The Authentic Masculinity Podcast: Recent Episodes
Jonathan Frappier and Shannon McGurk discussing: authentic masculinity, success with women, improving relationships, military leadership, entrepreneurship, communication, global economy, emotional strength, and resiliency.
The Authentic Masculinity Podcast is where men and women from every walk of life come to find out what it means to be fully masculine in a world in dire need of better, stronger, more courageous and more heroic men. It's where men and women tired of the fast food approach to masculinity come for the pick and shovel work of what men have to do to confront and triumph over all the enemies of true masculinity: laziness, cowardice, out of control appetites and perhaps most of all a culture that has forgotten what it means to be a Good Man and is encouraging men to behave like boys and to take the easy path.
We are the other guys. We believe in results and we believe that being a man is the greatest gift each man has been given. We believe men and women are completely equal and-- completely different. We love the difference.
We are Shannon McGurk and Jonathan Frappier. Two men-- a French Canadian Mergers and Acquisition international business attorney and a U.S. Armored Cav officer and China Foreign Area Officer turned serial entrepreneur-- who have walked the walk of facing our demons and conquering ourselves. We know what it's like both to fail as men but also what it's like to triumph and experience the savage joy and confidence of being men-- flawed, determined, tough, motivated, ultimately triumphant-- in a world that craves true masculinity. Unapologetic, confident yet humble, content yet ambitious and with no chips on our shoulders. We can help you tap into your own masculinity but more importantly we represent networks of the kind of men who can help you learn how to be a better man as you define it.
But-- and this is important-- we don't sugar coat anything and we use an unconventional approach: We expect you to behave like men and we know accountability is key to being a man. We promote self-reliance and confidence in personal relationships, in business, in finance and we reject anything that emasculates men.
We challenge a lot of the nonsense that we see suggested in this crazy world: that men are chauvinists, that men are weak, that men won't commit, that men are incompetent, that men are indecisive, that men can be dominated by self confident women. We know that strong men want strong women and strong women crave strong men. The problem we see is that most men have bought into the lie that men should be weak, that men learn how to be men from women. Nothing is further from the truth and it's time to turn the trend around.
We're men, not boys. We commit, we execute, we finish and we don't sugar coat. We believe in courage, commitment, valor and most importantly, self-mastery. And we don't want to work with men who are afraid to master themselves. We respect and love women and we believe in traditional tests of masculinity.
We are Authentic Masculinity.We believe in the heroic and we believe in you. Listen in if you're ready to get serious about taking on your toughest and most determined opponent: yourself.
Learn more at: http://www.authenticmasculinity.com/
Have questions regarding crypto currency and how it applies to the 5 Ps of being an authentic man? Meet Charles "X": Warrior, Father, Husband, Student...preparing to weather the unfolding economic storm. Shannon and Charles discuss ways authentic men can ride the turbulent waves that are being driven by the transition from old to new economies.
Greg Mills is a Krav Maga/Self Defense instructor, who embraces the "5 P's". Join us as Greg shares parts of his background and how he has come to be where he finds himself in life.
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Back by popular demand, Shannon and Steve discuss the importance of protecting our online presence, with Mark X.
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Show Notes/Resources
What is Linux? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNhlgYD6unA Browser Isolation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9z3_Em4S99g Nextcloud Private Cloud storage. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kmYtL60qcWM 5 Reasons to dump your Apple and Google Phone https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3RXs1e7FcJg
The technology we rely upon today offers much in the way of convenience, the price of which is privacy. Today Shannon and Steve explore the strategies and tactics of regaining personal online privacy with our very knowledgeable guest Mark "X".
Show Notes:
F Droid Store F-Droid - Free and Open Source Android App Repository (f-droid.org)
Aurora Store Aurora Store APK for Android - Download (softonic.com) Android OS alternatives: https://grapheneos.org/https://lineageos.org https://www.ubports.com/ (Linux phone) Youtube Channels for Reference: Rob Braxman Tech The Hated One (includes a video on how to install Graphene OS) Techlore (includes a video on how to install Graphene OS and how to troubleshoot) Lifesite page with helpful alternatives: https://lifesite.kartra.com/page/gbgresources Linux Laptops: puri.sm https://starlabs.systems/ Office Tools: Libre Office
Shannon and Steve interview Mr. Chris Jolma; Entrepreneur, Craftsman, Husband, Father. Chris is an authentic man with iron determination, faithful heart. Many life-lessons about finding and following your passions, while always being willing to see what might be just around the next bend in the road.
Chris makes fine leather creations. Please check out his webstore here: www.lastchancecustoms.com
Shannon and Steve interview Chris Peden. Chris is a husband, author, entrepreneur and father of two autistic children. Listen in as Chris describes his journey in each of these areas and how challenges faced in one area has made him stronger in all areas.
We highly recommend reading Chris' book as it provides wisdom for fathers regardless of whether they have special needs children. You can purchase the book here:
The Blessings of Autism: How raising a child with Autism helped develop my faith and made my life better - Kindle edition by Peden, Chris. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
If you would like to contact Chris regarding tax, accounting, and financial services, you can do so here:
CPA offering Tax Preparation, Accounting and Planning | Peden Accounting Services
Shannon McGurk and Steve Thomas look back on the year 2020 was, and discuss some of the plans for the immediate future in 2021.
Shannon and Steve have the honor of interviewing retired Navy SEAL Thom Shea: Warrior, Husband, Father, Author, Mentor, Leader. To learn more, visit www.unbreakableleadership.com
Shannon and Steve follow the example of legendary coach Vince Lombardi by getting the team on the field, and back to the basics of Authentic Masculinity.
Shannon and Steve discuss considerations related to relocating during during chaotic times.
Shannon and Steve discuss the causes of, and preparation for potential social disruption, unrest, and violence.
Part 2 of our interview with Tim Rook: Husband, Father, Martial Artist, Entrepreneur, Teacher, Leader, Actor, Podcaster
Part 1 of Shannon's interview with Tim Rook, an authentic man exemplifying the 5P's of Authentic Masculinity.
Shannon and Steve discuss the Authentic Protector mindset, and why it's important to be Dangerous On Demand.
Shannon and Steve discuss the current challenges we are facing with the Coronavirus outbreak, associated impacts, and actions we can take to address them in true authentic masculine fashion.
Shannon and Steve discuss their experiences as married men, sharing ways they have learned to navigate the rocks and shoals that can damage a marriage.
Authentic Men need the company and friendship of other Authentic Men. Shannon and Steve discuss their friendship with each other, how it has evolved over time, and the importance of standing alone together, in this troubled world.
As a young Bail Bondsman Marine Dave Gambale asked for a greater stake in his employer's business. When told no, he drove the 800 miles to the business's bank in Florida to strike his own deal and start his own Bail Bonding Business (www.freedombailbonding.com ). Listen as Dave tells his story of how one Marine learned to help young men start again and how he brings a ferocious sense of masculine strength to a much misunderstood business. Strength, courage, kindness and a sense of mercy can lead to remarkable success.
What sorts of gentlemanly qualities will help you succeed in the modern economy? Self-discipline, kindness, perseverance, commitment. Listen in as Mr. Greg Turley of Evolution Printing ( www.evolutiondpi.com ) tells his story of overcoming difficulty while keeping his balance as a happily married father of two sons who also tours with a band in Europe. Find out what a surprisingly small detail of Greg's life-- a decision to stop using profanity-- reveals about his character and how such a decision can help lead to ultimate success.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army.
Why is it important to keep your people informed? Listen in and learn why keeping people informed and up to date raises morale and turns them into self-motivated team mates. People are inquisitive by nature. If we don't give them the right information they will often get hold of rumor and inaccurate information. To promote efficiency and raise morale, leaders should keep people informed and tell them not only what must be done but why. Giving people the right amount of information engages their passion and helps them to invest in what your organization is driving to accomplish. Join us as we discuss this key to effective leadership.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army.
In Principle 5, Know your people and look out for their welfare, listen in and learn why it’s not enough to know the names and birthdays of your people. It’s important to understand what motivates them and what is important to them. Commit the time and effort to listen to and learn about them. Showing your genuine concern for the people you manage and lead builds trust and respect for you as a leader. Merely telling your people you care about them has no meaning unless they see you demonstrating it through concrete actions. They assume that if you fail to care for them daily, you will fail them when the going gets tough. Can you demonstrate sincere concern for others? Learn here the important link between caring and leading.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army.
In Principle 4, Set the Example, learn exactly how powerful your own example can be to those around you. Learn why Army leaders are taught that they can't ask others to do what they won't do themselves. What signals are you sending by your example? Is it possible that you may be sabotaging yourself by not knowing the effects of the powerful warning, "I can't hear what you're saying because your actions are drowning it out!" The example we set-- in appearance, bearing, and, especially in the words we choose to use on a daily basis-- shapes our every success and frames our every failure. Listen in to understand more clearly why setting the example is crucial to effective leadership.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army.
In Principle 3, Seek Responsibility, learn the importance of taking a proactive approach to solving problems. Learn why military leaders are taught to assume responsibility for situations as they proceed through their day. There was a time when a leader's AOR (Area of Responsibility) moved with him as he walked down the street and included everything within his field of view. Is this something you could do, too, in your daily work? Learn here the important link between seeking out the challenges you face versus waiting for those challenges to find you.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army. In Principle 2, "Be Technically and Tactically Proficient" learn the importance of focusing on the basics. How well do you do your job and how well do you know where and when to do your job? Learn the important link between your own proficiency and that of those you lead.
What does it take to be a true man? What does it take in the modern world to be a True Man? Get an up-close look at an every day hero in this interview of husband, father of 4 and blogger Dave DiNuzzo, the founder of TrueManhood.com. Dave points out in solid, clear and logical language the key to making women feel special, how men can keep some of their own most vicious demons at bay and why it is that what we do on an every day basis matters so very much. What's a healthy masculine response to 50 Shades of Grey? Dave also knows how to cut to the heart of the matter at hand. Listen in as Dave puts many pieces together-- the parasitic drag of 50 Shades of Grey and how that one movie can exercise a very subtle destructive influence on our abilities to live a fully masculine life as husbands, fathers, sons, friends.
Have you ever wondered what the Army teaches its young leaders? Listen in as Jonathan interviews Shannon McGurk, Lieutenant Colonel, US Army (retired). Shannon shares the lessons he learned from his 20 year career as a Ground Cavalry Officer and China Foreign Area Officer in the U.S. Army. In Principle 1, Know Yourself and Seek Self-Improvement, learn the importance of self awareness and what it can tell you about your own, personal leadership style. Learn why you should not try to emulate other great leaders but should instead study them to inform your own, authentic leadership style.
Travis Nelson’s philosophy on personal protection can be summarized as this: “Each man has a responsibility to protect those he loves and must do so in a way that is respectful of those around him and respectful of police officers and other public servants.”
Travis is committed to the highest level of physical, mental and emotional strength, resilience, endurance and personal protection training. His primary goal is to enable every man that he has an opportunity to coach/train/mentor/advise to protect himself and those that he is responsible for regardless of the threat.
His vision of personal security and resilience goes beyond fighting techniques (he has plenty of that in store for you as well), Travis will prepare you to prevent the fight with his Situational Awareness training.
Get ready to hear from an exceptionally well informed and experienced man how to train, observe, act and protect others in an increasingly dangerous and unjust world.
What is your definition of success? Do you define yourself by what you do? How can being more masculine make you a more balanced and successful man? Learn how to put what you have learned together and let it move you forward.
Success Leaves Clues and it Takes Courage to Dream: The Remarkable Journey of Wayne Winsley.
Our truly remarkable guest Mr. Wayne Winsley (http://www.winsley.com/) has an inspiring tale to tell. Born into modest circumstances and raised from childhood by his Great Grandmother, Wayne saw as a child the clues he needed to solve the mystery of success. Wayne Winsley asked himself why some men rise above their circumstances while others struggle. He asked himself how he could help other men to succeed when the odds seem stacked against them. On his journey from a simple background to serving on the U.S.S. Enterprise, a successful career in radio, inspirational speaking and his current project, Courage to Fail, Wayne made two critical discoveries. He learned success leaves clues that, if you can detect them, will lead you to your own goals and he learned that if a man can muster the courage to dream with perseverance he can accomplish amazing feats. Listen in as Wayne tells us his story. Learn from a successful man how you can succeed by strengthening two key virtues.
Can anyone else waste your time? Learn here why it is that nobody can waste your time. Learn how to be in command of time and how that command communicates greatness to others.
The toughest man in the world can still have his heart broken. What does it mean to guard your heart? How can hard edged men protect their hearts from being wounded? Learn here how to be vulnerable without becoming cynical.
Is it better to be polite or courteous? Why are the most successful men often the most courteous? Is it accidental that powerful men we admire are courteous? Learn here about the role of courtesy and how it can carry you forward in life.
Napoleon said it takes more courage to suffer than to die. Endurance when times are tough and you are tried is what will qualify you for greatness. Learn here why it is important to undergo hardship as you succeed step by step.
Do you own your triumphs or do they own you? Do you own your money or does it own you? Some men don't know the difference between owning something and having it own them. Making this distinction is critical to keeping what you gain and gaining more. Learn here how to take risk responsibly.
Have you ever lost everything and had to start again from scratch? Starting again, especially late in life, can be the best thing that's ever happened to you. Learn here why and how to turn a significant setback into a significant advantage.
Do you ever feel like only liars and cheats get ahead? Speaking the truth can be dangerous, but if we walk away from truthfulness any success we enjoy will be short lived. Learn here what role truthfulness plays in long lasting success.
How can we know when to jump? How can we know when to pull the trigger on a big decision? Thinking through how to make big decisions teaches us the key to timing and how to win consistently.
It takes courage to dream because confronting our dreams forces us to confront ourselves. We must remember that dreaming requires us to be practical and industrious. Dreams start us on our way. Learn here how to be a practical dreamer with both feet on the ground.
The man who can be generous can be kingly. Being kingly attracts others to us and enables us to command with confidence. Learn here why all men can be kingly.
Time is the most powerful, relentless force in the universe. How can we make time our servant? How can we learn to be patient as we seek to improve? Learn here how to make time work better for you on your journey to be a better man.
We rarely hear confidence and humility used together in the same sentence. The real secret is that humility strengthens confidence and the confident man knows his own weaknesses quite well. Link the two-- confidence and humility-- and you can proceed in life with balance and assurance.
Calm is powerful. Being able to master yourself when others around you are panicking will set you apart and place you in a position of power. Self-control is the first step to deserving to command. Learn here how to start.
Victorian men were not apologetic about trying to be better. They also knew that masculinity was one of the prime moving forces in the world. Learn here about the timeless principles that call all men to be better at being men.
Men and women have a natural compatibility. Is one sex superior to the other or can men and women find a way to help each other to regain their footing in the modern world? Learn here the fascinating answer to that question.