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Tusi (Toots)
My Podcast is about Love, Relationships, Parenting and Self Love and Care. Being Single it's ok not to have a relationship if not in one. Being married is good and so if you are put in that work to stay that way, because it is a job anyone says its not has never been married. Been there done that! Life is hard and beautiful, its tough and its a journey whatever is your take it one day at a time being better than yesterday!
Do Not let this Pandemic Cripple You! It Should Change Your Thought Process of How You care for Your Body, Mind and Spirit! It should want You to make food, exercise choices, health choices and Bold New Moves but don’t let it Stop you from traveling if you don’t have any underlying conditions. Take care of yourself and those around.
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This episode I wanted to encourage everyone to move their body take care of their body in 2020 with all that’s going on right now in the world it’s very important to do our best to eat right sleep good exercise or just go for a walk every day at least 30 Minutes or even an hour walk take care of yourself if you got kids do it for them if it’s hard and you’re stuck clean your room start there if your room is not dirty go out to your garage I’m sure it is but do what you Gotta do to move love y’all peace love and hair grease
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Interview with my fifteen year old daughter picking her brain about these questions I came up with to see her thought process. It was a big blessing to me to be able to really hear her take on how she handles things her goals and thoughts on life. I wish I had the opportunity to sit and talk with my mom like this, but I found the convo enlightening and refreshing and took away a lot of good stuff from this time with my babygirl!
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Single Parenting or Married/Boo’d Up and Parenting your kids watching them grow, instilling into them good community, keeping it Real, walking what you talking to your kids. Watching your kids grow into amazing super human beings through all the good and challenging events in the parent journey you have got to enjoy it all!!!!
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Finding Love at an older age is challenging when you have kids and it’s ok if You in Your Singleness State. Too many people think being single is a curse or hex and if you have kids and still looking for love after 30 it’s hard out here in this search for love. Enjoy the journey whether you in a real relationship or if you are Single and enjoy Life, no matter what just be Truthful with yourself and Others!!!!
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When you have just made it through heartbreak, trauma, experienced a failed relationship and had super unforgivness and hate. When You finally make peace with it all and are thankful for the experience thank you for the lessons and strength for getting me this far, an unexpected Friendship and Love occurs for You now that your heart mind and soul have made the choice to Let Go of it all and Receive Peace. Then all You deserve can finally come to you because you have mentally emotionally spiritually are ready to receive it. Until you are ready the unexpected friendship can not make it. The unexpected opportunities, Love, Help, and Unexpected Friendship can not make it to the destination.
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This topic started after a conversation with one of my best girlfriends in Vegas. We talked about my first boyfriend and how deep in love I felt and talked so much about him during my sophomore year of high school. I reflected how much I was not really looking for a boyfriend but a father figure. Growing up in a Samoan household 5 siblings, stay at home momma who was on me all the time and my dad worked all the time but never engaged us as his children. I've never really seen my father display affection towards my mother, never seen him hug her or look at her with loving eyes. I told myself I never want that for my love life. Little did I know, the simple fact that I was looking for a father figure ended up with me finding a boyfriend who gave me all the attention I desired at the young age of fifteen years old. My siblings and I grew up somewhat close I would say a few of us, the boys could go where ever they pleased they didn't ask they just said, "I'm going to Eric's house and I'll be back." And that was that, for me I had to play a sport just to be allowed to go outside and on a good day my mom would let me walk to my Filipina best friend's house that lived 20 blocks up the street from us which felt like forever and I only had an hour to go. I thought that mess was unfair. I was young, impressionable, I was unsure of what I wanted to do with my life because my father never talked to me on importance of purpose. He never engaged me, he never came to any of my sports events or social events for school only our graduations from elementary to high school. In between I remember a lot of his drunken nights and distance between my mother and him, it was like they had an arranged agreement from how he tells in, my mom never said anything at all. As I look at my fifteen year old daughter today, I do my very best to ensure she knows God's Word over her life that she is Proverbs 31, Jeremiah 29;11 and Philippians 4; 11-13, if you don't know what those are, you must go and check it out. My Young son's as their mother I did and do everything I can to ensure they are surrounded by Solid, Amazing, Purpose-filled, God-fearing, Loving and Caring, Hard-Working Men, so they leave no excuses that their daddy wasn't there for them and that all my kids know who they are. My seventeen year old son is dating like his ninth girlfriend and has been dating for about seven months now, yet both he and his girlfriend are not sure what they want to do in their lives. How do I know I asked them a second time because the first time sounded like some BS. This is why "Young Love" was on my mind.
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Being Clear about what You want and Need from Others! You must establish this for yourself and those you have a relationship with other wise your Spirit will be off and Stressed Out! Do Not Keep this to Yourself No matter how someone May receive it! I’ve been stressed not sharing my truth with a person I care about I’ve grown to appreciate this person but I’m feeling like I don’t know how to talk about my truth because it seems the other party doesn’t like to hear my truth because it affects his access to me and our connection. I tell my kids to be clear and communicate sometimes I have a hard time doing this because of the fear it will hurt the other parties feelings. This episode was cut short because my son interrupted my thoughts he needed help with school. To be continued for now be clear and concise and communicate YOUR TRUTH to whom ever you need to! Know your truth and Speak it Don’t hold it Otherwise You Like me will be overwhelmed by it.
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Be Mindful When You Have Good People in Your Life. Finding a Balance for Love, Family, Work, and Yourself can be Overwhelming if your starting a new relationship or friendship especially if You have been burned a couple of times in your life and You just want to try to Guard Your Heart! Be Strong & Doubt Your Doubt! Smile, You Got this!
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I Touch on how once I Allowed Forgiveness and Grateful to Come into My Heart after lots of missed red flags, Young Love and Toxic Love with passed failures and traumas. I became Victorious over it All once I forgave and Started being Grateful for it all!
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