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Anonymous and his wife are married with two children, however, he recently realised that his wife has been having sex with multiple men and he even thinks some it is transactional.

He discovered this on her phone and he finds himself confused by the whole situation.

Anonymous says when he previously realised she was sleeping with someone else, he suggested they make their relationship and open relationship, however, he feels like she’s taken that too far.

Anonymous’ younger half-sister recently moved to his house as she could no longer live at res.

However, his girlfriend has expressed that she’s uncomfortable with him living with his sister suspecting that he might have an affair with his sister.

They fought about this and are now not really on speaking terms. He’s offended by this and doesn’t understand why his partner is reacting this way.

Anonymous has been dating a married man for a while now, and his wife found out about three years ago, despite this, they continued with their relationship.

Her issue now is that she feels like the man’s wife is now keeping tabs on her movements and stalking her.

Anonymous initially ended things with him after his wife found out but he came saying his wife was ok with the situation. However, it doesn’t appear that way now and she’s not sure what to do.

Anonymous says she made a pact with herself that she would like to keep her past in her past but she recently ran into a guy from her past.

Things didn’t end well between them, but it wasn’t too bad, as they were in a casual relationship.

They spoke for a bit and she enjoyed the moment so much that she now wonders if it’s worth rekindling.

Anonymous met a guy a few months ago while at a funeral, they hit it off and ended up engaging in a one night stand.

He revealed to her that he has a partner and they have two children, but they continued chatting anyway, although that faded because she became a little bored of him.

They eventually ran into each other on Tik Tok and started talking again which led to them rekindling their relationship.

They’ve since met up a couple of times but she says he never seems to have time for her, and while she enjoys their sexual relationship, she wants more from him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 12 years and they’ve been married for 6 of those years.

Their marriage happened as result of anonymous falling pregnant and they had one other child after getting married.

She’s found out a few times that he was cheating and when she addresses this and other issues in their relationship, he shuts her down and tells her that she should be more grateful of the things he has done for her.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2020 and two years after being together she fell pregnant and they moved in together.

He’s always had a problem with over-drinking, and spends a lot of his time hanging out with his friends. This behaviour has also affected his work life.

He’s also epileptic and has had a few seizure episodes. As a result she’s been advising him to slow down on the drinking but he never heeds her advice.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 8 months.

They recognised early on in their relationship that they have differences in terms of their religious beliefs but continued with their relationship. She’s tried to follow his religion but it hasn’t really worked out and she’s told him that she sees God differently to how he sees God.

They are now in conflict over this and are not seeing eye to eye. He’s not sure if their relationship will survive but he loves her a lot.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years.

They met during a tumultuous period in both their lives as he was going through a divorce when they met and months into their relationship she lost her mother.

This meant that there was a lot of trauma bonding early in their relationship, however, as they healed from their difficult situations, they started to get into a lot of conflicts because of their different outlooks on life including marriage, children and financial prospects.

They’ve been separated for two months now, and she’s not sure if they should get back together.

Anonymous started dating a guy early this year after he moved into her neighbourhood late last year. He’s generally a great partner when he’s around but he has a tendency to switch off and ghost her. When he’s back he showers her with gifts, and wants to act as if this are fine and back to normal.

Anonymous was in an 8 year long relationship that ended less than two months ago as result of her now ex partner being abusive.

Shortly after breaking up her long term partner she reached out to another guy who had been pursuing her for over a year. They started casually dating as the guy was in a relationship with someone else.

She’s was ok with the fact that he was with someone else as that would keep their relationship casual.

The guy now wants to break up with his girlfriend so he can be with anonymous but she’s not interested in having anything serious currently as she’s still recovering from her previous relationship.

She’s not sure if she should break things off him as she also does have deeper feelings for the guy.

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost 9 years and says while he was the perfect gentleman when they started dating, she cheated on him in the early stages of their relationship.

After that he was a changed man and was also cheating on her. At some point he got physically violent towards her after he incorrectly believed that she had slept with his best friend. They broke up after this incident but got back together because she was pregnant with their child, who was born in 2022.

He continued to be unfaithful and they’ve been in an on-and-off relationship since then as result of his cheating.

Anonymous has been with his wife for 8 years and they’ve been married for two of those years.

He has been in a relationship with another woman for the last three years. His wife once found out about the other woman, he left lady no.2 as a result but ended up getting back together with lady no.2 without his wife knowing.

His wife has once again caught on to his side relationship and has given him an ultimatum. He, however, loves both women and would like to pursue a polygamous relationship, but he’s note sure how to go about it.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years and says the most part their relationship has been great.

They struggle with conflict management in the relationship and she feels like he doesn’t really consider her feelings or her needs.

He also says she doesn’t take accountability for her actions, but she feels like it’s actually the other way around.

While she thinks he’s a nice guy, she’s not sure if he’s good at being a romantic partner.

Anonymous was caught cheating by his partner yesterday after she looked through his phone, while he was sleeping, and saw texts between him and a lady he cheated on her with, who is now pregnant with his child.

He says he was a womaniser for many years and he’s now in a committed relationship but is struggling to say no when ladies make advances towards him.

He knows this is a problem, and he wants to change but he’s struggling.

Anonymous is in her mid-twenties and is currently dating a man who’s ten years older than her.

They met online and got to know each other really well as they were chatting a lot. Through this he was able to share that his mother is not well, dealing with a metal health issue. She’s since met his sister who is also dealing with a mental health issue.

He did reveal to her that he once went through a depression when he went through a tough time in his business which he lost. Times are tough in his family and he’s struggling with this, which has affected their relationship.

Anonymous says her brother is the problem in her relationship. They don’t have parents and it’s just the two of them at home.

She has been with her partner for a while, they came into their relationship with children and she’s now pregnant with their first child.

Her partner wants to marry her but her brother is refusing, which is blocking the traditional processes they need to follow in order to get married.

This is now affecting her relationship with her partner, who’s not happy that they can’t be a family because of her brother.

Anonymous met her husband back in 2014 and he was living abroad, for his studies and work. He moved back home as a result of the COVID pandemic.

She realised that he had actually been with other people during his time away but they were able to move forward from this.

Over the last few years he’s been working at a local tertiary institution and she says he’s been caught cheating with students and other people at the school multiple times.

Anonymous is bisexual and has been with his female partner for about 4 years now.

They had some tough times in their relationship due to anonymous needing to deal with his past traumas, but they got through this.

Recently she started behaving a bit differently, he got suspicious, went through her phone and found that she was chatting to other guys even telling them that she’s not very serious about anonymous.

He doesn’t know how to feel about this and there’s also the matter of his sexuality

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 10 years and they have three children, two children together and one from his partner’s previous relationship.

They both cheated in their relationship but forgave each other and moved forward with their relationship.

Recently they came back from a party and his partner’s friend came home with them and slept over in their house, the children weren’t there…

While he was sexually busy with his partner, she suggested that they invite her friend, who was sleeping in another room, to join them in their bedroom.

Anonymous said no to this suggestion…

Anonymous has been with his partner since about 2013 and they are now around 30 years of age.

Her partner found a job in another country and this seems to have affected their communication. She doesn’t answer his calls and when they do eventually speak she tells him that she’s busy.

Their relationship is now broken down and he doesn’t know what to do. They also adopted her sister’s child and that relationship is now in limbo.

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost two years and says he’s been a good partner to her for the most part.

Throughout their relationship he’s been talking a lot about having children, however, she wasn’t ready.

He recently revealed to her that he’s impregnated another lady, they ended things as a result. However, the other lady miscarried and he is now back, telling anonymous he wants to get back together, the pregnancy was a mistake…

Anonymous is in her late thirties and has one child. She’s been dating a guy on and off for about 10 years now, however, the guy has a girlfriend who he has two children with.

She was with someone else when she met him and ended up dropping that guy for this one who has a partner.

She was a side for many years but eventually gave him an ultimatum telling him to leave his main girlfriend for her but he never left the main.

She broke up with him but four months later the guy came back saying he had left his other girlfriend.

They are now dating again, however…

Anonymous met his wife in 2005, and they later got married after having a child in 2010.

After getting married they started attending the same church, which is his church. There’s an elderly lady on the worship team at their church who stated that there’s a prophecy that anonymous would need to leave his wife for this lady’s daughter.

This information was shared with anonymous’ wife, but it was told to her as though it’s something that’s actually happening….

Anonymous is the eldest son in his family and only has sisters, and he’s now also married.

Her wife has deep Christian beliefs and his mother is a sangoma, so his family tends to follow Traditional African religion.

His younger sister has taken ill and his uncle suggested they visit a sangoma in Mozambique who could help his sister.

He told his wife about his intention to support his family in taking his sister to this sangoma but she didn’t take this well and said anonymous is now inviting other spirits into their home.

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Anonymous says when she met his partner he was clean and proper and was a great person towards her.

However, after a while of dating each other, they moved in together and this is when she realised certain aspects of his personality. She says he was always moody and wasn’t as fun as he used to be before.

As result of his behaviour, they agreed to continue with the relationship but live apart. He then moved out abruptly which took her by surprise.

She confronted him about his move and he told her that he moved because he no longer felt welcomed in her space, the talked through it and he has now moved back to their place…

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 5 years, she’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his late twenties.

Her problem with him is that he doesn’t seem to want to work. He’s not interested in looking and he currently doesn’t work. He’s been this way since she’s been with him and when she asks him why he’s not working he has many excuses, including his spirituality.

She’s now broken up with him, however, he wants to get back together with her and she’s not sure if she should, because she does love him but worries about his lack of ambition.

Anonymous met a guy who lives in her complex mid-last year, they hit it off and started dating.

Around September last year they had a miscommunication and things became a bit tense between them. They never really spoke about what happened between them and their relationship just fizzled out from there.

Fast forward to this year, she needed closure about why things ended, so she confronted the guy, and while she felt like he left her, he thought she broke things off.

Right now she’s in a position where she’s wondering if he wants to be with her.

Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years.

Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband.

She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there’s a spark between them.

She hasn’t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation.

She’s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do.

Anonymous was in a relationship for 5 years until her partner ended things between them abruptly in December last year.

She’s struggling to get over him and they still communicate because of a business they work on together.

She’s not sure if he’s moved on yet, and she still has many questions

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 16 years now, and for the most part their relationship was fine until he started gambling.

He became more distant, wasn’t present in their relationship and started defaulting on some of his financial responsibilities.

He got help to fix his gambling problem, but it didn’t seem to help and she feels like he didn’t really take it seriously and he returned to his gambling over and over again.

At some point he became suicidal, and she brought this to the attention of his family but they didn’t really help either.

He’s suggested that they get divorced in order to separate their assets but anonymous feels like she won’t re-marry him as he’s now a different man from the one she married….

Anonymous has been engaged to her fiancé for about four years and since then they’ve been living at her fiancé’s father’s home, as the father is late.

Her fiancé’s mother recently had a stroke and this led to anonymous and her fiancé needing to move in with his mother as he’s her only child.

Her fiancé’s job keeps him away from home a lot so she’s often at the mother’s house without him there. This has caused a rift between them as his fiancé’s mother alway complains about her and the things she’s doing in the household. She doesn’t address these things with her directly but will speak to her son about these things.

Anonymous got a new job back in 2023 and started going on casual dates with the guy that actually hired her, and they ended up having a casual sexual relationship with guy no.1.

They never really defined their relationship, and as a result anonymous was seeing other people and ended up sleeping with another man, guy no.2.

She then fell pregnant and thought it was definitely guy no.1’s child but after finding out that she’s pregnant, guy no.2 suspected it was his baby and it later turned out to be true.

She told guy no.1 about the paternity of her child, and to her surprise, he wasn’t moved by this and ended up helping anonymous through her pregnancy.

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship and says things took off quickly became serious between her and her partner.

Anonymous says in the beginning of the relationship she told her partner that she likes living life on the fast lane and her partner said she’s fine with that, quote, “she can stand the rain”.

Ever since she lost her job, anonymous says, her partner starting getting a bit cold and she wasn’t the same. There has now been situations where her partner would go out without really giving her much detail about her whereabouts and she finds this suspicious…

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and says she was taking a break from relationships when she met him.

As a single mother, she was attracted to the guy because he was a single father living with his children. The relationship was going well and they became a blended family and moved in together with her children, while his children moved to live with their mother.

Her partner lost his job and they downscaled so her children moved back to the house that anonymous and her ex husband used to live in.

He was a bit of a party animal and would come back home in the early hours of the morning, she called him out on this and he stopped that behaviour.

They then had a conflict of sorts and he ended up sleeping over the mother of his children’s house...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about thirteen years and they have one child together.

Her partner has never really worked throughout their relationship and hasn’t had enough income to be financially supportive in their relationship.

He recently got inheritance and now wants to marry anonymous but she’s not sure she wants to get married to a man who she doesn’t believe will make something of his life.

He also wants them to move in to his family home, which is something she’s not keen to do.

Anonymous met a guy last year who she vibed with and they had some really good times together.

He told her he really liked her and that he wanted to date her, but when she told him that she has a 90-day rule before she can get intimate with a guy she’s seeing, he ghosted her.

Months later they rekindled things again and this time she ended up sleeping with him, however, things got weird again between them.

She’s tried to move on from him, but he keeps reappearing in her life and she’s doesn’t know how get over her feelings for him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about a year now and they moved in together about three months into the relationship.

She says her partner is not an open communicator and tends to give her the silent treatment every time they have conflicts, leaving her to be the one to break the ice.

She thinks he should be “manning” up and speaking up in these situations as that’s the kind of man she prefers to be with. She loves him and enjoys his warm character but doesn’t know if this the kind man she could marry one day.

Anonymous is in his late thirties and he’s currently in the process of getting divorced from his wife who he’s been with for about 18 years now.

Early on in their relationship they were in a long distance relationship and he cheated on his wife with another woman who he impregnated. Over the years his partner, who he also has child with, knew about the other child but wouldn’t really allow anonymous to have a relationship with the child he had with the other woman.

Fast forward a few years later, his wife cheated on him and this led to them separating.

During their separation, he met someone else who he ended up impregnating….

Anonymous broke up with the mother of her two children back in 2018 and as a result she moved away, with their two kids, to her home province.

They both found other partners and she even got married to someone else.

The mother of her children moved away with his car and he let it go because the car would assist her in transporting their children.

His worry now is that his ex’s husband is the one driving the car and it’s not even benefitting his children, he wonders if he should reclaim it from her or just let it go.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about 8 years now, she’s in her mid thirties, he’s in his late thirties, they have two children together and she came into their relationship with one child.

They are both orphans and are responsible for their siblings. She feels like her partner is having to sacrifice a lot in supporting his one brother…. The brother recently got into some trouble and….

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together.

Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background.

This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing.

She says he’s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn’t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating.

Anonymous met a guy in 2018 and they started dating four months later, which was in 2019.

When she met this guy, she was in a relationship that was falling apart and it eventually ended and she continued with the guy she met in 2018.

Early on in their relationship he confessed to her that he is in a long distance relationship with another woman who lives in another province. He initially said he’d leave the other woman but later on this woman fell pregnant with his child.

They were able to move on from this but their relationship has been weird and he has been offish towards her….

Anonymous has been with her partner for about a year now and she’s currently pregnant with their first child.

She feels like they haven’t been on the same page about the pregnancy or the future of their relationship. As a pregnant woman, he hasn’t been caring for her or giving her time and she’s currently in her third trimester.

She doesn’t know what to read into his behaviour.

Anonymous has been in a relationship with her partner for about 3 years and says their relationship is great, and he ticks most of the boxes of what she’s looking for a in a partner.

The only issue she has with him is his behaviour in the bedroom, as she feels like he’s become sexually selfish.

It wasn’t always like this but lately he rushes through foreplay and doesn’t listen to what she wants and always wants them to do things his way in the bedroom.

Anonymous has been single for about two years after getting out of a long-term relationship.

She decided to be celibate after the breakup and has kept things that way until she started seeing her former high school crush.

Things were going well with this guy so and it ended up with her getting intimate with him and breaking her celibacy.

She now feels a bit weird about sleeping with him and understand why. She has also found out that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone else.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now, and says things were generally fine between them until she found out last year that he actually has children from a previous relationship that he didn’t tell her about.

She was upset about this and confronted him, to which he responded by saying that she should be happy that he married her instead of the mother of his children.

She is now in the process of divorcing him, however, the people in her life are calling her out, saying she’s overreacting by divorcing him.

Anonymous says he persued his current partner for about two years before they eventually started dating.

Their relationship was going well and she fell pregnant after they had agreed to have a baby together. His partner ended up aborting the baby as she was worried about how it would affect her mental health as she’s suffering from a mental condition.

This frustrated anonymous….

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship.

She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl.

She confronted him about this and he said it’s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour.

She’s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice.

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father.

She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him.

Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents.

He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her.

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.

They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.

Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.

She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around.

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to.

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.

The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.

She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life.

Anonymous has been with his partner and the mother of his children for about 16 years now.

Things were generally fine between them until they had their first child in 2017, and says there was a rift between them and their families. They were able to get through all of that and even had their second child in 2021.

In 2023 he caught her cheating when he saw her kissing another man. She initially denied this but they ended up breaking up.

He moved out of their home and went back to his family home. Things fell apart in both their lives and he invited her to come stay at this family home with their children.

Anonymous met a lady back in 2018 and things moved quickly between them, as they even moved in together after only a month of dating.

He cheated on her at some point in the relationship but they were able to get past this.

After she moved to another city her attitude towards him changed, even when she moved back she was just not the same person any more and was very distant.

She broke things off with him last year and they went their separate ways. Months later she called him and they are now back together but things are a bit dry between them.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years.

She says he’s a great partner and does most things in their relationship right however, the problem they have is social media.

He follows a lot of “baddies” and is always liking pictures of half naked women who are posing provocatively. She notes that it’s also women that look nothing like her, which leaves her wondering if that’s what he actually prefers.

She’s confronted him about this behaviour and while he’s said he would change, he hasn’t. A week ago she tried to make him account for this but he got upset and they haven’t spoken since.

Anonymous and her partner, guy no.1, have been together for about 11 years now.

She says they met at church and when they started dating she didn’t realise that he was dating other women in their church. This complicated things between them and she ended up breaking things off with him and started dating guy no.2, who was dating her guy no.1’s side-girl.

She fell pregnant with guy no.2’s child but things didn’t workout there and guy no.1 wanted her back despite the fact that she was pregnant with another men’s child.

He took her in with her three children, including children from her previous marriage and the child she has with guy no.2.

She says their relationship is now fine but he doesn’t seem to get along with her first born daughter.

Anonymous found out last year that her longterm partner had been having an affair with another woman for many years while they were together.

She broke up with him at that point but after months of separation he came back and persuaded her to get back together with him.

Their relationship has been great since getting back together, however, about a week ago, she found out that he’s still in contact with the lady that led to their breakup…

Anonymous started dating a guy in 2017 and their relationship was ok for the most part in the beginning stages.

Years later she fell pregnant and says during this time she lost interest in her partner and didn’t even want him to touch her. She believes this behaviour drove him into the arms of another woman and he also ended up impregnating her.

She found out about this, they worked through it and continued with their relationship, however, he can’t seem to let this other woman go.

Anonymous feels like she’s cast a spell on him as he’s changed a lot since being with her, and is not only neglecting their relationship, but he’s also neglecting his career and life in general.

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been dating her current partner for about 8 months now. She says this partner fits the description of the person a prophet once told her she would meet one day

At some point in their relationship she found evidence that he had someone else, and he confessed to this after she confronted him about it.

She tried to break-up with him after this revelation but she went back to consult the same prophet who told her she can’t leave him as he is the one for her.

Anonymous cheated on his partner two years into their relationship back in 2014. They went through therapy following this incident but the process led to him finding out that she had cheated on him as well.

They moved on with their relationship but he says she continued to bring up his cheating and their relationship broke down, when he took ill, they separated.

Things were fine between them during the separation and they would even get intimate during this time.

They got back together after the completion of his new house, but he says they live separate lives in the same house. To the public it seems they have the perfect relationship but nothing is happening at home, even sexually.

Anonymous says her relationship is generally fine but their sex life is problematic. She says she’s the one who always initiates, but he often rejects her advances towards him. This has been a problem for years in their relationship and she's not sure how to live with his lack of sexual interest.

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

The gents are giving advice of a different kind in this instalment of Ask a Man. They have attended so many METRO FM Music Awards over the years and so between the two of them, they know the dos and don’ts of the MMAs, over the next two days they’ll be sharing their 10 ultimate rules for the MMAs.

Anonymous lost her husband in 2018, she then dated someone new, but they also passed away in 2025.

Following the passing of her second husband, she found out that he had been unfaithful towards her and had a side.

These experiences have affected her perspective on love and relationships, as she wonders whether she’s meant to be in a relationship.

Anonymous has been with her partner for a while now and says their relationship is generally great and he’s a good partner to her.

The problem she has with him is his lack of good personal hygiene, as she says he doesn’t take regular baths, everything smells and he doesn’t even take care of his living environment.

Anonymous is pregnant and she recently found the mother of her partner’s child at his house and was left confused by this situation.

She says they were naked when she arrived in the morning but they were in between taking baths. She confronted him about this but he claimed that it’s the mother of his child, she’s in town because their child is sick and she needed a place to sleep…

Anonymous is in his early 50s and has been married to his wife for 20 years now.

He has been diagnosed with a disease that causes acid refluxes that lead to him choking in his sleep. He spoke to his wife about what to do if this happens while their sleeping but he says there was an instance in which it occurred, however, as he choked, she just looked at him and didn’t assist him.

He also feels like she’s not interested in being intimate with him, as he’s the one who’s always initiating while she never does.

He recently fell illl….

Anonymous and his partner recently separated after facing some issues in their relationship. His partner is now back in his life and they are now back together.

The issues that led to the break down of their relationship don’t seem to have been resolved and they keep getting back to into the same conflicts and arguments.

Anonymous says they’ve gone through a lot together and he wants to work on this relationship but he is now wondering if there is a way forward.

Anonymous was previously married for 6 years despite the fact his wife had cheated on him early on in their marriage. He tried to move on but he eventually retaliated and also cheated on his wife.

Their relationship broke down and after his wife cheated on him the second time, they got divorced.

He has since tried to move on, but has struggled to stay in relationships with the other women he’s been with since getting divorced.

He’s not sure if he’s trying to move on too soon or if he’ll ever be able to build a long lasting healthy relationship.

Anonymous dated a guy back in 2023 for about four months before their relationship ended. They rekindled things last year but it seems his past is haunting their relationship.

He is insecure and never seems to believe that she has good intentions in their relationship, and this has led to them having several altercations…

Anonymous is/was in a long distance relationship with her partner.

She doesn’t have a huge appetite and eats small portions. While she was recently visiting her partner they got into an argument because of her eating patterns, with him saying that her breath smells bad as result of her not eating enough.

He then said he can’t live with the odour of her breath, she left his place, tried reaching out later to speak to him about this but he doesn’t seem interested in discussing the matter further.

Anonymous met his partner when he was going through a low moment in his life, he says she was very supportive of him and helping him out financially.

He’s going through a lot mentally and as a result, he’s struggling to be a good partner to his girlfriend. He loves her a lot but finds himself spiralling and thinks he needs a break to find his bearings .

Anonymous and his wife have been together for about 22 years, and have been married for about 13 years now.

He feels like his partner is “self righteous”, doesn’t give him an ear and always thinks she’s right in any conflict they have in their relationship. He also feels like she doesn’t give him space to express his emotions.

They are always arguing and their conflicts have gone out of hand, even happening in front of their kids.

He’s exhausted of this toxic relationship and environment they now find themselves in.

Anonymous and his wife have been married for about 18 years now and they have three children together.

Along the way, he cheated on his partner about three times and he was caught each time. His wife then cheated on him in retaliation. Things got messy and about 5 years ago she left their married home with their children, but after two months away, she returned back to their home and they got back together.

Things have been ok for the last five years but they are struggling to rebuild trust in their relationship.

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady.

She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications…

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other.

He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady’s number.

They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven’t been the same ever since, as she’s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour.

Anonymous called us in September last year as he was caught between is main partner and his side, and couldn’t decide which one to forward with.

After he called us last year he decided to continue with his long-term partner and they got married.

Everything was fine until his ex-side girl reached out to him. They met, but now the side says she wants nothing to do with him. He says he was over her but after seeing her last week, all the feelings are now back.

Anonymous met a guy early in 2025 and after a lengthy talking stage, they started dating in March last year.

Everything was going well in the relationship, but three months in, she got a call from a woman who claimed to be this man’s wife and despite his initial denials, this was confirmed.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about four years now and says things have been going relatively well between them.

She recently had a minor car accident and the doctors advised that she might experience some changes in her period as a result of the impact of the accident.

A week after the accident her and her partner had sex but shortly after this he accused her of cheating on him, saying that her sex with her felt different and her vagina had a different smell to what he’s used to.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 8 years now and they have two children together.

Things got tricky in their relationship and they broke things off. She moved on into a new relationship after she realised that the father of her children had already moved on.

The new partner is amazing and she feels like he ticks all the boxes. However, her long-term partner has now come back into her life, he proposed marriage to her and she has accepted.

She doesn’t know which guy to move forward with.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about three years. And says things were fine until he moved to another province because of work.

His partner seems to have developed a drinking problem and she is now drinking on a daily basis. He has confronted her about this, but she’s blamed her drinking on the fact that he’s now in a different province.

He doesn’t know how to deal with this especially because she’s currently breastfeeding their infant child.

Anonymous started dating her partner late last year after having a crush on her for many years.

After they decided to start dating, her partner revealed that she has a child, something anonymous wasn’t really comfortable with.

Despite this, they continued with their relationship but anonymous says her partner’s child is unruly and she doesn’t know how to deal with this as she feels like her partner is not teaching her child the right behaviour.

Anonymous met a guy late last year and they got involved in a casual relationship with each other despite the fact that they were each in relationships with other people.

Things got a bit more serious between her and this guy, while things ended between her and her partner.

She’s now pregnant with his child but says he’s ill treating her and not giving her the attention she deserves.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together.

They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own.

They eventually made up, however, he says she’s entertaining “17 guys” from her workplace. He doesn’t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they’ve been together.

At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse.

About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She’s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy.

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend’s younger brother, and didn’t know whether he should tell his friend.

In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous.

Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner’s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Anonymous is a widow, and after grieving her late husband she met someone else and she’s now in a relationship with. He came into their relationship with two children, she had one child, and they now have two children together.

Her problem is how her husband seems to be going out of his way to give the mother of his children money. She says he claims the money is for the children but she’s struggling to believe him and thinks there might be something untoward happening between him and the mother of his other children.

Anonymous has been dating a married for about two years and says their side relationship was going well and the man was also taking care of her and her child financially.

Late last year, she met a single man, they hit it off and started dating. She broke up with the married man, he got upset at her and now wants her to pay him back all the money he spent on her.

Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him.

They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life.

Anonymous has been with his partner for over 6 years now and says their relationship was really great in the beginning despite facing challenges of being a same-sex couple.

They also faced financial challenges as his partner was still in school when they started dating, he even ended up moving in with anonymous during the COVID pandemic….

Anonymous has been with his partner for five years. He supported her financially as she was unemployed when they met.

She eventually found a job in another province and moved there. He then lost his job and decided to move in with her but when he got there he realised she was cheating on him.

He forgave her and they moved on but she continued to cheat on him. He wants to leave her, but he’s financially reliant on her and he’s not sure if he can break things off with her.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 19 years and married for 17 of those years.

Her husband cheated on her twice with the same woman from work, and he wasn’t very remorseful at the time, but they eventually reconciled due to his change in attitude and behaviour.

He then moved to another company, however, that lady now also works at that same company and this is giving her a lot of anxiety, as she wonders if he’s still in a relationship with that other woman.

Anonymous has been married for 5 years to his current wife, they have one child together and he has one other child he had many years ago. Yesterday he found out that he has a 16-year-old daughter he didn’t know about.

He revealed this to his wife and she’s upset about this development, to a point of wanting to break up. Anonymous is confused by her behaviour and adds that his wife has been unfaithful multiple times in the past.

Anonymous has been married for about three years now but she’s not happy in this marriage. She’s attempted to leave, but didn’t go through with it.

She’s been feeling this way since she caught him cheating on her. They moved on from this infidelity but she feels like he’s probably going to cheat again based on how terribly he treats her now.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now.

She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he’d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan.

They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn’t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.

They are married in community of property…

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Anonymous has been with his partner for four years now. This relationship started as a result of him cheating on his previous partner.

He had a child with the ex he cheated on and they’ve been co-parenting well this whole time, they got closer again, which led to him sleeping with this ex on more than one occasion.

The ex caught feelings and wanted them to get back together, but he’s happy with his current partner and ended the affair with his ex.

The ex got angry and sent his current partner evidence of their affair.

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Anonymous has a problem with how her wife treats him and deals with conflict.

He says she doesn’t listen to him and doesn’t admit when she’s wrong. He adds that she also confronts and shouts at him in public spaces, and he feels like she doesn’t treat him like an equal partner in the relationship.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 15 years now and they a child together.

He moved to another city this year because of a better job offer and says he took this job because finances were a problem in their relationship.

He started to notice that she became emotionally distant when he’d call her and wasn’t giving him much attention….

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 21 years now and they have three children together.

Their marriage has had its challenges over the years, especially the fact that he doesn’t get along with her family.

He’s now confessed to anonymous that he’s been in a relationship with a lady that works in their business for 14 years now and he has 4 children with her.

He told her that he ended up being in a relationship with this lady because of how her family treats him.

Anonymous met a man about 6 months ago and says when they started dated he told her that he was in a complicated relationship with the mother of his children.

She says communication was fine in the beginning but it hasn’t been so great in recent weeks. When she questioned him about his change of behaviour, he told her that the mother of his child is giving him a hard time and that’s what’s affected him.

She’s not sure what to read into all of this and wonders if she should wait it out and see what happens in this relationship, or just move on.

Anonymous has been married to his partner for 9 years now and things were fine in their relationship until she lost her job.

He feels like she blames him for losing her job, he has now also lost his job and feels frustrated by her expectations of him.

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years.

The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often.

He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s suggested he get a second wife and that’s what he’s grappling with.

Anonymous is in her early thirties and has been married for three years now. Their relationship is generally fine but the issue is in the bedroom.

They met during the Covid-19 pandemic and spent a lot of time together. While they had a hot sex life in the beginning, things died down just before they got married and they haven’t been the same ever since.

She’s not sure where they went wrong and feels like he’s lost interest in getting intimate with her.

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 13 years now and says the problems in their started when she realised he was cheating back in 2021.

She says it was hard for her to deal with this, and what made it worse was that his family knew and condoned it.

She has tried to move on from this but he doesn’t seem remorseful and she’s not happy with how his family handled the whole situation.

Anonymous was in an on-and-off relationship with his now ex-partner for the last 7 years.

He experienced a lot of betrayal and toxicity in that relationship and it’s left him in a position where he’s struggling to move forward and trust another woman.

He’s asking us to help him to be able to open up to a new relationship.

Anonymous has two children and they have different fathers.

She was with the father of her second child for about 12 years and says it took her 6 years to heal from this relationship after things ended between them.

She met another guy who was getting a divorce when they met. He cheated on her multiple times, and abused physically and emotionally.

She’s struggling get over the pain and the hurt of this relationship and doesn’t know if she’ll ever be ok.

Anonymous called us back in February and ended up breaking up with guy no.1 because of the things he was doing in their relationship.

Now, months later, she started building something with a man she met six years ago and things are going well, however, guy no.1 is back in her life and wants to make things work, and the prophet at her church told her that guy no.1 is the one for her.

She feels like guy no.2 is great but she doesn’t know him that well and guy no.1 is really trying this time, so she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 7 years now.

She didn’t work when they met, however, in recent years she found a job, and lives in another province because of this job.

The problem between them is finances, she is fairly accomplished now and has bought herself a car and a house. Despite this, she expects him to support her financially by helping her with her house, something he doesn’t understand as she has the means to take care of those things.

They are now separated as a result of this conflict in their relationship.

Anonymous was previously in a long-term relationship and has a child from that relationship.

She feels like she was never really happy in that relationship but stayed in the relationship because her partner was very financially helpful of her and her family, which led to her family pushing her to stay in the relationship even though she wasn’t happy.

She eventually chose herself and realised she has a spiritual calling, through that journey she found a new partner…

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now.

When he entered this relationship, he already had 4 children from his previous relationships, they initially agreed that they didn’t want to have more kids but they now have two children together.

His issue is her style of dealing with conflict in their relationship as she gets physically and verbally violent.

The first time she got physical with him, he said to her that he would leave her if she reacts that way again, however, they got into a fight recently and she got physical again and even insulted anonymous’ first born son.

She went away after this fight but she’s now back home and he is struggling to forgive her and move on.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for about 6 years now, they live together and have a child together.

He says they both work, however, she earns more than he does. He adds that he’s very supportive of her and also helps with a lot of the duties in the house, however, she's not very supportive of him, especially when it comes to finances.

Anonymous and his current partner have been together since 2010.

Early in their relationship there was an incident where his partner saw him hug his ex while they were at a party and that turned into a conflict between them, they moved on but she never really got over that.

Their relationship became long distance when he moved to another province for work and at some point when he went home he found her behaviour suspicious, confronted her and she confessed to cheating on him because of she felt lonely when he wasn’t around….

Anonymous met a guy back in 2021 when she was doing her final year in varsity, she quickly realised that he was in a relationship while they were in the talking stage and decided not to move forward with a relationship with him.

Years later she reconnected with him but once again they didn’t get into a relationship as she felt like he was still recovering from a recent break-up.

They reconnected again this year and this time around they finally got into a relationship.

He said to her that he’s serious about her and wants to marry her one day but she feels like he’s not acting serious because he doesn’t want her to meet his children right now, just months into their relationship.

Anonymous recently started dating guy and says things between them have moved very fast but she’s starting to pick up that his financial problems are worse than what she thought they were.

She’s already in love with him and wants to help but this is all a bit too much for her as his financial problems are draining her pocket.

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has two children. She met a man earlier this year, they have a twenty-year age gap and things were going well.

She had her suspicions about the man being married so she asked him if he was and he admitted that he is married but his wife has cancer, they haven’t been intimate and he is looking for someone to be intimate with.

They continued with their relationship, at some point she fell pregnant but miscarried. She then found out that he was actually also having an affair with his neighbour, so broke things off but they got back together.

Their relationship has since been toxic and has affected her mentally and emotionally.

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now, they have a child together, and he says the relationship has been great for the most part.

His problem is that she’s always going out with her friends and he feels like she’s neglecting him & their relationship. He says she also gets very drunk and isn’t a considerate human being when she gets like that.

Anonymous says after his marriage ended he got involved with another lady but quickly realised after they went away together that she’s not the girl for him.

After breaking things off she told him that she was pregnant, they agreed to terminate the pregnancy and went their separate ways. He blocked her after this but unblocked her months later only to realise that she kept the pregnancy.

They were co-parenting well until she moved to another province and started avoiding anonymous. Her strange behaviour and rumours that she was seeing another guy led to him asking for a DNA test.

She agreed to the test but has been dodging it for a couple of years now. He stopped supporting the child as a result of not being sure of paternity. He’s struggling to move on with this big question mark.

Anonymous says she got married very young, her husband is generally a good guy and her family & friends love him but she’s says something has always been missing in their relationship.

She feels as though her loved ones never really listened to her when she would try to express this. She has now moved out from their home as a result of how she feels in this marriage.

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Anonymous moved to a new province for work purposes, she met a guy at the office, they hit it off and started dating.

She soon realised that this guy has a partner and she is a side to him. She gave him an ultimatum to decide whether he moves forward with her or his partner.

She started engaging with another guy while he was still deciding on them. The guy found out that anonymous was busy with someone else and he got upset especially because she was pregnant.

She terminated the baby as result of all this chaos…

Anonymous’ fiancé got arrested 8 years ago and has been in prison since then.

This situation put a strain on their finances and has affected their relationship. He also got into a seemingly transactional relationship with another woman that he met on social media. He said this is to help them financially but she feels like she’s not benefitting from this.

She feels drained by the situation and is not sure what to do.

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now.

He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him.

Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Anonymous has been with her current partner for over a year now and says they had a child together after being together for about a month.

At the beginning of their relationship her partner told her that he had just broken up with the mother of his child. About a month ago she realised that he has actually continued his relationship with the mother of his other child despite being in a relationship and living with anonymous.

He has now said that relationship with the mother of his other child is over. But she’s struggling to live on from this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 9 years now and in the last two months she’s found herself in a relationship with a woman.

She says he’s been cheating on her but she let all of that go. She feels like she’s discovering herself and her sexuality right now. She’s cheated on him before with other women but this particular relationship is more intense & serious.

Her partner wants to marry her and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about six years now and says their relationship has been going well and he’s the man she prayed for.

Her problem is that he never pays attention to his phone when he’s out with family and friends and doesn’t give her any attention when she tries to reach him.

They’ve recently had a fight about this and as usual, he’s now giving her silent treatment. They have also been together for 6 years now and she’s yet to meet a member of his family.

Anonymous has been with his wife for about two years now and they are in a long-distance relationship.

They recently had a fight because he found out, for the first time, that she’s in communication with the father of her child. While their chats were mostly about their child, there are also texts where he refers to anonymous’ wife as “my love”, however, she doesn’t reply in the same way.

They got into a fight because of this and he ended up saying to her that this is why he didn’t want to marry someone who already has children. She was hurt by this and has now blocked anonymous.

Anonymous and his partner have together for a while and they live together. They often go out together and recently, while they were at a party, his girlfriend joined her friend, who was with some other guys.

He spotted her flirting with one of the other guys and at some point it looked as if she wanted to leave the party with the other guy. This angered anonymous, he confronted her, and even got physical with her, and they needed up going home together.

He’s frustrated and angered by this behaviour and it’s even led him to violent acts and thoughts against her.

Anonymous and her partner were together from the time they were in varsity and they have a child together.

She got a job first and made more strides in her career, while he struggled and was doing well financially which affected their relationship. She ended up breaking up with him because of his financial problems.

She then met a woman, who she fell in love with, things were going well in that relationship but she ended up going back to her ex because of her need to have her child living with their mother and father.

This has now become a cycle and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous has been dating a guy for about a year and a half now and he’s a great partner for the most part but the thing that annoys her about him is that he seems to be a bit of a pathological liar, especially when it comes to his finances….

Anonymous says there’s lots of drama in her mother-in-law’s life. Not only is she hiding her relationships with younger men, she’s also in fraudulent dealings that have affected her son, who’s anonymous’ partner….

Her mother-in-law seems to always go out of her way to derail her partner from getting work or making things work for himself.

She doesn’t understand this behaviour and it’s now putting a strain on their relationship. Her and her partner are also intertwined in spiritual rituals that have complicated their relationship.

Anonymous has been married to her partner for four years now and says they resolved some of the issues they had before they got married but those seem to be coming back into their relationship.

She feels like her partner is too relaxed about how other women behave around him, he downplays it when they get touchy with him, with some of it happening in front of her.

There’s also messages that she’s seen on his phone that she feels cross the line. He has given her full access to his phone. She’s worried about why they are so comfortable behaving that way with him.

Anonymous rekindled things with her ex about a year ago. He broke up with her the first time they dated because he felt like he couldn’t provide for her “as a man” should.

After getting back together they spoke about expectations they have of each other but she now feels like he’s expecting too much from her, especially in terms of house chores.

They don’t live together and he expects her to perform all kinds of chores at his place and she doesn’t understand this. She wonders if this is a red flag.

Anonymous got back together with her ex recently after they broke up back in 2018 after he said to her that he didn’t feel like he was emotionally available.

Things initially went well after they rekindled their relationship but then he started pulling away from her.

She thinks he’s feeling pressure and emasculated by her because she’s doing better than him financially and in her career.

Anonymous feels like she’s not satisfying her partner sexually, and thinks the reason is because his previous partner had stretched her labia.

She’s now thinking of stretching hers as well so she can satisfy him, but she’s not sure.

She also thinks this is the reason why he’s cheating on her.

Anonymous has known his friend and colleague for about three years now and says when they initially met they were both in relationships.

Their friendship has grown a lot over the last couple of years and he has realised in recent months that he has romantic feelings for her.

They are now both single and he adds that she is struggling to let go of her abusive ex, and she’s also currently engaging with other potentials sexually.

He doesn’t want to jeopardise their friendship by revealing his feelings for her.

Anonymous has been with his partner for over a year now after they met on social media. They have a big age gap between them, he’s in his 30s and she’s in her 50s.

Their relationship is generally fine but she has two children in their twenties, and she’s always hiding anonymous from her children and other people in her life.

She’s also very paranoid and is always accusing him of cheating on her, because she’s struggling to believe that a guy as good looking as anonymous would be with her.

Anonymous was with her baby daddy for about 11 years, and they currently have one child together, after losing their first child.

The father of her child was constantly cheating on her and it all became too much for anonymous, so she broke up with him, especially because she wa now rekindling things with her ex partner.

Anonymous is now back together with that ex partner but he is struggling with the fact that anonymous has a child with another guy.

Anonymous has been in a relationship with a married man for the last three years and says it’s been a rollercoaster.

She has now met a new man, who’s single, seems great, and ticks a lot of boxes. She would like to pursue something with this new guy but says she’s struggling to let go of her married boyfriend.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 10 years now and says their relationship has been generally good.

A few weeks ago, while at a party, he met another lady, they hit it off, and he started having an affair with this lady. While he is just having a fun sexual relationship, this lady, who is married, wants things to get more serious between them.

Anonymous is not sure what to do as the only reason he entwined this affair is because the sex between him and his partner has become dull.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.

She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.

Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall.

She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.

Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now after knowing each other at work for about 3 years as friends, as she was in a relationship at the time.

They started dating well after she broke up with the father of her child. They agreed to have a child together from the beginning of their relationship, but they’ve struggled to conceive.

He cheated on her with another lady starting late last year and that lady is now pregnant.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after coming out of a 13-year relationship that produced two children.

This weekend, when she happened to be using his phone, she found voice notes from some other lady that were suspicious, she got angry and hit her partner.

She comes from a toxic and violent background which she thinks has led to her aggressive behaviour towards her partner.

She’s hit her partner on two separate occasions and feels terrible about this. She doesn’t want to continue reacting this way and wonders how she can fix herself and repair their relationship.

Anonymous has been with her husband for 6 years now and they have two children together.

Her partner started acting off towards her about 3 years ago and then at some point he even stopped sleeping in their room without much of an explanation.

He eventually opened up to anonymous and revealed that he wasn’t comfortable around her as he felt like she has bad energies and those energies are affecting him spiritually, going as far as calling her a witch.

They are now separated, after she moved out of their home. He wants her back but anonymous says he’s not addressing his spiritual issues, as he’s not even speaking to his family and thinks everyone around him wants to dim his spirit.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for seven years now and they have two children together.

She found out that he was cheating on her last year but she forgave him after he made an effort to win her back, and they are now engaged.

Things have now gotten weird in their relationship and he has become sexually avoidant. She’s not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since the beginning of last year and they have one child together.

They moved in together, six months into their relationship, and her partner’s brother also moved in with them.

Her partner has other two other children that live else where, however, her partner has now suggested that one of his children move in with them but she’s worried about the financial impact of this as they currently live on his salary, with some support from his brother.

Anonymous has a large package and it’s causing trouble in his love life.

The women he likes never want to continue being in a relationship with him because of their sexual experience with him. However, the women he meets at bars for fun enjoy his larger size but he’s not interested in a lot of them.

Anonymous wants to know how to deal with this.

Anonymous met a guy back in 2016 and after two years of dating they decided to have a baby, and they ended up having twins.

Her partner questioned the paternity of the twins, they got a paternity test done and it was confirmed that they are his children. Anonymous felt disrespected by him and ended their relationship, after months of tension in their relationship as a result of the questions regarding the paternity of the children.

Seven months after they broke up, she found out that he had gotten married to someone else post their break-up, she confronted him about this but it ended up with them having an affair and having another child.

He now wants to introduce anonymous and their children to his wife so that they can have a healthy relationship. She doesn’t know what to read into this.

Anonymous is ten years younger than his partner, she has three children and he has one daughter.

He would like to have more children of his own, however, she can’t physically bare more children and he would like to have a male child of his own who will carry his legacy.

He loves his partner and appreciates her contribution to his personal & professional development, however, this is a major drawback of staying in this relationship.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 3 years now and they moved in together about a year ago.

Her partner has been struggling financially for a while now and has accused anonymous of not supporting him financially and not spending on their household.

She has now found out that he’s been cheating on her with another lady who he says supports him financially. Anonymous wonders if his complaints about her lack of support are valid.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 8 years and have been married for two of those years.

Her husband cheated on her with 7 different women, she reported this to their families, they resolved it and they’ve now moved on with their relationship.

She started using PrEP to protect herself she’s now in an interim and they need to use condoms, but her husband is refusing to do this.

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 7 years now and they have a child together.

It’s been rocky in their relationship with infidelity happening on both sides. At some point they addressed this situation in their relationship, forgave each other and decided to move forward in their relationship.

However, she feels like their relationship is not the same anymore after all they’ve been through. They both want to make it work, but currently it seems to not be going anywhere.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 5 years now and they have a child together.

Their relationship has been messy over the last two years and his partner now wants to leave him because she feels like he doesn’t communicate properly in the relationship and that he has anger issues…

Anonymous with her ex partner for about nine years and they have two children together. Their relationship ended after she cheated on her partner and he found out.

She’s now in a new relationship and the guy is amazing to her and her kids. However, she feels like she’s still healing from the wounds of her previous relationship.

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend since late last year and they work together.

She works in HR and when he had to apply for family responsibility leave in her office, she found out that his ex had just given birth to his child and he had been hiding that pregnancy from her.

Another issue in their relationship is family planning, anonymous wants her partner to share in the costs of the contraceptive she wants to use but he doesn’t agree.

She’s wondering if he’s lying about the relationship he has with the mother of his children and whether she’s unreasonable for wanting him to contribute to the contraceptive.

Anonymous met a guy back in 2017, they immediately fell in love and, soon after they started dating, they had a child together.

The guy then moved overseas to pursue his studies and during his time abroad their relationship took a turn for the worst and it faded away.

Seven years later he’s back in the country and she is now back together with him, but feels like he’s not present in their relationship, and he’s not really there for their daughter, who he hasn’t been supporting this entire time.

Anonymous took him back in so they could be a family but she feels like it’s not working out the way it should.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 8 years now and they have a 4 year-old child together.

About two years ago his partner started becoming off-ish about sex and she eventually started scheduling sex between them to three times a month.

This became a problem in their relationship and she told anonymous that if he wants more sex he can go outside of their relationship and find someone else to have sex with.

Upon realising that he found someone to have sex with, she became upset and accused anonymous of cheating on her.

She moved out of their home out of anger but was convinced by his family to go back to their home.

Things haven’t been the same since she got back and she has now left their home again saying that she’s struggling with his “betrayal”.

Anonymous still loves his partner and doesn’t know how to resolve this.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 10 years and they’ve been married for about 3 of those years.

She has a mental illness and she has relapsed a few times over the duration of their relationship, and the last relapse she had was as a result of her pregnancy.

They now have one child together and she would like to have another child, as that was their plan, but her partner is not sure if having another baby is worth destabilising anonymous’ mental health.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 4 years now, however, he was in what he described as a complicated relationship with the mother of his child when they met.

Her partner then moved in together with the mother of his child as she was kicked out from her home and needed shelter. As it turns out they got back together and he has now paid lobola for this other lady.

Anonymous has since had a child with her partner, and him and his family are now saying they want to take her in as a second wife.

Anonymous is not sure about any of this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years now, after they met while working in the same company.

He now works in another province and they are now in a long distance relationship.

She feels like their relationship is not moving and doesn’t have much direction. She’s also found a woman’s pyjamas while visiting her partner, but he said they are his sister’s pyjamas.

Anonymous is not sure what to read into their relationship as it currently stands.

Anonymous has been with her partner for four years and things were fine until she realised that her partner had a drinking problem and spent a lot of time with her friends partying.

She brought this up often with her partner but her partner would respond by accusing anonymous of being controlling and not wanting her to have a good time.

Communication remains a big problem in their relationship as they don’t seem to see eye to eye.

Anonymous was in a serious relationship with her now ex and they have an 8 month old baby.

A few weeks ago she looked through his phone and found a text on his phone where he was courting another lady and flirting with her.

This led to her breaking up with him. He has now tried to get her back, but she’s refusing.

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost five years, and she feels like there are too many voices in their relationship, particularly from her partner’s family, and it’s starting to negatively affect their relationship. The problem? She does not feel protected by her partner from his family, so much so, she is reconsidering going ahead with marrying him. She wants to know; how can she make him realise that his family’s voices are too loud in their relationship?

Anonymous has been in a long distance relationship with her partner for two years now and recently they ended up in an argument, that seemed small to her at the time, but they didn’t speak for two weeks afterwards.

She expected him to eventually call her to apologise as she felt like he was at fault but he never did. She then gave in and called him to try and fix things, but he said to her he was over the relationship and broke up with her saying it’s because they have a communication problem.

Anonymous’ problems with her partner started when things became transactional between them. He’s an e-hailing driver and she says every time he’d drive her somewhere he’d ask her to officially request a trip with him because chauffeuring is his work.

Things have also been tense between them because he feels as though she doesn’t prioritise him in their relationship. This has brought many fights in their relationship and she says he tends to be vicious with his words when they argue, but then turns around and showers her with lots of love.

She’s feeling drained by all this and doesn’t know if the relationship is worth keeping.

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now. It took them a while to get married as her family was against them getting married. She eventually ended up marrying him without her parent’s blessing, which caused a rift between her and her family.

Her husband had a close friend that he lived with while they were dating and anonymous did suspect there was something going on between her husband and his close male friend, she later found out, after looking through his phone that he did indeed have a relationship with his friend.

Her husband has said that he is not gay and that was just a phase, he has also cheated on her with a woman, however, anonymous is worried that he might be gay and he will want to be with another guy in future.

Anonymous is in her early thirties and says she met her now ex boyfriend about two years ago, and things were fine between them until she found he was still speaking to his previous ex.

They spoke about this and she told him she forgave him but she struggled to move on and ended up going on dates with other guys. He found out about her dates with other guys, they talked through it and moved on with their relationship.

They also got into a lot of fights when they’d be out drinking…

Anonymous has known the father of her child for about 10 years after they met during their high school days.

They dated for many years and had one child together, but they ended up breaking up because she was tired of him always being out with friends and not assisting in the household.

Anonymous moved on to a new relationship but her ex started to visit more under the guise of seeing their child, this led to them having sexual relations, and anonymous even broke up with her new partner after they agreed to work on their relationship.

After breaking up with her new partner, her ex started to pull back from her.

Recently, her ex came to a party at her home with his new girlfriend and anonymous ended up in a physical altercation with the new girl because she felt disrespected.

Anonymous says her partner is always suggesting that they fix things even though he has this girl in this life.

Anonymous has now blocked him but she’s not sure if she made the right decision.

Anonymous’ partner moved to another province after she found a job there. He helped her move and even bought furniture for her, however, his help was met with scepticism from his partner’s family, which left him feeling disheartened.

Fast forward to now, they’ve had many back and forths in their relationship with anonymous feeling unappreciated.

His partner has now lost her father and has asked anonymous for space due to his grieving.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for six years now and they have two children together.

Their relationship was ok until they had a huge rift, which left anonymous feeling like her partner’s family is too involved in their relationship. Her partner moved out of their house and told her that he now wants a divorce.

She adds that her partner has also said he was actually only ever interested in having kids. She is trying to salvage their relationship but wonders if she should continue to pursue the restoration of their marriage.

Anonymous has been with his partner for almost two years now and they now live together with her two children.

His partner was in the middle of lobola proceedings when she broke up with the father of her children and they had gotten a joint-mortgage for the house they lived in. Anonymous wants to marry his partner but he’s worried that his partner is still jointly linked to a major asset with her ex.

He wants her to give up on the house so that they can move on with their relationship on a clean slate.

Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she’s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours.

She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it’s because he’s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he’s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating.

His communication, after hours, hasn’t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for almost six years, they’ve been married for two of those years and they have a ten month old child.

Their relationship is generally great, but the problem is a friend that her partner has, as she’s seen videos of them being cozy together and they’ve even exchanged messages declaring their love for each other.

They’ve been fighting about this same girl for most of their relationship, however, she’s not sure if she should give up on what she’s built with him because of the relationship he has with this one girl.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for three years. He already had two children before they started dating and they have since had a child together who is now 10 months old.

They are in a long distance relationship and last week, when he came to visit her for her birthday, he was trying to post pictures of her on his WhatsApp stories when she noticed that he blocked 3 ladies from seeing his stories.

She questioned him about this and he said it was people from work that he blocked from seeing his stories. Anonymous still finds this suspicious and wonders if he could be busy with other people.

Anonymous has been with his partner, on and off, for about a year and a half now. They broke up twice in their relationship mostly because he used to go out a lot and also cheated on her.

They are now back together but he suspects that she might be in a relationship with the guy she was having a thing with before they got back together.

He doesn’t have any concrete evidence of this but says she tends to be evasive about her whereabouts and has done some things that make anonymous question her commitment.

Anonymous met a lady at the gym in the latter part of last year, the lady had a boyfriend, but they ended up having an affair.

Things got more serious between them as they were spending a lot of time together and she told this lady that she’d like to make things official between them which caused a rift between them because this lady was struggling to break up with her boyfriend.

The lady then told anonymous that she’s broken up with her boyfriend, and they continued with their relationship, however, it turned out that this lady was actually still having a thing with her boyfriend.

They fought about this but kissed and made up…

Anonymous is in her late twenties and is a mother of an 18 month old baby. She was with the father of her child for about three years but the relationship was toxic and after she gave birth she broke up with her partner and moved out of his family home.

Months after the break up she went back to the house to fetch her things, and this is when she met her ex’s new girlfriend. The new girlfriend then offered to support her child.

They continued to chill and the new girlfriend then kissed anonymous and they ended up having sex.

She’s now confused by her relationship with the new girlfriend, who’s supporting her child, however she’s worried about their relationship being transactional.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for two years now and during that they moved in together and built a house together.

A couple of months after they bought the house, her partner started behaving differently, going out more and having fun with friends. Anonymous addressed his changed behaviour, he agreed to spend more time at home but it’s been going on for months now.

Her partner disappeared over the long weekend which caused a rift between them once again. Her partner has now told her that he still wants to have fun and doesn’t want to live like an old married couple.

Anonymous is not sure how to interpret this.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2017 and they got married in 2019, she adds that he was a virgin when they met in their late twenties.

Her problem is in the bedroom as he struggles to pleasure her and when she tries to find out what he likes, he’s not sure.

Anonymous has tried many different things to get them on the same page sexually, but their sex life has not been improving.

Anonymous has been with her partner, guy no.1, for about 4 years now and things were fine until he lost his job and it created a burden on their relationship.

She started noticing things about his treatment of her, realising that he often body shames her and is always speaking down to her.

She has now started dating other people: guy no.2, who’s married and has said he doesn’t mind marrying anonymous as a second wife, and guy no.3, who she’s also having a good time with currently but is not sure if it’s just vibes or something more serious.

Anonymous and her fiancé have been in a relationship for over a decade now and live together with two of their children, including her child, from a previous relationship, and a child they have together. Her fiancé also had a child with someone else while they already in a relationship.

Her problem is how her partner sometimes speaks to her, she feels that he can be very insensitive & harsh towards her. They have also cheated on each other in the past and that keeps coming up in their arguments.

Anonymous her partner basically struggle when it comes to communication.

Anonymous broke up with his partner a few months ago, after five years together, because she cheated on him with a guy she had a history with.

He feels as though things became problematic in their relationship after he lost his job and couldn’t provide for them anymore.

Some time has gone by since the break-up and he’s wondering if he let go of the relationship too easily, he doesn’t want to rekindle the relationship, but he lost so much of himself in it and he is struggling to move forward.

Anonymous broke up with the father of her child 5 years ago after he cheated on her and impregnated another woman.

He didn’t support their child after their break-up, and only started doing so after their child turned three. He’s now back in their lives and wants to get back together with anonymous after the lady he cheated on her with cheated on him.

Anonymous is open to officially getting back together with him but her biggest struggle with this is accepting the child he had with the other woman, and that woman’s accessibility to him as the mother of his other child.

Anonymous met her partner in January this year and says their relationship has been great, he ticks all the boxes and she feels quite comfortable being herself around him.

This past weekend while they were at gathering with friends, she caught him on a video call with another lady who was complaining that he doesn’t make time for her anymore.

Anonymous’ partner says it’s someone he dated before who’s struggling to let him go, their relationship faded but they are still in communication.

Anonymous has been with his partner for the last 6 years, a year ago she moved overseas for a new job and to further her studies.

He says communication between them was great at the start of her period away, but over the last six months the communication has not been as regular as it used to be, mostly because she keeps claiming that she’s too tired to chat.

She’ll be coming back soon, but anonymous is worried that she might come back a changed woman, as she’ll also be earning way more than him. He’s anticipating the worst and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous is in her early 40s and is a mother of three.

She’s in the dating market and says she tends to attract much younger men, and thinks it’s because of her younger looking appearance.

The younger men sexually fulfil her more than the older men that she’s dated, and while this is great for her sexual appetite, she wants to get into a more serious relationship and feels like the younger guys are more about fun and not building a solid relationship.

Anonymous also wants to be with someone her teenage children can respect.

Anonymous and her husband met in 2016 and got married in 2022.

She stopped working at some point and started her own business. A couple of years later her partner, who’s much older, was retrenched due to the Covid pandemic, she suggested different things for him to try including helping in the business, but he hasn’t done much since.

Her husband got a large payout after he lost his job and when anonymous requested that he invest in her business he didn’t. He has now run out of money leaving her as the sole provider for their home.

Anonymous is frustrated by his behaviour and feels like he hasn’t been a supportive partner.

Anonymous has been married to her partner for about 10 years now and they have two children together.

She travels often in her job and back in 2018 ,when she got back from a work trip, she noticed suspicious messages on her partner’s phone with another woman, but she didn’t want to read too much into it and ignored this.

This behaviour continued and upon her return from another work trip, the female friend texted and asked her husband to greet her mother-in-law, and on one occasion when anonymous fell pregnant the friend texted anonymous’ husband saying the pregnancy is a mistake.

She has confronted her husband about this but he keeps telling her that they are just friends.

Anonymous started dating his partner back in 2017 after they’d known each other for a few years.

They have a child together with his partner, however, he doubts that he’s the father of this child. The situation is a bit familiar for anonymous as he has his suspicions that his parents might not be his biological family.

This background has made it difficult for anonymous to deal with the questions he has around the paternity of the child he knows as his son.

Anonymous is in her early 40s and she was married for 18 years before separating from her husband three years ago. She says came out of the marriage with very little and has spent the last few years rebuilding her life.

She met a man who’s in his late twenties within the last year and months after they started dating he proposed and they are now engaged.

They have been together for a year now and their relationship is going strong but she keeps feeling like it’s too good to be true.

Anonymous adds that her partner knows about her one child but she hasn’t told him about her other son as that son is only 4 years younger than his partner.

Anonymous met his partner seven years ago and says they moved in together at his partner’s family home, on her request, as he used to live at his work quarters when they met.

He was initially ok with this living arrangement, however, over time he’s felt emasculated by this situation, with people in the community referring to him as “makoti”.

He has spoken to his partner about moving out from her family home and renting somewhere else, but she’s completely against it.

Anonymous also feels bullied in his relationship and adds that his partner doesn’t seem to respect him.

Anonymous started dating the mother of his child about four years ago and says things were great until he lost his job and was in the process of starting a new business.

He cheated on her in the midst of all of this, she forgave him and said they should move as she felt he cheated because of the area in which he lived.

She helped him grow his business and he says things got busy in that business and he neglected her to a point that she broke up with him.

She’s currently not allowing anonymous access to their child, he doesn’t want to go the legal route as he feels that could add to the animosity between them & he feels like he owes her a lot for helping him.

Anonymous met her current partner back in 2014 and their relationship was completely platonic in the beginning but they eventually started dating and now they are married.

Her problem is that their relationship is not great as a couple because he just doesn’t meet the standards of what she wants in a partner.

Anonymous feels like he’s a better friend than partner to her, she wants to break it off without ending their friendship.

Anonymous dated a man ten years ago and he was a great partner but things didn’t workout because he was struggling to get it up in the bedroom and he was an over drinker.

It’s been about eight years now and the man has returned into her life and she has decided to give him another chance. Things are going well so far however the problems in the bedroom remain.

They haven’t had a conversation regarding his erection issues, and he has now shared with anonymous that he is HIV positive.

Anonymous says he was in a long term relationship which ended about 3 years ago, he says they tried to make their relationship work a couple of times but it didn’t work out.

Anonymous says he has since been in two other relationships and one of those partners ended things with him saying he isn’t man enough, while the second most recent relationship ended because the partner said he doesn’t have enough money.

Anonymous says he feels like he keeps trying in relationships but wonders why he hasn’t had much luck so far. He adds that he’d like to start building a family.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 11 years, she came into the relationship with one child and they have two children together. Her partner has paid half the lobola.

Anonymous says there’s a lot of negativity happening in their relationship and in a recent incident her partner did not come back home as he was upset with her for “blue-ticking” him.

Anonymous says she was shocked by his reasoning for disappearing and they fought about this, which led to her partner throwing her phone in the toilet and anonymous taking his phone and hiding it.

Anonymous says she went through his phone and found messages between her partner and his sister, in which anonymous says her partner was saying nasty things about her.

Anonymous says it was love at first sight when he met his partner three months ago. Anonymous says he’s met her family and adds that she’s great with his daughter as well.

Anonymous says when they met, she revealed to him that she had just come out of a 7-year lesbian relationship. Anonymous says she has also told him that she’d like to have a threesome with anonymous and another woman, something anonymous says he’s not interested in doing.

Anonymous says they are now in talks to start with lobola proceedings, however, anonymous says his partner is still friends with her female ex. Anonymous’ partner says he has nothing to worry about as they are just friends. Anonymous is taken aback by this because his partner might still be into her ex.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since 2016 and they had a child after a year of being together. Anonymous says they only started living together recently.

Anonymous says things have gotten tense in their relationship because he started getting what anonymous thinks were suspicious messages from a colleague and when he confronted him about those texts, he claimed they were business related.

Anonymous says things are now tense as her partner is denying the cheating. Anonymous is not sure if she’s the one blowing things out proportion.

Anonymous says he’s been dating the mother of his child for 10 years now and he’s looking to get married to her, but he’s not quite sure based on her behaviour.

Anonymous says they fight a lot and says she keeps bringing up past fights. Anonymous says he wanted to start the lobola process last year but she said to him that she’s not ready to get married and instead kept the money that was meant for her lobola.

Anonymous says when he asks about this money she gets upset so he feels like he can’t bring up anymore.

Anonymous says he’s been with his wife for 14 years and they have two children together. Anonymous says their relationship was fine until he cheated on his wife on two separate occasions. Anonymous says she forgave him both times and they were able to move on.

Anonymous says time went by and then his wife started cheating on him. Anonymous says he was able to move on with the relationship after finding out about his wife’s cheating. Anonymous says even though they are still together, he’s struggling to forget about about his wife’s cheating and says he can’t see her in the same way anymore.

Anonymous says another issue is that his wife has become quite flashy, and says this started around the second time he cheated on her and at the time he was making more money.

Anonymous says he’s currently dating two ladies, he’s known lady no.1 since 2014 and they have a child together. Anonymous says their relationship was fine until 2019 when she started drinking a lot and it was causing problems in their relationship.

Anonymous says he met another lady, lady no.2, in 2023 and they’ve been together since, even though he’s still with the mother of his child. Anonymous says when he met lady no.2 she was still married to someone else but got divorced and anonymous say his affair with lady no.2 was stated as the reason for lady no.2’s divorce.

Anonymous says she’s in her late twenties and she’s been in a relationship with her partner for about four years but it’s been messy because her partner cheated on her a few times and she forgave him.

Anonymous says she then met another guy while in a relationship with her partner and decided to have an affair with this guy, in retaliation to her partner’s infidelities.

Anonymous says she’s now pregnant but she’s not sure who the father of the child is. Anonymous says her side piece is aware that it’s possible that he’s not the father but her partner has no idea and he’s just happy to build a family with her.

Anonymous is not sure how to move forward.

Anonymous says he’s been with his girlfriend since 2020 and they have two year-old child together.

Anonymous says at some point he lost his job and this when his partner’s behaviour changed. Anonymous says one of the problems he’s found is that his girlfriend has been having relations with other guys while they’ve been together.

Anonymous says he’s now working again and he’s even thinking of marrying his girlfriend but he’s struggling to trust her and is not sure if she can be the right wife for him.

Anonymous says he’s been in an on and off situation with his partner for a while now. Anonymous says she cheated on him early on in their relationship but he ended up forgiving her and even considered getting married to her.

Anonymous says they then ran into some trouble when they tried to conceive a child and even lost a baby, but anonymous says during that grieving period he found out that she cheated on him with the same guy again. Anonymous says they eventually broke up.

Anonymous says despite them breaking things off he’s struggling to let it go and she keeps coming back into his life. Anonymous says she’s to always come back into his life when he’s busy with someone else, but then disappears when he starts giving her attention again.

Anonymous says when he met his current wife 9 years ago, she had a 1 year-old child. Anonymous says since then he has raised this child as his own.

Anonymous says they are currently separated after he found out that his wife was flirting with a colleague. Anonymous says they are now officially separated however he feels like he shouldn’t be the one to financially support the child as he’s no longer in a relationship with the mother.

Anonymous says they do have one other child together, and he’s only willing to support this child, as the other child has their own father and his estranged wife now has another partner. Anonymous is wondering if he’s taking the right approach to the situation.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for two years, and her current relationship overlapped with her previous relationship.

Anonymous says early in their relationship her partner found out that she was still dating her ex partner. Anonymous says they fought about this and she finally broke up with her ex. Anonymous says their relationship continued but her partner also cheated on her, and said she did it because she struggled to get over the fact that anonymous had cheated.

Anonymous says her partner has struggled to get over the initial cheating and they keep fighting about it. Anonymous says her partner broke up with her yesterday and she’s not sure if she should fight for her.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them.

Anonymous says they’ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn’t seem keen to have more children.

Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them.

Anonymous says they’ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn’t seem keen to have more children.

Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about 3 years and says when they started dating he didn’t tell her that he was in a relationship with someone else. Anonymous says after she got suspicious, he confessed to her that he does have another partnerback home, where he comes from.

Anonymous says she’s known about the other girl for about a year now and says despite their relationship being great, she’s not comfortable with him having another partner.

Anonymous says he has said that he plans to leave the other woman, but it still hasn’t happened.

Anonymous says he’s been dating a lady, who’s married to someone else, for about 5 years now. Anonymous says when he told her about his dreams to open his own business, she volunteered to raise the funds for him for the business.

Anonymous says they got the funding but he didn’t want to have the business registered in both their names as he was scared of what could happen if the lady’s husband found out about their affair. Anonymous says they decided to register the business under his name and this lady’s best friend’s name.

Anonymous says time went by and the lady is now looking to divorce her husband, the problem is now the lady’s best friend…

Anonymous says after being single for two years, he met a guy in September last year, and two weeks into their relationship, the guy told him that he had a spiritual calling and would be going to initiation for about 6 months.

Anonymous says the guy wasn’t allowed to have visitors while at initiation but they kept in contact by calling each other. Anonymous says the guy was then not allowed to take calls and this affected their relationship, leaving anonymous feeling lonely.

Anonymous says during this time he met someone else, guy no.2, and they instantly fell in love. Anonymous says he’s in a relationship with guy no.2.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for about two years now. They never moved in together but would stay at each other’s places for extended periods.

Anonymous says his partner got into the habit of leaving his place and staying at her own place every time they fight.

Anonymous says during one of the times his partner moved out he started entertaining another lady who he says became a confidant to him, anonymous says he eventually slept wit this lady and when he didn’t continue the relationship with this lady, she shared screen shots of their chats with anonymous’ partner.

Anonymous says his partner is obviously upset about the chats that she’s seen and they are currently fighting about this. Anonymous says he loves his partner and he’s not sure on how to go about repairing their relationship.

Anonymous says she’s known her husband for 8 years and they’ve been married for 6 of those years. Anonymous says her relationship with her partner is toxic and says the biggest issue is finances.

Anonymous says she earns more than her partner and says he also doesn’t contribute much to their household finances. Anonymous says she feels like she has been financially and verbally abusive towards her partner, calling him useless for not taking care their family.

Anonymous says it’s not that he earns less, it’s that he doesn’t spend much money on their family, and has instead accumulated a lot of debt.

Anonymous says she feels like she needs to end the relationship but her heart won’t let go and she can’t financially afford to leave the relationship right now.

Anonymous says her partner recently went through her phone and found nude pictures of her with her ex on her phone.

Anonymous says her partner was upset after finding the pictures, which were recently sent by her ex. Anonymous says her partner also saw a message where she suggested to her ex that they have a threesome.

Anonymous says they went to therapy to try and resolve this issue, however, in a recent incident, her partner tried to call her but he got upset when he couldn’t reach anonymous because he just imagined that anonymous was busy with the ex.

Anonymous says her partner has been deeply affected by this and seems to be pulling away from her. Anonymous says she’s serious about him and doesn’t know how they can move forward from this.

Anonymous says he has been dating his partner for about 3 years now and says she has been very supportive of him from the time they started dating as he had just graduated.

Anonymous says he got into the e-hailing business and when he decided to start driving his own car, she helped him get the car and they agreed that he would pay her back for the car and they would change the ownership of the car to his name later.

Anonymous says he has since got two more cars on his own but when he tried to change the ownership of the first car from his partner’s name to his own name, she was avoiding doing this, which led to him checking the details of the car, and that’s when he found out that the car is owned by his partner’s husband, and he had no idea that she was even married.

Anonymous is worried about the car situation but he’s also not comfortable with continuing the relationship with his partner knowing that she’s married.

Anonymous says he met a guy last year and they’ve been dating since then. Anonymous says everything was fine until the guy started acting strange.

Anonymous says they once had a conflict & as they were in middle of the fight his partner decided he was leaving, and some other guy came to pick up his partner and they left anonymous at his place.

Anonymous says he tracked his partner on his phone and noticed that his partner went to the other guy’s place. Anonymous also says he found pictures of his partner with that guy looking cozy on the beach.

Anonymous says they met up days later and he confronted his partner about this. Anonymous says his partner was ignoring him, focusing on his phone and this led to them getting into a physical fight.

Anonymous says his partner pressed assault charges against him and he ended up in jail for weeks, before his partner dropped the charges.

Anonymous says his partner reached out to him and they’ve rekindled their relationship. Anonymous says it seems his partner is still hooking up with other people, but despite this he is struggling to let him go.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for two years but says they’ve had an issue with infidelity in their relationship since the very beginning.

Anonymous says she’s always finding texts on his phone of him chatting with other girls and flirting with them. She says she’s confronted him about this several times, but it keeps happening.

Anonymous says in the middle of all of this he doesn’t want her to chat with other guys. Anonymous says there’s also a particular girl who he can’t seem to let go of.

Anonymous says he is now accusing her of bringing up the past every time she brings up what he did with those other girls.

Anonymous says she met a guy no.1 in January and things quickly sparked between them, and the guy moved into her place soon after they started dating.

Anonymous says the guy lies a lot, for starters, he lied about his age, saying he’s in his early thirties but it turned out he’s actually in his early twenties. Anonymous says though he seemed to have a proper job she’s also realised that he might be scamming people on social media.

Anonymous says guy no.2 is someone she was with before guy no.1, she says he’s trying to get back into her life even though he had ghosted her when they dated previously. Anonymous says guy no.2 has seemingly changed and there could be a chance to rekindle things with him.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for two years, they live together, their families know about each other, and their relationship is moving in the marriage direction.

Anonymous says she recently had a dream that there is something funny happening in their relationship, after this, anonymous says she looked through his phone and found that he’s still following his ex on Tik Tok and has liked all 11 of her posts.

Anonymous says they already had a fight about him following his ex on social media and she thought this was resolved. Anonymous says she’s now confused on how to feel about this.

Anonymous says he met his current partner 8 years ago, after being single for 3 years. Anonymous says they started dating soon after meeting.

Anonymous says his partner came into their relationship with two children and they have since had four more children together, she is currently pregnant with twins.

Anonymous says that the problem in their relationship seems to be his partner’s family as they tend to meddle into their relationship. Anonymous says currently he’s trying to get married to his partner but there are some wranglings regarding the lobola amount anonymous must pay…

Anonymous says she’s a mother of two and she broke up with the father of her children back in 2015. Anonymous says she met another guy shortly after this but the relationship failed because she didn’t want the guy to meet her kids as they were young.

Anonymous says she waited for her kids to grow before dating again and she’s now in a relationship with someone who she has introduced to her kids and they’ve been together for a while now, but anonymous says she feels like he’s closed off and doesn’t share his true feelings.

Anonymous says she feels like he’s not emotionally mature enough to be a family man, as he also has a terrible relationship with his own family.

Anonymous says even though he’d like to have a child with her, she’s also realised that he’s lacking when it comes to having paternal instincts.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for a year and after he lost his job last November, the partner moved back to his home town.

Anonymous says after their relationship became long distant, they began to struggle with communication and anonymous says she ended up pushing him away, as she was hiding somethings from him.

Anonymous says this caused a rift between them and he ended having a relationship with someone else and impregnating that person.

Anonymous says the guy has told her that he does love the girl he’s impregnated, adding that he’d like to date both anonymous and the other girl.

Anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s been with her husband for 17 years since they were in high school and they’ve been married for about 8 years.

Anonymous says post high school she studied further, got her qualifications and has been financially stable since then, on the other hand she says her husband lacks ambition and hasn’t worked much this whole time that they’ve been together, which means she’s been supporting their household, which now includes two children as well.

Anonymous says she eventually broke things off with him as things got toxic in their home but eventually got back together with him. Anonymous says their relationship never really got better and describes her husband as being emotionally and financially abusive…

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with her partner for 3 years and says their relationship couldn’t be better, however, anonymous says she started cheating on her partner, with someone who lives on the same street as her mother.

Anonymous says she then found out that her side piece was cheating on her and they broke things off. Anonymous says even though things are great with her partner, she finds herself hurt by what happened with her side piece and she’s struggling to let her go.

Anonymous says she is really happy with her partner and doesn’t want to leave her.

Anonymous says his friend broke up with his partner 2 months ago, after the break up, anonymous says he started chatting with his partner’s ex and they hit things off.

Anonymous says things quickly got serious between him and his friend’s ex and that’s when he decided to tell his friend that he’d like to his ex. Anonymous says his friend told him he doesn’t approve of this relationship and their friendship would be over if anonymous continued to date his ex.

Anonymous says they have slept with each other’s flings in the past, so he thought his friend would be ok with this.

Anonymous says he’s not sure who to choose, as he’s in love with his friend’s ex but also finds some value in his friendship, as they are a part of a group of friends.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for just over a year now and they’ve known each other for about 10 years altogether.

Anonymous says they were initially in a long-distance relationship and things were great but his behaviour changed when she moved to the same area as him.

Anonymous says she feels like even though she’s goegraphically closer now, he doesn’t pay much attention to her, shows little support and hardly initiates conversations with her.

Anonymous says they don’t even talk much now and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for two years and everything was fine between them from the on set but things changed after she became pregnant.

Anonymous says after finding out about the pregnancy they moved in together but his character changed and they started fighting a lot, to a point that he moved out of their place.

Anonymous says most recently he asked him for money to do a pregnancy scan but this turned into a fight and her partner accused her of using him for his money, saying anonymous doesn’t even care about his kids.

Anonymous says she doesn’t know where that is coming from as she’s never relied on him financially and in fact he was unemployed when they started dating.

Anonymous says mid last year she found a lady on social media who she liked but only DM’d her earlier this in January and confessed her feelings.

Anonymous says it turned out the lady also liked her and so they started dating online, as they’ve never met. Anonymous says their relationship was going well until Anonymous wasn’t in a good mood one day and took those emotions out on the lady.

Anonymous says things weren’t the same since that day, and the lady eventually broke things off with her. Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as she loves this lady a lot!

Anonymous says she met guy no.1 last year at her new church after moving to a new province. Anonymous says they started dating shortly after their first interaction.

Anonymous says things were good between them until she went back home to visit and says when she came back to her new area she realised that his energy had changed, and upon searching on his phone, she found that he was still chatting to and spending time with other girls.

Anonymous confronted him about this and he explained that he did already have thing with one of the girls while they started with their thing…

Anonymous says she’s been with her current partner for 5 years and says he’s a great partner and takes care of her, and he’s even paid lobola for her.

Anonymous says her problem is she feels a void in her relationship, and says there’s no spark and passion, it’s just boring. Anonymous says she likes him but doesn’t think he’s the one.

Anonymous says one of the issues in their relationship is that they don’t have a good communication.

Anonymous is not sure if she should fight for the relationship or just break up with him.

Anonymous says she met her current husband when they were in high school, but they couldn’t really be together at the time. Anonymous says over the years they’d meet up and hook up, but never really became official.

Anonymous says they went their separate ways at some point and during that time she had a baby with someone else. Anonymous says they eventually got together and they got married.

Anonymous says her partner used to cheat on her a lot with different people, and says she initially brushed it off as something men do, but as time went by it became too much for her, and she separated from her husband.

Anonymous says he’s been asking her to forgive him for a while now, and she’s not sure if she should get back together with him.

Anonymous says he met a lady in 2023 and their relationship was soaring until the father of her child, who wasn’t present when anonymous met the lady, came back into the picture last December.

Anonymous says the lady started communicating more with the father of her child at that point. Anonymous says the lady then attend a family funeral after the the father of her child’s brother past away. This led to the lady rekindling things with the father of her child and she essentially got back together with him.

Anonymous says he and his girlfriend started dating in 2018 and he says he was clear from the onset that he wants to have a child, she was ok with that only if they got married first, something anonymous says he wasn’t ready for.

Anonymous says years later he started having an affair with one of his partner’s friends and that went on secretly for a while. Anonymous says he brought up having a child again, and again his girlfriend said no and told him he could go outside and impregnate someone else.

Anonymous says after the fight with his girlfriend, he slept with the friend without protection and she fell pregnant with his child.

Anonymous says he confessed this to his partner and after meeting with her family they ended up breaking things off, but anonymous has now managed to patch things up with his girlfriend who says she’ll only get back together with him on one condition…

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 6 years, they have a child together and she came into their relationship with another child.

Anonymous her partner is terrible with money and doesn’t include her in his financial decisions when he has money.

Anonymous says before he lost his job and didn’t have money, he would go out partying with friends and would cheat on her, but come back crying for forgiveness.

Anonymous says he’s now unemployed and broke and his behaviour has changed, he’s a better partner, shows her love and things are generally good.

Anonymous is worried that once he’s back on his feet, he’ll go back to his old ways and she’s no sure if she should leave him even though things are great right now.

Anonymous says she met a guy while working at a religious organisation years ago and something developed between them but before anything could happen the guy told anonymous that they couldn’t be together due to his position in the organisation.

Anonymous says the guy married someone else about a year later after he told her they couldn’t be. By the time he got married, anonymous had already moved to another province because of work.

Anonymous says she also got married, and after some time the guy contacted anonymous and told her that he missed her and was sorry for everything that happened.

Anonymous says he told her that he was willing to divorce his wife for her but he couldn’t because of his position. Anonymous says they met up and their relationship got sexual but the guy started avoiding her after this.

Anonymous says it’s been a year since he started ignoring her, but she’s struggling to get over him.

Anonymous says she met a guy a month ago and they immediately hit things off. Anonymous says three days into the relationship she snooped around and found out from one her friends that the guy is dating one of her friends in their neighbourhood.

Anonymous says she confronted him about this, however, they’ve continued to date as she says he won’t let her go. Anonymous says she also wants to break things off with him because he might be involved in dodgy businesses.

Anonymous says she also has another guy that she dated previously, who she really likes, but he is married.

Anonymous says dating is showing her flames and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for about 5 years, they live together and he’s even paid lobola partially.

Anonymous says his partner was pregnant at some point but unfortunately she had a stillbirth. Anonymous says things changed in their relationship from this point. Anonymous says she started drinking and partying more, and would blame anonymous for her stillbirth.

Anonymous says he broke things off with her because it was too much but got back together with her months later after she asked him to forgive her.

Anonymous says she continued to be messy and he has now moved out again. Anonymous says he loves her and still wants to be with her but he’s not sure if it can work between them.

Anonymous says she met her partner in late 2023, she says they started as friends and it eventually turned into a romantic relationship.

Anonymous says from the onset, they were honest with each other, had great communication and even shared about their past relationship traumas.

Anonymous says things have now taken a turn in their relationship after she found suspicious texts between him and another lady on his phone. Anonymous says she confronted him about this, he said they would talk about it, but that’s never happened.

Anonymous says the communication in their relationship has broken down and she doesn’t understand where they are at in their relationship.

Anonymous just wants him to be open and honest with her so she can better understand what’s happening between them.

Anonymous says she met a guy 4 years ago and 5 months into their relationship he told her that he was in a relationship with someone else, after initially denying this fact.

Anonymous says he told that her was with the mother of his child and they live together but their relationship is not great.

Anonymous says despite this fact, he’s a great partner who takes care of her and is always there for her which makes it so difficult to leave him.

She says 4 years later she doesn’t even know where he lives, he’s promised her that their relationship will eventually turn into something more but she’s not tired of the situation.

Anonymous says he his ex partner in varsity in 2019 and they started dating back then. Anonymous says post varsity, they moved in together and he was taking care of both of them financially at the time.

Anonymous says their relationship was tumultuous, there was infidelity and lots of other conflicts in their relationship.

Anonymous says he then got a job opportunity in another area and their relationship became long distant. This added fuel to the fire and they ended up breaking up.

Anonymous suspects that she might have been cheating on him while they were still together. He’s tried to get back together with her, but it hasn’t worked out.

Anonymous wonders if he did the right thing by giving up on their relationship, especially because they have a child together.

Anonymous called last year and told us that her husband can’t seem to keep a job as he finds jobs and then resigns unreasonably after a short period of working.

At the time anonymous was advised to stand by her man, bring in the family and also check if there could be witchcraft involved.

It’s 7 months later since she called Ask a Man and she says she’s tried all that and it doesn’t seem to be helping. Anonymous says she wants to give up now.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 3 years now and and she gave birth to their child late last year.

Anonymous says after giving birth she found out that her partner was cheating on her. Anonymous says they patched things up after the infidelity, however, she’s struggling to move on from the cheating.

Anonymous says she still loves him and wants to be with him but needs help with forgiving him and moving on from his cheating.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for 10 years and they’ve known each from childhood as they grew up in the same area.

Anonymous says a few years ago, while her and her husband were going through a rough patch, she met someone else and says the connection with this person was strong and passionate.

Anonymous says they’ve eventually worked things out with her husband and she agreed with her husband to let the other guy go and focus on them.

Anonymous says she never really stopped thinking about this other guy and he has now made contact with her after about a year and a half, and their connnection is very intense.

Anonymous says things are great with her husband but she feels like the other guy could be the one and wonders if she can live with never trying with this guy.

Anonymous has currently been with his partner of 10 years and they are in a customary marriage. Anonymous says his partner only realised after the fact that because they completed the lobola process they couldn’t sign a prenup as they are already in a customary marriage.

Anonymous says his partner said at the time that she would never be happy in their relationship as she wanted to be married out of community of property because she doesn’t want anonymous’ children to benefit from her assets.

Anonymous says years later his partner separated from him as she wasn’t happy. Anonymous says time has gone by and his partner is still saying she’s not ready to get back together with him.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 10 years and he’s paid half the lobola to her family and 3 years ago and they now also have a child.

Anonymous says her partner once cheated on her and after going their separate ways for about 6 months because of this, she eventually forgave and they got back together.

Anonymous says it’s years later now and he’s been acting dodgy over the last few months. Anonymous says he tends to go out with friends and disappear on her without explanation. Anonymous says they fought about his behaviour last week and he left again and as it stands right now he doesn’t know where he is.

Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should stay in this relationship, as she suspects that he could be cheating on her again.

Anonymous says he met his ex wife 20 years ago in varsity and they immediately clicked but things came to an end when she dropped out of school. They reconnected 15 years later and ended u getting married.

Anonymous says their relationship was great, however they went through a lot: she lost her parents in consecutive years and he got sick. Anonymous says it became a lot on them and they ended up divorcing.

Anonymous says some time has gone by and they started talking to each other again and sparks are flying. Anonymous says they could get back together, but he’s not sure if he can risk his heart.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 5 years, they’ve been living with each other for 3 years and they have a 1 year-old child.

Anonymous says she has an 8 year-old child and spoke to him about her child moving from her grandmother and living with them. Anonymous says her partner then went home to see his family and when he came back earlier this year, anonymous’ older child had moved in to their place.

Anonymous says since he’s been back, he’s been offish and she thinks he doesn’t like her older son. This tension led to them fighting and anonymous eventually moved out of that place and back to her own house.

Anonymous says they are not really speaking and are even making arrangements for visitations. Anonymous is not sure how to move forward

Anonymous saying she’s recently moved to a new city and then things ended in her relationship with her previous partner because of the distance.

Anonymous says she’s now met someone new, soon after the break-up, but feels like maybe she’s rushing into things after the break up.

Anonymous says she feels like the new guy is different to the other guys she’s dated. She feels like he’s dominant, but also bordering on being controlling. Anonymous is not sure if she’s just feeling this way because she’s fresh from a break-up.

Anonymous called last year having troubles in her relationship and adding that she would like to be in a throuple type of situation where she would be with her man, at the time, and another woman, all dating each other at the same time.

Anonymous says after calling into the show, she decided to take a break to work on herself, as she felt like she was attracting the same type of guys she doesn’t want to be with.

Anonymous says she’s been doing well on this journey but now feels like she’s still attracting the same type of men that she feels are not good for her and treat her poorly…

Anonymous says she met and started dating her partner in 2020. Anonymous says a year later in 2021 the guy started the lobola process in order to marry her.

Anonymous says they were blessed with a baby in 2022, but after giving birth she found out that her partner was cheating on her while she was at home nursing their new baby.

Anonymous says they separated after the infidelity incident, and got back together after family intervention months later. Anonymous says she’s recently given birth to their child.

Anonymous says her partner is now currently driving her car but she’s noticed, via tracker, that he’s been making some questionable trips to BNBs and when she tracked him down and confronted him about this, he denied having an affair…

Anonymous says she’s been dating a guy for about 2 months, after meeting him in November last year. Anonymous says she started dating this guy a while after her previous relationship with her ex who says is a narcissist.

Anonymous says weeks into the relationship he started showing signs of narcissism. She says his behaviour is reminding her of her ex and it’s turning her off. Anonymous says she’s slowly fazed him out of her life and he’s been trying to get back in.

Anonymous says he has now resorted to saying that it’s ok if they don’t to date, they can just have sexual relationship and he’ll pay her for this.

Anonymous says she still kind of likes him and finds herself confused by this offer and the meaning of their relationship.

Anonymous says she has two kids from different fathers and says she’s now in a new relationship with a new guy who she says loves her and her kids.

Anonymous says things have been going well in their relationship until the mother of her partner’s two children found out about their relationship and has now sent those two children to come live with anonymous and her partner.

Anonymous says she loves her partner’s kids but says she’s struggling with now raising 4 children, and says she bares most of the burden of taking care of the 4 children.

Anonymous doesn’t know how to deal with this.

Anonymous says she was married for 5 years and divorced her husband in 2023. Anonymous says later that year she got into a long distance situationship with a new guy.

Anonymous says communication is a bit of a problem in their relationship, she says he tends to disappear for days without saying anything and she leaves things that way but he has complained that he feels like her behaviour indicates that she is not that into him.

Anonymous is wondering if she really is disconnected in the relationship, she says every other aspect of the relationship is good, and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she got married to her partner in 2020 after a year of being together and just before they had their first child.

Anonymous says at the beginning of their marriage she noticed that he wasn’t being fully transparent about his finances and she confronted him about that and that’s when he came clean and revealed details of the money he’s spending on his mom.

Anonymous says as time went by, her husband’s mother started calling anonymous, telling her that since she came into her son’s life, he doesn’t support her financially like he used to before he got married to anonymous.

Anonymous says her partner’s mother and other family members don’t have boundaries and are often rude when speaking to anonymous. Anonymous says she’s spoken to her partner about this but he doesn’t seem to be confronting his family about their behaviour.

Anonymous says she met an amazing guy last year in July, after breaking up with a man who she says was toxic and a serial cheater.

Anonymous says the relationship with the new guy has been going well but recently she unblocked her toxic ex and he ended up calling her and they spoke on the phone.

The issue now is that anonymous’ current partner found out about this call and is now angry at anonymous for unblocking her ex and not telling her current partner about this call.

Anonymous says she had told her partner about her ex and how horrible he was to her. Anonymous says her partner is now not speaking to her and won’t hear her out, she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she started dating her partner in 2009 while she was in matric. She says the relationship went well and they eventually got married and now have 3 kids together.

Anonymous says in 2022 while she was pregnant with their third child she found out that her husband had impregnated someone else. Anonymous says this caused a rift in their relationship and she ended up in a situation where she was fighting to get him back and he was refusing.

Anonymous says her husband then lost his job and she took him back in her life an supported him, even when she lost her job, she used the little that she had to help him.

Anonymous says he then found a job, but left her and moved back home to his family’s home, where the lady he impregnated lives.

Anonymous says he’s supporting the children financially but their relationship is strained and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she got married to her high school sweetheart in 2017 and says their relationship was generally great.

Anonymous says they had a child in 2019, but things got weird in 2023 when his behaviour changed and he was always irritable and seemed to be annoyed by her. Anonymous says the communication in their relationship also faded.

Anonymous says she eventually caught him cheating on her and after she confronted him about it, he said nothing and just moved out of their home. Anonymous says he’s still with the lady he cheated on her with and has even introduced that lady to his family.

Anonymous says she’s struggling to move on.

Anonymous says he got married to his wife back in 2017 and shortly after they got married she started having an affair with her ex.

Anonymous says he confronted her about this and she asked him for forgiveness, which he gave her but told her that something was broken between and that there would be consequences of her actions.

Anonymous says 5 years after his wife cheated on him, he ran into his high school sweetheart and he started having an affair with her. Anonymous’ wife now knows that he’s having an affair with his ex and he feels like he’s more in love with his ex than he is with his wife.

Anonymous says he never got over the cheating and doesn’t know how to move forward from here.

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 10 years and they have a child together. When she called in last year she shared how she felt like her partner was not contributing financially in their household.

Anonymous says that situation has persisted and another thing is that they are in a civil marriage but their families are not aware of this situation.

Anonymous says he keeps coming up with financial excuses about why they can’t have an African traditional marriage, but she just doesn’t understand this. Anonymous is worried she might have made a mistake by marrying him.

Anonymous says she met a guy during our singles week here on Break Away last December. Anonymous says after he slides into her DMs things went well and she says he even involved her in many aspects of his life.

Anonymous says when the guy was looking for a new apartment, he roped her in and asked her to pick the apartment as she would also live there with him.

Anonymous says he’s said “I love you” to her and wants to introduce her to his family. Anonymous is worried that things are moving too fast between them.

Anonymous says he was with his ex for a while and they even ended up buying a house together. Anonymous says during the course of the relationship, his partner cheated on him several times and he kept forgiving her until he couldn’t.

Anonymous says they ended up breaking up, however, they still live in the house together and the mood in the house is very tense and they are struggling to live with each other. Anonymous says selling the house is hard because of the current market conditions in their area. Anonymous feels stuck in this situation and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she met a guy in 2021 and says things were generally good in their relationship to point where they started trying for a baby.

Anonymous says the guy had fertility issues but eventually got medication and she fell pregnant but later miscarried. Anonymous says she found out the guy was cheating on her and he even impregnated another woman which led to anonymous breaking up with him.

Anonymous says time went by and the guy reached out to her wanting to get back together, however, he now has a second baby with another woman. Anonymous is not sure if she should get back together with him, especially because he now has two children.

Anonymous says after going through a break-up in 2023, she went through a lot of anxiety and had to do a lot healing from that break-up. Anonymous says the issue now is a friend she’s known for most of her life that she has always sort of had feelings for but they never got together.

Anonymous says after her break-up they became closer with this guy and he eventually confessed his feelings for anonymous but she pushed him away because she wasn’t emotionally ready.

Fast forward to now, anonymous reached out to the guy and they linked up just last night but after anonymous asked, he revealed that he’s now in a relationship with someone else whom he really loves.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for almost 6 years and their relationship has been good. Anonymous says her partner has introduced her to his parents but she hasn’t introduced him to her parents.

Anonymous says this has caused a rift in their relationship because it limits the kind of activities they can do as a couple and that limits their relationship in general.

Anonymous says her partner has brought this up and wants anonymous to tell her parents about him. She’s not sure about that as her parents are very strict and she would rather complete varsity first, before telling them.

Anonymous says he has 3 children with his partner and things were fine in their relationship until he found out, via texts on his partner’s phone, that she was busy with someone at the gym.

Anonymous says he confronted her about this, but she turned things on him and would even insult him. Anonymous says she eventually made it clear that she wanted to be with the other guy and that’s when they went their separate ways.

Anonymous says time has gone by and his financial situation has improved. They now have a good co-parenting relationship, and she wants to get back together. Anonymous says he still loves her but he’s not sure if he should get back together with him.

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner for a few years now and back in 2021 she said to anonymous that she no longer want’s to have sex for religious reasons and wants them to save themselves for marriage.

Anonymous says despite this, he found out that she was actually sleeping with someone else. Anonymous says he forgave her and they moved on with the relationship. Anonymous says time went by and she once again said she wants to pause on the sex and he realised that this time around she was serious about her religion.

Anonymous says he then cheated on her with someone else and she ended up finding out...

Anonymous says she met a guy last year and things were not too serious when they started as they were both in relationships with other people.

Anonymous says they ended up agreeing to break up with their partners, she broke up with her partner but later realised that he hadn’t broken up with his partner.

Anonymous says he’s still in a relationship with the other lady and he can’t seem to decide what he wants and has floated the idea of continuing with dating both of them. Anonymous is not sure if she should stay in a relationship with him, as she really loves him.

Anonymous says she’s been with her current partner, guy no.1, for about 8 years and says he has a child with another woman who she believes he might be married to traditionally.

Anonymous says guy no.1 also cheated on her multiple times and threatened to kill anonymous if she ever leaves him. However, she says they ended up separating at some point and that’s when she met guy no.2, who is a married man and they’ve been together for about 3 years, she says he’s very supportive and there’s conversations about getting into a polygamous marriage.

Anonymous says she then met guy no.3 about 5 months ago, their relationship has been going well, she gets along with his family, and she feels like she’s in love with him, however anonymous says she thinks they are not really compatible and she’s not sure about building something with him.

Anonymous says he met his partner about two years ago and they dated for a while before she fell pregnant.

Anonymous says things have gotten a bit weird in their relationship and he confronted his partner about feeling a gap between them. Anonymous says during that conversation he asked her what he did wrong and she responded that she feels like he’s too soft for her and doesn’t really enjoy anonymous’ personality or his dress style.

Anonymous says she now wants to break-up with him, he doesn’t want to break-up with her. Anonymous says he’s not sure if he should fight for her.

Anonymous says she got married in 1994 after knowing her partner for 3 months. Anonymous says months into the marriage she noticed strange things at her partner’s family home, including a small snake, at which point she moved back home.

They eventually moved into their own place and even had children. Anonymous says after up-skilling herself and getting a job, her partner started financially and emotionally abusing her and things were never great in their relationship from that point.

Anonymous says this went on for years and she eventually filed for divorce in 2020. Anonymous says it’s been a few years now since the divorce and she’s feeling lonely but struggling to get back into the dating game.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 6 years and they a 2 year-old daughter together and she came into the relationship with a child who’s now 6 years old.

Anonymous says things were fine but over the years she feels like her partner has become emotionally abusive and manipulative. Anonymous says a lot of the abuse is towards her 6 year-old child and he’s always chiding her child for various unreasonable issues.

Anonymous says she’s spoken to him about his behaviour towards her child but he’s not changing and even physically abuses her son. Anonymous says she want’s to end things but is not sure how to go about doing that, especially because they have a child together.

Anonymous says he was in a relationship with a lady for many years and things were fine until her ex came back into he picture and wanted to be with this lady.

Anonymous says this caused a lot of conflict in their relationship, however, the situation was muted when this lady realised she was pregnant. Anonymous says after the baby was born the lady went back to her cheating ways and it led to him breaking up with her.

Anonymous says she’s not allowing him access to their child and when he threatened to bring in social workers, she insinuated to him that the child might not even be his. Anonymous is not sure how to go about determining the paternity of the child or how to process the fact that the child might not be his.

Anonymous says the relationship with his ex was great and they had access to each others phones. Anonymous says he would see pictures of other guys on her phone but she denied there was anything happening with those guys.

Anonymous says things took a turn when she went on what she said was a vacation with her cousins and some other guys, but anonymous later realised that she was actually on vacation with her other boyfriend.

Anonymous says they fought about this and she essentially isn’t sure what she wants to do, anonymous says he has removed himself from the situation but now he’s not sure if he wants to try again with her.

We switched things up a little on the last episode of Ask a Man for the year; We requested listeners to share their relationship good news and stories of supportive partners.

Anonymous says she was married to her husband for 10 years when he passed away in 2022. Anonymous says her late husband’s friend got close to her and was supportive and they eventually kissed.

Anonymous says shortly after this they made an arrangement, anonymous would have sex with her late husband’s friend and the friend would support anonymous financially. Anonymous says the friend is married.

Anonymous says the arrangement continued but in June this year she met a new guy who she really likes and she ended things with the friend. Her relationship with the new guy was going well until this new guy found out about anonymous’ relationship with her late husband’s friend who was still calling anonymous.

Anonymous is not sure if she should fight for the relationship with the new guy.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her partner since 2021, after knowing the guy for a year. Anonymous says when she met him, she was aware of his wild ways in his previous relationship where he cheated multiple times and had children outside of that relationship.

Anonymous says he became even worse in their marriage, where he even cheated on her with her best friend and would bring all kinds of girls to their place, anonymous says he’s fathered 3 children outside their marriage.

Anonymous says she eventually moved to another province so she could fade away from their relationship but her husband packed up and joined her in that province saying he loves her and she assumed he was serious.

Anonymous says he’s continued with his shenanigans but she’s struggling to leave their relationship because she feels like she’s too financially linked to him.

Anonymous says he was with his partner for 6 years and they met in varsity. Anonymous says at some point their relationship became a long distance relationship after leaving varsity, and for many years they were living in separate areas.

Anonymous says they were eventually both able to live in the same area, however, things took a turn in their relationship when he realised that his partner had been cheating on him by going on dates with other people.

Anonymous says he broke up with her because cheating is a dealbreaker for him. But months later he’s struggling to get over his love for her. Anonymous says he tried therapy and journaling but the only thing that makes him feel better is chatting to her.

Anonymous says he started dating his partner in 2022 and in the same year he found out that she was having an affair and cheating on him. Anonymous says his partner denied this and they moved forward.

Anonymous says in 2023 he once again found out that she was cheating on him and yet again, his partner denied the cheating. Anonymous says she then fell pregnant with his child late last year.

Cut to 2024 and anonymous says he found out once again that she was cheating on him and this time around she finally admitted it and admitted to anonymous that she had been cheating on him all those other times.

Anonymous says she now wants to start on a clean slate, he still loves her but is not sure if he should continue with the relationship.

Anonymous says she was a dating a guy about 5 years ago and he was cheating on her and the girl he was cheating on her with would harass anonymous, to a point where anonymous got a restraining order against her but the guy said to her that he didn’t want any involvement in the situation.

Anonymous says they eventually broke up however she fell pregnant with this guy’s child and says he wasn’t supportive and only came back into anonymous’ life 8 months after the child was born and tried to get back into anonymous’ life, but that didn’t work out.

Fast forward to now, anonymous says she’s now been in a relationship with someone else for 3 years and the father of her child is back in her life again and the same girl is back to harassing anonymous again. Anonymous says the guy wants to be back together with her, and said he’ll support the child only if they are back together.

Background: Yesterday anonymous called and spoke of a guy no.1 and a guy no.2. She said things were not great with guy no.1 because he was always cheating on her. Anonymous then met guy no.2 and dated both of them at the same time but eventually broke up with guy no.1, anonymous said she’s now with guy no.2 and called about their current issues.

This morning we’re speaking to guy no.1 who says he needs to set the record straight: He says he wasn’t a serial cheater and things weren’t great between them because of the financial issues he was facing. Anonymous also says guy no.2 is someone he knows and used to hangout with.

Guy no.1 says he found out from a friend that anonymous was cheating on him with guy no.2 and he broke up with her.

Guy no.1 says he’s back together with anonymous currently and after calling Ask a Man yesterday, anonymous told guy no.1 that she’s done with guy no.2 and they spent the night together last night. Guy no.1 is not sure what to do in this situation.

Anonymous says she met at guy no.1 early last year, they started dating and moved in together by December of last year.

Anonymous says he cheated on her throughout their relationship and she then started dating someone else, guy no.2. Anonymous says she was juggling the two guys for a bit before breaking up with guy no.1.

Anonymous says she’s now dating guy no.2 but she struggles with him because he’s insecure, unemployed, and she feels like he’s lazy. Anonymous says he’s policing her and thinks it’s based on the fact that she was dating someone else when they met each other.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for two years and they lived together initially but decided to move into their own places at some point in their relationship.

Anonymous says the situation in their relationship right now is that he went out with his girlfriend’s neighbours and on the way back home to his girlfriend’s apartment he ran into his girlfriend’s neighbour and they walked home together.

When they got to the apartment block the girl realised she had the wrong keys and then took shelter with anonymous in his girlfriend’s apartment, and they ended up fetching the keys.

Anonymous says he was at his girlfriend’s place with his cousin, something his girlfriend didn’t want, so when she got back home the next morning she was upset about this.

Anonymous says his partner also later found out that he was in her apartment with her female neighbour and got upset about that. Anonymous says his girlfriend is now angry at him as she believes something happened between them.

Anonymous says she’s known the guy she’s currently dating for many years starting from when they were in varsity.

Anonymous says years later after they started knowing each other they started a no strings attached relationship, however the guy disappeared on her after he got a job.

Anonymous says during their time apart the guy tried to rekindle things with her but she was in a relationship with someone else, which lasted 5 years. When that ended, anonymous reached out to the guy and they started linking up again and eventually got into a more serious relationship.

Anonymous says the guy now lives at her place, and at some point he was unemployed, so she was supporting him. Anonymous adds that she feels like he never shows that he loves her, he never posts her on social media or shows that he’s aware of her needs.

Anonymous says he’s always going out and coming back in the early hours of the morning. She’s not sure if she should remain in the relationship.

Anonymous says she’s recently widowed and has now started dating again. She says she met a guy in October and they hit it off.

Anonymous says things have been good and he treats her well, however, he revealed to her that he’s actually in a long distance marriage but things are not working out in that marriage because of some issues, including the fact that the guy travels around a lot because of his job.

Anonymous says they’ve continued dating but now the guy sometimes doesn’t want anonymous to come over or leave her things at his place when she’s visiting because he’s worried his wife will find out about their relationship.

Anonymous says she’s not sure if she should continue with this relationship.

Anonymous says she’s been her partner for 4 months and says that she crushed on him for a long time before they started dating.

Anonymous says at the onset of their relationship he would get calls from a mystery lady who he initially said was his sister but it later turned out that it was actually the mother of his child & they his in what he described as a “complicated” relationship with her.

Anonymous says they continued with their relationship, however, while they were attending a function inside her partner’s complex he ended up in an altercation with a different lady during the function. Anonymous says he later confessed that the lady used to be a sneaky link and also that he’s actually still in a relationship with the mother of his child.

Anonymous doesn’t know if she should stick with him.

Anonymous says she met a guy in March last year and they started dating. She says things were fine until the guy found texts on her phone from another guy who was flirting with her, even though she wasn’t reciprocating.

Anonymous says after this incident things were no longer the same in their relationship and the guy would always bring up the incident. Anonymous maintains that the texts with the other guy were innocent on her part, and she wasn’t doing anything with the other guy.

Anonymous says since January this year, the guy has a habit of disappearing and reappearing in her life. He says he loves her but anonymous is not sure what to think of all of this.

Anonymous says her dating life has been a bit of a struggle, however she met a guy 3 months ago who she suspects is gay.

Anonymous says she confronted him about this, she first revealed that she’s been with a girl and asked if he had been with a guy before. Anonymous says her partner told her that he’s only flirted with a guy before, and things didn’t go too far.

Anonymous says he’s also only ever touchy with her when they are in public but doesn’t show the same affection privately. Anonymous says she suspects he’s in the closet and even ended up blocking him for two days because of this. Anonymous says they are communicating again now, but she’s still not sure.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 13 years and a few years ago he started the lobola proceedings but ended up cancelling as his partner was started changing on him because he became unemployed.

Anonymous says when this happened her partner said their child would no longer visit his parents as they are not married. Anonymous says he eventually found employment again and she’s still around but he’s told her that he’s not sure about her anymore because how she’s treated him in the past.

The current conflict in their relationship now is the people anonymous has listed as beneficiaries of his estate ,which is his mother & their child. Anonymous is not sure about this relationship and her behaviour.

Anonymous says she met her partner about a year ago and says they got into a relationship, which anonymous says is her first relationship ever.

Anonymous says things have been going well in their relationship, however, she says before he could meet her family, he revealed to her that he’s actually married and wants anonymous to become his second wife.

Anonymous says there were no red flags and this confession hit her by complete surprise. Anonymous says their relationship has been amazing and she’s not sure if she wants to continue and become his second wife.

Anonymous says her and her current partner started working on businesses together early on in their relationship and things were generally ok until she realised that he would receive money from their clients and not be transparent with anonymous about the amounts as they were paid into his company.

Anonymous says her job at the time did not allow her to have side hustles, so they did business using his company.

Anonymous says they stayed together at her place because he couldn’t afford to pay for his own place but after the successes in the business he was upgrading his house without even speaking to anonymous about it.

Anonymous says after all this and some issues they had with their children, her partner told anonymous that he was moving back into his place and they would proceed to live in separate homes but remain a couple.

Anonymous says the relationship has faded since then, he’s tried to rekindle things but anonymous says she’s not sure and he’s also burnt bridges with her family through his treatment of her.

Anonymous says she met a guy two weeks ago and they’ve been dating for 4 days. Anonymous says he’s in his early twenties, she’s in her mid-twenties, and things are going really well so far.

Anonymous says her business is down the road from where the guy lives and a couple of days ago they got intimate with the guy which led to him arriving home past his curfew. Now his family has found out about their relationship and they are not happy.

Anonymous says they now want the guy to move away from the area and she’s not sure what to do. She feels like she really likes him and doesn’t know if she should chat to his family about their relationship. Anonymous is also not sure if this is worth a fight.

Anonymous says he’s been in a relationship with his partner for about 12 year, they have two children together and his partner came into the relationship with another child.

Anonymous says he lost his job during the pandemic, and got money from his workplace after being removed. Anonymous says he used the money to try and lobola his partner, but he eventually ran out of his savings and wasn’t able to complete the lobola.

Anonymous says his partner became verbally abusive and wasn’t treating him right because he was unemployed.

Anonymous says he now has job, and she’s back to treating him right again. Anonymous is thinking of continuing with the lobola process but he’s not sure if he should continue with the relationship with his partner because of how she’s treated him in the past.

Anonymous says months into his relationship with girl no.1, he realised that girl no.1 had been dating someone else when they met and this caused a rift in their relationship, even leading to him cheating on girl no.1.

Anonymous says they had a child which they thought would fix their relationship, but things didn’t workout and they broke up.

Anonymous says 7 months after breaking up with girl no.1, he met girl no.2, but they broke up shortly after they started because of girl no.2’s relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous says he and girl no.2 then reconnected and are still dating now, however, anonymous says he rekindled things with girl no.1 and they had sex twice and girl no.1 ended up telling girl no.2 about it.

This caused a problem between anonymous and girl no.2, his current partner. Anonymous says they haven’t really recovered from the infidelity and girl no.2 now wants to end things. Anonymous is not sure if he should fight for her to stay in the relationship.

Anonymous says she met a guy four years ago and says he had a partner when they started dating and they were in a long distance relationship.

Anonymous says their relationship has been great over the years but now the main partner is now back in the area which has affected anonymous’ relationship with this guy.

Anonymous says he’s not spending as much time with her as he used to and doesn’t know where she stands now that he’s no longer in a long distance relationship.

Anonymous says he still wants to be with her, however, she doesn’t know how to navigate this situation.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 8 years now and they have three kids together. Anonymous says her partner generally treats her well and things are generally ok.

Anonymous says the problem is when they have conflict in their relationship, she says he becomes verbally violent towards her and treats her terribly, including humiliating her publicly.

Anonymous says he also has a tendency to get upset at her when she’s out with friends, even accusing her of cheating, this with the backdrop of his own multiple infidelities.

Anonymous says she met a guy at work during the pandemic and things were fine between them for about 6 months, but it changed when he became a bit distant towards her.

Anonymous says she then found out he had lied to her and was in fact in a relationship with someone else who he had paid lobola for and also has a child with that person.

Anonymous says things faded from that point but the guy came back into anonymous’ life and explained that he wasn’t really with the other lady and was only with her because of the child they have together.

Anonymous says he keeps coming and going out of her life. She knows this behaviour is wrong but she loves him and doesn’t know how to get out of this.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 3 years and their relationship has been generally good.

Anonymous says six months ago his partner fell pregnant and as a result he ended up buying a home for them in order to solidify things between them.

Anonymous says recently his partner announced to him that she’s actually dating someone else and doesn’t want to be with anonymous anymore. She says the baby is anonymous’ baby but she wants to move on with someone else.

Anonymous says the other guy has now also called him and told him to leave his partner as it’s over between them.

Anonymous says he still loves her and doesn’t want to end things, he wants to find out what’s causing her to behave like this as he feels like their relationship was going well.

Anonymous says her and her partner have been together for a year now and says at the beginning of their relationship her partner communicated frequently, but that changed a couple of months into the relationship.

Anonymous says he started not communicating as frequently as he used to and when anonymous confronted him about this he said he wasn’t losing interest, he’s just currently going through a lot.

Anonymous says the communication has not improved and every time she brings it up he doesn’t really want to discuss the issue and tends to avoid this issue.
Anonymous says there’s nothing indicating that he has someone else, so she’s not sure what to do.

Anonymous says she met a guy on a dating app early this year and says they hit things off immediately and proceeded to date.

Anonymous says things were fine for four months however anonymous says the guy suddenly switched up on her and eventually broke up with her saying she’s too much and she overwhelms him.

Anonymous says they broke up but a month later he just came back and wanted to be with her again without any real explanation of what went wrong.

Anonymous says they are now sort of back together but he’s not very present in their relationship.

Anonymous is not sure what is up with him

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about a year and a half now and says he’s still married but separated from his spouse.

Anonymous says things were fine and when she lost her job he started taking care of her, and pays for her rent and groceries. Anonymous says he’s now changed on her, he ignores texts and and doesn’t want to talk yo her most of the time.

Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as she relies on him financially.

Anonymous says she’s been in her current relationship for 4 months now and it’s going well. Her problem is that she’s not sure how to go about sharing her HIV positive status with him.

Anonymous says in the past when she’s shared this detail about her self, the guy left her and that’s why she’s scared of disclosing this to her current guy as she feels like their relationship seems like it could get serious. She’s worried that he might end things with her as well.

Anonymous says he’s been with the mother of his child for several years and they’ve been going through a rough patch which he says has led him to having a relationship with someone else on the side.

Anonymous says he’s been with his side girl for 4 months and things have gotten a bit awkward between them as his side now wants to take things to the next level and get married.

Anonymous says he’s worried about this and is not sure if he should marry her as it’s early in their relationship and he’s also worried about breaking things off with the mother of his child.

Anonymous says he’s also worried that she might be a bit controlling and might have anger issues based on certain events that have happened in their short relationship.

Anonymous say he’s been in a relationship for 6 years things were fine until 3 months ago.

Anonymous says when he met the lady she wasn’t in good condition and she was on drugs. Anonymous says he then helped her and cleaned her up and she got back on her feet and went back to school.

Anonymous says they had a child together and around that time he met the girl’s parents but they were not happy for him to be with her because he’s Zimbabwean and they are Mozambican.

Anonymous says they are expecting a second child together, but things changed when he realised that she was cheating on him, but her family reacted violently towards him and she has now moved on to being in a relationship with someone else with their kids.

Anonymous says he misses his partner and their kids, and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s started dating her current partner in 2012, they dated for a few years before breaking up.

Anonymous says 5 years went by and they started dating again and she thought he had changed but he hadn’t really as anonymous feels like he neglects her and doesn’t make time for her.

Anonymous says it’s disheartening because he makes time for everything and everyone else. Anonymous says she’s confused by his behaviour and doesn’t know what he wants because when she wants to leave he doesn’t want to let go of her.

Anonymous says his relationship with his partner was generally fine in the four years they’ve been together until she went to initiation school in order to become a sangoma.

Anonymous says she’s back now and things aren’t the same when it comes to intimacy. Anonymous says his partner now requires more sex from him. Anonymous says they’ve gone from 3 rounds a night to about 9 rounds a night.

Anonymous says he can no longer keep up with this and it’s too much for him. Anonymous says he’s spoken to her about this but she told him that if they don’t do it the ancestors will be angry at him and he’ll have bad luck. Anonymous doesn’t know if he can stay in the relationship under these conditions, he’s tired and it’s affecting him at work.

Anonymous says she’s having problems with her step daughter, who’s her husband’s daughter, and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says her step daughter has a bad attitude and is mean and rude towards her. Anonymous says her step daughter also goes around the neighbourhood lying to neighbours about her. Anonymous also adds that they have a 10 year age gap.

Anonymous says she’s also confronted her husband about this but he doesn’t seem to be able to resolve the matter.

Anonymous says she doesn’t know what to do now as this situation is affecting her relationship with her husband, anonymous and her husband have two kids together.

Anonymous says him and his partner have 2 kids together and their relationship was generally fine until he became wheel chair bound 6 months ago.

Anonymous says she changed on him and on one occasion she went out partying and he confronted her about that and it turned into a fight that turned abusive, anonymous says his partner beat him up, damaged his electrical wheel chair. Anonymous says he pressed charges against her for this and she was arrested.

She now doesn’t live with anonymous and their kids anymore. Anonymous says she has now said to him that for them to get back together, and for her to fix his wheel chair and maintain their kids financially, he has to drop the charges.

Anonymous says he doesn't know what to do as he still loves her.

Anonymous says she’s been married for 18 years now and they have 3 kids with her husband and don’t want any more kids. Anonymous says after turning 40, she wants to get off the pill.

Anonymous says her and her partner have explored other birth control methods and the best one for them is for him to get a vasectomy but her partner is not keen and seems like he’s not interested in getting a vasectomy.

Anonymous says she doesn’t get why her husband doesn’t want to get a vasectomy and wants a man’s perspective on whether she’s asking for too much.

Anonymous says she has three kids and lost her partner in 2021. Anonymous says she met a new guy while she was grieving and they started dating.

Anonymous says the guy was unemployed when they met and he moved in with her, and anonymous says she tried to help him get a job and he eventually got one last year.

Anonymous says the guy changed on her after getting employed and they were fighting a lot. Anonymous says he wasn’t communicating much with her but was busy chatting to other women on social media, something he’s been doing since they met. Anonymous says she’s never proven that things got physical with those women.

Anonymous says he’s emotionally unavailable, and he’s kinda on and off in their relationship.

Anonymous is wondering if his behaviour in the beginning was great because he was unemployed and whether she’s now forcing things.

Anonymous says she feels like there’s a third person in their relationship. Anonymous says her and her partner have a mutual friend who is the person that introduced them to each other.

Anonymous says over the last year her and this third person drifted apart but she’s now realised that this friend and her partner have become closer. Anonymous says her partner now hides when he meets up with the friend and they even go on dates without her, which is something they used to do together.

Anonymous says there’s also been incidences where her partner comments on how good the friend is looking. Anonymous says she doesn’t get the sense that her partner is cheating on her with their friend and wonders if she’s just insecure and unreasonable about their relationship. Anonymous says she’s not sure what to do about this situation.

Anonymous says back in 2021 he was in a relationship and ready to get engaged to guy no.1, however around that time he met someone else, guy no.2, in a club and they had a one night stand.

Anonymous says two weeks after the incident, he ghosted guy no.2 as he was confused and he continued with his engagement. Anonymous says a few weeks went by and he reached out to guy no.2 again and they eventually met, and during this meet up guy no.2 opened up about his HIV positive status and anonymous says that wasn’t a problem for him.

Anonymous says he ended his engagement with guy no.1 and continued with a relationship with guy no.2, however things got rocky between them and anonymous found himself back on a hook up app which caused problems in their relationship. Anonymous says guy no.2 also had financial issues and that, and his own infidelity led to their break up in September last year.

Anonymous says they were not speaking for a while however reconnected, became friends and they even car pooled together in anonymous car to go to work and gym. Anonymous says he then started dating someone else and guy no.2 became jealous of the relationship and eventually anonymous says guy no.2 ghosted him after meeting another guy.

Anonymous says guy no.2 then returned and even seduced him despite the fact that they are now friends and have partners. Anonymous doesn’t understand why he’s still in this messy situation with guy no.2.

Anonymous says he’s known his partner for 3 years and things were mostly fine until he faced some financial struggles.

Anonymous says he moved to another country overseas for work purposes, but when things didn’t workout, he made his way back to the country but had nowhere to stay. His things were at his partner’s home, and so the partner took him in to live with her.

Anonymous says in the time that he’s lived with her, she’s become controlling and doesn’t seem to have any regard for him or anything he has to say. Anonymous says he’s not surprised by this behaviour as she was a bit offish when it comes to communication while he was overseas.

Anonymous says he’s not sure if she should continue to stay with her.

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with the father of her child for 7 years and things were ok until earlier this year when she realised he was cheating on her.

Anonymous says when she confronted him about it he confessed that he was cheating and was in love with the other lady and he intended to keep seeing the other lady. Anonymous stuck around but eventually moved out of their place because of his affair.

Anonymous says they are now sort of back together and he’s treating her amazingly and their relationship is good, however, her partner still says he still wants to be with the other lady as well.

Anonymous says her boyfriend is a married man and they’ve been together for 2 years. Anonymous says their relationship is generally fine and he’s a good partner but he seems to be a narcissist.

Anonymous says he tends to look down on her and can be patronising, and he wasn’t like that at the beginning of their relationship. Anonymous says he’s even suggested she lose weight.

Anonymous says he’s promised to take her in as a second wife, however, at this point she’s not understanding his personality and why he sometimes treats her negatively.

Anonymous says she has known her partner for about 12 years now, since her first year in varsity.

Anonymous says after her partner’s aunt passed away, they took in the children and raised them till they moved out in 2019. Anonymous says she had a child with him in 2019 & 2020, but the first child unfortunately died two years ago due to illness.

Anonymous says they got married around 2019, however over a couple of years his behaviour changed. Anonymous says he started looking down on her, complaining about her weight and how she runs their household. Anonymous also describes how he goes out drinking and comes back home demanding sex from her, he has also cheated on anonymous but is not remorseful for any of his behaviour.

Anonymous says she’s tried to complain to his family but they are not able to talk to him as he’s the breadwinner at home.

Anonymous says she’s had enough and doesn’t know what’s holding her back.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for 6 years now. She says when they initially met he was married, they hooked up, but he disappeared and came back months later after breaking up with his wife.

Anonymous says they then dated and about 3 months into their relationship, she found out he was cheating, she forgave him and they moved on and got married.

Anonymous says last year while she was pregnant and visiting her child who lives with her parents, she tried to contact him but couldn’t reach him, she returned back to their place only to find the place trashed and an open condom wrapper in one of the rooms. Anonymous says her partner later confessed that he had come back home with some girls who drugged him and stole from them.

Anonymous says a similar incident has now taken place again,, she visited her family and he was busy with his shenanigans again.

Anonymous says she married her husband last year November and she gave birth to their child in August of this year.

Anonymous says she came into the relationship with one child, so did her husband, and says less than a year into their relationship her partner wants a divorce. Anonymous says she’s taken aback by this as the father of her first child also broke up with her a month after she gave birth.

Anonymous is wondering what she’s doing that’s causing history to repeat itself. Anonymous adds that the current fight with her partner is based on how often her first daughter can visit their house, her husband wants the visits to be less frequent.

Anonymous also says there was a change in how they communicate and time spent together when they got married.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since 2014 and they each came into the relationship with a child. Anonymous says they started lobola proceedings in 2016, however he still needs to complete the process and they now have two kids together.

Anonymous says they then started working together at the same place for a few years and everything was fine until he started working somewhere else, far from home, and their relationship became more of a long distance relationship.

Anonymous says he found out that she was cheating on him with someone from work and when he confronted her about it, she explained that she was feeling lonely because she wasn’t seeing him as often as she used to.

Anonymous believes she’s cheated on him again and again and thinks she’s back it again right now. Anonymous says he was planning on completing the lobola this year but he’s now wondering if he should just let go of the relationship.

Anonymous says he has two partners and initially he dated both of them and they were not aware of this situation. Anonymous says he eventually married lady no.1 and after the marriage he confessed to the ladies that he was seeing both of them.

Anonymous says lady no.1 was initially resistant to the idea of being in a polygamous relationship but accepted it. Anonymous says he is now in a polygamous relationship and has bought homes for both his partners and has kids with both of them.

Anonymous says the issue he has now is that the partners get upset with him when he visits the other and he’s not sure how to navigate that.

Anonymous says she was in a relationship for 6 years with her ex until they broke up two years ago and they have a child together.

Anonymous says they’ve been co-parenting well during that time however anonymous says a week ago, her daughter shared that she’d been spending time with her new mommy while visiting her dad. Anonymous says she was confused by this as she wasn’t told by her ex that he’s in a relationship now and that his new partner has access to their daughter.

Anonymous says she hasn’t been introduced to her ex’s new partner and feels like she’s being disrespected in this situation. Anonymous says she also has a partner but that partner hasn’t met her daughter out of respect.

Anonymous says she’s not sure if she’s overreacting or whether she should speak to ex about this.

Anonymous says he was dating his partner for 9 years and they have two kids. Anonymous says their relationship was toxic and they broke things off.

Anonymous says after they broke up his ex wouldn’t allow him to see his kids and he took her to court to force her to allow him and in that process he ended up requesting a paternity test and found out that the first child is not his.

Anonymous says in the middle of all this she damaged his property, assaulted him and also told people that he wasn’t supporting his children. Anonymous says she’s still hostile towards him and is not remorseful.

Anonymous says he’s not sure if his ex has told the first child that he’s not his father.

Anonymous says he feels like she owes him an apology, so he can get closure and doesn’t know how to move on without one.

Anonymous says he broke up with his previous partner in April this year and after a 3 month break he went back on Instagram ready to re enter the dating game.

Anonymous says one of the first people he saw on Instagram was his high school crush, they reconnected and started chatting in the DMs and eventually exchanged numbers, they hit off and would be on the phone with each other for hours.

Anonymous says his crush still lives in their home province and he lives somewhere else but when he returned home they met up and went out and this is when she got drunk and started behaving “unruly” & rude towards him.

Anonymous says this has happened a couple of times when they are out. Anonymous says he’s now back where he lives and is wondering if she has the character of someone he would want to be with.

Anonymous says he dated his now ex partner for about 6 months, a couple of months after she got out of a long term relationship in which her partner cheated on her with her best friend.

Anonymous says they went on a dinner date about two days ago and while on the date she confessed to him that she had recently seen pictures of her ex and felt something for her ex, and feels like it’s a lot for her and she doesn’t want to continue dating anonymous for now, as she feels like she needs time to find herself.

Anonymous says they broke up and he spoke to his now ex’s mom who said she agrees that her daughter needs time, but advised anonymous to be patient with her and wait as he’s been a good influence on her.

Anonymous is not sure if he should wait for her.

Anonymous says she started dating her current partner after meeting him at her child’s school and adds that he has a good relationship with her child.

Anonymous says they went on with their relationship and she fell pregnant unintentionally as they were relying on the “pull-out” method. Anonymous says she terminated her pregnancy because she felt like they were not financially prepared at the time.

Anonymous says they met around the Covid period, and he he wasn’t working at the time and was available for her. He’s back at work now and anonymous says she feels like he’s not making time for her and has said to her that he’s just currently really hectic.

Anonymous says she has no reason to suspect that he’s cheating and just feels like their relationship is stagnant. She loves him and doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for the last year and says the relationship has been good for the most part.

Anonymous says her partner told her he was being evicted from his place and was cagy about the information when he needed to move, but anonymous later realised that he actually used to live with someone at that place and the lease was under that partners name, hence he needed to leave.

Anonymous says she overlooked this and they continued with their relationship, anonymous even allowed him to move in with her and her kids while he finds a place.

Anonymous says during the time he lived with her he was not contributing in the household. He has now moved out to his own place but anonymous says he visits a lot and still doesn’t contribute to the household.

Anonymous says she also caught him speaking on the phone with another lady and suspects that he might be cheating but he says that’s not the case.

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner for 9 months and says they keep getting into conflicts and he doesn’t understand why this keeps happening.

Anonymous says his partner is slightly older than him in her thirties and he’s in his twenties, anonymous adds that she has a child. Anonymous says one of the things is that he’s an indoors kind of person and she likes to go out, which has created tension between them.

Anonymous says he once caught her cheating on him and she lied about it. Anonymous says he’s not sure if she’s present in the relationship and wants to be in it or not.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 5 years now and they have a child together. Anonymous says the relationship was great however she realised about two years ago that he had been cheating on her throughout their relationship. Anonymous says she confronted him about this, he apologised and they moved on with their relationship.

Anonymous says she then found out that he was cheating again, and they separated but later got back together.

Anonymous says fast forward to this year, she met a new guy and says he treats her well and they’ve built something. Anonymous says her partner found out that she has someone new and she told her partner that she wants to break up with him because she doesn’t trust him anymore.

Anonymous says she wants to leave her partner but he doesn’t want to break up with her and says he’s stopped cheating. Anonymous is not sure if he really does love her after all he’s done to her.

Anonymous says her relationship with guy no.1 lasted about 6 months. Anonymous says she has a son and because of this she gave the guy ground rules to say they’d be spending time outside and he could never sleep over. Anonymous says these limitations seem to have caused tension in their relationship and they eventually broke things off.

Anonymous says her most recent relationship, guy no.2, is someone she dated 10 years ago and they got back together. Anonymous says she feels like the guy doesn’t give her much attention, especially when they are spending time together, and when she brings this up, he doesn’t respond positively to her.

Anonymous says she is not sure if maybe she is the problem in these relationships.

Anonymous says he’s dating his current girlfriend for a second time, after initially dating for a year and breaking up.

Anonymous says they’ve now been dating for several years and their relationship is fine however the problem is his girlfriend’s mother.

He says recently his girlfriend and her mother asked him to come pick them up and while he was driving with them in the car, they overheard him talking to a friend about colleagues that are taking advantage of him, but misunderstood and thought that he was talking about them.

That created a rift, with the mother saying they don’t need him and suggesting that they are not his charity case. Anonymous says the mother told him not to contact them and now anonymous and his girlfriend are not on speaking terms.

Anonymous says when they got back together he was told that his girlfriend has someone and he’s just friend.

Anonymous says she’s in her mid thirties and has three kids from three different men. Anonymous says the first child was as a result of being young. She was in love with the second guy but he didn’t love her, and then with the third guy she didn’t love him but fell pregnant by accident with his child and she tried to develop something with him but it didn’t work.

Anonymous says she’s now in the talking stage with a fourth guy, who’s dating someone else, and says he’s in love with her and she likes him too but she doesn’t want anything too deep with him, and has explained to him that she’s ok being a sidekick.

Anonymous wonders if she’s selling herself short with this request.

Anonymous says he’s been dating a lady for the last four months and things have been good, however, he says she’s constantly stalking his social media pages.

Anonymous says he’s an entrepreneur and posts to promote his business and she’s always asking him about people commenting on his pages.

Anonymous says it’s too much for him and doesn’t know if he should move forward with her.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 2 years and says when they met each other she told the guy at the time that she’s not really into monogamy and wasn’t looking for anything serious. He told her that he’s not into that and wants something serious.

Despite their differences they continued with their relationship and anonymous says she fell for him and she enjoyed the relationship. However, anonymous says she’s enjoying the relationship a lot but still feels like she doesn’t want to be monogamous.

Anonymous doesn’t know how to move forward.

Anonymous says he’s in his late twenties and says he’s known girl no.1 since they were really young and says after going through somethings they broke up and he moved on with his life but over the years he and girl no.1 kept up with each other and would hook up here and there.

Anonymous says he met girl no.2 at work and it was love at first sight, however, after becoming a couple she told anonymous that she’s actually in a long distance relationship with a guy from her hometown, however, they continued and anonymous says he fell deeply for her.

Anonymous says time has gone by and she was still with the guy from back home. Anonymous says this has caused a rift and he ended up finding himself in the arms of girl no.1 again, who is also in a relationship with someone else. Anonymous says girl no.1 is now pregnant and is not sure if anonymous is the father.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for about a year and a half now and things have been good, however they got into a serious fight in the last few months and things became really sour but they resolved the issue.

Anonymous says since then she’s noticed that his behaviour is on and off and she never knows which version of him she’s going to get.

Anonymous says she wonders if she can carry on with him like that, she says she loves him and is scared of losing him as he’s her first really serious relationship.

Anonymous has a child and has been with her partner for about 3 years now and things have been good. The problem is that the guy wants to have a child with anonymous but anonymous says she’s not ready to have another child, especially out of wedlock.

Anonymous says he then tried to hire a surrogate for them but which persuaded her to try and have a baby with him, however they were not able to conceive, something that frustrated her partner and he needed up getting married to someone else.

He now wants to be with her and engage in a polygamous marriage but she’s not interested.

Anonymous says she broke with her ex after finding out that he had been cheating on her with multiple women. Anonymous says she realised months after they broke up that she was pregnant, however she miscarried but never told him about this. Anonymous is wondering if she should tell him about this.

Anonymous says another situation is that she’s in a relationship with a married man. Anonymous says they did break up at some point with this guy as she realised they don’t have a bright future together, however, they got back together a couple of months ago. Anonymous says she’s not sure if she wants to carry on with the guy, as she’s uncomfortable in the relationship, but she doesn’t know how to break up with him.

Anonymous says he’s been dating his partner since the beginning of this year and things have become weird since her birthday.

Anonymous says when it was his birthday she didn’t do much for him but on her birthday she expected him to take her out but he couldn’t because of his finances, which led to her going out with friends and not communicating with him while she’s out and about.

Anonymous says she’s very financially demanding and doesn’t he doesn’t understand her behaviour, especially because they’ve only been dating for 6 months. Anonymous adds that she’s a bully and he’s struggling to date her but he loves her.

Anonymous says he met his current partner, lady no.2, in 2021 while he was dating lady no.1 whom he had impregnated but their relationship was tanking because he felt disrespected by lady no.1 who eventually started dating someone else.

Anonymous says problems started happening in his relationship with lady no.2 because she had STIs and it was left unexplained where they were coming from. Anonymous says he eventually went through her phone and found dodgy messages between his partner and other guys.

Anonymous says they took a break from having sex because of all of this and during that he started having a sexual affair with someone else on the side, his partner found out, but they dealt with it and continued with their relationship.

Anonymous says he has since found other texts between her and another guy, he adds that he’s currently going through a loss and she’s not even there for her. Anonymous says this situation reminds him of his previous relationship and he’s not sure if he should move on.

Anonymous says she met an older guy a while back and she fell deep in love with him. Anonymous says last year she found him with another lady at his place, however she forgave him for this and they continued dating.

Anonymous says she moved closer to him to be with him and he even got her a job, however, Anonymous says things have faded between them and he doesn’t really talk to her anymore.

Anonymous says she’s hurt by this and wants to move on but she’s struggling to deal with her feelings for him and doesn’t want to let him go because despite his behaviour, she’s in love with him. Anonymous wants to know how to get over her feelings.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for just under two years now. She says everything was cool in the beginning of the relationship however as things went by he became verbally abusive and they would get into a lot of fights. Anonymous says after a recent fight she confronted him about his behaviour he defended his behaviour and said that anonymous is over sensitive and if she can’t handle his behaviour, she’ll have to leave him. Anonymous is not sure if she is being sensitive or if he’s just bad for her and she should just leave.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner since the second half of last year and says while they were on vacation last year with a group of friends she accidentally found saw a message from a girl who had sent anonymous’ partner images of herself in a bikini.

Anonymous says she eventually told him about the picture messages she saw and he explained to her that he wasn’t interested in that other girl and she was obsessed with him, something anonymous confirmed after getting a thorough look at the texts.

Anonymous says months later her partner has told anonymous that he feels like he walks on egg shells around her since the incident.

Anonymous says her partner has told her that he’s not sure if he wants to continue with the relationship as he feels like she smothers him.

Anonymous says he’s in his mid-twenties and he is currently a student. Anonymous says they’ve been together for four years with his partner and finances have become an issue in their relationship.

Anonymous says after he didn’t buy her anything for her birthday, she complained and said anonymous doesn’t do anything for her and doesn’t buy her things, something anonymous disputes.

Anonymous says he’s a student and not financially capable of fulfilling the financial expectations that his girlfriend has of him. Anonymous is not sure if he should continue being in a relationship with her as it seems she might need someone who is more financially capable.

Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for 7 years and they have two children together.

Anonymous says they took their kids to the clinic this morning and while there she asked her partner to fix their child’s pants and he didn’t like this saying that he didn’t like that she asked him in front of another man as this made him feel small.

Anonymous says he added that she’s always making him feel small in front of other people.

Anonymous says she understands that he’s going through a lot as he’s unemployed and going through some financial issues with his family, however, she’s not sure how to deal with this.

Anonymous says she’s been with her boyfriend for almost 10 years and after finding out that he cheated on her multiple times she started cheating on him and has been having that affair for about a year. Anonymous says after testing for HIV with her side they started having unprotected sex. Anonymous says she isn’t on any pregnancy prevention methods because after 10 years with her partner she never fell pregnant, however, she is now pregnant and says based on when she slept with her side, she believes he’s the father of the baby. She’s told her side about the pregnancy but doesn’t know how to go about telling her partner.

Anonymous says she’s been dating her current partner for two years on and off. Anonymous says the guy is rich and when he wanted to marry her after two weeks of knowing her she was suspicious and suspected that he was trying to do this for witchcraft related reasons, so she held back a bit on their relationship and said no to the marriage proposal but months later they continued with a more casual relationship. Anonymous says they eventually got serious in their relationship but she found out that he married someone else while they were still more casual. Anonymous says she’s continued to date him for a year knowing that he’s married and says she’s willing to become a second wife but she’s not sure if that’s the right thing to do on her part.

Anonymous says she’s been with her husband for almost 7 years now and they have one child together and anonymous has two of her own kids. Anonymous says her partner is constantly cheating on her and it’s been happening throughout their relationship. Anonymous says she’s been confronting him about this and it led to him kicking her out of their house last December, saying he’s done with their marriage. Anonymous says she keeps going back to him and can’t help it. She doesn’t know how to move forward from this situation.

Anonymous says before he met his current girlfriend he had had his heart broken and had decided that he would never fall deeply for anyone. Anonymous says despite this he slowly fell in love with his partner who he met in 2021. Anonymous says he found her partner with one child and a year into their relationship he made a request that they have a child together. Anonymous says his partner was not ready for financial reasons and when they both finally had work they decided to try and anonymous’ partner did fall pregnant but she ended up aborting the baby despite him being against that. Anonymous says after all this he met someone new and impregnated that lady. Anonymous says he initially kept this child a secret from his partner but ended up telling his partner about the child. Anonymous says this has affected their relationship and he now suspects that his partner is cheating on him.

Anonymous says she hasn’t had a relationship with her father for about 15 years and recently she asked him for help and he couldn’t help her which triggered her and her trauma. Anonymous says this has highlighted how she struggles to deal with men and doesn’t know how to relationship with men, especially the father of her child because of her childhood trauma. Anonymous says she wants to learn how to love herself and be able to love fully in relationships.

Anonymous says his partner caught him cheating on her late last year with another woman, which he did in reaction to her cheating on him. Anonymous says they initially broke up after this but got back together looking to work things out. Anonymous says since they’ve been back together his partner keeps bringing up the fact the he cheated on her and she doesn’t seem to be getting over what happened. Anonymous says he wants to be with her but doesn’t know if he can live like that.

Anonymous says he’s married with 3 kids and is currently dating 3 different women and has been with them for a few years now. Anonymous says they all support him financially and they know he’s married. Anonymous says he’s tired because this puts him on a very hectic schedule of handling all 4 of his partners and he doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she met her partner in September last year and they moved in together in January of this year, and got married in February. Anonymous says everything has been fine however she feels like her husband is lazy, she basis this on the fact that he keeps quitting his jobs and doesn’t give any valid reasons. Anonymous says this puts a huge financial burden on her. Anonymous says she’s calling today because he has once again quit his job, she doesn’t know what to do because he’s generally a good husband in all other departments.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 16 years and they now have 3 kids together. Anonymous says he did start lobola proceedings before they moved in together however the process wasn’t completed because he focused on buying a home for them in their village. Anonymous says he’s since tried to complete the process of lobola but says his partner’s family has been postponing having a meeting with his family. Anonymous says a few months ago his mother passed away and his partner didn’t come and she didn’t even send his kids to come and bury their grandmother. Anonymous says his partner then suddenly moved out of their home and moved to her parent’s house with the kids. Anonymous says her partner’s mother then told him that her partner is sick but they shared very little information with him. Anonymous says he managed to get his kids to come back home so they can go to school and 2 weeks ago she came back to their house unannounced. Anonymous says she’s still not sharing information about why she was gone. Anonymous is note sure if the relationship is worth salvaging.

Anonymous says she feels like she’s constantly getting cheated on in relationships. She says she keeps giving her all in her relationships but her partners always cheat on her. Anonymous has also shared about being abused in one of her relationships and adds that her partners also leave her for women who are more economically successful than her.

Anonymous says she met the father of her child back in 2017 and she moved in with him early on and they had a child together. Anonymous says he had started the lobola process but their relationship soured and they broke up. Anonymous says she moved back home after this and their first child died while they were separated. Anonymous moved back to the same city and they started dating again. Anonymous says things tensed up in their relationship because they couldn’t agree on how they want to live and the type of home they want to live in. Anonymous says she moved to her own place and built herself a house since he was refusing to do this. Anonymous says they separated but they got back together and he moved in with her at her house as he was now broke. Anonymous says they are now separated again because she found him speaking to a strange woman on the phone. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should stay with him as she also feels like he’s taking advantage of her because she’s now more financially capable than he is.

Anonymous says she’s been married to her husband for the last two years and all has been well however a few days ago she was able to see messages on his computer of him chatting to another lady. Anonymous says she confronted the lady and this lady then told anonymous about the relationship she has with anonymous’ husband. It turns out he’s been dating this lady since last September, to a point where this lady even fell pregnant. Anonymous says this all happened while she was pregnant with their now newborn baby. Anonymous is not sure what to do about this.

Anonymous says he was married to his ex for 8 years. When they came into the relationship she had two children and he had one child. Anonymous says he became and ill and his wife couldn’t handle it and asked for a divorce while he was in hospital. Anonymous says his ex then went on her own but her son, who was also ill at the time, stayed with anonymous. Anonymous says a couple of years after his ex wife’s disappearance, her son is now thriving and she has come back in the picture wanting to have a relationship with him. Anonymous says his step-son doesn’t want anything to do with his mother, despite anonymous encouraging him to do so, anonymous doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she had an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart because their families were against it, claiming that the two were related. Anonymous says she eventually got married to someone else and they have children together. She says things soured in her marriage and she rekindled things with her high school sweetheart and she was ready to leave her marriage for him, but he died a month ago which spoiled her plans to leave her husband. Anonymous says she has now been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and moved back home after her husband said he would’ve never married her had he known she has mental health struggles. Anonymous is not sure if she should still leave her marriage.

Anonymous says she’s in her early 30s with a 5 year-old son. Anonymous says she’s trying to get back into the dating game but says she thinks she struggles with getting in touch with her feminine side in relationships and instead she’s very masculine and wonders if she’s not giving men the chance to be a “man” in the relationship. Anonymous says she suspects she’s this way as a result of her being sexually abused when she was 6 years old.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 10 years and says her mom never approved of their relationship from the beginning. Anonymous says they’ve had a child for the last 3 years and her family has still not changed their attitude towards her partner. Anonymous says she moved out of home because of the tension her relationship was causing at home and found her own place, however, she says her moving out of home changed the dynamics in her relationship and shortly after she moved, her partner broke things off with her saying he needed time by himself and to heal from everything that’s happened. Anonymous says her now ex says he still loves her and she sees him everyday when he comes to see their child. Anonymous says she doesn’t know if she should keep pursuing something with him.

Anonymous says she dated a certain lady, lady no.1, back in 2011 and they never actually broke up, their relationship just faded. Anonymous says they recently reconnected and lady no.1 told anonymous that she’s currently married but she’s frustrated in her marriage and wants to have a relationship with anonymous. Anonymous says they then started dating but along the way anonymous says she had to find her own girlfriend because lady no.1 is married and not giving anonymous all the attention she needs. Anonymous says she told lady no.1 that she now has a girlfriend and lady no.1 is not happy with this. Anonymous says lady no.1 has asked anonymous to break up with her girlfriend, but lady no.1 refuses to divorce her wife. Anonymous says things have gotten sour between them and she doesn't know what to do.

Anonymous says she has 3 kids with three different guys. She says things are ok with the father of her first child as they were together at a young age. Anonymous says she broke up with the father of her second child after he cheated on her after she fell pregnant. Anonymous then moved on and had a third child, she says things were initially fine with the father of her third child but they’ve now broken up because of his cheating ways and the way he treated her second born child.

Anonymous says he got divorced in 2021 and after about a year and half last year he started dating again. He says things were fine but her partner started behaving in a weird manner, not taking his calls and avoiding him. Anonymous says they now live together but earlier this year she started ignoring him more and wasn’t as responsive to his calls and messages. Anonymous says she then complained about him sending her ‘check-in messages’ and asked him to stop. Anonymous says he started spying on her phone and found out that she was in fact chatting with three other men. Anonymous says she seems to have dodgy dealings with these guys and she’s also currently having an affair with one of them.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since around 2017 and says this past Good Friday he visited her place and after she left for work he stayed behind, and wanted to surprise her by cleaning her place. Anonymous says as he was doing that he found ARVs hidden in a shoe box. Anonymous says about two months have gone by and he hasn’t gotten the courage to speak to her about this.

Anonymous is in a relationship with the father of her second child however she says she’s still in love with the father of her first child. Anonymous says she broke up with the first baby daddy because they cheated on each other and the relationship broke down. Anonymous says the father of her second child is great and wants to marry her but she’s not sure if she wants to marry him. Anonymous says the father of her first child still wants to be with her as well and she doesn’t know what to do.

Anonymous says she broke up with her partner of 3 years a year ago after she cheated on him. Anonymous says she was already pregnant with her partner’s child at the time of breaking up. Anonymous says she moved on from that relationship and continued to date the guy she had cheated with. Anonymous says this new partner now wants her to cut the father of her child out of their lives and says he wants to marry her and take in both her and the child as his own. Anonymous says on the other hand the father of her child wants to be with her and doesn’t have a problem with her. Anonymous adds that her current partner can’t really afford to raise her child, something the father of her child is cabable of doing.

Anonymous says she was in a relationship with a man who was younger than her and says when she lost her job he found a job and then changed on her and even broke up with her. Anonymous says after they broke up he downgraded his maintenance of their child, even moving the child from private school to public school. Anonymous says he now currently is not even making those reduced maintenance fees they had agreed to. Anonymous says she’s scared of going the legal route because she thinks he might threaten her and her child’s life.

Anonymous says he found out late last year that his partner is having an affair with the father of her child. Anonymous says he found out because his partner didn’t return home but in fact she was sleeping at her baby daddy’s family home. Anonymous says he doesn’t know how to deal with this as he feels like she only started doing this when he lost his job and couldn’t care for her financially. Anonymous says he loves her & feels like she can still change.

Anonymous has a wife and two kids and met a woman in 2021 who intended to make his second wife. Anonymous says the woman agreed to become his second wife and things were fine she even met anonymous’ first wife. Anonymous says he made her a director in his company. Anonymous says they got married and had a child in 2023, but says his second wife changed after they got married and she was not even taking good care of her duties in the company. Anonymous says she then started accusing him of cheating, something he denies… Anonymous says she then started suggesting that he leaves his first wife, and anonymous refused. Anonymous says she did a few dodgy things at the company and then filed for a divorce, anonymous was ready to divorce but says she now wants to get back together.

Late last year anonymous started dating a guy that she’s known since 2014. Anonymous says 2 months after they started dating she fell pregnant. They spoke about the pregnancy and both decided they were not ready for a baby so she terminated the pregnancy. Anonymous says after the termination he went cold on her and when she visited him recently he was offish and said to her that he feels like she’s too much and loves sex a lot.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner for 3 years and has now paid for her lobola. Anonymous already has two wives and this partner was going to be his third wife. Anonymous says after he paid lobola for her she cancelled the wedding celebration and said she didn’t want to complete the marriage process because she no longer wants to be in a polygamist marriage, something she was aware of in the 3 years that they’ve been together. Anonymous doesn’t understand why she’s behaving like this and anonymous has also heard of a few false things that this lady is sharing about him.

Anonymous says her partner of 7 months is great and he’s a good guy but she feels like he’s boring. She says she’s very outgoing and he isn’t and likes to stay at home. Anonymous says she’s spoken to him about being a bit more out there but he doesn’t seem to be changing. Anonymous says she also feels like he’s a bit stingy and won’t even spend much on going out.

Anonymous says she hadn’t been dating for about 5 years when she met a guy online. Anonymous says they eventually started dating after a few hiccups in starting the relationship. Anonymous says they dated for a year and then he broke up with her saying that she has a big ego and has, quote, feminist tendencies. Anonymous says she’s heartbroken and she’s not sure if maybe his reasons for breaking up with her were valid. She’s missing him and doesn’t know if she should try getting back together with him.

Anonymous is in her early 20s and is married to a guy who’s in his late 50s. Anonymous came into the marriage with two kids and they don’t have kids together. Anonymous says her problem is that she doesn’t feel free in the marriage. She says he doesn’t allow her to go out, have friends or visit her family. Anonymous says when she speaks to her family about this they don’t support her and say she just wants to be with younger boys and have fun. Anonymous says she got into the relationship because of the financial support she would receive but she’s now tired.

Anonymous says her and her man met randomly and they had a good relationship at the start but things have now changed. Anonymous says one of the things her partner discussed with her in the beginning is that he uses isolation as a way to cope with challenges in his life. Anonymous says he’s recently gone through some hardships in his work which has led to him becoming isolated and absent in their relationship. Anonymous says she doesn’t know how to react to him since she knows he does isolate himself when faced with challenges. Anonymous says reassurance and being present is an important thing for her in relationships, so she doesn’t know how to deal with this.

Anonymous has been on and off with her now husband for the last 18 years. They met when she was young and she fell pregnant straight out of high school. Anonymous says even when they started, he was older than her and was with another woman who he impregnated. Anonymous says their relationship has been quite bumpy throughout the 18 years and says the spark is completely gone in their marriage and she feels like they are just sticking together for the sake of their 3 kids. Anonymous wants to leave but doesn’t know how to go about.

Anonymous got into a relationship with a guy who is in a relationship with guy who’s in a relationship, they met at work. Anonymous says the guy’s girlfriend has found out about their affair about 3 times and they’ve continued with the affair each time. Fast forward to now, the girlfriend called anonymous and basically told anonymous to leave her man alone. Anonymous spoke to the guy and they spoke about this call and discussed what they, anonymous & the girlfriend, spoke about on the call…

Anonymous has a child with her high school sweetheart and they ended their relationship a few years ago after their relationship got toxic. Anonymous says her ex became distant after their break up and didn’t even support their child. Anonymous says he’s now back in their lives and does support their child but not enough as she says. Anonymous says she’s thinking of having another baby with him as she knows and would rather have his child. Anonymous says she’s single but she’s not sure if he’s single.

Anonymous met a lady on a dating app and says they decided to start a relationship after their first date. Anonymous says their relationship has been a little bumpy because the partner lacks good communication skills and says she doesn’t speak to her in a respectful manner. Anonymous also says the partner has mentioned that she was born with two sexual organs and had one removed. Anonymous says she's scared of visiting the lady as she thinks she has problems with her sexuality and her family doesn't accept her. Anonymous is worried that the lady has a toxic relationship with her family and doesn't know if she should get involved in this.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 4 years and says he feels like he’s been a good partner towards her and has supported her in many ways. Anonymous says the problem is that she has cheated on him multiple times and he’s forgiven her each time but he’s tired of this and doesn’t know what to do because he loves her deeply and doesn’t know how to let her go.

Anonymous has been with his now wife for 10 years and says she’s been a great partner and even helped him grow. Anonymous says he loves his wife but he doesn’t quite enjoy their sex life and feels like she’s not coming to the party sexually. Anonymous says they’ve tried therapy but it hasn’t helped much and he has cheated on her with 6 different women and his wife has found out about these affairs. Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as he loves her but he isn’t satisfied in the bedroom .

Anonymous has been with her partner for 3 - 4 years and says she’s been the breadwinner for most of these years. Anonymous says he tends to steal her bank card to go out partying and isn’t very apologetic about it. He has stolen her Anonymous says he’s threatened her life on more than one occasion and can be irrational when he’s drinking. Anonymous has described how he’s hit her and sexually abused her as well.

Anonymous has been vibing with a guy for the last 5 years and it’s going fine, however, she has now caught strong feelings for him and doesn’t know if she should tell him how she feels. Anonymous also suspects that he might feel the same way. Anonymous also adds that they haven't been sexually involved over those 5 years.

Anonymous says her and her partner had a good relationship and her partner even promised to marry her, however when it was time, anonymous’ partner sent his friends as his representatives to her family and anonymous’ family chased them away because the friends were not serious. Anonymous came into the relationship with two kids and now has 1 child with this partner. Anonymous says recently her sister had to move in with them but his partner has issues with this. Anonymous adds that her partner is also not financially supportive in the household.

Anonymous’ previous partner past away 6 years ago after they’d been together for 20 years. Anonymous says she was having an affair with another man while her partner was still alive and their relationship with this man continued after her partner’s death. Anonymous says this man was with someone else when they met and has dated two people in the time that they’ve known each other, which is 14 years. Anonymous says she’s still with this man and doesn’t know if she should just let him go.

Anonymous to a new city 3 years ago and met a guy 3 years ago. Anonymous says they started having a relationship, however the guy was in a long distance relationship with some other person at the time. Anonymous says the guy’s attitude seems to have changed when he went back to school to upgrade his qualifications. Anonymous says he became distant and this pushed her to eventually getting on a dating site as they weren’t really official. Anonymous says he found out that she was on dating sites and he now wants to end things and doesn’t even want to see her. Anonymous says he went quite on her for 3 months, after that he called her and they met up at his place…

Anonymous and his estranged wife have known each other since 2009 and they got married in 2011. Anonymous says they got married very young and he was having lots of fun then which included many long nights out and about. Anonymous says he cheated on his wife in 2016, however, their marriage recovered from that. Anonymous says they moved to a new province and after they had a second child together, he feels like his wife started to change and their relationship wasn’t the same, even though he had changed his ways. Anonymous says in the last few years they went through a major financial loss which affected their relationship because he became emotionally unavailable. Anonymous says his wife started becoming more financially successful and that affected her attitude towards him and she started meeting new and younger men…

Anonymous met her partner less than 2 years ago, and she says everything was find but sometime late last year he started giving her less attention and she says sometimes she’ll even call him 30 times without him getting back to her. Anonymous says she also found out that he has a child with another woman, something he had lied to her about. Anonymous says her period is now late and he won’t even come with her to the hospital to do tests.

Anonymous met a guy a few months ago at work and they started being friends and that quickly turned into a situationship. Anonymous says everything was going well until she found out that the guy is dating another lady in the same workplace. Anonymous says they are still in their situationship even though he still has a girlfriend. Anonymous is not sure if she should continue being a side chick or leave this situation.

Anonymous is a widow who lost her husband a few years ago and at the same time her friend and colleague at work lost her mother and due to this anonymous’ colleague linked her up with her father as they had both lost their partners. Anonymous is now dating her colleague’s father but the problem is she has had sexual relations with her colleague's brother who is her now partner's son. She had this affair way before meeting the colleague.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for a year and the relationship has been going well generally however she feels like things have gotten cold in the bedroom over the last few months as they don’t have sex as much as they used to. Anonymous says he’s also not the most adventurous in the bedroom and doesn’t like foreplay which is something she likes.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 2 years now and his situation at home is affecting their relationship. Anonymous says her partner lives with his siblings and their children and takes care of them as the sole breadwinner in the household. Anonymous says she feels like he is over extending himself in how he’s going about supporting his family and neglects helping and supporting her financially as his partner.

Anonymous says a lot of her friends say her partner of one year is a narcissist, and anonymous agrees with this assessment and wants to break up with him but she’s struggling to get rid of her feelings for him. Anonymous says he’s a bit of a bully and is a very jealous person, he even gets angry when she hugs her male friends.

Anonymous met a man back in 2019 while they were living in the same apartment complex. Anonymous says at the time they were both in long distance relationships that were a bit shaky, however, anonymous broke up with her long distance partner and they became sex buddies. She fell pregnant but aborted the baby because their situation wasn’t stable at the time. The man eventually broke up with his girlfriend and started dating anonymous, they then had a child together. Anonymous says in the last couple of years they’ve been facing financial issues...

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they a child together. Anonymous says his partner is not not a very sexual person and he has a bigger sexual appetite. Anonymous says her partner once attempted suicide thinking that anonymous was cheating on her because of their sex life. Anonymous says he has now met someone else who he says matches his sexual appetite. Anonymous says he still loves his partner but wonders if he should just give up on their relationship.

Anonymous comes from an abusive household and eventually left home and eventually started dating his current partner who supported him until he found his feet and even got a house. Anonymous then moved in with his partner and things were generally fine however they faced some financial troubles. Anonymous started having an affair with another woman who used to give anonymous money that he would give to his girlfriend, anonymous eventually confessed about this and they moved on from it. Anonymous then had some incidences with other women and says he needs help because he keeps sleeping around.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 8 years and they got engaged this year. Anonymous says her partner has cheated on him a few times over the years and he has forgiven her each time. Anonymous says she had stopped her cheating ways for a couple of months after they got engaged this year, however, anonymous says yesterday her partner disappeared and switched off her phone and when he queried her about that she confessed that she was away sleeping with another man because he gave her money and she needed money, despite the fact anonymous had already sent her money.

Anonymous met a man online two weeks ago and things were going well and she met up with him at his place last week Saturday. While on this meet they went into his prayer room where they prayed and then he showed her a hut in the same room which he uses to praise & communicate with his ancestors. Anonymous says he invited her back this past Wednesday and they prayed in the room but this time around the ancestor responded and she could hear the ancestor’s voice saying he accepts her into the family. Anonymous says something is not adding up and she feels like this guy is too good to be true.

Anonymous and his partner have been together for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous also notes that they have a 6 year age gap between them. Anonymous says during the course of their relationship they ran into some financial issues and even ended up separating when his partner moved to a different city. Anonymous says they eventually got back together but things haven’t been the same since then and anonymous says they are constantly in conflict and he feels like his partner won’t hear him out. Anonymous is also feeling a bit insecure because his partner once cheated on him. Anonymous is not sure if the relationship is still worth it.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 6 years now and they have a child together who stays with her parents. A few weeks ago her partner was supposed to fetch their son for a weekend visit and her but delayed all of this because he was out with his colleagues. Anonymous brought it up and asked that he doesn’t inconvenience her but he turned it around and accused her of being nagging partner. Anonymous says he’s been repeating that sort of behaviour, gaslighting her and never taking accountability for his actions.

Anonymous broke with with her ex last year, however, in recent times she started having a thing with her ex’s friend and says they both want to be with each other but the friend is scared of getting together with her and making it official publicly because of his friend who’s anonymous’ ex. Anonymous says they are still friends.

Anonymous was seeing a guy last year and they broke up because the guy wasn’t treating her well, this is guy no.1. Then anonymous got back with her ex, guy no.2, and she fell pregnant in the early days of getting back together. Anonymous says guy no.1 was then trying to get back together with her and she shared this information with guy no.2’s sister who told her brother that anonymous had some relations with guy no.1 who even had food delivered to her while she was pregnant. They broke up because guy no.2 now suspected that the baby might not even be his. Anonymous says guy no.1 still wants her back and thinks the baby might be his.

Anonymous moved to a new place with her new born last year where she met a new neighbour and got into an “entanglement” with him. Anonymous says in the course of this she fell pregnant late last year with this man’s child and she hasn’t told him. She tried to terminate the pregnancy but she struggled to terminate successfully because of finances. She currently has two kids and doesn’t know how to deal with the fact that she’s now pregnant, she still hasn’t told the guy and also can’t tell her family. Anonymous is now considering adoption

Anonymous says he’s cheated on his partner multiple times during the relationship, his partner would forgive him and they kept on being in a relationship. Anonymous says he realised that what he was doing was wrong and affecting his partner badly so he decided to stop but it was too late. Anonymous says his partner is now cheating on him with someone else and anonymous says he saw, via texts, that she is having a good time with a new guy that she’s been having an affair with, anonymous’ partner is now saying she’s done with him, but he’s saying he’s struggling to let her go and wants to know if he should fight for her.

Anonymous says her partner went away to go see his family on Saturday but didn’t come back until Sunday. Anonymous says he’s done this a few times so she told him not come back and he said fine but he did come back and she hasn’t spoken to him ever since. Anonymous says she left him at the house and blocked him on the phone. Anonymous says her partner is now blackmailing her, threatening to share incriminating information about her with her boss. Anonymous is not sure what to do. Anonymous says he blames her for ruining her life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and she recently found out that she’s pregnant, however, shortly after that anonymous’ partner lost his job and it brought strain on the relationship especially because they are expecting. Anonymous says things were fairly fine however when anonymous’ partner received his severance pay he started acting weird and they fought about his partying which led to him moving out and living with his parents. Anonymous says he now wants to break up and says he can’t be with her anymore. Anonymous is not sure whether she should fight for this relationship.

Anonymous broke up with her partner last year after she found texts on his phone that indicated that he might be gay as he was in a relationship with another guy and his WhatsApp was filled with flirty exchanges with other men. Anonymous broke up with him without confronting him about what she found in his texts. She says she’s still in love with him and doesn’t know if she made a mistake by breaking up with him.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years and they have a child together. Anonymous says last week she went to her partner’s house and found him there naked with a girl in the house. Anonymous says her partner says he was naked because he was getting ready for church and the lady ended up in the house after a night of partying. Anonymous doesn’t know whether to believe him or not. Anonymous says it’s not the first time his suspected him of cheating as she once found lady’s underwear in his house.

Anonymous and her husband live with his family and the situation has gotten tricky. Anonymous says she wants them to move out of the house and find their own place with their kids, but her husband refuses and even told her to build her own house. Anonymous has since build a house for herself and her kids and her husband is not happy about this. Anonymous says her husband is now unemployed and she’s the only one working, but her husband is not helpful at even in taking care of their children.

Anonymous says her relationship was fine but she does sometimes go through some mental health issues that affect her mood. Her partner voiced that he struggles with her mood swings and anonymous says she took action to improve her behaviour and she thought everything was fine but it came up again and they broke up. Anonymous says she feels like she did improve and had one slip up but he’s not hearing her and says he doesn’t want to get back together with her. Anonymous doesn’t know if she should keep fighting for this relationship. Anonymous thinks he might still be hung up on his ex.

Anonymous and her previous partner have two kids together and broke up after 11 years last year because her partner cheated. Anonymous has since met someone else and they have been together for 6 months, the issue now is that her ex and father of her children says he doesn’t want anonymous’ new partner spending time with his kids and has raised safety issues.

Anonymous is married to a man who’s 16 years younger than her and says the issue in their relationship is her partner and his friends. Anonymous says she feels like her partner is always prioritising friends and partying and she can’t do it. She says he came into the relationship knowing this but it’s now becoming a challenge in their relationship. Anonymous says aside from that he is a great husband at home.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about 18 months and she says it’s been amazing. Anonymous says in the last couple of months her feelings for her partner have suddenly changed and she doesn’t know why because he has done nothing wrong. and the relationship is fine. Anonymous doesn’t know why she’s feeling this way and wishes to go back to being in love with her partner again.

Anonymous says she cheated on her boyfriend last year and confessed what she had done because she felt guilty. Anonymous says months later he seems to still not be over the fact that she cheated on him and even got angry that she was being friendly with their neighbour’s guests over the weekend. Anonymous says her partner did cheat on her multiple times before but had stopped in the recent years of their 5 year relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to convince him that she won’t do it again.

Anonymous says she’s been in the talking stage with a man for the last year. Anonymous says everything is going well and the vibe is good. But every time she brings up the conversation of them making things official the guy says she’s putting too much pressure on him. Anonymous is not sure if she can move forward being in limbo.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for 11 years and she says she earns more than him which is the thing that has now recently caused issues in their relationship. Anonymous says she’s supported her partner for many years but now he’s not coming through for her in her time of need. Anonymous says she needed money to fix her car but her partner instead lied to her and used the money on his children from a previous relationship to pay for school supplies and school fees. Anonymous says he lied to her about not getting his bonus and getting half a salary. She feels like he’s using her.

Anonymous is married and started having an affair with a married woman a few years ago. They eventually had a child together and have kept it a secret till this day. Anonymous used to spend time with the child, but the child has now turned 3 and they’ve had to stop the visits because the husband of anonymous’ side might find out. Anonymous has children in his marriage. Anonymous wants to have a relationship with the child but doesn’t know how to go about dealing with this.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 9 months and at the beginning of their relationship her partner did mention that he had been in some toxic relationships prior to them getting together. Anonymous says he’s been a good partner but they had a big fight and things changed after that. Anonymous says her partner is now seemingly emotionally detached. Anonymous also says she’s seen texts on his phone which have revealed cozy relationships with other women. Anonymous also says she has never heard an “I love you” from him.

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2011 and they are in a long distance relationship. During their relationship anonymous’ partner met a new colleague at work and when anonymous questioned their relationship, anonymous’ partner said their relationship was platonic. However, anonymous’ partner had a baby with the same woman a year after anonymous had her child with him. Anonymous’ partner then one day came with the child to their home because the mother of the baby said she needed a nanny. They continued with their relationship but years later when anonymous fell pregnant, she found out that this woman was also pregnant with her partner’s child once again.

Anonymous has been seeing a very prominent public figure for about a year now. Anonymous says his partner has now become controlling and doesn’t want him to see other people. However, anonymous has a partner whom he adores but says the prominent figure he’s seeing provides for him financially, something he’s used to.

Anonymous is in a new relationship and she’s worried that her partner is over extending himself in supporting his family. Anonymous says he lives with his mom, sister and two of his sister’s kids. He takes care of all of them, including for school fees for his sister’s kids. Anonymous is worried that this is draining her partner and she’s worried if he’ll one day be able to take care of the family they might build together in future. Anonymous says they both feel like his family is taking advantage of him.

Anonymous says her and her partner are generally happy and she enjoys their time together. However, anonymous says they are always fighting, mostly because of his cheating. Anonymous says they’ve been 3 incidents in the last year, including one with the mother of his child who sometimes comes to his house during load shedding to get power & signal at his house. Anonymous says recently she has noticed suspicious behaviour with him another woman while they were out at one of his DJing gigs. Anonymous says she loves him but her problem is the cheating.

Anonymous has been with his partner have been together for 3 years and says their relationship was fine until they stopped working at the same place. Anonymous says he did cheat on his partner 8 months into the relationship but they were able to move forward. Anonymous says 4 days ago his partner pretty much broke up with him saying anonymous is insecure. Anonymous says he has recently been raising his concerns about some of the people she’s been communicating with, something anonymous’ partner sees as him suspecting her of being unfaithful towards him.

Anonymous met a man at work a few years ago and they started dating but anonymous soon found out that the man might have lied about being single and he is in fact married, something he denied multiple times but eventually found that he does have a wife. Anonymous met another guy in 2021 and the guy told anonymous that he senses that Muti was used on her by a previous partner and she needs to be cleansed. Anonymous wants to confront her ex about this and doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

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If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

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Anonymous met a married guy last year at work and things took off between them and they even went on vacation together where they almost got caught. Things have been going well between anonymous and this guy, however yesterday his wife found their texts on his phone which is proof of the affair. Anonymous says she’s now caught deep feelings for the guy and she’s scared she’s going to lose him now that the wife has found out.

Anonymous is a mother of two daughters who are 14 and 8 years-old, they currently live with her boyfriend of 5 years. Anonymous says the issue started last year when her 14 year-old daughter moved in with them because her boyfriend wasn’t happy with her daughters dress code saying it’s inappropriate for young girl. Anonymous says this past Sunday her daughter confessed to her grandmother, anonymous’ mother, that anonymous’ boyfriend has asked her to show him her privates so he could see if she’s a virgin, anonymous’ daughter also says he’s forced to hug him which all made feel uncomfortable, anonymous’ partner says he wasn’t trying to make advances on her.

Anonymous is caught between two guys. The first guy is in a relationship with several other people and that would make anonymous a side dish, things are a little tricky there, anonymous says he does love the first guy though. Guy no.2 is cool but anonymous found out that the guy is engaged to be married to another guy, and even wants to introduce anonymous to his fiancé , anonymous is not sure what to do.

Anonymous and her partner were struggling to conceive a baby and eventually went on fertility treatments which led to sex feeling like a chore for them, however, anonymous did fall pregnant and they have a child. The issue is that anonymous now feels like what they went through has affected their sex life and her partner doesn’t seem interested. They are also in a long distance relationship. Anonymous doesn’t know how to go about resolving the situation with their sex life.

Anonymous has been with her partner for the last 5 years and their relationship is fairly ok. Her partner has a 13 year-old son who she has a good relationship with but not with the mother of the child, who anonymous says is always fighting with her and bringing drama to her and her relationship. Anonymous says her partner is now also seemingly coming under stress from all this and taking it out on her. Anonymous says she’s frustrated by this and is even considering leaving the relationship.

Anonymous met a man last year and they instantly clicked and started dating. Anonymous says in the midst of this she met her man’s friend and started clicking with him. One day she was alone with her man’s friends and ended up having sex with the friend she likes. Her man found out about the affair and they eventually broke up. Anonymous now wants her ex-man back even though he is now seemingly happy in a relationship.

Anonymous and his now ex were together in what he thought was a beautiful relationship until he caught her in bed cheating on him with another man. The relationship continued after the incident but anonymous saw the same guy calling her and saw text exchanges between them…

Anonymous has been dating his partner for 2 years now. They both came into the relationship with their own kids, anonymous has 1 and the partner has two kids. Anonymous says because he’s in love with her he decided to also support her kids but now there’s a problem in the relationship because anonymous’s partner feels like anonymous is prioritising his own child over her children. Anonymous says another issue is that his partner has been saying she’s pregnant for months now but the doctors say it’s not true.

Anonymous has had a friends with benefits situation with a friend of his for the last year, this is guy no.1, however anonymous then ended up also having sex with guy no.2 who’s guy no.1’s brother, and they’ve now developed feelings for each other. In the middle of all of this anonymous has also had sexual relations with their guy no.3, who’s their other brother. Anonymous is not sure what to do in terms persuing something with one of them or dropping it all together.

Anonymous has been with his partner for 10 years and things got a little tricky between him and his partner which led to him having an affair with a friend of his. The affair was eventually ended by their respective partners but they’ve found a way back to each other. Anonymous doesn't know what to do as he loves them both.

Anonymous has been with her partner for two years and the relationship has been going well, despite the fact the her partner has a child with another partner. Anonymous says the problems started when she would bleed after having sex with her partner, upon consulting traditional healers she was told that the bleeding is caused by a spell that’s been cast on her and anonymous suspects that it’s her boyfriend’s other partner that’s doing this, something her boyfriend disagrees with.

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If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

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As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

As the year comes to a close, we’ll be doing things a little differently on Ask A Man in December, we’ll be catching up with some of the people we spoke to during the year on Ask a Man to find out where they are now.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

Call us on 086 000 2160 or WhatsApp us on 060 552 7303 if you need advise regarding your relationship.

If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

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If your relationship is showing you flames, this is where we help you release as you share what is happening in your relationship, and Somizi and Naked DJ help you out with your situation by helping you figure out how you can navigate through what you're going through. Listen as we discuss the situation with anonymous.

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Tuesdays in the Self Care Corner are all about health and on World Diabetes Day we’ll be focusing on how a higher Health Promotion Levy could help in reducing the increasing number of South Africans suffering from diabetes. Joining us this morning is Nzama Mbalati - head of programmes at the Healthy Living Alliance aka HEALA.

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With Naked and Somizi away, an unsuspecting listener called in to get help with their relationship problem but things got a little tricky when a different voice came on the air to help. Listen for the Good Friday Ask A Man madness.

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Anonymous is struggling to choose between three men in her life. There's the old man, her agemate engineer, and her colleague that she met at a work function. He blocked her after a night of passion.

Anonymous loves her man, okay so he's not divorced from his wife but has that ever stopped anybody before? He lived with his wife in the apartment upstairs and when the wife moved out anonymous saw an opportunity to step in. They now have a 1year old baby.

Anonymous fears commitment. All was well in his previous relationship until his girlfriend fell pregnant then he fell out of love. He is currently seeing someone else and doesn't know how to break up with his woman.

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. Her man came over for the weekend and she went through his phone while he slept. He is seeing more than 6 other women. She doesn't know how to handle this issue when she sees him later today.

Anonymous can't break up with her man because he's financially stable. He isn't perfect, yes he has slept with a couple of his colleagues and had a few pregnancy scares outside their relationship. Love is blind

Anonymous has been a human Yo-Yo in this situationship with a man that she met when she was doing first year at varsity. They went their separate ways after varsity, got married, cheated with each other while they were in those marriages. They have now found a way to reconnect. Is it worth it?

Anonymous is concerned that her man always talks about his ex

Anonymous feels let down by her Ben10. He's gone and impregnated another lady outside their relationship after claiming that he was trying to find himself in life

Anonymous is struggling to leave her boyfriend that has been bewitched by a family member. The last family member that was bewitched was his brother who unfortunately passed away. How many more signs does anonymous need to see in order for her to take advice from the medium and prophets that she has been consulting?

Anonymous is going through the most with the father of her child. He refuses to adhere to the parental plan issued by the family court. She finds him trying to distract the progress in her life. How does she make him see that the child's needs should come first

Anonymous is gambling with her love life. She has a new man in her life that she hasn't been intimate with, the man she refers to as her boyfriend is a man struggling with a gambling addiction. which man will she end up with?

Anonymous seems to be living a nightmare over and over again. Her previous man left her when she was pregnant, she met her new man while she was pregnant and they have been going at it for a couple of years now. She fell pregnant towards the end of last year and he left her too, she blames him for her miscarriage.

Anonymous is meant to be in an arranged marriage organised by her uncle. Over half a decade has passed and this still has not been finalised. The agreement was that she would be his second wife but now he's gone and impregnated someone else, this is the ultimate betrayal for her.

Anonymous set deal-breakers for her man when they met. The biggest was infidelity, she told him that if he cheats she's going to leave. Anonymous' man is cheating with 3 other women but she's still there, she says she's confused. Their relationship isn't the best, their sex life sucks, their love life sucks

Everytime anonymous has an argument with his woman her ex texts him that he's going to win her back. He feels that he doesn't want to compete with her ex because he has more money than him. What must he do now because he loves her?

Anonymous feels disrespected by her husband's side chick calling her to demand money. Anonymous has also intercepted messages from her hubby to his mistress promising her money and lying to her about a joint account which they do not have. is this how marriage is meant to be?

Anonymous has been chatting to a potential man for 6 months, They has agreed to meet in Jan but there has been no effort from his side. Why is he too busy for her? Could he be married? Is he just a scammer? He told her that she needs to be patient, the meeting will eventually happen. What are your thoughts?

Anonymous has issues in his long distance marriage, his wife is all about the good life and she can't lower her standards now that anonymous is experiencing financial difficulties after covid. She wants a break from the marriage but he's still in love with her

Anonymous has been single for two years. He can't get over the woman he used to date for four years before that. He took care of all her and her child's financial needs. She cut ties with him completely but will pop-up like a "Jack In The Box" once in a while when she needs to finesse him for more money.

Anonymous thinks his fiance' is cheating on him since he lost his job. She has a strange new male bestie that just popped up. They met at a pub and have been meeting up in secret ever since

Anonymous is in a financially abusive relationship. When he was a stay at home partner cooking,cleaning, ironing etc there was never any boyfriend allowance. Anonymous has now been driving an e-hailing taxi for his partner and he hasn't seen a cent since.

Anonymous is in a situationship. Her man recently got married and it's left her in a state of confusion. She wasn't even aware that he was in another relationship. She's still in-love with him and she says if he wanted a second wife she's putting her hands up for the position

Anonymous feels neglected by her man who just received custody of his child. He has just asked her to cancel birthday plans she made for him because he has full custody of his child and that's where his time will be spent. Does she fully understand the emotional rollercoaster that her man is on at the moment?

Anonymous has accepted that her man is a babymaking machine, not only in their marriage but outside as well. Her issue is that her husband keeps her in the dark when he builds these relationships with his other kids. She feels disrespected and isolated by this, could he be hiding other children?

Anonymous has been with her man for over 13 years. His addiction to drugs let to their separation. Their time apart let to anonymous ending up as a side chick to a high profile man. She hasn't broken it off with the high profile guy but feels her ex is getting better so she's considering on going back

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over a year. The first 6 months were beautiful, since then it's been downhill. She's been chasing him for attention,love, affection etc

This is an Ask A Man first. Anonymous says his wife is filthy and it's starting to frustrate him. The house stays messy, her hygiene also leaves much to be desired. He is scared to bring visitors home because he knows it's always in a horrendous state. How much longer will he stay in this relationship?

Anonymous feels that he's losing his woman because he's not romantic enough. He doesn't make effort as much she would love him to. They don't go out often, he doesn't pay her compliments often. Does he deserve to be alone?

Anonymous is worried that her sexually charged man is going to cheat on her once he moves to the USA in May.

Anonymous still wants to pay lobola for his girlfriend even though things aren't as rosey as he'd like them to be. She moved into his house uninvited, she's abusive and controlling. Find out why anonymous called into ASK A Man today. Listen here

Anonymous is in the pits. Her marriage certificate should be torn into a thousand pieces because her husband unrepentantly cheats. Imagine your partner coming home with a "hicky" week in week out. She has also slept with a minimum of 3 men just so that she can forget about her painful marriage. She still loves him but can this marriage be saved?

Anonymous is going through the most. She married a man and then later on found out that he not only has one child that she knew about there are four more from four different women. They were married in community of property so she became liable to pay child maintenance for all these children.

Anonymous is in a relationship but he missed his ex. The ex is also in a relationship and she just gave birth to her new man's child. Anonymous is still positive that she is the one for him, she's the one that got away and he wants her back.

Anonymous moved in with his girl and her child after two months of dating. He made it a norm to give the girlfriend's mother money too. Now that he's unemployed things have changed.

Anonymous broke up with his girlfriend of 4 years 6 months ago, he can't let go. He visited a prophet and was told that the girl is into dark magic. This news hasn't convinced him to let go. He still wants her back

Anonymous has been married for 17 years. She's tired of going through her husband's phone only to find videos and nudes from sex workers. The neglect is killing her self esteem because they are no longer as intimate as she would like.

Anonymous is a second time caller. She left her previous relationship and is now blessed with a man that wants to marry her after a month of dating. He also wants them to relocate to the US. That's right, no more load shedding.

Anonymous has dated a man for 20 years. This man has now made her his side chick. After their turbulent years together she's decided that she wants out but doesn't know how to tell him

Enough is enough, anonymous has chosen to keep her baby, she didn't terminate this one as she did with the previous one. Her ex now wants to be part of her son's life but on condition that they don't tell his family. He wants this child kept a secret.

After knowing his partner for over 15 years, married for 10 of them, anonymous's partner no longer engages with him intimately. She will sometimes touch herself in bed while he's sleeping right there next to her. What should he do?

Anonymous is dating a man that has decided to choose to "Pimp His Car" first before paying the remainder of her lobala as promised to her family. She thinks he might have cold feet or has found somebody else. If you feel a man no longer wants to make an honest woman of you should you force him into marriage?

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. His girlfriend lives in a commune and is in a sexual situationship with a married man. He needs advice on how to handle the situation going forward.

Anonymous says he's polygamous the problem is that he only told his fiance a year and a half later when she fell pregnant with is child. He also has another girl on the side who he recently told that he's polygamous too. Can he make these relationships work or has he totally messed up?

Anonymous's family refuses to pay lobola for the woman that he loves, could the reason be that she was his side-chick while he was married?

There's a spiritual war in anonymous' household. Her husband could be conducting rituals on her without her permission. The final straw is when he brought a spiritual husband into the household. She wants to leave but doesn't have the financial backing

Anonymous hacked his woman's phone and found out that she's dating two other men. He still loves her because she completes him

Anonymous has been dating her man for 4 years. All was well until he started abusing drugs, is she able to assist him overcome his addicting?

Anonymous was planning on relocating with his wife overseas. The wife left first and once she settled she told him that it was over because she knew that he was cheating on hi, He's broken and wants his wife back

Anonymous is faced with a huge dilema on today's #AskAMan. She needs to choose between a man she's dating and a relationship with the father of her child.

Anonymous has been dating a married woman and he just can't let go.

Anonymous claims to be in love with his pregnant fiance but he seems doubtful ever since finding chats on her phone where she communicates with her ex's and other men

Anonymous met his wife in the 90's, she recently filed for divorce because of his financial situation. Anonymous does miss his wife and wants her back

Another man down. Anonymous feels belittled by his wife, she occasionally tells him that he's not man enough

Anonymous is dating a serial cheater. She has seen things that a partner shouldn't see on his phone while he was sleeping. He's now back with the first woman she caught him cheating with. She says she still love him despite all his shenanigans.

Anonymous has a 3 month old baby with a man she met on social media. They engaged in unprotected coitus the moment they met in person and conceived. the guy seems to be in and out of their relationship, he has paid damages to her family but that's it.

Anonymous knows that her man is seeing his ex behind her back but she simply can't let go because she's still in love with him

Today we deal with the World Cup of all relationships. Anonymous is a foreign national living in South Africa dating a man from Scotland and has a situationship with a man from Germany. She recently signed a contract to go work in the UK now she's confused on what to do going forward. Which man must she choose or should she just choose her career?

Anonymous has been dating her man for 8 months but hasn't ever been to his place. What could he possibly be hiding?

Anonymous is in a tricky situation, his woman of 3 months dumped him last night because she suspects that he's stalking her. Hear how it all went down

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 8 years. They have 2 beautiful children. The issues started recently when he impregnated another woman and wants to pay damages for that child when he hasn't paid lobola or damages for their 2 children

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean

Anonymous has been a shoulder to cry on for her male friend for over 4 years. They tried to make it work as a relationship for the last 4 months but now he's ghosting her. He keeps blue ticking her messages and doesn't return her calls. What could this possibly mean

Anonymous is struggling to move on after his divorce. His shoulder to cry on is giving him the cold shoulder. He hasn't been intimate with anybody since 2020

Anonymous just moved into his first apartment, he's excited for his new found freedom but there is a challenge, there's a lady in his complex that is endlessly offering herself. She cooks and cleans for him and wants to sleep with him but he's uncomfortable with that arrangement because he might not be able to bring other females to his place.

Anonymous has a problem of letting go of the father of her child, they still spend important holidays together, they sleep in each others omes from time to time. She has not been able to move on because she still loves him

Anonymous is heartbroken, his woman left after miscarrying their child. He has no idea where she lives now but word on the street right now is that she has moved in with another man.

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We catch up with anonymous a month after he met a lady online. they had sex on the first date and he was unsure that this could be the one. We find out how things have been going for the last month

Anonymous is heartbroken, his wife left him after getting a promotion at work. She left and took everything from their marital home. How does he move foward from this?

Anonymous found a condom wrapper on her man's bed. He says he was lonely and asked another woman to come over. When anonymous was pregnant with their child he cheated and his excuse was "I was lonely because we stopped being intimate". Can anonymous' be trusted?

Anonymous is in a situationionship with three women, he loves number 1, he impregnated number 2, and number 3 is an older woman that has two children. Is he spoilt for choice or just messy?

Anonymous feels pressured into paying lobola for his girlfriend. Does he love her or not?

Anonymous has been seeing a married man for two months. He insists that they make love in his marital home at times. She says this is the man that she prayed for.

After investigating her man over a couple of weeks, anonymous has concrete proof that her man is cheating. In fact, she called they other woman and moghel had something to say in return. Take a listen

Anonymous is dealing with a cheating husband that shows no remorse. She initially thought he had one mistress but going through his old phone she notices that there are numerous ladies that he entertains.

Anonymous is confused, her ex wants to get back into her life but he says he has a woman that he's being seeing. What does this mean for anonymous, must she consider being a side-chick?

Anonymous is thinking about reconciling with the father of her child. They broke up because he was a "mamasboy" but have things changed?

Anonymous is stuck between a rock and a hard place. Two men that she needs to choose from, she's a part-time Club Angel but nothing about her relationships is heavenly

Anonymous taken for granted for the past 6 years by her partner. She has now reached a point where she can't anymore.

Anonymous suspects that her man is in love with his female friend. He hides their relationship from her, they are in constant communication, he refuses to cut ties with her. is she insecure or overreacting?

Anonymous has a soft spot for his ex. He even turned down a reunion with another lover at Gay Pride this past weekend because there's only one man for him, "The One That Got away"

Anonymous feel his life is on a downward spiral, the worst seems to be happening to him at every corner. He's now losing the woman of his dreams.

Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

Anonymous met a man online, he lied to her about his 'disability' which is more neurological than physical. Since then she feels this is not the relationship she signed up for but a part of her still wants to help him

Anonymous regrets the lady that he's dating, the only issue is that he allowed her to move into his place and now he's too afraid to ask her to leave.

Anonymous met a lady on a social media dating site, they slept together on the first day they met now he's worried that he could be catching feelings

Anonymous found nudes on her partner's phone, these nudes were sent by his colleague not once but on numerous occasions.

Anonymous finds himself in a new relationship, the problem is that his ex is pregnant and there's a chance that the baby could be his

Anonymous is in a toxic cycle with the mother of his child. She was abusive towards him while they were together. His ex sometimes calls him for sex favours but he's now put his foot down and doesn't want to be used anymore.

Anonymous is literally fighting evil to be with her man. His ex has been performing witchcraft on her that has landed her in hospital, finding faeces on her car etc. She says she still loves him, he's the perfect man for her.

Anonymous met a man on social media two months ago, since then she has hacked his Facebook account found out that he's lied about his age and is hiding the fact that he has 3 other children, she only knew of one. She still drives a round trip of 636 km to go see him twice a month even though know she knows the truth.

Anonymous has a man that is 10 years her senior and doesn't want to grow up. She feels his future plans are non-existent or she doesn't feel like he has her in his future thoughts

Has anonymous wasted the last 3 years of her life by dating a man that she regarded as a best friend? She took his virginity now he's starting to be a bit distant. He has also postponed their proposed lobola negotiation dates.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man, he's not fulfilling her sex quota for the week, their relationship is on and off and she feels he's very distant. Last time they made love he said he was seeing shadows in the bedroom

Anonymous has been fighting with her man's sister since they met. She feels abused and disrespected by her and it seems it will never stop.

Anonymous is in a happy new relationship, the moment he posted his new love his ex came back into his life and told him that she is pregnant

Anonymous can't decide who she loves, she has two men in her life. Her current lover is loving,caring, soft and supportive. Her previous relationship was toxic, she admits that they were both toxic and abusive towards each other but she misses him and has been seeing him on the side

Anonymous is heart broken that his woman doesn't want to work on their relationship, she refuses to go for therapy and has stopped using her African concoction for an alleged curse placed on the relationship.

Anonymous is distraught that her man has impregnated another woman, she still loves him, is she ready to be an instant mom?

Anonymous doesn't believe in magic but she thinks it's normal for her man to disappear for two weeks almost every fortnight. No he wants a baby to prove his love to anonymous.

Anonymous has been struggling to keep a relationship. What could the problem be? All women seem to dump him or not come back for a second date.

Anonymous has been taken for a ride by his girlfriend of 10 years because he's illegally in South Africa. He suspects one of the children is possibly not his and can no longer deal with her infidelity.

Anonymous is second guessing herself after leaving an abusive relationship

Anonymous is in a real life Telanovela, her marriage is filled with everything from infidelity, a meddling mother in-law, witchcraft etc should she stay in this marriage?

Anonymous is in a terrible marriage, her man is heartless on another level. He will even bring up her past of a rape ordeal when they argue. is this a marriage she should remain in? Will they eventually work through their issues and live happily ever after?

Anonymous has two men in her life currently, she refers to one as her lucky charm and the other as the man she loves. Who would you choose? Take a listen

Anonymous has been through the most with her hubby, he is expecting a second child outside the marriage. His excuse is that she had children before they came together so she should find it easier to forgive.

Anonymous found suggestive texts between her man and a female friend, now the trust has been broken. He claims nothing happened but does she feel secure enough to trust him going forward?

Today we have an Ask A Man first where we reconnect with an anonymous caller that called us a month ago. We want to find out whether she has made a choice between the two men that she was seeing.

Anonymous finds redflags with every man she dates after her divorce. Has she completely healed since her marriage or has she become the big redflag?

Anonymous is 44 years young, she had been single and celibate for 3 years before meeting a man on social media. She feels that he's just swindling her for money because he is not what he claimed to be on his profile.

Anonymous is traumatised from a hijacking but this won't stop her from roaming the streets at night looking for love. The issue is that she's a single mom and her son is triggered every night that she doesn't come back home

Anonymous is broken, after agreeing sharing her man with another woman she's now fallen out of love with him, she's now a side-chick to another man while dating the father of her child.

Anonymous has been on a rollercoaster ride of a relationship for over 10 years. Since her man got employed he's been cheating and partying up a storm. Should she stay for the sake of the children?

Anonymous before proposing to his fiance' disclosed that he had been dating someone else before choosing to settle with her. She has then been emotionally distant, they only make love 3 times a year. Does she still love him or should he let go.

Anonymous is heart broken, her man cheated and impregnated a fellow churchgoer.

Anonymous feels neglected by her man that has chosen alcohol over her. When she visits his place she finds her clothes hidden in deep places. Is he back with his ex? Is there perhaps a new woman?

Anonymous is terrified of her ex, he says the abuse he has inflicted on her is nothing compared to what he's about to do if she doesn't take him back

Anonymous shares a child with his ex, the ex has informed him that she's given away their child to her aunt. Is this legally right?

Anonymous is in a toxic relationship but she can't leave because her man is "the best plumber" that she has encountered

Anonymous cheated on his girlfriend and made a baby while she worked out of town for two years. She's now back in town and wants to try make the relationship work but she says he must get rid of the child.

Anonymous is in a perfect relationship with the woman of his dreams. The problem is in the bedroom, she feels discomfort when they engage sexually, what could this be?

Anonymous has a bedroom issue, her man hasn't been able to make her reach climax in over 5 years. When her man is at work she's able to handle the situation herself

Anonymous feels that her toxic relationship has changed her into becoming a woman she doesn't want to be. Everytime she has problems in her relation she has another man that becomes her shoulder to cry on.

What do you do when you have 3 men to choose from in South Africa but your real true love lives in Germany? Take a listen to the decision that anonymous needs to make

Anonymous is divorced, the issue is he's still living with his ex wife until the sale of their marital home is finalised. He doesn't agree with her daily routine of talking to other men on the phone and leaving the house as she pleases

Anonymous is dating two married men, she's confused on which one to choose to settle down with

Anonymous has only dated older men in her entire life, she in her mid thirties now dating a man in his late sixties, this guy has now blocked her but she's still head over heels about him

Anonymous has separated from her estranged hubby, he left with her phone a couple of months ago after impersonating her via text to her ex man.

Anonza is tired of dating pastors because all they do is use her and discard of her

Anonza is tired of dating pastors because all they do is use her and discard of her

Has anonymous wasted 7 years of her life entertaining a man that could still be married to his wife? Take a listen

Anonymous is jealous that his ex is in a new relationship. The ex did come to his home and try give him sexual healing when he suffered from the flu recently, should he take this as a positive sign?

Anonymous was dumped by her varsity man when she fell pregnant. She then reconnected with her high school sweetheart, he promised to love her and raise the child like it was his own. A couple of years have gone by now her varsity man is back in the picture, he wants her sexually.

Anonymous is in love with two women. He's been dating the one over 20 years and the other just over 4 years. He suspects the second lady is cheating on him but she's the one that assists him financially when things aren't great for him. He loves them both. fFnd out what advice he seeks from the team today. Take a listen

Anonymous was married to a pastor, their marriage broke down after he impregnated someone from their church. She has since dated two other men during the period of the divorce being finalised but the relationships have both been turbulent.

Anonymous is tired of taking care of her married boyfriend financially, all was rosy until he lost his job. Should this be her burden to carry?

Anonymous is dating a foreign national. She's afraid to introduce him to her family because of fear of what they might say.

After a couple of traumatic relationships, anonymous is find it hard to regain her zest, she's struggling to find herself.

Anonymous is sexually frustrated. He's been patient with his wife for over 6 years but her libidi refuses to play ball. Is anonymous considering outsourcing sex from elsewhere?

Anonymous is in a love triangle, she loves her side guy but is too attached to babydaddy's family and her kids. Her man is emotionally abusive which is why she made a decision to have a guy on the side in the first place. How can she get herself out of this tight spot?

Anonymous is frustrated by his ex, unfortunately they share a child. She's not driven in life and has started using the child as a bargaining tool

Anonymous was happily married until her husband lost his job. She's now started dating her ex

Anonymous is pregnant, her man has been distant since their wedding. He parties days on end, doesn't contribute financially doesn't help around the house. Did anonymous rush too fast into marrying him?

Anonymous has a "babydaddy" that refuses to take care of the child financially and doesn't want to physically be in the child's life either. He has provided the courts with fraudulent papers so that he doesn't have to pay maintenance but she's aware that his business is making loads of money

Anonymous wants a seconds wife, he's messed things up with the first one but since his girlfriend is now pregnant things have to find a way to fix themselves

Anonymous isn't allowed to discipline his step child physically although his woman can. This has created a rift between the two

Anonymous has cheated on his woman numerous times, he has declared that he'll never cheat again because they now live in the same province

Anonymous is sleeping with a married woman, she has threatened to use "muti" on him if he dumps her. How does he get away from this toxic situation?

Anonymous is mad at her man for proposing marriage to her. She's been in two failed marriages and now her bae wants them to get married.

Anonymous is confused. Does she love the father of her child or her boyfriend of 11 months?

Anonymous is a man that isn't getting sex in his marriage. He's now thinking about cheating on his wife of 7 years

Anonymous was dumped 5 years ago by her husband because she couldn't bare children. The man had two children with another woman and now he's back to disturb anonymous's life. He wants her back

Anonymous is broken after finding nudes on her husbands phone. He's been distant since his business has started blossoming. She feels neglected

Anonymous has four children with her husband. She left their marital home after he wouldn't stop his philandering ways. The issue now is that he refuses to take care of their four children financially he also refuses to have a relationship with the children

Anonymous has future plans with his woman but she's in too much of a rush for marriage that she doesn't want to fix the little things that could lead to bigger cracks in future.

Anonymous has been married for 16 years, there's absolutely no intimacy in her marriage, she has caught her man chatting to other women on social media on numerous occasions. He says he's just flirting and nothing more.

Anonymous left her child with her mom months ago to pursue a relationship with her man. She started a business with her man too but her investments have since not matured. She works for him for free and he's started abusing her emotionally.

Anonymous is at an all time low. He has evidence that the woman he's being seeing for 6 months has been in a relationship for years. He's in love with her and can't let go, is he man enough to be the side guy?

Anonymous feels trapped in her marriage. She's known him for 3 years, they've been married for 3 years.

Anonymous is heartbroken because her man is about to make a life changing decision today. He is about to let her know if he's keeping her as a girlfriend or choosing the woman he's being seeing on the side for 6 months.

Anonymous is in love with two men, does she stick to her man of 8 years or try a new relationship with a high school sweetheart who she has been sleeping with for the last 3 months?

Detective Anonymous has all the proof she needs to get out of her relationship but she still loves her man. She has found messages from various women on his phone, She has found texts from his friends advising him to string her along until he finds the right woman but anonymous has chosen to stay.

Anonymous feels neglected by his woman, could she be seeking time alone after having miscarried two of their babies? There's a twist to the story, take a listen

Anonymous has a serious dilemma, her man needs a kidney and she could be a possible donor but she seems reluctant to literally give him the gift of life.

Anonymous feels conned, she had no idea that the man she has a baby with is married. Our special Father's Day guests Jerry Mofokeng And Sipho Mbele assist the team with advice.

Anonymous was allowed to take on a second wife but now wife number one has made a you turn on her decision. What could the reason be? Take a listen

Anonymous is conflicted. She's known her man for 17 years, married for 14 years and they have 3 children. She hasn't been happy in this marriage for quite some time but her husband is asking her to stay in the toxic marriage for the sake of the children.

Anonymous broke up with her man of two years via text. She feels guilty having broken up with him in that manner. What must happen now? Take a listen

Anonymous is struggling, her man is short changing her in the bedroom, he has lost confidence in the bedroom and can no longer satisfy her.

anonymous's relationship is on the rocks after she followed her calling. He man now finds her repulsive.

Anonymous is dating a "loanshark", some of his clients are female and this doesn't sit well with anonymous. He has loaned money to his ex as well at some point. Does this mean that he's cheating?

Anonymous is slowly falling for her brother in-law

Anonymous is in a relationship with a woman that has two children. Since he put a ring on it she's stopped being intimate with him. Should be stay or leave the relationship.

Anonymous refuses to let go of her cheating partner, she says this is the man she prayed for

Anonymous recently found out that her man has been seeing his ex for over four years. Do you want to know what red flags to look out for when you meet a new man? Listen to the team's first ever Ask A Man game show called "He Has A Partner"

Anonymous doesn't want her children to grow up without a father because she did. She doesn't want her children to experience the void she experienced when she was a child. Does this mean she needs to stay in this toxic mess with the father of her children?

Anonymous has nobody to turn to, her man is abusive towards her and her child, there is no love at home, no support, just neglect.

Anonymous is struggling to have a child with her lying cheating unsupportive husband.

Anonymous has stepped into her cousins shoes and home after her cousin passed on. Her family is totally against this but her and her cousin's husband have grown really fond of each other

Anonymous says the her marriage is on the rocks. She married a man whom she had a long distance relationship with at the time, it seems like he's never been the marriage type. Is there a way out of this mess?

Anonymous is caught up in a love triangle, she's in love with a man and a woman. She's willing to explore all avenues but are her partners game?

Anonymous sees his children children once a year, now his fiance' has threatened that he'll never see them again until he fulfills his promise of paying lobola for her

Anonymous recently found out that two of his four children are not his, they are fathered by two different men. These are just two reasons that anonymous wants his best friend to compensate him for sleeping with his wife.

Is your man stingy? If you answer is yes, we think you have something in common with today's anonymous. Take a listen

Anonymous is a single mom with a 4 year old daughter, she's afraid that once she starts dating her daughter will be exposed to different men. How does she juggle living her life with being a great mother?

Anonymous has been dating a semi-pro soccer player for 3 years, she is fed up with his inconsistent behavior. Friends have advised her to hang in there but how long do you stay in a relationship if you don't feel loved and respected?

Anonymous has been sending nudes to a married man for over two years, the married man wants to take care of all her financial needs in return for her to be exclusive only to him

Anonymous is heart broken, how does she explain to her children why their father is an absent father? Why their father doesn't love them?

Anonymous has two kids with his woman, when she was 8 months pregnant with the second child she blocked him and he hasn't spoken to her since. He suspects the second child might not be his.

Anonymous has an 18 year old younger sister, she's just been impregnated by a married man. The married man would like this secret kept from his wife and family.

Anonymous is pregnant yet again from a man she's no longer in love with.

Anonymous is tired of being the breadwinner in her household. She feels that her man is lazy and not driven, he's taken advantage of the fact that she's been the one bringing home the bacon for the last 6 years.

Anonymous feels that she's too clingy in her relationship, could the reason be that the father of her child cheated on her while they were together? Does she have ''daddy issues?" the team will try get to the source of the issue. Take a listen

Anonymous feels that his woman doesn't love him enough, he keeps pouring into her cup so much that he now feels empty inside

Anonymous suspects that her unemployed man is using her for her money. Does this guy love her?

Anonymous is struggling with her blended family, her son doesn't seem to get along with her man

Anonymous has no issues today, she's chosen to date a married man so she knows where he is all the time. if he's not with her, he's at home with his wife

Anonymous (33yrs) has been dating his girlfriend (44yrs) for some time, his dilema is that he has just impregnated his gilrfriend's daughter (23yrs)

Anonymous has just been informed by the mother of his 3yr old daughter that he is not the father

Anonza doesn't want to be in a polygamous relationship but her man has other ideas.

Anonymous has a fiance at home but is having an affair at work.

Anonymous is broken that her man has impregnated another woman

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship, his woman is now pregnant but he doesn't believe that it his child. Their agreement after they met on Facebook was, "No Children"

Anonymous wants to know why men take so long to commit. Why are they afraid of women that know what they want

Anonymous is livid after finding out that her husband has been initiating sexual intercourse with their children

Anonymous no longer loves the father of her child, she feels guilty leaving him now because he's unemployed

Anonymous has been having an affair with her father in-law, her first two children are the father in-law's, the husband doesn't know

Anonymous is stuck in a seriously tricky situation, he gave up rights to be in his child's life when he was younger but now that the child he shares with his wife has passed on he wants to relook his chances of the child he gave away 14 years ago.

Anonymous has a baby with a married man, she feels that he doesn't care for her the way that he should, it's not enough that he only takes good care of the child

At times all isn't what it may seem, anonymous claims that her man impregnated his side chick but the side chick refuses to give paternity results. There's a twist in the story, listen to this

Anonymous is dating a 49yr old woman, and he's in his early 30's, there are relationship challenges as far as his relationship with her children is concerned. Dingaan Khumalo is our celebrity guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her man for 20 years, he hasn't taken a day off cheating. Her kids are encouraging her to leave but she isn't brave enough. @mondlimakhoba is our celebrity guest today.

Anonymous gets absolutely no help from her man at home,she cooks,she cleans, she takes care of the baby she does the washing 24/7/365. All she wants is just a little assistance in the household, her man is not willing to lift a finger. @ttmbha is our celebrity guest today

Anonymous met a man in Mpumalanga last month, she's now fallen heads over heels for this man because he's taken her on a trip to Polokwane. The challenge is, this man has a woman. @MphoPopps is our celebrity guest today

Anonymous impregnated his girlfriend, his wife isn't too happy about it. What bothers anonymous is that his wife reminds him about his so-called "mistake" daily. @Smegaforever is our studio guest

The team talks to a young man who went against his family wishes after his father's death and slept with his girlfriend while he was supposed to be mourning. @BrianTemba is our special guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her man over 20 years, he has been unfaithful for a greater part of those years. Anonymous says she's tired, does she stay or finally let go of this situation

Anonymous needs to make a decision, guy number 1 or guy number 2. She's 35 years old and needs to settle with one of the two, @andilencube is our celebrity guest that will help the team assist anonymous in making the right decision.

Anonymous has been intimate with her colleague, this is because her man has denied her intimacy at home. Is this a good reason to cheat? @speedythegift is our celebrity guest in studio today

Anonymous has been with her cheating husband for years, he has had multiple affairs, some have gone on for years with the same woman. Anonymous would like to know whether to stay in this marriage or not. @Howza_sa is our special guest today

Anonymous is hurt because of broken promises and lack of intimacy from her man. @HarrisonCrump is our special guest on today's segment, listen to the gems that he shares with anonymous.

Anonymous wants to know what the possible reasons for her man of four years not wanting wanting to commit to her. They still use condoms and he still hasn't introduced her to his family. @trevorgumbi is our special guest in studio today

Anonymous has babymama drama, girlfriend drama and new woman in the picture drama, basically, it's a mess. @Brenden_Praise is our special guest in studio today to assist the team in giving anonymous guidance

Anonymous is experiencing nice life problems, she is weighing options of which man to choose between the two that are in her life right now. Our guest @lindayende gives her firm advice

Anonymous wants to leave her husband just after a couple of years of marriage. Will her religion allow her to?

Anonymous has marital problems were his partner has issues with her mother in law.

Anonymous feels that her man has started withdrawing from their relationship after they engaged in coitus for the first time. Today the team in joined by @lupingcayisa who shares his views on this matter

Anonymous wants to know whether or not she should take back the father of her two children, they had a rocky past and he's now back to try and rekindle their fading flame

Anonymous is tired of cheating on his wife, he hates the fact that every town that he works in he has a different woman. He admits that his heart is where his wife and kids are

Anonymous feels neglected by her partner of 9 months, they only engage in coitus once a month at a B&B. Is this the man for her?

Anonymous wishes to be in a stable relationship that will lead to marriage one day. Her man is an unstable, abusive and a liar but she loves him, is this the relationship that she should remain in?

Anonymous' man has no stable income but he keeps forcing her to have a child

Anonymous regrets keeping quiet about her abusive fiancé. She now wants to open a case as the guy was also not just emotionally abusing her but physically abusing her too.

Anonymous saw her man of 3 years getting married on television. She now wants to be upgraded to second wife. Will wife number 1 allow this?

Anonymous' 70yr old boyfriend refuses to make her his 3rd wife. She has been a side chick for over 11 years and she's now worried about inheritance when he dies.

Anonymous feels that since all men cheat, her cheating man deserves a second chance.

Anonymous is in a perfect relationship but she's struggling to get her man to show her more affection and attention to her.

Barely two days after Valentines' Day, anonymous is tired of being the side chick, she wants to graduate to being the one and only woman in her man's life. She would like him to change for her and become a one woman man

Anonymous' wife is doing the most in these streets. She has apologised on cheating on anonymous but there has been no change in behaviour. The families keep pleading with anonymous to hang in there, everything will be okay. Should he stay?

Anonymous is sleeping with her late husband's twin brother. She thinks she's falling in love with him but the challenge is that he's married, the twin brother wants to make her a second wife, is this a good idea? Take a listen >

Anonymous feels financially abused by his woman that earns more than him

Anonymous wants to discuss why families feel entitled to choose partners for their sons. What's with the mother-in-Law drama?

Anonymous seems to have a higher sex drive than his woman lately, he wonders what the problem could be

Anonymous has noticed a couple of "redflags" in her relationship, she would like to know whether she's paranoid or not in feeling this way. Take a listen >>>>>

Anonymous wants to go back to his wife but doesn't know how to break it down to his girlfriend.

Anonymous is faced with a couple of challenges in her relationship, besides her man being an alcoholic, he has ex's constantly popping out the woodworks. She doesn't know whether to stay or leave because he's such a great guy.

Anonymous loves her man, he's everything that she ever wished for and more. The challenge is that he refuses to perform oral sex on her, could this be this is a deal-breaker?

Anonymous is finding it rather difficult being step-father to his woman's 8year old daughter.

Anonymous is in an emotional mess, his woman has left him on two occasions and he can't handle the roller coaster ride, he now feels suicidal.

Anonymous' man cooks, cleans and takes great care of her two kids. The only challenge she faces is that he's unemployed and doesn't seem like he wants a job any time soon. Take a listen

Anonymous has been seeing a man (mostly at a b&b) this man now wants to have a baby with her. She's confused whether this man really wants to make her his wife or not

Anonymous' man has tried blaming her for giving him an STi after his December away with his family. Is she wrong by blocking him and asking him to stay out of her life?

Anonymous' babydaddy has gone awol since the baby arrived. What can anonymous do to make sure that he plays his part as the father of the child

Anonymous is being ghosted by her man of 10 months, he says he has personal issues to deal with and hasn't been in contact with her for the last two months. Could she be the toxic partner that he's trying to avoid or is he just a coward not to tell her its over

Anonymous has an abusive man, she pressed charges against him the last time he abused her physically, the court date is close and now anonymous isn't sure that she would like to proceed with the charges.

Anonymous is raising four children on her own because her husband has decided to build a new home and move in with another woman. She is willing to have him take his mistress as a second wife only if she's introduced to the families and made official. She loves him and doesn't want to lose him

Anonymous is about to marry a woman he doesn't trust. Would you go ahead with a wedding if you suspected your partner for sleeping with a neighbour? He has gone through the lengths of asking the land lord if he can trust one of his neighbours around his fiancé

Anonymous feels that she can no loner stay in her marriage. It has been toxic from day one but since her step-child has started living with them it's gotten worse.

Anonymous is a gay man that has been in an abusive relationship for 9 years

The team is back to taking live calls in studio today. Anonymous hasn't been mentally okay ever since she caught her man having numerous affairs over the years. Her man has recently suggested that they have a baby because they are getting older, is this the right move?

It's 2022 and anonymous is tired of being a side chick, will this be the year that she gets a promoted to be the main woman in her situationship or not?

Anonymous VS the clingy wife

Anonymous is facing troubled waters, the mother of his children left him and the kids for another man, anonymous moved on and found a woman that loves him and his kids. anonymous's estranged wife now wants to be back in the picture.

Anonymous was dumped by her man because he wanted to pursue another woman, the grass wasn't greener on the other side now he's back. What would you do if you were in her situation?

Anonymous wants to play Russian Roulette with her life, she is aware that her cop hubby is cheating on her and she wants to start doing the same.

Anonymous wishes that her husband communicate better about his child that he has outside of their relationship. Does she have valid concerns or does she not like the child?

Anonymous is a young man in his late twenties, he is now concerned that his woman who is in her mid-forties wants to get married

Anonza makes more money than her man, with signs that lobola could be heading her way, she's starting to realise that this man has 3 children and that they could become a bigger financial burden on her than him

Why do some women not allow the kids to visit their fathers when their are no longer together or married. We discuss evil "babymammaz" in studio today.

Anonymous is dating a much younger man, she's afraid that his family will not accept her as the woman that he has chosen

After admitting to be a cheater, anonymous feels suffocated in his relationship because his woman hasn't entirely healed from it. He says she's insecure and follows him everywhere he goes. He isn't allowed to go see his family for Christmas because she doesn't trust he is going where he says he's going

Anonymous can't stop loving her boyfriend that has gone back to his woman and child

Bongeka from Cape Town wants the team to discuss financial disclosure in relationships

Zinhle from Cape Town wants the team to discuss Vat n Sit especially where blended families are concerned

Today we kick off our Festive Season #AskAMan with voicenotes to 0608061685. The team discusses relationship related questions sent via voicenote.

Anonymous has been in a toxic relationship for 10years, she shares two children with her partner, the children have had a front row seat to the abuse at times. Anonymous says something keeps pulling her back into this relationship no matter haw many times she leaves him

Anonymous is dating a man who doesn't want to commit to her. He just wants them to have fun, she wants more than just fun

Anonymous has been on a roller coaster ride with the father of her child. She is determined to work on this failing relationship, she wants to "fix" him

Anonymous fears for her life after her live-in boyfriend assaulted her in from of her children.

Anonymous has been unhappily married for 6 years. She recently went through her man's phone and found confirmation that he has someone else on the side. Is she strong enough to leave?

Anonza is a lesbian in her mid 30's, she's been with her partner for over 4 years but still hasn't met her family.

Anonymous wants to mend things with her husband who shuts down whenever they have to deal with serious issues in their marriage. She admits to have been verbally abuse towards him at times.

Anonza wants to know whether or not he can make his marriage work. He states that he is a reformed cheater and misses his wife and family. Can they give it one last shot?

Anonymous is afraid for his life after his step son threatened to kill the whole family

Anonymous married a man after 3weeks of dating,6 months into the relationship she realised that she made a big blunder. Now living under his dictatorship for over 8years she's decided to call it quits, will she have the courage to leave him?

Anonymous is in a 1 year relationship with her partner and is 3 months pregnant. The partners younger brother accused her of bewitching his brother and when she confronted her partner about his brothers behaviour he refuses to address it.

Anonymous has been crying a fistful of tears since day break because her man has changed behaviour since getting a new job.

Anonymous is broken that her man impregnated his side chick for the second time. Her family keeps telling her to hang in there and be strong for the sake of her marriage.

Anonymous feels betrayed after his woman informed him that she has been impregnated by amadlozi, yes the underground gang, her ancestors. How does he bounce back from this?

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 3 months, she has started being uncomfortable with his baby mama's constant calls to him. Other ex's have also started to come out the woodwork, they will wait for him at security outside his residence in the morning before work. Is this the relationship for anonymous, should she be patient with him?

Anonymous is unhappy in her 7year relationship, she's recently found some kind of comfort in a platonic friendship with a male friend. Could the grass be greener on the other side?

Anonymous has been dating a man that has been nothing but illusive for the past month. She suspects that he has rekindled the flame with his ex

Today's partnership with @atv_sabc2 had @dineoranaka and @naked_dj chatting to relationship expert and coach Linda Yende about the importance of romance in a relationship.

Anonymous feels guilty that he took advantage of his female friend when she was going through a breakup. She wanted a shoulder to cry on and he gave her a little something more than that. Should he be hard of himself for his actions?

Anonymous is in the process of paying amalobolo for his bridge to be. Her true "bossy" colours are starting to show. She wants everything done her way

Anonymous is keeping a secret from his woman. he's not happy in the relationship, he wants out, he's wanted out for quite some time.

Anonymous hasn't seen his woman since July, she says she's too busy with her studies so anonymous is confused whether they are still in a relationship or not?

Anonymous would like to know whether or not she should take the father of her child to maintenance court. He has a senior position where they work. He seems to have forgotten his financial obligations to their situationship.

Anonymous is a mother of two. Her abusive man is relentless, it never stops, she can't find peace within the relationship, he's jealous, never allows her to go to work at times because of his insecurities, she can't go out with her friends without being asked a thousand questions upon her return home, she gets beaten at times too. He has promised to kill her if she attempts to leave. Anonymous is hoping that he will change

Our partnership with @atv_sabc2 takes us on a financial journey on today's instalment of Ask A Man. Anonymous is tired of taking care of her partners 25year old children financially.

Anonymous has been through the most, his woman has been constantly speaking to the father of her children day in day out. He has been taking care of 2 children that are not his. Can she be trusted that the baby she has just given birth to belongs to anonza?

Anonza has been dribbled by a married man for the last couple of years. How does she move on from the hurt?

Anonymous has been cheating on his wife for years, even after being caught he kept cheating with other women. Him and his wife have been living separatley for almost a year, now he wants her back. He says he's a changed man

Anonymous is afraid of losing her man. They have been dating for 3years, he paid lobola for her recently, now that he wants a baby she's afraid of disclosing her HIV status to him

Anonza is part of a blended family, her step daughter told her that she doesn't love her. After reporting this to her husband it seems like it has fallen on deaf ears because hubby hasn't addressed the issue. Do you have any step child drama?

Thungisani Siyashadhisa Namhlanje !!!! Anonymous is about to get married but there are a couple of financial agreements him and his finance need to iron out.

Anonymous is has had it up to here with her husband's ex wife, she's a bitter ex that has started dating other men in his family. She can no longer stomach seeing her at family gatherings

Anonymous has been seeing a man for four years, once a month for four years. She was starting to get the idea that she was a just mere snack for her man so she has called the relationship off. In the midst of her despair during these four years her male friend raped and infected her with HIV.

Anonymous today is a slithery character, his wife found messages on his phone where he was chatting about indulging on his colleagues "birthday cake". She has been insecure ever since. Do you guys think he's cheating or not? Take a listen

Anonymous has a huge confession to make today. He Has Never Loved His Wife. Are you also in a loveless relationship? Take a listen to today's explosive segment of #AskAMan

Anonymous is heartbroken after finding out that the love of his life is sleeping with his colleague, her future plans are now with the colleague so anonymous not only wants to dissolve their relationship but the business they started together too

Nothing in anonymous's love life seems to be going right, this is the second time calling into the show and it seems that the problem persists. This time around anonymous has confirmed to the team that the challenges could be because she is transgender.

Anonymous would like to know whether it is okay or not to date her late best friends man. They met at the friend's funeral and have been chatting since, it seems they are both falling for each other.

Anonymous met a man on a dating app, all was going well until she slept with him

Anonymous has been going through phones and digging through dustbins all to get evidence whether her man is cheating or not. She has found panty liners and empty alcohol bottles of brands she doesn't drink. Is this enough evidence for her to leave? No, she says she's in love with him.

Anonymous found her clothes in black bags and her furniture and husband gone as she returned home one day. She's now homeless, unemployed and has their child to look after. She has no idea where her husband is.

Anonymous is experiencing problems with her current boyfriend. The boyfriend was confronted by her ex husband at the mall because he was driving her car. This is when all the problems started

Anonymous is hurt that her mom has chosen to Van 'n Sit with a new man instead of completing the family building project.

Today's segment of Ask A Man yifilm straight! Anonza's man was keeping all his eight children a secret. She's scared of divorcing this man because she's married to him in community of property. He's definitely the communities property.

Anonymous is in an emotional mess. Her husband has taken her through hell and back. Is she ready to divorce?

Anonymous is a young Zulu woman, she started crushing on her cousin years ago. He courted her and since then they have started engaging in coitus. She's confused because he doesn't ever introduce her as his lover in public spaces. Is she being taken for an incestual ride?

In today's segment of Ask A Man we have Dr Tebogo Deo, Gynaecologist & Obstetrician help anonymous deal with her infertility issues. The team then digs deeper and finds that her man has impregnated another woman.

Anonymous feels that her mother-in-law loves the child her husband had out of wedlock more than the children her and her husband have.

Anonymous's ex boyfriend needs to needs a place to stay in Gauteng, he's decided that her place would be ideal. Should she let him back in?

Anonymous feels that she married when she was too young, she's at a point in her life where she wants to explore. Is exploring worth risking losing her marriage?

Anonza misses the man that she broke up with months ago, what about this man does she really miss? @Naked_dj and @Mat_Elle assist anonymous with tips to getting her groove back.

Anonymous and his wife have consulted 3 tradiontional healers and they all say that his family is bewitching her. She has since withdrawn from the relationship leaving anonymous broken

Anonza believes that her boyfriend of 14years is practicing witchcraft on her. She says that if she was in the right frame of mind she would have left him ages ago but the traditional concoctions are clearly keeping her in the relationship, niyavuma?

Anonza called in today to inquire about a legal matter.

Almost 3 years ago anonymous's partner went through his phone and found some messages where he was flirting with two women. How long will it take for his partner to heal and forgive him?

Anonymous lost his wife in 2008, years later he remarried and that marriage has turned out to be the most toxic period of his entire life. Kubi Bangani

Anonymous called in to say after years of cheating he doesn't want to lose his woman, little did he know that his woman was listening and also has something to say.

Anonymous's man has been promising her sex for 4 months but dololo !!!!

Anonymous's wife of 8yrs has disappeared with the furniture. This was after he asked her to communicate better especially about her whereabouts at times.

Anonymous received a text from his woman, after a 7yr relationship, it's over just like that. He's in shock

Anonymous needs reassurance that she was right in walking away from a toxic situationship

Anonymous wants to hear the words "I LOVE YOU" from her man.

Anonymous says her hubby introduced a woman into their lives, he called her his long lost sister but she turned out to be his mistress. What does one do in this situation?

If you believe in the world of the supernatural, today's Ask A Man is going to satisfy you

Anonymous feels that her man doesn't appreciated her for her contribution into their relationship

Anonymous doesn't know why her man of 11yrs won't marry her. Two kids later he still lives with his mother and won't move in with her

Anonza's man impregnated a woman outside their relationship, he now wants anonymous to hang in there while he decides what do do about both relationships.

Anonymous has been living with her man for the last five years, he promised marriage from day one but that plan doesn't seem to be on top of the list anymore. Should she continue playing house with him?

Anonymous is over 50yrs old, she feels that she's being dribbled by her bae who is well over 60yrs old

Anonymous gave away the cookie because the hubby hasn't been doing the deed with her regularly, he hasn't touched her since February 2020

Anonymous has hectic trust issues with his woman, she has shown so many signs that she no longer wants him.

Anonza seems like she is in love with her male bestie, is this love or is there more to this?

Anonymous cheated on his wife years ago, no matter how remourseful he is no matter how much he wants to fix things, it seems like things will never be the same

Anonymous feels disrespected by his woman, they have been together for over six years. His wish was that things would change but they are getting worse

Anonymous feels disrespected by his woman. They have been together for 6 years, he thought things would get better but they are getting worse

Anonza is going through the most. The marriage to the man of her dreams has been on hold for over three years but in those three years she's had to accept a child that have popped up from the woodwork, an abusive mom in-law to be and no intimacy in the relationship

Anonymous has lacked intimacy in her relationship since the day they got married. He hasn't touched her in over a year, she will sometimes wake up to the bed shaking at night and find him masturbating

Anonymous has been through the most with her husband, take a listen to this spine chilling episode of ask a man

Anonymous's relationship has been troubled since her man found condoms at her place.

Anonza isn't sure which man to go for, the father of her child or her varsity sweetheart

Anonymous feels financially abused by his wife, she makes more money than him and keeps reminding him that he makes way less than her

Anonymous is tired of her lying, cheating husband

Anonymous is in love with a person he hasn't been in contact with for years. He lost his sight when the mother of his then girlfriend beat him up back in 2013, he had been warned by her to keep away but he didn't.

Anonymous is going through depression and his life is filled with anxiety, with all the stress that life brings he feels that he might have to let go of his living woman because he can't financially support her

Anonymous is no longer in love with her husband but she's afraid to move on

Anonymous loves his woman, he feels that she is the love of his life, maybe he should have thought about this when he was cheating on her not now because he's about to lose her

Anonymous cheated with his girlfriend's bestie and disclosed some sensitive info about her to the bestie. He's now being blackmailed by the friend, she's given him an ultimatum, either he tells his girlfriend or she will

Anonymous, a rape survivor is now dating a married man that is pressurising her to have children. is she ready for this relationship?

Anonymous feels that her partner doesn't love her child, the final nail in the coffin is when he dished ice cream for himself and refused to dish for the daughter

The team chats about the importance of great sex in a relationship

Anonza'z man is never there to deal with the difficult marital issues, he disappears at times and shows up when he feels like it

Anonymous has had as turbulent relationship since his woman went through his phone and found a conversation between him and a woman he once loved

Anonymous is afraid to leave her marriage of 14years even after her man has abused her physically and emotionally

Anonymous thinks that her ex man is giving her mixed signals about his intensions with her or is she reading too much into the situation

Anonymous was infected with HIV by an ex, after being warned by the exes, ex

Our lady caller today has been dating a man for four months, two months ago he disclosed that he's polygamous, has two wives and four kids and that the ancestors have advised him to marry four

Anonymous loves her man, he's also such an incredible partner but his only fault is that he cheats.

Anonymous keeps getting contacted by his ex's, they are making his life a misery. How can he keep them at bay?

Anonymous is a brother that is holding on to a relationship. She seems to have lost interest in him but he can't let go

Anonymous is tired of sleeping around, she's ready to settle down, can she be honest with all the men that she's sleeping with?

Anonymous doesn't feel loved, respected or appreciated in her relationship. Will this vat 'n sit workout?

Anonymous and her man have not forgiven each other for their infidelity but they are still in the relationship trying to work on it. She's afraid that if she leaves she'll leave with nothing because they signed a pre-nuptual agreement

Anonymous swore at her woman's father by mistake, she diverted her calls to his phone without telling him, when a man called her phone a misunderstanding ensued. should he apologise to her father?

Anonymous is hurt because her man is forcing them to have a child and she feels that she isn't ready

Anonymous would like to know whether or not she was harsh in serving her husband with divorce papers

Anonymous is a married woman that got caught seeking closure from a man her husband had asked her to stop seeing on the side. He tracked her car and found them at a hotel

Anonymous has an obsessive partner, they started dating while he was in a relationship, he still is and that their agreement. Her man has started being too possesive over her, remotely so at times and what to instal cameras in her house because he can't trust her male friends

The team is back with another instalment of Ask A Man, what is anonymous battling with today?

Anonymous can't leave her abusive man because she is in love with him

Anonymous is almost fed-up with her man that won't understand her love language, but does she understand his?

Anonymous has caught her man cheating more than once. But she says she still loves and respects him

10 years together 3 years married but her husband is not affectionate. She wants to know if this is normal?

Anon is from Dbn married for 8 years, husband whostays in pta, she caught himcheating a woman 2018 in a bed now she's not sure what to do, she ISstuck

Anonymous and her partner are divorcees that seem to be rushing quickly towards another breakup

Anonymous has been cheating on her man because her man has been cheating on her. She claims the voodoo her man performs on her is keeping her from leaving him

Anonymous is given an ultimatum by her cheating husband. He says he's considering taking his mistress as a second wife.

Today we have Ask A Man:Table Talk. The subject of conversation is whether size matters or not

Anonymous is a broken man, his love interest at work has found another man. She has blocked him and has moved on with her life but anonymous can't move on

Anonymous suspects that she is related to her latest lover to be. What should she do? Is it culturally allowed to date a person that you're related to

Anonymous really wants her ex back, the problem is that he's now married.

Anonymous thinks she's been conned into marrying a man for him to get South African citizenship

Anonymous is an unemployed 33yr old that feels he can't find love because of his financial situation.

Anonymous needs to make a decision whether to stay with her husband or not, this after he has humiliated her publicly.

Anonymous has fallen in love with another man because her "Hubby to Be" has done her wrong one too many times

Anonymous is unhappy in her marriage, should she stay for the kid's sake

Anonymous is HIV positive and wants to know if its possible to still find love

The team chats bout cheating/forgiving.

Anonymous needs to know whether she should proceed with her current relationship. Her partner seems not to respect some boundaries in regards to interaction with a female co-woker.

At times when things get really rough in our relationships we know exactly what to do, we just need someone to talk to so they can confirm the way forward. Anonymous pours her heart out to the team this morning

According to a survey on relationships, 54 per cent of respondents thought technology had a negative impact on their relationship. People are just constantly distracted by their phones. You’ve surely seen at a restaurant a couple showing much more interest to their phone than the person across from them.

Relationship experts say that couples should try putting their phones away at 5 or 6pm, and not taking them back out until just before they went to sleep.

Does your phone have a negative impact on your relationship?

Anonymous needs to know whether she's wrong or right. The man that she is dating is a single father, he lost his wife a couple of year ago. The problem is that when she visits her man, the son is there, when she makes love to her man the son is sleeping in the same room. Is this normal?

Anonymous has been in a 8year relationship with her man. He recently cheated and she's finding it hard to forgive him

Anonymous is intensely emotional, she has fallen in love with the rebound guy. He won't budge, he love his woman, anonymous was merely a snack

What would you do if you had a man that ticked 95% of the boxes? He's almost perfect but has no desire for sex, he doesn't initiate sex, sex for him is functional. Our anonymous is really to explode sexually. Can the team assist her?

Another lit instalment of Ask A Man, Anonymous is 48, his woman is 28, she has been cheating on him for the last couple of years, he has forgiven her on numerous occasions but she continues to roam the streets.

3 months ago anonymous intercepted a phone call from her man's secret lover, her man is seeing another man. How does she confront her man about his ways?

Anonymous's ex is abusive and now has started stalking her and her new man. She she report him to the law or his family? What steps can she follow to make sure she stops fearing for her life?

Anonymous is struggling to mix business with pleasure.

Anonymous is in an abusive relationship, when they married, her man had three children with three different women already. They now have three children of her own but nothing is going right in their relation

Anonymous feels that him and his babymama have unresolved issues, her family had previously interfered in their relationship. Will things change in the near future?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is heartsore that her relationship is falling apart. Her current man recently found out that she was talking to a married man at the beginning of their relationship. Her man is now withdrawing from their relationship and is struggling to trust her

Anonymous feels that she's forcing her man to marry her

Anonymous is furious that her hubby shares sensitive info with his sister about their marriage

Anonymous is being ghosted by her partner of 8years. She has only been to his place on 3 occasions in the last 8 years. She still loves him, she is seeking some sort of closure but he has recently become illusive

Anonymous is devastated that her hubby is secretive about his finances.

Anonymous has fled her relationship. She has taken her daughter and moved to safety to avoid an emotionally and physically abusive relationship. Her husband's family has pleaded with her to accept him as he is

Anonymous is merely a snack that yearns to be upgraded to main. Will he be upgraded?

ANON NEEDS HELPS WITH TRYING TO FIGURE OUT IF SHE'S THE SIDE CHICK OR NOT

Anonymous is frightened to ask her partner about his HIV status. They don't have protected sex when they engage in the act of making love. She suspects he's secretly taking ARV's

Anonymous is calling on behalf of her sister. She feels that her sister is in some sort of cult and needs to get out.

Anonymous is heart broken that his partner seems to no longer be interested in him because he's unemployed

Anonymous is jealous that her sister wife is getting a ring and a huge wedding

Anonymous is dating a man that is draining her financially. Her man's family has also started tapping into her financial resources.

Anonymous is in a lesbian relationship, he partner is a serial cheater. It seems as if she cannot let go of her ex. Her partner shares intimate information regarding their relationship with other people. She feels her partner has turned her violent that's why she has started beating her.

Anonymous is in tears as he breaks down his situation. He recently met an abused lady, whom he took in, showed a better life and fell in love with but boy oh!! boy, sh'e showing him flames.

Anonymous is disappointed that she is fighting the root of all evil alone in order for her marriage to her pastor husband to work

A "young anonymous' has trouble finding the right companion. She keeps changing then like fresh underwear. is this normal for a girl her age?

Anonymous is married to serial cheater, he has made babies outside of the relationship, he's abusive and she's lost the love and determination of staying in this relationship

Anonymous is in a bad relationship. Both her man and his mother have been keeping secrets from her. He is a serial cheater and anonymous just found out the he has impregnated a girl.

Anonymous is caught up in a love triangle and doesn't even know it. His ex keeps feeding him negative information about his current partner.

Today we deal with mental illness. Anonymous met a man 5 weeks ago via whatapp/videocalls. He lived overseas at the time, the moment he arrived in South Africa he was put in a mental health facility. She speaks to him daily when she calls the landline at the facility. Should she stay in this situashionship?

Today's Ask A Man episode cuts so deep, Anonymous lives in fear for her life because of the abusive relationship that she's in.

Anonymous has two children, she's in a relationship with a man that only shows up close to her pay day. She says his sex is ultra magnificent.

Anonymous has been a side-chick for 9years, she met his first wife nine years ago and a promise of marriage was made. Since then, nothing has changed. She has not met any of his family and she's starting to have regrets about this relationship.

Anonymous has a serial cheater as a boyfriend, she has since also started entertaining men here and there. is this a relationship worthy enough to try salvage?

Anonza feels that her in-laws are sabotaging her "marriage'. Her man paid lobola for her and finished years ago but every time they must go sign they have delaying tactics

Anonymous feels that her relationship isn't progressing. Her man has no qualifications, no job and doesn't seem to be interested in progressing in life. She recently started working and when she compares her relationship to that of her co workers, she feels she can do better

Anonymous and her man are at a crossroads. She feels the money needed to pay to lobola her man's child is a bit steep because the biological mother didn't play a big part in raising the child

Anonymous is broken, she feels alone and neglected after getting an abortion. the last time she laid eyes on her partner is when she told him about the pregnancy

Anonymous has been married for 15year, the love for hubby is no longer there but he's making it difficult for her, he refuses to agree to the divorce. He no has abused her physically on more than one occasion. He says divorce will be expensive

Anonymous has been dating a narcissist, she feels trapped in the relationship and there is nobody to mediate

Anonymous woke up to find his partner missing from the bedroom. After some minutes he found her naked in the garden performing what he suspects is some form of ritual. She is unaware of him seeing her early morning shenanigans in the garden. Should he confront her?

Anonymous feels used and taken advantage of in her relationship, she must only hand wash his clothes, pack a lunchbox when visiting him etc. What kind of love is this?

Someone feels that her lies are catching up with her. Anonymous lied about her HIV status to her partner. He came clean when they met, they recently tested together now she's scared what her excuse will be when the results come out

Anonymous has been through hell and back, his partner has cheated on him on two different occasions and fell pregnant on both those occasions, the first time she did an abortion, she's now pregnant again with a different man. Is this Love?

Anonymous just found out that she is not on her husband's will. To add injury to insult, when she came back home unannounced after work she found two slay queens in her home sitting with the husband.

In today's instalment of Ask A Man we deal with a lot of witchcraft. After seeing a traditional healer anonymous is convinced that she, her new bae and child have been bewitched by her ex

Anonymous is dating a man that is going through a divorce. Parenting in a blended family can be challenging, he is totally against her reprimanding his son. He also says that he's a Zulu man so she should humble herself at all times even when he is the one at fault

Anonymous has been through the most with her ex. He forced her into terminating a pregnancy when he went back to his ex, he smeared her name on social media when they broke up. He now has reached out to her saying his life is going badly so he'd like her to assist him in getting good energy back into his life

Anynymous feels neglected by her lover. Her man is in the entertainment industry, Under lockdown level 5 all was well but since restrictions have been lifted her man is roaming the streets like a dog without a home.

Anonymous is hurt that the man she rebounded with is now ignoring her calls, doesn't and doesn't see her as often as they did in December. was she just a snack?

Anonymous ghosted his bae during festive season now he's back to try and mend things but she's not really biting at the bait.

Anonymous stays in Gauteng and her man in Limpopo. Another long distance relationship gone sour. The guy happens to now be a serial cheater and always apologises when caught. Will the team help her to make a good decision. Listen for yourself

Anonymous' boyfriend shows every sign of cheating but he denies it. He always lies to her about it and apologises as well. Where is this going to end after speaking to the team? Listen up.

Anonymous is in a relationship where the both parties have children from different partners. His concern is that the woman he is in a relationship with doesn't take care of his son the way he take of her child.

Anonymous and her ex are busy playing cat and mouse. They have separated but seem to be finding every little reason to communicate. Should they let pride aside and say how they truly feel?

Anonymous lost her boyfriend in September, he was murdered. She has started dating again but can't get over her ex. Can she heal from this traumatic experience so soon after his death? Will her present partner move too quickly for her?

Since his wife received a call from a man in the middle of the night, anonymous can no longer trust her. the love is gone but they have a child. Should anonymous stay or leave the marriage of 6years

Anonymous is hurt that her partner of 5 years doesn't seem to be interested in helping nurture and guide her 17year old son into his journey of becoming a man.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is hurt that his wife is cheating, she doesn't want to admit to the affair

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has been with her man for 10years, the last two haven't been ayoba. is this the right relationship for her?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is hurt that her man has been cheating on her after so many years of marriage. Lerato Kganyago makes a surprise announcement about her personal life

Anonza has a crisis at home, he went through his partners phone and deleted all her ex's pics. She is livid

Anonymous is scared because he woke up with his mom spraying water on him, is it holy or not?

Anonymous feels that his ex's ex has a hold on her. When he says jump she says how high?

Anonza feels that her man goes through ups and down all the time, his emotional instability unsettles her

Anonymous is tired of her man's cheating ways

Can anonymous continue giving love when she isn't getting any back?

Anonymous wants to know when it is a good time to leave her husband, he's an addict, he's not a great husband but he's a great father

Anonymous is disappointed that her babydaddy is not as wealthy as he makes himself out to be, she has options.

Is love in the workplace ever a good idea?

Anonymous has been been lying about her occupation to her man for ages. She feels its time to tell him that she's a domestic worker

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is tired of the lies and deceit in her relationship. She can't leave just yet because she loves him

Anonymous has just realised that her hubby can't handle his first wife. the first wife has now become a burden on her

Anonymous is struggling to get her man to talk more.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has plenty of women to chose from, that's where all the confusion begins

Anonymous lives in a block of flats, she has taken it upon herself to sample some of the tenats

He's been unfaithful for over 7years, she's had enough but she still loves him

Anonymous feels that she has to baby her boyfriend. She's fed up with their relationship and misses her married ex

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous lost her baby and her man isn't supportive, he's channelled his attention to his other new born with another woman

Anonymous has been with her man for over 8years, 3 kids later her man still hasn't married her and hasn't stopped cheating

Anonymous is in a same sex relationship, her woman keeps cheating with the same woman over and over again

Anonymous' new man is moving to fast for her, its been a couple of weeks and already he's talking marriage

Anonymous is disturbed that his woman has lied about the number of men she has slept with, he doesn't want to pay lobola for a woman that isn't the virgin she claims to be. He demands a discount

Anonymous recently linked up with her high school sweetheart and now wants to call off her engagement to her husband to be

Anonymous found a set of ARV's in her partners toiletry bag

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is in a bad state, her relationship is completely broken.

Anonymous confuses the whole team. It seems that she has multiple demands from her man but she wants everything done at the same time

Anonymous has been on and off with her man for 8years, she is hurt that in their off time he dates other women

Anonymous wants to know whether his player past will affect him trusting a woman in his current relationship

Anonymous is concerned that her husband might be a bit stingy. Her and her man have only been on three dates in 10yrs

Anonymous just realised that her man is dating other men on the down-low.

Anonymous is frustrated that her man chose to buy couches instead of paying lobola for her

So many years invested in this man but he doesn't seem to want the same things anonymous wants in a relationship

Anonymous is disappointed that her second babydaddy is as inconsistent as her first. She's 24 on her second babydaddy

One of anonymous's men just proposed to her but it's the one she's not really into

Anonymous is broken, her man is willing to marry her even though she can't have children. She feels that he will leave her as her first man did

Annonymous is mad that even after consulting with her sangoma there are still problems in her relationship

Anonymous doesn't know what her man means when he says he needs space

Anonymous feels that her man abuses her financially because she's financially dependent on him. She wants to leave but she needs his money until she's financially stable

Anonymous is currently entertaining two men and this is how confusion usually begins. Should she keep her married man or pursue a relationship with her ex?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is hurt because her man has a new born with another woman. He's on constant pampers alert

Anonymous is in a financial pickle, he feels that he's losing his family

Anonymous started seeing his woman in August he's proposed to her and her family says she's no longer regularly allowed to see him until their wedding

Anonymous feels that her partner is lying to her. She has insecurity issues, does she have a valid case

Anonymous snitched to her man's mother that he's a drug user. She's now regretful because he's blaming her for his now hard life

Anonymous is dating a married man, after a fall out with him she tried to ruin his marriage, now she is full of regret

Anonymous is dating one man but is entertaining other men, she's confused who to choose.

Anonymous' side chick wants to end things cause his finances are now low.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has been promised amalobolo for over 6 years. She's worried if this ceremony will ever happen or not

Anonymous feels that her man has changed his priorities ever since hanging out with older married men

Anonymous is confused by her two men, Mr Friend's With Benefits and her new, The Alcoholic

Anonymous is concerned that every man that she dates could be after her because of her money

Anonymous is fighting for her place in her so-called relationship. Her man's ex is two weeks pregnant by her man and she seems to be eyeing a comeback into the relationship, she's even willing to be the side

Anonymous just met her man's family, the problem is that her man's father was dating her bestie at some stage, the bestie happens to be a man. Clearly the family doesn't know about his extra marital activities

Anonymous is tired of her stable relationship, she has now resorted to just entertaining a stable of men.

Anonymous has tried to make her marriage work for the sake of the children but the marriage is too toxic. Will the kids survive the divorce?

Anonymous is disrespected day in and day out in her relationship. Can she take it any longer?

Anonymous is hurt that her man's ex still comes to family gatherings. Do they like her less than they like the ex?

Anonymous feels betrayed the he has supported his woman through thick and thin and now that he is going through financial problems she has turned her back on him

Anonymous wants to find out why his current woman is mad that he has a child by his ex, his ex had the baby years ago and only now has come out to say it is his child

Anonymous feels that his woman isn't entirely honest about her relationship with the father of the child

Anonymous lied to a potential love interest, she said she's married but she isn't. She is now considering dating this man

Anonymous is struggling to find the father of her baby and now she wants to know whether to give her baby up for adoption or not

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship with his woman that works in China, they have never been intimate but have dated for over two months

Anonymous left her boyfriend for a man that promised her marriage, the marriage didn't work out now she's back with her ex boyfriend as his side chick

Anonymous says he's tired of his fertile ways in these streets. he wants to go back to the village to the love of his life

Anonymous is worried that her relationship blows hot and cold. When it's good its great but when he's not in a good way he cheats and is passive aggressive

Anonymous wants to know if her man's bitter ex will ever get over him and their relationship

Since anonymous conceived, her boyfriend has become very illusive

Anonymous is annoyed that one of her men doesn't want to get with the program

I encouraged him to have a relationship with his other child now I feel that I've lost him to the mother

Anonymous is hurt that he's desperate for a child but his woman isn't

Anonymous is quite annoyed the man she's dating doesn't wanna make an honest woman out of her too

Anonymous is broken because she's in a long distance relationship and he seems not to be able to keep his equipment in his pants

He wants her to terminate but she wants to keep the baby.

Anonymous is heartbroken because the man she is in love with hasn't seen her since she was hospitalised

Anonymous wants to dump her current man because he's not good with her kids

Anonymous feels guilty for dating his friend's ex

Anonymous got married in secret now his woman wants a divorce so that she can re-marry and not be disowned by her family

Anonymous wants to fix her marriage but he seems to have emotionally withdrawn

Anonymous is I n a situationship where her man might still be in love with his babymama

Anonymous is confused, the man she is in love with has and on and off relationship with a woman that he has paid lobola for. Should she carry on entertaining him?

She broke up with her man but told her friends and family that he has passed on. now they are rekindling the flame, should she tell them he has come back to life?

Anonymous can't stomach his partners con-artist like behaviour. He wants to pray for water and oranges and sell it to the congregation as holy water and holy oranges

Anonymous loves her cheating partner, even after 12years of his promiscuity

anonymous seems to attract unemployed men, should she pursue her love for abomahlalela? Is it wrong to support a man financially

Anonymous can't deal with her lying boyfriend

Anonymous is considering going back to her passive aggressive boyfriend

Anonymous informed her man that their relationship is perfect but he needs to start making more money

Anonymous has two men and is confused which one to settle with

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is confused, his older women are taking real great care of him financially but doesn't know which on to choose

Anonymous wants to know why her relationships are always blowing hot or cold

Anonymous doesn't know who to choose, her man or a married man that he's dating

Anonymous has a problem with her dictator man

Anonymous is sick and tired of her relationship with her boyfriend who is also father to her kids

Anonymous is hacked that her husband refuses to come clean about his bisexuality

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship with a controlling partner

Anonymous is scared that she could have slept with too many men since her break up

Anonymous wants to know whether his wife loves him or not

Anonymous feels taken for a ride because her snack doesn't live up to his promises

Anonymous and her energy levels are depleted because her relationship with her man is always on and off

Anonymous is a cheater, he has impregnated his girlfriend's sister

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous isn't happy in her relationship. Is it possible for her to move on?

Anonymous feels that her man is moving too fast

Is anonymous craving a relationship or sex?

Anonymous is juggling two relationships at once, can he handle the heat?

Anonymous is forcing to be in his ex's life even after she stated that she needs her space

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous wants to be a second wife to a man that seems to be so disorganised

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is distraught because her man is passive aggressive

Anonymous has been hurt way too many times and is scared to love again

Anonymous has fallen in love with a man who she has conned

Anonymous cheated on her man 10years ago, they were not married yet. Now that they are married will he ever learn to forgive her?

Anonymous has been spying on her man, her exercise came into fruition when she caught her man cheating with his ex

Anonymous is distraught that her relationship of 5 months is falling apart. Her man seems to be creeping with the mother of his child.

Anonymous is heartbroken because his fiancé's family is giving him problems because of his incomplete lobolo

Our brother today is madly in love with a woman that was impregnated by another man, he's raising the child as his own.

Anonymous is dating 3 men and doesn't know which one is the father of her unborn child

Anonymous seems to be confused, the emotional fatigue of juggling two men is getting to her

Anonymous feels insecure about her relationship because her man is in and out of it

Anonymous confesses her undying love for her married lover whose baby she's carrying

A man is heartbroken because the woman he saved has now turned her back on him

My man's crush is back in town and now he gives her all the attention a woman can ask for

After receiving a dozen anonymous tip-offs, anonymous is convinced that her man is cheating

Anonymous feel that he should keep pursuing his woman even though she has relocated and has said that she needs space

Anonymous is afraid to tell her man that she has herpes, the light at the end of the tunnel was that most of our listeners were unaware of an sti called herpes so this segment was educational across the board

Anonymous is still in love with her ex, he's now dating someone who lives on her street.

Anonymous started cheating on her babydaddy when he said to her that she needed to find someone that can go out for dinners and lunch with.

Anonymous keeps finding condoms at her man's house, the boxes tend to disappear then new ones reappear

Anonymous has been dating her man for sometime, she has introduced him to her kids but he refuses to introduce her to his. Why the delay?

Anonymous recently lost his job and all his women just keep getting pregnant

Anonymous is in a spot of bother, his future womans family isn't allowing her to move in with him because he hasn't finished paying lobola

Anonymous is about to meet his boyfriend's mom, she's scared because she seems to be hard to please.

Anonymous met a man in December, she's now pregnant with his baby and he has gone awol

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Anonymous is blamed by future hubby's family for not being fertile therefore they refuse to give blessing for their wedding

Anonymous is confused because her cheating boyfriend just proposed marriage to her

Anonymous feels that he might have made the biggest mistake of his life by dating an older woman

Anonymous is tired that her husband keeps blaming her for his cheating ways

Anonymous is annoyed that him and his woman are at different stages in their lives

Anonymous is distraught that when his man cheats, he takes his kids along too

Anonymous feels that his pregnant woman is too emotionally unstable lately

Anonymous' man has 9 kids, he just impregnated a 10nth lady, should she stay in this relationship?

Anonymous is distraught to find after secret dna tests that both his children are not his

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous feels that his woman is a bit too insecure, he admits that he has cheated before but she needs to get over it.

Anonymous has lost her current relationship because her married man found her sexting somebody else

Anonymous is confused that his man's ex is pregnant with his child again

Anonymous have given her boyfriend power over her family, let's see how that will end up

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is failing dismally at mixing business with pleasure

Anonymous feels that her man's lies are getting out of hand

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is dating and older man, they are now pregnant and he has decided to runaway

Anonymous is confused by her ex because she's not happy with her fiance', should she go back to the so called love of her life?

Anonymous is annoyed that she makes 6x more money than the man of her current dreams.

Anonymous is heartbroken that his mom chooses her new lover over him and his younger brother all the time

Anonymous has recurring problems with married men, first it was her man in her marriage now he new man that is a married man is giving her problems

Anonymous is in a long distance relationship. Her man moves in and out of her life as he pleases and this has left her confuses

Anonymous is finding it hard to deal with that her man's side-dish is pregnant

Anonymous is engaged, the problem is that her partners family doesn't know her but he knows her family. Is she truly his only woman?

Anonymous says his woman's family is enabling her cheating ways. he's tired of this relationship, can the team assist in getting him a new partner

Anonymous claims that he loves his woman, she continues to cheat on him...

Anonymous has a problem with her ex's fathering capabilities

Anonymous was promised to be a second wife but now the man and his first wife have been avoiding her

Anonymous has lost all home in her husband, the abuse, the cheating just won't stop. He says she is nothing without him

Anonymous is sleeping with his man's friends. What outcome can this promiscuity lead to?

Anonymous is sick and tired of her man, they have no kids together but through all the hard times he pays for her school fees. Should she stay?

Anonymous's partner is impregnating the nation but our anonymous is the best of them all. Should she believe the lies?

Anonymous partners keep dying, the community is scared that she could be cursed, will she ever date again?

Anonymous realises that her and her man have different goals

Anonymous is making more money than her man, she's starting to see financial strain, should she find a man that makes more money?

anonymous recently found out that her man is seeing his ex and other women

My married boyfriend refuses to get a divorce

Anonymous feels that all she is living for are the lying cheating evil ways of her man, but as a gas lighter he's always accusing her of being the problem

Anonymous feels that sleeping with his best friend was a huge mistake

Anonymous is still in love with a woman that has cheated on him on numerous occasions with her ex. He just can't let go

Anonymous feels that she has been played for a fool by her man from the start of their relationship. there is now a baby involved and he now wants to take her as a second wife

Anonza is just so over her current man, she feels that he was just a rebound and now she cant shake him off

Anonymous can no longer stand the heat in his relationship therefore wants to bail out after giving his woman a child

Anonymous forgave his cheating partner but this journey isn't as easy as it seems because he has now turning out to be very insecure

Anonymous is dating two men and can't make a decision on whom is the real keeper

Anonymous is stressed that her married boyfriend might be cheating

Anonymous is afraid to let his father know that the woman he is dating is 10years his senior and has 3 children from different fathers.

Anonymous raised her baby herself for the last 3 years now her babydaddy is back to play a role in the child's life. Should she let him?

Anonymous has been disrespected over and over again by her partner. Does he love her?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is in these streets presenting every girlfriend with a baby, he is now ready to settle down. Who will the lucky lady be?

Anonymous finds herself between a rock and a hard place, her partner is making her choose between him and her child

Anonymous' lover was rejected by her family, they refused his letter that he sent to ask for lobola negotiations now he says he isn't feeling their relationship anymore

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is worried that her man has too many family secrets

Anonymous has been told by her lover that she is too old for him to make her his official woman, she is only good as a side

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has been in an unfulfilling relationship with her man for the last 11 years but he has recently started begging for forgiveness.

The team delves into the dark world of side chicks

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous's best friend's husband texted her to say she looks great in lingerie, apparently this is after he looked through her besties phone

Anonymous feels that she has outgrown her partner

Anonymous suspects that her man is dating other men. All the signs are there

Her marriage is in limbo...

Anonymous is complaining about her lover who is full of broken promises

Anonymous is dating a married man, and the married man is dating a cop, the officer has promised to shoot her if she continues with the relationship

Anonymous feels that her husband has changed since they married and moved in together, he has become a stranger in the house.

Anonymous has impregnated his main and side chick at the same time. Where to from here? Who does he settle down with?

Anonymous tells us about the power of vaginal tightening powder.

Anonymous' lover has been wreckless with his love both emotionally and health-wise. Should anonymous date this health risk?

Anonymous is devastated because she fell pregnant after her man promised to pullout. Her man now says he's not ready for children and she must terminate.

Anonymous met her prisoner lover through Facebook, he intends to marry as soon as he is released, can we trust that marriage at first sight will work?

Anonymous keeps blaming her man's alcohol addiction for the emotional and physical abuse in her relationship

Anonymous is dating a prisoner and a prison warder at the same time. Who is the real criminal here?

Our anonymous today has a dilemma, the man sleeping with his wife has asked him out for drinks, should he go?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is a young man that has had his heart broken by a married man

Anonymous has a man raising her child, the problem is that he is unaware that he isn't the biological father

Her boyfriend cheated with her sister and now they are in a relationship, she is heartbroken but what can she do about it

Anonymous still believes in love where the love was lost

Anonymous doesn't want to go back to her past relationship because the man was abusive but the sex was so good

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is dying inside because his relationship is in tatters, this is caused by a lie that him and his best friend told his woman at the beginning of their relationship

Anonymous has all things negative to say about her man. She feels unappreciated in this relationship, she feels her efforts aren't recognised, she feels taken for granted, but she loves him

Anonymous' woman has been giving him the cold shoulder since he lost his job (he has needs)

Our female anonymous finds herself in a situation where she is disrespected by her man's friends. She feels she isn't doing enough to protect her.

Anonymous is dating her uncle. She has stopped using protection when they sleep together, he now says he wants a baby.

Anonymous' woman has lost interest in him, she stays on her phone all day doesn't make quality time for him but every time he tries to leave she threatens to commit suicide

Anonymous has two kids with his bae, he recently found out that she has been playing away games. Should he try fix the relationship?

Anonymous feels that her "pilot" from a royal bloodline is not driven enough.

Anonymous finds herself in deep waters, while her and her man took a break from their marriage, her man impregnated another woman

Anonymous and her ex whom she shares a child with can't seem to get enough of each other, they still chat daily and some of these chats have nothing to do with the child. Do they still want each other?

Anonymous was impregnated by her boyfriend's father. Should She disclose to her man that his father is her child's dead beat dad?

Can a cheater ever change its ways? Will anonymous's man come and stand in front of her church and declare his commitment to her

Anonymous is shook because his woman's family has been playing a role in assisting her to cheat

Anonymous feels that the woman having an affair with her man is the lady in our previous episode

Anonymous wants a baby with a married man from her office. does she care about the home that she's wrecking?

Anonymous is bitter that his ex and mother of his child has moved on and is getting married, now he's trying to block the joy by suddenly demanding the child carry his surname.

Anonymous is a jigalo in distress

Anonymous and her man seem to both be promiscuous, they don't seem to be certain about the path they would like to take as a couple

Anonymous husband has been cheating since they started dating years ago, is it possible that he can stop so that they can work on their marriage?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is trying to solidify a relationship with his woman that cheated and conceived a baby with another man.

Anonymous' lover only shows her love when the finances are flowing in the relationship. there first two weeks of the month are the greatest but as the money runs out as the month get longer and the resources dry up he begins to be distant

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has been married for years with his woman, they have not made love in the last year. She isn't experiencing postnatal depression after giving birth, her reason is that she is no longer into men.

Anonymous is distraught, his family is discouraging him from pursuing a long term relationship with a lady that has a baby.

25year old anonymous feels unlucky in love, her relationships don't see to last and all higher powers from sangomas to priests have told her that she will never find love

Anonymous seems to be struggling to get her man's attention, she says his kids interfere too much. Who will win the war for this man's attention

Anonymous has been waiting in vain for a marriage proposal from her partner. they have a 5year old, they have been together for years, his siblings are all married

Anonymous's woman has been caught cheating on numerous occasions. is it time to let her go or can things change for better?

Anonymous can't seem to get his nose out of his married womans' marriage

Anonymous is unhappy in her relationship because her man has been cheating now she's cheating with a man that is in a relationship.

Anonymous has been married for over 10 years, she recently found out that her younger sister is dating one of her ex's, should there be cause for concern or jealousy?

Anonymous' parents are causing problems for her and her lobola negotiations

Anonymous left his wife to be played by young fresh blood. He thought the grass was greener on the other side

Anonymous has been impregnated by a man she barely knows

Anonymous's husband is making life unbearable at home. How much longer can she take the abuse

The insecurities in anonymou's home are causing problems. Who is fooling who?

Anonymous's mans cheating ways are in full December swing. Will she be a ride or die this festive or shed the dead weight so that she can start afresh

Anonymous is a good girl turned bad and her man can't handle that

Anonymous gets beaten, get bruised, experiences miscarriages is this how love is meant to be?

Anonymous asked her husband for a break and now he's moved on with his life with someone else. What can she do to get him back

Anonymous’ woman is a serial cheater, he can't let go because she motivates him during this time of unemployment

Anonymous has issues with her mother in law. will @jjsesing tear the mother in law a new...

Anonymous recently found out that her partner is sleeping with her younger sister, this is now tearing this family apart. does she want to solve this issue with her sister or get rid of the partner?

Anonymous's out of town side piece is starting to complicate things, he has moved into her province and seeks more attention.

Anonymous has been dating a criminal for the last four months, her conscience has finally started to visit her. Will she stay and become a ride or die?

Anonymous is in a same sex relationship, her partner physically abuses her, should she stay or go?

Anonymous is in a relationship with a close family friend and she is 5 months pregnant, she is not ready to disclose their relationship to her family.Will she tell eventually?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has three children from a previous relationship and feels that her man's mom hates her and won't accept her for it

Anonymous is mesmerized by her cousin's good D. Can she let go of it and concentrate on her relationship?

Anonymous is dating a married man whom she sees as a father figure, she loves the man because her child sees him as a father figure too

Anonymous is a side chick to a married man, his wife says they are working on their marriage, he says his wife is a liar

Anonymous is a girlfriend that has taken too much on her shouldres

Anonymous's man refuses to get circumcised, is it worth staying in this relationship or should she give him a mouthful of her opinion

Anonymous caught his wife in bed with another man, she has gone completely off the rails, he feels that since he lost his job he has lost her too. Should he stay in the relationship?

Anonymous is a second wife, she thought she was unable to have children until she and her hubby went to test and the result was that the husband is the infertile one, how does the first wife have two children with him?

Anonymous used to be an escourt now one of her regular clients is getting married to her cousin. She wants to spill the beans... Should she?

Anonymous is pregnant by a married man that promised to take her as a second wife, he has since changed his mind

Ann is dating a guy that has impregnated more then 8 women and she has never used a condom with him. Now shes confused whether to go back to babydaddy or stick with f...boy.

Anonza’s boyfriend demands a child but did not propose and he is still very chatty to other ladies on his phone.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon has been married to his wife for 15 years but since his retrenchment she and her siblings speak trash about him - even to his children.

ANON'S BOYFRIEND OF 8 YEARS IS REFUSING TO SLEEP IN THE SAME BEDROOM BECAUSE SHE SNORES. HE HAS BEEN KICKING HER OUT OF THE ROOM AFTER DEED FOR THE PAST 2 WEEKS.

Anonymous says she has been sleeping with a married man and a Ben10 all in the name of fun. She suspects that she's pregnant but doesn't know who the father of the baby is.

Anonymous just found out that he bought a house next to his woman's ex. They have been living in this home for over a year without any disclosure from her

She's been dating a man for four months, went through his phone and found nudes. She thought he was the one

Anonymous has a huge chose to make, love and happiness or ghost from the past

Hubby and Wifey are both cheaters in this marriage. Should they be in this relationship? Should they fight for this relationship?

Anonymous lied to her husband about the baby, it's not his. She is now complaining that her husband no longer trusts her. Why could this be?

Anonymous is taking a biker and sure enough, he's giving her the ride of her life

Drama rocks today's Ask A Man episode as all 3 parties involved call in

Anonymous's partner is insecure since he failed to disclose that he works closely with a female.

Anonymous is pregnant by a supposedly married mad, she doesn't believe in termination because she's Christian

Anonymous is in a serious dilemma, he's planning a future including married but doesn't know which one of his girlfriends to choose

Anonymous is cheating with his 'babymama' so he is paranoid that his woman is cheating with her 'babydaddy' too

Anonymous is tired of her husband's cheating ways but is she strong enough to leave

Anonymous is married for 7years but recently started getting sick after making love to her man. After numerous consultations she has been informed that she is sleeping with her husband's snake

Anonymous is in a relationship on her own. She keeps looking for a little attention from her man. Is he still interested?

Anonymous's man has gone too wild in his sexual imagination. Can anonymous handle the heat?

Anonymous recently told her ex that they have a 7year old together now he wants to be part of the child's life

Anonymous has a tatoo of her ex's name. She has told the current man that her ex has died but it seems like we are witnessing a modern day miracle, the ex boyfriend is alive

Anonymous's man isnt giving her attention. Is he interested in her?

Anonymous is caught in a love triangle between a dj and promoter

Anonymous's office fling wants anonymous to leave her husband

Anonymous must choose between an older wealthy man or a young broke man that she is in love with

Our male anonymous feels that he married too young and has constant urges of exploring

Anonymous is deeply in love with her cousin. What are the pros and cons of dating family

Anonymous is dating a man that can't stop cheating. Is it worth hanging on and hoping he will change

Anonymous's man is a dice game expert, he is unemployed, she type and submits all his cv's and all he does all day is play dice. He also refuses to do proper work in the bedroom, she has to be on top 24/7

Anonymous's man seem to be a pathological liar. Can a relationship exist without trust?

Anonza's girlfriend does not want to conceive via medical alternatives but instead would prefer to do naturally. This is a problem for Anonza because they are in a same sex relationship

Anonymous's man popped the question, the problem is they've been dating for only a month. Is this too soon?

The married that anonymous is dating has decided to move in uninvited...

Anonymous has cheated on her man before, he has cheated on her, their relationship is in turmoil. Is it worth fighting for?

Anonymous felt belittled when his woman introduced him to her mom, she said she wants a real man for her

Anonymous is a virgin, her man is pressurising her into giving it up. On the other hand, he has impregnated somebody else.

Anonza has been sleeping with his HOD, this was mean't to be a temporary arrangement but now they HOD is hooked. Anonymous is afraid that his wife will find out.

Anonymous's partner keeps having children outside of the marriage, he's a serial cheater and it doesn't seem that he cares about her feelings.

Anonymous's man is broke and forcing her into getting married. She recently met an older man who understands her better.

Anonymous has difficulty in choosing between two men, the city guy is apparently boring but monied, the village guy is exciting and can lay pipe but he broke. hmmmmmm choices choices

Anonymous's old flame has made a dramatic return into his life. She now is married and has three children but anonymous is will to leave his woman and two kids to be with her. is this a healthy situation?

Anonymous is dating a married man at work, this married man is becoming the jealous type, she's not allowed to interact with other men at the office. This situation is now taking a toll on anonymous, where can she find a better married man to date?

Anonymous has been working out of the country for quite some time, while he's away his man has been sleeping with all his friends. Should he stay in this relationship or leave

Anonymous has four kids with different women the problem is that his fiance doesn't know. Should he tell her?

Anonymous's woman is abusive towards him. As a man, he doesnt know how to handle the situation

Anonymous has kids and since she's been lonely, her kids suggested that she sleep with their friend's father. She's now addicted to the dance and the kids don't like it.

Somizi joins naked and JJ on today's instalment of Ask A Man, anonymous is in a messy situation, after many STi's and Miscarriages she still doesn't know whether she should stay or go

Anonymous is a twin, he recently found out that his ex girlfriend is sleeping with his twin brother. Does the twin know that this woman is his ex? should he tell him?

Anonymous is being told by the streets and her man's colleagues that she is no longer loved. She gets calls from his colleagues and messages from his family that she is a difficult woman. Could the rumour mill be true?

Anonymous's man has allegedly impregnated his ex. Should anonymous stay or leave?

Anonymous's lover helped her overcome a near death experience. He stood by her when she was on her death bed, the problem now is that he hasn't touched her since she has returned home

Anonymous caught his fiance' at the mall with another man. She has been dating this man as long as they have been together. Does he carry on dating this woman?

Anonymous's wife gets a male visitor whenever he's at work. Can she be trusted?

Anonymous thinks he's a sex addict, he's tried all the tricks in the book to try and lure his lady into regular sex too.

Anonymous hasn't had intimacy in his relationship for over 8 years. KuRough!!!

Anonymous has come to the realisation that her man isn't on the same level as her, she has since seen better. Should she stay or go?

Anonymous has been taking care of his girlfriend's daughter because the biological father has been absent. Anonymous would like to adopt the little girl and now the biological father has popped back into their lives to distabilise things

Anonymous is a glorified sidechick and she doesn't even know it. Lerato comes clean about her sex toys

Anonymous met her man in church, they are pregnant now but he seems to be sleeping with someone else. JJ also confesses to the team that he doesn't pray before and after sex

After paying lobolo for his loved one, her family has just told him that she cannot leave the house to see him until the white wedding is done

Anonymous has been in a relatioship for 6years, her ex has recently made a come back and made her current relationship look silly

Anonymous's husband is being a real dictator in their marriage, telling her how to behave and act

Anonymous recently found out that her father is cheating on her mother, what should she do, is it any of her business?

Anonymous is a student, still living under her parent's roof but sje feels that she is entitled to some money that her boyfriend makes

Anonymous has just been told that the child he's been raising for the last 8 months is not his.

anonymous is is tired of carrying the financial burden in her relationship, she feels that nobody in the family can understand her pain.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous's man has been suggesting polygamy but if he can't handle all his women should she consider agreeing to such?

Anonymous's ex is headed to Durban this weekend, should anonymous test his horsepower this weekend?

Anonymous is avoiding what will be one the most importand meeting of her life, a meeting with her folks and his folks about their relationship

Anonymous has been flurting with her male collegue, problem is, her husband has seen some of these conversations and he's not pleased

Anonymous is living a movie the problem is her man is starring in this movie and she's just an extra

Anonymous is in a confusing situationship

Anonymous's relationship has reached a point where non of them want to compromise, should he stay on and fight her unfair practices?

Anonymous is in a 8 year relationship, they've been through thick and thin but she feels that she's no longer in love with him. should she stay or follow her heart?

Since anonymous's man graduated and started working, he has become distant, he warns that things will get worse. should she hang in there?

Anonymous's ex is threatening to release a raunchy tape which he shot while they were dating

Anonymous just found out that her man frequence strip club, when will it stop she wants to know.

Anonymous's man is filthy, he's a vuilpop, can he clean up his act?

Anonymous has no problem in sharing the man that she is in a relationship with, the problem is that he's a married man and his wife doesnt want to play ball

Anonymous's man doesnt sexually satisfy her neither does he show interest in doing so, she has since acquired the services of her ex.

Anonymous keeps hearing rumours about her man. should she entertain these rumours or keep it moving?

Anonymous had been trying to have a baby, with two men

Anonymous's partner lacks motivation. Should she baby him to greatness or leave

Anonymous is going through one of the biggest challenges to date

Anonymous's man has asked her to stay in her lane as a sidechick for the next 12 months while he decides whether he still loves his main woman or not

Anonymous's wife recently enrolled at a tertiary insititution, is she serious about the course on offer or just the intercourse on campus?

Anonymous is in a vat n sit situationship, but now its turning sour

Anonymous has been in a relationship with her hubby for over 16years, married for 12years. He has been cheating like crazy and they have to move from province to province. The stoke that broke the camels back is when his side chicks started calling their children

Anonymous's man has gone on a cheating spree, he blames it on the fact that she started first

One of the most heartbreaking stories that you'll ever hear. Anonymous recently married a woman that has turned out to be the biggest conartist. he is heartbroken, will he survive?

Anonymous is still heartbroken years after a breakup from her babydaddy. She can nolonger love,she's heartless and hates looking at her child too. Can she move on?

Anonymous is dating her cousin, id she ready to sacrifice a goat to the the ancestors aware

Anonymous left his wife for his sidechick, now the sidechick wants to leave him, should he attempt to go back to the wife?

Anonymous left her man hanging and her aunt scooped him up, now she feels betrayed. CAn she mend her relationship with her ex or Aunt Iscariot?

Anonymous met a man at MACUFE, now she's pregnant. The man is getting married in December, what must she do?

Anonymous insists that his fiance get a paternity test after an ex has popped up from nowhere with a baby that could be his.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is dating one sangoma and would like to take another sangoma as a second wife

Anonymous is stringing two men along, which one will she eventually choose? The old man or the fresh fish?

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The dirty cougar wants more vulgar communication in the bedroom

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza is married and had a baby outside of his marriage

Anonza recently discovered that his girlfriend is in another relationship

Anonza's checked her mans phone and found that he is flirting with other girls

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza's man has cheated with more than 8 girls and Anonza found out about every single one

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza's husband does not want to financially assist Anonza with raising her daughter that she had before they got married

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza's wife is entertaining other men whilst Anonza wants to fix things...

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza always steps out when there is trouble at home

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The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza recently discovered she is expecting but is worried that her bae doesn't have a relationship with his other children

Anonza's man often intentionally embarrasses her in front of her friends as well as his

Anonza caught her best friend sleeping with her husband

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza has been married 5 years and her hubby has gained weight and this has affected their intimacy

Anonza recently discovered she was pregnant and her bae's response was not what she expected

Anonza enjoys the company of older women...

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonza is still hung up with his ex but he has someone new...

Anonza was dating a man with a girlfriend and now her bae's girlfriend is pregnant...

Anonza's boyfriend is a selfish lover...

Anonza has been with her man 4 months and the prunyakos is so great....

Anonza's man sold his car so she could start her business...

Anonza's husband has made another woman pregnant

Anonza's ex does not want to cut ties with her...

Anonza was in a long distance relationship and her man got transferred to her province and she discovered that he is cheating

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Anonza is in a long distance relationship but has found new love...

Anonza is sick and tired of his abusive serial cheater girlfriend

Anonza's man doesn't go down and her neighbor is tempting her by offering to do what her husband won't...

Anonza is the breadwinner but each time she is away her man brings another woman into their home. She always finds out...

Anonza misses her ex boyfriend but has a new bae

Anonza is 28 years old and is dating a woman 5 years her senior with 2 kids and another woman who is a year older than him with four kids...

Anonza's man changed it up on her and went from wanting to lobola her to wanting to focus on his rap career

Anonza wants to turn a new leaf and give up her bad bad lifestyle

Anonza is confused, her bae has recently started to introduce her as his wife but they are not married

Anonza's man is unemployed and he is making no effort to improve his situation which is putting a huge strain on Anonza

Anonza took a paternity test and the results are very conflicting

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Anonza met a man and after she told him they won't do the dance he has been acting weird

Anonza fell pregnant and her man did not want her to keep the baby...

Anonza seems to have blurred the lines of his situationship and now his bae is just not that into him

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Anonza's girlfriend is very controlling and always asking about her whereabouts etc.

Anonza is not the father

Anonza got back with his high school sweetheart and this are not going as anticipated

Anonza moved in with his bae and things are not going well

Anonza's man is distant and she doesn't know what to do

Anonza is expecting and she doesn't know how to tell her man

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Anonymous is dating a man who is way older than her

Anonza's man has not spoken to him since December

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The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is cheating on her husband because she’s not happy in their marriage, are they a good example for their daughter?

Anonymous’s man teases her about her ugly looks, he says she’ll give him ugly children. Is this relationship worth it?

Anonymous is a 22 year old boy that is dating a married man, the married man wants them to stop using condoms

Anonymous has been cheating on his wife for 10years, she recently sat him down to tell him that she has found someone else, he’s now decided that he wants her back.

Anonymous is a 24year old Nigerian Man dating a 28year old emotionally abusive South African woman, she he put up with her ...

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The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous’s woman has been impregnated by another man, is he man enough to deal with the pain that this relationship brings?

Anonymous’s fiancé is demanding a threesome before the wedding, she’s uncomfortable with such... or is she not?

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Anonymous lost her hubby over 10years ago, she has been dating someone for the past 8years, they have a 4year old child together but he seems to be too slow to popping the question. What should she do?

Anonymous finds himself inlove with his woman’s older sister, should he dump the little one and get the big fish?

Twins sleeping with each others girlfriends

Anonymous is affectionate and his wife is not which creates a problem.

Anonymous is In denial that the boyfriend is married to his baby mama

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Anonymous's cheating husband is sloppy, should his wife phone the mistresses man?

the team tackles the days relationship problem

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous doesn't know if her man is into her because his actions are different to what he says

Anonymous is annoyed that she keeps finding a wedding band at her boyfriend's house, could he be married?

Anonymous is still sleeping with her ex, her current partner found out while scrolling through her phone. Should she apologise to him?

Anonymous's wife is about to leave him, is he worried about her taking half or is he worried about losing the love of his life?

Anonymous's man used to cheat and emotionally abuse her, he has since changed his tune after he found her cheating on him, has he really changed, should she give the relationship another chance or is the love gone?

Anonymous is 22 years old, the father of her child and hubby doesnt seem to be interested in building a family anymore, should she fight for the relationship?

Anonymous has been a side chick for the last 3years, she wants to know whether she’ll be able to graduate into being a second wife.

Anonymous is smitten with an online brother from Naija, he wants her to come to Nigeria so they can meet, is this a good idea?

Anonymous has recently found out that his woman has four kids with four different men. Should he stay and work it out?

Anonymous tested positive on a pregnancy tested and later discovered via a blood test that she actually was not pregnant. Her man was not happy..,

Anonymous wants to know whether it is a problem or not to be attracted to bigger women? Will society frown upon him?

Anonymous’s marriage is in turmoil now he seeks guidance on how to mend it.

Anonymous’s boyfriend is cheating but anonymous needs full evidence, will she get it?

Anonymous's man has not introduced her to any of his friends and family, should she be concerned.

Anonymous would like to have access to her child but she doesn’t believe in going the legal route to fight the ex and his family

Anonza met her man through social media

Anonymous married her Ben 10, now Ben 10 seems to be too imature for her, should she get a divorce?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is dating two guys , one jobless but very much in love with him and the other loaded but she is not so much in love with him but the money.

Husband is cheating with a neighbour and asked the neighbour to spy on his wife to find out if she is also cheating. The wife calls in for help.

Anonymous's man only gives her one round every 3days, she's sexually frustrated and wants to find another man to satisfy her

Anonymous is pregnant, she is certain that its her colleagues baby, not her husbands, what should she do?

Anonymous man isnt driven, he sits and waits at home for miracles to happen, should she leave him?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous' girlfriend is sleeping with his brother, how does he approach the subject with both of them...

Anonymous wants to brake his commitment to his fiance, he claims he has met someone better.

Anonymous's boyfriend has confessed to her that he is worried that the baby his ex is carrying could be his....

Anonymous would like to know whether her babydaddy is serious about comitting to her or not..

Anonymous recently found her boyfriend's payslip, she's not impressed, she feels that she needs more....

Anonymous's live-in partner is planning a future with someone else, should he stay and fight for her?

Anonymous new lady claimed that she is a virgin, he thinks she lied.....

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous's woman is emotionally abusive,controlling, a dictator or is she just being herself?

Our lady caller is faced with a serious issue, she's older than her boyfriend therefore his parents disapprove of the relationship, should she soldier on in this relationship?

Anonza is having a hard time reaching full pleasure and she wants to know what to do?

Anonza found herself dating a married man and now he wants to make her his second wife. She doesn't know if she should agree even though the proposal letter has already been sent to her family? The Bridge podcasts

Anonza is under the impression that her man is relocating for a job opportunity but it turn out it's actually for another woman. What should she do?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous's man pays for everything, her school fees, clothes, entertainment allowance, weave whatever you can think of he is the minister of finance, she claims she might not have loved him at first, but now she definitely does, or does she not?

Anonymous can no longer stand waiting over 10days to get serviced by her man. She has already compromised on sixe but now he's starving her? What must she do?

Anonymous has recently been released from prison, every woman that he dates cheats on him. What's seems to be the problem?

Anonymous needs a way to inform one of his babymama's that he has a child with her friend. How can he tactfully inform her?

Anonymous's fiancé has asked for his lobola money back because he's s family feels that she is over priced. What should she do?

Anonymous has been keeping secret after secret after secret, the load is now too heavy, how does she approach her husband and offload?

She's getting married but she's carrying my baby, what should anonymous do?

Anonza is 21 dating a 25 year old guy, the guy was stabbed and his ex 'saved him'. Now the ex won't stop calling at awkward hours of the night asking for money.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous was dating a lady from the same company where he worked. He cheated on her throughout their relationship and she dumped him. She is now dating their colleague from work, this hurts him, what must he do?

anonymous's partner doesn't want their child, doesn't love the child, doesn't want to be a part of the child's life, should she fight to change his desire of not being a father

Anonymous is a Christian, a virgine too, the man she wanted to give it up to is getting married in a couple of weeks, what should she do?

A male caller has recently realised that when he was a gangster a couple of years ago he robbed his current girlfriend. How does he break it to her that he once upon a time robbed and slapped her?

nonymous and her babydaddy don't seem mature enough to be in any committed, can they stop playing games and focus on their relationship?

Anonymous used to be lesbian, she's now in a heterosexual relationship, her man keeps accusing her of wanting to sleep with his babymama.

Anonymous gets married in two weeks time, she recently found out that her man is smashing 6 other women. What must she do?

A man has to choose between the wife he loves and the one his family adores.

Anonymous's woman makes more money thanow him, she's older than him, can he handle the pressure?

Anonymous hasn't been touched by her husband since December 2016. She's sexually starved, should she persue her ex for the D?

Anonymous is a gay man, his female friend's partner has started hitting on him, should he pursue the relationship?

Anonymous is in love with his new woman, all is perfect in regards to the emotional aspect of the relationship but when it comes to intimacy, he feels as if he's drowning in the cookie

Anonymous's ex is now in a relationship with a new woman, they live and have a child together. It seems like her ex wants her back, he keeps saying that he's only in the relationship for the child's sake.

Anonymous asked her babydaddy's parents to take care of their child when she was unemployed, things are looking better for her now and she would like her child back but this has been met with a few challenges.

Anonymous was pregnant and discovered that there is another lady in the picture and her man told her he wants to make her a second wife. The second woman miscarried and Anonza was blamed for it and he lobola'd the other woman.

Anonymous has just found out that her man has a pregnant girlfriend, she is willing to be his side dish, but he has conditions.

Anonymous has recently found out that she is dating her best friend's biological father. Will the best friend approve of this relationship or not?

Anonymous is based in Japan, she met a South African man in Japan, she will remain in Japan until 2018 and is afraid to lose her man because he returns to South Africa soon. Will he returned to his South African love or will he maintain their long distance relationship ?

anonymous's relationship has lost its spark, meanwhile shes met a guy online and he gets her all hot and bothered, she's ready to risk it all.

Anonza's man has been caught three times, cheating, once in the shower, twice at work with his colleagues but she still loves him. Anonza's man refuses to sit down and plan a future for them, he says he's dealing with his own issues right now, she says she still loves him. Is anonza desparate for love?

anonymous' man is an executive at his work place, He has recently employed her at the same company but now he's starting to act strange... the plot thickens

anonza's man has been caught cheating on numerous occasions, in the latest incident, after being caught cheating, he popped the question to anonza. Is this proposal what this relationship needs?

anonymous is a 25 year old spring chicken, she is concerned that her libido is extraordinary, even after multiple orgasms she still wants more sex. Is she normal?

Anonymous has never been to the Durban July, her uncle's best friend has decided to take her, is this a good idea?

Anonymous's girlfriend keeps disappearing and she's not a magician. When she spends time with him, her phone stays on flight mode, different men call her all the time. Is she cheating?

Anonymous's man refuses to use protection with her, little does he know that she is HIV positive. She says they will start off using the condom but when they are in the zone, he removes the condom and says he wants to feel her better

our male caller finds himself in a fix, whenever there are financial troubles in his relationship he goes over and above what is required of him to make things work. Three years ago he sold his car so that him and his woman could survive, she is now employed but refuses to help financially in times of crisis. Is she the right woman for him?

Anonymous is in love with her boyfriend of 6 months. Her boyfriend's other girlfriend is now 1 month pregnant with his baby, he claims it was a mistake and says he doesn't wish to pursue a relationship with the pregnant party. Should anonymous stay in the relationship?

Anonymous is a gay man, he has been in a relationship with a married man, now this married man wants to forget about his wife and child. What must anonymous do?

Anonymous' boyfriend has been missing since she told him she's pregnant. Is she ready to be a single mom or does she believe in termination?. Will her man eventually return to be her lover again or will he seek only to support financially?

22yr old anonymous is dating two men, they both would like to take her virginity. Will she sucum to the pressure?

Anonymous is still finishing his studies, his girlfriend's family is forcing her to date a working man, should he stay or fight?

Anonymous met a lady on facebook a couple of months ago, their agreement was to shag with no strings attached, now that she has started at her new job, it seems that our anonymous has caught a case of feelings, what should he do?

Anonymous is married to her gay husband, she's lesbian, their secret lovers now want to expose their sexual orientation to their respective families, what must she do?

Anonymous has been seeing a man for 3 months, she was unaware that he was married, he has since come out and declared the truth, now he wants to take her as a second wife.

Anonymous has been married for just over two years, she has a child with her hubby now, recently she found out that he has a 15year old child, she feels that she has been taken as a fool and wants to vacate her post as his wife.

Anonymous has been in relationships where her partners have been unfaithful, the tables have now turned, she has said enough is enough, no more relationships, all she wants is the D, where will she get the D from?

Anonymous has been married for 10years, he's recently started being violent towards his wife after since finding out of her affair with another man. His fear is that he might start beating his wife, she refuses any requests for them to seek a mediator and work out their problems. Should he stay or leave

Our anonymous today is currently in a new realtionship with a forex trader, the trader is unaware that she is pregnant from her previous relationship. Should she reveal the truth or keep milking him for a good life?

Anonymous and her man are no longer sexualy appealing to each other, they prefer being intimate out of the home. Is this relationship worth fighting for?

Anonymous' ex wants him back even though she aborted their unborn child against his wishes.

Anonymous has been left with the financial burden of raising other peoples children

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has been dating a lady for quite some time, he hasn't been to her place, hasn't met any of her family members, she only comes and visits him for a couple of hours once a week, is he being played?

Anonymous has been without sex since June 2013. Her man hasn't touched her since, she is now on the prowl for that street D.

Anonymous has been asked to go on a weekend away by a man she barely knows, tempting as it is, should her safety be her main concern?

Anonymous has been dating a man for 3 years but this man has been in a relationship, she thought that she would be able to win him over but this is not the case. Should she stay?

Anonymous feels ignored by here man, she feels that he is a dictator in their relationship, she doesn't feel loved, she doesnt feel regarded as a human being, she feels emotionally abused and belittled most of the time, is she in the right relationship?

Annonymous is about to wed his woman of seven years, he has doubts because she has once cheated. has he truly forgiven her?

annonymous is confused, she is in a relationship with the father of her child but her ex seems to be saying all the right things and pressing all the right buttons, what should she do?

anonymous needs help with her fiance/mama's boy. She is fedup with him running to his mom to discuss their day to day issues.

anonymous has a huge concern because his wife goes missing around easter every year.

Anonymous has been serouslly friendzoned by her male friend, she wants to know how she can get him to commit to her.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

and her cousin has a girlfriend and a baby and she has her own boyfriend

Anonza is having trouble finding a man as an independent woman

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

As he is about to propose her phone rings and it is her ex on the other side

When it comes to the prunyakos he always complains of fatigue or illness

She has been with her man for 2 years and they have a 1 year and this Sunday she caught him cheating for the second time.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous has two kids with her ex man, he left her a couple of years ago for another woman. He didn't leave her without a warning, his makhwapheni (side chick), phoned her on numerous occassions to tell her that she was about to snatch her man. Her ex now wants to come back, what must she do?

Anonymous has been in a 6 month relationship with her current man, she has not given up the goods yet, she feels that she isn't ready to sleep with him because she's not sexually attracted to him. She's still sleeping with her ex boyfriend.

Should she stay?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

She is the only one that is currently employed

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is a young lady with a 4 year old and met a guy that was dating an older woman

Bonang sat down with Jub Jub in his first radio interview since being released from prison. Listen until the end.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is 25 years and her boyfriend recently passed on

The Frontrow team is joined by a serial cheater that answers ever question you have ever asked yourself about WHY MEN CHEAT!

Anon is supposed to be getting married in May however her cousin keeps getting in the way

Anon is battling with her sexuality

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is torn between two men

Anon discovered her fiance in bed with another woman

Anon is struggling to keep up with her partner

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anonymous is married and has 3 kids with her husband. She recently found out that the 'so called' nephew of the hubby, is actually hubby's child too. The hubby's babymama is pregnant yet again with his child. Anonymous does not have a matric so she's afraid to leave this man, he is abusive, talks down on her and makes he feel like she has not future without him. Should anonymous endure the abuse or should she take the kids and leave?

Anonymous recently found out that her man is getting married in April, they have been in a long term relationship so it comes as a total surprise that he has wedding plans with another woman. What must she do?

Anonymous met her man while she was pregnant, he disclosed that he was married from the get go and now has the intention of taking her as a second wife.

The first wife had initially agreed to allow the man a second wife but now she has made a complete u-turn. Should anonymous continue their relationship or should she allow him to be with his family?

Anonymous has been married for 10 years, she has two kids in her marriage, the romance is no longer alive in her relationship therefore she has had a office relationship for the last 3 years, will the team be able to give her some good advice?

Anonymous drove all the way from Richards Bay to come spend Valentine's Day with his girlfriend in Johannesburg, upon his arrival at her place of residence, an apartment which he pays for, she told him that he cannot come upstairs, he then left the Valentine's gift and drove away. As our brother drove away, he realised that on her WhatsApp profile, she was holding flowers that he hadn't bought.

How will this end?

Anonymous has had an arrangement with a man for two years, no commitment, just sex, no strings attached. This man is now engaged to her friend. Should she attended the wedding as a bridesmaid?

Anonymous is dating and unemployment man, he doesn't want to further his studies, he looks for work only when he feels like it, she is tired of providing and mothering him, should she stay in the relationship?

PS: he's great in bed

Anonymous has been dating her man for quite some time, he is the financial muscle of the relationship. He can't afford to pay R8000 for her studies, she's considering sleeping with a tenant that lives in the back room at her parents place, she feels if she sleeps with him just this once, he'll pay and all will be well.

Today's anonymous is a virgin, she sticks strictly to her 90 day rule. She is curious why no man would like to stick around long enough to brake the seal

Anonymous is dating and married man, she recently found out that the married man is dating her sister too. Is she right to feel betrayed?

Our anonymous caller is in love with a man that lives with his woman and children, she claims the man is her boyfriend and they are now 18 weeks pregnant. Is this her man or does she belong to somebody else?

Our brother's wife is pregnant, but his wife has no idea who the father is. Doesn't know who the father is? Indeed she has no idea because she's been sleeping with two other men. What should he do?

Anonymous feels that her sexual adventures are being confined to the bedroom and she would love to explore every square meter of the house. Her man refuses to be spontaneous and this leaves her frustrated and unsatisfied. What should she do to reignite the spark?

Anonymous feels that her boyfriend doesn't pay her enough attention, she is now considering on taking her affair with a married man more serious. Is she aware of the responsibilities of a second wife?

Anonymous has been in a relationship for over 10 years, her man isn't aware that their child isn't his, she cheated with her ex and fell pregnant. Her man has been taking care of the child because he thinks it's his. She recently fell pregnant again, by her ex yet again. What should she do?

Anon has been dating his older woman for some time, it's seems that she's recently started rationing sex portions that he had become accustomed to. Is she cheating? Is she nolonger into him? What can he do to find answers?

Our gentleman friend has been married to his woman for a couple of years, he's aware that his marriage is on the rocks but he's trying to win his wife back. It turns out that she found out that he cheated with a stripper on the eve of their wedding and lately she's been outsourcing sexual favour too. Should he give up on the marriage or should he fight on.

Anonymous's babydaddy would like anonymous to give the baby his surname, he's in another relationship, about to marry the life of his life but he wants this particular matter concluded. Is she selfish by not wanting their child to carry his surname?

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Congratulations to AYMOND OOSTHUIZEN FROM NEWCASTLE THE RADIO WINNER AND MS THETHIWE MAHLANGU FROM MPUMALANGA PROVINCE THE TV LICENCE WINNER

They have each won a brand new Kia Picanto.

Thank you for voting for the SABC SUMMER SONG 2016 winner. Please keep your dial locked to your favourite station for the details of the winning summer song to be announced at midnight.

The artist who wins the Summer Song Title, walks away with a KIA motor vehicle to the value of R250 000 and a R150 000 cash prize.

Anonymous has been faced with an ultimatum. Her man wants a threesome and is willing to walk away if he is no given the threesome. What must she do?

Anonymous has been seeing his woman for six months, in the last 2 months they have been talking marriage. She has now decided that they should no longer be intimate until the wedding date. Anonymous seems to be sexually frustrated and Is wondering what to do.

Anonymous phoned us 3 weeks ago and said that she hasn't experienced an orgasm in her relationship for 6 years. We had given her advice to sit her Man down and explain to him that she hasn't wanted to bruise his ego but she needs to feel sexually satisfied too...

Anonymous has now come back to tell us what went down at home when she spoke to him.

Anonymous's man just recently found out that she is a stripper. He's doesn't want her to strip anymore but can he afford to support her financially?

Our male anonymous is dating a man, he recently found out that his partner has impregnated a woman. His partner is from a royal family, could the family have put pressure on his man for an heir? Should anonymous accept his family responsibilities and stay?

Anonymous is a student, her education and accommodation is paid by her parents, her man has recently moved into her place, in order to make ends meet on his side, he has started selling drugs. She feels that he is a burden to her right now and doesn't know what to do

Our anonymous fell pregnant two years ago, her man at the time didn't want the baby. Two years later he is now back and wants to play a role in both their lives.

Anonymous is newly married, her and her partner both have kids from previous relationships, the problem is, she thinks the baby he is supporting is not his. Anonymous would like to have a baby with this man but suspects that he is unable to have kids

Anonymous is in love/lust with 3 different men, she's single and seems interest in picking from this tree, but who does she choose? The ex or one of two brothers

anonymous has been sleeping with his boss's woman, he met her at gym and was hired to be her personal trainer. he has been doing much more than training her, she is now pregnant and they are not sure who the father is. what should he do?

Anonymous suspects that his girlfriend is sleeping with her child's grand father. Is there something fishy happening with Grandpa Bae? Could he be reading too deep into this situation?

Anonymous has two weeks to go before the big wedding day. She is suddenly experiencing problems with her fiance,he is now drinking heavily, wrote off his brand new car, comes home late... what must she do?

Anonymous is turned off that her man wears a red string around his waist, she is uncomfortable that her man is too deep in his cultural beliefs. Is she too modern for his "ancestral vibes" as she calls it?

What do you do when you're a month pregnant with a man you hardly know?

Our Lady caller finds herself between a rock and a not so hard place, her man is now on a new spiritual path and has put sex of hold for the time being. She is starving, what is the right thing to do? Stay and be hungry or choose the same spiritual path?

Our damsel in distress seeks love back from her ex. He is now in a 6 month relationship with someone else but she simply can't let go, is he worth fighting for?

The man that has broke Anonymous's virginity has not been able to bring her to climax for 6 years, there is a man on Facebook that has promised to help her explore sexually, what should she do?

Anonymous has been married for a year, soon after the ceremony he move 600km away from his bride to work. Is the long distance relationship proving to be a challenge?

Anonymous has been struggling to break her virginity for the last 3 years, can she overcome her fear or will a medical condition keep her from having a normal relationship?

Anonymous is married and her husbands side chick antagonizes her on a daily bases, is anonymous strong enough to stay in the marriage

Anonymous's ex girlfriend wants him back, she claims to be 5 months pregnant with his baby, she broke things off with him to pursue a relationship with another man. Could this be his baby?

Anonymous is sleeping with her partners best friend, and has fallen for him, can the team help her choose the right partner?

A Man wants to know whether to stay in a relationship or leave after finding a steamy Sex Tape of his woman and another man.

Anonymous reckons that her man wants too much purnyakos, she is exhausted that she has had to please this man 3 times a day for the past year. Is she lazy or does her man like the deed a little too much.

Anonymous has been dating her dj boyfriend for a year and 2 months, the rumors around town are that he is batting for the other team. She has confessed her undying love for him but at the end of it all, will she be man enough for him?

Our young anonymous finds himself "friend zoned" after every advance he makes to the ladies, can JJ and Naked D (the J is silent) help him climb out the friend zone?

As anonymous was cleaning his place, he found arv tablets that belong to his pregnant woman, she refuses to disclose her status, should he stay or leave the relationship?

Anonymous has recently found out that her lover is happily married, can she walk away or will the apartment, car and allowance keep her quiet

Anonymous is concerned that her boyfriend goes missing from time to time, upon his every return, he comes bearing gifts. should she keep quiet and let him progress in his career or is there cause of concern?

Can anonymous survive in this relationship even though his partner has inform him that he has small package which leaves her sexually unsatisfied

Anonymous has been suffering for 9 months, yes, 9 months without an orgasm, she is trying to find a subtle way to inform her man that his erection is too weak to satisfy her. The first part of the problem is that he is also not circumcised. Will anonymous be able to convince him to seek professional help?

FillUpTheRelationship

Anonymous has recently found out that she could be related to her man, he has broken up with her but she doesn't want to let go...

Anonymous has a hard choice to make, should he follow his mother's wishes and dump his 19 single mother girlfriend?

Anonymous seems to be lured into becoming a second wife, should she fall for her baby daddy's tricks?

Today's anonymous finds himself in a pickle. There are two older women that he has been entertaining for 6 years, he has been there for them physically and sometimes emotionally. He has reaped the benefits of their financial powers, including recently purchased vehicle for him, should he continue in both these relationships or should he follow his heart and date a woman of his age whom he has recently fallen in love with.

Anonymous man has impregnated another woman, should she stay or should she go?

Anonymous has been dating his woman for 6 months, but they have not slept together. She happens to be three weeks pregnant, should he stay or should he go?

Should anonymous allow her child's biological father visiting rites, even though he walked out on them 3 years ago.

Should anonymous work hard for her degree or should she sleep with a man that promises to pay for everything?

in today's epic episode of Ask A Man, the question will be, will she stay being faithful to her boyfriend or will she surrender to temptation and sleep with the boyfriend's best friend.

who will be moisturizing them selves in anonymous's bedroom tonight?

Can anonymous reignite the spark back into the marriage?

Anonymous man has fathered child outside of the relationship.Will she ever be able to trust this man again?

Will anonymous keep chasing his married boyfriend?

Will anonymous break the spell that he is under?

Anonymous wants to know whether she should continue to investigate,snoop,keep tabs on this man or just move on. Should she continue being Deborah Patta?

anonymous would like to know whether to choose her lover over her child, he doesn't want to assist her financially and treats her child like an outcast

when inlove with both babydaddy's, how do you choose one before its too late

Annonymous wants to know if 8 months is enough for an abusive partner to change

Should she tell the man that she loves dearly about her fling with his father?

should annonymous give his wife a divorce?

Anon has been dating this guy

Anon has a problem with her daughter

Anon was paid lobola for

Anon is having a problem with her step daughter and her husband

Anon needs help

Anon needs advice

Anon has a problem

Anon has 24 hours

Anon is confused

Anon is having an affair

Anon has a girlfriend but he is attracted to this one man

Anon has been dating this guy for 5 years and after giving birth she discovered her man has been unfaithful

Anon has a problem

Anon has a problem

Anon is pregnant by her sisters husband

Anon hasn't spoken to this guy in 5 months

Anon has been in a long distance relationship

Anon has a problem

Anon has 2 boyfriends

Anon was cheated on

Anon's man cheated on her and impregnated another woman

Anon needs advice

Anon has been lied to

Anon's man has been cheating

Anon is transgender and his friend husband is making advances at him

Anon has to choose

Anons man says he isn't ready...

Anon has a problem with her boyfriend

Anonymous has a problem

Anonymous has a problem

Anon is late

Anon is confused

Anon's man has paid lobola for her and she is expecting...

Anon is confused

Anon has a problem

Anon attracts married men...

Anon is confused

Anon has been dating this guy for a year when this guy had a gf...

Anon is caught in a never ending feedback cycle

Anon is getting cheated on

Anon is in a bind

Anon just got dumped

Anon likes two guys

Anon is seeing two guys

Anon wants to know how too go about disclosing her status to her partner

Anon is has a problem with depression and anxiety

Anon desperately needs advice

Anon is torn

Anon's girl is supportive but...

Anon is confused

Anon has given a guy the wrong impression and doesn't know what to do

Anon needs to make a choice...money or love?

Anon is separated for a year and is attracted to a married separated man...

Anon has been dating this guy for a year and now she has met someone else and...

Anon is in a bind

Anon found out her man is married

Anon is in an abusive marriage

Anon is currently pregnant and has 3 year old...

Anon's man won't make an honest woman of her

Anon met this guy a few months ago and she recently found out he was married, but continued dating him...

Anon has two guys in her life...

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is involved with a married man who is paying for her tuition and now he wants more...

Anon is having a hard time separating between dating and marriage

Anon has a problem

Anon just found out she is pregnant...

Anon is currently unemployed

Anon has been dating her boyfriend for 2 years but his ex is getting in the way of her happiness

Anon has had to compromse herself to provide for her baby

Anon had a baby by her boyfriend and now has contracted a virus

Anon is in a bind

Anon has problem

Anon is having problems with his wife

Anon has a problem

Anon has been dating this guy and lately, things have changed.

Anon has this friend....

Anon has been dating this guy and fell pregnant by him...

Anon has a problem

Anon is having trouble with intimacy after giving birth

Anon is in a complicated situation....

Anon is torn, who's advice is correct? JJ or the Naked DJ?

Anon has a problem with her family

Anon has been married for 12 years now

Anon has a man on and off

Anon caught her man cheating 3 times

Anon cant stop thinking about her ex

Anon has a problem

Anon is torn between two men

Anon is in a bind

Anon is recently married

Anon' girl is over his cheating ways

Anon is 26 and...

Anon has been dating this guy for 3 months

Anon has been seeing her woman for the past 4 years

Anon has been chasing a guy for 5 months

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon hasn't been dating for 5 years

Anon has a problem in her workplace

Anon has been dating someone for less than two months and she discovers she likes the mans friend more

Anon feels she is doing the most in her relationship

Anon found out her best friend cheated with her man and the bff is pregnant

Anon is looking for love

Anon is conflicted with her man. She loves the turn up, he doesn't

Anon is having problems with his girl who has a boyfriend

Anon met a guy in her matric year

Anon has been with this guy for over a year

Anon's boyfriend suspects that she is cheating after he went through her phone

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is in trouble....

Anon;s is a bad communicator

Anon is a 25 year old and her and her man both live with their parents

Anon has problem

Anon recently found out that his daughter may not be his

Anon's relationship is being affected by muthi

Anon wants to unleash her alter ego

Money is putting a strain on Anon's relationship

Anon has a problem

Anon broke up with her guy and recently they met again and sparks flew

Anon has been in a relationship for 10months

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is married but has a problem

Anon is 26 and extremely independent...

Anon is in love with someone's man

Anon wants to know why men cheat

Anon needs to make some changes

Anon...well it's complicated

Anon's man has been cheating and his other girlfriend is now pregnant

Anon is still in love with her ex

Anon has been dating this guy for 8 years

Anon has a problem

Anon is having marital problems

Anon is having problems with her man who has recently found "fame"

Anon is a divorcee

Anon has a huge problem

Anon has been in a relationship fro 2 years...

Anon is having marital problems

Anon is having trouble with her man after a massive body transformation

Anon impregnated his married friend and shortly after marred his girlfriend who can't have kids now it's complicated

Anon is having trouble with her boyfriends financially needy family

Anon's crush is off and she suspects foul play

Anon met her guy in 2011 and he had two kids...

Anon is asking about marriage

Anon was in a situationship and wanted out but,...

Anon is having problems with her newly employed boyfriend...he disappeared

Anon's man is not coming to the party

Anon is having problems with his fiance

Anon is torn

Anon is jealous

Anon has a problem

Anon is being cheated on

Anon discovered that her husband has an appetite for the internet

Anon has been dtaing her man for 3 years and she suspects he is gay

Anon is torn

Anon has a problem with her pastor

Anon is going through some financial problems and she has a boyfriend and a sugar daddy who provides financially for her and she recently found out the sugar daddy is married.

Social media is interfering with Anon's relationship

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is dating an older man

Anon is getting more attention that she would like from Ben 10's

Anon is in a fix

Anon has a problem...she just isn't sure what it is.

Programmes Manager, Anthony Soglo, responds to 22 January 2015 #AskAMan

Anonymous lies on #AskAMan

Anon has a problem

Anon is having problem with her husband who is displaying stalkerish behaviour

Anon's partner him and took their baby with

Anon recently discovered that she is not the only woman

Anon is battling a drug addiction

Anon has anxiety now that his girl is off to University

Anon is dating difficulty dating as an independent woman

Anon has been unfaithful

Anon is thinking of being a mother

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon has been dating this guy for 7 months and she just found out he has a wife

Anon is expecting and her man's initial reaction was for her to terminate

Anon is in a fix, two men want to marry her

Anon suspects that her man is creeping on the low with her friend

Anon is being pursued by her fathers friend

Anon is recently divorced

Anon's woman is expecting

Anon's man keeps disappearing

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon suspects her friend is creepin with her man

Anon has a problem

Anon's man is being shady

Anon is struggling to find love

Anon has a problem

Anon has been dating a guy for 5 years and recently her man got a lap dance from a dancer now she wants to leave him

Anon has a problem

Anon is thinking of having a baby

Anon is having trouble getting back in the dating game

Anon's man keeps disappearing

Anon is ready to be intimate but her man isn't and she is asking why

Anon is having an affair with his mother in law

Anon's man has turned against her since he got a job

Anon is in a fix

Anon is sleeping with her cousins side

Anon was busted for acting shady at the club by her man

Anon is having dating as a career driven woman

Anon's man denied their baby

Prince Kaybee is our celebrity crush this celebrity Wednesday

Anon has been dating and supporting his his woman financially for 8 years and now she is working and has changed

Anon has been dating her man for a month but also has a man on the side

Anon is dating a man with a girlfriend

Anon is torn

Anon has been married for 5 years and her husband has been very emotionally abusive

Monique Bingham is our celebrity crush this Wednesday

Anon finds himself in a very bad relationship

Anon broke up with her man and he went on to date someone else who is now pregnant

Anon isn't sure if she should leave her relationship

Anon cheated on his girlfriend

Anon has been dating this guy for 3 months but he has a girlfriend

Anon is having problems with her husband not wanting to confront his mother about not wanting to get a job

Anon's man steals from her

Anon has a problem with her man that lacks ambition

Anon is not sure if because she has more should she do more

Anon is having troubling balancing being a mom and being a girlfriend

Born Nakhane Mavuso in 1988, Nakhane tells Bonang more about his life, music and debut novel Piggy Boy’s Blues.

Anon moved in with her boyfriend of 2 years and now things have changed and he is terribly obsessive

Vusi joined Bonang on The Frontrow to talk about his new single Thandiwe

Anon discovered 2 months into her pregnancy that her man is cheating

Anon was caught cheating on her man and he recently gave her a promise ring and isn't sure why

Things between Anon and her man have changed and she doesn't know why

Anon is having problems with the father of her son

Mrs SA, Candice Abrahams was on The Frontrow with Refiloe talking about what we can expact during her tenure as Mrs South Africa 2016

Anon and her husband are having problems and she is 3 months pregnant and discovered her husband and another woman in beat

Anon was in a relationship with the father of her child and she recently found out her man has been unfaithful

Anon is seeing two guys and is pregnant with the first guys child

Anon discovered that her man is sleeping with someone else

Anon is having a hard time moving on after a terrible breakup

Anon is dating a guy who she recently discovered has a girlfriend

Anon was physically abused by her partner

Anon is having trouble dating post divorce

Anon needs advice on how to ask a guy out

Anon is intimidated by her successful man

Anon is having trouble dating as a virgin

Anon has had a fall out with his estranged wife

Anon has been dating her man of 8 years and recently discovered that he is having an affair

Anon is having problems with his girl

Anon is wondering if she has made the correct choice in partner

Anon found out her dad is having an affair with a girl her age

Anon has moved in with a her man of 3 weeks

Anon is having trouble having her kids accept her new partner

Anon is having problems with his girlfriend

Anon has been a serious relationship with an unemployed man and she is pregnant with their second child

J’Something - born in Algarve, Portugal, moved to Port Alfred, Eastern Cape when he was 7

Mo-T - Born in Alexander Township, Johannesburg

Dr Duda – born in KwaNdebele, Mpumalanga

Anon is involved with a married man

Anon is torn between two guys and doesn't know who to choose

Anon is pregnant with her bosses child

Anon has been hooking up with his best friend's boyfriend behind her back

Anon recently found out her man has a wife and a child

Born Thato Madonsela, L Tido chats to Bonang on The Frontrow

Anon recently discovered that she and her fiancée are brother and sister

Anon has been dating a guy for a year and recently discovered her man is engaged and they are expecting

Anon asked his friend to ask a girl out for him but things didn't work out according to plan

Anon's sister had a baby with her husband....

Anon is with her baby's father but has met a new man that makes her happy....(this was one of the best #AskAMans of this year)

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon is a soldier and her guy paid lobola for her and even bought her a house, she was deployed and while she was away her man was up to no good

Anon has been dating a man with a child and they are living together but recently she met a new guy and now she is torn

Anon's crush is just not that into her

Anon is 30 years old and everyone around her is settling down and having kids...except her

When eight top female artists from across Africa, superstar music producer Cobhams Asuquo and a team of ONE staff got together in Johannesburg to create ‘Strong Girl’, the song didn’t exist.

We had a beat, a melodic hook, a concept, some very talented people and three days to make it happen.

Working together, the artists and Cobhams fired out loads of great ideas, but the simplicity of ‘Strong Girl’ seemed to capture the campaign message in a way everyone liked. From there, each artist wrote their own verse in their own language. Hearing it come together in the recording studio, with Cobhams working his magic to get the best out of each artist, was incredible.

Anon is currently in a relationship with a guy who is friends with a bad boy

Anon has been dating someone who lied about having another baby with another girl from the neighbourhood

Anon is in an abusive relationship

Anon has a problem with his girlfriend

Anon is having trouble with her ex who wants to come back in the picture

Anon is having challenges dating as a disabled woman

Anon has been having problems with her partner

Anon having problems with her older partner

Anon has a problem with his girlfriend who no longer wants to have a baby

Anon is dating an older man and is interested in getting married

Anon's fiance had a baby with another woman while he was engaged to her

Anon accidentally called out her side baes name during prunyakos with her boyfriend

Anon doesn't know where she stands with her man after revealing her HIV status to him

Anon's suspects that he may not be the father of his baby

Anon is having trouble with the father of her baby

Anon is having some trouble with her in-laws

Anon has a problem that the guys that ask her out always want to take her away on holiday and don't ask for something significant to get to know her like a date

Anon cancelled her lobola and that has caused a lot of friction between the two families

Anon's girl has left him so confused....

Anon is currently seeing two guys and she is torn because one is great in bed and one isn't

Anon's man is abusive and has been flirting his way to the top...

Anon suggested a 3sum to her man but he is not so keen...

Anon has two and a half men in her life...

Anon has been supporting his girl since she was a student, she has a permanent job now and has changed

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon was in an abusive relationship

Anon has a problem with her husbands family

Boity Thulo speaks on her alleged engagement to Cassper Nyovest

Anon's husband had a baby by another woman...

Anon hasn't macked on anybody in a while so his mack game is a bit rusty, he needs help

Anon's man had an affair with a co-worker

Anon's man keeps disappearing..literally

Anon is still in love with her ex fiancé and the father of her child but the catch is she has a man...

Anon is getting married but the problem is her man wants them to move in with his mom after they tie the knot

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

Anon only gets to see her man once a month and she is starting to be suspicious of the reason why

Anonymous' ex invited her to his wedding and she is not sure if she should attend

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.

The show is filled with a mixture of METRO FM’s signature music sounds, listener music selection and mixes with comments during the popular ‘ask a man’ feature which affords ladies the opportunity to ask men any question they want and seek advice.