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Hailee Schwartz
HELLO MFERS. Today's episode is with Rinsha Ballani where we talk all about her journey of breaking free from the "traditional" path--from questioning the beliefs of a strict Indian family to breaking up with her fiancee of 5 years--to find her truth. She is one hell of an example of courage and trust within herself + life. / Find her on Instagram at @rinshaballani <3
Enjoy and bessssssitos. <3
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1:20 // from living for everyone else to living for your own desire
3:20 // listening to (and trusting) the voice within as self responsibility
7:00 // you don’t have to have it all figured out: taking the leap and having itself figure itself out
8:45 // the truth of who we are is more important than holding onto a relationship out of fear
9:30 // what about strict parents?
11:30 // experiencing god before understanding it
13:08 // ego seeking out parental “approval” + what to do when we don’t get it
19:00 // Rinsha’s family using deceased family members to shame her into covering her body
22:15 // “I’ve gone through so much healing to love my body exactly as she is, I’m not going to let my grandmother’s fear run me”
23:48 // how to break free from parent’s’ beliefs, projections, and shaming
24:33 // “people do the best they can with the tools they have”
26:05 // you were made to be different — how to navigate feeling “different” in society
31:00 // the real spiritual work: leaving room for your “human” self and “negative” emotions
40:00 // the only way to authentic friendships is through being seen
41:25 // being triggered can be a wonderful thing
44:23 // why heartbreak is always worth it
46:30 // one last piece of advice from Rinsha
REVOLUTIONARY SHIT.
I hope you take the time to soak this one in because it truly took me YEARS to understand this ONE missing puzzle piece in the healing journey. Remember, not being fully "over" your ex isn't anything to be ashamed of. I'm with you--it took me a LOOOONG time and pieces of the healing journey seem to come up right when I think I'm done with it. :')
Extending love to you because I know how painful it can be to let go of what once was. I'm proud of you for wherever you're at. Any progress is progress. <3
Besitos, Hailee <3
P.S. you're dope
P.P.S. I'm terrible at asking but if you have the energy in you (and you've found value in this podcast), writing a review (or even just leaving a star rating) really helps this podcast! Seriously, thanks x 100000 <3
Yoooo! I hope this finds you SWELL. I've been on a different wave recently. A smooth af one. And I just wanted to share my little secrets to this newfound inner peace. :) Much love!!!
As mentioned...
Book Recs: The Surrender Experiment -Michael Singer / The Universe Has Your Back -Gabrielle Bernstein / A Gentle Reminder -Bianca Sparacino / Big Magic -Elizabeth Gilbert
Find all here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/haileeschwartzz/list/158BEXWCLP25T?ref_=aip_sf_list_spv_ofs_mixed_d
My insta fav: @the.holistic.psychologist (plus others if ya wanna scroll through my following lolz)
My instas: @haileeschwartzz (chaos, comedy and connection) / @haileetalks (coaching and healing)
Besitos, Hailee <3
YOOOO! SO stoked to share this conversation with y'all. We talk about the highs and lows of the growth journey; the real, the raw, the dopeness and the darkness.
Big S/O to the host DJ Million--real ass dude, thankful to have had the opportunity to connect with him. Hope y'all enjoy!
Besitos, Hailee <3
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Find him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/djmillion_/ (@djmillion_)
Check out his podcast: https://anchor.fm/djmillion
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In this episode, we talk about:
-The confidence to show up as ALL of you; your strength is your vulnerability
-The difference of showing up online vs in person
-Learning growth through real life experience
-Being okay with change; when life asks you to pivot
-The importance of friendship + general connection
-Getting out of the dark times
-Accepting the slow journey
-Realigning with what truly matters; breaking out of the habit of people pleasing
It can feel incredibly scary steering off the "main road"--but what if life calls you to do so? How do you know you're on the right path? Today, I share with you things I wish I would've known when first following my "own" path. I'm proud of you. Besitos, Hailee <3
If you like me, meet the woman who helped make me: Lyndsay. I could hype this woman up for days--she really is one HELL of a mf boss!!! Lyndsay has been my coach off and on the last couple years and I've had the privilege to pick her brain this episode regarding bossing up, holistic entrepreneurship, growth, and boundary setting. Everything she says is gold, I swear. :")
Follow her on insta: instagram.com/lyndsaylee
Listen to her podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-too-much-podcast-with-lyndsay-lee/id1615665608
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Topics discussed:
-stop trying to do it all: focus on your zone of genius
-getting curious with your thoughts
-how to know when you're "ready"
-creating a healthy relationship with fear
-the importance of setting boundaries
-business is a spiritual game
-should I stay or should I go after conflict?
-questioning society’s idea of a “healthy” relationship
-Lyndsay’s biggest piece of advice to become an entrepreneur
Enjoy y'all!
Besitos, Hailee
It all started in 2019 when I heard the saying of "men are trash" going around. Something about me: I question everything. I remember hearing that and almost wanting to get on board because it was the popular opinion but knowing in my heart that it was BULLSHIT.
Three years later, now having talked to tens of thousands of men personally, I can confirm my hypothesis of that men are, indeed, not trash. Ya girl is always right anyways ;)
Wanna hear what I think as a woman? Tune into this episode.
Besitos, Hailee <3
DO Y'ALL HERE THE BEEPING?! It's still going as I'm typing this. <3
It's hard to trust yourself when you're so used to toxic dynamics. I have been on a mission to figure out what a healthy relationship really means + requires. Today, I share with you my research data of how to create a strong foundation in a relationship.
Unfortunately, love cannot be bought or fucked good enough to make it last. Fortunately, we're all capable of giving/receiving love.
Sending y'all love on this journey of creating love.
Besitos, Hailee <3
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0:00 Hailee desperately needs a man + some bitching around
2:50 Hailee's ADHD calming down, finally
3:45 Things that don't necessarily mean it's going to last
13:16 Things that are probably great signs of a healthy relationship
23:44 Bottom line: the conclusion to my research
Hey y'all, coming on here raw (how we like it) to talk about the last year and the creeping feeling of depression + discontentment. Wanted to share my analysis of WHY I've felt this way, reminders to those feeling this way, and what has helped me along this journey.
Sending y'all love, Hailee <3
If there's one thing I do well, it's befriending fear.
So many of us run from it when we actually need to learn to run with it. If you want a change in your life, you have to make a change...which is scary and uncomfortable. However, those feelings aren't "bad"; they can actually be a sign you're headed in the right direction.
I can confidently say that I love the life that I'm creating for myself. I recently looked back to find the initial "points of no return" and found two things in common: they all scared the absolute shit out of me AND without a doubt, brought me much further, much faster than taking a "comfortable" route would have.
Allow me to be the voice to remind you to just go fucking do it.
Besitos, Hailee <3
Feel like it's taking forever to move on?
Hey, it's me Hailee--a seasoned veteran of breakups who spends 90% of her time analyzing every little detail. I feel like I finally got a slap to the face as to why I always held on for so long & wanted to give you the same slap to the face. <3
Allow yourself to process--but remember to keep it real with yourself. Are you self-sabotaging or really allowing yourself to move forward?
Best of luck out there. I know this process ain't easy--I hope I can make it a liiiittle bit easier for ya. <3
Besitos, Hailee
Building an audience of 400 thousand people came easy to me—not because I studied analytics to the T or bought them—but because I found the secret.
You can learn all the strategies to building an audience but until you understand what feels right for YOU, it will never mean anything. Today, I share my “how” which anyone can apply. Hope it resonates—and best of luck on your creator journey. ❤️
Besitos, Hailee
Purpose fuels is as human beings. Each one of our purposes looks different, but living out our truth is KEY to our wellbeing. Coming to you from a vulnerable heart space, I’m here with you and hope you know how not alone you are. Besitos, Hailee
LET’S TALK ABOUT SEX, BABY 😎 have fun hearing about my masturbation + porn & listening to me sound like a 12 year old who types “boobies” into the interwebs to wank my weenie 🤠
WHATTHEFUCKISUP, I'm back like your toxic ex <3
How y'all doing? Growing? Becoming less toxic? OH YUUUUP.
Not yet? It's okay, have fun on the ride for me. ;)
I've been practicing being less toxic (rolls eyes) which is fun and adult-y of me but it's hard fucking work.
Wanted to share the lessons I've been learning along the way so maaaybe it'll be a little bit smoother than a SmartCar going over gravel road for you. :')
Thanks for being here--and regardless of where you're at, I'm proud of you. Life can feel really hard so go fuck yourself for me (it helps <3).
TTYL XOX, HMU ON INSTA (@HAILEESCHWARTZZ / @HAILEETALKS) IF YOU READING THIS. I WANNA KNOW WHO YOU ARE. HEHEHE. RAWR XD
6:11 // Lesson #1: You might (aka probably) are the problem, hoe
9:30 // Lesson #2: You're bleeding on people who didn't cut you
11:23 // Lesson #3: Mommy, I'm scared of feeling good
13:04 // Lesson #4: Bitch, is you colorblind?
14:58 // Lesson #5: What's your job? "Doing relationships"
17:50 // Lesson #6: People are like airplanes: they bring along baggage
Ok bye <3
My ex texted me and I responded. I was sitting in major shame; feeling so weak for going back into the toxic cycle until I realized that I had grown immensely in the last nine months away from him and finally decided to put myself first (as much as it hurt). WOOOOO.
You are not a "fuck up" for having a "hiccup". You are not "lame" for missing them (even when you know they're not good for you).
Be proud of yourself for taking ANY step in a healing direction. Healing isn't linear. Healing doesn't have a specific time limit. You're doing great, sweetie. ;)
Sending you all love, I know how deeply the pain can hurt our sweet bb hearts. #RIP #BUTWEWILLLIVE #anditWILLgetbetter <3
Rejection really can sting because of our soft egos. The ego never goes away but rejection can be a little easier when we look at it with a different approach. As I navigated my first big rejection, the stories of how I wasn't enough started to surface. Then I remembered that the stories we tell ourselves are just stories and we always have the opportunity to rewrite them. Still tough, but much more manageable. If you're in the rejection boat, I feel you & hope this makes it a bit easier. Sending lots of love <3 -Hailee
What does Hailee's relationships and her podcasts have in common? She doesn't know how to end either properly. Ha...I'm working on it.
ANYWAYS, HI! FIRST FULL PODCAST!!! I'm doing the thing!
In this episode, I share my story from the beginning of my "awakening" (aka dropping out) to where I'm at now (still a drop out but doing pretty damn swell).
I'm speaking to anyone who has taken the off-road path, didn't fully resonate with college, OR who doesn't relate at all but wants to peep into my life a little--sup.
Let this be a reminder that there's hope for us all--regardless of the path you take. We're all capable and deserving of it all.
Love y'all, Hailee
HELLO!!!!!
I freakin’ did it. #fuck #yeah #YOLO
If you’re looking to listen to Hailee blabber for 3 minutes and 39 seconds and briefly cover any actual news, now’s your chance! 🥳🤌🏼
But on a more serious note (yes, I can be serious 😠), I am SO GOSH DARN MOTHER TRUCKING excited to be here!!!!! I love raw conversation, I love new connections, and I love that I have the freedom to express myself!
Thank you all for being here, I know it’s going to be so fucking great. Excited to have y’all on here with me. <3
lots of love and energy your way,
me