VC Men's Ministry Podcast: Recent Episodes
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Pastor Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts discuss a wide range of topics and subjects that men deal with in today's world. Sports, movies, music, art, cooking, outdoors, spirituality, religion, current events, they talk about it all.
Guilt and shame are continual issues for men. Counselor Mark Sullivan talks about what guilt really indicates and how to deal with it. He also talks with Eric and Stephen about the occurrences of shame and how to respond to feelings of shame as a man of faith.
Work anxiety is a big issue for men. This episode talks how feelings of anxiety are real, how little control at work we actually have, and how to trust God and make good choices in responding to our work circumstances.
In this episode Counselor David Hartman talks with Stephen about mental health resources that are available for men.
In this episode David Hartman tells his personal story of his father’s struggle with mental illness and suicide.
Stephen breaks down several aspects of following the voice and word of God in a variety of ways
Stephen and Eric wrap up their discussion about the acronym NATO and how that affects everyday life and faith.
Stephen and Eric talk about the acronym NATO in a different way than you may expect. Be sure to listen to part two next week.
Stephen and Eric interview Chris Borja about his new book "Networking Essentials for Success" and talk about the importance of connecting with people, mentoring, and making youself available by God to be used within different circles.
You can get Chris's book HERE
It's festival season!! Stephen and Eric share their favorite things to do in the summer and why it's important to get out there and hang out with other people.
Stephen and Eric talk about why it's important for men to be in community with other men, and not just for spiritual reasons, but also for health (mental and physical) reasons.
Stephen went on a silent retreat recently and Eric wanted to know more about it and talk about the practice of being silent before the Lord.
Stephen and Eric interview Donald Wells, CPA and local church marriage mentor, about marriage failure, support and spiritual growth through involvement in a Christian men’s group. He also speaks the challenges of marriage for men today and how submission to God, and love for others has blessed his second marriage and brought a new sense of wholeness to his life.
Stephen and Eric interview Donald Wells, CPA and local church marriage mentor, about marriage failure, support and spiritual growth through involvement in a Christian men’s group. He also speaks the challenges of marriage for men today and how submission to God, and love for others has blessed his second marriage and brought a new sense of wholeness to his life.
Stephen and Eric discuss two critical issues that need to be considered before marking a decision to get married.
Stephen and Eric talk about the creative process and breaking through blocks that hinder them
Stephen and Eric talk March Madness, underdogs, and what to do when the "POP" fades. What's the "POP"? you gotta listen to find out.
Stephen and Eric talk about the experience of scarcity, the danger of greediness, and the call of God to trust him for all of our needs.
Stephen and Eric discuss how to start the day right by filling yourself up with sustaining fuel ... physical and spiritual.
Stephen and Eric discuss the season of Lent (not “Lint”) in the Church as a time of preparation for Holy Week and Easter. They encourage making additional space (time) in your daily routine for reflection and conversation with God beyond the usual “request” list. The challenge of this episode is to select some of value to set aside to make this extra space for God.
Stephen and Eric reflect on the movement of the Holy Spirit down at Asbury University and how we can put ourselves in a posture of openness and reception to the work of the Holy Spirit in us and through us.
Eric and Stephen talk about four black men who have made significant contributions to our country and lives.
Stephen and Eric talk about the different styles of mentoring and mentors and what to look for when being the mentor or the mentee.
In the new year, how do you have fun and how will you make time to have a little fun?
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This episode talks about the pros and cons of sporting rivalries and how it impacts our spiritual life.
Stephen and Eric continue with the Van Dop and Watts Podcast by chatting about the movie called "Father Stu" starring Mark Wahlberg. This movie depicts the life of Stuart Long, a washed up boxer who seeks money and fame in Los Angeles. A motorcycle accident leads him to a surprising realization that God is calling him to the ministry. This is a story of redemption of a godless man who finds a God directed purpose for his life.
In this episode, Stephen and Eric reflect on the midterm elections the political race of politicians. They ask the questions, Whose race are you running?" and "Why are you running that race?" Hebrews 12:1-4 is used as a reference for this discussion.
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Stephen and Eric share their memories of events, activities, and vacations where they had fun during the summer. This episode encourages men to have fun themselves and enjoy outdoor activities while the weather is still pleasant.
In this first episode hosts Stephen and Eric talk about the rebranding of the Vineyard Columbus Men's Podcast to the Van Dop and Watts Podcast.
Hosts Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Brent Flory as he shares the re-emergence of faith and hope in God after the loss of a son.
Host's Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Brent Flory as he shares his struggle with faith and hope in God after the loss of a son.
In this episode, host Stephen Van Dop provides six biblical purposes for human sexuality within the covenant of marriage.
Stephen does a brief review on what the bible teaches about the human sexual experience.
Stephen reminds us that God created and invented sex, declaring that it was "very good". But He never said that it was god!
Stephen and Guest Rob Turner (Interim Director for 180 (180recover.com) invite men struggling with sexual brokenness embrace hope through healthy recovery engagement. Rob Turner list 10 steps that the 180 recovery ministry use to assist men in their journey toward sexual recovery.
Stephen and guest Rob Turner, from 180 (180recover.com) talk about the huge number of men who are addicted to pornography. In this episode they discuss some national statistics, the meaning of addiction and the impact on relationship and personal health. The episode concludes pointing to hope.
In this episode, we continue with part 2 of Stephen interviews Rob Turner about his recovery journey from sexual brokenness. Rob Turner is currently serving as director of 180 Ministries, a nonprofit ministry to assist men recovering from sexual brokenness and addiction.
In this episode, Stephen interviews Rob Turner about his recovery journey from sexual brokenness. Rob Turner is currently serving as director of 180 Ministries, a nonprofit ministry to assist men recovering from sexual brokenness and addiction.
Stephen and Eric talk to men and discuss the benefits of the discipline of budgeting. Results of budgeting are peace of mind and freedom to enjoy life.
Stephen and Eric talk about the reality of financial debt in the lives of men. They consider ways we become trapped in debt and suggest basic strategies for escaping the prison of debt.
Stephen and Eric talk about a Christian view of retirement and managing your money for the "winter" season of life.
Stephen and Eric discuss the reality of temptation in everyday life and provide four helpful steps to dealing with temptation.
Stephen and Eric talk about the reality of temptation every day. They distinguish desire from temptation recognizing that desire is God given. Finally, they discuss when temptation crosses over into sin.
Stephen and Eric talk about how power gets expressed through our competence, relational skills, communication, and character.
Stephen and Eric continue to explore the gift of power in our lives. In this episode they remind men that all of us have some power. Then they discuss examples of when and where the abuse of occurs in men's lives.
This episode introduces the topic of power. Stephen and Eric explore some misuses of power vs God's intention for how it should be used to create and cultivate lives of others around us.
Stephen and Eric continue to talk about the practical aspects of coaching and the role the Holy Spirit plays in leading this process.
Reference: The Coach Model for Christian Leaders: Powerful Leadership Skills for Solving Problems, Reaching Goals and Developing Others by Keith E. Webb. Morgan James Publishing, 2019.
Stephen and Eric examine the contexts where coaching is useful for men. Then they talk about the mindset, skills and tools of Christlike coaching.
In this introduction to "The Benefits of Coaching," Stephen defines coaching and contrasts it from mentoring and teaching. Finally, he outlines why coaching can be so beneficial.
Stephen considers how to approach New Year's resolutions in a healthy way. In thie episode he encourages a healthy approach to New Year's resolutions by bringing clarity to your motivations and plans when developing a new practice for your life.
Road Signs of the experience of a Dark Night of the Soul.
Stephen and Eric define again the meaning of the phrase - "dark night of the soul". They then discuss 3 signs indicating that you may be experiencing a dark night of the soul during a time of adversity.
Stephen and Eric discuss the reality of struggling with the question of "where are you Lord?" during a time of adversity. They list three things God may be growing in you during a season of difficulty.
This episode reflects on Myer's unwise decisions and lack of integrity leading to a professional scandal following a string of NFL losses.
Series: How to Deal with Adversity
This episode examines the consistency of Kerry Coombs' values and leadership amid professional disappointment.
https://www.dispatch.com/story/sports/2021/10/12/ohio-state-football-defensive-coordinator-kerry-coombs-bounces-back/8422929002/
https://www.dispatch.com/videos/sports/2021/10/12/ohio-state-defensive-coordinator-kerry-coombs-goes-long-riff/8421458002/
Listen to Stephen and Eric discuss the benefits of solitude, silence and stillness when facing ordinary and extraordinary choices in life.
Stephen and Eric list three practical methods of discerning God’s guidance when making decision, either big or small. They also remind listeners that God is your friend and promises to guide each follower of Jesus.
(Reference: "What's Your Decision?" by J Michael Sparough and Tim Hipskind, chapters 9-11)
Stephen and Eric examine two different approaches to discerning God's voice in times of choice. Then they introduce a third and more preferred way. (Reference: "Listening to God in Times of Choice" by Gorden T. Smith IVP. 1997. pg 15-17.)
Series: Listening to God in Times of Choice. In this episode, Stephen and Eric identify the three remaining questions from a list of five questions to ask when making a moral decision.
Series: Listening to God in Times of Choice. In this episode Stephen and Eric list two of five important questions to ask when making a moral decisions
How are you speaking life into the boys in your life? Listen to Stephen and Eric as they suggest four ways to verbally bless the young men in your life.
Stephen and Eric list five challenges boys need to hear from mature fathers, grandfathers and mentors to help them shape up then learn to protect and provide for others in their world.
In this episode Zach talks about his season as a prodigal and how listening to the Lord and watching other mature men helped him to find his way toward manhood.
All Christians yearn to live at the center of God's will. The Holy Spirit helps us to discern God's will during times of moral choices. (John 16:8-9)
Hear how TJ moved from a broken home and on the outside of the law to stability as a man following Christ. Hear who were the influential voices in his life.
In this episode, Bryan recounts his journey into manhood from the son of a Marine to becoming a pastor. Hear who were the influential voices along the way.
More than 50% of workers fail to use all of their paid vacation days. Stephen and Eric discuss men's reasons for this choice and its' consequences. The episode encourages healthy rythms of rest and leisure for holistic wellbeing.
Daniel Hernandez shares his journey from boyhood to manhood growing up in Venezuela. Who his mentors were, and the issues he sees facing young men today.
Stephen and Eric talk about several lesser known Biblical characters who exemplify healthy heroic traits that God uses to further his work in the world.
Interview with Bill Delvaux, author of Heroic: The Surprising Path to True Manhood. In this interview, Bill explains how our search for the heroic is found in the person of Jesus Christ. His example provides us with a model to Heroic manhood by following the path of dying to self so that we might experience a stunning resurrection through a life of loving service to others.
In this episode Eric and Stephen examine how Hollywood movies historically portray the heroic man as a loner and not included in the life of the local community verses the Apostle Paul’s teaching of the heroic man as belonging to a local community and dependent on the greater spiritual gifts of that community.
Stephen interviews pastor Anthony Cannon about the effects of growing in our prayer life and how it can help us face today's challenges.
Stephen and Eric interview Kenston Henderson about living and growing in community
Kenston@livewithlyfe.com
Linkin.com/in/kenstonlwl
Facebook.com/livewithlyfe
Twitter: @Kenstonlwl
Stephen and Eric close out the Blueprint For Manhood series with a look at the role of Friend.
Stephen and Eric continue their conversation about the various roles in a blueprint for manhood and look at the role of being a Godly lover
Interview with Chris Borja, a Christian entrepreneur in Columbus. Hear how Chris overcame personal struggles and created an organization to help connect and encourage business people in Columbus.
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Facebook: www.facebook.com/chris.j.borja
Linkedin: www.linkin.com/in/chrisborja
Instagram: www.instagram.com/networkwithchrisborja
Website: www.borjavirtual.com | www.chrisborja.com
Email: christ@chrisborja.com
Stephen and Eric start a new series looking at a blue print for Godly Manhood. In this episode, they introduce the series and explore what it means to create and cultivate the various roles in this blueprint.
Stephen, Eric and Bryan discuss the current environment and balancing being a police officer, a person of color, and a person of faith. Bryan is a Central Ohio police officer who has been in law enforcement for 21 years and is a department Chaplain.
Pastor Stephen is joined by co-host Eric as they continue and elaborate on last's week's vocation episode.
Pastor Stephen Van Dop starts a new series on vocation, what it means and how it relates to our relationship with God and work in the kingdom.
Stephen and Eric are BACK!! Today, they share about the life, transformation, and how God used Dennis to reach and care for people from all walks of life
Stephen and Eric chat about the variety of activities you can do with your family during this shelter-in-place time.
Stephen and Eric continue on the lighter side of topics while looking at where they find humor and laughter during this time of pandemic crisis.
Stephen and Eric talk about dealing with life while adjusting to quarantine. A light hearted conversation about recreation, creativity, life, exercise, faith, sports, and much more.
Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts wrap up our series about men dealing with significant illnesses and how their walk with God changed through that time in their lives. Today they interview Shane Huey, pastor of VC Twenty.
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Hosts Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Frank F. regarding his faith story before, during, and after being diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma. This is the conclusion of a two part interview.
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Hosts Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Frank F. regarding his faith story before, during, and after being diagnosed with non-Hodgkins lymphoma. This is part one of a two part interview.
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Hosts Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Ron K. regarding his faith story before, during, and after being diagnosed with throat cancer. This is the conclusion of a two part interview.
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Hosts Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts interview Ron K. regarding his faith story before, during, and after being diagnosed with throat cancer. This is the first of two parts of this interview.
We welcome your feedback at Men@vineyardcolumbus.org
Please rate and review us on iTunes when you get a chance.
Thanks for Listening!!
Stephen and Eric look at Colin Kaepernick. The ups, the downs, and how men can relate to his experience.
Stephen and Eric look back at the life Mohamed Ali. The ups, the downs, and how men can relate to his experience.
Stephen and Eric look back at the life of Kobe Bryant. The ups, the downs, and how men can relate to his experience
We continue to explore personalities that many men consider to be sports heroes. This week, we take a look at LeBron James.
Starting off a few episodes looking at who some men consider sports heroes. Their triumphs, downfalls, and lessons to be learned. Today we look at Tiger Woods
The FIRST EVER VC Men's Ministry Podcast. In this episode, your hosts, Pastor Stephen Van Dop and Eric Watts will take you on a quick overview of what this podcast will cover moving forward.