Victoria's Thoughts: Recent Episodes
Victoria de Vall
my podcast is here in service to Women. by sharing the truths i have come to know, i am able to lead women back home, back to themselves, back to their power. each episode gives women the tools to shed the layers of patriarchal conditioning, pain, trauma, and disconnection they have accumulated throughout their lives while we discuss deep healing, sexuality, relationships, femininity, true embodiment, dating, and all things womanhood.
xoxox,Victoria
*note: i did not mean to say that all romantasy was not serious literature - as i would qualify my book itself as a romantasy, and some romantasy books are some of the best stories i've ever read. but overall there's many romantasy books that are not trying to be serious novels but instead just bring joy and fun to our lives, and this is totally wonderful; my point was they, too, have a responsibility to no longer play into the dominator model - not just "serious" works of fiction.
Books mentioned (buy second hand or from your local indie bookstore!):
The Chalice and The Blade by Riane Eisler
Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown
Ask and It Is Given by Esther and Jerry Hicks
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I am now officially back open for coaching!! book your appointment directly through my website at: https://www.victoriadevall.com/bookacallwithme
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imagine how many bodies you have had...you have dwelt in thousands and millions. and though you should love them, honor them, and cherish them...just as the wave is not the ocean, they were not you.
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thank you girls so much for listening <3
Book Referenced: https://www.amazon.com/Emergent-Strategy-Shaping-Change-Changing/dp/1849352607
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Victoria's Thoughts forever!!!! <3
i love you girls so much. thank you for supporting me and for helping me create something i can be so proud of. i feel so excited to enter into this next chapter and feel hopeful that because i created something so beautiful and thriving in this space, i can do the same in other spaces as well.
my YouTube video/vlog on sisterhood: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4cwajjjhyo&t=943s
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We have been around as humans for quite a while now. Through lives and lives and thousands of years, we have all chosen harmful and violent acts. Many still choose harmful and violent actions, embodiments, mindsets. We see in our world that obsession with the physical form is at an all time, high causing many to be extremely violent and aggressive.
Through all of these thousands of years, karmic debt accumulates- good and bad. My guruji said that there is still so much good karmic debt and so much goodness in the world, and if there wasn't, our world and all humans would just explode and die because there wasn't anything balancing it out. I believe in being an instrument for service and for good, and for doing my part to only add good karmic imprints into the world and to extinguish evil. If we all choose to act with love and non-attachment, we would create heaven on earth for everyone. and so, we first create heaven on earth for ourselves (within our own mind) and then extend that out and begin to serve others in their own creation of heaven on earth, until we are all living in heaven.
evil is alive and well and we see it when people are creating deeper and deeper karmic debt for themselves by choosing evil actions that harm the earth, others, people, animals...we as servants of god and of the light must choose service and good action continually, over and over.
God is not a male in the sky, God is...
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in today's episode, we discuss how to notice qualities and traits in yourself and others without judging or condemning them, we discuss the healing in friendship while also navigating ending friendships, and i give my own little personal story on ending the heightened obsessive energy around my intensity so that i can enjoy my hobbies/passions/projects/relationships with intensity but without dysfunctional frantic obsessive energy lol!
love u ladies so much xoxox hope this was helpful
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love u girls sooo much!
btw here is a link to The Body of Wisdom: https://www.amazon.com/Body-Wisdom-Womens-Spiritual-Serves/dp/1780996969
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rambled a little bit on this one but hope u enjoy hehe. love u girls.
Making Peace With Aging YT Video: https://youtu.be/4NN1WlRzdNk
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My Ayahuasca Youtube Video: https://youtu.be/7v0cTCHc5qo
Love you girlies so much! Thank you for listening! Leave me a review !!!
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So honored to have Medicine Woman, Rossanita, on our podcast today. Rossanita held me through my initiation into plant medicine, particularly Ayahuasca and Wachuma, and her service through her work allowed me to release, integrate, and transform in the most magical and needed ways. i love her and believe in her work deeply. i also deeply believe in the work of her healing centered she has founded, The Apu Healing Center, and felt so safe and protected at her home. i have also created a Youtube Video discussing my experience with plant medicine, linked below.
Enjoy today's episode :)
My YouTube Video Discussing My Ayahuasca Experience: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7v0cTCHc5qo&feature=youtu.be
Rossanita's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/indigenous_daughter/
Apu Healing Center: https://apuhealingcenter.com/home
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Cycle Syncing Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000612879913
Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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Book recs:
- The Body of Wisdom by Hilary Hart: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/body-of-wisdom-womens-spiritual-power-and-how-it-serves_hilary-hart/3218254/?resultid=d4e33f77-1c80-426a-a361-bd2b233a330d#isbn=1780996969&edition=7820055
- When God Was a Woman by Merlin Stone: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/the-paradise-papers-the-suppression-of-womens-rites_merlin-stone/250140/?resultid=3f8558b7-ab6d-4824-8074-3d878d703dea#edition=2348980&idiq=2581368
- The Great Cosmic Mother: https://www.thriftbooks.com/w/the-great-cosmic-mother-rediscovering-the-religion-of-the-earth_barbara-mor_monica-sjoo/255542/?resultid=c496ca5e-e842-4031-90a0-9672b7ad1c0b#isbn=0062507915&edition=2334166
Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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2 more spots for group coaching: https://www.victoriadevall.com/group-coaching-for-women
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*important note: i have other spaces that hold me accountable such as therapists, mentors, and coaches :) that's another reason i don't desire friendships where they are holding me accountable- because i already do, and so do the people allocated to do so for me! so my friendships just need to be a safe space.
also!! i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
Group Coaching With Me: https://www.victoriadevall.com/group-coaching-for-women
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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"the real work you have to do is in the privacy of your own heart...love that which you can love and just keep expanding it" - ram dass
this is my favorite episode to date. lessons from my companion earth angels, tete and lavender.
love you.
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when doing your morning workout routine, how deeply can you drop into your purpose in that moment? is your purpose to stay in the frequency of love for yourself? is it to stay focused on your breath so that you can deepen into your true self, bringing you closer to god? is it to stay in the frequency of joy, because being alive and joyful is service in itself? is it to just do it with gratitude, because your presence and service to yourself and your body is enough?
Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
Cycles Journal Link: https://cyclesjournal.com/collections/shop-cycles-1/products/cycles-journal-2023
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Watch my New YOUTUBE VIDEO with a huge thrift/book haul: https://youtu.be/LVk3\_P8k144
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
Stop Trying to Save People: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000530527735
Stop Trying to Save People Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000547345421
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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TW: we discuss fasting in this episode.
Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
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the twitter thread mentioned (7 divine feminine archetypes): https://twitter.com/mane3sha/status/1553366711839395840?s=21&t=4j\_K7Sk57xMqjxmwILaaRw
4 archetypes of a woman's life span: maiden, mother, wild woman, crone
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Helooo ladies <3 thank you so much for listening to this podcast episode, i hope you enjoyed :’)
i am currently running a ~giveaway~ where you can win a free coaching session with me! all you have to do is write a review for my podcast on Apple Podcasts and send me a screenshot of your review to my dms on IG- and then you’re entered! it will be run until we hit 500 reviews, and once we hit 500, i will choose someone at random and tag you on my IG story ! Xoxoxox :***
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as i began to go on this journey of healing my internalized sexualization, things that were once okay with me were no longer okay. i found authentic boundaries and discomforts that were never known or established: i found out i'm no longer comfortable with sexual poses or booty bikini pics online. that i'm not comfortable with dresses that are too short, or my butt showing at all in shorts. little boundaries that were never established because as a child, "sexiness" was placed onto me. and perhaps most importantly, i learned to lead with my personality and essence in my interactions with others, instead of my sex appeal.
go watch my recent YouTube video!!! a big thrift + book haul :) : https://youtu.be/LVk3\_P8k144
tik tok about this: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRvPNpdh/
twitter thread about this: https://twitter.com/victoriadevall/status/1635033922122940418?s=20
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hi girlies, hope you enjoy today's episode exploring all the ins and outs of traveling alone as a woman! i will be uploading 2 YouTube videos about my time traveling alone in Mexico this past month, so go subscribe to my YouTube channel!! https://youtu.be/LVk3\_P8k144
ALSO- there will be a giveaway of a free coaching session with me once my Apple Podcast reviews get to 500 reviews !! so leave me a review on Apple Podcast & send me a screenshot on IG and you will be entered!
here is the link to the door lock: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00186URTY?psc=1&ref=ppx\_yo2ov\_dt\_b\_product\_details
here is the link to the protection potion: https://www.moonbeamherbs.com/shop/p/protection-potion
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Watch my YouTube video on "The Spiritual Truth About Abortion": https://youtu.be/fSM6ehJ2m5Q
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watch my new YouTube video!!!: https://youtu.be/99U72jcjJOo
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Dear My Beloved Ladies,
happy almost valentines day! <3 one of my favorite holidays! in today's episode i discussed a ~highly~ requested topic: how to get over a break up. within the episode, we also discussed some life updates for me, what i've been centering in my life lately, and sisterhood. if you'd like to get straight to relationship/dating advice, skip to minute 20. if you'd like to hear about me, start from the beginning!
i love you girls so much!
xoxox,
Victoria de Vall
my recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/2v5NVk2KDlg
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We have Maeve Moon MGHT Dip.SBM, @profitfromtrauma, on our podcast today, discussing her journey exiting sex work and creating a fulfilling, safe, healthy life. Maeve works as a Therapist, a Body Worker, an Energy Healer, and a Trauma Informed Therapeutic Coach to liberate women and all people, specifically working with trauma survivors, sex workers, survivors of sexual trauma, and addicts. I truly LOVE this woman and am so honored to have her as a guest. She is wise, connected, and she just gets it. I look up to her in so many ways, and am eternally inspired by her. Thank you for listening to us today, and here are Maeve's links below! ALSO...*this pod did have some audio issues so sometimes there is background noise/my voice gets very small for some reason so pls ignore and enjoy maeve's wisdom and our lovely convo hehe..thx xoxoxo*
Maeve's Instagram: @profit\_from\_trauma https://instagram.com/profit\_from\_trauma?igshid=ZDdkNTZiNTM=
Tiktok: tiktok.com/@profitfromtrauma
Website: www.profitfromtrauma.com
The Soul Suite in the UK: https://www.profitfromtrauma.com/thesoulsuiteledbury
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my recent youtube video: https://youtu.be/2v5NVk2KDlg
my mutual who inspired this episode: @mahamaven
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*disclaimer: there are many people who genuinely engage in and love polyamory and for whom polyamory is their authentic relationship style. this episode is discussing women who do not authentically resonate with polyamory, but contort and coerce themselves into it in an attempt to keep a man.
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the feminine archetype thread: https://twitter.com/mane3sha/status/1553366711839395840?s=21&t=4j\_K7Sk57xMqjxmwILaaRw&fbclid=PAAabH2zojo6\_oKDjXGoUyRSc73mVK\_29G3IYSYnwLoRpRM\_a4tHt5rb-Pc2s
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Thank you girls so much for listening! I hope this was helpful. xoxoxo
*correction: Steve Jobs read The Autobiography of a Yogi every single year, it was the only book downloaded on his iPad, and he had it handed out to everyone at his memorial service after his passing.
source: https://yssofindia.org/blog/autobiography-of-a-yogi-last-gift-of-steve-jobs
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today's episode discusses the inherent differences between the patriarchal purity culture versus stepping into your sacred womanhood. thank you girls so much for listening to my podcast and continually supporting!
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Podcasts mentioned in this episode:
Why We Eroticize Our Wounds: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000546654776
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this episode is back by popular demand <3 once deleted, now re-uploaded...
hope you girls enjoy!
WATCH MY YT VIDEO: the cutest, most genuine, sweet November Vlog YouTube video link:https://youtu.be/miu41AQsTt0
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Podcasts mentioned in this episode:
Preventing Pregnancy Naturally: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000583532703
Healing Your Womb after Sexual Trauma: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000557784654
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this episode is so special to me. it is about how i healed my relationship with my mom. our sisterhood is so special, so rare, so genuine. i think I may do a part 2 just on how special and unique our relationship is. i feel almost a little protective with letting this episode out, but i hope you girls enjoy.
*disclaimer: do not use my relationship with my mother to gaslight yourself out of your own unique boundaries and/or relationship with your own mother. sometimes healing your mother wound looks like ending the relationship you have with your mother. my mother and i happen to be able to heal our wounds together, for many others that may not be possible and/or may not be what is best for you. i personally am “no contact” with my father- sometimes we can heal together, and sometimes we need to separate. both are unique sides of healing that are yours to claim. xoxoxo*
watch my most recent YouTube video: https://youtu.be/miu41AQsTt0
podcasts mentioned in episode:
Stop Trying to Save People: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000530527735
Stop Trying to Save People Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000547345421
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Podcasts mentioned in the episode:
- eroticized wounds podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000546654776
- why you should stop watching porn: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000552306686
- connecting with your womb after trauma: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000557784654
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when you are on your embodiment journey doing the deep inner work, it is best to not even focus on "where all the good men are." set your intention to be with one one day or to connect with them, and then release it and let Life handle it. focus instead on your own joy, your own embodiment, your own pleasure. if you are too busy focusing on where your man is or where all the amazing men are, you will lose sight of your embodiment and empowerment, which is the most important thing.
the most important advice i can give you is just to be you fully, enjoy your life fully as a single woman, find out what you like and enjoy and what fulfills you, and just be fully on YOUR path. from that space of fulfillment and clarity and purpose, you are magnetic to a man who is also on a similar path, and he will find you. but don't even focus on that. just focus on being in your purpose, your pleasure, and on your path.
another important aspect of this is that when you start to no longer resonate with dusty men or patriarchal men, the most important thing you can do is reject those types of men. that allows you to no longer "see them" on a day to day basis. misogynistic or not fully embodied men would hit on me all of the time or want to be friends with me during my celibacy, and I would just reject reject reject. this clears space for wonderful men to step in, and it also tells Life I'm not longer willing to settle.
my video on 2 years of celibacy: https://youtu.be/yu2O-SD9Gqg
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men to follow that help you see that good men exist:
- @byermeas
- @lorinkrenn
- @dominickq
- @mantalks
- @matt_cama
- @john_wineland
- @holistic.life.navigation
- recently i connected with @eliburen, he is amazing!
- there's so many others, I'll leave it at this list!!
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TW: discussing SA from: 5 minutes in to 12 minutes
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a lot of times healing - especially healing within the context of dating men- can be made to be easy or simple, and for women who have been in the trenches of disempowerment like myself (lol), we know that these simple things are not that simple, and our progress may look messy- as it should! this episode is discussing how our healing journey with dating or in general may look messy and un-aesthetic, and that is completely okay.
love you girls so much!
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Healing Sexual Shame Podcast Episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000553801993
Lydia's IG Post I Read & Was Inspired By: https://www.instagram.com/p/Ck9KEzbKCxJ/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
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hope you guys loved today's episode on how i shop entirely second hand <3 (besides household essentials, beauty products, etc :) )
link to documentary: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/amzn1.dv.gti.2cb4c101-7d36-5730-bca6-3719ef7bc650?autoplay=0&ref_=atv_cf_strg_wb
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hope you guys enjoyed this pod episode <3
My other pod episodes on this:
Stop Trying To Save People: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000530527735
Stop Trying To Save People Part 2: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000547345421
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the book i was discussing: A New Earth by Eckhart Tolle
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thank you Daysy for sponsoring today's episode, i love you <3 i hope you girlies enjoyed learning about how i prevent pregnancy while not on hormonal birth control!
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first interview on the pod- eeeeek ! <3 i hope you girls enjoyed!
in today's podcast, I had the honor of having one of my dear friends, Maggie Doyne, join us. Maggie is incredible: she won CNN Hero of The Year in 2015, she founded a children's school and a thriving non problematic and actually helpful non profit, and has radically altered our world.
i have known Maggie for around 10 years, and the day we recorded this podcast, she had come over to help me prepare for a big business meeting I had the next day and we ended up recording this episode together in my room. I hope you all enjoy :')
Maggie has a NEW BOOK out!!!!!!! it is AMAZING! Maggie gifted me her book a few months back and i read it in one day: it is moving, well written, and inspiring.
please pick up a copy of her book to learn about her journey: https://www.amazon.com/Between-Mountain-Sky-Mothers-Healing/dp/0785240284/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=
please pick up a copy of Maggie's book, Between the Mountain and the Sky- and tag me on IG if you order it i want to see hehehehe.
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omg guys it was hard to interview!!!!!! especially because it was just spur of the moment! still, i hope you guys enjoyed this conversation. i love you <3
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thank you Daysy for sponsoring today's episode, i love you <3 i hope you girlies enjoyed learning about how i prevent pregnancy while not on hormonal birth control!
ladies, i also highly recommend having a fertility doula or educator that you work with in the beginning who can customize a natural fertility plan to you. i found an abortion doula that also does natural fertility planning and i will actually be working with her to even deepen my natural fertility practices soon. because i am fertile and i absolutely do not want to be pregnant at the moment- and if I did become pregnant i would not continue the pregnancy- it does feel like the stakes are high. having a support system and someone to personally guide you through it is invaluable because they have much more knowledge than we might have.
with birth control, as discussed in the podcast, it is important to understand that while yes- birth control is harmful to the body-, for many women it is less harmful than the pregnancy they might have should they be off of it. birth control is not the root of oppression, it is a symptom of it. we have been oppressed and as a result, we lost of natural connection to our bodies. coming from that space of disconnection, we have to be able to make the most empowering decisions for ourselves given our circumstances. if you desire to make birth control be obsolete- or at the very least not as common as it is now- start with the root by empowering women to begin healing our emotional and physical trauma, connecting to our bodies and our standards.
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cycles journal: https://cyclesjournal.com/collections/shop-cycles-1/products/cycles-journal-2023
"plant b" tincture i use: https://mama-de-la-myco.myshopify.com/products/plant-b-queen-annes-lace-tincture
book: taking charge of your fertility by toni weschler
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TW: we discuss sexual assault and rape in this episode
in today's episode, we discuss why sexual discipline in a man is so important. we discuss questions to ask him to see if he has sexual discipline, the politics of it, and all the ins and outs.
today's episode is more ~intense~ because the topic is intense and important.
xoxo,
Victoria de Vall
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in today's episode, we are discussing divine femininity and divine masculinity within the framework of LGBTQ+ relationships.
this was one of my more requested pod episodes, and i hope you girlies enjoy. LOVE YOU
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Victoria de Vall
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in today's podcast episode, we discuss the dire need for women to own what is fun for them, and to disown what is not fun for them. with that disowning, also comes disowning of any experiences, people, things, or places that embody what is not fun for you- which can trigger your abandonment wound.
there's another aspect of this conversation which is women abandoning their desires to be seen as fun to men, which is covered in my podcast "Death of the Chill Girl", here it is: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/victorias-thoughts/id1578299105?i=1000561948857
*right after i took this podcast, my boyfriend came in my room and told me he booked us a private ballroom dancing class so we can learn how to dance together and that is SO FRICKING FUN TO MEEEE eeekk. people that have the same idea of fun as you >>
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Victoria de Vall
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in today's episode, we discuss healthy dependency and the initiations that occur within deeply healthy, conscious, and loving unions, and why this is triggering for many women.
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in today's episode, we discuss life and death cycles and the ways in which holding these life and death cycles does NOT negate the importance of veganism.
important note: as specified at the end of the podcast, if you had an abortion experience you feel you did not feel fully, suppressed emotions on, or accumulated karmic debt with: you are not trapped in this. the way to move through this is to communicate with that spirit telling the spirit your truth- that you didn't know how else to move through it at the time or that you would like to create a spiritual release between you two now even though you didn't specify that before, and also feel your authentic feelings (anger, happiness, sadness, joy, etc). create a ritual on a specific night where you feel into these feelings, ritualistically release the experience and the soul, etc.
*note: just because a soul chose to reincarnate as a cow that is being raised for slaughter does not mean you are free in your karma to slaughter the cow. the cow's karma is its own , and your karma is your own. if you choose to eat the cow, you have now just created your own karma. the cow has its own, and so do you.
xoxox,
Victoria de Vall
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today's episode is a part II to last weekend's episode, "Divine Masculine Men vs. Mature Masculine Men, Divine Unions vs. Healthy Relationships, & 1rst Stage Polarity vs. 3rd Stage Polarity".
- discussing 3rd stage polarity versus 1rst stage polarity is something i learned from @wayofdevotion and she credits these terms to David Deida! I am still new to discussing 3rd stage polarity as well..:) all of the discussions around 3rd stage polarity in today's podcast are directly from @wayofdevotion. she put words to what i knew to be true in my heart!
in today's episode, we discuss the relationship type "conscious relationships", we discuss moving through different layers of polarity, and we discuss the different levels of maturation of the divine masculine man.
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS: committed to safety, personal needs being met, love
CONSCIOUS RELATIONSHIPS: committed to healing and growth as a unit
discussing 3rd stage polarity versus 1rst stage polarity is something i learned from @wayofdevotion and she credits these terms to David Deida! I am still new to discussing 3rd stage polarity as well..:)
thank you so much for listening to me xxxooxox
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today's episode is teaching you how to "hold the paradox," a lost feminine art that has been suppressed in our modern society. without the ability to "hold the paradox," we are unable to ground ourselves in truth, experience unity of thoughts/ideas/experiences, make empowered decisions, or experience our true and full emotions.
i love you girls so much!
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hi girls, i love you so much thank you for listening! please leave a review if you enjoy :)
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i love you guys so much!
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hope you guys enjoy today's ep! <3
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Victoria de Vall
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enjoy my girlies <3
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hi girlies ily.
comment on my most recent insta any pod ideas, ily.
my collaboration with Zahav Jewelry is still going on!!!!! use code VIC30
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hello my girlies, today's episode is sponsored by Zahav Jewelry, a family run and sustainable gold jewelry business in Brooklyn NYC. use my code VIC30 for 30% off!!!!!!!! literally all their jewelry is amazing and is around $100. you deserve to be draped in gold!
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hi guys, i'm back :)
forgive me for not posting last weekend, i was vacationing in atlanta :)
the quick answer to today's episode is: it can be. it all depends on the space you are coming from within.
love you guys so much
xo,
Victoria
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my beloved girls, i hope you enjoy this episode! and ps- subscribe to my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBNPCXo4vyWG-MhYLY4Y4mg
my Chakrubs Collab is still happening, go to Chakrubs.com and use code VICTORIADEVALL10
ilove you <3
he doesn't need to be a narcissist to be an abuser.
intro calls are now available for august! book your free 1:1 introduction call starting in august at victoriadevall.com
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https://chakrubs.com/products/the-chakrubs-method-workbook-for-yoni-eggs (if you get a yoni egg, get this too!!!)
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in today's episode, we discuss practical ways you can create healthy sexuality with your partner as you are unlearning your patriarchal conditioning that has previously coerced you into disconnecting from your body, ignoring your pain, desires, and authenticity, and performing instead of connecting.
today's episode is sponsored by Chakrubs (!!!!! I'm so happy) https://chakrubs.com and you can use my code VICTORIADEVALL10 for 10% off!
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https://chakrubs.com/products/the-xaga-root
https://chakrubs.com/products/the-chakrubs-method-workbook-for-yoni-eggs (if you get a yoni egg, get this too!!!)
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in today's episode, we delve into what the dark feminine is, how needed it is in today's society, the reclamation of it, and how our fear and disconnection from the dark feminine shapes the way we speak about abortion, and our needs/desires in general.
if you'd like to do 1:1 coaching with me, you can learn more at my website victoriadevall.com
xox,
Victoria
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in this episode, my love (@byermeas) & i discuss how being in a nourishing and healthy relationship changed us both. i discuss relaxing into my femininity (& relaxing in general), feeling safe with other women, and coming into my purpose while he discusses his service to the world and breaking down the barriers to trust another fully.
love you guys so much,
xoxo,
Victoria
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today’s episode is about women’s fear of our own femininity, a fear that has been conditioned into us for thousands of years.
xoxo,
Victoria de Vall
welcome to my birthday special :') where we delve into some more personal questions about my life and experiences! hope you guys enjoy, i love you!
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in today's episode, we discuss why women try to control men, and my case for why we should stop. we dive into how this behavior enables us to not take accountability for our lives, feeds our trauma responses, and disrespects our inner child.
love you guys so much,
xoxo,
Victoria
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when you crave the validation of weak men so deeply that you will cheer as your innocent sisters burn, you forget that what they are burning is you.
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every woman, deep in her heart, requires emotional and physical safety to feel truly relaxed in the journey of pregnancy and motherhood. throughout the centuries, we have conditioned ourselves to forget that we have requirements for motherhood: having a safe, dedicated, and loving partner, being materially provided for so you can rest during pregnancy and postpartum, having your emotional needs met by your partner, having your unique requirements specific to you stated and met, etc. however, in this day and age now, women have no semblance of understanding that they should have their requirements met to have a child. because of this, mothers live miserable and unfulfilling lives. furthermore, women tend to use motherhood to avoid their lives and themselves. for example, a woman might be unhappy with the level of love she has received in her life, and because of this, she decides to have a child in hopes of receiving unconditional love (manipulative & abusive); or, she might not like the dating prospects she sees or she may not actually like or love her husbands husband or partner, and so she has a child to distract herself.
what women are forgetting here, and what this episode aims to remind us, is that children are a small phase of your life: they will leave, you will not be their priority, they will start their own families and have their own spouses, and you will be stuck with the same unfulfilling life and partner, right where you started.
don't avoid your life through motherhood. instead, cultivate a life you are excited about and fulfilled in. and when you are ready- if you desire- when you feel safe and secure and supported, choose to be a servant of a child by serving their soul's evolution through their childhood and adolescence. anything less than this is asking for struggle motherhood, and we're not doing that anymore.
xoxo
Victoria
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in today's episode, we talk about the deep healing that occurs when we choose a man who we can truly trust, a man who we can put our guard down 100% with and know we are safer with it down than we ever were with it up.
we also discuss why we choose men we cannot trust, and how that strengthens our wounds.
if you'd like to dive further, you can book coaching with me at victoriadevall.com
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today's episode is all about how to receive from a man and from life. we talk about being provided for by a man, genuine vulnerability, and having standards. there is a certain level of vulnerability that comes with receiving from a man you RESPECT. deeply. and that's what we are discussing today :) love you guys and hope you enjoy
xoxoxox,
Victoria
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hi girlies, this was just a quick episode i took when Jeremie went to the store real quick :) i hope you all enjoy, love you!
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today's episode is all about how I healed my period and my own personal journey with going from extremely painful periods to painless periods. I understand that everyone's experience is different and unique, but I share the way I healed my period in hopes that it gives direction and guidance to others who resonate and are looking to do the same!
I also understand that trans-people have their own unique experience with periods and did not touch on this as much in this episode but it is still valid and important.
love you guys :*
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hi girls, today is the best episode ever on how to heal your inner child.
hope you enjoy :')
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love you all :*
in today's episode, i speak on some tips for women looking to receive a truly safe and masculine king: from not pedestaling him to deciding when to sleep with him, i dive into it all! of course, for any of this to work, you must be at a truly embodied and safe space within yourself.
to learn how to do this, you can apply for my 3 month coaching program, and schedule your FREE intro call with me on my website: victoriadevall.com
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in this episode, i tell you everything you need to know about how to heal your anxious attachment. it all comes down to building trust with yourself by feeling your feelings and holding yourself through the emotions that arise. doing this over and over until you have created a new, healthy baseline.
another thing i did not mention is that especially right when you meet a possible romantic love interest, it is sooo important to be securely attached. if you are not, you will bypass your own feelings or emotions all because you don't want them to abandon you. when you are unafraid of being abandoned, when you are unafraid of feeling your "uncomfortable" emotions, you can show up to them fully embodied, and fully able to sit in a seat of power that asks "do I like them? do they meet my needs? is anything they are doing making me feel uncomfortable?" you will be willing to look at them evenly, because you are okay if they do not like you or want you. from that space, you can ask yourself if you even like them, or if they are meeting all your standards/boundaries.
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in this episode, i deep dive into everything you need to know about how to heal your relationship with your womb: yoni massage, yoni mapping, vaginal dearmoring, radical reclamation, why we are disempowered, healing sexual trauma, coming into union with your womb, ancestral work...EVERYTHING.
another big thing is you cannot eat animals or animal products !!!
if you'd like to dive deeper into 1:1 coaching and get to the next level of your life and become the embodied woman your heart yearns to be, you can book coaching with me at : victoriadevall.com
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book I referenced: Yoni Massage by Michaela Riedl
love you guys! :*
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hi you guys, this is a comprehensive podcast about veganism: why to go vegan, how to go vegan, the animal environmental and human rights injustices that surround animal agriculture.
comment on my last insta any questions you still have about veganism :)
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in today's episode, i speak on how to set boundaries, how to not abandon yourself, and how to allow someone else's reaction to your boundary. hope you guys enjoy :*
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hi girlies. hope you enjoy today's episode!!
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hi girls. this episode is all about releasing shame from your past sexual experiences; experiences where you may have been disrespected, treated poorly, touched by hands that didn't cherish you, or sexually violated. i love you all so much and i hope this episode helps you remember that there is nothing you have ever done sexually that could make you less valuable, less worthy, less divine, less holy. enjoy :)
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hi girls <3 in this episode I speak about why it is absolutely imperative why you and all people stop watching porn. i speak about the innate level of objectification of another human that it takes to watch porn, i speak about how it disconnects you from your femininity and body, i speak about how it is misogyny and not empowering, and so much more. this direct dehumanization of women is extremely disturbing to me, so i was a little upset in this podcast, which is part of natural ~feminine rage~ which is the rage and anger that women feel when they are saying the truth that has been denied. i love you guys so much!
I also mentioned an incredible woman and ex sex worker, @profitfromtrauma, in this episode- check her out on IG and Tik Tok! i loveeeee her and resonate with her truth so deeply, she is amazing.
and of course, this is a safe space for sex workers. we support sex workers here, we love them, we want the best for them, we want safer working conditions, and we NEVER shame them.
thank you all for listening!
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hi guys :) today, we are talking about the whole "liking other girls pictures" phenomenon. what I say in this podcast is also applicable to complimenting other women and watching p*rn. men of value do not do any of these things. their main priority is protecting your heart and making you feel safe. if the container he provides has all these holes with space for his attention on other women, he has not provided anything, and he has no idea what it means to be a man.
stop trying to change your low quality man, and love yourself instead. :*
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Hi girlies. I did a little special on all things healthy relationships for valentines day! I went into detail on the difference between healthy and toxic relationships, how to get into healthy relationships, how to see more healthy men in the world, and what my relationship looks like hehe. love you guys so much!!
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if you'd like to go deeper 1:1 with me on any of these topics, i offer women's coaching on my website :) love you guys!
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hello girlies, today I talk about why alignment is better than manifestation, and how all things flow from alignment. I love you guys and also I'm holding a zoom session this friday 1/28 where I'm holding a healing girls session !!! you can join through my website under the tab: "healing session 1/28". I hope to see you all there :)
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soooo we have the most wise, masculine man on the podcast today- my MANNNNNNNN. we spoke about his experience coming into his masculinity, his connection with his feminine (you can't be masculine if you don't have a connection with your feminine), feminine rage and the masculine's role in this. hope you guys enjoy!
his instagram: @byermeas , @jeremielouis and his poetry book is called Memories of a Love Never Born by Ermeas on Amazon.
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hey girlies, I know everyone has been waiting on this episode and it's finally here- all things femininity; the playful, sensual, feeling side, the chaotic, destructive, ferocious side, the necessity for a healthy relationship with your own masculine if you ever want a full relationship with your feminine, the repression of full femininity in your sexuality...all of that and more is discussed ! i love you guys so much, leave me a review if you liked this episode, become one of my coaching clients through my website, and/or leave me a tip if you liked this episode and want to continue supporting me!
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in this episode, i speak on the idea that we want others to wake up from their toxic cycles because we truly care about them - however, this is not true. in truth, we want others to do this because we do not want to sit with the discomfort that comes with the other person being right where they are, and the boundaries we might have to enforce as a result. If we can sit and accept them right where they are without trying to change them, we can be objective, place boundaries, and remove ourselves from the enmeshment that comes with the desire for anyone else to be anywhere other than right where they are.
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in this episode, I speak about the eroticization of our pain, trauma, and wounds, and how it keeps us locked in a cage that we then identify with and believe is our sexual identity. this podcast is an offering so that we may all sit with our pain and release it and discover the fullness of the true embodiment of our sexuality on the other side and not stay trapped in its distortions.
if you'd like to talk more about this or receive direct advice or coaching, you can find booking in my website.
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happy 2022!
p.s I actually did get to my podcast rebrand hehe
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In this episode, I delve into what REAL masculinity looks like in a man. I hope you all enjoy :)
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In this episode, I speak about how to leave a toxic man. I hope you guys enjoy :)
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in this episode, I speak on faking orgasms and what that says about our connection to ourselves. in my experience, faking orgasms made it easier for me to stay in unhealthy relationships/situations because I was able to hide. faking orgasms, in my opinion, is another way we enable ourselves out of our true embodiment. I'll explain more in the episode, hope you enjoy :)
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in this podcast, I delve into loving yourself fully- which means sitting with all of the parts of yourself that you have shamed, labelled unpresentable, denied, or been embarrassed of. I delve into being ashamed of past sexual experiences, having an anxious attachment style, and how I move through feelings of unworthiness when they arise. owning all of you- the parts you are ashamed of, too- is true embodiment. That being said, loving all parts of ourselves does not necessarily mean indulging in behaviors or past versions of ourselves that we don't feel are aligned with the lives we are looking to build- however, the key is loving and UNDERSTANDING these parts of you- deeply- and then letting them go, if you are no longer interesting in feeding them. hope you guys enjoy and if you do, leave me a review! :)
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In this podcast, I wanted to speak on the phenomenon of "saving people." In my life, I've experienced this in 2 main forms- 1. where someone WANTS to be "saved" and is encouraging you to act in a codependent manner, and 2. where someone doesn't want to be "saved" and you are projecting and interjecting into their life. Either way, these ways of acting are not authentic. When my father went to prison last year, I hit rock bottom with this "savior" dynamic. I was miserable, coming from a complete place of illusion, and wasn't able to clearly validate his situation as it was, because I believed I needed to save him from it. Through hitting rock bottom, I was able to liberate myself from all the ways I had been engaging in this "saving" dynamic- with family, friends, and romantic relationships. This is my experience and my insight into "saving." Hope you enjoy, and if you do, leave me a review :)
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Lately I've been thinking a lot about this masculine shield I have that I accepted for a lot of my life as just part of my personality. As I get more honest with myself, I realize that it is a shield I've put up for 10+ years because I felt threatened and perpetually unsafe. As an adult, this protective, trauma induced armor that I've held for so long is something I no longer want to carry, and something I feel blocks myself and all women from experiencing the safety that we truly crave and deserve.
These are my thoughts, hope you enjoy :)
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