What If?: Recent Episodes
Noah Kaye
What if there is more? What if it isn't like we thought? "What if" isn't negative and critical, it is curious and explorative. In a very authentic way, this podcast will take us into lots of fun topics and explore the the "what ifs" of God, church, life, family, coaching, relationships and more.
Coaches Meredith Wilkins and Carol Roberts share about whycoaching and why a mastermind for this age group.
A group coaching experience with women your age and two Integer coaches.
We will meet the first Tuesday of the month, beginning September 5 for four months.
Sept 5, Oct 3, Nov 7, Dec 5 from 6:30 - 8:30 PM EST
Each woman will have the opportunity to present coaching questions/concerns to the group at least twice during the four month period. And each woman will receive individual coaching one time per month from one of the coaches. We are seeking 6-8 young women who feel stuck with where they are, not completely satisfied, and are ready to make some changes to move their life forward.
The total financial investment is $1200 or $300 per month.
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What if there was a person or two blocking the flow of your life like a marble resting in the narrow part of a funnel? Listen to this concept and how you might get unstuck and start flourishing more.
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In this episode I share about the 3 chapters of my spiritual story. 3 affiliations. 3 denominations. What each of them meant to me and the result of spiritual diversification.
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After a loooong pause, I’m back with a new plan that removes hurdles and allows me to get more episodes out more easily. Oh, and let’s call this Season 2, shall we? Welcome to Season 2 of the What If podcast!
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Enjoy this episode as I ask ask provocative questions and explore some upside down ideas with Dr. Juergen Kramer, my German friend, mentor, business consultant and missions leader. You will appreciate Juergen's wisdom and insight.
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After 2 months off, I am back. Listen as I share a bit of why I went quiet.
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In this raw and unedited (literally) episode I talk with my kids about a few of their feelings and experiences. What if we could all learn to speak the language of the heart?
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Here is one about woo (winning others over), what it is, how it is used and misused, and some keys to keeping it pure. I have struggled to manage my woo in a healthy way over the years. Not totally there yet, but these are some of my honest thoughts.
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“Authenticity in Christian Faith is not chasing relevance, but about faithfully representing the original, Jesus!” In this episode I interview my VERY new friend, Rev. Dr. Jonathan Davis. Get ready for some rich wisdom about being the church at a time like this! You can find Jonathan and his work at https://www.smalltownchurches.org.
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What if those fighting with or freed from the grip of addiction actually have a LOT to teach the rest of us about how to be real, vulnerable, messy and seen? Listen to this episode where I am interviewed by David Hain on his A2D Podcast. You can find David at www.froma2d.org.
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Self discovery is one of the key aspects to healthy living. The enneagram has been a MASSIVE gift to me in this regard. In this episode, my friend and colleague Andrea Render (Master Enneagram, Integer Coach) have a conversation about the Enneagram. Enjoy and reach out to Andrea for coaching!
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What if you could get together with a group of people with the sole purpose of practicing authenticity....in a lab...as an experiment? That is what INTEGRATE is. "Integrate: 6 Themes for Authentic Living" is an Integer Network experience for people to practice authenticity through a guided process. Listen to this episode as a group of recent participants share the difference it made in their lives and why you should attend one!
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- A unique year. So I asked myself: What were the unique personal lessons learned this year that I might apply in 2021? And here are my answers.
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What if we had to build leadership on the support of 5 pillars to keep it strong and stable? What would they be? Listen as I share about something that has shaped me for over 10 years.
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I got a text from a younger leader asking me to do an episode on some questions she has been wrestling with about how to grow in leadership. Here are my responses.
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Why authenticity? What's the point? What is really behind it and where is it really leading? Hear these raw thoughts on the bigger picture and greater hope.
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What does it take to carry a LOT on you, but keep a healthy sense of sustainability? Here are 5 things I have learned from having 2 "jobs" this year.
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What if you had a journey partner that cared deeply, asked poignant questions and listened in a way that transformed you? In this episode, I unpack the two possible ditches on your life's road that coaching and spiritual direction can help avoid.
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Here's one about politics and how to navigate relationships when you are on opposite sides of the aisle. It IS POSSIBLE. Listen in as I share quite personally the 3 things that have made this work for me. What if we could love despite difference?
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Nonviolent Communication (NVC) is a tool and a language that has the potential to change every relationship you have! Listen as Corne and I walk through the 4 steps of the NVC process. What if we all learned to enrich and strengthen our connections by the language we choose?
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We all have a tendency to assign negative or positive associations to words that are often just neutral. In this episode, I invite you to consider a few of those words with the hopes that we might "redeem" them.
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We talk a lot about self-awareness. What about seasonal-awareness? It makes such a massive difference in our lives and leadership when we both KNOW and COOPERATE with the season we are in.
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In this episode, I sit with my long time friend and new Integer Coach, Jaye Lindo to talk open and raw about race. Jaye is honest. I am uncomfortable. And that is the point. Conversations like this are not easy, but needed. Join us.
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The time has finally arrived that my dear wife joins me on the podcast! This. Is. Gold. We talk about life, pain, marriage, Africa...all the things. Listen in to our musings three years later....3 years since Graceson's stroke...3 years back in the USA. Enjoy.
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I am very committed to managing my calendar well. In this episode, I offer you my 5 best pieces of advice for how to approach your schedule and your values. Enjoy and pass it on. I welcome hearing from you. (Also, here is the blog I mention in this episode: http://noahkaye.com/blog/the-talking-calendar)
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This one is heavy. The telling of this story with my long time friend was years in the making. This story is not for the faint of heart. But the lessons herein are holy and profound. May all who listen find hope, compassion and faith for all things to indeed work together for good!
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Who are we when the titles, skills, relationships and other things of such value are stripped away from us? You - that = what? Me- them = who? What if we imagined these scenarios and did the deeper work of becoming who we really are? Truly loved. Fully worthy. Already enough.
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Every Day. 5 things you are grateful for to keep you living with a heart of thanks. 5 "I am" statements to help promote healthy identity. These and a number of other outstanding routines are in this very useful journal written by our friends Shelly and Jason Yost. Listen to this fun chat with Jason about the journal. Grab one here at https://www.newrhythmjournal.com.
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In this fascinating interview with my long time friend Bryan Kiger, we cover his passion for Disney and people! Bryan shares his soft heart and his driven vision to make a difference in the world. Oh, and you can order some good candy for a GREAT cause here: https://www.spectrodolce.com. What if we all gave ourselves to our purpose with this much passion and creativity?
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What happens when my bro and I cut up on a podcast? Here it is. My brother Caleb and his family are planting Revive Church this year. Hear his thoughts on life, leadership, church planting and more. Find him at https://www.revivefaith.life.
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7 months ago I started a "visualization" process that has made some significant impact on my heart and mind....and future. Listen to this episode and imagine...WHAT IF you acted like your dreams were already true?
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Glenn is a Bishop, Pastor and leader who has played an oversight role in my life for 12 years! He is also a friend. Check this interview out as we cover missions, church, anabaptism, and the lessons we have learned from our journey together. Tune in for the multiple life forming lessons the Glenn has built into my life over the years. Glenn is a brilliant example of patient leadership!
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Louwrens Scheepers, a dear friend and the Country Director of Integer Network South Africa joins the podcast and answers questions about spirituality, authenticity, wholeness and working together leading Integer. So good. So rich.
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What does it look like to look IN and identify the emotions this COVID-19 crisis is producing in us? Listen as Noah shares his top 3 emotions this week. Let's keep looking IN and reaching OUT.
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Noah, what would make your list of things you want to see in leaders you work with or for? Here are the 6 things I look for.
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Check out this interview with the man, the myth, the legend, Davis Kaye. Hear some perspectives from the world of a 13 year old boy. We cover Snapchat, Tiktok, Africa, confirmation, authenticity and a few other fun topics.
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Often when people share their hearts we aren't really sure what they want from us. Instead of assuming that we know they need, WHAT IF we just asked them what they want?
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Loyalty talk can be dangerous. WHAT IF you simply deserve it or you don't? WHAT IF we stopped asking for it, and started earning it? Beware of leaders who love loyalty. Could be a warning sign.
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Too often we wait for an EXTERNAL force (pain, suffering, the voice of another) to interrupt or shift our perspective. WHAT IF we permitted internal forces (heart, mind and God's leading) to be in charge more often?
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In this episode, I interview John Arndt, friend and Integer Coach. Tune in for pearls of wisdom from his pastoral heart and deep well of insight.
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Check out this fun interview with TJ & Jess Reid on the Vitamin Lead Podcast. In it, I am interviewed about family, food and finances. Enjoy!
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Have you ever been a part of a team or company that feels unhealthy, reactive and insecure? Here are some thoughts that give language to how orgs and teams materialize insecurity and what they can do about it.
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What if our definition of "enemy" is too narrow and we have more enemies than we thought? Listen to this challenge from both Jesus and MLK toward no enemies, not new enemies.
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On this episode I interview Todd Johns, Founder and Leader of Revive Ministries, a rapidly growing addiction ministry in Kentucky. Revive is a strategic partner of Integer Network and Todd is a dear friend of mine (Noah's). You're gonna enjoy this one!
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What if we did a better job of looking inward? What if instead of reacting, blaming or ignoring, we had the courage to take an honest inventory at what exactly is happening inside of us, not outside of us.
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I have said things I regret and sent messages that I wish I never had regarding the Church. In this episode, I share those things and seek forgiveness. What if you mess up? Admit it. Hope this is a small step in making some wrongs right.
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This episode is GOLD! Listen to this mother and son interview drawing out Mom's wisdom on widowing, cancer, parenting, church and change! What if we could all spit wisdom like this in our later years?
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Enjoy a few pieces of news as Integer keeps going and growing! Exciting days are upon us.
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What if you feel like you are outgrowing a mentor? What are some wise ways to navigate that awkward reality?
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Enjoy this lighthearted and fun list of random things I experienced and learned as I drove for Uber over the last year.
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Hear the story of how God met me and helped me change my mind about Real Estate and how I no longer "have to", but "get to" use my gifts in business.
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Most Christians offer churches 90 short minutes to help them connect to God and others. Most churches spend that 90 minutes on two things...corporate singing/worship and monologue teaching/preaching. What if there were more effective ways to use this short time to accomplish such an important task?
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Here are the main things Tricia and I have learned about money that have CHANGED OUR LIVES!
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Lots of talk about BIG vision flows through leadership circles and books. But, what if it's over-rated and risky to place too much focus on vision? This episode unpacks some of the downsides of vision.
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This voice! Sit back, relax and enjoy this precious interview with my main man Graceson, our youngest.
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You will sow WHERE you reap! Take in these thoughts on the power of time and how people are our greatest use of it. What if you lived your life for others more and for yourself less?
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Enjoy this conversation with Pastor Mike Rosado (http://fervent.tv) about divorce, church mergers and the missional vs. attractional debate.
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Attending an AA meeting taught me so much. Listen in to the 3 most powerful lessons I learned.
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In this brief interview with Russell Fugett (http://www.russellfugett.com), Noah gives a concise version of the Integer story, mission and vision. Check it out!
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Join Noah and Russ for a chat about the joys and pains of being a starter or pioneer. Russell (www.russellfugett.com) leads Good Word Digital (www.goodworddigital.com).
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Coaching. You've likely heard the word tons of times. But what do I mean when I use it? What does Integer Network mean by "coaching"? Listen to this introduction to hear what sets coaching part from other disciplines. What if this could change your life?
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Here's another one about the Bible with thanks to Andy Stanley. He recently published a controversial book called "Irresistible; Reclaiming the New the Jesus Released for the World" and in it, he offers fresh lenses through which to see the Bible and its two distinctly different covenants. Enjoy my review and thoughts.
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A dialogue between 2 friends about what it's like to be on the mid-life-change-journey.
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What if we focussed all of our energy on managing our emotions, instead of trying to control and manage the emotions of the people in our lives?
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What if we pushed past the defensive voices and reached inside for the permission to change? What if life is not static, but dynamic and changing is a MUST for a healthy life journey?
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What if I told you that all of us are insecure at some level? And all of us were shaped significantly in the first 12 years of our lives. Listen to this episode to explore the 8 most common causes of insecurity in our lives. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
Some of us are moving too fast and speaking too loud or too much...which is shutting down the people around us more than we know. In this episode, we explore some ways to downshift, be more thoughtful and create space for others. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
Affirmation is at a major shortage in our world. Telling someone what is beautiful about them takes minimal effort, but makes major impact. What if we stopped being stingy with encouragement and started lifting people up? Maybe we would see more people soaring. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
We all have a worldview and a God-view...both have major influence on our lives. What if our God-view is hurting us? In this episode, I share the many ways in which my God-view has changed, developed, and expanded. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
What if we saw deleting and delaying stuff as a benefit and a way of teaching us some important lessons? In this episode we explore 5 things that "deleting and delaying" teach us. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
What if death could be beautiful? Here is the precious story of my Dad's departure from this earth and a few pearls picked up through it. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
Meet Lily, our sweet daughter, and listen to her cuteness as her Daddy interviews her. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
What is Integer Network all about? Hear Noah tell the story of the formation, vision and heart of Integer Network. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
What if conflict could actually be a gift in our lives, and not something we run away from? In this episode we explore 8 ways conflict grow us. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
The Bible is certainly the most precious book we will ever encounter for SO many reasons. But, what if we have misused and abused it and given it authority that was meant for Jesus only?Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
What if slower and messier decision making is actually a sign of growth? In this episode we will look at 4 tips for making wiser decisions. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
In this first episode of the "What If" podcast, Noah tells his story and lays out how he came to be a "what if" thinker. Enjoy the story and the journey to come. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)
In this episode we explore the idea that we should pursue random people with great intention. There are those that you just feel drawn to...go sit at their table. Ask. Listen. Learn. Love. People are fascinating treasures and fabulous teachers. Support the show (https://www.integernetwork.com/contribute)