Our Roaring 20’s: Recent Episodes
Temi
When I began my journey into the world of makeup, I blind bought so many products I honestly didn’t need. This is why this episode has been created; you don’t have to make similar mistakes I did. Make sure you take notes of the things you’ll need as a beginner.
The importance of having a signature scent is it gives character to your personality. You don’t have to break the bank to do this because there’s a product for any budget. Find your added scent in perfume bottles that go excellently well with your authenticity. Here’s the Nigerian skincare brand I use: @decorusdeaskin on Instagram.
A walking red flag is a man who is upset that you want a generous man as a companion in a relationship. You must have the ability to decenter men in order to make the decisions that are best for you. Life is too beautiful to waste your years in fear and not living to see how beautiful it gets for you.
Nothing kills potential faster than doing drugs! It’s a false euphoric feeling and you deserve better than falsifying your life.
Let’s talk ways to improve your feminine like managing your emotions with self awareness and other interesting areas of our lives as women.
Refrain from the idea that you would quit your job after finding a wealthy and successful provider who supports you financially. It’ll be a decision filled with regret. Except he gives you a reason to quit like pays all your bills, and gives you a lump sum of money in addition to a monthly allowance, DO NOT QUIT YOUR JOB. Even if he does the things mentioned above, still keep your job or find another way to make or earn more money like start a business or invest in something. Human beings will change their minds about you whether or not you treat them well but you see money? Money loves whoever love it and treats well whoever treats it well. That’s why you should always make sure you ask him for money when you want and need it. You’re welcome.
Your self worth is not dependent on a man. Decenter men by prioritizing yourself. This heavily includes loving your body. You can change anything about yourself as it pleases you, if you can afford it. Your body is a sacred place, treat it as such by loving it first because this teaches others how to treat it. Remember, a generous man who willingly shares his resources with you is who you want.
Taking precautions in our lives is so important and cannot be ignored nor talked about enough. Anyone who says they want to be with you but cannot provide and protect you isn’t someone you should be with. So, have standards and stop putting yourself in harm’s way.
Get busy. Learn a skill, handwork, hobby or something. Do something asides being at his every beck and call. Okay dress up if you must!
Do not allow people who probably have severe problems stop you from living your best life.
Don’t be too shy or ashamed to ask for what you want. If he doesn’t give it to you, someone else will. Don’t ask him for the things you know he doesn’t have to give.
Matthew 18:19. Let people do what works best and is equally beneficial in their relationships.
What would you do if your children told you something personal about themselves? Here’s what I’ll do…
Hi! It’s another episode I’m super excited to bring to you. I hope you enjoy listening.
Hi! Welcome again! I got a piercing I absolutely loved for 3 weeks and got bored of right after. This is in no way shade to anyone with nose or any other type of piercings. I just didn’t like the way mine looked because it didn’t fit my facial features and face structure. However, it was good entertainment for myself and I loved the journey and experience for as long as it lasted. Xoxoxo
I hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as I painfully enjoyed recording it. xoxo
It’s giving toxic ex at this point but you’ll still respond to my “Hey big head” text lol. I’m here with that painful yet very exciting twenty something experience and boy! do we love a good “young and dumb” story line; except, “we know exactly what we’re doing” like Taylor Swift said. So, enjoy this “nu nu” I’ve put together for you after so long! Love you long time guys. Xoxoxo
It may be true that watermelon and milk gets you a vagina ready for sexual activity but the articles I’ve read so far beg to differ. However, there are other safer and healthier ways to get a healthy vagina. Badu Pussy if you will.
Bad behavior should not be encouraged, neither should self righteousness. Also, remember you cannot force love. It will come for you in it’s time 💕
A lot of us try to fix things that we know we’ll never be able to in a million years to come. But we keep trying. Stop doing that. You are valued and you need to recognize you.
You have so much to leave for. Don’t waste your time with discontent. I really hope you enjoy this episode
It was giving too much happening in such little time. I hope you enjoy listening to this episode!
Love doesn’t make you give the things you’d normally give with ease to your lover. Love will make you sacrifice the things you used to be unable to give just because you’re in love. Let’s all fall in love and be loved in turn. Be truly loved.
Pretend it’s an ASMR audio too 😂 Listen to me discuss my thoughts while I get ready for work! It’s fun 🤩
There are back up plans that exist only for emergencies. In order not to have any emergencies, we must be extra cautious when we make decisions and take risks. I hope you enjoy this episode. Disclaimer: This is my opinion on the matter. No one should agree with it if it doesn’t sit well with him/her.
Season finale!!! Thank you for sticking around thus far! I’m so happy to make episodes you enjoy. Now, we wait in Season 4
“WHERE IS YOUR WRAPPER?” is the title of a book, written by Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi. If anything, I have learnt that it is not just enough to call myself a woman but to also make sure other women are safe and protected by one another whenever we bring out our wrappers. I hope you enjoy this episode and learn, just as I have learnt.
I have questioned my existence more times than I have blinked so far. Here’s a few of the questions I’ve asked myself
Ambiguous words make whatever you’re saying sound more “intelligent” lol. I really hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it. Thank you for your continuous support. P.S, I meant practically applicable and not theoretically applicable
Hi! I really hope you enjoy listening to this episode as much as I enjoyed recording it. Thank you for your support!
Happy Independence Day Nigeria 🇳🇬! Out of the benevolence of my heart, I’m here to speak awareness in case we have all forgotten why cheating should not be condoned and should be one of your top 3 deal breakers in your relationships. Thank you for supporting the content I put out!
Hello friends! This episode is my favorite one so far. Nothing lasts forever. So, if you’ve waited this long, I think you can wait some more 🧘🏾♀️
Hello there. It’s been a while since we talked. I’d like to encourage you today ❤️🧘🏾♀️
Just a short reminder that this podcast is going nowhere but forward! Just like you and I
Hi guys! I’m not in the mood to write a description so please listen to what I have to say. It’ll probably be worth your time, can’t promise you anything lol. Let me know what you think.
It’s such a wonderful and simple poetry I wrote. It’s special and perfect to me, that’s why I thought to share. I really hope you enjoy listening.
“The forbiddenness of a fruit makes even the taste of lemon sweet” ~ Excerpt from Unknown Literature
I’m still learning so much about myself and it’s very enlightening. Self discovery is an act of love towards yourself. I really hope you enjoy this episode 💕
I’m trying really hard to not despise the days of little beginnings with that background noise but there’s little to nothing I can do about it and this episode must be uploaded. A for determinAtion 😂✨ Thank you for your patience. I really do genuinely appreciate it.
I absolutely would never tell anyone what to do with themselves but let’s really think about it. Is this what you really and truly want? Or Is it what you think someone else would love?
Hi everyone! If you ever have to prove a point to anyone by being toxic, remember you deserve peace of mind instead.
Nothing serious! Just me “and Dupree” lol 😂 I just had to do it! Yeah...just me giving you nothing but premium gist about my new life in veggies. It’s been good so far and I’m beyond impressed. So relax and listen to the gist you beautiful soul!
Hi friend! For some reason, Hey There Delilah by Plain White T’s played in my head and I wondered why but if you heard the song before listening to this episode, this one’s for you then. Let’s virtually hold hands and embrace change as it comes. Thank you so much for taking time out to listen to this podcast. I’m always so grateful ♥️✨
Nothing like dinner, wine and good advice. That’s definitely fine dining 😉 I really hope you continue to choose yourself...
Welcome to Our Roaring 20’s podcast! Even if you’re in your 90’s, you’ll forever be a part of “Our”. Youth at heart? Youth forever! Same discussions, same energy. Thank you for being a part of this journey
We all think we’re living a perfectly normal life until we change environments or get triggered by something we thought was dead and buried forever. Trauma usually surfaces when we least expect it, when we think we’re happy and fulfilled in our lives. It’s always good to stop and re-evaluate, to make sure we’re not ignoring the signs. This will help us evolve and grow into better people so we don’t traumatize other people and destroy the good things that we have going for ourselves.
Sometimes we knowingly set ourselves up for hurt because we have this really false and ridiculous belief that the person we’re with will eventually fall in love with is and remain in love. Lol. That’s ridiculous. If you’re not loved from get-go, this isn’t a movie, find someone else your soul vibes with and vice versa. What do you think?
Life really plays out differently for a lot of us and what we see as obstacles that we think are impossible to cross, are lessons to learn for a better understanding of ourselves and our place in the universe. This is how I see it.
Growing up can be a hassle and I know this first hand! Listen to how I’ve gotten my power back and still learning with each passing day 😂✨ P.S: I have a cold 🤧 😔 And this is my first discussion episode so forgive any mistakes you notice and pretend they’re nonexistent 😂😂 Thank you 💞