Two | Ten Podcast: Recent Episodes
Dr. Aimy & Dr. Carol
This podcast exists to chronicle the lives and lived experiences of two professional mothers, who were married by 20, had professional careers, earned their Doctorate degrees, and each had 5 kids out of their own wombs! Carol and Aimy have unique experiences in this modern century in that they both still reached their goals and are still dreaming while being relatively young busy moms. Join them on their journey.
Topics discussed during this episode:
We are both Black so we are going to take the approach of speaking from the perspective of Black men and Black women to apply to this episode.
* What is the strong Black woman?
* Who is her strong Black man?
* We both started reading a book that is very familiar: Beyond Mars & Venus, a sequel to Women are from Mars, Men are from Venus. The author says:
+ Gone are the days where women had to be submissive and dependent on men and the man had to carry the burden of providing for his family on his own.
+ What we need to experience in our relationships has changed.
+ We need a new set of skills to deal with new relationships.
+ Men now participate in raising kids, doing house work, and some of the more traditional female roles.
+ Women are working more, sometimes serving as the breadwinner, and also undoubtedly taking on some traditional masculine tendencies.
+ Our happiness should not be based on changing our partner, but rather allowing him or her to be themselves but where is the boundary?
+ Author recommends changing how you feel about certain things so you do not cause so much conflict with your partner. We had to listen and reflect on this a few times. He provides a few steps on how to do this.
- Do not depend on your partner to change.
- Give your partner what they need first so discover what that looks like.
- Ask for more in small increments and reward your partner for what they do.
* Closing Remarks: Strong Black woman, Strong Black man*
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- Key takeaways
- Vulnerability is inevitable and key
- Be a whole person coming into a relationship or friendship
- Marriage is work
- Train people how to treat you
- Grow through your trials, problems, and issues.
- SO MUCH MORE
Links for You:
- Michelle Obama’s Book: The Light We Carry
- Audible: https://www.audible.com/pd/The-Light-We-Carry-Audiobook/B0B77ZQD7M
- YouTube Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JroUC9I8YIs&t=1704s
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Listen as Carol and Aimy dissect a recent interview with Tom Bilyeu of Impact Theory and Ray Dalio, Founder of the world's largest hedge fund, Bridgewater Associates.
Background:
Ray Dalio is the founder of the world’s biggest hedge fund, donated $100 million to the Connecticut state schools to help students graduate well from high school and impact the education system. He is a very wise investor and businessman. In this podcast, Carol and Aimy explore some of the key points Ray and Tom discuss as they dissect the upcoming economic downturn we are expecting and how average, everyday people can thrive during this time and make some choices that allow them to upskill, develop, and grow.Topics discussed:
- Education: Skills versus traditional college and how being a person of color can impact these choices.
- Make your passion your work, know how to work with people who can do better things, what are the right work habits, how can we get things done without us doing them.
- Separate yourself from others by finding out what things in your life are better done by others. If you want your life to be successful, you will not let yourself do certain things because you’re just no good at them.
- In order to grow, you must go through pain, problems, challenges, etc. The two are synonymous.
- You can have a lot more out of life if you know how to get more out of a minute. Effective time management.
- We all have to face our choices daily.
- Struggling well-people don’t think they go together but they do. Go towards the struggle. Have thoughtful disagreements. If you don’t struggle well, you won’t do well.
- Savoring your life: The freedom to do whatever you want to do without obligation. Go towards freedom.
- What you don’t know is greater than what you do know. We must learn a great deal and education and skill acquisition is key in any economic downturn.
- We can’t hide from our mistakes, weakness, and disconcerting things. We must face them head on.
Links for Show Notes on BuzzSprout:
- https://www.principles.com/
- https://www.bridgewater.com/
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Join us in this informative episode featuring a married couple Damon & Tamika Rich as they guide us through their marriage and all of the trials, tribulations, and triumphs they have experienced. In this episode, Damon and Tamika speak to how they accomplished all they have achieved while remaining happily married. This episode provides hope to couples who face similar life challenges and how to overcome them.
Resources:
Find Damon and Tamika using the social media handles below:*Instagram:
@damonrichspeaks
@reaching3ways
@marriagerefresh
@blessedher_life
Twitter:
@damonrichspeaks
Website:
www.rich.associates
www.marriagerefresh.net
www.blessedher.com
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/marriagerefresh
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Join us in this informative episode about triumphing through a journey of a mom with a daughter with special needs and communication challenges. In this episode, Betty speaks to how she helped empower her daughter to not only find her voice but to start her very own business. This episode provides hope to moms who face similar life challenges and how to overcome them.
Resources:
- Autism Speaks: https://www.autismspeaks.org/
- FSU Autism Institute, CARD: https://med.fsu.edu/autisminstitute/fsu-center-autism-and-related-disabilities-card & https://fsucard.com/
- FAMU Small Business Development Center: http://sbdcfamu.org/
- Support Betty and Nijah's Business, OBESSIONS GIFTS: https://www.obsessionsgifts.com/
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Join this episode with co-founder and CEO of Dr. Nettles Beauty, Dr. Dana Nettles. Dr. Dana Nettles is a licensed pharmacist who graduated from The University of Alabama with a degree in Biology, then continued her studies at Samford University’s Mcwhorter College of Pharmacy. She has been practicing pharmacy for over 30 years, and has a passion for holistic medicine and herbal products. She has been natural for over 20 year and works as a consultant specializing in hair and health issues.
Aimy and Carol dive into the natural, holistic healing, and beauty industry with Dr. Nettles. This episode is sure to offer ideas around self-care, healing, and entrepreneurship.
Resources:
Dr. Nettles Beauty: https://drnettlesbeauty.com/
Monthly Apothecary Home Delivery: https://drnettlesbeauty.com/how-it-works/
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Join Carol and Aimy in their interview with Boss Mom, Therapist, Mental Health Professional Kemi Huntley as they discuss the mental health of moms worldwide. This informative episode will help you:
- Learn the signs and symptoms of stress, mental exhaustion, and depressed moods
- Learn about the various ideations that affect womens' mental health
- Hear Kemi discuss the triggers women have on the spectrum of anxiety and depression
- Want to help a friend get mental health support? Do you need help?
- Learn more about how self-care is a necessity.
Listen to this episode!
Resources:
- Kemi's Therapy Business (She's the Best): Huntley Counseling
- Kemi's Business: Self-Care Belle
- Kemi's Website
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Happy Valentine's Day.
Join Aimy and Carol along with their husbands Michael (Mike) and Virgus (Shawn) as we explore love topics such as:
- How they met their spouses;
- What made them fall in love;
- How is was determined that each other was the one;
- How they decided to have 5 kids each; &
- The joys of having a big family.
This episode is followed by a Part 2 that you won't want to miss. This candid set of conversations can help couples to know when love is right for them and how to stay with the one you love for years to come. Enjoy!
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Happy Valentine's Day.
Join Aimy and Carol along with their husbands Michael (Mike) and Virgus (Shawn) as they explore love topics such as:
- Taking a walk down memory lane;
- The joys of marriage;
- Why they love each other; &
- Advice for others as they embark upon marriage or relationships.
This episode is preceded by a Part 1 that you will want to go back and listen to. This candid set of conversations can help couples to recognize the gift of love and how to stay with the one you love for years to come. Enjoy!
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Join Aimy and Carol as they sit down with school principal and mom, Alicia Hash. Alicia offers advice on how to balance life with 3 amazing children, her husband, and their new furry friend. She also offers advice on how to engage in social justice matters with children as well as Covid-19 in such a difficult time. You won't want to miss this informative episode.
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Join Aimy and Carol as they interview a dynamic business owner, mom of 4 amazing children, and wife to Gary--Sherkica Miller-McIntyre. She is quite a spectacular woman who is poised to help women grow in the areas of casting their visions for their lives, entering the realm of homeownership, and financially soaring as they tackle credit, debt, and investments.
In this informative conversation, you will hear from someone who will motivate you to start your own business, get control of your goals, and inspire you to be your best self.
Listen intentionally. Enjoy!
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Join Carol and Aimy as they discuss getting your mindset prepared for the new year. It's not too late to start your journey of planning a great year, full of planning for your goals. Aimy and Carol will also talk about what you can expect from the podcast in 2021. Reviewing where you've been and starting where you are is essential. If you think long, you think wrong. Just get started! Implement what you desire!
Ask yourself these 5 reflection questions:
- Did I start or complete the goals I set for this year (2020)?
- What investments and research did I complete to start my goals?
- Did I select the right mentor or do I need a mentor to guide me through the process of starting my goals?
- Have I created a team to support my goals?
- Do I have the right budget?
Resources:
- Marshawn Evans Daniels Journal: Grab your journal here
- Brene Brown: The Call to Courage
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Have your Christmas celebrations changed this year? Have you run yourself crazy trying to do it all? Listen to this informative episode about how to navigate life during a busy holiday season. Join Aimy and Carol as they have an honest conversation about how getting overwhelmed, worried, and stressed during this season can lead to not actually enjoying what the holiday is all about. This open conversation will bring you some relief as you prepare for the holiday.
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Listen up as the mommas from Two Ten celebrate the Christmas holiday mommy style. Join us as we have a candid conversation about our adventures as we prepare for the holidays. This funny but real dialogue exposes what real moms may go through during the holiday season. Enjoy!
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**Stagnant Goals
It is time to revisit your goals that you set for this year and the 4th quarter and ask yourself the following questions:**
1. Did I start or complete the goals that I set for this year?
2. What investments and research did I complete to start on my goals?
3. Did I select the right mentor or do I need a mentor to guide me through the process of starting my goals?
4. Have I created a team to support my goals?
5. Do I have the right budget to start my goals?
Goal setting process:
- Write down what I want VERY specifically. (Personal, business, campaign, kids, husband, vacations, and fun things)
- Write down a plan to get each item (Baby steps, big steps, etc). Using the Richest Man that Ever Lived in Babylon.
- Schedule time to get each item.
Resources: Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill
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Join Aimy and Carol as they discuss how to raise kids that respect you while providing discipline in a relevant way.
This episode explores consequential, aversive, and creative discipline strategies for kids of all ages. If you're not sure how to discipline your kids or just need a few suggestions to make sure you are not going crazy, listen to this informative episode today!
Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, Power of Love, “Freestyle".
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Join Aimy and Carol as they discuss options for schooling as well as transitioning into virtual learning for the 2020-21 school year.
Due to COVID-19, many parents are faced with the challenge of what schooling options are best for their kids. Once they decide on an option, then comes the daily management of school as well as how to effectively work from home while the kids are there if virtual learning is the option.
Stay tuned for this lively discussion.
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Resources: The CDC, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, has great articles and resources to help you start your healthy eating habits and nutritional lifestyle changes to get you on track with healthy eating:
https://www.cdc.gov/healthyweight/healthy_eating/meals.html
https://www.cdc.gov/nutrition/strategies-guidelines/index.html
4 Food plans featured in this episode include: Pescatarian, Paleo, Vegetarian and Vegan:
- Paleo: This is a food plan that includes: lean meats, fish, fruits, vegetables, nuts and seeds. Basically, it features foods that were hunted and gathered in the past. It excludes foods such as dairy, legumes (peanuts and lentils), refined sugar, potatoes, and processed foods. This meal plan improves weight loss, blood pressure, blood glucose, and lowers triglycerides. Reference: https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/in-depth/paleo-diet/art-20111182
- Vegan: This plan excludes meat, poultry, fish, eggs and dairy products — and foods that contain these products. Vegan sensation Tabitha Brown she has become a famous Vegan advocate and has a beautiful family. She always has words of love and wisdom, recipes, and you can follow her on Facebook, TikTok, Instagram and various social media platforms. She is an awesome wife, mom, and social media influencer.
- Vegetarian: Food plans vary in what foods they include and exclude but for the most part, vegetarians exclude all meat. There are many variations of vegetarianism. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-healthy-eating/in-depth/vegetarian-diet/art-20046446
- Lacto-vegetarian: This plan excludes meat, fish, poultry and eggs, as well as foods that contains them. Dairy products, such as milk, cheese, yogurt and butter, are included.
- Ovo-vegetarian: This plan excludes meat, poultry, seafood and dairy products, but allows eggs.
- Lacto-ovo vegetarian: This plans exclude smeat, fish and poultry, but allows dairy products and eggs.
- Pescatarian plan excludes meat and poultry, dairy, and eggs, but allows fish and other types of seafood.
Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, Power of Love, “Freestyle".
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What's your financial story?
Some Statistics:
- Total consumer debt totaled $4.144 trillion in quarter three of 2019, a 4.7% increase from quarter three of 2018.
- Average consumer debt per capita is approximately $12,687 (total consumer debt as of November 2019/total US population as of January 9, 2020).
- Total revolving consumer debt was $1.083 trillion in November 2019
- Total revolving consumer debt rose 3.8% between quarter three of 2018 and quarter 3 of 2019.
- Average revolving debt per capita is approximately $3,299 (total consumer debt as of November 2019/total US population as of January 9, 2020).
- One in ten adults says they carry a credit card balance over $5,000. [Source: NBC]
- Total non-revolving consumer debt was $3.089 trillion in November 2019.
- Student loans totaled $1.636 trillion in September 2019.
- Auto loans totaled $1.189 trillion in September 2019.
- Average loans per student equal approximately $82,170 (total student loans in September 2019/total students enrolled in public or private universities in 2019)*Resource: https://www.lexingtonlaw.com/blog/loans/consumer-debt-statistics-2019.html
Budget
- Making monthly calendars full of bills and income
- Open up the mail as many people avoid opening up their mail
- Cash envelopes for budgeted amounts
- Every Dollar is a resource (Dave Ramsey/Rachel Cruze
Resources:
-His/Her Money Podcast
-Dave Ramsey, 7 Baby Steps
- Save $1,000
- Debt Snowball, Pay off all consumer debt less the house
- Save 3-6 months of living expenses
- Invest 15% of household income in retirement
- Save for children’s college fund
- Pay off home early
- Build wealth and give
Tips: (Save, Spend, Give, Earn)
- Spend less than you earn
- Have a side hustle
- Delay instant gratification
- Cut bills
- Use a coin jar
- Automatically save from a bank account on payday or weekly
- Side hustles (DoorDash, Uber, Poshmark, PT Job, What gifts do you have)
- Work more hours on your regular job
- Automatically invest each week
- Get kids, nieces and nephews investment accounts for birthdays with $25 in them and add $5 per week or month to them.
Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, Power of Love, “Freestyle".
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Spring/Summer Cleaning During Corona
Why Minimalism?
- Save money
- Declutter
- Minimize time focusing on cleaning
- The main purpose we chose to minimize is to simplify some areas of our lives. There are natural benefits to minimizing, however, that we did not realize we would receive. That’s what makes it a good fit for our large family.
Here are some benefits to minimalism:
- More time together. Due to the small space, there are more opportunities to spend time together.
- Less time spent on cleaning. It used to take us about 3-5 hours to clean one of two levels of our home. Now it takes about 30-45 minutes to clean the entire home.
- Less time spent on looking for things in the home since there is not a lot of space to actually walk around to look for random things.
- You can “see” each other when you’re home because the space is so small. In our other home, all of us went to our own silos.
- Less money spent on utility bills. The power, water, and gas bills have gone down 47% per month.
- Less money spent on the monthly mortgage. This new mortgage is 73% lower than the previous home.
- House projects are simple and easy to complete. We used to start house projects and not be able to complete them in the same day or weekend. Now, we usually finish any project around the house in an hour or so.
As one can tell, there are many benefits to minimizing. For our large family, it not only works, but it frees us up to do so many other things. Financially, we are more freed up to travel, pay off other bills faster, save, and invest more. Physically, we are less tired and more focused on our life’s purpose rather than on things that don’t matter. Mentally, we are more clear and less chaotic. Socially, we enjoy each other and our family more than before. Whatever your choice is on this journey, just try it and see what benefits you can ascertain from minimizing.
Types of Minimalism:
1. The Essentialist: The essentialist ascribes to a philosophy of "fewer, but better." Do fewer things, but do them well. Own fewer things, but choose things that will last. Wear fewer hats, but wear them wholeheartedly. Essentialism is a minimalism that focuses on quality, not quantity.
2. The Experientialist: Instead of embracing materialism, experientialism is about collecting experiences. The experientialist will invest in memories and free up resources for activities instead of things.
3. The Enoughist: Enoughism describes minimalism in terms of having enough, not having it all. The enoughist finds peace in voluntarily using enough--and no more--in any category: food, clothing, home size, storage space, flashing links in your sidebar. Enough looks different from person to person.
4. The Eco-Minimalist: The eco-minimalist pursues a life of less consumption in order to reduce their impact on the Earth. The focus is less on the benefits to the individual household, and more on the bigger environmental picture.
5. The Soul Minimalist: The soul minimalist cherishes stillness of soul, and works to keep mental and spiritual clutter to a minimum. Practices of quiet, mindfulness, stillness, and listening are all important here.
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Self-CareSelf Care is an essential act of loving yourself, we cannot allow ourselves to be too busy or self-sacrificing that we forsake taking care of ourselves.
Mindset: The mind is the gatekeeper of your well-being and it determines whether or not you will start the day with a smile or spew your wrath on everyone in your path (your spouse, children, friends, and family). A mind that lacks focus and peace cannot find rest and restoration. It is difficult to make sound decisions and maintain balance when your mind is in a disarray, trust me I know from my own personal mental stress. I have had my share of anxiety, doubt, and fear that has resulted in disaster. We must protect our minds (our thoughts) through healthy habits.
Questions for the Mind:
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Do you get 8 hours of peaceful sleep at least 5 days out of 7 days a week?
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Do you have positive expectations for the events that will happen during the day, even though you know that it will be a difficult day?
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Do you speak positive statements to those you interact with in your home, on your job, and people you meet throughout the day even though you might be given negative energy from them?
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Do you maintain thoughts of contentment with the life that you have even when you are lacking what you might need?
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Can you see the good in life challenges even when you are feeling defeated?
There are various techniques that you can do to renew and restore your mind:
- Start and end your day with meditation and prayer.
- Reading books or listening to audible books that nourish your mind.
- Soaking in a warm bath.
- Play good music that is uplifting and inspirational.
- Swimming.
- Sunbathing is beneficial for mental health and it helps your body produce vitamin D, so go outside and bask in the sun, play music or be in silence, whatever makes your mind and heart fill with joy.
- Take evening walks.
- Others, explore your city, county, & state.
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Join us as we explore how to have some semblance of work/life balance during the most recent mandates of various Stay at Home orders across the nation.
It's so important to maintain balance for the sake of a mom's mental health. Here are some important stats about moms to bring some perspective to the conversation.
According to the Pew Research Institute:
- 7 out of 10 women who have kids under age 18 work.
- Women are more likely to become moms, 86% in the year 2016.
- In general, women are waiting just a little longer in life to become mothers.
- Mothers are spending more time in the labor force and on child care of their own kids. Additionally, because we are seeing this generation gap, we are also seeing more time spent on arranging care for other adults in a particular family as well.
- We are seeing about 25% of all moms operating as a single mom, that’s 1 in 4.
- About 77% of moms say they feel tremendous pressure to be an involved mom in their kids’ lives.
Tips for maintaining some balance:
- Mandatory family time on a weekly basis
- Date night with my husband, non-traditional dates amid the current stay at home orders
- Regular spa days for relaxation (post Corona)
- Taking more naps
- Setting goals (Daily, weekly, monthly)
- Setting time aside to spend time with the family-either dinner, face time, etc. (Intentional fun time, not just working time)
Setting Goals During Corona:
1. Personal Goal
2. Professional Goal (Business, Work, School)
3. Spiritual/Fun Goal
-Text the goal by 11am to the Family Group Text (1 point)
-Text the accomplishment of the goal by 11:59pm to the Family Group Text (1 point)
-Earn 1 point for each of the above.
-Earn $10 per 5 points earned (Or $.50, $1.00, etc.)
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Cultivating a Life of Gratitude
Today we are going to discuss a great topic on Cultivating a Life of Gratitude
Right now the world is facing a pandemic with the spread of the Coronavirus. This occurrence truly challenges the faith and hope of humanity, but as a human race we have endured many obstacles including the Civil War, World War I and II, Plagues, and the Great Depression. In spite of these oppositions, humanity has always prevailed. Now it is time to do it again and we can start by cultivating a life of gratitude in the face of adversity. This is a life lesson that will stand the test of times and its implementation must begin in the home.
Life has quickly shifted for all of us and opened our eyes to the simple privileges of living our busy lives and agendas from day to day without an interruption. We are in a place of stillness and reflection that is causing us to realize what is truly important and a necessity in our lives. We can take this opportunity to evaluate our lives.
Take advantage of this time to complete a self-evaluation on your career path, relationships, finances, health and dreams. Start by asking yourself a simple question. Am I happy in each area of my life? Write your answer down. If the answer is no, then write a plan of action to change the path that you are on. Do the things you said you were going to do if you had more time to do them. If you are quarantined you have time to learn a new skill set, be silly with your kids, journal, create a business plan to become an entrepreneur. This is a chance of a lifetime to have a new start, a new beginning to live out your purpose, and take advantage of this moment.
We have had a lot of in depth conversations about the pandemic and life lessons. We are truly learning how to have gratitude for the small things we have taken for granted. My boys continue to work out on their own as if a football game will be played any day now. Also, my oldest son said to me please stop cooking so much food.
We are enjoying family movies, my husband teaches his class lessons online for his students and I am still in the workforce as a pharmacist. We are taking precautions to protect ourselves and our patients. Now that I don’t have to chauffeur everyone around to games or practice, I have become fascinated with the stock market. It's quite volatile, but I am learning a lot.
I encourage everyone to turn fear into faith, tragedy to triumph, and grief into gratitude. The faith and hope of humanity is being restored through adversity. We must count our blessings and take advantage of the time we are given to renew and restore our relationships, health, dreams and much more. Make sure you and your family stay safe and informed about the pandemic from reputable sources such as: CDC: Center of Disease Control and Prevention, WHO: World Health Organization, and your local County Health Department
Thank you.
Resources:
World Health Organization: https://www.who.int/
Centers for Disease Control: https://www.cdc.gov/
Want to write a book? Check out this resource:
Madison's World: https://www.madisontheauthor.com/, How to Write Your Book in 90 Days!
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Join Aimy and Carol as they explore date night options and priorities for couples. Whether you are married, single and dating, or trying to think of ways to make your love life a little more spicy, this episode is for you.
Thanks for listening to the Two Ten Podcast where we shine light on topics for busy moms. Be sure to leave a comment about your date night experiences and remember to share this podcast with family and friends. Make sure you follow Two | Ten Podcast on Facebook and Twitter.
Thanks for tuning in and have a great day.
Experiences Shared in the Podcast:
Point of View Villa and Spa: https://www.pointofviewjamaica.com/
Weekend to Remember: https://www.familylife.com/weekend-to-remember/
Super Cheap Dates: https://andthenwesaved.com/cheap-date-ideas/
Date Night Ideas During the Corona Quarantine: https://www.washingtonian.com/2020/03/17/at-home-date-ideas-coronavirus/
Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, Power of Love, “Freestyle".
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Join Aimy and Carol as they talk about how they handle unappreciative children.
This episode will help you discover that moms all over the world experience exactly what you go through: children who may not appreciate what you as their parent have to offer or are trying to do in their lives to help them live successfully. You will gain insights and strategies on how to work with your children on their path towards showing appreciation as well as not feeling guilty along the way.
Brain Based Research Resources:
https://www.jensenlearning.com/what-is-brain-based-research/
https://www.brainfacts.org/thinking-sensing-and-behaving/childhood-and-adolescence/2019/the-teen-brain-in-a-grown-up-world-041919?gclid=CjwKCAjw3-bzBRBhEiwAgnnLCpUFTatAAVdz3l2rkqL5aA5plpTS3iuPOx_bqD_wum0idSkdgs1pTRoCG-gQAvD_BwE&gclid=CjwKCAjw3-bzBRBhEiwAgnnLCpUFTatAAVdz3l2rkqL5aA5plpTS3iuPOx_bqD_wum0idSkdgs1pTRoCG-gQAvD_BwE
https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/brain.html
https://developingchild.harvard.edu/science/key-concepts/brain-architecture/
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Join Aimy and Carol as they talk about their processes for setting goals for the new year. This episode will help you explore your goals from the previous year, set new goals for the current year, and develop a plan of action to achieve all your goals for you and your family.
This episode will be a great experience now that the year has worn off. Aimy and Carol have various strategies to help you set SMART Goals.
SMART Goals Resources:
https://www.smartsheet.com/blog/essential-guide-writing-smart-goals
https://www.divaswithapurpose.com/empowerment-tools/free-smart-goal-resources/
Divas Dream Bigger Workshop: (Save the month's time frame for January 2021) January 2020-https://www.facebook.com/events/738567049998401/
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Today we are going to talk about the ever disappointing term Failure. It can be defined by various definitions for instance: failure is a lack of success, omission of an expectation, or lacking a certain quality. We all have had our share of experiencing failure throughout our lives.
Aimy and Carol dive into failures they have experienced that helped propel them forward.
Redefining failure: An experience or opportunity that teaches us valuable lessons that will prepare us for the success that we are trying to achieve.
When we redefine failure and live by this new definition... we can fail falling forward, meaning we will not allow a failure experience stunt our progress, but we will make choices and take action to move forward because we know that a win is on the way. Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, https://www.amazon.com/Power-Love-Mitchell-Huntley/dp/B07QMG6R6Z
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According to an article in Psychology Today, “Mothers are Drowning in Stress”, sociologist Caitlyn Collins performed a study “Making Motherhood Work: How Women Manage Careers and Caregiving” of working moms in 4 wealthy western countries and she found that the moms from the United States have it the worst in terms of feeling overwhelmed and generally tapped out. So, consistently she found that moms wanted to essentially combine working for paid employment while also being a mom in ways that didn’t distract from either their home or work lives too much. Now that’s the thing, it’s like your work life usually bleeds over into your home life and your home life can seep over into your work life.
You are pulled in many directions and left feeling unaccomplished, but you have to stop and count your small victories.
The four countries studied were East Berlin, Sweden, United States, West Germany, and Italy. In Sweden, she found the highest support for families, equal responsibility in child rearing and breadwinning, the moms still feel pressure of motherhood still but not necessarily overwhelming.
In East Berlin, they have universal employment for both women and men, and the women do not feel conflict so to speak over working. They don’t really focus heavily on a “career”.
While in West Germany and Italy, the article said that these women, with strong histories in maternalism, the women feel that a career can conflict with motherhood so seeking that lifestyle of working is kinda frowned upon.
US moms have it the worst!!!!!! The study found that US moms-
- Have a lack of support
- Crushing guilt
- Work-family conflict (insert story about breast pumping at work)
- The conflicts moms experience are considered “personal problems”
- It’s thought that, according to the study, that “ (13) The cultural ideal of motherhood is an all-absorbing devotion to her children as the source of her life’s meaning, creativity, and fulfillment. Children are seen as fragile and only properly cared for by loving mothers. Fathers can’t help much, because they are thought to lack the right nurturing skills. (14)”
Celebrate the small victories.
References:
Article: Dr. Alison Escalante, Pediatrician and Writer
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/shouldstorm/201903/mothers-are-drowning-in-stress
Collins, Caitlyn. (2019) Making Motherhood Work: How Women Manage Careers and Caregiving, Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press.
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This episode is about having big dreams and plans for your life versus the reality that actually sets in. What do you do? How do you adjust?
Aimy and Carol share their stories about their big dreams and plans and the reality of their lives. Join them as they discuss how no matter where you are in life, you can keep your dreams in view.
Music Credit: Mitchell Huntley, The Power of Love-"Freestyle"
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- Two Ten, The Beginning
- How Aimy and Carol met
- At the live podcast recording for Patrice Washington, Redefining Wealth
- Sat next to one another
- Started talking
- Started sharing stories
- In common
- We got married when we were 19 and 20 years old respectively
- Have 5 kids
- Are both doctors (Pharm. D., Ph.D in Curriculum and Instruction)
- Both been married for 20 plus years
- Both Black females
- Both proud tiger, hovering, helicopter moms
- Both love the honesty of our kids
- WHY Two Ten
- Aimy & Carol reflect
- Show Focus for 2019
- We will explore topics related to being a busy mom
- We will examine Finances, Friendships, Faith
- We will also explore topics such as Self-Care, Nutrition, Failure, Myths about being a mommy.
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