Homeschool Your Way: Recent Episodes
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With the right tools and the right mindset, homeschooling is nothing to be intimidated about! We’ll admit that homeschooling isn’t for everyone. But if you want to homeschool -- or really need to homeschool—you can do it! And best of all, you can do it your own way!
Wouldn’t you love to have experienced homeschoolers, cheering you along with insider secrets? Yes? Then you’ll love this podcast! The hosts know homeschooling is not one-size-fits-all. So in each episode, they’ll bring you the coolest methods and the most fascinating guests to help you find your way—the best way—to homeschool.
EPISODE 179 |
Well, that’s a wrap to Season 4 of the podcast Homeschool Your Way! It seems crazy that we have done 179 Episodes including this one in four seasons. We hope that the subjects and people appearing on our podcast have benefited you in some small way. Homeschooling is such a personal path for every family and as always we hope that we have helped you feel more comfortable about your family’s journey. Join Janna as she reflects on the past season and provides some pearls of wisdom from her journey and previous episodes.
QUOTABLES |
Standardized testing and homeschool evaluation methods, with a focus on progress and growth. (0:00)
Homeschooling mistakes and growth, including unsuccessful methods and neglecting children's needs. (4:13)
Homeschooling motivation, why, and personalized learning. (9:18)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 178 | Parents finding joy in writing for their children is a meaningful way to connect and nurture creativity. This act strengthens the parent-child bond, fosters creativity, encourages personal growth, and enhances cognitive skills. It also contributes to literacy development in children, fostering a love for storytelling and literature. Additionally, writing for children allows parents to share their values, life experiences, and wisdom in a tangible and memorable way. It provides an avenue for parents to explore imaginative worlds, create characters, and impart important lessons through engaging narratives. Ultimately, writing for children creates lasting memories and enriches both parents' and children's lives with shared experiences and imaginative adventures. Join Janna and her guest, Greg Baran, as they talk about writing and how to make it an enjoyable experience for your student.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Greg Baran feels blessed every day because his wonderful wife Heather and his amazing son Nate are in his life. With a background in teaching college and secondary English studies, he noticed early on that many students struggled with writing. Drawing from his expertise in English Composition, he recognized that this challenge was solvable, and it became his mission to ensure that every student who passed through his classroom could write with clarity and effectiveness. This commitment led to the development of The Baran Method, which remains a driving force in his efforts to empower every child to become a proficient writer.
QUOTABLES |
Teaching children how to write with a focus on confidence and effective methods. (0:00)
Teaching academic writing to students, focusing on a framework for organization. (4:03)
How to encourage kids to write without crushing their creativity. (9:20)
Importance of reading out loud to improve writing skills. (14:51)
Using AI in writing and its impact on children's learning. (19:49)
Importance of writing and communication skills for future jobs. (25:09)
Importance of articulating ideas in writing and education. (29:03)
Teaching children to write well through dictation and contextual grammar instruction. (33:41)
Teaching children to write using the "Baran Method" by Greg. (39:15)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 177 | Ever wondered about dyslexia? Have you heard of the Barton method? Dyslexia affects many, but homeschooling offers tailored options. Discovering strengths in dyslexic learners is crucial, with assessments guiding multi-sensory learning approaches. Online and in-person tutoring supports children with learning difficulties, benefiting from passionate advocates in homeschooling settings. Listen in as Janna and her guest, Angela D’Antonio discuss dyslexia, the Barton method and so much more.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | ABOUT OUR GUEST| Angela D’Antonio has been homeschooling her two daughters for over a decade, beginning with preschool and continuing through high school. From 2019 to 2023, she worked in sales and customer service for a homeschool curriculum company. She now brings her expertise as a sales and marketing consultant for educational supply companies and schools. In addition, Angela serves as a Barton academic tutor and offers personalized services, both in-person and online, to support homeschooling families. Her true passion lies in assisting families in discovering the perfect curriculum for their children and ensuring that their homeschoolers are well-prepared for college.
QUOTABLES |
Dyslexia, homeschooling, and the Barton method with a passionate advocate. (0:04)
Dyslexia prevalence, diagnosis, and homeschooling options. (6:08)
Dyslexia, strengths, and homeschooling. (12:29)
Online and in-person tutoring for children with learning difficulties. (18:48)
Dyslexia, learning difficulties, and homeschooling. (24:11)
Dyslexia and homeschooling with a focus on assessments and multi-sensory learning. (28:57)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 176| Why is hearing about other peoples’ homeschool stories important? Because it can energize us and give us wonderful ideas on how to make our lives easier. It also gives us perspective on our lives on just how well we are doing and tips to make it easier. Join Janna and her guest, Tricia on making homeschooling work with four energetic boys and the magic of using stories to teach, especially with BookSharks. We'll also dive into how we balance homeschooling and sports, share handy organizational tips like binder calendars and color coding, and discuss teaching life skills alongside academics. Learn mental math tricks to smooth out those busy homeschooling and sports schedules. Tune in for a dose of homeschooling inspiration!
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Trisha Kondratek is in her seventh year of homeschooling her four boys, ages 7 to 12. As a family they chose to begin their homeschool journey as their oldest was going into first grade; which opened the door to more family time, traveling, and learning at each child's pace. Prior to homeschooling, Trisha was heavily involved in photography and the arts community, and now enjoys introducing her boys to the arts and humanities. Reading, exploring, and learning along side her boys has become the biggest bonus of being a homeschool mom. The family is more often than not spotted at the hockey rink or lacrosse field for practices or games in the evenings and weekends. Trisha, and the Kondratek family as a whole, are thankful for the quality time homeschooling has afforded them, even during the busy sports seasons.
QUOTABLES | Homeschooling with four boys, using BookSharks literature-based learning. (0:04)
Using literature to teach children, with a focus on BookShark curriculum. (8:32)
Homeschooling and sports involvement. (12:01)
Homeschooling and organization tips, including using a binder calendar and color-coding. (17:17)
Homeschooling and organization tips for busy parents. (21:23)
Homeschooling and life skills for children. (28:11)
Managing busy homeschool and sports schedule with mental math tricks. (32:38)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 175| Discover the transformative power of implementing outdoor education in homeschooling. Delve into the profound benefits of homeschooling for families, exploring how it nurtures personalized learning experiences. Our guest, a former teacher with a PhD in education policy, sheds light on the crucial role of outdoor education in homeschooling, emphasizing its ability to foster connections with nature and community. From discussing a new curriculum box tailored for outdoor education to sharing insights on effective teaching methods and hands-on learning using real-world problems, this episode equips homeschooling parents with invaluable tools to enrich their children's education. Tune in to learn how to teach science, and outdoor skills, and connect deeply with nature, creating engaging and meaningful learning experiences for homeschoolers.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Rob Vagi is a homeschooling dad with almost 20 years of education experience including classroom teaching and education research. He also runs Wilder Outdoor Academy which provides outdoor education experiences that equip and inspire families to have great outdoor adventures. You can learn more by tuning into the Wilder Outdoors Podcast (available on all major podcast providers) or by visiting www.wilderoutdooracademy.com.
QUOTABLES |
Implementing outdoor education in homeschooling with a former teacher and PhD in education policy. (0:04)
Homeschooling and its benefits for families. (2:46)
Outdoor education and homeschooling with a focus on connecting with nature and community. (8:17)
Outdoor education for homeschoolers, including a new curriculum box. (14:34)
Outdoor activities with kids, emphasizing the importance of clear goals and fun experiences. (19:25)
Outdoor learning and teaching methods for homeschool parents. (22:43)
Using nature and real-world problems for hands-on learning. (27:42)
Teaching science and outdoor skills to homeschoolers. (33:10)
Outdoor education and connecting with nature. (39:12)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 174 | In the dynamic world of homeschooling, BookShark stands out for its meticulous book selection criteria that cater to diverse learning needs. From crafting relatable characters in children's books to leveraging literature as a gateway to understanding history and culture, BookShark's approach intertwines educational strategies with emotional connections to enrich the homeschooling experience. By prioritizing character development and cultural relevance in their curated book lists, BookShark empowers homeschoolers with a well-rounded program that educates and fosters a deeper appreciation for literature and the world around us. Learn the how and why BookShark chooses books in Part 2 of BookShark Insider with Janna and Maddie.
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Book selection criteria for BookShark’s homeschooling program. (0:04)
Creating relatable and well-developed characters in children's books. (2:17)
The importance of literature in understanding history and culture. (7:02)
Literature and homeschooling strategies. (11:48)
The importance of emotional connections in reading. (16:58)
Choosing books for homeschooling based on character development and cultural relevance. (25:15)
BookShark homeschooling program and its benefits. (29:08)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 173 | Ever had a question about BookShark? Now you can get those questions answered by our seasoned experts. Whether you're curious about our homeschooling approach (why we do the way we do) or seeking insights into our range of educational products (why 4 days), our experienced professionals answer all those and more thoroughly and insightfully. Join Janna as she chats with her guest, Maddie Suter, BookShark’s School Liason, as they discuss all the questions they have received at conventions, through customer service and more.
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Bookshark's School Liaison, Maddie Suter, joins host JannaCook to answer common questions about the company's name, warehouse, and customer service.(0:04)
Bookshark's literature-based learning approach. (1:58)
Literature-based learning and audiobooks. (10:38)
Language arts program components and age appropriateness. (15:45)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 172 | Homeschooling in Alaska presents unique challenges due to its vastness, especially in remote areas where accessing resources and support can be difficult. Cherie, initially drawn to IDEA for its comprehensive offerings and personalized approach, eventually became a representative due to her belief in its mission. Cherie's passion for homeschooling and dedication to IDEA and others like her continue to provide support and guidance to families navigating homeschooling in Alaska's diverse landscape.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Cherie Taylor is a wife of 18 years and a mama to an 11-year-old boy. She is in her 6th year of homeschooling. She started with IDEA as a homeschool parent & parent advisory committee member. She joined the PAC to be as involved as she could be in the arena of homeschooling – something that was new to her. In July of 2020, due to the pandemic, enrollment with IDEA was quickly escalating & Cherie was hired as a part-time field rep – mainly just answering inquiries such as “How does homeschooling work?” and “How does IDEA come alongside families to support homeschooling?” In October of 2020, Cherie was hired as the full-time field rep.
She enjoys reading, baking, playing games, spending time with friends & volunteering at her church.
She also has 2 other part time jobs so, she stays very busy but, enjoys it all!
As of early 2023, Cherie’s husband is now a full-time dad-schooler. It is a team effort but he is the primary homeschooler.
QUOTABLES|
Homeschooling in Alaska with a veteran homeschool mom. (0:00)
Homeschooling experiences and perspectives. (3:55)
Homeschooling in Alaska with a focus on community support. (7:35)
Homeschooling in Alaska with limited sunlight. (12:11)
Homeschooling program and community support. (17:15)
Parenting, homeschooling, and loss. (25:53)
Non-traditional family dynamics and homeschooling. (30:47)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 171 | Ever wondered what it’s like to use BookShark? Today’s guest Pamela has been an experienced user of BookShark for over 7 years. Listen in as she and Janna provide valuable insights into the benefits and challenges of homeschooling. Their appreciation of BookShark for its comprehensive curriculum and high-quality literature fosters a love for learning and critical thinking skills. However, homeschooling can present challenges such as balancing different grade levels and seeking socialization opportunities. Despite these challenges, Pamela's experience with BookShark has been overwhelmingly positive, witnessing academic and personal growth in her child. Her insights offer valuable guidance for those considering BookShark or homeschooling.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Pamela Osorno, was born and raised in the south side of Chicago. Approaching 50 years of age, she’s been homeschooling her children from the beginning with the BookShark curriculum and they are thriving! As a family, They have adjusted to a life of homeschooling with Pamela as the main educator working primarily with BookShark, Her husband works from home and is a strong proponent of teaching life skills to their girls who are learning and finding their own passions.
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling journey and experiences with BookShark. (0:00)
Homeschooling benefits and challenges during COVID-19. (4:39)
Balancing homeschooling and extracurricular activities. (12:32)
Homeschooling and prioritizing quality time with family. (18:02)
Homeschooling and the value of books in a digital age. (22:46)
Homeschooling, learning, and personal growth. (26:59)
Homeschooling benefits and challenges. (31:09)
EPISODE 170 | Ever wish a math curriculum would be made easier? Now it has been! The 2022 edition of Singapore Math, authored by U.S. homeschoolers, maintains the original curriculum's core principles while catering to American educational needs. It emphasizes problem-solving, critical thinking, and a sequential approach to learning. With a focus on hands-on instruction and adaptability to various learning environments, this edition combines Singapore's rigorous pedagogy with insights from homeschooling. It equips students with a solid foundation in mathematics and essential problem-solving skills, making it relevant and effective in diverse educational settings. Listen in as Janna and her guest Jessica discuss everything Math, particularly Singapore Math.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Jessica Kaminski, M.Ed. is an educator, author, and mom of three from Tennessee. She is the founder of Math with Purpose where she aims to provide teaching support, resources, and virtual math instruction to make your math curriculum work for any student. As the author of Math in Focus 2020 Third Grade Teacher's Edition, the co-author of Primary Mathematics 2022 Second-Fifth Grade Teacher's Editions, and the author of Primary Mathematics 2022 Second-Fifth Grade Home Instructors Guides, Jessica understands how the Singapore pedagogy should be implemented with over 18 years of math experience. Her goal is to provide educators of any type with the support necessary to implement these internationally recognized teaching strategies to help students feel confident in mathematics.
QUOTABLES |
Singapore Math and its benefits for homeschooling families. (0:00)
Homeschooling and math education. (1:55)
Math as a language and its practical applications. (3:56)
Math education and problem-solving strategies. (6:51)
Math education and its evolution. (9:42)
Updated Singapore math curriculum and its benefits for homeschooling families. (14:23)
Singapore Math curriculum and its new edition. (18:45)
Homeschooling math with manipulatives. (24:10)
Using manipulatives in math education. (28:09)
Singapore math and homeschooling tips. (33:41)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 169 | The homeschooling journey involves not only academic endeavors but also the cultivation of life skills and parenting strategies. Navigating through the intricate terrain of homeschooling, parents often encounter challenges that become invaluable lessons in the realm of both education and life. The homeschooling journey is a dynamic process that requires adaptability, patience, and a willingness to reassess approaches and expectations. Homeschool conventions provide a platform for sharing experiences, addressing challenges, and learning from the collective wisdom of the homeschooling community. Ultimately, the homeschooling journey becomes a profound exploration of not just academics, but also the continuous evolution of effective parenting strategies, life skills, and the realization that challenges are stepping stones to growth and success. Join Janna with her guest Vicki Miller as they discuss homeschooling, conventions, family, and more.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Vicki Miller is the wife to one and the mom to 5, with four living children. She has homeschooled all of her children from beginning to end...In May, her homeschool journey will end. Transitioning out of homeschooling brings mixed emotions, but it's also a new chapter filled with opportunities for growth and new experiences and she is here for it ALL! While it seems like a flash, it was, in fact, a flash. Learning and exploring alongside her children was her greatest gift. She is like all the moms/wives out there who want the best home environment for their family and LOVE to prevail in all situations.
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Homeschooling journey and convention tips. (0:00)
Homeschooling, life skills, and parenting. (3:30)
Parenting and homeschooling challenges and lessons learned. (8:44)
Homeschooling approaches and expectations. (19:34)
Homeschooling journey, challenges, and lessons learned. (25:52)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 168 | Chickens and Homeschooling?! Can you seamlessly intertwine the rich tapestry of homeschooling, family heritage, and the delightful world of chickens? Delia Monterosso's unique approach to education involves not only academic pursuits but also instilling values of responsibility and connection with nature through the care of these feathered companions. As she navigates the dual realms of chicken-keeping and homeschooling, Delia imparts invaluable lessons to her children, cultivating a deep understanding of the cycle of life through the nurturing of backyard chickens. Join Janna as Delia shares tips and advice with other families, encouraging them to embrace this holistic and enriching lifestyle.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Dalia Monterroso, also known as The President of Chickenlandia, is a backyard chicken educator, entertainer, and author. When she’s not teaching in-person classes or doing seminars, you can find her on the popular YouTube Channel Welcome to Chickenlandia, her top-rated podcast Bawk Tawk, or her online course Backyard Chickens 101: A Chicken Course for Everyone. In 2023, Dalia published her first book Let’s All Keep Chickens! A Down-to-Earth Guide to Natural Practices for Healthier Birds and a Happier World (Storey Publishing). In this beginner and intermediate guide, Dalia aims to not only share the ins and outs of chicken keeping but also to bring people together through an age-old practice common to almost all of our ancestry. To learn more about Dalia’s philosophy and vision, you can watch her 2017 TEDx Talk "I Dream of Chickens," which she delivered at Western Washington University. Dalia is a dynamic and engaging speaker who believes that being among her flock has brought peace and joy into her life. She wishes to share that peace and joy with everyone she meets.
QUOTABLES |
Chicken farming and homeschooling with Delia Monterosso. (0:04)
Homeschooling, family heritage, and chickens. (7:48)
Raising responsible kids through chicken care. (12:38)
Homeschooling, chickens, and learning. (17:44)
Chicken-keeping and homeschooling for all. (22:38)
Raising backyard chickens and embracing the cycle of life. (28:48)
Homeschooling and chickens with tips and advice.
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 167 | As parents guide their children through the enriching experience of homeschooling, they open doors to a myriad of possibilities beyond the traditional classroom setting. Nurturing a personalized and flexible educational approach, homeschooling empowers parents to support their children's unique learning styles and interests. The successes that emerge from this journey are a testament to the unwavering dedication of parents who actively engage in their children's education. The guiding influence of dedicated parents continues to be a driving force, enabling their children to thrive in higher education, pursue entrepreneurial ventures, or seamlessly integrate into the workforce. Join Janna and her guest Jennifer Willis in part two of Homeschool Success and hear how Jennifer has taken charge of guiding her children into into the educational avenue that suits them the best.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Jennifer Willis has found enduring joy in a marriage that spans over three decades, cherishing the bond with her best friend and perfect match, John. Jennifer's greatest pride and source of fulfillment, however, lies in her role as the mother of 11 remarkable children. She has embraced the challenges and joys of parenting with grace and enthusiasm. Jennifer's legacy extends beyond her marriage and motherhood, reflecting a life dedicated to love, family, and the meaningful pursuit of raising a future generation grounded in shared values and enduring bonds.
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Homeschooling philosophy and lifestyle. (0:00)
Homeschooling and unconventional paths to success. (8:44)
Parenting and homeschooling with diverse interests and abilities. (13:01)
Helping children find their passions and interests. (18:20)
Homeschooling, community support, and balancing work and play. (23:45)
Homeschooling, family, and joy in learning. (31:46)Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 166| Beyond the realm of homeschooling lies a vast landscape of opportunities and successes awaiting those who have embarked on this unique educational journey. The flexibility and individualized attention inherent in homeschooling empower students to cultivate a love for learning, critical thinking, and self-motivation. Armed with these foundational attributes, homeschool graduates are well-equipped to navigate the diverse pathways that lie ahead, whether it be higher education, entrepreneurial pursuits, or entry into the workforce. Listen in as Janna and her guest Jaylee Willis discuss homeschooling and life after homeschooling and what that looks like for Jaylee.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Jaylee Willis is a math educator who was raised in a homeschooling family and has worked with homeschooled families for over 7 years as an online middle school and high school math teacher. She currently teaches at her local university and is in the process of developing an online math curriculum for homeschool families that makes math fun, easy, and enjoyable to learn. You can connect with her and sign up for her monthly newsletter at www.middletonmath.com.
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling journey and success with a university professor. (0:04)
Homeschooling and its benefits with a homeschooled university professor. (2:04)
Homeschooling and learning at own pace. (10:04)
Teaching and learning with siblings. (15:27)
Homeschooling benefits and challenges. (18:36)
Homeschooling and math education. (22:43)
Math education and homeschooling with a university math professor. (28:51)
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EPISODE 165 | Ever dreamed of just packing up and leaving it all behind? That’s exactly what the Tilby’s did in 2018. From traveling along the concrete lines of pavement to flipping RV’s with the children, they took their lives and their five children on the road and have documented their journey along the way. Join Janna as she and Renee discuss life on the road and life’s expectations.
ABOUT OUR GUEST |
Renee Tilby is a mom of 5, a second-generation homeschooler, full-time RVer, and passionate learner of anything and everything. In 2018 Renee and her family decided to pack up their lives on a 5 acre hobby farm, move into an RV, and have a roadschooling adventure for a year or two. That year or two turned into 6 when learning on the road created the perfect environment to foster a love of learning, a broad world view, and unparalleled hands-on educational experiences.
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Homeschooling on the road with a family. (0:04)
Homeschooling and traveling with a family of seven. (1:12)
RV renovations, homeschooling, and empowering women. (5:16)
Homeschooling and its benefits. (10:46)
Unconventional upbringing and breaking free from societal expectations. (16:08)
Unconventional parenting approaches and embracing individuality. (22:40)
Homeschooling fears and challenges. (26:07)
Homeschooling and math struggles. (29:40)
Homeschooling, learning, and personal growth. (33:56)
Homeschooling and encouraging creativity in children. (38:36)Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 164|
Homeschooling has challenges, finding support shouldn't to be one of them. Support can help us when the homeschool day proves particularly tough. If you find yourself in an environment where you don’t have support, create your own! Join Janna as she chats with Laura, a mother who homeschools in Europe. Listen in Laura discusses the challenges and joys of homeschooling and how she now shares her knowledge through the her blog, Monkeyandmom.com.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Laura is a homeschooling mom from Europe and the creator of the blog Monkey And Mom. Laura has been homeschooling her son, Marc, for 7 years, delving deep into the world of STEM for gifted learners. Her journey has been one of discovery and dedication, blending nurturing, patience, and a flexible, creative approach to education. Through her blog, Laura shares an eclectic mix of homeschooling tips, resources, and fun printables, all born from her hands-on experience. Whether you’re a parent to an only child, a homeschooler looking for fresh ideas, or just beginning your homeschooling journey, Laura's insights are sure to inspire and guide. She's here to share her wealth of knowledge and experiences, providing valuable resources and encouragement for fellow homeschoolers.
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling with a European mom using an American curriculum. (0:04)
Homeschooling in Romania with an English-speaking family. (2:00)
Homeschooling and language learning. (8:31)
Homeschooling challenges and conviction. (14:20)
Homeschooling, doubts, and reaching academic goals. (19:08)
Eclectic homeschooling and child-led learning. (25:02)
Homeschooling, growth mindset, and balancing academics and personal interests. (32:50)
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 163 | How do you create interest in the process of writing and face the challenges from younger learners overwhelmed with forming sentences to college applicants dealing with high-stakes writing? Join Janna and her guest Dustin Stevens, Founder of Good English Tutors as they discuss the importance of prewriting, brainstorming, and organizing ideas through outlining before drafting. Learn how all the steps of the writing process involves revising, editing, and finalizing, with the added step of sharing or publishing serve as a powerful motivator for students.
ABOUT OUR GUEST| Dustin Stevens is the father of two hilarious, keen-minded boys. He has been teaching writing for over a decade. As someone who has seen its benefits firsthand, Dustin advocates for student publishing in his writings and speaking engagements. He leads a small team of big-hearted educators at goodenglishtutors.com.
Student publishing form: https://www.goodenglishtutors.com/post/publish-your-writing-for-student-authors
Here is the link for the free essay guide: https://www.goodenglishtutors.com/guide
QUOTABLES |
English tutoring and homeschooling insights. (0:04)
Tutoring and teaching with a focus on caring for students. (1:16)
Encouraging students to develop a love for writing. (2:58)
Homeschooling challenges and finding intrinsic motivation. (11:46)
Writing process and tips for homeschool parents. (17:36)
Publishing student writing to promote motivation. (23:57)
Essay writing resources for homeschool parents. (30:20)
Using visual aids in homeschooling. (36:27)
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EPISODE162 | It can seem like a far off dream right? Traveling to a foreign locale while you and your family speak and become at ease at speaking and conversing in the native tongue. Well that’s exactly what Adelaide Olguin has done or better yet created for her family and for thousands of others with TalkBox.Mom. Join Janna and Adelaide as they chat about incorporating multiple languages into everyday and traveling as a family, the ups and the downs.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Adelaide Olguin, creator and CEO of TalkBox.Mom, realized that parents are actually the most successful language teachers in the world—not professors. When it hit her in an apartment abroad in Brazil back in 2014 with her two little boys and husband, she was able to turn traditional language learning on its head, helping her family to pass up years of trying to speak another language by talking from day one—instead of year 2 or year never.
With her expertise in linguistics, design, marketing, and business, she developed TalkBox.Mom with a team of native-speaking women and launched it in 2016. In 2017, for obvious reasons (aka it works), it became a favorite for homeschool families and then later military families, families with children in language immersion schools, and any family that really wants to be able to use another language.
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling highs and lows with a world traveler. (0:04)
Language immersion, travel, and parenting. (1:08)
Travel experiences and failures. (5:32)
Vacation challenges and cultural differences. (10:05)
Homeschooling and language learning in Costa Rica. (15:20)
Language learning and practice with children. (18:17)
Language learning challenges and successes. (23:13)
Language learning obstacles and strategies. (27:10)
Homeschooling and giving children space to fail. (33:43)
Embracing failure in homeschooling. (36:32)
Homeschooling hacks and resources. (39:41)
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EPISODE 161| Do you or your child have trouble paying attention or listening, not able to multitask, or difficultly processing new information? It can be tremendously frustrating for every one involved but you can find ways to manage and work with it. Join Janna as she talks about executive dysfunction with her guest, Sam Young, Director of Young Scholars Academy.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Samuel Young, MEd, is a growth-minded, two-time Fulbright Scholar and Director of Young Scholars Academy, a strength-based, talent-focused virtual enrichment center that supports twice-exceptional students and their families. Samuel is a neurodivergent educator who has ADHD. As an ADHD learner, he has a tremendous understanding of, experience in, and respect for all things related to neurodiverse education.
Before founding Young Scholars Academy, Samuel taught in a variety of capacities—including nearly a decade at Bridges Academy—at an array of programs in the US, Europe, and Asia. Travel and culture are near and dear to him. He has led 2e students to over 7 countries for immersive cultural and educational trips.
Samuel has been featured in the documentary 2e2: Teaching The Twice Exceptional, the textbook Understanding The Social and Emotional Lives of Gifted Students, 2nd Ed., Variations Magazine, 2e News, and other publications.Get your free resource here; Creating A Strength-Based Task Management System
QUOTABLES |
Executive function skills for homeschooling and learning. (0:00)
Executive functioning and its impact on daily life. (2:08)
Developing children's self-awareness and organization skills. (8:27)
Helping kids develop executive function skills. (11:30)
Homeschooling, productivity, and mental health. (16:36)
Procrastination and productivity strategies. (22:16)
Executive function skills and their impact on productivity. (24:58)
Executive functioning and task management for parents and students. (29:54)
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EPISODE 160 | Do modern conveniences make it all too easy to barely take a step outside to enjoy the world around us? Nature provides so many benefits from vitamins to an environment that inspires the imagination. What would it look like if you dedicated yourself and your family to spending 10, 20, 30 minutes or even an hour outside everyday? Could you do it? Join Janna and her guest Ginny Yurich as they discuss the global movement of 1000 Hours Outside.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Ginny Yurich is a homeschooling mother of five and founder of 1000 Hours Outside, a global movement designed to reclaim childhood. Along with her husband, Josh, Ginny is a full-time creator and curator of the 1000 Hours Outside lifestyle brand, which includes a robust online store, an app, and books. She also hosts the 1000 Hours Outside weekly podcast. A thought leader in the world of nature-based play and its benefits for children, Ginny lives with her family in the Ann Arbor area of Michigan.
www.1000hoursoutside.com
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling, outdoor activities, and time management. (0:00)
Outdoor activities for families and personal growth. (1:41)
Parenting, homeschooling, and community. (4:51)
The shift towards more indoor childhoods and the impact on mental health. (10:34)
Homeschooling, self-directed learning, and trusting children's abilities. (17:12)
Homeschooling, parenting, and preparing kids for a rapidly changing world. (22:15)
Homeschooling and modeling flexibility and problem-solving skills for children. (28:28)
Homeschooling, community, and learning. (32:05)
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EPISODE 159 | You’ve seen it. Groups of people all ‘together’ but all on their phones or other devices. They are with people but not really there. Endless hours spent scrolling along. Being intentional about our time spent with others can make a huge difference in our lives! Putting the devices down and focusing on the people around us brings back the human part of connection and gives us deeper relationships. Listen in as Janna chats with Sean Killingsworth, founder of the Reconnect Movement as they discuss technology and the influence it has on our relationships.
ABOUT OUT GUEST | Sean Killingsworth, founder of the Reconnect Movement creates in-person communities on college campuses to share time without phones, make friends, and just hang out. In Gen Z, social media currently has a monopoly on social connections, meaning social media has become a requirement to socialize. Therefore if you do not want to experience the negative effects of using social media and choose to delete it, your social life will suffer. Reconnect exists to balance this monopoly by providing an easily accessible face-to-face alternative for connecting and making friends. Find out more about the Reconnect Movement here.
QUOTABLES |
Homeschooling and reconnecting with others in a digital age. (0:00)
The reconnect movement and its impact on society. (3:13)
The impact of smartphones on social connections. (9:37)
Phone etiquette and social dynamics among parents and children. (14:15)
Phone addiction and its impact on relationships. (17:12)
Balancing screen time and social connections for teenagers. (22:14)
Creating phone-free spaces for children. (27:15)
Limiting screen time for kids and setting a good example. (31:33)
Homeschooling and outdoor play for mental health. (36:52)
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Happy Holidays from all of us at Homeschool Your Way & BookShark.
The holidays are merry and bright but sometimes they can give you the blues because of stress, family or any other number of reasons. Join Janna and her guest Kelly Scimeca in this replay of Tis the Season for Holiday Blues as they chat about the holiday blues: the symptoms, the causes, and how to keep them from ruining your cheery vibe.
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TIMESTAMPS
01:52 Introduction to Kelly
02:52 Chore charts as a solution to the always messy house
03:52 What are the holiday blues?
06:22 How your own grief can be transferred to your kids
07:55 The expectation to make everything homemade at the holidays
11:03 How anxiety can blossom and grow, ruining your enjoyment
12:38 Common symptoms of the holiday blues
14:25 Reframing your expectations to you aren't overwhelmed
16:22 How to tame unhealthy or emotional eating
18:14 How isolation can impact holiday blues
19:31 Learning to say no
22:28 Self-care is not selfish
24:19 Get family input on your holiday plans
27:00 How slow and steady is the mantra to overcome the holiday blues
28:01 If you need additional help, reach out to a therapist. Dial 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
EPISODE 157 | Can you believe that it is almost a new year? In this time of transition from one year to the next let's take a moment to be grateful for all that we have and for our guests, who have given us so much wonderful insight into their homeschooling journey. Join Janna as she reflects on the coming new year and some key guests featured in the last few seasons who speak on their Why for homeschooling. How they chose it. How they maintain it and why they feel it is so important in continuing their journey
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QUOTABLES |The importance of understanding why homeschooling. (0:04)Homeschooling motivations and principles. (3:14)Homeschooling, gratitude, and parenting. (8:52)Homeschooling, community support, and parental fears. (18:30)Raising children with positive habits and character attributes. (20:22Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
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EPISODE 156 | Being a parent often entails wrestling with FOMO, the fear of missing out, particularly when it comes to our children's experiences and opportunities. This sensation can stem from the constant comparison to others, where we might believe that other families have it better or that we're somehow falling short. Homeschooling, in particular, amplifies this feeling as the responsibility of education rests heavily on parents' shoulders. The grass can appear greener on the side of traditional schooling, with its social activities and structured environments. However, homeschooling requires constant evaluation and adjustment to what is best for our families and kids. It's a path demanding patience, introspection, and a willingness to embrace the uncertainties that come with making educational choices. Joint Janna and her guest Sarah Hercules as they discuss all of the above and more.
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Homeschooling and public schooling with a former teacher. (0:00)
Homeschooling and public school experiences. (7:32)
Education gaps and changing attitudes towards learning. (13:07)
Homeschooling, parenting, and education. (18:22)
Homeschooling, education, and leadership development. (26:43)
Homeschooling and flexibility in curriculum. (31:27)
Encouraging reluctant readers and finding fun books for kids. (39:18)
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EPISODE 155| Chestnuts roasting by the fire, stringing popcorn on thread, Santa pictures with matching pj’s, and caroling are just a few of the things that come to mind when people think of holiday traditions. Traditions can be an important part of any time of our lives but truthfully most of us have that one, if not more, tradition that brings that warm fuzzy feeling to our hearts and minds. Holidays are often when those traditions occur because family gathers but with that comes stress and the feeling that we have to do more or be more. In today’s podcast join Janna and her guests, Sharon and Rachel as they discuss traditions, stress, and how they manage homeschooling around the holidays. May you enter the holidays with peace and grace for yourself and your family as you pass on your traditions or create new beautiful ones.
ABOUT OUR GUESTS|
Rachel Davis lives in Maryland with her husband, two teenaged daughters, two highly energetic dogs, and her favorite, the cat. Her family has been homeschooling for 7 years. Rachel actually has a bachelor’s degree in history and really loves that subject… but she has found that teaching math is her favorite thing to do; she is pretty sure that even though her kids ‘hate’ math, they too will find joy in it when they are older. Give it twenty years. Rachel also loves playing piano (and teaching other kids to play), baking (and eating), and reading (so much reading!) She is one of BookShark’s advisors and enjoys helping other homeschooling moms and dads figure out how to best use BookShark’s curriculum in their homeschools.
Sharon Wilson Miller is originally from southern California but now lives just outside Chicago with her husband and is a homeschool mom of 2 (9 and 11). Sharon holds a BFA in Theatre Studies from DePaul University, she spent many years as a Stage Manager working regionally and on some large-scale touring musicals. Sharon is also a licensed massage therapist and enjoys her work as an Advisor for BookShark.
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QUOTABLES|
Homeschooling during holidays with a focus on traditions and food. (0:01)
Homeschooling and holiday traditions. (2:52)
Balancing homeschooling and holiday activities. (6:24)
Parenting, homeschooling, and holiday traditions. (11:30)
Homeschooling and intergenerational learning during the holidays. (18:48)
How to get back into routine after holidays. (24:23)
Balancing holiday activities with self-care and family happiness. (29:40)
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EPISODE 154| Part two of THE ADVENTURE OF HOMESCHOOLOING PRE-K-12TH: PART ONE. Why do you homeschool? There are any number of answers to that question and sometimes homeschooling comes before or after a bout with public school and at times homeschooling co-exists with public schooling. Does the idea of homeschooling feel daunting? Listen as Janna and her guest Katie Wolfe discuss Katie’s journey of homeschooling her son from pre-k to 12th grade and how she learned that just because you homeschool does not mean you do it all yourself!
As part of being our guest Katie is offering $5 off on her site https://thewolfepackden.com/. Use code TWP5BSK.
ABOUT OUR GUEST| Katie Wolfe is a former classroom teacher who will graduate her one and only kiddo from their Lone WOLFe Academy in 2024. She's a firm believer that homeschool moms don't need to actually "do it all"...they just need to find the right resources and then manage the process. This belief has allowed her to create and share hundreds of quality printable resources, travel the country with a renowned math teacher, and serve as chairperson on her local library board (in addition to homeschooling and doing her best to cook and clean too.) She lives with her little family, mini Aussie, bearded dragon, massively fluffy cat, and mixed terrier in the middle of Kansas.
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QUOTABLES| Child development and learning styles. (0:00)
Katie observes a child's unique way of learning and adapts her teaching approach accordingly.
Homeschooling challenges and self-reflection. (1:23)
Janna shares her experiences with homeschooling and emphasizes the importance of self-reflection for successful homeschooling.
Katie recognizes the importance of constantly reassessing and adjusting her teaching methods to ensure her child is learning effectively.
Homeschooling and socialization challenges for only children. (5:16)
Katie emphasizes the importance of creating a community for her son, even taking opportunities to socialize with him and his friends outside of the home.
Katie notes that homeschooling an only child can create challenges in terms of attention and socialization, and suggests thinking outside the box to find solutions.
Homeschooling and personalized learning. (10:32)
Katie emphasized the need for parents to be intuitive to their children's needs, whether in a large or small household.
Katie shares her experience with homeschooling her son, including a failed attempt at using a live class and eventually switching to a different curriculum.
Homeschooling, creating curriculum, and outsourcing subjects. (16:04)
Katie creates original unit studies and resources for her son David, and now shares them with other parents through her website, the Wolf Pack Den.
Katie shared her homeschool hack, which is outsourcing subjects or parts of subjects when needed, to make homeschooling more enjoyable and effective.
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EPISODE 153| Why do you homeschool? There are any number of answers to that question and sometimes homeschooling comes before or after a bout with public school and at times homeschooling co-exists with public schooling. Does the idea of homeschooling feel daunting? Listen as Janna and her guest Katie Wolfe discuss Katie’s journey of homeschooling her son from pre-k to 12th grade and how she learned that just because you homeschool does not mean you do it all yourself!
As part of being our guest Katie is offering $5 off on her site https://thewolfepackden.com/. Use code TWP5BSK.
ABOUT OUR GUEST| Katie Wolfe is a former classroom teacher who will graduate her one and only kiddo from their Lone WOLFe Academy in 2024. She's a firm believer that homeschool moms don't need to actually "do it all"...they just need to find the right resources and then manage the process. This belief has allowed her to create and share hundreds of quality printable resources, travel the country with a renowned math teacher, and serve as chairperson on her local library board (in addition to homeschooling and doing her best to cook and clean too.) She lives with her little family, mini Aussie, bearded dragon, massively fluffy cat, and mixed terrier in the middle of Kansas.
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QUOTABLES|
Homeschooling through high school with a blend of in-person and online classes. (0:04)
Katie Wolf homeschooled her son from pre-K to 12th grade without ever enrolling him in school.
Homeschooling an only child with a focus on travel and socialization. (4:30)
Katie shares how they've been able to enhance their son David's education through traveling together and attending homeschool conventions, with David helping out at Nicola Math Lady's booth.
Homeschooling, parenting, and self-doubt. (9:08)
Katie highlights the importance of making mistakes and learning from them in both homeschooling and life in general.
Empowering students with autonomy and interest-led learning. (15:37)
Janna advocates for empowering children with autonomy and interest-led learning from a young age.
Katie believes that catering to children's interests can lead to a more enjoyable and effective learning experience.
Homeschooling, literature, and flexibility. (20:09)
Janna shares her experience with classic literature, revealing that she didn't appreciate it until later in life and now encourages parents to be more relaxed about their children's reading habits.
Homeschooling approaches and accommodating individual learning styles. (28:10) Katie shares personalized teaching strategies for homeschooling, including accommodating unique learning styles and preferences.
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EPISODE 152 A lazy morning with grateful children who happily apply themselves to their studies while you enjoy having them all under one roof.
Sound idyllic? We all want that type of homeschool day but reality is much different. That’s not to say your idyllic homeschool days won’t happen but how do you cope with the days in between? Homeschooling is demanding, it's not some picture-perfect thing that magically happens, it takes hard work. Join Janna and her guest, Gretchen from Demme Learning as they discuss ‘October flats’ as something that can happen anytime in your homeschool journey.
ABOUT OUR GUEST| Gretchen Roe has 21 years of home education experience with her six children, four of whom are now college graduates. With a degree in Psychology and Child Development, she has spent the last 19 years in positions of homeschool advocacy, having a special bond with families of children who have to work harder to learn. A former business owner, she has served on a variety of nonprofit boards. A Consultative Sales Representative with Demme Learning since 2014, Gretchen loves the outdoors, all things furry, and is in the process of perfecting backyard chicken raising, beekeeping, and gardening skills.
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QUOTABLES|
Homeschooling challenges and finding grace. (0:02)
Gretchen Roe shares her experience as a homeschooling mother of six, highlighting the ups and downs of the journey.
Gretchen advises parents to focus on one task at a time and plan to avoid feeling overwhelmed by October flats.
Homeschooling challenges and trusting the learning process. (7:24)
Janna shares her struggle with being present and in the moment while homeschooling, feeling pressure to juggle multiple tasks and admit her own.
Homeschooling mindset and approach. (9:36)
Gretchen and Janna discuss the importance of patience and persistence in homeschooling, comparing it to farming and social media.
Homeschooling and embracing failure as a learning opportunity. (13:05)
Parents should embrace a collaborative mentality in homeschooling, rather than a control mentality, and view failures as learning opportunities.
Homeschooling, flexibility, and patience. (16:37)
Janna and Gretchen advise homeschoolers to create a "reverse engineering" list of what they want to accomplish, rather than an unrealistic Disney-like version of homeschooling.
Gretchen suggests allowing one to two months for kids to adjust to homeschooling, as they need time to unbuckle from previous learning and figure out how they learn best.
Janna emphasizes the importance of flexibility in homeschooling, as kids are moldable and change constantly, and what works today may not work tomorrow.
Homeschooling, parenting, and personal growth. (24:55)
Janna and Gretchen discuss the importance of teaching children critical thinking skills in the age of technology, particularly in navigating information overload and media manipulation.
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EPISODE 151| Working and Homeschool?! Does it seem like an impossible proposition for you and your family? It might not be as crazy as it sounds. In today's podcast, Janna and her guest, Angela D’Antonio discuss how Angela has homeschooled her two kids for the past decade while she and her husband work full time. She shares her list of the benefits of homeschooling and how they make it all work. Find some ideas to help you as you navigate your homeschool journey.
ABOUT OUR GUEST| Angela D’Antonio has been homeschooling her two daughters for over a decade, beginning with preschool and continuing through high school. From 2019 to 2023, she worked in sales and customer service for a homeschool curriculum company. She now brings her expertise as a sales and marketing consultant for educational supply companies and schools. In addition, Angela serves as an academic tutor and offers personalized consulting services, both in-person and online, to support homeschooling families. Her true passion lies in assisting families in discovering the perfect curriculum for their children and ensuring that their homeschoolers are well-prepared for college.LISTENER COUPON CODE
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QUOTABLES|
Balancing work and homeschooling with a busy professional. (0:00)
Angela de Antonio has been homeschooling her daughters for over a decade, starting with preschool and continuing through high school.
Homeschooling, community support, and parenting challenges. (4:39)
The speaker reflects on the challenges of homeschooling, including the increased responsibility and lack of predictability, and how they use planning and lists to manage their role as a homeschooling parent.
Homeschooling challenges and realities. (6:40) Janna shares her struggles with balancing work and homeschooling, feeling defeated before even starting due to societal expectations of having it all.
Angela role models imperfection for their children, acknowledging their own limitations and teaching them balance by choosing to prioritize their time and effort in different areas.
Homeschooling, parenting, and work-life balance. (11:26) Janna encourages listeners to accept their limitations and focus on their strengths as homeschooling parents, rather than striving for perfection.
Parenting, regret, and letting go of expectations. (17:12)
Balancing work and family responsibilities. (19:22) Encourages parents to let kids take on more responsibilities, like laundry and cooking, to teach them life skills.
Homeschooling strategies and autonomy. (24:40) The speaker highlights the importance of allowing children to take ownership of their learning and developing executive function skills, which can benefit them in the long run.
Homeschooling and letting go of control. (29:33)
Homeschooling and work-life balance as a working mom. (33:12) Angela reflects on the importance of giving children control over their own education, citing the example of their own children taking college courses in high school.
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EPISODE 150| Science starts with small experiments and grows to larger ones like antacids and soda as we grow in our understanding of how things work, which makes it fun yet a little scary at times for both the teacher and the student. But it is also an area where children and parents can grow together to see what is out there and expand their worldview. It is also an area where the teacher can guide a student into exploring extraordinary things like the cosmos and more real world like what they could do for a career. Join Janna and her guest Scott Burns as they discuss Science and how you can use it to inspire your students and you.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Scott Burns is the National Sales Director for Home Science Tools. For over 20 years Scott has been a noteworthy leader in the education and EdTech industry. He is passionately driven to provide science education solutions to learners at all phases of their journey. Scott specializes in building lifelong connections with educators and students to find solutions that help them achieve higher-quality academic experiences. He holds a Bachelor of Business Administration degree from St. Norbert College.
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QUOTABLES|
STEM education and its importance in homeschooling. (0:00)
Scott Burns, National Sales Director at Home Science Tools, discusses the importance of hands-on learning in science education. Emphasize that inspiring students to pursue STEM fields doesn't have to be intimidating, and there are resources available to help parents and students learn together.
Math as a language and its importance in various careers. (6:19) Janna emphasizes the importance of understanding math as a language, not a specialized subject, and how it can be applied to various fields.
Following children's interests in learning. (11:27) Building trust and grit in children through problem-solving and skill development is crucial for their social-emotional well-being and success in 21st-century STEM careers.
Science education and career exploration. (16:46) Communication and collaboration are key to problem-solving, with active listening and verbal conversation skills crucial for success. Scott observed a group of mixed-age students drawing scientists and noticed they mostly depicted older men in lab coats, with only one female scientist drawn by a girl.
Homeschooling and STEM education. (23:36) Janna emphasizes the importance of intentionality in homeschooling, recognizing that parents have biases and limitations that can impact their children's education.
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EPISODE 149 | The homeschooling landscape has changed dramatically over the last 20 years. With the advance of the internet, how we find things or communicate has radically evolved. It’s also altered how we interact with one another. The thrill of checking the mail or making sure everyone is off the phone so you can get that scheduled call is no longer a thing. Instead, we read messages instantly on messaging apps and social platforms which only show a curated view of other’s lives. Join Janna and her guest, Stephanie Cavin, as they discuss homeschooling now vs when they were kids, plus hear why Homeschoolers Connect was created. Plus, understand how letter writing connects students with their peers as they learn a multitude of things from spelling to delayed gratification. Use code bookshark10 for 10% off your subscription.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Stephanie Cavin is a 2nd generation homeschooler. She has been homeschooling her 2 kids for the past 7 years and loves it. She is a high school teacher and the owner of Homeschoolers Connect, connecting homeschoolers nationwide with other homeschoolers in lasting friendships through pen pals.
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Second-generation homeschooler Stephanie Cavin shares her experience as a child and as a high school teacher, now dedicating her life to education through Homeschoolers Connect. (0:00)
Homeschooling experiences and resources. (1:13)
Homeschooling and its benefits. Janna shares her experience as a homeschooler in the 1900s, highlighting the diversity of homeschooling methods and the misconception that all homeschoolers have the same experience. (2:29)
Homeschooling, prioritizing education, and connecting with other homeschoolers. Janna and the unknown speaker use Book Shark, a literature-based learning program, to homeschool their children. (6:57)
The benefits of letter-writing for children's development. Janna shares her excitement about the program's delayed gratification aspect, citing the need for more patience and anticipation in today's fast-paced society. (13:26)
Teaching children to write and reflect on their lives. Homeschoolers connect with pen pals, improving writing skills and social studies knowledge. (18:34)
Homeschooling, simplicity, and outsourcing. The guest shares a homeschool hack, looping schedules, to prioritize important subjects and outsource others. (24:52)
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EPISODE 148 SEASON 4 | Art is subjective, right? So how can you teach someone what art is? It’s often a subject that as homeschoolers we may not think to teach or shy away from teaching because teaching art can be intimidating! But one way to look at teaching art is that yes it is subjective so everyone appreciates something different but it is also a chance for you to teach your child other skills as they are being creative. Being creative or artistic requires them to make decisions, what color here, what medium should I use? It also stretches their brain to come up with new ideas or view things in a different way.
Join Janna and her guest Karen Barge as they discuss art, and how it can elevate your homeschool and also set a wonderful basis for your student as they grow with decision-making and more.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Karen Barge is a professional illustrator and artist who now teaches online art classes at Sunny Art Academy. Over 20 years, she taught various art classes for ages 5 to 85. She created her own curriculum for five years for the Vista Art Foundation's Gallery 204, including summer camps for kids like Alice in Wonderland and Art Around The World. Then Karen held teaching positions at several Montessori and Catholic schools for another six years. Her years of teaching included how to draw, paint parties, acrylic, watercolor, and oil painting to teens and adults. In the summer of 2023, Karen combined her children's, teen, and adult video art classes into one website, Sunny Art Academy. Karen has a Bachelor of Fine Arts Degree from The University of North Texas and a degree in Computer Graphics in Multimedia.
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QUOTABLES |Why homeschool parents should teach art. (0:01)
Karen Barge is a professional illustrator and art teacher with over 30 years of experience, offering online classes at Sunny Art Academy.
Homeschool parents need to teach art because it helps develop creativity, critical thinking, and problem-solving skills, according to Karen Barge.
The benefits of art for decision-making and confidence-building. (5:38)
Janna and Karen discuss the importance of decision-making skills, particularly in college, where students may feel overwhelmed and lack confidence in their choices.
Karen emphasizes creativity and relaxation in her art classes, where parents and children work together to create art.
Art and creativity in homeschooling. (15:15)
Risk-taking is essential for creativity and learning in homeschool environments, as it allows children to experiment and build upon their mistakes.
The speaker's colleague gave them a list of ideas to draw every day, including a palm tree and a gingerbread man, and this helped the speaker to improve their art skills.
Art and creativity in homeschooling. (22:46)
Janna shares her experience with art and how it's important to show children that learning is a process of failure and growth.
Karen offers a PDF with 7 reasons why homeschool parents should teach art, which can be accessed through the show notes.
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EPISODE 147 | October is Dyslexia Awareness Month. Join us as we support the homeschooling community to spotlight a range of dyslexic needs, struggles, signs, while bringing awareness to the issue of dyslexia. Our host, Janna, met with Sophia D’Antonio, a diagnosed dyslexic and gifted homeschooler. This is a rare opportunity to hear from a student what it’s like to homeschool and be dyslexic. Plus discover how Sophia has managed and excels while continuing her learning journey. You might even learn a few tips and ideas on how to help someone you know or yourself with dyslexia.ABOUT OUR GUEST | Sophia D'Antonio is a homeschooled Sophomore who has beeneducated in her home since 1st grade. She has been identified as both gifted and dyslexic and appreciates the flexibility that homeschooling has provided for her individual needs. Sophia is working on raising awareness of dyslexia in her rural, isolated community and is holding an informational event as part of her Girl Scout Gold Award project. She has also secured online dyslexia assessments for the first 50 students in her community for free. Sophia's favorite coursework includes Latin, Greek, and Roman Mythology, Greek and Roman Literature, and Ancient Roman History.
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Homeschooling and dyslexia awareness with a dyslexic and gifted student. (0:04)
Dyslexia and homeschooling experiences. (1:14)
Dyslexia, learning challenges, and academic struggles. (6:18)
Dyslexia, Greek mythology, and academic challenges. (12:12)
Dyslexia awareness and Gold Award project. (16:49)
Dyslexia, learning strategies, and time management. (22:35)
Dyslexia, scheduling techniques, and audiobook resources. (28:16)
Audio books and homeschooling for dyslexic children. (34:03)
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EPISODE 146 SEASON 4 |
Children can be a source of amazement and marvel. Have you ever looked at your child and wondered, why are you acting like that? Whether positive or negative, children’s reactions to events or tasks can vary dramatically from our own or our partners’. These personality differences are what make each of us wonderfully unique. With the uniqueness our children’s personalities, wouldn’t it be great to have some baseline of understanding why one child acts completely differently in one scenario versus the other? On today’s podcast, Janna and her guest, Mendy Ingiaimo, discuss Mendy’s personality test, Destiny Assessment. Learn what fun animal might best fit your child’s personality and what details will help you understand and knowing the best way to work with them.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Mendy Ingiaimo: Believes in unique education for every student. Former teacher, administrator, and corporate training manager. Founded schools, book author, developed curricula, and now empowers homeschool moms through Homeschool Moms Academy for tailored, effective learning. Get a free digital copy of Mendy's profile book here.
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Understanding children's unique personalities for effective parenting and homeschooling. (0:00)
Mindy shares her journey as a former teacher, administrator, and homeschooling parent to help empower other moms.
Personality types in children based on animal analogies. (4:20)
Mendy discusses the different personalities of children, including the elephant personality, which is characterized by being wise, logical, conscientious, and detail-oriented, but can also be challenging due to their perfectionism.
Understanding children's personalities and homeschooling. (14:26)
Janna struggles with understanding her daughter's personality type and its impact on parenting.
Understanding children's personalities and parenting strategies. (18:51)
Parent realizes importance of balancing perfectionism with flexibility in homeschooling.
Parenting and homeschooling strategies. (22:31)
Janna and Mendy discuss the challenge of balancing control and letting children take the lead in their learning, with Janna sharing her approach of becoming a facilitator rather than teacher.
Parenting styles and their impact on family dynamics. (29:58)
Mendy also wrote a children's book, "The Lion, the Elephant, the Horse, and the Lamb," to teach children about their unique strengths and how to contribute to their community.
Personality types and their strengths in children. (34:19)
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EPISODE 145 SEASON 4 | What makes a successful student or person? While there are a LOT of items on that checklist, there are a set of skills that can make it a great deal easier to be successful. This skill set is called executive functioning. It is a broad group of mental skills that enable people to complete tasks and interact with others. It is a skill set that allows a student/person to write that final paper, plan a business outline, or follow a set of instructions on what chores to do in a specific manner.
Join Janna and her guest Dr. Lauran Kerr-Heraly as they discuss time management and other executive functioning skills. Learn how you can help your child as they move through their educational journey.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Lauran Kerr-Heraly is an award-winning educator and author who has dedicated her career to transforming lives through education. She was homeschooled all the way through high school, which allowed her to develop a deep appreciation for self-directed learning and a passion for helping others to take control of their education. Lauran has worked in college readiness in American high schools, taught in international and British schools in England, and currently serves as a professor in an American community college. Her innovative teaching includes turning a classroom into an escape room, multidisciplinary projects showcasing personal food histories and environmental justice, and experimental learning spaces. She helps students and parents develop a holistic approach to college success, which includes a focus on essential skills, executive function, and emotional awareness. Get 10% off any product at https://www.alteringcourse.com/ Use code bookshark . See the Free Infographic: College Prep Essential Skills.
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Executive functioning challenges in homeschool students. (0:00)
Dr. Lauran Kerr-Heraly, homeschooling pioneer and educator, discusses executive functioning and its impact on students and parents. Acknowledges the challenge of balancing the need for structure and oversight in their children's education, particularly as they transition to college or high school environments.
Time management and emotional regulation for high school and college students. (7:15)
Advocates for open communication with college students, asking them to arrange dedicated time for studying (0:08:33).
Discusses time management and emotional regulation in college students, highlighting the importance of self-awareness and support systems (0:09:33).
Emotional regulation and executive function in young adults. (13:26)
Eliminating the source of stress can change the entire scenario for young adults, allowing them to feel more in control of their emotions and decisions.
The speaker realized they were a perfectionist procrastinator in college, leading to late-night computer lab escapades.
The speaker's student client found a creative solution to assignments by turning them into a graphic novel character, showing that finding a personalized system works best for individuals with ADHD.
Supporting children with executive function challenges. (19:20)
suggests inviting students to share their struggles before they become dire, rather than addressing issues after they've escalated.
Homeschooling, executive function skills, and parental grace. (24:35)
Janna shares her experience as a homeschooling parent and the importance of giving oneself and children grace in the face of societal pressure.
Lauran emphasizes the significance of maintaining a close relationship with children, especially for those who are neurodivergent or have learning challenges.
Janna suggests using literature-based learning to build executive functions by reading and discussing books with children
Improving executive functioning skills for children. (33:02)
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EPISODE 144 SEASON 4 | The beauty of homeschooling is that you get to build it however you want. What better way to create supplement your curriculum than finding different pieces to make it a successful learning experience? Incorporating nature and animals into a part of homeschooling is what Sarah Skebba, founder of EdZOOcating EdZOOcating, does. EdZOOcating is an educational approach that integrates animal-based experiences into your child's learning journey. From field trips to animal sanctuaries to interactive lessons with live animals, EdZOOcating provides an immersive and engaging educational experience that sparks curiosity and empathy.
Whether you're a seasoned homeschooler looking for fresh ideas or someone considering homeschooling for the first time, this podcast episode will provide valuable insights and make it a truly enriching experience. Join us as we embark on a journey to empower your child's education through homeschooling your way and EdZOOcating!
ABOUT OUT GUEST | Sarah Skebba is the founder and CEO of EdZOOcating, an education platform designed to use wildlife, nature, and conservation to engage kids in core science topics. She grew up in the Cleveland Metroparks where she developed a love for nature at an early age. After moving to Arizona to attain a BS in Conservation Biology and Ecology, she participated in several wildlife studies exploring animals like rattlesnakes, Gila monsters, iguanas, and more. She gained experiences as an educator at a variety of zoos, aquariums, and nature centers where she furthered my passion for both wildlife and teaching. During her furlough at the start of COVID, she was eager to continue educating both kids and adults about wildlife and conservation. What started as a website filled with animal facts and sustainable living tips transformed into hundreds of live Zoom classes, a K-8 science curriculum program called EdZOOcating Adventures, and 3 years of engaging homeschoolers from across the world in science using the wonders of the natural world.
You can find them on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok @edzoocating
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There are so many ways to incorporate science into homeschooling. Science can be artistic, statistical, numbers, statistics, etc.
The plants in Ohio are very different from what she grew up with and how they were used hundreds and hundreds of years ago.
EPISODE 143 SEASON 4 | As homeschoolers, the idea of cramming for a test may be slightly foreign but as your student grows and contemplates college or a form of higher education you want them to have the strongest skill set available to help them succeed. Part of that skill set needs to be studying. But how to study without cramming? How can you help your student best retain all the information your student needs without stressing about their grade?
Find out some tips and techniques your student can use to create positive study habits on this episode of Homeschool Your Way. Listen in as Janna is joined by Mark Pruitt, creator of Making the Grade as they discuss all things related to studying and being successful academically. Till Oct. 15th, 2023 you can save $30 on the college prep, use code JANNA at checkout.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Mark Pruitt (aka: Captain College) is Assoc. Director of Admissions for Harding University and has been on a college campus for over twenty years. Mark developed a study strategy that helped him earn 95% or higher in every college class! Being super successful in school does not have to be hard, so let Mark - the author and producer of the college prep curriculum Making the Grade - help you become a student of Excellence so you can master the material quickly and effectively, have a ton of fun, and enjoy the best years of your life!
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Janna: What is making the grade and why did you decide to create it? (0:00)
Mark: Developed the making the grade college prep course.
Homeschooling and cramming
Mark: We all have different strengths, different interests, different personalities, and different learning styles. This course takes all of those aspects into consideration and helps students learn to a deeper level.
Super smart students may think they don't need this, but college is an amazing experience.
The importance of having the right mindset for success. (11:40)
Mark: At the college level, you need to be setting aside probably three or four hours a day.
Janna: Doing anything guilt-free is so much more pleasurable.
Mark: Anxiety levels are through the roof, and there are more people seeing counselors and mental health professionals now than ever before.
The stress of high school and college. (18:31)
Mark: The material is still applicable if the student goes to college, trade school, or the military.
Mark: One of the neatest tips for reading textbook material is to read it at least twice, the first time is the hardest.
Janna: Set the time limit to 30 minutes, then walk away and come back to do another 30 minutes if you can. (25:38)
How to get in touch with Mark. (28:44)
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EPISODE 142 SEASON 4 | Motivation is a tricky thing. It allows us to move forward to goals and accomplish what we need and even our dreams. But sometimes it is HARD! Sometimes getting motivated and staying motivated to finish that project or write that paper is so difficult, other times it’s a breeze. Motivating ourselves and our children can be a challenge. Wouldn’t be amazing if if you could determine what actually motivates your children and you? Especially if those motivators are totally different and might even work against each other.
Join Janna and Jimmie Quick from TruSpark as they talk about homeschooling and a few ways you can determine what motivates each person and use that to accomplish everyone’s best.
ABOUT OUR GUEST |
Jimmie Quick is a former homeschool parent whose only daughter is now an independent adult. After working for about a decade to help homeschool curriculum companies market their materials, she transitioned into marketing for Motivations AI, the owner of the Motivation Code: Suite of Assessments: MCode for adults, TruMotivate for young adults in college, and TruSpark for junior high school.
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Janna 00:00: How did you become involved in the homeschool world?
Jimmie 02:11: The double-edged sword of education and homeschooling. Excitement is a better motivator than discipline. It’s that old adage of the carrot or the stick and sometimes as parents we have to use the stick.
Janna 08:56: What is the True Spark Assessment? The assessment includes 19 different motivations, including a maximizer, a teacher, and a visionary.
Janna 14:38: What motivates me doesn’t motivate my kids.
Jimmie 19:47: The importance of realizing the vision. Realize the vision is not necessarily a visionary, but if someone gives you a grand idea, let's see how to make it a reality.
Jimmie 20:38: Don't ask kids to do things that are not in their wheelhouse. Make it easier for them to cater to their strengths and cater to their motivation.
Janna 26:25: How to get comfortable in the uncomfortable. Living in an age of innovation, parents who chose to get out of the system and do it a different way. Children are encouraged to think outside the box.
Jimmie 28:44: The most important thing is your relationship with your child. Keep the lines of communication open. TruSpark is a tool to help you listen to your kids.
Janna 31:33: You have to staff to your weakness.
EPISODE 141 SEASON 4 | Tune in for the 2nd half of Janna and Nate Noorlander’s discussion on media literacy. What we see is just the tip of the iceberg. How to critically think about the information we are exposed to and define the underlying reason ‘why’.
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ABOUT OUR GUEST | In college, Nate Noorlander double-majored in philosophy and history teaching. After a stint as a project manager with a disaster repair company, he moved to Beijing, China, where he taught IGCSE and A-level history at the Cambridge International Curriculum Center of Beijing Normal University. He also spent time touring India and trekking in Nepal.
Worn out by the Beijing air, Nate moved home with his family and taught English and history at Mountainville Academy, and then the American International School of Utah. At AISU he developed mini-courses in boredom and awareness (probably close to what many people call mindfulness) based on Heidegger’s ideas about technology, and Nicholas Carr’s ideas about what the internet does to our brains, areas of study that (perhaps ironically) he finds compelling.
Done in this time by life in the beautiful Mountain West he returned to Beijing, where he taught IB History, IB English, and Theory of Knowledge at the Yew Chung International School of Beijing. When Covid-19 hit he was coaching the boys' basketball team and gearing up for an end-of-season tournament in Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia, ignorant of what was coming. The trip was canceled, his family just made it out of Beijing on a flight three times its usual cost, and he stuck it out in the shuttered city for another six weeks. When life didn’t change, he left too. Since then it’s been all history with The Nomadic Professor.
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QUOTABLES |Nate: Under the surface of media literacy. The five units of the course. Technology design is generating a lot of controversy.
Nate: Understanding political bias and the history of media. Understanding partisanship, political bias, and the history and technology of politics in America is important for understanding bias and what motivates a person’s reasoning.
Nate: Tools to help us understand arguments. Language is where people do things that help us understand arguments. It’s best used by people who already have a mature understanding of media and how to read an break down arguments.
Nate: Students will learn how to navigate the internet and make judgments about the reliability and credibility of information.
Janna: When can we expect the course to be available for purchase?
Nate: One unit is available now with more coming soon.
Nate: I would always be asking the question and training my students to ask the question whether they're four years old or 24 years old.
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EPISODE 140 SEASON 4 | It used to be that news only came from a few vetted sources, the news on radio or tv and the printed paper. With the advance of technology, the news is literally at our fingertips coming from the world over and from countless sources. It’s also given rise to people only getting ‘certain’ news based upon what they’ve clicked before and those ever-present algorithms. Join Janna and Nate from the Nomadic Professor, as they discuss media literacy, something becoming more crucial to us as we teach and empower our children to become aware of the world around them.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | In college, Nate Noorlander double-majored in philosophy and history teaching. After a stint as a project manager with a disaster repair company, he moved to Beijing, China, where he taught IGCSE and A Level history at the Cambridge International Curriculum Center of Beijing Normal University. He also spent time touring in India and trekking in Nepal.Worn out by the Beijing air, Nate moved home with his family and taught English and history at Mountainville Academy, and then the American International School of Utah. At AISU he developed mini-courses in boredom and awareness (probably close to what many people call mindfulness) based on Heidegger’s ideas about technology, and Nicholas Carr’s ideas about what the internet does to our brains, areas of study that (perhaps ironically) he finds compelling.Done in this time by life in the beautiful mountain west he returned to Beijing, where he taught IB History, IB English, and Theory of Knowledge at the Yew Chung International School of Beijing. When Covid-19 hit he was coaching the boys' basketball team and gearing up for an end-of-season tournament in Ulaanbaatar, Mongolia, ignorant of what was coming. The trip was canceled, his family just made it out of Beijing on a flight three times its usual cost, and he stuck it out in the shuttered city for another six weeks. When life didn’t change, he left too. Since then it’s been all history with The Nomadic Professor.
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Nate: So all of our content, whether it's American history, or something else features the professor on location, all over the world.Janna: All right, so fun fact the Nomadic Professor himself is a homeschool dad, correct? Nate: Yeah, that's part of the ideas sort of, we're in a time where technology and the structure of our educational options allow us to kind of break out of the brick-and-mortar classroom. Janna: And so we've talked just personally about how to make sure that our children who are being homeschooled are able to navigate wellNate: You also brought attention to the way media acts as a filter for what you hear and what you don't hear. So that's a unique phenomenon in and of itself, because what feels urgent, what feels critical, what feels like it's worth your attention in a given moment, what stories have gained traction, as opposed to, you know, and gain traction for reasons that are not always related to their significance or their importance
Janna: The bottom line is dollars in so like you had said, Well, of course, this story that I was talking about, why is that going to get dollars maybe in their algorithms that bring sadness to our world.Nate: There are honest actors who are just trying to survive and not deceive people, but they need their businesses to stay afloat. And so they can't just operate on purely altruistic impulses.
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SEASON 4 EPISODE 139 | As the global expanse shrinks with the use of technology, either through the ability to travel to other countries or visit new people ‘face-to-face’ on computers or phones. The barrier of time and distance is dissolving with one remaining hurdle: language. Language, its something we all learn and as we grow we realize learning a language can be more difficult than reciting words. That’s where Ideal School comes in with dual language immersion. Join Janna as she and Eric Franzen, co-creator of Ideal School discuss dual language immersion and the benefits for your student in learning a second language and creating a community, virtually and in-person.
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Eric Franzen is a proud Washingtonian. A graduate of the University of Washington in Seattle. He also has a postgraduate degree from Seattle Pacific University in education. He holds educational endorsements in English language arts, English as a Second Language, Spanish language arts, and administration. He worked in public education systems for almost 20 years as a para educator, teacher, assistant principal, and principal. He also held district-level responsibilities. Alongside his wife, he created Ideal School in 2018. Ideal School is an internationally-accredited online dual language immersion school (currently serving Kinder to 9th grades for the 2023-2024 school year). Ideal School is accredited by Cognia, the world’s most recognized accreditor, and has agreements with the ministries of education in 87 countries on 6 continents. Cognia supports over 36,000 public and private school systems and schools, and there are more than 25,000,000 students within those schools and school systems. Eric Franzen is very proud of the wonderful professional team that has formed part of this revolutionary and amazing school. We hope that you consider going to www.idealschool.education and learning more about how Ideal School can support your family. We look forward to hearing from you! Here are our social media links…
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Eric:We are a Seattle-based, like you said, internationally accredited, online, dual language immersion school.
Janna: So the idea of an online dual language immersion, where did that come from?
Eric: We have three C's that we live by, which we call clarity, consistency, and compassion. Janna: I believe that most homeschool parents would agree with you that like we all have this dream, I think of being bilingual and then passing that on to our children.
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SEASON 4 EPISODE 138 | Strength-based learning. What is it? How does it work? Why should I care about it for my child? Join Janna on this episode of Homeschool Your Way with guest Sam Young as they discuss strength-based learning. Why Sam created the Young Scholars Academy as an avenue for students a and parents for a connection, chance at community and to fulfill the need they have to be able to create an education that elevates their student because of their strengths rather than focusing on deficits. Hear realistic ways that this could apply to your student and how you can get creative with balancing what they like with what they need.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Sam Young, MEd, is a growth-minded, two-time Fulbright Scholar and Director of Young Scholars Academy, a strength-based, talent-focused virtual enrichment center that supports twice-exceptional, neurodivergent, and gifted students and their families. Mr. Sam is a neurodivergent educator who has ADHD. As an ADHD learner, he has a tremendous understanding of, experience in, and respect for all things related to neurodiverse education. Find out more about Young Scholars Academy @young_scholars_academy
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Sam: So it's the dual existence of these two differences, a strength and a struggle that we call the twice exceptional as twice exceptionalities or the 2e as it's often shortened to.
Janna: I would say, personally, I tend to lean towards activities and challenges that I know I'm going to be able to accomplish or do well at so that I don't have to look at those deficits in my own life.
Sam: A lot of education is often deficit-based.
Sam: So typically, when we talk about supporting homeschoolers and developing the strength-based approach, there's really these three main buckets
Janna: I'll speak personally, as a parent, I sometimes get a very fatalistic view of the choices that my children are making
Sam: Sir Ken Robinson said this in his famous TED Talk, like our schools are killing creativity.
Janna: And I have to remind myself as a homeschool parent, like, I'm doing this so I can be creative.
Sam: And again, it's the four elements of the content, the product, the process, and the environment, like what is something that she would care about that would feel important, or in this case, feel authentic?
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SEASON 4 EPISODE 137 | Another Season is here! We are starting off with a blast from the past with previous Homeschool Your Way hosts DeeDee and Ximena ie. Chips & Salsa Ladies. Listen in as Janna, DeeDee, and Ximena talk about the joys and challenges of homeschooling multiple children for many years. See how the highs and lows that come with homeschooling balance out in the end with consistency and remembering to find your WHY each year as you decide what is best for your family and children.
ABOUT OUR GUESTS | DeeDee and Ximena (known as the Chips & Salsa Ladies) are two moms who have walked together through their homeschool journey, learning to savor life through every messy moment and reminding one another to enjoy the ride. With over 20 years of combined experience, they love encouraging other homeschool parents through their YouTube channel, social media, and Homeschool 101 online course. Recently, they celebrated a milestone as their firstborns graduated, embarking on a new chapter as moms of young adults. Find out more about them below
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- Janna: If you didn't know they were the first hosts of Homeschool Your Way. Super excited to kick off Season 4 by having them back giving an update.
- Ximena: Graduated daughter from homeschooling with one child remaining.
- Ximena:Seasons come and seasons go if there's one thing we know about parenting is that it's ever-changing.
- DeeDee: But to really circle back and say, Okay, I don't want it just to be out of fear. But to say what do I want to see for my kids? What are the positives that I want to bring into their life?
- Janna: I think it's very similar to taking a road trip so you can map out how you're going to get from your start to your finish.
- DeeDee: Well, yeah, and that's really the idea behind the name of the podcast, Homeschool Your Way to take your curriculum and take your ideas, your educational goals, but make it fun.
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Ximena: We know they say homeschool moms don't get paid that like those are paydays for me.
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Janna: Well, documentation is important.
- Ximena: Just enjoy every messy moment, because it is going to be super messy. And it's going to be different every day.
- DeeDee: And we just want to let you know it is worth it. It is so special to homeschool your kids, to form those relationships, to grow and learn together.
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Good mood, bad mood, calm or frenzied, there’s a song that can inspire or elevate that feeling for us all. There’s a reason why every great movie has an equally great soundtrack! Singing is something that can be intensely personal but can be experienced with people of all ages and cultures. But what about the mechanics of singing? How can we easily try to fit in more music into our family lives without it becoming a painful process or without the rolling of eyes (child and parent) over song choices? Well, we may not be able to fix the rolling eyes but on today’s podcast Janna and her guest Richard Fink, IV chat about musicand singing and how to create a space in our lives for musical enrichment.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Richard is the founder of the Throga vocal technique, #1 Best-Selling Author in vocal education, and labeled as the “world’s leading online vocal coach” by the Wall Street Journal. He has worked with singers in over 100 countries around the world, including multi-platinum-selling artists, professional actors, political leaders, and Broadway stars. As a vocalist, Richard is a 3x Guinness World Record holder and award-winning singer for solo performances as Jesus (Jesus Christ Superstar) and Jean Valjean (Les Misérables). He released multiple albums as a songwriter and vocal producer between 1991 and 2005, which led to co-writing and demoing songs for top charting artists such as Josh Groban and Michael Jackson. Other career highlights as a vocal coach include adjudicating the 2016-2017 Voice of Dance Life Unite in Australia and Suncane Skale televised throughout Europe, coaching at Talent Camp at Universal Studios, and teaching Masterclasses at various Universities in the USA and Australia. Richard’s crowning achievement, however, was becoming the first and only person in U.S. history to be awarded a full-utility patent on a vocal training technique with the 7 Dimensions of Singing.
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Richard 00:59
Sure. So I'm a vocal coach I've been teaching for about 25 years I actually started out as a drummer when I was eight years old. Janna 08:58: But personally, if I'm, if I'm singing, we have a joke in my house that if I've asked my children to do something several times and then it moves into a sing-song, it means my emotions have been heightened.
Janna 14:40: I think that there there is a disconnect. Maybe it's not route maybe it's not prevalent in other societies. But we always see music or we have seen in the past music and elementary right with little kids.
Janna 26:19: I am really resonating with this idea of playlists, because in this day and age, it seems like we're all disconnected. We all have our earbuds in we're all listening to our own playlists.
Richard 30:04: No, the quickest way for to get them to find new music is for you to start singing along with theirs. That's like, oh, no, I need to find something else for my parents to reject. Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
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The thing about homeschooling is that it’s personal, personal to your life, your family, and your children. Your experiences can be unique to you but can also help others who are struggling or need validation that their journey is similar or not alone. That’s the goal of Homeschool Your Way to make you feel more comfortable in your homeschool journey and help you find the community and resources you need.
Today’s podcast gets personal as our host Janna Koch gets to ask her children, Courtney, Alison, and Ashley those kinds of questions. So join us as Season 3 of Homeschool Your Way winds down with some honesty and laughter from the Koch girls.
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Janna 00:00: Welcome to Homeschool Your Way. I'm your host, Janna Koch, BookSharks Community Manager. Today's episode is special because I have my girls on. And before you think this probably was a bad idea, you were probably right.
Janna 3:22: Are they positive memories about public school?
Courtney 3:49: When we first started I thought it would be fun, just like staying in my pajamas and sleeping in like doing whatever I want at home.
Alison 06:23: There's a stereotype any stereotype for sure that kids who walk on their toes and that's a little funny. It's just like, oh, yeah, they're homeschooled.
Alison 11:55: It's really not that bad. It really isn't. It really gave us an advantage going forward. And it, you know, had its ups and downs. Sure.
Courtney 19:36: Start out with your with the subjects that take you the longest first or like maybe a short subject that doesn't take you very long first to just like warm up and then do your hardest or longest one.
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Education, it’s about learning little things that translate into big things and how those little things can have the biggest impact on how we view the world or how we live in it. The official start to most of our educational journeys is preschool, where the world starts to expand. But really what is preschool? Ask people and you can get different answers but intentional learning or teaching seems to be a theme. But not everyone, children especially learn at the same pace.
As we age we talk about the seasons of life but on the chat today hear education compared to a set of seasons for each individual and the benefits that Erin (today’s guest) believes homeschooling brings to each child's life. Learn about how she was called to homeschool her children and what that looks like for her family.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Erin Cox is a joy-chasing homeschool mama to 4 babies, elementary to young adult. She married her grade-school sweetheart over 20 years ago and lives to love him well. Erin writes about homeschooling, taking challenging moments captive, and loving her family well at Life, Abundantly. She is the author of multiple early-years Charlotte Mason and Classically-inspired programs at The Gentle + Classical Press. She is the Founding Editor in Chief of On Mission, a quarterly culture-focused geography magazine. You can find her on Instagram @gentle_classical_press https://shopgentleclassical.com
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SHOW NOTES | Erin 01:27: Okay, so we've been homeschooling for 12 years now. And um, I had homeschooling like, just on my heart from the time I was pregnant with my oldest child, I didn't know any homeschoolers, I knew nothing about it, Erin 09:26: That reminds me of just the idea behind like, your listeners will have maybe heard of narration but not necessarily know what that means, or what the value of narration is? Janna 18:43: It does, I think our society has devalued the idea of seasons. I mean, we don't, we don't follow food in seasons anymore, because, to us, it's available year-round.Erin 22:13: So the way that we do things in our, in our home, and in our program like general classical preschool, is that we pick just a few things to focus on at a time because habits are developed through repetition and intentionality, we are always developing habits, it's just whether we're developing the habits that we want to develop or not.
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Microschool? Micro School? Micro-School? However you spell it it's all the same, a small group of kiddos of a similar age getting together to learn and explore. Homeschooling is all about choice. What you teach your kids, and how you teach your kids. Join Janna and her guest as they chat about microschooling, why the Henderson family chooses to homeschool, and what that looks like for them.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Natasha Henderson and her husband have two children. They have been homeschooling for 12 years. As a former public school special education teacher with an M.S. in Early Childhood Education, Natasha is very active in her local homeschool community, scouting programs, and various kids' sports and activities. In her spare time, you can find Natasha at her local library, maybe cuddled up with her cats or walking their sweet puppy, Tucker!
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Natasha 00:51: So yeah, I never thought about homeschooling before I was a special ed teacher before I had kiddos.Natasha 02:32: Absolutely. So when I think about what micro school means to me, it's kind of like a hybrid situation where my kiddos get to experience that collaboration with their same-age peers in an environment that's different than a public school setting.Natasha 08:09: Yeah. Well, you know, we spoke earlier when we were talking about like, intention, and what does that mean?Natasha 10:59: Yeah, well, I think it's, it's hard to kind of, I think there's a lot of fear associated with, like, not feeling like you know, what you're doing. I mean, like, as a parent, you're like, you know, I'm entering my oldest is about to be a teenager, and I'm like, Oh, my gosh, I have no idea what's ahead, what I'm getting myself into.Natasha 19:00: Absolutely. And I think that that just exemplifies what we were talking about earlier about, like, there's no one way to homeschool.
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Math is a subject that inspires so many feelings in both students and teachers. It’s a subject that some seem to automatically excel in and others struggle. One thing that remains universal is there are varied ways to teach math, which is good because kids learn differently. What makes sense to one child may seem like learning quantum physics to another, but a different way of explaining or seeing how to work a problem or understand a concept can make all the difference! Join Janna as she chats with RightStart Math VP, Kathleen Cotter Clayton about a different way to understand, look at and teach fractions.
ABOUT RIGHTSTART MATH | RightStart™ Mathematics is a complete elementary and middle-school program that uses visualization of quantities, de-emphasizes counting and provides strategies and games for learning the facts. The primary learning tool is the AL Abacus, a specially designed two-sided kinesthetic and visual abacus. Links mentioned in the podcast are here; https://rightstartmath.com/rightstart-fractions-2/
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Janna 01:05: Well, I know that fractions can be very intimidating for people, so we are going to put them at ease. Let's start off with a hack about fractions, what can we tell our homeschool parents that they can do that can help them start this journey of teaching fractions without any of the negativity that they may have?
Kathleen 01:26: First of all, the number one thing is using a linear perspective with your fractions. So often they come in circles. I want to show you how to do it in a line. And it makes so much sense.
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The last frontier, no it's not space but it may feel as vast, is the state of Alaska! With wide open spaces, it can sometimes feel even lonelier when homeschooling. But homeschooling is truly what you make it and in keeping with the premise of Homeschool Your Way today’s podcast covers homeschooling, community, and of course a helpful hack or two. Join Janna and her guest Carol Simpson, an IDEA representative, as they discuss homeschooling options in Alaska and ways to make homeschooling, if not easy, may be easier for you.
ABOUT OUR GUEST |Carol Simpson has been an Alaska resident for over 40 years. She is a veteran homeschool mom and a Field Rep/Administrative Assistant for IDEA since 1997.
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QUOTABLESJanna 00:02 First of all my own experience, Alaska, it feels like a foreign country to most of us who are down here in the lower 48. Janna 08:47 I think a lot of families would be surprised to know that programs like yours exist all over the United States, just like your initial reaction of I don't want to get involved with the public school system. If I'm choosing to homeschool, they have. I mean, obviously, there are really good programs like yours. Carol 21:14 Here's what you missed out on by not enjoying the reading aloud to your kids. What I did, so I had seven kids, you know, so you know what that means. That means my house was a mess all the time.Carol 25:49 Right? Well, I think mostly, I don't really think there are challenges that are unique to Alaska from a homeschooling perspective.Carol 33:58 Right? That would be my strongest advice for any homeschooler really, to find community, create community, and do whatever you have to do to have some community. Janna 36:2 Yes, never stop learning. I think that as homeschool parents, we can demonstrate to our children, again, that we are learning alongside them, that although we are the authority in their life, that doesn't mean we know everything, and that we are willing to learn the things that we don't know.
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It’s here, it's actually here!! High School Curriculum! We are so excited about World History & Literature and U.S. History & Literature levels. Today's podcast is for all your questions about books in the levels, how it differs from other levels, why you should consider BookShark’s High School curriculum and more. Janna and her guest Amy R., BookShark’s Curriculum Editor and Designer, discuss the ins and outs of BookShark’s High School Curricula.
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Janna 00:03 Today's episode is long-awaited, we are on the verge of releasing not one, but two high school levels here at BookShark. Today I am joined by Amy Ratliff, she is BookShark’s curriculum designer.Amy 04:19 Yes, we have World History, World Literature, U.S. History, and U.S. Literature, all for a high school level. We've been working on this for quite some time.Amy 06:27 Yeah, so the overall goal for the scope and sequence of BookShark is to hit the main social studies topics three times throughout your journey, Kindergarten through High School. So you're going to touch on different, like different culture studies three times throughout your entire BookShark careerJanna 16:50 It's important to be able to make those connections because otherwise, we can villainize and not to, not to say shouldn't or should, but we can villainize characters, people throughout history, through our lens, and not having the context and their perspective of what's going on.
Janna 24:09 And if you want to see what is available, our website will be updated as this podcast comes out. So make sure to go to www.bookshark.com. And you can look at the different history levels that we have. You want to specifically look for World History High School and U.S. High School.
Amy 35:05 Similarly to our other language arts programs, in addition to reading the fantastic literature we give you all year, we give you a series of creative expressions, which is just what we call our different writing assignments.
Amy 40:17 Thanks for having me, Janna, and yeah, if you guys liked this program, please email us because I want to share the excitement with you.
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Parent and child, every journey into the world of homeschooling differs and that’s okay! But the end of the year in schooling can lead to questions of How did they do? Did they retain the information? Are they among their peers or more advanced? While state to state varies there are ways to test your student beyond the standardized test that you’ve heard of. Join Janna and her guest Marcia Manz, a former high school counselor who currently homeschools her two children and assists homeschool families in finding the best way for them to look back at their year and see what direction to head in the future.
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TIMESTAMPSMarcia (01:22): Sure. So I, like you, probably like many people, never in a million years thought I would homeschool. It just never crossed my mind. I grew up in public schools, and I enjoyed and had a positive experience, I obviously worked in a public school for many years, so I just didn't think it was even on my radar.
Janna (03:34): So you bring a very unique perspective to the homeschool community. What is the service that you now offer homeschool families?
Janna (05:31): I would say from personal experience with those standardized tests in our family, there are times when we are like, "Oh look, they're three grades above grade level in a certain area."Marcia (08:39): Absolutely, absolutely. I know for our state, we have requirements that certain subjects be taught, but there's no rule beyond that or law beyond the, "Hey, you need to have a history in your program," but there's nothing that says what that means. Janna (12:45):: Well, especially in homeschooling, because we do have the opportunity to allow our children to be more interest led.Janna (21:30): And I'm a firm believer that a third party is always helpful in those situations because we are so blinded to the things, I hate to say it, but the things that we do well.Marcia (28:24): Well, I think my biggest suggestion in just working with as many families as I have, and I work with a lot of new families as well who are starting off whole schooling, is to take things one year at a time.(32:13): And so to encourage parents for sure, just breathe. That's my biggest thing. Goodness. We just all need to breathe. Especially if this is your first year,
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Homeschooling can start in a variety of ways for each family. Sometimes it’s brought on by location, a need for flexibility, circumstances beyond our control, and in the best of times a personal choice because it is what suits you and your child the most. On today's podcast, Janna is joined by Mama (Christal) and Cash. Their homeschool journey has been one of choice and discovery with Christal sharing the loops and turns of homeschooling on social media as they navigate what works and what doesn’t work for them. What started as a way to stay connected has turned into a way to share their journey in an effort to help and support others.
ABOUT OUR GUESTS | Christal Gamble and her son Cash, share their experiences as both a homeschooler and parent to a gifted learner on her social media platform @mamasweetbaby. Christal offers support to any parent interested in learning at home and shares free educational resources, events, competitions, curriculum reviews and books. You can see more on Christal and Cash on Facebook, Pinterest, Instagram, TikTok and Youtube @mamasweetbaby.
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Christal (00:34): So I'm actually a homeschooler out of Madison, Alabama, and I chose to pretty much document my journey with Cash from a very young age.
Janna (01:29): So Christal, when you were looking at furthering Cash's education as he became school-age, what drew you to homeschool?
Christal (01:40): So we are a different kind of homeschooling family. You have some homeschoolers that will pull out because they're displeased with their school districts. You have some that were homeschooled themselves and decided to continue the tradition with their kids. Cash attended about six, or seven months of pre-K, but the problem we ran into is that he was a gifted learner.
Janna (08:21): I agree that community is one of the biggest parts of homeschool success. And for people who are coming into it and may not be familiar with a community outside their kids' friends. It's almost, in homeschool, it's kind of reverse.
Christal (20:15): It really can. The fear that's there can be easily eliminated with a little bit of self-education. The rigorous get up at whatever hour of the morning, get breakfast, get dressed, and get on a bus. If you do a little bit of de-schooling before you kind of start homeschooling, that takes care of a lot of that. We get up when we feel like it.
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Higher education, like college, can also come with a higher price tag. It’s a daunting expense for the majority of families. An expense that can rapidly creep up on you if you aren’t thinking ahead and even then the price of a two, four, or more-year degree can have you blanching at the thought of writing those checks. Join Janna as she is joined by Brad Baldridge, a financial advisor and creator of Taming the High Cost of College as they discuss getting a handle on the cost of college and ways to make the process a little easier.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Brad Baldridge is a College Funding Specialist who has helped thousands of families plan and save for college with smart and proven strategies to save time, money, and stress. As a financial expert, blogger, and host of the Taming the High Cost of College podcast, Brad has been sharing his college planning insights with clients, subscribers, and listeners for nearly 20 years. He teaches parents the best ways to save and pay for college, including how to find the right school, maximize financial aid and scholarships, avoid student loan debt, and make your children’s college dreams come true without wiping out your finances or retirement. Since 1998, Brad has become one of the nation’s leading college planning and college finance experts. He offers life-changing advice through his private practice, his online platforms, and numerous workshops, seminars, and events each year.
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Janna (00:37): Brad. I am nervous. I am nervous because I feel like... Let's just jump right in. I have probably missed some deadlines and missed the boat.
Brad (01:42): Yeah, so I'm a financial advisor, so I work with families about retirement and saving and investing and that type of stuff. I realized that college was one of the big challenges that a lot of families were up against and a confluence of events.
Brad (03:41): Right. So I would recommend sophomore year of high school as a good time to really buckle down and start trying to figure out specific plans. Now, certainly if you've got a two-year old at home or something like that, you can plan for college in the... Let's set up a savings or let's do some budgeting and that kind of thing. I would call that early stage planning where you don't know the college, you don't know a lot of details.
Janna (07:33): I think that as a parent, it's super important to understand for our children that decisions can be made and decisions can be made with as much information as we have without putting pressure on our children to have this decision made that it feels like they're boxed in.
Brad (13:54): Now, the other thing you mentioned, just to go back, is you said something along the lines of, "Well, this college is expensive and this college is not." Now, most families don't realize that colleges have a list price, but they also have what I would call a net price.
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It’s a whole new year of homeschool conventions! Whether it is your first year of homeschooling and attending conventions are a brave new world for you or you are an experienced convention-goer get some behind-the-scenes tips from the people who get to go to them all! From core curriculum to educational games there are so many options it can make your head spin, get ideas on how to break up the days, navigate the booths and find just what you want to get the most out of your convention.
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Janna (00:59): Conventions, so maybe one of these years we're going to get out there together. But as a homeschool mom, I really had never gone to a convention before I started working for BookShark. So I had been to other types of conventions, even as a homeschooler, as a kid. Probably more like trade conventions with my parents, but never a homeschool convention.
Janna (02:11): It's so nice that in this digital day and age, you can go online prior to the actual dates and see who's going to be there. You can actually typically see a map of where they're going to be. And not to be overly nerdy, but you're only there for a certain amount of time and if you want to maximize your time when you're there, you really do have to prepare.
Maddie (04:59): I think, I mean we've seen a variety of different parents who bring their kids and parents who leave their children at home. This year in our booth we're going to actually have a little reading corner, so you can actually park your kiddo if you have some questions.
Maddie (09:53): Yeah, I think again, and it kind of all goes back to that convention hall is huge, there are a million different vendors in there. And so I think having a fun fund, having a little kind of something in your back pocket that... Because some of those things you can't get anywhere other than the convention.
Maddie (15:27): Yes. So we are offering a payment plan option this year, which is fantastic because you kind of get the best of both worlds. You can spread your payments out so you don't have that one giant, what feels like a massive change all at once. You can spread it out over three, six, or nine months.
Maddie (23:24): Yeah. So this year, it's a first for us, so we are offering a giveaway. So if you're planning to come to a convention, make sure you stop by our booth, we'll have some banners and you can sign up via a QR code. It's a science package. So you can enter to win a science package and you get to pick which level you want.
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Homeschooling in Michigan? Or wanting to homeschool in Michigan? Find out how you can get a FREE literature-based curriculum with support and online assessments! Join Janna Koch, BookShark’s Community Manager, as she is joined by Jen Myers and Gwen Domke, from Michigan BookShark Virtual with Alpena Schools in Michigan. Find out the benefits of using Michigan BookShark Virtual with Alpena and get it for no cost to you!
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Janna (00:10): My guests, Jen Myers, and Gwen Domke are from Michigan BookShark Virtual. Jen and Gwen are immersed in homeschooling both personally and professionally. Not only have they homeschooled their own children now facilitate homeschooling for numerous families across the state of Michigan. Their program has equipped parents to homeschool confidently and successfully.
Gwen (02:16): So my side of things is coming alongside Jen when we started the program and looking at Michigan BookShark Virtual, the opportunity is I homeschooled my kids for 16 years using the curriculum. So for me, it was just a natural fit to help families use this amazing curriculum because I know it works.
Jen (05:29): And the third thing I'd like to mention that's unique about the virtual component of this curriculum is the online graders. So with a traditional online program, your online grader might be somewhere in a different state and not have a pulse on your expectations or your autonomy as a parent with this online curriculum. Whereas our online graders work personally with our program so they understand the nuances of this curriculum and they understand our families.
Gwen (11:20): Another benefit of BookShark is it is a four-day curriculum. So families absolutely love the fact that it's four days of focus and then they have one day left in the week for enrichment or other purposes for their families. That offers so much more flexibility.
(21:08): All right, ladies, you have me sold on this program. If I were to live in Michigan and I was contemplating that I wanted to homeschool and know that this is the right choice for me, what would be my next practical steps as a parent interested in Michigan BookShark Virtual?
Gwen (21:27): So you would reach out to me through my email, which I think you will have included at the end of this podcast. Tell me you're interested. I will contact you and discuss how you will enroll with our district for the year using this free virtual online component. We will ship a box of curriculum to you directly and come alongside you and help you set up your year.
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We all know life happens. Good or bad life seems to relish throwing out the best-laid plans. So what to do when life does get off track? Join Janna Koch, BookShark's Community Manager with her guest, Tanya Warpula, an advisor for BookShark, a military wife and mother of 5 who homeschools as they discuss getting back on track.
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Janna (02:29):
I bet. Now, in the years that I've known you, you have done two moves and one of them was just up the coast, but this last one was cross country.
Tanya (05:07):
Yes. This is my situation exactly. Right now, I feel like we've been in weeks 16 for 16 weeks. I'm in that exact situation. I really, I'm like, "Why is this one week taking us so long?" Yeah, you have to start... This week alone I started a reset. We're starting over pretending like we're fresh and we've started week 16 again for the last time this week on Monday.
Janna (07:46):
The last six years in February, we have already been to almost week 20 knowing that we have four more months of school left. This year it's gotten away from me. Sometimes I feel like that pressure almost paralyzes me. Then I don't end up doing anything or very little and then I'm in a vicious cycle.
Janna (13:13):
To give parents permission to get comfortable with switching some things out. If you feel like they already know what you're talking about then speed it up, and skip over it. It's okay.
Tanya (15:34):
Yes. I have been guilty of being a box checker because I am a type A person. This is my first year really feeling more derailed than others probably, because of our move, three kids moving out, and a lot of family stuff going on. It's been hard, but I've also had to let go of type A and embrace where we're at. If we're on week 16 in February who cares?
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What is it about Art that feels so intimidating to teach? People teach all types of subjects with less hesitation than the idea of teaching your student how to sketch, paint and more. Join Janna with her guest Cody Wheelock, founder and creative arts coach of Fount Atelier as they discuss how to incorporate art into your homeschooling and the challenges that can come with teaching the subject. Learn about the top 3 hang-ups that can prevent you and your student from reaching your creative art goals or maybe how to set goals and pass up the hang-ups altogether!
Janna (00:47): I'm excited to talk about art because, to be honest, it's not something that I have ever really ventured into or instructed my children in when we were homeschooling.
Cody (04:35): And what's interesting is that studies have shown that most adults actually draw at about a 12-year-old level.
Cody (07:23): I think the second hang-up that a lot of people face after just thinking they can't do it, is they don't know how to do it. They lack a plan.
Cody (14:14): Yeah, absolutely. I always think back to those artists from the past, and a lot of times we like to see their drawings and all of the pieces they did, and I wonder how many of them think, oh, I hate it that you're looking at that stuff because I never intended anyone to see that.
Janna (21:42): So as a parent, aside from art, but art as an example, how do you keep your child from hearing personal criticism versus an instructional correction?
Cody (24:50):
Yeah, you're absolutely right. And that's great advice on asking questions to get a feel for where things are at before you just start making comments.
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Feeling unmotivated to homeschool? Things are just harder, whether getting up with the alarm or getting through the assignments for each day? Join BookShark's Community Manager, Janna Koch and Aimee Eucce, owner of Play 'n Talk, in a lively discussion on how to banish the doldrums of winter. From metal detecting along a streambed to using army figures for math, store up the great ideas for you and your student and get tips on how to give yourself grace and to learn to adapt as life moves along.
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[00:01:00] It is a 60-plus-year-old company. I am not 60-plus years old, but I am the current owner and I am bringing it back to today's generation and I am loving it. I learned to read with it when I was just five years old.
[00:02:00]I shared with our listeners earlier in the year that I had gotten a sunrise alarm clock that will slowly brighten up and light up your room to help wake up.
[00:05:15]That's just the beauty of being a homeschooler you can do that if you decide, you know what, we just need to take a break on this and we're going to do this instead today.
[00:06:30] Then when the spring comes and you have more energy and the kids have more energy, you can rebound your efforts and there will be days that you can double up on things if you feel the need to get through it all.
[00:09:30] Well, gaming, so gamifying things is, I think, the key to everything because there are actually been studies done that show that kids learn best from play-based learning.
[00:14:30]Making sure that they're vested in it.
[00:16:00]I think that is something that a lot of parents, myself included, get caught up in the curriculum and forget to include our children.
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It's all about BookShark this episode! How it started, the process behind it and more.
Join Janna Koch, BookShark's Community Manager and her guest Greg Thewes, Executive Vice President of Inquisicorp as they chat all things BookShark. Learn about how the brand began, why the name and all the behind-the-scenes in between.
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Janna (01:42):
But if that was the case then BookShark may have never been created because we had extra time back in our day.
Greg (01:49):
Exactly. There was nothing else to do. So in the meantime, we recorded it on our VHS and watched it over and over again from the week before.
Greg (10:00):But there's also the vision. Our owners would not have gone for it if it was purely just money. They truly believe in their curriculum, they wanted to reach families that they couldn't reach. So it was a great opportunity for their approach. And so knowing that the way that they teach would be able to go to people they couldn't reach was very important to them. And when they saw that vision, they jumped on board.
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So Shark started catching on and it just turned into BookShark. And the funniest thing is our entire company hated it, the only person who did it was our owner. Everybody else hated it.
Greg (18:40):
I mean we knew there were schools. I knew of about 10, the 15 in California, I know a few in Washington, I knew in Alaska and elsewhere. And then this one, excuse me, they were in five in Colorado and I physically went to every one of those and pitched it. So I knew those five schools would buy. I knew potentially one in California potentially was in Alaska and potentially ones in Hawaii. My assumption was it would be them, but I also knew that the general public wanted a secular program. So I thought maybe one or two of those would buy it and then the rest would come from schools. But there was a greater demand than I thought in the general homeschool market now even more than it was back in 2014 where people who were just looking for secular curriculum. I'd say all walks of life have benefited from own program. Just truly neutral.
Greg (22:56):
Absolutely, and that's something we want to stick to. It's an 80/20 rule. You're never going to please everyone and that 10% on both ends of the bell curve and you just can't please everyone and we don't expect to. But we think with our approach, we appease more because there are more in that middle range that are not offended either way, but they would definitely prefer in their homes, they would definitely prefer to have the opportunity to bring it up.
Janna (32:34):
Well, I know our customers are excited to hear that our high school is coming back and we appreciate their patience as we have worked through the pandemic like everyone else, but have been diligent to not only get it done, but to do it well. So it matches the quality of everything else that we have turned out thus far.
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In today's world of gadgets and mobile devices being present with our families and friends becomes more and more difficult. It is so easy to become distracted from what is right in front of us with things that direct our attention to 'out there'. Join our host Janna and her guest Kelly O'Brien as they discuss how to stay in the moment, and set intentions with our homeschool and with our families.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Kelly O'Brien is a second-generation homeschooler, who has been homeschooling her two children for over 10 years. She never had any thoughts of homeschooling her own children but has found that life often leads you in 500 directions each one an incredible journey.
Janna (02:15):
What an amazing opportunity homeschooling affords us, is to be able to travel with our children and continue maybe a non-traditional way of educating through immersion in the culture and other countries.
Kelly (03:24):
I think that everything is about relationships. I think humanity comes back to relationships.
Kelly (06:06):
Well, what a better mirror than our children.
(06:52)
So like you said, you've set everything down, and look at them, and have a conversation.
Janna (07:09):
No, it's amazing. You make a great point about our children mirroring what in some ways, we've taught, but also are demonstrating. And sometimes, those two don't line up. We teach one way and one thing. But we are not demonstrating it in our own lives.
(09:58)
But I want them to have a life of learning. I want them to just enjoy learning, not so that they can go to college, or they can graduate 12th grade.
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When we think of adventure we may think of big trips and foreign locations but adventure like families comes in many shapes and forms. Learn about the building blocks Ethan and his wife have employed to get to one of their priorities of teaching their kids to adventure. Join Janna and Ethan as they discuss adventure, priorities, Maslow's hierarchy of needs, and more!
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Ethan Demme is a well-known name within the homeschool world with DEMME LEARNING. The CEO of Demme Learning Ethan applies his homeschool background and experience with adventure in his everyday life.
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(01:08) Your name is a very common name in the homeschool realm, Demme Learning.
(02:18) It's funny. It's the only world where you go to a homeschool conference and you see a line of kids bring their math books to have their math teacher sign their math books.
(03:54): The hack would be start where you are and plan the next step and do that and then figure it out the next time. What worked one year may not work the next year.
(05:40): The biggest adventure is getting kids. That's the biggest thing. My wife and I were foster parents for the last three years, and then this year we adopted four kids and that's the biggest adventure.
(06:45): I don't know what normal is, I've heard that best said normal is, just a setting on your washing machine, it's not really a thing in real life.
(10:18): But I've often heard teachers tell me, at the end of the day, every kid's homeschooled, so you can have the best school, the best curriculum, the best teachers, but it's what happens at home, the attitude that the parents, the values that the parents give to their kids and the discipline, at least half of the learning, if not more, always takes place at home. At the end of the day, everyone homeschools their kids.
(12:36): Then we move into that next tier, we call it building an experience bank, and a lot of that is you need to have a mental framework for how you engage with the world.
(20:25): For kids sometimes though, the context for them is I picked up a salamander for the first time and that's blowing my mind. That's their mental equivalent of climbing Mount Everest.
(21:23): If they're cold or hungry or thirsty, you're the source of all of their physiological needs, so you're the only safe space that they have right there, so you ramp up your attachment time.
(23:00); We have some mantras that we do, but one of the big things that we have to teach kids is how to identify what's safe and what's unsafe. Then, the difference between that is risk and that's hard
(25:45): I'm a pretty lenient, adventurous parent of, I call it, I'm comfortable up to an ER room visit.
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The kitchen is the part of the house where people gather. It's where we create the food that gives us feelings of nostalgia for grandma's cookies or Dad's Spicy Shrimp with noodles. Food is a universal need and one that allows us with a taste or smell to travel in time and location. Rowena S. took the idea of creating memorable food with an educating twist to create eat2explore. Join Rowena as she and Janna chat about the creation of Eat2Explore and how you can travel the world with cooking, and creating meaningful family time all within the comfort of your kitchen.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Rowena is the founder and creator of eat2explore, a cooking kit that incorporates family, food, travel, and education.
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(00:42) My guest is Rowena Scherer. She is the creator of eat2explore
(01:28) The mission behind it is really to teach kids and to have kids learn with their families about the world through food.
(03:08) That's kind of a moment where it dawned on me that I should let my kid fail.
(04:00) That's where eat2explore idea came about, so it sort of following my passion of cooking and traveling and culture and learning and most importantly, education.
(05:31) The other thing, second thing, is expanding their palate. A lot of children, and that's another reason I started is I see a lot of my kids' friends, they only eat pasta and pizza.
(07:49) If you make it a family routine of weekly cooking together and say, "Hey," just pick a weekend. Is it Friday night, Saturday night, Sunday night, or lunch?
(09:45) Yes, that's the uniqueness of eat2explore is we give you all the hard to find spices, sauces, and grain.
(17:02) We have talked before in the past about how in our society, we really lack that quality time, which is such an organic place, the kitchen, the dining room table where the family just shares.
(19:40) It's actually very easy. Cooking is not hard. It's about confidence.
(22:29) I think I told my kids when they were initially cutting, I'm like, "It's okay. It doesn't have to look perfect and as long as you try, I'm glad you try it."
(26:09) Yes. We have a regular one and then we have a vegetarian optional, which is also vegan optional, and then a gluten-free optional.
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We don't pay attention to the little things until we suddenly need some quick or not-so-quick life skill that we realize we were never taught, like how to tie a tie, change a tire, or cook eggs. The list can go on and is different for each individual but all is not lost there are people out there to help, like Rob Kenney, the creator, and host of 'Dad, How Do I?' From 'how to' videos to chin up talks Rob imparts practical advice with a few dad jokes for levity to people of all ages. Join Rob as he speaks with Janna about his experience of creating 'Dad, How Do I?' and more.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Rob Kenney is a YouTube creator of the 'Dad, How Do I?' channel with over 3 million subscribers and author of Dad, How Do I?: Practical Dadvice for Everyday Tasks and Successful Living
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(2:16) It would've been a resource that I could have used when I was younger.
(4:23) I want to encourage people: encourage, empower and edify.
(5:33) Not only being willing to try something new but to be willing to fail at it and keep trying.
(9:29) And so putting myself out there was a little bit scary.
(11:22) I did a Wisdom Wednesday talking about the comfort zone. I get it because it's comfortable. That's why it's called the comfort zone. I get it. But really no growth really happens there.
(12:22) But if you're going both going to work, you both should be able to know how to cook to fill in for each other.
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Twice exceptional (2e) students have a foot on both ends of the bell curve. They are highly gifted in some areas and have huge challenges (are neurodivergent) in others. They are often described as "smart but lazy" or "bright but scattered." ADHD, dyslexia, and autism spectrum disorder fall under this neurodiversity umbrella. Join guest Sam Young, an expert on special needs education who is himself neurodivergent, as he provides a wealth of insights for homeschooling your 2e/neurodivergent child.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Samuel Young, MEd, is a growth-minded, two-time Fulbright Scholar and Director of Young Scholars Academy, a strength-based, talent-focused virtual enrichment center that supports twice-exceptional students and their families. As an ADHD learner himself, Sam has a tremendous understanding of, experience in, and respect for all things related to neurodiverse education. Before founding Young Scholars Academy, Samuel taught in a variety of capacities—including nearly a decade at Bridges Academy—at an array of programs in the US, Europe, and Asia. Samuel has been featured in the documentary 2e2: Teaching The Twice Exceptional, the textbook Understanding The Social and Emotional Lives of Gifted Students, 2nd Ed., Variations Magazine, 2e News, and other publications.
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01:50 Sam's introduction.
02:28 Explanations of neurodiversity and twice-exceptionality (2e).
05:23 Gifted students often have deficits in certain areas.
07:05 The medical model or the deficit focus.
09:21 Taylorism — training kids for an out-of-date, industrialized society.
10:11 The benefits of homeschooling, especially for 2e kids.
12:47 Taking a strength-based and interest-focused approach to homeschooling.
13:40 The power of asking questions to understand how your child thinks.
16:39 The value of curiosity.
18:58 A fresh lens for viewing your neurodivergent child.
19:32 Three kinds of masking that neurodivergent students exhibit.
26:33 Three directions to consider: 1. How are you taking in information? 2. How are you processing the information? 3. What are you doing with the information?
27:24 Ask why your child needs to know something. What are your ultimate goals? Those answers will inform how you teach your child.
28:09 How the lessons of education during Covid-19 have been lost.
29:44 Sam's business Young Scholars Academy.
36:02 Get Sam's FREE 3-Tier Task Manager Course, for students ages 7-10.
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In this continued conversation from ep. 114, special guest Andrea Thorpe and host Janna Koch pick up on part two of their discussion about homeschooling middle schoolers. These years don't have to be a season of gritting your teeth and white knuckling through. You can actually thrive when you shift your mindset from controlling your teens to preparing them for the next phase of life. Learn how to handle mistakes (theirs and yours), how to react to their bids for autonomy and alone time, and how to guide them into better decision making without using the phrase "I told you so."
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Andrea Thorpe is the author of three children’s books, a wife, and a mother of three daughters ages 18, 16, and 11. Prior to becoming a homeschooling mom, Andrea worked as a middle school classroom teacher and guidance counselor and was recognized as Teacher of the Year. For the past thirteen years, Andrea has enjoyed teaching her lively trio from the comfort of her family’s New Jersey home. Currently, she teaches classes in her local homeschool community and works as a freelance writer.
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02:16 Controlling your teens as a taskmaster versus guiding them through necessary preparation.
02:52 Giving teens a safe space to make mistakes and, at times, bear consequences.
05:26 How to ask questions to give middle schoolers the powers of introspection and evaluation (instead of telling them what to do all the time).
10:42 Model how to handle mistakes.
14:16 The power of the phrase, "Now you know how not to do it."
18:53 Don't be offended with middle schoolers exert independence.
21:24 Middle schoolers need more space than before.
23:46 As they grow in independence, realize your voice is always inside their heads.
25:50 Focusing on the end goal of your parenting/homeschooling.
28:17 Helping kids remember how they've mastered hard things.
30:53 How a supportive teacher inspired Andrea to became a writer.
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Join special guest Andrea Thorpe to learn how homeschooling the middle school years can be one of your best seasons yet! During middle school, your children transition from the cute years of elementary school to the independent learning years of high school. Because they are transforming, your parenting and teaching both need to flex as well.
ABOUT OUR GUEST | Andrea Thorpe is the author of three children’s books, a wife, and a mother of three daughters ages 18, 16, and 11. Prior to becoming a homeschooling mom, Andrea worked as a middle school classroom teacher and guidance counselor and was recognized as Teacher of the Year. For the past thirteen years, Andrea has enjoyed teaching her lively trio from the comfort of her family’s New Jersey home. Currently, she teaches classes in her local homeschool community and works as a freelance writer.
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03:13 Andrea's introduction.
05:35 How Andrea started her homeschool speaking tour.
06:37 How Andrea uses Google Calendar for planning but removes the distraction to be on her phone too much.
10:29 How can parents safeguard the relationship with their pre-teens and early teens in the face of surging hormones and attitudes?
13:29 Middle schoolers still need you ,but possibly in a different way from before.
19:25 If you have multiple children, don't be tempted to rest on your laurels. Each child is unique. Also the world is constantly changing, for example technology, Covid-19, etc.
21:02 Learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable.
22:55 Permissive parenting, setting boundaries, and listening to your children.
28:15 Andrea's example of cleaning up the kitchen.
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Learn what makes guitar (or any musical instrument) the perfect homeschool hobby and extracurricular activity in this episode with John Futch. John has been playing guitar for 25 years and has taught music for over twenty years in his hometown of Lexington, KY. In 2017, he and a friend created First Frets, an online guitar and ukulele program that takes students from beginner to advanced, one step at a time. First Frets is a great option not only for individuals, but also for homeschool families, co-ops, and private schools. If you have a musically inclined child, this episode will inspire you to imagine the possibilities playing guitar can open for your family.
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01:51 John's background from homeschooled student to homeschool dad.
04:34 How John's father ignited his passion for guitar.
07:08 John's introduction to formal strings instruction.
09:08 How Covid-19 shutdowns opened the door for once-in-a-lifetime Zoom lessons.
10:15 John's perceptions of the financial realities of being a musician and how that led to music being only a college side-hustle.
13:40 The birth of John's company First Frets—a recorded option for students who needed a way to make up missed lessons.
18:55 Music is like basketball in that you can enjoy it in iterations of one, two, or up to five people. Why music is the perfect hobby and extracurricular topic.
21:37 So many parents also wanted to learn guitar that John created a family plan for his lessons.
23:40 How to handle kids who don't want to perform in front of others, for example, in a recital.
24:48 Playing purely for the love of music.
26:26 How to maintain interest in an instrument when you're a clumsy beginner.
27:34 How music instruction impacts other academic areas and brain development. [John references This Is Your Brain on Music by Daniel J. Levitin.]
30:05 John's homeschool hack—pacing.
31:54 Music can be more than a hobby. It actually can be a career, even if you aren't in a hit band.
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Have you ever felt totally stressed out by the holidays? Or oddly disappointed when they were over? Janna Koch and her guest Kelly Scimeca chat all things holiday blues: the symptoms, the causes, and how to keep them from ruining your cheery vibe.
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01:52 Introduction to Kelly
02:52 Chore charts as a solution to the always messy house
03:52 What are the holiday blues?
06:22 How your own grief can be transferred to your kids
07:55 The expectation to make everything homemade at the holidays
11:03 How anxiety can blossom and grow, ruining your enjoyment
12:38 Common symptoms of the holiday blues
14:25 Reframing your expectations to you aren't overwhelmed
16:22 How to tame unhealthy or emotional eating
18:14 How isolation can impact holiday blues
19:31 Learning to say no
22:28 Self-care is not selfish
24:19 Get family input on your holiday plans
27:00 How slow and steady is the mantra to overcome the holiday blues
28:01 If you need additional help, reach out to a therapist. Dial 988 for the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline.
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Why add Black, Asian, and Native American voices to your homeschool? Our podcast guest for this episode is a specialist in this area. Belinda Bullard has successfully graduated three children through homeschooling with a literature-based approach. Her business, Blessed Heritage Educational Resources, provides multicultural history curriculum featuring the African-American presence and contribution. If you'd like to give your children empathy and the ability to understand history from multiple viewpoints, tune in!
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02:25 Teaching is also learning.
06:50 In teaching homeschool history, be willing to be comfortable with the uncomfortable.
09:09 Study primary sources such as the Constitution itself.
14:21 Teach your children about biases in news outlets and how to evaluate internet sources for credibility.
17:51 Aim to use first person voices, namely autobiographies.
25:30 Expose your children to festivals, movies, books, people, etc. that reflect a variety of viewpoints.
31:05 What's the evidence that your children are digesting their history studies?
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Music is a mental superfood—truly enjoyable and beneficial for both brain and soul! Music awakens imagination and even boosts math skills. Join host Janna and her guest Dana Dominiak as they talk about Piano Prodigy—a video game that teaches kids both music theory and how to play the piano.
About our guest: Both a video game entrepreneur and a professor of Computer Science at Lewis University, Dana Dominiak has extensive experience in both games and education. Dana's companies have created many hit video games for Nintendo and other platforms including Dragonball Z: The Legacy of Goku series for Atari, and My Little Pony and Hello Kitty for Hasbro and Sanrio. Dana holds a PhD in Computer Science in AI from the Illinois Institute of Technology in Chicago. Mostly, she just really likes to play video games.
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01:04 How Dana entered the homeschool field.
02:44 The art vs. computer science misconception.
05:53 How Prodigy Factory games boost creativity.
08:12 What's the value of music education?
13:29 Music can be hard to measure. Piano Prodigy provides levels, ribbons, medals, etc. that give a sense of tangible progression.
17:13 Music is one of the multiple intelligences. Listen to this podcast.
18:06 The creativity inherent in math.
21:48 Music wakes up the brain.
24:50 Playing music versus listening to music.
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Anyone can be imaginative. Our job as homeschool parents is to give our children a toolbox with enough variety of options to foster their creativity. Both reading and writing are key vehicles for imagination!
About our guest: Nancy Jo Wilson is a homeschool mother and science fiction writer. Visit her author website here. She's homeschooled for 20+ years in four different states. If she hasn't personally experienced a homeschool hiccough, she knows someone who has. With her sister Carole Jean Flodin, also a homeschool veteran, she wrote The Generic Literature Guidewhich helps parents find educational value from any novel.
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04:38 The importance of the parent-child relationship.
06:46 Don't stop reading aloud to your kids.
08:36 Why is imagination a valuable goal for your homeschool?
10:34 Nancy's example of when her son was paralyzed with indecision and how she should have handled it.
13:31 Being free as a parent to deviate from your curriculum and be creative.
14:06 How to bring more imagination to a workbook-based curriculum.
16:27 What does imagination mean?
19:04 Nancy Jo's tips for reluctant readers.
22:48 What about graphic novels?
25:16 Realize your kids may not learn the same way you prefer.
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Special guest Kathleen Cotter Clayton from RightStart Math believes that homeschool math can be so much fun that you fall off your chair from laughter. In this episode, she helps parents find the beauty, the fun, the giggles—even the joy—of math. Math is not math for math's sake. Math is a tool to solve actual problems. And when kids learn to concentrate steadily on math, they will feel empowered and refreshed!
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01:15 How Kathleen was introduced to joyous math through card games.
03:56 What's wrong with saying, "I'm not good at math."
05:06 Math is like reading — it's everywhere around us, a skill we use almost constantly.
07:17 Playing basketball may not be easy, but it's fun. Math is the same.
09:32 Why moms need to be especially careful about saying they are bad at math.
10:24 RightStart Math is built on fun games.
12:08 Emotional associations with math.
14:15 There are various branches of math. So you may be weak at some and strong in others.
17:08 Practical ways to make math more fun.
20:15 Staying present as a homeschool parent.
21:58 Learning how to concentrate and the benefits it brings.
27:07 Three steps of learning: concentrating, working through it, and then putting it away.
30:37 The practical applications of math.
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If you are scared to homeschool high school, fear no more! Special guest Ann Karako of It's Not That Hard to Homeschool has successfully homeschooled five teens through high school graduation. In this episode she shares her insights about dual enrollment, homeschool styles, the family dynamic, gap years, and more.
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01:07 How Ann's babysitters convinced her to homeschool.
03:34 The inspiration behind It's Not That Hard to Homeschool and how Ann found her niche with homeschooling high school.
07:16 Ann says the family dynamic is far more important than the method of homeschooling.
08:04 Ann defends the "school at home" approach to homeschooling.
11:54 Dual (or concurrent) enrollment for teens.
15:13 Colleges don't expect freshman to come with dual enrollment credits.
17:02 The importance of family discussions if your kids use dual enrollment.
18:56 About the gap year (between high school and college).
22:24 Even question college. Is it a good choice for your teen?
23:33 The teen years often present new parenting and homeschooling challenges you may not have been prepared for. We also realize some of our expectations for our children too lofty or don't fit the child.
26:19 When our teens surprise us, we can either we can be humbled by it or we can double down and start being more authoritarian.
27:08 The case for taking additional higher math.
28:51 Making decisions with/for your teen: When Your Teen Hates Homeschooling High School
34:28 A big fear about homeschooling high school is that your teen will miss out on opportunities.
41:25 There's no need to grade daily work. Let teens sleep in!
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At its core, etiquette is a set of skills that we use to help others feel valued. Our polite (or rude) behaviors send unspoken messages about what we cherish. If your kids could use help with being more refined or kinder to those around them, this episode with special guest Monica Irvine is for you! Visit Monica's site at The Etiquette Factory and learn about her curriculum that teaches manners. She says that purposeful parenting means creating and recognizing opportunities for our children to practice generosity, compassion, and empathy. That's what etiquette is.
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01:14 What is etiquette?
03:27 How Monica entered the homeschool world.
04:35 A homeschool hack: Use documentaries at lunchtime for history lessons.
07:28 What inspired Monica to create a curriculum to teach etiquette.
10:28 Teaching out of correction has a negative connotation. So teach manners as part of your homeschool for better reception.
14:41 Why etiquette is as important as language arts and math.
16:02 The unspoken messages that rude (and polite) behaviors send.
20:42 It's bad etiquette to point out someone else's bad etiquette.
21:46 Monica' motivation for being polite: "I would never want my laziness to cause someone else inconvenience."
23:01 Having great manners will help your children stand out.
24:14 What is honor? Who is an honorable person? What makes a civil society?
31:54 Knowing etiquette can help kids who feel anxiety in social situations.
35:02 The skill of noticing.
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Nicole the Math Lady has a unique approach to math mistakes: When errors happen, instead of feeling like a failure, accept mistakes as part of the learning process. Teach your kids not to be perfect math problem solvers but perfect math fixers. Nicole explains how she uses her own bloopers to encourage kids to embrace imperfection and keep trying.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:18 Many people don't like math because it's perceived as a right/wrong, black/white discipline.
03:26 How to approach mistakes with math or getting the answers wrong. Teach your kids to be a fixer.
06:43 Math is layered. And it can take multiple exposures to fully grasp a concept.
8:23 MATH = mistakes acceptable to help
08:36 An analogy of wedding mishaps. Figure your error curve, how many bloopers you can accept.
11:32 How Nicole used the small mistakes in her teaching videos as an example to her students to embrace imperfection.
14:46 Apologizing to our kids when we make mistakes.
15:30 Why Nicole loves falling on her sword and admitting her errors.
18:00 Letting kids teach the material.
20:50 How "We're not a math family" can limit your kids.
22:16 Your kids have zero idea how their lives will turn out, all the careers they will have.
28:11 Savor the parts of homeschooling you love, and outsource the parts you hate.
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Past math trauma or thinking you're not good at math will impact how you approach math in your homeschool. If math is a weak spot for you, tune into this episode with special guest Nicole Thomas of Nicole the Math Lady. She actually became a homeschooler after she started teaching math online. Nicole encourages us to stop thinking about math solely in terms of numbers, formulas, and processes but to turn it into challenges that actually relate to something you're interested in—like how many more Pringles you could fit into a can.
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02:56 Nicole started her math teaching business before she became a homeschooler!
08:30 Despite being an educator, homeschooling wasn't an easy transition.
10:37 How Nicole brilliantly outsources homeschool tasks to her son's grandparents—via videocalls.
16:32 Making a triangle of math instruction: the child, the parent, and Nichole.
19:47 While history and language arts can be integrated and can generate an emotional response, math feels separate and a bit cold.
21:08 Nicole gives an example of teaching geometry with a Pringles can.
24:12 Solving real life problems is more important than memorizing formulas.
25:32 Nicole loves math because it's everywhere and it doesn't have to be explained or learned in a mathy way.
26:35 Learning styles research says teach with multiple styles (not necessarily one preferred style).
28:27 Getting help with teaching and grading math in the homeschool setting.
31:56 Corny brain breaks
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What's your goal for second language learning in your homeschool? Do you want your kids to learn about a language or actually be able to communicate with that language? Adelaide Olguin of TalkBox.Mom takes the later approach. Her second language learning kits teach the entire family just a few useful phrases at a time in an immersive, whole-language approach. Instead of getting bogged down in grammar lessons and long lists of vocabulary words, you are using the language from day one. This episode includes not only tidbits about foreign language learning but also general tips for dealing with homeschool stress, how to promote interest-led learning, and overcoming that internal voice telling you that you're not good enough.
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01:57 Adelaide's entry into homeschooling was fueled by her own experiences at school and how she wanted something different for her three boys.
05:35 Adelaide lets her sons' questions lead their homeschool.
07:08 Homeschooling is a chance to learn (relearn) what you missed/forgot from your own school years.
09:47 Adelaide's son's conversation with an archaeologist.
11:43 What is TalkBox.Mom?
12:11 If you're nervous about teaching a second language, remember that you taught your child their first language.
14:17 Kids naturally extract language based on what they experience around them.
14:53 TalkBox.Mom doesn't start with grammar or vocabulary words. It uses the family dynamic to practice just one or two phrases at a time in a real life context.
17:21 The importance of fluency and how TalkBox.Mom builds it.
21:35 When you know other languages, it makes travel more interesting.
24:12 The typical classroom experience of learning a second language vs. the TalkBox.Mom approach.
26:18 Why Adelaide encourages skipping the grammar and vocabulary lessons and going straight to natural language use.
28:54 You don't need to actually learn the grammar formally to be able to use grammar correctly.
32:40 Get the free TalkBox.Mom starter pack for learning language while playing with a ball.
35:10 How to respond to errors, mispronunciation, etc.
37:48 Adelaide's secret hack for when she gets super stressed about her homeschool outcomes.
41:00 Adelaide's advice for fighting resistance, that internal voice that says, "I don't have time. I'm too late. I'm not good enough."
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Guest Gretchen Roe from Demme Learning says that math is like death and taxes: you don't get away from either one. She urges parents not to shortchange kids in their math instruction by claim they're just not a math-family.
Learn how a mastery-based curriculum is student-centric, allowing a child to work at the pace they need to fully comprehend the skills (instead of the curriculum determining the length of lessons and how quickly you work through them). Find out why manipulatives are key to learning math and why some kids discard them too soon. Are your math lessons too long? Discover the ideal length of a daily math lesson. The day-to-day math we encounter as adults mostly comes to us in the form of word problems.
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02:55 Gretchen's introduction.
05:44 Mastery-based learning, defined.
07:22 How Math-U-See is unique compared to other math curriculums.
09:07 About manipulatives for teaching math.
13:14 Teaching math to the artistic, non-mathy student.
15:17 Flexibility is a great sign of intelligence. Help your child maintain intellectual flexibility by teaching the higher math that they think they won't ever need.
18:08 Numeracy (mathematical literacy) in daily life.
21:20 The value of mental math when the cash register dies.
24:03 The ideal length of math lessons. (It's probably not 90 minutes!)
25:53 Don't let your own distaste of math color your child's experience.
28:39 Word problems are the math of life!
29:22 Gretchen's advice to a parent who is struggling with homeschooling and considering giving it up.
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In this second chat with Occupational Therapist Assistant Trish Cauthon, she and Janna delve into the many facets of executive functioning and how to support your child with those skills. Find out what trouble signs to look for in areas such as visual processing, bilateral skills, and fine motor skills. Trish shares simple strategies that can help as you guide your child without frustration through developmental milestones.
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02:10 What is executive function? And how can we help kids develop theirs?
03:20 What is self-monitoring?
04:15 What is working memory?
04:52 Time management & the cotton ball trick.
07:55 Obstacles courses help retention.
08:48 What skills are essential for reading and writing and how we can help kids master them.
11:20 The signs that there's a motor issue.
12:26 How too much screentime can cause visual delays.
13:20 How monkey bars relate to learning how to read.
13:48 Bilateral skills. It's never too late to work on these.
18:48 Hand strength, grasp, fine motor skills and how they affect handwriting.
20:30 Simple tricks to assist vision issues that can affect reading.
22:44 What kids may actually mean when they say they're bored.
23:16 How to handle a genuine concern that a child isn't mastering a skill that you think they should have already.
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We invited occupational therapist assistant Trish Cauthon to the show to help you equip your young children for their two primary occupations—playing and learning. The field of occupational therapy encompasses multiple key areas such as: motor skills, sensory processing, emotional social skills, self-regulation, and executive functioning. Learn how long you can expect a child to pay attention to a cognitively challenging task. Get multiple suggestions for making learning more memorable so that it sticks. And find out if your expectations for your child are reasonable or not.
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01:52 What is a COTA and what does occupational therapy provide?
01:07 A simple trick with cotton balls to help kids regulate a sense of time.
05:24 Key skills needed at the preschool level.
07:32 A rule of thumb for how long kids can focus.
09:22 Why early elementary grade children can sometimes get overwhelmed with what seems like a simple project.
12:05 Children don't yet know how to react to mistakes and learn from them.
12:52 Some of our concerns/frustrations with our kids arise from not understanding what's developmentally appropriate for them.
14:51 The tremendous need for variety and breaks.
17:19 Learning how to learn.
18:49 Learning preferences.
19:50 Motor memory.
20:57 The value of asking questions when a child is struggling.
23:38 What hands-on experiences to do for kids.
26:20 Ways to make homeschool lessons more tactile.
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Aimee Eucce is our guest expert, talking about teaching reading with a phonic-focused approach called Play 'n Talk. It's a skills-based program so it works for any age child who needs these skills. Aimee has learning challenges that made reading hard, but this program worked for her as a child, and now she uses it with her own children. Read the full transcript here. Or watch on YouTube here.
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01:07 Aimee was homeschooled as a child in the 80s. They couldn't play outside until after 2 PM out of fear of the truancy officer.
05:08 How to turn any school topic into a play-based learning experience.
06:04 How the Play 'n Talk phonics program helped Aimee learn to read despite her dyslexia, ADHD, and a slight auditory processing delay.
08:39 The history of the Play 'n Talk program.
10:42 How it works: short lessons, audio lessons, a printed book, games that reinforce the phonetic concepts multiple ways.
14:11 How spiral learning is used and how that helps children with learning challenges.
15:35 There are no shoulds in homeschool.
18:06 The signs of reading readiness.
22:22 Approach homeschooling like it's an adventure.
25:35 The rules of decoding.
28:39 The value of a sense of wonder. Loving to learn.
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Before your teen drives solo, you offer driver's education with lots of practice behind the wheel under your caring supervision. Naomi Dahl from Cell Phone Permit makes the case that homeschool parents should do the same for smart phones—give young people the tools they need to use mobile devices in healthy ways so they avoid addiction, cyberbullying, and phishing schemes. With this curriculum based on trust and open communication, parents can help tweens and teens navigate social media and productivity apps wisely.
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01:17 An introduction to Cell Phone Permit, a company created by a homeschool family of 8.
06:30 Have a cell phone curfew each night when everyone turns them off.
09:05 Cell phone use is damaging GenZ's peripheral eyesight and also their social skills. They would rather communicate over the phone than hang out with their friends in person.
09:36 Cell phones and sex trafficking.
13:34 The importance of trust between parents and tweens/teens.
18:24 Vault apps.
24:16 It's never too late to have these discussions with your teens.
25:57 The problem with just saying no to cell phones and social media entirely.
29:47 Understanding how integral social media is in teens' lives. Even when they realize it's destructive, it can be impossible to abandon it totally or block toxic people.
31:23 Establish family time that's not just everyone on their phones—together but alone.
33:34 It used to be that parents wanted kids to turn off the TV and do something as a family. Now we simply want everyone to watch the same TV screen to find some semblance of shared experience (instead of everyone on individual devices).
35:29 Tablet use with babies and toddlers.
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LAMP stands for Language Arts Mentor Program, an exciting new option for parents using BookShark who may feel intimidated about instructing their children in writing. Through the online support of writing coach Dave Myers, students get the feedback they need on their compositions so they can grow as proficient writers. Hear Dave's story from public school English teacher to homeschool dad and his thoughts on the superiority of homeschooling.
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Dave: "...the best students are inquisitive. Right? They just ask question after question, after question. And as a parent or a teacher, that might drive you a little bit crazy. But really that's awesome because that kid's engaged and that's the key to being successful."
Dave: "And what happens with language arts is you're dealing with communication and words. And so there's all sorts of different ways that you can communicate the same idea, whether that's spoken or whether that's in writing. And so there's a lot of parents that feel like they want assistance with somebody who's more trained in manipulating language and working with language. And so that's where I came in."
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00:57 Dave's journey from public school educator to homeschool dad.
03:05 A main contrast between homeschool and public school: freedom vs. regimentation.
05:22 Sunday night planning for the homeschool week.
06:58 The joy of deviating from the lesson plans!
10:51 An overview of the Language Arts Mentor Program and how Dave is involved in it.
14:39 Dave's introduction to BookShark curriculum and his amazement at all the books kids read in a school year compared to what is covered in public school.
18:17 BookShark's 4-day schedule and the flexibility it provides.
19:44 How having an outside writing mentor can improve your relationship with your child.
22:44 The ways that LAMP helps students grow as writers: sentence structure, different genres, and organization.
27:44 The key to good writing = It's easy for the reader.
30:53 How reading is the foundation of a proficient writer.
33:55 Slowing the pace and giving kids options/autonomy. This strategy helps young writers develop their voice.
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Hear how Michigan Bookshark Virtual works for any family in Michigan and how it might be exactly what you're looking for in your homeschool journey—the perfect blend of print curriculum with online support and accountability. With this program, students are mostly learning via reading, discussing, hands-on experiments, and math manipulatives. Only about 25% of the time are students working on the computer. So this isn't a typical computer-based, highly screen-dependent program. It's a book-based program with a virtual component for assessment, grading, and recordkeeping.
Jen Myers: "...being an educator, one of the things that I looked at was the standards. I went through each grade level, each subject to really comb through that to see, 'Is this meeting grade level?' And when I saw that it covered the standards and benchmarks for Michigan, I thought, 'Well, this could be a great fit for our families who do want the option to learn online.' And so then as we started to use it with our families, I just kept hearing more and more positive feedback on how much they loved the materials, loved the curriculum, loved the supplemental activities, loved having online teachers work with their kids. Here they had been homeschooling and everything was on their shoulders as far as preparing the curriculum, doing the grading. And now, these parents were able to step to a facilitator role where the curriculum is set for them and there's other teachers grading, especially like with the language arts. They loved having someone else grade the papers that their students were writing."
Our guests are Jen Myers, Partnership Program Director at Alpena Schools, and Gwyn Domke, the BookShark Coordinator. Find out about your eligibility to receive FREE curriculum through Michigan BookShark Virtual:
- Jen Myers myersj@alpenaschools.com
- Gwyn Domke domkeg@alpenaschools.com
- Phone: (989) 358-5132
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TIMESTAMPS
01:14 Jen's introduction
02:10 Gwen's introduction
03:05 Using a standards-based curriculum like BookShark.
04:07 What online teachers an provide via MI BookShark Virtual.
04:47 An overview of MI BookShark Virtual.
06:30 How much of MI BookShark Virtual is screen-based.
07:59 The advantage of leveled (vs. graded) curriculum.
09:50 Why parents find BookShark do doable and flexible.
13:20 Easy to travel!
14:32 Teaching multiple children together with a single program.
15:54 The math options available.
17:35 How MI BookShark Virtual provides accountability.
21:47 The process of getting started.
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Find out why homeschooling is the education of the future with Bex Buzzie, a public school teacher and homeschooler. Bex's infectious enthusiasm will pump you up about the many advantages homeschooling provides your children.
This episode is the first of season 3 of the Homeschool Your Way podcast. We have a great line-up planned for you this season, so be sure to subscribe.
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TIMESTAMPS
01:53 Bex talks about her show: Homeschool Advantage podcast.
06:02 How Bex has a foot in both public school and homeschool worlds.
09:56 Bex's homeschool hack is to go one inch wide and ten feet deep with unit studies.
12:18 Bex's mission is to encourage parents that they can homeschool well, even if they work.
13:47 Bex says the exodus of teachers from public schools means there are quality instructors a homeschool parent can hire for their own kids.
17:31 Teaching electives in the homeschool.
20:37 Homeschooling provides room for experimentation.
21:47 How to reframe failure and build resilience in kids.
27:57 Bex's advice for homeschool parents: "What I would say is parents who have been homeschooling, encourage those people who are on the fence to jump off the fence and to jump into homeschooling because their life will never be the same. They're going to go on a journey."
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Have you ever wondered if you are smart? Do your children ever ask you if you think they're smart? What is smart anyways? Today's episode explores the theory of multiple intelligences. An IQ test isn't the only way to measure intelligence. My guest, Dana Fohr, discusses the eight ways your kids are smart. You may just be surprised by what you hear.
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QUOTABLE
Janna: "[Our children a]re not just another person living in your home that you have to feed and drive around and look after and clean up after. I mean, it does feel that way sometimes in the thick of being at home and homeschooling your children. But when you really get to know them and see what motivates them and as they start to mature and you're like, 'Oh my gosh, you're a really cool person. You're neat.' And it's such a privilege to have the time when I homeschool to be able to do that with my kids."
TIMESTAMPS
01:04 Dana's background.
02:09 The value of giving kids autonomy.
04:32 Book referenced: 8 Great Smarts by Dr. Kathy Koch | The 8 intelligences, outlined and defined:
- word smart
- logic smart
- picture smart
- music smart
- body smart
- nature smart
- people smart
- self smart
07:32 How multiple intelligences is different from how IQ is traditionally measured.
08:58 How an understanding of multiple intelligences can impact our homeschool.
13:34 Sometimes you can identify a child's special gifts by looking at what annoys you. A child who's constantly in motion? Could be body smart!
14:36 The difference between correction and criticism.
22:32 Get help from others who can teach your kids from various strengths/smarts.
24:34 How to be smart with your smarts.
25:38 How to help a well-rounded child who doesn't have extreme smarts in one particular area.
27:23 About being the best.
36:25 The need for constant adjustment as a homeschooler.
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Wondering if you can homeschool your special needs child? The answer is probably yes! Hear from Peggy Ployhar, the founder of SPED Homeschool for fresh ways to look at your role as a parent and teacher. Release yourself from the public school model and give your children what they truly need!
Visit SPED Homeschool for more resources.
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TIMESTAMPS
01:28 Introduction to Peggy Ployhar and why she created SPED Homeschool.
03:40 How the homeschool culture has changed over the last 20 years.
07:16 Why homeschooling is ideal for special needs students.
09:22 What forms the public school model and what actually should be the guiding force.
11:14 How do I know what to focus on when teaching my child?
16:03 Why the love of learning is so critical.
20:00 I'm not seeing progress. Does that mean my child's not learning?
24:00 Parents tend to blame themselves when their children face a learning struggle.
25:25 Is getting a diagnosis valuable?
26:56 How to communicate with your kids to find out how they learn.
35:03 When you homeschool, getting the answer first or fast doesn't matter.
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There are multiple off-ramps for your high school senior. Sure, college is one, but not every child is academically inclined. Special guest Cindy Lajoy shares alternatives to college for your homeschooled teens including trades, apprenticeships, tech-jobs, self-employment, entrepreneurship, and military service. Learn how to tailor your homeschool now for your child's future blue collar occupation.
Connect with Cindy at Blue Collar Homeschool.
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QUOTABLES
TIMESTAMPS
01:30 Cindy's introduction and background, including adoption and homeschooling stories.
02:58 Cindy never thought she'd homeschool. Here's why she did though.
06:42 See your children as humans who will continually grow.
07:29 What is Blue Collar Homeschool and its origin.
10:07 The vision of Blue Collar Homeschool: Not homeschooling for Harvard. Or a different kind of homeschool excellence.
12:11 Trades and military service as alternatives to college.
15:11 How Blue Collar Homeschool goes against the typical homeschool grain.
17:44 How tech companies are rethinking the college degree.
18:27 The value of apprenticeships and the high salaries of many trades.
23:58 The average adult has seven careers.
25:03 The entrepreneur (or self-employed) route for homeschoolers.
29:06 Some kids are not academically oriented. They are still smart!
30:30 Cindy's son's experience with learning about film. And another semester renovating a home.
34:51 How to adjust your curriculum to fit your child's future blue collar job.
38:03 Why you'll need a support network when you go the blue collar route.
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We asked homeschool moms what they would do differently and what advice they'd give their younger selves about teaching at home. They didn't say they would work through more curriculum, drive their kids harder and faster, and be super homeschooler. In fact, their answers may give you the permission you've been needing to relax the pace and the reduce the intensity of your homeschool. Use this food for thought as guideposts for your own homeschool experience.
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TIMESTAMPS
03:35 Nugget of wisdom #1: "Your homeschool does have to look like everyone else's. Go at your kids' pace, foster independence, it's okay to take your time."
12:12 Nugget of wisdom #2: "You don't have to have it all figured out. You're going to change things anyway, right?"
16:09 Nugget of wisdom #3: "Don't be afraid to outsource. You don't have to teach every subject to your kids every day."
21:25 Nugget of wisdom #4: "There are many things I would've done differently. I would've used the curriculum I'm using now and not let cost stop me. I would've done less book work and more practical application."
22:04 Nugget of wisdom #5: "Don't push. Learning will happen if you let it."
22:51 Nugget of wisdom #6: "Stop spending so much time lesson planning; there's a better way."
25:03 Nugget of wisdom #7: "Relax, it's really not worth the stress and anxiety."
27:18 Ximena shares her do-over: not to be so caught up in finishing the curriculum.
28:05 DeeDee would take more of an unschooling (not classical) approach.
29:46 Janna would be more goal-focused when making homeschool decisions.
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If public school is all you know, it's natural to try to recreate that experience at home. But guest Sarah Hercules warns us against falling into that trap. Instead, let your family's needs guide your decisions. Flex to what serves your routines and your well being! You don't have to have desks in a row or start lessons at 8 am each morning. (Of course, you can if you want to!) When you get outside the public school box, you have the freedom to truly savor the learning journey with your children and stop worrying about wearing the parent hat or the teacher hat.
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QUOTABLES
Janna: "So think of curriculum like an outline. So as long as you're hitting the main points, you're getting the information that your child needs. If you're super creative, then you can take that creativity and expand your outline to include a lot more activities or different ideas. But if you're bare bones getting through the day, you're working full time, and trying to homeschool your children, just having that outline and knowing that this is what we need to accomplish today, it can be very basic."
Sarah: "... there's not a distinction between being a parent and being a teacher because parents teach. That's one of the jobs that we have and that we get to do so, and so if we're mentally separating them, that's because that's what public school does."
Sarah: "But I can be really good at finding out information or I can be really good at finding the perfect YouTube video that's going to help my child with that concept. And that makes me a great teacher."
TIMESTAMPS
02:25 Sarah shares her transition from a public school believer to a homeschooler.
03:55 How Sarah's attempt to use desks, schedules, worksheets in organized drawers, etc. led to disaster.
05:54 Sarah's epiphany while nursing the baby and reading to the other children on the couch.
07:17 Managing a classroom requires certain structures that you don't need in a homeschool setting.
08:13 Insights from A Thomas Jefferson Education by Oliver DeMille: Public education grinds everyone into sausage. With homeschooling, our kids don't have to be funneled through the same tube.
09:17 How to homeschool six unique children, some with special needs, while combining them for history and science (and life skills like cooking dinner)!
13:44 How long homeschooling actually takes and why the school day at home is so much shorter.
15:30 Sarah outlines a typical day.
22:28 Why you don't need to worry about juggling or switching roles. A parent is a teacher.
24:44 Learning alongside your children takes away a lot of the fear of homeschooling.
26:00 Janna shares how she embraced her role of mom and stopped trying to be a teacher.
27:57 How to learn better discussion skills so that homeschooling becomes more and more natural.
34:04 Examples that you really don't need tests, worksheets, and grades.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:33 Self-care Your Way
A snowshoe retreat in the mountains —without snow — that turned into a Netflix binge.
21:46 What We’re Reading
The Family Upstairs by Lisa Jewell
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In this episode, DeeDee, Ximena, and Janna field your homeschool questions including socialization, high school transcripts, how to know when you're doing enough, and how to measure progress. It's an uplifting show that will give you the confidence to trust the process as you homeschool your way!
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TIMESTAMPS
05:08 Let's get started!
06:01 Q1: How will kids be socialized if they are homeschooled?
11:49 Q2: How do you make a transcript for your high schooler to get into college?
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16:56 DeeDee's reflection on cherishing the moments.
19:51 Q3: How do I know if I'm doing enough?
24:56 The amazing story of the teen who went to college without ever having written an essay in high school.
27:22 Q4: If I am not seeing progress, should I stop homeschooling?
32:37 Janna's goal as a homeschooler is simply not to kill her children's love of learning.
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Dr. Elaine Roberts is a writing professor who shares her perspective on homeschooled students (and much more) in this episode. You'll get her insights on how to teach writing in your homeschool, why going slow is the secret to going fast, and dealing with student frustration over not already understanding what's in the lesson. Find out her suggestions for setting your teens up for success in college.
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TIMESTAMPS
03:36 Homeschoolers sometimes reach college without ever having written a formal research paper. Granted, other kids lack this experience as well!
04:48 Homeschoolers tend to be more willing to expend effort to fill up their learning gaps.
07:19 Regardless of college major or field of work, everyone needs to be a proficient writer.
09:32 Don't equate writing with grammar. Let writing be integrated into every subject.
13:27 Critical thinking is the bedrock of good writing.
15:48 Why public school classrooms struggle to naturally integrate writing into all the subjects.
17:48 Teachers have less freedom to be cross-curricular than homeschoolers have.
19:49 Being a math-person, a science-person, etc.
23:28 When kids are frustrated by things they don't yet know/understand.
32:25 What Dr. Roberts' English 101 students typically don't know.
33:26 Go slow to go fast.
35:42 How to set your kids up for college success.
37:46 Focus on a broad scope of knowledge. [Reference Range: Why Generalists Triumph in a Specialized World by David Epstein]
38:51 About entrance exams (SAT, ACT)
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As a mom to eight children, Lynna has lots of practical experience dealing with sibling relationships. In this podcast, she explains how to manage conflicts between brothers and sisters with her acronym SWIM.
Connect with Lynna at:
- Sibling Relationship Lab
- Heart Investigations - family book guides for conversations to develop emotional intelligence
- Single-Session Parent Coaching
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QUOTABLES
Lynna: "My mantra is a good homeschool schedule has a shelf life of about three months and it decreases proportionate to the age of your youngest child. So the younger the little ones are the faster schedule will expire and need to be redone because somebody that was napping isn't napping anymore. And somebody that was wearing diapers is now potty training and that's like a fourth subject that you're teaching."
Lynna: "...all the problems that you run into in homeschooling are 5% academic and 95% parenting on steroids."
TIMESTAMPS
04:22 Lynna's own homeschool journey
06:45 The advantage of having a large family: You figure things out faster since your survival depends on it!
09:05 Homeschooling is really just intense parenting.
10:24 The origin of the Sibling Relationship Lab.
15:33 The fear of making mistakes as a parent.
18:08 Generic parenting advice only goes so far. Ultimately it comes down to knowing your own children.
19:15 See sibling conflict as an opportunity to teach instead of an interruption to our homeschool!
22:35 Teaching kids to be good siblings to one another means you'll be repeating the same lessons over and over again.
26:15 What difference do these tools make?
30:41 Always start from the foundation of a solid family relationship.
31:30 Not every situation is a learning opportunity. Sometimes you just make executive decisions to get things done.
33:37 Dealing with big emotions.
36:08 Lynna's advice to her younger self.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
Hack of the Week 02:02 Create a hair station outside the bathroom.
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Learn how to avoid burnout by refreshing your homeschool. Keep your kids motivated, keep yourself on track with your homeschool goals, and finish your school year strong as you lead into a delightful (and well-deserved) summer break!
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "So sometimes we think it's too late in the year to make a big change of things, but that's not true. As homeschoolers, we have the freedom to change things whenever we want."
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TIMESTAMPS
04:42 Planning versus going with the flow.
07:09 How Ximena totally ditched their curriculum and went an unschooling route when she saw her son losing zest for learning.
[Listen to the UNSCHOOLING episode here.]
09:36 Reflecting on what's working and what's a challenge.
11:09 Choosing energizing activities.
12:12 Focus on enjoyment in your homeschool. It may mean adding a unit study, a special project, etc.
21:34 Have a reset day.
29:12 Plan fun outings.
30:35 Look forward to the end of the school year by planning a celebration.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:05 Hack of the Week—Reserving books at the public library.
17:50 A system for resolving sibling conflict from The Independent Homeschool by a Dr. Fred Lybrand.
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Find out how to do preschool at home from travel blogger Stephanie Taleghani who is using BookShark's Pre-K curriculum. Learn why she says it was a perfect match for her three-year-old and why she's working through it a second time now that her daughter is four years old.
- Find Stephanie at Consistently Curious.
- Find BookShark Pre-K here.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:59 Stephanie started her travel blog as an outlet during postpartum depression.
04:51 What Stephanie looked for in a curriculum to homeschool her preschooler.
06:49 Stephanie's own reading habits.
08:49 Why Stephanie is working through the entire Pre-K program again! The pros of repeating it.
11:45 Outside feedback Stephanie received about choosing to homeschool.
13:39 How Stephanie makes room for socialization.
19:01 How the Instructor's Guide was Stephanie's lifesaver!
23:27 After working through Pre-K twice, what are Stephanie's next steps?
27:40 Stephanie's opinion of homeschooling preschool in general.
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Think homeschooling is an insurmountable task or unbearable burden? In this episode, Janna interviews Sharon, a massage therapist who now homeschools her two children after a theater career. They discuss the lazy (IE easy) way to homeschool — with BookShark! It's simple to use and fully planned, yet still parent-intensive. But it's enjoyable because you're learning by reading great books (only 4 days a week) and discussing them. There's room for rabbit trails of exploration to foster curiosity, too.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:04 Sharon's introduction.
04:30 Being with your kids all day.
07:51 Lit-based vs. screen-based learning.
08:59 Easy, but parent-intensive.
10:45 The four-day schedule.
11:43 Discovering how your kids learn.
14:17 Being so-called behind. Letting things go undone; adjusting the curriculum.
16:21 Spiral learning lessens your load.
23:35 Tough concepts are made understandable through literature.
24:44 Sharon's weekly prep.
29:47 Sharon's final advice to a mom/dad on the fence about homeschooling. "Never sell yourself short. You can do more than you think and especially with given the right tools. And I know where you can find those tools and it's with BookShark. It'll all come in one box and it'll be, all the instructions will be inside to the point where they can give you a script to read if you don't know what to say. If you don't know what to say, it'll be right there. And if you do what to say, then just love your kids and you're not going to make a mistake because you've already cared enough to even try."
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Special guest Aaron Brewster brings his insights about expectational homeschooling — expecting great things from your kids to stimulate amazing results. Your kids don't have to be geniuses or gifted to excel. You simply need to nurture their innate abilities with high expectations.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:37 Aaron's background with homeschooling.
06:17 How Aaron's mom planted the roots of what he calls expectational learning.
09:32 Socialization for homeschoolers
11:23 The benefits of a multi-generational home.
13:35 The lie that you have to have a degree in education to successfully homeschool your own children.
15:38 How the expectational approach meshes with any other homeschool philosophy: unschooling, Classical, etc.
23:15 What geniuses have in common.
26:33 The problem with lowering expectations and making things easier.
27:20 How to distinguish between high expectations and unrealistic expectations.
29:47 How the modern concept of adolescence has changed expectations of children/teens.
35:57 Mental maturity vs. physical maturity.
43:43 What if kids don't match our high expectations?
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Any homeschool parent will admit there are days you just can’t get it all done. And there are seasons when you won’t get it all done. What if, instead of trying to push through, you set yourself up for success by scaling back expectations and honing in on the homeschool basics? Could this process expand space for you to thrive in the hard times while still achieving your homeschool goals?
Sabrina Bryant, from The Simple Happy Life, shares her journey of homeschooling through recurring health issues. Learn how keeping perspective and staying organized allow her homeschool to stay on track during life’s unpredictable moments.
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QUOTABLES
35:50 Janna: "Maybe the key to success to getting it all done is really just letting it all go."
38:52 Sabrina: "I feel like I've tried a few different curriculums and I've learned that nothing is going to be perfect for my kid. And not even perfect for my kid every month, every week or every day. You have to flex with it."
47:35 Sabrina: "When you feel overwhelmed, go back to the must dos. What do you need to do to survive, to eat, to stay in your home? But outside of that, everything else can be let go or put down for a moment or longer or not get done at all. And it will be okay. It will be okay."
TIMESTAMPS
19:17 Key question: How can I simplify this?
23:00 Maybe you don't need time management. Maybe you're just tired. Maybe you need a break.
23:58 Setting your future self up for success.
30:15 Organization for messy people.
31:53 Macro-organized vs. micro-organized.
32:38 Starting small with organizing.
38:23 Flexibility
44:57 Sabrina's final words of advice for a parent who's feeling overwhelmed.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- 01:29 Hack of the Week: Remind yourself who's in charge when you're feeling out of control.
- 29:04 A Reflection: Consider how far you've come!
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As parents, we set the tone for the mental health dialogue in our homes. Sources of Strength is a framework that gives families the vocabulary and resources to dialogue about anxiety, depression, compulsive thinking, anger, and much more. This wellness model gives kids and parents tools for emotional wholeness, with a focus on hope, help, and strength. Youth advocate Katheryn Willie, the special guest in this episode, outlines components of the support wheel and explains how parents can guide their children into resilience and confidence. Visit sourcesofstrength.org for additional family resources.
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TIMESTAMPS
04:07 Although Sources of Strength was originally created as a suicide prevention program, it doesn't talk about suicide all that much. These tools work for daily ups and downs and are powerful tools for parents to teach children.
06:58 There are eight protective factors or strengths that people can tap into when they're having a tough time, struggling, or feeling stressed out.
07:14 ONE: Family support
08:29 TWO: Positive friends
09:04 THREE: Mentors
09:38 FOUR: Healthy activities
11:17 FIVE: Generosity
12:15 SIX: Spirituality
14:45 SEVEN: Physical health
16:15 EIGHT: Mental health
24:41 How Sources of Strength can help a parent-child relationship.
26:00 Kids want you to ask them how they are doing.
27:44 Our three big emotions: anger, anxiety, and sadness.
28:14 Use the Sources of Strength to make those emotions manageable.
32:37 In a crisis, please call the National Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. You can also text HOME to 741741. It's not just a suicide prevention hotline, but is also helpful for anyone who is struggling with addiction, or anxiety, bullying, depression, eating disorders, abuse, family issues, self-harm, or financial challenges.
33:58 Homeschoolers face the same struggles as all other families. It's okay to admit when you need help.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:44 Hack of the Week: Get your kids' input!
23:59 Reflection: Reminisce with your kids.
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Whether you aim for second language mastery at the bilingual or biliterate level or whether you simply want to expose your kids to another language, introducing foreign languages into your homeschool is a worthy venture! Learning another language can be a way to foster appreciation for and connection to your own culture (like Ximena's own story), or it can be a way to boost academics overall.
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05:27 Second language learning boosts vocabulary in your mother tongue (in some cases) and can help kids understand grammar in general.
07:06 Second language learning opens new neural pathways. It actually develops your brain!
08:33 You'll naturally learn about other cultures and countries when you start studying a new language.
11:35 Studies have found that students who speak more than one language score higher on standardized college admission exams.
13:20 Being bilingual can open career opportunities.
20:00 Apps and resources for second language learning.
24:15 How Ximena's parents are helping her children practice Spanish over Zoom.
25:17 And how DeeDee's Nana discouraged her second language learning by being too critical of her accent.
26:12 The value of songs for learning another language.
27:16 Find ways to immerse yourself in the second language and practice it in real-life situations.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
1:07 Hack of the Week: Reverse planning for folks who love to check things off
17:47 A Memorable Quote
John Holt says, "Children learn from anything and everything they see. They learn wherever they are. Not just in a special learning place."
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Hang on for the twists and turns, dips and dives of the roller coaster ride we call homeschooling with hormones! Whose hormones? The kids' or ours? Both! In this episode, DeeDee and Ximena talk about the intersection of puberty for our kids and the typical hormonal fluctuations of moms. When it all gets ramped up, there can be emotional explosions and angry meltdowns. But there's hope for the hassles. Tune in to find out!
Note: if talking about hormone changes, menstrual cycles, and puberty makes you uncomfortable, then this might not be the episode for you.
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03:47 Hormones are always part of our life!
05:51 At ages 6-8, kids go through a change called adrenarche which sets the stage for puberty.
07:37 DeeDee taught her kids to remind her that their brains are not fully developed.
09:14 Laziness? Or distracted?
10:25 How menstrual periods affect homeschool moms. Be prepared!
12:51 The changes of perimenopause: brain fog, inability to get organized, weight gain, etc.
14:40 Coming to grips with the maturation of our kids.
21:04 How to be proactive about hormones in your homeschool.
25:44 Pay attention to diet. Consider protein needs, especially.
28:08 Question your use of caffeine, especially that second cup.
29:17 Rest and sleep are essential.
30:44 Incorporate movement and exercise for the entire family!
33:15 Plug into a community that will support you.
33:50 Make sure teens going through puberty have community, too. Related podcasts:
- ep. 76 SEX EDUCATION FOR HOMESCHOOLERS
- ep. 29 HOMESCHOOLING TEENS AND TWEENS
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Leilani Garcia is a former classroom teacher and a current special needs mom to four. In this episode, she chats with hosts DeeDee and Ximena about her life of parenting and homeschooling a preschooler with Down Syndrome. They'll cover juggling multiple kids when one child has a ton of therapy appointments, how to teach critical thinking, dealing with insecurities, and finding supportive community.
Connect with Leilani on Instagram or YouTube.
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02:01 Help kids learn to use a planner or daily checklist.
03:51 Leilani shares her background and how she came to be a homeschooler.
07:10 How the older siblings are impacted by having a little sister with special needs.
09:56 Trust your curriculum. Don't try to reinvent the wheel.
12:06 Challenges: insecurity, being shunned, being misunderstood, lacking self-confidence.
13:57 Who is an expert?
16:30 How is homeschooling a preschooler with Down Syndrome unique?
23:59 "Do right, not be right." You want to do what's right, not always trying to prove that you're right in the situation.
25:33 The critical thinking gap. Thinking Like a Lawyer: A Framework for Teaching Critical Thinking
27:52 So much therapy! How to handle all the appointments.
31:11 Frontloading the details of the day with your kids.
33:16 How community has been critical in Leilani's homeschool journey.
35:30 Leilani's advice to her younger self: stop!
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Natalie Vecchione is the special guest on this episode about homeschooling teens with developmental disabilities and how to successfully launch them into adulthood. Natalie's podcast is FASD Hope. Her new book is Blazing New Homeschool Trails: Educating and Launching Teens with Developmental Disabilities.
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02:25 Natalie talks about how valuable unit studies are for neuro-divergent students and that they can be just a single day!
06:15 Natalie's personal story about adopting her son and discovering he had fetal alcohol syndrome.
09:21 Natalie's choice to homeschool her children including her daughter who has dyslexia.
12:50 Why it's key to focus on strengths not weaknesses.
15:09 Don't be married to a curriculum. Be willing to adjust it.
16:51 The isolation and loneliness of homeschooling a teen with developmental delays.
21:38 What keeps Natalie going when days are difficult: her 3 whys.
23:54 The analogy of the dirt road.
31:27 Natalie talks about her new book.
33:51 The woodworking apprenticeship her son is doing.
38:45 Be your child's guidance counselor.
40:38 Use your teen's interests to craft a unique homeschooling experience.
48:29 Teaching kids interdependence.
51:06 Natalie's advice to her younger self.
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As homeschoolers, your home is in constant use, and it shows! Enlisting your children to take on household chores is a win-win for everyone. Kids gain self-sufficiency in key life skills, the home stays comfortable and presentable, and you aren't bearing the entire brunt of the work! Get inspired to set up chore systems for your home with this episode hosted by DeeDee and Ximena.
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TIMESTAMPS
01:03 Take advantage of playlists to energize your kids and signal chore time (or other times of day). Use the Chips & Salsa playlists on Spotify.
04:00 Children need to be able to complete tasks independently to develop a sense of self-motivation, purpose and competency.
05:23 Teaching independence can be messy. But it's key!
07:40 Laziness and not wanting to work.
10:37 Chores as an antidote to entitlement.
13:02 Chores are an opportunity to practice delayed gratification.
14:26 Chores foster gratitude.
18:20 Chores are life skills!
19:36 When kids help with chores, it makes your job easier. Plus it provides a sense of family unity.
25:10 Choosing chores that are developmentally appropriate for toddlers to teens.
32:38 Be clear with instructions and modeling of chores.
35:34 Keep your requirements simple and doable.
36:23 Build chores into your routines.
37:07 Using chore carts, Alexa, etc.
39:56 Using reward systems to motivate.
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This episode is about the dreaded talk that we need to have with our children. Yes, homeschool moms and dads, it's our responsibility to provide sex education. You may be nervous to dialogue about the birds and the bees, but DeeDee and Ximena have some great tips (and some hilarious anecdotes) to equip you.
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TIMESTAMPS
03:05 Just because you homeschool doesn't mean your kids aren't exposed to sexual content. Thanks to the internet, it's more important than ever that we talk to our kids about sex before they consume harmful imagery or misinformation.
03:58 Two very helpful and age appropriate books for tweens are:
- The Boy's Body Book: Everything You Need to Know for Growing Up You
- The Care & Keeping of You: the Body Book for Younger Girls
Using a book to start the conversation relieves some of the awkwardness.
05:58 The importance of giving kids a SAFE place to talk about sex, puberty, periods, and body changes. Keeping the discussions nonchalant.
09:57 Try to remember what it was like to be a teenager.
10:22 The funny stories! (You will laugh!!)
19:59 The nitty gritty of sex ed.
23:12 You want to be the parent your child can approach when they see or experience something disturbing.
23:41 Lean on community.
25:33 Be aware of the prevalence of sexual content that children ages 8-12 are encountering.
27:32 Ad blockers and other filters are great, but if you're not having the conversations, they are inadequate.
27:55 Don't volunteer too much information. Answer their questions with age-appropriate responses, but don't push beyond what they're asking.
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Torrie Oglesby is the special guest in this episode about the importance of community and how to find it or create it. Parenting is hard, and homeschooling only adds to the challenge. Having a network of support is essential to well-being!
Connect with Torrie on: Youtube The Oglesby Ohana | Instagram @torrie_oglesby | Podcast: The Fruitful Vine
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "So if parenting is like growth and refinement for us as people, which it is, then homeschooling is growth and refinement on steroids."
Torrie: "...that's another thing that no one really talks about with parenting is, it's like a letting go process. Every day we're letting go a little bit more and a little bit more."
TIMESTAMPS
02:00 Meet Torrie. [Note, her IG handle has changed since this podcast was recorded. She is @torrie_oglesby.]
04:08 Power hour to plow through homeschool quickly.
05:55 The value of being goofy and setting the tone in the home.
08:14 More background on Torrie, how she started homeschooling.
11:37 The difference between choosing to homeschool and actually following through.
13:56 How to handle complaints from your kids about school.
15:15 How Torrie created community for herself when there was none.
17:45 Why do some people resist community?
21:20 The difference between virtual community and in-person community.
22:24 Challenges in community: parenting styles.
30:02 Torrie's community called The Womanhood.
36:40 Letting go as a parent and raising your kids to be adults.
41:17 How to be community for others.
44:32 Torrie's advice for her younger self.
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Celebrating winter holidays can get in the way of homeschooling. But that's okay! Learn how to merge your holiday memory-making into your homeschool to keep the learning stress-free. For example, wrapping presents and budgeting for gift giving are both life skills that come into play in December. Embrace the mess, lower your ridiculous standards of perfection, and enjoy the holidays with your kids this year!
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Want to light your children's enthusiasm for science, history, and language arts? Structure a UNIT STUDY around the topics they are already crazy about, and you'll naturally draw them into the learning. In this episode, DeeDee and Ximena interview Sara Jordan, a homeschool mom who loves creating and using literature-based unit studies. Learn how to create your own unit studies and how to use them alongside or as a break from your regular curriculum. Find out if your kids would love this approach, and if yes, adapt Sara's brilliant (yet so simple) interest inventory notebook to get started.
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03:47 How Sara became a homeschooler.
06:25 Sara defines unit studies.
07:43 How unit studies motivate kids to enjoy learning.
11:50 Ximena gives an example of an American Girl unit study.
12:57 More benefits of unit studies.
14:28 How to get out of the way and trust the process when it comes to homeschooling with unit studies.
15:29 How to handle math with a unit study approach.
22:11 Unit studies are great for inquisitive kids who like to direct their own learning.
23:39 Tips for crafting unit studies. Get FREE literature-based unit studies at BookShark (for subscribers).
27:34 How to use unit studies alongside or as a break from your regular curriculum.
28:09 The value of a well-stocked home library.
29:43 A typical day of homeschooling with unit studies.
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Jessica Waldock comes back to the podcast, this time to share her experiences as a homeschooling mom to an only child. Learn if it's harder to homeschool one or many children. Find out why strewing and single-player games are key to Jessica's sanity. Jessica reveals why homeschooling one can feel lonely and what to do about it. Plus learn how to provide the socialization that an extrovert craves.
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01:57 The magic of strewing. Read more.
07:46 How Jessica chose to homeschool her only child Emily.
09:12 What's harder? Homeschooling many or homeschooling one?
11:07 Thoughts for the mom who feels less than a complete mom.
15:21 When your only child is an extrovert.
20:52 Feeling alone as a homeschool mom.
24:25 The sweet relationship that comes from homeschooling an only child.
31:01 Emily's lemonade stand.
33:10 Letting your child lead the learning.
35:47 The learning lunch.
40:01 Providing socialization for an only child.
42:48 Keeping an only child entertained.
43:51 Single-player games.
48:53 You will doubt yourself. But develop a thick skin to outside criticism and know that the grass is not greener.
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With endless to-do lists, the responsibility of homeschooling, and adulting in general, it is easy to lose focus on what brings you joy. Self-care is abuzz in homeschool circles, but how can you put one more thing on your plate? Hear the secret to sustainable self-care from Camille Kirksey, founder of The Intuitive Homeschooler. She explains how self-care isn’t an all-day spa retreat or an hour soaking in the tub (but it can be if that’s what works for you!). It’s a simple strategy to return to what brings you joy!
Camille Kirksey has homeschooled her three children since 2013 and is the author of the book, Coming Home: A Quick & Practical Guide for Preparing a Mother's Heart, Mind, & Home for Homeschooling.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:04 Self-care can feel like another task on the to-do list.
03:41 What is self-care?
07:49 Apply the same creativity we use for lesson planning and family activities to our own self-care.
08:28 Self-care looks different at different stages of mothering and life.
09:21 How the all-or-nothing mentality will ruin your attempts at self-care.
10:14 Why it's important for your children to see you set boundaries to care for yourself.
13:29 How texting with tweens and teens can improve communication.
17:02 Finding the sweet spot of providing the structure kids need while also giving them freedom.
22:37 Releasing the need to constantly be productive and busy.
25:38 Using gratitude and indulgence as guides to self-care.
31:37 Indulgence isn't eating too many sweets. It's the ordinary delights that you enjoy simply to fulfill yourself — no other goals.
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Join special guest Candice Kelly from Homeschool on the Hill for a discussion about sharing books with our middle schoolers and high schoolers. Just because kids can read independently doesn't mean it's time to forfeit all the treasures of reading aloud to them. In fact, the teen years are when the richest discussions come into play! Read-aloud time is also a super way to reconnect as a family since kids tend to become more and more solo in their studies and extracurriculars as they mature. Candice gives a fantastic hack for choosing read-alouds for teens: movies!
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TIMESTAMPS
04:12 Reading aloud for togetherness.
08:14 If your teens are put off by your reading aloud, try audiobooks.
12:42 Reading aloud is especially important for kids who don't choose to read on their own for pleasure.
15:32 The benefit of stumbling over pronunciations or new vocabulary.
16:55 How rereading a book as an adult will give you new insights.
18:02 The rich conversations inspired by sharing a read-aloud.
24:00 How to introduce read-alouds if it's new for your teens.
33:38 Choosing read-alouds solely for fun.
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Are you experiencing feelings of inadequacy when it comes to your homeschooling? Come hear how you are enough! Listen as author and blogger Kara Anderson, from KaraAnderson.com and The Homeschool Sisters Podcast addresses common issues felt by homeschooling parents.
• dealing with the fear of not doing enough as a homeschooler
• keeping expectations in check
• the key to homeschool contentment is resisting the urge to do every cool activity
• how comparison distracts you from the unique beauty of your own family
• how fear drives so many of our bad homeschool and parenting decisions
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QUOTABLES
Kara: " I always say the sweet spot of homeschooling is when you like what you're doing and your kids like what you're doing. But I mean it's like an eclipse. How often does that happen? But you look for those things."
Kara: "...we don't really know exactly what we're preparing our kids for anyway. So the things that I think are so important are, a lot of times, not the academic parts. It's, like you said, the dinner around the table. It's modeling for them, trying something brave like your daughter did. Then she knows that she has the support either way. It's like being that safe place for our kids for them to be themselves and for them to say, 'I want to try this.'"
Kara: "... what a gift it is...when we can just let people be 100% themselves, our kids and us too, as much as we can without getting nervous about it."
Kara: "I'm their mom. I'm not their computer programmer. They're not little robots. They're just kids that need a hug and a snack."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:08 Kara's introduction.
03:39 What inspired Kara to write her book More Than Enough: Grow Your Confidence, Banish Burn-Out and Love Your Homeschool Life. Read a sample chapter here.
06:51 Love is the answer to all the questions and insecurities.
08:18 Setting expectations for yourself and your homeschool. Making trade-offs and avoiding comparisons.
12:12 Unrealistic expectations on steroids!
14:57 Kara's BPPP: big picture planning page.
17:52 Cheerful nonchalance: strewing with zero expectations. Read more on Kara's blog.
22:05 Finding overlap between what you and your kids all like.
23:39 Appreciating the lovely quirks of your own unique family.
29:00 Dealing with outside pressures for parenting and homeschooling like sports participation.
33:49 The fear of making irredeemable mistakes.
37:19 The sad angry song of fear that plays in the background.
As parents, we want to inspire greatness in our kids. We want our them to love learning and confidently overcome the difficulties they encounter throughout their lifetime. Developing a growth mindset is key to this success. As a homeschool parent, we plant the seeds of the growth mindset with how we encourage and praise our kids. Learn what to do and what to say to nudge kids away from a fixed mindset and towards a growth mindset with host Janna and guest Amy Milcic. Also, learn why you need to take on a growth mindset yourself!
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QUOTABLES
Janna: "...what I love is in a growth mindset, you just expect some failure. And that's real, right? That is real."
Amy: "Another thing that's really great to do with your kids is to ask them a question to get their feedback, so that you're paying attention and that you've noticed the effort that they put in. So let's say for example with the handwriting. [You say,] 'Wow, the way that you fit your letters in between those lines today! How did you do that? Tell me what you did to make that happen.' And just phrasing the effort, phrasing what they thought about doing in order to make that happen. Because you might see somebody pick up a pencil and write. There's a lot of different steps that have to go on in your brain to make that happen. And so that also helps your kids slow down and say, 'Oh, wait a minute. Yeah, today I got my pencil and I just...' walking through all of that."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:01 Introduction of special guest Amy Milcic from Rock Your Homeschool
05:49 Definitions of growth vs. fixed mindsets
08:38 Growth mindset is realistic and accepts the negative.
11:23 How the stories we tell ourselves or the stories we grew up hearing inform our perspective, especially labels.
12:51 How to apply a growth mindset day to day in your homeschool. First, how to handle resistance or frustration.
15:06 How to build on past success to foster the growth mindset.
17:12 Parents need to shed a lot of the public school mentality.
19:04 How the growth mindset applies to you as a parent when you face hard things!
20:47 The way we think is a continuum from growth to fixed mindset. Sometimes triggers plunge us back into a fixed mindset.
23:01 The analogy of riding a bike and turning obstacles into rewarding (fun, even?) challenges.
24:51 Expecting things to be easy or expecting things to require hard work.
28:19 Modeling your mistakes, being transparent about your own failures and how you resolve them.
33:11 The best ways to praise kids.
41:09 Growth mindset prepares kids to handle feedback and criticism (constructive or not) in the real world.
44:54 Growing doesn't always feel good. Sometimes it feels meh or bad.
46:51 Amy suggests two books to learn more:
- Mindset: A New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck
- Grit by Angela Duckworth
Get motivated to include more art and music in your homeschool by hearing the powerful benefits the arts give our kids. And then be inspired by DeeDee and Ximena's amazing unit studies that teach history by way of music! And like they say, "You do not have to be a musician to teach this!" Art appreciation and music appreciation are easy to enjoy thanks to YouTube, Spotify playlists, and Meet the Classical Composer CD series. Imagine teaching history and science through the lens of music! For example, in the Roaring Twenties, the music industry was born thanks to Thomas Edison's inventions. Experience the music of WW2, then learn about the social movements of the 70s through the music of those days. Listen to the full podcast for more ideas! See Chips & Salsa playlists here.
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TIMESTAMPS
06:08 Benefits of including art in your homeschool. ONE: Higher math, reading, and writing skills.
07:03 TWO: more organized writing
07:59 THREE: behavioral benefits
10:09 FOUR: observational skills
10:27 FIVE: problem solving
12:00 SIX: a greater appreciation of nature
12:19 SEVEN: development of the whole person
13:49 Benefits of including music in your homeschool. ONE: fine motor skills.
14:16 TWO: brain integration
14:32 THREE: coordination and gross motor skills
15:36 FOUR: instills growth mindset
16:57 FIVE: boosts self-esteem
17:12 SIX: exposure to different cultures
17:27 SEVEN: social skills and teamwork
18:37 EIGHT: math skills and problem solving
19:04 NINE: intelligence and IQ
19:18 TEN: enhances critical thinking skills
20:32 ELEVEN: music can be used to teach nearly anything
21:36 TWELVE: boosts endorphins
28:44 Practical tips for including more music and art in your homeschool. BookShark's art/music electives.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:13 Hack of the Week: Keep duplicate necessities in every bag you own.
24:30 A Memorable Idea from The Brave Learner by Julie Bogart: Are you bellows or bucket of water when helping your kids with writing?
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Special guests Dr. Meghan Owens and her husband Adam peel back the curtain on the negative effects of too much screentime and the addictive quality of games and programs created for children. But better yet, they provide practical tips for managing screens with a healthy attitude, accepting that they can enrich our lives as long as they are their proper place.
- Meghan's book: Spoiled Right, Delaying Screens And Giving Children What They Really Need
- Screen-Free Parenting.
QUOTABLES
Meghan "...about a fifth of adults say they can't control their media use ... your child's prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed until they're 25. So expecting them to do something that's not designed to be regulated with a brain that isn't designed to regulate yet, just temper your expectations of what they're able to do."
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TIMESTAMPS
07:39 Some of us grew up when devices were in a fixed spot in the house. Now devices are everywhere, with us 24-7.
09:18 The science behind the impact of screen time on our kids: SWAAT — sleep, weight, aggression, attention, and talking.
13:11 Screentime in this episode refers to entertainment not using devices for school work, research, or creating something.
13:37 How screentime impacts creativity. While IQ scores are increasing, creativity measures are going down for children.
18:08 We use the same devices for work/school and entertainment. For kids to make that switch without getting distracted takes a level of self-control that most of them simply don't have.
18:30 Use physical cues and boundaries to help kids with screentime.
18:57 Advice for the parent who's feeling guilty about screentime.
25:04 What about letting some kids watch TV while you're working with others on their homeschool?
27:22 Five screen-free activities that have the biggest bang for the developmental buck, providing positive social outcomes, cognitive outcomes, and physical development outcomes: the SPOIL system, which stands for social activity, play, outdoors, independent work, and literacy.
31:51 What about the family who has allowed unfettered screentime and now wants to establish some healthy standards?
33:22 Instituting a screen-free day each week.
35:01 Having screen restrictions on spaces often works better than time limits.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:35 Hacks of the Week
- To curb screentime, prepare a box of special toys.
- Read 5 minutes of a parenting book daily.
22:53 A Reflection
- Go slow!
- The importance of modeling.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
Reduce frustrations and get more done each day with Linsey’s matter-of-fact advice about categorizing all of your day-to-day tasks. Linsey and Janna will give you permission to let go of expectations that don’t suit your family so you can homeschool confidently with your own flair. Finally, Linsey encourages families to celebrate the successes of their homeschool year—no matter how unconventional it was. Although you may not have checked all the boxes, rest assured your children have learned this year!
Linsey Knerl is a mom of six, a small-business owner, and author of Homeschool Hacks: How to Give Your Kid a Great Education without Losing Your Job or Your Mind. Because she understands first-hand the stressors homeschool parents face as they constantly juggle multiple demands, she’s uniquely qualified to help new homeschoolers make next year even better. Now that her oldest daughter has graduated from a 4-year college, she has concrete proof that homeschooling truly works! (No, her daughter wasn’t the weirdo on campus!)
Watch this episode here.
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QUOTABLES
Janna: "I just realize how much I have to change, how much I as a homeschool parent need to be less rigid in the way I think it needs to be done. Because in my mind, you don't just skip math for a day. That's mutiny. But really, that is ... is that permission, once again. Actually, you can skip math for a day, a week if you're having a hectic week. It doesn't have to be so rigid."
Linsey: "So you talking to your child about what's going on with the pandemic, that might replace reading for the day. And that's just something you have to accept. That doesn't mean that time was lost, or it didn't have value, or they weren't learning. It's just really hard to put down on your little homeschool planner, but it counts. It really, really, really counts. I want parents to give them more credit than what they do for just being that emotional, strong support for their child, which is really what they needed so much this year, I think."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:04 Meet Linsey.
06:38 Evaluate the homeschool tasks that require high supervision on your part. Be realistic about these.
10:12 Be prepared for things to change year by year in your homeschool as kids mature and needs change.
14:55 Homeschool myths.
21:33 What are the criteria of a good homeschool year?
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
Meet moms Amber Lewis, Eileen Duby, and Sharon Miller who opted to homeschool because of the pandemic. Led by host Janna Koch, these three moms talk candidly about their unexpected school year at home—what motivated them to take their kids out of public school, what they learned about their children and about themselves, their academic wins, and their day-to-day struggles. Teaching their kids at home has pulled back the curtain on the shortcomings of public school and revealed the hidden advantages of homeschooling.
Hear encouraging stories when moms realized their kids were truly learning and their relationships were blossoming. For example, one child who always hated school now loves it, thanks to homeschooling with BookShark. Learn how these moms overcame their own self-doubt and school-ish traditions to excel as homeschoolers. And finally, hear their top tips for other new homeschoolers.
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QUOTABLES
Amber: "Yeah. I tell my husband all the time, I'm like, 'Do you know what I learned today? Not what the kids learned, but what I learned today.'"
Sharon: "Just stop and let them figure it out. You don't need to push. Or you need to push them to a point where they will do it on their own. Stop resisting and just take a breath and try again. Sometimes it works out, and when it does, it's magic."
Eileen: "I think the biggest challenge I faced was myself. My biggest hurdle was trying not to overthink everything, not trusting in the curriculum, still being in the public school frame of mind that you had to go sit at a desk, you had to do it from this time to this time, and thinking that we weren't doing enough. I overcame it by finally realizing ... that I was doing an awesome job and the curriculum was doing 10 times more than the public school was and she was learning so much more. But really, I was the issue. It wasn't her, it wasn't the curriculum, it was me."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:29 Introductions
12:47 What has worked well for you as a homeschooler?
30:00 What are your top memories of homeschooling so far?
37:36 Your biggest homeschooling challenges and how you overcame them.
50:12 What surprised you most about homeschooling?
YOUR TURN
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If you struggle to get your kids to listen or follow directions, this session is for you! Jill Jackson, mom of 3 and a professional counselor, applies her expertise to help homeschool parents break out of negative habits so we can thrive in the daily grind of living and learning with our children nearly 24-7.
- Discover the downside to telling your child no and don’t.
- Learn the key perspective shift that counteracts fatigue.
- Find out how shorter conversations and positive affirmations are more effective than long lectures, yelling, and negative accusations.
- See how Jill uses a simple chart to give kids clear expectations and set them up for success. Genius!
- Evaluate if school frustrations are caused by unrealistic standards.
- Hear how a dedicated workspace cues kids for focused learning.
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QUOTABLES
Jillian: "if we know anything, it's that it is very hard for us to control other people. We can't control our children. We can try, but we can control ourselves for the most part and that's the goal. If we can modify, if we can adapt, if we can control ourselves in these areas, then that is how we will see the greatest change and growth through our kids."
TIMESTAMPS
04:06 How to handle being with your kids 24-7 without breaks.
08:39 How to pace your day. Slowing down instead of rushing to avoid fatigue.
10:16 How to get kids to listen. Avoid negatives. Use positives. Shorten our speech. Confirm understanding.
22:52 How to motivate kids to do their school work (or other tasks).
28:32 Talking to kids about their strengths and weaknesses.
33:15 The value of positive reinforcement.
37:40 Are you discouraging/pressing or encouraging?
40:35 What happens when we yell at our kids.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- 32:25 Hack of the Week — Let your children decide what subject they want to do next.
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, or a book you're loving, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
Really. Just chill out. While your fears are totally normal, they are mostly not worth stressing about. In this episode, DeeDee and Ximena breakdown the most common anxiety-provoking elements of homeschooling and explain why you need to take a deep breath and trust the process. You are not failing your kids!
QUOTABLES
Ximena: "That's something I get from a lot of people that don't know much about homeschooling. They're like, 'Oh, I'm sure it's really hard for your kids to see you as a teacher when they see you as a mom.' Yeah, it is hard, and I don't expect them to see me as a teacher one hour and then see me as a mom another hour. I expect them to see me as this messy, conglomerate of teacher and parent together, because that's who we are.
Ximena: "We're so scared of failing, but how can we fail our children when we love them? Are we perfect? No. Are they perfect? No, but who's asking for perfection? If we are, then we're being fools and we're missing out on what's important."
DeeDee: "When we spend time with our kids, we are investing in who they're going to become in the future."
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TIMESTAMPS
14:32 How you set the mood in your home.
18:26 Teaching and parenting are one and the same.
20:22 How self-care, routines, and community all help you face the difficulties of homeschooling.
22:52 How to overcome the fear of not choosing the right curriculum.
24:22 Straight talk about academic gaps.
27:11 Fear of failure. Ximena says, "Even if perfect robots raised your children in the perfect setting, in the perfect atmosphere, your kids would still have issues."
29:00 Broaden your scope to go beyond academics and include character.
29:33 How to embrace the mess of homeschooling.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:19 Hack of the Week: Exercising early before the kids are up.
14:32 A Memorable Quote: "Creating a positive home atmosphere has more to do with who you are than what you do." —Leah at My Little Robins
If you'd like to share an aha moment, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, a book you're loving, or a suggested podcast topic/guest, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
Back-to-school season is time for anticipation, inspiration, preparation, and expectations. Get back into the homeschool groove with your hosts Ximena and Dee as they recount their overly ambitious summer plans and what they're doing to set the stage for an excellent year of learning with their kids.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "Again, we all have different personalities. I'm surrounded by people who are pretty intense, and the intense people sometimes burn out really quick because they go so hard right in the beginning. And I remember in college, one of my roommates, she was like, everything's labeled, everything's ready for the first day of school, all our pencils are sharpened, her highlighters are ready to roll, but she'd be struggling by week three. And I'm like, you've got to learn to ease into it. So I've taken that into my homeschooling where we ease into it so that we can have longevity."
TIMESTAMPS
04:05 True confessions: Ximena did maybe 10% of what she aimed to accomplish over the summer. Her summer plans, dreamed of at the end of the school year were a bit too idealistic. But no regrets on taking a relaxed summer!
06:37 Use self-care before you are burned out!
08:58 Get inspired by books, YouTube videos, conferences, podcasts.
11:19 Brainstorm with your kids to find out what's their vision for the school year.
12:22 A homeschool mom retreat to kick off the school year.
13:49 Prep through shopping, organizing your school area, etc.
18:35 How to motivate your kids for back-to-school.
24:18 Back-to-school traditions like a picture, exploring the curriculum, getting new school supplies.
30:09 Ease back into your school year slowly.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:49 Hack of the Week: Let kids alternate meal planning and preparation.
19:05 Reflection: ENJOY!
If you have an aha moment to share, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, or a book you're loving, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
Learn how to bring the joy and freedom of a Montessori school to your home. Special guest Jessica May explains how to homeschool with a Montessori minimalist approach — even with reluctant learners or middle schoolers. Helicopter parents, brace yourselves. With the Montessori method, you need to embrace messes and give your child more autonomy.
QUOTABLES
Jessica: "The Montessori approach, in a nutshell, is self-directed, it's hands-on. In the early years it's abstract, and it becomes concrete later, when they're older... You don't sit people down with worksheets... that's kind of the gist of it ... following and observing the child."
Ximena: "...we have learned that less is more... there's a commonality in all of the approaches that we want our listeners to understand, is that there's always concrete learning with reading, writing, and math. Right? And then basically everything else, it's your choice and your style, and you can curate it the way you want. And I think that's so exciting to hear because it just simplifies everything. Focus on those three things in a concrete manner and then everything else, you can be creative with."
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TIMESTAMPS
06:30 Jessica defines Montessori homeschooling.
07:36 How is Montessori different from unschooling?
09:32 Jessica explains her Montessori minimalist approach.
13:22 The mindset changes you'll need to make as a Montessori parent.
16:01 Montessori for middle school and teens.
23:57 A typical day of Montessori homeschooling.
29:32 Handling reluctant learners.
31:23 Getting started with Montessori.
33:06 Practical tips: Be prepared for messes.
34:15 Advice for your former self: Chill out.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- 02:06 Hack of the Week — curate an environment by prepping ahead of time
- 21:11 An Aha Moment — avoiding the phone/email during homeschool hours
If you have an aha moment to share, an inspirational quote, a homeschool hack, or a book you're loving, leave a comment at bookshark.com/podcast. We'd love to feature your reflection on a future episode.
The roots of classical education go back to Plato and Aristotle who wrote about pursuing wisdom and loving virtue, forming the whole person rather than just preparing children to work in a job. In the Middle Ages, classical learning was outlined into seven liberal arts: the trivium (grammar, logic, and rhetoric—those are language arts) and the quadrivium (arithmetic, music, geometry, and astronomy).
Find special guest Mystie at Simply Convivial and Schole Sisters Podcast.
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QUOTABLES
Mystie: "there is no checklist that says, 'Well, as long as you are doing these things in your homeschool day, then you're classically educating.' It's less about the books or the curriculum that you're teaching from and it's really more about a mindset, an approach, and a set of goals... [It] takes continual re-evaluation."
Ximena: "Yes. It's funny that you say that about being willing to be relaxed because when I read Susan Wise Bauer's book, I felt really small. I was like, 'Okay, I'm never going to be able to do this to the T.' It just felt super overwhelming, super strict. And then she was one of the keynote speakers at this conference that DeeDee and I spoke at last year, and she was the most relaxed, encouraging person. I was like, 'Did you write this book?' Because it was like awesome to hear that from her mouth, how she uses her intuition and just, again, focusing on the love of learning versus the everyday grind. And so, that was really freeing to hear that from her."
Mystie: "...classical education is a books-centric approach. The books are important, but there are different ways to get those books in rather than just, well, the kids have to read everything on their own."
Mystie: "That's really a homeschool mom's job—noticing what's going on with your child and experimenting with different ways to help them and finding out what works. It's challenging, but it's also rewarding to figure out how to help your child learn."
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TIMESTAMPS
07:59 A brief intro to classical education.
13:25 What is Susan Wise Bauer's role in classical education.
14:12 The challenges of using the classical approach.
30:39 Getting into the nitty gritty of the homeschool day with Mystie.
36:57 How to get started with the classical approach to homeschooling. Mystie suggests The Liberal Arts Tradition by Kevin Clark and Robby Jane, published by Classical Academic Press.
38:19 How to use classical education if your child hates reading.
43:11 How giving kids checklists can soothe a great deal of frustration.
46:46 Mystie's advice for her former self: the need to follow through on whatever you assign to your children.
It can be done! With schedule flexing and creative thinking, it's possible to homeschool as a working parent. Shift your mindset out of the traditional schooling mold and learn how to create a lifestyle of learning that makes room for education, work, as well as play and rest.
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QUOTABLES
Paulette: "...humans are such creatures of habit. So we think Saturday is for chores or Sunday [is] when we do the cleaning or ... our errands. And we live in a 24/7 world now ... we can go grocery shopping at midnight if we need to."
Paulette: "... it did take a good year, a year and a half to get into that groove. The first year, I will say it took a lot of trial and error just to figure things out. And also, Janna, not to get stressed out when you know what there's not that third worksheet done, you know what? Yes, that can wait until Friday or can wait until the weekend, but just ensuring that you're there for your children and you're giving them what they need. And then feeling comfortable with your work schedule and knowing that you can do a job well done there as well."
Janna: "And so when I'm advising parents, when they're calling into BookShark, I love to say that, 'You need to understand you are now on a foreign Island. We're going to be speaking a different language. Maybe just different vernacular, but this is totally different and I need you to be willing to hear and understand that it's not just taking a school at home, a traditional school and bringing it home.'"
Paulette Vildberg is a homeschool mom with 8 years of homeschooling experience. She is also self-employed, running a marketing company, and has over 20 years of marketing and business management experience. Her company produces a number of homeschool workshops, meetings, and conferences and feels that this a great way to connect with other homeschool families and the community. You can follow Paulette's homeschool brand on Facebook at Inspire Your Homeschool.
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
TIMESTAMPS
03:36 How the flexibility of homeschooling makes working doable.
06:40 Breaking free of the traditional school mindset in your schedule.
08:17 Reading during at-home exercise time. Using audio books.
09:44 How a flexible homeschool day is more relaxing and learning-focused rather than just getting things done. How a 3-day week can be enough.
12:43 The pros & cons of working at-home part-time vs. working outside the home as a homeschool parent.
15:30 It can take quite a long time to find your groove as a working homeschool mom.
17:26 Being willing to skip work if a child has already mastered the concept.
18:53 Changing expectations. Erasing perfectionism.
20:34 When you work at home in front of your kids, you teach them how to handle stress and how to engage with clients or peers (on the phone).
25:17 Taking breaks from your kids and providing socialization for them.
30:57 Plan to be flexible! Paulette tells a funny story about how her daughter sabotaged a work document.
33:05 Having routines can make the day flow more smoothly.
38:29 Favorite planning tools.
Contrary to myth, unschooling is not a form of lax parenting where you let your kids run feral. Instead it's a way of raising your children that respects their autonomy to choose when, how, and what they learn. But you are always there as a facilitator and supportive guide. Homeschooling as an unschooler is a collaborative relationship between parent and child.
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QUOTABLES
Julie: "We still have to be parents, and we're still responsible for teaching them character, and morals, and good life habits, and plus we're supposed to be the ones with wisdom. We need to still exercise parental authority and parental responsibility, even as we give them educational freedom."
Julie: "Where are they going to get ideas from and how are they going to figure out what they're interested in if we don't expose them to things? We have to be really hands-on and interactive. So, to [unschool] well means that you have to be sparkly. It's a borrowed term, but you have to be a little bit sparkly to help them to be excited about learning new things and bringing things in.
DeeDee: "You have really convinced me that unschooling is not just throwing caution to the wind. I can see that we have had some unschooling moments in our homeschool, and those are definitely been the funner moments."
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TIMESTAMPS
05:43 Julie tells how she started as a homeschooler.
13:50 Julie defines unschooling.
14:51 The difference between delight-directed learning and unschooling.
15:30 Julie's long-term goal informs her day-to-day homeschool decisions.
18:05 How to handle math as a unschooler.
28:08 A typical day for an unschooler, including what Julie's high schooler is doing.
31:33 Making sure the day has some structure so kids aren't reading too many fantasy novels or playing too many video games.
33:55 How to redirect kids when you feel they are spending too much time on a certain thing.
34:36 Rules for unschooling. Know the difference between entertainment and education.
37:04 An unschooling parent will probably have to invest in research to inspire her kids.
38:03 How to be sparkly.
41:04 Advice for the younger you: Trust yourself.
Connect with Julie at Julie Naturally.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- 01:00 Hack of the Week
Block out catch up time in your schedule to accommodate for the unexpected. * 26:50 A Memorable Quote
"Education is not the filling of a bucket, but the lighting of a fire."
Dachelle calls herself a relaxed Charlotte Mason homeschooler. Learn how she incorporates technology into her literature-based homeschool and what is more important to her than finishing a curriculum. At one point, Dachelle's kids were reluctant readers. Find out how she overcame that hesitancy to raise lifelong learners. Hear how her homeschool has morphed as her children reach their teens.
Connect with Dachelle at Hide the Chocolate or Literary Adventures for Kids.
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QUOTABLES
Dachelle: "Obviously, Charlotte Mason wasn't into technology because there wasn't a lot of technology for her. But I kind of have this idea that if she had been around right now, she would say, 'Embrace technology because your kids are going to have to learn it. They're going to have to know how to deal with technology.' So I think she would've been pro-technology."
Dachelle: "Part of it is helping encourage them to be independent educators. It's their education, not mine. So if they want to do something with this when they get older, go into a certain career, then I want to facilitate that, but I'm not the one educating them. They have to educate themselves. So I want them to continue to do that as they grow. When she says she wants to take a psychology class, I'm giving her the tools for that. As they've grown up, I'm no longer sitting there as the teacher that's saying this, this, and this. I'm now saying, 'Okay, here's some books, here's some videos, here's some things that I think would help you,' so that she can educate herself."
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TIMESTAMPS
04:23 Dachelle shares how she got started as a homeschooler.
07:16 An introduction to the Charlotte Mason approach.
09:28 What Charlotte Mason would have thought about technology.
10:46 What kind of curriculum a CM homeschooler uses.
12:20 Homeschooling so that your kids are lifelong learners.
13:07 The value of taking field trips and traveling.
14:32 Using a literature-based curriculum for reluctant readers.
15:37 Immersing yourself in the CM mentality without being a purist.
17:40 How the Accelerated Reader program can ruin kids' love of reading.
19:18 How Dachelle overcame her kids' resistance to reading.
26:13 What relaxed Charlotte Mason homeschooling looks like day to day.
27:25 How homeschooling changes when kids turn in to teenagers.
34:07 Homeschool mom guilt is real.
34:56 Dachelle's nature book club.
37:41 Dachelle's online book clubs.
39:13 Advice for your younger self? Chill out.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- 02:02 Hack of the Week — Teach kids to do their own laundry and keep them accountable.
- 23:16 Homeschool Reflection — Teaching kids how to think critically is more important than finishing your curriculum.
It's useful to understand a little bit about the different homeschool styles out there, not so you can adhere to a label but so you can mix and match the features that suit you best. There's a reason that most homeschoolers take the eclectic moniker! Each method has positive traits, so feel free to borrow your favorite parts from each style to truly HOMESCHOOL YOUR WAY.
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TIMESTAMPS
03:29 School at home (traditional method)
05:44 Unschooling
09:32 Montessori method
18:55 Classical method
23:48 Charlotte Mason approach
26:34 Unit Studies
29:59 Eclectic
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:08 Hack of the Week
Taking breaks with a year-round school schedule
16:08 A Memorable Quote
"No matter how hard you try, you really can't improve your weaknesses. You are wasting time and energy trying to do so. The best thing you can do is discover your strengths and then find a role that allows you to use them." —Donald Clifton in Now, Discover Your Strengths
Does a homeschool parent ever really feel on track? It's easy to feel behind when you're homeschooling with endless options at your disposal. Veteran homeschool mom and product specialist Lynn Woodley chats with host Janna about this nagging feeling that you just aren't doing enough and that you are falling behind. The great news is that if you are feeling behind, it's probably a sign that you are doing great job since slackers never worry about being behind!
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QUOTABLES
Lynn: "You can't be behind when you are truly doing the work. You are exactly where you are and where you need to be, and you are free to take a break when you need to take a break."
Janna: "when you're homeschooling, you're looking at an individual ... speaking to the whole child."
TIMESTAMPS
03:05 Lynn reports that one school she partners with requires families to only get through 32 weeks of the curriculum.
04:01 Options for the Type A mom who doesn't like to leave things undone.
05:45 Why you're really never behind as a homeschooler.
07:30 If you're really worried about your kids' being behind, give them a standardized test! It will give you the confidence you need.
10:51 Are you really schooling? Are you unschooling? Are you slacking? What are you doing?
11:41 Any parent listening in is likely to be a very driven homeschooler. Being worried about not getting enough done is typically a sign that you are doing plenty!
13:03 How to use your summer break to catch up on things you didn't accomplish.
18:02 How to catch up on your Timeline Book if you've put it off. It makes for great review!
21:39 The mentality of lifelong learning.
22:30 Keeping your Instructor's Guide in its place. It's not a dictator.
28:12 When you worry your child is behind in skills or mastery.
30:39 Why you should throw out the grade-level mentality.
34:05 Remember that character traits such as empathy are a part of development too.
36:48 Janna shares how she handled her daughter's being behind in math.
39:29 Don't think of skills as assigned to certain grades. They are simply skills that can be learned at any age!
49:32 Remember the importance of play — even when you feel behind.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:17 A Lesson Learned The school year's start and end can be a fluid thing rather than a hard deadline.
27:29 Hack of the Week: Add chores to the daily school checklist.
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When homeschool moms anonymously shared their secret confessions, the common challenges of homeschooling became apparent. For example, 64% of respondents reported wanting to quit homeschooling at some point. (We just want to know, who are you other 36% who have never wanted to quit? 😂) The podcast trio of Janna, DeeDee, and Ximena work through the list of confessions, adding their own stories to the mix. This is an encouraging episode that will leave you feeling uplifted!
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee "you are the best teacher for your child. You don't need a credential. You don't need a teaching background. You have been the best teacher for your child since the beginning, and they are looking to you to learn. And so they've been learning from you from day one, and no one knows your child better than you do. That's just the truth. And so you get to be with them at each stage as they're developing and you get to see the changes, you get to see their growth, you get to see where they're lacking and what you need to work on. A teacher that knows them for one year sees very little of that. And they're not really focused on the whole child. Usually, they're focused just on academics and the things that they need to report to their boss. So I really want to stress that, that you do not need to be a teacher. You are the best thing for your child."
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TIMESTAMPS
13:03 I worry my kids are missing out.
14:41 Reading aloud to my kids is hard.
16:52 I struggle with keeping a routine.
18:56 I have no idea how I'm doing. Am I failing or winning? How would I know?
23:02 Using humor or potty language to get kids invested in their lessons.
26:42 Lots of moms expressed gratitude at how Covid-19 forced them to homeschool since it's actually been a great experience overall.
32:19 I buy gobs of curriculum but don't use it all.
34:38 Having a strong motivation to homeschool helps you stay the course when you want to give up.
35:57 It's okay to cut out everything except the 3Rs during times of stress.
37:34 In the survey, a lot of moms confessed to feeling like a failure. DeeDee, Ximena, and Janna address these common self-doubts.
39:49 Dealing with electronics, screens, and gaming.
44:46 History is actually fun when it's learned through real books!
46:58 Being with your kids all the time can get weary. If you struggle with these 24-7 demands of homeschooling, you are not alone. It's okay to want and take time for yourself! Also take breaks from lessons when you need them!
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
30:47 Hack of the Week
- storing supplies on a wheeled cart so you can easily take lessons outside when the weather is nice
00:36 A Memorable Quote
- "What if, instead of a pass or fail grade, there was a grade of not yet?" from a TED Talk by Carol Dweck, author of Mindset: The New Psychology of Success
Linsey Knerl is owner of Knerl Family Media, mom of six, and the author of Homeschool Hacks: How to Give Your Kid a Great Education Without Losing Your Job or Your Mind. In this episode, she talks with DeeDee and Ximena about juggling roles, managing time, and making sure your home runs smoothly.
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QUOTABLES
Linsey: "I'm less of a teacher, more of a superintendent or a manager or administrator. And if you think about how much administrators get paid in school systems and how hard those jobs are and how much goes on, it's a huge role. Is not at all shameful to be like, 'I spent my whole day administrating my child's homeschool.' Because it's a big, big job."
Linsey: "Well, I'm not a likable person when I'm doing more than one thing. I've been told that by my husband, and I've been told that by my kids. So just by virtue of not being the most horrible person in their life, I need to calm down and just do one thing at a time."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:31 Linsey tells the story of her homeschool journey.
04:13 How being a terrible planner can make you a better homeschooler.
05:17 How Linsey runs her home with so many children with such a range of ages and needs.
08:38 Linsey sees her role more as a superintendent, manager, or administrator than a teacher.
09:41 Coping with guilt as a homeschool parent who also works.
11:03 Is doing it all even possible?
12:19 Mono-tasking instead of multitasking.
18:00 A typical day at the Knerl home.
20:07 Linsey's curriculum choices.
21:40 How to know things are going well in your homeschool.
23:28 Top hacks from Linsey's book. Why books are so essential to the homeschool.
26:53 Avoid being too formal with organization.
28:09 Get advice from a wide variety of homeschoolers so you never feel like you have to fit a certain mold that doesn't suit you.
29:26 How to handle extracurriculars.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:32 Hack of the Week — Always try before you buy!
16:45 A Memorable Quote —Ray Bradbury said, "Jump and you will find out how to unfold your wings as you fall."
Deschooling is a period of detox when you get yourself out of the public school mentality and into the homeschool way of thinking. It's also the process of rethinking what education means. Not only do children need to deschool but parents also need to make this shift. To help you move from rigid box checking and constant worrying about doing enough into a confident but relaxed perspective, guest June Doran of This Simple Balance shares her own transformation as a mom.
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QUOTABLES
June: "...deschooling means deconstructing school, really all things school. So saying, 'What does learning look like? What should it look like? What makes a good education, and who decides what that is? What's worth learning? Why are we even learning?' Really asking all of the questions that before were very easy. It was just, 'Oh, send your kids to school. They know all the answers. They have it all.' And instead taking it back into our hands and saying, 'We're going to deconstruct what is school, and we're going to rebuild from the ground up kind of our own definition of what school is and what a good education is and what learning is and what it looks like.'"
June: "So for me, the biggest risk would be my homeschool looking exactly like school and for me, the biggest thing was crushing my kids' love of learning, seeing that die in them, and then not being driven to learn the things they want to learn and not having that natural drive."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:41 June tells how she came to be a homeschooler.
05:29 How a homeschool curriculum catalog moved the needle for June.
07:40 Deschooling means deconstructing all things school.
09:23 DeeDee admits that even after so many years of homeschooling, she still sometimes doesn't consider what she does with her children "real school."
10:02 June's daughter's reluctance to do worksheets moved her to rethink the nature of education.
11:18 June's parents were public school educators, so she felt it was essential to become a confident homeschooler who could answer her family's questions.
12:45 When people find out that you homeschool, their first question is typically, "Do you use a curriculum?" What are they really asking?
13:32 The risks of not deschooling.
16:09 June explains her goal for her kids to operate confidently outside a school system or a box that school puts us into.
21:41 Why you need to have hope, bravery, and faith as a homeschooling parent.
22:55 Practical ways to deschool. Start by reading the history of education. Then read unschooling books like Free to Learn by Peter Gray. Constantly ask why.
26:21 What about unschooling for high school years?
30:56 June talks about curriculum and how reading aloud is the core of her homeschool.
32:33 How long will deschooling take?
33:35 Make choices that will give you confidence as a homeschooler.
34:01 What to avoid during deschooling: don't throw out all structure. Having natural rhythms is good!
35:53 Remind yourself that your children are naturally driven to learn.
Tired of swapping out hats, going from parent role to teacher role? Great news! There are no homeschool hats! You are a parent. And parents are teachers—always have been and always will be. Absorb the down-to-earth encouragement from special guest Camille Kirksey who takes a holistic approach to being both mom and teacher, simultaneously. Dissolve the barriers of roles and relax into learning alongside your children without a need to control them or always be the expert.
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Meet Camille Kirksey at her two sites: Intuitive Homeschooler and World Homeschooler's Day. Her book is Coming Home, a practical guide for preparing a mother's heart, mind and home for homeschooling.
QUOTABLES
Camille: "As a mother, I'm very fluid. I do what they need, bottom line. I don't know why that would be any different with the homeschool part of it."
Janna: "We're giving you permission to know that you're already a teacher. You're already their mom instructing them in every day situations. It is no different when you're homeschooling."
Camille: "It's cultural, it's fear, it's ego. We feel this pressure as homeschoolers. You don't want to miss something. You don't want them to have gaps."
Camille: "Homeschool will make you know yourself whether you want to or not. That's a good thing even if it's hard at the time."
TIMESTAMPS
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06:16 Why Camille's starting question is "Are my heart, mind and home prepared for homeschooling?"
09:06 These questions aren't just for newbies. It's never too late to ask these questions.
10:30 They myth of controlling your kids.
12:03 The power of unlearning and deschooling.
13:15 The holistic approach of parenting as a homeschooler and the myth of homeschool hats. Being a mom is enough.
17:49 Getting outside help as a homeschooler is not bad. You do the same thing as a parent. You consult Google. You search the medicine cabinet.
18:54 The advantages of being a mom-teacher (versus a school teacher).
21:12 Using a just-in-time approach to parenting and homeschooling.
24:44 How and why our children's behaviors can trigger strong reactions in us as parents.
25:15 Letting go of the school-ish authority structures and control to let your kids lead.
30:40 How to handle the fear of not knowing everything as a homeschool teacher.
34:04 Why parents sometimes push kids beyond what is reasonable.
36:47 Letting kids see you as a fallible person.
38:16 How to handle people who are critical of your choice to homeschool. Radical advice — don't talk about it!
43:30 How going outside is often the solution.
46:20 Think of yourself as a partner with your child.
50:05 Your end goals for your kids probably won't be achieved via worksheets or textbooks but by the time you spend with them.
It's summer! Tune in for suggestions of how to spend these precious weeks of freedom. Hosts DeeDee and Ximena suggest having a loose plan with some academic and life skills goals. You may want to go all out and do a special science or history camp or book club with your homeschool co-op this summer or have a more low-key experience at home catching up on the things you didn't have time for during the school year. Consider typing, driving, cooking, laundry, or a craft like knitting.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "...let your kids be creative during the summer and explore new hobbies. And this is always important to me, but they're not going to do it if you let them be couch potatoes."
DeeDee: "Well then you can also just think, we have to work on reading, writing and arithmetic. Because the three R's, right? That's the foundation of our learning. So what books are you going to read this summer? And what... like you were saying about math facts, how are you going to keep your math facts sharp? Whether it's playing a game online on your computer or playing Yahtzee your regular rotation, or whatever it is that you think ahead so that you're prepared, you're planning to have it. And then some writing, my kids love writing books or short stories. So encouraging them to do that during the day summer."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:27 Take a long summer break or opt for year-round schooling? (Episode 8 is about year-round homeschooling.)
04:15 Ximena likes to enjoy summer break but still include some homeschool activities to keep a rhythm and avoid bad attitudes.
06:48 Learning loss can happen during the summer. Ximena tells a story about bombing an assessment in second grade due to summer brain drain!
08:15 Summer homeschooling is a perfect time to get caught up or ahead on a particular topic or dive into something very fun like knitting or cooking or photography.
11:16 About limiting screentime during the summer.
16:50 Practical tips for creating a summer schedule for your homeschool.
19:20 Get older kids to provide input to help craft the plan.
20:17 Older kids can work on typing, driving, or learning how to do laundry. Try a fun unit study.
22:58 DeeDee and Ximena talk about their summer science camp.
24:58 Their epic Washington DC summer trip and their US History Cram Camp to prepare for it!
25:57 Help your kids plan their summer activities so they actually do them!
26:49 Have a summer book club.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
Hack of the Week
01:06 Use a boogie board tablet to make writing more fun (and to save paper).
Weekly Reflection
14:12 How fast the kids grow up. Savor each moment instead of worrying so much!
The worst homeschool myths make parents afraid to try homeschooling. This episode is here to put your mind at ease with a behind-the-scenes look at what homeschooling is really like. No, it's not all peaches and rainbows. But it isn't drudgery or non-stop frustration either! These six myths are legitimate fears, but don't let them keep you from homeschooling if you want to. All of these can be overcome. Tune in as your hosts Ximena and DeeDee dispel the exaggerations, stereotypes, and outright misinformation with facts and their own personal stories.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "Homeschool allows you the freedom to step off the highway of learning and take a more scenic route along the dirt road. ... You're not on this conveyor belt of education, where everybody's the same. No, no. You are taking the scenic route. You're learning the way you learn. You're homeschooling your way, guys."
Ximena: "And your kids can end up being sheltered and weird if you raise them up that way, but that can happen even if they go to regular school."
TIMESTAMPS
02:16 MYTH 1: You are a parent not a teacher, so you're not qualified to teach your children.
04:32 MYTH 2: Homeschooled children don't get as good of an education as traditionally schooled children.
05:35 MYTH 3: Homeschoolers have a hard time getting into college.
06:18 MYTH 4: Homeschoolers miss out on sports and on other important social activities like school theater or prom.
07:13 MYTH 4: Homeschooled kids are sheltered and unsocialized, and therefore weird.
08:58 MYTH 6: Homeschooling is too expensive.
17:59 MYTH 1 DEBUNKED: You've been teaching your children from day one. You already are their teacher!
20:34 MYTH 2 DEBUNKED: Homeschooled kids get to do so many more field trips and hands-on learning that you just don't get in a classroom. The curriculum and pace can be customized to the child. It's an excellent education.
23:58 MYTH 3 DEBUNKED: Colleges want the homeschooled kids because they perform so much better!
26:36 MYTH 4 DEBUNKED: Many states allow homeschooled kids to participate alongside public schoolers in different sports or extracurriculars. And homeschoolers form local groups to hold dances and other social events that schools typically provide their students.
29:50 MYTH 5 DEBUNKED: Homeschooled kids are not just social. They are social butterflies!
32:20 MYTH 6 DEBUNKED: There are ways to homeschool affordably. And homeschooling is loads cheaper than private school!
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:23 Hack of the Week
Do your weekly homeschool planning on Saturday (not Sunday night).
13:32 A Memorable Quote
"The most important work you will ever do will be within the walls of your own home."
Homeschooling has a lot of perks. If you send your kids back to public school, you may not completely lose these perks, but they are a heck of a lot harder to achieve! Spending extra time with your children and being immersed in their day-to-day learning creates a unique dynamic that you can't easily recreate when your children are at school all day. Join Janna, DeeDee and Ximena as they explore what you might lose if you stop homeschooling.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "... a lot of the things that scare parents is, 'I'm not qualified, I'm failing my kids,' right? But really what we want to end with ...is that our goal is to nurture a love of learning for them, right? Because once we teach them how to love learning, they can learn anything in life. So if you keep that as your number one goal, then your kids are going to be okay.
TIMESTAMPS
04:50 If you put your kids back in school, the biggest change will immediately be the lack of flexibility.
12:19 If you stop homeschooling, you'll lose personalized learning.
15:02 You won't be able to provide your kids that soothing, comfortable safe spot for learning (your home).
21:20 Life skills are more easily taught in a homeschool environment, things like cooking, cleaning, and handicrafts.
23:38 Ximena's daughter confided in her that she's afraid she'll grow up and not know how to do things and will make mistakes in life.
24:56 As a homeschooler, you can help your child learn problem solving with day-to-day situations. In a traditional school setting, a teacher has a lesson to teach and can't always make time for detours.
27:01 Why "I don't know" is such a great sentence to use as a homeschooler.
27:08 Socialization! Contrary to myth, homeschoolers actually have more opportunity for socialization and conflict resolution than kids in school.
30:34 Living life at an unhurried pace. Homeschooling gives you the gift of more time.
31:27 Quality control over what your kids are learning, how deep to go, the pace to work at, etc.
33:45 A homeschool mindset creates more of a love of learning and a lifestyle of curiosity compared to a traditional school mindset which focuses mainly on getting things done.
35:36 When we homeschool, we get to learn alongside our kids! It's fun to finally learn the things we missed in school (or forgot). We have so much fodder for great family conversations about history, science, and so on.
38:51 Homeschooling provides a very high quality of education that a traditional classroom cannot provide.
43:02 You'll read so many books together as a family as homeschoolers.
47:21 Ximena recalls her exhausted lifestyle when her daughter went to school.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:02 Hack of the Week —Frequent timed breaks
20:28 A Memorable Thought — Enjoy your kids more.
Read more
- What You’ll Lose if You Stop Homeschooling After Covid
- Four Reasons to Keep Homeschooling Even After Schools Reopen
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Hosts DeeDee and Ximena want to say "well done" to all of the podcast listeners. This has not been an easy year and a half for any of us. As a listener, you care about your kids. You've tried your absolute best and you're still trying. They know you love your children and no matter how hard the school year was, you did your best! This episode is to debrief some of the tough parts of the school year and give you hope that it will get better! Homeschooling during a pandemic was hard even for seasoned homeschoolers.
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TIMESTAMPS
04:09 A lot of new homeschool families can't wait to put their kids back in school!
04:32 Zoom detention is a thing. 🙄
05:41 Contrary to myth, families who homeschooled before the pandemic didn't have an easy time with lockdowns, closures, and social distancing.
07:42 The precious gift of community as a homeschooler.
11:04 Ask yourself these questions to evaluate if homeschooling will be better for you after the pandemic. Question 1: How was my life before homeschooling? And how did homeschooling make it better? What lessons did you learn by slowing down and having your kids at home?
11:58 For the challenges you faced, were they actual homeschool problems or were they pandemic problems that you would have faced anyway?
12:27Ask"How has the pandemic impacted me emotionally and psychologically?"
14:31 Train your brain with habits that eliminate the need for willpower.
15:08 The comfort of routines and structure.
16:35 Find a community!
19:42 The pandemic taught Ximena to relax a bit more in her homeschool, to play more games and flex more.
21:31 Creating an atmosphere with candles, music, etc. Taking brain breaks with physical activity.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
- Hack of the Week — making your home the teen hangout
- A Memorable Quote —"For the strength of the pack is the wolf. And the strength of the wolf is the pack" by Rudyard Kipling.
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If you started homeschooling because of the pandemic, you have a big decision ahead: Will I homeschool again next year? And actually, nearly all homeschool families revisit this decision periodically. Our kids change; circumstances change. And it's important to be sure you're still making the right choice.
In this episode DeeDee explains why her son is going to private school and the mixed feelings she has about it. Listen in for food for thought as you make the decision for how to educate your children for the upcoming school year.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "... in the classroom setting, it's really survival mode. Right? How do I not get bullied? How do I not get teased? And really at home, we're teaching them true conflict resolution, true life skills, the true value of relationships."
TIMESTAMPS
02:50 DeeDee explains why she's not homeschooling her son next school year.
06:41 It can take 2-3 years of homeschooling to find your groove.
12:00 Pros and cons of homeschooling. Con #1: Homeschooling takes a lot of effort and intentionality. It's hard.
17:22 Con #2: More housework because all of you are home more often.
18:51 Con # 3: It's very time consuming. It can be hard to balance the demands of homeschooling with working.
20:11 Pro #1: Flexibility and quality time.
22:09 Pro #2: A quality education.
24:04 Pro #3: Character development and socialization.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:16 Hack of the Week — use Alexa as a chore chart
10:54 Weekly Reflection —"We're so worried about leaving a better planet for our kids. How about we leave better kids for the planet?"
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Learn how to leverage the power of the village through co-ops, hybrid learning, and virtual options. All of these learning avenues can extend your at-home experience and build a supportive community for you and for your children.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:35 Homeschool Co-ops
Co-ops are great for community and for electives beyond your main curriculum.
14:08 Hybrid homeschooling
Hybrid situations are great for families that want to homeschool but don't want to bear all of the responsibility alone or totally DIY. They want the co-op, but they don't want to have to put the co-op together. With a hybrid approach, you do some of your learning at home and a few days a week you meet at an in-person co-op for additional learning.
26:19 BookShark Virtual
BookShark Virtual provides accountability and recordkeeping for homeschoolers who want more support. This online interface tells the student what pages to read from the books, presents the questions, and a provides place to record their work.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:00 Self-care Your Way
- meal planning that includes a weekly taco night and pizza night
24:42 What We’re Reading
- Dr. Ruth Beechick's book The Three R's
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Shed your science insecurities and join your kids as a fellow learner! That's the main advice in this podcast hosted by Janna with special guest Amy Ratliff, curriculum designer at BookShark. Amy says that the biggest part of teaching your kids science is to engage their curiosity. Enjoy the scientific process even when things don't go exactly right.
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QUOTABLES
Amy: "There's actually a million and one variables that go into every experiment ever, and if anything is slightly off, it can throw the rest of the experiment off. So I think that's one of the reasons that doing science at home can be more difficult, is because you expect it to go well, and if anything goes slightly off, you're like, 'Why is the science not working? Why is science not perfect?' And it's because there's just a million and one variables and something's changing."
Janna: "So there's really not failure in science. And maybe that's what parents need to hear, is that when something doesn't have an expected outcome, it's not a failure. It's not that it didn't work. It's just a jumping off point to start again in a different way."
Janna: "And I think maybe I needed to hear that I have permission to mess up while doing science experiments with my children because that really is part of the process."
TIMESTAMPS
02:23 Guest Amy Ratliff, a curriculum writer at BookShark, introduces herself.
03:38 What to do when you've followed the directions to a tee, but the science experiment still failed.
06:26 Teaching children about experimentation — trial and error.
07:21 The difference between the scientific model and a scientific experiment.
11:44 Teaching science with a project-based approach.
12:45 Teaching science with unit studies.
18:59 Using living books to learn science. Some parts of science lend themselves very well to being told through a story. Amy provides the example of Mendel and his study of genetics.
23:19 Pointers for teaching science at home: 1. See what's sparking interest and capitalize on that.
24:39 2. Have perseverance, be a curious and humble learner.
25:44 Recognize that you've already taught your kids a lot of science informally simply through life and discussions!
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:13 Self-care Your Way
- ice cream in the bathtub every Sunday night while watching a program
- taking my husband grocery shopping on a Friday or Saturday afternoon, combined with lunch out and any other errands we need to do
17:53 What We’re Reading
- The Great Gatsby on audiobook
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Your homeschool why is your motivation or reason to homeschool. You might phrase it as a goal or even a vision statement. Special guest Candice Kelly from Homeschool on the Hill uses a simple list of pros and cons she can reference to affirm her choice to homeschool. It's a living document that she adds to from time to time. Join host Janna and Candice in this talk about the reasons to homeschool and how to stay motivated whether you're doing it for only one year or long term.
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QUOTABLES
Candice: "... your homeschool why could change entirely or it just grows. I feel like the more homeschool moms I've spoken with, the more I hear that. I just keep finding more reasons to continue homeschooling and that's been the case for me."
TIMESTAMPS
02:30 Candice's introduction.
03:21 Having a clear motivation to homeschool helps you over the long haul when homeschooling gets rough.
04:31 Candice tells the story of her false start with homeschooling and how a lack of confidence nearly sabotaged her.
05:49 Janna tells her own story of opting to homeschool.
07:20 Why more family togetherness may not work as an extended motivation to homeschool once the kids actually are around you 24-7.
08:42 Your motivation to homeschool may vary for each child.
13:54 How do outside opinions affect the choice to homeschool and the decision to keep going?
26:26 What's so important about knowing your why?
28:22 Why Candice keeps a pro/con list for public school, too.
30:31 It's okay to take the same liberties that public school teachers do: putting on a movie, going outside, etc.
31:37 How a 4-day school week tempers the drive to be all business and no fun.
32:19 What happened when Candice's son went back to public school for a semester of 9th grade.
33:50 Candice elaborates on her own personal reasons to homeschool, chief of which is time spent together as a family.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:17 Self-care Your Way
- Staying up late to watch TV solo.
25:04 What We’re Reading
- Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah
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When we're thinking about standards, it's common to worry our children will be behind. The good news is that it's easy to know what your state standards are because they are very clear and published online. You can compare your curriculum to the standards and reassure yourself that you're covering all the bases.
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QUOTABLES
Lynn: "Again, don't be afraid of the standards, it's just a measure by which each state wants to make sure that they're doting their Is and crossing their t's so that they know that they're educating with the funds that they're given federally and state wide. That's the reason of their concern, and that's one of the things that we just need to do when you get that educationally-funded monies for your curriculum. If you're a traditional homeschool family that isn't getting any funding, of course you want to make sure your kids are being educated. So perhaps you do your testing but you really probably don't need to follow a state standard. It's those people and the families that are using that government funding that they do need to make sure that they're hitting those standards."
TIMESTAMPS
03:54 Schools are accredited, but curriculum is not.
04:52 Standards are set by states. Homeschoolers really don't have to follow them in most cases. But some homeschoolers do like to follow standards. Or some families who homeschool through a charter (like in California) do have to meet standards.
09:20 You can look up your state's standards online.
10:13 Lynn shares how different BookShark programs meet California standards.
12:32 Coming in 2021, BookShark is releasing an updated Science that meets Next Generation Science Standards (NGSS).
14:40 For parents who are temporarily homeschooling and expect to put their kids back in public school, keeping up with standards is important.
17:33 Lynn tells the story of a homeschool mom who thought she was doing a bad job, so she put her child back into public school. Turns out the child was far ahead of her peers. The mom was just filled with self-doubt and was actually doing a great job.
24:33 You actually are covering the standards as a homeschooler. You're reading and discussing and exposing your kids to all the things outlined in state standards.
32:26 If you'd like more reassurance about covering the standards, give your child a standardized test at the end of the school year.
37:26 Don't panic if your child's test scores are average or below average.
38:36 Compare your child's end of year to beginning of year instead of comparing to to other kids. Celebrate your own child's progress.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:15 Self-care Your Way
- making a walk with friends a priority
22:38 What We’re Reading
The Great and Terrible Quest, a read-aloud from Level G Reading with History from BookShark
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You don't have to be math-minded to effectively homeschool your child. This common misconception has intimidated parents, diminishing their confidence to pursue math. In this episode special guest Ken Hively, homeschool dad to 6 children and creator of My Math Assistant, shares practical applications for math at home.
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QUOTABLES
Ken: "...if you're going to learn anything, whether it's a skill or a subject, the way you learn that is through repetition over time. And so the way that Saxon Math was really set up was you're going to review these concepts, not just for a little bit of time to pass a test, you're going to review them throughout the entire book."
Ken: "I definitely recommend Saxon math. When it comes to switching curriculums, having homeschooled for like 12 years now, I think that sometimes we as parents, we are a little bit too quick to maybe blame the curriculum. If you're thinking, 'Maybe my math curriculum is not working well,' I would stop and ask some questions about why is it not working well. It could be that you're just not using it the way it was intended to be used. It could be that you don't understand it well enough. It could be character issues with your child."
Ken: "We don't do all of the problems necessarily. And especially if a kid has one of those brains that picks up math really well, it's possible they really don't need that much review. But if your child has any struggles with math at all, that review is there for a reason."
Ken: "Don't be afraid to slow down a little bit. You don't have to keep up with that family that's got the eight year old doing pre-calculus. We all know that family and that's great for them. You don't have to keep up with somebody else's pace. Go with the pace that your child needs to go at to really master what they're trying to learn."
TIMESTAMPS
02:24 Ken tells his background as a homeschool dad.
03:21 How different ages need different approaches with math.
04:41 Helping kids begin to be independent math learners at around grade 4.
05:02 Ken explains why he loves Saxon Math and tells a bit about its approach.
06:48 About the tests in Saxon Math and how Saxon uses repetition to teach and help kids retain.
07:41 How to troubleshoot when you feel your math curriculum is not working well.
08:46 How the time of day can affect your math success. HINT: Don't put math at the end of the day.
09:36 Isn't the repetition in Saxon boring? How can you make it more interesting? The importance of repetition and practice.
12:02 How to manage daily math lessons. Ken suggests doing math year-round instead of taking a summer break. This way, you can slow down the pace.
17:29 Why memorizing math facts is a counterintuitive solution for math anxiety.
18:16 Ken tells the story of his son who isn't naturally a math whiz. And when the child would forget his math skills, Ken assumed he was being disobedient. But actually Ken realized the problem was that he wasn't that great of a math teacher, so he adjusted his methods and used games to teach. It worked!
23:03 The fear of falling behind with math.
25:22 The ongoing struggle of grading math and how My Math Assistant helps.
Homeschooling a wide swath of ages and personalities means juggling multiple needs at once. Tanya has found success by combining her children as much as possible with a literature-based curriculum. She makes adjustments for each child as needed, but she doesn't create her own lesson plans. Learn why Tanya finds life skills so important and hear her tips for extracurriculars, socialization, and finding community in this encouraging episode.
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QUOTABLES
Janna: "We're never really behind when we're teaching our children the love of learning."
Tanya: "...each child is different. So, I cater to that, and I don't necessarily follow what schools are doing. It's not of interest to me. I do follow what the requirements for college [are for my children who] are going to college. But as far as what the public schools are doing ..., I don't pay any attention."
TIMESTAMPS
02:34 Tanya introduces herself. She has five children, ages 17, 17, 16, 14, and 12. She has been homeschooling for seven years, combining all her children with a literature-based education.
3:34 How she combines so many children and what it looks like day to day.
06:52 If you teach multiple children together, won't the older ones get behind?
10:14 How can you combine so many children when they have different learning styles?
13:04 Answering questions from curious onlookers and family members.
20:43 Using curriculum that's already planned out makes homeschooling so much easier. And if your state asks what you're studying, just use the scope and sequence from the curriculum to show them. (See BookShark's scope & sequence here.)
22:30 Finding community as a homeschooler: your library, Facebook groups, local community center activities.
25:54 Extracurricular activities.
28:58 When you feel like you're behind, not on grade level, remember that homeschooling is a different approach. Testing isn't necessary. And your kids are soaking in so much knowledge that you don't realize. The process really does work!
32:47 If you are homeschooling for only a short while, be sure to take advantage of the time you have at home together to teach life skills: laundry, dishwasher loading, budgeting, organizing the basement, etc.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:00 Self-care Your Way
- finishing projects
- leaving things that don't bring pleasure
24:01 What We’re Reading
- Janna recently joined a book club where she's reading Daughter of the Reich by Louise Fei
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When you hit the high school years, yes, you need a plan, and it's best to stick with it instead of flip flopping around. But that doesn't mean you throw out all the fun! Learn how to relax through the high school years with special guest Candice Kelly who has already graduated one son.
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QUOTABLES
Candice: "... when you get into high school, you really have to have a four year plan. You can't just wing it, year by year."
Candice: "... before we're concerned about not hitting certain milestones, maybe we need to really look at ... well, what is our plan? And, is this plan actually a customized plan for this child?"
Candice: "... the number one thing I would say to myself is just relax."
TIMESTAMPS
03:40Introduction to the guest, Candice Kelly who has a 7th grader, a 10th grader, and one graduate. Subscribe to Candice's Homeschool on the Hill YouTube channel.
05:04 Candice's story about flip flopping between homeschooling and public school with her oldest because of her fears about homeschooling high school.
06:11 Why, in many states, you really need to choose how you are going to do high school and then stick with it.
09:31 How your role changes as a homeschool mom during the high school years.
11:18 Taking the courses alongside your teen.
13:24 How Candice is using her son's online course to allow for more independence and responsibility.
16:23 How BookShark's 4-day schedule helps make high school years enjoyable.
20:47 The challenge of athletics for homeschoolers in high school.
27:07 Remember that kids can earn high school credits before they are freshmen if the course work applies.
27:45 You do not have to teach it all yourself! There are so many options for online courses, co-ops, and dual enrollment.
28:24 Your teens will spend more and more time away from home, so enjoy your final years with them.
30:13 Preparing teens for college and for life.
31:14 Help your teens towards independence. Outside accountability is good for this.
31:59 How to motivate a resistant high schooler. Candice shares how her son likes to work ahead on his lessons late at night.
33:31 It's okay to help your teens. They aren't expected to be totally independent.
35:04 Be sure your high school plan is custom for the individual teen, not based on comparisons to others.
37:27 Even when teens are working independently, be sure to have regular check-ins to discuss the work and connect emotionally.
38:59 Candice's advice to her younger self: "I would say, 'Oh my gosh, Candice Kelly, relax. It is not that big of a deal."
39:16 Making a high school transcript is not a big deal. But do talk to someone in your state who knows what's required for graduation.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:26 Self-care Your Way
- digital organizing: cleaning out Gmail and Google Drive accounts
- ear massage
25:21 What We’re Reading
- To Kill a Mockingbird
- The Red Scarf Girl
- The Glass Lake by Maeve Binchy
- The Great Gatsby
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Literature-based learning works! It's also called the natural approach to language arts. In this episode, product specialist Lynn Woodley explains the ins and outs of how a natural lit-based education works. She also tackles the common objections to this style of homeschooling, demonstrating that it produces children and teens who can think critically and write expressively.
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QUOTABLES
Janna: "And I think one of our goals is to create lifelong learners. And so as we're going through this process, I think when parents are uncomfortable with something that they don't quite understand it's a beautiful opportunity to say, you know what? I'm not quite sure. Let me look back and let me see what my instructions are. Let me see where I need to take a step back and maybe readjust how I'm explaining it to you. My children are so good at telling me that I'm not doing it right. And instead of being offended, or taken aback by that, I've really had to humble myself. I think homeschooling and humility should really be synonymous to know that you're right, I made a mistake there. I'm going to go ahead and do some research because as an adult I am still a lifelong learner."
Lynn: "I would encourage all of you to remove the negative labels. Don't say that they're behind because they're not. They're just placed where they are. Nobody has to know, not even your friends, not even your family. If they can't accept it that a child is taking a little longer to read they don't have to know where they're at because you really want that approach, this natural approach to be able to just naturally move along. The natural approach really is a solid, very solid approach. You will create children who can cognitively, logically think through life, have compassion and empathy just because of the manner of the philosophy."
TIMESTAMPS
04:57 Lynn shares how her son's writing blossomed with a natural approach to language arts.
06:21 A natural, literature-based approach helps children and teens think more critically and more logically.
07:50 Ruth Beechick PhD is the educator who best explained this method.
08:48 The ultimate goal of language arts is communication, especially writing. That's why the natural approach uses copywork to teach writing.
12:32 Tips for troubleshooting the child who balks at copywork or dictation.
15:26 With the natural approach, grammar is taught indirectly through examples and through the books children ingest.
19:31 What if your kids don't like to read?
20:30 The power of mimicking good role models of literature.
25:47 Reading aloud means your can provide your children with higher level academic content (like history and science) regardless of their own reading level.
30:11 Forget about negative labels. Don't even think of your child as behind. Instead embrace your child's pace as the right rate of development.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:44 Self-care Your Way
Gluten free muffins at Sprouts, devoured in the parking lot!
24:48 What We’re Reading
The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot
The HeLa cell was taken from Henrietta Lacks without her knowledge in 1951, and became the most important tool in medicine vital for developing the polio vaccine, cloning, gene mapping, and more. To date, her family has never been compensated for the gift her cells have given to the medical field.
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The middle school years are a bridge between childhood and adolescence. Make the most of this quirky period with your tweens and teens because homeschooling these years can be really fun! Kids are still young enough to enjoy read-alouds and field trips but old enough to take more accountability for their studies and direct their own interest-led units. Tune in to get more tips for teaching grades 6, 7, and 8 at home.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "It's really important to remember ... you're teaching them during middle school how to be more independent. You're not letting them be fully independent just yet. There's still a lot of accountability."
DeeDee: "... in this age range is when... we're going to give them more choices, but then we're going to have to let them deal with some consequences. And that can be tough."
Ximena: "That's really hard for me—to let them deal with the consequences of their choices and let them quote, unquote, fail. It's hard."
Ximena: "[Middle schoolers] are still kids. So be patient with them ... their brains aren't fully developed. That's actually a fact, we're not being funny. Brains aren't fully developed until they're 26 ..."
TIMESTAMPS
03:10 Middle school is a time of transition when tweens and teens need less handholding and become more independent learners with more freedom.
03:27 Why middle schoolers still need accountability.
05:08 Giving middle schoolers more choice about what they are learning and doing more interest-led studies.
05:37 Ask your kids "What do you want to do?"
06:02 Taking an informal, interest-based approach to science and history in younger years helps kids be more interested in the topics for their high school years.
07:05 How lit-based learning pays off during the middle school years. [Listen to episode 2 Introduction to Lit-based Homeschooling]
09:20 Life skills take on new importance during middle school years.
10:32 Puberty! [Listen to episode 29 Homeschooling Teens & Tweens]
11:24 When middle schoolers deal with insecurity.
12:24 Middle schoolers need friends, so socialization is a priority!
13:24 Letting kids deal with consequences, letting them fail, and not jumping in to rescue them all the time.
16:44 TIP 1: Plan homeschool with your middle schoolers' input. InvolvE them in decision making and troubleshooting.
19:07 TIP 2: Keep reading aloud.
20:10 TIP 3: Prepare for high school, especially with writing and math. Use games during the summer to boost math skills that were missed.
[Listen to episode 32 Gameschooling]
22:18 TIP 4: Protect their sleep and encourage good nutrition.
24:45 TIP 5: Have fun. Don't take school too seriously. Keep reading and taking field trips and being silly.
26:26 Be very intentional about and make time for positive peer experiences.
The elementary years lay a foundation for your child's entire education and forge family memories you all can cherish. Make the elementary years a fun, pressure-free experience for your kids by letting your children set the pace with academics and letting their interests inform your choices. Because DeeDee and Ximena are already past the elementary years, they invited special guest Lindsay to help them chat about the younger years.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "... the reading, the writing, and the math — that's really what we should be focusing on ... As long as you're reading and writing and doing math constantly, they're going to grow."
DeeDee: "I heard somebody say once, 'If you're trying to build a fence in the winter, you are going to expend so much more energy because the ground is hard. But if you wait until spring, you can get the fence up in a weekend.' And sometimes, our kids, developmentally, are not ready for what we're trying to get them to do. But once they are ready, man, they get it like that ... we don't have to be in a rush to get through the material. It is much more about laying that firm foundation."
Ximena: "... homeschooling and parenting are not different. During parenting, you're going to deal with attitudes, and during homeschool you're going to deal with attitudes because it's part of life. It's just part of life."
Lindsay: "...when you push too hard, it's very, very hard for the mom. And then you get impatient, and then it's not so fun. So just relax ... because elementary years are supposed to be fun."
TIMESTAMPS
03:14 Introducingspecial guest Lindsay Rincon from Momma Schmooze Reviews.
04:29 Lindsay's journey from being a homeschooled teen to being a homeschool mom herself.
05:46 Lindsay's homeschool style: eclectic Charlotte Mason, lots of unit studies and literature-based learning.
06:42 Milestones to look for in the elementary years of homeschooling.
07:31 The importance of the 3Rs.
08:18 The fear of teaching your kids to read.
09:17 The beauty of a 4-day school week. READ MORE
10:47 Goals to have during the elementary school years.
12:25 Lindsay takes an organic approach to habit training, integrating it into her day.
15:04 The importance of valuing each child individually. The power of a reward system.
20:46 Let kids' passions and interests guide your homeschool. This will spark a love of learning in the early years and keep curiosity alive. READ MORE
22:42 When handling a reluctant elementary learner, remember to let the child set the pace.
24:06 How can a homeschool mom who's tired and burned out find renewal?
25:52 Homeschool hacks: Getting homeschool resources at thrift shops, having a homeschool mom-friend.
27:22 Scissor/cutting skills
28:21 A typical homeschool day for Lindsay and her two children.
30:45 One piece of advice for your past self: relax a little bit!
Do your kids give up easily when challenged? Are they perfectionists, afraid to try something new or afraid to fail? Do they make excuses for performing poorly with cop-outs like "I'm just not good at math." If so, they need a dose of GROWTH MINDSET. Learn how to celebrate victories, no matter how small, and build a sense of persistence into your kids with positive self-talk and a focus on the process instead of the outcome.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: I really love that ... worksheet where you look at ... something I wanted to learn, I worked hard at it, and then I conquered it. Really seeing, "Hey, I've done that in the past. I can apply that same tenacity, that same energy, into this challenge." That's really powerful, whether it's something with art or an instrument or even a challenging math concept.
Ximena: It takes getting things wrong in order to get things right.
TIMESTAMPS
02:41 What is a growth mindset and what is its opposite — the fixed mindset. When students believe that they can actually get smarter, they understand that effort makes them stronger, therefore they put in the extra time and effort it takes to achieve that goal. So, that's the growth mindset.
03:54 Growth mindset helps kids overcome challenges.
06:08 Telling kids they are good at something is not helpful. Instead, praise their HARD WORK at overcoming challenges.
07:08 So much talent and skill goes to waste when we have a fixed mindset.
07:50 Kids who think intelligence is static tend to avoid challenges, ignore useful negative feedback and feel threatened by the success of others. They will plateau early and achieve less than their full potential.
08:48 Intelligence can be developed. A growth mindset gives people a greater sense of free will.
10:28 With a fixed mindset, you avoid anything that may show you're not smart.
15:05 Parents need a change of mindset as much as kids do. And it starts with our speech.
15:36 Examples of a fixed mindset:
- "It's okay, honey, math is hard."
- "Don't worry, I'm not much of a reader either."
Relate to your kids in their weaknesses, but don't coddle their limits. We can all grow!
More to read about Growth Mindset
- 4 Ways to Develop a Growth Mindset in Your Homeschool
- Say This, Not That: 10 Perfect Phrases to Develop a Growth Mindset
- The Scoop on Negative Self-Talk in Your Homeschool
18:00 Practice and praise purposeful effort. Avoid negative self-talk because that teaches kids to talk to themselves the same way.
19:42 Find joy in the process (instead of the outcome).
22:11 Encourage reflection to evaluate and celebrate growth.
24:11 See weaknesses as an area for growth.
24:50 Learn for the sake of learning. It's fun!
25:18 Read biographies of scientists who struggled to discover or create. These are great role models for having a growth mindset.
25:29 Quick phrases that we can swap in our homeschool via @theconfidenthomeschooler.
Learn how to make games, play, and fun part of your homeschool with special guest Jessica Waldock from The Waldock Way. Jessica has a special game plan (get it?) where she chooses one academic subject each day to learn through games. If a week goes by when they haven't used games, then they have a full day of games! Gameschooling can be board and card games, but it can also be play in general like having your children jump when they answer a math problem instead of using a worksheet.
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QUOTABLES
Jessica: "But as homeschool moms, we tend to never feel like we're doing enough. And playing a game definitely doesn't feel like enough. But it really is more than enough. And 9 times out of 10, even better than whatever the lesson you were going to do."
Jessica: "I'm still hoping, through middle school, to hold to my one game a day for subject or scrap a whole day and play. That's the thing I'm hoping to hold myself to forever."
Jessica: "...there's this hurdle to jump over, to learn a new game... 'Oh man, I have to learn this new game,' which is so funny if you think about it. And it's kind of hypocritical because we buy the games so our kids can learn. But then we won't even take the time to learn how to play the games."
Jessica: "And that's the goal, right? To cultivate the relationship and to have fun doing it. And games are definitely a great way to do both."
TIMESTAMPS
06:54 Jessica shares how she homeschools her way: eclectic, easy, relaxed, unit study homeschoolers.
08:05 What is gameschooling?
08:32 How to justify playing games in your homeschool.
09:37 How Yahtzee turned around Jessica's daughter's frustration with math.
11:02 How games without so-called educational value still benefit your kids: growth mindset, sportsmanship, etc.
12:41 With gameschooling, you have to be willing to trust the process.
13:49 Playing is a far more efficient way of learning something.
14:44 Games don't judge.
19:28 For preK & K, reading and playing games is definitely more than enough. Look into the Educational Insights line of games.
21:26 Professor Noggin games for elementary school. Jessica covers one subject per day via games.
23:05 Join Cait Curley's Gameschooling group on Facebook for lots of game recommendations at every age and for every subject.
24:11 Pro tips for learning new games: Search YouTube for tutorials, then make notes in the margins of the game rules.
26:06 Tips for using games with a child who's a sore loser.
26:59 Super fast games for parents who think they don't have time for playing games. Or single-player games.
27:56 Baby steps for those new to gameschooling. Start with a deck of cards or a pack of dice!
29:13 Relationship is the main thing. And games help you step back from the frustration of academics and enjoy each other through play.
30:06 What do you want your kids to remember when they look back on their years of homeschooling?
Burnout in homeschool is very common and it's almost inevitable if we're not intentional. Sadly, burnout is often our own fault! Learn the signs of homeschool burnout. (Do you have it?) And then find out the ways to resolve or hopefully avoid it.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "I think at the beginning, I did have burnout, at the beginning of homeschool because I was the type... I was still new to homeschooling and I was the type that had so many things planned and I wanted everything to run perfectly. And so I did run out of gas pretty easily because I was working so hard, just doing overboard stuff."
Ximena: "do realize that it takes a couple of months for you to get the hang of things and to really figure out what will work for that year. So you got to give yourself that amount of time without the stress of having to have it all together because that will burn you out rather quickly."
Ximena: "...feelings of burnout are not necessarily reasons why you should not homeschool, right? Because feelings come and go, and there are just maybe some minor tweaks and adjustments that you need to make in your homeschool in order to avoid [quitting]."
DeeDee: "You have to say goodbye to the perfectionist that's living inside of you."
DeeDee: "You're not alone. And if you're feeling burned out, it's okay to stop and reset."
TIMESTAMPS
03:14 When does burnout tend to strike?
03:37 Why Ximena had burnout very quickly as a homeschooler. (She did it to herself!)
04:51 The signs of burnout. #1 A feeling of dread
06:21 #2 Procrastinating
06:38 #3 Being easily irritated or having meltdowns.
07:30 #4 Hopelessness or depression
09:06 #5 Exhaustion
09:18 Dreaming about putting the kids back into school and quitting homeschool (see ep. 28).
13:36 The main way to prevent burnout is self-care, including sleep, having time with friends/spouse, hobbies, diet/exercise.
16:06 How healthy boundaries prevent burnout. Why doing too much for your kids is bad for them and for you.
18:47 Get rid of unrealistic expectations that are causing you stress. Say goodbye to the perfectionist inside you.
19:54 Avoid comparisons — to other children, to other families, to other parents.
20:41 But don't avoid community! You need friends. Isolation is detrimental to your mental and physical health.
22:42 Change your homeschool routine if being in a rut is contributing to your burnout. Cut out the extras if that will give you more margin. Take a field trip or have a reset day.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:57 Self-care Your Way
- designed a capsule wardrobe
- bought a nice loungewear set to wear this winter
24:01 What We’re Reading
The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakesby Suzanne Collins, the prequel of the Hunger Games trilogy
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One of the most difficult decisions a homeschooler makes is which curriculum to use. For the most part, your choice will carry you through an entire school year, so you want your curriculum pretty close to being the perfect fit. You can always tweak a program to suit you though. It's a lot like buying a formal dress. You may expect to make small alterations to the fit to make is suit your body better, but overall you love the dress.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "Every curriculum has a plan laid out. So sometimes you do have to just stick with something for a while to see it work."
DeeDee: "And then once you try it, give it a fair chance. Commit to keeping that curriculum going for at least one year."
Ximena: "... you always can tweak it ... Don't use what you don't like about the curriculum and use what you like."
Ximena: "So you definitely do have to do your research. But also know that not everything is set in stone and you kind of have to have a freedom mindset when you're choosing [curriculum] so that you don't get stressed out about it."
TIMESTAMPS
04:15 An overview of the different kinds of curriculum: online or computer-based, literature-based (like BookShark), Charlotte Mason style, classical style, unit studies, workbooks, textbook-based, all-in-one program, subscription boxes as supplements, DIY style, eclectic.
13:20 Questions to ask yourself before you buy a curriculum. These are to help you narrow it down to two or three possibilities before you make your final selection.
13:36: Question #1 What homeschool style do you want?
14:39 Why grade levels don't matter much with homeschooling.
15:30 Question #2 How will you be assessing progress?
18:06 Question #3 How involved do you want to be as the parent?
19:54 Question #4 Is it challenging enough for your kids?
21:50 Question #5 Is it enjoyable?
23:14 Question#6 How much money do you want to spend?
24:02 Once your choices are narrowed down, read curriculum reviews online. Cathy Duffy's site is a great resource, and so is YouTube.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:04 Self-care Your Way
- brunch date with girlfriends
- getting hair done with a purple streak
12:08 What We’re Reading
The Last Days of Night by Graham Moore, about the fight between Thomas Edison and Nikola Tesla over the patent for the light bulb.
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Little kids are cute, but they are also a ton of work! And that's why homeschooling tweens and teens (even with all the emotions, insecurities, and headphone isolation) is so rewarding! You get to shift in your role and see them blossom in independence. Parenting and homeschooling gets better every year! Tune in to hear what you have to look forward to in the tween/teen years. If you're already there, you will relate to these common frustrations but also the profound joy of raising teens.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "Just when you think that you have parenting down, which I don't think we ever get there to where we think we have parenting down, but just when you have like a routine down, or phase, then life just comes at you and they grow up. How dare they?"
DeeDee: "Right. You get a good rhythm and routine, and then every year they change, and you have to find the new rhythm."
DeeDee: "In elementary school, it's me teaching them, more hands-on, us learning something together. And now, they can learn stuff on their own."
Ximena: "I've really enjoyed my kids during this phase. I mean, I've enjoyed them in every phase, but I feel like we laugh so much together now."
DeeDee: "I don't think I enjoyed my children as much when they were little. It was so much work all the time."
Ximena: "I think it's really important to stay relatable, and don't act like you never went through that insecurity, or you didn't try to defy your parents or whatever. So, I just really try to remember that when I am talking to them, and it's really, really helped."
DeeDee: "[Teen years are] when, really, the kids need their parents. I think that is one of the biggest benefits of homeschooling, is just being there."
TIMESTAMPS
04:30 The whirlwind of changes when kids hit the tween years: crying, neediness, drama and exaggeration.
06:02 The hygiene issues and (lack of) neatness.
07:18 The insecurities about image.
08:31 Headphone isolation!
09:31 The difficulty of managing screen time.
10:05 And just time management in general.
10:32 When parenting/homeschooling teens, you become more of a coach and let kids become more independent.
12:49 Teens begin to see connections. They can think abstractly, so school gets more interesting.
13:36 Life skills become essential at this stage.
14:54 Let teens have more and more say in their own homeschool experience: courses to take, how to do it, etc.
18:59 Tips for homeschooling middle school and high school.
20:05 Why teens need a little bit of risk or adventure in their lives and how to safely provide that.
21:47 Why teens still need play and creative school activities.
25:04Keeping the lines of communication open!
29:45 Make room for quality time with your teens.
32:17 Allowing our kids to make more decisions, to mess up, to take on more responsibility.
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Most every homeschool parent has considered quitting from time to time. Homeschool is tough, and we have to find ways to stay motivated and keep things fresh for ourselves and for the kids. If the daily grind is getting you down, we want to help you process those feelings and recharge. This episode covers what to do when you are fed up with homeschooling and ready to throw in the towel from frustration.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "...sometimes we're so hard on ourselves as parents and we start condemning ourselves and thinking, 'Oh, I must be a horrible mom.' You start feeling like you are ... the worst parent in the world because you want to quit homeschooling. And that's just not true."
Ximena: "'When you feel like quitting, remember why you started in the first place.' That s super important. Because I feel like if your why is strong enough, you're going to keep going. You're going to keep working. You're going to keep tweaking it. You're going to keep pushing forward."
Ximena: "...it's important to ask yourself, are you trying to recreate traditional school in your home or are you homeschooling your way ...?
TIMESTAMPS
02:48 Falling into a homeschool slump is a normal part of the journey.
05:36 A common trap is getting caught up in the daily grind of homeschooling so that you forget fun and field trips.
06:43 Another pitfall is becoming a hermit and isolating yourself.
08:47 When you let yourself get run down and stressed out, of course homeschooling seems like a heavy burden.
13:15 Five things to ask yourself before you quit homeschooling.
- Why did you start homeschooling?
14:25 2. Are you taking your curriculum too seriously?
15:41 3. Are you in community with others?
17:24 4. Are you seeing growth in your children?
20:24 5. Are you taking care of yourself?
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:08 Self-care Your Way
- playing piano
- cleaning out the closet
11:22 What We’re Reading
- The Great Train Robbery by Michael Crichton
- Atomic Habits by James Clear
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Language arts is a huge chunk of your homeschool education, encompassing reading, literature, writing, vocabulary, spelling and even handwriting or typing. Avoid teaching these skills in isolation. Instead, use the natural approach to language arts by exploring these skills in context of great literature and meaningful writing assignments.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee, about loving to read: "I didn't have librarians, teachers, or parents who were encouraging me and showing me that there was a world of books out there that were all these adventures that [I] could have been going on."
Ximena about raising kids who love great books: "Well now I have a reader snob because my son now is always like, 'But mom, that book was so poorly written.'"
DeeDee about teaching writing: "Give them the freedom to just write an okay paper, and then make it great in editing."
TIMESTAMPS
03:09 Common problems when homeschooling language arts:
- the mechanics of writing (handwriting)
- reluctant readers (03:54)
- writing phobia or writer's block (04:59)
- parent's lack of confidence to teach writing (06:18)
- parent's distaste of reading (08:05)
- cramming it all in (08:41)
Solutions for Language Arts
12:49 Work on fine motor skills by using Handwriting Without Tears, making lazy eights (on paper or in the air), and practicing cutting, tearing, tracing, and folding.
16:04 Emphasize phonics.
18:41 Do a lot of reading aloud. For solo reading, provide great books that are at or just under your child's reading level.
21:58 Write, write, write, write, write. Even if it's free writing or fun writing prompts, write daily.
24:08 Combine different aspects of language arts in assignments so skills are taught in context and not in isolation. For example, pull vocabulary from your readers or read-alouds versus random wordlists. Take writing topics from your history or science lessons.
For the natural approach to language arts, see BookShark Language Arts here. Combine it with BookShark Reading with History for a comprehensive (and pre-planned) approach.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:00 Self-care Your Way
- massage
- organizing the garage
11:44 What We’re Reading
- Chu Ju's House by Gloria Whelan
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Every year needs its own reflection and its own decisions. Whether you are at the start of a new calendar year or a new school year, take stock of your homeschool experience with DeeDee and Ximena as your guides!
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "... when you're feeling stressed out, burnt out, your perspective is off. So maybe things aren't as bad as they feel at the moment. So ... do some self inventory there."
Ximena: "I want to be a lot more intentional about including fun because honestly guys, we learn better when we're playing. We learn better when things are fun and memorable."
TIMESTAMPS
02:53 Ximena and DeeDee rehash the homeschool challenges they faced during 2020.
- making sure teens are equipped with what they need (03:14)
- keeping everyone positive (04:45)
- helping older kids who are in private school (07:07)
10:01 The wins for the year!
- great curriculum choices
- sticking to the schedule/routine
- deepened sense of community
- a really fun co-op and book club
17:33 Questions to ask yourself when evaluating your year:
- Are you seeing growth in your children?
- Are you also growing? (18:37)
- Are you enjoying your curriculum? (19:41)
- Is there anything that needs special attention? (20:39)
- Do you need to say yes/no to certain activities? (21:50)
- How do you feel about another year of homeschooling? (22:25)
- Is homeschooling right for you in this next season? (23:25)
- Are you sticking to your core values? (24:19)
- Are you taking care of yourself? (25:05)
- Are you including enough fun/leisure? (25:55)
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:36 Self-care Your Way
- vacation
- pajama days at home
15:59 What We’re Reading
Perelandra by C.S. Lewis
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Is your kid super smart, intense, and also a bit odd ... like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole? Your child may be gifted— the term defining a person with an IQ of 130 or above. Join guest Jen Vail as she tells her story of homeschooling when public school couldn't meet her son's needs.
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QUOTABLES
Jen: " [Our son's giftedness] did not look at all like the stereotype that people imagine when they hear about gifted kids."
Jen: "People tend to ruffle a bit at the term gifted, because it implies that there's something better or that they have something that another child doesn't. ... These kids do have neurological differences. It is a quantifiable difference. Other parents usually take it as an attack on their own child. And usually the response is, "Every child is gifted." But it's not true. Every child is a gift. Absolutely. And every child has gifts. Yes, 100% do not discount or deny that. But in the neurological term for gifted, which is an IQ of 130 or above, not every child is gifted."
Jen: "IQ is not a measure of what a child knows. It's a measure of how their brain processes information. "
Ximena: "So many parents are scared of the academic part of homeschooling, but really it's the emotional part of homeschooling that is the difficult part."
TIMESTAMPS
02:26 Introducing the guest Jen Vail.
04:06 How Jen discovered her three children are gifted: the problems at school, the intensity.
06:15 When Jen's son's teacher told her he needed to skip first grade.
07:00 After the gifted diagnosis, his sarcasm, intensity, arguing, and not fitting in made sense.
08:18 Sometimes when kids cause problems at school, it's because they are gifted (and thus bored).
09:21 Jen discovers her kindergartener was reading at an 11th grade level.
09:30 The school was unequipped to teach Jen's son. He just sat in the corner with the thickest book he could find and read all day.
11:37 Why the term gifted tends to ruffle feathers and why every child is not gifted.
12:46 The resistance Jen faced when her son was identified as gifted.
13:18 What Jen's principal said to help her understand that homeschooling was the answer.
14:27 The homeschool style that Jen uses with her gifted children: eclectic and unit studies.
16:29 Challenges of homeschooling gifted kids.
17:42 How homeschool groups and co-ops can be hard for gifted kids.
24:21 The key to homeschooling gifted kids is getting out of their way and teaching them how to learn.
25:59 The humbling parts of homeschooling a gifted child who knows more about many topics than you do!
26:41 Combining kids in cooperative unit studies.
28:44 Asynchronous development: a key trait of gifted kids.
32:13 Let gifted kids have more control over their own education.
33:55 Your kids' giftedness is not supposed to be a reflection on you as a parent. It's just a difference that you're supposed to, as a parent, help facilitate.
34:29 Intensity, anxiety, and depression in gifted children.
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When December rolls around, you probably feel like you're ready for a break, but how can you relax when the holidays add a dozen complex projects on your to-do list: shopping, decorating, menu planning, etc.? What's the secret to managing the holidays while homeschooling? DeeDee and Ximena share the tactics that help them truly enjoy family time so these weeks truly can be the "most wonderful time of the year."
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee "And I don't know about everybody else, but I always feel like my time, my day just goes by so fast. Like I get into this mode of working with the kids. And then it's like, 'How is it three o'clock already?' And now we have to go into our afternoon part of the day, the chores and I have vocal students and then I have dinner to make and it just flies by. And then when the holidays come around, it just seems like, I don't know. There's one more thing to do."
Ximena: " ...making family memories is priceless, but running yourself ragged will weaken your immune system."
Ximena, about the 3 Rs: "Let's just do math and then write a good paper, and then let's read a book ... [so] you're getting more meat and less condiments in your homeschool."
Ximena: "...the memories that we will look back on with fondness will not be the desk work. It won't be the math. It won't be all the work that we get done but the field trips and the hands-on activities and these special memories that we intentionally create."
TIMESTAMPS
04:56 When you like everything in your homeschool to be thematic, how can you fit in Christmas topics and activities?
05:18 Around this time of year, it's natural for kids and parents to get a bit distracted and need a break.
06:13 The time pressures of the holidays plus homeschooling. When the holidays are just one more thing to do.
09:38 How listing all your roles can help with time management.
12:24 How to make holidays more enjoyable instead of stressful: Number one is to deliberately lighten the workload (instead of just letting things slide because you didn't have time).
13:33 Focus only on the 3 Rs: reading, writing, and math. Skip science and history during the holidays or combine those with language arts.
14:34 Switch to a 2- or 3-day homeschool week so you have days dedicated to deep cleaning, shopping, planning, crafts, or cooking.
15:23 Cram camps to study intensively on one school subject to get ahead or catch up in a short time.
16:06 Spend the holidays honing life skills: baking making menus, shopping, and budgeting.
17:32 Because the holidays are a time of gift-giving, they can serve as a lesson in personal finance and charitable giving.
21:22 Establishing or continuing family traditions: making s'mores, watching Elf, etc.. They may have to be new for 2020 if your old traditions can't be accomplished.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:05 Self-care Your Way
- planning for a time to plan
- decorating my planner
11:03 What We’re Reading
The Great Train Robbery by Michael Crichton
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Don't let fear keep you from choosing to homeschool. And don't let lack of confidence keep you from trusting your instincts as a parent. Here's how to be a more confident homeschooler, one who isn't afraid to take risks. Remember that no choice is a forever choice. You can always fix it! So don't be afraid to mess things up. You know what's best for your child.
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QUOTABLES
Candice: "If you're going to be the driver of your homeschool, you got to have some confidence about you. Nobody wants to ride around with a person who is terrified behind the wheel."
Candice: "If you choose not to do the [scary] thing, you are the person who will deal with the regret. The person who gave you the advice isn't going to deal with the regret; you're going to deal with the regret. And if you choose to do the thing that you're so nervous about, and it's a wonderful experience, you're the one who will enjoy that victory the most. The fears come from a place of love and not wanting to mess everything up. But a mother who loves her children, who goes to the trouble of researching curriculum and plans out how to spend days learning together... I just can't see that being a failure."
TIMESTAMPS
02:24 Introducing Candice Kelly from Homeschool on the Hill and how she homeschools her way.
03:49 Confidence is critical for your homeschool because you are the driver of your homeschool. And it's scary to ride with a driver who is not confident behind the wheel. Kids can pick up on your fear.
06:07 Challenges of homeschooling in the early years (before you have much confidence).
06:58 How having too many choices in homeschooling can actually make things difficult.
07:25 Consequences of not trusting your intuition. Candice shares how she was too intimidated to homeschool at first.
08:53 The fear of messing up our kids.
09:01 How other people can shake your confidence with what they say. Candice shares the story of a teacher friend who said some scary things that rattled her and swayed her decision.
11:50 When you first start homeschooling, take a detox period to adjust.
12:31 How to handle outside expectations with confidence. Outside standards do have a place in our decision making. But we also have to know when to draw the line.
18:22 How do you go about trusting your own intuition?
19:19 Homeschooling is not a forever decision, you can always put your kid back in school. And the choices you make for your homeschool aren't forever decisions. You can change things. So don't be afraid to try something new.
22:03 Being in tune with your child gives you confidence to trust your instincts regardless of the curriculum or tradition.
22:54 The reason you start homeschooling is the reason you keep homeschooling. List out your pros and cons of homeschooling.
24:26 Make a vision board or mission statement for homeschooling.
25:00 ANTs = Automatic Negative Thinking
25:48 Candice's struggle with anxiety.
28:44 Don't let fear keep you from doing great things.
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We all want our kids to whine less and say thank you more often! The benefits of gratitude are scientifically proven: increased happiness, improved sleep, and boosted self-esteem. DeeDee and Ximena discuss all the clever ways they nudge their children, tweens, and teens towards a greater realization of all they have to be thankful for.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "We always say in our house, 'Exchange a bad attitude for gratitude.' I have it written and on my wall because so many times things spiral out of control in our home. And it's like, 'Okay, let's stop for a second and let's think of some things that we're grateful for.' And sometimes they don't want to do it. But I know that [gratitude] helps me when I start thinking everything is the worst."
TIMESTAMPS
03:06 Gratitude is not just an idea or a feeling but the action of showing appreciation or returning kindness.
03:54 Seven scientifically proven benefits of gratitude.
05:48 A leading gratitude researcher confirms that gratitude effectively reduces depression and increases happiness.
06:38 Gratitude also enhances empathy, which in turn reduces aggression (and maybe passive aggression, too!).
08:04 Grateful people sleep better.
09:04 Gratitude improves confidence and self-esteem. Homeschooled kids are not immune to peer pressure and the comparison trap.
11:47 DeeDee sings a song her kid wrote about gratitude!
15:52 The primary way to teach gratitude is to MODEL it by verbalizing in front of your kids what you're thankful for.
17:01 Make thanksgiving a regular practice: going around the table when everybody says something they're grateful for, keeping a gratitude journal.
18:29 Team work can help us see how we need each other instead of comparing and grumbling.
19:1 Practicing generosity/charity as a family.
21:08 Reading books about different cultures of history, times of war/famine/disaster, etc. to expose kids to the realties of how fortunate they actually are.
22:08 Exposing kids to the realities of budgeting helps them be more grateful about material things. Help kids learn the difference between needs and wants.
25:33 Modeling minimalism and conscious shopping.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:5 Self-care Your Way
- DIY haircuts
- intermittent fasting
24:01 What We’re Reading
- A Cuban Girl's Guide to Tea and Tomorrowby Laura Taylor Namey
- Captive Kingdom by Jennifer Nielsen
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Yes, field trips require time, money, and a dose of planning and patience. But the world is filled with interesting places and people to explore! Field trips model to our kids that learning takes place in the real world and not only from the pages of books.
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QUOTABLES
Laena: "My kids, aren't going to remember the great math lesson I taught. But they will remember talking to the zookeeper for 45 minutes about how a sloth chews."
Ximena: "[On a field trip w]e can let go and just allow the experiences to happen. We may be really depriving our kids [if we don't take field trips]."
TIMESTAMPS
02:42 Introducing the guest, Laena.
05:38 When your homeschooled child says they don't want to homeschool their own kids.
07:04 Why Laena is such a believer in field trips.
08:14 Your kids are going to remember the great experiences you provided them, not your mistakes.
09:23 Making time and energy for field trips comes down to one key question: What is your goal for homeschooling? If it's lifelong learning, then field trips are perfect.
11:40 Misconception: Field trips are too expensive.
12:00 How to deal with field trips that don't correlate thematically with what you're studying.
13:09 Going on field trips with large groups of children.
17:33 Practical tips for including more field trips in your homeschool.
18:53 Share your field trips with grandparents to recruit them as cheerleaders for your homeschool.
19:45 Laena shares about her children's most memorable field trip, which had nothing to do with their homeschool studies.
20:52 Field trips are important for helping kids find their passions, especially for future careers. Even mundane field trips like one to a grocery store can really open their eyes to important life skills.
22:37 Taking field trips as a co-op.
24:04 Resources a parent can use to get the most out of their city's field trip possibilities.
25:27 Reach out to any place you are interested in even if they don't have a formal field trip program established. Many places are willing to host you!
29:03 Laena West's field trip journals can be found on San Diego Coastal Explorers. They are a great follow up for any field trip and provide lots of room for kids to write and draw about their experience.
32:46 The high school field trip journal centers on career exploration.
33:36 One final word of encouragement to homeschool families: "Remember your ultimate goal. Homeschool days are long, but the years do indeed fly by. Fill them with adventure and experiences that will last a lifetime."
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:54 Self-care Your Way
- fall sweaters from a thrift store
- at-home spa day
24:01 What We’re Reading
- Nori Ryan's Song by Patricia Reilly Giff (from BookShark Level H Reading with History)
- The Four Tendencies by Gretchen Rubin
- The Lost Art of Reading Nature's Signs by Tristan Gooley
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When you study a poem, you are learning how to extract information from a different kind of text. Analyzing poetry has so many benefits: not only verbal skills, but also memory, writing, imagination, and vocabulary. All it takes is pleasant exposure to poetry to gain these benefits. Just read, enjoy, recite, and memorize poems to learn language arts the natural way. Get inspired by DeeDee and Ximena as they reveal how they have poetry and tea days to teach poetry in their homeschool.
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QUOTABLES
Paul Howard, the illustrator of Classic Poetry: An Illustrated Collection, says, "The book taught me that poetry is about life and that life is in itself poetry."
Ximena: "I didn't really appreciate poetry as much, even after all those high school poems I needed to analyze, until we started incorporating it in our homeschool."
TIMESTAMPS
03:32 What is poetry analysis?
04:18 How Ximena's high school experience with poetry led her to bring poetry to her homeschool.
04:53 Benefits of analyzing poetry: verbal skills, memory, reading, writing, comprehension. Plus learning new cultures if your poetry is from authors all over the world. Poetry sparks your imagination.
06:13 Teaching poetry is another way to naturally teach language arts so that the skills, vocabulary, etc. seep into your child's use of language without forced worksheets or exercises.
06:50 Poetry is therapeutic to both the writer and the reader. A poem can become an outlet for the emotions and energy inside you.
07:06 DeeDee's son, unprompted by any school assignment, wrote a poem to express his feelings. Ximena says, "And this [poem] is not anything that we could have really taught in a lesson. It's the fruit of just many years of enjoying poetry."
07:32 Analyzing poetry improves critical thinking and creative problem solving. Some poems are easier to analyze than others! For example, The Red Wheelbarrow is just four lines. You read it and wonder, "What is this about?" To understand it takes critical thinking.
08:06 It's fun to reveal the layers of meaning on what seems to be a simple poem. The kids get joy from figuring it out.
08:21 Analyzing poetry teaches empathy. You can delve into social issues, suffering, and oppression through poetry.
09:07 A study of poetry can also cross over into the arts. If they learn how to understand poetry, they will look at work of art with that same mindset of wondering what the artist meant by the painting or what the composer meant to convey. The perspective of digging deeper, looking for symbolism, will apply across the board.
14:53 Practical tips for incorporating tea and poetry into your homeschool.
15:01 Just start! Even if you feel intimidated or unsure, just start reading poetry and memorizing it with your kids.
15:51 You can learn as you go, alongside the kids.
16:26 Study poetry monthly with your co-op or each morning at home.
20:48 How to analyze a poem, for newbies.
26:08 Poetry and tea makes it easy for the entire family to be part.
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Imagine you have a baby or toddler, an elementary aged child, and a teen. That's a family with a large age gap among kids! Our guest Crystal has a family like that. She shares her tips for managing homeschooling a broad mix of ages with a baby in tow. Take a peek into her day with this episode.
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QUOTABLES
Crystal: "Schooling and learning always happens. So cherish your time with your children. Make sure that your kids don't feel neglected. So if you have to do block scheduling to make sure that, to have them feel and know that you are there for them."
Crystal: "And so just trust in what you're doing. I always say, prepare 100%. Do your best 100% and then trust that later on, they'll get what they need as long as you put in your 100%. "
TIMESTAMPS
03:24 Crystal shares her story of choosing to homeschool. She was scared but felt it was the right choice!
04:49 The challenges of homeschooling three children that are very far apart in age.
05:47 How Crystal coached her older children that life would be different with a baby.
06:25 The necessity of being flexible yet having a plan when homeschooling children with a large age gap.
07:46 The logistics of your homeschool area/room.
10:10 Homeschooling is overwhelming! How do I do it? Crystal says that having a baby in the home taught special life lessons that couldn't be learned any other way.
16:34 How Crystal structures her homeschool day.
18:24 What school subjects she can combine students and how Crystal pops from child to child for independent work.
18:55 Read-alouds with an age gap.
19:56 Crystal's time management tips.
21:23 The baby's routine.
22:28 A typical homeschool day in the life with a toddler, an elementary child, and a middle schooler.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:10 Self-care Your Way
- skip the fries and have dessert!
- driving in silence, alone
13:35 What We’re Reading
Shakespeare's Much Ado About Nothing
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A homeschool co-op can provide support and friendships for you and your children. Plus the mix of parents means that you can offset some of your own weaknesses as a teacher with the strengths of others. Ximena and DeeDee met in a homeschool co-op, so of course, they've had a great experience and want you to glean the benefits from them, too.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "If you've homeschooled for more than a year or two years, you realize that it doesn't really get any easier because your kids are always changing."
DeeDee: "Other parents can offer fresh perspective for us and they're not as emotionally tied to our children as we are. So they're able to give us maybe some relief that it's going to be okay."
TIMESTAMPS
04:02 What is a homeschool co-op?
04:46 DeeDee and Ximena started their friendship in a homeschool co-op, so they are biased towards these groups!
06:04 How to get co-op support in the pandemic.
06:49 Members of the co-op can provide curriculum advice and stories.
07:37 Community is self-care! Co-ops provide socialization for the kids and the parents.
08:36 Being part of a co-op can make up for your own weaknesses as a teacher.
09:15 The potential cons of homeschool co-ops.
12:02 While an introvert may cringe at the idea of a co-op, do consider the needs of your children.
15:33 How to choose a co-op that suits you.
17:11 Consider what enrichment you want for your homeschool when choosing a co-op. For example, Ximena doesn't like science experiments, so she loves science camp co-ops.
18:25 Consider your children's personalities. Maybe a smaller or larger co-op would suit you — even teaming up with just one other family.
19:28 Give your co-op time. Be open to new experiences.
20:01 Maybe start your own co-op if you can't find one that suits you well.
20:14 DeeDee and Ximena started a book club for their kids! Then they tried oil paints together. Then they created a YouTube channel together.
22:55 DeeDee and Ximena's tea and poetry co-op meetings.
26:22 DeeDee and Ximena took an amazing co-op trip to Washington D.C.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:09 Self-care Your Way
- lounging outside in a lawn chair (reader submission)
- time alone
- body shaping program
- dandelion tea in the mornings
24:01 What We’re Reading
Oliver Twist by Charles Dickens
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Let's look at the pros and cons of educating through a charter school and a few tips for making the most of the experience should you go that route.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "...even though we are enrolled in a public charter school, we are the homeschool parents. And so we are able to homeschool. We're able to give our children that rich educational experience that we desire for them to have, but still have the benefits of the support."
TIMESTAMPS
03:22 What are charter schools?
04:26 37% of charter schools are on the West coast and the majority of them are in cities rather than rural areas.
05:40 Charter school student demographics.
06:00 Data from Thomas Sowell who wrote Charter Schools and Their Enemies.
09:00 Charter schools have to please the consumer — the parent. That's probably why research shows parents are more satisfied with schools they choose, as far as teachers and academics and discipline are concerned.
10:17 Ximena shares about charter schools in San Diego that run homeschool programs.
15:03 DeeDee shares her experience of homeschooling through a charter school since she started homeschooling in 2010. Her school is Springs Charter School in San Diego, CA. Ximena has been using the same charter since 2014.
16:06 The pros of homeschooling via a charter school: the support and accountability you get through a teacher or educational specialist. The trained professional will walk you through the journey, checking in with you and providing answers to questions. This support may not be welcome by some parents, but if you second-guess yourself, it can be a huge path to long term success to know you have a teacher on your team.
17:35 What kind of support an educational specialist can offer you via a charter school and how that can help you succeed.
19:03 Unschoolers may resist the support of an educational specialist. Other parents may have a personality conflict with their specialist that makes the relationship a burden instead of a benefit.
20:15 Another potential con is having state testing requirements and the need to meet state standards. Again, this depends on your own outlook. But if your relationship with your educational specialist is strong, even this kind of hurdle can easily be overcome. Just communicate your concerns with them.
21:50 While a charter school can provide funds for curriculum, you are limited to approved programs, and they cannot be faith-based. Some parents will appreciate this list of approved curriculum while others may find it restrictive.
22:30 Homeschooling high school presents special challenges when it comes to working with a charter school.
23:46 How the money works for buying your curriculum through a charter. You can purchase school supplies, extracurricular activities, field trips, etc.
25:11 A charter will do your recordkeeping and even organize field trips.
26:17 Charters often provide training and conferences for parents to improve their teaching skills.
26:40 And charters can also provide socialization, getting families together for fun and support.
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Danielle Perrecone-Alomoto is a neurological reorganization consultant from In the Cortex who, in this episode, talks about communicating so that kids will listen and follow directions.
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QUOTABLES
Danielle: "My children are four years old and 16 months and I'm still messing up. And I know this information. So there's a huge element of being human. And it's just learning the awareness and then understanding so we can be more compassionate parents. So the answer to that in short is no, you've never messed up. You're here now. And you're listening to it now. That means that you're just growing from here. And you can always shift this, because the best thing about the brain, it's never too late to go back and reorganize the brain. Or shift how you parent."
TIMESTAMPS
02:30 A disorganized brain can make homeschooling hard. Thankfully, the brain can change! And with simple tools that take advantage of this plasticity, we can help our kids concentrate and learn better in our homeschools.
03:56 Dani explains what she does as a neurological reorganization consultant to diagnose and then help correct a disorganized brain.
04:47 How crawling and listening are related to a disorganized brain. How the cortex compensates but also pays a price.
05:31 What a lack of eye contact can really mean.
06:11 Have we all messed up parenting our babies?
07:20 Body motion can indicate where a brain left off on development.
07:59 Other behaviors that can be affected by a disorganized brain: meltdowns and pushback/fighting, inattentiveness, inability to be still or focus.
09:30 Learning disabilities can overlap with brain disorganization and be helped by brain training.
10:07 How a disorganized brain can affect a parent and make homeschooling incredibly difficult.
15:38 Dani shares simple movements that can help our brain, like creeping and crawling.
16:57 The asymmetrical tonic neck reflex.
18:31 How the brain perceives threats and goes into survival mode.
18:55 How to use unattached, calm questions to prevent triggering a defensive mechanism in your kids when you need them to do something.
20:36 The problem with open-ended questions.
22:03 How to start the homeschool day to set your kids up for success. The power of outlining what the day will hold — front loading the information before kids need it.
24:08 When kids don't listen to (or can't remember) directions.
25:32 How to remain calm as a parent. Take Dani's online quiz at In the Cortex.
27:18 The value of the morning meeting.
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
Distance learning is not easy. There are a ton of headaches to navigate. This podcast is about how to make the most of virtual learning and why you may want to consider a full shift to homeschooling instead.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "So talk about ... frustration! You've got the kids frustrated with their learning environment, with their lack of socialization. The parents [are] frustrated because they see that this is not the best learning experience for their kids. And they're frustrated with the schools and what they're asking. It's a recipe for disaster."
DeeDee: "We always encourage parents [to stick with] reading, writing, and arithmetic. You get those three basic things every day, and your student is going to continue to progress. It removes the fear out of your homeschool."
TIMESTAMPS
03:59 DeeDee and DJ share their experiences with virtual learning.
05:02 Problem #1: Kids feel isolated and some are falling into depression.
06:15 Virtual schooling lends itself to a lack of accountability. Many kids skate by with poor participation in their online lessons.
07:02 Another major problem is the extended hours, sitting in front of a screen to do virtual school, often without snack or activity breaks.
10:33 Families struggling with the switch from virtual public school to homeschooling with K12, a curriculum with a very intensive, heavy workload.
15:18 The importance of frequent check-ins for academics and emotional well-being.
16:57 Using morning huddles and lunch huddles to keep your children on track and create an office vibe at home.
18:27 How reward systems may motivate children.
19:04 Being an advocate for your children. Speak up to your school or teachers when you see virtual learning is not working well for your family. And teach your children to communicate well with their teachers, too.
21:01 Tips for long hours in front of a screen. Prevent eye strain with the 20-20-20 rule: looking out 20 feet away for 20 seconds every 20 minutes. Take outside sun breaks.
23:15 Preparing snacks and beverages ahead of time for quick virtual school breaks.
24:50 Having family celebrations on the weekends when everyone gets away from the computers.
26:49 If you really hate distance learning, consider homeschooling. When you homeschool, you have far more flexibility to set the pace and choose your curriculum.
29:55 Tips for getting started with homeschooling:
- BookShark blog: https://www.bookshark.com/blog
- How to Start Homeschooling (free guide)
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:30 Self-Care Your Way
- have a full-on lazy day with a movie marathon
- a new pillow
- collagen protein
12:55 What We're Reading
- The One and Only Ivan (audiobook)
- Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes (prequel to the Hunger Games series)
- The Scarlet Pimpernel
Thanks to show sponsor BookShark. Request a homeschool curriculum catalog or download samples at bookshark.com.
Homeschooling affects everyone in the family! DeeDee and Ximena share how to make those impacts positive instead of negative. They also encourage you to nurture your relationships beyond your role as a homeschool mom/dad. Don't forget you are a child to your own parents, a friend, and (maybe) a spouse. Those bonds deserve attention, too.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "The high school years go the fastest."
DeeDee: "We give you permission to leave the kitchen dirty every once in a while."
TIMESTAMPS
02:48 How homeschooling puts you in a bubble that may impact your marriage and other relationships.
04:20 When spouses aren't as interested or invested in homeschooling as you are.
05:39 Ximena shares how homeschooling affected her relationship with her parents.
06:39 How homeschooling can create literal chaos (messes) in your home.
08:49 The importance of reserving some energy for your husband/spouse.
09:53 The older your kids get, the more important it is to invest in other relationships because your children won't always be at home with you.
14:50 Keeping homeschool simple so it doesn't take over your life.
16:00 It's important to maintain your friendships and family relationships outside of your role as a homeschool parent/mom. Keep those friendships with other moms who don't homeschool!
17:25 How to keep your spouse/husband involved in the homeschool experience.
19:18 How family dinners and family game nights keep the entire family connected.
22:06 Morning coffee dates are a great way for homeschool parents to connect, especially if they have pre-teens and teens who sleep in.
22:49 Learn to recognize the communication baits that your spouse throws out.
24:14 How to create a peaceful home atmosphere and why that's so important. The magic of a tablecloth!
25:41 Have a clear cut end of your homeschool day and your household day so you can rest and connect with your spouse.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:51 Self-care Your Way
•early morning wake-up
•mindful meals
13:35 What We’re Reading
Much Ado About Nothing by Shakespeare
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Due to the pandemic, many families have experienced schooling at home, distance learning, or online school. Of course, this has been tough and has given some parents the idea that they aren't cut out for homeschooling because they hate it. But schooling at home isn't the same thing as homeschooling. Although both provide more flexibility and require parental involvement, homeschooling is so much better! You can adjust the pace, the volume of assignments, the methods you use, your daily schedule, etc. Kids don't need to ever fail a quiz, a test, or a subject because they can keep trying until they actually master the concept or skill.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "No shame in having time to yourself!"
DeeDee: "Homeschooling is ... hard work. Don't get me wrong. So when we're saying, "You're learning alongside them, and you're right there with them." Yes, that equates to ... a lot of time."
TIMESTAMPS
02:14 Introduction with a quote from a homeschool dad about quarantine schooling.
04:15 School at home = teachers/school provides curriculum, instruction, and feedback. But with homeschooling, the parents choose the curriculum, provide the instruction, and offer grading/feedback.
05:13 DeeDee discusses her son's experience going to public high school.
06:11 Both school at home and homeschooling provide flexibility, including the ability to sleep later in the mornings.
06:11 Both school at home and homeschooling require a lot of parent involvement.
12:28 Why would you want to homeschool (instead of schooling at home)? For one, you don't have to replicate the school environment or experience. You can tailor the education to the child.
13:42 Homeschooling (minus a pandemic) includes a lot of community and outside activities! It's not being home all the time.
14:52 Homeschool perk: You can opt for subjects that schools typically omit or spend little time on:, for example world cultures/history and the arts.
15:25 You can read more books.
16:15 Kids who have a lot of energy and struggle to be still or pay attention in a classroom have more latitude for learning in the way that suits them. You can adjust the curriculum and methods to fit them instead of having to do what a school tells you.
16:45 How Ximena used her son's film-making skills to reinvigorate their history studies.
18:11 With homeschooling, you can be more selective with assignments. There's no need for such a high volume of projects, especially if it's causing stress.
19:33 You can work at your own pace, taking the time to master concepts before moving on.
24:10 There's no need for a homeschooler to ever fail because they can simply retake or redo assignments/tests. The goal isn't good grades but understanding the material.
25:07 When your goal is comprehension, there's little risk of cheating.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:52 Self-care Your Way
- new bedding
- sent my kids off to my sister-in-law's house
10:24 What We’re Reading
- Spark Joy by Marie Kondo
- 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens by Sean Covey
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A big part of homeschooling is figuring out a good schedule for your family. Schedules help you accomplish your long-term goals and provide an anchor that lets you enjoy flexibility. Without a schedule, you can take a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants approach. But when life gets in the way, you may find chaos dictating your journey versus your dictating where you're going.
PRO TIP: Using CRAM CAMPS when you complete 2 weeks of curriculum in 1 week.
PRO TIP: Spotify Playlists for transitions.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "Scheduling ... is what keeps me grounded and helps me stay focused."
Ximena (quoting an unnamed source): "Scheduling is power. It provides you power over your time and attention. Scheduling is not putting restrictions on your time and energy. It is methodically directing that time and energy to your priorities and goals."
DeeDee: "A schedule is not trying to lock you down. It's trying to free you."
DeeDee: "The curriculum doesn't own you."
TIMESTAMPS
02:42 Why is scheduling so important?
03:00 Knowing your personality is helpful when it comes to choosing a schedule. Ximena and DeeDee discuss their Enneagram types and how it impacts their ability to stay on task.
04:10 The advantage of the slow-and-steady approach.
05:20 What is a homeschool schedule: strict itinerary versus a flow of an ideal homeschool day.
05:37 Ximena's friend who homeschools without a schedule at all. (She's 10 weeks behind by summer.)
06:39 Setting long-term goals. How a strong curriculum helps you set and reach goals. Making your own curriculum is time intensive.
07:35 Without a schedule, you can take a fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants approach. But when life gets in the way, you may find chaos dictating your journey versus your dictating where you're going.
07:49 How to tweak a curriculum's schedule to suit you.
08:25 As a homeschooler, it's okay to cut things from the curriculum if you need free time as a family.
08:39 Schedules help you with short term goals — a specific skill or habit you want your child to master (tying shoes, how to clean a bedroom, etc.).
11:00 A schedule prevents the constant nagging of kids asking "What are we doing today/next?"
12:27 Routines help kids with habits and willpower. It's a life skill your kids will use throughout their lives.
16:03 Taking a retreat or having a planning party to focus on scheduling your year.
17:22 How to take a calendar and plan out your schedule, step-by-step.
19:45 Moving from a yearly plan to monthly (or 40-day) plans. Paper planners vs. digital.
21:36 When you do your monthly planning, check your curriculum to see if you are pacing as desired.
22:04 CRAM CAMPS
23:13 Planning your homeschool week, 5 days, 4 days, or even... 3 days!
24:41 Doing some subjects every day and others every other day or weekly.
25:35 Setting daily schedules that work for your preferences.
26:49 Loop scheduling
27:34 Will power
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Enjoying books with your children is much more that just reading aloud to them, although it includes that, too!
QUOTABLES
Ximena: "Audio books are not cheating."
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TIMESTAMPS
02:22 What does it mean to enjoy books together? Read-alouds, audio books, and book club.
02:38 Benefits of enjoying books together.
03:46 Most parents stop enjoying books with their children once they learn how to read. But you can continue to enjoy books past that milestone!
04:16 The benefit of quality time.
04:57 How kids make connections from what you read to real life and you get to see that as a parent. These connections help kids become better thinkers and writers.
05:48 Enjoying books together builds that empathy for different people and different cultures.
06:43 When you read a book aloud, your children can enjoy a book they might not be able to comprehend when reading independently.
07:20The more reading you do, the more literature you expose your children to, the better their grammar and writing skills.
08:23 Ximena admits she wasn't much of a reader as a child. But homeschooling her own children has fostered a love of reading in her adulthood.
09:08 How enjoying books together opens up valuable family discussions, often about difficult topics. Those conversations deepen the parent-child relationship.
10:25 When a book makes you cry, your kids may want to discuss why you're crying. This is a great learning and bonding moment.
15:17 Four ways to make enjoying books part of your homeschool. Ximena likes to read with her kids in the morning. DeeDee prefers after lunch, letting the kids do something with their hands like origami or weaving bracelets.
17:01 How BookShark curriculum helped them enjoy books with their kids.
17:50 DeeDee and Ximena talk about many of the books their families love:
- Ghandi (a biography)
- Elijah of Buxton
- Where the Red Fern Grows
- Number the Stars
19:41 How to start a book club. Ximena and DeeDee tell the story of their friendship beginning with a book club where they read Encyclopedia Brown. How their book club graduated to a thematic book club that ended with watching a movie version of the book.
21:50 Scrapbooking through books.
22:36 Book club with middle schoolers is so great because of the deep conversations you have with your children.
24:35 Tips for finding audio books and when to use them.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:50 Self-care Your Way
- Whole 30 (removing grains, dairy, and sugar from diet)
- a one day retreat at a hotel all by myself
13:31 What We’re Reading
- Harry Potter by JK Rowling
- Catching Fire, the 2nd book in The Hunger Games series
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Is the homeschool parent a special breed, someone with a unique gene that gives them super-human patience and a knack for teaching? Not at all. DeeDee and Ximena don't feel they are especially patient; neither is a professional teacher. Yet they successfully guide their children through the curriculum. Your objections to homeschooling can be overcome. If you want to homeschool (or need to homeschool), you can!
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "When I spend more time with [my daughter], I'm more patient. And when I spend less time with her, I'm more impatient."
DeeDee: "You are the best teacher for your kids because you've been teaching them since day one."
DeeDee: " What they need is not a professional teacher, but a coach and a mentor and a support."
TIMESTAMPS
02:39 Why it bothers DeeDee when so many folks say they aren't cut out for homeschooling.
04:42 Common objection: "I don't have the patience to homeschool my children."
06:16 Common objection: "I'm not a professional teacher."
07:19 Choosing curriculum
09:09 Transitioning from public school to homeschool
09:45 Discipline and what methods to use.
10:40 Common objection: "I can't afford to homeschool."
15:26 The first step in overcoming all the objections to homeschooling is to identify why you want to do it in the first place.
16:29 How to handle lack of patience as a homeschool parent.
16:59 How patience grows as you spend more time with your child and get in tune with him/her.
18:06 Practical ways to prevent losing your patience, such as organization and a routine.
19:17 Torturing yourself with late-night homeschool planning sessions.
19:42 Why you don't need to be a professional teacher to successfully homeschool.
20:38 Why it's okay that you don't know everything. You don't have to! You will learn alongside your kids. And your not knowing things as a parent helps your children become lifelong learners.
23:12 My kids don't listen to me. How can I homeschool?
25:31 Keep going. The first two years are the hardest, but it gets easier!
26:13 How teaching multiple children with the same curriculum can save you money.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:51 Self-care Your Way
- maca root powder
- dry brushing
14:16 What We’re Reading
- the Maze Runner series
- The BFG
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Introverted parents don't choose to homeschool just so they can avoid people altogether. But they do typically find benefits in terms of managing how their energy is spent day-to-day. DJ and her special guest Bethany Ishee of bethanyishee.com discuss the pros and cons of homeschooling as an introvert plus provide tips for getting that elusive downtime that introverts crave. Hear them dish on co-ops, possibly one of the most energy draining aspects of the homeschool life.
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QUOTABLES
Bethany: "...when I have too many demands on my time, it's overwhelming."
DJ: "... our lives can't revolve around our homeschool. It has to be the other way around."
Bethany: "Quarantine's ... shown that. A lot of these things we were just doing to fill our time and make ourselves feel like we were doing something."
TIMESTAMPS
01:43 Bethany introduces herself.
02:27 Bethany tells why she chose to homeschool.
03:38 DJ tells about her choice to homeschool.
05:03 Does being an introvert make homeschooling harder or easier?
06:21 The problem with activities for your kids, including co-ops.
07:37 The definition of introversion. Are introverts shy?
08:56 How growing older allows your core introversion to manifest. And how the misconception of introverts being shy can mask actual introversion.
11:14 The socialization question! How do you socialize your kids when you are an introverted homeschooling mom?
12:31 Pushing yourself as an introvert to do more outside activities for the sake of your children, especially as they grow up and have a greater need for friends.
14:17 DJ explains how homeschool co-op drains her.
18:12 Recognizing your own need for downtime and recovering after outside activities.
20:44 What happens when you organize your entire life around homeschooling (versus organizing your homeschool around life). Dealing with the mom guilt. And a special note for new homeschool moms of young children.
25:26 Why you need an introvert friend who understands the energy demands of homeschooling.
33:20 How Being an Introvert Makes Homeschooling Easier (article by Bethany on the BookShark blog)
34:03 Enjoying being at home as an introvert and the slower pace it affords.
36:11 How to measure the opportunity cost of any outside activity. Ask yourself, "Is this worth our time, our mental effort, and well-being?"
37:26 Figuring the opportunity costs when you have babies and toddlers.
40:15 Accepting your introverted lifestyle and not worrying about what others may say.
42:00 How quarantine has revealed all the extras that were not really providing any benefit to the homeschool experience.
42:10 How fewer activities makes children appreciate them more.
44:18 How being an introvert adult helps you parent an introverted child.
45:14 And how it's harder to parent an extroverted child.
49:07 Bethany's tip for new homeschoolers
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Year-round homeschooling doesn't mean that you do lessons all the time without any breaks. It simply means you spread out your breaks more evenly through the year instead of taking a massive summer break. It also means you can start and stop your school year anytime you like versus mimicking the public school's pattern of starting a new curriculum each August or Sept. Year-round homeschooling is a fantastic way to homeschool your way!
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TIMESTAMPS
04:52 How DJ's husband's irregular work shifts made a traditional schedule difficult.
07:39 Taking the summer off isn't fun for folks who don't like hot weather.
08:46 You can start your school year whenever you want!
09:33 How year-round homeschooling helps when you're dealing with anxiety (as a mom).
10:41 Year-round schooling = grace schooling.
13:00 Year-round schooling and taking long holiday breaks.
14:58 PRO: Avoiding summer slide.
16:58 PRO: Family travel.
18:00 PRO: Working from home.
18:41 Pitfalls of year-round homeschooling.
22:08 How to do it YOUR way!
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:27 Self-care Your Way
Hydration. If you don’t have a strong sense of thirst, you may forget to drink enough water.
24:01 What We’re Reading
An Indigenous People's History of the U.S. by Roxanne Dunbar-Ortiz (adapted for children by Jean Mendoza)
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This episode is all about a trendy new phrase in homeschooling which is really just a rework of circle time. Learn how your homeschool might benefit from the routine of a morning basket — especially if you are teaching more than one child. Find out exactly what it is and how to set one up. Spoiler: It doesn't even have to be in a basket!
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TIMESTAMPS
03:48 Morning baskets aren't only for very young children.
04:54 Your morning basket doesn't have to be a basket it all. It can be a shelf or any container.
05:49 How morning baskets help if you are teaching multiple children at once.
06:48 Why the morning basket usually happens in the morning but doesn't have to.
10:02 How the morning basket time becomes a sweet family moment each day.
17:40 What to put in a morning basket: reading, ritual, recitation, and relationship.
18:28 Reading: chapter books, history, science, etc.
19:00 Ritual: tea and poetry, devotions, yoga, meditation, etc. Recitation: Shakespeare, etc.
19:52 Relationship: talking about current events together, maybe playing a board game—something that gets everybody working together.
20:28 Other topics and resources for your morning basket: foreign language, grammar, religious studies, art and music appreciation, fitness, brainteasers, logic, trivia, word-of-the-say.
23:50 What is a loop schedule and how you can use it for your morning basket.
24:57 DJ takes us on a tour of exactly what's in her own morning basket.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:00 Self-care Your Way
- Take a different route on your next drive.
14:29 What We’re Reading
- A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein
- I Am Malala by Christina Lamb and Malala Yousafzai
- Listening to Crickets: A Story About Rachel Carson by Candice F. Ransom
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Although every homeschool is unique, there are some common frustrations that all families will likely face at one time or another: kids being discouraged about their progress, kids having bad moods, moms getting angry and feeling behind, etc. In this episode you'll find your frustrations aren't unique only to you, and hopefully you'll find some solutions that will make a difference for you.
PRO TIP: Spotify Playlists for signaling transitions.
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QUOTABLES
Ximena: "Isn't that the thing about homeschooling though? It's so much more psychology and emotion than academic."
DeeDee: "Homeschooling is hard, and it really is a journey, and finding the way that you can homeschool that's going to enrich your home is our life-long journey."
TIMESTAMPS
02:29 DeeDee's frustrated that her son says he's bad at math because he's comparing himself to others.
04:26 Ximena is frustrated with the transition from middle school to high school (and using a charter school).
05:08 Because we want our kids to love learning, it's so hard when they get that attitude of just going through the motions to get their assignments done.
05:37 The trouble with online classes.
06:21 How Ximena and DeeDee brainstormed together to come up with frustration busters.
07:53 Why kids' asking questions can be frustrating.
08:54 When kids have bad moods (middle schoolers).
10:08 Trying to get it all done and the stress that produces.
11:20 Lack of motivation (parents and kids).
12:11 When kids aren't understanding something no matter how many times you've explained it.
16:45 The first step in solving common homeschool frustrations is to find the root cause. Sometimes it's an easy fix, and sometimes it's a little more involved and complicated.
17:07 What triggers your bad emotions?
18:58 How a change of environment can really shift the mood.
20:25 Make sure to check in emotionally with your kids.
22:54 How to address lack of motivation.
23:37 Don't take yourself too seriously.
24:00 Set a relaxing environment.
25:05 Find the support of a community.
25:57 When kids don't progress as fast as you'd like (or as they'd like).
29:12 Remember all kids have gaps in their learning. It's okay. Teach them how to learn not everything there is to know.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:50 Self-care Your Way
- Watch a show that makes you laugh.
- Dance workouts.
15:34 What We’re Reading
- John Steinbeck's East of Eden
- The Library of Lost Things by Laura Taylor Namey
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Digging into her experience teaching five children, DJ shares how it's not as hard as you might expect to homeschool a large family. Keys to her sanity and providing a good education for her kids are staying flexible, teaching her kids together instead of separately, and training kids to do some work independently.
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QUOTABLES
DJ: "We can really complicate our homeschools, especially if we're watching other homeschooling families and we want to start doing things they're doing. We can start piling those expectations upon us. And then when we aren't able to adhere to them, we can feel like failures. And so, I want to stress to keep things simple."
TIMESTAMPS
04:29 Because DJ's 5 children are all so close in age, homeschooling them together is not that difficult.
05:22 It's key to choose a curriculum that you can use with a wide range of ages.
07:36 Which subjects you can and can't combine.
08:55 Getting kids to do some school work independently is also key.
11:32 Working one-on-one with younger children while older children are reading or working independently.
19:37 Having children help one another or assist with household tasks and how this isn't shirking responsibility as a parent.
22:48 Keeping things simple is a must for large family homeschooling. Identify what your minimum requirements are for a day of homeschooling.
24:41 How rigid schedules may actually do more harm than good. Routines tend to work better for DJ.
29:06 Sensory bins for toddlers.
30:10 The value of taking kids outdoors.
31:26 What to do on really bad days.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:30 Self-care Your Way
Taking frequent breaks from tech and social media
16:13 What We’re Reading
- The Nancy Drew series
- The Line Between by Tosca Lee
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When you take your child out of public school to educate at home, the adjustment can be really hard both for the child and the homeschool parent. In fact, expect the first two years to be the hardest. But it gets so much easier after that because you've established your own way of doing things and figured out what works.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "I've met a lot of moms who were homeschooled by their moms and they still don't do it exactly the way their moms did it. They're still trying to figure out how to homeschool their way. That's really what it's about. It's about a journey. It's about a process of learning how to homeschool your way."
DeeDee: "You can't isolate yourself from the world and then expect to feel refreshed and have happy kids."
Ximena: "Once you're homeschooling, there's no such thing as school versus parenting. It's all meshed into one messy ball."
TIMESTAMPS
02:07 How Ximena had to make the transition from public school to homeschooling twice.
02:43 Adjusting your own expectations is important.
03:58 Why your homeschool may change year to year.
06:54 Children may push back and fight you. This is normal.
08:15 When children struggle with a particular topic.
08:43 Dealing with reluctant or antagonistic family/friends... and the socialization question.
10:55 The isolation you can feel as a homeschool parent.
15:47 How a why statement helps when you face the disconnect between expectations and reality.
16:56 When you question yourself as a homeschool parent if the kids balk at an assignment. And how this is pretty silly.
18:18 The importance of community.
19:11 Be willing to try new things.
20:01 You may find yourself yelling a lot.
21:15 Why you don't have to please others with your decision to homeschool.
21:45 Time will vindicate your decision.
25:07 Tips for finding community.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:05 Self-care Your Way
- a morning journaling habit
- getting sunshine each day
13:45 What We’re Reading
- Virgil Wander by Leif Enger
- I, Juan de Pareja by Elizabeth Borton de Trevino
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If you want to homeschool but fear you can't because you have anxiety, this podcast is for you. Or if you're already homeschooling and dealing with anxiety, DJ's experience will probably resonate with you and hopefully provide you some peace. Mr. Rogers said anything that's human is mentionable and anything mentionable can be more manageable. When we talk about our feelings, they become less overwhelming, less upsetting, and less scary. So let's talk about homeschooling with anxiety.
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QUOTABLES
DJ: "My cardiologist ... [said] my heart and mind were incredibly connected and that I felt things deeper than a normal person. That's pretty much what a highly sensitive person is. They're just very aware of their emotions to a point that it can sometimes be crippling."
DJ: "Suffering alone is not the way to do this. You're not doing you any justice nor your children. So I want to urge you right now, if any of these things have resonated with you, please talk to your doctor. Please find someone to talk to, do not suffer alone."
TIMESTAMPS
07:00 DJ's anxiety as a child.
08:01 How DJ's children's medical needs started to plant the seed of anxiety.
10:00 DJ's first panic attack as a new mom.
11:52 What DJ's doctor told her about her racing heart, nausea, and difficulty breathing. And how refusing to face the problem made it only worse.
13:54 DJ finds out she has generalized anxiety with a panic disorder.
14:53 How a panic attack exhausts you like you've just run a marathon.
16:05 Why you need to get professional help if you have anxiety.
21:50 When pushing through is a bad idea.
24:15 How it can help to talk to others who suffer from anxiety.
27:19 Because other folks can't always tell you're having a panic attack, you have to ask for help and advocate for yourself.
28:34 Take care of yourself with the things that help defuse a panic attack or help you recover after one.
29:33 When you need a few hours to recover after a panic attack, this isn't a failure.
30:43 How to talk to your kids about your anxiety.
32:47 Know and accept the limits that anxiety create for you.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
01:39 Self-care Your Way
- 4X4X4 breathing
18:47 What We’re Reading
- The Highly Sensitive Person by Elaine N. Aron
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Using literature to teach kids is powerful! Kids can relate to the characters in a biography or a book of historical fiction in a way that never happens by reading a textbook. This connection has so many benefits! First kids retain the information and gain a deep understanding. And kids also gain a sense of compassion for others through great books.
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QUOTABLES
DeeDee: "I remember thinking, 'Books are not good. They're not fun.' It took time to find a book that actually sparked my interest, and when I did, I discovered, 'Wow, I've been missing out!'"
RE: Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Rings DeeDee: "We're over halfway through the book, and I feel like we're 10 minutes into the movie."
TIMESTAMPS
02:38 What is literature-based homeschooling?
02:57 Ximena's experience in high school at an international British school in Mexico City where she was required to read a lot of great books.
04:06 How DeeDee used to think books aren't fun.
05:03 Lit-based learning encourages deep thinking, especially through the great conversations you have with your kids.
06:34 The difference between rushing through a lot of selections and passages vs. taking your time to read entire books.
08:02 Why Ximena and DeeDee love read-alouds.
08:48 Audiobooks aren't cheating.
10:23 How schools have tunnel vision, and homeschooling with literature overcomes that problem.
15:59 Ximena's love of unit studies based on literature.
17:43 Lit-based learning in a homeschool co-op.
19:40 How BookShark's Level F Eastern Hemisphere saved their summer from hours of planning.
24:06 How the book A Long Walk to Water touched DeeDee and Ximena and their children.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
00:36 Self-care Your Way
- Watching The Office
- a fancy nail polish
13:49 What We’re Reading
- Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Rings
- M.O.M.— Master Organizer of Mayhem by Kristi Clover
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In this back-and-forth conversation, DJ, DeeDee, and Ximena tell the stories of how they made the choice to homeschool and how they homeschool their own unique way.
QUOTABLES
DeeDee: And you just can't let homeschool take over your whole life.
Ximena: You can't?
Ximena: "I think it's funny that we all started off almost exactly the same in our journeys with homeschooling and then just completely went the opposite direction."
TIMESTAMPS
09:31 DeeDee's story of choosing to homeschool when her oldest was in kindergarten.
11:14 Ximena's story of deciding to homeschool when her daughter was in 4th grade and had some developmental issues and was facing bullying. How Ximena grew in confidence to meet her daughter's needs.
13:33 DJ's story of being homeschooled herself as a middle schooler and then going back to public school as a high schooler. Bad experiences in high school made her and her husband want to homeschool.
21:22 DeeDee's transformation from a classical approach to a more eclectic and relaxed homeschool where she is free to explore things alongside her childre.
24:53 DJ's horrible experience with trying to replicate school at home that resulted in taking a year off from formal schooling. Instead, she and her (very young) children had fun and played games. Then she tried the classical approach which didn't work either. Finally she found a literature-based approach that allowed her kids to move about and still retain information. But she still uses worksheets!
32:14 Ximena's story of accepting that her kids don't always like the same things she does. She started with a classical model and moved more to a Charlotte Mason-style, and then settled on an eclectic, literature-based way of teaching.
34:48 The joy of seeing connections in everything you learn.
SPECIAL SEGMENTS
02:40 Self-care Your Way
As moms (parents), we are great at selflessly putting everyone else before ourselves. But if we're not taking care of ourselves, what good are we to anyone else? Taking care of yourself is not a luxury only for people who have money or who have too much time on their hands. We all need to put aside our perfectionist and workaholic tendencies to self-care.
In this episode: buying a streaming device, sleeping in later in the morning, making your own shower a mini-spa.
18:04 What We’re Reading
DJ: Being the Bridge by Latasha Morrison
Ximena: The Hunger Games
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