Quiet Mornings: Recent Episodes
Evangeline Delaney
In these episodes of "Quiet Mornings" we are going to learn how to create the virtuous woman while on the path God has for her.
In these 5-10 minutes segments, we are going to discuss and share how to create a better version of ourselves. This will include,culture, diversity, individuality, relationships, marriages, sisterhood, fashion, careers, and all that encompasses the journey of a virtuous woman.
Welcome!!
We have to be wise and mindful of what we put out in the atmosphere because whatever we put out there, is going to return to us. If you are not a kind person, that is just what you will have around you. Hate and deceit will follow you. If you are not supportive to others, trust me, you will not get the support you need. If you want to feel love and kindness give love and kindness.
Whatever you want out there from others be willing to give it to others. If you are always complaining about every last person, that is what will surround you. Be intentional about your actions and always remember, whatever you want to see happen in your life, be willing to give that to others.
Be blessed..
When we learn to rejoice in the accomplishments of others we open up doors of accomplishments for ourselves also.
As Wayne Dyer said, rejoice in the prosperity of others when you feel contemptuous, or even a twinge of jealousy, towards the accomplishments or life-styles of others, because if you don't, you are harboring negativity where love must reside.
This happens to the best of all of us, if you want to be honest, no one is immune from these feelings. However, what we do with those feelings is what makes you and I different from the rest.
Today I share my point of view on this matter.
Have a blessed day!
How many of us sit around with many ideas and they are never birth? We all have had those experiences.
In today's podcast I share my tips on how to move your ideas into action and see results of your idea. Do not sit on your ideas, bring them to life and make them real.
Good morning ladies.
In today's podcast I share my own experience on how I have learned to handle disappointments.
Join me and let us discuss. We will all face disappointments throughout our lives. Sometimes we have them all week long or all month long and because we are going to encounter these experiences, we must also learn productive ways to deal with them.
The key is to stay focus through it all. Do not dwell in that negative space for long periods of time. Face it head on, find solutions and write out a plan on how you are going to move forward with a bright future in mind.
Good morning Ladies.
This happens to the best to every last one of us. We get into a place where we do not want to do anything. We just want to lay in bed and do nothing but sit on social media, check emails, watch a movie and just don't want to talk to anyone, not even your kids.
Don't let the entire day go to waste without doing anything. Do something! Even if at the end of the day you only do 10% of your work, that entire day is not considered lost. Something was completed.
Even if it not your normal work routine, do something because doing something may just spike your energy levels to get into your work at hand. Just don't let an entire day go to waste laying in bed and being consumed with social media, movies, emails etc.
In today's podcast I share my own strategy on how I cope when I have no zeal..
Good day ladies!
Today is a good day to start over and in order to start over, most times its best to look back in time and re-evaluate your actions over the last months, days etc.
In today's podcast, I explain why I think it is necessary to look back in time to see where we did great and also were we were not at our best.
Join me on today's podcast entitled "In Retrospect"
Good morning sistas.
I keep motivated and inspired when I keep my focus on people who are driven and within my industry. I would sometimes find anyone who is huge on self improvement, working hard, goal setting or goal oriented.
I have a few people I listen to everyday and they inspired me to keep pushing and do my best. During this time, I keep negativity far away from me at all cost. If I see anything that will worsen my situation I remove myself from it. No conversations, to social media engagement or anything that will make the situation worse, will be allowed to linger around me.
I do this because this is not the time to play with anything to take me deeper in a slumber. Life is full of challenges and sometimes it is hard to keep afloat so when I can find any book, article or saying that motivates me, I hang on to those things. I think you should try it.
Good morning beautiful sisters
In order for you to win someone does not have to lose. This can be a challenge when you do not understand the concept of success or winning. Winning or success does not have to be only on one side of the spectrum. Winning or success is possible on both sides of the fence.
In today's podcast, I share my view on making success a global message among us as individuals. We all can succeed and win at different levels in life. Therefore stepping on another woman, does not make your success or win greater than hers.
Hope you listen to today's topic and be inspired to help each other succeed.
Be blessed
Anything you are passionate about and believe is your dream job, business or calling, you must continue to improve on it. You cannot stop reaching for excellence.
Grow yourself by increasing your knowledge in that area. Take extra classes, practice, practice until it hurts. Just immerse yourself in achieving excellence and being your very best at it.
If you do not wish to improve and become a better you in your industry, than don't get upset, when you do not get things accomplished and do not pass blames on others. You are responsible for your own setbacks.
One thing I know for a fact is, God will never sit back and not reward hard work and excellence. It is in His nature to bless anyone, therefore your hard work and excellence will never go unnoticed by Him.
Good Morning Ladies!!
Good morning ladies. On today's podcast, I speak to women in business and how we must understand that to make money we must spend money. You must invest in your business to improve it.
If you cannot improve your business than you might as well stop wasting time with it because it is not going nowhere.
Be intentional with everything you do! Your business included. I have learned that to make money you must spend money.
You must choose a time frame or a date to make a move or start the journey to accomplish your life goals. All things will not line up prefect waiting for you to be ready. You must seize the opportunity and go!
You must get up every morning with the intention to do at lease one thing towards your goals and dreams. Ask God for strength each day and just DO!
Go out today and Make life happen for you and not to you.
Join me in this podcast where I encourage you to go after your dreams!
Be blessed.
Everyday is given us is a gift, therefore I would encourage us to be excited about it. Set your mind on the goodness out of every situation. Ask God for the strength to go on. We do know that human strength cannot accomplish this therefore God should be your foundation.
Today's podcast is focus on finding excitement in life daily. How to find excitement even in the "not-so-good" situations.
Be blessed sistas!
Learn to be a giver. You are a happier "you" when you do. Giving does not necessarily means you must give finances. You can give your time, your kindness, your encouraging words, your "know-how" your ideas, etc. Just give of yourself daily and watch God replenish your life and make you fulfilled.
In today's podcast I share my point of view on being a giver.
Good morning beautiful sisters.
Anything you do in life, be intentional about it. Keep focus to the very end of it. Go in know exactly what you want to be the out come of it. Stop second guessing yourself, because you will only open doors to disappointments.
I know we are not in control of everything but the few things you are in control of, take charge of them.
Today's podcast is centered around intentional living. Take a listen.
Good morning sisters!
Every error or mistake is not the opportunity to tear yourself down or break you. You have tomorrow to get it right. Stop beating yourself up for those mistakes in yesterday, leave them in yesterday. Tomorrow gives you a new canvas to start over.
There are no restrictions on how many times you should or can start over. you can star over as many times as you want to. If you keep beating yourself up for those mistakes in yesterday, you will not leave room to improve and get better for tomorrow.
Be blessed beautiful sisters.
To wake up everyday to a new morning is a blessing. Wake up and let God know you appreciate Him for given you yet another day. Whatever He sends your way in a new day is to increase you and grow you, take it as a blessing.
Stop taking each day for granted and show some gratitude every morning when your eyes see a new day. Some people went to sleep and did not wake up. You and I could have been one of them. Therefore I encourage you to wakeup with a grateful heart everyday!
Good morning Beautiful sisters...
In order to accomplish what you want out of life, you must learn to build great character. You do so by setting goals, principals and discipline. Many degrees and many friends will not help you do so. You must become who you want to be by establishing strong principals to follow that will lead you to the person you want to become.
In today's podcast I share how you build character.
Good morning sisters.
It is a good thing to give yourself a compliment daily. Especially if you have done something you have worked hard at or for. I do not see anything wrong with self praises because it is not bragging if you can back it up.
Like Mark Twin said "if you cannot get a compliment any other way, pay yourself one." Celebrate your accomplishments and enjoy the joy you get from it.
In today's podcast, I share my point of view.
Good morning Sisters!
I believe that in order for you to command your morning and have some control of your day, you must find one positive thought and dwell on it. If it means repeating that over and over and over throughout your day, do so because repetition forms a habit and makes an action stick.
In today's podcast, I share how you can use this exercise to command your morning which will give you better handle on your day.
Enjoy!
Sometimes we focus on acquiring value from others only to benefit ourselves. We get so stuck on being successful that we forget that in order to add significance to our success we have to add value to the lives of others.
Do not only be interested in increasing the size of "YOU." Also focus on how you can bring change to someone's life who may not be adding any value to your life right now because chances are, they will do the same in the future for you.
Take a chance on someone else.
In today's podcast I share my views on how to extend your circle by adding value to someone else's life.
Good morning beautiful sistas!
When you are in business and have to sell your products and services, you must have the human connection with people. Be genuinely concern that your product and services will add value to their lives. You must be honest because some people can tell when you are not.
On this podcast I go into details on how to connect with people when you have products and services to provide.
Good morning ladies.
Some times we start up a business not knowing how much of our time it will eat up, especially if you want a profitable business. Who would want anything less?
My Podcast this morning provoke the minds of individuals who say "I don't work hard, I work smart." To be honest, I really cannot relate to that sentence and I really do not understand it at all. How is working smart different from working hard?
Unless you are settling for mediocracy, and you do not want a great deal of return on your investment, Than you are not going to be concerned if your business fails. But my friends, if you want more and a strong business that will become profitable, your hands will get dirty. And what I mean is, you will have to put in the over time, to plan, to strategize, to develop new ideas to keep your business viable, because anything less, your business will crumble.
I am not sure about you, but I did not start a business to test it out. I have a long term goal and I want to leave a legacy for my children so they do not have to struggle as much as I am doing now. I want to impact the workforce and make jobs available for families, I want to give back to my community financially and in order to do all this, my business but live and thrive. These are few reasons why I will not settle for mediocracy.
My businesses are intentional and I hope yours is too. Good morning beautiful sisters.
When we are going through struggling times, we have to know that these times are here to teach us something. The best thing to do is be prayerful, seeking God for the lesson He is trying to teach and also take one day at a time. No need to focus on two, three or five days ahead because trying to figure out what you will have or not have will bring more hurt and worries. Just focus on that day and get the best you can get out of that day.
Let God deal with the rest of what is to come.
Have a blessed morning ladies!
Everyday is one day closer to accomplishing that which you started. So when you think about quitting because things are not happening as fast as you want them to, don't quit. God sometimes let us ride that road to help us build endurance. He uses our struggles to make us stronger for other tasks ahead.
I say endure and you will reap the reward if you do not quit...Just remember quitters never win therefore if you want to be a winner, don't quit.
Good morning beautiful sisters..
Most times we forget that gratitude is a trait or character that open up doors and blessings for you. A humble heart pleases the heart of God.
Today we should try express gratitude whenever we can and continue to ask God to grant us a humble spirit because being humble is a beautiful garment to continuously wear.
It is not an easy characteristic to build because we generally gravitate towards selfishness and being grateful eliminates selfishness. Therefore I encourage you today to build up strong character and let gratitude be the foundation.
Be blessed!
I want to encourage you today to remember that if you have life, you must continue to be hopeful. Do not give up on anything just because it has failed several times or it may not be working out the way you intended it to.
Sometimes the struggle is hectic and hard but being alive trumps it all. Once there is life, there so much that you can do to make your situation better.
Remember HOPE is the medicine to cure any distress and heartaches and it is because it promises Time - TOMORROW.
Be blessed!
When all else fails, let God be God. Be still means trust God in everything you are dealing with and let Him alone fix it.
Just keep reminding Him of His word and be prayerful and focus. Stay tuned into Him and soon, He will tell you exactly how it should be done.
I hope this podcast inspires you today.
Be blessed!
Ladies I want you to understand that competition sometimes defeats progression. If you are too focused on what the next person is doing and you are trying to outdo her, you will be so harsh on yourself that you will not celebrate the things that you do best or the things you have accomplished.
I want you to learn to compete with yourself, outdo yourself, be better than what you were yesterday and stop focusing on what the next woman is doing in her life.
You may be seeing fruits of labor of 5, 10,15,20 years and there is no way you can compete with that if you are just starting off. Some people have tried it and fail several times and now has it right and all you see is their accomplishments because you were never there for their failures, therefore, do not compare yourself to that.
Compete with yourself, become a better you and try every day to be better than you were yesterday.
Enjoy your day ladies!
It is important that you pray for your spouse. Sometimes instead of the nagging and fussing you can get on your needs and ask God to take charge. He knows best and can order the steps of your husband in the way He wants him to go.
Pray for his health, his job, his focus, his direction and most of all as he leads your home, pray that all his ideas will be tailored by the will of God for your family.
A wife who prays for her husband pleases the heart of the Lord.
Be blessed sisters.
Sometimes we work and work so hard and we get so exhausted but we don't see the results we "envisioned." At times, it could just be that we are looking out for the best of other people in ourselves and not our own.
There are checks you can put in place to make sure you understand when you have given your best and there is no other way you could have done it but the way you initially did it.
This episode helps you focus on YOUR best and no one else's.
Be blessed!
Being a wife can be quite challenging especially since the world has placed its own meaning on what a "wife" means.
I am speaking from a biblical stands and for me wife who has been called by God to be a wife, honors God first and than she honors her husband. She is saying she is door mat but she respects her husband and regards his opinions.
She is not the prefect person and gets it right all the times. She makes mistakes and falls by the way in trying to do what God desires of her. It does not mean she accepts everything her husbands tells her although she respects his desires. She communicate with God daily on what her husband place before her. Her pray is that God's way will be done.
This is a challenge but being equally yoked with your husband, helps the process to become a little easier. When a man honors God and holds God as his complete authority, he is aware that his wife is his partner and not his slave or door mat and he in returns respects her opinions in all matters that concern him. He never plan to intentionally hurt her because he knows all too well, if he does, he is also not pleasing the God that he serves.
Have a great day sisters. Be blessed!
Stop thinking that God wants you to be poor and wants you to suffer. In order to be successful you but first change your mind that success is not from the "WORLD" and it is not Christian. Some people seriously think that if they become prosperous that means they are walking outside the will of God.
Legalism and tradition has blinded a lot of Christians that they think that being wealthy is only for the world and not for them. God created everything, how can He then not provide for His children? How can He say, whatever you want ask and it shall be given according to His riches? If He did not want you to have He would not say you should ask Him for anything.
Prosperity is your heritage so claim it. The word of God declares that it is God who gives the ability to make wealth, according to Deut. 8:18, therefore He gives you wisdom to make wealthy and therefore become wealthy.
Good morning beautiful sisters..
Being persistent is when you fall several times but you get up and go at it again. If you are a persistent person, you are armed and powerful to fulfill your dreams. With such attitude, you are bound to succeed.
Do not think going at it all the time without failure is what makes you persistent. You can go at it all the times but when you failures or obstacles you will not know what persistence is. Persistence is when you fall but you get up and keep going.
Ask God daily to bless you with the gift of courage and persistence, these are two powerful weapons to achieve any goal in life.
Good morning beautiful sisters.
I know sometimes we find ourselves in some situations and we wonder why is this happening to me. God has condemned me and I am not a good person. Or God does not care anymore. Because if He did, He will not let this or that happen tome.
Yes we all go through those dark days and we will continue to go through valleys until we are no longer in this world so I want you to take courage and know that God knows what you are going through and He cares. Also when you feel that because you have done too many wrongs and God does not love you anymore and He has condemned you, know that, the voice inside your heading telling you that is the voice of the enemy. God does not condemn His own.
God does not give up on you, no matter how many times you do wrong. He does not stop loving you. He loves you in spite of your wrong doings. Stop condemning yourself because God does not condemn you!!
Hope you listen to the podcast and be inspired and touched by the words God directed me to share today..
Be blessed ladies.
I come today to encourage you to let God take control of your ALL. I pray that you turn it over to him and let Him and alone lead you.
This world is so full of hurt that we cannot walk our journey alone. God is the only comfort any soul needs. Sometime we take on a journey and forget Him, but He is ready to take control when we allow Him to lead.
You don't only have to get hurt of in a dark place to involve God in your life. Establish that relationship now with him and let Him show you the directions for your life, your marriage, your business, your kids and your OVERALL
Have an awesome day ladies!
Do not wait until "Today" comes with its challenges to see how you will manage them. Prepare for tomorrow with laser-focus vision. Set goals and make a plan on how you plan to accomplish those goals. Do that now so tomorrow will be a little easier.
If you walk into tomorrow without a plan, she is ready to beat you down and steal your joy. Plan today with God what your tomorrow will be and let Him alone lead you on the path you wish to travel.
I hope you listen today's podcast and learn how you can plan today for tomorrow.
Be blessed beautiful sisters!!
How do you set goals? We are now in a new year and we are making huge plans on what we want to change and when we want to see change. However, what I have come to realize is that when we set too many goals in one year we get burned out and we accomplish nothing or if we do, it is not our best results. So say, set two to three goals in a year and than put in place steps you have to take to accomplish those goals.
The steps you put in place must be strategic and well thought out. Because a plan that is not thought out is bound to fail.
I encourage you to listen in and hear how I do it in 2016. A New Year is upon us, make it count!
Be blessed.
Sometimes it gets hard to work when the holidays are approaching. Sometimes we are so festive that we cannot contain our focus to accomplish our goals. We get scattered and leave tasks undone and move onto something new.
We rush through work and don't give our best. This happens to the best of us and I want to encourage you to understand that you can do as much as you can do and if some things do not get done, it is okay. This is just a week or two out of the year and once you do as much as you can do, you should be just fine. Do not overwork yourself because you feel you must do everything.
Hope this episode encourages you to do the best that you can but at the same time, do not over exert yourself. Have a balance.
Good morning ladies...
Today I share with you, how I do my vision boards and why I do them. For me this is my way to accomplish my goals. Every year I create one and re-visit it (maybe redo it) 3-6 months to make adjustments if I have to.
Listen to the podcast and find out what and how I do my vision boards. Maybe you would want to start doing them. I am a 100% believer of "write it down, make it happen." This strategy keeps me focus and get lots accomplish for me.
Good day sisters!
It is always good to take a look back at the end of the week to see where you are. Than ask yourself, did I accomplish my goals? What could I have done better. What plans would I put in place next time to reach my week's goal?
Somethings you had no control over. Do not dwell on those. Let them go but before you do, see what you would do differently next time. It is always a great habit to check in with yourself at the end of the work week to see where you are in accomplishing those goals you set out to complete in the beginning of the week.
The ones you did accomplish, give yourself a pat on the back and relish in the fact that you accomplish them. This helps you gear up energy to keep doing more. - The Winner's Mindset."
Persistence is key to be a winner. A winner never gives up. He or she conditions his or her mind each time they are faced with tough situations or challenges. They do not think they are suppose to lose. They see themselves as winners every single time. This starts in the mind. How we think will manifest in our behavior and than our lives.
I am not saying this comes over night. It comes with practice and persistence. You must want to win every time you are faced with a task. It does not mean you will win EVERY SINGLE TIME. But I know for sure if you condition your mind to think like a winner, you WILL win MOST times.
Start today and choose to be a winner by conditioning your mind to think like one and than become one.
Have a blessed day!.
Have you sat and thought about the little things happening for you or in your favor. Those things that you take for granted because you assume they will always or should always be there?
You wake up with electricity to see your way in the dark, you turn on the faucet and you have running water, and you don't have to fetch water. You have a comfortable bed to lay in every night. You have a loving family. You have a car, which takes you to and from work. Or you have the means for transportation and you do not have to walk to and from work. All these things we take for granted, are the little things that make life great.
Today, I pray that you will focus on those things and magnify them. Rejoice in the fact in knowing that you have all these things to be enjoy. Take some time out and appreciate them. It is when we appreciate the little things that God blesses us with more.
Enjoy the very fact that you are alive and live the best life that you possibly can. Enjoy being you and every thing that comes your way. I grant you permission to be you at every level of who you are and just enjoy life and all the little things that are not so little.
Have a wonderful day!
New struggles come every day but new energy also comes with more vengeance. Keep a positive attitude. Life gives you tougher tasks because it knows how tough you are. Stand strong and face this week with all the positive energy you can muster up to get through the week.
I trust you can do it, because I can and that is why I know you can too because I am just another human being like you. Lift your head up and face this week with all positive vibes.
Good Morning Beautiful sister.
Sometimes we get so consumed with other people's lives that we forget our own journey. Take your heart and mind off other people's plans and their journey and keep your eyes on your own journey and let God direct you. Learn to keep your mind grounded on your plans and not get caught up with what everybody else is doing with their lives and how they are suppose to raise their kids or what kind of jobs they should have and how they are suppose to run their business.
Stay focus on yours, help when you can but do not consume yourself with their lives because this kind of attitude takes you off course and down the wrong road. Look for your own destiny and leave other's alone.
Hope you listen. Be blessed!
Sometimes we get so consumed with other people's lives that we forget our own journey. Take your heart and mind off other people's plans and their journey and keep your eyes on your own journey and let God direct you. Learn to keep your mind grounded on your plans and not get caught up with what everybody else is doing with their lives and how they are suppose to raise their kids or what kind of jobs they should have and how they are suppose to run their business.
Stay focus on yours, help when you can but do not consume yourself with their lives because this kind of attitude takes you off course and down the wrong road. Look for your own destiny and leave other's alone.
Hope you listen. Be blessed!
I encourage you today to strive for whatever stand before you that you are trying to obtain.
Fight today as though strength is your only option. Battle it out as if without strength you are going to perish. The only place or person you want to look out to is God! But hold on to strength.
In today's podcast I encourage us to fight as though strength is our only hope for life.
I hope you listen and share.
Good morning ladies.
This morning I want to walk into your life with my voice and do something to help ease your worried heart or quiet your troubled soul with the reminder that whatever you may be going through that is not favorable and is causing your hurt and pain will come to an end.
I know when you are in the mist of the pain, it seems like there is no end and you may never walk away from it but I want to assure you that EVERYTHING under this sun has an END, so take heart. It will be over, the hurt will cease and there will come peace. You will feel love again, you will have the peace of mind you long for. Just know and believe that it will come to an end.
Trust God for the learning experience and the joy and knowledge which comes with the pain and suffering but there is hope for a better tomorrow, just believe that and hold on through the rough tides.
Take Heart!
Good morning beautiful sisters.
I have decided to take the word failure out of my vocabulary and life. I am learning that they are experiences and not failures because every struggle I go through or short-comings I am faced with, are there to teach me something. Something that I can learn and apply later to another project or another part of my life.
If something does not happen as planned, after I have tried for a very long time, than maybe it is my queue to try something new or different. Or maybe, just maybe, it is time to put that "THING" to rest. Sometimes success means just that "PUT SOME THINGS TO REST."
I hope this podcast inspires you and encourages you to see all those things that are not happening for you right now as little successes. Chances are that is how God planned them.
Be blessed!!
What are you watching on TV? Are you caught up into reality TV and you have all your favorite shows set to record on your DVR? There are some shows on reality TV that brings no meaning to life, in my opinion. We get so involved into other people's lives and we walk away from some of those shows with no added knowledge or growth. Some even influence how you think and sometimes changes your philosophy in life without you even realizing it. Just know that whatever we focus on will consume us, even if we do not want it to.
There are few reality shows I watch on TV, (Shark Tank and The Profit) however, I watch to learn and grow from them. So I will say if you are not growing or learning from it or it is not adding value to your life, it is a waste of your precious time. Re-evaluate and see how your life is being influenced by the shows you watch on reality TV, if you see no growth, than maybe it is time to stop watching and find something that will influence you in a positive way and add value to you.
Good morning beautiful sisters. Have a fabulous day!
How do you deal with errors made by others and yourself? Things that will tarnish your reputation? Do you do anything to correct them or do you say, "it is what it is" after all it was not my mistake. That kind of attitude is the wrong approach in life. Yes they are not your mistakes but your character, reputation or band is at stake.
I would recommend that you do all you can in your best way to correct those mistakes. What about when you make mistakes? How do you handle? Do you redo or correct until it is prefect in your eyes? I think you should. Own those mistakes and do everything in your power to correct them, even if you have to redo the task several times. Repetition brings about perfection.
Don't let things that you can correct hurt your brand or ruin your reputation. We are all running some kind of business, if you do not own a business, true to the meaning known to all, you are running a business of YOU. Service Management is key in building that brand.
Good Morning ladies.
I recently learned that time is emotions. I say this because our emotions (the way we feel) drives our day and that in turns drives how we manage our time.
If you start to look at time as emotions and that is what controls your time, you will make sure what takes your emotions are things that you really want to accomplish.
There are three things that takes our attention (emotion) other people say or what they are doing. Fear is another thing that takes away time, we stay focused on why we are fearful and try to understand why we are afraid etc. The next area is, we focus on what makes us happy. For example, instead of working out (even though we know its good for us) we focus on the pain and wants pleasure instead so we look for ways to get that boost. Some people may go drinking (causing more harm than good) or some might go out dancing or whatever they need to make them happy. They neglect the task at hand and their emotions drive their time and there is no time management system in place to keep them on task.
Hope you grasp the idea that time is emotion. Once you do, I believe you will start managing your time better.
We learn and learn and we never put what we've learn into practice. I want to challenge you today to stop learning until you put what you have learned into practice. There is nothing wrong with learning but what is the use of learning when you never put into action what you have learned? I believe it is pointless and waste of time. Like buying tons of books and never read them, its a waste of money and time.
Today I want you to change your mindset of learning all the many things you learn and start putting those things you have learned into practice. Do not read all the books on nutrition and never eat right. Don't read all the books on workout, and you never workout.
Stop learning until you put into practice what you have learned. Remember learning alone does not make you successful, "DOING" does, so start DOING.
Be blessed sisters.
How do you train yourself to live in great emotions? It is a difficult task that can be accomplished. There are few things that we can do to live with great emotions than live our lives in depression.
You first have to make time for yourself. Focus on you and spend time with yourself at some point during the day. During this time, you want to maybe do some exercise, and than think on 3-5 things you are grateful for. Gratitude expels anger, hurt, and all those depressing emotions.
Also remember you do not control 100% of everything that happens in a day, however, you control how long you choose to stay in a depressing moment or situation. What I am saying is, if hurt and disappointments come, feel them because it is impossible not to, but do not dwell in them. Change your emotion by changing how you think about the situation.
Start changing the way you feel by changing your mindset.
Good morning ladies..
Are you finding yourself taking different turns daily, even though you know where you should be going in life. Are you making plans or changing your original plans every single day? Do you start a project and than by the end of the week you change it, every time?
Are you making these changes after talking to a few people or someone? Can't you keep it together to get one thing to it's completion? This podcast is for you. To beat this habit you must set your goals and stick to them my repeating them daily, several times a day. You can write them down and read them out loud everyday, several times a day or you can create a vision board and look at it daily, several times a day.
This exercise helps your subconscious mind stamp your goals as permanent tasks and will not deviated from them. Just keep doing this and you will soon find that you are completing your projects and staying on task and not jumping on the next "NEW" thing, every new week.
Good morning ladies.
In order for you to progress and move forward and accomplish your dreams, you must teach your subconscious my new beliefs. For ever belief your have established growing up that yield lack should be counter-acted with new beliefs.
Your subconscious mind does not know how to differentiate reality from non-reality, you have to train it to accept or believe what you want to change. The way one makes this change is through reputation. Which means you have to repeated tell your subconscious mind everyday, several times a day the new belief system you want to enforce.
This practice will line up the subconscious mind with the conscious mind. When both are working together you get and see change.
The podcast explains with practical examples. Please listen.
Good morning ladies.
Being disciplined helps you stay motivated and successful. Discipline is a difficult habit that can be accomplished. It will take some effort on your part but it can be accomplished.
A disciplined person generally has a schedule to work from. If you do not, life will give you what it has to offer everyday and you will not have a say in its decisions for your life because you do not have a plan. A plan helps you frame your plans and than in turn frames your successes.
Be inspired by this podcast today and see how you can start on the road to being a disciplined individual.
Happy Thanksgiving. I will not broadcast tomorrow but we will reconnect on Friday.
Be Blessed ladies.
I want to encourage you to check your attitude daily on how you approach challenges or tasks. Do you have the failure mentality? Are you defeating yourself before you even start? I want to show you how you can recognize this type of mindset (failure mentality).
Do you start a project saying "this is going to be hard but I'll try it anyway?" Or maybe you say to yourself every time, I know I cannot do this but I will try it anyway. These types of phrases are classic signs of someone with a failure mentality. I know fear always lingers around us but choose not to let it take over your life and control you.
When you approach a task, say to yourself each time, "I can do this" or "this is a challenge I am going to overcome."
Meet every task or challenge with a great attitude of giving your all, each time. This is one way success finds you.
Have a great day ladies
There is no law, which states that you must always be in a network of people, even if they are destructive and a threat to your growth because you grew up together. Or, you have years of friendships and great memories together. For me that is a formula for disaster. I used to think this way but I am here to challenge you to know that you can choose to move away from those types of toxic relationships.
Years of friendships and great memories do not justify being in a toxic relationship. You must start learning to move away from such network of people. You do not need that to be validated.
There is no amount of time of knowing me, which gives anyone the right to destroy me. I am sorry, but if I find myself in a toxic network, I have to recreate my network and so should you! No one should have that kind of power over you. Remember "CHANGE" is the only constant in life. It happens even when we don't want it to, so why not be intentional about the changes you have control over, like changing your network?
Find people with similar mindset and as they enrich you, you also do the same.
Happy New Week sistas!
Are you sitting there pondering all the things you could have done differently? The changes you could have made? I want to encourage you this morning to let all regrets go. They will not uplift you or bring you joy, they hold you down and keep you in a spin.
You have been granted permission to let go of the "what ifs." Move on, as they were all experiences and they came to teach you and grow you. Lift your head up and take the next step forward towards success.
If you are stuck in the past, you are never going to see what the future has to offer. So I urge you today to let all those regrets go, because you know what? When you made those decisions, it was the RIGHT THING to do at the time, in that moment.
This is all part of life and we will all continue to have regrets but holding on to them, does not help us at all.
Good morning wonderful sisters!
If we could only understand and truly grasp the concept or logic of giving to receive, we will have a lot to live with.
I love to give. I try to give my time, my know-how and sometimes I give my money. I do this because one, I enjoy doing so and being a solution to people. Two, it is rewarding and when I do this, God blesses me with opportunities and open doors I did not even know were closed.
Learn to give of yourself, if you do not already do so or continue to, if you are already doing it and watch God gives you back more than you can ever imagine.
Good morning beautiful sisters.
Are you a woman to take interest in supporting another woman in business? Do you even care that they too are running businesses and may need some help, feedback or encouragement from you?
Are you interested in the growth of another sister's business? Do you give constructive criticism, reviews or are you just waiting for the shoes to fall off her foot and see her fail? A heart of that nature is a waste of precious life, if you ask me.
Keep in mind, that whatever you put out in the universe will return to you a hundredfold. If you want support you must give support. If you want help in your business growth, you must give help. Whatever you want to attract, you must first put it out in the universe.
Rid your heart of hate, envy and jealousy and you will see change in your own business and career.
Be blessed ladies
Branding does not end when you walk out your office do or from your desk for the evening after you have put in hours of work. Branding continues in your personal life as well.
When you build a strategic and great brand it must show up in every aspect of your life. It must show up in your family, your kids actions and even in a room after you are no longer in that room or if you are not present.
Your brand represents your core beliefs, your goals and your over all view on life. It does not take a vacation, it goes with you on vacation. Therefore when you are building a brand be sure it is one you want to show up in every area of your life because it will show up, even if you don't want it to sometimes.
I encourage you to build a great brand everyday, even when no one is watching.
Good day ladies!
Being in the present is a conscious choice. It is not something you do in passing. It is not a passive action. To be present, means you must be in tune with everything that is happing around you. Your conscious and subconscious minds must be in sync.
When you are in the present, opportunities do not pass you by because you are so aware of your surroundings and you are clear on those things around you which will bring growth and increase. You are also aware of those things that will hurt or bring your down. You become wiser and focused on your destiny. You are able to decipher your actions and thoughts. You are driven and you are focus on all tasks at hand.
Learn to live in the "now" by being in the present and you will see changes in your overall life.
Good morning beautiful sisters.
This is a tough experience. It is hard to let go of people you love. The hurt seems like it will never go away. You cry, eating seems hard to do, sleep does not come easy and you are completely out of control.
For me who like to be in control all the times, it is very painful for me because it is almost like you have been placed on a different planet and no one understands you. It is a very difficult period to go through. Sometimes you just want to give everything up and ask yourself "what is the reason for all this go-getter attitude?" It is a challenge but I am learning that even though it is good to grieve its best that you do not grieve for too long. Daily, you must pick yourself up and be there for the people who are around you and for those who depend on you. Especially when you know the one you lost has now reunited with our heavenly Father.
Be encouraged today. It hurts but set your heart and eyes on God because it is only Him who can bring healing to your broken heart.
I want to encourage you all today to focus on your AIMS by managing them on an hourly basis or daily basis.
Once you start by looking and accomplishing your tasks on a smaller scale you gradually accomplish your dreams - The bigger picture.
Some people get overwhelmed by the big picture and not sure where to start but If you focus on the smaller things and do them daily you are on your way to completing the entire task.
Start today. Good Morning wonderful ladies.
Often times when we say "No", we think that we are a bad person or we think we may be considered selfish. No does not mean, you are selfish, it just means you know your limits and you cannot take on anymore.
To be productive you must learn to say many NOs and fewer Yeses. This is because if you don't learn to say "NO", you will take on way more projects and work than you can accomplish. Remember and learn to be comfortable knowing that, you can do lots of things but you CANNOT DO EVERYTHING.
An over loaded person can never be productive because he or she is weighed down with too much to figure out.
Start being a productive person by saying "NO" and not feeling you are a bad or selfish person.
Have a wonderful day sistas!
Be patient in pursuing your goals or dreams if you seek great results. Great things take time and you must think things through completely and thoroughly. Test and re-test, review and re-review. Don't rush for results because generally when you do, it becomes a disaster.
Keep pushing, be persistent but never rush through the process if you seek great results. Great results come from long periods of time and a persistent mindset.
Be patient and do your best at everything because success is attracted to diligence, persistence and hard work.
Have a great day beautiful ones..
Do you know what social capital is? Do you understand how it works? Often times we disagree with social media platforms and have problems with our family and friends for using them frequently. If you would only grasp the importance of social media and use it to your advantage, you will stop speaking negatively about it ALL the times.
Advertising has become easier and cheaper by way of social media. Networking is right at your finger tips with social media. Meeting influential people is a phone or computer screen away. Social media has made it so easy to have all these things for little or no cost. Therefore I say use social media to your advantage and let it work for you and take responsibility for anything you put out there that is not suppose to be out there.
Stop focusing on what other people are doing in their lives and set your eyes and mind on your own life and grow your own life. If you must take anything from lives of others on social media, let it be something that will add value to your life.
Have a fabulous day beautiful sistas!!
What you do in the first few minutes or first hour determines the success of your day and than your week.
Set strategic and wise practices for the first hour of your day to make sure you succeed for that day. Yes there will be challenges and some changes but when you have thought out your day wisely there has to be some success that will come out of it.
Starting anything has its own challenges but I want to encourage you to keep at it until it becomes a way of life for you.
How do you deal with the naysayers or the non-believers? Do you cut them off, are you rude to them? How do you not let them take you down?
Over time, I have matured to understand that, there will always be those who do not believe in anything you do, no matter what it is that you are doing. They may not believe in the choices you make, the career you choose, the husband you married, the services you provide,the business you do etc. Some people will find fault with every single thing you do. Those are the people I call non-believers.
With this maturity I have also come to accept the fact that I cannot provide services for every single person in this world and with this awareness comes the comfort that there will always be people who will not believe in me not because I am not good at what I do but just because they are non-believers or haters.
These types of folks I do not welcome at my table because I know they only come to destroy and for that reason, we cannot break bread.
Be wise to pick those people out because their only accomplishment is to tear you down...
Have a wonderful day sistas!!
Most times we look around us and look for ways "IT" has already been done and we do it exactly the same way. We never try to do it our way. Today I challenge you to do it your way and put a new meaning to how "IT" is done.
Introduce the world to something new, she NEEDS your stamp on her..
Be blessed sistas!
Today look outside of yourself and show an act of kindness. It can be to a stranger or a family member. Just show someone you care enough to give them a smile or some encouraging words.
You have no idea what others may be going through and that one act of kindness could brighten up their day and make it better. Or your kindness may just give them hope.
Be an encourager, the world is full of so much hurt and we need more people to encourage others on this journey called "Life."
Be blessed beautiful sisters.
We pray for success and achievements but when God grants it we get upset because we do not expect to receive it like He grants it. Sometimes we want it wrapped up nice and pretty and wants it to look and feel gentle. No pain, no worries, no hard work, just an easy ride to success.
This is generally not how God grants success. In order to appreciate anything great there must be work, great work in the process. That is just how success comes. Push and than look on the other side of your hard work, success is on the other side.
Happy Thursday wonderful sisters..
Sometimes God throws lot at us to see if we will realize the main focus of our lives. The reasons He brings success. We must be mindful that we do not deviate from the main platform He has granted because if we do, we just might lose it all.
Stay on task but keep focus on the main platform God has granted you.
Be blessed my beautiful sisters.
What are some of the ways you increase yourself? Are you growing through social media? Solitude? Through your community? Have you realize that you can also increase yourself through lots of reading?
This is one major way I tend to increase my size. I read a lot. I research a lot. I am always finding different books and subjects to expand on, and this one way you can build wealth. When you know more and you act on it, you increase in wealth because knowledge is power.
I encourage you to make reading a habit, if it is not already. Try and read two to three great books every month. Trust me, you will be gathering treasures from any great book. This will help increase your size - personal growth.
Happy Friday and hope you have a great weekend!
Are you still struggling to figure out what your niche is? Maybe you are doing odd jobs and you are unhappy?
This could be the time you think hard at what you want out of life and in so doing you can figure out what you are most comfortable or most productive at. You may be able to develop something great and be your best and most productive than you have even been.
Do not rule those things that you are very great at, even if they do not bring you income now. You may be able to turn it around if its truly something you want to develop.
It is a daily task but the key is you must want to pursue this and go after it with everything you have. On the other hand if you have figured things out but a little confuse because everybody expects you to do it their way. Make sure you do what YOU want to do and what truly make sense. Remember it is you who must feel secure about this because that is the only way you can be most productive.
Be blessed ladies.
Hi beautiful sisters. Today lets start to make little miracles everyday. We can by the things we profess in our lives. We can call things into being by the power God has invested us with. God grants you wisdom to do this, use your God-given power to form your life the way you want it.
Speak great things into your life and let them be things you truly want. Don't just say things because you heard someone else say it. You must speak those things you really want to happen for you, be specific and stop being general. Once you are clear about your vision and put in the work, it becomes a reality.
Today I urge you to start making little miracles everyday by speaking positively into your life.
Be blessed!
Stop sitting around thinking that when God created you, He was creating you just for fun and there are no real reasons to you being created. When God created you, He had (still has) great reasons for doing so. However, most times we are just too busy to sit still to listen to His reasons or we are just too full of our own reasons that we do not take the time to find out His real purpose for our lives.
When you become aware of yourself and start to think to yourself over and over “why was I put on this earth?” you are than beginning to listen to God’s reason/purpose for your life.
We generally can find our purpose in service to others. Start to look of for the things you do which inspire and bring meaning to others lives. Chances are, that is your purpose. God always use our purpose to serve or bless His people.
This does not necessarily mean you have to stand on a pulpit in church and preach the gospel because we are preaching the gospel every day, by the way we live our lives and how we interact with others etc. No matter what your purpose is, it adds meaning to your life and the life of others. Seek God and let Him direct you and help you figure out why you were created and then maximize it and improve it.
Have a blessed day sisters.
You don't give up because you have fallen several times, you stand up as many times as you have fallen or even more times than you have fallen.
Until you no longer have life, you must remain persistent. You must keep striving even if anyone else tells you there is no hope. Keep pushing for what you truly desire and what you want out of life.
Do not take your zeal and talents to the grave without sharing them with the world. There is something in you that the world needs and ONLY YOU can accomplish it, so keep on keeping on and never let the next person tell you, you cannot. When and if they do, tell them "yes I can" and you move out into the world and make it happen.
Stalls and stomping blocks will come along, tall walls and huge oceans will rise up but you continue to push harder and rise up above them. Once you show yourself that you can achieve it, God will give you the strength to make it through. Just keep believing and being persistent.
Good morning ladies!!
If you want to accomplish anything that you have been thinking about, you have to grow past the idea phase. If you have all these ideas and you have not been able to accomplish any of them, let me bring it to you today, you are in the idea phase and you will not get ahead if all you do is "think" about what you want to do and not start "doing" what you want to do.
In this podcast I share some steps or tips on what I do to move from the idea phase to reality.
Stop waiting for things to happen. If you cannot find the opportunity you are looking for, "make" the opportunity for yourself.
Have a blessed days ladies!!
Good morning beautiful ladies today lets us talk about having balance. Do you take time out of your busy days to just relax and have fun? A time to reflect and just soak in the moment? You have to this to be able to rejuvenate and build new energy.
New energy keeps you motivated and keeps you moving. I encourage you to intentionally time off to kick your feet up and lay back and enjoy your accomplishments or reflect on the work you have done and the one that lies ahead but in a relaxing comfortable mood. No strategies planning or agenda just a time to enjoy and be aware of the life around you and the opportunity to be called amongst the living.
Make sure you have balance in your life and don't let it be all about work all the times.
Good day sisters!!
Some mornings or days it gets very hard to wake up and do life. We just want to sit around or lay around because we think or feel that we are not doing anything grand or important with our lives. We look around us and we see other people's successes and we get into a slum thinking that we don't have anything to look forward to. Our lives are meaningless.
I am here to tell you today that, you are wrong. Completely wrong. Once you have hope, you can turn your situation around. No two people journey is suppose to be the same. We all have different paths and different callings in life and looking at the next person's path to figure out your own is the wrong approach and it will get you down. Be hopeful in the life that you have. Look to only God to tell you what plans He has for you and have hope that He will direct you.
I encourage you sisters from today every time you open your eyes to a new day, start to see that day as an opportunity to be great at whatever God has called you to. Be hopeful that it will come to pass!
I love you guys my hope today is that someone listening will refocus and reinvent herself today by starting at a place where hope is her goal.
Be blessed!
Today I conclude on this topic. This does not mean that these are the only lies society has taught us, however, if I was to list all the lies out there, which keeps us captive I will never discuss other very important topics.
Another mental lie is believing that what we speak returns void. What I mean is, most people believe they can just say anything in their lives or in the life of someone else and it will not manifest. They consider it as "just having a conversation." You are not just having a conversation, everything you speak forms life. Anything you say is from your thoughts, consciously or subconsciously, and when you speak it you bring it to life. Therefore you must watch what you say and be intentional about what you say.
Lot of people believe the lie that this is not true. The bible declares that whosoever shall speak to this mountain be remove, it shall be remove. If speaking into situations were not powerful the bible will not declare this. Also, Proverbs 18:21 says "The tongue has the power of life and death." Therefore, whatever you speak and bring life or can bring death.
Do not let your subconscious mind do all the speaking by just saying things carelessly. Be wise about the things you speak into your life. You are forming your life by the way you speak into your life. Form your life by speaking positive things and be very mindful of the things you say!
Good morning beautiful sisters.
Today we jump right in with another lie that society has thought us. And it is that, greatness or accomplishment is not for all, only a few people are suppose to have accomplishments.
This is a lie. God has blessed everyone with His abundance, no one has been short handed but how far you go depends on you. Some greatness go to the graves because of this lie. Everyone has his or her own blessings that God has granted but sometimes you have to work for what is worthy and great.
Jesus died on the cross through agony and pain because He had to accomplish God's greatness, saving man and brining him an opportunity of redemption. So do not believe that because you travel some rocky roads and deal with some hard times, that means God has not blessed you with greatness. It could probably mean that your accomplishments are so massive that the enemy will do everything to keep you from accomplishing them.
Take daily assessments of those lies holding you captive and ask God to help you destroy them.
Be blessed sisters.
Hi beautiful sisters. How many of us have lived lives this far believing things society or our family has thought us to be true? As we grew up, mom or dad may have said some things that stuck with us and became the way of life. As a result we have been kept captive by that idea and we have been captives for years.
I know I have. I am still trying to destroy those mental lies that have been passed on by my generation and the society I now live in. It takes effort to break them down because the mind has believed them for years. Destroying them is like swimming upstream in an ocean of rough tides because it is all the mind and soul knows to be true. Therefore, you have to constantly remind yourself that it is not true and than take actions to contradict those lies.
One of the many lies some women believe is that the man (husband) is fully responsible for her well-being and her life. This is a lie that lot of women believe that once I become the wife/girlfriend, I sit back fold my arms and turn my life 100% over to him.
The sad thing is, we may not consciously believe this but sometimes subconsciously we believe this. If you ask most women now if they believe this, they will tell you they do not but try asking very strategic questions and you will see you may not believe the whole lie but you believe part of this lie.
Some questions: How many times do you start a relationship and wants the man to make all the tough decisions in the relationship and sometimes about your own issues? How many times do you find yourself saying to the man you do not have the kind of money that I expect you to have? Or we have not made progress because you do not want to start bringing home more money?
The main question is, What is wrong with you working together with him to accomplish whatever life or dreams you want. Why do you think he should lay everything in on your table? What is your role as a wife or girlfriend to build this relationship up financially and mentally?
Stop believing that another person is 100% responsible for your life. You cannot live life this way, you will fail doing so.
Good morning ladies.
One common trait most successful people have is that they believe in themselves. They are not the smartest, most talented or most gifted but they succeed because they believe that they can do it, whatever it may be.
You have to grow into believing you can accomplish anything and you WILL accomplish.
I am here to tell you how to start. Start today by telling yourself daily "I believe in me." As you continue to grow in that mindset you will see it manifested in your life.
Motivation and the push to do something comes from believing you can do it. Wake up everyday reminding yourself that you believe in YOU and your subconscious mind will believe and pass that on to your conscious mind and before you know it, you will be accomplishing things you were afraid to accomplish.
Who does not want to be successful, be it small or massive, we all want to achieve something in this life time. So start believing in yourself, today is the time, tomorrow might be late.
Good morning sisters!
When the world around you is caving in and you seem lost and darkness is everywhere you turn. Please remember to make God your anchor.
He is the only one who knows what is going on with you and can direct you in the right path. Your mom or day and relatives and friends do not have the answers, only God does.
Focus on His word, listen to His voice and follow His steps.
I pray you beautiful ladies have an awesome weekend!!
Everybody will not like what you have to say, your philosophy and your ideas. Some people may not even like your looks or how you do your hair and they may simply not like anything about you, but that is okay.
The entire world was not built around you and does not have to like everything about you, however, you do not have to return the favor of dislike because you are not liked.
Stand on your premises and love who you are and know that as long as you are not devaluing anyone or extending hate or hurt to anyone intentionally, you can make your choices and philosophies and those who appreciate you will stay by you.
Remember, this experience, is just a piece of the puzzle called "life"
Move on and own who you are, loving every bit of the decisions and choices you make or you have made.
Good day ladies.
When God blesses you with gifts, they are to be shared with others. His reason for blessing you, is not to benefit you alone. This is what a purposeful life is all about.
When it comes down to it, life is about people, whether we want to accept it or not. Sharing what you have being blessed with puts meaning and value in your life and the lives of others. So if you want to live a life with value and meaning, start to share the gifts God has blessed you with. when you do, He blesses you and the works of your hands in abundance.
Holding on to everything you learn, own or discover is selfish and that is not of God.
Be blessed ladies.
I have come to a place where I want more out of life. Not just material things but everything that gives one a fulfilling life.
I desire more joy, more happiness, kindness, financial wealth etc. I want all the best out of life that God will allow me to have and I will not let fear or anything get in the way.
As I always say, the only dreams I will not accomplish are those placed on me by someone else. However, whatever that is mine, I am willing to accomplish by God's help.
Good morning ladies.
My foundation is Christ. I do not shy away from this fact and I want the world to know that every message in my podcasts are on this foundation.
Let God lead your life. I am not asking you to be prefect but I am asking you to be open to Him leading you and He alone know what you need and where you need to be.
Every message discussed on my podcast is firm on the foundation of what Christ offers through salvation.
Happy New Week beautiful sistas!
We sit around with no ambition sometimes and we look over to the next person to steer the wheel of our life. We cannot even make a single decision on our own, we constantly look for the next person who comes with the next opinion on how our lives should be.
Sisters this is wrong and we need to take control of our own lives. We need to sit in the driver's seat and not in the passenger seat of our own lives.
We must take control to be in control.
Make that change and stop the excuses.
Good morning ladies.
The world we live in today, is full of confusion and chaos and in order for one to succeed there MUST be structure in place, a plan. You cannot just wake up everyday without a plan or goal in place and get ahead. You will continue spinning in circles and you will get nowhere.
Treat your life as a career and put a plan in place and when you wake up everyday, go to work on your life.
I am not taking fun or spontaneity out of life, you can be spontaneous and have fun but do not forget, structure, goals and agendas will always keep you firm when chaos is all around you.
Good day beautiful ladies.
Life in itself is a chance so why are we so afraid to take big steps or chances?
Getting out of bed everyday is a chance. There is possibility of getting involved in a car accident or contracting an illness, etc. Why do we than fear taking steps outside our comfort zone?
Sometimes things that don't feel good to you may just be good for you. Take the step outside what you are used to and experience the change you want but too afraid to reach out for.
Take chances!
Good morning beautiful sistas.
Most times in life we look to others experiences and we try to fit ourselves in their lives. We are so far gone sometimes involved in their lives and what they may be experiencing that we remove ourselves mentally from our own experiences and before you know it we are far removed from ours and we lose our way.
Trust your own experiences, they are yours for a reason. God may be trying to teach you and grow you to another level but if you are stuck in the lives of others you will never grow and get mature in life.
Have a blessed days wonderful sisters.
We often times want to lead people or groups or even communities but we do not want to serve or we do not understand what servant hood is. I have come to realize that in order for you to be a successful leader, you must serve others and understand their situation and their surroundings.
You cannot lead someone you do not understand because in order to understand someone you must be in service to that person. Service to listen, service to appreciate, service to give, etc.
If you want to be an example that others should choose to follow, start by serving. Let your service be genuine and not forced.
Good morning beautiful ladies.
Learn to open yourself to giving. The more you hold on to what you could possibly give, you do not open yourself to receive.
The more you give the more you will receive. I am a testimony to this truth. Help others in anyway you can. Stop being selfish and open the doors of opportunities by blessing others with your finances, talents and gifts.
Have a blessed day sistas.
Why do you find it offensive when others express their joy or happiness? Is it because you do not know how to make your own joy?
Finding joy is a CHOICE and everyone can choose to if they want to. Make it a practice to find your joy and you will not be offended when others express theirs, because you will be so busy finding or making yours.
Life is short so do not get wrapped up in the joy of others and get so upset about it, that you lose focus of how to make or find your own. Duet.8:18 states, it is God who gives you wisdom to make wealth, happiness is wealth and God has given you the wisdom to create it. So create it!
Have a happy day ladies. Make sure you find that joy, it is there somewhere.
Have a great weekend!
You can dream all you want and wish for the best life, but if you have the inappropriate habits in place, you will never obtain your dreams.
Whatever you aim for or aspire to become, your day to day activities must align with that dream. You cannot wish for one thing and your habits do not set the stage to accomplish that dream. You must work at your craft and you can only do so if you put brilliant habits in place.
Discipline yourself and form great habits to lead you to your dreams.
Have an awesome day sisters.
Why do we always think that we know what is good or right for the next person? We always want to tell the next person how to live their lives. We want to tell him/her what to do or what not to do but yet we don't even know what to do in our own lives.
Growth and maturity start when you respect other people's choices.
I must say I believe this is very disrespectful when we assume the responsibility of the next person's choices and decisions, especially when we have not been asked. I think it is okay to share your experiences but the decisions should be made by the person who is dealing with whatever issue(s) he or she has.
Unless you are asked for your opinions, keep them to yourself.
Good morning fabulous ladies.