A podcast about making the most of our 30s. Armed with coffee, Andrew and Carter work through the difficulties of being "responsible" adults, learning and experimenting their way through the decade you're supposed to have it all figured out. Except they don't.
Carter and Andrew talk about how to make decisions without losing their mind.
Are you a satisficer or a maximizer? - avoiding decision paralysis
How Carter and Andrew use satisficing: establish key parameters beforehand and then quickly chose an option that meets those parameters
The “Prateo” or 80/20 principle - getting the most value for the least effort
The Paradox of choice - more options do not necessarily mean better outcomes
“Fail forward quickly” - one of Carter’s favorite quotes for living
Carter and Andrew talk about building a framework for a “Heck Yes” decision making filter.
“Either [a decision] is a heck yes, or it’s a no.” - Derek Sivers
Derek Sivers podcast Interview with Tim Ferriss
No “yes.” Either “HECK YEAH!” or “no.” - from Derek’s blog
Notes:
Mental Models - a scholarly summary from Princeton
Mental Models - a good overview (and video!) from Farnam Street
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” - Lao Tzu
Theme: Doing the hard things
Notes:
“Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.” - Unattributed
Miracle mornings and habit progression: unbearable ⇒ uncomfortable ⇒ unstoppable [book]
You have to eat the broccoli - Farnam Street
Richard Branson says working out gives him at least 4 additional productive hours in a day.
"Once you have mastered time, you will understand how true it is that most people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year--and underestimate what they can achieve in a decade." - Tony Robbins [more quotes here]
SMART Goals
Theme: From Learning to Doing
Notes and links:
Miracle mornings and habit progression: unbearable ⇒ uncomfortable ⇒ unstoppable [book]
Keystone habits
The Obnoxious Roommate in Your Head - Arianna Huffington
Domino effect for turning small steps into big wins
Carter and Andrew talk about why new habits can be hard.
Notes and links:
Why do we want to take a break from “good” habits?
Visualizing the goal
Headspace meditation app -- both Carter and Andrew recommend
Habit stacking and creating a string of success
The Tim Ferriss Show -- one our favorite podcasts
“Nobody gets promoted for how quickly they respond to email” -- Cal Newport [blog]
Carter and Andrew talk about starting habits and building routines.
Notes and links:
Mental Models
Tiny Habits and BJ Fogg’s TED Talk
Miracle Mornings [book]
Miracle mornings and habit progression: unbearable ⇒ uncomfortable ⇒ unstoppable [intro video]
Building habits is in an of itself an achievement
“People overestimate what they can accomplish in a day but underestimate what they can accomplish in a year.” -- Tony Robbins
“I Am Not Your Guru” Tony Robbins documentary on Netflix
Theme: Starting with the why
Notes and Links:
Welcome to Waking Up 30
Connect with the hosts on Twitter: Carter is @cartergibson and Andrew is @fearafear
You can also connect with us on Facebook at our show page
Thanks for listening!