Moments With Toke: Recent Episodes
Sodeinde Olatoke
This podcast is basically on Love relationship. The nitty-gritty of how love relationship works; the processes, challenges as well as success. There will also be interviews from amazing individuals sharing their love stories, life experiences, challenges and how they were able to deal with them. The aim is to promote a thriving and sustainable relationship.
Had the privilege of having a live recording with the best girls (The_218), we had an amazing time talking about what valentine means to each of us. The discussion highlighted the preference of each of us based on our personality and love languages. It's not about what ladies or guys want for Val but knowing your partner well to discern what would make them feel loved. Amidst the societal pressure of getting a gift, you must understand what makes you both happy and go for it. And who says that every day can't be Val's day, you don't have to wait till February 14th🤷♀️
After selecting your vendors for your big day, you need to understand how to manage you finances. We also discussed how to manage people and working well with ypur event planners on how to enjoy a stress-free wedding
Everyone looks forward to having a perfect wedding day, the beautiful view and perfect picture you always dream off. This episode is aimed at helping to prepare for the big day without leaving any stones unturned. Planning with a budget and still have enough to live comfortably with your spouse.
Concluded part of maturity in relationship with Collins How to resolve conflicts maturely in a relationship 1. Find out the reason 2. As partners never assume 3. Be accountable to each other 4. Both should work at it. 5. Keep studying each other
The amount of wealth one has acquired or growth in musculature is not what maturity is all about. Maturity is based on level of operational wisdom, which eventually determines the decisions you make. Maturity also has to do with response to actions.
The #1000 therapy in this episode explains the importance of knowing your worth and value as a person. You might think you are a mess but its time to turn that mess into a message. You are amazing just the way you are.
An interesting and insightful episode on how to deal with emotional baggage in a relationship. Daniel Akpata, a relationship expert and an addiction therapist joined us to share the practical steps in dealing with weaknesses and past negative events that have bad effects in our future as individuals and as couples.
Emotional intelligence is being aware of your emotions and that of your partner. Understanding who you are and who your partner is, then channelling your emotions for the right cause in your relationship.
The key to finding the right mate is by first identifying who you are, the qualities and standards that you have built for yourself; loving yourself and being honest about how you feel.
Words are important to communication, but so are verbal inflections, tones, gestures, facial expressions, posture, eye contact and a host of non verbal cues. All these cues contribute to the overall climate and effectiveness of communication.
This episode is the concluding part of the friendship series. It talks about the final stage where you get to choose your intimate friend and how to be intimate with that one special person as well as maintaining your friendship with others. Intimacy allows us to be open and vulnerable to each other in a relationship. It is the point whereby we are both open to correction and helping each other fulfil our individual God-given purpose here on Earth.
This is the time to talk about certain things that are important in determining who finally makes it to the final stage. Most times we are with someone but still clueless about important principles or standards that will help us make decisions. It's easy to get carried away with the attention and we realize that we do not really know who the person is. The identity of a person is not just based on external looks but on important things which will be discussed in this episode.
I meet someone today and I can't just stop thinking him or her.....what is the next thing go?.
This episode talks about the importance of friendship in a love relationship. You can fall in love with a stranger however, you can not remain in love with a stranger. Friendship spans from when you decide to create a love story all the wayto marriagd and even in marrige; its all about deepening your friendship.