Divorce Goddess Podcast: Recent Episodes
Tosh Brittan - Divorce Coach Specialising in Kindness for Conflict
Back in with a third series! I'm Tosh Brittan and I'm so happy to share with you supportive tips and tools, insights and amazing guests. This is divorce podcast is about ALTERNATIVE thoughts around divorce, ways to think, act and speak through your separation and divorce - kindness for conflict! We want you to feel empowered and to feel calmer, have a stronger resolve through clarity and to grow your confidence through and beyond your divorce. You thrive rather than survive so divorce does not define the rest of your life.
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I am delighted to be talking to Chrissie Cuming-Walters and Ceri Griffiths all about their divorce initiative the Divorce Studio. A space to provide a nurturing environment where women can gather, support one another, and access expert guidance during their divorce and challenging times.
We talk more about this groundbreaking event where I am part of an exceptional team of divorce professionals committed to giving guidance, support and crucial information for you on your divorce journey.
Do please share this podcast widely and tell your friends and clients to mark their calendars for September 27, 2023. They can secure a spot by visiting The Divorce Studio for more information and registration details. See you there!
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There is nothing so disheartening then either putting your phone down, sending a text or email and standing their regretting everything that just happened, what was said and the back tracking that is now to be rectified, on top of everything in divorce life.
Communicating with your ex is about you being wiser, calmer and less triggered. In this gold nugget I share with you my top 9 tips to not communicate better, but change the way you see communicating with your ex as something that the sooner you get into a better modus operandi with the easier it will be going forwards.
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Here on this gold nugget episode (one of eight so do subscribe to get notified for the rest) I introduce four key ways of managing divorce stress. With the DMMs (Divorce Mind Monkeys) doing their fight, flight and freeze thing on you, having simple ways to change your thoughts is key to feeling less stressed, reducing conflict and growing your confidence!
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Delighted to have family lawyer Zoe Bloom of BloomBudd LLP as my guest this week on the podcast talking about what she does best - helping those most in need of strategic legal thinking to ensure they exit a marriage with some financial security plus she shares her own ‘starter marriage’ experience and how she got out.
We talk about independence and empowerment especially for women thinking about, starting out on the path or going through divorce. And why it’s time for women to grow their confidence through divorce by taking ownership of their finances, becoming their own lighthouse and staying in their power.
Zoe Bloom ~ BloomBudd LLP ~ Insta @bloombuddllp
Tosh Brittan ~ Buy my book here ~ Insta @divorcegoddess
"A wonderful and powerful guide to anyone in the throes of divorce, or navigating the aftermath. Tosh supports us with a kinder approach, to help build resilience and soothe many of the struggles we typically associate with divorce." E Lewis
"Tosh gives you the opportunity to grow kindness as a superpower, respond to difficult situations with clarity and look forwards to a peaceful future. A must for anyone going through and acrimonious divorce in order to protect the essence of self. I will use this book as a guide for the future with regards to co parenting in harmony . As always brilliantly put into relatable words." Amazon customer
Why feeling the feels is so important! I write more about these in my book. If you want to make way for the good stuff to come in and prevent emotional baggage weighing you down in your future, then this is the episode for you. Learning to release built-up emotions that come from those painful, difficult and challenging thoughts that are part of divorce is what you can do, every time they rise up inside you. I share in this short episode ways for you to release these emotions that come with the Divorce Mind Monkeys. The more you release the more onion layers fall away... so take a listen and find out how!
It isn't always Happy Valentines Day certainly when going through separation or divorce and even for many who are still married. So how can you change your thoughts from feeling heartbroken and unloved to celebrating those who do love you and those you love instead - including yourself!
Listen in for tips, changing harsh negative thoughts to more gentler positive ones and of course some time out for you.
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Endorsements:
"We recommend that all going through a divorce or separation read this book. It shares many useful practical tips and has been written with warmth, sincerity, and a genuine desire to help" Rebecca Giraud and Bob Greig. Co-directors of OnlyMums & Dads CIC.
“Kindness for Conflict offers separating couples and families hope that there is a better way, and gives them tips to use along the way. It looks at how changing a few small things, and remembering what you can (and cannot) control, can make big differences and lead to positive outcomes. I thoroughly recommend this book, which is brimming with positivity. You CAN have a kinder separation!” Rebecca Hawkins, Family Solutions, Specialist in non-court options for families
“An exceptional approach to separation and divorce. Kindness for Conflict provides you with useful tools and the shift in mindset you need to not only get through, but embrace the challenge divorce presents. It ensures you take every opportunity to do it in the kindest way possible, for everyone, including you and is a “must read” for any separating or divorcing couple.” Lottie Kent, Award Winning Chartered Financial Planner & Resolution Accredited Divorce Specialist
Mediation is fast becoming a 'thing', so many couples are more open to not only mediation, to doing things differently in their divorce. Mediation can be helpful especially around organising and sorting out finances going forward, coparenting arrangements and importantly reducing conflict and divorce spend. All of this if you don't know already is what I'm all about with my book Kindness for Conflict - a Guide to Separation and Divorce! See the link below:
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Not sure how to do this? You don't have a blueprint on how to tell your family you are getting a divorce, it is one of the hardest conversations you may ever have. Here I share with you a few of my tips for getting started on the right foot, so you and your family have a better chance of managing divorce stress and being able to support you better going forwards.
Get on the list for my upcoming book here: Kindness for Conflict
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Delighted to speak to the lovely Rosie Wilby - successful author and podcaster of The Breakup Monologues (link below) on the etiquette of breaking up and how and how not to do it, grief around endings, dating compatibility, and accountability, brave pants, LGBT, and the unexpected joy that comes with breaking up, when and whether you are ready for another relationship. And do you work on yourself first and do something different like Rosie who found comedy? We also share a love for sea swimming and our pets.
Find Rosie here: Linktree
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Intentions are the basis and foundation of my coaching with clients. Divorce pulls the life rug from out under your feet and so time to get yourself grounded, focused and ramp up the clarity factor with your divorce intention. Here in the first part, I share how to get started.
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Intentions are the basis and foundation of my coaching with clients. Divorce pulls the life rug from out under your feet and so time to get yourself grounded, focused and ramp up the clarity factor with your divorce intention. Here in the first part, I share how to get started.
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Lottie Leefe is the founder of The Dura Society, a financial well-being community and consultancy designed to craft a deeper connection between wealth and well-being. With over a decade of experience working with HNW individuals both in wealth management and in property, Lottie has a signature approach to women's wealth.
Dura Private was launched in 2020, as a project management service during stressful financial transitions, such as separation or divorce. They coordinate, manage and oversee the process of financial disentanglement as an independent consultancy providing impartial and empathetic guidance to their clients. Dura Private is featured in this year's Spear's 500 Family Office Services.
Lottie holds the Diploma in Financial Planning (CII), the Certificate in Discretionary Fund Management, and a BA in Interdisciplinary Design. She is a member of the Financial Therapy Association, the Personal Financial Society, and is a Spear's 500 Rising Star and Investment Week Rising Star. She runs regular events, workshops and coaching to empower women to take control of their wealth.
Tosh is delighted to be chatting to her guest in this episode of the Divorce Goddess Podcast. Sarah Armstrong is a good divorce proponent who, based on her personal experience wrote "The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce: What to Think Through When Children are Involved" (www.gooddivorce.guide).
She defines a good divorce as one that puts the children first. Of course, most divorcing parents say they want to do what’s best for the children but walking that walk through the stresses of a divorce is challenging at best.
Sarah’s valuable advice and actionable strategies can help. What's so interesting about Sarah is that -- by day -- she is Vice President of Global Marketing Operations at Google, who has mentored both men and women her entire career.
After hours, she is an avid “good divorce” proponent whose personal passion is sharing the keys to having a good divorce with moms everywhere.
Website: www.gooddivorce.guide
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Delighted to be talking to family lawyer Connie Atkinson of Kingsley Napley LLP about divorce and relocation. Whether you or your ex wants to move away, we talk about the impact it can have on those you love and your children's experience of living as a two-parent family moving forwards. Not forgetting the why, when it is done mindfully, how it can affect all of your lives more positively moving forwards.
Work, schools and family are all important considerations when going through a divorce and, the quality of a much already changed life can be affected not only by the rising cost of living, fuel and house prices, but the ease of access and time with both parents, all of this going into the recipe of where you call your post-divorce home.
Email Connie: catkinson@kingsleynapley.co.uk
Website: kingsleynapley.co.uk/
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Delighted to be talking to Marneta Viegas who is the founder of Relax Kids Ltd - the UK's leading expert on children's relaxation. She is the author of 13 books and has produced a range of relaxation CDs and has appeared on BBC Dragons' Den. Marneta has over 40 years of experience in meditation and relaxation and runs a training programme where she has trained over 5,000 franchisees from 50 countries in her unique award-winning method of relaxation. She lives in Oxford, UK, with her dog Ronnie Barker.
For more information on Marneta and other Relax Kids products visit: www.relaxkids.com
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Insta @relax_kids
Twitter @relaxkids
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Julie Budge is an award-winning Founder & CEO of My Sisters’ House Womens Centre in Coastal West Sussex. She has thirty+ years of working in various roles in the voluntary community sector, with an expertise in fundraising and a passion for helping women in need.
In 2014 she sat around her kitchen table with a few women she knew, and they formed the plans for the first women’s centre in West Sussex. Now the centre is a major key player in the landscape of women's services in West Sussex not only employing 26 women , supported by 50+ volunteers but supporting some 120+ women per month suffering multiple disadvantages such as abuse, mental health, poverty, homelessness, unemployment and more.
During the pandemic – the Centre remained operational and provided key frontline services to women most in need. Appearances on GMTV Lorraine with their Patron Dame Julie Walters, and prime-time coverage of the centre on a Panorama documentary called ‘escaping your abuser’ propelled the centre into national media. During lockdown Julie wrote about the journey ‘from kitchen table to women’s centre’ and the stories of the women who use the services.
Dame Julie Walters said the book is “Beautiful , so brave & wise, ultimately uplifting , even it did make me cry several times”. In Nov 2020 Julie received 2020 Women of the Year – Women in the Community Award.
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‘From Kitchen Table to Women’s Centre’ Book via: http://www.mysistershouse.info/ 80% profits to the Charity
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Jonathan is a specialist in addiction and mental health. Jonathan speaks frankly and honestly about his own negative life experience of his parent’s divorce, addiction and the impact on his own marriage. This is an insightful, powerful and with humour episode talking about resulting trauma on all levels from the divorce experience.
Jonathan now provides a unique approach to helping people overcome their addictions and mental health by delivering a comprehensive assessment, treatment and recovery experience. Jonathan is the Commercial Director of Sanctum Healthcare in Cheshire that offers a discreet approach to delivering 1-2-1 client centred service’s which span alcohol, substance, ADHD, anxiety, stress and burnout, emotional eating and gambling addictions.
You can reach Jonathan through je@sanctumhealthcare.co.uk
IG @jonathan_edgeley_sanctum
LinkedIn: Jonathan Edgeley
Website: sanctumhealthcare.co.uk
What a great conversation with lovely Tamsin of Smart Divorce talking all things financial, what to look out for with some great tips on savings, how to make small adjustments and get good at finances whether you've had any experience through your marriage or not.
As well Tamsin and I have an open and honest conversation about what helped us through our own and our parent's divorces that have given us valuable insights and experience to support others going through the process with our own work.
Tamsin will also be launching her book this November, be sure to watch out for it!
Tamsin can be found at: https://smartdivorce.co.uk/
Instagram: @tamcaine
It was SO much fun to chat to Laura Friedman Williams, the author of AVAILABLE: A Memoir of Sex and Dating After a Marriage Ends from Borough Press/HarperCollins UK. We talked not only about this fabulous memoir of sex after separation but also red underwear, wild hair and so much more! Heads up there is a lot of laughter in this episode! Laura lives in Manhattan with her three children and yes she survived the tornado!
Available: A Memoir of Sex & Dating After a Marriage Ends
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It was an absolute delight to speak to this qualified coach, grandmother and inspirational woman about divorce, life after divorce and working through the blocks that prevent us from finding love again.
Nancy Pickard is a Certified Integrative Coach through The Ford Institute for Transformational Training and the Levin Life Coach Academy. Prior to her work as a coach, she owned and operated a personal training gym called Tight Ends Inc. She knows what it takes to help people achieve big goals.
In 2017, she traveled alone in Thailand and Vietnam and undertook her biggest challenge, climbing Kilimanjaro at the age of 61. Coaching others to step out of fear and into bigger versions of themselves is her passion.
Reach Nancy through Instagram: @nancypickardlifecoach
Dr J C Doornick is a health, lifestyle and success coach, influencer, podcaster of Rise Up With Dragon, author, public speaker and all round kind human! He was also a licensed Doctor of Chiropractic for 17 years with a practice in Westchester NY serving VIP clients such as the NY Rangers and Heavy Metal Band Anthrax, CEOS, and royalty.
He co-founded Chiromission the Doctors without Borders of the Natural Healing realm and has guided about 1,000 DC's on mission trips, built orphanages and fed thousands of hungry souls in the third world.
He now owns an International Health Transformation Coaching Company to support thousands of clients world wide to create and transform their health and places a large focus on helping the care giver get better results but do so while experiencing a better quality of life with self care, time and financial freedom. As a world traveller, he enjoys the fruits of setting his own hours and working remotely from wherever he and his family are.
He is quoted as saying that the doctor of the future will focus on the true cause of disease in Lifestyle and Habits.
@riseupwithdragon
Rise Up With Dragon Podcast
Clubhouse: @makessens
Rosalyn Palmer is an award-winning Transformational Therapist and Coach in private practice offering Advanced Rapid Transformational Therapy/Clinical Hypnotherapy and NLP coaching.
An active emotional wellbeing spokesperson she is the expert commentator for radio show Girls Around Town, has a monthly newspaper column and an award-winning self-help book: ‘Reset! A Blueprint for a Better Life’. As co-author of three Amazon No.1 self-help books her advice also spans female leadership and being a change maker.
Formerly the MD/Founder of award-winning PR agency RPPR, Head of Marketing for an international charity Rosalyn has grown from many challenging life experiences that have coloured and tempered her writing, broadcasting and speaking. Which is why she can now help stressed out high performing businesswomen and men to add joy to their portfolio. How fabulous!
www.rosalynpalmer.com
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Delighted to chat to Mark who is an entrepreneurial problem solver, who’s spent nearly 30 years advising high net worth families, both domestic and international.
During this time Mark has worked with many clients going through the divorce process and beyond and is adept at removing the stress, worry and anxiety from the financial side of divorce.
Professional, empathetic and approachable, Mark shares:
- His experience of divorce and what he brings to his client’s table as a result
- How generating rapport leads to a trusted longer relationship with less financial fears
- What is the Divorce Triangle and why professionals collaborating as a support squad is key to helping you ‘run towards rather than run away’ from the fears of divorce life
- It doesn’t matter how much money you have, the fears of ‘bills’ are real and why stuffing money in your mattress or head in the sand is not the answer!
You can email Mark at: mark@cavfo.com or via LinkedIn : Mark Estcourt
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In this episode I share with you one of the most helpful stories that got me over the thought that divorce could only be a painful battle. It gave me a valuable insight into choice, something so often we feel has been taken away from us.
Let me know in the comments if this helps and for more support sign up for the webinar - link below!
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In this episode I am delighted to be talking to Conrad Adam of Adler Law who shares insights and thoughts from his 25 years as a Family lawyer about divorce, men, emotions, as well as touching on adultery, guilt and why men hurt too.
Contact Conrad: cadam@adlerfamilylaw.com
Website: www.adlerfamilylaw.com
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Sometimes it is about changing how you deal with stressors - difficult people - your Ex, challenging days - being a single parent or big life change events - divorce.
Here are my 4 how to's to help you with the above - AVOID, ALTER, ACCEPT and ADAPT.
Here are a couple of sign ups to support you further through these uncertain, overwhelming and painful times.
Remember you can do this and you are enough!
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I talk to Trisha Siddique about expat law, what to do and what not to do if you are getting a divorce and based in the Middle East. Having lived in the UAE, been an expat and experienced the fears I wished I had this lovely lady around!
Find Trisha on this link
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Every time, my divorce was an experiment to see if this kindness could work.
It doesn’t make you a doormat or a pushover.
Kind is CLEVER
It’s not being triggered
It’s holding yourself accountable
It’s responding not reacting
It’s a habit
It’s in all of us, we just need to remember to use it more. To overcome those thoughts that say “fight”, “it’s the principle’, “how dare they” and come back to what feels right for you and no one else, that’s right - just you.
To book your place in the New Kind of Divorce webinar designed with kinder divorce experiences in mind click here Webinar Booking
Kindness is not rocket science, it’s a powerful place to work from in your divorce.
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Every time, my divorce was an experiment to see if this kindness could work.
It doesn’t make you a doormat or a pushover.
Kind is CLEVER
It’s not being triggered
It’s holding yourself accountable
It’s responding not reacting
It’s a habit
It’s in all of us, we just need to remember to use it more. To overcome those thoughts that say “fight”, “it’s the principle’, “how dare they” and come back to what feels right for you and no one else, that’s right - just you.
To book your place in the New Kind of Divorce webinar designed with kinder divorce experiences in mind click here Webinar Booking
Kindness is not rocket science, it’s a powerful place to work from in your divorce.
Want more power? Sign up!
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www.divorcegoddess.com
Want to know what to put as 'Unreasonable Behaviour'? What to do and what not to do if you are thinking of filing online? Plus more insights into family law from the lovely Kathryn Peat, family lawyer.
Find Kathryn at: kathryn.peat@sinclairgibson.com
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Getting through it and getting back up is exactly what Samantha Baines has done. Her frank, honest & funny thoughts on all things divorce, the not so glamorous 'trip' in LA and finding the courage to do those things she none of us ever think we can do. And why the kitchen floor is good for so much more than walking on!
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Insta: @thedivorceclub
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Tosh talks about and shares her thoughts and stories on all things Valentines including who to focus love on, how sharing the love helps us feel better, dating and how when we love ourselves everything else feels better! Single on Valentine's Day or not :)
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Online Course: How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex and Break the Habit
So delighted to start the year with this great lady talking about Astrology and what 2021 is all about!
Patty Post is a Leadership Coach and helps entrepreneurs, leaders, and professionals to get to the core of who they truly are and what they have to offer to the world. Patty uses a unique perspective: Evolutionary Astrology, a form of astrology that reveals not only your blueprint and full potential but also the roadmap on how to fully unlock it.
We talk about the basics, what it is about and what is influencing us all and this year.
To find Patty and get her free 2021 Astrological download here on the Direct link to the year's calendar:
https://pattypost.com/astrological-launching-calendar-2/ IG: @pattycpost To Join Tosh's: My Shining 2012 Manifest Workshop
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Sharing with you lovely listeners thoughts on Christmas this year with tips for getting through, self-kindness and compassion towards your Ex.
Christmas Kindness Meditation
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Taster Mindfulness and Meditation course
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I get to chat with the lovely Nikki Bruno about The Epic Comeback and why she was put on this planet to be a coach, mentor and educator! A proud single Mumma of two, world traveller and singer she talks about her strength and superpower that is her belief in people, individually and collectively!
Nikki: https://www.coachnikkibruno.com/
IG: @theepiccomeback
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I talk to Matt Bryant is the Director of Communications for Resolution, the national family justice membership body. During this time he has spearheaded their successful campaign to introduce no-fault divorce which is a campaign I was involved in and featured on the BBC, encouraging a kinder divorce. He has as well introduced their annual awareness-raising week to highlight the non-confrontational approach taken by Resolution’s members under their Code of Practice and you can book in a free 30min chat with a Resolution member in your area by going onto the website here and find out more.
I also share with you tips and thoughts as to how a 'Good Divorce' can happen.
Tosh: www.divorcegoddess.com
IG: @divorcegoddess
Tosh talks to Janie Anderson-Temperly, a very close friend for many years, sharing life mischief pre-children, after children and finding the laughter through the tears on many mornings through their divorces.
Janie has written her first children's magical adventure book The Navistar, a mythical dragon creature who helps children connect to their intuition. She shares her journey through her 4 children - teenagers - to toddler, coping with ADHD to balancing busy family life, a job and finding time to write.
You can find and order her book The Navistar at www.thenavistar.com
IG: @thenavistar
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In this episode, I share with you the reasons why doing things differently in life through divorce reduces stress. It builds your resilience, takes you off automatic pilot (which is always helpful if those divorce mind monkeys are up to no good) and gets you out of your comfort zone.
Would love to know your thoughts!
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Want to know how to choose your divorce lawyer? What questions to ask? If you have never done this divorce thing before and have no idea where to start this podcast episode is for you.
I speak to the lovely Chrissie Cuming Walters about the 5 ways to choose your divorce lawyer and more in this light-hearted episode.
Find Chrissie: ccwdivorce.co.uk
Twitter: CCumingWalters
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Mention: https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/
I've gone off route a little with this having had a client today apologising and calling herself an 'idiot' and a 'fool'. This makes me sad so I've focused on self-forgiveness and included a 10 min meditation on how to forgive yourself (which let's be honest needs to happen first). It begins around 9mins.
The 4 steps are: I'm sorry, Please forgive me, Thank you, I love you
Enjoy, try to practice often if you are beating yourself up, self-kindness always x
So happy to be back on the mic sharing with you lots of supportive tips and tools, insights and amazing guests. To share with you DIFFERENT ways to think about, act and speak through your separation and divorce. We want you to feel empowered and to feel calmer, have more clarity and grow your confidence through and beyond your divorce. So you thrive rather than survive and your divorce does not define the rest of your life.
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Tosh chats in this solo show about
- the painful decision to sell a family home
- fear of moving
- downsizing shame
- setting a future home intention
- selling the idea positively to your children
and as ever lots of tips to flip the way you see things and mind those pesky divorce monkey mind thoughts around this often painful area of divorce.
This week Tosh is also adding something extra to support you on your divorce journey.
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New website coming soon: divorcegoddess.com
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Today on the podcast I am talking to children’s author Lyndsi Richards about her debut book A Tuesday Kind of Love in which she reminds children whose parents are no longer together, that love and respect for one another can still exist in their separate homes.
Lyndsi, originally from Hawaii and now living in Los Angeles, is a single mom of 4 year old twins.
This vibrant and vulnerable picture book follows the love story of gorilla Lani and monkey Kanoa and their journey to becoming parents. But after their twins Lili and Koi are born, they begin arguing and missing the lives they had when they were on their own. They make the difficult decision to separate, but are determined to show their children that they still appreciate one another, as Kanoa swings down and brings the mother of his child flowers every Tuesday.
We talk about the:
- difficulties and challenges around being a single parent
- how to show kindness and appreciation to your Ex (yep!!)
- benefits of maintaining a healthy relationship whilst co-parenting
“Love is understanding, forgiving and respectful. It can still be powerful and pure even if you set it free.”
Find Lyndsi:
Instagram: @lyndsi_aloha @atuesdaykindoflove
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"It's not what you do it's the way that you do it, and that's what gets results" said Fun Boy 3 and Bananarama.
It's not ever going to be an easy conversation, I share with you lots of tips to help you have this important life-changing conversation in a kinder more compassionate way. For you and your family, your friends and most importantly your children.
There is an opportunity to create foundational stones that will help you move forward and have a kinder, less expensive and gentler divorce.
Tosh share's her expert knowledge with you to support you to have the courage to say what you have to say well.
Find Tosh: divorcegoddess.com
Email: hello@divorcegoddess.com
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I am chatting to 'Pete' from DadvocateUK, a Dad of 2, escaped from a narcissist and living a happy life with his soul mate. We talk about Dads, narcissism that happens with co-parenting and Father's Day with 'Pete' sharing his three top tips on coparenting with a narcissist, and why he started DadvocateUK. A place for discussing, promoting and supporting all things 'dad' in love, life, parenting, marriage and divorce plus everything in between and afterwards.
Find Pete on Instagram: @dadvocateuk
Website: www.dadvocate.co.uk
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Website: www.divorcegoddess.com
To download 5 Steps to a Kinder Divorce to help you get started and watch out for the Divorce Goddess Ultimate Calm, Clarity & Confidence Programme coming soon.
Going through a divorce and particularly if it is acrimonious offers up many opportunities to not be quite so kind. Father's Day is a day to make changes to the way you see your Ex - if not for your own sakes moving forward but definitely for your children's.
Tosh shares with you her 5 tips to supporting you to have a better Father's Day, to change your thoughts around supporting your children's father and how to enjoy the day yourself!
For more tools and insights into how to make other changes in your divorce - for the better download 5 Steps to a Kinder Divorce
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If you are like so many who are tired of fighting, want to let go of anger, fears around money mindset or want a kinder way to live with your Ex, through your separation or beyond send me an email at hello@divorcegoddess.com and let's have a free 20 min chat.
In this episode I am chatting to Sue Atkins, about her experience of divorce and the positives she found within it. The effects on children going through a separation and divorce, with her tips for parents to mitigate the fallout and her work as an internationally recognised Parenting Expert, Broadcaster, Speaker and Author of the Amazon best-selling books “Parenting Made Easy – How to Raise Happy Children” & “Raising Happy Children for Dummies". As well as author of the highly acclaimed Parenting Made Easy CDs, Apps and resources.
She regularly appears on the award-winning flagship ITV show “This Morning,” Sky News, Good Morning Britain and does a monthly review of ‘The Papers’ on the Julia Hartley Brewer Morning Show on talkRADIO. She also appears on The Jeremy Vine Show on BBC Radio 2 and is the parenting expert for many BBC Radio Stations around the UK.
Sue is the Parenting Expert for Disney Junior UK and has recorded podcasts and Facebook Live Tea Parties around ‘Parenting Hacks’ & has started filming parenting video tips with The Mummy Diaries TV Series.
Her highly acclaimed ‘The Can-Do Kid's Journal: Discover Your Confidence Superpower!’ gives children the gift of self-esteem and empowers them to become creative, innovative, independent, resourceful, resilient & confident in their own abilities to try new things & able to bounce back after setbacks.
She has recently launched her new Parenting Club bursting with Quick Win Video Tips, monthly Webinars & Facebook Lives, exclusive monthly Master Classes on toddlers to teens and ‘Sue In Conversation With ….’ her exclusive interviews with Experts from around the world.
Sue produces ‘The Sue Atkins Parenting Show’ a free weekly podcast which is bursting with Sue’s practical ideas, techniques and down to earth strategies for raising happy, confident, resilient children with strong self-esteem. She also interviews family experts from around the world on her Expert Interview podcast series.
Sue was also a former Deputy Head and Class Teacher for over 25 years.
Sue offers practical guidance for bringing up happy, confident, resilient children from toddler to teen.
Sue also specialises in supporting families through divorce & created the ‘Divorce Journal for Children’ to help children express, explore and understand some of the strong emotions that they may be feeling and to help them process the divorce for themselves as she has been through a divorce herself. She has also created a series of Divorce Cards for parents to help start the difficult conversations about the changes that families face when they are going through divorce.
Sue’s parenting articles are published all over the world & to receive her free eBooks bursting with practical tips and helpful advice from toddler to teen log on to www.theSueAtkins.com and download them instantly today.
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In this episode, I am joined three wonderful co-authors of the book Mindfulness for Challenging Times:
Shamash Alidina, best selling author of Mindfulness for Dummies and Founder of the Museum of Happiness talks about how the book was conceived.
And two divorcees who like me, studied with Shamash to be mindfulness teachers. We talk about their chapters and about their divorce experiences: Elspeth Lewis of Pause to Be and Mindful Co-Parenting and Yvonne Cookson of Serenita Wellness talking about Mindful Working From Home, both sharing tips and insights to support you.
I share a little about my own chapter Mindful Ways Through Conflict and tools I believed help me through my own divorce.
This exciting collaboration of 26 mindfulness teachers from all over the world and our book, we hope, is a gift to inspire and support, strengthen and bring hope to lives through uncertain, difficult and fearful times.
Download the book here: Mindfulness for Challenging Times
Endorsed by: Ruby Wax, Dr James Doty, Melli O'Brien, Dr Shauna Shapiro
To find out more please follow the links:
Shamash: shamashalidina.com
Elspeth: pausetobe.co.uk
Yvonne: serenitawellness.co.uk
Tosh Brittan who has been featured on the BBC, Sky News and ITV visit her website wwww.divorcegoddess.com and follow her on Instagram.
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This week I am chatting to the lovely Ceri Griffiths, a Chartered Financial Planner about the necessity of good financial planning through a divorce. Finance in divorce can be an area of concern, fear and anxiety and Ceri and I chat through the following areas in this episode:
So get a pen and paper ready for:
- What a financial planner does exactly
- 3 practical things financially can those getting a divorce do?
- Family home dilemmas - sell or not to sell?
- Overlooked financial areas when divorcing
If you are lacking in confidence and experience in finance, or lack understanding and perspective on the true value of marital assets Ceri has created an approach that firmly addresses this.
I wish I had met Ceri years ago when I needed clear 'savvy' financial advice at the start of the process to feel more confident through and beyond my divorce... All the more reason I am so happy to share this kind, thoughtful and well-qualified lady with you all today!
Find Ceri:
LinkedIn: Ceri Griffiths
Website: Willowbrook Financial Planning
Tosh chats to Martine Louis a Money Coach who helps women entrepreneurs and organizations to transform their relationship with money to develop a successful and sustainable business.
Main learnings:
- How money mindset affects you through life and specifically divorce
- What the archetypes are that influence your relationship with money
- How to recognise the archetypes and how they work
- What happens to you and money when you begin to look at where your money mindset comes from
Backed by over 35 years experience in finance - retail, business, private and international banking – Martine has added a philosophical and spiritual dimension to her practice as an asset manager gained through her studies, Asian philosophies and interest in psychology and specifically the work of Carl Jung.
Having made a choice to join her companion in the UK and leave the comfort of her executive management position and financial security she found for the first time in her life she was without pay and income. Through this experience, deliberately chosen she faced the fear of 'lack'. She felt insecure, lost her confidence and sense of purpose in life. She discovered Money Coaching which literally transformed her life.
Martine’s visionary mind is a little rebellious - love a bit of this!! And she is riding the wave of the new economy to share her knowledge, techniques and unique process she developed, to bring entrepreneurs and organizations with insights and profound changes, as well as transforming their relationship with money.
Martine now explores the fundamental themes of the relationship that everyone has with money, passing all her knowledge and experience to the people she coaches.
Find Martine:
www.martinelouis.com
Find Tosh:
www.toshbrittan.com
IG: @divorcegoddess
Martine Louis is in the field of Money Coaching with over 30 years experience in financial management in the retail, private and corporate, and for two years she was engaged on a spiritual path and involved in a non-governmental organization.
Tosh has the pleasure of talking to Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond Co-Founders of Our Happy Divorce, a service that offers guidance on creating a post-divorce happy, modern family and Authors of "Our Happy Divorce - How Ending Our Marriage Brought Us Together".
Why they made the decisions they did to support a 'happy divorce' and focus on their Son through the process. This is an honest, frank and authentic conversation with two great, kind and generous people sharing their 'why' to help, support and inspire others thinking about or going through a divorce to choose a kinder, more compassionate and ultimately a happier path.
Nikki DeBartolo understands the impact of a loving family and how it creates a solid foundation for the future for a person navigating through life, love, marriage, and motherhood.
Having grown up as a member of the iconic San Francisco 49ers football family, the values she learned on the field from a young age, have helped shape who she is today. As Executive Vice President of DeBartolo Holdings and the DeBartolo Family Foundation, Nikki has made it her mission to give back to her community in every way possible, from supporting local grassroots movements to national charities, she has been part of multiple initiatives, giving back to her community, including, Metropolitan Ministries, Meal on Wheels, The Boys and Girls Club, The Humane Society of Tampa Bay, and the HCSO Freddie Solomon Christmas Event.
She is proud of the accomplishments that the DeBartolo Family Foundation has been able to share with nonprofits and enjoys when those moments come to life, making the Tampa Bay community – where she lives with her husband, Chad, son, Asher, and their two dogs – feel more like a family.
Ben Heldfond understands the detriment divorce can cause in the lives of children, as his parents’ divorce instilled a deep commitment to 'do' better for his children one day.
He is also the owner of Heldfond Holdings, LLC, a company that invests in a wide variety of companies, including real estate, private equity and venture capital. His corporate career began more than three decades ago in real estate career, where he played an integral part in the company’s development acquisitions and diversified investing transactions. He has always had a passion for helping others and since then has been involved with several non-profit organizations; focused on addiction recovery, including, Facing Addiction w/NCADD, Road Recovery, Phoenix House, Young People in Recovery and American Cancer Society Tampa CEO Council with a focus on Governance, Finance and Strategic Planning.
He is a graduate from The University of California, Berkeley with a Bachelor of Science degree in African American History and Business Administration. Outside of the office, Ben is an investor, board member, philanthropist, sports enthusiast and co-host for a local radio show. He resides in South Tampa with his wife, Nadia, and three kids, Asher, Isabella and Jackson.
Find Nikki & Ben:
IG: @ourhappydivorce
FB: Our Happy Divorce
Twitter: Our Happy Divorce
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@divorcegoddess
Web: divorcegoddess.com
In this solo episode, Tosh talks about how to accept what is happening, using your divorce learnt strength and resilience to help you during this time and why embracing a new schedule helps.
Tosh shares lots of useful information about managing stress, living in isolation and a mini-meditation technique to help take your mind of ruminating and anxious thoughts of future uncertainty which is also great for children.
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Today I am talking to Caroline Cousins who has been divorced twice and now works as a Mentor and Inner Transformation Coach with clients online all over the world. With over 16 years experience she has a background in hypnotherapy, NLP, EFT, Theta Healing, SRT and many other healing modalities. Caroline now coaches high-end clients, guiding and helping them to remove programs and blocks to living life abundantly in all areas of her life and offers programs and packages to work with them and help them achieve this. She has a background in property and human resources and ran her own human resources consultancy for several years before moving fully into doing what she does now.
In this episode we talk about:
- the benefits of being friends with your Ex
- how to let go of negative emotions so you can move on
- managing expectations through your divorce
- why it is good to do the work on yourself
- project managing your divorce
- why it doesn't feel good to be a victim
- why you are triggered so much by your Ex
And so much more thought-provoking subjects to help you through this time.
Find Caroline:
Insta: @carolinecousins
Web: carolinecousins.com
Find Tosh: @divorcegoddess
Web: divorcegoddess.com
This week I am super excited to be chatting with my lovely friend Dominique about the 'divorce diet' and how to:
- Keep it simple, healthy and save money
- Eat well before those all-important and stressful meetings
- Support your energy levels with easy and inexpensive snacks when you are time poor
- Feed you and your kids healthily when you are time poor
Plus lots of easy, good eating hacks
Dominique is a qualified Nutritionist as well as being a registered Nutritional Therapist. She has over 27 years of experience working in the field of nutrition and has been working as a Nutritional Therapist for over 13 years. She has a wealth of clinical experience and over the years has seen over a thousand clients.
She works in a busy clinic and is currently completing her qualification with the prestigious Institute of Functional Medicine in the United States.
She works with many different health conditions and uses an integrated medicine approach that specialises in digestive health, women’s hormones, auto-immune conditions and weight management. She has a number of A-lister, high profile celebrities among her clients and is highly sought after.
Her passion and enthusiasm for healthy eating is apparent as soon as you meet her, and her approach is refreshing and contagious. She makes you want to rush off to the supermarket straight after meeting her and start cooking up some of her amazing recipes.
She has the ability to take every-day, normal foods and effortlessly make them into something both nutritious and delicious. Her approach is down to earth, no-nonsense and her depth of knowledge is astonishing.
Find Dominique:
IG: @dominiqueludwig_nutrition
Web: nutrition-works.eu
Find Tosh:
@divorcegoddess
Web: divorcegoddess.com
Gratitude has the power to transform everything; our perceptions, our experiences and our state of mind. So many of us come to this journey with a whole heap of hurts, disappointments and fear. Feeling grateful is something that just feels so far from where you are – be grateful for divorce – come on!!! You may be feeling full of the things you haven’t got and all the things that have gone wrong… however, this is where the benefits of gratitude step up to your table. It may sound too simple to even think it can make a difference – we experience life as being difficult and something that is easy to change how we are feeling doesn’t quite make sense, trust me on this – it does!
I am joined this week by Nicole Richmond, blogger and author of "Making a Stylish Exit" for a fun, light-hearted and eye-opening episode.
Nicole was born in Washington, D.C. Before jumping the pond, she pursued her passions and received a B.A in Fashion Merchandising and worked exclusively in the fashion industry.
These days she is a self-love advocate, freelance content creator and self-proclaimed shoe addict. However, her most important job is raising her sons well to be good, kind young men. She does most of her work from the comfort of her home in Geneva, Switzerland.
In this episode we chat about:
- How to put your best foot forward
- Tips to look good so you feel good about yourself
- How to hold it together at the school gate
- Dating tips and some funny dating stories!
- The secret empowering colour you should always be wearing... somewhere!
- What to wear to mediation and Court
- Why loving yourself is about being honest... and lots more!
Find Nicole:
IG : @makingastylishexit
Web: makingastylishexit.com
Book: Making Stylish Exit
Find Tosh:
IG: @divorcegoddess
Web: divorcegoddess.com
I talk to Kimie, a child of divorced parents about raising children in a narcissistic culture and how she had to be creative about keeping them safe and getting them through the dating and relationship cycle. What she found was the culture was becoming more narcissistic and common sense was not really part of the process. Doing everything she thought possible abuse still found her world. Rebuilding and using that anger and pain has become the motivation for WorththeWar.
WorththeWar is focused on helping prepare people to Love well and avoid abuse. To support learning from past relationships and move forward with a plan to find and keep Healthy Love.
- We talk Modern culture love v real love and the influence of narcissism
- The enemy to health love that is pornography
- The narcissist's playground that is online dating
- How we can protect ourselves and our children moving forward
- Green flags rather than always red ones
Find Kimie:
Web: WorththeWar
Insta: @worththewar
YouTube: WorthTheWar
Find Tosh: @divorcegoddess
Web: divorcegoddess
Mentions: fightthenewdrug and Your Brain On Porn
I share in this short solo episode simple and effective practices to bring more mindfulness into your day from the moment you wake up, to falling into your bed at night. This includes a great tool to settle a frazzled divorce mind to help you sleep, and as good sleep is definitely something we all need going through this process I hope you find it helpful.
To download my 5 Steps to a Kinder Divorce where I share some invaluable tips to help support you make positive changes in your divorce and relationships.
For more about me come find me at:
divorcegoddess.com
toshbrittan.com
Instagram: @divorcegoddess and @toshbrittan
In this episode, Tosh talks to Stephanie Chivers a qualified Coach and Master Practitioner of NLP, who has worked with 1000s of people affected by alcohol and drugs.
- She shares her story of how alcohol affected her divorce, life and that of her children.
- What her light bulb moment was and how she now helps others overcome and manage alcohol and drugs in their daily lives.
- We also talk about how alcohol affects all aspects of your lives and why when going through a big emotional time can it ever be your friend?
- Including in this episode are her top strategies for managing or giving up alcohol
Contact Stephanie:
FB Group: Women Who Dont Drink
Website: ichange21.com
Tosh:
Instagram: @divorcegoddess
Website: divorcegoddess.com
I talk to Gabrielle Hartley Esq a leading divorce attorney, mediator, case closer, author and speaker. She founded The Positive Divorce Movement, is the creator of The Better Apart Method and her book, Better Apart; The Radically Positive Way to Separate (Harper Collins) is the first book of its kind to combine the life-changing, healing wisdom of mindfulness, meditation and yoga with practical advice and legal wisdom to get the reader through and beyond the divorce. With a glowing cover endorsement from Gwyneth Paltrow, Better Apart was named “the conscious uncoupling how-to” by People Magazine.
We talk divorce, kindness and compassion, sharing our common beliefs, vision and thoughts about the future of divorce with advice and tips to support you.
Gabrielle:
Website: gabriellehartley.com
IG: @gabrielle_hartley_esq
Tosh:
Website: divorcegoddess.com
IG: @divorcegoddess
In this episode, I share with you my tools and reasons why setting positive intentions for how you want your divorce to happen can be transformational (irrespective of how your Ex feels)!
Plus why it is important to look beyond your divorce and choose to take steps available now for you to create positive change through your divorce, for your children and to support your life moving forward.
If you are facing the pain and fear of separation and divorce and would like a kinder, more compassionate and mindful divorce, I provide coaching, mentoring and support through the process for you to have a healthy and good divorce.
To contact me: hello@toshbrittan.com or download my 5 Steps to a Kinder Divorce
Website: divorcegoddess.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcegoddess/
LinkedIn: Tosh Brittan
We're two divorce coaches and friends, who have been on this separation and divorce journey and yes it has been a one of those!
Along the way, we have learned to transform difficult emotions such as anger, shame, betrayal, jealousy into acceptance, forgiveness, and compassion (for ourselves and others) to create an amazingly delicious life post-divorce.
This episode is all about understanding that divorce is an opportunity to grow and not a failure and why we have a plan to support this moving forward.
Maxine is a transformational relationship & divorce coach. She is a certified Heartmath™ Coach and a Calling In The One Coach, founder of The Divorce Detox and Get Divorce Fit coaching programs designed to help women transform and thrive during and after divorce.
Contact Maxine:
Instagram: @maxineclancy
Website: maxineclancy.com
Contact Tosh:
Instagram: @divorcegoddess
Website: divorcegoddess.com
Our Group: Deliciously Divorced with Tosh & Max
Here are my insider tips for feeling confident and surviving Christmas through separation and divorce, PLUS strategies for managing Xmas stress so you can feel happier.
The trouble with divorce at Christmas is... the divorce mind monkeys are busy; bringing up memories of you as a family; chucking in loneliness; getting you to compare, perfect and judge yourself literally about everything; keeping the kids happy; trying not to argue with your Ex or be a Xmas Grinch and NOT overspending. Listen here to find out how to feel better.
Here Tosh talks to the lovely, approachable family lawyer Laura Naser about her soon to be published book - The Family Lawyer’s Guide to Separation and Divorce - How to Get What You Both Want. This concise, honest and kindness-based approach to the process covers subjects from social media to co-parenting and busts through the often confusing parts of divorce to help the reader navigate calmly and effectively. Plus we talk 'Pub lawyers', meeting tips and pitfalls clients can fall into.
Laura's Details:
Email: Laura.Naser@penningtonslaw.com
Instagram: @thefamilylawyer
Tosh's Details:
Website: toshbrittan.com
Instagram: @divorcegoddess
Tosh is joined by ‘‘The Rev’ Gail Love-Schock, an Interfaith Reverend and the world’s first and only Energy Transformation Strategist. She has helped thousands of people move through radical change, moving closer to love and celebration through meditation, ceremony, ritual, mentorship, and retreats.
Gail’s ministry focuses on the taboo subjects of life including sex, money and death, all of which enable people to live a rich, vibrant and meaningful life today.
Accredited by One Spirit Interfaith Foundation, she has featured in global outlets such as The Sunday Times, New York Post, The Sunday Post, and Psychologies.
I discovered Gail through an Instagram post on her 85 house moves (and she is about to do it again) I thought my 7 times in 7 years was good. I thought Gail must have valuable tips to help people feel less stressed when they move, especially after divorce.
She loves getting organised physically and mentally, spiritually and mentally and guides us through her thoughts, strategies and loving tips to support you through this difficult, challenging and often painful time.
In this episode :
I talk to Gail about what ‘Moving Home’ means to her and she shares her story.
We talk about the power of intention, the importance of a Coorie corner and why Gail believes every house should have one (at least).
We delve into how to face packing when you feel emotionally, physically and mentally depleted and why the act of ‘self-liking’ is important before we go for the ‘self-love’.
We talk about how we can reconnect back to ourselves through the most challenging and difficult times of our lives. Gail also shares her Moving Project and the importance of keeping it simple, keeping it moving and keeping it light.
She shares her wisdom with her wonderful Scottish humour in this magical episode. I hope you enjoy this and do reach out and share your thoughts.
You can find out what the very lovely Reverend Gail M Love-Schock is up to and what she offers at:
W: gailloveschock.com
IG: @gail_loveschock
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Why divorce and a kick up the pants from two girlfriends helped this Cali artist rediscover her love of painting and art. She shares confidence-building tips, her winning an art residency at Chateau d’Orquevaux in France in 2018. Adonna says “I have found so much joy and healing in producing art...”
Show links:
Adonna’s website: artistrybyadonna.com
Instagram @artistrybyadonna
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Why try mediation? Rebecca and Tosh talk frankly about what mediation is all about, how to manage expectations and preparing for kinder mindful sessions emotionally, physically and mentally.
Show links:
Rebecca's website: http://www.mediation-now.co.uk/
Rebecca's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/family_solutions_now/
Tosh's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcegoddess/
Tosh's website: https://divorcegoddess.com/
Support Tosh's work: https://www.patreon.com/toshbrittan
Mediation is a path available, that you can choose to take which ultimately can help you save money, establish a foundation to co-parent and supports you both to project manage your way through the divorce days.
Listen here to find out how to leave your ego at the door, take that deep breath and walk into mediation.
For more information on Tosh Brittan who has been featured on the BBC, Sky News and ITV visit her website wwww.divorcegoddess.com and follow her on Instagram. Feel free to join her FB Divorce Goddess Group which is private to protect its members.
Click here to get your FREE 5 Secret Divorce Tips Workbook from Divorce Goddess designed with you in mind.
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In this Divorce Goddess intro episode, I will be talking a bit about where the idea of Divorce Goddess came from. A bit about me, Tosh Brittan Reconnection Coach and
Divorce Mentor and why this show is helpful for anyone going through a divorce or separation who is looking for inspiration, confidence and positivity through this time.
You can download My 5 Steps to a Kinder Divorce here to help you have more clarity, feel more in control of your divorce and feel more empowered.
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