips about the importance of intimacy, and love ahead of technique also.
To find Dan's awesome app, click the link below and you can also find his website and podcast at the link below!
https://intimately.us/
https://getyourmarriageon.com/podcast/
https://www.instagram.com/getyourmarriageon/
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Join Christa for a special conversation with Mexican-American recording artist Moriah Smallbone the day she releases "Worth," a song she produced with her Grammy-award winning husband Joel Smallbone on her brand new EP Live at the Quarry. Moriah and Christa discuss the stories behind the songs, Moriah's marriage story, and the ways they continue to inspire one another together creatively in their marriage glow. Amidst Enneagram learning, Moriah also discusses finding herself through history, culture, family, and most especially, faith.
To find Moriah's new release and all of her albums, visit:
https://www.moriahsmallbone.com/ and watch her and Joel's beautiful video of "Worth" on the YouTube video right here!
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Christa is joined by Enneagram and Marriage Certified Coach Lisa Carter of the 7-8 Love in Motion Glow pairing for a deeper dive into love languages. Christa and Lisa walk through the focus on the five love languages through the unique lens of the Enneagram and marriage, sharing how each type not only gives love but also feels loved. Lisa also introduces us to the ways Enneagram types speak forgiveness languages as well so a couple's gifts can shine all the brighter together in the world.
Email Lisa @ couples@stonegatefellowship.com
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The Enneagram Glow is a concept to describe how you and your partner’s combined relationship gifts shine brightly together in the world. On the flip side, it also provides a framework to work through your unique “couple shadow”. The glow we create together looks very different season to season and after years of struggle, coregulating, and exchanging our gifts. On today's show, Christa goes through the 6 Step Enneagram Glow process most couples go through and introduces the Glow freebie also!
The Glow Freebie!
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Whether you're a heart, head, or body type, your body is important and the ways you move and don't move affect your relationship quite a lot. Because of this, Christa interviews the amazing Hallie Ringhand, Enneagram 2, of New U & Fit Enneagram about helping couples with their health and fitness needs. Hallie is of the 2-6 Glow and not only does she tell us heart tips from over two decades of marriage but she also shares tips for all individuals about what to watch out for in their health and fitness needs.
Find Hallie @ www.newutoday.com
Hallie's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fit.enneagram/
Hallie's Fit Enneagram Podcast
Hallie's Patreon
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Do you feel like you're loved by everyone else but your own spouse doesn't appreciate you? Do you want to get both deep and practical in your growth journey? This episode covers some of the complexity of being married to someone with a different core fear and how to step into growth together. Christa interviews 3-6 Glow couple Pastor Matthew Stephen Brown and Tammy Brown about their mission to extend God's love for each other and the world through their lens of ministry and Matthew's new Enneagram book.
https://www.harpercollinschristian.com/9780785240853/a-book-called-you/
https://www.ivpress.com/all-things-enneagram/register
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When you're hitting trauma triggers in your relationships, you need to restore your body's sense of safety and survival to progress. Therapist and author Aundi Kolber, Enneagram 4, not only talks us through our body's responses to triggers with her trauma-informed approach Try Softer, but she also offers tangible healing steps. As we work to bring safety into our lives one grounding step at a time, Aundi reminds us that the result of this newfound freedom and growth will be a unique piece of our gift to the world.
Links from Show Notes:
https://aundikolber.com/
Aundi's Try Softer Book
The Accompanying Guided Journey Workbook
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Christa is joined by Des Schnell, Enneagram 3 of the 3-5 "Master Minds" Glow Pairing as we learn about working with both 3s and 5s in marriage as well as the pairing. We're also talking about not just working on marriage but being in one as ourselves honestly as people and as parents, as we continually lean into growth and grace. Join us for tips for on both maintaining your authenticity, finding your solace during raising children, and most of all, finding a deep heart connection together, no matter what your type!
Find Des at her size 5 through 5X IG boutique @josiejamesco and on her page for moms on IG @desschnell
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Are you looking for new ways to move in your relationship? Wondering what motivates certain behaviors and instincts in your partnership outside of your core Enneagram types? You won't want to miss the talk with Katherine Fauvre, discoverer of Tritype, a systematic way of looking at your gifts and issues through a multi-faceted lens. Here you'll get practical tips to use the information you discover, learn more about the heart connection between couples, as well as hear from listener Tritype questions as well!
Links from today's show:
https://www.katherinefauvre.com/
https://enneagramtritypetest.com/
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We all have certain routes we believe will help us in our life and relationships. However, they are actually the well-trodden but dysfunctional paths known as the ego-fixations that trip us up and create distance, disharmony, and conflict in our relationships, ultimately wounding us, our partners, and our families. Join Christa in hearing about not only the fixation of each type but in learning practical and sensitive solutions for helping individuals and couples of each and every type to find hope and healthy redirection.
Links from today's show:
For Julie Relyea's Editing Services, visit www.lovetowrite.co or email her at lovetowrite.co@gmail.com >> The Truity article on faith and diffusing your Enneagram Passions << Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
We all need refreshment and tips on how to get on the same page with a spouse or partner. In this episode, Christa is joined by financial experts, the energized 3-3 Glow pairing, Daniel and Kay of Centsei Financial, to help give you the tips that could change your financial trajectory forever. In addition to sharing their Truth in Love Glow Guide tips, Daniel and Kay take us on their marriage journey and give you tried and true tips for yours!
Show notes from today:
For Daniel and Kay's website and FREE budgeting course
https://centseifinancial.com/
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Are you struggling with staying focused and organized in this crazy moment of culture? Today's show covers mentally and physically energizing ways for couples, families, and individuals to get organized and to stay organized as we begin the new season! Christa is joined by the organizational expert, author, course creator, and podcaster Laurie Palau, as she shares her Enneagram and Clutter course tips, helping us to uncover the patterns, habits, and emotions under clutter as we consider Enneagram types as well.
https://simplyborganized.com/
5 Daily Practices in the Wake of Change
Link to Laurie's website: https://simplyborganized.com/
Link to the Enneagram & Clutter Course: https://simplyborganized.com/online-courses/
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Today's show covers the fascinating topic of how you can use the newest Enneagram Truity research to deepen your bond, to help you discover missing pieces together, or even to help you hone in on finding a partner. Truity's latest Enneagram personality tool helps couples to take their relationship to a healthier level together, but understanding how to use it makes all the difference. Christa is joined by Molly Owens, CEO of Truity as they join efforts in analyzing this compelling relationship research.
Relationship research at large:
www.Truity.com
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Today Christa and Beth McCord explore the Enneagram and relationships together as well as the deeper implications of the Enneagram. How does the Enneagram theory work with someone who's a Christian? Is it a healthy tool spiritually? How can we use it to grow closer to God? Finish out Season 2 with a close chat between Christa and Beth and find your way to grace, balance, and as always more great tools, including Beth's book, Becoming Us.
For a deeper dive into each type as you grow in your faith, check out the E + M personal link to the 40 Day Enneagram Daily Reflections Series edited by Suzanne Stabile, highlighting diverse authors and published by InterVarsity Press (See coupon code for the Enneagram series below)! All links from the podcast are below as well!
For Beth McCord's website, books, courses, podcast, and more, visit:
https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/
Enneagram Daily Reflections Series: enneagramtoday.com/dailyreflections
For Beth McCord's info on Enneagram and Faith:
https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/origins
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When you have a relationship rhythm where one partner has an entirely different way of moving through the world than you do, you have to learn to balance. Today Christa is joined by Sarajane Case to talk about her 7-4 Glow pairing with her husband Oby. Join two Sevens in a conversation about Oby falling in love with Sarajane in their better-than-fiction coffee shop romance love story, and more importantly, how they continue to learn the importance of pacing together to both embrace one another in the shadows and to find one another again in the hopeful light.
For Sarajane's Instagram @sarajanecase and @sarajanecasewrites
For Sarajane's website: www.EnneagramandCoffee.com
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When marriage research combines with the determination and strength of the awesome 1-9 Glow pairing, watch out for an honest-to-goodness explosion of fun and wisdom for all the world to learn from. Join Christa as she interviews New York Times and Booklist favorite, power couple Nate Klemp, PhD and Kaley Klemp, MA, (Kaley's also an Enneagram Institute Coach!) as they talk us through how we can turn a 50/50 marriage up a solid notch for a new levels of health with the 80/80 marriage and a model of radical generosity!
Find out more about Nate, Kaley, and the 80/80 Marriage here!
https://www.8080marriage.com/
https://www.kaleyklemp.com/
https://www.nateklemp.com/
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Your worldview greatly affects how you move in relationships and in life, and it especially influences how you get stuck, too. Depending on whether you're an idealist (1, 4, or 7), a relationalist (2, 5, or 8), or a pragmatist (3, 6, or 9), you operate differently, often contrasting your spouse in other groups or even a different kind of idealist, relationalist, or pragmatist than you. Listen to today's episode for insights on how to learn how your spouse sees the world and to grab the freebie also!
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Dr. Camden Morgante of the 9-6 Glow Pairing joins Christa to talk about both her pairing as well as her specialty of sex therapy. Many couples struggle in the sexual arena and today we take a different angle. Tune in to talk with us about some of the most painful and perplexing moments most couples walk through, including ED, pain and trauma in the bedroom, and more!
Visit www.DrCamden.com for more info on working with Dr. Camden or to check our her freebie.
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We're often so quick to grab our phones, work the extra hours, and totally forget about the best reasons for marriage, healing and play together. Sometimes there are deeper roots of connection we've lost or never really had and sometimes it's because we've just lost sight of what's really going to refresh us both as a couple and individually. We're joined today by Dr. Steve and Lisa Call of the Reconnect Institute, 3-4 Glow pairing and a beautiful heart dyad, who help us to reconnect to one another's hearts in beautiful ways. Tune in for their wisdom, their specific tips for play and honoring story in marriage, and for a beautiful reconnection for you!
Find the Calls at https://www.thereconnectinstitute.com/ and find them at IG @reconnectmarriage
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It's so much fun to get inside of a couple's brain and heart and find out what makes them tick - together! Caroline, a full out heart type 4 and Parker an optimistic 7, show us a piece of their lives and their 4-7 Beautiful Adventure Glow as well. After almost fifteen years of marriage, they've grown in learning how to love not only each other but the world together as they help hurting children across the world. Join this inspiring episode as you see just how deep love for others can run with two visionaries in a marriage!
Find Caroline and Parker's ministry outreach here:
www.FortheAmericas.org
Their social media links: FB & IG: @fortheamericas
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Ever wonder what the personality trends are during pregnancy? How your marriage will shift with a baby? This listener-requested episode was fun and fascinating to research. Tune in to hear the commonalities between types as well as the encouraging tips for getting through this difficult but tender and rewarding stage of life and marriage. Join Christa for stories, tips, as well as type by type trends on this week’s show!
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Although it may seem a bit like a paradox, the 8-9 dyad is a very popular Enneagram Glow pairing and for good reason. Today's podcast is an interview with Liza Carden, Enneagram 8 and business coach, who shares so many tips and tools for helping your 9 to feel heard, helping your 8 to feel healthily vulnerable, and whatever your type, will be a gift to many listeners alike who want to find their best compatibility as well as their own vibrancy in the world!
Liza can be found at www.lizacarden.com for her fantastic business and personal coaching and the Deborah leadership study she mentioned can be found here!
Liza’s IG is here!
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This week's interview with Jay Stringer, author of Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing, may be a truly life-changing episode for individuals or couples dealing with the ongoing cycle of addiction and destructive sexual behaviors. Get ready to embrace the opportunity to let your past story teach you about what it is you're truly looking for in the act of every destructive cyclical behavior, as well as how to find freedom from its grasp. Continue plunging the depths with Christa this week as she discusses Jay's programs as well as the excellent 40 Day Enneagram Daily Reflections Series edited by Suzanne Stabile and highlighting diverse authors published by InterVarsity Press (See coupon code for the Enneagram series below)! All links from today's episode below.
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Have you ever been told you’re good at guessing the types of others? Do you like hearing stories about couples who have gone the distance together? Today's episode is full of fun, family stories and forgiveness in marriage and is all for you as you get to try to figure out the mystery. What are this couple's types? Join us as Christa talks with Sears and Alisa Taylor on their surprising trek from fast-paced architecture life in the Windy City to farm-to-table life in Yuma AZ, where they homeschool their six kids and work out their version of happily ever after! Share your guess for their types for a chance to win our trifecta contest, a PDF mystery game of your choice, 2 PDF's of Alisa's gorgeous prints, and a hard copy of Christa's Just Your Type workbook as well!
Alisa’s art website: https://www.etsy.com/shop/AlisaTaylorDesign
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When big dreams meet parent life, assertive personalities must shift in stride, as best as they can. Join Christa in talking to the assertive 3-7 heart and head Jet Set Glow Pairing as the delve deep into parenting life, working through trauma together with EMDR, and most especially, learning how to titrate the combination of their personalities as they take on planning, pain, and positivity in marriage, for better and for worse!
Check out our guest's podcast at www.effectuallyactive.com
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Approaching addiction recovery in a family without grace can place an already vulnerable spouse and family right in the shame cycle when what they need most is the blueprint for both healthy attachment and healthy self-soothing. Join Christa and find hope in understanding more about the process of working on your spouse or family member's addiction with critical relationship tools and research, from both inside and outside of the Enneagram world.
Book referenced: Unwanted by Jay Stringer
National Addiction Helpline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
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You and your spouse are unique surely but when it comes to conflict, we've been learning that every type takes a different route. Learning yours and how to walk together without letting conflict get the best of you is key! Learn about how two heart types, 2 and 3, The Freemans, work together to move past their type issues and conflict styles. The Freemans also co-wrote "The Argument Hangover" and have helped almost a million people find their way back to health with their huge hearts and great tools!
Meet the incredible Freemans @ www.meetthefreemans.com < and find out about their coaching, courses, and free quizzes!
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Want both a drama-free marriage and the opportunity to work on conflict? Join the posh peacemaker Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD of the world renowned @mylovethinks as she takes us through this fascinating idea, sharing not only the depths and rhythms of her 3-9 Enneagram Glow pairing but also the ways she's learned to walk with patience each season, and with as little drama as possible. Dr. Morgan and Christa talk about the early years, mid point, and the best long game strategy for your pairing, too!
Find Dr. Morgan at www.mylovethinks.com
Find Dr. Morgan on IG @mylovethinks
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Dealing with conflict in marriage takes a certain amount of wisdom, patience, and love. Enneagram coach Brittany Thomas of one of the biggest Enneagram accounts, Enneagram Explained, takes us on the journey to find just that as she explains not only her 1-5 pairing Glow, Classically Brilliant, but also through the lens of the harmonic groups. Learn about the blind spots and strengths of those in the competency group (1, 3, 5), the reactive group (4, 6, 8), and the positive outlook group (2, 7, 9) as well.
Find Brittany's website at www.enneagramexplained.com
Find Brittany's IG @https://www.instagram.com/enneagramexplained/
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In this coffee and chat episode with the Maxey Co, Christa chats with Robby, 7sp and Morgan 1sp, to see how subtypes and gender cast a somewhat culturally different glow with a male 7 and female 1 in the mix. Learn exactly how the goodness of a body type can both ground and bring safety to a head type, while the head type brings self-compassionate and bigger dreams to the table. This couple is committed to bringing light and fun, yet vivid vulnerability as to what’s still in process, glowing and growing with grace.
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Child loss is something no one can prepare for fully nor can we full recover. However, support is not only possible but vital and this episode is full of just that for those who have walked this journey, as well as those supporting friends and family through it. Christa interviews Dave and Laura, the 2-9 Loving Hospitality Pairing, as they share the process of walking through their own loss and through their worldwide grief ministry GPS Hope, share specific tools and strategies to other families with loss.
To visit this 2-9 pairing's awesome grief ministry visit:
https://www.gpshope.org/gps-hope/
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When you're stressed, you either go within, find a friend or spouse to chat with, or you aim to get social support with your favorite crew! In relationships, sometimes our favorite ways of surviving don't exactly appeal to our partners. What's more, often we sabotage ourselves by isolating one or two of the ways to survive and completely repressing the other. Join Christa in finding ways to soften your dominant instinct, to enliven your repressed one, and to join your spouse in balancing the best of it all!
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Often in marriage, we bring our childhood wounds to the table in a way that carries on cycles, hurts our partners, and us too. Many times however, especially as we learn our Enneagram types, marriage can become a safe harbor for us to learn healthy vulnerability and attachment together. Join Christa in a talk with trauma expert Glenda Reagan who will help you find ways to grow close and to heal together and individually! Glenda also discusses her 2-5 Marriage Pairing!
www.emdria.org
https://app.trueself.io/landing
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Have you wondered why sex is so often out of sync? Why it's often only pleasurable for one, or why there's so much emotional and physical pain in this supposedly wonderful area for many couples? Join Christa in interviewing Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of the new and vitally important book, "The Great Sex Rescue: The Lies You've Been Taught And How to Uncover What God Intended." As an Enneagram 8, Sheila has been championing this important topic with courage and tenacity and helps couples trade in misguided sex narratives for truly intimate and passionate times together.
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Marriage issues cut deep to the heart and yet often it's uncomfortable to reveal ourselves at our vulnerable levels. Seth Studley, MA, LMFT and Melanie Studley, husband and wife and podcast hosts of the popular Anatomy of Marriage do NOT hold back as they admit to experiencing the rough edges of real marriage and how they've grown since finding the Enneagram. Join us as we talk about Melanie's 8 wing almost taking over as Seth as a 9 fell asleep, and hear how the Enneagram has been offering even a trained therapist and his family a chance to wake up to the possibilities of who they can become as they grow - and glow - together!
Find Seth and Melanie for podcast, community, and coaching here @
www.AnatomyofMarriage.com
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When you're raising a family, how do you bring your personality type and subtypes in for the best form in family? Perhaps just as importantly, how do you block the worst of your pairing from showing up as well? Join Christa with husband-and-wife power couple Daniel and Christina Im, co-hosts of the popular Im Between Podcast to find out. This double heart, assertive 3-3 pairing share about their life lessons as a truly dynamic duo, ultimately called to a narrative of true joy and strength they never could have imagined on their own. Daniel and Christina's Enneagram gifts freebie https://imbetween.org/printables/ Find Daniel and Christina's website @ www.imbetween.org, Instagram https://www.instagram.com/imbetweenshow/ Their Fb community https://www.facebook.com/watch/imbetweenshow/ and Daniel's new book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B083TD9CR5/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Are you engaged, planning a wedding, or in the first few years of marriage? Have you been married for awhile but you're struggling to remember the "musts" of marriage? Join Christa (and late in the episode, a surprise guest!) in this fun and all-inclusive episode that goes into marriage "do's and don'ts," the "Big 3" areas (sex, finances, and communication), and of course, type by type tips for you as well!
Episode Rersources
Premarital book:
https://www.amazon.com/Saving-Your-Marriage-Before-Starts/dp/0310259827
Money tips: https://www.rachelcruze.com
Tip for 5's on giving:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/vitality/201404/the-neuroscience-giving
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Your Enneagram work on your relationships is so important to your ongoing relationship success but did you know that before the world of Enneagram was popularized, there was and still is a marriage research system that every person working on their relationship will benefit from called The Gottman Method. Today's episode surrounds identifying key features of the research-based Gottman program for you to learn from the heart of a passionate therapist, Mac Cazeau, LMHC, who in addition to sharing the goal of relationship growth, also has the goal of eventually removing the stigma of therapy for people of color. Join us today for wonderful and specific Gottman recipe Mac shares for a healthy relationship!
https://www.gottman.com/product/the-seven-principles-for-making-marriage-work/ Get the Gottman book Mac recommends for practical, research-based marriage tools. www.therapyisforeveryone.org Find Mac's NYC practice online! IG: @talk2mac_therapist Follow Mac on Instagram for tons of Gottman tips Therapy + Enneagram Training hshorturl.at/lnET1 Michael Shahan's Enneagram course for therapists Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
We are so honored to have the best-selling author of "The Road Back to You" and "The Path Between Us," Enneagram teacher Suzanne Stabile as our guest this week. Suzanne expertly teaches us relationship tips for every type and also offers us tips to help avoid typing our spouses. Suzanne has learned so much over the years, not only from her 2 & 9 marriage pairing with her husband Joe, but as an Enneagram teacher of over 25 years, bringing both her wisdom and a most welcome heart-centered perspective.
Find Suzanne's books and info @ www.suzannestabile.com
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This Valentine's week, we have our first official Enneagram Glow story for you with Jared and Kate Shaughnessy, an Enneagram 8-3, "Unstoppable" couple sharing their powerful falling-in-love and maintaining love stories both! Get ready to learn how to be more intentionally and healthily passionate from this strong and assertive couple, as well as what it takes to humbly let down one's guard and to truly surrender as well. Jared and Kate share many practical tips about sexual intimacy, forgiveness, and personal growth and we're so excited for you to tune in!
Show mentions:
https://brenebrown.com/blog/2019/05/01/lets-rumble/
https://www.instagram.com/sparklefit4life/
https://www.instagram.com/lashandbrowdesignco/
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Among the most frequent questions around the Enneagram world are those that revolve around relationship pairings. Though there’s no such thing as the "perfect type compatibility," there are indeed fascinating relationship trends. In fact, this January 2021, Truity conducted an 88,000 person relationship study to aid in Enneagram and relationship research and we're so grateful to share the results! Join Christa and Molly Owens, founder and CEO of Truity Psychometrics in a conversation about frequently seen types, pairings, and the most interesting Enneagram and relationship findings.
To see the study in more depth:
www.Truity.com
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You hear about the holy idea of the Enneagram but how do we practically find soul care as we journey toward healthier life and relationship work? Join Christa with Penguin Random House authors Jackie Brewster, Enneagram 7 and Eve Annunziato, Enneagram 8 who have 7-3 and 8-5 relationships, respectively. Eve and Jackie have carefully and prayerfully laid the groundwork for you as you learn and grow, in their beautiful new Enneagram devotional book, Hearing God Speak: A Fifty-Two Week Interactive Devotional. This episode goes behind the scenes with these vulnerable and yet strong women to see how God brought them on a greater adventure than they ever could have imagined!
https://enneagramwithjb.com/
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/663170/hearing-god-speak-by-eve-annunziato-and-jackie-brewster/
https://www.amazon.com/Hearing-God-Speak-Interactive-Devotional/dp/0593232690/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=hearing+god+speak&qid=1611517512&sr=8-1
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Today's families in our current cultural climate need to balance our hearts, minds, and body instincts more than ever. As anger brews in the world often for good reason, this MLK Day, we're taking time to process from a place of peaceful reintegration with our lost center's gifts, specifically the gift of the five senses and the body, especially considering our 8, 9, and 1 work. Don't miss out on ways to connect and to grow in family and marriage with healthy vulnerability, strength, and always, love.
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As you begin a new journey of 2021, how can you manage the massive levels of stress that we're dealing with right now as a culture, now including not only a global pandemic and a racial justice movement but also the issues at the Capitol last week? How do you help a spouse with their stress as well as show patience and love for people who are different from you? Perhaps most important to these times, how do you stay afloat so you can best serve others despite the mounting stress? Join Christa in finding the best routes to shift into health and love this season as individuals, in marriage, and type by type with Enneagram arrows as well.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/when-kids-call-the-shots/201903/5-simple-ways-relieve-stress-and-anxiety
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/pressure-proof/201501/10-ways-relieve-stress-in-5-minutes-or-less
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We know the our Enneagram passions all too well, they are the ego fixations and parts of our personality that we get stuck with all the time. Sometimes, however, we trick ourselves into thinking these maladaptive parts of ourselves will heal our deepest wounds individually and in marriage. However, instead, it is our type's virtue that will provide the steadying factor to soothe our weary souls. Find your type's passions and virtues as you listen to this brand new 2021 episode and find out how you can integrate healthy and steady change into your relationship, too!
Virtues Chart:
https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/the-traditional-enneagram
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We said goodbye to 2020 and now we're saying a big healthy hello to 2021! Let's do it together with a challenge that helps us to create a healthy flow in our hearts, minds, and bodies this year, one that considers our angst and issues but is ultimately comprised of gratitude, thoughtfulness, and love. This special episode outlines steps to restore things that have been unintentionally lost in the busy, hard, and whirling 2020. Together we're moving forward intentionally so we can glow brightly as couples and individuals!
For your glow guide go here: Glow guides
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The thinkers among us are equipped to shape the world with their innovating dreams that often become inspiring realities, sometimes even shaping the world abroad. However, for the people who are constantly dealing with an active brain, living in a family with others who are more heart or body-based can be a daunting challenge, to say the least. This episode covers our wise Fives, our brave Sixes, and our optimistic Sevens in depth. There are tips for dealing with the passions of each type in marriage and family for individuals and their partners, as well as fresh reminders for how to do one's own work for internal balance as we close out the year well together!
Sites referenced:
http://feelingswheel.com/
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Whatever your Enneagram type, 2020 is throwing all of us for a loop this holiday. The ups and the downs can bring out grief, loneliness, and a lack of direction, and we've decided to give you a healthy roadmap. Join Christa and her precious 4, Hannah in reminding us of ten ways we can embrace the both the beauty and the depths of this season. Don't forget ways you can connect with your people despite distance. Despite the business and strain this 2020, you're family is waiting for you to step in with love as you celebrate!
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Heart types of the Enneagram have unique gifts in understanding others emotionally. As we open up our own hearts for learning from the feelings center with staff coach Melissa Thompson, Christa and Melissa take an honest view of how amidst caring for others, hearts types and others can unlearn codependency and learn to both protect and take care of themselves. Melissa offers tips for learning strong self-care and advocacy and how to give yourself grace as you so bravely fight for the emotions of others.
www.ReflectionsCC.com find Melissa for coaching
Melissa (@inspire2bu) • Instagram photos and videos
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This special fun episode takes a long look at love and the Enneagram on the big screen this time with some holiday fun added in! Join Christa and Olivia (who is back as a long-awaited guest!) as they finish the debate/conversations about not only the The Office and Gilmore Girls love interests but also take up typing the A-listers hanging out in a much-beloved Christmas fave, "The Holiday." This episode brings lots of laughs, and lighter conversation to our listeners as you head into your day!
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Did you ever wonder what the differences are between males and females in personality? How about the types that are considered more masculine while others are called feminine types? Join Christa in dissecting not only human and animal studies in terms of gender but a type by type journey of comparing Enneagram traits. Christa shares both your research as a community as well as reflects on couples and families she's worked with over the past two decades. Don't miss out on ways you can grow!
https://www.judithsearle.com/sexuality-gender-roles-and-the-enneagram
htps://typevolution.com/2017/07/26/feminine-masculine-essences-of-the-enneagram-types/
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/232438047_Gender_Diagnosticity_A_New_Bayesian_Approach_to_Gender-Related_Individual_Differences
Masculinity/Femininity Test (surveydata.online)
https://surveydata.online/gdia?resp=24223222121541214443523231512322313412423342553334244344
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1300/J082v23n04_04?journalCode=wjhm20
https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html
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On part 2 of the Enneagram Glow series, Christa and Alaina listen to marriage and family therapist Michael Shahan, MA, LMFT, an Enneagram 9, talk not only about the way trauma can be healed in marriage but also particularly about how the popularly paired 1-9 couple can glow together. In this episode, we cover less of the research and development concept of the glow (see "Discovering Your Enneagram Glow: Part 1" for background) and more of the actual process of healing one another's deepest wounds and personal issues in marriage. We got emotional in this episode and we hope you do too as you continue to work on your relationship glow!
Websites & accounts mentioned
www.MichaelShahan.com, IG: @michaelshahan_therapy
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This podcast covers the fascinating way that in marriage we create a union that is something more than either of us was before. The glow is our fun way of describing how we don't just learn our partner's type but we actually take traits on! This means each type takes on a different shade, depending on their partner's type and how then they can share their unique couple glow. Christa is joined by fellow creative Alaina Pompa, the artist and designer behind our new Enneagram Glow Guides as they introduce the concept, the contest, and talk about how very different their Type 7 marriages are!
For your unique pairing guide visit: Glow guides
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Every single type in marriage struggles with conflict. When is anger right? When should we curb it? What do we do in marriage with our anger and what can we do when we're holding onto our rage or hurts? Join Christa for a discussion of strategically and compassionately sharing hurts and dealing with conflict and anger with every type. This is an episode you don't want to miss, Enneagram love aside!
Habits of a Healthy Marriage by Richard Fitzgibbons MD
http://files.drrobgrellman.com/pdf/authors/Forgive%20&%20Forget.pdf (Lewis Smedes forgiveness)
https://baltimorecounselor.com/how-often-do-couples-fight-and-should-you-be-concerned/#:~:text=However%2C%20most%20couples%20fight%20about,only%209%25%20of%20the%20time.
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It's no secret that the holidays will be a bit different this year - and this on top of the fact that despite Hallmark movies, holidays in relationships aren't always a winning combo! Join Christa for an episode covering the realistic goals you can set for your holiday so you'll be blessed and able to give your very best to others! Special discount code for our new "Love With..." Enneagram merch! Read more about Holidays and Relationships: http://www.health.com/health/article/0,,20412109,00.html Prepare for Advent with Biola’s Center for Christianity, Arts & Culture: http://ccca.biola.edu/events/2020/nov/29/2020-advent-project-online-devotional-series/ Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
You've probably heard of the counterphobic 6 but did you know that each of the Enneagram types has a countertype? Christa goes through each of the 9 types and discusses the countertype flowing in the other direction of the type's usual positioning. Different from the counterpassion, the countertype involves wanting the same result but using a different defense mechanism to get there! Find encouragement and balance here, learning about your best and worst ways of being both alone and together.
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During this festive Halloween week, join Christa for fun tips for every type! This episode also covers tips directly from the R & R Marriage Method such as learning how manage sarcasm, finding one another's favorite styles of play, and learning to be light together on a regular basis even in this heavy season of 2020. This is also a great episode for contest fun as we do giveaways for the R & R Method and a Halloween mystery dinner game!
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Over a quarter of American families are affected by miscarriage and infant loss and almost as many have struggled with infertility yet it's a topic that's not often discussed in marriage and parenting circles with ease. Our guest on this extra special episode is AnnMarie Jones, mom of 3 and co-founder of Bridge A Life Adoption and Foster Care Ministry, and her story today as an Enneagram 2 is every bit as heartwarming as it is compelling. Join AnnMarie and Christa in a conversation about finding hope in a season of struggle, tips for those dealing with infertility, and the very special calling one often gets when they're asked to walk an unexpected road.
Show links:
www.BridgeALife.com
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In-law tensions in marriage are nothing new but when we butt heads or in this case, butt Enneagram types and subtypes, there are specific routes we can take for more healthy moves and interventions. Listen in as Christa shares tips and advice for those living close and far away. She also incorporates research, and offers hope for even the most difficult and seemingly hopeless relationships.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/mate-relate-and-communicate/201310/have-in-law-issues
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/conscious-communication/201809/improving-relationships-your-in-laws
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The Enneagram is infiltrating the church and that's no doubt a gift, since it offers a framework for connection across personalities. However, amidst the current "hustle" mentality of the church, there is great need to grow in caring for those with deep mental health struggles and addictions. Christa is joined by therapist and Enneagram 3 Alexandra Thompson, LMSW, owner of Cumberland Counseling Services for a conversation about growing as a body and honoring even the most broken people.
https://cumberlandchurch.org/counseling/ Visit Alex's counseling site
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/managing-stress-anxiety.html
https://www.mentalhealth.gov/get-help/immediate-help
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Listen in as Christa helps you to understand mental health struggles paralleling each Enneagram type at their most stressful levels. When you're trying to find a road map, or what is clinically called a treatment plan, it's important not to self-diagnose, but to go to a trained mental health professional for an assessment.
This episode is a guide for whom Enneagram work may just not be not enough at least initially. It is also a gentle reminder that it's OK to need extra support, medication or therapy when we have those darker seasons so we can get back on track with wonderful life goals and finding joy in the everyday!
This episode covers types as they may correlate to:
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
Factitious Disorder
Histrionic Personality Disorder
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
Major Depressive Disorder
Avoidant Personality Disorder
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD)
Bipolar Disorder
ADHD for children and adults
Intermittent Explosive Disorder
Dissociative disorders
Resources:
https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/daily-life-coping/managing-stress-anxiety.html
www.nami.org
www.mayoclinic.org
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-career-within-you/201210/is-the-achiever-my-genes-my-upbringing-or-me
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-career-within-you/201210/is-the-achiever-my-genes-my-upbringing-or-me
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As much as we want sexual intimacy to be amazing, sometimes we come into marriage with unintentional baggage in this area. Whether you're dealing with problems that occurred before your marriage began or you've had issues build up along the way, tune in to Christa's interview with therapist and Christian professor Dr. Camden Morgante, PsyD. as they talk all things sex therapy, purity culture, and of course, the Enneagram so you can enjoy the celebration of healthy intimacy together! Visit www.DrCamden.com for an important quiz on purity culture.
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Listen in as Christa discusses one of the most highly requested topics of Enneagram tritypes. Understand the importance of balancing the three intelligence centers, the head, the heart, and the body in your marriage and family life. Get ready to dig deep on some especially juicy soundbites as you learn to tell your narrative and to honor your own Tritype journey of health and healing!
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Do you believe in love at first sight? Perhaps you locked eyes with your spouse and the rest is history. Others of you had more of a calculated, careful and pre-meditated love story and some are not yet with your future spouse. In this exciting opening episode, we're establishing not only the definition of love type by type, we're walking through finding joy inside and outside of a relationship. Christa teams up with Liv @theenneagram7 so both married and singles get awesome tips on the quest for true love!
Media mentioned:
https://www.instagram.com/theenneagram7/ (contest!)
https://www.amazon.com/Mingling-Souls-Design-Marriage-Redemption/dp/1434706869
https://www.amazon.com/Relationship-Goals-How-Dating-Marriage/dp/0593192575/ref=sr_1_1?crid=RTXKGDPP6CKS&dchild=1&keywords=mike+todd+relationship+goals&qid=1600629721&s=books&sprefix=mike+todd+re%2Cstripbooks%2C186&sr=1-1
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We need to come to marriage knowledge from many different personality perspectives, and today's episode will give you such depths from a new direction. Christa interviews a LMHC on her team, Craig Stratton, MA, an Enneagram 9. We also hear his marriage story to his beautiful wife Mary Kay, another 9! Craig shares his heart for making sure others are heard, what therapy is really like, as well as the key moment of change occurring in marriage. So many keys to healthy communication in marriage, don't miss!
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It's time to go deep with our peaceful and powerful Enneagram 9s! Join Christa in going through Type 9 tendencies, misconceptions, and paths to growth. Find out how you and your 9 loved ones can both get healthy and find your voice and power as a 9! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now! Or leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com. (You can use your voice memos app on your iPhone to record). Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a 5-Star review so others can find us, too right >> here <
Have you always wondered what makes an Enneagram 8 tick? Feeling like you want to avoid making an 8 feel ticked off? Learn all about the often understood and awesome Enneagram 8s - people of power, lots of love, and a heart for leadership, love, and family! The goal of this episode is to bring honor and love to this group because in many ways, 8s make the world go round. We want you 8s to be as healthy as possible as you share and shape others to bring out your most healthily vulnerable self!
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Join Christa for a chat on this special bonus listener request show on blended family issues. Christa is joined by her sister Abbie, an Enneagram 3, who talks about being married to an Enneagram 8, and also about all she's learning in blending her family of five boys. Abbie shares tips about navigating emotions, family meetings, therapy, knowing your role as a step-parent, how to give space, how to start the blending process, and so much more!
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It's time to talk deep about our light and refreshing Enneagram 7s and this episode goes down to the nitty-gritty depths indeed! Join Christa in going through Type 7 tendencies, misconceptions, and the whirling and swirling tendencies of this last counterpart in the anxiety triad. Known as storytellers with a penchant for using rationalization for the avoidance of pain, it's time to find out how you and your 7 loved ones can both get healthy and stay healthy in the relationships!
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Have you been experiencing more fear during COVID? Have you been wanting to figure out how to master your stress as an Enneagram Six? Perhaps you're someone who's likely managing a lot more stress lately and you could use some tips and tools for bringing your personal stress levels down. This will bring healing and growth to your marriage and family. Lindsey Palmer, PharmD, an Enneagram Six takes us through the ins and outs of cortisol levels and the fight or flight response of our bodies. She also shares essential tips she's learned over the years to utilize courage and to establish careful, planned, and non-stressful steps! Tune in to get started on managing your stress, too!
Find Lindsey @your.pharm.assist on Instagram or at her website https://yourpharm-assist.com/blog/f/exercise-for-health-benefits-and-limitations
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Join Christa for a full on analysis of arguably the most analytical of all of the types, the Loyal and Skeptical Enneagram 6. Typically heralded as the most courageous of all the personality types, our 6s offer a myriad of paradoxes, starting with the fact that they're also considered the most fearful of all the types. You'll learn how marriages with varying types influence them as well as how you can truly bring joy and healthy love to your relationship with the awesome 6 in your life!
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Whether it's a friendship like therapy or a professional helper, research tells us that whatever your Enneagram type, your relationship thrives with healthy encouragement from others. Many couples, however, are leaving this to the singles and not soliciting wise feedback when they need it most in marriage. Listen to this episode as Christa details the why, the who, the where and the when you need mentors most in your relationship. She also warns of the friendships you may need to shift away from as she shares critical life lessons in love and friendship!
https://research.msu.edu/are-friends-better-for-us-than-family/)
https://www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org/grantandglueckstudy
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0190740910003178
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0044118X15604849
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As the Investigators of the Enneagram personality typing system, 5s and their loved ones are in for a treat as we delve deep into the mind of the 5! We're exploring the gifts, wings, subtypes, and shadows of the 5, while giving you ways for you and your brilliant 5 to thrive!
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Join Christa as she goes through each Enneagram type for healing from an affair. Though affairs can be a taboo topic, even more difficult to discuss is how we heal from them. She goes through the four classes of affairs and how to specifically treat them. This episode may not be as traditionally fun as many shows but we're so excited for you to listen because it's a truly life saving adventure to save a marriage from the brink of disaster!
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Do certain Enneagram types tend to cheat more than other types and what causes an affair? The findings of marriage studies tell us there are predictors for extramarital affairs but that the seasons of marriage, maturity levels, and ages, may have even more to do with this factor than which types are together. Join Christa in examining the eight reasons couples give for cheating as well as how to set boundaries and prevent a third party from complicating your marriage further!
https://umdrightnow.umd.edu/news/why-do-people-cheat-umd-research-identifies-8-motivating-factors
https://www.dana.org/article/brains-do-it-lust-attraction-and-attachment/
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Fours are considered the Individualists or the Romantics of the Enneagram. Why do Fours seem to delve into places of shame and sorrow more quickly than others, and why is there so much variety and stereotyping going on with them as well? What are they like in marriage, and most importantly, what can they do to be at the best individually and in their families and relationships? Join in for a talk on all things beloved Enneagram 4 including wings, subtypes, and type-by-type relationship pairings!
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This week as we wrap up our Around the Table segment, join Christa going through her research findings and chatting with her first official guest, her best friend Stacey Day, a dietician and PA-C. It's been so wonderful to conduct research and to spend time learning about how so many individuals and types have formed food preferences, food issues, and couple bonds over the course of their lives and relationships. They discuss couples tips for the long haul and also how friendship and food can carry you through so many beautifully memorable times if you open yourself up to it. Most importantly, how your marriage and family can truly thrive in both your most intimate and special everyday moments with food.
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In this episode, you'll get encouragement and learn how to talk about and address food issues in your marriage, season by season. Research tells us ways we plan for or initiate and carry out our eating rituals in our families and cultures matter. Food together in marriage and family has such potential to either hurt or help your communication. You're also getting a great tool for conversations around your table!
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Fresh from the vault of pre-COVID times comes our "All About Enneagram 3s in Relationship" episode! Though our voices are a bit lighter in earlier 2020 times, the content you'll find for loving and living with your Enneagram 3 is just as rich and deep as you would hope. Enjoy this episode so you learn more about this secretly romantic and deeply vulnerable (under the stylish and bold exterior) heart type with the absolute best you have to give!
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Happy events in our lives and marriages deserve to be celebrated, and not just at the end of the road, but at important milestones too. In this episode, join Christa as she talks about various personality trappings for your types and hers, and especially how celebrating the amazing journey along the way changes your life for the better. Research, media, and personal examples all converge to tell us the same thing - the stories you tell about your marriage and the actions you take in it matter - a lot! Don't miss this opportunity to celebrate well together as you step into a fresh new moment of your life lived with intention. Anniversary contest also! For the @AlisaTaylorDesign Enneagram prints, visit https://www.etsy.com/shop/AlisaTaylorDesign
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Marriages are in danger of losing connection more than ever due to literally constant tech use & interruptions. The research we gathered over quarantine shows that phones are getting out of control and communication is suffering. Listen to why tech is particularly addicting, what types suffer most, and how it's hurting you even if you don't realize it. We also share seriously vital tips you need in order to stay tuned not just to social media but to your most important relationship!
https://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/30/style/smartphones-iphone-marriage-husbands-wives-technology.html https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2014/02/11/couples-the-internet-and-social-media/
https://www.marriage.com/blog/relationship/reasons-technology-is-affecting-divorce-rates/
https://www.focusonthefamily.ca/content/how-to-make-technology-work-for-your-marriage
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Join Christa in a conversation about the importance of compassion, listening, empathy, and specific steps for healing trauma wounds in a marriage using the Enneagram. These steps bring success to a large degree and are the hallmark of healing difficult moments - together. Tune in for the three steps in healing attachment wounds as a couple, and stick around or our free resource for regaining balance in your marriage as well.
Visit https://www.verywellmind.com/five-stages-of-grief-4175361, https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6169872/, and https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd-trauma/helping-someone-with-ptsd.htm for information about grief, trauma, and compassion research as we continue on in marriage and life.
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Can a few seconds really make a difference in the life of a person, a marriage, a culture? The answer is a resounding yes, and in light of what's been happening in culture lately with the instability, the quarantine and the racial tragedies, it's the very best time to bring life and healing to your marriage, family, and community. Starting with a prayer and some tips for what you can do about what's happening around us today, and listening to this entire strategy-packed episode, will help you to find your way back to health presence and practice today!
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We know you're working so hard to make a great life and legacy for future generations together both in the world and in your family. But what do we do in marriage when trials and losses hit, as they inevitably do as time passes. Join Christa for an amazing journey through her own and your grief at each stage with tons of practical and heartfelt marriage and personal tips and an extra special freebie for you from her husband Wes!
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Listen in as Christa uses the Enneagram to openly discuss sexual needs and desires, as well as the ways they have been stifled, shamed, and overexposed. This episode is critical for you to listen to on your own or with your partner. Then you can get started on the road to your most amazing and sacred intimate life together with tons of practical tips and research you don't want to miss!
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Whatever their socioeconomic status, couples continue to report that arguing about finances is one of the three biggest issues in their marriages. In this vital episode, we're talking about the effects of financial infidelity as well as finding your wise and authentic financial voice. Start now on integrating your own budget as we share our weekly tools and more from financial gurus across the globe! Most importantly, you'll learn how couples struggle with their finances and how to overcome their challenges together.
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Couples we're surveying are talking about a new topic of communication that's currently at hand. The question is about when and how to individually and jointly emerge from quarantine, especially where there's disagreement. When survival is at stake, what and who gives? Join in for this special midweek mini-edition of the podcast in a conversation about how we can still live and work together with our spouses in a loving manner even when we differ about this important and deeply relevant marriage and family topic.
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Tired of running around the same marriage stumbling blocks? Join us for another episode where we tackle not just the rhetoric but the actual roadblocks of marriage communication issues! Whatever your Enneagram type, there are some tried-and-true methods for getting through to your spouse that will enrich your relationship for a lifetime!
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Just how does your Enneagram type inform your parenting at best and at worst? This is a special episode that's full of grace for parents, and one that we're finally releasing from the pre-quarantine time capsule! We hope you take some time this Mother's Day weekend and beyond to both explore and to embrace the fun and the learning lessons of each Enneagram type, both from your own days as kids and to reflect on your own parenting style. We know you want to be the best parent possible, whatever your type!
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Even if you're an assertive type and you don't like to be controlled by another person, human relationships need not only connections, but routines together to thrive, especially married couples. Don't worry, however, routines can be varied and fun! Listen as we go over the vital habits you need to continually establish so you can find or re-find your best routine vibes both individually and together, whatever your Enneagram type! We're also including info about a special freebie and a marriage training opportunity for pastors, counselors, and coaches!
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Tune in to hear about the importance of emotional self-care for each Enneagram type. Listen to hear how Christa and the couples she's been working with have been taking steps to get more in touch with their hearts. Get tips on both your type and your spouse's type to have better emotional self-care for yourself and your marriage!
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Join Christa for a compelling conversation as we talk all things Enneagram and fitness! This week's research has shown cutting edge tips for staying as healthy as possible during COVID-19. In addition to wearing your PPE, we've learned getting through this harrowing virus has everything to do with your fitness levels! You'll learn how you, whatever type you are, can not only improve your own fitness life but also steer your marriage toward life and balance as well!
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Tune in as Christa creatively guides you through helpful tools and tips for each Enneagram type on their spiritual journey. Chances are, your faith has evolved over the years and that your marriage has also been influenced. She offers some tips to stay connected as a couple even if you differ spiritually or just at different points. This episode is truly for everyone to wants to grow in their marriages and their spirituality!
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When quarantine guarantees an unquestionably long time together with your partner, what can you do to keep things not only healthy but also safe? Join us for an important conversation about each type in stress and ways to strategize with your partner so you both land in a safe place of wellness for the duration of the quarantine and beyond. Christa explores not only each type in stress but also highlights a strategy for a healthy rising up to the call of your unique gifts as well. Don't miss out!
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Listen in for amazing tips on managing anxiety by Enneagram type as an individual as well as a spouse, and learning to differentiate normal anxiety from a paralyzing disorder. Some people spend their entire lives preparing for emergency and when it comes, they find themselves more than equipped to handle the problems. Others of us find ourselves in a whirlwind of emotions we need help processing, sometimes falling apart for a little while. Listen also for special tips for managing coronavirus anxiety as well, including a peaceful relaxation exercise to get you grounded no matter what anxiety you're facing right now!
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Join us for this special episode as host Christa Hardin and her guest, her husband Wes, Enneagram 1, get serious as well as laugh as they contemplate their relationship and whether he's actually been a 3 all this time. This is a special peek into a twenty-four year long relationship and especially relevant if you're someone who wonders about your non-Enneagram obsessed spouse or someone who just want an inner look at another couple's Enneagram + Marriage story!
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During times of local or national stress, couples often become more conflicted that ever. With the world shutdown and Coronavirus upon us, we need each other more than ever so we can stay connected and in healthy control of the things we need to manage well, namely our families. Join us in the special episode where Christa gives your relationship the boost it needs to withstand the pressures of right now, using tools from past critical moments in time, Enneagram insights, and more!
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Listen to this important episode to learn what you in your Enneagram type can expect over the beginning, middle, and later stages of marriage as you make the important decision to grow love. Couples often approach their marriage with eyes of hope and excitement for how their spouse will heal their wounds. This isn’t a faulty approach, as we do help one another to heal. However, when we expect spouses to heal all of our own wounds, most of which started long before marriage, we are let down. Get the tips and advice you need for each season of marriage!
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Women are stereotyped as being more emotional than men and our surveys showed that feelings types were indeed much more prevalent with females than males. Join us as we talk about the large number of compliant and withdrawing women we surveyed and especially as we help these types and all types to find their voice in marriage! As we celebrate International Women’s Day this week you don’t want to miss being part of the conversation on how females can increasingly thrive in marriage and relationships!
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We're chatting about our lovely Enneagram 2s in this encompassing episode where we share not only well-known type qualities of 2s but also ways they can thrive within their relationships. We're also analyzing ways 2s, who love to give and to love the world can keep up all that helping from a place of health in marriage particularly. Listen as we chat about balancing the subtype and some common strengths and issues each of the other types has in relation to their dear Enneagram 2!
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SPECIAL FUN EPISODE: We're taking you through a laid-back, all-in-fun typing episode of your favorite show characters! Let's face it, we've all wanted to slap Enneagram labels on our favorite TV relationship characters a time or two, right? Some of them we can even proudly relate to while others make us cringe at the realization that yes, we are a little like the worst ones at times. Join us in our back and forth banter as we playfully type who you told us you love on The Office, Parks & Rec, and Gilmore Girls!
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One of the most important aspects of any typing system is understanding that males and females are indeed somewhat different both socially and biologically and thus often have differing prevalent personality features. In this episode we share some fascinating collective research on common male patterns in typing as well as the results of two hundred males surveyed on IG. Most importantly, we've got essential tips for how males of all types can both grow and thrive in relationships.
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We're chatting about all things Enneagram 1 in this encompassing episode where we share not only well-known type qualities of 1s but also ways they can thrive within their relationships. We're also analyzing ways 1s, who love to bring order and goodness to the world, can continue to operate within their high standards from a place of health in marriage particularly. Listen as we chat about balancing the type, wings, stress and health points, and perhaps most fun for spouses, some common connection points each of the other types has in relation to the beloved Enneagram 1 in their life.
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As we move into Valentine’s Day weekend we’re talking about all things romance and the Enneagram! Whether you approach the world from your head, heart, or body, we’re covering how to go the distance with all things romance for each type and triad. Don’t miss out on this inclusive special episode where we lead you towards what we hope is an amazing romantic reconnection with the love of your life!
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Aggressive, Withdrawing, Compliant…Depending on your Enneagram type, you’re probably prone to any one of these in relation to your partner, especially during a heated battle. In this episode, we examine both the strengths and the cautionary tales of all three styles and discover ways to make your own tendency not only more palatable in marriage but also less pathological. This must-hear episode also finishes by opening the door to our course for those needing more personalized help with energizing their relationship.
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In this episode, we talk about the concepts of leaning in to make sure you're listening to and loving your spouse well but also that you're balancing your own self-care and personality with it. Being your authentic best self is a key contributor to the energy and lifeblood of marriage and family health. We're also sharing an invitation to a very special upcoming coaching opportunity geared toward energizing your relationship!
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We all want to feel safe and yet sometimes marriage rips open our vulnerability in a way that nothing else can. Whether you lean towards self-preservation, social, or an intimate way of feeling safe instinctually, tuning in to this episode will lead you on a mission toward a healthier balance and an understanding of how you can best love a spouse or partner who differs from you in their own quest for safety.
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Join in the fun as we briefly review each Enneagram type in the individual and marriage setting! Hear your type’s strengths, hardships, and redeeming qualities too, so you can make sure your aim is on point for your very best in marriage and in life!
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In this week's episode, Christa Hardin explores and disproves popular marriage myths. From identifying Enneagram types that work well together, to learning how to manage expectations within marriage based on your type, this episode will answer your burning questions and will show how the Enneagram can help in various life situations.
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In this inaugural episode, Christa Hardin, MA, shares about the purpose of the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, her background in clinical psychology, how the E and M Instagram came to be, why the Enneagram is so important, and more. Join our membership The E + M Collective now!
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