The Life Well Lived Podcast: Recent Episodes
Shane Breslin
David Brooks, a New York Times writer, wrote a piece not long ago which touched on my guest on this episode of the Life Well Lived Podcast. Titled "Longing for an Internet cleanse", Brooks’s short article lamented how we have come to view and experience time in the instantaneous “everything now” age we live in. The article was subtitled “a small rebellion against the quickening of time”, and Brooks wrote tellingly about the work and words of Mako Fujimura.
Brooks wrote:
"There is a rapid, dirty river of information coursing through us all day. If you’re in the news business, or a consumer of the news business, your reaction to events has to be instant or it is outdated. If you’re on social media, there are these swarming mobs who rise out of nowhere, leave people broken and do not stick around to perform the patient Kintsugi act of gluing them back together. Probably like you, I’ve felt a great need to take a break from this pace every once in a while and step into a slower dimension of time. Mako’s paintings are very good for these moments … Mako once advised me to stare at one of his paintings for 10 to 12 minutes. I thought it would be boring, but it was astonishing. As I stood still in front of it, my eyes adjusted to the work. What had seemed like a plain blue field now looked like a galaxy of color."
Mako Fujimura is a world-renowned Japanese-American artist, writer and advocate for creativity.
His fellow artist Robert Kushner has described Mako’s work as “a new kind of art, about hope, healing, redemption and refuge”.
Mako’s latest book, Art and Faith: A Theology of Making, is published this month by Yale University Press.
It is an exploration of creativity’s quintessential—and often overlooked—role in the spiritual life.
Conceived over thirty years of painting and creating in his studio, this book is Mako Fujimura’s broad and deep exploration of creativity and the spiritual aspects of “making” as he comes into the quiet space in the studio in a discipline of awareness, waiting, prayer, and praise.
During this conversation we try to explore this sense, of creativity and wonder and spirituality, and how those two things align.
In this conversation, we talk about:
- What the experience of creative flow feels like
- The gift of creativity, and how Mako no longer fears that gift being taken away
- The influence of memory and experience, both from his own life and the lives of his ancestors, on his work
- Global diversity, warring factions and the oneness of humanity
- The battle between artistic freedom and commercial success
- Why he writes
- What Mako learned about the universality of experience from some time spent in Cork, Ireland
- How religion and church doctrine has failed humanity, and where we, individually and collectively, might go from here
I hope you enjoy this conversation with artist and writer Mako Fujimura, about art, creativity, spirituality, beauty, freedom and life, as much as I did.
TIMESTAMPS
1:00: A small rebellion against the quickening of time
7:30: What creative flow might feel like
20:00: Does Mako fear the gift of creativity disappearing or being taken away?
20:45: His art and how it might be described, through Japanese lineage and training
28:00: Individual experience added to intergenerational and ancestral memory
30:00: Race, nationality, culture, individual expression and the oneness of humanity
39:42: How we might prepare ourselves for success
41:10: Lewis Hyde's book The Gift, and how the gift economy can peacefully co-exist with capitalistic society
49:39: The battle between freedom and commercial success
53:10: Why he writes
1:00:00: Church and religious expression and where we go from
Productivity is one of those areas that has exploded into a major industry over the past couple of decades.
The concept of productivity is something that started out, really, in the 18th and 19th centuries from an industrial capitalist imperative to “produce” as much as possible from the resources available. Out of the American baby boom generation which came of age in the corporate landscape of the 1970s and ‘80s came two major milestones in the history of personal productivity that have influenced the way so many of us do so many things: firstly, the book Getting Things Done by David Allen was published in 2001, which was described by Wired magazine as “a new cult for the info age” and the Guardian as ideas that are nothing short of life-changing", and secondly, and more broadly, the rise of the Internet as an almost free tool available to almost everybody, and which with its array of social networks and apps, many of them driven by the technology companies of California’s Silicon Valley, has transformed the way we do everything.
The guest on this episode is Khe Hy, the founder of Rad Reads, a collection of essays and blogs and workbooks and techniques which takes a wise, perhaps even spiritual, approach to productivity.
Khe has built Rad Reads after what he calls his “third of a life crisis”, when he quit Wall Street after 14 years working in the financial world.
Among the things we talk about are:
- The life lessons he learned from his career in high finance
- How productivity might fit into happiness
- How he thinks about the concepts of doing and being
- Tools that help us get things done, and what we might need to do first
- Khe's powerful “$10,000 per hour” framework, which allows us to consider the value of the things we do in the context of two simple questions
- The coronavirus pandemic, and what Khe has learned about himself and his place in the world from the events of the past 12 months.
Timestamps:
7:00: "Third of a life crisis" ... "Ambition treadmill to nowhere" ...
11:00: Lessons about money from 14 years on Wall Street
14:00: The power of compounding
16:00: We are our own worst enemies
17:20: Understanding how the system works
21:00: Productivity and happiness
25:30: Doing vs being
36:00: The three key components of productivity
43:30: The place of tools
48:30: The $10,000 per hour framework
54:40: What he's learned about himself from the pandemic year
This is Episode Number 35 of the Life Well Lived Podcast, with the co-founder of Creating the Future, Hildy Gottlieb.
Hildy Gottlieb is a social scientist and the founder of an organisation called Creating the Future.
Creating the Future is focused on helping people and organisations to change the systems they find themselves in, to aim those systems at bringing out the best in people, all by changing the questions they ask.
The movement is a multi-year experiment to answer the question, “If people everywhere are asking the kinds of questions that bring out the best in themselves and those around them, how much more humane could the world be?”
During this wide-ranging conversation we talk about:
- The discovery that despite great work being done by bright people in forward-thinking organisations, nothing was changing
- Creating the Future’s "Catalytic Thinking" framework, based on research on what makes positive change happen - and what, specifically, is not happening when people struggle to create change?
- The mission of Creating the Future to conduct a multi-year experiment with Catalytic Thinking, and share the lessons learned through the work so that anybody can create change
- The blurring of the lines between traditional for-profit, non-profit and public sector organisations and the trend towards "profit for purpose", "conscious capitalism" and other ideas around "business for good"
- The disconnect between the stock market and the world that the vast majority of people live in
- How big systems, which can cause a convoluted mass of problems in so many ways for so many people, might be challenged and changed
- The concept of “collective enoughness”, and why competition has in many ways created the unsustainability that the world is grappling to deal with now
- How systems have coached generations of children to feel not enough, and how that manifests in tens or hundreds of millions of people around the world
- The neuroscience of thinking from a place of fear, and how it is utilised by advertisers, marketers and politicians, and how love can overcome that fear
- How trying to ask the right question is the wrong approach
- Navigating the "messy middle" between where we find ourselves and where we might want to go
I do hope you enjoy this conversation with the co-founder of Creating the Future, Hildy Gottlieb.
Links mentioned in the show:
- Creating a Better World Means Asking Better Questions [Stanford Review article]
- The Creating The Future website
- Watch Hildy Gottlieb's TEDx talk here
My guest on this episode of the show is Dr Nicola Porter.
Nicola Porter has been a lecturer in psychology for the best part of 20 years and has in recent years added an accreditation in executive and life coaching and established a practice specialising in career coaching and career change for mid-career professionals.
This set of skills and experiences allows Nicola to combine everything she's earned from psychology and the science of behavior, with professional coaching tools and techniques to provide an effective and evidence driven approach to career change for her clients.
In this conversation, we chat about everything from the micro to the macro of careers and the working life.
We talk about the next best step that someone can take if they're struggling in their day to day professional career, about finding that spark that can breathe new life into the working week.
We chat about taking part in “career experiments” and how it’s more possible now than it has ever been before to put a toe into the waters of a career change without needing to dive straight into the deep end.
We chat about the workplace, the challenges of management and leadership, and how people as individuals are often rated or judged exclusively on their output, rather than their whole self, and how individuals themselves are often their own harshest judges.
We go through the detachment from meaning that’s so common to the working experience for so many people these days.
And we also consider the prevailing landscape in 2020 and beyond, with the effects of a global pandemic and the economic fallout from that, about the certainty of uncertainty in our lives and careers, and about how right now, in this strange year, might be the best time to lay the foundations of future career progression.
All that and more in my conversation with academic psychologist and career change coach, Nicola Porter.
Find out more about Nicola's work at www.coachd.ie.
Other items mentioned in this conversation:
- Putty Like - A home for multi-potentialites
- Watch Emily Wapnick's Ted Talk "Why Some of Us Don't Have One True Calling" on YouTube
- The concept of "possible selves" from the book Working Identity: Unconventional Strategies for Reinventing Your Career, by Herminia Ibarra
- Values In Action survey
Tom Meyers is an osteopath and body-centred stress-coach based in Brussels, Belgium, and also a forward thinker and facilitator of change, with the aim of helping to empower people to live well in body, mind and spirit and lead with resilience in an exponentially changing world.
He has also become a thought leader on the topic of The Future, and how we might proactively build the future version of ourselves. On that topic of looking forward, he speaks regularly at events, is the author of the book Futurize Yourself and is currently busy organising TEDxVilvoorde Online, which due to the pandemic will take place in a virtual setting on October 10th next.
In this episode we chatted about:
- Tom’s journey from chef and failing, directionless businessman, through two decades of self-development to his new career as an osteopath and body-centred stress coach
- How finding purpose, a sense of life and contributing to the world, and the innate feeling that comes with doing something that is meaningful
- Why he resists most tools and products, instead discovering the ability to work from anywhere without requiring anything apart from his mind and his knowledge and his skills
- Finding out who you are while working within your field of potential
- The changing world and how we might prepare ourselves for the uncertain future that comes with exponential change in work, technology and society at large
Links mentioned in this episode:
- Tom is the organiser of TEDxVilvoorde Online, which takes place on October 10th next. Click here for more details on TEDxVilvoorde
- Tom's book Futurize Yourself: Design Your Life on Purpose is available via Amazon here
- More information on Tom's work is available via these websites:
https://www.futurizeyourself.com/
http://www.meyerstom.com/
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This is Episode 32 of the Life Well Lived Podcast.
Most of the episodes of this podcast so far have been broadly about self-awareness, self-exploration and self-improvement.
A big part of the motivation for the show is to offer help or guidance for individuals to explore and express their individuality, so that they can live each day in a way that’s aligned and purposeful, which over time can add up to a fulfilled and happy life.
There is a meme that goes around the Internet and it says:
“Happiness is an inside job.”
The way we think about things has an outsized impact on our happiness both in the micro moment and in the macro long-term too.
But equally, there is lots about living a happy life that is outside our own individual control.
So this podcast will include some more episodes and interviews about bigger issues affecting humanity as a whole, such as universal basic income, agriculture and food sources, and the biggest issue of them all, climate change.
This episode of the podcast is the first step in that direction.
My guest in this episode is Professor Carlos Moreno.
Carlos is a professor in IT at the Sorbonne University in Paris, France. He was born in Colombia and moved to France when he was 20, and for the past four decades he has been leading research that is certain to deliver tangible benefits for people all over the world in the years and decades to come. A key specialism for Prof Moreno is intelligent control of complex systems, and to that end he has dedicated much of his work towards the concept of Living Cities or Smart Cities, and in recent years has developed the concept of “the 15-minute city”, which he speaks about at length in this episode.
As a result of his work in research and education, Prof Moreno was awarded the rank of Chevalier of the Order of the Legion of Honour in Paris, one of France’s highest accolades, in 2010
One final thing to note before the interview.
Prof Moreno is from Colombia and has lived in France for approximately 40 years. English is perhaps his third or fourth language, and while he is fluent and delivers some exceptional answers here, if you have any problems understanding his accent, I have made this full podcast available as a written transcription too.
To access that free download,visit www.shanebreslin.com/32 where you will find a PDF download. I promise you that it will add greatly to the enjoyment and learning you will get from this episode.
In this show, we discuss:
- The concept of the 15-Minute City
- American Jane Jacobs and living cities
- Edgar Morin and theories of complexity
- The South American writers and the theory of "topophilia", or the love of place
- The rise of the "zombie geek" and technology-driven disconnection of people and place
- Why it's so important to get this right, in the context of wider social unrest during the Covid-19 pandemic
- Some examples of cities around the world which are making great progress in their approach to urban planning
Time stamps
- 4:00: First two weeks of separation
- 8:00: Six years old, and the knock on the door. Everyone afraid to ask a question
- 11:30: Young mothers forcibly separated from their children
- 14:00: How Tony felt different. Questions of identity
- 16:30: Fear of not fitting in, fear of rejection and fear of the religious orders
- 23:00: Alcohol and its impact on his life and relationships
- 36:00: What the recovery journey looks like
- 39:00: The phone call that saved his life
- 42:30: Finding and facing up to the root of the problem
- 49:00: The six words that can change your life╝
- 57:00: Trying to trace and contact with birth mother
- 1:02:00: Why closure is not possible
- 1:04:00: Psychotherapy and helping people beyond addiction
- 1:08:00: Two books Tony recommends
For more on Tony Dunne’s practice, visit the Tony’s Therapy and Counselling website here.
Watch Tony’s TEDx talk, “The Journey of an Adoptee” here
The guest on this episode of the show is William Sieghart of The Poetry Pharmacy.
William Sieghart has made a phenomenal contribution to the arts and particularly poetry during a career spanning more than three decades.
He is the founder of the Forward Prize for Poetry and National Poetry Day, both of which have been running successfully since the 1990s. More recently he has established the Poetry Pharmacy
We talk about poetry as therapy and solace for a whole range of things, including the coronavirus / Covid-19 pandemic, as well as many other things, such as anxiety, loneliness and fear.
I'm a big believer in poems as a form of prayer for a restless mind, and when I discovered the work of The Poetry Pharmacy, I thought that William would be a perfect person to speak to right now.
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Trail-blazing mental health advocate and therapist Caroline McMenamin on growing up with OCD, the importance of individual identity, Irish trans-generational trauma and redefining happiness
Self-styled Go Getter Girl Shinjini Das, on the challenges of being a global entrepreneur as an ethnic minority woman, the merits of public speaking, and how to be an introverted social media influencer
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Bibi Baskin on quitting a high-profile career, why nobody can make her hurry, and the art of doing nothing
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This podcast is the next step in my journey of sharing my message with the world: a message that says that pain and suffering is okay and normal, because all human lives contain it, but also that joy and wonder are also possible, because that is the miracle of life.