Relationship Realities With Onome: Recent Episodes
Omatsola Onome
This podcast teaches the realities of relationship based on God’s standard in practical ways that will help you navigate your relationship into a sustainable one and a lasting one
Relationships are the greatest gift anyone can have. Even though relationships are meant to be mutual, there are days when we are offended by the other party. When moments like this occur, how do we know whether to extend grace to the person or let go of the relationship? This is the question today's episode answers. Please listen and share with your circle. Also, catch up with the first episode for the full story Thank you!
Relationships are the greatest gift anyone can have. Even though relationships are meant to be mutual, there are days when we are offended by the other party. When moments like this occur, how do we know whether to extend grace to the person or let go of the relationship? This is the question today's episode answers. Please listen and share with your circle. Also, catch up on the second episode for the full story. Thank you!
Abstaining from pre marital sex as two young adults who are in love can be hard but even more difficult if you are in a long term courtship. I and my husband were there. We courted for 5 years and was able to abstain from pre marital sex. In this episode, I shared about the principles we upheld that helped, our trials and temptations and how we overcame. If you desire to stay sexually pure with your partner and never wanted to have sex before marriage then this episode is a must listen to.
As an individual we experience different seasons in life. These seasons has nothing or little to do with our age but with God's dealing with us. How then do you know when you are about to transcend to another season so you can navigate them gracefully. Listen to todays super enlightening episode for your answer and many more. Don't forget to also share the link with your friends and family. Thank you
Waiting season can be a very trying time but with the right understanding and knowledge of how to maximize your waiting season, you can come out victorious and that is God's will for us. In this episode, I spoke extensively on what the waiting season means, the right posture to take to be sustained in your waiting season, stages of the waiting season and how to know when your waiting season is coming to an end. This will really bless you. Do not forget to share with your friends and family. God bless you 🤗🤗
Choosing to love in not so difficult times in itself is difficult how much more in difficult times. In this episode, I spoke about practical steps you can take to be there for those you love in difficult times using my experience when I had to choose to stay and love my partner when he was going through a tough time and also how to know when to stop loving them.
What does being selfless mean to you? How important do you think it is to be selfless to make your relationship thrive? What is selflessness not? Listen to today's episode to find out. I also share a little story as to how being married for 5 months has been for me
Convictions are firmly head belief or opinion. You will all agree with me that at then beginning of the year we all started with some convictions as to what our year is going to look like and the milestones we would have achieved at the end of the year. My question to you now is that how well have you leveraged the power that twins up with your convictions in achieving your desired results. January is gone but we still have a whole 11 months to do all the things we set out this year to do. In this podcast, I shared with you how you can leverage the on the power of convictions and I am sure this will certainly bless you. Happy new year, Family. Thank you for always listening. I celebrate you
God gave me a picture of a pregnant woman in my place of devotion this morning and opened my eyes to a lot of lessons there in whose summary is "Take Charge of Your Destiny"! Listen to find out what the conversation was about and how it speaks to you as well. This podcast is a must listen to to every one pregnant with great destinies to build perseverance, discipline and trust the process.
Relationships are beautiful and we are surrounded with them but it’s important we learn how to intentionally grow our relationships to be able to make the best of them. In this episode, I shared 8 ways you can grow your relationship and 5 points on how to earn your partner’s trust. Thank you for listening
Zig Ziglar says that success is not about the destination but the journey. Your journey is as important as your destination and not the same as your friend. How then do you understand this mystery called journey and how best can we navigate our journey to arrive at our desired destination? Listen to this podcast to get premium answers to all these question.
You can’t keep doing same thing and expect different result says a wise man. This month, you need to really top up your productivity game and in this podcast you will learn how. Dive in right away and do not forget to share. I celebrate you always ❤️❤️
Can two work together except they be agree? Agreement is super important and is foundational for every successful relationship. In this episode, you will learn more about the power of agreement and the seven important agreement you must make with your partner to keep your love burning. Don’t forget to share with your friends. Thank you for always listening.
We all do feel stuck at one point or the other but the things we do, actions we take during this phase of our lives matters a lot. Not just that, there are things we shouldn’t do as well to be able to survive this trying times. We must know them as well. In this podcast, Onome spoke about highly effective and realistic things you should do and things you must not do when you feel stuck for you to get over the feeling of stuckness and make notable progress. Kindly listen and do not forget to share with your circle. Watch out for another episode of your favorite podcast next week Thursday. Thank you ❤️
The decision of a life partner is the next most important decision we must all make after salvation. In this podcast, our guest shared some important lessons and points from her personal life relationship journey on how she met her partner and what are the basis of her conviction. This podcast will really bless you. I can’t wait to hear your testimonies from the podcast. Do not hesitate to share your feedback and lessons from the podcast with me on my social media platforms. I would love to hear from you. Thank you so much for listening
At one point or other we do feel stuck. Sometimes, we know why and sometimes, we actually do not know. In this podcast, I explained what it means to feel stuck and 9 reasons we all feel stuck at one point or the other. Kindly listen and be free to share your feedback with me. I will also love to see you share what blessed you on all social media platforms and tag me (Onome Omatsola) on all platforms. You can also reach out to me on WhatsApp if you have any topic you would love me to address or you have a feedback for me at 09038283615. Thanks so much for always listening.
There is a reason God made you the way you are and what you have been given is connected to what you have been called to do. Your assignment in life is strongly relying on your authenticity for manifestation, so don’t rub yourself of all you can be by discarding YOU! In this episode today, I spoke about personality and the factors that determines your personality and how you can leverage on them to be the man and woman of your dream. Listen and do not forget to share. I am rooting for you always ❤️❤️❤️
The only assurance we have on a brighter future is GROWTH. Growth is super important. A man not growing is a dead man. In this episode, I spoke about how important it is for us to grow and I also share my unique growth plan with you. I am sure you will learn a lot from it. Do not forget to connect on all social media platforms @onome Omatsola. It’s a pleasure serving you 🤗🤗
Life is not always a bed of roses but you can still live a fulfilled life and a life of your dream to it’s fullest potential. I know life can be demanding but yet we can always demand from life what will want. How is this possible? In today’s episode, I discuss extensively three top values they can make us stay sane amidst life challenges and help us achieve our life desires. Kindly listen and share with your circles. You can as well connect with me on Instagram and linkedln @onome omatsola. Thank you for always listening ❤️❤️
What is your understanding of the word attraction in relationship? Do you think attraction is about beauty or there is more to it than beauty? How then can you stay attractive to your partner after so many years of being together? In today’s episode, you will learn about seven ways you can become more attractive to your partner forever. Kindly connect with me on IG at Onome Omatsola and WhatsApp at 09038283615 if you have any relationship related questions you would love me to address. Thank you
We all have have our belief systems that has formed our realities in life. The question is, do you know those belief systems and if yes, how real are they? And what are they based on? Another question to ask yourself is what your perspective to life is. Your perspective to life determines how you live your life and how rich or poor your life is. In today’s episode I discuss extensively how important these questions are and why you should honestly answer them.
We all have different perspectives to love and the way love is communicated to us differs. Nevertheless, I believe somethings are worthy of note when it comes to us having the right perspective of love, how it should be communicated, how we should perceive it and ultimately dictate if we should accept it. In this episode, I shared my personal experiences and God’s teachings to me about love using my love story as a relatable example. I am certain it will bless you. Thank you for always engaging with my content. I am so honored by your love. Do well to drop your thoughts and comments about this episode for me as well. I look forever to hearing from you.
Psychology is the scientific study of mind and behavior. It includes the study of conscious and unconscious phenomena including feelings and thoughts. If you will agree with me, there is a way abusers or batterers think. Abuse is more than an anger issue. It is a mindset and it’s worth examining for abuse victims to see reasons they should leave. In this episode, I spoke extensively about the common traits in all abusers, the components of their thoughts, why they think the way they do, the six abuse cycles and why an abuse victim should leave a relationship. It’s an episode full of light and much wisdom. Do not forget to share with me your feedback and comment and tag me on all of my social media platforms @onome omatsola. Thank you for always listening.
The heart of relationship is the heart of individuals in the relationship. To develop a healthy relationship and keep the heart of your relationship pumping the necessary blood to it’s circulatory system, Onome, in this episode, shared three key points worthy of note and implementation. This podcast will indeed bless you. Don’t forget to tag Onome on all her social media platforms @onome omatsola to share your light bulb moments with her. She will be more than excited to hear from you. Thank you for always listening.
It has been an amazing year so far. 2021 undoubtedly is a very beautiful year for RNWO. I am so grateful to God for this global platform that He’s committed into my hands as a kingdom tool in preparing young minds for the God kind of relationship. I am also grateful to God for the wisdom poured out on me to record over 50 super enlightening episodes on relationship related topics. Lastly, I am grateful for my listeners. You are such a great motivation to me. In this episode, I spoke about my plans for the podcast next year and how I intend to serve you better and I also shared my final words on how you can gracefully end this year with your partner on a lovely note. You don’t want to miss this episode. Thank you tor sticking through with me this year. Let’s do much more next year!! I love you so much ❤️❤️
Offenses are bound to happen in a relationship but the way we deal with them is what makes the difference. Forgiveness is a very important virtue we must possess but trust me, it can be so difficult. In today’s episode of this ever enlightening podcast, ONOME shared six powerful forgiveness codesthat will help strengthen your forgiveness game in your relationship. This episode is so enlightening and starting from today, forgiving your partner won’t be a difficult thing for you anymore. Thank you for always listening.
We all have different people doing this love thing called relationship but what makes the difference between them is what they know and how they put to work the things they know. Do you desire a beautiful relationship with your partner? If yes, then this podcast is an answer to your prayer. Learn from this episode the seven powerful habits of power couples and see them make huge difference in your relationship.
Intimacy and agreement are necessities in building a sustainable relationship, but the question is how do we build intimacy and come to agree with our partner on important topics for discussion? Listen to this enlightening session on the intimacy and agreement code in relationship with Onome and have her do justice to this question.
You are different!! You are unique!! You are spectacular!! You are unusual!! And guess what? You are perfect and good enough the way you are to build an unusual relationship with your partner. By unusual, I mean a relationship so beautiful that humanly speaking, it's unbelievable. How then can these things be ?? 😄😄😄 Listen to this very insightful podcast where Onome shared three powerful points on how to build an unusual relationship with your partner. Thank you for always listening ❤️😘❤️
So, there is this guy or babe that you have always loved even when you were just friends. I mean, you really believe you love him or her. Fortunately for you, the guy asked you out in relationship and because of how you have always felt, you said yes. It's been months now that you have been together, but to your greatest surprise your love for him or her keeps deteriorating. It was totally the opposite of what you ever expected. The question now is, what went wrong?? In today's episode of this podcast, Onome spoke about 11 possible reasons why people tend to talk out of love and I bet you will find them so helpful as well. What are you still waiting for?? 😄😄 It's time to dive in already. Listen attentively and pick out the points that resonated with you strongly and improve on them. Thank you for always listening ❤️❤️
We have all made some decisions in life at one point or the other that we shouldn't have made. To some, they were taken advantage of out of their ignorance and till now they find it difficult to forget about the whole thing. To some, it created a traumatic experience that hasn't leave them ever since. So, whenever they remember the situation, it's as though they are just experiencing the whole thing over again. I understand this can be so tormenting, the same way I do understand that this can actually be stopping them or restricting them from living their lives to the fullest. And that is why Onome has put together in today's episode of this podcast four powerful tips to dealing with your past hurts and moving on. You should dive in already and welcome to your freedom journey !!
Happiness is a choice and we all can choose to be happy in our relationship. It's also important we know that we do not just choose to be happy by mouth. We back it up with actions. In this episode, Onome discussed extensively six propellers of happiness that you can start running with in your relationship to give you the happiness you deserve and you have chosen. What are the propellers? How can they give you the results you desire to see in your relationship? Kindly listen to today's episode to get the answers to your questions. You will surely be happy you did.
We all do have expectations of what we want from our partner or what we desire for our relationships. Most times, we are afraid of communicating our expectations with our partner because we don't want to be perceived wrongly, judged or misinterpreted, and all these are as a result of we not putting some important things into consideration. What do we need to consider before making our expectations known? How best can we go about communicating our expectations with our partner? At what stage of our relationship should we discuss our expectations with our partner? What should we do if after discussing our expectations they are still not met? All these questions and more were properly addressed in this episode of today's podcast by our intelligent host, Onome Omatsola. You do not want to miss this episode for anything!! Thank you for always listening. Feedback and comments are highly welcomed as well ❣️❣️
Emotions are so fickle and fizzles out quickly. Building a long lasting relationship takes more than emotion. It takes intentionality, hard work, and dedication. It's normal you started out with your partner with an emotional love, but it's important you move to the intentional love for your relationship to stand the test of time. How then do you know if you are building your relationship emotionally or intentionally? Also, how can you develop your love from the emotional stage to the intentional stage? All these questions were properly and excellently answered by Onome as an experienced relationship coach that she is. If you have any questions around relationship, kindly send her a mail @onomeomatsola@gmail.com or send her a DM on her Whatsapp line 09038283615. Enjoy the episode and thank you for listening. 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Fears are real and the causes are more real, but they can be overcome. A lot of ladies are scared of saying yes to the guy they would really love to spend the rest of their lives with because of fear of uncertainty about so many things about the future of their partner or their future together. What are the possible reasons for these uncertainties and why are they strong enough to develop into fears? How can you get to the root cause of these uncertainties and overcome the fears that they produced? Listen to today's edition of this podcast to get your answers. Thank you for always listening.
Being a macho man is not necessarily about six packs and muscles, it's the side of your lover that tend to be domineering and behaves as a bravado. In this podcast, the focus was more on the bravado aspect. You know, guys tend to appear so brave and courageous that they portray themselves to us as someone who doesn't have emotions, or someone who doesn't have a need to be met. It's a lie ooooo. Men have emotions too. They have needs too and they desire to be attended to. How then as a lady can you handle this side of your partner to make your relationship better? This was brilliantly address in this episode of this ever enlightening podcast. You should really listen to it. If you have any questions, topics you would love Onome to address on relationship, comments and feedback, you can send them to Onome via her WhatsApp space on 09038283615. Thank you for always listening ❤️❤️
Public Display of Affection in relationship, popularly known as PDA has become a major issue in love relationship in this our generation. I bet it's because we are in the technology era. The question now is, is PDA in relationship good or bad? Should it be practiced or should it not? If yes, how far should we go with our display of affection towards our partner publicly in our relationship? All these questions were excellently answered by Onome in this episode. You should really listen to it. You can as well write to Onome on your view or perspective on PDA on relationship. Is there something else you would love to add to what she said? Do you completely agree with all she said? You can send a DM to her on WhatsApp (09038283615) Thank you for always listening.
There are things I wish I was told when I was still not in a relationship so I would have prepared adequately against them before I started out with my partner. I spent the first few months learning them, and even till now, I am still learning some of them. In today's podcast, Onome shared with us the things she learnt during her relationship journey, which she believed anyone who is planning to go in a relationship should know beforehand, and also those who are in a relationship but who are ignorant of them should pay attention to them. What are they? Kindly listen to today's podcast to get answer to your question. Thank you for always listening.
Ones family is an integral part of our lives that we can't do without. Having issues in relationship in respect to one's family require special attention if you will agree with me. On today's episode of this enlightening podcast, Onome shared some principles that has worked for her when she had family related issues in her relationship. The principles are so divine and believed to work for anyone who is in that phase of life. Are you in this phase of life or you know anyone going through it? If yes, then this episode is a must listen to for them. If no, it's still a must listen to. As we all know that, no knowledge is a waste. Thank you for always listening. You can follow me on my social media handles @onome_omatsola on all platforms for more relationship tips.
Emotions are meant to be feel in a relationship. Yes, it's normal you feel happy, angry, hurt and even jealous. But how you handle this emotion really matters a lot. On today's episode of this beautiful podcast, Onome spoke about how to deal with your emotions without allowing it take you over in making irrational decisions in your relationship. This podcast like every other one is so filled with so much wisdom. Enjoy yourself listening to it.
In this episode, Onome spoke about the possible reasons a guy or a lady will reject your relationship proposal and also went ahead to discuss the practical tips on how you can handle relationship rejection. Some of the major points discussed is the time factor as a possible reason for a relationship rejection. By time factor, what does she mean? Also, what are the other factors that was discussed? Your answers are waiting for you in today's episode of this beautiful podcast. Kindly listen and share with your tribe. Thank you for your support so far ❤️💗💗💗💗💗 We are grateful
Sexual desire is a natural feeling for every adult and even teenager that has attained puberty, and it's not a sin actually, but not knowing how to curb or manage it is what is dangerous because it can lead to you practicing sexual impurity. What is sexual desire or being horny all about? What are the practical steps to being holy while being horny? How can partners in relationship curb their sexual desires not to fall into sexual impurities? Dive into today's episode of this podcast to get the answers you have been searching for. Thank you for always listening and do not forget to share with your friends.
Communication, like I have always said, is the bedrock of relationship. Having open discussions with your partner means you can discuss with him/her your fears, worries, questions and doubts about your relationship without appearing desperate. What are open discussions? Why should you have them in your relationship? Kindly listen to today's episode to get the answers to these questions.
There are quite number of lies we have believed over time all in the name of love. Are those lies worth believing? Can they still be curbed ?? To what extent should you go believing them? Should you even believe them at all? After all they are lies. What should you do when you find yourself so helpless in this situations and you need help? All these questions were properly answered in this episode. What are you still waiting for? Dive in already🤗🤗 but do not forget your journal and your pen, as well as your cup of ☕
There are quite number of things that has happened in our relationship that we do not pay attention to as we ought to. Also,there are some things we should discuss during courtship period. They are like a prerequisite to the marital life. All these are what we call relationship milestones. What are relationship milestones? What are the relationship milestones worth celebrating in our relationships? What are the traditional milestones worth discussing during courtship? Should you have a timeline in mind for each milestone? All three questions were properly answered by Onome in this very enlightening episode of this podcast. You want to dive in already, but don't do that without your pen and your journal as well as a cup of ☕.
Relationship like I have always said requires a lot of commitment from both parties to work. In this episode, three hot topics that are better discussed by every partners before the exchange of vows were highlighted and practically explained by the host. This episode is the bomb and a must listen to by everyone in a relationship. Are you ready?? If yes, dive in already!! Deep insights sure await you. Do not forget to share with your friends, families and enemies 😄😄😄
It's one thing to be existing and it's another to be living. It's one thing to be in your waiting period and it's another to be living while in your waiting period. In this episode, Onome spoke about the differences between merely existing and living, and she also shed light on what it means to be truly living while you are in your waiting period as a single.
In this beautiful episode, Onome spoke about what it means for your partner to be your helper and you to be your partner's helper by defining the word helper in God's view, identifying there key things to note about your partner as your helper, and lastly, reasons why she is so certain about the fact that your partner is your helper. I really can't wait for you to dive in already. There is so much wisdom locked up in there all for you !!! Enjoy the ride 🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
In this wisdom filled epidpde, Onome discussed extensively the practical and effective steps to take if you realised that your partner is yet to catch God's vision for you and you are being affected by it.
Conflict is inevitable in every relationship, but the main issue is not the conflict itself, but how to manage the conflict. So, how do we manage conflict and anger? In this podcast, Onome answered this question excellently by sharing practical tips to handle conflict and anger in your relationship. So, kindly grab your cup of coffee, your pen and your journal and let's go!!! If you find this so helpful, which I know you would, kindly do well to share with your family, friends and your enemy 😄😄😄
In this episode, Onome spoke about what it means to agree on your priorities as partners in relationship as the second challenges partners in love are facing, since we all have different personalities, longing, aspiration, vision and purpose. To elaborate more on this, she spoke about four different areas of our lives that get affected when we try to agree on our priorities as partners. What are these areas? And how can we successfully agree on our priorities as partners? Kindly listen to find out.
Relationship as an adventure is all about the opportunities and challenges relationship provides us with, and this episode spoke extensively about one of the major challenges most relationships are going through today and how to overcome it, which is the challenges of building a strong communication skills in a relationship. This episode is a must listen to by everyone !!!!
This episode answers the question of how important attraction is in a relationship and the right perception of what attraction is and what it should be all about in a relationship. It's a must listen to, to everyone who desire an answer to any of these attraction related question in his or her relationship
In this episode, I spoke about ways at which you can navigate your relationships with people without no one feeling unwanted, undeserving and unworthy. You should listen to this !! 🤗🤗
Age some people say is just a number, while to some, it's a big deal. Whichever way, is age meant to be a major determinant as to who you should spend the rest of your life with? This podcast speaks extensively about my own view about it and what I believe is right.
This episode spoke explicitly about how we can patiently wait for the manifestation of God's vision of our partner. It's a must listen to for everyone!!
In this episode of this beautiful podcast,you will learn how to balance your relationship with other areas of your life with practical and customised tips!! Are you ready??? If yes, kindly dive in and enjoy 🥰🥰🥰🥰
This episode speaks about the simple but very important habits we should inculcate to show we honor our partner.
Agape love is where every other love emanates from. This episode discuss extensively how we have the nature of God in us and how we can express His kind of love that has been shed abroad in our hearts in our relationship.
This episode describes how our relationship is a work of art and how that we are the artists that will creatively create our dream relationship with care and beauty. Three significant points were highlighted as tips on how to create your relationship with care and beauty. This episode is sure a must listen to !!!
This episode talks extensively about how to handle a partner whose best friend is the opposite sex. Here, I talked about seven tips you should consider if you are in a close relationship with the opposite sex as a best friend and you are also in a romantic relationship with your partner. This episode is really an eye opening !!!
Today, I spoke about indicators to look out for to know if you and your partner are ready for marriage. I also spoke about the advantages and disadvantages of both a short term courtship and long term courtship. What works for one relationship might not work for the other, just know what works for you
This episode enlightens on things to discuss with your partner as far as money is concerned in your relationship. This podcast is liberating and it is an eye opener for everyone who seeks to have a good financial life even in their relationship and marriage .
In this episode, possible money issues were discussed extensively and how to handle them.
In this episode, the indicators or signals of a toxic relationship were treated, because it has been discovered that most people are in a toxic relationship without even knowing that's what they are in. So, this episode helped address that, and it also help addressed how people can pull out of a toxic relationship with the consciousness that they deserve a better partner !! It's a must listen to for everyone
In this podcast, I discussed extensively the causes and indicators of a toxic relationship and also what people experiencing a toxic relationship no should do
In this episode, I had my fiance sit on a hot seat and asked him some deep questions that gave insight to some important areas in a relationship. It was such an exciting and enlightening session I feel it shouldn't end💃💃
This episode talks extensively about what sexual purity, differences between sexual purity and virginity, practical steps to take in living a life of sexual purity both in relationship and in marriage and also advise those who has been sexually abused( Sexual Abuse Successors)
In this episode, I express my gratitude to my listeners about how memorable they made my 2020 and I also made some admonishments about how they can plan towards achieving our goals for 2021
This episode discussed in detail the three important things you must discuss with your partner in a relationship leading to marriage. They are truly a must discussed topics!!!
In this episode, I discussed extensively the things you should note to be certain and rest assure that you are convinced about your choice of partner
This episode discusses extensively how you can know God's will for you concerning relationship/marriage. What the will of God is and indications to knowing God's will for you.
In this podcast, it was discussed extensively how you can protect your relationship against external interference or party that is unhealthy to your relationship by setting the necessary boundaries.
In this podcast, I discuss extensively what walls are, their disadvantages in relationship and how you can recognize the walls in your relationship.
This episode gives a vivid and relatable enlightenment about how to handle differences in relationship
This episode talks about the interference of cultural conditioning in one's relationship and how to deal with it.
This relationship discuss extensively how you can take your stand in your relationship while maintaining the relationship.
This episode speaks about the myths of relationship that we should discard to have a successful and healthy relationship with our partners
This episode is dedicated to make some powerful declarations over Nigeria trusting God for divine intervention as regards the present situation of the country
This episode is dedicated to make powerful declarations over Nigeria trusting God for His divine intervention.
This episode describes extensively how relationship created humanity and brings to you the awareness of what to create for yourself, your family, friends, community, country.
This episode talk extensively about what It means when someone say he/she loves you and when God says He loves you.
This episode discuss extensively how you can manage your long distance relationship without the wrong notion that distance is a barrier.
This podcast discuss extensively things to take note of to build a relationship with the people around you . It is super enlightening !!
This episode discussed extensively how important it is to build a relationship with yourself and most importantly, how to build relationship with yourself.
This nugget enlightens about what it means to have a relationship with God and how you can build a substantial relationship with God
This episode speaks about what relationship is and who you should have relationship with
This podcast is to enlighten you more about relationship and address issues affecting you about relationship